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Keyword:too
/r/seduction26/05/22 12:56 AM
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It's basically the same difference, you think youre attractive so, naturally you are going to take the steps to become that way the best you can. If I am interpreting them wrong enlighten me
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:01 PM
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Changing your mindset Basically. Not to get too religious or biblical, but there's a passage that says..."as a man thinks so shall he become." Also there's one that says..."greater for a man to conquer himself than a city."
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:25 PM
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This means you're learning, and you will be soon good with women once you get back in the game. Trial and error bro
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:12 AM
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Lol I feel you
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:51 PM
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People don't know how to take jokes nowadays, too sensitive lol
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:52 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:52 PM
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There's always a sacrifice for anything you do
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:58 AM
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?
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:42 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 aye to each thier own
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:42 PM
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Seems like you need to ask yourself that question. This applies to anyone
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:57 PM
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I try lol
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:59 PM
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Just make your move, it's better to figure out instead of wondering
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:12 AM
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Focus on yourself and what truly makes you happy
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:33 AM
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You may never meet them again, but you may be robbing yourself of someone genuine. I'm not saying you're wrong for showing disinterest towards them, but at the same time ghosting them, especially after a conversation is something that reflects how you are as a person irl. I've been on both sides of the ball, and I've felt how it feels both ways, it's lowkey childish and at the same time less stressful. But my point is if there was an engaging conversation and then the other person just ups and g…
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:54 PM
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True but it's more polite to let somebody know especially if you engaged them in conversation. It kinda reflects on how you conversate irl to someone. It most likely shows how you can handle a situation that you may not feel interested in or stresses you out.
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:49 PM
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Communication is key, let her know what's going on, just like you are venting right now on the internet. If you keep her in the dark, you'll slip into the dark.
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:55 PM
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Fax
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:53 PM
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I think it's just immature imo
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:05 PM
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Ftfy?
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:05 PM
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Or maybe I don't wanna waste time and money going to clubs with girls who don't know what they want
/r/seduction18/04/22 01:51 AM
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🤣 I might be
/r/seduction18/04/22 01:51 AM
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Don't think of her as out of your league, they're ppl just like you
/r/seduction15/04/22 01:15 PM
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Yeah definitely look your best, but not just for women, look your best because it makes you feel and look good. People can understand and comprehend someone who respects themselves. As for apps the ones I use are BLK, FB dating, and Thursday dating app, POF isn't too bad but I don't really use it
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:02 PM
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He's playing games with you, he has another girl in mind
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:59 PM
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Lol you win bro
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:22 PM
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It's not I literally use the app, there's all types of races on there. It's predominantly black but I'm merely talking about the excellent preference choices. Makes things a whole lot less complicated than coming up with some mastermind bio
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:52 PM
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Shit, more power to you bro lol
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:19 PM
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Lol it's not dating it's, basically the follow ups. I meet girls online then go on dates with them and everything is swell. It's just the women I run into at certain clubs and bars are ig confused, maybe in a situationship, married, or just getting off that an attractive guy is talking to them.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:28 PM
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Fax bro, sometimes they get thier serotonin and DIP lol
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:26 PM
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No it wouldn't, just reread what I posted
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:08 PM
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Lmao I've dated a Hispanic female, and am talking to a black woman as of rn.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:51 PM
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Mhmm more or less, but there's nothing wrong with trying. But I digress this is mostly based off of my experience
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:50 AM
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Hmm maybe your right, it did kinda come off as a universal outlook, well I suppose what I should've said is if you are struggling in bars in clubs with women who don't know what they want, use OLD dating apps that will get you what you want. Sound better?
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:28 AM
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Lol I was just giving my experience, if it works for you great, but if it doesn't then try something else bro. Have a good one
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:07 AM
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Lol if you reread what u said about BLK its not just people of color on there, all types. But there is another app I'm giving a go called Thursday night dating as well. I'm just giving my experience.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:59 AM
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Depends but you know till you risk it
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:16 AM
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I feel you, not to be cocky, but I consider myself a high value man so when using apps I found there are very good looking women mostly on BLK and the preference setting is spot on.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:12 AM
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Fax
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:09 AM
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Lol if you read the parentheses it's not just black ppl on there
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:51 AM
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Try BLK if they have it over there, or Thursday night dating. But idk cause you're in another country. Might be time to relocate of its that bad. Or start going out more, like I said going to clubs and bars where I'm at the women are silly lol, or I have bad luck but OLD has been a Godsend 4 me
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:09 AM
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Happy cake day but uh you in San Diego? If you are then you must stay in Hillcrest lol
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:24 AM
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Yeah I'm just giving my experience
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:48 AM
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Hmm I might have to give it another go then lol, I just remembered it used to be bot heavy
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:42 AM
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Yeah I'm just giving you all my experience, but to each thier own
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:21 AM
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Preciate it
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:50 AM
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Trust me ik what you are talking about,(seasoned online dating user here)I've tried almost all of em, but double check the ratings bro they tell no lies. Yeah there's gonna be bots, that's just the negative of online, but there's soooooo many positives of the recent apps I've been using very trustworthy.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:49 AM
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Fuck yeah
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:47 AM
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I feel you, buy I guess we'll have to agree to disagree, I have no problem being social, I've stepped my game and elevated myself these past couple of months. I've seen the looks that women give me in public, and sadly most of them are married.(Bad luck I guess) but I'm in Cali and I think that's lowkey the norm out here.(San Diego to be exact) and I love taking risks, reminds me I'm alive, but these females out here are silly lol. So I picked up online dating again and have gotten way more succ…
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:47 AM
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Yeah it's way fucking easier bro, you know what you are getting
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:03 AM
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Yeah it's best to have like 1 or 2 consistent partners like on a weekend or weekday, that works with your schedule, let them thots be thots bro.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:23 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 no sir, just trynna help ppl, but if they wanna up vote...fine by me
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:48 PM
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Too much of one thing is bad for you
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:34 AM
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Women have no game, so it's usually up to us to make the move, which is lowkey trash. But I usually go for women that I want. Sometimes even if they talk to me first I respond, and I can clearly tell they are nervous, but I keep it friendly, and see what they do next...they just kinda cut the conversation off and do something else. It's kinda funny
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:17 PM
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I feel ya
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:32 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:22 PM
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Idk I've heard stuff about plenty of fish, a lot more bots, scams etc.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:17 PM
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Lol it doesn't, been using FB dating for a while now, and there is settings to where it doesn't show up
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:13 PM
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I suppose, but at the end of the day...all that connection stuff and emotions really shouldn't be that strong of we were to hit it off.
