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| 11 | I’ve (27M) got 5 dates booked this week, but I suck balls at escalation. Any tips or advice?Probably because this sub is now filled with betas too afraid of offending a woman to actually try to get what they want in life. It’s been years since I’ve seen No More Mr. Nice Guy or Models recommended to any newbies. Those books changed my life. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginRead No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover and Models by Mark Manson. /thread | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 07:00 PM |
| 6 | How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a lonerFollowers aren’t friends. She likes what she sees. Keep doing what you’re doing. She doesn’t want someone with lots of followers. Don’t bring up her popularity or your insecurity about it. Act confident and it will come naturally. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 06:55 PM |
| 31 | She told me I can do whatever I want to herWhat does that mean though? Many guys including myself aren’t skilled at knowing how to “dominate” | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Peter asking out Jennifer Aniston’s character in Office Space is excellent.Link? | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 07:34 AM |
| 12 | What is wrong with meWarning, this is mean: fat guys with bushy beards look like they don’t give af about their bodies. Trim that thing. Beards are an excellent choice for skinny and fat guys alike, but it needs to be well-kept. Also buy some nicer clothes. You don’t have to shred the pounds overnight but look like you give a shit. FYI fat guys have a lot of muscle hiding under that fat. Look up Ethan Suplee from My Name is Earl. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreWait is 30 partners not a lot these days? | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 06:30 AM |
| 2 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreCold approaches are harder and take more confidence. Women respect that. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?How do you meet people? I play guitar and piano but it’s always been a solo activity for me | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:14 PM |
| 4 | What’s your hobby?Do you really think women don’t objectify men’s bodies (ever heard of the 6-6-6 rule?) | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?How do you start volleyball as a beginner? | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:10 PM |
| 4 | What’s your hobby?I started Brazilian Jiu Jitsu 6 months ago and it’s done wonders for my self-body image. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | What are some places that are meant for hooking up?How do you suggest going to bars casually alone? What do you do there? | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | What are some places that are meant for hooking up?Your random capitalization freaks me out. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeSo don’t do it. Why criticize if he’s getting good results? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?Is that a book? Tl;dr? | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Should i just call it quits ?This should be stickied in this sub. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 11:09 PM |
| 4 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?I made a post a while back about why books like “No More Mr. Nice Guy” and “Models” aren’t recommended anymore on this sub. It was the #1 suggestion a few years ago and I still highly value the lessons I learned from those books. A lot of men in this sub don’t know how to be men and that’s the problem. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Do you go to bars or clubs yourself? | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Is No More Mr. Nice Guy still recommended on this sub?Why wouldn’t you discuss it with your partner? | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 75 | How do I stop getting cucked?Don’t be an asshole. We’re all here to learn or give advice. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think you could really benefit from reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. Years ago when I was big on this subreddit it used to be the #1 most recommended book for recovering nice guys along with Models by Mark Manson (of “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck” fame). Those 2 books changed my life and are exactly what you need. I know I’m just a stranger on the internet but give it a chance. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I bad guyYou’re putting the pussy on a pedestal man | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Find a workout you enjoy. I like Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Many people get addicted to it and it’s crazy good cardio/HIIT. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Touched a girl from work today!Depends on the work. I’ve had jobs I didn’t care about and flirted with girls I knew were into me. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 05:15 AM |
| -1 | Touched a girl from work today!What’s a sus? | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 05:14 AM |
| 15 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Maybe skip the last part lol | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?Sounds like your diet and/or sleep habits are the issue. | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | What to read after No More Mr. Nice Guy and Models?What if I prefer to do both? | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Five Tips to Start a Conversation with a Girl You're Interested In.Who even calls it a bottom? Is he British? | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 02:26 AM |
| 10 | A little poetic inspirationI can't tell if this was written in 2017 or 1317 | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 02:21 AM |
| 1 | I fucking did it.Saving for later. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 10:53 PM |
