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| 1 | Can somebody explain this?Women tend to ghost you if they think you're boring, dangerous or want something from them. To have a woman engage and message you back, you have to create an aura of safety and be able to make her laugh. If she feels safe with you and if you're able to make her laugh, she will always message you back. However, if you act unpredictable, moody, demanding and generally seem dangerous, she will ghost you. Likewise if you're boring, like a passive-aggressive "nice guy". | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 05:17 AM |
| 0 | I’m outgoing and social – but when it comes to physicality, I freezeIt seems like from what you described that you're uncomfortable in your body. I would suggest that you might consider taking an acting or dance class so that you can better understand and read other people's body language. You can still be polite and gentlemanly whilst knowing when to break the touch barrier. However, it appears that you're always in your head and anxious/overthinking things and that ends up showing up in your physical actions. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 05:07 AM |
| 0 | I wish I could date a guy like you, but not you | Reality checkActing like a drama queen will not make a girl desire you in these types of scenarios. Most will get bored and leave. “You know, i think you are my favorite person… but wait i just remembered you said you don’t like (soemthing you like). We are done!” If a guy said this to me even in a teasing way, I would think there's something wrong with him. This is what I would think: "Does he think he's being funny?" Some women prefer witty banter and intellectual stimulation, I gather you're not that type… | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 04:59 AM |
| 0 | I wish I could date a guy like you, but not you | Reality checkThe reason why toxic guys might seem to have more success is because they tend to create more emotional ups and downs, which keeps women emotionally stimulated and engaged. One moment, he’s distant or unpredictable, and the next, he’s intensely present or affectionate. One day he seems really into her, another day he acts like she is repulsive to him. A man like this would turn me off immensely. I could see though a woman who likes to chase men and have an anxious attachment style would be inter… | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineHmm that would be weird. I would feel the same way, I wouldn't date nor be romantically interested in a guy one of my friends dated. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 08:12 AM |
| 1 | "Why men love bitches"- Sherry ArgovI skimmed through this book, it was poorly written without any true insights into the male psychology. It's essentially the female version of "Don't be a nice guy" | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 08:00 AM |
| 2 | How to Make Her Choose You Over 4 Billion Other GuysYour advice sounds quite similar to Dr. Orion Taraban, who I think often gives the worst advice on dating but entertaining nevertheless 😂 "Just develop some self-confidence!" is not an easy thing for most men. I also want to say that most women are not going to seriously entertain the attention of 4 billion men, perhaps 1-3 at a time, at most. If a woman is entertaining the attention of dozens and hundreds of men at a time, I daresay, she's probably a lady of the night and is only looking for a … | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 07:56 AM |
| 6 | Bad news: Wanting her back is the ultimate turn off | She would only want you if you truly moved on.Truly feminine women will not go chasing when you loose interest. They lack masculinity required to chase. They never chase, Because I will not chase and she will not chase as well. Anyone has a clue how to resolve this? I would say there was only one guy I dated a long time ago at university who was able to break through the emotional force field and erected psychological walls of distance after an instance such as this. Firstly, he apologised numerous times for his behaviour. At first I ignore… | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get low effort girlsPeople who are good conversationalists tend to be rare. They're also most likely highly educated. The majority of the population communicates through memes, emoticons and one word replies. If you want to understand your chemistry with women, you have to talk to them on a voice call and not via text so keep texting to a minimum. Texting on instagram is not the platform for deep philosophical questions and exploring your childhood history. Be funny and helpful, not nosy. If you're asking all sorts… | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Girls assume I'm a playerEven my ex girlfriend told me that when she first saw me she was sure I'm a player. This really bothers me because girls don't see me as a potential partner but more as a playboy. Is there something I could do to possibly change the way people perceive me? Do you usually stand around half naked, looking at yourself in the mirror? Are you always surrounded by women? This can give the appearance that you're a player. Also, I find overly flirtatious men inauthentic and will be put off by them. Men … | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Authenticity when datingI’ve found most girls are too afraid of hurting a guy’s feelings, so when it comes to dating I’ve been termed too nice, but, that I should keep being my authentic self and meet other girls. What this translates to (I assume) is that the girl is saying no and can’t give constructive feedback to me that I can use to implement on my next date/encounter. "Too nice" means that you come off as boring or too submissive for women. You need to inject wit and humour to attract women. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 08:06 AM |
| -1 | How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid)You have a very funny way of flirting with me. Let me tell you in advance, you are not my type. I go for articulate, high educated gentlemen, not neggers with a chip on their shoulder who think insulting women is a form of flirting. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 10:58 AM |
| 0 | How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid)So you speak for all men, or is that just your little insecure ego talking? | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid)Principle 2 - Don’t be needy If you’re constantly sending long paragraphs, pushing for the date multiple times, responding to everything she says instantly, she’ll lose respect for you. Hmmm, I guess I'm a little different, because I like men who are a little needy and send me long paragraphs 😂 Needy men are like cute little puppies who need your validation, love and approval. But then again, I'm really turned off by aloof men. | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)Exactly, women tend to get "beer googles" after oxytocin release during sex which makes them feel in love, unless they've got a high body count in which they're desensitised to sex. Whereas men feel in love when vasopressin is released which is triggered by overcoming an obstacle in winning the women's affection, so hence men tend to feel "post-nut clarity" if sex is given too easily and readily whereas, if there is a significant challenge to sex with the woman then vasopressin is released makin… | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)No, women tend to get more attached to men after sex due to oxytocin release, unless they've got a high body count. Women with high body counts and have slept with a lot of men tend to be desentisised to sex so do not get emotionally attached. This is the opposite for women with low body counts, they tend to get easily attached to men (any man) they have sex with. I read it's different for men. Men do not get attached to sex with women if it's given too early on. Vasopressin release is what allo… | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)It sounds like this woman who called you a "greek god" just found you good in bed. Maybe you're a talented, responsive, physically sensual lover. I'm sure that's why she decided to tell you whilst in bed together that she thought you were so great. | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to clutch up in this friendzone situation?From her reactions, I don't think she is into you. She didn't want a relationship nor a FWB with you, that means she's not physically attracted to you for whatever reason and she is intentionally not telling you the real reason why she doesn't want more from you. She most likely wants a relationship, but just not with you. Usually if a woman likes you as a "platonic friend" that's not going to change. | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 08:08 AM |
| 11 | How to naturally connect with hot girls - From Milan to BerlinI see, you're that chatty guy on the plane who doesn't shut up | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 08:02 AM |
| 1 | If you are basing your self-worth on professional success you are self-sabotagingI think you are basing external appearances than what is. It could be that musician on the street is a child of multi-millionaires and he has a life that you're completely unaware of. Most people who flash their wealth tend to be largely in debt. As for men who are bartenders and "broke" guys, being financially astute doesn't translate into good social skills, so it could be these bartenders and broke guys understand human social interaction in a way that you don't. You seem quite bitter that th… | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 07:58 AM |
| 5 | Important of having connection not just s*xWell one is a sensory experience and the other is a mind/body experience. The mind/body experience is much better than a sensory experience. | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 07:48 AM |
| 2 | A cute shy girl from my residence made all the effort to seduce meHmmm, you sound quite anxious/nervous about something. What is it that you fear most? | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?For me no. When dating in your 20s, you only have a limited age group with whom you can date (basically 3 years younger or older). By the time people are in their 30s and 40s, everyone is single and/or divorced, so you have a much wider range of people you can date and the entire dating scene expands like it did not before. As long as you keep yourself physically fit and attractive, you will have no problems dating as a man or woman into your 40s and beyond. You might be surprised by how many wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:26 AM |
| 2 | This girl set me up perfectlyGood for you :D | /r/seduction | 21/06/23 06:11 AM |
| 8 | Always say less than necessaryI think you meant to post this in r/CIA lol | /r/seduction | 02/05/23 03:02 AM |
| 11 | If coming on too strong is so unattractive why does love bombing seem to work so often?People who tend to have avoidant personalities tend to prefer being "lovebombed" by people who come on strong or act in needy ways. For instance, let's say a man with avoidant attachment meets a woman with anxious attachment, it would be like sparks are flying because the avoidant guy feels loved by a woman who gives him all her attention and makes him feel special. People generally are turned off by players and those who seem like they have many people in their rotation of romantic interests be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Anyone ever get threatened by a boyfriend of a girl they hooked up with?I think they've been together for so long that she usually just turns the other cheek when she thinks he's up to something and of course, I'm sure she didn't want me to have her man, but I took kindly to the fact that she sat me down and talked with me and we had a heart-to-heart chat instead of her treating me with contempt. I feel like the energy we put out in the universe comes back to us and I felt she was a good person. | /r/seduction | 04/11/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever get threatened by a boyfriend of a girl they hooked up with?Your first story was quite funny lol... As for the second: I put my hand out--almost grabbing his dick because he's now standing forehead to forehead. LOL! well your coworker seemed quite uncouth but you handled that quite diplomatically. It doesn't seem to me that she was playing games though, but perhaps she could've done a better job of reassuring her bf that nothing was going on. | /r/seduction | 03/11/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever get threatened by a boyfriend of a girl they hooked up with?She's quite charming and funny actually. I enjoy talking to her because she is quite humorous. I don't think she was trying to reverse psychologically war-fare me, I think she just saw a naive young woman and I probably reminded her of when she had been young. If you've ever seen the Woody Allen film Husbands & Wives, I was exactly like the character Rain, the college girl in the movie. | /r/seduction | 03/11/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Cool :D | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 06:32 AM |
| 9 | Anyone ever get threatened by a boyfriend of a girl they hooked up with?That's totally creepy... When I was in my early 20s, I had a massive crush on this married man because we were both interested in the environment and I absolutely loved the attention he gave me because it felt like I was the centre of his world, although nothing inappropriate ever happened. Anyway, his wife got ahold of what could potentially happen and sat me down and told me quite kindly that he tries this sort of thing with every young woman he meets and that he'll only suck my energy until I… | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Interesting...so you have this all planned out without asking her yet? | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I’m not going to wait for a slither of hope that she comes back and we keep it up I guess I'm confused because it seems like this statement is contradictory to what you've just said | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you ever happen to not write back to a guy you're interested to just because you feel mentally drained or with low battery?I have friends with whom I take a long while to answer. And it warms my heart, because I know they will be there for me always | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?If she is going away in a month or two, then I don't think you should invest your emotional energies into her. No one wants to invest in someone who is simply going to leave your life, what would be the point? | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:19 PM |
| 15 | I’m just sick and frustrated with dating now, but feel so alone. The last girl seemed so perfect, don’t really think it’s working out tho.Well if she has cancer then she probably has a lot on her plate including surgery. Have you tried reaching out to her again to see how her surgery went? That sounds like a traumatic experience. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?And please, save the romance for a few years on the road, you are gonna need it. Being all romantic before a relationship even starts, will just drive her away There must be a reason why you're giving this man such bad advice lol | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I would say keep going as you are, not rushing into things, and getting to know each other and share ideas and engage in a continual dialogue. I don't think there's anything wrong with feeling attached or being romantic, I think that's usually an attractive feature in men. From my experience, traditional and reserved girls are usually "shit testers" and there's usually an obstacle course you have to pass before they let you into their hearts. As an analogy, there's a somewhat religious man I kno… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Women, do you ever happen to not write back to a guy you're interested to just because you feel mentally drained or with low battery?What would you like him to do when you don't feel like replying and feel drained like that? To wait and be patient lol | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?And leave “dna in everything”, does she plan to blow herself up or bear many children? It was a metaphorical way of speaking, Mr. Will Block, you should be familiar with that :D That being said, in our world, we have the material world, but there also exists a spiritual world. Most people are focused on the former, not the latter. If we examine how in contemporary society, our use of language has been single handedly altered by Shakespeare, or even how Western thought is merely a footnote to Pla… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Hmmm, I can see that someone wants his dick sucked... | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Well I've known her for a long time, and according to her, she thinks "marriage is dumb" and an old, outdated convention from the post-industrial eras. What she wants is to find someone she loves with her entire heart, mind, soul and body and build extraordinary things and leave legacies of all sorts without the official titles because she's only witnessed unhappiness and pain in marriages. She said to me that she wants to "fuck up all of conventional society as we know it" and leave her DNA in … | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Say you are hungry, and then shoot down all of his suggestions. Damn, that would make me angry LOL! | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?No I said the new lady wanted to inspire those feelings of hate without actually inciting hate that could damage the relationship lol | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I don't think my friend, the new lady is trying to emotionally traumatise him...it's odd you say that, as I think you're thinking of the ex-FWB who is actively trying to instigate those negative emotions in him (eg, jealousy, rage, lust, guilt) The new lady (my friend) actually is attracted to his deep rooted problems because I think they had a similar upbringing. She's attracted to his emotional intensity and the way he has so much responsibility upon his shoulders. She also gets on quite well … | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Oh no, if you tell someone you can't do something, it can give them more motivation to try to do it more...people always want to do things that are forbidden... I think she would need better fight ideas than that lol... | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I've spoken to her quite in depth about it, and according to her, she loves the person who he is inside, his visionary instincts, the way he is acutely aware of life and death, and the fact that he sees from both inside and outside his own culture, he is a polyglot and she tells me that she just loves listening to him talk all day that he's one of the few men whom she will never get bored of...! | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I agree with this, but hate often causes enhanced sexual desire. How can this be achieved by eliciting hate without ultimately damaging the relationship? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Firstly, knowing the new lady, she isn't the type to restrict whom he can nor cannot talk to. She considers trust an important part of a relationship and if she can't trust him, why bother? is her philosophy. He should be able to talk to his ex FWB, but here's another angle too, he is the type of man who also feels heightened sexual desire when women express emotions such as jealousy, rage, anger, hurt. So there is an aspect of motivation in which he most likely wants to "triangulate this situat… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I have to admit the ex FWB is quite talented at playing the damsel-in-distress, I suppose it's how she's got men giving her money all the time as she is playing the part of a "damaged little girl" whilst trying to grow her circle of dicks, to say it roughly. So do you think the new woman should just tell him to go to her? I think it might actually do him good to spend a couple months living together with the ex FWB to rid himself of this "damsel in distress" role she plays to elicit his white kn… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I don't think she's got him "hooked in" to be fair. He's trapped in a cycle of "rage-lust-guilt" which she instigates, but he's a fairly intelligent man. I surmise even if they were able to temporarily mend their relationship, they would last a maximum of 2 years before things start breaking down as they do not share common values, goals or ambitions, and he would probably become more interested in her younger sister than his ex FWB over time. As i say I imagine you are much older than me, sorry… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Are you purposely giving terrible advice because you want the new lady for yourself? LOL I expected better from you, I have to say I'm quite disappointed at your lack of insight. I'm sure the new lady knows better than to mimic "trashy" behaviours that would only work to alienate a potential suitor from her. You really need to find another day job Mr. Will Block...lol :D | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I think you did misunderstand the question. IMHO, knowing the new lady, she doesn't feel that she has to "win over the man" from the ex FWB as she doesn't consider the ex FWB anyone of competition for her. Rather, she wants to know how to get transfer the "hate" energy from the ex FWB to her, without actually instigating hate from him? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?This sexual energy combined with the manipulation of the new woman (framing the ex fwb as the villain) will push him to cut off the ex fwb completely, she could say “you cut her off, and I’m yours”. Well I'm not sure the ex FWB is a villain at all, she is rather completely lacking in introspection and may not be aware of her own actions due to the fact that she has a combination of narcissistic-histrionic personality and has a need to seek out excessive sexual attention from men everywhere she g… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Oh good examples! I'm thinking of a particular man and he has a ex FWB who used to taunt him by openly sleeping with other men to make him feel inadequate which enacted his anger, jealousy and wounded his sense of ego, but then also simultaneously tell him how much she loved him and how she felt inadequate to incite his guilt and pity. This combination of behaviour (rage-jealousy + guilt-pity) from her has kept him from fully moving on from her and he often fantasizes about "hate-fucking" her at… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Don’t caress his masculinity/pride/ego and he will become deeply angry at you I don't know what you mean by this, could you give an example? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?More info needed: how long have you known her and how many dates have you been on? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Women, do you ever happen to not write back to a guy you're interested to just because you feel mentally drained or with low battery?I just made another account and asked him why he blocked me lol | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 06:14 PM |
| 17 | Women, do you ever happen to not write back to a guy you're interested to just because you feel mentally drained or with low battery?Sometimes, I like to just think about their reply and take time to write a nice reply back and let the moment linger... However one guy blocked me when I didn't reply fast enough and I was surprised lol. He said I took too long to reply when I was trying to think of something good to reply back lmao.... | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?Not meaning to sound obnoxious … but … If you weren’t concerned, why’d you bother to post? | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?Aw, it sounds like you've had a hard day. I didn't mean to upset you with "pointless and tedious details", maybe you just need a big ol' hug from a loved one and a good meal? | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?Is it me or do you sound a little upset? | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?Tone of voice matters a lot to whether this comes across as “aggressive” or not, I’ll grant you. But IF his behavior is headed into problematic territory and begins to create an environment that makes OP uncomfortable to the extent that she needs to take formal action, the first materially important question to be asked is going to be something like, “did you unequivocally reject your manager’s approaches?” Your suggestion will fail that test. So, credit for a “nice answer,” but it leaves open t… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?I think trust is an important thing and I want my love interest to trust me to know what to do in these situations and that I can handle myself. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?I have a good head on my shoulders and possess pretty strong boundaries and not the type to get into these types of situations but I admit I did have a little crush on him, but I would never do anything that could sabotage my love interest. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?I think it was harmless and he was just a bit drunk | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?Gently (but firmly) confront his behavior. “XXXX, you’re a great manager and good friend, but I want to be clear that the direction you were taking our conversation at the party was out of line and shouldn’t ever be repeated. Are we clear?” | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Halloween Work Party - Do you think this man was hitting on me?His wife and I have similar personalities and just from knowing her, I know she would never be into that sort of thing lol | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Not sure if this belongs here, but f*** it, why notSelf-improvement is really important but so is love. If someone met me now they would never know what I went through. But in those initial weeks, it was torture and I almost gave up. I was a young person in a ward full of people on their deathbeds and I wasn't getting better. I recall one day trying to walk with my dad besides me and I couldn't take it anymore and just started crying and he didn't say anything but just hugged me tightly and let me cry. After that day, I started to improve dramat… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if this belongs here, but f*** it, why notAw, that's nothing to be insecure about. I'm always so impressed by people who really focus on trying to better their health and wellness, even if it's just taking small steps a day. When I was young I was a in a near-death accident (eg, skiing accident) in which I had to learn to walk again and do simple things like tying my shoelaces and it took a long period of recovery before I became "normal" again so I have so much respect for people who are able to overcome their injuries and diagnoses th… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if this belongs here, but f*** it, why notAnything could become a progressive disability if you're not on top of it. If you and your partner are into health, fitness and wellness, and also look for alternative solutions to deal with the issue then it could be a great bonding experience as well. Overcoming obstacles together is a big part of relationships, being there for each other when times are tough. You shouldn't put up with someone who mocks you for having a disability, that's just disrespectful | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Not sure if this belongs here, but f*** it, why notYour ex sounds really nasty...quite personally, I think if you have it under control then it wouldn't affect your relationship very much but at the same time, if the condition becomes severe, then you would need lots of support from many people and it wouldn't be fair to ask one person to take the brunt and be the sole caretaker. At least, I wouldn't expect my partner to do so if the roles were reversed as I wouldn't want to be a burden on him. So you have to consider this carefully, on whether … | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Trying to hint to this girl I want to be fwbShe'll probably pretend you never asked and continue with the friendship | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Trying to hint to this girl I want to be fwbFlirtatious and friendly is a fine line. To me, she seems more like a friendly, inquisitive person who likes your insight on things but doesn't go over the flirtatious barrier | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Married at young age 18-25 what made your relationship last so long or what would would have made your relationship last longer than it did?People at this age range marry because initially the sex was good, but then later they become resentful of each other because they have no clue how to manage finances and neither knows how to live practically and manage household finances. Eventually arguments about money kill the sexual desire and they eventually get divorced. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Trying to hint to this girl I want to be fwbShe probably likes bantering with him and talking with him from what I assumed from their exchange, but she is most likely the type of woman who likes being the complete centre of a man's attention and needs 100% love and devotion so would not be inclined to enter a polyamorous relationship situationship in which there is another Queen bee hovering over her head who is formally the official partner of the intended. However, she probably still likes talking and bantering with him because it's mai… | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Trying to hint to this girl I want to be fwbShe's not that kind of girl, she's not interested in being your FWB in whatever strange arrangement you've got with your partner She probably secretly thinks you're sexy though | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:04 PM |
| 8 | No bs, are my standards delusional?She was my type to a tee. Introverted, book-lover, gym-goer, attractive, lowkey, anti-alcohol/drugs, educated, no interest in clubbing, pure romantic (no hookups) + all the other good personality traits. I like people who drink, enjoy good wine and specialty beers and will experiment with psychadelics once in awhile, so a total teetotaller wouldn't mesh with me.... Obviously this is different from a person who is a coke fiend and needs to snort cocaine 5x a day upon waking... I prefer to be with… | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Do you think this guy was trying to impress me?Thanks for sharing... but Someone who got the vac should not be doing high intensity cardio- they could get a heart attack... the vac causes heart failure in people...they should do low intensity exercise like walking and not push themselves too hard... | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How to be more sexually exciting in a way that’s still respectful and mature?You asked this question many times before, and I gave the same reply: "Hey, I'm making a calendar of beautiful chubby women, would you like to model for me?" lol Then you can go into the details of how you would like to pose her as long as she was reciprocating the same level of interest. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | How often have you seen the “spark” fade but later come back?How often have you seen that spark come back later down the road? Never for me. Once it's gone, that ship has sailed | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:24 AM |
| 5 | How often have you seen the “spark” fade but later come back?It depends on which "friend" category the woman put you in: Only platonic friends (no sexual chemistry) Friends (have chemistry but not strong enough to act on) More than friends (pretending to be friends, but strong sexual chemistry but usually there is some type of dealbreaker that prevents the relationship from moving forward) Temporary friends (pretending to be friends, but not sure whether to move forward or not, but using the friends label in order to not put pressure on each other whilst … | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 06:51 AM |
