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My wife feels the same way. I show her the math of how much it would cost me to hire a personal assistant to do all the shit she does. Hiring an assistant is cheap. Hiring an assistant who is willing to get to know my preferences is a very difficult thing to find. Seriously - just making doctors appointments is worth soooooooooo much to me.
/r/RedPillWives02/05/21 06:54 PM
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in your head easier to attack people than ideas when someone said some mean words. If you actually read the sub, If I threw out your presumptions, there would be nearly nothing left to read. Not in trp. When an ideology or movements exists, the people who preach / fight for / act within / defend the ideology CAN be labeled as a 'group' whether they like it or not. End of discussion. It's ridiculous that I'm debating this with somebody who is 'endorsed' by a group he claims doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 09:01 PM
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There is no identity for a RedPiller. It's silly to claim there isn't an identity for a RedPiller where this thread, people post with identifying flairs next to their names such as "Red Pill Man". We explore reality and share information. People then take from that what they will. This is why outcomes vary widely. The reality discussed is on a particular topic (you aren't talking taxes and football.) The topic of "Sexual Strategy" is from a certain perspective with its own jargon and own guideli…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:54 PM
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So the reason is to self-sacrificially give a boost to other guys who haven't figured it out yet? My issue is that I can jujitsu it around any-which-way in my own head, so that ANYTHING means ANYTHING. I need some external assistance to help figure this one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:38 AM
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Yeah I know. "Not all ______". Not ALL Nazis want violence. Not ALL feminists hate men. Not ALL factory workers are underpaid. Not ALL RedPillers complain about feminist ads. It's useless to talk about the exceptions to each class. I'm looking at a group from a sociological point of view. The GROUP is following behaviors against their own self interest and I'm wondering why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:34 AM
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You seem to be missing a a key thing here. We, TRP men, are not suffering at the hands of feminism. No, in fact this has been wonderful. I won't pay the ticket for it It's not that I MISSED this. In fact, my entire OP was asking the question: Why don't ALL TRP followers have this very attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 10:05 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 10:00 PM
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Yeah... this is what I'm poking at here. I wonder why this isn't a core commandment of theirs already.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:28 PM
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It's like you're speaking a different language.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:20 PM
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I tend to notice the EC's of the sub don't really comment on what is happening in media etc. they tend to focus on the actual physical dynamic between men and women I haven't read a TON of it but Rollo's stuff does in-fact seem like commentary. I don't know any of the other OGs or who they are so thanks for filling in the blanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:17 PM
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Let me rephrase: Why don't men subscribed to red-pill ideology see feminism as a culture-wide shit test?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:13 PM
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Thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:07 PM
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I see that, and I can see how it plays into the situation. Thanks. What I had gleaned from TRP theology is that stoicism was an aspiration in general and should be applied to all areas of life. Publicly reacting to a macro-attack (corporate ad or political movement) seems just as bad as reacting negatively to a micro attack (a personal remark). Looking back, everything I had read is definitely focused on interpersonal relationships. I don't actually ever recall seeing anything about reacting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:06 PM
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I haven't criticized TRP movement, its ideals, mission statement, or purpose. I have no idea what you're even getting defensive about. I'm wondering why so many members make moves (like complaining about multimedia) which run counter to the theology they advocate. Sweetie ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:54 PM
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Yeah I agree here. I think what I'm doing is a classic mistake (taking the internet at face value). This isn't facebook or a board meeting. It's mostly anonymous users who CAN vent and get upset here with no repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:46 PM
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I'm on the side of masculinity being a healthy and normal thing that should be encouraged. What I don't understand is all the talk about 'holding frame' when a WOMAN makes a remark about you... and then their frames completely shatter when a COMMERCIAL makes some remark about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:40 PM
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I get the frustration of a double-standard. What I don't understand is how a core tenet is "you are more powerful when you don't get upset" and then when seemingly small things happen, you see an uproar within the same community that preaches not losing your frame. Do you think it's the 'newcomers' making noise? Those who haven't internalized the core message? Or maybe it's seasoned vets who complain online because they need somewhere anonymous to vent? edit: spelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:39 PM
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You weed out those people by being SUPER up-front about your situation. Will you get turned down/rejected 90% of the time? Yes. That's you actively 'weeding out' all but the 10% you want so it's going to have to be an acceptable risk. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:11 PM
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I haven't gone through what you've gone through, so I can only feel your pain by proxy. Even if I took my hardships and projected them, I'll never get the insight that comes from your unique first-hand accounts. My parents are still together. My wife's parents WOULD still be together if they were healthy/living. I can only see through the lens I was given. Even still, I'd like to think I've experienced enough life to become savvy to life's games. I acknowledge that society's narrative is indeed …
/r/MensRights12/11/18 08:46 PM
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It's not about being a dick. It's about teambuilding. When people play catch, they don't just pass a ball back and forth in guaranteed safe zones. When you play an MMO, you don't stay in areas 10 levels below your own. When you play scrabble, you don't only use easy 5-letter-words. You GROW your skills by slightly PUSHING LIMITS. You throw the ball just outside the other person's reach. You attempt a speedrun of a tough dungeon. You try for the longest words possible and see if your friends can …
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:17 PM
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Hahaha, wow man, that's unsettling. This is my default behavior. It feels like you've been watching me and taking goddamn notes. The only thing that you mention here that confuses the shit out of me is #5. If this IS something I do, it's so unintentional that I don't realize I do it even in hindsight. Maybe you explained it poorly, or maybe I interpreted it incorrectly, or maybe the context of the example wasn't strong enough for me. I'd like clarification. In college, I met my (now ex) girlfrie…
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:07 PM
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There are actual people out there who not only give blowjobs, but also do the dishes.
/r/MensRights12/11/18 06:14 PM
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My wife is the most supportive & amazing person in the entire world who puts me before her 100% of the time, and I reciprocate. A real, breathing, free-thinking, SMART, beautiful human telling you they would do anything for you is something that can never be emulated by technology. Especially when she proceeds to ACTUALLY FOLLOW THROUGH in unexpected and amazing ways. I don't mean to trigger you man, but there are people out there in completely healthy relationships with completely sane people. …
/r/MensRights12/11/18 06:12 PM
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When women say they like a guy who can cry, it's important to pay attention to context. It's about the story that your tears tell at the moment. If you cry because you won and are SHOCKED you won, you look like you're not used to winning and thus are typically a loser. If you cry because you can't handle stress, your tears tell the world you're incompetent. If you cry because you saw the grand canyon during sunset and were overcome with gratitude towards life: THAT'S the tears you're 'allowed' t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 04:29 PM
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I mean the counter to that is: "yeah, sounds like a problem, but as an activist I can't spearhead every cause... just the ones I have a stake in/that speak to me. As an MRA who identified a problem area, you should fight for a program.
/r/MensRights03/08/18 11:42 PM
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False flag? This isn't representative of society. This seems like it was created by a shortsighted kid.
/r/MensRights03/08/18 11:38 PM
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No, she calls out Michael Moore as a sexist pig for doing it.
/r/MensRights25/02/18 05:28 PM
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Nobody wants to be around someone who makes them feel anxious. For women this is tripled. They just DON'T GET HORNY when they perceive stress sources. Don't let yourself be a stress source to HER or YOURSELF. When you tell her "I resent that I have to take the garbage out" you fill her with anxiety about the fucking garbage. It's a small fucking 'no big deal' thing and you've just made it a huge problem by talking about your feelings. If she can't be at ease about the garbage, how can she be at …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 02:50 PM
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Oh goodie, a sarcastic comment I'm not a fucking scientist and not submitting a peer reviewed paper to a journal. I'm not even trying to influence anybody's opinion or claiming this as 'evidence'. I'm a dude sharing something that happened to him in a public forum. Take it for what it is.
/r/MensRights09/02/18 10:49 PM
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you know, bother to INVESTIGATE THE CLAIMS. Which requires knowledge, like what they were wearing so if applicable they can see them on security cameras, find witnesses and so on. Optimistic. I took my wife to the police because a guy was waiting outside the house. He waited for her to come back out of the house, and when she did he pulled into the driveway behind her so she couldn't leave, to "talk" to her about the money she owed him... telling her "I know where you live now". I wanted this in…
/r/MensRights07/02/18 07:03 PM
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As of 2010 data points to trash collection being 1% or less female
/r/MensRights23/01/18 06:39 AM
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Or any muscle/weight ratio in between....
/r/PussyPassDenied18/01/18 03:21 AM
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You're too concerned with outcome. When you care for someone you want to perform better. The performance anxiety kills your boner. I used viagra 2ce with a girl i cared about and then never felt anxious again after. I already knew I nailed it and she knew it. After that it was fun.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 02:10 AM
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Not necessarily mob mentality. It's easy to downvote you as a quick way to say "I disagree with your assertion". And easy to upvote someone as a way to say "you make good points". Nobody is obligated to do your homework for you.
/r/MensRights15/01/18 11:15 PM
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Naw man. Feel free to hold doors open, carry stuff for her, if it's YOUR IDEA. You're a big fucking strong guy, who not do a bunch of stuff that demonstrates how effortless it is for you to carry her books? You're demonstrating that you can kick somebody's ass if need be. Just... When you do these things... Do it because it's YOUR IDEA, not because you were asked or you feel obligated.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:40 PM
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Modafinil, Adrafinil, any 'afinil' drug. My god. go give it a shot
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 04:47 PM
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Good: Down 15lb in the past month Bad: Still over 300. Won't be in a month if I stay on track Good: Outcome independence is getting better. Turned around a buncha soft no's by being chill as fuck. Bad: The majority of the time, still getting emotional when things don't go my way/as planned. Disappointed in myself. Bad: I talk too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 01:11 PM
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Naw, I lose nothing by being reactionary :D Not targeting you specifically, I don't have time to read your post history, I don't know you. Comment is for all the young lost guys out there running intro frustration.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 10:37 PM
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"Treat women BAD" isn't the point of TRP. The point is "Don't live life according to other people's stipulations." Treating yourself like A FUCKING KING will result in sensitive people getting their feelings hurt. They'll call you an asshole and tell you to act in a way that benefits them. Such is life, and TRP teaches you to not listen to them. Don't be nice because you FEEL that you SHOULD be nice, that it's EXPECTED or that it will GET THEM TO LIKE YOU. That's a losing game. Be nice if you ge…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 07:52 PM
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Don't be a fucking derptard and look past the surface words. It boils down to: Take care of yourself like a responsible adult. Taking care of yourself means your woman doesn't have to take care of you like she was your mom. That's all this entire sub boils down to: Be a goddamn man and take care of yourself. The problem is that people who take care of themselves sometimes can appear as if they're 'assholes' because they don't arbitrarily put random women's needs in front of their own. Well that'…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 07:44 PM
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I initiated the separation. This community made me unrealize how unhappy I was. When I realized there were other paths I felt a huge sigh of relief. It was easy to initiate. My business had tanked so we were broke, no kids, no downside for me really besides the fear of the unknown, lease was up. I second guessed myself the whole way through I but knew it's what I had to do. Single best decision of my entire damn life. Edit: spelling
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 06:04 PM
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Both. Overeating was always an issue, I feel comforted on a full stomach. It's easy to keep in check when you have full agency. Cook 2/3 plate of seasoned veggies and you can stuff your stomach into complacency all you want while only netting a few hundred calories. When you have no home, you have no kitchen. It's a lot harder to keep those impulses in check with veggies. When the rest of your life is uncomfortable, and you already have food impulse controls, you'll do anything to rationalize ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/17 05:08 AM
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Not on meds for weight loss. On meds for other shit. A simple food log (dietary version of OYS) was all I needed regarding weight loss. Just mentioned meds cuz I'm proud of myself. For the first time in forever I'm taking inventory of shit I've ignored for years. It feels good. I no longer willfully ignore shit that needs addressing. Unless you're saying I need to get off ALL meds. In which case: Naw I'm good bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/17 07:49 PM
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Yup, on it. Long story but homelessness really does a number on you (a cost associated with not doing your homework.) Seeing a nutritionist, on the proper meds, working out 3x a week. Outlook and concentration and fitness are all improving and it's badass. Thx buddy, I appreciate the kick in the ass
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/17 04:58 PM
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If a woman sneaks a gun into the venue and it's discovered, you could lose your job. Depends on how it's 'discovered'.
/r/MensRights10/09/17 04:49 AM
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awww
/r/MensRights10/09/17 04:46 AM
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Either way, people will find ways to scrutinize even the most golden-hearted Red Pill man because his aura/lifestyle is a reflection of their insecurities and shortcomings. People LOVE Redpill men. A true, stoic, self-improved man living by these ideals are praised by men and women alike. They are respected and followed and loved. Mimicking phenotypes/behaviors of strong mates is more of a PUA approach. TRP is actually becoming a the real deal. TRP is still a 'hack' to them because: Naturally st…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 06:51 PM
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In the moment, the old version of themselves thought they were the shit despite not having accomplished much. New person, having found a new perspective, looks back on how they used to be and their old accomplishments and says "what a loser I was back then."
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:10 PM
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Sexual strategy revolves around finding the naturally strongest mate. Red Pill analyzes the source code of Mate Finding Algorithm 1.0. Seduction finds loopholes in it. The reason people dislike PUA and TRP is because their very existence undermines Mate Finding Algorithm 1.0. If people are hacking the source code to mimic outward signs of strong mates, it's seen as a very low move. Hence why we don't talk about fight club.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:06 PM
