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| 1 | Absence makes the heart grow fonderIf you want to get her, skip the games for your mental health and just ask her to hang out. No? cool, move on. If she ghosts its a no. Only a yes is the answer you want. Don't waste your energy trying to play weird games. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 06:23 AM |
| 0 | Absence makes the heart grow fonderIf you are absent in an attempt to "get her" you are in the wrong mindset. If you are absent because she was behaving in a disrespectful or rude way you are correct in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfIf you have to chose one then chose the 2nd option cause focusing exclusively on girls will ruin your life. At least from working on yourself you will get some other, long term benefits. I would try to balance the two. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | In being direct with your intentions what are best ways to get across that you are just trying to have sex?yeah it depends | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you call woman cute?haha he is or is it a she? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Do you call woman cute?I called a girl cute and I don't think she liked it she said "im not cute" but I doubled down and told her "yes you are, your like Eevee from pokemon". But I dont know if she liked it. I think overall girls want to be viewed mostly as sexy nowadays. Also she was short so maybe there is something to do with that... | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 22 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?Most guys are around average in many aspects. Women are not attracted to average guys today with all the immediate access to higher quality guys through online dating. I meet many people who have ok confidence but do bad in dating because you need insane amounts of confidence. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?Sorry to hear that you are suicidal :( I would suggest to frame yourself in a positive mindset saying that you are emotionally weak sets you up for failure. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?Never ask. Wait for her to bring it up then say "I dont care" thats the way to go my brother | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 09:47 PM |
| 9 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?bro you are asking the wrong question. What do YOU like doing? join something related and expand yourself. If you want to meet women go to bars. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?Being a coward is not something that you should go "yep" to. It is something that you should change. Success is a combination of luck and skill. There are plenty of autistic people that socialize. Doesn't seem like a valid excuse. Besides self diagnosis is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. Also most people are on the autism spectrum to a degree. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?nah man you just don't want to find something to join...any person with sub 0 iq can find groups to join. You are just a coward lol You telling me you are competent enough to make 200k a year but you can't come up with ideas how to find something? Honestly from some of the comments this seems like a pity party | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?Go join something. Could be a martial arts gym, a chess club, a music group, a hiking group...there are so many options. Make friends there and connect with several circles. Besides having a social life I think you need to have something going for you career wise. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I f***king love rejection.I want to add that even though you push yourself you have to acknowledge and be aware of the fact that a decent amount of those girls are lying to you. Not every girl has a boyfriend or is engaged. In my experience it is sometimes a test to check your response rather than an actual rejection. You have to remember that most girls have several options available to them at all times and they usually entertain at least one at a time. So a girl is never really single... | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:35 PM |
| 16 | I f***king love rejection.Exactly. That is the right attitude. If a woman rejects you in that gross humiliating way she is either a total bitch or you have a lot to work on...maybe both. But rarely it happens that you approach a girl and she acts that way... | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentYou will be surprised. I think you missed something very important. Its not enough to "just be a guy" today. You got to be extraordinary. Its also interesting because some of the most successful and social people can appear socially awkward. Another point you missed is that people build hierarchies in social environments....so in many cases guys that are successful and have friends get discarded because they are the 5th highest in their circle. Success is relative... | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:43 AM |
| -2 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentThats not what I meant. The point (which your purposefully missed) is about the way you view yourself mentally. Mental problems can't be "fixed" by going to the gym. A better comparison is someone who spent most of their lives as a fat guy and loses a lot of weight. They will still retain a lot of the "fat guy" personality and they will be more prone for unhealthy relationships with food compared to the average guy even after they lost all that weight. What I meant is that you have to abandon ce… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:23 AM |
| -3 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentThats not what I said. I said that in order to be confident you have to sacrifice your self to an extent. Because not every part of your personality is strong and confident. So you have to embrace your flaws and stuff kinda like what you said "cool with yourself" which seems more like we agree lol. Did you even read my post? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentBut confidence (at least from my experience) is extremely fleeting. You may feel confident today but tomorrow you are not, it depends on the setting the feeling and your environment...You could make the claim that it shouldn't be the case but that is supporting my claim that you should just fake it when its not there because it won't always be there. Also how can you tell if someone isn't authentic? what I mean is that aren't we all actors in a way? aren't we all playing a character that is a co… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentyeah exactly. Problem is what if you are very successful and have plenty of friends but are not confident? people claim that the feeling of confidence just comes when you strive to be the best self but what if it never does? couldn't you imitate behaviors and personalities of others just to absorb some of that juicy confidence? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentTrue. Some good questions. I think its ok to not act by choice. But what happens is that a lot of people don't act because they allow their emotions to control them (mainly fear). I think every social situation and every social circle is different so treating every interaction in a case by case basis is best. When I was talking about confidence I was mainly addressing the thought process behind it and how you view yourself. The thoughts will represent themselves in the way you carry yourself and… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentBut there is no exercise. I would say that if you want to be confident you will have to figure out what works for you on your own. For some its working out and going out with friends for others its focusing on their purpose...find your own path. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 11:56 PM |
| -2 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentwhat? where did I say that Im going to teach you a trick to be confident? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentI see you chose the "be yourself" option | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.I reckon I could have more "success" with girls but it really bothers me that they are not attracted to my physicality in the first place...it makes me kinda bitter and feel like a second choice | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.I mean it matters a lot. Most girls don't look at me but when I act confident they tend to shift their attitude and view me as a sexual option. It sucks because I am not used to girls hitting on me so every once in a blue moon when someone actually shows interest I tend to freeze because I do not expect it to happen or think its a joke or something.... | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?True. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?ok man now you don't make sense imma end it here | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Of course they do but they "don't like how aggressive they are" which translates to "I can't get with them so Im gonna try to tarnish their reputation" | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?First I was a defeatist now I am a cynic. Decide. What am I? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?I consider myself more of realist than a defeatist. I see the harsh reality of the world while being the best version of myself I can be. But I get what you mean man | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?Saying I could reach top 30% is not insecure at all. To be top 20 imo you have to have a lot of desierable traits and height is one of them. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?yep lol while a dude that is 6'4 doesn't lift a finger and has women surrounding him. Seriously considering limb lengthening surgery if Im honest. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:18 PM |
| 7 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?I don't think I will ever reach top 20% since I am 5'8 but I could get top 30% for sure. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Interesting | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:02 PM |
| 7 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?yep actually, every day lol | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:59 PM |
| 23 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?I doubt a lot of people here think that changing their behaviour won't impact their lives in any positive way shape or form but I do think that people pre select partners based on looks most of the time and that is a very depressing realization as an average man. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Interesting. So what kind of girls do you approach? I don't know if a dude that is 5'7 can be in the top 10 percent of looks since height seems to be a very big deal | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.How tall are you? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.I think that is cope. I think women are in their prime between 18-24 and they start to develop "morals" when their looks fade because morality generally speaking is a lie. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.I agree with a lot of what you are saying here. Women tend to vilify or adore someone based on their looks. If an attractive guy is aggressive then he is passionate if a not attractive guy is aggressive he is an incel. But you gotta plow through the bs. Women tend to put you in a box based on your looks and your goal is to ignore all of that trash and do your own thing. I have this friend that I was short and had back problems but girls were really into him and he knew how to carry himself. At f… | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I build financial value?Not really. Increasing your value is something that is part of the game. If you have no substance, it will not matter how much sophisticated body language or controlling the frame you will do. No woman will stay. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 04:41 PM |
| 3 | How to fight neediness and don't look desperate?Let her go and focus on other things. If she comes back, cool. But expect she won't. Women really don't care man. If she isn't giving you attention she isn't thinking about you. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | How to fight neediness and don't look desperate?I see a lot of "she" in your post. you should focus on "me" more. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 09:54 PM |
| 5 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?The way you describe it the woman is just a passenger going with the flow. And in that case it really is up to the dude to get sex from her. If she didn't make her mind about anything then she could be persuaded | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Most men are invisible to all womenyour choice | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:10 AM |
| 0 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentI believe that the experts have higher success rates but I don't believe its 90 percent level...at most 60 percent which is insanely good. If you are super attractive physically then you will have something close to 80 but still. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:09 AM |
| 7 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?Unlikely, because she went on a date with him..she had to find him somewhat attractive to begin with. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentwhat | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentWhat was your approach when trying to get numbers? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 09:59 AM |
| 3 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?You aren't attractive sexually. You failed some tests and come off as too much of a good guy with low amount of dark triad traits (narcissism, Machiavellian and psychopathy) | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentno I know numbers don't mean much but I doubt he has the experience of 9\10 times. That's all im saying | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 12:27 AM |
| 0 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalenthmmm interesting. But do you really count this as a number? I mean on one hand the girl wasn't into you on the other hand she gave you her number... I guess Im looking for something more genuine like "hey you are cute lets get dinner" "yeah im down" "ok cool let me get your number" *insert number* type interaction. But maybe its unrealistic for me to think that's how it goes... | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentI see | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachNo no. I agree that rejection isn't a nice experience. What I am saying is that saying something vague is confusing and its best to be direct, that way the man won't doubt himself too much. Even though he shouldn't doubt himself to begin with... | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:13 PM |
| -3 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentAgain man. Do you have the experience to make those claims or just chatting shit? | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Most men are invisible to all womenyeah. Although I would say OLD enhance or exaggerate this experience | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentcan and will are different things though. You can say "I have a good chance of getting a number if I really try" or "I will get a number in my first attempt". | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentIm just curious how many of those guys claiming "I can get numbers whenever I want" actually have 90\100 numbers to approach ratio. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentEven if you made the most elaborate, seductive lie possible you wont have 100 percent number to approach rate. Although lying increases the chances you get the number for sure lol | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:36 PM |
| 2 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentso 1\1 100% number to approach rate? thats cap | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Most men are invisible to all womenTo what point am I not right? | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentcut the philosophical bullshit I just want statistics. How many approaches does it take you to get a number | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:16 PM |
| 2 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentwhat | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Most men are invisible to all womenDon't be resentful towards women. The game is the game. Don't hate the player. Is it worth it? up for you to decide. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Most men are invisible to all womenThere is a lot that we can do. But I agree that life is unfair. Still, you can take whatever you got and make the best out of it. Get in shape, make money, pursue passions, get confidence and social skills...those things will increase your value so you can at least be seen as a possible beta (top 60) lol. That will help you carry your genes forward and your children may get a taste of glory. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:48 PM |
| -2 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachFirst of all nicely doesn't depends on the other person. You can be nice without the other person being nice. Second all of those examples are not nice...they are vague. Women tend to say something but mean something else so if a man is inexperienced he might misinterpret what is being said. All of the examples you gave have subtext and could go a million different directions. Most guys would appreciate something like "listen, I can tell you are nervous but you don't come off as confident at all… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:44 PM |
| -1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachdefine nicely | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Most men are invisible to all womenI think it means you are invisible like most men bro... 80 percent of men are in that category. Maybe you are at the higher end of invisible lol..it means you have potential | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:22 PM |
