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Gently (but firmly) confront his behavior. “XXXX, you’re a great manager and good friend, but I want to be clear that the direction you were taking our conversation at the party was out of line and shouldn’t ever be repeated. Are we clear?”
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Tone of voice matters a lot to whether this comes across as “aggressive” or not, I’ll grant you. But IF his behavior is headed into problematic territory and begins to create an environment that makes OP uncomfortable to the extent that she needs to take formal action, the first materially important question to be asked is going to be something like, “did you unequivocally reject your manager’s approaches?” Your suggestion will fail that test. So, credit for a “nice answer,” but it leaves open the manager’s potential interpretation that “all I need to do for this to be cool is to be or appear to be inebriated.”
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Not meaning to sound obnoxious … but … If you weren’t concerned, why’d you bother to post?
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