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Fundamentals smind893/r/seduction16/03/25 11:27 AM
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Inner Game smind893/r/seduction20/03/25 02:27 AM
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Lol You can use all the word salad you like, but your attempt at advice with "in shape" isnthe same as "jacked'. It would so hurt your feelings if you could see the 3 beautiful women I was with in the past week alone lol My last gf last year is the kind of woman tou leave creepy comments of "would" on her TikTok. I thank you for the free laughs.
/r/seduction23/07/26 04:30 PM
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Lol Um, no. It's simpleton "advice". This idea that being "jacked" is what keeps someone from dating someone is HS locker room talk. When you grow up, you'll understand life isn't a bad Hollywood teen comedy , but grown women have a variety of tastes for their potential partner and not just being "jacked" Go re watch the Jersey Shore lol
/r/seduction23/07/26 04:20 PM
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Lol Just take your L and never try me again
/r/seduction23/07/26 04:14 PM
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Lmao I could def stand to lose 30 lbs and do great with very beautiful women, but being fat doesn't mean you're a "slob". Lol "Super dumb". Your interpersonal skills are immaculate! Please let me know when you start your online course.
/r/seduction23/07/26 03:44 PM
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Again wirh the "in shape" bs Lol Women are not like men, or men who think like little boys. They don't care about your body unless they're deeply into fitness or 14. Enough with this misinformation 🙄
/r/seduction23/07/26 02:26 PM
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Yes, a few times But everyone's response is the right ine which is to move on. It worked for me cause I always looked at these ladies as friends before anything. So they stayed in my life and they knew how I felt but also would see me move on with other ladies. The lack of neediness and social media showing me having fun would get them interested in hanging out with me. Ultimately, we would end up hooking up. Now, if this is a "cold approach" then let it go. If it's someone you won't be around m…
/r/seduction20/07/26 06:19 PM
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Lmao Everyone is wrong except you You go and use your lines from a bad 80s teen movie and the rest of us will speak like adults to each other.
/r/seduction10/07/26 12:31 PM
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I agree he should chat her up, but that kind of humor can only be made if you have an idea of her sense of humor / level of comfort talking with random men in public. This isn't a rom com in Netflix, this is real life. That's clearly a "line" and she's not going to "giggle" cause she's not 12 and neither is OP.
/r/seduction09/07/26 10:33 PM
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Ew No, don't do this lol
/r/seduction09/07/26 10:27 PM
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I do Cause im a grown up I invited someone out when they could stay home so I can't then ask them to pay Grow up
/r/seduction09/07/26 02:01 AM
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Eh Gonna be that guy..... Ever heard of a summer fling? Vacation sex? Same thing! Planes are scary and women crave comfort. Holding hands and day dreamy chatter is a great way to navigate your anxieties, and you helped her. Also, you're a grown man! Were you really planning your future life together after a few hours of hand holding? Stay in the present , always! Today's a new day and you have a cool story of a girl who, I assume is attractive after.all your blubbering, and revel in it as it doe…
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:43 AM
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Sorry to be dark, but ya gotta read/hear this. You gor your nut off , now go off and find the next. Life goes on, it has for her, so don't stop yours
/r/seduction19/06/26 06:26 PM
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Tbh women sexual experiences are mid af They won't be too shocked and if they like ya , will give a round 2 Do better round 2
/r/seduction17/06/26 01:23 AM
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Excuse yourself?
/r/seduction09/06/26 04:54 PM
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Ugh Another self serving generalization with zero facts. There are plenty of chunky monkeys, including me, who do grewt with beautiful women. Same way there's plenty of "healthy" guys who can't get any cheeks from a girl.
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:00 PM
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Ugh The generic responses If you want to get laid then go to a bar of a vibe you like, sports, hard drinking, live music etc. Talk with everyone especially the regulars, tip the bartenders well and then wait till after 11 as those who are looking to party are staying past 11 Wrap it up, don't cheap out on the hotel and don't fall in love Have fun
/r/seduction25/05/26 07:28 AM
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I pull some really fine women including today where ill be hanging with a former Playboy web model who does ring card work. Looks wise, if I'm not a fat lazy oaf, I'm at best a 7...7.5? I make an ok living but im not splurging on gifts daily or paying anyone's bills. I don't have a car I live in a small apartment. And im in NYC So my.method? You're gonna hate it lol I'm unapologetically myself. That's it. My passions are music (I'm in a band), writing, poker among other things. The Playboy girl …
/r/seduction23/05/26 02:35 PM
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Sheesh Cliche city in these comments Bruh lol It's easy and isn't. Lol What I mean is you have to find your comfort zone and then be a king there. Whatever you're passionate about is what will bring out the besr energy in you which is always attractive. Idk what it is, music, gym, museums? You could sit in a bar and wait for last call and probably link with a sloppy mess but this is barely a tier above a prostitute. Be out there and find where you fit in and be natural. You'll be fine. Push pull…
/r/seduction17/05/26 01:32 AM
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If it's more than 6 months and kids/mortgage isn't involved, let it go! If it's less than 6 months without obligatory connections then it has to be very casual. Be cordial. "Good morning", "Hey, hope I'm not interrupting anything, wanted to say hi" etc. Don't just blurt out "saw this bird in a tree that I remembered you like", or some obvious desperate attempt for her attention. Expect nothing from her that benefits you. She could be engaged, married, have a kid, have a D in her mouth as you tex…
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:25 AM
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Women are insecure Sheesh How long will it take this sub to get this? Every beautiful woman i know is with a tool cause they were the ones to approach them Approach women without fear or expectations and it'll work out
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:46 AM
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Compliement her in a way where she hasn't heard it before and makes her feel like something she hasn't felt in a long time.
/r/seduction12/04/26 01:22 AM
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The energy I'm cool with but as a musician in NYC , I know some very beautiful women that love "oversized t shirt and jeans" look and would roll their eyes at your moisturizer bukake daily rituals. Don't write in absolutes, shit is lame.
/r/seduction30/03/26 01:40 AM
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LIKE if you wish this was the ROAST ME sub after seeing OP profile 🙃
/r/seduction04/03/26 05:53 AM
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Perfect ! I'll even share when I was 19 i dated a hot Puerto Rican girl at work and when she dumped me , I made ir obvious I was all butt hurt. Lol. They ended up transferring her!!!! She was so mad. Oops
/r/seduction28/02/26 07:29 PM
