So after asking around and meeting countless guys trying to flirt with women (and even a bunch who called themselves "PUAs" ...) I kinda realized one thing:

People with some knowledge of "seduction" are literally the weirdest.

Somehow, I'd have a more interesting talk with a random guy sitting at a table at the bar than with someone learning "social dynamics".

I've seen a lot of weird things:

  • The guy who approaches 50 women per day but has super greasy hair, smells weird and never lifted a weight in his life
  • The guy who starts fighting in group chats about "how to seduce girls" but can't hold a normal conversation in real life if it's not about dating techniques
  • That dude who refuses to talk to women outside of Tinder but who also "hates to take photos of himself"

Yo I even met a dude who posts dick pics on Reddit and DMs every single girl who comments on it "because they must be DTF bro you just have to make them chase".

Yeah, whatever floats your boat man.

And that would be alright if those guys had better results than random dudes at the club.

But they don't.

The first Chad who comes by will blow those guys out of the water.

And I think I know why: everyone is looking for a shortcut to not do the work.

The random club Chad doesn't know about seduction group chats or whatever. So his shortcut is learning through randomly approaching girls and going to the gym.

But this actually works way better than any other weird gimmick like the examples above.

In a sense, ignorance is bliss.

On that matter, I made a video about the actual important things to do to kickstart your dating life and unlearn all the weird online dating advice.

Bottom line is this :

- If you look for flashy shortcuts to becoming more sociable, you're probably missing the boring but important things.

- 95% of internet dating advice is either irrelevant to your specific current situation or complete garbage that will poison your brain. Maybe even this post is complete garbage. That's how bad internet dating advice is.

- If something is uncomfortable or tough to do consistently, but successful people are doing it still, you can be sure that you will get results by doing it (think about going to the gym for example).

80% of my biggest realizations about dating came from real people that showed me things in the real world, or from real-life experiences and MY OWN THINKING. Believe in yourself and do the hard work.