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Not to get off on a tangent, but I agree with "Just be yourself" as actually good advice that works. It basically means "Make no apologies for who you are, what you want, or how you behave." It means "Be straightforward in your dealings with others". the real problem is the misinterpretation of it. Many people hear it and think it means "Wear your heart on your sleeve". They think it gives them permission to whine and find excuses. I like my interpretation better.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:58 PM
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I sub because it's nice to have my ass kicked every once in a while. I like to be reminded that I have to actively WORK towards being the best man I can be, and that I don't DESERVE respect just because I exist. I need to earn that shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:55 PM
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I recently gave a lecture/workshop which taught doctors how to deal with patients that self-diagnose their kids. It's terrible and the parents defend that self-diagnosis to the bitter end. My tactic for overcoming this behavior was instead to compliment the patient. "Wow, I'm impressed, you're someone who does their research! Not many parents care enough to put in that kind of work!" Parents love being called good parents. From that point, you're on their side and can redirect the conversation t…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/17 08:08 PM
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Way to make me tear up. We need more content like this. This is the way to establish fathers as a prominent part of the household.
/r/MensRights17/08/17 04:10 PM
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Hey man, didn't know you subbed here, I love Minecraft!
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/17 04:16 AM
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What the hell are you talking about and why are you projecting that shit on me? I was trying to help stop a needless witchhut due to unclear terms. I have no dog in this fight. I don't really care whether or not you believe me. Use Google yourself, you're an adult.
/r/MensRights03/08/17 02:04 AM
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"Safe Space" is not supposed to apply to the entire University. The main proponents of safe space in university are not advocating the entire University be turned into a safe space. Just that one is available and provided for it's students. This is why there's so much push back on the topic. The language is muddled, people are talking about different things. By targeting "safe spaces" you're not just attacking people trying to strip away controversy, you're also attacking people who just want to…
/r/MensRights03/08/17 01:16 AM
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I have is the idea that students should be protected from bad feelings Yeah, that's not what a safe space is. A therapist's office is a "safe space" because it's bad form for your therapist to tell you outright that you're a lunatic. AA and NA is a safe space, because when you slip and start using again it's not good form for them to tell you that you're out of control. When campus' start talking about implementing 'safe spaces' they're talking about creating resources for counseling. They're no…
/r/MensRights02/08/17 08:03 PM
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Agreed. It's either rape 100% or 0%. I understand trying to point out the double standard, but it seems like what's happening is just more manufactured outrage. If the roles were reversed, and a man went to a woman and she kept falling asleep while trying to have sex, I STILL wouldn't call that rape. Many people who are claiming 'rape' here feel the same, but they feel so much outrage against the double standard that they're calling this 'rape' as a way to fight back against feminism. What are w…
/r/MensRights02/08/17 05:01 PM
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What are you even attempting to point out? I can only assume you're trying to give the argument "If feminism was about gaining more rights than 100% of women would be on board. Feminism therefore must be a codeword for gang warfare on men" This is a garbage post using garbage logic.
/r/MensRights02/08/17 04:46 PM
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How else are they going to get laid?
/r/MensRights02/08/17 04:40 PM
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From an education standpoint, "safe space" actually just means a therapy-like room/area that by policy is 'judgement free'. It's a place where women can talk about being dateraped by their boyfriends alongside the men talking about being assaulted by their girlfriends. The beef that we have, is the implication of the terminology of "safe space." Also the idea that an entire campus should be a dedicated 'safe space'. "Safe space" =/= First amendment abandonment.
/r/MensRights02/08/17 04:32 PM
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Not violence in general, but I'm definitely aroused when I'm physically violent/controlling with a partner. They've also all been into it. So there's that.
/r/MensRights02/08/17 02:57 PM
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This is already happening. There are flag wars going on already. Youtube is not at a loss for content. A single Pewdiepie video generates more money for youtube through ads than all MRM stuff combined. The potential monetary loss of MRM viewers does not pose a threat to youtube.
/r/MensRights02/08/17 02:38 PM
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I'm a straight male and my masculinity and sexuality is a BIG part of my identity. When shows play with casual bisexuality or gender bending as if it's no big deal... it really fucks with me. I've noticed it's usually done by gay or bisexual writers based on their world-view. It always seems that the message is: straight people are just 'stuck up' or 'repressed' or 'closed minded' bi people. Not sure if it's intended or not but that's how it always feels. In reality, I can't change any of it eve…
/r/MensRights21/07/17 03:59 PM
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Unfortunately a bitter few ruin it for everybody else. All of a sudden being nice is a crime. Once upon a time my ex was struggling for cash, and some guy on the internet offered her $100 "no strings attached" as a donation (she was an artist and got donations all the time, so this wasn't particularly weird, although most her donations were $10-$50). "I swear, you don't have to pay me back" he said. "This is a gift". After that moment, he wouldn't leave her alone. Messaged her multiple times a d…
/r/MensRights30/06/17 01:30 PM
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I didn't take the money Was I a woman, I wouldn't either. I'd assume it was some fucked up covert way of trying to assert dominance. "Well I gave you money, I'm such a nice guy, you're indebted to me now." typa shit.
/r/MensRights29/06/17 06:58 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gfNXF50Ee0g
/r/MensRights26/06/17 03:47 PM
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Bro obviously has more experience with women in relationships than men, so he's biased, but you are right. I know a few men who do this, and every single relationship I've been in except my current one, they've done this
/r/MensRights26/06/17 03:36 PM
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They're out there. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months and she hasn't done A SINGLE ONE OF THESE. I think a lot of it was framing on my part after my previous abusive relationship. I stopped saying "you cool if I go out tonight?" and instead say "I'm hanging with the guys tonight, I'll see you at 11". That and similar framing/positioning has us both VERY happy with each other.
/r/MensRights26/06/17 02:33 PM
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Did you see both pics? The problem is preserving one genders private space and removing the others
/r/MensRights26/06/17 02:25 PM
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That's some conspiracy theory shit. Who exactly is the ringleader here? These signs are designed so the business owners and management team comply with local laws.
/r/MensRights26/06/17 02:24 PM
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I HATE their burgers. Not a single good experience here. Even if the burgers were cheap I'd go elsewhere. The fries are why I go. If you haven't had a hot dog yet, they're actually really fucking good too
/r/MensRights26/06/17 02:22 PM
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I don't care for tradition and I don't care for holding the past up as something arbitrarily sacred. I'm all for small groups coming together and taking a stance for things important to them. Being comfortable was more important to them than tradition, so they organized, devised a plan within school guidelines, executed it, and created change. I guess you can join the school-board and strike down the bastards if it's a sore point for you.
/r/MensRights24/06/17 09:42 PM
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Even so, tradition isn't a good reason to begin with to overheat your students on hot days. Remember when those snot-nosed pieces of shit ended that tradition of slavery?
/r/MensRights24/06/17 08:35 PM
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That's sad. Apparently you can't fight for men and women's rights at the same time, even though all groups have their own issues.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 03:11 PM
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I think it's funny you don't pick up on that I do pick up on that. I'm adding additional thoughts to the points already established. Sometimes the additions lean on the side of confirmation and sometimes they lean on the side of disagreement. Either way they either build upon, of offer an alt point of view on what you said. It's valuable for newbies, helps them to critically work through these points so they're not overwhelmed.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:51 PM
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Some good stuff, but lots of weird stuff too. Addressing symptoms and lots of advice that doesn't need to be advice. Here are my additions: If you happen to be holding something, like a drink, hold it at your waist and not up to your chest – this is a psychological indicator of tension and a physical barrier. Source for this psuedoscience? If you're focusing on such a small detail then you've already lost. You’re opener should be context specific This point is the best advice of the bunch. A+. T…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:32 PM
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Huh. Alright. I usually go by "Andrew" but I'll give it a shot.
/r/seduction19/06/17 03:13 PM
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Pretty similar to Ben Affleck wearing padded muscles in Daredevil
/r/MensRights12/06/17 06:36 PM
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Hahaha! The argument is "it's okay because 'Men aren't bothered by it, they like it!'" That's such a fucking hilarious sentiment to say. None of these sound okay: "They LIKE being called n****r!" "Being raped show you're desired, it's empowering!" "Those bums LOVE being homeless, with all the fresh air and whatnot!" But it's totally cool to say "They LIKE being objectified! and if they don't, they should just man up!"
/r/MensRights09/06/17 06:58 PM
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I'm not talking about an honest mistake by the way or a bit of misreading, just blatant lying. Wow. That's some outright "alternative facts" "fake news" shit right there. Clickbait titles misleading the public because people don't bother to read the article in full. This is similar. They just SAY you said something, knowing people would never do the hard work of finding it for themselves.
/r/MensRights07/06/17 07:19 PM
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who cares it's done now
/r/seduction04/06/17 05:28 PM
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The vocal minority always finds a way sways public opinion and policy.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 05:16 PM
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Number 2 there is big one. Creepy = Your body language not matching with your apparent intentions. We can all tell you're hiding something. Sometimes the thing you're hiding is "I'm very lonely and just want to make friends" sometimes it's "I'm seeking a realtionship" sometimes it's "I want sex" and sometimes it's "I'm going to kill you and eat your flesh tonight". You're hiding SOMETHING and they don't know what it is. That's what creepy is really all about. It could be that you're practicing e…
/r/seduction31/05/17 06:59 PM
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They're not saying "Being a trash guy is exactly the same as being a farmer". hey're saying "Being a trash guy is more like being a farmer than being a goddamn wallstreet stock index analysis consultant"
/r/MensRights29/05/17 02:09 PM
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It's unfair to say race had NOTHING to do to it. You'd be just as bad to not tie both prejudices into the man's hardship.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 02:00 PM
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Using a "These are the drastic consequences for NORMAL behavior. Can you imagine the consequences for BAD behavior?!" It's a normal thing. If somebody asks "Should I start smoking?" I might say "I was in a car with someone who was smoking and I coughed so hard I had to go to the hospital. Trust me this is a losing game. Can you imagine if I had started in earnest?!" So in this situation he's doing the same thing. He's saying: "I was at risk of being thrown in prison for CONSENT. That clearly sho…
/r/MensRights19/05/17 01:13 PM
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Except regardless of... Yes, but to effectively counteracts problem we need to disassemble it, find out what makes it tick, and solve the underlying problems. It IS the damage done that 'counts' if we're looking at objective truth. But that's not the world we live in so we don't really get the luxury of complaining about it self-righteously. We have to search for solutions to the practical side of things. And that's a problem... Agreed. What do you think we can do from dissuading this way of thi…
/r/MensRights07/05/17 09:35 PM
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The great thing is how young they are. Regardless of only being able to be around them 50% of the time... They are your kids. This makes them your natural 'followers'. So do what any good leader does and lead by example. Be the man you want your son to be. Just like you, he will go through his own shit and bounce around a bit before finding his own path. Lend him a guiding hand, but don't force anything. It won't mean shit unless he internalizes these truths through experience. You want to be li…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 07:53 PM
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Maybe they expect the big guy to go easy smacking him, they still expect the little guy to get smacked. Depends on the disparity. If this guy: https://images-production.global.ssl.fastly.net/uploads/posts/image/97733/jaleel-white-steve-urkel.jpg Outright attacks this guy: http://muscleandbrawn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/mariusz-pudzianowski1.jpg Nobody's standing for even a small shove from the big guy. If it happened in a school today, the skinny attacker wouldn't even get in trouble... But…
/r/MensRights07/05/17 07:30 PM
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I feel ya. Woman was out-of-line regardless and props to you for putting her in her place.
/r/MensRights07/05/17 07:25 PM
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My only question is: Does it LOOK like you can carry more than her? My hunch is that in these situations, it's not only really gender. It's about the relative appearance of strength. If it was a Brienne Of Tarth looking woman carrying a chair while a smaller skinny girl carried the table the same thoughts would run through peoples heads. This is also why women are 'permitted' to attack men but not the other way around. Typically, it's about the stronger party being expected to baby the weaker pa…
/r/MensRights07/05/17 06:24 PM
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Most people subscribed to Netflix really don't give a single shit about what HuffPo or Buzzfeed is outraged about at the moment. I think you underestimate the power of these movements. Boycotts are the easiest social stance to take. The benefits to the people taking place in them gain so much: You get to feel self-righteous. The self-righteousness washes away guilt over other faults and mistakes in your life. You get pats on the back from society You make the hot girl on facebook think you're se…
/r/MensRights07/05/17 05:53 PM
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I was wondering what happened over there. I thought I was going crazy.
/r/MensRights07/05/17 05:46 PM
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To be fair, this is how incentives work. It would benefit humanity as a whole to have women and their fundamentally different way of looking at problems, go into STEM. So you reward them for doing the thing you want them to do, and make it easier for them to do that.
/r/MensRights07/05/17 05:45 PM
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would have to be responding positively to this content. If they release The Red Pill on Netflix, there will be a crusade of "Netflix Hates Women" content on twitter which will be picked up by Huffpo and Buzzfeed and shared across Facebook. The headlines will cause a boycott and they will lose SO MUCH MONEY it's not even funny. "Netflix loves transgendered" or "Netflix hates men" "Netflix doesn't support whites" will never propagate itself to that extent so they're safe bets to make. Generally th…
/r/MensRights07/05/17 05:35 PM
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I'm not constantly scanning the train, counting the number of people getting on and getting off, guessing at whether or not somebody needs something of me. When I got on the train, there were plenty of seats. I put my bag down on the seat next to me. It was more comfortable and there was no reason not to. If the seats start to run low and somebody needs a seat. I'm happy to move my bag. If I dazed out or didn't realize it needed to be moved, for the love of god don't touch my shit under the pret…
/r/MensRights26/04/17 03:53 AM
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Probably figured somebody would ask him politely before they jumped ahead 5 feet to putting his stuff on their crotch.
/r/MensRights20/04/17 01:32 PM
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Gotcha. I had never considered something like that.
/r/PussyPass18/04/17 06:54 AM
4