| 23 | Don't just make eye contact with women, smile at them.When I hear jerk face I picture my face when I'm jerking it. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Should you kiss at the beginning of the second date?Yeah. I'm really just looking for a good guideline. I kissed her at the end of the last date and I kinda feel like when I start a second date with a hug that I'm regressing. | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Should you kiss at the beginning of the second date?I really just want to bee someone who gets laid on this date or the next. | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on holding hands on a date?What's your opinion on that? I've always seen it as really old-timey and like some girls would find it weird | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadSeeing as they are reluctant, what are some ways they might say they are down for sex without directly saying it? | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadCan you give an example hoof how you'd mention or reference sex? I'm always a little too forward I think with how I go about it. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever hadHow many dates does it take for you to go for the f-close? I'm bad about finding girls on tinder just down for sex. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 01:54 AM |
| 1 | When walking up to a woman sitting down in public, how do you seamlessly transition to sitting with her?Thanks, this is all great advice and that book definitely sounds like something I'd be interested in checking out. | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 11:26 PM |
| 1 | No more click bait vids pleaseI do like the in the field videos though. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 03:45 AM |
| 2 | How to actually start 'talking' [18M]I should have clarified. I think Models is better for getting the girl. NMMNG is better for keeping the girl and being happy long-term. I had to read NMMNG very slowly because just coming out of a relationship, I could relate so much to it and I would catch myself drifting off into introspection while listening to it. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How to actually start 'talking' [18M]Read NMMNG. Mark got a lot of his content from NMMNG and expands upon select parts. He even mentions "Dr. Robert Glover" (author of NMMNG) twice in Models. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 07:09 PM |
| 15 | How to actually start 'talking' [18M]I see myself as a nice person You should start by reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. And then Models. NMMNG will help with your neediness. Models will help with the flirting. | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How to approach and get her number in 60 seconds (or less)Saving this for later. I was asking about this exact situation recently. | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfI love this | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfYou def have the right idea. Girls love a guy that doesn't hesitate when he sees an opportunity. Things could have gone very differently for you if you had made a move immediately. That being said, good for you for making a move. Rejection feels amazing. Even if you don't get the girl, by making a move you've got more courage than 90% of other guys out there. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Me Gaming A Three-Set At A Bar And An Explanation On How To Do ItAnyone else find it extremely awkward to walk up to a group of girls and say to one of them "I thought you were really cute?" Especially if one of the friends is a little overweight or something, it's gotta make them a bit self-conscious. You're essentially saying "I'm not attracted to your friends, but I thought YOU were really cute"? | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Pulling a Girl In While You TalkLike those teen kids who jam their hands down girls pants on the dance floor Wait where was I for teenagehood Oh that's right playing final fantasy. Fucking virgin. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Thought I finally got a date, but she won't even see my messages...On top of this, the more he messages/acts weird around her, the less likely he will be to ever date him. But really, she's a flake. He can do better and find someone that actually wants to go out with him. | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 03:01 PM |
| 14 | Why Girls Aren't Interested In You - Give Her Value | Different Ways Of Giving ValueThat's great man but you really should find a job | /r/seduction | 27/08/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl is getting very attached..Find another guy for the clingy girl. Get him interested in her while you distance yourself from her all while quietly getting closing to the friend. | /r/seduction | 27/08/17 08:18 PM |
| 2 | My extreme babyface (I'd prefer insight from fellow baby faced people). I'm kind of considering plastic surgeryI'll be the voice of dissent here. Do what makes you happy. If you want plastic surgery, and can afford it, have at it. It's like how lately I've changed my opinions on girls with breast implants. Why not? They want big boobs and unfortunately the gym won't do much for that. Some guys want their dicks chopped off and to grow tits. I don't think diet and exercise are going to fix that. We all want a certain body that may or may not be attainable through the gym. Though I would look carefully at t… | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Guys, I fucking did it. My story at 22(m) of how I lost it!!I also lost it at age 22. Everything snowballs after this brother!!! | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I fucking did it. My story at 22(m) of how I lost it!!How did you pull that off? I agree that once you get the first out of the way it's smooth sailing but 9 in a year is just unreal. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | What's the modern equivalent of The Game by Neil StraussTL;DR of The Cube? | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 12:21 AM |
| 3 | How to *actually* love yourself.Care to explain this? | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 03:38 AM |
| 3 | I finally did it.And that's just day 1. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 11:59 AM |
| 6 | Finally hooked up with a girl from the friend zone (bittersweet)This is killer advice. | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 02:37 PM |
