Seduction tips for women?

0ld_Wolf · 2021-04-08T16:04:43+00:00

Be more straightforward.

Women are subtle and men are not. You want a man to respond, dial it up. Maybe to the point if practically beating him over the head with it.

revente · 2021-04-08T17:06:48+00:00

Similar as for guys-> if you aren't approached by guys you are interested in then start approaching them yourself. Ask for number, invite on a date and then escalate.

Look as good as possible and have a rich life:

career, education, hobbies, sports, events, friends, travel etc.

The main difference is that male attraction is less fickle. Either he likes you or not, it's harder to lose it, but also very difficult to improve it.

TeaIsbestservedwarm · 2021-04-08T19:03:30+00:00

The very basics are great

Eye contact
Clear voice
Posture
The way you walk etc.

Women can offer a LOT of power/value through their eyes and their movement. Also being someone who lives in abundance instead of neediness as a woman is deadly. Seriously deadly. I think i'd have a heart attack if I met a woman like that

Klaus_Peter_Schmid · 2021-04-08T17:03:57+00:00

As a guy I can say, make the first move. The normal men from this time begins to be shy not the strong men with a large self estem.

DrakkarShady · 2021-04-08T18:37:24+00:00

Don't send out mixed signals. It's honestly difficult to tell or read subtle clues as every lady has a different way of giving them. Straight up ask instead.

Andrew_stack23 · 2021-04-08T18:23:50+00:00

be more blunt or straightforward thats how we are

domo94 · 2021-04-08T18:58:00+00:00

Def make light touches, especially on arms.
Be intentional. We don't like that wishy washy flirtiness where it seems like you're interested, but you're also like that with other people so it gets a bit confusing.

It gets confusing for guys because girls always claim they are being platonic, until they aren't and we are unaware of it.

Be intentional. Keep it light.

orbster68 · 2021-04-08T16:08:02+00:00

Take the initiative. Make the first move. Tell him straight that you find him interesting, sexy, etc.

pyr0phelia · 2021-04-08T17:22:47+00:00

The women who successfully gamed me all the did the same thing.

Hey Pyr0 want to grab drinks Friday?

tehrealdirtydan · 2021-04-09T05:56:19+00:00

Make the first move. Ask questions about him. Its so refreshing when a girl makes the first move. You'd be amazed how rarely girls ask me questions about myself. Show interest and make the first move.

twombles21 · 2021-04-09T02:29:42+00:00

Don’t throw yourself at him, but be honest and straightforward. Men aren’t mind readers and women usually aren’t as clear as they think they are.

YeetusMageetus14 · 2021-04-08T22:31:18+00:00

Something I heard from an old boyfriend, women have a list of men they would have sex with, men have a list of women they wouldn’t have sex with. Go get em tiger! If you’re relatively attractive in any sense, or you at least have a great personality, any guy worth dating or fu***ng will most definitely go with you.

The_Sir_Galahad · 2021-04-09T01:36:08+00:00

The best advice I can tell a woman is to not play games. Women love to be ambiguous.

We're not mind readers, and when some women start playing games it's a turn off. You could even lose a potential romance.

I take a woman for her word, so if you are interested in a guy be straight forward. It's very attractive when a girl is into me, I love it. Especially if you're connecting with at guy.

Also, pick your mates wisely, if he's in a relationship or if he seems like he's playing games cut the interaction short.

NoRefrigerator1012 · 2021-04-09T04:41:13+00:00

- Don't cuss.
- Be within a normal BMI. We would like to be able to pick you up.
- Go to the gym, do squats. We like round asses. Not flat or small asses.
- Look pretty, in the face. Light make up, not cake face. Make-up on a fat chick does not jive with guys, despite what other gfs might tell you. If you naturally have that ugly double chin despite being fit/skinny, find a way to get rid of it.
- Control your attitude. Literally 'bite your tongue.' That way you don't say something out of emotion, rather than thinking before speaking.
- Be happy go lucky. We like to be with a happy girl; not a sad/depressed/helpless girl.
- Smell good. Perfume works wonders.
- Be clean. No guy likes a pimple face, scar face, or unkempt hairy body.
- Have other girl friends. Guys don't want to carry the weight of entertaining you all the time. Plus, we like having time to do other things.
- Wear a dress/skirt. Bright colors are more appealing than dark colors.
- Don't talk about politics, money, religion, future planning. If something doesn't click, it's game over.
- Know how to cook something.

Stoner_skateboarder · 2021-04-08T16:29:19+00:00

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2021-04-08T23:28:25+00:00

Most guys aren’t used to women flirting or making the first move. Most would jump on it and run with it. But some may be more hesitant because they aren’t sure if you’re flirting or being nice and they don’t want to come across as aggressive. Figure out what type of guy they are. If they are more quiet and reserved you may have to be more direct. If they are more alpha you can be more subtle and they will pick up. Don’t repeatedly try over and over if they don’t reciprocate. Emphasis on this - If a guy likes you he will let you know. Now read it till you believe it! Find excuses to be near him , to see him, to work with him. Start with frequent talking and joking around, then break the touch barrier. Be as confident as you can. Not cocky, but confident. Once you start doing this, he should reciprocate. If he doesn’t , move on and repeat on the next one! (Easier said then done when it’s the one you really want, I know )

Andrew_stack23 · 2021-04-09T02:16:53+00:00

I dont like playing games or play hard to get just say you like me and most likely say it back

Firstladytree · 2021-04-08T16:09:49+00:00

Guys are so easy. Kissing the neck and nibbling ear lobes works everytime

CenaSmackDown · 2021-04-08T21:03:07+00:00

Why does a woman need seduction advice. Most are usually complaining that all guys want is sex

kbecel · 2021-04-08T21:42:05+00:00

Touch him. Talk to him. Make him feel special. Appeal to his ego. Kiss him. Do not be afraid of rejection. Take a lead sometimes. Do not play games, that only works on weak men. I think most of the stuff here on can work both on guys and girls.

Do you want casual sex or a LTR? Are you falling for just one man?

What kind of men do you like? You have to standout to get a good man.

Joshd_47 · 2021-04-09T04:29:13+00:00

Wear a dress, talk with your eyes and shine your femininity

Waferet · 2021-04-10T00:08:46+00:00

I would say with my perspective if you se a potencial guy texting you who you think is a guy that you have potential to hook up don’t be afraid to say what you want. Guys like me have a tendency to like it straight forward but I’m not every man it is my opinion to be more clear. But don’t do this if you are a alpha female who take advantage on weak bois we need to protect our bois

hjkuytfyojgbujlyvuy · 2021-04-10T18:09:23+00:00

You're a woman........... be a woman and that's it. LOL

TyphoonSubLover · 2021-04-12T18:22:59+00:00

well your a woman, you are not to make the first move or talk to guys first, let alone ask them out first, historically, traditionally, guys are dealt with the card of the heavy-lifting in dating

Title	Seduction tips for women?
Author	paraadigmfluxx
Upvotes	28
Comments	66
Date	April 8, 2021 3:56 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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