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The worst thing that can happen?... I once tried redpilling a friend and he said I was jealous. He was looking to move to another state for an LDR, leaving behind his job and friends and starting over. "Jealous"! Then he told my friends what I said and for awhile they thought I was sexist. They overlooked it and a few months later he was in a state, his girlfriend dumped him, and he was hopelessly lost. Everyone threw him a huge pity party, and nobody ever brought up my statements again. Dependi…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:13 AM
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We've all been there. You'll forget about her before you know it. Enjoy the weekend man.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:39 AM
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Then there's your answer. She's either got another guy in her life, or wants to sleep around. Seems highly unlikely that it's a shit test.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:22 AM
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Just reply "Good point". If she backtracks, she'll know not to do any more shit tests like that. If she persists, she's already checked out of the relationship and it's for the best. And . . . don't get into an LTR with anyone.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:04 AM
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If she's already fucking another guy then you have a really good shot.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 05:39 AM
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Are they addressed specifically to you? Like "good morning [name]"? She might have deep issues and just wants people to look at her body, and anyone who tries to get to know her, she shuts them out. Don't take it personal. Seems like a red flag. I can almost guarantee she's sending them to other guys.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 01:47 AM
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Based on the little info you gave, I bet he assumes he's got his life all figured out. You can sit him down and say "Are you making the right choice?" then express your concerns, but if he insists she's different,and insists they're in love and nothing will get in their way, and they can make the distance work... Throw your hands up, say "Okay, I hope you're right. I wish you the best", and move on. If you keep with the red pilling, he might go on the defense and say you're wrong, or you're jeal…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 08:56 AM
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/r/TheRedPill Read the sidebar there.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 12:33 AM
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If you're scared of talking to girls in school, then work your way up. Go to the next town over, go to a place where lots of people your age go, and just start cold approaching women. Aim for 15 women per day. Do that a few times. If they aren't interested, doesn't matter, they don't know your name or your friends. If they look you up and down, laugh, and say "Gross!", just try something else with the next one. None of these women matter. Eventually, talking to women will be second nature to you…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 12:09 AM
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Three scenarios: She's PMSing and wants you to apologize for something, but can't decide what it is. (Shit test, as you said) She feels shitty about her bad grades and decides nothing can ever be her fault, so she's finding anyone else to take the blame. (Very immature) She wants to break up for some reason and wants to make you be the one at fault. "He was affecting my grades" is a good excuse to tell her friends.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 12:04 AM
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Friendly (Not a date.) How do you think this'll play out? Pussyfooting around is going to do no good. New steps: Send her 3 messages max to introduce / ask what's up / formalities / whatever. CUT TO THE CHASE. After those 3 messages, end the conversation with your question: "Well I gotta (hit the gym / go to work / whatever) I'd like to (grab some beers / get some coffee / whatever) with you, are you free this weekend?" If she's interested, she will say "Yes". Who isn't free "this weekend"? That…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:36 AM
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She shouldn't be leaving her dog in my new ass car if there is even a sliver of a chance this thing is gonna do some damage. Yeah, except you knew it was in the car as well. It's not like she was the only one at fault; you got a new car, you could've said "I don't want him shitting in my car or something, bring him". You made the choice to let him chill in there, and he tore it up. She couldn't read his mind and say "Hey, I think my dog might tear up your seats, despite him never doing that befo…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:27 AM
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Not a question.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:22 AM
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Nothing gets a girl's panties wetter than knowing how LSD screens work.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:55 AM
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What are your opinions on this My opinion is that Tinder decided they wanted rich people with big egos to go on their app and spend a lot of money, so they made a secret service exclusive to rich people with big egos by promising lots and lots of sex with equally rich women. Smart business move. Also, remember that there are a lot of ugly CEOs out there. If their baseline is like $500k for "rich", that'll just help feed people's egos more.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:51 AM
