Self deception works

Electric_kundalini · 2022-05-25T09:46:59+00:00

Agreed.

I've always wondered why I get more attention from Women when I'm not working compared to when I am and it's all down to different mindsets and attitudes. When I'm not at work I feel really confident within myself, I feel like a snack. I'm nice and relaxed and happy. I have good vibes. At work I hate it there, I've had enough. I'm miserable and don't get enough sleep. I give off bad vibes.

Working_State_2521 · 2022-05-25T09:58:18+00:00

You attract who (you think) you are

xxshadow_001xx · 2022-05-25T17:27:08+00:00

Fake it til you make it. Simple as that. If you feel like the shit you will engage in actions that reaffirm that you are the shit which forms a self perpetuating cycle where your that identity becomes stronger and stronger.

There’s a battle of two wolves, one dark, one white. Who wins?

The one you feed.

Feed the image of you that is in the top 1% and that will get stronger and stronger and stronger.

Feed the you that is in the bottom 80% and that image of you will become stronger and stronger and stronger.

One word: momentum.

Momentum is hard to build initially. Think of a rocket breaking free of earths gravity, quitting smoking, losing weight, studying, etc…

You do it long enough, your momentum will act as a mental propulsion to keep you going. These are called habits, this is auto pilot - but you gotta work initially to get it to be an autopilot habit.

Anyways fake it till you make it works for the reasons I just described. The choice is now yours, which path will you choose?

BackFlashy2939 · 2022-05-25T13:25:06+00:00

Changing your mindset Basically. Not to get too religious or biblical, but there's a passage that says..."as a man thinks so shall he become." Also there's one that says..."greater for a man to conquer himself than a city."

Plokijuhygtfrdeswqwe · 2022-05-25T18:34:47+00:00

It does work... to make you seem utterly ridiculous to other people!

Stay firmly planted in reality, folks!

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-05-25T20:20:19+00:00

Ok so 5’5 Indian balding janitor just has to believe he’s the shit and will be fine right??!

asian_persuasion101 · 2022-05-25T22:45:10+00:00

Good advice. Just make sure you don’t act overly cocky, and express some humility. Nothing pushes girls away more than a guy who’s full of himself

Snakehead004 · 2022-05-25T12:52:19+00:00

Wtf?? Nonsense imo. Just improve yourself.. all this fake it is fine but if you don't actually do the work you won't see the results. It's just like the gym dude

vardarac · 2022-05-25T18:11:32+00:00

It works FOR YOU.

I am not capable of deceiving myself in this way.

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-05-25T18:55:33+00:00

I am a top 5, that's why i can't get chicks, they realize i'm too good for them😂😂

-Rixi · 2022-05-25T19:52:59+00:00

No need to deceive yourself if you are top 5%.

321gumby · 2022-05-25T09:30:31+00:00

Let's hope so

nbh1995 · 2022-05-25T21:37:50+00:00

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Archyblackcat · 2022-05-26T01:20:26+00:00

Easy Bro, get a good body, not super shredded but at least visible muscles that look like you lift .. make respectable money, and with that money buy trendy stylish clothes .. then boom 💥 you’re now in the top 10% in terms of overall attractiveness ... but without social skills being in the top 10% still won’t get you girls if you don’t approach.... you still gotta make friends and be social or else how are people gonna find out that you are in the top 10% if you’re nowhere to be seen in public ? Lol

Title	Self deception works
Author	nbh1995
Upvotes	105
Comments	60
Date	May 25, 2022 9:23 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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