How did your dad manage custody?
/r/MensRights18/04/17 04:46 AM
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but you only need context for your own curiosity. Yeah, which is why he said I'd be interested in...
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/17 04:29 AM
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The "studys" aren't wrong. Hierarchy in an all-female environment is determined by their relative ability to attract the high SMV men. So even when it's "for other women", remember that ultimately it's still for men. Also keep in mind that humans typically only exert the minimum amount of effort required for a given result. A hungry bear surprises two campers. One of them stops to put on his running shoes. "What are you doing? You can't outrun a bear!" "I don't have to outrun the bear; I only ha…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:10 AM
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The way I see it, it's a reminder that sex is part and parcel with the relationship. Yupyup. Gold. EVERYTHING I say is sexual, because sex is an ESSENTIAL part of the relationship for me. There's no separation there. If we're a couple, we're a couple in a sexual relationship. End of story. This is a stance it's safe to take with confidence. Women value being sexualized by high SMV men. As long as you're constantly raising your SMV, you can take this stance with full confidence starting today.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 03:52 AM
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"texts are for logistics only" The weakest thing a man can do is blindly accept what other men tell him. Everything is situational and hard rules are training wheels for beginners. Women generally have the advantage with social verbiage which is why this is a 'rule'. A typical guy is much more likely to shoot himself in the foot unless he STFUs. Me? I'm a copywriter by trade. Written language is my primary weapon and skill. I'd be an idiot to not use my singular distinct advantage to position my…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 03:44 AM
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"Where r u? I didn't even say anything so I don't know if u left cuz ur mad or what is going on?" This line I think actually has a typo. I don't think she meant to say "I didn't even say anything". I is RIGHT NEXT TO U on a keyboard. She probably meant "U didn't even say anything" as in "you left without communicating with me". I don't think she's backpedaling or thinks you didn't hear her. It's probably a genuine miscommunication... not that it really changes the result at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 03:20 AM
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You do you fam... but it's when advice like that is given to others like it's gospel that's the prob. Your biology calls for a white girl and white kids. That's respectable. But that's not what my biology tells ME to do.. Mine has me incredibly attracted to all sorts of multiracial women. I'd LOVE so fucking much to raise a handful of mixed race kids.
/r/PussyPass18/04/17 02:59 AM
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"Everybody has heard about about institutional sexism against women, but most people look past injustices against men. Our children are taken from us, boys are overtly sexually abused, our jobs have a high risk of death, and we're being shamed into silence when we fall victim to domestic abuse. We're not trying to detract from women's issues, we're trying to get people to finally take our hardships seriously, rather than quietly suffer as we've been taught to do."
/r/MensRights14/04/17 08:46 PM
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I believe that studies have proven otherwise There's not. If you have it, post it. My point is, there are studies for any specific stance. It SEEMS like there's a shitton of articles supporting every conceivable story, there's surprisingly few studies. There are a ton of ARTICLES which selectively take facts from the same 2 studies, and reinterpret, misquote, and exclude pieces of the study to make for a story that will get shared. Who's to say that your sources are any more valid than mine? You…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 11:55 PM
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What are you talking about? This Dude read a story about a woman who had sex with a child. This dude then recounted a story where he was too molested by a woman. Why you bringing double standards and improper comparisons into it. He's literally just saying something that happened that's related.
/r/MensRights09/04/17 09:08 PM
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I apologize. This isn't the place to attack. This line from you is what enticed me to write aggressively: he gives men a bad name. I really resent this. I don't know why and it made me a bit emotional and I was fed up. even as a joke that shit is creepy as fuck Sure it's creepy. How I see it, it doesn't really matter. It was said behind closed doors, to a friend, as a joke. It doesn't matter if he said "Kill all the jews and rape all the women". What somebody says or how they joke with friends d…
/r/MensRights02/04/17 01:57 PM
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Oh well there are people in the world with different sensibilities than you. There's worse language and inuendos on fuckin sex and the city than in that clip. It's how people act when they're alone and either you're the exception to the rule, or you're not objective enough to get passed your bias and be self aware.
/r/MensRights01/04/17 04:29 PM
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Where was the laughter in the tape then? Yes, there absolutely was. They're joking back and forth, it's buddies joking around, plain as day: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3dLIRHZO3Y EDIT: This link is better: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewf-xHXpghE You can see that after he gets off the bus, and he's in the public eye, the woman they're referring to is waiting for them. It'd the Bush kid who is being disgusting and vulgar. You can see Donald try and shut down that kid MULTIPLE TIMES and t…
/r/MensRights01/04/17 03:26 PM
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are you fucking kidding me? Just yesterday me and my (gay btw) friend were carpooling back from work. We casually said some shit like "Shit man, I had such a good work day. Megan (our boss) loves me so much I could walk around work with my dick out and she's applaud." It's a normal talk that people say when they're alone together in a car. And then he says "Fuck man, good thing we're not being recorded right now... and running for president. CNN would have a field day". It's then that I realize …
/r/MensRights01/04/17 02:37 PM
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The whole point of the age of consent is determining at what age these children have had enough time to internalize the consequences of their actions. Did this boy know the STI risks of being with such a player of a teacher? Did this boy fully grasp the risk of pregnancy and how child support would play out should she become pregnant? Did this boy understand the emotional obligation this woman might expect of him? Did this boy understand that if things didn't work out with his teacher, his grade…
/r/PussyPass30/03/17 03:58 PM
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I want a family. I want a son/daughter that is part of me, part of my partner. I want my boy to have their "mothers kind eyes" and their "Father's strong chin." Even if I fall head over heels with a dude in drag, when I found out it was a male I couldn't bear a child with, I'm out. If I find a woman who can't bear my children, I'm also out.
/r/PussyPass30/03/17 03:50 PM
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When you get married, you are making a commitment where you agree to share assets with the other person. You aren't individuals, you are a team and split responsibility. The way these two chose to split their responsibility was through task delegation. He worked and brought home money for them to improve their situation. She cared after their residence, got pregnant, carried to term, breastfed, and possibly nurtured him as well through meal preparation and housekeeping. As a result he was able t…
/r/MensRights26/03/17 08:46 PM
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Wrong post, bro. You're thinking of this one: http://imgur.com/a/Yi4Tt
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/17 07:48 PM
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Which is the point of the banshee howl
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/17 07:46 PM
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I would not be surprised if the cops planted it. Planting it and then using overbroad language to get access to ALL his shit, including presumed video backups of his earlier encounter.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/17 07:38 PM
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If the dude's hot it doesn't seem to matter either. #RobLowe
/r/MensRights23/03/17 01:18 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA! No fucking way. This is just insane. That's like saying: "Those who are mauled by gorillas are given the opportunity to file a lawsuit against the Zoo. This lawsuit can unfairly result in wealth and freedom for the victim, raising their social status and relationship prospects. Meanwhile, the rest of us are held back by the limitations of health and wellness."
/r/MensRights17/03/17 03:52 PM
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I guess I'm just boring and have no interesting qualities. Idk what to do. So do something interesting, thus becoming a more interesting person that's worth getting to know.
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:14 PM
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Naw. There are PLENTY of 'ugly' guys. Guys with crooked noses and bad smiles and uneven features and bad skin. But because their "IMAGE" is good, they're socially adept, and have a variety of skills..... these flaws become 'sexy' distinguishing marks and attributes. Learn to play guitar, play pool, give a speech, and cook. Then, your awkward face is sexy.
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:05 PM
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You should never ATTEMPT to be helpful and kind. You're either that way all the time or you're not. Changing your personality to get on somebody's good side does just the opposite. She'll pick up that you're playing the 'nice guy' card and aren't true to yourself. Do your own thing brother. Be as helpful and nice as you are to the people you see day-in-and-day-out. If you're the type of dude to be helpful to someone you're not trying to sleep with, do the same to her. If you're not, don't.
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:56 PM
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I fucking love this statue. Regardless of what additional causes or symbolism or political affiliations or groups are attached to it... The imagery of a little girl standing fearlessly in front of a charging animal is fucking hardcore. As a male I absolutely identify with the the message even from a MGTOW perspective... "Don't be afraid to stand up to the forces of the world" and I kinda wished this thing would be a permanent instillation.
/r/MensRights16/03/17 06:14 PM
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I'm not saying that all women don't know why they're marching. I'm saying The men are angry because it SEEMS like there is no goals. The goals are so underpublicised that even the women I know who took part didn't know. It may or may not be morally correct, but it makes sense
/r/MensRights15/03/17 08:40 PM
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I didn't, and neither did the woman who marched, according to the 10 or so women in my office who called out that day when I asked them.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 03:27 PM
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I agree with you in that so long as a group is fighting FOR rights and liberties, it shouldn't matter unless those liberties directly oppress someone else. I truly believe that MRA and Feminism need each other and can help each other. I think the point here is they are not protesting on behalf of reproductive Rights. They are protesting "for women". There was no set of rallying beliefs or demands or anything of the sort. It was a directionless "we're angry" sorta deal. Many women I know were ver…
/r/MensRights14/03/17 01:06 PM
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I'm usually on the side of practicality, but I think I'd actually take the social hit on this one and sue. In this circumstance, with a department MANAGER/SUPERIOR displaying open workplace bigotry, I'm absolutely all in. although I have a history of retaliation to authority figures so my personal threshold on this isn't representative of the rest of you. It's not because I want money, there are thousands of ways to make money... but knowing that it'd be on the books makes HR peeps even more lik…
/r/MensRights12/03/17 02:22 PM
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Male circumcision is something largely done by men to men. Due to prenatal health (and the continued importance of breastfeeding), the WHO has deemed that the well-being of the woman and the well-being of the child are an inseparable continuum. It's not the father hospitals defer to in regards to child health. Not that it even really matters who does the deciding or the snipping. The point here is the hypocrisy. Why bring women and feminists into the argument at all? This comic demonstrates a tr…
/r/MensRights12/03/17 12:29 PM
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Left out of the comic is the crusade against female genital mutilation, which is a huge feminist standpoint and is talked about when feminists talk about the 'slippery slope' of disrespecting reproductive rights. So even though, the words on the 1st panel don't explicitly state that, I took this as a jab at that. Not trying to compare childrens rights to that of adults.
/r/MensRights11/03/17 06:16 PM
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It's not about them. Right now most school policies aren't dictated by white knights... they'r dictated by lawyers trying to mitigate risk. Right now, from a legal/financial standpoint, it is very SAFE to treat women like royalty and men like scum. If an organization does out of business due to a lawsuit brought up by their bias, this will CERTAINLY be on the lawyers radars... and it will no longer just be women they worry about offending, but also men. The end result will be a few years of supe…
/r/MensRights11/03/17 06:11 PM
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And I would fight it every step of the way, I assure you. This is a conviction I've held since I started having sex. I'm firmly believe that if I as a woman, believe I... That's why it sucks. It doesn't even really matter what your firm beliefs are. The best thing you can do is GO TO THE HOSPITAL ALONE when you give birth, declare no father on the birth certificate, and say "I don't know who the father is" when asked by everybody. If it's a mystery baby and nobody can point to a father, it's don…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/17 07:38 PM
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Men are required to pay because when times get hard, and if the woman apply for 'help' from a government run agency, the agency seeks all other alternatives first before doling out cash. They will refer the woman to mediation services for rent disputes, send her to 'how to get a job' classes. Once those are exhausted the next in line for responsibility is the father, the only other person they can possibly point to. In a judges eyes, every-time he makes a father pay for support, he is saving his…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/17 07:30 PM
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First ask yourself what you want to do. Then, do it.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:44 AM
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Correct. The other door would have the exact same sign with the genders reverse. This is their clever little attempt to bypass and changes in trans related law by NOT calling the bathrooms MEN/WOMENS.
/r/MensRights04/09/16 08:39 PM
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DO NOT talk her out of it, do not convince her to change plans. DON'T. There is no world in which that ends well for anybody. Either she goes anyway, or she resents you for 'keeping her' from going. Tell her where you stand on the issue. "Well I'm not going. You're free to make your own decision". Don't give her 'support' either. Let her make up her own mind in a vacuum. It's her call. After the decision's been made let her know you don't do LDRs
/r/askTRP04/09/16 08:32 PM
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"Looks aren't everything" sounds like BS your mom would tell you, but it's true. Any woman you're likely to meet has at one point, been with somebody better than you. Dated a prettyboy, been ravaged by a muscled he-man, been banged by a guy with a bigger dick. Well motherfuckers, she's not still with him is she? She's actively seeking a new guy. Even though she was previously with a guy, BETTER THAN YOU. Why isn't she with the old guy? BECAUSE LOOKS AREN'T EVERYTHING. Not even close. My favorite…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 08:25 PM
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Walmart's unique value is low prices. The local store can never compete on low prices, so they must compete on trust, quality, policy, pleasantness. Gotta find the shit you can compete on and compete on that.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 08:19 PM
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Social confidence, asking questions, listening, and storytelling are all skills. You can develop this skill just like any other. I don't know about you, but I LOVE doing things I'm GREAT at. Once you're GREAT at communication, you might just love it too.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 03:22 AM
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Don't be more aggressive. Just the words "Not yet" tell me sososo much. That phrasing tells me she's hamstering herself into thinking that she will 'be ready' at some point. Unfortunately, you already know she won't be and the night ends with disappointment. She thinks she has the luxury of being able to pick and choose when "yet" is because you're willing to wait around all day. When she says "not yet" just shrug and move on without looking butthurt. Make sure you have your other thing mentally…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 03:19 AM
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Generally you can only lose interest through text game, very hard to create it I tend to throw out this advice. I write high-end sales pages for a living and am very good at lubricating via written word. It's led me to a few RIDICULOUS "you've gotta be kidding me" wins. but I came here expecting this advice so it's all good. I'm going to play to my strengths without over-communicating. ((I do agree that quick replies + constant availability should be avoided at all costs.)) Pursue other women. D…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:49 AM
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Makes sense. Thx. cool stuff you did or cool stories. Need more of these.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 12:09 AM
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be sure to drink your ovaltine!
/r/seduction21/07/16 09:58 PM
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she's spending a lot of time with other dudes from class. It'll turn into the classic "one thing led to another" story where she has deniability. This. Understand that right now she's getting more face time with other guys. Other guys who are making her laugh and smile while you're not around. Other guys who are smart and funny and built and charming. There's very likely alcohol involved. The very situation is just not stacked in your favor. What can you do about it? Understand that there's NOTH…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:28 PM
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Cancer, sexuality, infertility, mental illness are all information about YOU. Information about a third party, such as a child, should be shared with every person who is a legal guardian responsible for that child. If the mother has the right to know genetic information about her child, so does the 'father'.
/r/MensRights18/07/16 07:31 AM
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a LOUD small minority that represents and entire gender identity. Even if they're not activists, all women believe it's their duty to listen to that loud small minority or they're turning their back on their gender.
/r/MensRights27/05/16 06:36 PM
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Derp. Debate for women's health "or something". That's like saying "world hunger or something". It's just the thing you say when you don't know what to say.
/r/MensRights27/05/16 06:35 PM
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'Actor' is a profession defined by the related skillset of 'acting' while gender is an identity. You can blame male actors who are bad at the acting skill without implicating yourself in that group because the skill creates separation. Women can similarly blame bad female actors without implicating themselves. A woman is not likely to say "women are catty" because it implies bad things about themselves to say that. Men are hesitant to say "Men are violent" for the same reason, you're including y…