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Sounds like you just want to fuck your ex's sister to get at your ex. That's the kind of stuff that could send an unhinged person at your house in the middle of the night, busting down your door. If you got other plates as you said, no use messing with your ex's sister, unless you just want the drama. Ignore the sister unless she specifically asks for the stuff back. Not worth investing in that family any more, you don't need the headache.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 04:45 AM
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If she makes you think, you're probably nervous - for whatever stupid reason - and should do yourself the solid of fucking right off before you go and embarrass yourself. I disagree with this, but the rest is spot on. The only way for someone to come out of their shell and master it is to go out, get rejected, and realize that it's not the end of the world. Who gives a shit if a girl makes you feel embarrassed? You can just walk away. Even if you see her again later, she's not going to remember,…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:38 AM
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Upward nod, "hanging in there?" If she just kinda looks down, or gives any negative body language, game over, keep walking. If she responds positively, and says "I'm trying" or anything, and turns herself towards you, escalate from there with "You and me both". Phrasing it like that sets it in her mind that you & her are already on the same team. Great first impression. If she still gives off positive body language or a good verbal response, but keeps walking (slower pace than before, perhaps), …
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:32 AM
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It's every man's dream to have a girlfriend who wants sex 24/7, but the fact is, people have very different sexual chemistries in many relationships. Just be honest and tell her you aren't in the mood. If she starts any shit tests like "You don't love me anymore", tell her straight up that your libido just isn't as high as hers. It's a scientific fact, it's not any alpha/beta thing. Offer to buy her sex toys or something. Don't force yourself to fuck her if you're not in the mood, or you won't b…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:46 AM
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But a part in me, however, wants to fuck the bones out of this girl, just to reaffirm myself that I am not a cuck. And I will not be treated as one. BZZZZ Wrong answer. You're in the friend zone hard. You basically spelled it out yourself. You know she's not good for you. If she wanted you, you would've fucked her already. Think of it this way: She knows you're into her, and she loves the attention you give her, but she does not see you as someone she wants romantically or sexually. She will kee…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:41 AM
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There is no cookie-cutter "ideal mass" that will please every woman. Some women want a skinny guy with some biceps. Some women want a jacked man. Some women want a man of pure muscle. It really does depend on your age and the type of women you're after. I'd say aim for the Brad Pitt style, get a nice six pack and stay fit. Don't go full Dwayne Johnson.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:36 AM
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Previous partners don't matter too much. She will eventually start seeing the downsides to any men she's been with after she's single long enough. If she has a higher SMV option, she might consider going for it. Depends on the gap. Women don't want to appear slutty, so if everybody knows she's involved with you, she won't jump to another man unless he's worth the upgrade.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:09 AM
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Here's the problem: You're in a LTR, you apparently agreed to be committed, and then you went back to an ex for "one last time" and got caught. This is a huge BP move on your part, and you expect to ask us for RP advice and disrespect anybody who can't wave a magic wand and solve your problems. Fact is, part of being a man is sticking to your word. If you agree to a LTR and then fuck up like this, you already broke your word. Not everything can be handled smoothly. Also, unless your ex has some …
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:06 AM
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Like many things in life, there's no step-by-step program to making any girl automatically do anything. While AWALT is good for many behavioral traits, it doesn't mean every girl reacts positively to the same things. In short, you have to spend a long time framing yourself to be a man she wants to please. Think of the Brad Pitt rule; if Brad Pitt asked her for a threesome with her friend, she'd be all over it. If Joe Shmoe asked for it, she'd give a resounding "fuck no". You have to persue a lif…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 09:59 AM
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Sounds like it. Once you get your own place and your own money, it'll definitely be easier. Not to say it's impossible now, if you can get her to go to her place that could work.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:32 AM
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Do you lift? If not, start. Read /r/TheRedPill sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:30 AM
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this guy will probably beat my ass. Then don't do it. Next time he messes with you, stand tall, look him in the eye, and give a bold "Fuck off." Don't tremble, don't show weakness. Just a good, quality "fuck off" should do the trick.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:29 AM
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Last week discovered TRP There's your problem. You cannot expect to just read some posts and then call yourself a Red Piller after a week. Reading the subreddit is only the beginning, you've got to live it. You have to lift. Get in shape. Approach women non-stop. If you think "eh well she's not really my type", fuck that, you need practice. "eh well she's out of my league", fuck that, you need practice. "eh well I'm tired not on my game", fuck that, you need practice! Hang out with other men. So…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:14 AM