| 4 | How do I [18/F] seduce my boyfriend [22/M]?Not to just repeat everything everyone else is saying, but you're 18. The world is your oyster and there are countless guys out there more compatible with you than him. I know you may think you've been through so much with him, but if you left him now you could probably meet someone else and have years of happy, new memories with them before you're even 22. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 01:16 AM |
| 6 | When do I ask her out after she has broken up?How long would you wait then? Her mind may be on her ex for months until she finds someone new. The good ones don't stay single. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 12:35 PM |
| 5 | When do I ask her out after she has broken up?Make sure to follow up with us. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | What are good skills/hobbies/interests to have for a more attractive lifestyle?Though if you like it and can talk passionately about it... hey it may work for some girls. | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 02:30 AM |
| 3 | What are good skills/hobbies/interests to have for a more attractive lifestyle?If you're happy just watching netflix and shit then awesome. | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 02:28 AM |
| 14 | What are good skills/hobbies/interests to have for a more attractive lifestyle?Can confirm, I know an airsoft guy. He's super into guns and would probably be in a militia if there were one in his area. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What are good skills/hobbies/interests to have for a more attractive lifestyle?Does learning one type of dancing, like swing or salsa, benefit you for dancing in general, like at clubs? | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 11:46 PM |
| 11 | My Essential Tips For SeductionI find it's often good to read the whole long version of a book rather than the cliffs notes version. You're much more likely to remember it and be able to apply it to your specific situation if you read the whole thing. | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Where's that article posted a few days ago on eye contact?That's it! Thank you. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Turning gf into wing girl/polyamarous relationship. I feel conflicted5 years from now you're gonna think of this and cringe. She only agreed to it because she doesn't have the spine to break up with you. You only offered it because vice versa. Everyone has to learn how to break up with someone at some point in their lives. It's good practice for not being stuck in a shitty relationship in the future. If she isn't into monogamy and you are, dump her. We live in a world of abundance. There are countless amazing women who only want one man in their lives. | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Turning gf into wing girl/polyamarous relationship. I feel conflictedWtf is vibing | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 11:22 PM |
| 12 | FR Probably the worst date I've ever been on.What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How strong eye contact sealed the deal again.circus FSU? | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Late bloomer. Anyone else?I see it's big on TheRedPill. I concede that some of the points those guys argue are fair, but does the book really heavily push that philosophy, or is it more generally written to the type of guys Models is for? | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves?Where do I go to take tennis classes? I've been wanting to learn. | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you do to make her horny?Can you explain what pulling your breath is? | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Bumble profile critiqueWhat's bad about it? Anyway I'm gonna preface it with "I like making healthy decisions and challenging myself." I don't wanna make it too long because it seems like hardly any guy has more than 2-3 sentences for their description. I also have 4 profile pics they can hopefully find something to talk about from. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 05:20 PM |
| 18 | Late bloomer. Anyone else?Or you have a short attention span. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 04:28 PM |
| 1 | If you had one minute to # close what would you say?That's great but what if you're not at a bar? (In b4 "who says I was at the bar?") | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | If you had one minute to # close what would you say?I've gotten numbers and gone out at least once with all 3 girls I've gotten numbers from. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 02:50 AM |
| 1 | If you had one minute to # close what would you say?I have actually gotten several numbers after barely talking to a girl or not at all. But for me it's very hit or miss so I'd like to get more of a routine down. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 01:37 AM |
| 1 | If you had one minute to # close what would you say?I for one find it difficult to start up a convo with a stranger spur of the moment in public. If it's a date setting though I can usually do a bit better. Especially because it's less awkward because she's not sitting there wondering you're taking to her. She knows what you want and presumably if she's going out with you, she wants the same thing. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 01:36 AM |
| 1 | If you had one minute to # close what would you say?So how would you progress that to getting her number in less then a minute? | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Do I flock to the attractive girls like the other guys or waitWhat job is this? | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Do I flock to the attractive girls like the other guys or waitSolution? Socialize with girls in places where men are in minority. Any places you suggest? | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Do I flock to the attractive girls like the other guys or waitDepends how carefully you tread. I'd hold off on sex until quite a few dates and determine you could really see a future with this person first. The ding and ditch (or whatever it's called) is not the best strategy for a workplace. | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Do I flock to the attractive girls like the other guys or waitIs there literally a group because that would be hilarious lol | /r/seduction | 17/03/17 02:54 AM |
