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All the comments I see are right, some are brutal but they're right. Dude I've been in your place and was too weak to move on, spent 3 years chasing a girl and wasted my time because of my own stupidity. Move on, plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction25/03/24 04:59 PM
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It doesn't though, I've never heard a woman enjoying being constantly approached. Maybe some do, but the fact that girls get approached constantly isn't a proof that it's a good thing.
/r/seduction31/05/23 09:59 PM
39

"A woman told me she got approached like 6 times in 20 minutes therefore it's totally okay to approach women" is a weird point to make.
/r/seduction31/05/23 05:39 PM
1

I never understood why until I saw a girl going crazy on the dancefloor. She wasn't doing anything suggestive, she just had really good moves, good rhythm and was having a lot of fun. She was cute but not the prettiest of the room, looking at her go like that without a care in the world made her extremely attractive. So yeah, I guess that's how women see guys sometimes.
/r/seduction03/04/23 11:52 AM
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Ew. Incels are a lost cause.
/r/seduction29/07/21 10:15 AM
1

It's a good advice. Stop try harding. Live a fullfilling life, meet people, and you'll eventually meet someone. I can testify, I met girls when I was just trying to have fun in my life, I failed anytime I really tried to meet someone.
/r/seduction28/07/21 06:17 PM
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But it's way harder for women to be satisfied in bed. What's a lot of casual sex when most guys don't make women come ?
/r/seduction28/07/21 06:14 PM
1

I'd say guys will chase girls based on their looks, but if a charismatic / confident girl gives them attention it'll work just as well.
/r/seduction09/04/21 08:07 AM
9

Are you an incel ?
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:17 PM
1

Just tone down your humour a little bit I guess. I'd suggest trying to refrain yourself from telling a joke half the time for instance. That way you're still being funny but it's way more balanced.
/r/seduction01/10/20 11:18 AM
4

Okay incel
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:43 PM
5

Whatever you do, don't treat those girls as sexual trophees or potential sexual partners. Just try to get to know them the way you'd want to befriend someone, except you want to get more intimate with them. If you meet a girl at a bar, don't think about getting her back to your place, think about having a conversation with her and mixing with her group. If you have a girl you like in your group of friends, think about a way to spend some time alone with her, and make her understand that. Be stra…
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:58 AM
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Don't try having that attitude. Being your honest self will always be better than faking confidence.
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:01 PM
2

Nah, I guess it means that your confidence is what you must be boosting. Many men think they need money, muscles, to be funny or whatsoever. They're thinking about qualities they don't have compared to other men. The solution is simple yet hard to achieve : love yourself for who you are. It helps understanding that you're not special, that no one is special. It's all about confidence. And if you think you're a worthless PoS but still manage to generally feel good about yourself, you'll find some…
/r/seduction04/07/20 08:52 PM
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I didn't say he was doing anything illegal. I just find it deeply disturbing to REPEATDLY try to initiate conversations with women for the sake of flirting and keep a journal about it. Now let's stop talking, i'm glad you took that guy under your wing but I don't see any good nor sane behaviour in his. Have a good evening mate.
/r/seduction01/07/20 10:32 PM
3

Many girls are way too polite to put an end to the conversation abruptly.
/r/seduction01/07/20 08:51 PM
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No, I don't have any criticism because I think it's just creepy to force conversations on women like that.
/r/seduction01/07/20 06:05 PM
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Oh, sure. He's creepy. What he's doing is creepy. Viewing women as trophees is creepy. He's not doing this because he wants to meet someone, rather because he wants to score or improve his "game". And the fact that he keeps a journal on this very sub is even creepier.
/r/seduction01/07/20 03:46 PM
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I'm find it creepy af.
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:41 PM
2

Delete the account, create a real one and flirt with her.
/r/seduction09/05/20 12:00 AM
1