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Inviting her to your place was a full L You only do that when there's been sexual flirting aka "pssh you couldn't handle this" type banter. She was probably waiting for you to adjust the meeting point. Also remember while some may say you're being an "alpha" or something stupid like that, dude, this is work. Everyone will know, or at least get the story of you being kinda creepy Tread lightly wirh work hook ups
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:48 PM
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Just go with the flow and look at it in the present only which is dating. Fun Future plans and shit are time and energy vampire Just relax
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:23 PM
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People who cheat aren't exactly held in the highest regard, yet you seem so determined to be the lowest of low so you can get "laid'. Lol Grow up
/r/seduction24/02/26 01:28 PM
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Looks matter.if you carry yourself like looks matter. Simply put, walk and talk with self.love and you'll get love back from most women Yes, there are women who only like men 6' or taller or who love only Latinos or men making 250k or more and to that I say, there's 140 million women in the USA 21+ To be mad or reduce yourself to a person who gives up cause a tiny percentage of women may not.choose you due to their subjective tastes is ridiculous Always be clean hygiene wise, clothes clean and w…
/r/seduction23/02/26 06:21 PM
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Lol Are you 13?
/r/seduction22/02/26 05:17 AM
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Let me make this easier than a lot of these other replies , respectfully, as they are a bit too existential for a hooking up sub: You're at a bar/club to relax , not solve all your problems in one night. 23 .. Virgin ... Never good with women... Etc Just enjoy the setting. Good energy will keep away the panic I promise.
/r/seduction22/02/26 05:07 AM
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Check out my new flat screen TV!
/r/seduction19/02/26 03:09 AM
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Lol I knew OP was gonna just crash out in the comments.
/r/seduction19/02/26 03:01 AM
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Don't get drunk Don't have expectations expect to make it the best night you can. Energy supersedes EVERYTHING Cool outfit, gym body, PUA games etc, none of it works if your energy is unappealing
/r/seduction13/02/26 09:28 PM
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Haven't seen her for 3 days? Switched gyms
/r/seduction08/02/26 02:44 AM
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It's that simple.
/r/seduction28/01/26 09:23 PM
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You understand wr all don't look alike right, Billy? People assume I'm Filipino or middle Eastern all the time. Thanks for playing 🙄
/r/seduction28/01/26 12:34 PM
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Wtf? You set these limits on yourself bud I'm Latino. Put on about 10 lbs with this cold weather And last week got a number from a gorgeous white girl. Im 5 11 but nonetheless I don't have any limits other than the ones I put on myself.
/r/seduction28/01/26 05:50 AM
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Lol Everyone doesn't have the same experience or results as you. It'll be ok. You'll understand when you grow up
/r/seduction27/01/26 11:09 PM
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You blew it You equating making out , liquored up on a date , ina public setting as a natural transition to asking out loud to be alone privately for more is such a tremendous fail. Don't take the advice from the goofs who will down votes this as they too are failing. All you had to do was go with the vibes. Perhaps sex was in the cards, but what WAS for sure was a woman who told you upfront she likes deep connections and you spoke to her like a college corny frat boy moron. Lesson learned. PS I…
/r/seduction27/01/26 06:26 PM
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Simple Asks about your schedule in a sneaky way You're in
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:27 AM
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I've lost a good amount of weight but im still a chunky monkey and right now I have an unbelievably hot gf. We fight and whatever lol, but she's an amazing person and literally stunning in the face with an amazing body. Tiny waist, great butt , boobs etc. You don't need "low body fat" lol wtf. This isn't a Mr Universe contest. This is interaction with another human. Sure, some ladies only prefer men with Brad Pitt Fight Club bodies or huge muscles, 6 feet blah blah but that's not every woman lol…
/r/seduction11/10/25 12:30 AM
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A few. 1 at a party 2 at the club. Just find mutual interests. Not that big a deal Tho I will say do NOT go to the strip club looking for this. It just happens.
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:58 AM
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This leads to a different conversation tbh. Your friend , respectfully as possible, is a moronic loser. All women are not like her the same way all men are not like the tool she's crying for. Reread, what you wrote about her and which seems.more absurd, that you respect that guy or that you'd want a woman who has no self respect and moral compass ? A lot of guys here, and this used to be me, tbh They are spending time trying to learn how to meet women, but the truth is you need to recognize and …
/r/seduction20/08/25 10:49 PM
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Same My guess is focus. What else we got going? Other than chasing the cat. Figure her out. What makes her laugh, feel happy, being there to hear her vent and also being kinda messy they wanna fix us. Life is a trip lol
/r/seduction18/08/25 09:52 PM
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You're not every woman, and not every man wants you. Peace
/r/seduction15/08/25 02:10 AM
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What in the shitty Billie Ellish lyrics is this fucking response ?
/r/seduction13/08/25 01:10 PM
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Having a woman , or 2, improves your confidence and energy with women.
/r/seduction13/08/25 02:38 AM
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Yes But the trick is to say it in a sly, almost childlike teasing way so you can play it off as you were kidding, she can play along and /or makes it just silly and fun.
/r/seduction13/08/25 02:20 AM
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Bad take Nice guys in this game get.hurt csusr they feel the good energy they put out till ne reciprocated. Not because they expect something because they believe it's the ethical thing to do, but tbis is not an ethical game.
/r/seduction12/08/25 12:44 PM
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The problem is YOU think he's average, which means you think you're better than him . Meanwhile, he's not thinking about you. he's thinking about women. And talking to them. Learning what works and doesn't. Not on reddit rating mens looks.
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:04 AM
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Ya got this
/r/seduction27/07/25 03:58 AM
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Sorry, but a lot of this advice is too full of ego. Consider this Women aren't on dating apps cause they dont have options , but because they want new options. As a new option, you can't live with entitlement. Yes, in a perfect world, you two matching should give you a good start, or her following up with a question should lead to a natural rapport where you end up hanging out. This is not a perfect world, so take your small victories and focus on others until the next step comes up. Next time a…
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:38 AM
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It's cause I saw you looking at me was a lame move. First, you assumed and were wrong. Second, a simple "sorry", smile and moving on is the grown-up way to reply Third, idc how many "I banged a lot of women in my gym", replies BS stories you get, today's culture is a landmine of saying the wrong thing and getting banned. Just go to the gym for its whole purpose and work out. 🙄
/r/seduction26/07/25 04:28 AM