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I never dealt with long term situation before, so any input appreciated. What do you want us to say? You gotta give it your all, regardless of what strangers on the internet say. Don't let us decide if she wants you or not, because that's a decision she has to make. The only question I have is, if you try and make a move and she turns you down, are you going to be hurt that your "friendship is never the same"? If so, there's bigger problems.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:08 AM
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Don't know most of your questions but I wanted to pipe in with the 3rd question. In your case, definitely freelance. If you work for a company, and your title is "Website Designer", what do you think will happen when the website is designed?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:53 AM
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Not interested. If she initially went along with it, then near the end said "just don't expect to have your way with me" or something, I could see that being a shit test. But the fact that she turned you down right away says it all.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:29 AM
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I am very pro-military. It's a great way to serve your country, and you get a lot of self-improvement out of it. That being said, you shouldn't join the military just because you're bored and think it'll solve all of your problems, because I've seen folks do that and get even more depressed. You're thrown into a completely new world, where you don't know anybody, and you follow strict schedules. You don't have as much personal time as you used to. Keep in mind if your mother were to fall really …
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:25 AM
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I appreciate this, but this girl will just move on easily. Why do you give a flaming fuck? If you're asking us on how to get revenge on your girl for acting just as anyone could've predicted, then take a hike. If she moves on easily, it doesn't make a lick of difference to you.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 08:13 AM
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I take every piece of self-improvement literature as a benefit. I think of how much of an advantage it gives me compared to someone who doesn't know this stuff. That's really what the red pill is all about. You can take the blue pill, be willfully ignorant of how the world works, but in the back of your mind know you'll never achieve your goals... Or take the red pill, see how things really are, realize the world isn't as candy-coated as you thought, but come out a better man. As for your questi…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:59 AM
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I'm a bit confused as to your thought process. You were strongly orbiting a girl, she didn't recuperate, so you tell her to get the fuck out of your life? It comes across as very BP and "I'm a nice guy who deserves a girlfriend". You should've just ignored her. She, like any woman, wants attention. She's messaging you to try and get you back into her life so you can feed her ego some more. She has no plans on having a relationship with you, and you shouldn't make any more of a fool of yourself t…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:54 AM
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Think about it dude. What good is it "coming clean" before sex? Do you think she'll be like "Oh wow that's so hot" and get more turned on? BZZZ Yes, practice putting on a rubber. Why wouldn't you? Fake it til you make it. Not just tomorrow, but forever. Never say "Oh I'm un experienced uhhh I dunno what I'm doing!!!", whether sex or anything related to your job. Carry yourself like you're the master, and women will automatically see you that way. And, after this chick, when the next girl asks fo…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:28 AM
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It's definitely a bit of an adjustment. Think of it this way; some men go their entire lives without even thinking that they're doing anything wrong. They assume that they'll eventually find a woman who will love them unconditionally for who they are. No self evaluation takes place. You're one of the lucky ones to have received a crash-course in how to turn your life around. And, surprise, surprise, it's basically acting like all of the successful men you see in life! We're told to be nice to wo…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:13 AM
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What the fuck do you think a plate means?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:54 AM
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Women come and go, especially if they're just plates. Some women want something more, some get bored of the same guy. Saying "Ok" is best, and see if she wants to meet up after that. If not, carry on with other women.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:01 AM
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I want to tell her "I dont date girls that hang out with guys all the time" or something along those lines, but the thing is that whenever she is not hanging out with them or me she just goes home and doesn't do much. If I do tell her that and she stops hanging out with other guys, how am I supposed to know if she is doing this behind my back or not? Should I always know what she is doing? Am I just insecure? You seem to imply that your solution is "I will tell her not to hang with guys, and she…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:12 AM
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She's behaving and not giving you BS. Don't act like a dick without cause. Just say "Long story, let's meet up soon. How's Friday?" In her mind she justifies it as "I'm going to talk to him about life" but you both know it'll end in a bone.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 02:30 PM