You must come out as not entertaining enough and too innocent for her. What you think is respect is probably not that and you're putting her on a piedestal. By "young good boy" she means someone she is not sexually attracted to. What kind of flirts do you throw ? Yeah you're a nice friend to her.
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:18 PM
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Dude if the only things you have in mind while talking to a girl is "respect her" or "become her friend". Well, you will make her feel respected and show her you're her friend. Don't be surprised when she treats you as such.
/r/seduction03/05/20 08:53 PM
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Depends on the context and how much you know the girl. I have no idea how to property come back at a girl I barely know because I don't want to sound rude. But when that's someone that knows me a bit more I allow myself to roast the shit ouf of her. So I'd say to play along and roast yourself. That way she will know you're not taking yourself seriously and you will have an opportunity to make her laugh without offending her.
/r/seduction30/04/20 03:36 AM
1

There is a difference between a flaw and a red flag imo. Everyone is flawed. What you consider a lack of flaws is actually what you'd call a red flag other wise haha.
/r/seduction27/04/20 11:33 PM
1

Am I the one with half empty glass view of life ?
/r/seduction24/04/20 07:06 PM
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No, I just mean that we see what we want to see and that the lack of red flags should be enough. Looking for green flags seems close to looking for the ideal person in my mind. It's looking for things that are familiar to you.
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:10 PM
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When I think about red flags, or the idea of it, it's about you projecting an idea of someone's flaws based on what you know. So when it comes to green flags, I guess it's about finding qualities that you can't know for sure they are true or not.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:53 PM
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Hey mate, it doesn't come from a relationship expert you know. I've just met a lot of people and most of them were fine, had their shit together. Most of the time, the people with their seemingly shit together have got huge red flags waitin in the corner. On the other hand, people you may judge and be more red-flaggy can be really good and better. I'm myself a red flaggy person, most of my friends / romantic partners have told me that they disliked me at first, so... Idk, I guess that the best t…
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:46 PM
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How so ? Everyone is flawed. Some more than others, some better at hiding it than others, but still. I don't see the point of looking for green flags, if you like the person without seeing any red flags, that's already a green one.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:26 PM
2

Can you elaborate ?
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:19 PM
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The absence of red flags. My answer sounds stupid but hey, when you come to think of it, there are no green flags IRL in most situations to tell you what's good, there are mostly red flags to tell you what's not. No red flags are good enough, you make up your own green flags based on your tastes.
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:05 PM
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My guess is, you asking her about what needs to be done around the house is you showing her that she's the boss of the house hold, the one in charge. She doesn't want to be in charge, she wants you to step up and do your part.
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:01 PM
1

Sure, go ahead mate. What've you got to lose anyway.
/r/seduction22/04/20 12:57 AM
1

That's a pretty mean thing to do. How's been your dating game without tinder tho ?
/r/seduction15/04/20 10:09 PM
2

You already posted a couple of weeks ago dude.
/r/seduction15/04/20 01:40 AM
0

Nope, you've got nice legs mate don't worry
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:01 PM
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Don't live by those "men should..., women should..." standards. If you feel a way, show it. Now it's always better to stay calm in any situation but losing your temper over her bullshit doesn't make you wrong. We all have an ego, it's normal to be hurt or offended. Anyone mocking you for that is worthless of your time.
/r/seduction06/04/20 12:11 PM
1

Yep, good plan mate.
/r/seduction05/04/20 12:20 AM
2

Give her some time, focus on something else. You're right in saying that this situation is hard for everyone. If you saw eachother for three months, i'm sure you'll see her again after the quarantine.
/r/seduction02/04/20 05:07 PM
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Tinder is all about appearance. Beautiful girls have a lot more options but I think it's all about confidence. A confident average looking guy has his chances with very attractive girls. Not all of them for sure, but some yes.
/r/seduction31/03/20 04:35 PM
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Girls biting their lower lip. That's too powerful.
/r/seduction30/03/20 02:50 AM
3

Hey dude you look great, and I don't see how you look fatter. Don't overthink it, just go for it. You know you have to go for it, you know it's the right thing to do.
/r/seduction29/03/20 01:10 AM
3

I don't see much difference tbh. Go for it bro
/r/seduction29/03/20 01:08 AM
0

Just make the conversations last by not answering too soon too often.
/r/seduction28/03/20 09:31 PM
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I feel like I'm listening to Don Draper giving dating advice. Except Mad Men takes place in the 1960s.
/r/seduction28/03/20 05:02 PM
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