| -3 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!Lowest effort but doesn't mean its lesser...working as a creative director for a game company requires less or equal effort to a construction worker but it doesn't mean its lesser. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Most men are invisible to all womenI think what you said applies more to a top 40 percent man. A.k.a above average...an example of that is a 5'11 guy that earns 100k. What I refer to is more of a 6' that earns 200k or a 6'1 that earns 150k. Also top 20 percent in terms of personality....like confidence and social skills are higher when you are top 20 percent. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Most men are invisible to all womenhmmm agree and disagree, at top 20 you are considered attractive to most women so they give you a chance and are usually kind and submissive. Its hard to fuck it up...Of course the higher you get in the ladder the more options you have but I don't think any top 20 percent man is lacking options my guy...the perks increase the higher you are in the ladder... | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 8 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachSay it how it is. Women like to go to clubs to get validation from men and clown on them for trying until someone attractive comes along and they fuck them. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:20 PM |
| 25 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachExactly...treat the club as a date...you don't set a date during a date. Just go for it brotherlands | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!Capitalizing on depression. Fuckers. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!I would say its just the least likely form of game to be successful for the average dude. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 13 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!I wouldn't say not a look...men find most women fucke able (your standards drop the lower you are in the hierarchy). Tinder is an over exaggerated version of real life. The only difference is that in the real world a woman is not being bombarded by hundreds of men competing for her. Plus the fact that a real life interaction is much more fruitful than a cold text convo (even with emojis and shitty gifs). Overall I agree tinder is shit but I don't agree with the desirability of women...an ugly wo… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Women with "Woke" or "Toxic Feminism" mentality - Is it worth the effort to date these type of women?no no nope. Only for sex in my opinion. They tend to be hypocrites and try to emasculate men around them as a revenge for how their father treated them. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent?Then come and cuddle with her with no sex. A few days after ask if she wants to hang out and try to have sex with her while she is 100 percent there. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 02:02 PM |
| 9 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?You don't care that guys pay her a visit yet you write on it on reddit. go talk to her man... Bars are not an equivalent of dating apps. Because most guys at the bar will be average. On dating apps women get to select between tens of top top men (height, confident, good salary). At an average bar there will be maybe 3,4 top guys and the rest will be around average so your chances there are much much better. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 10:31 AM |
| 5 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?No its not that you can't flirt. You don't want to flirt because you expect too much of yourself. go and approach a few girls...first 10 times expect complete failure and then you will improve slowly. Good luck | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:56 PM |
| 0 | So she can ask about my height but I can’t ask about her weight?I have to be honest. I think since I am short I have this morality attached to it but I don't think one should prevent themselves from having sex because of morality. If I was in his shoes I would have probably done the same. I think a good punishment for her is having no guy commit to her and then maybe she will figure it out...Morality doesn't really exist and we are all animals really. It is just a way for us shorter guys to cope. because I will never fuck a woman I am not attracted to...no m… | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:33 PM |
| 10 | So she can ask about my height but I can’t ask about her weight?You absolutely don't have to fuck her. You fucking a woman like that is enabling that shitty attitude which will eventually create more people like that... | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themAbsolutely disagree. The toxic parts of their personality is part of what makes them so attractive to women. It is also close to impossible to have blind confidence and not be somewhat toxic... | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 02:04 AM |
| 7 | 25F**A Little Confessions**This doesn't make sense at all lol | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themnot a lady's man at all and I don't even know what that question means lol | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themThat's one way of dealing with it | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themlol somehow I doubt that | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themWhat? can you not initiate a conversation with a woman? do they have magic barriers? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themYou gotta get the subtext here they want a man that is a jerk. Copy those guys and thats your key to getting tons of women. They love to complain about the jerks but guess who they are sleeping with? exactly. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themBut I don't think its the case. From my experience men tend to be just as mean and disrespectful towards women they find unattractive. The only difference is that there are less women that men find unattractive because our mating strategy is different. We don't care so much for the top 20 percent of women...we would fuck a 4 and a 5 sometimes...women are not like that...they want the best of the best because they only have one chance of reproduction. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 10:04 PM |
| -1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themBut getting treated like a guy if you are a girl is disrespectful isn't it? its like girls befriending a guy and talking to him like one of her girls...its emasculating... | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themI think this is somewhat true. But I think men tend to be attracted to more women since our biological tendencies are different. So men naturally respect more women than women respect men. I think men respect\attracted to maybe 60 percent of women. Women only respect 20 percent of men. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themYou know I go for runs daily and I always try to move out of the way of others and I notice them doing the same. Sometimes I don't move because Im in the zone and I noticed that attractive women will look at me, look back down on their phone and most times they won't move, they will expect me to move or we will literally bump into each other...I have bumped into several women because they think that things will magically move out of their way. Its kind of crazy lol. Its especially crazy to me si… | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themAbsolutely true. With women respect and attraction go hand in hand. Since I am not the most physically attractive ,women tend to treat me as less than human until they are put in their place. Then they switch up and act submissive. Its gross that they cannot give you that respect until you break through their ego. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Tried to tip a waitress where I work. Got called in for “flirting” with a female staff.Wait and if you flirted is that forbidden????!?!?! so what?! why is she mad...flirting is natural and no man should feel ashamed for doing it. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?For the most part its true brother. Plus if they want to improve their game they will have an easier time since women are more forgiving naturally to them. I agree that every rule has an exception but it doesnt define the rule | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?I mean any tall guy...literally any | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?can't counter argue=troll good reply bro | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?but women compare men to each other not to themselves | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?Finally an honest dude all these copium addicts make me sick | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?The last sentence seems reasonable. The first, not so much. I am not insinuating anything. I think that height MATTERS just as much as confidence and success. And I don't know if you can be a top man if you don't have a decent amount in any of these stats...height, power and confidence. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?Really? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?Whats the average male height there? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:37 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?But isn't it possible that sometimes you got rejected and those women didn't tell you the truth? and isn't it possible that you are choosing to turn a blind eye to that part of the world because it is impossible to change it? Im just saying that a woman can find things to reject you on if she isn't attracted to you...and her attraction to you is based on your confidence AND looks... | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?Depends on the environment but I believe it could only be the case if he has some bodyguards to back him up when shit gets physical because competition can get violent. If said Kevin with no fame but has social skills to get himself connected enough that people are scared to fuck with him than yeah. But my point isn't even that. My point was that women will never physically desire someone short and just accept the short stature with some cope like "I dont care about his height his personality ma… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?How can you say its a myth when the tall dudes get all the pussy? like how bro? I am not saying a confident man won't attract a woman regardless of his height but tall guys are just naturally attractive to women how is it a myth? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?True. But his point was comparing a man to a woman which isn't your main competition as a man... | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?True I agree with this. But does it make you a top man? Don't you need to have the height as well as the charisma\confidence\purpose to be a top man? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?how come they drown in pussy though? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:23 PM |
| -4 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?Isn't the nature of women to desire the most attractive male possible? because they are strong protectors and shit? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:38 AM |
| 2 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?What do you gravitate towards? in what way are you feminine? physically? or mentally? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:32 AM |
| -1 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?Are you competing against women? lol | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:17 AM |
| -8 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?Who will they want to have sex with more? sure they will fuck Tom but what status will he have in their head? you get what I mean? Will he be attractive to them because he provides them with the opportunity to improve their lives and financial future etc etc...and will he attract them physically? will they sleep with him because they desire him or will they sleep with him because they believe that is the way to go places?... | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:16 AM |
| 0 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?Not a victim. I think your logic is: any person that complains\makes negative comments must mean he is a victim loser. Thats not how it works. I don't have time for idiots who can't understand that. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women?26.5 and 5'8 I got laid with 3 women...1st one hit on me she is like a 3.5\10 sex was vanilla af and we had kind of a cute relationship. 2nd was a tinder match and she was around a 2\10 I dated her for a while because I hoped she would improve her life and that came back to bite me in the ass. 3rd one was a 5\10 one night stand kinda...sex was very good but she was kind of a slut, before I slept with her she was not slutty but after that she started seeing many many guys and girls at the same ti… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:05 PM |
| 10 | Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women?I really disagree bro. Everything we do is a combination of luck and skill somewhat of a 50\50 split. Op is being humble but he probably has some skill so I agree with the message. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?I don't think those generalizations affect my success rates with women much if Im honest...I think regardless of my attitude, women have always been difficult at first with me and then they open up after they get to know me...I see a complete opposite happens in women when a tall guy talks to them...they just light up and act all girly and feminine...we are talking subtle behaviors..I notice those things what do you want me to do pretend like its not there? Like a girl isn't giving me a cold sho… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?Your being ironic I think. If you are serious than Ill just say that there is no point but your best option is to try and be the best you that you can be...if we are thinking chess than that is your best move...working out, looking good, learning game, getting more social, pursuing your purpose etc | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?I understand where you are coming from. It can be frustrating to talk to someone that you assume is in a low point in their lives but I want to assure you that I am doing a lot of things (that you might not know of) that improve my life and my happiness. Maybe I came off negative but its ok to have negative conversations some times don't you think? The point of the whole post is to vent and pose a question on whether one should bother with trying in the first place (which is a pretty intense que… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:07 PM |
| -1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?Wait you genuinely think its a myth? I am actually surprised. I don't think anyone here disagrees with the fact that women prefer the top 10-20 percent of men..hence why they get to sleep with most of the women. Weather its looks or confidence or wealth even that are the ones that define you as a top 10 percent man is subjective and can be argued on but the rest is pretty set in stone man. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?Of course it matters thats the whole point of the argument bro...the idea that beauty is subjective blah blah blah is just pure bs. Women always go for the same shit: tall guy... Why is it toxic to make generalizations? why can't we be real and say what we see out there? im not hating on anyone Im just stating facts. all those great personality traits are highly valuable for women and people generally speaking but if a woman was dating a confident, charming, charismatic guy wouldn't she want him… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?The body that you talk about isn't possible because I cannot grow taller (which is statistically the most important physical feature) I can get in shape and look good I could even get buff although I think its gross but that will never be as desirable as a 6'4 guy that barely works out...the genetics is not something I have unfortunately, and even if I had when I was younger I didn't fulfill it to its full potential. I agree that I can be a top 10 percent in many other areas which will eventuall… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?You don't know me brother. Stop assuming shit about me. I was bringing a topic to light and asking more of a philosophical question. This weak mindset bs is pathetic bro. Most of the people commenting can't handle a discussion about a topic that they might not be handle here so they resort to a personal attack calling me weak and beta or whatever...seems pathetic to me..instead of trying to attack the title try to converse about the contents of the idea here | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?There is no point but its better to try to be the best version of yourself you can be | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?bruh you are the dumbest person I think commented on my post ever. I have no assumptions about women nor I hate them. I am just stating their nature and the nature of human beings generally speaking. People are attracted to certain things. There is variety, yes but not as much as you portray it to be. For example short bald men are not within that range. People with autism or some form of retardation are not desirable. If looks were subjective and everyone had their "preference" as you say it th… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?what?! thats not what i said. Yes women fuck more than 10-20 percent of men but the ones they actually desire are within that range. I am not an incel (look the definition) I don't hate on women...the game is the game and if I was a woman I would want the most dominant man possible....majority of people end up settling but if they had the choice they would date a more attractive person...it is what it is also you say who cares about looks then why do women barely date short bald men? cmon bro be… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?ok so a bald guy that is 5'3 can just imagine he is hot and all of a sudden women will flock to him.... | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:02 PM |
| -6 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?So let me get this straight. Me stating facts is being a baby back bitch and means I am not confident??? are you ok? | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?If looks are subjective then why women prefer taller men?...if looks are subjective why aren't guys dating obese women?...cmon brother be real | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 01:02 PM |
| -12 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?What an unnecessary, useless comment | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:50 PM |
| -4 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?I just think that the pickings I have are scarce...I think its just the reality of the hand I was dealt with. Pretending like I have a plethora of options is good though because that might sell other people the idea that I am desirable...but we have to be real with ourselves brother...there are plenty of beautiful women out there but the numbers don't lie only a small percentage of men get the women... | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:38 PM |
