So yeah, for years and years I’ve wanted that SO, that girl that I want to settle down with.

For years and years I tried, I used every dating app as they’ve come out with little success.

I have had two serious relationships in my adult life, both of which were Not suitable to me/them.

I went through phases or sleeping around due to self esteem issues.

I’m on the back end of a destructive cycle which again, due to a low self esteem I slipped into using alcohol and cocaine to hide the fact I was unhappy with not achieving what I truly want. And to put it simply, is someone I can look at and just know.

Maybe I’ve seen too many movies or maybe I just know what I want. Honestly, I’m going with the latter.

Anyway…

In order for me to achieve this. I have figured out roughly what my type of lady wants in man.

I have a really good job which I’m really good at and this is going to help massively in achieving the small steps to seducing this type of lady.

I basically need to give myself a makeover. While improving on my look/looks this will boost my confidence at every milestone.

I’m actually quite confident when it comes to talking to people in general as it’s part of my job. I’ll be even more so confident with the list of things I will accomplish for my self.

This journey will all be about my confidence/self esteem.

I know what I lack and I know what I got.

It’s half the battle

It starts with YOU. In a nutshell, if YOU are the best version of yourself you’ll seduce much more. And even if you’re rejected you won’t care because you have the self esteem/confidence to not care.

Wish me luck folks.