/r/MensRights26/05/16 10:49 PM
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Hell even in my example, I was the one getting a written warning from the school That's the main thing. The weaker party will always be the victim, even if they're in the moral wrong. Outsiders will always side with a kid in the wheelchair, even if they're the ones initiating the physical altercation. 90% of the women are weaker than men, so they're the ones outside parties sympathize with if things get violent, regardless of circumstance. The physically stronger party is always the one with the…
/r/MensRights26/05/16 08:36 PM
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It is bizarre how the topic of "how badly women can treat each other" is always ignored by feminist, the media, entertainment industry, etc. Instead everything is a narrative that females are oppressed victims and that males are the culprit. No bizarre at all. If you're a woman, and you blame "women" as the problem, you're blaming yourself. Nobody's ego jumps at the chance to vilify themselves. Even the most blatant super-villains believe themselves to be in the right. When given two options, an…
/r/MensRights26/05/16 07:30 PM
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Idk, I hold this same truth for men. I'm a big guy, and if some boney skinny guy starts taking swings at me, I don't know if I'd be able to knock him on his ass with full force.
/r/MensRights26/05/16 07:27 PM
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IF this was a post about about discrimination against men, you'd be right. That's not what the post is about. This is a post about the huff making shitty content because it's run by women.
/r/MensRights24/05/16 09:48 PM
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I'm not a political guy, and I don't really know what libertarians traditionally believe, so I'm not really hip to that lingo and can't really further the conversation here. I typed and deleted so much I think I'm done lol. What I WILL say is that I think the world is ripe for change. The social movements Bernie and Trump get, the #blacklivesmatter movement, even us all talking about Men's Rights anonymously on Reddit. It's all proof that in spite of Huff's or Facebook's or Fox's agenda, technol…
/r/MensRights24/05/16 01:37 AM
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It's not like his work today is somehow substandard because he may be gone on leave someday in the future. Well it really depends. The employee picking up where they left off yesterday is more productive than the employee just getting back into the swing of things after a week of being absent. The employee who's consistently there for a year has the opportunity to show their employer enough dedication, results, and effort to earn a pay raise. The employee who's less reliable is less likely to ea…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/16 09:50 PM
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So he just stopped caring and came out of hiding and says what he thinks and just chills He's got decades to figure out what his goals are with the money, right now he's just figure out how to exist in the new paradigm. It feels like a MASSIVE escalation, which on the surface it is. Having someone beholden to no-one (on either side, or above) is just so refreshing. Just so you know, this is exactly why so many people like Trump.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/16 09:15 PM
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you're presuming way too much about my motives. I am, my bad
/r/MensRights23/05/16 07:22 PM
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I look at the culture/economy from a macro-level. It doesn't matter if one single business has all men, all women, all asians, all blacks. Run your individual businesses how you want to run them. So long as everybody has access to affordable information and legal council regarding the startup of their own business, a rival business will pop up diversifying what's out there. Even though Fox News is laughably republican, their motto is "Fair and Balanced". Their program DOESN'T show both sides to …
/r/MensRights23/05/16 07:16 PM
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Edit: Kind of funny I'm getting downvoted for expressing my experience and not even an opinion. You know what Akums Broom is fellas? You're stating your vague personal anecdotes as if they apply at all to the larger issue. Men and women, working the same job, DO typically make different amounts of money. That's not what this 'wage gap' research is about. One party might make more money over the other party because of differences in: Negotiation skill Trade skill Standards (Not taking a job that …
/r/MensRights23/05/16 06:53 PM
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"The 'research' can't mansplain to us what we already know to be true in our hearts. Just look at the world and you'll see the truth!" (Clarification: not a quote from the article or anything. Quote from hypothetical feminists)
/r/MensRights23/05/16 06:35 PM
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It's sexist because it's a single word that can be used to universally negate anything you have to say because you're male. When in this very tweet Notch said that mansplaining was sexist, the original tweeter said he was "mansplaining" and poof his argument was invalid. If you do the actual numbers-based, controlled, hard research about the wage gap you'll see that it doesn't exist. If you ever try to prove it, no matter how solid your facts are and how great and persuasive your research, if so…
/r/MensRights23/05/16 06:33 PM
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It's funny because the only reason I KNOW about tumblr to begin with it because it's where Notch hosted the Minecraft Devblog
/r/MensRights23/05/16 06:27 PM
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Personally, I'm not a parent (and don't plan to ever be one) and while I thought the picture was a bit odd at first Same. I thought it was odd (though not negative) probably just due to lack of exposure.
/r/MensRights23/05/16 06:09 PM
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This is a low-effort article about the way a private company chooses to run it's own business. It adds nothing to the conversation about Mens Rights, and every single one of you has the option to just NOT read the Huffpost if you disagree with the way they conduct business.
/r/MensRights23/05/16 05:57 PM
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it would be dishonest to not do the same here. This would be true IF the circumstances were the same. they're not not. I'm inclined to say the reason you sided with previous investigations isn't due to blind faith in the integrity of investigators at some school, but rather because you know that men and woman are nurtured to behave differently. Women are nurtured to play the victim, men are nurtured to 'suck it up'. So when there are unsubstantiated claims made by a handful of women all playing …
/r/MensRights23/05/16 05:51 PM
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Can I get somewhere with this? No. I wouldn't say no if I can get her back. Even if she wanted back, it's because she can't find anything else better and you're a fucking backup. Yall will just break up again first chance something better crosses her eyeline.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:54 PM
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Just stabbed once
/r/MensRights21/03/16 07:12 PM
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Our backgrounds shape our perceptions. Almost every man understand the pain and internal struggle of being friendzoned. We all understand the pressure of being expected to be a provider. A male cinematographer knows to show a closeup of a mans face when his family is in danger, because showing his pain in that moment is more moving and relatable for men to view, than outright showing the family or the danger. Every man is different and unique, but most of us are built on the same framework that'…
/r/MensRights04/03/16 10:03 PM
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yeah. When it comes to content/media creation, which I'm well versed in... Each person from each cultural backdrop has the ability to tap into the spirit of their respective backgrounds and unique life experiences. Great storytelling, writing, lighting, directing, etc isn't a linear skill. Unique life experiences have a direct value.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 07:36 PM
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Alright, I will for future submissions. Thanks
/r/MensRights04/03/16 07:31 PM
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Yeah, there will obviously be new issues introduced. I think l, in this case, it's a net gain. Let's see if the new bad robot movies are better or worse.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 01:41 PM
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Oh shit, I better find a way to prove myself to you, stat!
/r/MensRights04/03/16 01:39 PM
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Because we hire people based on subjective views. We feel more comfortable and at ease with the familiar. The quotas are a safeguard to make sure this isn't accidentally happening at a company wide level. Malcolm gladwell makes some points about this form of accidental racism in BLINK. If you haven't given it a read yet, it's brilliant and eye opening.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 01:38 PM
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1) I'm totally okay with giving jobs to those who provide net-benefit to the company. An all male writers room, production meeting, shoot, or edit bay behaves differently than a room with just a single female present. When 'minorities' (I'm including females even though they're not a true statistical minority) are present, even if they're silent, you filter your ideas through their eyes as well as your own. You approach creative work differently and a result the final product is more layered and…
/r/MensRights04/03/16 01:13 AM
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Have you ever sat through the cast/credits list on a movie as big as star wars? It's not like JJ Abrams personally hires each dolphin himself. He needs to set company wide rules (in this case, called a quota)
/r/MensRights03/03/16 11:55 PM
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Obviously you shouldn't do any of that. A company that manufactures and sells blivets and a company producing the current generation of Star Wars movies operate under completely different circumstances. The benefit of women (even as PAs) taking part in a production meeding is completely different than the benefit women bring an assembly line.
/r/MensRights03/03/16 10:06 PM
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Shouldn't they earn the position just like everyone else? As an employer, I don't give a shit about how hard you work. What I care about is the value to me, even if you didn't work hard to bring it. How does hiring you benefit my company. Men and women aren't the same. Men offer advantages women can't offer, and women offer advantages men can't offer. Sometimes the advantage brought is simply a different perspective. If you're a woman, or a minority, or a dolphin.... you offer me insights I woul…
/r/MensRights03/03/16 10:02 PM
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I'm in favor of this. I think it's a good biz move to hire/include more women. When half of your consumers are women, the additional input from women helps your biz tremendously.
/r/MensRights03/03/16 08:47 PM
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innovative ideas like Prime shipping It's not the IDEAS that make the difference. Of course selling books below cost is a great idea, and of course free 2-day shipping is a GREAT idea... But now that it's implimented, there's no law stopping walmart from imitating. Why aren't they? The issue is in execution. Walmart doesn't have the company culture of competitiveness that allows for the efficient implementation of free 2-day shipping, so they can't compete or deliver. The company culture has a L…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 09:16 PM
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More than the points themselves, I dislike people fighting for 'my' causes using flawed arguments. It makes it easy for the 'opposing team' to poke holes. Then why wouldn't it be possible for men to be uncomfortable getting a haircut in front of women? If you're being hypothetical, sure. Lets poll 1000 people and see how this logic breaks down in reality. There are so multitudes of clear & present sub-arguments that can be made for nudity-based embarrassment that can't be made for barber-based e…
/r/MensRights09/09/15 08:50 PM
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Bullshit, the gym comparison was great. No, it's wasn't great. It's understandable for MEN to feel uncomfortable working out in front of women... and also understandable for WOMEN to feel uncomfortable working out in front of men. It's the reason we have different bathrooms and locker rooms. In social situations where one gender is in various states of undress, the thresholds for entry by the other gender are higher. Considerations for a gym are simply different than conditions for a barber shop…
/r/MensRights09/09/15 07:35 PM
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but it just strikes me that if we all keep accepting it as inevitable and something that won't ever change, saying 'what do you expect, they're feminists'...they'll never get the point. The thing is, "They" never will get the point. It's a human condition. People pay close attention to what brings them pain (in these cases, feelings of inadequacy lead the writer to write the way she does), while what doesn't bring them pain (unrealistic men) is overlooked. Every day, women get over their inadequ…
/r/MensRights09/09/15 06:18 PM
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The definition of feminism is in the name... I don't know why anybody's surprised
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:59 PM
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It's an interesting theory, but I think the truth is much simpler: Shrugging accountability/responsibility is easier than holding it. This is the truth in work, business, friendship, love, trust, society, music, art. People flock to what's easy unless they're taught not to.
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:55 PM
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This particular problem is bigger than MR. Toxic Victomhood. The problem is the dismissal of anybody "in a position of power," where being in a "position of power" is based solely on their DNA, rather than actually having power. Straights, whites, and men are marginalized and overlooked because everybody else assumes they were born with "privilege" when they really weren't.
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:52 PM
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Comparing a gym to a barber shop is a weak analogy. To PROPERLY reverse the situation: Under the same jurisdiction, Yes. A woman's only salon CAN and WILL get fined if it refuses a man's business.
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:37 PM
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What's the counter?
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:30 PM
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Then start your own barbershop and do it like that. In a free country the owner should be able to decide. Your focus is too narrow. A country is a group of people who have agreed on a set of rules which are created, voted on, and taxed to be enforced. This guy is benefiting from his country's regulated money, wealthy citizens, and laws which allow him to open a business in the first place. Enough people have a problem with reffusal of service based on gender that it's a law. If he doesn't like i…
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:21 PM
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This is just the beginning. Soon the victimry will follow. Then go up-in-arms WHEN that happens instead of safeguarding against a possible future where it does. When you pre-emotively attack you're just as shallow and emotional as the people you're guarding against. Stay vigilant, stoic, and only react when there's something to actually react to. your overzealousness will only cause reaction on the other side of the fence, creating a problem where there wasn't one.
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:12 PM
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I say it as a business owner/consultant/investor looking at the business objectively. His unique value proposition is "this is a place for guys to come and relax". If he was doing it right, a stray woman getting a haircut from time-to-time wouldn't ruin the vibe/culture. However, because it does, his culture is weak, and he's "doing it wrong". I know of some barber shops, strip clubs, and lodges that are "doing it right". They provide a place/culture that's unappealing to women customers without…
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:07 PM
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This is not a Men's Right issue. She went in for a men's haircut and he denied her, he'participating in a business practice that conflicts with the law. If his culture/environment is ruined by a single woman getting a haircut with her man, he's doing it wrong to begin with. If anything, this is a business regulation issue... should business owners have to right to refuse service based on gender/race/whatever
/r/MensRights08/09/15 09:55 PM
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You start your day Jovially, which is good. Keep that shit up. Don't ignore her in a "fine, well eff you" way. Ignore her in a "I don't even really notice that you're not talking to me" way. You want to come off as such: "I'm having a shitton of fun cuz I'm a fun guy, and you're just shooting yourself in the foot by being a sourpuss." Don't show that her being a child is going to emotionally affect you in any way at all. She's not having fun doing what she's doing, but she thinks it'll shake you…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 08:56 PM
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Sounds like you have oneitis
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:40 PM
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Not relevant unless you're dating your mom. If you want to test mothership qualities, look at how she treats children, babies, animals, nephews, etc. Don't ever look at how she treats potential mates.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:35 PM
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They're not angry because women don't like the way they naturally were... they're angry because that's NOT the way they naturally were. They were trained to be that way. They were taught how to behave, taught what to say... all with the false premise that it's attractive and that somewhere down the line there would be a reward. Deep down they want to break the rules and have sex without the BS. That's why they're pissed.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:12 PM
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The point isn't to become a fucking expert in face-shapes. The point is to know enough to look in the mirror and realize your current haircut makes you look like a fuckin loser, and then hire someone who DOES know what they're doing.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:31 PM
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You get hired by how good you are on paper. You get promoted based on real skillsets and usefulness. This chick looked better on paper than this guy did in practice. Simple shit. To the new job, he also looked good on paper and he got hired. This guy's just doing the same fucking victimization song-and-dance that feminists do. I thought we were above circlejerking about what a cruel and aweful place the workforce is for men. RP's about owning your shit. So own it. He didn't get promoted because …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 08:41 PM
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It just means that the other company will do the same thing at some point. Who's he going to blame then?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:04 PM
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I don't know why everybody's praising you. You sound like a whiny bitch who can't take responsibility. Your bosses SAID it was a minority quota thing. What has RP taught you about what people SAY? Look at what people DO, not what they SAY. Not just women, all humans. They could have promoted you and hired her in your place. They could have hired her in the damn mail room. They didn't. It's not because their hands were tied, it's because they DIDN'T WANT TO PROMOTE YOU. It could be for any number…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:23 PM
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Line up another job. Call the meeting. Tell them you've lined up another job. You get the promotion at double salary (what that chick they hired instead is getting) OR you just want a raise (do the same job, but at the higher salary) or you walk. If they cave, you show them you don't fuck around and they won't pass you up again in the future. If they don't cave, you have another job so fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:08 PM
