Singletons of Reddit who physically improved their looks/body. Did your love life improve?

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-02T13:52:04+00:00

Good looks help primarily in the first minute of the interaction and the last minute before you sleep with a girl.

Definitely work on your looks, get fit, etc. But don't think it's going to make everything 'just happen'. You still need to learn game.

srd4 · 2022-05-02T17:28:22+00:00

I used to be able to fit a coin flat between the spaces of my front teeth. I was a bit insecure about it because I'd notice people's stares go down my face when I laughed. And was also conflicted about if doing something about it or just accept the thing under some existentialist philosophical bullshit about identity I used to believe in.

I was also not very interested in socializing or women ever, and my libido when a teenager I pacified with what ended up becoming a porn addiction. At some point I started socializing a lot as part of a treatment solution to the later problem and so went fuck it with the identity and full-acceptance thing and put on some braces, which in my culture are perceived as rather fashionable at least after the first few months they managed to put my front teeth together.

I was also starting to make some money I decided to spend on that, semi-weekly haircuts, and clothing. But I point to the biggest change in demeanor to the braces because being able to smile confidently is game changer girls notice a lot.

Which was precisely the point I came here to make about the thing most to appreciate about the female character: that the way they pick is not mainly based on looks like we men do, but they are vastly more about behavior -I'd even argue that's all they care about.

As mentioned by others here though, the kind of attraction one gets through looks is just an entry, and surprisingly very little part of game. In which one not only has to be assertive enough to still act on, but have further game to follow through with.

When I changed in this mentioned way. It was painfully mortifying to suck at game still, despite attracting such beautiful women that at times would even open to me and take initiative for things to get going. It felt like water slipping through my hands when I fucked interactions up for reasons I now understand and control much better due to working further on both inner and outer game. Which you certainly need.

Therocksays2020 · 2022-05-02T13:33:20+00:00

It gets you in the door for sure. You get more looks/draw attention with a better physique and better dress.

From there you still need inner game

LongHairedKraut · 2022-05-02T15:30:22+00:00

It made me more confident, but I actually get less action now than I did in the past. The fact of the matter is that girls don't care if you lift. It didn't increase what caliber of women were interested either, I busted my ass in the gym only to attract the same type of skags that I normally do. Keep your expectations realistic

Zebrahead033 · 2022-05-02T15:40:43+00:00

To be honest not really. The only people who notice/compliment my physique are fat women, old women and gay guys.

I think improving the way you dress will have a much bigger impact.

PM_ME_FEMALE_ASS · 2022-05-02T14:33:40+00:00

Undeniable. Chicks compliment me, I just nod and walk away😎 no words needed sir

peduxe · 2022-05-02T16:04:31+00:00

yes it made me more confident in myself and that confidence can be easily seen by others.

girls started approaching me much more in the past 6 months when I used to need to initiate convo before.

Just last Saturday I was working at the nightclub and had a girl asking me to dance with her, the workplace is a little strict with hooking up with clients so I just got her IG and we'll see where it goes.

I got to chit chat with her a few times during the night and at one point she deadass said she'd marry me, I wish I wasn't working that night...

getting ripped isn't everything but it clearly transfers to other areas important to your game.

conker1264 · 2022-05-02T18:07:31+00:00

Made it worse in fact. I’m now no longer attracted to people I used to be making my options even more limited. My confidence and social skills are still the exact same meaning I strike out almost instantly with girls.

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-05-03T15:14:51+00:00

Confidence, good health, and having fitness as a daily hobby are the main benefits. All three are significant and will improve your life in many ways.

Title	Singletons of Reddit who physically improved their looks/body. Did your love life improve?
Author	kingofmylunchtime
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	May 2, 2022 1:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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