| -3 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?Can you explain? | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?you missed many points here...I didn't say short men cannot become successful and even date beautiful women....I said that those short men will almost never be their woman's top choice...even if its Tom Cruise. About the "taller\bigger guy" thing you said, when you are 6'4 there are not many that are bigger than you...so in most situations you will be the tallest guy in the room..which is very desirable...when you are shorter than average, majority of men will be taller than you so women will gr… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:32 PM |
| 25 | We all know a guy who seems to drown in poon juice despite having almost nothing going for him, so what's the deal?First of all you gotta admit that he is better than you at talking to women. He is definitely "smooth" and you and your friends are just coping with jealousy. Try to observe his behaviors and you will see that he probably knows all the right buttons to push. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 05:57 PM |
| 14 | How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness?Because you are confident enough to open up to people..it shows that you don't care for their opinions. The problem is that some people open up and get judged or rejected but keep simping. If a bitch judges you for opening up than you should enforce a boundary that implies that you don't tolerate judgmental behavior...i.e put her in her place. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manno..I said that having a hedonistic lifestyle is going to make you unhealthy and will lead to more sex and more food but also more drugs, less sleep, less exercise, less taking responsibility etc.... | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manNot necessarily...You can have no impulse control at any point in your life | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 06:43 AM |
| 3 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manI would argue lowkey that being unhealthy and having a lot of one night stands are related...the unhealthy "dark" lifestyle is what makes it happen...hedonistic pleasures and shit. No impulse control and all that... | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manEverything has sugar in it...makes you crave more food...also tons of advertisements that either make you feel insecure or shove food in your face. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:39 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manBut I will say that on the other hand its kinda crazy that most of the western world is overweight...something is not right here. An average american is 5'9 but weights close to 200lbs? that is insane to me...I am similar height and 165 lbs which is still considered heavy for that height | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:38 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manI actually thought about this yesterday. Different people prioritize different things. Its important to feel good about yourself and you can feel good about being fat because you enjoy eating food and don't like working out too much... I personally am trying to cut some weight but some fat people are very comfortable with how their bodies look and again enjoy eating food more than working out... Women recognize that you are comfortable with your body. Short, fat, skinny....whatever it don't matt… | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I unlearn game?thats actually good. I never thought about game as social engineering but its actually true. The more experienced and intelligent you are with socializing, the more likely you are to have good game. I also like the non judgemental attitude towards yourself, very positive. I think I felt pretty judgemental towards myself for integrating game because I allowed others to make me feel that way...fuck em | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I unlearn game?I don't think you should unlearn game. I think you should learn how to be yourself once people get to see you. The game is just a doorway into who you are. Maybe you were taught the wrong "game", it definitely sounds like it from all the bullshit generalizations from your so called dating "coach". Game is more about how to present yourself and talk to people in a way that is attractive and confident...in a way that unlocks your genuine, masculine nature. Key word, Genuine. You can be a weird dud… | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:32 AM |
| 4 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???hold your horses. Approach some girls, get rejected, exercise, approach more and stop masturbating. Being angry at women for not throwing themselves at your disgusting ass is a beta move. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you not be boring?Besides living an interesting life you could embellish and extenuate your mundane experiences...you could also make stuff up and become a better conversationalist or story teller. But be careful to not do those things too much because then neither you or the person you are talking to will be able to distinguish between a lie and the truth.. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | I feel like no matter what I'll dook no problem man | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I feel like no matter what I'll doman, its pretty lame getting by and pretending to be attracted to 5's and 4's im sorry bro just being honest. Im not playing any card bro im just saying a guy that is 6'4 may have problems but one of the most important things for a man is sex and barely getting any or getting it from unattractive women is just an unfulfilling way to live...I don't know man what problem could be worse than barely being able to reproduce? how could you tell me that their lives are not significantly better? also th… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 06:33 PM |
| 0 | I feel like no matter what I'll doyeah im sure he suffers a lot bro...im not saying he doesn't have problems but his problems are not as bad as mine with all due respect. I agree we play the hand we're dealt...or I can kill myself knowing that I will never ever achieve a tenth of the desirability that they posses... | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 05:55 PM |
| -2 | I feel like no matter what I'll do?????? What stupid question is that? | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 05:31 PM |
| 0 | A woman is never too busy to text you back. If she doesn't, take the sign.If its not a fuck yes then most men will stay virgins. As a man you gotta learn to compromise. I don't want to fuck a 4\10 but heck I hadn't had sex in a while and I'll take one... | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?no no...when you fix someone's bathroom you are not interacting with them as a person. At the end of the day people form relationships and the way you interact with them can induce certain emotions and such...which increase the likelihood of the physical interaction being better...and besides that I actually didn't talk about a great emotional connection. for me my best experience was with someone I had little connection with...the connection was very superficial and surface level. But again, it… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?Wait I kinda agree...sometimes superficial shallow connection yields the best sex...but its still a type of connection. Its just a connection that is centered around sex. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?While I agree with this the connection has to be with someone that is very attractive. An attractive woman could find a potential connection with a man she isn't attracted to but she will never give him the day of light to begin with... | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?I know exactly what you mean... | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?Simple, because only the top minority of men get to bang them...I would say if you are around average (top 60-40) you will have to settle for unattractive, mediocre, overweight, mental issues type women..pretty much the ones that got used and abused by chad and didn't get selected for long term...even worse are the ones who got rejected by the chads. Bottom 40 percent of men are lucky to see a naked woman in their lifetime Top 30 get to see things that you never imagined...things of dreams. Gang… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?I agree with you, only in short term...if I am looking for something with any meaning and longevity you bet I wouldn't want a slut. sluts are good for bed time only | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 03:56 PM |
| -1 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?yeah lol kinda painful imo If you look around enough you see hot women constantly text or have a guy around them...usually above 6ft tall :( | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 03:53 PM |
| -2 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?They do bro...they just have sex with the hottest guys and keep it hush hush | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.I want to add that your position within that social circle is very important You get what I mean? | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How do i try kissing the girl and how do i know she’s ready?Sucks...but isn't asking kind of a turn off for some women? | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 09:57 PM |
| 3 | How do i try kissing the girl and how do i know she’s ready?Honestly if you are inexperienced that is probably the best way to go | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Self deception workshow do you do that? | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Self deception worksI think arrogant and egotistical are extremely subjective terms and depend on culture etc...so I don't know man...a good example is in fight press conferences. People will analyze and say "oh this guy is confident and this guy is cocky that is why he lost"....You get what I mean? every act could be interpreted in two different ways...if I teach someone something it could be interpreted as kind and knowledgeable or annoying and condescending...When you describe taller guys they usually get associ… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Self deception worksI have actually seen guys that are full of themselves get a ton of women so I don't know man...maybe for long term its bad.. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Self deception worksyes that is exactly what its called. Read the title dumbo | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Self deception worksIt is a safer bet then drowning himself in self misery every night... | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Self deception worksThis is a random stranger's word online so take it or leave it but I had a friend that was 5'5 and dominated every social interaction he was in....all the girls in our unit (military) wanted him...He wasn't muscular or particularly good looking. But he had drive, like no other guy I met before in my life. Expert in socializing... | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Self deception worksyeah? you suck. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:11 PM |
| -2 | Self deception worksThe classic defensive bullshit. Save me the self pitty bro. Im suicidal and I can do it. The only thing stop you from getting better is you. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Self deception worksand how exactly do you get there if you aren't there naturally? should you accept being mediocre? or should you make the best possible move? | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 07:54 PM |
| -1 | Self deception workswho said you need to pretend to be tall? you gotta pretend like you are worth something. There is nothing wrong with that. You have values? morals? if not find some if you do then stand up for them. Delude yourself that you are high value and you will start working on yourself. Keep whining and nothing will change. You can't change your height but you can change a lot about yourself, from the things you mentioned you can change how interesting you are, you can change your physic to be more mascu… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 07:53 PM |
| -1 | Self deception worksYou are. You just don't want to because you like being a loser. I don't mean to be mean. Im a loser too and there is a lot of comfort in that. Change is scary. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Self deception worksNot all chicks are crazy and not all high value women are sane..also if your mate believes he wore a condom can't he check that stuff? | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Self deception worksDefine a low value woman because for casual sex do you really care about her value? | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:30 PM |
| 19 | Self deception worksYes. I think a big reason why a lot of men struggle and have to fake it is because their situation is shifty so its a coping mechanism...but faking confidence helps you see the flaws in your character clearly | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:29 PM |
| 13 | Self deception worksThen how do you explain dudes who look like shit and are not really successful and still bag hot bitches...its this delusional level of confidence...of course if you combine it with good looks and money then you are pretty much irresistible. But again imo confidence is the biggest factor. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:55 PM |
| -2 | Self deception worksIt works. You automatically start acting differently and seek people who portray the traits you want to imitate. It worked for me but then I became depressed for some reasons.. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 09:38 AM |
| -1 | My experience as a 20m y/o college student with over 60 partners in less than 3 years.How tall are you? | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 12:36 PM |
| 9 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenJust do it to get it over with. Even prepare yourself to be rejected and then think about how good it's going to feel after you have done it... | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 03:01 PM |
| 0 | How to keep in touch with a girl that you approached?I disagree with this. I would do something like "Hey, I had fun talking to you but I gotta go. We should hang out soon and do *whatever you noticed that she is into* What's your number?" | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How to keep in touch with a girl that you approached?Best way is to either call her or face time. Just ask her for her socials or phone number... you are thinking too much just call her and have fun...be weird be funny be charismatic...improvise...maybe you will mess it up with this girl maybe you won't maybe she will be forgiving maybe she will be a bitch...you dont know unless you try...trust yourself and your ability to deal with things when they happen. In my opinion, you either make some plans with her...either now or in the future. it is bes… | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 01:29 PM |
| 11 | Most common terrible dating advice: Just be yourselfTrue. I think the best advice is attempt to be the best version of yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 11:33 AM |
| 7 | I suffer from severe depression. I literally do nothing most days but sleep and scroll YouTube, twitter, Reddit, etc... I don't have anything interesting in my life currently to the point that I contemplate suicide almost weekly but somehow I easily get women.I'm a depressed artist and barely any bitches. Maybe he looks good lol | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?On tinder I would assume its difficult to notice it...this is more of something you recognize in social environments. Usually you will be able to tell if a guy is high rank by how he interacts with others. I would imagine that shit tests are a good way to gague it but its not a guarantee...well nothing is guaranteed in life but its better to test and have an idea than not test and gamble you know? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:57 PM |
| 18 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?I don't think its true for younger women...they just want sex from the highest ranking guy they can get and not some loser from reddit. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Attempted to flirt with girl at amusement park, friends started teasing me, so I got shy and stopped.A true sigma right here | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:35 PM |