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You're on /r/AskTRP which is for asking questions. Normally I'd suggest you post to /r/TheRedPill, but after trying to read your post... Don't bother.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:56 AM
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Just respond "Spring cleaning. What's up?" It encourages her to change the subject herself, while showing you have little interest in her nonsense. If she goes on about the unfriending after that, next.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:13 AM
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A rule of thumb is nobody is ever telling the full turth, or the full lie. There's something in the middle. I'm sure in his life, he had many attractive women in his school. Hell, look up the term "Office Hot". If a girl is a 6, but you're surrounded by 3s and 4s all day, that 6 is going to look like a real 8 real fast. He was just telling you about the ugly ones without mentioning the hot ones that were out of his league. So no, I don't believe that he was "too good" for every woman in his scho…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:10 AM
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That way I think I would not find the experience pleasureable That's the fucking point. If you find porn so pleasurable, you won't persue women, because if you fail, you still have hours and hours of porn at your fingertips as a fallback. You have to cut that shit out immediately. The only way you should be getting off is with women.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:46 PM
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Listen to me. I was once where you were, and you need to snap out of it. Stop looking for signs that she's DTF. With any woman, no matter what, you need to always go by the following mindset: "She is willing to DTF but it's not likely unless she's convinced" Again, this is the case for any woman you want to pursue. Women are humans just like you, and they like sex. If they didn't, then none of us would have been born. If you overthink it, you're going to hurt your causes. And right now, you're m…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 09:42 AM
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Why are you asking us to give advice to you on whether you should give advice to your friend? You're looking for 4th party advice! If he wants to stay in the relationship, let him. That's his life. Focus on you. You can have interest in your friends without trying to control everything in their lives.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:51 AM
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It's a very stupid idea. Think about it; you might approach a girl, and she might might not be interested! That would be the absolute end of the world! It's certainly better to just stare at her from afar and imagine being able to talk to her. Otherwise, you risk getting her number.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:47 AM
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Why do you think there are only women who want alpha or beta? I'm going to assume you meant "Why do you think women only want someone to be 100% alpha or 100% beta?" and answer by saying, I don't. I'm giving an extreme example, which I will admit I should've said in the start. For example, if I make a donut shop, I might only have the money to make glazed donuts. Am I assuming that everyone prefers glazed donuts? Of course not, but that's what sells best. In the same sense, I choose to become wh…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:15 AM
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she just tells you "these red pill tactics are not gonna work on me" How would you react? You're missing the point. TheRedPill isn't just a set of steps you follow; it's an entire mindset. They aren't just tactics, it's my personality. If she tries to accuse me of just "using tactics", I can honestly say I'm just being myself. Another question I have. [...] I am very tired and my man knows this and still try to initiate ignoring me, and at the end he says "go home then" I will pack my things and…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:44 AM
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There's a difference between a one-night fling, and her "falling in love" with another man and staying in contact with him under your roof. I don't know what you want us to tell you. You know that all signs point to her being unfaithful, and that it's risking ruining your marriage, but then in your final paragraph you say it's a great relationship. You get some folks giving you advice, and you say "Thanks" but then re-iterate your personal feelings. The fact is, you should leave her, and you kno…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:11 AM
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throwing away a great girl and a great relationship Seriously? You even said she "fell in love". I know it's hard now, but believe me... You deserve better.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:54 AM
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You answered your own question.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 02:03 AM
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Do NOT "game her back". It's a waste of your time. You will never be in a serious relationship with her. Don't even pretend it's just for sex, because unless her pussy is gold plated, it's not worth the time and effort when there are other girls. My condolences to you for feeling hurt. I guarantee in a few years you'll be able to laugh at how trivial this all seems.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 11:44 PM
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I watched lesbian porn when I was going through puberty. Doesn't mean I wanted to chop my dick off. if im not good enough then why stay in the relationship Wrong answer. You should never break up because you don't feel good enough. You should only break up if you feel they aren't good enough for you, or if they disrespect you. This is hardly disrespect.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:24 AM