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Difference is commitment, no? In LTR, we're together as long as we both enjoy it, and any party can quit the moment it stops being enjoyable. The ruleset is simple - "we're together because we enjoy sharing positive experiences with each other and spending time together". If marriage is the same then... it's hardly worth anything, this won't even be marriage 2.0, this would be like fake marriage, no? If marriage is about anything, it's about commitment. Your commitment to her is that you won't f…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 10:51 PM
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IF this woman is being truthful... Selectively truthful. Assholes aren't born, they're made. I betcha HE was fed up with the relationship. Maybe he found out she was cheating, maybe he finally had enough of her BS. He decided he was "done", decided to go nuclear, and is now doing whatever the fuck he wants regardless of her. He's not RP, because he's not attempting to lead the relationship, because he doesn't even want the relationship. He's just trying to see what he can get out of it before it…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 10:32 PM
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Think what you please, but act like the crowd – There is no advantage in playing the eccentric or the fool. If you seem to run too much against the current of the times and against the customary practice, people will distrust and despise you. Show your inventiveness and originality only to those with whom you are intimate.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 12:39 AM
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She might be cheating, but I have no proof one way or the other. If you have to ask you already know the answer. #1: Get proof. EDIT: 48 laws of power, Law #3: "Conceal your intentions". I personally wouldn't take the bed back, I wouldn't make any moves, I would keep on as is. NO CHANGES IN YOUR BEHAVIOR while you take the next steps. Let her get comfortable, let her carry on, let her see whoever she might be seeing until you have proof. Don't give her time to prepare. Make your moves behind the…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 12:32 AM
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There was a time where me and wife could BOTH stand to lose 100lb. Well, I recognized this, watched what I ate, purchased healthier foods, and worked out. As she saw improvements in me, she followed. If your wife is 50lb overweight, she KNOWS she's 50lb overweight. You don't need to tell her. She's more aware of the problem than you are. However, she feels she doesn't need to prioritize it for some reason. It takes ~6 months to lose 50lb and it's actually not that hard. I recommend doing everyth…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 12:30 AM
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my desire for porn usage has all but disappeared. This for me too. Before implementing RP practices, I porned 2-3 times a DAY. Now, on most weeks, it's down to complete abstinence with no desire/interest for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 12:22 AM
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I like to see more insights in FRs. Read more like a diary entry with a forced 'takeaway' And I have zero poker face when it comes to this stuff. This exact thing has bothered me in professional negotiations too Looks like you've identified a problem area. Is there a way to 'practice' this to get better at it (would benefit relationship and work). when I mention that woman's name, I just get the biggest smirk on. Might have been better to keep it quiet. Dread is most effective when demonstrated …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 12:18 AM
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Brilliant. Great job.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:47 PM
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I don't know. If we're talking about pubic grooming, I'm inclined to think it takes away some of your 'mystery'. But at the same time, if she's super competent in the area, it may be a good idea to utilize all the skills of your first mate to their fullest.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:46 PM
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hair dread. 10/10
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:44 PM
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Thank you all, even for the "quit bitching, you pussy" responses. I need all of them. Quit bitching, you pussy. You're welcome. Now that's out of the way, I don't understand a damn thing that's going on. You're currently away. You get in the AM. Your wife wants to immediately leave the house when you get in and sleep in another house? What's the reason for this? "because she works the night shift that day" doesn't make sense to me. Why does this require she leave the house? Does she usually do t…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:39 PM
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We don't offer alcohol to children... even though it might physically make them feel pleasure. It's not about whether or not pleasure was felt. They don't understand CONSEQUENCES of the pleasure. They're old enough to fully grasp "cumming feels good". I masturbated from the age of 8. I was using porn by the age of 10. I sexually desired my teachers my whole life. But I wasn't old enough to understand STIs, pregnancy, custody laws, social stigma. I didn't have enough experience in life to make co…
/r/MensRights11/05/15 04:06 PM
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that's super insightful. Thanks for posting. (Edit: Damn spellcheck)
/r/MensRights11/05/15 03:59 PM
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Well, couple things. I wanted to do a lot of things at that age that would have been awful for me in the long term, kids are immature. Temporary pain or pleasure aside, THIS is the real point. These are children who are too young to be making these decisions. If I'm 100% honest, I had a few teachers in middle school I'd LOVE to take advantage of me... but ultimately that's not the point... If I'd "like it" or not. The POINT: I wouldn't have been old enough to understand consequences. I wouldn't …
/r/MensRights11/05/15 03:58 PM
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Let's examine the influence of women over men. Everybody here spent TIME on him. Read his post, the comments, maybe wrote something. We didn't have to, but we're generally pretty caring and want to help a brother out. Why else would we be here. Then he writes: Don't like me? Then move the fuck along and quit wasting my time. This, to a community who donated their time to him. This is the EXACT thing he SHOULD be saying to his wife. But she's got his balls in a vice. He's been trained you don't t…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 03:37 PM
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the little voice in my head tell me I am being an asshole. I wrote this yesterday for someone else: http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/35hwx1/help_career_beta_checking_in/cr4sarc
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 03:24 PM
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How do I be assertive and alpha without being an asshole? Does a kid think you're an 'asshole' when you won't give him ice-cream for dinner? Sure. He's living in the moment and the only thing that exists for him in that moment is ice cream and how he's not getting it. He doesn't think about the long-term consequences of not getting proper nutrition or getting diabetes. He thinks you're an asshole and he might even say "Daddy I HATE YOU!" Then one day, after dinner, you're out at a ball-game and …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 08:19 PM
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Charge her with false reporting and expel her from the school. Actions need to have consequences. She'll change her mind: "Actually, I WAS raped and I felt PRESSURED to say I wasn't. They were looking at me like I was a slut."
/r/MensRights10/05/15 02:02 PM
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Where do you live? I recently hired an Indian programmer who said he would not work on my project if it meant any interaction with a female at any point. I found it interesting and didn't ask further... but it makes more sense after reading your post.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:48 PM
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But you might still wonder why it is so important to use the term correctly. Not in favour of PC speech or bending to our detractors, I can tell you that. No, it's because using the term blindly goes against the very values this sub stands for. Rational thinking. Common sense. A true scientific approach and the search for truth. I'm huge on precision of language and using the right words for the job. I get a lot of TRP hate for concern trolling and the like. In actuality, it's what you said. Usi…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:29 PM
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I didn't mention this before... but when you're LOOKING for a LTR, you should still be spinning plates. You don't just find a commoner and promote them to first mate. You promote your first mate from within the ranks. You can't be objective about performance if you have no reference points. Spin plates, graduate the plate that works best.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 01:04 PM
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Jesus fuck. That's tough. RPW is lovely and I was glad to see it take off the ground, but there isn't anything for me there. TBH I don't think there's anything for you HERE. Maybe you're wrong about RPW. RP is about making myself a better man, a better leader, a better captain. That's why I come here. I have no advice for a first mate in such a situation. Double back to RPW where they have more experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 01:00 PM
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I can't even. This just doesn't sound real to me. You should really be doing more reading before asking other people for advice. Do your homework.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 12:45 PM
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What is your opinion of "career women?" Is it best to find a woman who wants to be a stay at home mom? Let me tell you about my like/wife: I run a businesses from from home, my wife does freelance work from home. She's a skilled perfectionist, expects perfection from her craft, from her assistant, even from her clients. She expects me to be a capable and decisive leader. She's not RP aware, but you wouldn't know that by talking to her. She can identify weakness in a heartbeat and (vocally) expec…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 12:19 AM
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Article is terrible in that it introduces carrot all men want (sex) and implies you're going to get it if you only start helping with chores. Don't be surprised considering the source. Catchy Title> Carrot > Easy-to-understand solution is the lifeblood of magazines and blogs alike.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 11:10 PM
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It seems you're only OI outwardly. On the inside you're shaken. Be prepared for a TINY bit more resistance as a shit-test... "I said no last night and he backed off. what happens if I say I'm tired again today". Push through with AM.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 11:05 PM
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I'm not quite sure you've 100% internalized TRP teachings. Re-read your textbooks. How can I determine whether she is looking for real love in a LTR, or just a BB who will be her piggy bank? Precision of language. "Real love"? What you're speaking of is a concept that only men understand. Women SAY they look for real love, but women don't get one-itis like men do. What do women look for? TRP mantra: AF/BB. If you're looking for a LTR, you're looking to be both AF AND the BB for the pretty little…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 11:02 PM
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This argument makes me sick. Why? BECAUSE CONTEXT. A mechanic offering a promo to women because women aren't usual customers makes business sense. The motivations are clear if you know anything about marketing a business. But you know what? Challenge accepted. Let's examine the case where "Whites get a discount day" is acceptable: I GUARANTEE YOU that the black barber shop in my town would get away with this and probably make a ton of money in the process. Why? Fucking CONTEXT. We can't act bunc…
/r/MensRights08/05/15 06:16 PM
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Context. There's a black barber shop in my neighborhood. I guarantee you that if they ran that promotion nobody would give a shit.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 06:06 PM
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Equal OPPORTUNITY and equal RIGHTS for men and women =/= "treating everybody the same". Men and women will never be TREATED the same, because we're NOT the same. If marketing promos towards women makes me more money, I'll do that. If marketing promos towards men makes me more money, I'll do that. Promos born out of economic interests aren't biased. Following the dollar regardless of WHO has it IS equality of opportunity and rights.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 06:04 PM
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I'm completely on board with what he's saying working on yourself is okay. working on yourself will knowlege of what you're doing to your partner is okay attacks on your partner under the guise of working on yourself is not okay. In the first two, you have self-respect and she gets hurt as a side effect. Boo hoo. In the last case, you are a snake using plausible deniability to force her to do what you want. First two are confident alpha moves. One is an insecure beta move that is still operating…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 05:36 PM
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In fact I question if saying "Dread" is working more in her frame than mine. I've always thought this too. I'm a big believer in the power of using the right word at the right time to empower the person saying it. "Dread" implies you are going out of your way to give HER a negative feeling to accomplish your result. In practice, "Dread" is NOT about her. The feels that she gets is a side-effect of an action you undertake FOR YOURSELF. The term and the practice are not in alignment.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 05:29 PM
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Not Chore-play, but a very legit improvement. She's not rewarding you for doing chores. If you had done the dishwasher and THEN gotten a blowjob.... that's choreplay. You REJECTED the chore, stepped up and used your unique skillset to instead do the activities only you could do (this is the mindset of a high-level CEO and leader). You looked at the 'essentials' of what needed to be done that day (cleaning the house), you understood that the best way to accomplish your to-do list would be to fix …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 05:14 PM
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I found the post valuable. It reminded me of one of my buddies on the verge of getting the pill down. Maybe this will give him a bit of help.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 05:04 PM
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Absolutely. Not for a mechanic, of course. But if a salon (or spa, or some other business traditionally targeted towards women) held a "men's day" promotion it'd be looked upon with general acceptance.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 06:25 AM
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Basically it should be "find something you can do competently that you enjoy doing". Know what I enjoy? The things I'm really effing good at.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 12:38 AM
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All but forces. Are people are free willed and can (and should) make up their own mind regardless of society's acceptance or rejection. Public opinion will change year to year. Creating an all-accepting and all-accomidating society is futile. You'd have to micromanage people individually and constantly fight our instinct to classify and categorize. I'm saying that a person's nature is not defined by how their body changes during puberty, but by what they enjoy doing Ultimately we're talking abou…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 11:59 PM
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So wait. Is the law that WOMEN in those positions get equal pay, or those positions in GENERAL get equal pay, seeing as how they're position of "equal value" no matter WHO does the work.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 11:22 PM
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How long before the easy, low skill, and low effort work is seen as a valid career option for men?
/r/MensRights07/05/15 10:37 PM
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it also forces him into the belief that this is what he has to spend his life doing. It doesn't FORCE anybody to do anything. Your changing body may not be your choice, but I don't see how that means you shouldn't still have a choice in how to use that body. Your language makes it appear as if choice is taken away from people exposed to predispositions. It's not. It ENCOURAGES boys to lean into their nature by entering traditionally masculine fields. It ENCOURAGES women to lean into their biolog…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 10:28 PM
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I own a business and my long standing policy with people who bitch about my terms are "You're allowed to disagree, have fun doing business elsewhere". I behave as such as a customer dealing with other businesses. It's dangerous for us to look at every gender difference and play the victim. It gives us a bad name and teaches us destructive habits.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 10:04 PM
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But couldn't this be because society forces them to like these toys through mechanisms like Amazon's category system? Biologically men and women are different and evolved to specialize in different niches. Gender roles are NOT harmful 'stereotypes' but trends. It's not a social thing, it's a testosterone/estrogen thing. In a vacuum regardless of culture, these roles have a high chance of happening, which is how they were created in the first place. When I was a preteen people thought I was a sho…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 09:58 PM
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This is 100% okay. It's a special promotion for a scheduled day. It's like "anybody who's wearing green on st/ patricks day." Femal customers might traditionally be intimidated by seeing a mechanic and this is a special event to get them in there within the bounds of the law. If this was an institutional policy (everyday, women get a discount) it would NOT be okay.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 09:13 PM
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http://www.cleveland.com/nation/index.ssf/2010/12/liquid_viagra_fda_urges_consum.html
/r/MensRights07/05/15 09:08 PM
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I didn't mean the kid you had together, it makes sense. I'm talking about the kid she miscarried. If she was planning to have the kid (no talk of abortion) and NOW she's saying she will abort any NEW kids, it's a cause for alarm. So the first thing I think of is, genetic diversity being king of survival, it might be that she wants the SECOND kid to come from someone else. Was she behaving strangely, distant around the time when the miscarried kid was conceived? Possible that she had a weekend fl…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 05:15 PM
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I've never seen this before! That's hilarious! The way THEY define value: "The value of jobs is based on the levels of skill, effort, responsibility and working conditions involved in doing the work." But the value of a job is what the market is willing to bear. The 'value' is literally how much we'll pay for it. The ONLY way to measure 'value' of a job is to look at how much it pays, so they're really running in circles and trying to define the abstract. Librarians don't get paid more than craf…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 01:51 PM
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10:30 bedtime... so get 7 hours of sleep, wake up at 5:30 am. That gives you 2 gym hours in the AM before work if you want it... which will free up your evenings. If you have time to "be left babysitting on a friday" by your wife, you have time for hobbies and dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 01:34 PM
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I was self conscious about this too, scared of being replaced. Well that was fuckin silly. It lead to so many great places. Sometimes I WANT to use toys and she protests because she can't stand the anticipation of not having the real thing. Feeling your body weight thrust into her and using a toy with your hand feel completely different and she NEEDS the real thing. Don't ever feel like you're losing your manhood if you want to use toys. I love using toys on my girl. Tying her down, using the vi…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 08:01 PM
1