| 3 | what is the root cause or fear of oneitis or that you will never find someone like them again?People usually develop "oneitis" when 3 functions in Lacanian theory overlap: the real, the imaginary and the symbolic. Otherwise, men may be addicted to oxytocin release during sex. Many people crave oxytocin and it's a powerful hormone that leads to feelings of bonding. However, when it wears off eventually, people feel "out of love" as its effects typically last around 7 years. Hence, oxytocin + Lacanian overlap has a much more powerful effect than simply oxytocin alone. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 05:01 AM |
| 27 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfI agree, good advice Mr. Altittude. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 12:21 PM |
| -4 | PSA: Ask Seddit Banned Without Notice to ModTeamThis man really thinks politicians are about to start spreading lies about the best way to get laid, and Reddit is waging war alongside them, preventing us from seeing the truth. Fortunately for America, he is fighting the good fight and calling them out on their horny deceit. It's too early for this. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 02:05 PM |
| 7 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themWasn't this your neighour whom you said was dating the same person you just described? I recall you asked once why nice pretty girls date trashy men with neck tattoos who's a drug dealer or something lol Most beautiful women don't want to date men who outshine them in the looks department. Look at supermodels and who they usually date, all relatively short men who are considered below average looking despite having big personalities. Many beautiful women usually don't want a guy who receives mor… | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 11:52 AM |
| -4 | PSA: Ask Seddit Banned Without Notice to ModTeamWell the mid-term elections are near, so censorship will become more evident on reddit. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | So guys, do you think this guy likes me?Are you Russian? I imagine USD wouldn't do you any good right now lol | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | So guys, do you think this guy likes me?Is this your expert opinion? I asked for some strategy advice and notice you didn't offer any! lol | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Who is your favourite monarch as a seduction ideal?Reddit is a US based intelligence gathering corporation. Unless you whine about your life and 1) promote the use of American pharmaceuticals or 2) promote the Democratic party, you get downvoted lol | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Who is your favourite monarch as a seduction ideal?The Secretary of "Seduction" or shall I say, all of reddit, has an algo attached to all my accounts that automatically downvotes anything I post LOL! | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 01:13 PM |
| -1 | Not into dating that Much but in sex.Maybe you should date women outside of Russia lol | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Began dating good looking girl, struggling with jealousy.She on the other hand has been known to cheat from different sources that I’ve met at the bar These may be rumours from men she has rejected in the past so I would verify this information with her instead of believing what other people say. It’s just the particular way she allows men to shoot there shot so often can be draining She only verbally banters with them, she doesn't let anything physical happen, so not sure why this would be so draining. A lot of men perceive being "friendly" as being … | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 06:30 AM |
| 0 | I’m killer at making women laugh, but I quickly run into an issue in my interactionsYou can show some emotional vulnerability. It's a significant determinant of sexual attraction in most women. Maybe shake things up, have them laughing then reveal a secret about yourself or something you feel insecure about. You don't have to feel like you're "on" all the time, performing for an audience. Out of curiosity do you know your MBTI personality type? | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Began dating good looking girl, struggling with jealousy.I have told her that I don’t care if she talks to other guys. Well you lied to her, because you do care. You should have an honest talk to discuss your jealousy issues. I find men who have a tendency to be overly jealous/controlling typically are serial cheaters themselves who do not take people at face value and have low trust in people. It's because they would cheat themselves in the same situation. It's clear there is a lack of trust there, whether that is because this is a new relationship i… | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Do women avoid men smarter than them.No, women don't avoid men smarter than them LMAO! | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Began dating good looking girl, struggling with jealousy.She will let them hit on her and talk and shit and I just sit there laid back and try not to let it bother me. She never lets them get physical, but still verbally it can be a tad annoying. On top of that guys are always texting her and trying to meet up. Which she will ultimately shut down or make excuses for, but she will keep texting them. You guys are not exclusive, so it's perfectly in her right to be able to talk to other men lol. Half the world are filled with me, you can't lock her up in… | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:50 AM |
| 3 | I just suck at texting..I usually ask a provocative question that is not sex related. But yes, most people are boring over text, you can only take so much "yeah lol " before you lose interest lol | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 01:31 PM |
| 2 | First time I approached a girl and I got rejected. Completely changed my perspective…Firstly, you should calm down and not make assumptions. Secondly, take time to think clearly when you're not inebriated from alcohol or pot. You should also not try to read the minds of women all the time because they themselves may be a bit confused. For clarity, talk directly to women whom you're interested in. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Girl is mad that I changed location of date on day of dateI had a work event scheduled in another city today last minute and forgot about the date. Yes, I think her answer was perfectly reasonable. You forgot the date and changed the location last minute so she said she'll pass. I'd do the exact same thing. Women don't want to go out with a guy who "forgets" he had a date then tries to sneakily change the location at the last minute that is convenient for him. It's only the second date, and you're not proving yourself to be very chivalrous. Like what M… | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with people playing hard to get?The recent girl asked me to hang out and said she would "let me know the details <3" and then never texted me. I don't think it is because you're dealing with people playing hard to get but that you're attracting people who tend to be flakey, don't do what they say they will, and have a tendency to be inconsiderate. These people tend to be conflict-avoidant, in which they won't communicate something that might disappoint other people, and tend to not say anything at all. Conflict avoidant people… | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 09:50 AM |
| 0 | Friends or lovers?You're current partner, you have described, as overweight, needy and running a deli shop. But the potato knishes at his deli shop are simply amazing! :D I imagine you must be quite heartbroken or suffering from regret to have written such a nasty reply. Perhaps if you look deep into your own heart, you might find out why you emit such negative energy | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 09:39 AM |
| 12 | How do you feel about people flirting with someone you’re seeing?I expect it. An attractive person will always get hit on. It matters to me what his personality is and how he would handle those situations. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Friends or lovers?Of course I like him, why would I waste time with someone I don't like? So you think I should friendzone him again? | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Friends or lovers?He's quite a confident person, but I can understand he has some level of self-hatred. He says he feels terrible about himself when he indulges in his "vices", as if he's let himself down and wants to feel good about himself. He craves physical affection like a drug and has trouble sleeping if he's not held, he's said. Physical touch is his primary love language. I don't think he intends to play childish games, but he's just under a lot of pressure, especially since he's taken over his family's J… | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Friends or lovers?Well he's an Orthodox Jew, so I assume his family would expect him to marry an Orthodox Jew. In his culture, people only date in order to get married. I wouldn't want to create a rift between him and his family. I care a lot about him, and would want him to be happy and even if we haven't known each other for long, I know we have a special bond and will always be lifelong friends. At the same time, I have a rebellious side and think fck conformity! fck religion! Let's have a great love affair, a… | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Tips for picking up mature womenFirstly, I think you're making the assumption that older women are more mature and classy, but maturity and class are not correlated with age, but education and prevailing attitudes. Younger women can be just as mature and classy as older women. Being older doesn't immediately make someone mature and classy, sometimes it's the opposite. Secondly, I think you may be making assumptions about people's age. Unless you can access women's passports, you really don't know how old women are. You may be … | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you think this guy could be interested in me?As for how to approach him, honestly the easiest thing to do is to ask him for some help, either spotting you for a set, or asking for comments about your form. Hmmm, interesting idea but that would be fairly disingenous...I'm at athlete level so don't really need help with anything...if he's noticed me, then he would've already made this assessment lol | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this guy could be interested in me?Oh wow! Small world! | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 04:55 PM |
| 0 | Do you think this guy could be interested in me?kind of seeing someone. Right, your imaginary reddit gf lol Just say you’ve noticed him there a few times before so figured you’d say hi. Not my style. I don't chase after men. If he wants to talk to me, it's up to him. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 04:53 PM |
| -1 | Do you think this guy could be interested in me?Have you ever been to NYC? You don't make eye contact with the people here unless you mean war. It's a sign of aggression | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you think this guy could be interested in me?Happy to bang you out if he’s not into it 😂 Sorry, not that kind of girl....you should try tinder! | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this guy could be interested in me?until you mentioned his round, firm buttocks He's got a very nice booty! :D | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Do you think this guy could be interested in me?Ok Mr. Secretary of r/Seduction thanks for your input lol | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this guy could be interested in me?Just out of curiosity, what gym? Crunch Fitness, why do you ask? | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Who cheats more? Men or womenYou can only connect to members who are a genetic match- not necessarily your own family members... And genetic testing companies do not tell you if you're not a biological match to your family. This was by design. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Who cheats more? Men or womenDo you know why genetic testing companies don't allow you to connect to your own family members on their websites? It's because most children are not the biological children of the father, hence so they keep genetic results separate. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Who cheats more? Men or womenI would say both. It's estimated that 4/7 children born are due to secret affairs..! | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Are Chinese/Japanese girls into brown guys ?Trying to get an East Asian woman interested in you is quite similar to trying to get a British woman interested in you, they're quite standoffish and not known for being flirtatious. You have to charm them with your wit and persistence. Usually most East Asian girls will say no if you ask them out without getting to know them first. This is because in East Asian cultures, people who are overeager to take someone out without getting to know them are often seen as swindlers and scam artists who a… | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Do people usually date the same level of attractiveness?Peacocks are not usually attracted to other peacocks, that's all I can say lol In an ideal relationship without any power struggles, usually one is the gazed upon, and the other prefers being behind the camera and setting the scene. | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 02:49 AM |
| 3 | How can I take rejection graciously?Well rejection is a part of life. You have to act graciously in order not to seem like a sore loser. Most people who can take rejection well usually have plenty of other people who are interested in them due to their easy-going persona. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 11:25 AM |
| 4 | She wants kids and LTR. I can't offer any of this, however I sense a path to temporary relation. How to calibrate and escalate?This is one of those situations where you're essentially "wasting time" with someone you don't feel strongly about. IMO, it should always be "hell yes" or "no". You also shouldn't lead someone one who strongly wants to have children. In addition, if she is serious about having children, she is better off doing it with a younger man who has viable sperm as usually sperm from men 40+ and older usually results in birth defects. Sperm from men 60+ and over? Forget about it, you'll have to opt for a … | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Should I end things - for personal growthOh how interesting! I know this Korean girl and she says only white British or Scandinavian men are attracted to her lol I also have a classmate who's only attracted to red hair. If there is a woman with naturally red hair, he will have a crush on her lol. Redheads tend to have a genetic trait in which they can efficiently utilise and produce vitamin D without sunlight, so for a person who can't efficiently utilise vitamin D, this might be an attractive trait that becomes an unconscious motivato… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I end things - for personal growthYou could be just physically attracted to her- she smells compatible with your immune system or she has a genetic trait you're attracted to. For instance in Finland, women are attracted to men with dark eyes and dark hair because the majority in their population is blond/blue eyed and if there is one guy with dark hair/dark eyes all the girls will go for him. Hence, genetic variance could possibly be a strong reason for your attraction- and although it appears "irrational" on the surface, it's a… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Should I end things - for personal growthWhat's there to end? There is nothing here. She: stood you up on the first date without communicating delayed the second date due to not feeling well or having a "headache" flaked again on third date and didn't communicate with you or keep you in the loop If your type is flakey irresponsible uses feeble excuses poor communicator This person is exactly your type. Quite personally if someone (even a friend) flaked on me without communicating, I would no longer consider them someone worthy of my ti… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Understanding how sexual arousal differs between men and women will help you.So you want me to take down your rival for you? lol | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Understanding how sexual arousal differs between men and women will help you.I'm beginning to think you're flirting with me now. You seem to overly use the word "fucking" when responding to me, obviously that's what's clearly on your mind. Perhaps you should stop objectifying women and learn how to talk like a civilised man and not a caveman. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Understanding how sexual arousal differs between men and women will help you.The first study you cite actually says that women and men have the same physiological responses of sexual arousal despite that men tend to report it more. Hence in self-reporting, women tend to under-report their sexual arousal which they then call "subjective arousal" lol. Obviously there is a bit of a leap there in logic when clearly it was stated that both genders tended to experience physiological arousal the same. Then the researchers further make another unsubstantiated assumption that men… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Men's style 101The first pic I posted is straight fit/relaxed straight fit jeans. Skinny jeans taper at the bottom and tend to have a tighter fit in the derrière. You'll noticed that Gosling's jeans are tighter around the crotch and bum area, but the knee area is where it seems a bit loose, probably from multiple wears, but the straight fit jeans on the first pic I posted are actually a much looser fit all around. notice that there is some sort of layering going on at his neck, either a neck scarf or a shirt w… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Understanding how sexual arousal differs between men and women will help you.The methodological flaws in both studies you cited were quite clear. In the first, the researchers admit their gender bias and in the second, the subjects had to self-report what they found arousing after watching a set of erotic videos lol. Obviously that's a flawed studied in itself because most people aren't going to be honest when self-reporting about arousal for fear of seeming culturally deviant. I highly recommend you take a look at the Jaiya erotic blueprint survey. Not all good informat… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Understanding how sexual arousal differs between men and women will help you.The articles you cite attempt to categorise sexual arousal by differences in gender, and the studies are flawed due to gender bias, whereas in the Jaiya quiz, although she's not an academic, she categorises sexual arousal by personality which I think is more accurate for the general population. In the second article by Korean researchers, they essentially classify all women as "sensual" type and all men as "sexual+taboo" type which I think is more indicative of the bias in Korean culture regardi… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Understanding how sexual arousal differs between men and women will help you.I don't think men are that simple. In fact a lot of what we are turned on by are actually different. I posted an erotic blueprint type survey before: Erotic Blueprint Quiz https://missjaiya.com/ More on Erotic blueprints https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/erotic-blueprints There are 5 erotic blueprints according to this survey and in the in-mind article you cited, it only really specifies 2 erotic blueprints. 5 Erotic Blueprints are the following: Energetic For the energetic blueprint, energ… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Men's style 101I personally find husky men sexier than being too skinny.... I don't know what it is, but skinny men are a huge turn off for me on an atavistic, instinctual level. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Men's style 101I think Ryan Gosling is a cute guy but I have to admit I'm not into that skinny jean hipster look. Chris Hemsworth is a handsome guy who would look good in anything, but that Miami Vice white-suit-with-no-socks look I would say was a bad choice by his stylist. I prefer this kind of laid back casual style https://images.app.goo.gl/ECNXA2yBu4SSURH97 I also like how these clothes are layered for smart casual https://images.app.goo.gl/5DxJPb2ZQeZfkzgH7 And I like how Chris Hemsworth pairs dark blaze… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How does my Friend get all the girlsHe's probably a bit androgynous and gives off a Harry Styles sort of vibe. Generally women become sexually predatory when they sense a man with androgynous characteristics because it stimulates and activates their testosterone. Hence women who prefer to chase men probably will be into his type. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Is medication the answer? Jacked but incredibly shy and awkwardNo, you should not medicate yourself for a problem that cannot be solved with ADHD meds. Instead, find an older guy who can be a mentor to you, otherwise take some classes on etiquette or on how to be a gentleman. It seems you need practice with social cues not medication. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | The reason that HUMOR is super attractiveI think this is true for the most part. It's how confident people operate, using humour as a tool | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Would it be worth it to get surgery for a crooked nose?From that pic, I would say that you don't need a rhinoplasty. In photos, usually the middle of your face looks exaggerated due to the camera lens being flat. Quite personally I think it's weird when men get button noses, I find it super unattractive. Then again, I'm usually attracted to men with prominent, aristocratic noses. If you have a cleft palette though, that is something you should be able to fix easily with plastic surgery and I recommend that. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Would it be worth it to get surgery for a crooked nose?Cost 10K and yeah recovery is long like 2-3 months but then your nose is swollen for like a year. That recovery time seems unusual. What kind of plastic surgeon did you go to, in which city and state? I've read that recovery is usually more like 2 weeks for an open rhinoplasty (sounds like what you had from your description). | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 06:32 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think a woman might cheat on a man like this?They named their first born child Chanel. I think that's all we need to know lol OT some men marry sex workers and unfortunately those women aren't the monogamous types | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Are there women who pretend to like you for the sake of attention? And if so, do you call them out on it?Maybe she's a bit infatuated with you and trying to figure you out...like exactly what you want from her. But it seems the consensus is clear. American men would like for you to stay away from her as far as possible! | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcWhat he really prefers is a quiet dinner party full of fashionistas, but he finds himself at loud clubs full of drugged out people all the time and he wonders why he can't find the kind of women he likes...lol | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Confidence has been completely drainedWell you can always hit up your lesbian friend and she can smother you with attention! | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Be a Leader of Men and the Ladies will find youYes I can tell you're from America, but apparently, it's quite common there for women to hang out with their mums and aunts at clubs...lol | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Best country to visit for sex tourism for asianseast asian countries like philippines, Indonesia, bangcock Those are south asian countries East asian countries are China, South Korea, Japan, Taiwan | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Be a Leader of Men and the Ladies will find youWell perhaps you're from a different culture, because my mum and aunts would never want to accompany me to a club lol... perhaps my older brother, but never my mum | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Give gym advice to gym crush? Yay or nay?no need to say "good job" that sounds condescending... But I always appreciate advice on my form in weight training as long as it's well-intended | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Give gym advice to gym crush? Yay or nay?Some guys have corrected my form at the gym when doing weights and I didn't mind at all, I rather appreciated it. FYI: I hate doing weights and find it sort of a chore, but I like when men pay attention and give me some tips/ advice. I find that kind of conversation rather pleasant. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Be a Leader of Men and the Ladies will find youLast night the hottest girl in the club put herself in my proximity with her male orbiters and mom. After a simple "Hi" opener I took her out of her groups we went and chatted. Her mother came looking a few minutes later. I'm rather curious who would go to a club with her mother??! | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Are you attracted to most women?I'm in the same boat as you, I am attracted to less than 1% of the population lol. I have an immediate sexual attraction towards the following type of man: polyglot (speaks multiple languages) writer type chain smoker (weird but for some reason I am always attracted to smokers despite that I don't smoke myself) taller than myself with a husky body type (eg, big shoulders and hands) and not too skinny. I actually think if Chris Hemsworth gained 40 lbs he would have a perfect body and not the supe… | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | If you had no more than a minute to approach and try to get a number how would you go about it?You could say, "Hey, will you model for me? I'm launching a 'hot chubby chicks' calendar and I would love to photograph you in a bikini." | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to get over this destructive mindsetI'm sure you have a lot going for you, you should be kind to yourself. Perhaps spend more time on self-improvement and go to the gym and focus on your health. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 04:07 AM |
| 0 | I have a friend who needs help. (I need some of the best in here because he doesn’t believe in Reddit)She might feel intimidated because he's much younger than she is and wondering what his intentions are. That's very sweet that he offered to take a day off to go out with her. I would think that was adorable. Who knows, I would wait it out and see what happens... | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Am i misinterpeting signs?I would extrapolate that she is attracted to the way you create an aura of romance with words, curious about sex with you, but she is hung up on her ex and has zero plans to ever do anything with you aside from minor flirtation. I could be wrong though. You might try asking her and see what she says. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?Courting is a form of dating is it not? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:09 PM |
| -1 | How would you handle this situation?Well I got the impression from my friend that proposing marriage was just a social decorum sort of thing for a man to make his serious intentions clear, but it was more geared towards dating not necessarily marriage per se, because dating isn't allowed in Muslim cultures... | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Similar height/taller women?I typically prefer taller men, but if there is a guy with a great personality and heart, the same height as me is also ok. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | 30 year old delivering pizzas on side. 40s sexy cougar seems to like meThey seem to have some sort of sexual chemistry or sexual tension from what the OP has written. I'm guessing she thinks he's adorable, but "he's a decade younger so I'll just innocently flirt with him instead"... | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 09:45 AM |
| 1 | 30 year old delivering pizzas on side. 40s sexy cougar seems to like meI mean she may think you're adorable and cute and maybe she just wants to get to know you and is being friendly? How do you know that she wants to have sex with you? lol | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?let her come to me I know my friend and she doesn't chase after men | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?You don’t win the competition by sabotage. You win by remaining unaffected and authentic to yourself and your qualities. Don’t acknowledge your competition, don’t moan and come off as inexperienced and intimidated. Just present yourself in the best manner possible and let her decide if she likes you or someone else. You may be right, but currently 2 out of the 3 men she is interested in is doing just that. One should never take advice from one's competitors... | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?How? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?Hmmm ok....lol | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?yeah she is definitely getting her back blown out by other dudes. I know her fairly well. She's not the type to jump into bed with men. If it’s just sex and having fun go for it but don’t expect to settle down with her, keep seeing other women too. That is something she says to men, "if you're just out for sex, I'm sure you won't have a problem finding any kind of woman to satisfy you". I think for her, it's always going to be "all or nothing". | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Navigating the platinum ruleWell the thing about getting advice from men is that they tell you you're a loser if you're not having active sex with a woman, or you're a simp if you're crazy about a girl and they tell you you have oneitis. The thing is though, you have to invest your time wisely and get to know women instead of settling for something mediocre you may not want after awhile. If you do decide to settle for something medicore, then you'll never have a chance again to get what you really want. Do you want to be o… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle this situation?Well I had a long conversation with my friend about this, and she said that she wants a guy who will make a lot of effort to get to know her as a person and not some guy who is out for easy sex. I don't think she thinks of men as "second best", she wants to know what these men are capable of. I don't think that's such an unreasonable desire to want to know. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:37 PM |