| 8 | Attempted to flirt with girl at amusement park, friends started teasing me, so I got shy and stopped.I think your response was good but maybe you could have kept the conversation with the girl and tried to escalate into you two meeting or whatever...I would continue with something like "sorry about them...they can get weird around girls" and then continue from there... | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Typical shit test girls use , don’t fall for itBut did she ask for money straight up bro? Couldnt you be jumping to conclusions? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Typical shit test girls use , don’t fall for itthats why I dont like analyzing stuff without any context...I dont like jumping to conclusions before I actually meet the person and see what they are like you know?... | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 7 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?Is it possible that I am the opposite? I think my text game sucks ass but when I talk to women I am actually not half bad...when I text I just say whatever I think is funny and don't really try to have a conversation...but in person I can read a person better I can feel their energy better...text just seems so fake to me... | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Typical shit test girls use , don’t fall for itWhat if its a joke though? What if he can ignore the bs and keep fucking her?...should every relationship be serious? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Typical shit test girls use , don’t fall for itDon't you think its just standard behaviour though? women, sorry people see what they can get away with and if you don't assert proper boundaries they will keep crossing them... | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateAnd within your friend group do you treat all the men equally? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to datelol. Do you treat different men differently? or you treat all guys the same way? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateThe evidence is opinions and experiences of low confidence men all over the world...just look around dude. Women treat them like garbage. Why do you even need evidence? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateAgain its not my friend group that is like that. It is every friend group. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Its the nature of human beings...for evidence refer to the type of guy that gets disrespected by women. Usually they are not confident... | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateHmm no. Its not my friend group, its any friend group. When you are a guy if you don't command respect and act masculine you will be stepped on...especially by women. Also you have a shitty friend group, weirdo. Love my friends :) | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to datesigh...I think the problem is that you are viewing my comment from a female pov. The reality is, if you don't carry yourself in a masculine way. If you don't dominate your environment then you will be disrespected by women...attractive or not. You may not "feel" like you aren't disrespecting dudes. But it is noticeable when people hang out and one guy doesn't have confidence so women step on him. You can be a friend and commend respect. It isn't tyranny to do that. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to date"im not like the other girls" | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | There are thousands of guys that make a beautiful woman feel special any given day but has any beautiful woman ever made you feel special?that isn't related at all to what I said lol | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateNot if you allow them to treat you like trash and lower your confidence. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 2 | There are thousands of guys that make a beautiful woman feel special any given day but has any beautiful woman ever made you feel special?I think it isn't a double standard...when you make a woman feel special she is repulsed. When you treat her like a human being and respond to the way she acts in a collected way she will drool over you. We just have developed a generation of spineless, porn addicted simps. Most women are not special brother. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateI Agree only if you frame the friendship correctly...don't become another validation tool for her. Stay masculine and strong with her....you dictate the tone of the friendship. Also go to drinks with her one time to feel her out...if she is actually not interested in you or maybe its a way to deter some dudes... | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:19 AM |
| 16 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?I was about to write this exact thing. Boundaries. Very important. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:57 AM |
| 10 | Women I attract reflect on the type of man I am?Yep both but I would say mainly, mentally...if you are insecure you will attract insecure people. It doesn't apply only to women...watch your friends and how they behave. You know the classic "tell me who your friends are and Ill tell you who you are" phrase. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionYou've been to the wrong gym. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionNo bro. Hard sparring is not a part of either boxing or muay thai. You are supposed to do hard sparring once every two months at most. Of course if you go full power every sparring session you will get injured because your body doesn't get enough time to recover...99 percent of your sparring sessions should be light playful and technical. Unfortunately, a lot of gyms allow and sometimes encourage people to go way to hard without any regulation. This is a recipe for drinking from a straw by the a… | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionAlso I would add that gyms that promote hard sparring are retarded...it develops bad habits and increases risk of injury like you said. Its hard to find a good gym. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionIt sounds like your gym/coach wasn't so good brother. There's nothing wrong with being lean and muscular...I think that is the ideal physic and BMI agrees with me. Martial arts work on so many other aspects as well...you forgot flexibility, decision making, explosiveness, balance, discipline. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:34 PM |
| -3 | What’s the smoothest way to bring up sex in a conversation?I asked a girl what should I get from the grocery store and she said "whatever you want" and I replied "alright, Ill have you then" :) I think that's kinda smooth | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:20 PM |
| 3 | do girls know they're being approached?What do u look like brother? | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 10:56 AM |
| 0 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionI would recommend martial arts. It not only puts you in shape but helps you become confident. When you are punched in the face the least of your worries is a woman rejecting you. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | How to be less boring of a person?You gotta let go man. Just say things and watch what happens... | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 01:42 PM |
| 0 | Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees?Yes we can explain to you what we think we like. But we dont actually know how to properly seduce a man..because that is not something we think about. The simple phrase of "don't ask fish how to catch fish" applies here. Its good to get a man's perspective but take it with a grain of salt since women will teach you way more. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees?Since this is mainly a men's group I would advise you to ask women about it. Women are good at giving advice to women and vise versa. My advice is a good genuine smile...that always gets me. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:17 AM |
| 3 | How to act after a rejection?Emotionally disconnect from that person. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:48 AM |
| 2 | What to reply when she says she's "not that type of girl"?This is good I agree. Just tell her "ok" and text her later for some juice time | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | UK: Calling a man 'bald' is sex harassment after employment tribunal compares it to commenting on a woman's breastsI don't know about sexual harassment but its definitely harassment...commenting on someone else's appearance\what they are wearing is not cool | /r/MensRights | 12/05/22 04:32 PM |
| 7 | I'm good looking, funny, respectful, have a good job, have hobbies, talk to plenty of women. then why can't I even hook up with one woman?Some humility bro. My assumption is that you are not half as funny\good looking\respectful as you think you are. Im not saying you are boring, ugly and arrogant but you get my point right? | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How to make your friend see you as more than a friend?You let go of that idea because she doesn't see you that way. And for you it might be better to distance yourself because it is likely that you will orbit around her in hopes that her opinion will change, which will completely drain you and make you even less attractive not only to her but to other women. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Guy following random bikini models on InstagramYou know?...you can just ask him | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?Kinda. I don't have dating apps anymore. But I had when I was in college and got no matches or very very unattractive ones. When I went to parties there was always one girl hitting on me... | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Update to the Post: “How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a loner”Oh that's nice besides the body dysmoprhia...how tall are you? | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:00 PM |
| 2 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?Please don't listen to this guy and more then that don't be this guy. Big yikes brother. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:44 PM |
| 4 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?agreed. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Update to the Post: “How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a loner”What do you look like brother? | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:35 PM |
| 7 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?Please don't listen to this guy and talk about whatever you want. Good conversation happens around every possible topic. I agree with number 5 though lol | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:39 PM |
| 162 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?I don't think topics matter as much as the way you talk about things. You can talk about a boring topic with passion and that will be attractive | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Handing something to a girl on the dancefloor.thats funny if I did that I would get kicked in the nuts. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:10 PM |
| 9 | Attempting to be charismatic often feels forced and cringey. But not forcing myself to be outgoing results in me being quiet and boring. What do I do?Just talk..stop trying to be anything... | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?Well. Women were evolved to sleep with a few men until they get pregnant and from then, their goal would be to protect and provide for their child. We are in this mess because of protection... Also a woman was evolved to seduce and secure the highest possible mate, exchanging sex for protection and resources. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?Women are not shamed for being different than men. its the opposite. They are shamed for trying to act like men. We live in a culture where people are told that they can be whatever they want and that is simply not true. You cannot be a hoe and a wife at the same time. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?Well, men and women live by totally different standards...an average woman in her mid 20s could go down the street, start talking to an above average guy and ask him to sleep with her and 9\10 times he will agree. For average guys the success rate is 1\100 approaches. There are plenty of youtube videos where you see a girl hitting on guys and how easy it is for them. Life is not easy for women but sex is one area where they can get it whenever they want. Think about it, you want some dick? you d… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 09:50 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?Actually I was wrong when I said that. Just saw a research claiming that women have better pattern recognition when it comes to people and men have better pattern recognition when it comes to natural events, distances, mechanics... I do think women will notice the same patterns more quickly than men but will approach the situation with a totally different approach. Women tend to lie more to avoid conflict and keep everyone happy. Men say the truth more and bare the consequences. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?Well I think most of the people here are men and men have better pattern recognition so we see something and already our memory flashes red. Women tend to be more open minded and optimistic. We don't know that she is fucking all of them but lets say a safe estimation would be that she slept with 1-2 of them and more than that, some of the guys in the group definitely want to sleep with..which is not something I would want my girl around. Not that I don't trust her but I just don't want to take a… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?well its the same way that men are being judged for not getting sex...it goes the other way as well you know. Men for the most part have a hard time getting laid so a guy that can sleep with a lot of women is a chad. Women have an easy route to get sex so they are valued for their ability to remain clear and letting all the men fight for their attention then selecting the highest possible mate. If you sleep to quickly with the first guy you found then you haven't tested enough guys... | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?I agree, my question is are men and women the same? | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?Are they men though? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?kinda based | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?I don't think so. I think at the end of the day if a guy is looking for a potential long term relationship he wouldn't want someone that sleeps around a lot and is easy to get. And he would want to know her sexual history so he could make cautious assumption about her behaviour since most people don't change that much. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?If you want to bring history into this don't forget to mention that for the majority of human history women would get pregnant fairly quick and then have to protect and feed their children....since no condoms or protection existed. So a slutty woman back then couldn't exist... | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?you know there are slut shamers and slut enablers. Stop enabling sluts! | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?The second sentence means she is promiscuous, sorry bro. If she has a ton of male friends and stuff it is a bad sign. If you are in doubt that she is not 100% into you then she is likely entertained by other men. Save yourself the trouble and dump her. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”You never answered the actual question... | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:56 PM |
| 19 | recommendations for hobbies that can be done from home and make you a more attractive well-rounded person for dating?bruh this question is ridiculous...go find a hobby that makes you happy...don't search for hobbies that will make you more attractive. If you like something who cares if its considered attractive. You liking it and having a passion for it will make you attractive. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Height and lay count\approaches+share whatever relevant stats you wantyeah I don't know why he hating were a bunch of nerds on reddit... | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Height and lay count\approaches+share whatever relevant stats you wantwell start by getting a diagnosis :) | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”Explain what you think is the correct response? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManThis is good shit | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.what do you mean im confused | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.can we get a tldr? | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticshmm yeah I think a good balance of self reflection, criticism and also not giving a fuck and going back again is best...but again ill only be able to prove my point after I get the experience... | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsI mean I doubt that you can't do certain things to improve the quality of attempts but you are more experienced than me...don't you think that in the attempts that it took you less times to get a date you didn't do something better? something different? maybe you weren't aware of those changes? sometimes cold approach could lead to a good connection but you need to be open minded about it and not think of it as potential lay...or maybe you were too honest about yourself or something lol...you kn… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsso 3 out of 5 dates you got to make out and have 2nd base right? when you say you can't create interest what do you mean by that? don't you think if you increase the conversation time and quality of approach there will be a higher likelihood of success? | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticscan you explain how many girls you slept with from that approach? 2 out of 500 correct? not hating just asking | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:03 AM |
| 0 | I think tests are stupidStop catering into that bs agenda. If someone is interested in you then they should show interest..not play stupid games bro... Every test is an insult and every insult is a test in their eyes... | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 11:12 PM |
| 0 | I think tests are stupidanother idiot... | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 11:02 PM |
| 0 | I think tests are stupidwon some lost some not the point idiot. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"I think there is a valid discussion about morality vs seeking short term satisfaction. I think a lot of people that are against seeking short term enjoyment are not capable of achieving that and they justify their beliefs with morals..On the other hand those morals exist because society isn't hedonistic...for better or worse we have built a society that is based on rules and structures...I think you can always find ways to justify hedonism but it is very dangerous...I think my best recommendatio… | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 11:14 AM |
| 0 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"hmm I agree but if the idiom is applicable to lets say 97 percent of women in western culture then can't you make the claim that they are all hoes to an extent? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 10:30 AM |
| -1 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"yeah...its very sad. Its extremely sad that you see women date someone who they are clearly not attracted to but they use him for resources and then probably sleep with other dudes... | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 10:26 AM |
| 0 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"that is such an empty thing...so I work extremely hard and won't be able to have a partner who doesn't cheat on me? what if I want to own her? not as property, but `I want a woman that is mine and doesn't consider cheating. But apparently that is only applicable to Lebron James | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 10:24 AM |