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Yea sorry man but you sound like a total tool the way you describe your social media and yourself. Some inner work may be the key
/r/seduction24/07/25 08:56 AM
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Never take criticism or compliments from women who speak in online comment jargon in the real world seriously. "As fuck" "af"? Lol. Who cares.
/r/seduction13/07/25 03:09 PM
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Let's start with you being ""tipsy"" You probably weren't as smooth as you thought. 2nd When you approach, you must be nearly zen like in that you have no expectations. This way, you won't hurt yourself emotionally because of a standard you had created. 3rd Most importantly... Don't approach a woman with a "she's a mid" attitude. It'll reek more than your bad stinky drunk breath. The problem is you, bud.
/r/seduction19/06/25 12:01 PM
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Start with a high five. Great way to gauge her energy. Weak high five....gonna be a long night....is she worth it? Bit of a power behind the slap high five with a slight smile /some eye contact....she's interested in a fun night. Maybe simply platonic, but ya got a partner, and that's a great start. Strong High five, clamps your fingers with hers, holds your hand with strong eye contact and big goofy smile. You're in like Flynn, kid.
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:31 AM
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Lol @ the comments. There's what a woman may find attractive and what they expect in a man. If a woman has always loved men with a swimmers lean body like Phelps, then there's nothing you can do. But if a woman is simply attracted to a certain type of body, it simply means that fella gets to jump to the front of the line to talk to her. Doesn't mean he's going to SEDUCE her which is what this fucking sub is about !!!! Stop with the inane "look/dress/smell/drive car to win any woman" BS!!!! If yo…
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:16 AM
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I'm in NYC, maybe women are tougher here, but plenty would say that line and not all meant to be safe. If anything, it's pretty rude. Why say that if you DONT want interaction with someone??? Here, women shit test you all the time. Just to duck with you, boredom or to.mxi it up. Or they're jerks Lol.
/r/seduction16/06/25 05:17 AM
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I'm gonna make a post about a stripper i fucked this last past week, but basically an easy indicator is inviting her somewhere that involves just you two. Shows she trusts you, wants to be with you and is looking forward to being alone
/r/seduction12/06/25 08:48 PM
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Your replies are total ass but I did appreciate your initial point that she is technically keeping the convo going. I'm a sarcastic douche so I usually reply with something like: "It's good to see someone's day is as boring as mine". I've done this, and overall, it works. You show you're not chicken shit to give her attitude back. You can gauge her humor by her response, aka laughter or not. You shut her down before she can shut you down if she isn't interested. All of this is a power play, who …
/r/seduction11/06/25 07:59 PM
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Yes And No. First , depends on your relationship with this person. If it's a coworker, classmate. Someone who's around you a lot, then yes, you can overcome that challenge. Second, it's pretty easy. Be you. I've given advice and had a few of you DM asking for followup cause it works. Be you unapologetically. Now.....you have to be a good person who's aware of their hygiene, dress etc. By dress, I mean clean unwrinkled clothing. Don't change how you dress or whatever. Third, don't wait around for…
/r/seduction27/05/25 06:34 PM
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Just being myself.
/r/seduction25/05/25 04:02 AM
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🙄 This shit again Just be yourself out loud caisr steers 9s 10s who are into niche things that would love that youre into something they can relate to Yes you should have a few bucks for interoperability future date, be in somewhat decent shape (not Pitt from Fight Club its ok lol) and have good hygiene , job and your own place which is clean and you'll be fine. There are hot "9s 10s" women into cooking, movies, stoicism, cosplay, concerts , death metal etc and have no one to relate with on thes…
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:41 PM
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Just talk to them about anything other than their looks or your horny needs. Tease them about something you're better at. Easiest is your arm muscles vs hers. You poke hers and ask "where's the bicep?" Then challenge her to an arm wrestling contest and nearly lose. Joke around "wtf? You on roids? Sure you're not a man?" Just fun, jokes, slight negging (tho I hate that lingo) & get them to open up about whatever. Their fears or passion is an easy one. Listen and offer no advice. None of that "you…
/r/seduction17/05/25 08:47 PM
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I changed. Went from hopeless romantic to dating strippers. Life is great. They're broken and im not here to fix them just enjoy their reckless abandon mentality towards life. Hopeless romantic in their times was a lot more damaging
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:03 AM
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Nah He's already categorizing a person and how their life should be because they look like Jack Black or whatever. Says a lot about him and his state of life.
/r/seduction21/04/25 03:00 PM
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Because a guy like you is looking at his phone for tips on how to approach a gorgeous woman then telling yourself "next time I'm doing it" while the "unattractive dudes" already went up said hi and hangout then left with them. I'm sure you're a handsome guy who does everything right blah blah, but calling others unattractive says a lot about you and why you can't close.
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:58 PM
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Lol Come on "Max out potential looks" What does that even mean? What or whom is the measuring stick ? Of course hygiene and clean clothes is a must, but after that its all subjective.
/r/seduction30/03/25 03:41 AM
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Last night met a hot bartender who loves how long my hair currently is. Haven't been there in a while, and she noticed me. Made her laugh, flirted, was bold, and she told me she assumed I was "shy" cause I'm quiet in my group of friends. The point is she liked me for me. Other women mentioned they're not a fan of my longer hair and that's cool. I'm going to be me and look to attract the women who do like it. It's that simple. PS she loves poker like me, plays in tournaments, and we had a great c…
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:07 AM
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It's the only way. Making one girls a priority leaves you with a coin flip Why would you allow your ego , time and heart to survive on a coin flip
/r/seduction23/03/25 03:14 PM
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Lol the flakey type text ended it for you. You didn't perform in bed because of drinks is one thing but that text suggests you have no penis.
/r/seduction21/03/25 06:51 AM
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Of all the things to work on, vanity shouldn't be first unless everything else is fine. When is everything else fine ?
/r/seduction20/03/25 04:36 AM
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Agreed There's a lot of "advice" that's just a repeat of trends. Don't get me wrong if going with the girl who follows every TikTok trend is your aim, then by all means, go for it. Ha
/r/seduction20/03/25 02:44 AM
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Any book , speaker, and even psychologist will tell you that women know within a few minutes if they're interested in you. So as you approach you're already on the clock so why be full of fear? As long as you're kind, smell nice and confident , it'll go fine. That's my point. Overall, there's not much you can do other than be you, and that part is actually pretty easy.