| 3 | How would you handle this situation?Well that's your choice. If you rather have something easy then by all means, choose the pick me! women who beg for commitment and ask you to come around at all hours to have sex with them so it spurs them write their cheesy maudlin rom-com love letters. Quite personally though, knowing my friend, she is not that type. She is a cautious person who wants a man who is equally strong minded, not impulsive, not easily lured by pickme! women who are a dime a dozen. She wants a guy she knows she can b… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?My friend is only interested in 3 men. Not all the men in the world lol | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle this situation?OK then, go for the easy "pick me!" women. Personally, if I were a guy, I would try to get to know her before dismissing her so easily because she has many men interested in her.... | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?You seem like a very sensible person! I like your advice a lot. I can't imagine there is a woman out there who is somewhat attractive and doesn't have at least several men interested in her. It would be so odd if a guy is turned off by a woman having men interested in her... I think it's perfectly natural to be in the talking stage with a few men until one situation moves forward. I hardly think at this stage that one is "second best" when nothing has happened yet lol! | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?Well she hasn't had sex with any of them yet. I imagine when she decides to be physically intimate with a guy, then he'll be her no. 1 choice. At this point though, she is talking and getting to know them. Do you find that offputting? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | If a person really wants to see you, they will make the time.Imagine if your biggest sports hero or favorite musician bumped into you at a random store and then asked if you wanted to hang out over the weekend. You will probably 100% make it happen, even if it meant canceling prior plans. No, I wouldn't. I see that as flakey behaviour and I abhor that. I wouldn't just dump my previous commitments with my friends and family just because a new person or celeb wanted to hang out with me ... I would say that I would love to see them and schedule something wit… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The therapy of sexual dominance over females with trust issuesLots of "good girls" or "princesses" who are academic overachievers have this kind of fetish. It's actually kind of common. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 07:40 AM |
| 24 | Evil seduction strategy [100% success rate guaranteed]I think you need to stop watching so much TV and actually go out and talk to real women lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Do you seem to attract a certain type of person / ethnicity more than others?I would say Scandinavian, German, Swiss, British and Italian men are often the most interested in me. I remember once I was walking around in Geneva and several Swiss men followed me around at different times, one even took a photo of me on the train whilst I was sitting right in front of him... I also find Italian men super aggressive in the way they pursue you. I like the way most British men approach, they usually ask something entirely neutral and try to start a conversation that doesn't inv… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 07:36 AM |
| 2 | How am I supposed to get more experience with sex and relationships when nobody will give me a chance?When you first have sex with someone it doesn't have to be performative like being a porn star. If you take time to develop a deeper connection, you can start out slowly as you're learning about each other bodies. Also sex is an interactive experience, not a one-sided circus act. 90% of it is mental, psychological and emotional. The physicality will improve with time if you're really invested in getting to know each other. You should focus on self development as opposed to "I need to practice se… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:39 AM |
| 2 | seduction- night and day differenceIt seems you made a slight improvement. Having sex with your coworker for free is a more fiscally wise choice than paying sex workers to have sex with you. So I encourage you to keep having sex with your coworker to get practice sex before being ready to date women. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | How to make a simp fall in loveYou can remotely stimulate her ventral tegmental area (area of brain responsible for lovey dovey feelings) whilst she is sleeping, and send her subliminal messages that she will love you and fall for you. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Coworker trying to steal girl that likes me, and how to deal with it?What a strange comment! | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:09 PM |
| 2 | What sort of things could you send someone out of the blue to let them know you’re thinking of them and keep yourself in the back of their mind?I think voice notes are rather nice. You could send a long voice note. I like listening to them. I find constant texting goodmorning/ goodnight texts really annoying because then you feel obligated to respond. But a voice note I will take time to listen to and then send one back. That's just me though, your girl might be a bit different. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 01:55 AM |
| -17 | She said “guys don’t understand that if a woman wears a matching bra & thong set as he’s getting her naked, it wasn’t him that decided to have sex”Thongs are disgusting and unsanitary and cause yeast infections. I suppose though if you have a guy who mainly dates sex workers then thongs would be his preference. A lot of men though prefer women to wear virginal white cotton robes with cotton undies. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:30 PM |
| -14 | Strategy: Why it's good to always start off as "friends"The whole point of the friendship is that you get to know each other without the pressure of "dating" | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What has been your experience when you had to reject someone romantically?Well that's nice you got that happy ending. I recall being rejected by a guy passive-aggressively because he was afraid I wouldn't be attracted to him IRL and refused to even meet me in person...! | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | What has been your experience when you had to reject someone romantically?That's interesting. I kind of feel the opposite. I feel like extremely guilty when breaking up with someone so will delay doing so until he finally pulls the trigger. If a guy breaks up with me, I feel extremely relieved. I don't have the "I should've tried harder" guilt trips and instead I think, "well he broke up with me, so nothing more could be done" and a weight lifts off my shoulders. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:09 PM |
| 3 | What has been your experience when you had to reject someone romantically?I agree, I think if I had a bad dating experience with someone, I wouldn't broadcast it to the world. That seems so gauche. I would probably just say something nice about them and never give them the time of day again lol | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:01 PM |
| 15 | What has been your experience when you had to reject someone romantically?Rejection is part of the game cycle | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:12 AM |
| 12 | Advice from a woman on beginning stages of dating and talking to women: things that have worked for me and my friendsThis is kind of manipulative. If you’re taking about what you like in someone or your type when you first meet, Tell them you like women with the opposite color hair she has. She will try harder to win you over since girls want to feel “worthy” you’re basically cutting her out already and she’s going to want to prove herself to you even more. That would be a serious turn off for me. If a man said that to after just meeting me, I would say, why don't you go find a woman with that hair colour then… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | In our predominant era of "hookup culture" how do you view sex?I don't really understand casual sex because I find it offputting, unsatisfactory, unstimulating and most likely boring. I think for those people who are predominantly sensor types- ESFPs ESFJs ISTPs...etc that they would prefer the novelty of sex as something new to experience, but that it is unconnected to any deeper bond as they like the sensation of sex, as opposed to thinking of sex as a shared experience. I could see people engaging in casual sex as a form of curiosity, but I think after a… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | In our predominant era of "hookup culture" how do you view sex?People have been hooking up for forever. Give some historical examples to support your point then because I tend to think the opposite. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | In our predominant era of "hookup culture" how do you view sex?A business venture is a lifelong commitment. Most venture partners have longer relationships than most marriages. I think you're thinking casual hookups in the wrong way. Casual hookups are like indulging in fast food, not really sustainable or bad for one's health lol A business venture should ideally bring returns and is geared towards the long-term | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:22 AM |
| 5 | In our predominant era of "hookup culture" how do you view sex?I am not interested in only having sex with people I have an emotional connection with. Sex is too much fun to limit it that much, and group sex would be nearly impossible under those circumstances. Well it seems like you like the novelty of sex. For me, the novelty in and of itself is not really a turn on... For me, completely getting into someone's head and becoming "one" with them is much more of a turn on than merely rubbing genitals with a bunch of people I'd just met...for me the latter wo… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:15 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being a seductress?This is one of the lowest quality troll posts I've ever seen here lol... | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Experience with autistic girlIf you have high emotional intelligence, you most likely don't have aspergers. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Experience with autistic girlWell firstly, autistic and aspergers (aspie) are different diagnoses. Secondly, has she been verified aspie or autistic or does she merely think she is? I've noticed a lot of adult women consider themselves aspie or autistic if they tend to have poor social skills (eg, lack of boundaries, lack of social graces, tendency to be rude and blunt), but not actually diagnosed to have either. However, if she is diagnosed to have autism, then she would have poor hand-eye coordination, lack of physical st… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Use spirituality to make girls attracted to you!I don't understand, this anything happen with the Hindu girl or are you just giving a hypothetical? lol | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 09:00 AM |
| 1 | I’m really struggling with the idea of committing to one personDo you commit to someone by looking at them or just talking to them once? lol You're a strange one... That’s one country though - imagine all the beautiful exotic women all over the world who’s countries you probably won’t ever travel to. When I visited the UK I thought the same thing...it's so unfair how one nation can be home to so many ridiculously hot and intelligent men of the world, a country that I probably will never reside in lol I think it really depends on how open you are to meeting … | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:38 AM |
| -1 | How do I continue this?Every online dating app is essentially a hookup app. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 04:50 AM |
| -2 | How do I continue this?Conversations of that type would irritate me more than intrigue me You can't expect to find brilliance on hookup apps | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 04:45 AM |
| 9 | How do I continue this?What a weird conversation, I'd say avoid Hinge lol | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Coping with rejectionI was listening to this psychologist give a talk and she said that most people are only able to handle 5 choices, more than that, and the mind zones out. I would suggest during online dating, you should only choose your top 5 candidates and get to know each better instead of sending out a million messages to 100 people. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:40 AM |
| 2 | What’s the ideal balance of friendliness to romance to fun?Are you writing a PhD research paper on this subject? Wondering why you always ask the same questions, then never respond to any of the answers people give you lol | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:36 AM |
| 12 | Shit tests: what to do when your gf/wife never wants to have sex in the position that you want and wants to control the sexual frame?That's not a "shit test". You guys are just sexually incompatible...! | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:33 AM |
| -1 | I’m an Onlyfans creator with 2 girlfriends AMAYou sound like a creepy drug-addicted pimp | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Haven’t tried dating in 3 years, don’t know how to get back into it - any advice?Just act as if you're making a new friend and stop being so fixated on seduction and sex | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:24 AM |
| -8 | Things I can't tell my fwbDo you think puppies are unattractive? I'll tell you a secret, if a woman finds puppies adorable, she probably likes guys who are needy. If a woman prefers cats however, she will most likely prefer aloof or unavailable men... | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?You sound like a very intelligent, worldly woman, but I can't help but think from your answer that you might be a bit cynical in love...as if you've only seen the worse side of relationships and have forgotten what it's like to be in love. Shelf life on romantic love is ~18-36 months I don't think this is true.... but here's the deal- you're both high on dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, epinephrine, norepinephrine & phenylethylalamine. All those chemicals make up the "love cocktail". All those che… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:39 PM |
| -17 | Things I can't tell my fwbI think being needy is adorable. What scares you about being needy? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:01 PM |
| -7 | Things I can't tell my fwbI have never been so addicted to a person. I want to wake up next to you. Making love to you is heaven. You're the most beautiful woman I have ever met, let alone slept with. Your pussy is addictive. When you look in my eyes as we have sex I want to die of pleasure. I miss you. Why can't you tell her that? It sounds really sweet. How long have you known each other? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Getting ghosted in a really weird way!My impression is I don't think she is interested in you romantically | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 05:49 PM |
| -4 | Are my jokes really that bad?Well....you weren't joking, you were humble bragging. Are you having fun on dating sites? What are your goals for these interactions? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?Why do you think she is a good person? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?Why does she leave? Do you not spend the night or the next day together? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?Describe "fun" in more detail please | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?How do you define a "great connection" if you don't mind elaborating? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?Would you mind describing the sex and why it is amazing? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?Well firstly, what do you like about her? I think instead of thinking you're an "option" you should consider getting to know her better to see if you're compatible. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedIn social psychology, propinquity is one of the main factors leading to interpersonal attraction. It refers to the physical or psychological proximity between people. Propinquity can mean physical proximity, a kinship between people, or a similarity in nature between things. I think generally this is true. I'm actually repulsed by aloof type men and avoidant personality types...lol Generally men, or women, are immediately attracted to people with whom they develop a close interpersonal attractio… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | All is fair in love and seductionThere is a fair bit of truth in this. One of my college friends had a few men she had been interested in at the time when she met an older married man she immediately had an intense spark with, but didn't consider him a possibility in dating due to his marital status. However, he went on a long strategic path of war, and literally isolated and targeted all the men she had been considering to date whilst he initially went into a separation phase from his then wife, so that he expertly engineered … | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How to continue escalating after a kiss?Every woman is different, there is no "formula" for this kind of thing. Instead you should think of abiding by certain general rules. Read her body language (ie, if she seems closed off, then she's probably not interested...but if she mirrors your body language and likes to touch you a lot, then she's probably interested) Always ask for consent before going further than kissing (eg, "Do you want to keep going?" "Are you ok?" "Do you want this to happen?" etc) so that there is no confusion Be a g… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Tips for getting girls in Korea? (Mainly Seoul)To my knowledge, South Korea is an introverted nation where randomly talking to strangers is considered rude, so the girls you may approach may think you're trying to con them or get them to buy something etc. It's best to be introduced to girls you would like to get to know by a third party. That's how most people date in South Korea, according to my Korean friend. I would suggest that you first befriend Korean men, and then ask them about introducing you to potential dates. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the numbers rating system for attractiveness?a lot of guys' rating system for women is 100% looks. By looks do you mean, still photographs, live action images or being in the person's presence? I find that often still photos or highly choreographed action images vs being in the person's actual presence differs by quite a lot. We live in an age of social media, so all we are inundated is by still photos on various platforms, but those pics are highly manufactured and photoshopped. I think if men were simply evaluating a woman by her still p… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the numbers rating system for attractiveness?Health is an area where I think he would like to improve I think he likes that I'm a super healthy, health conscious person. I have to admit he did pick up some bad habits from his ex, they tended to turn to pills for everything, never exercised aside from the occasional walks on the beach and hiking and tendency to eat unhealthy fried foods with lots of meat etc. I told him that I would like us to develop a health journey together and to incorporate more whole foods into the diet, taper the dru… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | The Classic "Bang a Bunch of Girls to Move Past a Breakup" Advice is such garbageWell pain is not mutually exclusive with self development | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:49 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the numbers rating system for attractiveness?He's genetically blessed! He's got a perfect face shape with a nicely defined jaw, striking eyes, a Roman emperor nose, perfect lips, perfectly styled hair, nice square shoulders, beautiful hands, natural musical talent, hair on his chest and arms, and the sexiest voice ever. I think he compares himself to tall, athletic football players like Tom Brady though. He's more of the intellectual, writer type and not the athletic, sporty type and I think this is an area where he thinks he falls short. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | The Classic "Bang a Bunch of Girls to Move Past a Breakup" Advice is such garbageYeah, I think that notion is rubbish too. I like to connect deeply with men, so those one night stands and pulling BS sounds absolutely repulsive to me. For me personally, I like to go to the gym and focus on exercise, self-care, learn new skills and generally be at optimal health level for me to feel good. You should give yourself some time for self-development. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the numbers rating system for attractiveness?He said something once in passing, he said that he was sometimes jealous of tall, handsome men who had nothing else to offer, because he himself worked hard for everything all his life, whilst these supposedly more handsome men coast by and only receive undue credit simply because they are good looking. I told him nobody likes a douchebag whose looks are the only thing going for him lol. I think he puts a lot of pressure on himself because he's only heard negativity from those close to him, so h… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?My take is that you shouldn’t love your cousin just because he’s family. I hate my father and my cousin when I came to the unfortunate conclusion that they’re manipulative cunts. Life’s too short to waste on people like this, so I decided never to talk to them. Although your cousin may not be a malicious person like they are. My cousin is a manipulative cunt but I love my aunt, and it would break her heart if I stopped talking to him. It's a small price to pay to keep the peace. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 03:16 AM |
| -8 | I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do?I would ask her how work was and who was the craziest customer she's ever had Find out her likes and dislikes, figure out her sense of humour Then slowly progress to meeting up with friends at a bar or event | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Bro to Bros: how do you seriously get over your own insecuritiesA lot of how you perceive your attractiveness has to do with the relationship you had with your mother. If, as a child, you were always criticised for your appearance, told you were unattractive and that your behaviours were undesirable that will set a blueprint for how you perceive yourself as an adult. So, in essence, if you had that kind of negative relationship with your mother, you have to address the core cause before you can overcome your body dysmorphia. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Bro to Bros: how do you seriously get over your own insecuritiesWhat is your relationship like with your mother? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?Well this is just my experience but a lot of men who are tall and handsome have really repulsive personalities... I'll give you an example, now I love my cousin, and he's considered extremely good looking- 6'2" looks like a model, everyone when they first meet him points out how handsome he is, but because my cousin was coddled all his life and depended on his good looks he tends to be the following: super arrogant selfish- only cares about himself and treats everyone like they're his servant ne… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | My mood has been severely affected by my belief that society is obsessed with youth (and mostly youth in women.)When I was visiting Texas, I was invited to this couple's house and they wore both recently married in their 50s after being divorced several years before. They were the cutest couple too. I think you can find love at any age, it's not about youth. Most men don't want to be with women who look young enough to be their daughters. All the guys I know in their 30s-40s tell me that they prefer women who are more mature and past the 20s partying stage because they are looking for something more serio… | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:01 AM |
| 5 | Men, why would you fall in love with someone you initially planned an only sex relationship ?I would say it depends on the guy and that their situation could be unique. However, in my observation, most people who leave their marriages do so because they are in unhappy, unfulfilling marriages and had been actively looking for a way out. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Men, why would you fall in love with someone you initially planned an only sex relationship ?I don't know if this answers your question, but men always know from the beginning whether something will be purely sexual or not. However, my guy friends told me that they will always downplay a relationship until they are certain that the woman in question reciprocates their level of interest in a relationship. So it could be he had plans all along to do exactly what he did, but he was secretive about it | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:28 AM |
| 3 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?Well I'm not trying to dissuade you from your own style. Bob haircuts are my preference for most women. I think though men like long hair if it's natural, and although your hair seems very nice, there's something artificial looking about it and there's no movement or life in it as it's just sitting there static. Just my opinion, but I think a new hairstyle will accentuate your natural femininity. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:49 AM |
| 2 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?I would say go with the style advice I gave you and don't show too much cleavage. Showing a lot of cleavage sends a message that you're only after sex or want to be sexualised. Opt for more form fitting elegant clothes and lose the BEBE type rock n roll look. A sleek bob haircut would look excellent with your face shape https://images.app.goo.gl/ap8WrU69S7PbxaKL9 | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?What kind of types of guys are you attracted to? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I get attractive female friends?Join a yoga class? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?I would say you're pretty cute. This is just my preference, but I would prefer if you had more of an asymmetrical bob cut on you, where it's longer in the front and your hair looks more sleek and streamlined. Right now, I would say it just looks kind of long and just hanging there. I would also opt for some shimmery, sheer type makeup instead of a heavily made up look, with some purple and pink glosses, and just a bit of colour on your cheeks. As for clothes, something that is elegant and form f… | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with direct competition?For me, I always immediately notice the guy who can banter with me and make me laugh. I also like men who tend to be gentlemen and have a protective body language. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Tips on being more charismaticI'm typically not attracted to men who are the "center of attention" loud types. I prefer quiet, analytical men who is a little off to the side...I think that's way sexier and charismatic | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Serious question. How should one overcome fear of rejection?The mental torture of never knowing is far greater then the mental torture of getting rejected. Oooh! I agree. I rather know than not know and live with regret | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Serious question. How should one overcome fear of rejection?Well it sounds like you suffer from a little bit of anxiety, which is perfectly normal. You most likely think too critically of yourself, when there might be a woman out there who thinks you're really sexy and would love it if you approached and talked to her | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Serious question. How should one overcome fear of rejection?What kind of scenario is this exactly? Could you give more details please? | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I’m crushing on my unofficial boss. And he’s 15 years older than me.Hold your horses guys this is a long one. OK LOL | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 10:33 AM |
| 2 | How almost dying in Bali taught me to not let fear make me it’s bitchOut of curiosity, did you drink tap water or non-bottled water whilst you were in Bali? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Missed opportunity w/ co-workerWell one thing is to be consistent in your words/actions and not say one thing, then contradict yourself the next day. That could be confusing for a woman who might be interested in you. As long as you're consistent, she might begin to trust your intentions. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Missed opportunity w/ co-workerI see, well that's a little different than placing her breasts on your shoulders lol Usually the biggest obstacle for a woman not being interested in a guy is if he is not single and has a crazy partner who keeps stalking and harassing her. As long as you're single, you should make your intentions clear. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Missed opportunity w/ co-workerplacing her breast on my shoulders I'm trying to visualise this...how does one do this? Is she several feet taller than you? lol | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Is she still interested?You could always ask her why she doesn't reply after 9pm. It could be a variety of things. I have a lot of books I have to read for my classes, so sometimes I don't message people at night because I'm usually reading a book or memorising something. I find that the time before you sleep you tend to retain a lot of information so I like to save that time for myself. However, that kind of thing is really individual, so you should ask her. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The Stages of BondingEvolutionary Goals are a bit different from vision, mission and purpose in life. It's more about transcending beyond ambition and being able to reinvent oneself. In addition, one's purpose isn't static, it continually changes over time. It's not as simple as "I want to be a lawyer", that's more of a STAGE TWO goal but not an evolutionary goal. An evolutionary goal would be "let's explore all our fears and dreams together"...or something more abstract or even practical, but it's not a static goal… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:25 PM |
| -3 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?There's nothing wrong with your face. Don't get botox and fillers please. Instead, try a little IPL (intense pulse light) laser (if you have a light skin tone, 1 or 2 type) and focus on moisturisation without petrochemicals but which contains niacinamide. I don't suggest retinoids because that thins skin over time. If you have bags under your eyes, take more vitamin K or coenzyme q10, drink more freshly juiced drinks and clean water without fluoride. Your skin is a reflection of your overall hea… | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 03:03 PM |
| 5 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?I tend to prefer slightly possessive men whose primary love language includes sense of touch. Ideally words should be followed by action. When words are not followed by action, I assume he just says whatever to anyone and can't follow through (eg, flaky, impulse control issues, serial seducer etc) | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | My mood has been severely affected by my belief that society is obsessed with youth (and mostly youth in women.)Age and the concept of "youth" is entirely subjective. Think of when you were 17, you probably thought anyone over 25 was "old". Instead of being focused on "youth", you should focus on "health". I know when I was 16, I was awkward looking with braces, I didn't come into my own until much much later. I tend to think our current media is obsessed with marketing targeting teens, hence why you may have a belief that people don't appreciate older people. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?I think when someone is hot and cold, I lose interest. I don't like men who think they need to play games and such. If I have to wonder if a guy likes me, I just assume he doesn't and make zero effort | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | What is the god damn fuckin' logic behind why taking the initiative or taking initiative is a masculine thing?A signal is a subtle move which leads to the man making the action move. It's still a first move | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Are there pretty girls or handsome boys out there who find dating hard, I mean really hard? How do you deal with it?I had a friend in high school who was quite beautiful and she had a similar problem, but the problem wasn't what she looked like that was the problem in finding someone to date. She had some childhood issues - molested as a child by her dad, often taken advantage of by men, and she became dependent on using her sexuality in order to receive attention from men, instead of focusing on getting to know someone. Instead of focusing on receiving initial attention as a metric for attraction, you might … | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Are there pretty girls or handsome boys out there who find dating hard, I mean really hard? How do you deal with it?Celebrities without makeup and glamourous clothes just look like regular people | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | What is the god damn fuckin' logic behind why taking the initiative or taking initiative is a masculine thing?It's actually women who make the first move. One of my friends' older brother was a womaniser and he said that it was always women who make the first move. They smile at you, or make eye contact, or essentially do something to let the guy know they're interested, then he puts that into action by approaching, starting a convo etc. Without that initial signal from women, most men will not make any move towards her. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:53 AM |