| 4 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"this is such a shallow viewpoint of the world. I don't necessarily plan to marry a girl but the idea of having a family always lurks in my mind...so I don't know...if all women can be swooped by the next young attractive guy then what is the point of even trying...also the fruits of an intimate relationship are good as well... | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Does a girl expect you to become angry when she rejects you?Honestly man that is a confusing situation. It would have been better to ask her by what she means. It could be many things...could be 1: That she wanted you to be aggressive and "take her" (extremely risky) 2: She has had experiences in the past with guys who got upset and you are the first one that isn't and its a good surprise...and this whole thing is a test to see if you can handle rejection the way she wants you to 3: Who knows... Sex is different around the world and some women want the i… | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl plays hard to get?That is a good comment. "Women are always evaluating you to see if you are confident" 100 percent agree. I will say though that it seems relatively easy to fake being confident and a decent amount of women fall for it. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl plays hard to get?she wasn't sleeping dawg... also you shouldn't chase her...she is low interest. If she didn't answer you on the same day you shouldn't reward her for that by giving her attention, that is low value. If she texts you then she will have to explain to you why she didn't answer that day. Everyone has their phone on them almost 24\7 so don't delude yourself into thinking she didn't see or was sleeping. She saw, she ignored. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Still pushing after rejection. Should I stop?get another girl bro | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Does continual rejection increase confidence or kill it?No problem bro keep going and be happy you got rejected because its a chance to get better...either way she doesn't mean anything to you. Keep going. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Does continual rejection increase confidence or kill it?In this particular case you mentioned she acted in a repulsive entitled way...the minimum she had to do is say "sorry but im not interested". Also you need to learn that women that get a ton of attention don't want guys simpings for them, you had to accept the fact that she will require some high level game+confidence+looks and that might not be enough...Im assuming you introduced yourself without having any prior conversation with her..in my opinion that is the mistake you made because she was … | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?So this is what I thought. Me and you have a different definition of jacked....Johnny sins for example isn't jacked...he is muscular and in good shape. The maintenance sounds good but what I mean is in terms of looks...the body builders start to look bloated...I don't know what that is though | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?Than how come women go for a certain physic...I have seen youtube videos where they asked women what they prefer...there was a jacked guy a regular guy and a muscular guy...most of them preferred the muscular guy. Jacked dudes still get laid a lot but its overdoing it at some point... Also explain to me if its so easy to maintain then how come the older body builders don't look so good and develop some bloating in the stomach? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?As much as I love to believe random dudes online I will still choose not to because what I see is different. From what I see height is the biggest factor and being jacked is not attractive to most women...they prefer a muscular guy that is fit and has a figure that fits his height. Also, muscle is difficult to maintain because it requires a certain diet and exercise routine and as you age your t levels drop and the muscles turn into fat. It is important to be in good shape but a lot of people ov… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?Well...how do you think fat women decide they are beautiful as they are? Part of of being confident is deceiving yourself into believing that you are high value. Even though that is not what that person feels about themselves. The fat women is an extreme example but I believe that at least 90 percent of people use some manipulation tactics on themselves in order to feel better about themselves. Nothing wrong with that since most people are flawed to some extent. But we have to be real and unders… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?which one of the things? I mentioned a few lol Ill give an example for deescalation. You could be in a situation where a guy is threatening you and you could still be appearing as a winner from that situation. For example, you could say something like "ok man" and then keep talking to other people. In a situation like that when you ignore someone's threats they make him seem like an angry idiot with no ability to verbalize or defend his ideas. He plays his game trying to use intimidation to prev… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?Alternatively you could go fully into the manipulative tactic and claim that you are fine with your weight and looks. You can own what you are and that will be attractive in its own right. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 09:28 AM |
| -4 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?I would advise against getting jacked because that is a lot of work to maintain and usually comes off as insecure. I would recommend achieving a good healthy physic, learning martial arts and practicing game. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?5'9 isn't short but 110lbs sounds underweight...it is difficult to get laid when you are a smaller man generally speaking because your main competition is men. You just need a different tactic. Usually smaller men become good manipulators and develop good game. Work on your deescalation abilities and work on your ability to debate ideas. You will gain an advantage on the psychological\intellectual level. If you want to use intimidation you will have to get bigger. It is difficult but doable. My … | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 09:25 AM |
| 9 | I moved to a new city and I have this cougar looking neighbor... I left her a note in hope of her reaching out cause idk where to even start.yikes bro should have just gone to talk to her or something | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 01:05 PM |
| 13 | Girl is more friendly and talkative to my friends, but is more shy around me?lol people here immediately think with their penis...maybe she just doesn't know the guy???? its not about attraction here | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:12 AM |
| 10 | Girl is more friendly and talkative to my friends, but is more shy around me?she could just not be used to you and your mannerisms...try talking to her and get to know her | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:11 AM |
| 6 | Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot?of course man...women talk about everything...dick size, performance, stamina everything lol | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlslol wtf | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsIf girls think you are attractive they will act submissively to any act that you do so there isn't any game there...you are just wrong. When you are average or below or above girls deem you unattractive so that's when all the game stuff is needed. If a tall guy is needy they find it cute and romantic if a short guy does it, they find it repulsive. If a tall guy is angry they see it as drive and ambition, if a short guy is angry he has napoleon syndrom and is hateful towards women. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Biggest confidence boost?Love running! and I have been doing chin ups every day for the past couple of weeks already feel good. Also I went near the library yesterday and considered a membership cause I want to read some psychology and stuff | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Biggest confidence boost?Thank you! I think besides the self belief and building self esteem I think in a martial arts gym you learn discipline, respect and other values which are important for building confidence..its also much more of a community thing than lifting | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:11 PM |
| -5 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsyou are 100 percent wrong. attractive men don't need game. it helps for sure but you will still get laid. I dont know what you look like and how tall you are but if you are above average and compare yourself to an average guy you are wrong...the things an average guy needs to do to get laid you will never understand...I will also say that the average guy probably doesn't get laid...at all..just the reality of the game | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlswhat? are you delusional or something? just go to every college and try to have a conversation with any tall douche...they have no game but women just surround them. I remember talking to this guy that was 6'4 and a couple of girls just sat in front of us looking at him every few seconds... | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Biggest confidence boost?yeah man :( I honestly knew it before I became addicted to the internet...everyone had their smartphone and I waited until getting one and waited even longer until making an ig and facebook page...its just so empty | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Biggest confidence boost?what would you say impacted you more? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Biggest confidence boost?I dont think you need to shower daily, shave daily and fresh weekly cut...seems like a lot of unnecessary work...shower in the summer every day on winter days I shower once every two days | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlswell it depends on what you look like. Some dudes have women just throw themselves at them so they don't approach or barely have game...if you see an average guy that managed to sleep with over 30 women he is either lying or has very good game or settles for unattractive women. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Biggest confidence boost?I mean to an extent it will work but it will be just a facade. I have done it in the past and the results seem to vary...people can sense that someone is faking it...and there is no reason to fake it because working on your confidence is a much better long term decision... | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Biggest confidence boost?yes I am going to start learning either muay thai or bjj. Can you explain the last recommendation? Taking anti depressants seems like such a risky move | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Biggest confidence boost?YES! exactly this. A lot of people here seem to recommend external things when they matter very very little. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Biggest confidence boost?I don't know if I agree. Martial arts teaches you how to handle business...its not about being the best fighter or getting high off of a win...its about learning how to control your body and feel good in it. Its about knowing that people can't fuck with you. More than that, martial arts teaches you discipline, hierarchy, respect and more. This is the type of thing that you can never "fake". Fake it till you make it works to make you appear confident but as soon as people pry in a little bit they… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Biggest confidence boost?yes. Porn is such a confidence killer. The internet generally is kinda shitty for confidence as well | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:42 AM |
| 2 | When you're rejected, would you prefer the real reason or given a cliche easy let down reason?You should get more experience and be able to translate "girl" language. Replay what happened and think what you did wrong but don't dwell on it. Go out and do more. Sometimes you can tell what happened, other times its very difficult to know because there are many possibilities. Also I would recommend to focus on yourself a lot...My belief is that if you are happy with your life than you will naturally attract someone attractive...all the "game" stuff is just to imitate people that are in that … | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick?Never send dick picks my guy | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 07:52 PM |
| 0 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractivehm respectfully I do. NPD is probably what you are thinking of when I mentioned narcissism. What I meant is that everyone has a level of narcissism in their personality. The more they have the more likely they are to have NPD. You just have a negative connotation with the word and cannot accept that you act in a narcissistic way in your own personal life, sometimes....Everyone does. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?what does that supposed to mean? clown its a Wednesday | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?Exactly this sort of life is only available to the absolute top men out there...those that have everything: looks, status, money....Most men will be average at some and maybe very high in other aspects. But those top guys have high stats in everything. I do agree that f&f sell the idea that every dude can become that but its a lie. For example Fresh will never be that because he is not attractive and short. Myron is close to that but still falls because he is insecure and not facially attractive… | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?I encourage you to consider getting into master-slave morality (idea coined by nieastche). It seems like you are mentioning the people's champion...the king of slaves. But I would say that how we rate high value in terms of personality seems to be cultural and extremely subjective. Generally though its about a person who is charismatic, likeable, has a backbone and a good leader that is considered high value...no matter how much he earns this person will still be pretty high up there. I don't th… | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?Well I don't think I have to be an avid worshiper of them. I can pick and chose certain ideas from every person and not follow their personal behaviour or subscribe to their general world view. I think they do have a lot of refreshing ideas that are very taboo (notice the reaction here). And I think if I applied any of the things I get from them it will be way more subtle and quiet. I think they shine a lense on a part of society that no one currently is willing to talk about because fear of bei… | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?I don't think it does but maybe you are more feminine than the average dude... | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:15 PM |
| 4 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?wdym? then why so many extremely successful men tend to cheat on their spouse? | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 0 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?Let me challenge your beliefs. Please read about Master-Slave morality by F. Niestche and after you read it answer this: Do you think cheating is bad because you believe its immoral or do you associate cheating as a bad thing because you are incapable of cheating yourself and getting away with it like the higher value men do? | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?Yes I agree cheating is immoral but lets put you in the shoes of a man who has a loving beautiful wife but also hundreds of woman throwing themselves at you every day...wouldn't you break? Morality seems to change really when your options change...if you can get away with cheating a lot then is that an immoral decision? I want to make a point also about making money since it usually comes on the expense of others...is it moral to steal? no but that is an essential part of business...killing the … | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:42 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?The claim that we are monogamous animals is up for debate....Most primates have a non monogamous type of breeding. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?I mean that is not the claim. F&F are upfront about it. They claim that a high value man SHOULD be upfront about those things. and that his wife \spouse\gf SHOULD agree and cooperate since she is getting so much from him plus she would be his main woman. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 5 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?I think in every relationship that breaks up there is something to lose and something to gain for both parties...its normal | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:28 PM |
| -8 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?please fuck off from here clown. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:26 PM |
| 3 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?I also want to say that telling a person that they are not high value is not an insult....most people are just average. I believe we need to stop giving everyone the sensation that they are unique | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:25 PM |
| 0 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?just trying to have a conversation no need for personal insults. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:23 PM |
| 4 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?I think any sort of opinion that doesn't match the feministic pov of the world is just going to get dismissed as incel or woman hater....I think its immature. Those phrases get thrown around so much they lost their meanings. Seems like just an attempt to denounce my point without actually bringing any value to the conversations. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:22 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?You think talking to people on reddit is the equivalent of actual learning and getting to know people?...im just saying that most high value people don't spend a lot of time online talking to randoms... | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:19 PM |
| -2 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?of course the dry definition is that its cheating. But the point still stands...If I was extremely attractive to women to the point where they throw themselves at me and send me nudes daily I don't know if I would be able to hold myself. High value men experience things that ordinary guys like us dont really get to see and they have certain privileges...thats the reality...question is should they exercise their options and should their spouse accept that it is going to be a part of their lives? | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:14 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?I don't know usually people are very good at giving advice at things that they are not good at...just look at this sub, plenty of good advice but its hard to believe that everyone here is the chad they claim to be. I honestly think that f&f have good intentions from their audience but they also want to make a show and create extremities to prove their single minded points...I think they are just kinda dumb lol From what I see both myron and his buddy lack significantly in charm or charisma...Fre… | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:10 PM |