/r/seduction18/03/25 09:27 PM
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That's the point, if she's interested it will work out. If not then you'll know and move on. But again, IF she's someone interested then you have nothing to fear.
/r/seduction16/03/25 11:35 PM
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Lol Not wvery woman wanted to be pounded out Smh Grow up
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:42 AM
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Spare us your cheap.promos
/r/seduction22/02/25 02:12 AM
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Easy answer. Look at the men in your age range who are most popular with women or have a "classic style" & copy paste. Ill give you an easy one, David Beckham Lots of black, slim cuts, classic jeans/tee/nice jscket/boots combos
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:35 AM
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I'm sorry did you call Express "exotic"?
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:34 AM
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100% yes but 100% you need to pursue interests particularly niche interests. Right now I'm seeing a woman who has been festured on the Playboy website, models for NYFW and has over 11k followers and how did "needs to lose a good 25 lbs, slouchy, mumbling" me get her? Met her at a party, discussed poker and book clubs. I play poker she wanted to learn I'm in a book club she wants to start one. That's it. We chatted, we joked, we compared notes in our interests and it developed to now I'm seeing h…
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:12 PM
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This is a tried question but I get why it's asked every so often. To answer this , it's simple overall. Eye contact and a smile. It'll do more than any negging, openers, escalation, games, outlandish hats etc will EVER do. Ever
/r/seduction12/01/25 04:21 AM
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Easy All their confidence is a fraud.....like yours.
/r/seduction04/12/24 03:35 PM
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Women at work is a terrible idea. Don't.
/r/seduction24/11/24 05:31 PM
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Give most women credit for at least having experience on picking up cues on who's genuine and who's just trying to fuck. Sheesh
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:59 AM
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Sounds like you're around teen girls and strippers sex workers mainly Sorry to hear it.
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:56 AM
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When did the unicorn pass by to take you home ?
/r/seduction15/11/24 05:32 PM
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Talking to a woman who has to talk to you because of work is not a "cold approach" You just took an everyday event and tried to finagle a number. With a lame joke. Where she laughed to get a commission. And failed. You think strippers love you too?
/r/seduction15/11/24 12:05 PM
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Well it's died that day, but like Lazarus you can rise and follow up. "BTW, I was so caught up listening to you about your book, inforgot to mention I'm reading (insert book you've read in the past) currently!" She'll either ask about the book or jsit smile and move on. Neither are bad or good reactions. Just follow the flow. She'll file it away. But be confident. Smile, good posture, fun energy. Be the fun person you believe she wants in life. Not another creep "negging" her with some dumb game…
/r/seduction13/11/24 01:18 PM
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Because you're now just another weirdo stuck on a shallow and unoriginal topic for them. But hey, mediocrity is rampant and celebrated nowadays. They got streamers as special guests at events and show, so go on with your mid self.
/r/seduction13/11/24 01:15 PM
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Easy....regarding women: Talk about anything othee than their physical beauty. Their earrings, tattoo, piercing, jewelery, shoes, phone cover, book they're holding, headphones they're wearing on and on. They will greatly appreciate someone jsut chatting them up. YES , there are some who will be a snob elitist or aloof or shy or make it awkward or even all of the above and is that someone you'd want as a partner , even a hook up? Keep it simple and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction13/11/24 05:01 AM
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Sorry, but this won't work unless she's been eyeing you for quite a while over a period of days. In the gym, si.oly comment on what she's working on with light humor For ex: "Slow down! The Olympics aren't for 4 years !" Or "OK, you're so killing it and making us all look bad here!" Lines like these are light and fun and more importantly, give you a chance to see what her vibe is. If she smiles and puts her headphones back on then you smile back and let it cook till next time. If she ignores you…
/r/seduction31/10/24 05:05 PM
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I'm going to share a lame tip that works nonetheless Stand/walk so she can see you via her peripherals and do a double take then blurt out a compliment about anything about her other than body/face. It works cause it comes off as natural and you can immediately apologize and laugh which makes her laugh, in most cases. Ex: ((( double take ))) "Are those (name of sneaker brand))?! That's a crazy color! Sorry (laugh), caught me off guard" Comment her hair color or jewelery, something she put though…
/r/seduction24/10/24 02:55 AM
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This post needs to end in the words "banned"
/r/seduction24/10/24 02:40 AM
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Unless you live in the Ozarks, there's no reason to harp on a woman who isn't giving you back the energy you're giving out.
/r/seduction11/09/24 02:00 AM
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It's easy tbh Speak in a lower voice, calm, confident and some disconnected. Mystery. In an era of oversharing, have some mystique is appealing and will get you laid. Keep in mind. Some women are chatter boxes, and if that's the case, so be it. But for those who are used to a man constantly trying to talk them into bed, you'll stuck out Play it cool
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:23 AM
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I hope you don't think the odds of meeting an amazing person is worse than the lottery. If so, seek professional help.
/r/seduction25/08/24 04:43 AM
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Confidence will get you anywhere. However, younger than 30s will require some $$$$
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:41 AM
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TOFTT
/r/seduction14/08/24 08:01 PM
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Wtf did I just read ?
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:59 PM
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At worst you check out a class and make friends with some ladies who....((((( drum roll )))))).....can introduce you to OTHER ladies. It always irks me that no one brings up that you can meet women thru other women. Their guards down cause of the intro too. Sheesh PS i dont think that "mom" wants you , just your business.
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:54 PM
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Lol We're all guilty tbh But we gotta pass the info along to the others.
/r/seduction28/06/24 10:03 AM
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Ugh The"ignore" thing is UNTIL they peak interest then you stop. Would you ignore your paycheck? All that work then burn it all down ???
/r/seduction28/06/24 02:07 AM
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Too many variables. Could be the look he gives them, the timing, what he says, a scent ? My friend looked like Collin Farrel when we were kids and ladies went to him first. Half of them hung out with me afterwards and one day I asked a girl why , she said "your friend is cute till he opened his mouth " There ya go
/r/seduction19/06/24 06:41 PM
78

