NSFW - Intimate Query

fauxscot · 2015-05-07T00:27:22+00:00

Unethical. If no one else will say it, I sure as hell will.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-05-06T19:21:49+00:00

I think women and men should have an equal say in whether you make a baby which I suppose makes me a feminist.

Norplant or IUD for her is the solution.

Playing hit or miss and trying to impregnate your wife against her will is no better than her dumpster diving the used condoms to impregnate herself against your will.

spexer · 2015-05-06T21:28:29+00:00

A miscarriage can be very traumatic. As with pregnancy, I would throw in a little more beta here. To be red pill, why not pull out and cum on her?

seriously: when and whether to have kids should be a discussion that is agreed to. It is not right of either of the party to trick the other into it.

captainramen · 2015-05-06T17:56:24+00:00

She's probably feeling like shit because of the miscarriage; this can be very traumatic for her. Especially if she's on the older side.

Get her to use a basal thermometer so you know when she's ovulating (a lot more difficult if she's irregular but it can be done). Then wear protection only on those days.

Necroptotic · 2015-05-06T16:56:04+00:00

Get a vasectomy. Otherwise you are playing into her frame.

En_sigma · 2015-05-06T19:21:23+00:00

That is the risk you took when you married a woman that is fine with abortion. Whether you are or not makes no difference, but if you married a woman who was a cheater, you should not be surprised if she cheats. Same with abortion, voting differently than you, what she finds appropriate to teach your kids....it goes on.

You have more / bigger problems to deal with.

EDIT: lemme flesh that out more. It is going to be nigh impossible to get her into your frame if she kills every kid you get past the goalie. You can't win that fight - especially if she feels so free in flagrantly waiving abortion about. If you can get that fight going in the right direction, you may have a chance, but you need to start there before the factory workers increase production.

anothercarguy · 2015-05-06T21:17:23+00:00

Why cant she get a copper IUD? Are you up to cum in any of the other orifices?

UEMcGill · 2015-05-06T16:54:33+00:00

Read from the sidebar. Never let the woman control the birth control (the 16 commandments).

Like it or not your in her frame. If you want kids, well more power to ya. But get her on an IUD or something easy. Safe, effective, and no worries.

krystyin · 2015-05-06T18:28:09+00:00

If you want one more kid have another kid - stop flirting around the issue. She will either let you be captian or tell you to fuck off, either way you two will be in a better spot as it shows you where your relationship stands.

dandar4600 · 2015-05-06T19:20:34+00:00

I was in the same exact boat as you. One daughter, 7 years old, wife and me both of Easter European descent (yeah I creeped into your post history for more info on how long you've been on TRP etc.) Let me guess, when you were getting married you both wanted 2 or 3 kids, right?

After my daughter was born, wife did not want another. She would say I got want I want and now I'm done. She would also bring up that I'm lazy and all other kinds of failures as a father which needless to say would make me resent her. In fact we had some fights about it back when I was plugged in. Once I took the red pill and sex picked up she bought condoms. We used them only twice then I refused. When she told me to cum on her stomach I told her no. I figured it's up to her if she wants to stop the sex or not. She only brought it up a couple more times then she stopped bringing it up and now she's pregnant. All I needed was to man up and take care of my shit for her to decide that on second thought I am good enough for her to have a second child with me.

Now mine has never brought up abortion. We were married in church and she's fairly conservative so that never played in the equation. Having said that, if she got pregnant and then had an abortion I think it would have been a deal breaker for me. To me that would equal with her murdering my unborn child. I could not be with her after that.

I would say keep doing what you're doing. When she pushes for condoms or pull out you refuse. She either stops fucking you (like that one is going to happen now that you are red pill,) gets on birth control or decides to have your baby. If she does get pregnant and then gets an abortion you will have some soul searching to do.

SexistFlyingPig · 2015-05-06T20:19:30+00:00

The question is "why?". Why is she not wanting to have another kid with you? If it was Chad Thundercock, would she be making these demands?

Get to the gym. Lift big then go home.

In response to your other thread, since you were initiating dread game, and wanted her to initiate, reward her when she does. Don't do some female crap of "Well, if my partner is suddenly in the mood, and I'm mad at them, then I should refuse. That'll show 'em!"

EightyTimes · 2015-05-06T19:43:55+00:00

When she was pregnant previously (when abortion was not discussed) were you 1,000% the kid was yours?

Maybe she's not okay having another kid WITH YOU and will abort YOUR kid or make YOU use condoms.... but is okay diversifying her children's genetic material with some other guy.

I don't know the details of your specific situation but this is the first thing I thought of.

Title	NSFW - Intimate Query
Author	t-dog1982
Upvotes	1
Comments	45
Date	May 6, 2015 4:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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