| -11 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?I guess he wasn't that high value...we are talking about top top top men...plus not to roast I don't think you are that high value yourself since you are talking to losers on reddit... | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?lol | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:32 AM |
| -13 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?lol Fresh has been manifesting that shit for years I want him to succeed. But I mean some people say untrustworthy things but it doesn't mean that everything they say is garbage... | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 10:46 AM |
| -1 | What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating?wait its you again. lol | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 10:40 AM |
| 0 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveit does. I just read that potential causes for psychopathy could arise after a person is born. There are certain environmental factors that could contribute to the development of the disorder, I'll list a couple of examples here: physical and emotional neglect, absent father, physical abuse, brain injury, delinquent sibling, parents who are in jail and more. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveno. I am saying you could become a psychopath by conditioning yourself to not feel any guilt which is usually felt by sociopaths. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveThey are dark traits...they become negative when you have access amounts of them..not about winning or losing. If you have too much of it you become a danger to your environment and not in a good way...to little of them and you will become a door mat. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveEmotion is not magic..we can understand it. I think the reason why fighters are attractive and nice is because its obvious they are capable of destruction and you can sense that in a person. When you talk to a guy even as a man you can smell if he is confident or insecure...body language, tone of voice, facial expressions they all tell a story and are almost impossible to fake. A lot of fighters have something that is close to true confidence because they experience danger on a daily basis. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractivetrue. I think also being genuine is not being nice all the time because "if you tolerate everything you stand for nothing" (i heared this from Andrew tate the cringe pickup guru). But what I am saying is that women seem to like the guys that are overly aggressive and seem to be very focused on their ego. Again I think you should stand up for what you believe in...but it becomes too much and I would also ask how much do you really believe in something? Do you really believe in left\right wing age… | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveok ill check it out | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveThis reeks of passive aggressive behaviour so please go fuck yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:50 AM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveof course personality matters when it comes to women but its a clear second place. men are just visual creatures. Women get attracted to a man first by who he is personality wise and looks come second. I think ugly women also can do things to make themselves more attractive...makeup, surgery, exercise they work man...but I don't know man I see women behave very very differently around taller men. I agree though adapt or die. You gotta do what it takes to survive. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:40 AM |
| 0 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveHaving a high level of skill and quality in certain areas of life doesn't mean you are above average...many people have certain abilities that they are better than others in...you can be an average dude but be extremely good at socializing and i dont know good at designing cities or something. I think considering yourself as a catch is a modern sickness....every child is told they are special and now everyone is a unique unicorn? give me a break. I am ok with being average and working hard while… | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveThanks! | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:25 AM |
| 0 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveI think you can definitely become a psychopath | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractivetrue true. I also read that those "negative" traits are associated with higher levels of testosterone and higher probability of winning fights | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:49 PM |
| 0 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveim not sure about the definition of psychopaths but I think you refer more to narcissists or sociopaths. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:39 PM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveyeah man I am afraid it has gone to an extreme place though....because of how easy it is to get laid as a woman you have to be mr perfect...and no one really is but everyone is trying to be that....everyone is this dangerous , sophisticated guy? come on..majority of men are bums. and because they have that access they can sleep with those top top guys you know...so we are left with the scraps...the gross chicks the fat ones the single moms...its just gross and I will never be mr perfect...never.… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:37 PM |
| 0 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveno no narcissism is part of the human experience. if you are alive you have some level of narcissism in you...think if it as an rpg. if you have 80+ you would be considered a narcissist 30-79 would be considered around reasonable amounts, below 30 would put you in a lazy\nihilistic mindset which is a recipe for disaster. about me worrying about it also I am not so sure because once you start with over appreciating yourself it becomes addicting and hard to control...I was there so I know...it too… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:25 PM |
| 4 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveof course...I mentioned it before here but the toughest mfers are usually the kindest...that is because they choose to be that way and are more than capable of handling business when everything falls apart. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:19 PM |
| 0 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractivewdym? I think you are more likely to be a psychopath if you have oneitis...just look at will smith | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveno please don't leave me baby I love you! | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveI love you! omg you are so beautiful! did that work? | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractivewell in order to achieve some of the things you mentioned you have to have some belief that you are worth anything. That is some level of narcissism but its not too much..my fear is that it may take over eventually and ill become the douche I used to be....right now I am stuck in my nihilistic depression which is very unhealthy and unproductive. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveI mean liking yourself and loving yourself are 2 different things...I think being ok with yourself is also cool you know?....I think also in order to be free of modern bs you have to completely disconnect...no phone no social media and no office jobs...you know what I mean? its all extremely un-natural for us. Men are supposed to be physical most of the time and thinkers a small amount of our day but we spend majority of the day thinking and organizing folders...shit is dumb | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:39 PM |
| -2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveno I was nicer to another waitress but this one was kinda rude...she moved us from the sitting area and then didn't explain the cup sizes when I asked her she did a lazy gesture that didn't make sense and rushed me to order the one I wanted... | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 3 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveyeah you say that but....I think also our definition of emotionally vulnerable is different. You wouldn't want your man telling you about how his mom treated him badly when he was a kid...you would want a guy that tells you he is nervous before a gig but that is surface level emotion. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractivewomen do like bad boys but ok lol. I do agree with the last part of what you said I would add that women like brave, genuine men. The thing is that bad boys portray traits that seem to imitate the ones I mentioned...but it works for them | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveto answer your first question I am definitely the second option. I was the first but then it got a lot of people hurt. My family expects me to be selfless and take all of their emotional baggage...when I refuse everything falls apart. im barely going up to women but the few times I did cold approach I failed...I am at my best when I just hang around people and act like myself..not trying to impress anyone. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveyeah true. also in real life I am much more attractive to women than through dating apps...I think my text game is very weak....its easy to just write something and not think about it much but I think texting is actually the opposite...you need to select your words very carefully...more than real life since its not really a conversation... | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:12 PM |
| -4 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveof course its not. But I think that when you achieve power you become corrupt and then you become a piece of shit. its not an instant thing...its gradual you turn into a bad person. I have been there and back so I don't know what to want...I want pussy but I really don't want to become a piece of shit again because I know how destructive I can be to my loved ones. I feel like this is an impossible task. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveI think the nerdy couple example is usually the sort of people that were taught to repress their primal needs. they were brought up to believe that relationships are supposed to be a certain way but I can guarantee you that the guy would love to have a variety of women begging for him and the girl would love to submit to a dominant man. Usually this trap happens to more intelligent people because they are by nature more reclusive and avoidant...avoiding conflict gives more time to think...and th… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveplease give me a quick summery since I will probably not dive a full book | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 04:01 PM |
| -4 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractivebtw just wanted to share that yesterday I was at a restaurant and this waitress was being difficult and I kinda put her in her place and immediately I felt she was attracted (I didn't yell at her but she asks if she explained things well and I said "no you did a terrible job") sometimes it blows my mind that when you show aggression women just fold over like that...its so opposite from what I was told as a kid...insane. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 7 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveI see what you mean. So its a self worth thing maybe...if you know your value you will act in ways that are reflective of this. I think to believe that someone is "lucky" to be with you, you have to be a bit narcissistic. Which is a normal trait among human beings...narcissism is part of being a human being...it becomes a problem when its too much. I would say I think that if you believe you are a catch then you are not humble...especially if you are average looking, average wage etc...I don't t… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:54 PM |
| 0 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveI don't know I think just to get laid you have to become a hyper masculine ape. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveyeah man...its all about being a winner... by all means necessary. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:49 PM |
| 4 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractivelol jesus man. The thing is a strong man is not a domineering figure. A strong man is calm, collected, balanced and yes caring I don't think those contradict each other. But people seem to think that they do whenever you show any sign of openness and vulnerability. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:48 PM |
| -5 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveWell we are different then most animals because we have conciseness but still essentially its true. The thing is that society is extremely confusing. We are raised to think that being caring is a way to win a mate but its actually a way to drive them away. Plus society attempts to cancel any sort of masculinity but then lusts for the ones who act like alpha men. Confusing as hell | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:45 PM |
| 13 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveTrue. I agree 100%. I keep forgetting what you said here and I need to keep reminding myself that. People value a lot of those things because they are incapable of achieving their deepest desires. They are being nice as a necessity and not as a choice. And then they paint it as a virtue, they mask their cowardliness with moral superiority but they are actually super jealous. This is a big part of F. Niestche's philosophy and criticism against religion. Goes hand in hand with any moral superiorit… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 11 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveoh man the fight analogy is just complete nonsense. Some of the best and most ruthless people are extremely nice and caring. having a positive outlook on life isn't related to your ability to be ruthless when necessary. I am saying that women are attracted to the ones that are ruthless even when its not necessary and they discard the good caring people without even looking into their true character. I don't believe that being cruel all the time is a healthy way to live. It will get you instant g… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Don't put all your eggs in one basketExactly....and as sad as it sounds there is always porn or prostitution...But I would leave those options to a last last resort lol. Dudes need to learn also how to be by themselves and get comfortable with themselves. If you can't stand being alone for five minutes then why would anyone want to spend time with you. And of course you have to have some love for yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Don't put all your eggs in one basketFrom my experience there is no respect without maintaining some level of attraction they are intertwined. Because a man who commands respect is attractive. I would also add that in any sort of friendship with a woman there is something underneath...some level of attraction. If there is no attraction there is no respect, the male friend that isn't capable of maintaining attraction will usually be used....usually. A relationship should be two sided...but some dudes will sacrifice everything just t… | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Don't put all your eggs in one basketterrible mindset | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Don't put all your eggs in one basketbecause as a man or any sort of person you want to be respected. and you would want to be in relationships with people that respect you (friends, family, intimate relationships). No respect=no relationship. no one should be a door mat. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 09:57 PM |
| 2 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.yes this is true. You need to be the stable one cause women are chaotic by nature. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 08:56 AM |
| 5 | I noticed a lot of guys at clubs/bars would rather talk to other guysBecause they are terrified of women and they are also terrified of getting embarrassed in front of their friends.... | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 04:34 AM |
| 12 | I noticed a lot of guys at clubs/bars would rather talk to other guysits weird that you assume you would bounce from one girl to another...why is that? the same way you make a conversation with guys you will have a convo with a girl...just try to have fun and engage in interesting conversations... | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | can you call girls that aren't your girlfriend dear or babe?It depends but like the other guy said...don't think too much..if it comes naturally to you say it if not don't...some people talk like that...personally I don't say babe or dear but I am also not a playboy | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Do people go to bars alone? Male or femaleno thats not what I am saying. I am saying if you hit the club (or any place) with the attitude to connect with people you will find it easier to connect with people...and that is a positive agenda to carry even in the most unenjoyable circumstances | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Do people go to bars alone? Male or femaleI am actually considering hitting some bars myself...problem is I don't drink..but that could be a funny thing to do | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Do people go to bars alone? Male or femaleHaving fun isn't an agenda? I think if your mindset is focused on having fun you will find enjoyable activities besides sex... | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 12:00 PM |