Right ? Enough speculation Let us hear why women are to blame for every issue those who can't close have. Lol
/r/seduction19/06/24 05:00 PM
289

Here's a simple way for us to help you out: Record yourself via your phone with the microphone app and let us hear 3 or 4 approaches from all these women eye fucking you daily and we can let you know why you can't close.
/r/seduction19/06/24 04:50 PM
1

My pleasure. Simply your life, it's really yo to you.
/r/seduction19/06/24 01:19 AM
1

Just a lame take overall. You think everyone is fishing in the same pond as you for some asinine reason. .....or would even want to. We aren't. And we don't.
/r/seduction19/06/24 01:01 AM
1

Yes he's white. I mentioned Utah so um....yea, she's white lol
/r/seduction11/06/24 11:05 PM
1

5'9" ish.... Lol He has Travis Barker vibes. Tatted Thin Piercings Never did too great with the ladies. Greet guy tho. Happy for him
/r/seduction11/06/24 11:04 PM
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2 things Dude has money Mutual interests....particularly unique ones. My friend is average looking st best and chatted a girl on IG about their love of star wars. She's hot ad! They're now married in Utah. Lol. True story. Personally, I dated a stripper for a few months because of our love of poker. I'm not ugly but she's way hotter than me lol Mutal interests , boys. Embrace them
/r/seduction11/06/24 04:49 PM
2

Or as a man, sex was enough. There's a whole world out there , bud.
/r/seduction31/05/24 06:44 PM
4

I'll share a true story from 2 years ago to answer this. Was at a pool party, lots of fine women walking around in bikinis and such. I seen this one woman walk in with a baggy shirt , bucket hat , hoop earrings, very 90s retro vibe. I looked at her and said "ok, I'm feeling the TLC vibes! The earrings are crazy. Great outfit.!" She smiled big , thanked me and we chatted.for awhile. I could see ahe had a nice face and she was cool. The party went for 3 days, I slept over. Next day I stumble to th…
/r/seduction30/05/24 03:08 PM
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I can't even tell you how easy talking to women became when i complimented them on something other than beauty!!! At the gym, which everyone is fearful to approach, you Crack a joke about what she's doing. She finishes a set: "Whoa, leave some shine for the rest of us! You're killing it! Making us all look bad!!" She's gonna laugh and you laugh as well and then keep it moving. She may or may not continue it, but either way you treated her like a gym member, not a hotttie in yoga pants or sports …
/r/seduction30/05/24 06:18 AM
1

Hey weirdo Train is sketchy for women as is then you get on the train, def stared at her , got off het stop, sped up to talk to her and muttered some nonsense. Lucky you weren't maced.
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:15 AM
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Life goes on
/r/seduction09/05/24 08:29 PM
1

I find it interesting that so many here are telling you that she's not interested in you , speaking in absolutes! If you're playing it cool, that's fine. There is nothing wrong with developing a friendship into something. So ignore these joykills...... .......HOWEVER, what's your end game ??? If you want more than just meet-ups, then I'll tell you a simple trick that will give you a chance to enjoy life and yet perhaps take this to the next level.... .....ask her "to join you" to an event you wa…
/r/seduction05/05/24 09:50 AM
1

I've dated strippers I've dated women feom Bosnia I've dated women lawyers Greatest city in the world.
/r/seduction30/04/24 02:11 AM
1

Lol You can continue to pontificate about how you're better than everyone with your cliche attempts at cleverness, but it's not going to work. However, as I said previously, it is entertaining. You're hilarious, though not as you intended.
/r/seduction18/04/24 04:59 AM
1