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I need an objective opinion on this. Here's my objective opinion: You want to change your name. If you were happy to keep it as it is, you wouldn't have posted here looking for any source of validation. Life is too short to be unhappy. If you'd be happier going by a different name, or legally changing it, or whatever, then do it. Don't ask us for permission.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:59 AM
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And yesterday I begged for you to talk to me and you ignored me. I didn't say anything mean, I wasn't yelling, I was being nice and you ignored me. That was down right rude. If this is how you are going to treat me then I don't want anything to do with it. It's hard to tell what she's talking about and how you should respond since none of us were there, and we don't have a clue what the argument was about. Like /u/TheBlackAlistar said, this is a good way to destroy your marriage, and reeks of in…
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:39 AM
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If you're serious about asking for help, you're going to have to take away more than just that from the man's comment. If you're not serious, fuck off.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 02:56 AM
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cold hard truths I'm going to go out on a limb and say it's based on your physical appearance. Imagine the scenario: A guy with huge abs, perfect hair, a properly-shaped face, pearly white perfect teeth, no skin imperfections... is talking to a girl. Instantly all the guys are going to say "hell yeah bro", and all the girls are going to say "damn she's so lucky". Now imagine the same scenario, but it's a greasy-haired neckbearded guy who doesn't work out and wears a MLP shirt. Huge turnoff, ever…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:48 AM
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You know what a shit test is, but you said that to her? "Friendly"?? I strongly suggest you lurk more on /r/TheRedPill and /r/AskTRP. That is a huge 180 from everything anyone can learn in just 5 minutes of lurking. Good luck.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 11:47 AM
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She wants you to say something to compliment her. She values your opinion. Like /u/vandaalen said, you shouldn't write to her so much. Meet up in person far more. I know, I know, easier said than done; I've been there. Trust me. The good news is you noticed the shit test, so all hope isn't lost; you can still save face. Just say "Same reason I write to anyone" and when she asks "why's that?" say "I'm just a social person". Makes her wonder who else you write to. DO NOT say "Because you're intere…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 11:12 AM
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You can lead a man to a red pill, but you can't make him swallow. ...Bad phrasing. But you know what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:02 AM
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Lol@ calling Vin Diesel beta. OP said he is like the beta, not Vin Diesel is beta. The whole point of this post is to represent how an A-list celebrity is not above making a mistake like this, where he puts a girl on a pedestal (whether doing it for laughs, or whether he seriously was attracted to her), and getting publicly ridiculed for it. It's not a slam against Vin Diesel directly, but it's just an interesting scenario.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 10:00 PM
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Guess they have to do that first Better get to work Fucking fixed that for you. There is no "Oh well". If they don't see you as a man worth chasing, that falls on nobody's shoulders but your own. The good news is, you're also in a position to change it. Too skinny? Go out and lift, bulk up. Too fat? Cut the fatty foods, get some exercise. Too boring? Learn a hobby. (Reddit is not a hobby!) Take up a karate class, or learn to surf, or do anything interesting that's also fitness. Use FB to your ad…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:34 PM
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Let me ask you this. If you had scored with a girl at your new bar, would you still be feeling regret about the first girl? I guarantee not. You're putting together two different scenarios in your question. The first scenario is the girl from the first bar, which you handled perfectly. The second scenario is shitty, but life goes on. Your question is: "I was doing my own thing, and a woman was trying to change my plans around just so I could have a chance at getting laid. I didn't do it. Did I f…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:29 AM
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We all started somewhere man. He knows what he needs to do, he just needs the courage to do it. I guarantee that when he breaks up with her, and realizes how better his life is, he won't waste his time on a girl like this again.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:18 AM
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make the conversation boring with not a lot of room for advancement BACK THE FUCK UP You don't have "conversations" with them over Snapchat. You need to post stories of you hanging out with male friends, hiking, or hitting the gym. When a lady snapchats you, you reply at most whenever your story gets updated, but keep it brief. If she sends a selfie of her with a caption "What's up lol", then you can respond to her, but keep conversation to a bare minimum. Only use it to arrange meeting up. Espe…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 06:32 AM
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ugly girlfriend BUT BUT BUT SHE'S AN INTELLECTUAL
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 06:19 AM
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