| 0 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double textingMaybe she didn't check her phone? I've been told I'm a "bad texter" because when I'm working on something, I usually don't check my messages. You should investigate further before jumping to conclusions. Something may have happened to her... | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | I realized I look good but look super young!Well how young are we talking about? I had a friend who was 25 but she literally looked like she was 14 years old, also very short and petite, and could not get any men interested in her lol | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk to girls without being boring?Well in my opinion, there are two types of "boring" conversationalists. One is a person who only answers with one-worded answers and laughs a lot but doesn't bring anything to the conversation so that you're the one steering the conversation and doing the majority of the talking and second is a person who keeps asking questions as if it's some sort of job interview (eg, what do you do? where do you study? where do you live? how long have you been working there? what do your parents do? etc) lol.… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you get more comfortable flirting?Well firstly, I think it's hard to find people you're attracted to in the first place! but I suppose once you do, you could start a conversation and go with the flow and read their verbal cues/ body language etc. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Could I dm somebody examples of my text interactions for suggestions and feedback?Just post the top 4 | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Could I dm somebody examples of my text interactions for suggestions and feedback?I could help you :) Why not post them here though and let the internet jury give feedback? I feel like I’m repeating a certain mistake over and over but don’t know exactly how to fix it. Why do you think this? Maybe she is enjoying her side of the conversation?? It's hard to know without context though | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Should I trust my gut?You should always trust your gut. This woman could be a serial killer... | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Shit testing about other datesYou sound like a very bitter man...! | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | How to build attraction on the phone?You should just talk about what you feel comfortable with. Usually in these types of situations, I just go along with the flow and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle rejection?You should always accept the rejection graciously, say something nice about them and wish them well. This also applies for other things like job interviews, applications etc ask them to keep you in mind if another opportunity arises. When you accept rejection graciously, this sets off a series of interactions that have positive karma that eventually returns to you in time. It also shows you're confident, you can take a rejection. Remember that rejection doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, y… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:44 PM |
| 5 | 🌏 My Personal Bible On How To Meet And Date Women From All Over The World 🌍So in summary: All UK women look like clowns and take the piss All Russian women are super intellectual and only want to discuss deep subjects LOL Swedish women are more fun than French women...?! All Japanese and Korean women are sexually repressed...! Yeah, sounds really accurate there lol...🙄 | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | A Guide to Sex for Demisexuals and SapiosexualsYou seem really triggered by my post lol | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 03:21 AM |
| 0 | A Guide to Sex for Demisexuals and SapiosexualsSo remember, there is no formula, but only key concepts in seduction, especially if you happen to be demisexual or sapiosexual and the object of your affection is the same. Perhaps you should read to the end before making an assessment | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | girl said she thought I was boring at firstI said my last comment in a positive way, maybe you've misunderstood. It's apparent money is important to you, so I hope it makes you happy. I'm sure you'll get the billion dollars that you want | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | girl said she thought I was boring at firstI hope you do. At night, just as you're sleeping, I hope all that money comforts you and makes you feel at peace and happy with yourself. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:45 PM |
| 0 | girl said she thought I was boring at firstGood for you. Hope you get what you want from her and she endorses you so that you will become super rich one day. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outIt depends. I sort of read their vibe and decide what to talk about...everyone is different. For instance, I had a date with this man who was undecided in his future career plans, and after speaking to him for several hours, I thought NEUROSCIENCE was the PHD he should attain... not psychology.... Well, let's see if he ever agrees with me... | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle constant rejection?I think your problem is that you consider this a sort of numbers game, as if you're trying to get people to sign up to buy some unnecessary insurance policy. Women can sense that you're being inauthentic, that you're just trying to "score". Whereas, if you have a genuine interest in the person you're approaching, odds are that they will respond better. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 04:58 AM |
| 0 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkAnd Benjamin Franklin was also a vegetarian! | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:32 AM |
| 5 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkIf you read the book you would understand. Shortly before he became a Senator, he writes how he was attending a convention, but he had maxed out his AmEx card, and was driving around aimlessly unable to get in. Finally he called a friend and his friend let him sleep in his hotel room couch. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?What are you most ashamed of? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Making Her DESPERATELY Chase - Simple 3-Step FormulaYou don't need to be qubits to become entangled in a superposition. Anything can become entangled...! | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?May I ask you a question? Why did you delete your other account? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:23 PM |
| -33 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkThere's a difference between men who chase "money" and men who want to make change... No one cares about the miserly Scrooges who chase after money | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Making Her DESPERATELY Chase - Simple 3-Step FormulaWell that would impress me...and I would want to know more about your passion in architecture | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:13 PM |
| 9 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkI think you missed the point of my post LOL! | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?Well then, I guess it'll remain unresolved for you In terms of rejection, I think you shouldn't focus your entire identity on one person | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I discern between "not giving a shit" but also "not being a pushover"Well you missed a step. Before assimilating whether you should give a shit or not, you have to assess whether you respect them or not. If you respect someone, obviously you're going to give a shit and find common ground with them. But if you don't respect someone, then you don't care either way as it doesn't keep you up at night. Therefore, I think "does this person's opinion and respect matter to me?" If it's no, I don't give a shit lol | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?You should be the bigger person and contact her. After time passes, people tend to lose grudges. Also, this seems to be affecting your relationships in the present so you should not let this situation linger in the back of your mind and control all your future choices In regards to family, I learned that it's not about being "right" it's about understanding their feelings | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?Is she still alive? Can you make amends? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?how i needed to choose her home or she would never speak to me again What did you say to her? Also what happened between your mom and dad that made your mom hate him so much? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Did i get rejected or rejected myself?She is looking for social proof that you can get along in a group setting and wants to see how you interact with other people. This is common, I do this myself. Going on dates put a lot of pressure on people, it's easier to interact in a group setting and see how the person interacts with others before making an assessment of them. I would suggest you organise a group activity and invite her. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Making Her DESPERATELY Chase - Simple 3-Step FormulaExample #2: “Do you enjoy multiple orgasms?” She’s going to say yes. Because every girl does LOL I would be very turned off if a guy asked me that. I would answer "that's private and something you may never know." But...if a guy wanted to talk to me about philosophy, eco-developments, the nature of life, quantum physics, literature, the arts, favourite designers and architects, that would immediately interest me more... | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?Well she probably felt a little betrayed, but things eventually calm down after time. Did you get into contact with her again? What did you fight with her about? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?What kind of relationship did you have with your mother before then? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I have an unhealthy obsession with women and validation from themWell personally, I think neediness is attractive in men. I like that men might have stressful or emotionally draining careers or going through rough times and I can be their anchor during times of uncertainty. Every interaction in my head is analyzed for how it could be better or how it could be changed so I could do better. Well, I assume you're an introvert and hence you tend to think everything revolves around you and you're the problem if an interaction goes wrong. I tend to think the polar … | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I have an unhealthy obsession with women and validation from themlol! | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | From My Experience Game Doesn't Matter.Premature ejaculation is primarily a cardiovascular issue not a psychological issue. Maintaining erections require optimal cardiovascular health. There is a strong link between heart disease and erectile dysfunction. Heart disease and erectile dysfunction https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15029-heart-disease--erectile-dysfunction#:~:text=There%20is%20a%20very%20strong,history%20of%20coronary%20artery%20disease. Getting fit and healthy is what is needed to stop PE. As far as being "g… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Infidelity: why you should never go for people who cheat on their spousesWe should accept that cheating is a part of human evolution. I think this is a reductionist perspective that has little to do with evolution. In ancient civilisations, polygamy was the norm and men and women had many lovers and shared many children with different partners together. As societies became more advanced, monogamy and marriage became the prevailing practices. Male involved in long term relationships cheats (in majority od cases) to improve, to be more successfull, which gives us good … | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?Hmmm...I need more info and context. Could you tell me how you got rejected by this person in your past? What happened, what was the situation, what did she say etc? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Infidelity: why you should never go for people who cheat on their spousesIt's the same with a man who brags about dating sisters or a woman who goes for one brother then decides to go for the other brother at the same time. It's just a way to try to validate their ego because they are deeply insecure people who secretly sees themselves as sexually undesirable. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”I think when men are overly flirtatious and charming, I tend to veer away from them because it seems like they're acting in an unauthentic way (ie, wanting something from me). Also men who are overly focused on their looks tend to need a lot of external validation, and I find that sort of tiring to deal with because I tend to be a high maintenance person myself lol. But, if you used to be a playboy in the past, and now have come out of your manwhoring phase to become more of a considerate, carin… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Handling Indirect Rejection/Disrespect?If it were me, I would just ignore this person and wouldn't give them the time of day again and only interact with them on a minimal level as necessary | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Stop focusing on your feelingsI think this is good advice. Men focus too much on their own ego and feelings without considering how their actions affect others. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Said she likes me but isn't ready to dateIt's hard to say without knowing the people in question and their motivations. In my neuroscience class, there were several men interested in this girl but I think one of the guys had a long-term girlfriend. One of the guys interested in her, "Paul" (not his real name) kept telling her, "he's a cheating asshole don't go for him, I'm single!" lol She may just be confused because many men are telling her different things. Who knows lol | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Women are biologically hardwired to be attracted to men that they feel are superior to them. I have read this in a bookHow do I make a girl feel that I’m superior to her LOL! I've always been attracted to intelligent and articulate men. I generally prefer men who bring out my good side and they balance me in some way. If they also make me feel protected and safe and I feel like there's so much to learn from them then that makes me super crush on them. But guys who are arrogant and act superior I'm not attracted to at all. I'm attracted to humility and men who have a lot of kindness, who loves animals and who hav… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask girls if they r angry?She doesn't sound angry, maybe she didn't understand your hand gesture? It sounds like she was talking to her friends | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Girl wanted to fu** me in the center of the club.If this isn't a troll post, I think this post should be renamed "The Secret Adventures of the Legal Balance, A Royal Seduction Master" lol | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Eye-fucking older married manThis seems like a very bad idea...getting involved with someone who's both married and a religious nutcase lol I think if I were you, I would say something to him like, "if you're ever single, and if I happen to be single at the time, I would like to go out on a date with you but I'm not interested in being your ice cream flavour du jour. I think you know I'm way too good for that." | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 07:13 AM |
| 0 | Do guys find women who are too available/eager unappealing?The whole point of texting is that you can send it at any time when you feel like it. There's no obligation to send texts straight away... | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:57 AM |
| 2 | callingI think that's much nicer, I prefer talking on the phone and listening to their voice rather than texting which I find boring If someone sets aside specific time to talk, I would appreciate that rather than being forced to text all day | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Do guys find women who are too available/eager unappealing?What if she's not in a texting mood? | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:52 AM |
| -5 | Do guys find women who are too available/eager unappealing?What if she has something to do? Do you expect her to reply to your texts right away all the time? What if she is in a meeting, at the gym or giving a presentation? You expect her to drop all her responsibilities to make sure she prioritises texting you? lol I think quality is better than quantity. I much rather send a thoughtful text after some time rather than these quick snippets of half-formed thoughts... | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:20 AM |
| 2 | After seemingly successful first date, got ghosted, sent a “no hard feelings, I’m moving on” and got a response. What now?That sounds so cute, she is probably thinking about you and analysing what your intentions are. She might even be researching your ex on the internet to see what your previous situation may have been. It could be she is thinking that it's way to soon after your "separation/divorce" to start dating you, but most likely she will get back to you because it seems like she really likes you | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:00 AM |
| 2 | i used to think i'm a loner by choice,but i feel like it's something i keep telling myself to feel better...Well I guess you'll never know then. Two ships in the night, sailing away from each other... | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | i used to think i'm a loner by choice,but i feel like it's something i keep telling myself to feel better...Maybe you're just a male tease? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | i used to think i'm a loner by choice,but i feel like it's something i keep telling myself to feel better...Why don't you want to kiss her? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Has there been someone you didn't really notice at first, but then later thought he/she is kind of super sexy!?I just want to get to know him! And maybe kiss him Do you think that would be a bad decision? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:30 PM |
| -6 | i used to think i'm a loner by choice,but i feel like it's something i keep telling myself to feel better...Could you post a pic? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | i used to think i'm a loner by choice,but i feel like it's something i keep telling myself to feel better...What are your abs and thigh muscles like? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:21 PM |
| 3 | i used to think i'm a loner by choice,but i feel like it's something i keep telling myself to feel better...Question: Do you want to kiss her? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 0 | Do you have a specific type of person you're attracted to?Like Kim Kardashian? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:47 AM |
| -1 | Do you have a specific type of person you're attracted to?I'll guess it's on your left bum...lol | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:46 AM |
| -1 | Do you have a specific type of person you're attracted to?Where is your secret tattoo located and what does it say/symbolise? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:42 AM |
| 0 | Do you have a specific type of person you're attracted to?How not fat is not fat? Give an example | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:41 AM |
| 0 | Do you have a specific type of person you're attracted to?Bahahaha no. Aha....so yes. It's ok, I won't reveal your secret fetish for punk rock women with tattoos and piercings ;) | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:38 AM |
| 3 | shit tests from corporate managers and peersDefine sociopath? A lot of people simply have a lot of ego and may not take criticism well, hence developing a grudge, but they're probably not sociopaths. Also think about picking your battles. If some lady who is 30 years older than yourself start becoming a bully, well, speak up, but remember, they're probably just older, maybe on a lot of meds, and probably have got a lot of personal problems and you may bring out their jealousies and insecurities. It's better to make allies with people you … | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:37 AM |
| 0 | Do you have a specific type of person you're attracted to?Did you grow up in a super posh family where you had to follow many rules, regularly was forced to go to Church on Sundays or raised in a religious manner? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis ProblemMaybe she likes talking to you because you seem familiar to her somehow and she likes hearing your voice from time to time and you're insightful and engaging. It's probably one of those crushes that is a velleity, but maybe you're a little obsessed with her because she can somehow see right into your soul and you're used to hiding your real self from others. You should keep up a friendly demeanor but remember you also have a duty to your job. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Oneitis ProblemOneitis is mentally holding a girl hostage and stalking her with your thoughts and in fact those behaviors are manifesting on a spectrum in your life Very interesting! | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction: Advice?He probably intimidates women (and most people), by testing and judging them. He doesn't really do this. He's mild mannered and humble and often hides his experience and accomplishments. He doesn't ever show off his intelligence and experience and he's someone who tends to be accommodating and will know just what to say. He's kind of like the real President behind the scenes, if the President happened to suffer from dementia just as a random, speculative example. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction: Advice?I would say he either likes waspy private schooled ladies or emotionally unstable latinas lol | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.Most of the time, people tend to be attracted to those who are similar to them but have opposite phenotypes. For example, usually blonde girls like tall, dark handsome types. A tall guy might prefer short, skinny women but they might have similar passions or hobbies or interests. Women tend not to be attracted to people who could look like they could be their first cousin or long-lost brother. In a similar analogy friends of friends are not usually interested in dating their friends of friends. … | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 08:05 AM |
| 4 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.Where do you meet these girls/women? It seems like you're choosing the wrong types for you. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Gym cold approach - just introduce myself and then carry on?lol! Good analysis | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | If seduction was the animal kingdom which one would you choose to represent you and why?I think I would be a snow tiger or a Siamese cat | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 08:12 AM |
| -1 | On a Scale of Sexuality, where are you on the Spectrum?Everyone has both masculine and feminine traits. Our cultures have conditioned us to be believe we are binary or one or the other, when we have both. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 04:19 AM |
| -2 | Do you think gym guy is trying to impress me?I already know he's a fitness model as his pics are all over the gym If he after talking invites you to do something, just laugh and say it was a nice try, you should try again/i'm not interested, If he isn't interested, move on, problem solved Oh my goodness! You sound very jealous! | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:27 AM |
| 6 | Do you think gym guy is trying to impress me?There was another instance where we were working out in the same space and one of his friends came, looked at me and punched him in the arm and whispered in his ear, and I got the impression they were talking about me I was just minding my own business and working on my upper arms lol | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on what to do with this crazy chickNice fantasy there lol | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Premature Ejaculation: Overcoming the ShameI seems to me that over 3/4 of the men on this subreddit suffer from premature ejaculation due to over-medication. This is their primarily problem in seduction. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | what's worse be squint or short?Asian people have a genetic trait in which they have more fat and thicker skin around the opening of the eyes, giving eyes a cat shape and youthful appearance which I, and many other people find a desirable and attractive trait. I also find deep set eyes attractive, but many people with this eye opening type have insecurities about eyes looking "tired and hollow" due to the thin skin around the eye area, and there has been a cosmetic trend to have those hollows/eye troughs filled, in order to ac… | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:42 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, Would You Block A Guy If You're Too Attracted To Him or If He's Too Handsome?I've only blocked people for being stalkerish and intrusive, not for being handsome and attractive lol. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:36 AM |
| 12 | Ladies, Would You Block A Guy If You're Too Attracted To Him or If He's Too Handsome?What a weird question. No. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Seduction Tips for the Intelligent Man of Our EraYou sound like you're in a good mood lol | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Girl sent nudes after she thought I rejected her… what does this mean?Pretty sure you're talking to a guy using fake pics | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Seduction Tips for the Intelligent Man of Our EraWhat is your theory about me, out of curiosity? | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Seduction Tips for the Intelligent Man of Our EraLearn to focus on who is important in your life and why. Did you not read this last sentence? | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Am I a low status man?For someone with a supposed learning disability, you seem to write quite well, better than half the people on this subreddit lol. There are many different types of intelligences and IQ tests are based specifically on logical-mathematical intelligence and pattern recognition, but by all means, it's not the only intelligence out there. You might want to check out these sites to learn more: https://www.simplypsychology.org/multiple-intelligences.html https://www.iberostar.com/en/inspiration-guide/w… | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?Well you probably like security and some level of predictability. You probably also like feeling needed and appreciated. Your love languages are probably acts of service and touch. ;-) | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?What is something that you least like about yourself? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?Out of curiosity, what do you think about women with blondish hair like Natalie Dormer? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?I'm good. Wouldn't mind the sex again tho. It was nice. Great body. If you're still thinking about wanting sex with her again, it might be that you were more emotionally attracted to her rather than for her body, hence you wouldn't be able to have another strong emotional sex experience if you're not open to it and still thinking about this ex. Highly recommend you get with a latina. Lol OK, thanks for the recommendation lol | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?Well maybe she lacked brain synchonisation. Being easily influenced and manipulated is one of the symptoms when the connection between the left and right hemispheres are weak. I got the impression that an open relationship might have been the underlying cause of your relationship breakdown. Especially if she had been wanting to feel sexually desired by other people, a typical reactionary sign when a woman senses her partner to be sexually desired to other women. Do you want her back? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?I got the impression you were implying something private about her without necessarily explicitly saying what her specific issue was. Why would you say she was a weak-minded person? BTW, did you two ever have an "open" relationship that complicated matters? I'll make the assumption that you're a little drunk right now lol | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:34 PM |
| -5 | Why are women even on this subreddit?Because some men are endlessly inquisitive and curious, and tend to be thick-skinned, therefore fun to banter with And it's always good to get a general POV to see what motivates them | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I have a good convo with a girl that I likeWell firstly, what do you like to talk about? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?I noticed that women who go through some serious medical issues can often become cynical. She may have wanted to see what else was out there because she wanted to feel sexually desired and not pitied upon. I wouldn't blame her coworkers, she probably made the decision on her own, especially if she's the stubborn sort who always needs to get her way but it does sound like she has a problem self-medicating with marijuana or other drugs/alcohol. You seem like you felt unappreciated by her, and emot… | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?Cute. Yes, theta wavelengths induce the hippocampal oscillation that can synchronise the cerebral hemispheres which activates the midichlorians embedded in the pineal gland | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?I don't trust relationships anymore. Why don't you trust relationships anymore? What happened in your experience if you don't mind sharing? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?I'm sensing a lot of resistance to this concept! lol | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:26 PM |
| 0 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?I think one could say that most of men's problems in seducing women is that they lack brain synchonisation. Being overly left or right brained is a turn off for most people. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?Do you consider yourself left or right brained? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?Do you ever practice yoga or cross-crawl exercises? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:47 PM |
