Regardless of personality type, a person usually has accumulated learned behavior from their environment and upbringing. This is the most important determinant in how you can assess how to make a successful cold approach.

Let's face it, gambling is not fun unless you're a thrill seeking masochist who likes to lose. People usually prefer investing in things that have a high ROI (return on investment). No one likes rejection, so it's best to understand the strategy in how people think before trying to get all sorts of unnecessary experience in making cold approaches that lead to nowhere.

Firstly, you must assess the woman before making an approach. There are invariably many types of women, but you must analyze her body language and appearance. For instance, the most common type of woman you will run into is:

The Valleygirl. This type of woman usually has bright fake dyed hair like pink, or a blonde shade that is obviously not natural and too light for her skin tone and probably wears clothes in a hipster style with bright colors or scantily dressed clothes that are too tight or ill-fitting. She will be impatient, blunt, outspoken and will not appreciate a lot of "beating around the bush". This is the girl that will immediately shut you down and insult you when you approach the group. Or, it is the girl who will approach you. She is usually not a leader type or the "mother hen" in the girl group- but rather, the person whom everyone tries to actively avoid when she approaches because she is generally unpleasant to be around. She will most likely surround herself with other Valleygirls who are taught to be rude and often will try to micromanage people around them and spend all their time gossiping or posting selfies on social media. Their favorite topic of conversation is money. Valleygirls like to talk a lot and tells stories. She will typically talk a lot, enjoy negative stories and telling you them in addition to backbiting everyone she knows. This is the girl who will send paragraph texts.

With this particular type of woman, all you have to do is neg her. It will get her all riled up and she will end up stalking you...if that's what you're looking for, not being judgey here lol. The Mystery Method was primarily geared those women who are this type. Hence why it doesn't work on other types of women. So for those princely types who are looking to get a Valleygirl obsessed with you, don't be nice and polite and gentlemanly, neg neg away! They're not looking for a gentlemen, they're looking for douchebags, the exact male reflection of who they are. If you neg a valleygirl, they will bend over backwards to try to get you to like them. They like negs because they themselves neg other people all the time.

Now, onto the other cultural types of women who are harder to get.

The Nerd. Nerds often wear minimal or no makeup, dress very plainly, often in the same outfit everyday and probably is the STEM girl who likes data statistics. She probably has a lot of male friends, into online gaming and spends a lot of time behind the computer screen. Nerdy girls can be lively conversationalists and often have messy cars and houses, in which everything is haphazardly hanging every which way.

With this particular type of woman, all you have to do is ask her for her opinion in her area of expertise. Hey, do you mind giving me some tips on this problem set? is the best kind of opener with a lady of this sort. She will most likely go out of her way to make sure she thoroughly gives you all the information you asked for as nerds are generally helpful sorts who like being needed. Nerds also don't usually pay attention to their appearance, but they have a secret desire to be sexually desired, so a well-placed compliment on her appearance here and there will do wonders as long as it's authentic.

The Nice Girl. Yes, there is a female version of the Nice Guy. At first glance, she seems very nice and accommodating, however you will soon find out that she's actually very passive-aggressive. She's probably well-dressed, with labels on the inside and usually has good taste in most things. She's generally quiet, and she's someone who follows all the rules, generally well behaved and the girl that is too nice to tell you she doesn't like you. You can push these types of people around and tell them what to do as long as you provide something in return for them. These are the gals who will give you their number and never respond.

With this type of woman, what they desire most is to be beautiful. Their biggest fantasy is being on a magazine cover and having everyone comment on how beautiful they are. Hence when approaching a woman of this type, all you have to do is give her a compliment on her looks, her clothes or choice of style.

The "hey, I just wanted to let you know that I think you're beautiful" will work on her. However nice girls often have a wild side and secretly want to be treated like prostitutes in the bedroom despite all the cheesy romantic quotes they post on their social media. They desire for someone to simply take them and have their way with them. These girls are often attracted to bad boys or narcissists who take advantage of them because they take what people say at face value and often don't understand the hidden motivation behind people's intentions. Most battered women in the world fall under "nice girls".

The Iconoclast. These ladies don't follow trends and tend to stand out anywhere they go because they seem a little different. They might also tend to be quiet and watch everyone in the corner but also the type who can approach and make conversation with anyone regardless of background, young or old. They tend to be lively conversationalists who prefer wit and humor but also tend to listen to people as they're unusually observant. They tend to be chameleons, don't follow rules they don't like and tend to be hard to get to know.

With this type of woman, you have to take the cautious approach as they're suspicious of men approaching them out of nowhere or paying them compliments about their appearance and they won't respond to corny pick-up lines. They don't need external validation of their looks as the Nice Girl does, and generally they tend to be self-confident and probably spend an inordinate amount of time at the gym or in self-improvement, looking for ways to challenge themselves physically and mentally. When you approach her, generally remarking on something neutral in a witty way will catch her attention.

A British aristocrat might approach the Iconoclast who is ordering a pumpkin spice latte at a cafe, look at her and say something like, "I used to drink those things, but I had a terrible experience with pumpkins a few years ago and just can't any more."

She will respond and then you're off. However, you can also randomly mention something in the environment, and ask if you could sit next to her, comment on a book you're reading or something completely neutral in which you're not actively exuding pick-up vibes.

However, whomever you approach, you have to firstly assess what sort of woman she is then cater your cold approach based on your observation of her.

Don't simply cold approach women without studying them first. That's playing a losing game. 1) assess them 2) strategize 3) take action when an opportunity arises