| 4 | Whats your pickup line?well because no one is a masterpiece...everyone is flawed and it puts her on a pedestal. But also all pickup lines are kinda bad so its ok. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Whats your pickup line?lol thats so bad | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Multiple women have told me that they no longer want to see me anymore because they're worried things are getting too serious. What am I doing wrong?Maybe there are certain behaviours that YOU make that seem needy and attached...women usually don't like when the man is the one getting attached because its kinda their job to convince a difficult man into staying with them. But it could also be that the kind of women you chose to date are the emotionally unavailable (regardless of age)...a lot of folks here try to paint all women in one brush but that is not the reality... | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Multiple women have told me that they no longer want to see me anymore because they're worried things are getting too serious. What am I doing wrong?I tend to agree with this... | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Stop being scurrredThe solution to anxiety is action. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Stop being scurrredThis guy fucks I feel ready to conquer some land | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Turns out my looks were never the real issue…here is the thing that I struggle with and I think a lot of men struggle with. you have to bring up sex at some point, either touch talk whatever. Also you have to notice her tests and respond properly. If she is down to fuck she will drop some hints....you probably missed those hints or failed some tests because you were too focused on whatever topic you pretended to care about. You have to make a move at some point as well.. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Weird questionit would be better if you answered the question instead of questioning the validity of it. Plus I answered what you asked in the question already | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 02:41 AM |
| 3 | What’s your hobby?yeah I will! I went to boxing before covid started but then covid started...I have always had this paralyzing fear of physical conflict because I was bullied as a kid and never stood up to the bully. I am also not so big (5'8) so a lot of people feel like they can throw threats at me like its nothing. How tall are you if you don't mind me asking and also how did martial arts affect your life? | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 01:24 AM |
| 46 | “C’mon lets go pick up some condoms, i’ll drive”I would say that they won't be subtle about it IF you make them feel like its not a big deal to bring up...if you make them feel comfortable they will act like that. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 2 | What’s your hobby?! I wanted to learn for a long time but im scared lol what's the first couple of sessions like? | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | What’s your hobby?Recently got into chess and running. Highly recommend both. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you talk to women when you're not into Harry Potter, The Office, astrology, Marvel movies, anime, or video games, etc?Trust me I get you 100%! its not just women for me its difficult to find interesting conversations with people because everything seems so surface level...how many times can I talk about this bullshit topic that I don't care about... The answer is you gotta kinda pretend to give a fuck... | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?I agree with your idea but only if you guys are actually in a relationship you know what I mean? also if she ghosts its her way of communicating that she isn't interested. Its gross but its how many people act, especially in the modern smartphone era. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?ok but she ghosted you so clearly she didn't acknowledge your feelings...why wouldn't you do the same? plus it isn't like you guys were together and she was angry at something | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 02:31 AM |
| 0 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?yeah so pretty much you destroyed all dignity you had left after begging her to give you another chance...especially after she gave you poor treatment when she ghosted you. I guess I could learn from that | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 0 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?oof. Not sure its the same situation here but it sucks you got ghosted like that... | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?Ok. two questions how do you let go emotionally? by focussing on other things? on yourself? on your goals your passions etc? cause I am currently not focused on those so maybe that is another reason why I repel women now Do you have an example of what sort of text you would send to a girl who ghosted you? | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?bruh you didn't read we used to date. I don't have feelings for her tbh but I havent had sex in more than 2 years and last girl I dated was emotionally abusive so I think I give needy vibes to a lot of women...which makes sense why I am getting rejected so often. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:54 AM |
| 5 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?Probably the best way to go about it. There are millions of women out there | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?I like this. But a week seems a bit too little time no?how long would you recommend? Has that worked for you? Also, I think if I let her go then I wouldn't be interested in texting her again | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to respond to being ghosted?lol has anything turned out from her? | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 09:20 AM |
| 18 | Don’t give her the same energythen why use online dating apps? a woman that acts like that in real life will not get the same attention because word spreads around fast and negative energy is pretty noticeable. Online they have the advantage of being behind a screen and being relatively unknown reputation wise... | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 08:33 AM |
| 8 | Don’t give her the same energyit depends...sometimes you want to mirror behaviour, other times you want to dictate the vibe...life isn't a clear black or white | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Ideas on how to hit up an ex?Yeah thats a good idea...problem is I don't remember any of our dates lol I just remember we used to watch breaking bad in bed lol | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 10:17 PM |
| 5 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can givewhatever you tell yourself to feel more comfortable about life bro. Im telling you what I see. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 10:16 PM |
| 6 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can giveYes and they lose to a strong personality....so many ugly dudes bedding beautiful women....they are equally important. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Ideas on how to hit up an ex?swot? | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can giveim telling average men also need to be something close to amazing to get girls. Short men have it harder but average men (were talking 5'8-510) they need a lot to go their way as well bro... | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 07:12 AM |
| 5 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can giveor has a very strong personality...I don't get why everyone here are focused on looks so much.... | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 07:10 AM |
| 10 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can giveI agree. As a short guy you have it way harder. I am relatively short but I have a friend who is very short (like 5'5) and women are all over him. Because he is extremely dominant as a person. He "wins" every interaction he is in and even if he loses he somehow makes it appear as if he won. very manipulative and intelligent....he has an insane read on peoples intentions (the subtext of what they are saying) and knows exactly what to say to get the response he wants. He isn't anything of what you… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 07:08 AM |
| 2 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?Dating apps are not the place for anything in my opinion (unless you are super attractive). But if you want to give it a shot I would maybe go for the direct approach "not looking for anything serious" or "swipe left if you are looking for a relationship". But, if you are looking to hook up and have casual sex the way to achieve it (unless you are super attractive) is by "gaming" your way through things. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?First of all do you fully commit to that change? or give up after a couple of hurdles in the road? usually people say "im sick of it" go twice to the gym and dont continue going because some bs excuse. Second, I would say that change is mostly psychological...you gotta change how you interact with people how you talk how you view things etc that comes with experience and time...but you gotta get yourself out there and socialize... | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 3 | I am extremely resentful of how I was raisedI mean I agree with the message and considering my title you are addressing what I said so it makes sense. But I am saying that you can take full responsibility for your life and hold others accountable for treating you badly. I think a lot of children put themselves in a stockholm syndrom because they cannot handle the reality that they were mistreated to any extent...I don't feel like I am blaming anyone but maybe that is a defense mechanism? how do you avoid blaming others? when I take respon… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 05:18 AM |
| 5 | I am extremely resentful of how I was raisedI think claiming that two brothers were brought up the same way is such an absurd claim because parents treat siblings differently...sometimes they favor one and neglect the other...so for the untrained eye you would believe that they were brought up the same way but you have no idea really.... I agree that I have to take responsibility for my life regardless but I don't think that saying my parents are at partial fault for who I am is wrong to say...taking responsibility for my life is one thin… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 04:04 AM |
| 5 | I am extremely resentful of how I was raisedNot really. im just realistic and not making excuses for anything. You are as much a product of your environment as you are a product of yourself. Stop talking bullshit | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 03:56 AM |
| 5 | I am extremely resentful of how I was raisedI mean its not true...I do want and take responsibility but I can't lie and say that I was raised well...I was spoiled and that is one of the worst things you could do to a person. Taking responsibility and holding my caretakers accountable can co exist... | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 12:24 AM |
| 10 | I am extremely resentful of how I was raisedI knew that all along...my initial instincts were correct...but I was constantly told to ignore my instincts. I am thankful that I am waking up again though | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 5 | How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the cluboh yeah I would probably just put my hands on her hips and dance along....you could also acknowledge her behavior by saying something like "I like what you are doing" encouraging sexual behavior | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 7 | How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the clubMirror her behavior and be sexual as well...but it has to happen in the moment not after | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Emotionally unstable girlYes your concerns are valid. every person is different (at least i try to tell myself that), but when I dated a girl who was suffering mentally it was a horrible experience. Maybe the sex will be good but my recommendation is not to date her...just sex....but take into consideration that you might hurt her.. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1…..maybe she isn't your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | “Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off”well a couple of things. First, if you want to develop a healthy relationship with people and with yourself you gotta get off the internet....or reduce it as much as possible. dont look for answers here. its the wrong place, I dont even know why I am here...maybe im a coward... Second, if you don't open yourself to criticism then why ask? you said it yourself...you do a lot of negative self talk and that puts you down...you dont need anyones advice so stop looking for it. Third, regarding what y… | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laidabsolutely not. terrible advice | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Three weeks of seduction. Girls are way more direct than i am apparently.ok. this restored some hope lol I need to keep reminding myself that looks don't matter as much as I think | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Three weeks of seduction. Girls are way more direct than i am apparently.what do you look like? genuinely curious | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Dating App trick for seemingly low interest girlsalternatively you could not use dating apps and talk to women in real life. Saves a lot of the headache....Dealing with women is difficult enough don't add more to it... | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 10:41 PM |
| 8 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?exactly this | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedI agree with what you are saying to an extent. What I mean is that your sentence is true only if you put your focus on her. If you are focused on yourself and your goals she will notice that. You will not have to align to specific and ridiculous standards. Actually, you will be the one setting the tone and she will do the adjustments... | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:06 PM |
| 10 | Don't be this guy (RANT)When I was in the military I had this short friend (around 5'5), my guy had all the girls throwing themselves at him. Super charismatic and confident. Its all about confidence. When I initially came to NA I was very confident and pulled many girls but then I became depressed for stupid reasons like you mentioned...Insecurities are useless.... | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel resentful of how they were brought up to view sex?dude, 100% I have been unlearning bad habits about sex and confidence for around 5 years...its a journey... | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 01:10 AM |
| 2 | She doesn’t care that you’re “nice” lolWhat women want is someone who is brave. Morals don't play a factor...you just gotta put yourself out there. You can be an asshole but a brave one and women will throw themselves at you. You can be the most considerate person ever but extremely dominant | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:14 AM |
| -3 | Gym gameyep...gym is decent! I remember going to a cardio room in our dorms and almost every time a woman was there she would give me slight signs | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately afterCan't really tell what the reason is..anyone fuck this bitch...I was not able to finish many times and that was just due to nervs and ed nothing to do with how attractive the girl was... | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 03:02 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]lmao I don't know all of the "advice andys" here seem like inexperienced neckbeards....best thing to do is to copy some of the behaviour you see succeeding in real life | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]lmao genius | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Depends on the relationship also depends on the girl...I think if the relationship is still in early stages and the girl isn't secure about us I wouldn't do anything and wait for her to seek validation from me...usually my excuse is that I am not on social media much so I didn't see it but at that point she already wants me to see it and only then I give her slight validation...but if its like a confident woman than its a different story lol she wouldn't be posting much on social media anyway... | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Don't be tempted or fooled by cheap substitutes that allow modern society to rob you of the opportunity to form real connectionsfacts | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]good shit | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way to get back at a girl you initially had a shot at, but did not act on it for you own reasons?bruh so true | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Right Now I don't want a girlfriend but why do I feel the need to have one ?There are 2 needs here: Sex (primal) and sexual intimacy (love and belonging). The first one is more necessary but the second one is important in order to maximize your human experience and be content with life. You could bang a million women and not be content because you are not genuinely connecting with any of them...you are not being yourself and trying to appeal to their needs, wants and desires. That is why getting a girlfriend is more difficult...its because you need to actually be yourse… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Am I bad if I just want sex?This. bro its one of the most difficult things for me to do....and the funny part is that women can smell your intentions a miles away...might as well just be a man about it and say it. worst case you get a no. And there is nothing wrong with wanting sex. We live in a culture that automatically shames men for even trying to talk to women. If you lived in any latin america country you will experience the exact opposite. Women WANT you to talk and be upfront...they love it and that is how it shoul… | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Random appreciation post for Eastern European and Russian womenI wouldn't generalize there are great women from every culture. But NA women are kinda trash | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:09 AM |
| -2 | Went on 3 dates with a 10/10: My experience (so far)if beauty is subjective why women are trying to look a certain way?...why short guys get rejected way more? give me a break. I would also ask why younger women around the age I mentioned have way more attention than their older counterparts? | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 04:19 PM |