| -2 | The key to seduction: brain synchronisation?May I ask how much you exercise? | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:39 PM |
| -8 | My idea of an ideal evening with an intelligent and athletic manSorry to say, but that would turn me off | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | I think I look goodIf it's any consolation, Henry Cavil looks like he could be my half brother and I'm not the least bit attracted to him... | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player?You can always start out as friends, then go from there. Usually player type men aren't interested in developing a solid friendship. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 04:37 PM |
| 0 | How do cute, cynical, dark-humored, philosophical men like to be seduced?Stare at him like he's a juicy meal Bite your lips / lick your lips Um, no...I find women who do this predatory and sort of gauche! | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 04:05 PM |
| 3 | How do cute, cynical, dark-humored, philosophical men like to be seduced?What an interesting story...! Well in my case, the guy is single lol | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Stamina Question: How long can you run on the treadmill?Riiiight | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Stamina Question: How long can you run on the treadmill?Yes, I agree. Unless you already have cardiovascular issues. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Stamina Question: How long can you run on the treadmill?Your heart just fails. Usually during or one hour later, according to reports. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Stamina Question: How long can you run on the treadmill?Australian cricket legend Shane Warne died just aged 52 in Thailand....in bed. What do you think happened there? | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Stamina Question: How long can you run on the treadmill?It has to do with the VAX... | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Stamina Question: How long can you run on the treadmill?Now you're bragging | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?You're so intriguingly mysterious. I assume you mean blue sapphire, because sapphire itself has many hues, including pink and green and yellow...lol I sense you like to answer in ways that are ambiguous... I would say in my observation that men who've had mothers who were kind and caring look for the same, but the men who didn't have that, look for the opposite, always searching for the mother who had abandoned them. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?Caring, kind, motherly, sacrificed much for the family. Well those are obviously the characteristics in women you're attracted to... What's your favorite color? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?Oh I sense a Twin Peaks cherry knot in mouth reference here.... :-O I suppose most people don't want to be around authoritarian figures, especially parents who may stifle their curiosity and learning. May I ask you what your mother was like if you don't mind sharing? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?What kind of new skills have you been practicing if you don't mind sharing? Is your friend someone you're advising, like a mentor-mentee/father-son relationship? It sounds like an exciting new chapter in your life, what do you look forward to the most? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?Well...you should get to know people slowly. Find out similar interests you may have. Create a schedule where you can talk to them regularly at the same time every day. Surprise yourself and learn new skills you may not have yet discovered. Question: what is something you've always wanted to do or learn that you haven't done yet? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?Oh ISTJ! ISTJs generally prefer dogs though...! They prefer people who are reliable and will be there for them during the hard times. You said you love cats? ;p Cats are independent and have a "I don't need you" attitude and a thousand other lovers. Hmm. I would say you want stability in your life. You want someone who is like a rock, will work things out with you, will always be there for you no matter what. You get very attached to people with whom you develop a close emotional and sexual rela… | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeCute lol | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?Oooh! Take this one https://similarminds.com/pref_jung.html It's the best free one. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?Are you an ISFP personality type? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?What is your favorite animal? Do you have pets? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?I see...you're a very secretive person and hard to get to know... | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?Aw, you're so cute... thanks for remembering to reply. I don't think you need to know all the answers. You should take some time to figure yourself out. More questions for you (if you don't mind my prying into your consciousness) what was the happiest moment of your life? when was the last time you cried? when were you last the most proud of yourself? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?How about both? | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?I'm talking about everyday regular men who are confident, in shape, high self esteem, etc. They love themselves and know what they want. Out of curiosity, what would you say you want? What kind of person are you searching for? | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates?I think in general, anyone can get any dates, even if they are supposedly not "high quality." I just read some random account of a guy having sex with a girl he had just met a K-mart for goddsakes lol. Some people have absolutely no filter mechanism whatsoever when choosing people to date or have sex with. I think for most people, the process of filtering people for dates gets much more difficult if there are too many people to choose from as opposed to if you were simply at a dinner party of 20… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Different love languages: What would you do if one of your love languages is giving gifts and your hypothetical person doesn't have the same love languages?That seems like good advice, but would therapy really help them? My experience with therapists is that they often lead their patients to develop "victim" complexes, so that they are always in state of a victim mentality, hence limiting their self-agency and ability to change. I agree that mindfulness, reflective listening might help the hypothetical subject 1, but it seems to me sometimes, the friends one surrounds himself with are the most influential and if he surrounds himself with people who… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?I think you're much more likely to attract women if you stop pointing out "red flags". It's as if you're afraid to merely get to know people who have viewpoints outside your own. I'm guessing you had somewhat of a high maintenance mother who was quite demanding? It's ok to make mistakes and not have to be "perfect" all the time. I'm sort of getting a "younger sibling" vibe from you, and it could be that you had an older sibling you always felt overshadowed by, whom you're comparing yourself to a… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Different love languages: What would you do if one of your love languages is giving gifts and your hypothetical person doesn't have the same love languages?Yeah I like to give practical advice. I've found I learn alot about psychology and emotional intelligence by taking the time to try and understand someone's point of view and then help them see through the fog of their mind. Well let's see how good you are! What kind of advice would you give to the following people? And mind you, this is completely hypothetical, not based on real persons: Subject 1: Male, 60s, history of bad relationships with women, anger issues, uses money as a form of control… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?Well if you were engaging in banter, then there would be some sort of lead up, not a mere statement of your interest in them. They would already know, so you wouldn't have to say it explicitly. I'm guessing from your longish rant that you are of an INTP personality type lol. I have noticed amongst my INTP friends that they tend to attracted to their opposite types: ESFJ or ENFJ types who tend to be first to make sexual moves on them and who come on fairly strong in relationships so that there is… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Different love languages: What would you do if one of your love languages is giving gifts and your hypothetical person doesn't have the same love languages?You just shouldn't date gamers they are children lol I was just speaking generally about what I noticed is the most popular topics in dating and seduction not about myself personally lol However, I see you like to advise people...doing your research here, huh? ;-) | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Different love languages: What would you do if one of your love languages is giving gifts and your hypothetical person doesn't have the same love languages?Thats exactly what I'm saying. Well good, then you agree with me. The woman in this situation doesn't prefer to show love with physical touch and so chooses not to rather than think of what the man wants and she isn't getting any love out of the way he's showing it because touch isn't her love language, he should stop trying trying get touch with touch and communicate qnd find out what she does want and in return she should give him what he wants, if they actually love eachother. Or maybe she do… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Different love languages: What would you do if one of your love languages is giving gifts and your hypothetical person doesn't have the same love languages?My logic works the other way round where yours doesn't, Let's say a guys love language is physical touch does that mean he's excused from buying gifts because it isn't how he prefers to show love ? Anyone can see that this is selfish especially if his partners love language is gift giving. When a guy's love language is physical touch, it usually means he likes being stroked, held hands, given hugs, and kissed often. I assume he will show his love in the same way to his partner which he hopes wil… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Different love languages: What would you do if one of your love languages is giving gifts and your hypothetical person doesn't have the same love languages?You love language isn't giving gifts, it's receiving them. You can still enjoy giving gifts but if your partner gets nothing out of it then it is a selfish act. One's love language is how one both receives and gives love and appreciation, it isn't a one-way street. I notice that a popular topic on dating and seduction threads is a woman makes a lot of effort in planning a party or something or another for her guy's birthday or anniversary whilst he makes zero effort for her special day and choos… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 08:44 AM |
| 8 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?You kind of remind me of that popular youtube advice psychologist Stephen Hussey. I would say courtship has a lot to do with teasing, verbal seduction and play. You began your play by casting a wide net, telling all your female friends you were interested in them romantically. This is not a good courtship tactic. You have to narrow down on women whom you are really attracted to and conduct research on them, to find specific things about them that you love and appreciate and then make it known to… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Different love languages: What would you do if one of your love languages is giving gifts and your hypothetical person doesn't have the same love languages?Well it isn't stupid at all. Love languages reveal how a person feels loved and appreciated. If you're curious to know more about it, you can find it here: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/ It shows how a lot of miscommunication occurs when people don't have the same love languages, hence building resentment over time when they don't feel loved and appreciated. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 08:19 AM |
| 5 | What is the meanig of stud?A young racehorse that can be trained to become a winner in horseraces? What is the point of this question? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | After taking 3 years off, I'm not sure where to start againDo you often flirt with trolls online? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Noticed an interesting man at the local café this morningYikes! you sound sooooo jealous....! | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | After taking 3 years off, I'm not sure where to start againI have to confess that I don't smoke at all, but I don't mind if other people do. I'm quite health conscious and quite regimented about what I put into my body down to the supplements I take and what my nutrition is, as a key feature of one of my areas of research is longevity studies. Tf are you smoking lol From your reaction, I guess you do love bossy women and also a recreational marijuana smoker lol ;-) | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:13 PM |
| -1 | Noticed an interesting man at the local café this morningWhat's wrong with friendzoning myself? You're acting like making new friends is a bad thing?! He's an immensely intriguing, interesting and complex man, and I am just getting to know him. Can you read thoughts? He has a positive energy, and although I can't read his subvocal chords like a CIA agent with a nanovaccine implant, I can tell he is quite sincere and we have loads in common, like our love for animals and animal rights as an example lol | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:08 PM |
| -1 | Noticed an interesting man at the local café this morningWhat is the reasoning for your assessment? lol | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | After taking 3 years off, I'm not sure where to start againMore so behind but enjoyed in front more. Aha! So you like being told what to do by a woman I'm guessing. lol I'm simplifying things and it's probably not exactly like that but actors + actors usually make bad relationships because they eventually end up competing with each other and resenting each other instead of an actor + director sort of relationship in which they have a natural harmony in communication and they admire each other's complementary aspects a lot more. But out of curiosity, do … | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:35 AM |
| -2 | For All The Guys Self Conscious About Their Height, Check This:Do you ever wear high heels and a skirt sometimes? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | After taking 3 years off, I'm not sure where to start againRandom question that came to my mind: do you prefer being in front of the camera or behind the camera? | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | After taking 3 years off, I'm not sure where to start againWhat kind of other goals are you working on and how have you improved yourself if I may ask? | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 05:10 AM |
| 12 | Signs that your female "friend" might intend to traffic youI knew a woman like this too. She was a Russian hairdresser at a salon I regularly went to and seemed super sweet and nice. I invited her to my birthday party and we became friends, and she seemed to get along with all my friends. However, as I got to know her more, I realized that she was "dating" or "seeing" literally 20+ men which raised my suspicions. She was always on a date with some guy at a party and every time it was always a different guy. At this point, she started dating one of my gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | What do you suppose is up with this guy in my graduate class?I've seen a lot of women who do porn and I didn't find them remotely attractive...! I mean unless you find breast implants, lip injections and face injections with 5 layers of makeup "hot"...! | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 06:58 AM |
| 0 | What do you suppose is up with this guy in my graduate class?Actually his personality is one of the best things about him. He's nerdy like I am, interested in esoteric subjects and not materialistic/ into the Instagram culture. I don't consider watching porn a big deal so...if he secretly masturbates to that, who cares... | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | What do you suppose is up with this guy in my graduate class?Well yes. In a room full of 5'8" men or below, he sort of stands out. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Teeth and attractionSo what? I think a gap is addddoooorrrraaaabbbbleeee! | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 4 | What do you suppose is up with this guy in my graduate class?In class he doesn't seem at all socially awkward And don't all men watch porn? I don't know what the big deal about it is | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 2 | What do you suppose is up with this guy in my graduate class?I assume he's around my age 31. Of course, I'm a bad judge of age, and he could actually be a 22 year old virgin lol | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:44 PM |
| 2 | How much does culture and personality type affect your attraction to someone?Southern counties over London area in the UK. I find that I also like Northerners as well, or any other area aside from Hampstead Heath and Bristol, generally speaking. I find the average British person, even if working class, more open minded than ivy league educated Americans...! | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Teeth and attractionI like gaps, I think they're adorable, but as long as the rest of the teeth is straight and white. That's not a lie..! | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Mastering my PersonaI like the way how Colin Salmon speaks and articulates his thoughts. You should try to focus on what is unique to you though and not copy the way other people speak. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | So how can I get teasing and turn it into seduction."Can I help you wash your hair?" "Can I help you shave your legs?" Any kind of joke in which you're eager to be her personal manservant will be hinting towards sex but not in a crass, overt way. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 06:59 AM |
| 5 | Teeth and attractionA gap can be cute on princes. But generally straight and white teeth are always nice. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Don't be tempted or fooled by cheap substitutes that allow modern society to rob you of the opportunity to form real connectionsModern society is destroying your ability to obtain the most basic pleasures in life, which used to be effectively free, and instead enticing you to purchase cheap substitutes. We now have: Followers instead of having true friends, Contacts instead of connections. Likes instead of true admiration. Tinder instead of dating. The Metaverse instead of reality. Video games instead of real adventure in our life. Only fans instead of intimacy. A corporate family instead of a biological one. Calories in… | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 02:55 PM |
| -4 | Random appreciation post for Eastern European and Russian womenI'm not "stalking" you. All your posts are public information. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 03:19 AM |
| -1 | Did i lost her?I sent her this: Hey, i know you wanna take it slow. Still: i want you. I think this is an excellent message and your female friend gave you the correct advice. However, you should be patient because she may be the slow to commit type and assessing you for ulterior motives. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 02:52 AM |
| 27 | Random appreciation post for Eastern European and Russian womenThat's because Bratislava and otherwise Slovakia is the centre of European sex trafficking. Most of the women you see there are not actually from there, they're brought there by criminal organizations who abuse women, children and young boys into sex trafficking for the elite in Western Europe http://www.endslavery.va/content/endslavery/en/publications/youth_symposium_2014/slovakia.html HUMAN TRAFFICKING SITUATION IN SLOVAKIAPoverty and lack of economic opportunities in Slovakia, especially in t… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Random appreciation post for Eastern European and Russian womenu/Mo_drp_knwldg only dates sex workers. Hence he hates American women because Americans tend to stand up for people who are sexually abused | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 02:40 AM |
| -6 | Random appreciation post for Eastern European and Russian womenWhy don't you learn the Eastern European languages and talk to Eastern European women instead of on a forum full of Americans and Brits? Your misogynistic advice, full of condescension of women and promotion of sex trafficking is utterly disgusting. Hence, no woman would date you and you have to prey on foreign women who care barely understand English, because if they could understand half the things you say, they would most certainly dump you | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | What every woman wantsI'm sorry to say, but I don't recall ever corresponding with you. If you don't like my sense of humor, then you can choose to ignore me. I certainly didn't write this to mock atypical men or for your explicit approval, I wrote it partly to expose condescending, arrogant men who have never read a medical book or medical research paper in their lives, nor have ever taken a single medical course, but blindly deferring all their thinking processes to paid media propagandists, then have the audacity … | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 06:14 AM |
| 4 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"Excellent post. It sort of reminds me of this gif: Picard: There are 4 lights! "If you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people will eventually come to believe it." - Joseph Goebbels Unfortunately, this toxic philosophy has seeped into the realm of romantic relationships, whereas before, it had been primarily limited to the political spheres. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Let's just be friends, from 4 plus situations what do I do?I feel like you're the type of man who "always has to be right". I mean, if we were having a friendly game of sparring, I'm pretty sure I could spot all your weaknesses straight away... | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Let's just be friends, from 4 plus situations what do I do?Your idea of flirting is giving compliments. That's not what I consider flirting. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:30 PM |
| 0 | Let's just be friends, from 4 plus situations what do I do?The point is to express what you like about her. In the beginning stages, there's no need to point out what you like about her, you don't know her well enough to know if you like her or not, and that's what seems insincere about it. Asking interesting and provocative questions is more interesting and flirty to me. But most men these days only like talking about themselves lol | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Let's just be friends, from 4 plus situations what do I do?Sounds fake and insincere. That sort of thing I don't consider flirting, it's more like sycophancy. Men don't usually need to convey they're nervous, because it's written in their body language. If a guy says it, he's just using it as a manipulation tool. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Let's just be friends, from 4 plus situations what do I do?I said flirt sexually, aka make her feel desired. Give me an example of that | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Let's just be friends, from 4 plus situations what do I do?In other words, you don’t treat her like a woman you sexually desire and instead you keep acting like a good buddy at best. I disagree with this advice. Women don't want to be treated like a sex object and if a guy was being handsy and touchy feely very early on, I would become repulsed and most likely would stay away from him because he would be emitting sleazy vibes. A guy who also only talks about sex and his sexual interest in me would also be a red flag and I avoid guys who ask me sexual qu… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | {Rant} - Freaking tired of your excusesWomen's limbic systems are developmentally more advanced than men's and they can perceive all sorts of subliminal things that most men can't when it comes to communication. This is very accurate for both sexes. Some people have more advanced limbic systems, others not so much. They're usually referred to in common parlance as "empaths". | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 09:21 AM |
| 4 | I wish I could forget all the negativity, dating woes, and EvoPsych stuff I ever readbut consumed with rage because other guys have advantages I don't. Your problem is this. Fix that. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 09:16 AM |
| 1 | What every woman wantsI think curiosity is a big factor as well. There are people who are curious about the world and has an open mind in wanting to learn new things vs. people are not curious about the world, intimidated by narratives outside of their sphere of knowledge and would rather be a shut-in on a bunch of drugs, but it's their choice to do so. Everyone has a free will. I wouldn't necessarily call them incels, but more like close-minded, arrogant jerks with a limited world view. I wouldn't give them a single… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 08:53 AM |
| 4 | What every woman wantsYes, it's a fact that every woman wants a guy who subscribes to polypharmacy, blindly believes whatever the media tells him, is diagnosed with a 100 different psychological ailments, has zero social skills then tells you that you're the problem lol | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Tips on game with older women?That's not an older woman lol. You guys are in the same generation, both in your twenties. But as a 20 year old, you're most likely a virgin and probably just looking for sexual experience. Remember the following rules and you'll always do well with women: always be a gentleman and treat every single woman with utmost respect. Women will fawn over you, if you keep to those rules and not go in the way of the incel. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You're making an assumption that all women are the same. It's as if asking "are older men better in bed?" It really depends specifically on the man and the woman. A younger woman can be super hot as a younger man and just as super hot as an older man or a woman. Quite frankly I think there are many predatory type of people of all ages. Age doesn't necessarily entail being better at something, some people get worse lol. However, a good indicator that a person of either gender has a lot of sexual … | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 04:01 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Try your conversation skills with all kinds of people: old, young, rich, poor, etc. Walk down the street and start a conversation with an elderly lady, the supermarket clerk, the waiter, the cleaning lady or janitor, people at charity fundraises, your local govt official, just anyone. Soon you will find that you can start conversations with just about anyone and find things in common to discuss without it being forced and unnatural. Most of all, you should have a general curiosity about things t… | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | what is a good game that can help me get more intimate with someone?Doubles tennis, swimming, martial arts. Martial arts is my favorite. You can see what kind of man he is by the way he fights. If he's petty, on the offensive and tries to win at any cost because it's a crush to his male ego to "lose to a woman", it's not a good sign and representative of his entire life philosophy. However, if he's considerate and uses a defensive strategy, it means he's a keeper. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | What are your goals/expectations from 2022?For me, learn guitar or a new musical instrument learn a new language finish writing project X work on project E socialize more with vegan networking groups and businesses lose 5kgs (this one has been ongoing for 5 years now- my weight never changes lol) | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:01 AM |
| 7 | Should I stop being her friend?I asked her a while back if there is anything there anymore and she said she thinks we’d be better off as friends She has made her position crystal clear. She is only interested in being platonic friends. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What if being able to have great conversations you’re only skill?You could become a good negotiator, diplomat, or a social event organizer. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Recent interview with dating coach - I want to see if her cost is reasonable.I had a meeting yesterday and she charges $3200 for 3 months. This includes 3 online meetings per month over the course of the 3 months and then unlimited access to an app where we talk through there and make plans, etc. What a horrible revenue model. It's just a one-off sales and then the client is unlikely to make further purchases A better revenue model would be a subscription model that charges $150/month then $10K for a destination weekend getaway retreat holiday programme in places like Gr… | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Do women show off their beauty to assert their dominance over other women?Most beautiful women don't show off their beauty because they often become victims of bullying from other women or else victims of stalking, unless it's part of their job. Some women may be exhibitionists, which is a different type of thing. A friend of mine who's a model told me that on social media, all the nasty and bitter and negative comments she received was always from women, never from men. Not surprisingly, she is rarely present on social media these days for that reason. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 08:09 AM |
| 0 | Do women show off their beauty to assert their dominance over other women?IMO true beauty is understated. We live in a social media era where women look strangely plastic- lip and facial fillers, filters, too much heavy makeup and quite personally, I find it unattractive and unappealing. I recently saw a British movie, Mothering Sunday, and I was blown away by how gorgeous Odessa Young was. She was wearing no makeup and literally naked for half the movie, but there was something really quite understated, elegant and completely natural about her. I think for everyone b… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:56 AM |
| 99 | Nah men, women are visual creatures too.I think because we are from a generation in which men have been coddled their entire lives, men are really looking for their mommy who will look after them and treat them like a little boy. Gone are the days of gentlemen, chivalry and men who will readily go outside their comfort zone to take appropriate risks. Men in our generation are perpetual whiners, whingers, negative, misogynistic, have zero empathy and think they deserve all the best things in life without making a single effort lol This… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Smallish (~300 people) festival game - optimal strategy - anyone experienced with this?I would say choose the top 3 and then move from there. If you're seen by women as hitting on nearly every girl there, every girl will automatically reject you lol | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 05:30 AM |
