I've noticed a plethora of posts regarding looks and I have to add to this ongoing conversation!

First, looks don't matter because a lot of what people are suggesting are trends, some new and some tired.

Going to the gym, fade haircut and someone wrote about clothes for a European look (?)or something.

Trends come and go.

By the time you've invested your money and time to keep up, that trend is tired. Right now wide leg pants are popular...OK and?

Are you really going to run out and buy wide leg pants for any reason other than you enjoying the look?

So no, looks do not matter , it's all some marketing ploy to get you to buy junk you don't need. Grow your hair out, don't worry about facial hair, stand confidently no matter what the scale says and just be the best you.

However, looks do matter too.

In this case, it's about what makes you comfortable and being well kept.

In all these posts I notice a lack of variety about the men looking for fun with a lady or a relationship.

What if you're into goth ladies? What if you live in the down south part of the U.S.? And so on.

So whatever your interests are, dress to that style and feel good in your fits. But pleaseeeeeee, also keep it neat, fresh and clean.

Unless they're distressed clothes, no holes. Colors that are faded, need to go. You should never walk out your home with stains or proof that you have a dog or cat on you.

So clothes don't matter as you are an individual and dressing like someone following trends is boring and will only get you with boring people.

Clothes do matter because you want to feel good about yourself and fit comfortably with whatever scene you're into is about.

Nose ring, suits, sneakers, cowboy boot and so on, wear what you're into proudly and that energy will attract the best out there.

Good luck and stop over thinking.