Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for you

MrManwithNoName2021 · 2022-03-17T00:06:23+00:00

I heavily used dating apps for like 3 years or so. Hook ups were easy to find but they were women between 4s-7s. Alot of those were mid to young 20s. Ton of fun stories and women. Took a lengthy break from online dating and although hook ups reduces, quality went up to 8-10s. And let me tell you, once you bang a hot 10 it changes how you view dating.

unfknblvbe · 2022-03-17T00:02:04+00:00

Yup dating apps are trash unless you really can pull with just your looks

I do much better irl

The-Bull89 · 2022-03-17T06:47:36+00:00

Dating apps are a waste of time. Girls 8+ are practically unattainable unless your a gigachad, but if you were you wouldn't need to make this post as you'd be too busy deciding out of the thousands of matches who you're gonna bang tonight.

I've personally never banged on dating apps. I keep my standards high and found I'd get ghosted from girls who I'd easily get with in person. The online game is a completely different world to me.

ninjamiran · 2022-03-17T14:16:44+00:00

Unless you are attractive or really attractive, but if you’re below a 8 it’s a waste of time , bicthes got unbelievable standards and they are between 4-7 , but it’s the guy fault for inflating girls egos tbh

RProgrammerMan · 2022-03-17T03:43:06+00:00

Sort of. I have lots of female friends now from my hobbies, which is great. But so far none of them are a good match for me. Either too old or incompatible. But I would say my life is better. I’d rather spend the time swiping on my hobbies and meeting people in person. I never had much success with old but it seems like if I’m friends with a girl long enough they usually start liking me. So I seem to be okay with the long game, suck at the short game.

Outrageous-Deer539 · 2022-03-17T17:45:22+00:00

Dating apps are not in the business of creating meaningful relationships. They drive bad dating behavior.

2022-03-17T15:20:58+00:00

I've always gotten more interest from women outside of dating apps. It seems like most of the women who use dating apps are using them to help get followers for Instagram and onlyfans, or need to use them because they have trouble keeping guys interested/around for whatever the reason.

Can't really say whether things have improved or not because I've chosen to stay away from relationships altogether. I don't want to deal with someone else's baggage and expectations that need to be met to make them happier.

5_7pickup · 2022-03-17T00:56:12+00:00

Yes. Immensely. 8 years of OLD intermittently with ZERO success.

6 months into nightclub game and I increased my lay count by 50%.

dheidjdedidbe · 2022-03-17T00:47:29+00:00

Nope

temerity18 · 2022-03-17T06:28:25+00:00

Very much so

ReconditeExploring · 2022-03-17T09:58:57+00:00

Dating apps do the opposite to zapping my confidence.. if anything, they give a sense that there is at least some desirability in me 😂

Can't say I'd use tinder, though.

2022-03-17T17:41:49+00:00

Instagram has been the only useful dating app for me as I can game models through it. Other than that I have done significantly better in person. For me connection and chemistry with a girl is very important and nothing can compare to daygame approaches in that regard.

user009818 · 2022-03-17T18:54:55+00:00

Yes, dating apps are really a validation trap in my opinion, many people say that they've gotten married before over a dating app or sm bs like dat and yes although it's possible I would rather just find women in real life. A lot of people get so used to contacting online that they forget how to go up to females in real life. Also I think that after being on dating apps for a while u start to get desperate and will start trying to get with 4's and 6's just to bang. Ultimately u start just caring about sex. When I stopped I just felt better and more in tune with myself. I didn't have to use a crutch to get girls, I can just get them from real life. We were made to approach and not just swipe for some coochie

NineteenAD9 · 2022-03-18T03:30:04+00:00

100%.

Ultimately they hold you back more than they help you. Dating apps create a warped reality for women, because of the high volume of men on the apps, and the low volume of women. So, it gives them an absurd amount of control and forces any man who isn't in the upper echelon of looks to discount himself on the app.

The quality and quantity of woman you meet increases significantly without apps, as do your chances of pulling one of them.

I always say this but if you swipe right on 20 women on an app, you are not guaranteed to talk to all of them

If you approach 20 women IRL, you are guaranteed to talk to all of them.

Ok-Associate-180 · 2022-03-17T10:20:23+00:00

Definitely. I mean, I just didn’t care about validation anymore. If you go on a dating website or app you just want to attract people, by showing off, catfishing, only showing the best and most interesting aspect of your life. That’s like social media premium, just more fake.

Nah I’m Good, because in real life I can see your gesture and mimics and act accordingly if I recognise that you’re uncomfortable.

Online dating is like a one shot. In real life you have more shots of saving the conversation.

bestmenrmenatbest · 2022-03-17T12:47:32+00:00

I got out it early. I don’t want to get whatever is spreading around. Quality over quantity

CamBro211 · 2022-03-17T16:31:32+00:00

Generally, yes. Never got any matches and was basically just playing “hot or not.” Just made me feel worse about myself and wasted my time.

Known_Scheme9736 · 2022-03-17T16:41:29+00:00

A lot. I have 2 hot girlfriends now. I met one at my university and the other one at the bar!!

Quintero_israe · 2022-03-17T19:14:12+00:00

How do you guys find women on IG ? Dating page? Or just Stalking Profiles ? LMAO 😂

franklyfindsme · 2022-03-17T20:28:12+00:00

No. Part of the problem I had in online dating was lack of having the social life necessary to take photos that showed I had friends. It was kinda like a catch-22. Deleted online dating apps and still don’t have shit because I have no social life. So the plan is to improve my body enough to where I have no social life and can at least get SOME women based just on looking decent

Solo_1428 · 2022-03-17T22:30:47+00:00

Dating sites are not the place to find and maintain a meaningfull, lasting relationship . They're good for 2 things. Hooking up, and meeting a lot of people quickly. Half the guys on there are just sending dick pics. All the woman say no hook up. Half will hook up. 1/4 already hooked up and for burned. It's to convenient, there's to many options. People now days don't fix things that are broken. They replace them. So go on the sites, have your little fun. You'll probably meet the one when your out and about. That's the key. Get up and get out of your house. I guarantee, she is not there.

Too-Late-Bro · 2022-03-18T08:00:01+00:00

Tell me some dating apps

bopkhan · 2022-03-17T17:42:26+00:00

I am 27M, I have used dating apps such as Tinder since 2013 and have also tried many other ones such as bumble, POF, hinge, minder, etc. As far as success rate goes I’d say I actually met up with around 7-8 females and only successfully hooked up with 4 of them. I think over the years the dating apps have gotten much worse in terms of getting results as a male. I have male friends that get many likes and have great success with these apps. As far as for me you can see in a span of almost 10 years using dating apps I only met up with 8 women and was successful with half of them. I stopped using dating a apps a few months ago and tbh nothing really has changed aside from not constantly checking my phone to swipe for matches. Haven’t had any success with women in about 3-4 years wether it be in person or using an app.

Title	Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for you
Author	kingofmylunchtime
Upvotes	32
Comments	83
Date	March 16, 2022 11:59 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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