| -1 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsDon't flatter yourself troll. It's laughable how you have your troll army follow me around and neg me while you upvote your own self | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 04:40 AM |
| 16 | Sons of single mothers = a huge red flagI kind of disagree. I feel like men who were close to their mothers often understand how hard women struggle in everyday life and tend to have more empathy. For me, a red flag is if a man hates his mother- usually those types tend to be heavily misogynistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:39 AM |
| -1 | How can I tell if a guy is actually being confident or just using some technique on me?Ask him what his fears are. If he tells you in an authentic manner, he's confident. If he says he has no fears or his fear is something really superficial, he's insecure at the core | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:24 AM |
| 0 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsBonobos, our closest relatives, are matriarchal Most societies in the world are matriarchal, except those who subscribe towards Buddhism, which is a male-dominated, male-centric religion and way of life. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsAgreed! | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:18 AM |
| -1 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsOften, those who subscribe to alpha male concept, have a false sense of bravado, and try to act domineering. They put others down to preserve an image of power. However, when they are confronted, they almost always fold. Well well well, I suppose someone took a long, hard look at himself in the mirror! I’m stepping away from Reddit for a few months after this post. Everyone knows you and your 400+ usernames aren't going anywhere, no doubt you'll be back to sprout your usual misogynistic BS advic… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:07 AM |
| 2 | A popular fitness YouTuber posts a video on how to get a girlfriend, relationship dynamics, guidelines for a healthy relationship, etc. Thoughts?Wow! I'm so impressed he can talk for 4 hours on this subject without stopping! | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:48 AM |
| 2 | A Dating Guide for the Introverted Analytical ManClubs don't usually attract "high status" men...more like creepy men...! lol I think you should do what you think is right and not be so amenable to what other people think is right for you | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Worth moving to Asia for more success?Well that guy describes himself as a good looking Italian Chad. He would probably get lots of likes from any nation. From my experience, Asian women, in particular East Asian women are not very kind to men who are not attractive. They're a very looks-oriented society and often speak very cruelly amongst themselves about "ugly white men" who hit on them. However, you might try Thailand or Vietnam, where women aren't as discerning and discriminating. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:14 AM |
| 7 | English and Irish women are surprisingly receptive to getting approached and cool as fuck.All my American male friends say British women are the hardest to approach and not very receptive towards them. British women tend to be standoffish, and unless you're charming and witty they won't give you the time of day. Instead, my American male friends say women who are lawyers are the easiest to approach. Lawyers tend to be aggressive, and have dominating personalities, so typically the types to do the approaching and American men like that because a lot of American men have submissive per… | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 04:43 AM |
| 0 | Gentlemen: What are your sleeping habits? How does that correlate to virility and seduction?I wouldn't consider them "journalists" more like two catty airheads sitting around complaining about a book which they didn't like. They bring zero evidence, only assumptions and opinions. "Like OMG! He said if we don't get enough sleep, we will get cancer!" I don't think they even read his book.... | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 05:38 AM |
| -1 | Gentlemen: What are your sleeping habits? How does that correlate to virility and seduction?Sorry to say, but those guys sound like airheads and they bring absolutely no credible evidence that Matthew Walkers is a hack. Have you actually listened to this podcast? It just seemed like these two guys just didn't like his book lol | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Gentlemen: What are your sleeping habits? How does that correlate to virility and seduction?Do you have any evidence to back up your slanderous claims or is that just merely your personal opinion based on bias? | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?May I ask why you have a "couple" of law degrees? Don't you really only need one? | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?Don't look like you smoke a pack a day or do meth. Scabs, yellow eyes, messed up teeth. I had a friend in high school, she was super gorgeous and had the best creamy skin. Men were always complimenting her or hitting on her. She was always smoking clove cigarettes and pot though. Then she got a boyfriend who was a coke dealer and started doing cocaine and meth. I came home from university after one year and I saw her and I was shocked. It was literally like she aged 15 years in a span of one yea… | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?I’m classically handsome but at 27 have begun to show some age. Wow~ at 27? Damn, stay out of the sun then, wear a hat and sunblock and maybe get some IPL if you have skin type 1, 2 or 3. I tend to think though men look better when they've aged a bit. I think men with chiseled faces are super hot. I mean who in their right mind would choose to look fat and bloated over having a chiseled face? I’ve developed a slight ptosis as a result but even that doesn’t bother me too much, To be fair, for som… | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?I mean he's quite sexy and handsome. I never thought he considered himself "ugly"! I'm fairly certain he knows he's sexy and handsome. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?Obviously he didn't consult me when he decided to have all these procedures done lol Had he consulted me, I would've told him not to do it | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?Well it seems to be a sensitive issue for you, so you don't have to answer. I assume you were very devastated at the end of the relationship though. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:09 PM |
| -3 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?I guess he prefers to surround himself with "yes" people than people who care about him because sometimes people need tough love. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?Why was that? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?In my experience, biracial people often hate the way they look-- mainly because they're not "black" enough nor "white" enough and somewhere in between, and never fit in with their peers who discriminate against them. Hence, they hate looking at themselves in the mirror. All they see is rejection. But imo, I think biracial people are incredibly attractive. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:33 PM |
| -4 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?Yes, you are right...but I think you agree with me though | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Why did your dad abandon you? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?Well did you want marriage or did she? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?He looked perfect (say it with me here) TO YOU. Evidently he is coming to terms with his own appearance. That is enough of a reason for him to do whatever he wants. He did. He looked absolutely perfect, but in a period of 5 years, he kept getting more and more fillers, afraid of losing volume on his face and now he looks like a bloated blowfish, lost all the contours of his face, and you can't really see his eyes anymore because he filled up his tear ducts with too much filler. His face looks li… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?May I ask what you wanted vs. what she wanted? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You can't have a high self regard if you lack confidence. You're filled with self-hate instead. You hate yourself, you think poorly of yourself, that's why you're afraid to love, and that's why you run away from any type of intense emotion. You rather not feel anything at all and be comfortable. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?What happened in your last relationship and why did you break up if you don't mind sharing? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sorry I meant that for Tony. For you I think you had an absent father... Were you born out of wedlock if I may ask? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I had this rebellious self assurance my whole life. It made me cringe to be loved especially from the parents. Like ew fuck off I’m fine y’know. Is that why you run away from love? That perhaps you think if that person got to really know you, they would despise you like your mum? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?It seems to me that you spend a lot of time on facebook and youtube. Which are your favorite youtube channels? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It seems to me that you did | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]From the way you talk, I assume your father was abusive. Am I right? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Was your mother really critical of you? How do you view your father? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?May I ask if you're biracial? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?I admit I dislike all the self promotion, but many women have thriving businesses that depend on that. I also dislike all the cheesy, saccharine way people are always "fake" on social media and I don't like overly photoshopped images with lots of filters. I like real conversations with people without their PR team involved. I also like being controversial so "likes" don't really factor into my mindset because most likes are spam or manufactured by a PR team. But I don't think that's a valid reas… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?I have to say, I've been to Austin and most people I encountered were thin lol | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:36 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]May I ask if you had a tyrannical, abusive father? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What is your relationship like with your parents? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?As a friend, shouldn't I let him know that he looks awful with fillers? If I gained a ton of weight, I hope my friends would tell me to lose weight or get healthy... He looked perfect before. I don't understand why in a period of 5 years he had undergone so many fillers he never needed in the first place. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?Were you single in 2019? Why did you delete social media? Social media is a way people connect in our generation. I only care about what people think if they're important to me and if I respect them. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?May I ask which city? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What do you fear most? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?But who do you aim to impress? Who fuelled that ambition? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?Most couples I've observed are both overweight by 30 May I ask where you live? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It's a catch-22. You don't develop confidence until you've been loved. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?Why don't you like looking at yourself may I ask? What do you dislike about your face? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?Well my observation is that men don't have motivation without the women in the lives. Let me ask you this: why do you strive to be great or do what you do? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:16 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Confidence comes from being loved. If you've been loved unconditionally, you will always have confidence. Most people come from broken families or abusive families and those who didn't have mentors who looked out for them ultimately lack that kind of confidence. Confidence is inner strength and you can't have that without love. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?Visually most women notice the face, then hands, then shoulders. But voice is most important. How you talk and articulate your ideas, your emotional intelligence. It's the thing sapiosexuals like myself are attracted to most. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?Well I agree. I told my friend to get all the fillers removed and he got quite angry. I guess some fillers can't be removed? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?I suppose if the woman lets herself go, the man tends to do the same! | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?What about your last girlfriend made you feel less motivated? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?May I ask what is your career? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?I agree, I think it's harder to be kind than clever. I'm afraid I'm too clever! | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Men without Women: What is your perspective?I tend to be quite disciplined myself- I think people who tend to be physically active and do sports have this mindset. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:52 PM |
| 9 | [FIELD REPORT] She fucked me in the car and then made out with my roommate.Reading your reports remind me of why I'm glad I don't live anywhere near Las Vegas lol | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 06:59 AM |
| 5 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?I personally think neediness is really cute. Like a puppy that follows you around and wants your attention. AW SO CUTE! HE NEEDS ME!!! | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 06:49 AM |
| 4 | Why Women Like Bad Boys: The Presidential EditionDon't aren't "bad boys" they're called "fkboys" for a reason. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Please do not skip, you’ll learn something for yourself if you read this.... I really need an answer cheers broI’m 16 It seems you're dyslexic. You mean 61. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Please do not skip, you’ll learn something for yourself if you read this.... I really need an answer cheers broSkipping forward about an hour and she was now sitting on my lap, non stop trying to get me hard rubbing her ass up and down my crotch while I held her ass and made her my “property” or just claim her physically putting it out there infront of everyone else with extreme confidence. It's pretty obvious you were at the strip club | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Please do not skip, you’ll learn something for yourself if you read this.... I really need an answer cheers broSounds like you had fun at the strip club and the backroom of the strip club with a bunch of strippers who were looking for a boyfriend | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 06:55 AM |
| 2 | How to approach this cute girl in gym?Well...maybe you'll get your wish someday :) | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsI've found generally the men who are interested in me tend to be British, German, Russian, Arabic and Japanese. I've found European men tend to prefer more educated women whilst American men tend to prefer flashy bimbos which is the exact opposite of me. Not that there's anything wrong with flashy bimbos, of course. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 02:22 AM |
| 0 | The biggest Red Flags to be aware of when you meet someone. Don’t let looks cloud your judgment of her characterMy girlfriend hasn’t displayed these traits thus far and that’s why I enjoy being with her. The advice you give is directly reflective of your own relationships. You reveal a lot about yourself through your own advice | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 02:14 AM |
| -1 | The biggest Red Flags to be aware of when you meet someone. Don’t let looks cloud your judgment of her characterThe biggest Red Flags to be aware of when you meet someone. Don’t let looks cloud your judgment of her character Fundamentals If you’re looking for someone as a long term partner, it’s important to be mindful of the qualities you are looking for. As men, we are visually driven. If a woman is extremely attractive, we will sometimes assume automatically that she is someone we should want to be with, especially if it appears other men desire her. This is an ego-based behavior that will have consequ… | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 02:05 AM |
| 4 | I like to think when you're ready it happensI sort of think the same. The universe works in mysterious ways | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 11:13 AM |
| 2 | How to approach this cute girl in gym?I could meet her for example when she’s leaving I would leave too. I think this is a good idea. Perhaps your gym, like mine has a lot of nosy, intrusive people. It's better to talk outside than inside, and the perfect opportunity is if you're both leaving at the same time. At least, I've tried to do this once with my gym crush, but he wouldn't come out of the men's room and I had to end up leaving after loitering around for 10 minutes outside our gym waiting for him lol so the personal trainer w… | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 11:11 AM |
| -1 | Enjoying things for what they're worth: A lesson on neediness, staying present, and self relianceIt's been one date and she's only going away for a month, that's nothing. I think though that fact she was so sexually aggressive on the first date is a red flag, usually sex workers do this sort of thing. I would investigate her further, do a full background check and find out if what she says about her family is true. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to find small talk and flirty banter really fucking exhausting?You sound very cute, I wouldn't try to change yourself to fit into some social norm. The fact is most people are incredibly boring and only like discussing topics like TV shows or something completely insipid like who said what at work, blah blah blah. If you don't like small talk with someone, it simply means you're not getting each other and not breaking through the superficial layer of facade. When I first meet a guy, I always ask him, "what are your biggest fears" and "what's a dream you've … | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Pickup Artistry is Decption and Compliance Something You are Victim to Read On if You are Open Minded wrtitten by me:I have to say I agree. I really dislike sleazy men who are obviously emitting pickup vibes. I prefer more intellectual men, unfortunately, they're an endangered species these days lol | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Serious men's seductionSome men have a protective aura and that's very attractive and sexy. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:13 AM |
| 0 | What sort of seduction method do you think she used to land such a hot fiancé?Well I hope it's true love and they have a very long marriage... | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | What sort of seduction method do you think she used to land such a hot fiancé?So you're saying all men are essentially golddiggers? | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 08:22 AM |
| 0 | What sort of seduction method do you think she used to land such a hot fiancé?He doesn't really strike me as a golddigger | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 08:19 AM |
| 2 | What sort of seduction method do you think she used to land such a hot fiancé?I mean sure, she's cute but I suppose I just don't see the appeal. If I had to pick some hot celebrity women I would say someone like Kate Upton, Holliday Granger, Gemma Arterton, Ayaka Miyoshi, Song Hye Kyo, Megan Fox etc. And look how nice and polite he speaks essentially the opposite of edgy, ranty, rude, loud Britney. I honestly think he should donate his sperm to a sperm bank. Those handsome genes just shouldn't go to waste lol. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | What sort of seduction method do you think she used to land such a hot fiancé?This posted multiple times for some reason- so I had to delete cloned posts. For those people who responded, please respond again as your responses accidently got deleted | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 04:31 AM |
| 3 | How to turn anxiety into excitement!Yes, that's exactly what it is. Anxiety and excitement are the same, but one has a negative outcome attachment bias projected onto it. If you tell yourself you're excited, then you begin to think of positive outcomes. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 05:25 AM |
| 4 | How to turn anxiety into excitement!I feel like you could make some edits on how to actually turn the anxiety into excitement It's simple. You don't think I'm nervous, anxious and then begin a downward spiral of negative thoughts. You simply think, I'm excited and I'm never going to be able to have this experience again and no matter what happens, I'm going to to give it my all. Oh, and if I'm rejected by someone or something or whatever, I think fk them. Let them try to find someone better than I am. They're missing out on the pe… | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 05:19 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I don't think anecdotal info on tiktok constitutes universal truths. Firstly, all people are animals by design, so my theory is if you can figure out what kind of animal that person is, then you can find out what sort of interactive level they prefer. For instance, if a guy or lady likes golden retrievers, they will like a steady source of attention, texting frequently all the time, picking up where they left off, and continuing the conversation throughout the day. People who are golden retrieve… | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 04:09 AM |
| 20 | Struggling with girls in collegeYou can be a thinking person and still like sports and athletics. They're not mutually exclusive. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Tales of EnnuiIt is, because I literally can't go anywhere! | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 44 | Struggling with girls in collegeWell in my experience, if you're being ignored by women it might be because you give off a "mama's boy" vibe. Mama's boys are typically quite rude, have little conversational skills, blurt out whatever they think without a filter, expect women to cater to all their needs and contrastingly are quite bossy, such as telling someone not to "do this or that" when you've only just met them or else very quiet and expect the woman to lead the conversation while they add no value to the dialogue. Then th… | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Tales of EnnuiWhat a ridiculously dumb and sociopathic idea... We're undergoing a mass extinction event right now, that in itself is the crime. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: Have you ever been sexually attracted to people with personalities you found repulsive?Well I hate to break it to you but in those types of situations, the person who falls in love is the one seeking revenge. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Tales of EnnuiThe lockdown lowering sexual encounters is a huge myth. I've hooked up plenty of times during the lockdown, and dating app usage has spiked since the lockdown. People are more bored than ever now. That means more sex than ever. That's nice but I'm not attracted to 99.99 percent of men and dating apps are filled with terrible bores and I never use them. I also live in a town where every man resembles my 1st or 2nd cousin and have zero desire to "hook up" with them. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Girl moved away. Do I continue to flirt or move on?it was me who ended up leading the conversation but never too sure about moving it to being exclusive as it felt too early If she really liked you, she wouldn't have moved away. So I would say trust your gut on this one. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: Have you ever been sexually attracted to people with personalities you found repulsive?Yes, but that's not necessarily being sexually attracted to the girl. What you're attracted to is having power over the girl which is different. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Gentlemen: Have you ever been sexually attracted to people with personalities you found repulsive?Thanks for the detailed answer. What about with people with whom you have a spark. What happened in those situations? | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining Strong Frame is the ultimate goalHave you apologized to her? Have you taken responsibility for your actions? If you haven't apologized there's no reason for her to talk to you again | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Female archetype manifesto: verbal gameWell you copied directly from my text lol | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Female archetype manifesto: verbal gameThis is good advice. I assume you read my field report https://www.reddit.com/user/Artist-in-Residence-/comments/qmojjk/why_the_tactics_of_toxic_masculinity_dont_work_on/ | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | What is your erotic blueprint?Ask her what kind of situations she mastubates to, then replicate that | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 05:12 PM |
| 18 | Some of you don't have a personality, that's your problem.At this point, I think the only way we'll propagate our family line is through genetic cloning, since we can't seem to settle with a partner lol | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What is your erotic blueprint?Energetic is the opposite of kinky, I'm afraid... But you do have "sexual" in common way down the line. However, your turn ons are completely different. She's turn on by conventional romance, you're turned on by taboo, dangerous and secretive situations. You're both sexual, so you both love sex, which is good, but the turning on part may take a bit of compromise. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 45 | Some of you don't have a personality, that's your problem.My brother is only motivated by 2 things: 1) beautiful women 2) high paying job He's a shallow autistic type lol | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 04:40 PM |
| -3 | Female archetype manifesto: verbal gameImportant advice for men https://www.reddit.com/user/Artist-in-Residence-/comments/qmojjk/why_the_tactics_of_toxic_masculinity_dont_work_on/ | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Is it worth contacting this girl again after 6 months?I think you should focus your energy on a woman who really likes your personality and appreciates you instead of looking at you like a potential sex object. It's obvious you're attracted to women who INITIATE sex. She probably does that with every guy. You might reconsider your strategy and focus on women who want to get to know you and won't bail if you can't get an erection. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 03:46 PM |
| 89 | Some of you don't have a personality, that's your problem.My brother is tall and conventionally handsome, and around other people, he is quite witty and can banter with any woman. But at home, he is boring and play video games all day long... It's hard to get a word out of him at home, but around other people, he's suddenly Mr. Charming. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What is your erotic blueprint?That makes a lot of sense. Shapeshifters like a variety of different kinds of sex, and kinky means you have a lot of guilt about sex so attracted to taboo situations. I'm guessing you grew up religious like most kinky inclined people who felt sexually oppressed as young adults. She probably had a normal childhood, so prefer sensual, which is romantic and Disney like, flowers on the bed in the bath type, hence your sexual energies don't match. What are her secondary types? It could be that you gu… | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 03:37 PM |
| -1 | Is it worth contacting this girl again after 6 months?No, you should absolutely not contact her again. She said, "you didn't have a spark" which is beyond the sexual aspect. If you had a spark, she would've given you more time and tried to get to know you more after having an initial awkward sexual encounter. It's not a big deal for most women when a guy can't achieve an erection the first time, but the fact that she completely bailed and said you didn't have a spark meant that she didn't really like your personality. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Controversial Topic: Are you for or against the sex industry?Maybe you should stick to the rules and keep it civil. As you can see, I labeled the topic: CONVERSATION and in the title it clearly asks the question: ARE YOU FOR OR AGAINST THE SEX INDUSTRY. So either give your opinion and the reasons why or GTFO of my thread | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 04:43 AM |
| -1 | Controversial Topic: Are you for or against the sex industry?I believe it is ON TOPIC. As the topic of sex workers/ prostitutes have been discussed numerous times in r/seduction https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/q1u4ej/apart_from_paying_for_the_services_of_an_escort/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qe0vj4/lost_325_year_old_deep_issues_with_women/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/owvy2o/is_paying_for_sex_is_a_good_thing_or_bad_does_it/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7lxuqb/7_sex_tips_i_learned_from_a_top_earnin… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What are your TURN OFFs in people's behavior?Also found out she likes to sleep with married men, then talk about how terrible they are that they would cheat on their wives... She sounds like a hypocrite, sleeping with sleazy married men with wandering eyes who can't keep their impulses in check. But all her other characteristics I don't think are a big deal. I think it's perfectly fine to lie in order to avoid hurting people's feelings. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Controversial Topic: Are you for or against the sex industry?I'm giving insight into why Russian women often financially exploit American men, which is a seduction topic. It revolves around the culture in Russia, the lack of resources for women, and their escape from poverty. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Marriage and DivorceI don't think he's a "nice guy" type, he's a little egotistical actually lol. He has a sarcastic sense of humor and generally quite good about seeing through people, but perhaps in love he has his rose glasses on. I think he has a "white knight" complex in which he likes feeling needed. The Russian woman he had married and divorced played a very needy sort of woman who couldn't do anything without him and make any decisions without his input. He would bend over backwards to do things for her. Fo… | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Perhaps you should ask your wife what she thinks of this idea? | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 02:22 PM |
