Was I too straightforward?

TwoTomatoMe · 2022-03-23T03:50:12+00:00

I don’t get why so many of you feel like you have to tell every girl you’re just trying to get laid! Do you guys think that actually works if you’re a normal guy? News flash, you’re probably not a famous rapper, rock star, athlete, or just some irresistible man women just want to sleep with. I dated many different women and had plenty of one night stands. Most of them were just 1-3 dates of going out and having sex. And 4 out of 5 first dates resulted in me getting laid. You have to learn how to meet women and talk to them! Then you have to learn when to make a move. It takes practice, but you can do it. Never at any point did I mislead them or tell them “i just wanna fuck”. I got laid very often with many different women because I was just went on dates and showed them a fun time. If they ever asked me what I wanted I’d answer with “I’m looking to date. I’m looking to meet people. If I find someone I want to be with, then great. If I just meet someone and go on one date or more, then that’s great too.” You all can’t propose sex to some girl before she’s even got to know you because she doesn’t want to sleep with some strange dopey horny newbie she just met. I mean, you CAN but don’t expect it to actually work often for you.

BackFlashy2939 · 2022-03-23T00:30:52+00:00

Yeah, a little too strong bro. It makes you sound like you're just trying to get laid. But you had her in the first half.

Significant-Bus-9362 · 2022-03-23T10:37:03+00:00

Women have an anti-slut mechanism inbuilt. They want to fuck around but at the same time don't want to look easy to others. By asking her directly, you've triggered her anti-slut defense.

juju_brad · 2022-03-23T00:47:51+00:00

Yes. What you have to understand about women is that they want to do the same thing as you, but they have to feel like it happened "naturally" or in the moment. What I mean is they can want to have sex with you, but if you talk about it beforehand she'll feel differently.

No shit there I was, I'm with my main and she tells me about her friend who got mad at a guy because he said he just wants sex and no relationship. To my earlier point, she said she wanted the exact same thing but got mad because the guy actually SAID IT. It sounds ridiculous but I promise you this is just their nature.

incognito3107 · 2022-03-23T06:47:38+00:00

Yes, you seem a bit like you want to just use her body to get pleasure without even getting to know her, make some connection or emotions. Which is not that bad in itself, but by making it obvious it can be a real turnoff.

Czekraft · 2022-03-23T04:36:15+00:00

Yeah, you came right out the gate. Some women like a little romance and tension.

HotCard1588 · 2022-03-23T07:04:57+00:00

No, either your straight up and she has the same intentions or your just fucking with someone’s feelings that doesn’t feel the same. If she’s down she’ll be down, don’t be afraid to be straight up with what you want, lord knows nowadays girls are straight up with their interests these days. And of course your just trying to get laid, some girls are too you just have to connect with the right. Unless you don’t want to mess with someone’s feelings be upfront with your intentions unless you’re just manipulating them to what you want from them

Ed_95 · 2022-03-23T05:30:33+00:00

If she really knows what she wants, is perfect, otherwise is not. I'd try to hang out, know her, show trust, and then you'd what she is into.

Title	Was I too straightforward?
Author	BackFlashy2939
Upvotes	12
Comments	30
Date	March 23, 2022 12:27 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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