I think it's extra important to learn how to be more charismatic as a man.

So here are my notes on the topic :-)

In short, it gets you more women, and it gets them to like you more.

While you can meet and date as a shy introverted dude, having the ability to "switch on" and be more charismatic when needed will make you stand out so much, especially when you're competing among other men.

  1. WOMEN WILL LOOK AT YOU If you are the center of attention, it means more eyes on you. And more eyes on you means more women who might just have a crush on guys like you to notice you.

In the long run, it means you will have to do less to meet more women, because by being seen and heard more (even when you're not talking to them specifically) you give them a chance to experience your personality, and be attracted to you.

  1. IT BRINGS YOUR ATTRACTIVE SELF OUT Hard to know how you can lead interactions and share fun if you keep to yourself. The more you take space and get seen, the more women can experience you. Be the elephant in the room. This is totally something that you can do without being obnoxious by the way.

By taking more action, being louder, being bolder, getting more people curious or excited about what you say and make happen, you will have women experience a wider range of your personality. And this generates a ton of trust and attraction.

  1. IT PUSHES YOU INTO ACTION When you start expressing yourself with confidence and assertiveness, some women will hate it, while some others will love it.

Point is: you're not invisible anymore. Remember that not being seen might as well mean that you're dead. If you filter your words because you're walking on eggshells, trying not to offend and trying to say the exact thing that will please women, it is manipulative.

And girls pickup on that very fast. If you unfilter your speech and speak up, it pushes you right into action, and that's where women will get attracted to you.

Here's a video that explains exactly the 3 things that you want to focus on to become more charismatic.