/r/seduction23/03/22 02:44 PM
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No strings attached
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:33 AM
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Of course, this was vice versad on me in the club, when this female told nsa, and I was like yeah. Got her number, but then I passed out cause I was too drunk lol
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:31 AM
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Noted
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:36 AM
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Noted
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:24 AM
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Lmao I got the message, basically from my viewpoint I saw it as not wasting her time or wasting mine. There are some women who do appreciate the straightforward approach, but that's few and far between. I just sortve took a gamble and lost. It's whatever tho
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:52 AM
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Nah it's all good lol
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:50 AM
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I suppose that was my foolish attempt at a conversation, but whatever lesson learned
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:35 AM
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Ahh I see
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:31 AM
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Lol obviously not at the exact same time lol
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:50 AM
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Not the case
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:41 PM
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Stop focusing on looking good for women, that's what it sounds like too me. Look good, socialize, take care of yourself, etc...for YOU. Because your friends at the end of the day are gonna do what they gotta do, so do you. It also seems like too me you are very close if you are trynna bag plenty of women. Just make sure you take care of yourself and not get destroyed/lost in the sauce.
/r/seduction17/03/22 03:41 AM
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Exactly, just keep it pushing
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:14 AM
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Basically keep doing what you're doing
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:40 PM
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Based
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:39 PM
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I mean you kinda have it figured out if that's what you like and the type of girls you go for. You just chat them up, and be flirty with them while studying, and if they flirt with you back it's all good. Might not get much studying done tho lol
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:03 PM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction13/03/22 01:30 PM
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You must be in the military lol
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:35 AM
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Work on yourself first, but also you don't need to meet girls at bars or clubs, you can meet them at cafes , activities, other events or whatever.
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:30 AM
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First you gotta gage if she's actually into you, like what are your conversations about. Does she seem interested whenever yall talk about other things besides from what you're supposed to talk about a t your job. Second if it's all good on that then move on to like relationship topics or just stuff you both enjoy. While doing that make subtle compliments, like I like your hair today or your nails look good, or you smell amazing, while also just doing a casual touch. Third if she's not reeling a…
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:04 PM
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If she's making eye contact when you touch, and suggest or set a slightly sexual tone. Fucking send it vro
/r/seduction11/03/22 11:44 AM
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This guy gets it
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:17 PM
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Doesn't have to be a club, it can be anywhere
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:31 PM
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It sordve screws your view point on women. You might view them as more as sex objects, than actual human beings. Another thing is you are getting a release/pleasure already instead of getting the real deal and working for it. So it cuts out the desire, sometimes this is nice, but it will hinder your approach game, and make you lack.
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:16 AM
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Lowkey disrespectful, but if she's loyal, it shouldn't be a problem
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:25 AM
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Just do it nike
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:52 AM
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Precisely, whose else fault is it?
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:45 PM
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Not a joke bro
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:05 AM
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Lmao depends on the stripper, if you're going to a trashy strip club?...yeah. But I've been too some decent ones and the quality of the women...sheesh. You can just tell that they ain't letting most guys tap, less they got money or very attractive
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:41 AM
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Bold asf
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:51 AM
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Honestly just do what makes you happy, find hobbies, interests and activities that you like. Focus on yourself first, and not too much on the ladies, they will always be there. Just don't bite too hard if they are baiting you, acknowledge it and save it for later if your interested, just not too late.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:48 AM
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Never said it was good
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:39 AM
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Also if you find time pick up new hobbies
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:47 AM
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Cafes, hookah lounges, kinda cringe but try a dating app, make sure to take good photos. This one is a wild card, but a strip club, very rarely this works, I really don't recommend it tho.
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:47 AM
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You have to be straight up honest, not a dick, but honest. You were intrigued by the pictures she shown, but she catfished you. You're going to hurt yourself more than her tbh. Just let her know how you honestly feel about the situation. I'm pretty sure she knows that she doesn't look like the pics she sent you anyways. It's her fault tbh, just don't be a dick about it.
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:13 AM
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Probably the best move
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:09 AM
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"Better for a man to conquer himself than a city " The bible Take a good look at yourself, dive in, it might suck but remember no one is perfect in this world. Everybody needs to improve and evolve. Look at successful people, they can't stay stagnant, they have to keep going because, that's just who they are.
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:44 AM
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You will never know till you risk it
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:15 PM
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Best to have other things that peak your interest during your non texting or just in-between the conversation in general
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:41 PM
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Bro that's what I'm trynna figure out
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:18 AM
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