Your goals are those of a 14 year old. Jacked Millionaire You're stuck on the idea of things you need to be a better person but in the context of some Bruce Wayne type comic book reading mindset. Not every beautiful woman needs a man to be a rich guy with 16" biceps. My current lady is a 10, a model, a bottle girl in Manhattan clubs who is in tech too! She comes from a rich family. Me, I'm in solid shape, but could lose a good 25 lbs. I make a good living, but I'm not renting yachts. She dated a…
/r/seduction18/04/24 04:10 AM
1

If this is a comedy bit, then this is hilarious. If this is your daily mindset, then this is the best entertainment of the year.
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:29 AM
3

You clearly don't know women cause women are not this forward in most cases.
/r/seduction01/09/23 08:27 PM
12

Buying someone their love is not a part of seduction. She said she'd love to go the fest, but not with anyone and definitely not with you.
/r/seduction02/08/23 05:03 AM
1

OP is right! If you don't have your shit together like he does then you're fucked!!! He's hung around hundreds of dudes being a wingman and researcher of social habits of dudes. Women only want a man that has his shit together cause all women have their shit together! You better be a grad student cause if not then you better have your shit together! TLDR: The OP has shit together with 100s of dudes as a wingman!
/r/seduction19/07/23 05:13 AM
12

Sounds like you're staring at her now and saying dumb shit Be the dude you were that won her over
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:17 PM
2

I've been with some beautiful ladies, physically, intellectually and I'm grateful. But, mannnnnnnnn, I've been rejected A LOT!! LOL & not cause I run up to 100 girls a day. I find that theory weird. Tbh, I chalk my failures up to 3 things They weren't looking/into me/have someone. Sometimes it just isn't meant to be & all the "game" in the world won't help. It's ok I took too long to follow up/close. Yea I know you read the whole "push/pull" thing on here & it works, but you're not the only one …
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:46 PM
1

Eh I do agree that I'd rather meet ladies the old fashioned way, in person randomly outside. However, I know great beautiful ladies who depend on apps due to anxiety issues that keep them from opening up when approached outside. But the few times I tried online dating, prompted by a friend, every woman I chatted with was......different. 🤢
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:04 AM
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Lol What stupid advice is this? Is the OP 12? Does the OP only watch porn? Is Jersey Shore where the OP thinks we all live? There are women who would only want a six pack abs man or get crazy when they see a man with a six pack, but it's not a guarantee. Just plain stupidity
/r/seduction27/03/22 07:13 AM
2

Will sound nuts But I enjoy reading at a bar with an backyard opening! Relax. Drink. Sun. People always come up and say hi. It's nice.
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:54 AM
0

Has a bf
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:52 AM
1

Hmmm Hesitate to change. Cause when I do change or try something new, it works out always. But admittedly, I Hesitate more than I'd like to.
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:20 PM
1

She's a nice looking lady. I wouldn't turn someone down based on anything superficial.
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:16 PM
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Nah Not thinking about it You just asked lol And it was good , not great. But she had a lovely face and excellent body. Life goes on. Its cool
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:06 PM
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Dude Why do you keep saying she wanted to be sexually desired? Lol Are you trolling st this point? WE DRIFTED APART When people drift apart, especially hot women which she was, there's always some goof waiting for their moment so when we broke up, she went with some fat goof from her school. I don't care as I too had someone very hot waiting. She was a friend but immediately changed when I became single. I would love the 2012-2013 version of her back. But it's 2022 and whomever she is now would …
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:47 PM
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Private in regards to her family issues , sure. Even anonymously, that should be respected. Weak minded cause she was always willing to go with what people said thus why she would get depressed quick. I taught her that you can't fly and crash with every good and bad moment from friends , family , teachers , bosses etc. "Open" relationship? Dude? Where would you even get this from? Lol
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:36 PM
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Medical issues? What are you talking about? Lol I never said anything about that. She was bullied by her family. Also She's not stubborn , she's weak minded. Always has been I'm all for sharing snd whatnot but you've made a lot of baseless assumptions here. Lol She was not "pitied" & our sex life was great. She chased me down to get back together!!! I wrote that part, bruh!!! I've never chased a woman in my life. Lol In the end, she was and is a weak minded person. I know I could get her back, e…
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:30 PM
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No prob, bud. My ex had zero support in life. Her mom, dad and sis always shitted on her. I encouraged her in her degree, getting work and just everyday love. We had a good run, mind you, but then she changed when she met some stupid coworker ladies who got her thinking very negative. Negative = "you need to date more. There's more out there. You're too young for a serious relationship", etc. Ugly stoner bitches who couldn't get a man. Anyway, eventually we drifted apart. She asked for a break, …
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:16 PM
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I don't have any problems tbh. Ok, my 1 problem is I'm tired of the game. After my last relationship I tore thru a nice batch of ladies but I felt empty so I stopped. I don't trust relationships anymore. However, I enjoy reading people's progress and sometimes offering tips. Honestly meeting women is not hard, just approaching them in a conformable way is all you need to do. Women either don't get approached much or it's some weird , rude jerks that come at them.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:29 PM
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Honestly they all have bots now Sux Years ago with an ex gf we met a ridiculously hot girl for a 3some on a site called Local Hookupz Idk if it still exists but there it's blatant as can be just to hook up! PS Never had the 3some , my ex said she was way too hot lol Wish I remembered her name.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:20 PM
1

Again. Go to POF
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:16 PM
2

No one is on a public dating forum like Facebook to hook up That shit shows up on your friend and family feed! Go to Plenty of Fish for hookups like a normal person !
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:11 PM
4

This is the sub about bagging chicks right?
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:09 PM
0

What's creepy is GOING to the gas station to pick up women. Or try to. All these guys going out to ty to get a woman are creeps. Going out and looking to meet people is different.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:55 AM
1

Lol Stfu You write like the goofs speak on those bitter men podcasts.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:27 AM
0

Never play house with a hook up. You're a grown up. Time to know better.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:22 AM
2

