Hello. I'm gonna introduce myself at first to give you a better understanding and then I'll tell you my problem. I'm 18 with 1.86cm height, blue eyes, yellow hair, kind of handsome face(I'm usually considered as one of the most handsome boys in my class, friend group, etc.). I'm also working as a software developer in a company(remotely). I have a decent body (%14 body fat, have 4-packs). I can also say that my sense of humor is good because when I'm around people I can make them laugh sometimes so I don't completely lack humor. I don't go to college. I also live outside of the US. I have enough confidence to go and talk with random people(mostly guys because approaching girls is still hard for me)

So, let me tell you my problem. I cannot attract girls and I'm not the type of person who people love to be around. I used to have few friends but all of them have gone due to college. I feel like I'm good in terms of career but not in terms of social skills. I've never been to a party or any festival. I'm not an introvert because I've probably talked to more than 100 people randomly for more than 20 minutes at least. I don't know how to be the type of person who people love to be around. I also don't know how to be the type of person who girls want to be with. Recently I'm trying to identify my problem but I can't find it. I know this is really superficial and hard to find for you but can you PLEASE give me some ideas about my problem? I would really appreciate it. BTW I hope the things that I told don't sound like ego since I just wanted to give you a little bit more context.