If it can be turned into a "that's what she said" it's sexual. Otherwise practice
/r/askTRP06/05/15 07:49 PM
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When she was pregnant previously (when abortion was not discussed) were you 1,000% the kid was yours? Maybe she's not okay having another kid WITH YOU and will abort YOUR kid or make YOU use condoms.... but is okay diversifying her children's genetic material with some other guy. I don't know the details of your specific situation but this is the first thing I thought of.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 07:43 PM
1

1,000% agreed. If pursued about if by media, the simple statement "It's just a shirt. They'll get over it" would be the winning ticket response to repeat over and over again.
/r/MensRights04/05/15 07:04 PM
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The silliest part about accusations like these: High SMV men don't NEED to rape. Why bother to intoxicate, force, or 'take advantage' of a girl when there are plenty of other chick DTF that don't have boyfriends, don't need to be forced, and don't need a drop of alcohol? For these men, a 1 second risk/reward analysis will tell you it's not worth it to rape. It almost seems as if these accusations aren't just a weapon, but also an ego boost on the part of the chick. "I'm so desirable that this hi…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 06:22 PM
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You're not over her because you haven't made YOU a better man yet. You seek a mate to complete you and partner with... rather than learning a skill and becoming the best at it. For real, pick something and pour your heart into it. Focus on perfection and nothing else. The discipline and emotional mastery you learn pursuing greatness are the same skills it takes to get over this chick.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 08:35 PM
1