You did great. Never write next time You're not available tomorrow cause there is no tomorrow.
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:37 PM
2

Ever hear of Stoicism? Look into it to help with your confidence and frame of mind. For example: Is your approach and energy "please give me a chance"? How about changing it to "You need someone and I'm that person so get me while you can." The attitude is what you attract, not what you think or deep down believe to be true. Good luck bud
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:27 PM
1

Only you know what limits the wanna go to. Sunday works too but maybe earlier like 5 ish? Good luck & now you know for next time.
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:04 PM
1

Yup Like I wrote, bud, time is short. Flip it on her with an invite , not a typical let's hang thing. "I'm getting dinner and a drinks out later tonight at ____ , join me if you like. I'll be heading out around 8 (or whatever time you like idk)." Now you're showing you're busy, living your life and it gives her an option as all people are the same tbh, BORED. Also, that you don't care either way. You'll be out anyway. Choose a place known to be fun or great food. If you know her fave food, like …
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:46 PM
2

Sweet. Go with zero expectations and think of it at best a booty call. Stick to the person you were that she liked before. None of this stupid "negging", you already got her number and she's willing to hang. Remember tho, go for the close. There is no tomorrow. Good luck, bud. And you're welcome cause life with no regrets is the best.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:32 PM
2

Let me over share with you I have a lady friend, she's a 9, who I messed with in 2017. Haven't seen her since We chat via IG DMs all these years Last month she broke up with her drug dealer goof bf. She gave me her #, calls me randomly, texts me twice to hang at night. Both times I was at a girl's home so I couldn't. Now she's back with the goof. That quick it changed. It is what it is. Don't hesitate.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:01 PM
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I know people will say to not be available & play it cool etc. This isn't that. She chose you at this moment. Literally could change her mind the next hour. Sunday??? Smh You're not paying attention. Good luck
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:57 PM
1

Women have options. Many options. If she reaches out to you that means she's out of options and chose you. Like a bomb ready to explode, you have seconds to Crack the code or let it blow up in your face. Never hesitate. Enjoy it for what it is. Try to close as most likely this is your only shot anyway You're welcome
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:47 PM
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/r/seduction27/02/22 12:04 PM
1

Punch your cousin in the face.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:00 AM
2

With women who you had some fun with but didn't close, I find it's better to say/text something along the lines of: "I'll be getting dinner/movie/whatever (close to her) in about an hour. Join me if you like, I'll send an UBER/pick you up." This works for me cause I'm showing that I'm out, like to see her, but I'll be out nonetheless and leaving it to her. In most cases, women are sitting home bored & once the options of stare at their phone/tv/wall bum them out, they remember the cool guy they …
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:11 AM
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Funny helps cause it shows an array of great traits for a partner. Humor, wit, confidence, well spoken, can make people comfortable, making her genuinely smile, bring joy to her without offers of gifts/the 1493th compliment on her looks. The only danger of being "funny" is that you never let her feel like you're interested. So slow it down at some point, Chappelle and build chemistry.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:36 AM
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It is essential that you develop confidence and social skills. ~ The gym guarantees nothing and while I agree it adds confidence, it doesn't add social skills nor do people who do not work out have issues meeting and getting women. Yes, beautiful women. Perhaps take your own advice and read the whole quote I reacted to and then try to comprehend my retort. You condescending ignoramus.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:27 AM
2

The gym doesn't give you any of the things they suggested. You think a guy who can Squat 360 automatically has social skills?? Amazing.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:12 AM
1

It's all mental. I've gained 35 lbs during the pandemic and still bagged some beauties I met via s friends weekly poker game. On the other hand, when I was in my best shape, I was shy and just worked at a studio alone and pathetic.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:07 AM
0

Get in the gym and get in shape? Are you 17?
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:59 AM
1

Talk about how you wish more women were like our mom.
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:30 AM
1

Yea Be the 483930th guy to talk about her looks. You'll stand out.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:18 PM
4

You should have rubbed your vagina on her vagina.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:16 PM
7

I hope you didn't think she was going to be more than a girl to fool around with!! Also, women put themselves in a position they want to be in. If a woman bring up sex during a date, especially a first date then they want something with you sexually. Maybe not sex on the first date, but no lady, or person in general, is bring up sex to someone they find unattractive unless they're mentally unstable.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:26 AM
0

1000% there is A girl who only does it cause she feels like she has to. Minimal effort, sometimes complains, stops and starts. All frustration. A girl who can't get it right. All teeth. A girl who thinks she's great with exaggerated sucking noises, lame dirty talk and yet does less sucking than acting. P.S The worst blow jobs I've ever had were Ecuadorian women The best Puerto Rican women. They love it.
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:28 AM
1

Simple Stop playing house. Sleeping over, cuddling till you fall asleep. You don't do that early in unless you want a serious connection that develops into a serious relationship. Be a man. Fuck her and leave. Or cuddle and tell her she's the one and commit.
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:55 PM
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The funny thing is, unless you're a hermit, there'd women already there to cold approach. As others have commented, just the local places you go to. Market, building where you work/go to school, etc. It's really easy tbh, but it takes 2 things. Willing to try Not letting rejection feel so personal. Good luck bud
/r/seduction24/12/21 01:05 PM
1

I met a sexy customer at my job in 2017, kept in touch via IG for all these years. She moved to Va (I'm in NYC) & when she was in NYC visiting a friend, I told her about a lady friend who sings in a cover band, this year!!! She showed up cause she too is a singer so she was into going. We had drinks, got food, messed around, she had to head back cause she had an early bus & we talk now and then for a link up next year. Always keep a lady around whether they don't respond or break a date or whate…
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:18 PM
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The thing I'll add to what everyone wrote (food, drinks,, tv), & always works for me; be blunt. "Come sit closer to me" Or "Let me join you & get by you" A lady will say everything she needs to in response with her body language, facial expression and words when you say these things. Be respectful, read the room & adapt. In most cases, if a lady is with you at your place, especially later in the evening, she's given you the signal she's comfortable with you. However, gotta man up and use the lin…
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:57 AM
1