| 7 | She wants to be in a relationship all of sudden. Should I commit?I think it's a very good idea to get into a relationship with someone you barely know, whom you had sex with once, who had a one night stand with someone else during the time you've known her, and who only responds to you after ghosting. It has all the elements of a successful commitment. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Personality Types and Approaching WomenExample please. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Personality Types and Approaching WomenWhy don't you give an example of how you cold approach, instead of making the assumption that you know everything? | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Personality Types and Approaching WomenIt could be that there is little variance in the demographic you are cold approaching. If you generally approach women at a club, they're all going to respond to the same thing. However, if you prefer to be more sophisticated, then studying people is much more useful before approaching unless, you like being rejected. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Personality Types and Approaching WomenNo. Every psychologist worth their weight will tell you that you can't evaluate someone's personality by just looking at them. You have to actually talk to them a fair bit to assess someone's personality. Well most psychologists are useless, aren't they? You can absolutely discern what a person is like by watching them, their body language, facial tone, voice, how they talk to other people, how they carry themselves, how they relate to others...these are all nonverbal communication skills that r… | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Personality Types and Approaching WomenIf you haven't noticed, personality theory is entirely based on "stereotypes" or patterns of behavior in humans. Hence, there will always be outliers, but generally, people tend to conform to their social groupings, hence why it is immensely useful to study people before approaching. I assume you look before jumping into a pool. The same goes for cold approaches. Men have problems with cold approaches because they rarely ever study the woman before approaching her, if they did, they might have a… | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well firstly, it's very hard to do a cold approach when many people are present and watching, therefore, you have to be more subtle about it depending on what type of situation it is. For instance, you can sit or stand next to the person in question and get a read off their body language, then come up with a neutral question to gauge their engagement. For instance, you can ask her if she knows where something is located, if she minds if you sit down next to her. That shows elegance and class bec… | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 05:32 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]LOL! You are the biggest gym troll | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 05:15 AM |
| 2 | 11 more (practical) rulesI think this is all good common sense advice. You appear to have a very good head on your shoulders but....I imagine that you must be sick of being a ladies' man all the time. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She likes the other guy more and has regrets about it. Now she's trying to get the other guy back. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Girl at gym acted like she was trying to get my attention; how should I break the ice if I see her again?The thing about these situations is that most likely, you'll probably never see her again. She gave you a perfect opportunity to talk to her and you didn't take it and that chance won't probably come again. She most likely changed gyms after today because 1) the owner of the gym was being creepy and trying to hit on her all the time 2) there were all sorts of men she wasn't interested in trying to hit on her at this gym 3) some old geezer narced on her and told the owner she was running too fast… | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | 10 rules that i've learned from around 50 laysDid you post to the right person? I'm not sure I follow your response as it appears non sequitur | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]LOL! | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | 10 rules that i've learned from around 50 laysWell hello mate :) I think most of your advice is quite good, but I'm not what you're trying to accomplish by giving away your body count. It seems like a doing a humble brag of sorts:..! Health is a really really complex topic, but what i'd suggest you do first is to do a genetic test for mthfr mutation, it's really common and can affect everything in your body so you need to understand what you need and how to change your diet so you function better The thing with those genetic tests is that m… | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I can't identify my problemSo, let me tell you my problem. I cannot attract girls and I'm not the type of person who people love to be around. I used to have few friends but all of them have gone due to college. I feel like I'm good in terms of career but not in terms of social skills. Well firstly, don't be condescending to women. Men who say things like "You seem very beautiful but also very dumb" don't win any points with women. You have to be super respectful towards women instead of trying to "neg" them all the time … | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Something I learned about ChemistryYou had me till this point...I'm not connecting smell with attraction at all....maybe it's just me as my sense of smell is terrible and I've compensated. Most of the time, you're not aware of your sense of smell. Pheromones don't have a distinct scent, but it's there, subconsciously making all your sexual decisions for you. Think of how when women are on their period, most men are likely to approach them and hit on them. They "smell" the pheromones a woman is emitting when she's menstruating, in… | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]IMHO, I think that's a perfectly decent size, nothing to worry about. I also have noticed most vibrators are in that size range. I think more women are concerned about hardness, and a penis that doesn't go soft and prefer men who are able to run at least 30 min on the treadmill and have good cardiovascular health. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Tips for hooking up/getting girls in clubs?I have gathered the following data from your post: I'm an introvert so talking to people in general is draining, let alone girls. You like trolling introverted men but you're an extrovert lol Im not a chad by any means, a pretty average looking bloke about 5'9-5'10 so it wasn't like any girls were gonna approach me lol. You're most likely a humble person probably a good looking guy around 6'1" but still like trolling people lol Would appreciate some tips, so if anyone has been in my shoes, and b… | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Something I learned about ChemistryThe concept of "the perfect 10" was originally derivative from the 1976 Olympics, when Nadia Comaneci scored a 10 in her gymnastics uneven bar routine which had never happened before and created a shockwave around the world. Then a few years later in 1979, Bo Derek starred in a movie called "10" which equated the highest level of physical attractiveness with the number "10" hence launching the idea that people who score a "10" is indicative of the ultimate level of attractiveness. In our contemp… | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you ‘kill’ oneitis?You sound very very jealous... | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 03:06 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Make the boring questions FUN!!Her: So what do you do? You: Okay, I want you to take a look at my hands and my outfit and then make a guess. Her: Ughh idk an accountant? You: I’m actually a instructor for blind pilots. Her: A what?? You: That was a joke, I’m actually a marketer, but I’m glad to know how gullible you are. Her: -_- wow You: I am curious why you chose accountant though.(Mix serious with joking) This would make me think you're more of a cool guy friend than a potential date. Men who… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:36 AM |
| -4 | [deleted by user]Stop flirting with me :) | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:57 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Well then you don't understand context. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 18 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?A nice voice, soulful eyes, protective body language, smells good. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:27 PM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]A funny anecdote: I am interested in longevity studies, and when I ask every single person what they would do if they could live forever, people surprisingly answer exactly the same. They would continue their education and travel around the world, but would not get married because they wouldn't want to see their loved ones die. I found the fact that every person answered exactly the same fascinating- it reveals that people are inherently locked into societal expectations due to a limited life ex… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It could be that men don't fancy you because you appear to be a racist, ignorant, bigoted, emotionally unintelligent snob who thinks too highly of herself. In addition, when men prefer other women, and if they happen to chose more attractive women who just happen to be older than you, you scream that they must have "mommy issues" which makes you look incredibly insecure. Certainly, there are men who prefer anorexic, flat-chested women who throw up after every meal and take laxatives, then show o… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Perfect Present for a Guy Who Has Everything?It would be hilariously funny if I got him a T-Shirt that says "Vegan" on it and I made him wear it LOL Maybe I'll get him one that says "Meat is Murder" LMAO | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Perfect Present for a Guy Who Has Everything?Why in the world would I want to share him with someone else? I'm a possessive and jealous kind of person. I don't like sharing. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Perfect Present for a Guy Who Has Everything?Well sure, I wouldn't have a problem signing a pre-nup, but talking about marriage at this stage is fairly premature. We're just getting to know each other. Although I have to say he's been married and divorced already and rather cynical about marriage in general. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Perfect Present for a Guy Who Has Everything?He has a lot of my paintings already. I want to surprise him with something different. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Perfect Present for a Guy Who Has Everything?I already started but his little spies got a hold of it, so when it's finally ready, I don't think he'll be surprised at all lol | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | When to stop pursuing someone who cancels plans consistently?Well someone who consistently cancels plans on you because she "forgot" she had other things to do is probably lying to you and deciding to do the other activities instead of going on your scheduled dates. After canceling twice, I think that's a signal that she's not really into you. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm sorry to say but I think that's not true. Your skin is a signal of health and if you've got lots of acne, it means something is awry internally and people will notice it. Let's not give advice like "your acne is ok!" The fact is, it's an easily treatable thing and he should do it ASAP instead of pretending it doesn't exist. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Try Metrogel (available by prescription only) or IPL (intense pulse light). If you have lots of acne, you might have some sort of fungal skin acne infection caused by microscopic parasites or you have some internal issue (internal parasites caused by meat or raw fish consumption) or deficiency in B-vitamins, iodine, beta-carotene or exposed to something in your environment which is causing your skin condition. Firstly work on your skin issues first before attempting to go out with girls. You can… | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | I'm getting mixed feelings from this girlShe's probably expecting you to make more of an effort and try harder. Hence, she's not going to waste time on someone who "sleeps" all day and comes up with lame excuses lol | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says compliments on her looks don't work but...Compliments on looks are relatively low effort and don't really work because all it says is you're trying hard to get her (and most likely every other woman) into bed with the same generic compliments in which the conversation will end with "thank you." However, if you compliment on her work, her personality traits or how something she did affected you, that is much more engaging and starts a conversation. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:08 AM |
| 1 | “The favorite conversation topic for a woman is talking about herself” : thoughts about this ?I prefer to listen actually. Very few people know anything about me as I tend to be hard to get to know. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Did I lose the faith on society?Julius Caesar was betrayed by his adopted son. Jesus was betrayed by one of his best friends for money. If you're important, someone will always find motivation to betray you, usually someone in your inner circle. But you can't lose faith in society because at the same time, there is so much beauty and love and potential and despite all the ugliness, most people generally tend to be kind and want to do good. But money corrupts people. People who are motivated by money will do unspeakable things … | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 04:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you respond to "you're tall"?"You're keenly observant" | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | In the officeI agree with you | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 03:56 AM |
| 4 | In the officeWhat’s your stance on showing interest in somebody in the workplace? You don't. That being said many couples have initially met at work. However, you could be "that guy" who is known for hitting on every woman in the office and potentially face backlash | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 02:14 AM |
| 92 | How i seduced the one who feared intimacyExcerpted from the "Handbook on How To Seduce Male Virgins"...lol In all honesty, good for you...I think every man needs a woman like you to sexually educate them and break them in. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Is he (M28) trying to make me (F33) jealous?Well don't get me wrong, I am perfectly capable of feeling alive, but there's something about unraveling a person's psyche that I find initially intriguing. I had a bit if a think about it however, and although he's a lovely, sweet guy, I just don't think we're right for each other. He seems he's more at the stage of being a polyamorous man whore or sorts, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, but I can see this doesn't suit what I ultimately desire. And although he could be a fun flin… | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Is he (M28) trying to make me (F33) jealous?Well my problem is that most of the time, I hardly feel anything at all, but drawn to the few who make me feel alive. Are you certain your life is better without her? Did she try to replace you with a similar looking guy? lol The thing is, if you love her, you need to tell her. If you play it cool, she will think you don't and take appropriate action- and in her case, revenge. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Is he (M28) trying to make me (F33) jealous?I'm amazed by your analysis. Thank you, you do have a lot of insights. I settled with a girl just like the guy in your story. Once we got comfortable, her old habits kicked in and she sabotaged the relationship (via wanting to go back to her old casual sex loving ways). Hmm.. did she have a cocaine addiction? Did she think you were married and toying with her? Did she read all your posts about her and thought you disliked her, looked down of her, slighted her? I think in this case, you might con… | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Mental game ruined by small penis. What's the point of all this?Yes, women often don't like long or bendy penii for their ability to be painful during sex...not that there is anything wrong with overly large or bendy penii of course. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Is he (M28) trying to make me (F33) jealous?He's actually quite respectful towards me generally. Another older man was interested in me and he told me that I should never fall for that guy because he treats all his gfs like cheap prostitutes lol. Also I should add that we kissed once, but he didn't want to take things further because he knew I wasn't ready, but he is casual sex loving, has many women as options and generally could be perceived as a playboy. I actually love his personality, he's incredibly brilliant and I admire so many th… | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Is she in to me?Hard to say, maybe she's near-sighted, wasn't wearing her contacts and didn't really take notice of you | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 12:28 PM |
| 7 | Mental game ruined by small penis. What's the point of all this?Well considering the length of a finger, which most sage women can achieve vaginal orgasm, I really don't think you have anything to worry about. It's all about the motion and the tension built up before penetration and the vagina tends to mold to the penis. This might be TMI but sometimes I find putting in a tampon painful if I'm not properly lubricated and tampons are quite smaller than 3 inches. You shouldn't focus on size as much as you focus on mental attraction and building sexual tension.… | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 12:23 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Sounds to me like she's really into you but doesn't "want to come on too strong". You should go for it. When you meet her on Sat, tell her I said, "hi" | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She responded "Alrighty, feel free to hit me up whenever." To which I sent back a simple "😊". She's obviously waiting for you to "hit her up or whatever"... Quite frankly if she were a man and played this many games with me, I wouldn't give her the time of day. But you might be the type who enjoys playing games. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Her intended goal was for you to chase her. Are you chasing her or planning to chase her? If yes, her plan worked through sheer idiocy. If no, I would say she will continue to be a retarded avocado and stinky bacon. 😊 | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She sounds like a retarded avocado or stinky bacon. It's obvious she is testing you, trying to make it seem like she's popular with guys, when really, she's emotionally unintelligent and have put off men for the last decade lol | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 08:08 AM |
| -3 | I'm Being Cockblocked by My Older NeighborHere's the thing. The way they test the coronavirus vaccines is if you develop active antibodies. But....the thing is, that's also how you diagnose disease in someone! Eg, If you have active antibodies for HIV, Dr. Fauci et al, says you have HIV. But. if you have active antibodies for coronoavirus, it means the vaccine is working? The way a vaccine should work is if you never develop antibodies and never get sick. But people who get the vaccine, the majority ends up sick with a more severe versi… | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 03:10 PM |
| -21 | I'm Being Cockblocked by My Older NeighborDo get the Covid vaccine if you haven’t… Are you a medical expert? Give me the solid evidence that any of the COVID vaccines prevent infection from the coronavirus. Escalate with your mark (the hot guy) and get him to a cafe or bar away from Mrs. Porn Star. He knows where to find me. I'm sure he's flattered by all the attention Mrs. X is giving him. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Where the women at?Well at my yoga studio it's 100% women :) In California, women usually hang out at Whole Foods Market wine bar. But these days, not so much, since no one goes out anymore...! My friend in Texas says single young women usually hang out at Church lol | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:17 AM |
| 2 | I'm Being Cockblocked by My Older NeighborThat's something Mrs. X does well, but I ain't got time for that. I have a full workload and prefer to save my energy for beautiful, creative endeavors. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:04 AM |
| -3 | I'm Being Cockblocked by My Older NeighborHahah I would love to, I can't stand her...! But she inserts herself everywhere and happens to like the same people I like to talk to... I guess she's got a thing for younger men lol | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | 25 year old maleI always think a walk in the park or going to the art gallery is nice. Perhaps organize a picnic or try organic teas at a teahouse or spending an afternoon taking photos, or doing a portrait of each other. There are many things that one can do which doesn't include drinking. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | 25 year old maleWell I would say you can do a lot of things that doesn't involve drinking, and even if you attend parties and such, you don't have to drink if you don't want to. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | 25 year old maleSo you've never had wine, champagne, a bit of microbrew? May I ask why it is your personal choice? | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Openers and topics to talk about when trying to pick up women (and hopefully get laid) at clubs and bars?Travel, celebrity gossip, astrology Hence why I dislike clubs and bars...if a guy talked to me about astrology, I would start to wonder lol | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | 25 year old maleIs there a reason why you don't drink? I think drinking in moderation is not a bad thing | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If that's really you in your profile picture, I would say you're very pretty, and you have a really lovely heart-shaped face shape with nicely defined eyebrows. The only thing I would say is that your style is a bit grunge-skater boy and might give off a tough vibe, so I would lose the beanie. Also you seem to have really cute freckles and nice skin, but it looks like you've been sunburnt quite a few times, as you appear to have skin type 1 or 2 and your skin is quite overly red, so I would sugg… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone chosen a job to meet someone? What have been your experiences with dating coworkersThe mentor probably has a wife who knows a lot of eligible people whom you could meet. Married people always try to set you up with other single people, that's how they operate. Also if you work in a department surrounded by a lot of attractive women, all you will get are potential sexual harassment cases against you. Let's say you're an assistant to a film director and working with beautiful models and actresses, all those women won't be interested in you and with the pending #METOO culture, it… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 07:08 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone chosen a job to meet someone? What have been your experiences with dating coworkersI would go for A. If you work at a corporation with more than 3000+ people, what happens is that you only have interaction with perhaps 10-20 people in your department and everyone else is on a long email list of people whom you will never see nor talk to, except for perhaps twice a year at some company event. It's much better to work with a strong mentor, and most likely the mentor probably knows a lot of single people you could meet or else introduce you to many more groups of people whom you … | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | An observation from the other night (semi in-field) which goes against conventional/popular advice: don't be afraid to be a little jealousHmmm well, I would be really turned off if a guy tried to purposely make me jealous to the point that I would probably avoid him altogether. OTOH, if a guy is a tiny bit jealous, I think it's cute...it's like a little puppy needing attention when you're preoccupied with another dog lol. They need a little bit of reassurance, a hug and some encouraging words in a baby voice. I think it appeals to the nurturing side of women. But I would say that I don't try to go around eliciting jealousy in some… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:38 AM |
| 2 | A valuable lessonSo you didn't pick up on the fact that she was nervous? Usually nervous people shake, their voice falters, they laugh too much etc. Just curious, but may I ask if you were born after 2000? | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | A valuable lessonI don't understand, you were in her presence and you didn't know she fancied you or not? Usually you can analyze someone's body language, movements, eyes, expression, pitch, voice and tone and know if someone is attracted to you or not in person. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Women fall into two categories: those who are attracted to you, and those who aren’t. The concept of ‘leagues’ is nothing more than a self-limiting mindset that leads to failure.When a guy who isn’t traditionally good looking is seen with a beautiful woman, the initial thought is that she is out of his ‘league’, which is a ludicrous statement when you think about it. So women were actually attracted to Harvey Weinstein??! | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]lol | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isI know lots of introverts who are party animals lol. For me personally, because I'm hypersensitive to noise and sounds, I dislike loud environments - which generally includes concerts, festivals, clubs, football games, movie theatres, restaurants with loud echoes etc. However, I like classical music concerts, the ballet, off-Broadway theatre, dinner parties, art gallery private views, networking events and generally where the sound and noise levels are controlled to a moderate-minimum level. Int… | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isHmmm...I don't know. Many men with large social circles tend to have bad reputations and women are told to avoid them unless you plan on being their "flavor of the month". Think of Harvey Weinstein before the news broke on him, everyone knew what his was doing and men like him tend to have huge social circles, and he could easily have sex a lot of desperate women who were after his money and fame, but smart women knew what he was about and avoided him. Quite personally, I always preferred more e… | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 04:08 AM |
| 43 | Sex for Guys Living W/ Parents?The logical answer is when the parents aren't home lol. Say, hey mom and dad, I would like to treat you guys to a date night. Buy them tickets to a movie or theatre show, say you're going to invite a friend over and for them to take their time. Or else wait until they go somewhere on the weekend. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 0 | She got very drunk.....I got worried....And now I think she's lost interest....Did I fuck up?She texts me when she's made it home and mentions she's laying in bed eating I find it quite concerning that she lays and eats in bed. For that reason alone, I would be likely not to text her back... In addition, she sounds like she has a drinking problem- doesn't know when to stop and gets drunk, says ridiculous things, then the next day when she sobers up, she feels embarrassed and regretful. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Being nicer is actually working better for meIn my opinion what I say to them are novice level roasts. You sound very cute. Unfortunately most people are hypersensitive these days and don't like being roasted, especially if you don't know the person well. If someone doesn't get your humor though, it likely means you're sexually incompatible lol. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Screw the bad boy bullshitYes, you can read the anecdotes of men who brag about a high body count. Most of the time, they don't even enjoy the sex nor have sex with the same women twice- they're only interested in impressing other bros. However, if you research their internet history, there are a lot of gay porn sites that link back to them ;) | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Screw the bad boy bullshitIf you consider how men are ostracized for being gay, this is how they covertly act, desiring sex with men while bedding a lot of women with sex they don't even care for. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Screw the bad boy bullshitIt's not that they want to have sex with a lot of women, but they want to impress other men with their high body count, so that they will perceived as masculine. They actually have little desire to have sex with women, and often won't be able to develop any sexual or intimate connection with them because what they truly desire is anal sex with men. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Screw the bad boy bullshitFuckboys: want to fuck a lot of women They do so because they are trying to "prove" their masculinity to other men, so that they can mask their innate homosexual preferences. The definition of in-the-closet points to the f*ckboy | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 02:59 PM |
| 5 | She’s back: why you should never be needyObviously, any woman who calls out a disgusting sleazeball must be a lonely 30+ bitter woman! After all, sleazeballs have slim pickings, preying on single mothers with low self-esteem since the rest of the female population won't give them the time of day. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 06:04 AM |
| -2 | She’s back: why you should never be needySorry to say but you sound like a completely repulsive individual- those sleazy men who are always eyeing women while your wife and kids are sitting next to you, thinking that your sexual prowess makes you look masculine, when really all it shows is that you're just a scummy guy who thinks too highly of himself and likes to use vulnerable, emotionally battered women who have problems with self-esteem. No one will congratulate you for being a sleazeball other than other sleazeballs...You have to … | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 05:42 AM |
| -6 | Screw the bad boy bullshitAre you referring to the James Dean/Brad Pitt anti-authoritarian type "bad boy" or are you referring to the numerous f*ckboys who disguise their insecurities with misogyny and overcompensate their sexual prowess? Being a little bad is good, but being the typical f*ckboy masks repressed homosexual tendencies. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Advanced Comfort GameWell it's one of the reasons I prefer older men. Men who are from a different era seem to be more masculine, emotionally intelligent, diplomatic and pro-active. These days, men in my generation get everything essentially handed to them and they play a lot of annoying games which activates my pet peeves. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Advanced Comfort GameI think 5 and 6 are good- the rest is a little bit fairy tale-like perhaps only suited for megalomaniacs. Men who play hard to get usually end up with no one. I think most people like emotional intensity and a certain amount of neediness and not "aloof" men. Aloof men turn me off...Men who expect to be chased I consider not compatible with me, which is 99.2% of men these days. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Bland personality?One of my guy friends has around 20+ social media accounts. He's quite bland and boring on his main work account, but on his other more informal accounts, he's incredibly funny, witty, and a fun conversationalist so...it might just be the setting lol. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | My Boyfriend and his CollectionI'm wondering why he keeps those screen shots when he could simply go on Instagram or some porn site? Seems a little OCD to keep all those screenshots! | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Does changing hair color as a man make you more attractive ?I prefer people's natural hair color. Although I like how some women enhance their own natural color with henna, I generally really dislike fake hair colors- especially women who dye their hair a hideous shade of blond, jet black or bright red. These colors look overly harsh on most people and it looks super fake. Blues, pinks and purples look great if you're going to Comicon, but I generally think most people look better when they don't try to mimic a cartoon character. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 04:32 AM |