| -6 | Went on 3 dates with a 10/10: My experience (so far)I just want to put that out there: if she has fake boobs, hair extensions and is 32 she ain't a 10\10... a 10\10 for me, is a natural looking young woman...around 21 | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Depends. Sometimes relationships start off really weird and blossom beautifully...it all depends and I wish everything was so simple... | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 3 | First cold approach in my life: traded Instagrams with two girls in convenience storeIn college dorms I used to see tall guys with zero personality have girls throw themselves over them and giggle over every stupid thing they say, most insecure dudes out there just standing and speaking quietly...But, I agree with what you said generally speaking though | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 143 | First cold approach in my life: traded Instagrams with two girls in convenience storebruh i gotta know what you look like cause in my first cold approach i almost got the police called on me | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidtrue | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Is height really that important?It matters a decent amount. If you have ever been to any college\uni, you will see that tall guys have girls throwing themselves over them without being special personality wise.. I think people will give a lot of beautiful theories as to why it doesn't matter but the reality is that it does. Psychologically speaking, women are just more attracted to someone who is bigger than them and bigger than other men... that being said you can focus on things you can control. Like having a purpose in life… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 10:46 PM |
| 2 | if young men in US are having sex 3x less than they were a decade ago but female rate has stayed the same, how are we supposed to believe there’s any hope for us??All of the above. Porn, Social media and capitalism has destroyed our brains.... | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting cucked?Well you could have re-engaged with her but that is a bit dangerous... | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How to become more physically attractive?I would also add that try to think about girls...you could date a 10 with zero personality or a 6 with 10 personality and she would be much sexier and better in bed...usually attractive people don't put a lot into their personality because they don't need to | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How to become more physically attractive?I share many of the issues you have here (hairy and short) but I would ask you this. How do you behave? do you talk loudly and confidently? how do you feel about yourself? (besides the physical aspects) Something I try to tell myself is that yes I am not the most attractive physically, I am not a model, I don't have a great body or anything but fuck im sexy. And feeling sexy is much more important than looking sexy. Think about it this way: How many good looking guys you see out there with a per… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsI wouldn't say its bullshit but people definitely tend to obsess about those things. In my mind an alpha is more of a situational thing...some people are better socially, others are better organizers and some are better creatively...and each of them will take a leadership position in their respective areas of expertise. Society only focuses on physical dominance and social dominance...but guess what if someone in a group of people is having cardiac arrest in the doctor will be the leader even th… | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys agree that women in dating apps average 2-3 points lower in real life compared to their pics?2-3? more like 4 bro | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 04:37 AM |
| 3 | First time approach, got a number at my airport gate from an absolute babeoh the lucky ones :( well good stuff approaching her anyway but Im sure you will be pretty successful. Just try and leave the shorter girls for us short kings | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | First time approach, got a number at my airport gate from an absolute babeHow tall are you? (im insecure about my height lol) | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 1 | If you receive a compliment, don’t respond by downplaying it, or giving a compliment in returnI think its fair when they are sincere about it and the compliment holds ground...but sometimes people compliment and its obviously fake... | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 12:29 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]ooh I really want to learn Muay Thai | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Cooking, cleaning, exercise, music\art. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Its crazy how we generalized being a hoe as a good thing...I remember when no one wanted to date the hoes and just smash and dash... The giggle and the unnecessary details have a lot of gross disrespectful vibes to me. I would have cut her off | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidI don't think blaming women is correct...at the end of the day we build our society together so its both of our faults for creating those ridiculous standards...I agree with what you said at the end but I have to accept that I won't get laid for a while. regardless of who we blame what you said about "they love to get sold a dream" really hits me cause its true...you see women sleep with class d bullshit artist and meanwhile genuine Garry gets no action, the value is placed on people that fake b… | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 11:43 AM |
| 10 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidcause women don't want an average guy...that is the cold hard truth. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 11:36 AM |
| 18 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidthat is what im saying! but there is a problem here it seems that in order to attract women You have to either be extremely high value (top 20 percent) or fake being that extremely high value...Of course the most genuine way is to get yourself a good job be tall and confident...but not everyone has those things.. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?I humbly admit I was wrong | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 10:35 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This is good stuff! dating as an average guy is fucking brutal. There is little to no room for mistakes. I would say one of the main problems for me is taking the initiative sexually because I am afraid to come off as a rapist...but that fear leaves me extremely not confident physically...do you have any advice? I also want to add that I have a lot of resentment towards what a lot of us where taught that you should be "nice" and stuff like that when in reality the opposite is what get people lai… | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do?To me the conversation here is very "outwards"...you seemed to be very focused on how you are perceived. If you focus on how you feel and how to make yourself feel better about yourself with the main goal of improving yourself the rest will follow. Your "friend" can suck a dick, don't take advice from women...they just give you cryptic confusing hieroglyphics that need 5 mathematicians to solve. The women you are attracting are not really attractive because you don't consider yourself attractive… | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?don't worry about it numbers don't matter as much as you think. Attracting women can vary on a few things the main three I can think of are confidence, looks and purpose. Your looks are at their peak in your early to mid 20's but purpose wise most men have their purpose a bit later and confidence can be present at any age...that is just a matter of social experience | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 07:19 AM |
| 2 | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.I mean its all a matter of attitude...if you hang out with a group of friends you will be more likely to interact and potentially add more people into your social group | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 4 | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.i mean true | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 5 | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.yep 100% but, how do I get myself to be around women? just go to bars and stuff? | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with girls in collegeWork on your confidence. Stand out. don't copy the stereotype. LEAD. become your own man. and create a friend group that vibes with your world view. I think a lot of people tell you to try to fit in with the jocks or whatever. But if you want to get laid then the jocks have to talk about you...they need to mention your name somehow when you are not around...at the end of the day the jocks are probably not as smart as other dudes...so that is your forte...intelligence. Seek your purpose and work … | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with girls in collegethose 2,3 guys are confident...work on your confidence. ask those girls out be persistent and persuasive. Be assertive and ask them leading questions (ask for socials\number) then ask where they live tell ask them meet up and stuff... | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 11:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?haha thanks! yeah that makes sense I just wonder how many of those creeps were people that you met and talked to? understand that I met this girl and talked to her at a party and she asked me to dance with her...its not like we never spoke lol Best of luck to you in your own seduction adventures | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 07:00 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?listen my problem is not necessarily with his advice...its just the mannerisms seem off to me...also I wanted something that will help me make my way work and not enforce a specific type of approach. My philosophy is you can bust out game however you want to as long as you are confident it has a chance of working...I think the two guys here giving me advice were more like "no this is what works and thats it" like a science equation and I look at flirting as more of an art...plus I am looking to … | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 04:45 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?you lost me at the phrase "trust me" is this how people talk here? no i dont trust you or that other dating coach here. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:58 AM |
| -1 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?nah bro you cappin im gonna get her! plus why you talk about women as if they are crypto investments? | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?wait im a pussy fuck how do i do this? | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 08:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?ok now I have to try it to prove weird internet pick up artist wrong | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?I don't think your right but maybe im crazy...I think its ok to mess up and a girl that likes you will give you multiple chances. If I shoot my shot and she turns me down its fair no? | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 07:39 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?yeah that is what im afraid of...what if I hit her up with "hey im stalking you" to be self aware of my cringe behavior will that make it better? you know im kind of down to try adding her on ig just for the sake of it...if she thinks its weird than fuck her...but she is also right | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?no bro we talked in the party and established a solid connection already...I just want to invite her to hang out or something lol in the party she asked me to dance with her but I said no cause im a pussy | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being so seriousI feel the same and I think a lot of us feel the same way bro...covid and some personal tragedies have ruined my social skills...Im trying to climb back up but its going to take a while...trust the process and just gain some experience again... | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Should Paternity Fraud be a Felony?I think so...I also think it should be mandatory to have checking from birth. Its actually kind of weird that we don't have that implemented yet lol So many men raise children that are not their own (unknowingly). Or half brothers that think they belong to the same parent. This lie that the mother tells can hurt and eventually ruin a family... | /r/MensRights | 11/09/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about women who view all men as dangerous threats?Lol are they our rivals? | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about women who view all men as dangerous threats?I think it is an exaggeration of reality...the same claim could be said that "all women are whores" and maybe it is true deep down all men rape and all women are whores but that is in the most primitive of settings. Those agendas are being perpetrated to divide the population as a diversion tactic from the real horrors our leaders are doing | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Done with the excusesDude women that say that shit are just fat cows usually...they are resentful for being rejected by every average dude ever...the only guys they have left are weirdoes and creeps so they think all men are like that Please don't generalize women. Its just a the cows | /r/MensRights | 10/07/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Sorry if this is a duplicate, crossposting from a notification received this morning. One sided agenda.Also when I told my mom and grandma they were both extremely apathetic and invalidating of the whole experience... | /r/MensRights | 10/07/21 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Sorry if this is a duplicate, crossposting from a notification received this morning. One sided agenda.This really hurts me to hear...I 24 was forced upon by a girl 22 (not sexually but kissing and touching) while I was saying no repeatedly and telling her to get off me. When I explained my story to the school the woman in charge of investigating sided with the girl saying "she seems very apologetic"... fucking cunt | /r/MensRights | 10/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieAgain. This is if you are proven to be guilty. Thus making the accusation not as bad. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/21 07:30 PM |
| 3 | UK: Female student, 29, who said 'women have vaginas' and are 'not as strong as men' faces disciplinary action by university after fellow classmates complained about the 'offensive and discriminatory' commentslmao | /r/MensRights | 15/05/21 10:19 PM |
| 9 | I fear for this world now because it’s all “men bad women good,” end of discussion.true. The world is vilifying masculinity because of jealousy and fear. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 04:43 PM |
| -8 | Oh my god I accidentally went on the female dating strategy subreddit and what the hell??Both subreddits are sexist. This and them. I mostly encounter single mindedness in every subreddit possible. Honestly every subreddit is full of single minded sheep. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieKey word is all this CAN happen when someone is falsely accused. When someone is raped ALL of the shit that comes with it WILL happen. That is the difference. But in many cases when someone is falsely accused nothing much happens unless there is proper evidence. Actually when someone is raped in many situations they don't have the emotional ability to proof that it happened and no witnesses or cameras either. Like bud this is so wrong on so many levels. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieThe amount of support is not indicative of how bad a crime is. Rape is worse and falsely accused victims also don't get enough support | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieI am not disparaging the people who suffer from false accusations. That is why I say it is almost as bad as actual rape. But key word, almost. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a liewhat? you don't even make sense. I never said a false accuser is a victim. are you on drugs my guy? All I am saying is that those two are never on the same magnitude just because of the usual results that happen. False accusation can result in damages for the guy while rape always damages the woman (or at least half the time). | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieNice pivot bud you know exactly what I meant. When a dude gets falsely accused it takes A LOT more than you think to actually damage his livelyhood. You are just full of resentment. I can vouch from second hand experience. My roommate in college actually harassed a girl (I heard it) and when she complained the only thing that happened is that he got banned from college residence for two months and that is a case of something actually happening...no criminal charges or anything. I am still baffle… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 12:11 AM |
| -2 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieYou do realize that false accusation can result in no damage happening to the criminal? while rape almost always damages the victim? | /r/MensRights | 08/04/21 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieI guess first explain to me why do you think it is a lesser felony to force a woman to have sex with you vs her accusing you falsely? You think that a physical act is inferior to accusing someone of doing it? | /r/MensRights | 08/04/21 06:26 AM |
| -11 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieyou are 100% wrong. Its just how society treats them so far apart from each other and allows accusers to get away with shit that is the problem. I think if a rapist deserves life sentence in prison then a false accuser should get 15 years. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/21 03:01 AM |
| 4 | Woman falsely accusing him of rape, wins 1.5m - Gets sued for 2.6m after admitting it was all a lieFalse accusations are almost as bad as actual Rape. she she should get life in prison and get beat up by other women on a daily basis to see what it feels like. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Lord of all Lies. One if the oldest tales of toxic masculinity debunked. Boys stuck on a deserted island for over year do not descend into violence. In fact cooperation and organization saved them.Thats actually mind blowing to me... I think the activity of men is a result of their general environment and current leaders influences. A good healthy environment will result in a good outcome. A prison like environment will result in chaos..makes sense tbh | /r/MensRights | 06/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Was On Twitter Today And A Crazy Lady Said "No Men Should Be In Power At All". Is that Sexist Or Am I Crazy?100 percent sexist. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/21 04:43 AM |
| 5 | We live in a mans world apparentlyI mean it is a man's world but if she putting others down she deserves to be put down | /r/MensRights | 05/10/20 04:26 PM |
| 4 | A huge part of maturing as a man is learning to master your emotions. Here's my experience of how this worked out.dude. write a book | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/06/20 01:15 AM |
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