| 6 | Models by Mark Manson, full audiobook narrated by the authorCare to sell me on it in one sentence? | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 02:11 AM |
| -19 | Models by Mark Manson, full audiobook narrated by the authorIf you like it so much you can't pay the $15 to show your appreciation to the man that changed your life? | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 02:10 AM |
| 2 | You know girls used to post here tooThen you're missing out for a petty reason | /r/seduction | 12/03/17 04:35 PM |
| 1 | You know girls used to post here tooI think you're supposed to stop negging something like the second time you see them | /r/seduction | 12/03/17 04:34 PM |
| 70 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?If you're the world's greatest flirt, someone at some point in time will still call you creepy. You just need to accept it. Girls overuse that word all the time to lower your worth as a man. Often the difference between creepy and smooth is how direct you came across combined with how attracted she was to you from the start. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How important is kino and why is it important?Extremely important. It breaks the touch barrier so when you try to hold her hand, put your hand on her leg, kiss her, etc. it just feels natural. It also can make her feel butterflies if she really likes you. Start by hugging her when you see her, guiding her with your hand on the small of her back at restaurants, etc. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 07:30 PM |
| 2 | how to get normal male friends?And there's nothing wrong with hanging out with them in a totally non-game oriented environment. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Does her touching mean anything?She naturally knows kino helps. She wants to fuck you. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Kissing girlsYou're 17. Everyone sucks at that age. Don't be afraid to ask the girl for tips. Whoever you're kissing now isn't gonna be the girl you marry so feel free to get anything out of it you can. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 07:22 PM |
| 6 | I am seeking my ex-gf's validation too muchRead No More Mr. Nice Guy. Particularly the last chapter is relevant to you. We live in a place of abundance. No one person can make you happy. Your ex is not unique or special. Literally countless other women can make you happy. Go out and meet some new girls and never think about your ex again. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Does Tinder help with dating?How do you use Instagram for dating? If it's anything like Facebook, I've never really gotten the hang of using it in that way. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 04:59 PM |
| 8 | I can't believe this shit actually works.Compliment her. Kino her hair. Kiss her. Put the penis in the vagina. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Cute girl usually leads to chickening outshe understands the balls it takes to talk to her That's a good fucking point. I once asked out a dermatology assistant out of the blue. She even told me on our date how ballsy that was. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Cute girl usually leads to chickening outWho cares. You're doing it for you. Even if she rejects you, you'll be proud you took a chance and approached her. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 02:35 AM |
| 19 | Stupid question: How do you actually get nudes?One time a girl told me her tits were better than some celebrity's. I told her prove it. She sent me a text in a bra. I told her "Yeah those are nice but a good bra can make a lot of tits look way better. I'd have to see them without it to make any decisions." She sent it. Apparently she thought I'm the Simon Cowell of tit judges. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | "i don't have time for your pettiness today"Was it recent or was it a while ago | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 01:51 AM |
| 2 | "i don't have time for your pettiness today"I really need to read that. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Are routines essential for certain people?I like the idea of routines but I have never done them. But I'm not opposed to trying one out. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How would you approach another customer at a bagel shop?I like that 3 second rule. Personally I tend to avoid tapping on the shoulder as I see it as weird, but if you can pull it off then more power to you. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Are routines essential for certain people?What pickup blog? | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Are routines essential for certain people?I think with enough practice anyone can make it as easy as naturals. But I for one like routines. Why not? It's less sincere? She'll never know you've used the same line on 20 different girls, and if she finds out, who cares? It's not like it's immoral. I don't know any routines but I'm interested in what has worked for some other people. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who are afraid to approach a super pretty girl.How do you get female friends? Are they women who you weren't attracted enough to try to date? Or are they women who weren't interested in you or were unavailable at the time? | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 07:40 AM |
| 3 | The Core of AttractionI know I'm late to reply but I wanted to thank you for this. I, too, make an effort not to hit on married women. I like how moral this subreddit can be. It's a shame that no one else on Reddit sees us as moral, and everyone views us as sleezy manwhores who use any means necessary to get women to jump into bed with us. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 07:08 AM |
| 1 | I feel as if I'm social and funny in some situations, but at other times (when the girl is attractive) I get socially awkward or say dumb things. How do I change that?Yeah I get that, and that's one of the reasons I wouldn't want to date a 10. But as I said if you're secure in your masculinity it shouldn't bother you. But I can understand that's not always easy to ignore. | /r/seduction | 24/02/17 07:13 AM |
| 1 | I feel as if I'm social and funny in some situations, but at other times (when the girl is attractive) I get socially awkward or say dumb things. How do I change that?Gotta be secure in your masculinity and trust her not to cheat bro | /r/seduction | 24/02/17 03:29 AM |
| 9 | I feel as if I'm social and funny in some situations, but at other times (when the girl is attractive) I get socially awkward or say dumb things. How do I change that?Here's what I realized. Who cares if the girl is hot? If you're trying to date them, looks are only about 10% of how fulfilling of a relationship it is. If you're trying to just fuck them, it's only one night anyway. You are the prize. Not her. She did not have to work to become hot. You've worked to become the awesome person you are. And if you're not awesome, why not? Why not work to become the person you want to be? Lastly, every girl is a bit insecure. Unless you're genuinely ugly, it's doub… | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 06:36 PM |
| 5 | The Core of AttractionMen who try to hide their desires or are ashamed of their desires are acting dishonestly. What if you or her are in a relationship? Should you show your interest in a woman even if you or her aren't available? | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | The self-sabotage: How to turn rejection into successAll you guys are saying it was rude. How did it hurt her? If it didn't, then why does it matter? It was only hurting myself, and that's the point. | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | The self-sabotage: How to turn rejection into successWhat harm did it cause her? It's not like I was insulting her. | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 08:33 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to "that could maybe work" when asking out?Different strokes. Unless you come off as a creeper I think it's only beneficial to pick them up. | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 03:30 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "that could maybe work" when asking out?Cool I just texted her back just basically ignoring the maybe and telling her I'll pick her up at 6. Figured if she can't do it she'll let me know | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "that could maybe work" when asking out?Okay I just sent her a message saying cool pick you up at 6. Figured if that's no good she'll let me know | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Getting shut down by "I have a boyfriend" really a bad thing?I have a similar recent story. The short of it: you went out on a ledge and took a chance. That's something to be proud of. Just move a little faster next time. But what you did is progress over never asking them out at all. So well done. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 07:11 AM |
| 1 | I've read about confidence a million times, but realistically how do you start off with flirting with a girl?Dress better. R/malefashionadvice. Workout. Work on Strong eye contact with everyone you meet. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 07:04 AM |
| 5 | I've read about confidence a million times, but realistically how do you start off with flirting with a girl?So slightly change it to suit you. "Hi, I couldn't help but notice you looking at me and I want to let you know that you have good taste." | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 07:03 AM |
| 0 | I've read about confidence a million times, but realistically how do you start off with flirting with a girl?Yup. With confidence you can make anything sound smooth. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Having success with this Tinder strategyEh the only one I thought was terrible was "I was talking about me of course" yeah no shit. But hey if it works for you. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Times when you were bold with a girl?I'm trying to be sold on it. What do you masturbate to if not porn? Just tie imagination? Are you picturing women? If not what are you thinking about? | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Times when you were bold with a girl?I have never tried nofap, do you simply go months without masturbating? | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl Says I'm Overconfident?"I'm assertive and honest!" sounds kind of like you're trying too hard. I'd just stick with "Just being honest" or "thank you" like the other guy said and leave it at that. Mostly though don't stop approaching girls like that because most times they love it. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 07:17 PM |
| 7 | New study shows women prefer men who use metaphorical language when paying compliments in a romantic context.Hahaha crush it brother | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 03:16 AM |
| 60 | New study shows women prefer men who use metaphorical language when paying compliments in a romantic context.If you like this, OK Cupid or plenty of fish used to have studies from all their data showing who was attracted to who, who you're likely to get a response from, etc. I think they stopped due to certain controversial info like "studies show white females are 80% more likely to respond to a white male than a black male." | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever get the feeling, that you are too superficial or have too high standards?Agreed. The frustrating thing is when you're nice to a girl you don't find attractive and they start hitting on you or ask you out. But I guess now I know how it feels for girls and why a lot of hot girls don't talk to unattractive guys. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 09:30 PM |
| 3 | [Update] Got her number. Is she just not that into me?Great advice. I'll text her later today or tomorrow asking her out tomorrow night. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I love rejection.Made an update thread with text convo here | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I love rejection.Made an update thread with text Convo here | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Here's the spreadsheet I use to track my attempts/successes.Dude I love this spreadsheet and the detail you put into each girl. I, too, like spreadsheets and have been focusing on my career. I might have to start something like this. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Best places to meet people as someone who doesn't drink?There's a site called something like Waka sports. They have adult kickball leagues and other sports all over the US. Apparently they just play kickball and drink beer. My friend met her boyfriend there. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Best places to meet people as someone who doesn't drink?Unless it's wine because that's classy. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Obsessed with sex$200 gorgeous girl Pick one. | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 08:29 PM |
| 12 | How To: Pick Up Girls In The BookstoreStill gotta hand it to him for making the effort and recording for us. | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 01:07 AM |
| 11 | How To: Pick Up Girls In The BookstoreWhere's your mic? You can hear her better than you... | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 01:07 AM |
| 1 | She feels like she's the man in the relationshipI've been thinking about this. I think I do attempt to get her approval quite a bit. I should focus more on genuinely being nice, and not always doing everything in an attempt to please her. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 01:31 AM |
| 1 | She feels like she's the man in the relationshipI really am not quite sure who am I being. I want to make her happy, and I thought that was a good thing in relationships, but I feel that working for her approval isn't what I want to do. I guess I need to work on finding a balance. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 03:36 AM |
| 1 | She feels like she's the man in the relationshipI don't believe I'm being needy but maybe she doesn't see it that way. I do kiss her far more than she kisses me (lately). I'm going to try to tone everything down. Let her initiate more. End text convos if it's all one way. I just hope it's not too late for her to change her opinion of me and to feel those feelings for me again. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] X-post: Gym DateI'd say losing 30 pounds is much better in the long run than getting one girl's number. | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 03:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] X-post: Gym DateProbably not, but even if he doesn't get that girl in particular, the whole idea of using his promise as a reason to get fit and approaching the girl directly and expressing interest is a huge step in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 08:04 PM |
| 4 | I think I accidentally turned her on, success at the end of the nightBeing yourself helps if you're naturally good with women, or have developed that personality. Otherwise for the love of god don't be yourself. Well you don't really have a choice imo. If you build it they will come. You built an image of sexy confidence. Wait for her to come. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I think I accidentally turned her on, success at the end of the nightTo go into further detail, when most guys give a girl validation, it comes across as wanting to fuck her. You obviously didn't care about that so giving her validation while staying an alpha male is what made her want the D once again. Either way don't change anything you've been doing. It's working for you. Let her come to you if she wants you again. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 05:58 PM |
| 2 | I think I accidentally turned her on, success at the end of the nightWell done man. You earned it. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 05:55 PM |
| 1 | going to a party looking for some nice missions for a starter(18)On what the other guy said: Introduce yourself to every girl there. make them laugh Especially the ugly ones. The hot ones will notice and realize you're a really cool guy who likes making anyone laugh, and not just girls you're into. My biggest tip (and most PUAs actually) for talking to girls in groups is to address all of them. Bring them all into the convo. Make it so when they think of that night, that convo, they can't NOT think of you. You were the facilitator of so many convos and memori… | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 05:54 PM |
| 4 | I think I accidentally turned her on, success at the end of the night"I was not trying to seduce her" exactly. She was thinking "what kind of a guy has no interest in seducing me? Am I not good enough for him? He's so sweet, and he doesn't give a fuck about me? He's a great guy, I've got to win him back. I'm gonna fuck his brains out tonight." | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Community college opening and approachneither did I Well there's your problem right there. Also you're right, it was obvious she was doing yoga. Instead start with something like "excuse me, did you just get back from a yoga class? How is it here? Are there lots of beginners in the class or are they all seasoned pros like yourself? etc.." | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Community college opening and approachAsk more questions and make comments. "I'd like to but I'd probably embarrass myself." "When do they meet?" "Are all the girls in the class as cute as you?" | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Community college opening and approachYou're going to need to step out of your comfort zone for this. Get creative. See them with an upper-level textbook for a class you will take in the future? Ask them how the class is. Compliment them on something they're wearing. | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 10:14 PM |
| 2 | How to break the "cute and adorable" appearance?Boots such a Clarks Desert Boots will add an inch to your height. Plus they're stylish. Double confidence boost! | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 10:06 PM |
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