| 2 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveWhy do I feel like this is a government sponsored post? lol | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 04:21 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys avoid developing feelings for casual partners?I have a similar philosophy. I tend to develop feelings for men I have sex with, hence, I refrain from having sex with them until I'm sure I want to be with them. That being said, I had a couple of flings before and it's difficult when you unwittingly develop feelings for someone whom you completely dislike otherwise and may even find it hard to let them go, even if you know on all levels that you don't want to be with that person. I also think men who sleep around a lot, and those don't sleep w… | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Rule: if you have to guess whether she's into you, she's not.If my feelings remain oblivious to him, then he's probably not for me, as I tend to go for men with high emotional intelligence who are good at conflict management. If I begin to resent someone, I simply ignore them. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How To Actually Make Girls Fall In Love With You And Chase YouNo one is engaging with it, because most people have lives and go outside once in awhile, to meet with REAL PEOPLE unlike yourself...! | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 04:00 AM |
| 2 | How To Actually Make Girls Fall In Love With You And Chase YouAbsolutely agree 100%. Two posts made with the same subject but in one case, a man who is actually successful with women VS. A troll who has to "trick" a poor Russian woman who can barely speak any English into dating him for a US green card because no other woman would put up with his misogynistic, incel personality, but who continues to give advice about love and seduction LOL | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 03:58 AM |
| -2 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?You’re so cringey it’s unbelievable Funny but I feel the same way about you. I hate to point out the obvious but sardonic wit is probably something beyond your comprehension. I imagine an insecure man like you typically tends to be defensive about everything since you completely lack a sense of humor and go around thumping your chest, "I'm right! I'm right!" | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 07:58 AM |
| 1 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?You're the incel who asserted that "women don't know what they really want". Perhaps if you stop hanging around strip clubs and stop looking for your girlfriends on OnlyFans, you'll find that women know exactly what they want. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 07:51 AM |
| -1 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?I don't depend on luck, I use my intelligence, unlike you. You should try listening to women instead of trying to produce a new generation of incels like yourself. The charming gentleman is rare these days, which you obviously are not. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 07:44 AM |
| 0 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?I actually prefer dogs as pets, but some cats are nice. Being a single 47 year old with a house full of felines though is much more preferable than being stuck in a hapless marriage with u/quantumactual who seems to me, the typical, ranty, incel/metrosexual guy who gives bad advice on the internet. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 07:37 AM |
| -3 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?This is you: "I'm an insecure man with a small brain who needs to win every argument on the internet and can't take any honest feedback from women, because women should all be subservient to my opinions which is why I only date foreign women who can't speak English properly..." | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 07:34 AM |
| -1 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?Just because one American woman with a Russian background settled for you doesn't mean that all Eastern European women are like her. Firstly, you seem quite defensive, and it seems to me that you're clearly in the metrosexual category, so of course, you may attract aggressive Russian women who would desperately like an American green card to chase after you but your methodology doesn't apply outside of that criteria. I'm sorry to say, your assumptions are quite off. I appreciate women of all bea… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 06:01 AM |
| -8 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?extremely attractive women, some of which are Eastern European, or from other parts of the world. I have to point out that Eastern European women will settle with any guy who has money. They're not very discriminating as post-communist nations left a scar on those regions in which women were heavily sexually trafficked just to escape poverty. Find a non-sex worker Eastern European woman who will put up with an aloof guy she has to chase - there are absolutely none. Women don't chase men. Eggs do… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 05:44 AM |
| -12 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?Sure, if your sample size are metrosexual men trying to get lawyer-like aggressive women to date them, I could see that working. However, that sort of thing would never work with me. Hence why I only date European men these days lol | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 05:30 AM |
| -12 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?Except for #2, these are traits that would definitely make me friendzone a guy. I absolutely dislike unpredictability and unreliability in men, and I also don't like "aloof" men or impulsive men. In fact, I have friendzoned several men due to #1, #3 and #4. These are traits that are common in what I consider metrosexual men who like to play games. I prefer more traditional masculine men who go after what they want. And I have never chased a guy ever. I'll probably end up alone, but I rather be a… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Advice on feeling out of place/ not goodWouldn't that simply look like a muscular chest? | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Fixing Erectile Dysfunction & Performance AnxietyThanks for your reply. Since you're a pharmacist, you must be aware of the adverse reactions in people who have taken cialis, especially those people who ended up blind, losing their vision and also who developed tachycardia and other cardiovascular issues. People who have heart problems are not advised to take cialis or viagra for those reasons as it may exacerbate their condition. I'm wondering if you've tried taurine? This is anecdotal info but one of my exes started taking 500mg taurine a da… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Advice on feeling out of place/ not goodWell, this might be just me, but I sort of find greying hair sexy. To me, it really looks nice, especially if it has a salt and pepper look to it. It kind of also shows that a guy is confident with his natural hair color and doesn't have a need to color it an artificial shade. I don't think I quite understand the meaning of puffy nipples...but nipples are meant to be puffy lol | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 08:13 AM |
| 5 | Fixing Erectile Dysfunction & Performance AnxietyThis is quite interesting- but I think you might perhaps also disclose the side effects of both Cialis and Viagra. Taken long-term, these drugs inhibit phosphodiesterase types (PDE5, PDE6, PDE11) and can cause irreparable damage to vision, the heart, liver, kidney, prostate and skeletal muscles. Erectile dysfunction (ED) is at core, a circulatory problem more so than an anxiety issue. Lack of integrity in the arteries, vascular calcification, diseases such as hypertension and diabetes and also t… | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 07:46 AM |
| 1 | What are your love languages?Give an example of "acts of service" please | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 06:52 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe weird stereotypes about Russian women?Most Americans only understand Russian women through the perspective as sex workers who come into the US/UK/EU so probably not the best people to ask. Obviously, sex workers are willing to be submissive and take a lot of abuse from men being that they are sex workers and dependent on their clients for money or drugs. However, when I think of the stereotypical Russian woman, I think of Tatiana Anatolyevna Tarasova, an eccentric, grand matriarch, full of personality, big & beautiful, warm, outspok… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 12:53 PM |
| 2 | How to keep a sex life after positive std resultsHave you had a second diagnosis to confirm? Sometimes, labs make mistakes. From my understanding of herpes simplex- it is caused by an obligate intracellular parasite, similar to the one that causes chicken pox. Intracellular parasites have embedded viruses to proliferate. There have been studies that NED-19 inhibits the development of the intracellular parasites by blocking calcium channels that led to NAADP synthesis (what parasites need to replicate). A natural form of calcium blocker that ha… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 04:43 AM |
| 8 | Am I the asshole here?I would say she's trying to use you as a scapegoat for her failing relationship. She intentionally led you on, and now trying to play it off as if you're the one who took advantage of her. Most likely a woman with a victim mentality who has problems taking responsibility for her own actions. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so persistent?Well because, man or woman, being persistent often gets you what you want. The vast majority of people don't even understand nor know what they want, hence this gives you a perfect opportunity to convince them of what they should most desire. There is a soft no or a hard no. A soft no invites dialogue and conversation, and most of all, persistence. A hard no takes a little more patience and strategy, a willingness to be more humorous and get the other person to drop their armor. People who are p… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Rule: if you have to guess whether she's into you, she's not.I made a few edits to your post: Here's the rule: if you have to guess whether **he'**s into you, he's most probably not.If a man is interested in you and he knows you're unaware of his feelings, he would try to make it obvious that he likes you and want the relationship to be more.He will laugh at your all your silly jokes. He would tease you. He would constantly touch you. He would come up with excuses to spend time with you, alone. He might be emotionally vulnerable with you and won't hide it… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Rule: if you have to guess whether she's into you, she's not.I don't know if that's true. I don't pick fights with men I fancy. I think women tend to pick fights with men if they're unhappy with their own appearance, especially women who suddenly gain a lot of weight tends to pick fights with everyone. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 03:15 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]What is this gym fragrance? I really dislike it when people wear heavy perfume at the gym | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 02:59 AM |
| 4 | Help-Married woman asked for my #I'm getting creepy swinger vibes...if I were you, I would stay away | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Communication Update/New interestShe is vegan and I am not, so I am not sure if that will work with her but it never hurts to try Vegans get a lot of prejudice from people, but mainly we're nice people. I think if you showed some interest in vegan cuisine or made an effort to try vegan foods she wants to make etc, she would be pretty happy despite that you still may like to consume animal products. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | It's not that women prefer jerks, it's that they desire the underlying complementary characteristics that often go with being a jerk.People's eyes also dilate due to light intensity level or if they're on drugs (pot). I have a friend who smokes pot and her eyes are always dilated. Also men tend to get erections if the wind hits them just right, so it's not a sign that he's interested in you or attracted to you. I think the best indicator is either party has butterflies or a keen sense of fear, then there's definitely some strong psychosexual chemistry there. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Friend dragged me to a cheesy Eurotrash dance club....here is what happenedIf a man is polite, funny, witty and starts some conversation about neutral topics, I usually respond positively. I detest pick up lines and men who are trying to obviously score with empty compliments, but if we have things in common, and he seems like a sincere person who wants to get to know me, I'm much more apt to give my contact details. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 01:06 PM |
| 22 | It's not that women prefer jerks, it's that they desire the underlying complementary characteristics that often go with being a jerk.Well I can't speak for all women but I detest jerks - rude neggers who are always trying to compete with you or bring you down, "catty men" I call them. However, a man who can speak up against the populist crowd, is visionary, has a very strong mindset, protective instincts, goes after what he wants is a universally attractive trait in every culture. This is the hero trait, not the jerk trait. At first glance, heroes may seem like jerks because they're not people pleasers, and appear to do what … | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 12:15 AM |
| 8 | If you are friend zoned, but still have feelings, it’s always better to distance yourself until the feelings fade—or accept the friendship is over if the feelings don’t fadeI don't know if this is true...I have a guy friend and I am very attracted to him and I would 100% date him, but keeping my feelings in check because I really respect him as a person. In addition, he is always dating someone, has many FWBs, which is why I kept an emotional distance. We even kissed once and I thought, wow, I could really fall in love with him if I let myself...then my higher brain realized, wait, he will probably break your heart because he tends to flitter from woman to woman an… | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION: The Logic of Open RelationshipsI've witnessed people in major cities in open relationships and it never seems to work out, except in cases where the man is in-the-closet homosexual, has a high profile career, and the woman is his "beard" and behind the scenes, they date and have sex with whomever they want. This situation is the most common and successful type of open relationship and works in favor of gay men and women looking for security and societal status, and also allows her sexual freedom. It's called the "Oscar Wilde"… | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 04:12 AM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION: The Logic of Open RelationshipsShe can't see any other guys - but you can fuck other girls solo - or with her (MFF threesomes). Wait a minute. She has to be completely devoted to you and can't see other men, but you're allowed to have sex with other women and 3somes? What you want is a harem, not a relationship | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why scumbags often end up with women they don’t deserve…Hmmmm....this was kind of a nice rant. I think you should have your own podcast "The inner mind of FaithinStrangers94".... | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 04:58 PM |
| 67 | Lessons from 15 years of learning seduction: How to be attractive.This was actually quite insightful - I couldn't help LOLing at your case history study, you have a very engaging writing style. Sadly, I think in our generation, a significant number of men are already incels. I definitely agree- you can be fit but completely unattractive due to negative personality traits and general directed misogyny. | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | If you want to be more than just a friend, then stop acting like her friend on dates. Don’t be ashamed of being sexualLust is simply sexual but with added religious guilt | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 06:16 AM |
| -1 | Should I accept this invitation?Hmmm...I think she's considering you for marriage!...lol I mean inviting you to meet HER FAMILY is a big deal. She's likely going to get her entire family to carefully assess you to see if you are suitable for her. If you go, make a good impression, defer authority to her father and be a good listener/ humorous and don't say anything offensive and talk about your future plans/ what a good provider you are planning to be- fathers like that sort of thing. | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 05:17 PM |
| 26 | If you want to be more than just a friend, then stop acting like her friend on dates. Don’t be ashamed of being sexualI sort of disagree with this...I find some men really sleazy if they're overly handsy or try to touch you inappropriately and I really don't like that and it turns me completely off. I am more attracted to a highly self controlled man teeming with sexual desire who is very aware of your physical space and doesn't try to touch you in the beginning, but his body language may be more protective of you- such as leading you through doors, opening doors for you, walking on the outer edge of the street… | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I hooked up and went to a date with the women I am not attracted to and I am lost than everErectile dysfunction is usually due to an overall circulatory problem and cardiovascular issue, but could also be a hormonal issue- for instance, men who take Propecia often suffer from ED due to how it affects testeosterone receptors. I would suggest that you have your arteries tested to see how pliable/flexible and clear of calcification if you can. Perhaps in the meantime, you can talk to your doctor and think of taking CoEnzyme q10, K2 and Taurine. You should also consider not having sex jus… | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 04:30 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Very simple- you can ask in a roundabout way: so what do you usually do on the weekends? If they have bf, they will usually mention them at this point. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well I thought maybe it would be better for my brother to chat him up first? What do you think about that? | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Go talk to him and tell him you think he's cute. Well he's hot not cute... but no, just no!!! | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What do you mean? How could I make it more obvious to him? | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Nah! I'll just bring in my brother next time and he'll do the job well with body language lol | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Well you've certainly painted a sexy scenario...I'm not sure I would do that...but if he did, I would think it quite nice! | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Maybe she just looks young for her age? If she finds you hot, you should take a chance and talk to her. I would hate to be rejected by some guy just because he thought I was too young looking for him! | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?He's not "cute" he's hot and no I will do no such thing! | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 04:49 PM |
| 2 | My crush (20F) ended our Snapchat streak purposely all of a sudden. Should I (21M) just stop snapchatting her now too?Um, it seems to me that he's in a good mood lmao! | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Would you mind clarifying your response? | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I don't understand what's the big deal if she's 6 years younger? That doesn't seem like a big age difference to me... Maybe discern her body language? I kinda wrote a similar dilemma below but I would be so thrilled if my hot guy at the coffee shop started to talk to me and asked me for my number... | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 03:50 PM |
| -1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Ok thanks for your comments, but I admit most of them were pretty silly....LOL! Idk, he seems like a masculine kind of guy so the only way I think I would ever approach to talk to him is to ask him for his opinion or help on something lol | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Well I don't really know how to get a guy to approach me if he can't see me smiling at him... A couple of my guy friends (whom I've known for years) did tell me that I seem intimidating though and men are more apt to approach women that they wouldn't seem too bothered by if they're rejected and won't approach women they're actually attracted to so I'm out of luck if he can't see my facial expressions and see me smiling at him... I mean, that's assuming he's even attracted to me...I feel like he'… | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Well not all men of course! There are good men out there, but I know that if any of my exes found out I was interested in this hot guy, they would do everything they could to sabotage it... My exes are good guys generally, but I don't trust them when it comes to my best interests in love because I know nearly all of them want me back. One of them even said, I'll be alone forever! lol... I don't know the cafe owner very well, but he could be vindictive or he might not be but I'm not taking any ch… | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 03:17 PM |
| -1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Well the thing is, it's like a popular cafe and hot spot in my neighborhood and I sort of get the impression that a lot of men are interested in me there, but I don't want to give them the wrong impression because I am only interested in the hot guy and singularly focused on him. Sigh, I hope he talks to me soon. I don't know what to do...! | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?I think that would seem very forward and dominating...! I think the main problem is that we're wearing masks so he can't see my facial expressions....Maybe around him, I'll slightly lower my mask to my chin as I'm taking a sip of my latte and smile at him and he'll see I'm interested in him? I think bringing my brother to chat with him is another good idea?... | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?So what is your advice on how to get the hot guy to talk to me? Usually the cafe owner stays behind the cashier but I was very surprised he made an effort to come to my table to talk to me as he usually doesn't do that kind of thing, so I think wearing the headphones would stop him from doing so... | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?I don't understand...can you explain? | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do?Hmmm....well he's the owner of the cafe so I'm not sure that would work in my favor. Men who are openly rejected could become vindictive, start all sorts of rumors and or get the hot guy to leave if he notices that I'm interested in him and ruin my chances with him, so I think I'll remain polite to him but avoid further interaction with him by maybe wearing my headphones all the time so that he doesn't approach me to start a chat... I was even thinking of bringing my brother along to the coffee … | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "I can choose any guy in here, why would I choose you?"To me that's a rude question, lacking in emotional intelligence. Even if she has many male admirers and men who want to date her, the way she went about saying it shows zero class. I would dismiss and not consider her for further romantic liaisons. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 0 | A story from my youthThis is interesting but if a guy said something mean to me to my face, I wouldn't give him the time of day. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | How to become that bad boy women would love to be with?Chinos or khakis as long as they're not too tight fitting and I suppose it depends on the climate where you live to determine if boots are appropriate during the summer. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Insane disrespect / shit test: "maybe first you should learn how to make one girl have fun"It seems like from her comments that she doesn't enjoy having sex with you. Maybe you should talk to her and ask her if there is something you're doing in bed with her that is uncomfortable for her? Men with larger penii have to be a bit more careful because it can hit the cervix which is quite painful, so you have navigate with more intuition rather than hammering it out like something you see in a porn movie. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How to become that bad boy women would love to be with?Women don't really like bad boys. Bad boys are a short phase women go through then soon become bored of them. I think you should aim for mysterious and elusive. Firstly, don't wear suits, it tends to look stuffy and formal. I think I would dress you up in perhaps a cable neck turtleneck, some nice slacks (not jeans). No patterns on shirts, simple and dark colors. Definitely don't get a leather jacket - I find them hideous, it's also made from the skin of a dead cow that was probably tortured to … | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Fitness - need a routine to look better and fit for The Game purposes, little to no tools would be betterCycling is so boring. I prefer the treadmill. I also think guys with powerful, muscular shoulders and biceps a turn on so maybe work on that. Also a nice muscular butt is good so do some lunges. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 06:35 AM |
| -1 | A tip for approaching women.Wow! That's weird, so you approach every woman as if you've already slept with her? I don't know...that seems sort of odd to me. Typically, a man will 100% always approach a woman if she smiles at him because let's face it, it's the woman who always makes the first move. However, with mask wearing, that's impossible these days lol. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | How to continue something that started in the club? (Long read)Stage 1: Flirt more over instagram and send ambiguous messages or something that she might find funny, if successful, then.... Stage 2: Ask her for her opinion on something related to her interests on instagram, it could even be where she likes to go on holiday...if successful, then... Stage 3: Tell her you found this exciting place you plan on going to because they have some ridiculously amazing [insert whatever] and ask her to come along, and wear some outfit that you happened to like of her w… | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | How much time do you guys spend on a first date with sex?But sex on first date is standard in ALL of The Americas, Western Europe, and most of Asia LOL! I didn't realise you were actually a comedian. I'm certain you tell yourself that for being such an easy guy to get into bed. Perhaps you might try being a little more discerning in whom you bed, instead of assigning each woman a number, otherwise you might get a reputation as "that guy" everyone avoids because he has impulse control issues. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys bother with dating apps?Personally, I don't use dating apps because I'm not really interested in that type of résumé type dating style based on what may be inaccurate photos. In addition, I think I rather meet people in person, so I can understand their body language and listen to their voice, which actually is more important to me than necessarily being photogenic. I only use 2 apps for networking purposes and it's much easier to find people out of mutual interest to potentially work on projects with or understand the… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How much time do you guys spend on a first date with sex?Well I suppose we simply don't hang out in the same circles | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:24 AM |
| -6 | I overcame my biggest fear"I think you all know why I am here, I want your friends number". and the girl (that i wanted) told me why? and I said "because you look pretty interesting". Hmmm...I'm not certain this is a good tactic. If I wanted to get someone's number, I would ask for their advice or help on something first, then if the conversation went well, then I would invite them to a mutual outing where many people will be so that they don't feel pressurised that I'm asking them out. And then if that meetup went well,… | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 04:42 PM |
| -1 | How much time do you guys spend on a first date with sex?Sorry to say most women won't have sex on the first date unless they're sex workers...the fact that you expect sex on the first date is really repulsive! Then again, if this is what you're used to, then please continue to do what you're doing and ignore my comment... | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you treat someone differently if they’re a ‘high achiever’ ?That's quite insightful of you to say. You seem to be have a lot of emotional intelligence about the flaws of human nature. Tell me something. What are your hopes and dreams? | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you treat someone differently if they’re a ‘high achiever’ ?Perhaps Unsurprisingly the lawyer who inspired the question abruptly blocked me an hour before our date last night m. That sounds very suspicious. Unless you've met her in person before, it's probably a catfish. I tend to like the lawyers who are attracted to becoming judges however, but the profession itself is an exercise in futility and they often witness the worst of humanity, so it taints their view of their world. You can choose to focus on the worst of humanity or you can focus on the bea… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Do you treat someone differently if they’re a ‘high achiever’ ?No idea she seemed enthusiastic up until I went to confirm the time and realised she had blocked me Hmmm....that sounds very suspicious. I think you've been catfished... Many of these dating apps use marketing agencies to create fake profiles to chat with users to elevate the numbers on their user base. You were probably just chatting with one of their many employees lol In fact, most profiles on dating apps are fake or they're not active and unfortunately many of them are populated with sex ind… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you treat someone differently if they’re a ‘high achiever’ ?Well obviously you treat people based on the specific chemistry you have with them, but I certainly wouldn't treat someone lesser for being a lawyer vs. PTer at a grocery store. To be fair though, I dislike most lawyers lol. People who have a "I need to always be right" sort of personality in which they cut you off just as you're speaking... I'm sure there are many good lawyers out there who are good listeners, but I find they're in the vast minority whereas, most grocery store clerks all have a… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 01:54 AM |
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