| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her?Yes. Bro code 👌 | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | She just confessed her feelings for meWhen you say dating I’m assuming she’s in a relationship with this guy. In that case. Avoid, avoid and avoid | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Very good looking guy mate. As for your inner game you just need go get out there and see what works for you. Cliche as it is just be yourself. Or at least a watered down version initially. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Epiphany moment. 32MTotally agree. If you fake personality it won’t last long unless you’re literally a psychopath. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Epiphany moment. 32MThat’s just the dynamic of how things are. Women have pick of the litter so we as men have to make an effort with ourselves. Kind of like peacocking in a sense. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Epiphany moment. 32MInner game I totally agree. Outer game (assuming that means looks, fashion etc) then depending on the type of person you want to attract you need to adjust. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Epiphany moment. 32MThat’s very true, the looks is what I’m lacking to a degree. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Epiphany moment. 32MMy internal game is pretty good to be fair. Some Creases to iron out as I’m not perfect but for the most part pretty good :-) | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Epiphany moment. 32MBe that as it may. But sadly, the reality is people don’t see you for what you are so you have to put on a ‘costume’ so to speak to have any sort of chance. Just the way of the world around my parts. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Epiphany moment. 32MThank you! | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Epiphany moment. 32MCheers good sir! | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 05:53 PM |
| 52 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.Interesting. My mate said to me once ‘talk to women like they’re your mates, just have a laugh’ | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Singletons of Reddit who physically improved their looks/body. Did your love life improve?I’ve always been pretty happy with my inner game. I don’t text too much, I’m not too pushy and respectful plus my humour helps. Just need to work on my outer game especially the way dating is these days with the general population meeting each other online. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Is being rude attractive?If it was I still wouldn’t use being rude as a tactic. Fuck that, I prefer to be nice. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringey‘Go fuck yourself’ | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 11:15 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I wouldn’t want to be in competition with you. Reading that made me feel exhausted fair play haha | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 10:18 PM |
| 6 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.Someone who’s being chased doesn’t want to be caught. A wise man once said. I don’t chase anymore I’m happier for it. Not bothered if something doesn’t manifest and happy when it does. Besides chasing someone will just give them the upper hand and kill any mystery to you. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Any good advice for flirting/banter?Talk to them like they’re a mate. Works for me. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youI think I’m in the same boat as you and somethings just clicked. Image is everything with online dating. Time to work on it. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youBasically, if they were remotely interested they would’ve followed you back. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youI find them but use the follow unfollow technique. If they follow me back then I may send them a message or interact when they post a story. It’s a lengthy process but it works | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 10 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youAs it goes I have and since then I’ve hardly bothered with chasing people even for sex. I have a fuck buddy who’s an 8 I’d say which I meet once a month and honestly when I match with someone I just can’t be arsed to text them. Unless of course I see potential in them as a partner not just a fuck | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 10 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youFor me, I’m not that socially active, or active on social media. So my photos hardly ever get updated. I don’t want to post selfies as that’s not good practice. I have a business and more often than not. Have no time to be updating my profiles and having photos taken of me on nights out. I think my lifestyle hinders my chances. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever better to leave them wanting more?Don’t show them all your cards yeah. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Sloppy toppyFinishing from oral is better than sex itself. I love it when a woman kisses it and does it slow, passionately. Everyone is different though. Better off just asking the guy your with. Communication is key and all that. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | If you ask someone out , they say yes, but….Ah I get you. Yeah you’re right when you don’t know each other that well then that’s fair. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 06:18 PM |