You have 100% control of what you eat. Head over to r/loseit's sidebar. You can reliably lose 2lb/week just by eating less.(100lb/year) Once you're slim enough, you can start a nice workout to gain muscle and tone.
/r/becomeaman03/05/15 07:24 PM
2

Nothing you can say that will change anything. Best way to learn is by making your own mistakes. Tell him you think it has a LOT of downsides, FEW upsides.. and that he'd basically be doing it to make other people happy. At least try to get a prenup signed. In the end, he's gotta forge his own life.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 05:19 PM
8

Yeah, there is a problem. The problem is that other people notice. It means your IDGAF loud enough for other people to actively notice. You've got to tone it down a bit. DGAF, but do it quietly. If you haven't read the 48 laws of power, do it now. You seem in a good place where reading the book right now (and multiple times) will be the most beneficial to you while also entertaining you.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 04:21 PM
12

My college thesis was on Disney and gender roles. I've thought a LOT about the princess thing. The Disney princesses are kind, generous, well mannered. They sing and clean with animals. The Disney princesses aren't stuck up snobs. They teach femininity (the classics, at least). The message you have to watch out for is the message of entitlement... as in "I'm entitled to a prince charming/respect/money by birthright". This is easily nullified by pointing out the other lessons. Cinderella was down…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 04:04 PM
1

I do freelance work. When you have ONE client you're relying on for your cash, you lose frame, give in to their demands, you put them in control, and they eventually pay you less. When you have 20 clients, they're all stumbling over themselves to give you $$$, and you don't have to put up with any BS. And such is life.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 03:54 PM
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NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT. NEXT. NEXT. Dude, seriously, unless you want to be thrown in jail the next time she doesn't get her way, fucking NEXT. If she says the word "abusive" loud enough, a neighbor WILL call the police. Self preservation man. GTFO
/r/askTRP03/05/15 03:51 PM
1

They're saying they'd rather DATE out of shape guys. Not information. it's true. They explicitly left out who they're fucking, while they're DATING these out of shape guys.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:48 PM
1

girl: "I would never date a guy who's fucked around a lot" You're not listening to the language. These women are saying they don't want to DATE a guy who's ripped, they don't want a BOYFRIEND or HUSBAND who's in shape. We already know this. They want AF/BB. They want Boyfriends and Husbands with big bank accounts. Notice they never said anything about who they'd SLEEP with.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:47 PM
3

Here's what's happening: Like all women, she validates her own ego by being sought after by men. (why women keep beta orbiters). It makes her feel like a high SMV chick. She creates a fairytale of her past encounters in her own mind. The idea of many men pursuing her, but her being too good for them makes her feel valued. So she actively creates this story in new interactions with new men. By telling you that she sleeps with guys and then they want more from her, SHE WAS SETTING YOU UP TO BE ONE…
/r/askTRP03/05/15 02:50 PM
1

Honestly she sounds like a big fuckin pain in the ass. Anytime somebody thinks I'm mad when I'm being short, I say "no I'm busy" and ignore them.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 02:27 PM
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Don't text, next. "But she's really hot." So what? I saw a "really hot" chick at starbucks... and then behind the counter at starbucks, and then across the street. They're all over the fucking place. When she reaches out to you, be indifferent. When she asks if you're "mad at her", tell her you haven't given her a second thought. When she asks if you want to chill, say you're not up for it. If she asks WHY, tell her that it doesn't sound like fun. She'll either stop talking to you (win, no more …
/r/askTRP03/05/15 02:21 PM
1

Practice makes perfect. You're not gonna be james bond on the first try. After a few botched approaches, your brain will catch up and assist you in knowing what to say based on context
/r/seduction03/05/15 02:09 PM
2

How do you fix it? Practice.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 03:09 AM
6

You improving yourself held a mirror to her own shitty life and behaviors. You becoming a better man made her feel bad about herself.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 03:06 AM
2

Yes. He is intimidated. Guys are threatening, girls are accommodating. He probably thinks he's a pimp for hanging around women. This is how I was in high school and my thought process. It's not until college I completely came into my own and felt comfortable around other guys. I just didn't feel I measured up. Once I gained social competence and gained some skills I felt different.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 03:03 AM
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Shut up about the fucking dadbod already. It's fucking clickbait. It's propelled cuz it's a neat and catchy idea and the articles would get attention. Nobody on the internet is taking it seriously. It's the same sensationalism as any buzzfeed article, scraping the bottom of the barrel for writing material. Do me a favor and just pretend you never saw it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 08:52 PM
2

My girl would cut ties to the guy who said this and move on with her life. It wouldn't affect her enough to even THINK to bring it up to me. She's rationalizing if she says "you deserve to know". You sound lovestruck and trying to keep your cool. Are you fucking someone else? Now's the time to start.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 08:00 PM
7

You and I have similar personality traits. Goofy, funny, outgoing, gets really caught up in new ideas fast, jumps from thing to thing. You CAN keep these parts of your personality in-tact and still TRP firm and hard. You CAN get respect while maintaining the parts of you that make you unique. The FIRST thing you need to learn is the art of BEING QUIET! Don't TALK about your ideas, don't tell anybody what you're doing. If you don't ANNOUNCE that you're starting a task, you're not an inconsistent …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/15 07:49 PM
2

Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize. Is there a place this is talked about more in depth? I must have missed it and it's exactly what I need right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/15 07:39 PM
1

idk what you're talking about. you're good.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 04:11 PM
1

I told my wife to get in the bedroom a few weeks ago after one of her routine teases. When she didn't, I said "Don't worry. I'll take care of it". She said "what does that mean?". Unclear if I meant Dread10, porn, what. I avoided her questions. She cried, got angry, threw something. I told her it was impossible to have an adult conversation when one of us is throwing a tantrum like a 3 year old. I left the house. IDK what it looked like to her, but to me it's because I knew I'd break frame with …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 07:24 PM
1

and give the new members some hope to look forward too. Why not just let them wait the 2 weeks and find out for themselves. You sound riddiculous
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 05:21 AM
2

Sounds like your problem is that you don't know what you want. Time to figure it out. We can't help you with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 07:46 PM
3

You sound scatterbrained... tbh. Even your tldr made a reference to your main text and doesn't make sense to people who tldr. Just make sure you map out pros and cons, possible consequences of your actions before you make them. Know 100% what you're doing and possible alternatives.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 02:36 PM
2

If you don't treat a child a certain way, you don't treat your SO that way. Yelling for 10 mins at an already crying child would be ugly, embarrassing.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 10:36 AM
1

I lost frame a few days ago too. She was being a brat when I didnt want to talk and UNPLUGGED THE ROUTER WHILE I WAS DOING CLIENT WORK. I lost it, screamed at her for like 10 minutes, she was crying, and I stormed off. If I can't do my work, we don't eat. It's a lesson she needed to learn. Don't fuck with my ability to make money. later, I apologized for yelling, cuz I really DID feel embarrassed... but I explicitly didn't apologize for making her cry or the language or the scolding. The entire …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 04:46 AM
2

Hahaha, I just brought up epicurus in another thread! It's not a philosopher that's brought up every day.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 04:33 AM
1