Lol I respect the reply. Just don't want ya too stressed, bud. Be safe.
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:00 AM
2

Do the opposite of the advice on here. Talk his ear off. When he tries to "neg" you, go into a 5 minute explanation of how you agree about (whatever he insulted you about) & how your mom has the same issue and you cry about it with her and then how you tell your friends and they cry about it too1 cause they have it. Go on and on. He'll have no magic trick to stop this and run. Lol Video this if you can for us. Thanks.
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:49 AM
2

Feel like you need to be more present. You're harping on the failures of the past that are long gone and the dread of a future that hasn't happened. I respect your pov and have felt frustrated at this level about other areas of my life. However, it adds nothing to your life excepted wasted seconds and stress on the brain , heart and other organs. Take a breath, go for a walk, take up shadow boxing or if need be, save up a few bucks, Google "AMP" in your area and get your nut off. Then get back i…
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:30 AM
1

Go outside
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:36 AM
5

I agree to a certain extent. When you tell the lady your feelings, it has to be smooth and cool. Not "I have plans for us" , "I thought you were the one", "I'm in love!". Just smooth like "I really feel we have something cool and want to see more of you. Spend time doing stuff together." For me, in hindsight, I made it too much about me. There was no "us" , "we" or "together" in my approach. A lady wants to feel like she's the focus and is getting invited to a partnership. Not "be my woman", or …
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:35 AM
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"That's cool. As long as you know how I feel. You're a cool lady so let's definitely keep the friendship" Worked every time for me. Ended up with most of them as I notice women are emotional so they get spooked with self doubt and not sold on someone yet. But when you show you're cool and not gonna cry or insult her or never speak to her then they see you as a confident man and they know where you stand.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:55 AM
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That's a baseless assumption of him and a ridiculous assumption and cliche that clothes is all you need to get a fine lady. How many stories of "I saw his outfit and knew he was the one I'm fucking/marrying" have you ever heard ? Grow up.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:44 AM
0

Lol Nice clothes and the gym is the answer to all ? What's your favorite club on the Jersey Shore?
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:26 AM
2

First things first. You're short and it's not a real challenge so don't speak ever again in a negative way about it. Thenonlymperson who cares is you. If your attitude is bad, no amount of money will help and you'll end up with a gold digger. Just meet different people, go to classes in the gym, smile, relax. Everyone has things they think is holding them back or something they need to be appealing. It's untrue. Be your best self. All these stupid lines & so on are just fancy ways of saying "hel…
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:15 PM
0

You know where she works so share where you work cause Shows you're a grown up with a job They get a chance to make a quick assessment of you and thus their interest. There's gonna be a different reaction to " I work at a law firm" vs "I'm an understudy for a street mime". lessen the creep factor of knowing where she works Opens up a chance for her to ask you/talk about your field of work. This would easily get you to ask her number. Worked for me! My situation was different as it was a dinner w…
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:11 PM
6

"Liquid courage"
/r/seduction23/07/21 12:38 AM
3

Fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:11 AM
1

I use the lean in method. Lean in to her and whisper something to make her laugh. Depends on her sense of humor so I can't share a joke. But once you've established that she's comfortable with you up close, take it from there. All of this is simply building comfortable that's it!!! "Asking for a kiss" can be a bit awkward imo, but works for some. I'm more of building up to the kiss, lean in and whisper or compliment her perfume and she may or may not tell you to smell her neck , rest your head o…
/r/seduction31/05/21 10:14 AM
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Easiest way is to become cool with lady coworkers, neighbors etc so you csm.meet.other singles and get into a scene. Whatever it is, doesn't matter. Just need to be around people and an easy way is with an introduction.
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:24 AM
4

Fraud Pandering to the men who never had daddies in their loves and/or a college education. How would an old man know what young women need to do to improve their lives? Just silly.
/r/seduction11/05/21 01:21 AM
3

You're gonna laugh but an electric toothbrush changed the game. Lol Ok I'm laughing too,but it's true. My posture, a routine for my face skin care, 64 oz of water a day and a hair care routine as well.
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:06 AM
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I promise I can help you with this cause I had the same problem and it no longer exists for me. It's about your hand placement and simply escalating it while the conversation/chemistry progresses. You do need to read the fucking room, lol Start with the classic hand on shoulder/light punch on upper arm. She'll likely do it back and/or smile. If she frowns, back off, but keep up the great talk. If she did smile then proceed to the tricep/elbow area , but now include compliments in the conversatio…
/r/seduction09/05/21 05:23 AM
3

Just social events of friends. My friend has a nice house and hosts poker games. I hang out, lady friends of his gf shows up, I stroll by them when I make a drink and boom, new ladies in my life. Granted with Covid, I'm blessed to have this scenario, but in general just go out among friends/family. Even if a lady you meet is married, taken etc, she has friends and family who may be single and if you make a good impression then you're on your way. Good luck
/r/seduction06/05/21 11:36 AM
3

Replaying it in your head isn't gonna change a thing Been there, buddy. World is getting close to normalcy. The amount of ladies in the world.......you'll find her.
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:27 AM
4

Everything isn't meant to be and I know this is obvious and you know this. So.....you two weren't meant to be. It's cool. Onto the next 💪🏼
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:24 AM
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Valid. Tho let's consider that women know that men are about their ego and in today's world , the quickest way to inflate our egos is via "likes", comments, etc. There's plenty of accounts and pictures she has on her TL and zooms by. Don't sell yourself short, at least I would never.
/r/seduction15/03/21 04:41 AM
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