| 21 | If you ask someone out , they say yes, but….Do you really want to date/pursue someone though who’s only into you depending on their mood? I have different moods but despite all of them if I’m into someone I will make the effort. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 29 | If you ask someone out , they say yes, but….Exactly. If the vibe isn’t there then that’s that. Pointless pursuing. As men we have to be able to take hints despite them being hard to see through the rose tinted glasses. If someone isn’t that interested then you’ll find yourself chasing and a wise man once said to me. Someone who’s being chased doesn’t want to be caught. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidI’m a big believer in that if YOU are not in a good frame of mind then things won’t manifest. Apart from a phase when I was younger I’ve never been a gym rat and despite my average looks I’ve managed to do ok with women. Been plenty of rejections sure but all things considered I’ve done pretty well. If your mental health is in the right place and you’re happy and confident it will happen. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :You either want to fuck or you don’t. Make it clear during an interaction. None of this ‘oh I’m not sure if I can make it, we’ll have to rearrange’ just say no not interested. Done. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]No you’re not, providing they know that to. It’s harsh if you lead them on when they want something more, if you’re straight with them from the off then you have nothing to be sorry for. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | When it rains, it poursbaby in one basket | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]When I think about things the best way to seduce is by doing your own thing and concentrating on something else. In the past, I’ve found that by focusing on something else, for some strange reason I have women approach me when I’m in that mindset. That’s just me though. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 08:26 PM |
| 11 | When it rains, it poursPerfect for not putting your eggs all in one basket. Having options is awesome. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as a bad blowjob?It’s not hard to give a bad one, I’ve had plenty of bad ones and for the most part came from girls who said ‘I give hell of a blowjob’ 🙄 | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Is driving an hour to meet up with a woman doing to much?For me, yes. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Tattoos are, by far, the quickest and easiest way to make yourself more sexually attractiveAnd it boosts your confidence. My chest piece still gives me a boost and my sleeve | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reset buttonIt’s worse when you’re upfront by asking them out and they say yes only to palm you off. Fucking wrecks me that. Can deal with a no or even an excuse. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:56 PM |
| 3 | How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages?Depends on whom I’ve received a message from | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:51 PM |
| 2 | the massive undertaking of getting a girl to take interest in you after she friendzones you. Work on yourself insteadI fucking love this. Inspiring this is. Fair play to you mate. What a come back. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Sent a very risky text now what?Works 60% of the time every time | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 10:44 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Get in the gym. Have a look at your wardrobe Incorporate a routine where it enhances your looks. Regular haircuts, regular sleep etc. Find a hobby to, when you concentrate on something else you’ll be surprised how easy it is to seduce women. When your mind is on other things you won’t be as urgent to meet someone and it’ll happen more organically because you have your hobby feeding your happiness to a degree. I was the same as you at your age and then I began to play rugby again. Not long after … | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to get out of the friendzoneI would say that because for me, I have enough friends. The way I see it is that I’m just knowing my worth and willing to walk away. So much easier to cut ties if the feeling isn’t mutual. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Trying to move from Tinder to Instagram. Don't know the ins and outs of Instagram and looking for tips.If they upload to their story frequently. Wait until they post something that you can work with to strike up a conversation. Even if you just react to a story they upload it gets your foot in the door | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 01:34 AM |
| 65 | Is it even possible to get out of the friendzoneOne way to get out the friend zone and that’s by leaving the zone entirely. One of two things will happen. You’ll never hear from her again Or You’ll hear from her again wondering where you went and that’s when you say ‘I’m not your friend I want more’ Easier said than done when you’re emotionally invested in something but it’s the best route in my opinion because it saves time. And time, is something you do not get back. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What kind of apartment is best for picking up womenA motorhome/caravan. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hate to break it to you mate but you sound like a back up plan. You are worth so much more than that. Deal with someone who doesn’t play games. Sounds to me she’s keeping you there just in case OR your in the friend zone. You need to nip this in the bud because it’s not good for your mental health. Too much emotional energy is being consumed right now when all you need to do is be straight with her when you meet next. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | What is the most valuable lesson(s) you've learned while dating?I’ve learned that it’s not a date until they’re physically in front of you. Women will say yes to avoid saying no in hopes you’ll just go away. As shit as this is. I’ve seen it become more common lately. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you like her then be straight and go for it. It will suck if your turned down but wasting time on someone while your worrying whether she likes you or not is a massive waste of your time. Another thing, if she’s chatting with another guy that’s not a good sign so I would act fast if I was you. That doesn’t mean write her poetry or confess your undying love in a message. Just meet up and bring things up with her. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Ages ago I followed her Instagram and now she wants to follow me back?Send her a message. Try and get a conversation going. You won’t know unless you try. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Handled it like a boss mate. Kept your cool and stood your ground. Respect. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Depends on your location. If you’re in a city then doesn’t really matter I would’ve thought, however, if you’re in a spread out area then probably. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 11:07 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter