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You're absolutely right, but I didn't state that I got validation from women I pay. I meant I had a lot of interest from other women when I travel once I started getting into shape.. (P.S. I didn't really get fat so much but more just lack of muscle/definition)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 08:20 PM
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We will see how the MAP develops and if things change. For the time being it's not on the cards but I can definitely see things are changing. Slowly...
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 09:15 AM
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She hasn't give me a blow job for over 3 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 09:13 AM
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Just another question as a side note. How does this fall in the red pill category, taking into consideration that it's leaving me to decide that I will take care of the contraception and not her?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 08:54 AM
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Frankly doing that I would feel like a dog getting his balls cut off.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 08:42 AM
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Yes the little one is definitely mine but she found it very stressful raising her and she wants to avoid going through the same motions. Obviously as it's a first one everyone makes mistakes and everyone says the second one is easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 08:41 AM
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I have been doing that but it's kind of pissing me off a little as I want to keep fucking and not have to finish myself off by hand, that kind of defeats the object of the exercise. She had the miscarriage around 6 months ago and she was only 1 1/2 months into the pregnancy.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 08:37 AM
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She objects to any type of "non natural" things that includes contraception so she has been against both the pill and IUD. In addition she got this validation from her gyno (woman) who said that condoms are the best.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 08:35 AM
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Just to make it clear. I am not under any circumstances trying to trick her. I have made my intentions clear however if she wishes to not have another child then she needs to find a solution but for me rubber johnnies are out of the question.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 08:34 AM
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Mate, it's like I was reading about myself. Exactly the same and yes, when we got married it was at least 2 kids planned.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 08:32 AM
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I should state that I do want one more kid but she's against the idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 04:58 PM
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Thanks for the clarity. All makes sense
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 12:03 PM
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I love this! You made ma laugh out loud in the office. Fucking awesome
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 03:39 PM
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So who gives a shit if she had 3 LTR's before you, the important thing is, she decided to be with YOU! Now take care of it as man should. Not saying I'm perfect, I have a steep learning curve and a lot of work to do to get where my marriage needs to be. I wouldn't say you threw that part of your life away, you need to reflect on that part of your life and identify the things that you have learned. As a side note: Most people that seem to have lost their faith is not because of the religion itsel…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:54 AM
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Thanks. I supposed I'm trying to avoid being boring. Keeping this serious front surely can't be a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:39 AM
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That's the difference I suppose. Frankly I live in a quite conservative society, but I do my own shit and if others want to judge me they can. I really don't give a fuck. In my eyes I am responsible for my actions and will answer for myself when the time comes, I don't expect others to do that for me. On the other hand I also have a wife who was brought up in conservative household and getting her inner slut out is harder, but in progress ;) I did make it clear to my wife prior to us getting mar…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:37 AM
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I suppose it depends how people interpret religion/compulsion. It does say in Islam that there is no compulsion in religion, with that said however you have to balance it. I pray when I can. If I'm at work I can't, simple as that. I get up early to pray and in the evenings, that's the extent of it. My faith is my own thing and I'm not going to be a better Muslim if other people are aware of my practices. I do what I think is right. Side note: I dated, I also fucked before marriage. Fuck I even l…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:27 AM
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I just added another post. I can't seem to get out of this "serious" state of mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:22 AM
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I realised I'm a little impatient but keeping a sturdy frame, not explaining myself if I get asked something just telling her that's how it's going to be. She gives up ...eventually.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:21 AM
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That's how I see it too :)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:20 AM
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Excellent advice - I have only been exercising at home initially as I have to go on a business trip next week so saw no point in hitting the gym, paying membership when I won't attend. I assure you I plan to put together a training plan together, hit the gym and get some supplements, but for the time being I'm doing what I can.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:19 AM
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Funny comment, although don't paint us all with the same brush. I'm actually a practicing Muslim but shall we say have a more liberal attitude. Although thinking about it, would goat herding be a RP activity I could take up! :D
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:07 AM
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Thanks for your response, it's really appreciated. I have started working out, I did gain some weight (nothing significant, just have a slight podge in the abdomen area but mostly not noticeable). Saying that I have a bit of problem judging myself in respect to SMV. I would say in the looks department we are on par, although she does look better when she makes an effort and puts make-up on. When I did give her the 3 days silent she did at one point kiss me and ask me to hug her so it must of don…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 08:12 AM
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So here's an update all. Earlier in the day I had told her to be ready with the little one so we can go out. Sure enough when I came home from work they were both dressed and ready. I went and got changed - She then threw a tantrum as I was dressed more formal and she was casual (I wanted to look good). Anyway she says I'm now not going out and sat on the couch. I said ok and packed the little one with me to the car, as we're about to set off, she comes out of the house and gets in the car witho…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 07:41 PM
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Whine a little more...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:55 PM
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I just thought fuck it, I am doing what the fuck I want and don't give a shit anymore. Although two good things that haven't happened so far are: No nagging No arguments
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:32 PM
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Thanks for the tips and I'll keep you posted on what happens afterwards. Just one more question - What sort of rapport should I keep with her? Teasing, or keep frame but engage with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:22 PM
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"Sucks" literally. I did recently confront her on this and she said she didn't like them but obviously didn't complain when it was done to her. Hypocrite. Obviously me engaging with her on this topic is me complaining and I've realised that this is not the right thing to do, so will let shit take it's own course in the hope that they come back, unless you've got some better tips?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:20 PM
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Gotcha - Yes definitely, the days of me lounging around after work are done for. I will find something to do. I gave her a call just now and told her to make sure she and the little one are dressed for when I get home so I can take them out. She said the little one is going to be tired, I just re-iterated "be ready".
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:13 PM
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Excellent advice. In what form would you recommend rewarding her? Like I said I only started at home due to work commitments dragging me away to another country, but hitting the gym next week as I do want to play on the passive dread. Excuse my ignorance, what does "No Zero Days" mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 12:50 PM
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Thanks for the message.. yeah I know I deserve to get a kick up the arse for letting it get this far. You need to get away from the mindset that 'You'll show her' You put her into the position of leadership through weakness and are not entitled to resent her for filling the void you left in the relationship. Aboslutely spot on. Although I seem to have a problem adjusting my attitude so need to work on this. You want to reward good behavior, she was giving you affection and you didn't respond. No…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 12:30 PM
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Yea I think she's definitely in the latter category "good girl". She gave me a BJ once at the start of our marriage but since then completely dry spell on that front. Her mum is very headstrong and I think she's learnt from that behaviour that it's ok to treat men that way. Any advice on the cold shoulder bit?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 12:22 PM
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In terms of looks we are on par I would say, often people comment that we look like brother and sister as we are so much alike. When I was referring to the Eastern European aspect, it's more that she's stubborn and and she was raised in a very conservative household. She's not Polish but I have the same Eatern European background as her and speak the same language it's just that I've spent more of my life here than she has. You hit it right on the nose about EE women. They are very intelligent a…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 11:52 AM
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Hi, thanks for your reply. I have read the Married Man Sex Life Primer and did try some of that stuff out and some if it worked but most often it did not, my wife has a very strong hamster. In terms of SMV, I would think I am slightly higher than her but mainly due to professional career. She stays at home and looks after our daughter. I am the main breadwinner although i do not have a social life so that is a negative. Yep UK based but with an eastern european wife <- They are very different.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 09:07 AM
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