I don't necessarily think that this is a huge red flag, a big drama or something. It's just business as usual. This exactly. She's just a woman behaving as such. That's the point of the post, says it in the title: AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 12:59 AM
2

Epicurus was a philosopher that preached hedonism (live is about seeking pleasure) but he preached making sensible decisions that lead to long-term pleasure, not just short term. A simple example: Alcohol consumption leads to hangovers, which are NOT pleasurable, so he'd argue that despite drinking being immediately pleasurable, it should be avoided.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 11:53 PM
1

Operant conditioning says it's a bad idea to give commands that you haven't trained for yet. If your dog runs off at the park, screaming "stop" when they've never been trained to stop and they won't listen is counterproductive. You first have to set up conditions/expectations before you attempt to reinforce them. If that expectation hasn't been set, he's putting himself in weak position by demanding it out of nowhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 10:40 PM
3

I don't think you have anything to worry about brother. There's a reason it's called "hard mode." It was good to hear her acknowledge the shit test resistance she puts up, and to reassure me to keep pushing through it. This is where you should put your focus. This is how it SHOULD be and shows you've been making the right calls and are a good leader. Even if she can't see past the moment, you can. when I got up and was doing the same for mine This was a bad call. It seems like you were making th…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 09:35 PM
2

As for getting her plate, I'm curious what other RPers say. I typically offer to assist if I'm going that direction. I'd also tell her to ask me instead of telling me what to do. But I wouldn't just tell her, "no." If it's a reasonable request in a reasonable tone of voice and I'm going in that direction anyways, I say "sure thing". It's a pussy move to just say "no, because no". If she DEMANDED it, I'd A+A ("Is there anything else you need princess? Perhaps a pink BMW and matching helicopter?")…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 09:23 PM
2

Silence is a tool, but it's not a tool that works in ALL situations. It's just the SAFEST tool most men have access to and it requires almost no skill to implement. It's explained best by Abe Lincoln: "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt." The more you talk, the more rope you're creating to hang yourself with... the more you say, the more opportunity you have to fuck up or make a mistake. I'm an author, an entertainer, I do public speaking and vid…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 11:54 AM
2

My money is that it's cultural. Women never had to grow past the fun seeking stage... Their lives are free of consequences (pussy-passes abound). They can wish it all away, have their white-nights and beta-orbiters cater to their every whim. They are basically children, and seek fun like children do. As RP men, we understand the harsh realities of the world and communicate to each other as such. To verify, we'd need to look at how women behave where the pussy-pass culture hasn't gotten to them. …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 11:25 PM
2

Get them to laugh and you win. It's why agree and amplify is so effective
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:07 PM
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Simple explanation (for why we're serious with one another): we're not women and the "fun" approach doesn't work the same to motivate us. Edit: get more male friends who have their shit together. With enough cash you can ride In a helicopter with a monkey. Use monetary exploits to pursue fun fancies.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 01:47 PM
2

If you can't predict your crew, you need more experience captaining or you need to chose the people in your life better. If you can't predict the sea, you need more time sailing. How you decide to hold your crew responsible, accountable, how you discipline, it's all up to the individual captain. Know there's always something YOU could have done to prevent the situation to make it better (even if that something is better training/discipline of your first mate) . Own it and do better next time. Do…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:27 PM
1

No. In that case, it's the captains fault for bringing on such a shitty first mate. ALWAYS THE CAPTAINS FAULT.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:24 AM
1

It doesn't need to be your fault for it to negatively affect her. She's biologically programmed to seek and accept high-level genes to pass onto her offspring. A biological weakness is a weakness, regardless of fault. Similarly, a woman doesn't care if a guy's fat because of a genetic disorder or because he's lazy... fat is fat. Weakness is weakness. Her body will instinctively find it all unsexy.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:18 PM
1

I personally don't ask when she's free. Set a date and make the next one a time that works best for you. She'll either make it work or she'll tell you when she's free.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:34 PM
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"Alright, I'm in. I'll arrange an MMMMMMMMMMMF, you seem slutty enough. I think my friend owns a camera, we can film it. If we're lucky maybe we can get you herpes! Or better yet, pregnant!" It's basically A+A. You show you're not phased by the idea, you're playful about it, but at the same time her hamster will overanalyze potential negative outcome (being thought of as a slut, losing respect, too many people knowing, being filmed, STD, Pregnancy, etc.)
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:27 PM
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What happens if you tell her? She'll probably point to it and blame it for shit and use it as hamster fuel. What happens if you don't tell her? Status quo. There's no upside in telling her until you have to so don't. If she finds out later, shrug it off like it was no big deal. If she asks why you didn't tell her, tell her the truth: "I decided it wasn't important". Tell your buddy and guy friends instead. Don't expect comradery or understanding from your woman. That's what your guy friends are …
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:16 PM
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Less than 10 minutes after you left her LAST week she was trying to hook up with you. You didn't. She had a week to hamster you into being an arrogant villain for rejecting her advances. "What a jerk, I wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway!" Although, if you ask me, she's still DTF.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:00 PM
1

"Since when does she wear nappies during the day, it's like you fell from Mars" "So THAT'S why my ass hurts". is the first thing that pops into my head. It's not even that good but it gets the job done. It's about rolling with the punches. The agreeing shows that you weren't affected by what she said and you're not taking it personally. The amplification lets you do so in an entertaining way. The core purpose isn't to be particularly witty, but instead to playfully show you're amused by the insu…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 12:40 PM
1

I'm 27 and it's getting pretty bad up there. I've been thinking about shaving, buzzing it at a #2 setting right now.. I think next weekend it's coming off.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 09:42 PM
1

The point is to phrase arguments in such a way that sets you up to win no matter what. If you know in advance what argument the enemy is going to use (in this case, nitpicking your language and ignoring the bigger point you're making) you can phrase your arguments in a way to defeat them before they have the opportunity to open their mouths. We're trying to help men overcome their BP programming. They will have these resistances built-into them, which makes them second-guess legit advice. If we …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 05:25 PM
9

You BEING THERE was dread. You hinting at more was nasty.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 12:37 PM
1

Thx buddy, needed this story.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 12:07 PM
1

To clarify, don't be careful cuz you "might lose her." Instead, be careful in assuming an outcome without being properly prepared for the exact opposite happening. Gluck
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 07:15 PM
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You can't afford to let yourself get sucked into ever rejection and every mood swing. Women are fucking tornado of emotions and will run from giddy to pissed for almost no reason in a matter of minutes. Their extremes ultimately cancel themselves out. It's important for us to be the rock not just for their sake, but for our sanity.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 05:18 PM
3

Reply with "Are you mad?!!?!?!" but in an outraged British accent.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 05:15 PM
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Unicorns man. Maybe under the CURRENT circumstances you're safe, but change the input and you change the output. You don't know how she'll react under certain circumstances. Just be careful. The way I interpreted Rollo's advice on women wanting a man who "just gets it".... don't ever let your wife know you're getting any information from an outside source. That's where the danger is.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 05:04 PM
3

I find myself seeking validation for a few moments after completing a task. My very first instinct is to scream "look how good I did!" rather than just being satisfied with it myself. These things are necessities. These things need to be done, they should be EXPECTED to be done. I don't seek validation after I wipe my ass... and I SHOULDN'T seek validation for installing the curtain brackets either. I'm working on weeding out this behavior. I am rubber-band-wrist-snapping every time I think abou…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 10:54 PM
1

Maybe Danny Devito's a better example than Jack. JB's got a pretty high SMV due to his accomplishments, wealth, fame, and skillset. Dude plays an instrument, sings, master of cocky/funny in the day-to-day, acts, hosts, and pretty much gives 0 fucks.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 03:12 PM
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You hit the nail on the head with inferior (non-natural) alpha sperm = rape. I was on a sub of a TV show where a man lied about his identity to get willing sex from a woman. He didn't get a face change, he just said "I'm -celebrity-". There was an OUTCRY from women about how this was "Rape".
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 02:37 PM
2

Edit: this is a tip for getting to sleep everynight, not dealing with the next morning. This used to be a chronic problem of mine and was fixed by first writing everything I had to do tomorrow in a notebook/todo list. This got anxiety and anticipation out of my head Next, I read fiction. This further removes me from from anxiety, fatigues my eyes, gets me prepped for sleep. Works like a charm every night.
/r/becomeaman09/04/15 10:38 PM
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"When you want my attention on your tits and body, you'd better damn we'll be ready for it. Because once I give it to you I'm not stopping until I've taken every inch of your body the way that I want." Then don't do anything to her right away. Go back to whatever you are doing, leave the house, etc. Let her hamster do some work. If she proceeds to tease you after that, follow through on your promise. This is great. It doesn't set up negative reinforcement for showing off her body, it sets up neg…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 06:09 PM
3

I never finished reading this. I'll take a look at it again. Thx for the reference.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 04:02 PM
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"woe is me, why are you rejecting me" shit test, just reply with "I'm not. Drop your panties and get over here." If she declines that, maintain frame, move on. Lack of accountability for shitty behavior encourages said behavior. Fuck yeah. This is great.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 04:01 PM
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Health: We've both let ourselves go after getting hitched. For the past 3 months I've been working out, and she seems to just now be following my lead. History: She didn't always do THIS, but she HAS always used sex as a leash and I was just too much of a pussy to realize. Recently outcome independence and giving myself more responsibility took sex-as-a-weapon away from her. So maybe this is just an adaptation of that. My BEST theory: As I raise my SMV, she grows increasingly insecure and strugg…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 03:51 PM
2

Thx buddy this helps a lot. I'll see what I can do to up my game. I'm probably fucking up somewhere and am too close to see it.. and yeah, I AM worried too much about the why's. It's tough not to be, but I'll keep growing and improving.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 03:07 PM
3

Wouldn't the mere existence of a safe word at this point turn into the NEW baselevel shittest to overcome? If what she was doing was testing dominance, creating a situation where no means yes and potato means no wouldn't work. she'd logically use 'potato' as the new base the same as she was using no previously.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 02:34 PM
2

Thanks. This mindset hack will help. I'll give it a shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 02:30 PM
3

How far past resistance does one go? Physically pushing you away? Physically resisting? "You're hurting me" when you keep going? I'm not afraid to overcome emotional or mental resistance, but I'm lost on physical resistance. Are there resources on this? I'm scared of ending up in a cell block.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 02:12 PM
2

Thanks for this post. TRP seems to be telling me to be stoic left and right, but it just isn't my bag. I'm a sales guy, a writer, a media personality, I make a living in front of the camera. My strongest skillset is in being clever, sharp, funny, and knowing how to say shit in a 'mafia' way... ways that are hard to disagree with. There don't seem to be an abundance of people like me here. Most advice is defaulted towards the middle ground of stoic tempered with C/F... but not much for natural co…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 12:51 PM
2

when she responds in ways you like...turn back on the spiggot. She earned it. How immediately to reward with the attention? I've been withholding attention (with stellar results) but I'm always confused at what to do when it works and I get the sex/respect/whatever. I feel spineless if I reciprocate immediately, but I feel like an idiot keeping it up with no end-game or goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 11:49 PM
1

Yeah, this is hard for me too... working from home. But I do notice how good I FEEL after getting ready for the day. I'm more confident, productive, pro-active, much more than when I'm in PJs all day.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 11:36 PM
3

I know you're not just talking to hear yourself talk. Your aim was to help a fellow man get through a situation. If you're already spending x minutes per post, why not optimize the message? Takes the same amount of time and gives maximum output. Of course, what you decide to do is of no consequence to me. Maybe someone else will benefit from my speech tip. bark bark
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/15 06:48 PM
4

"Would you get mad at a dog for barking" I cut this analogy from my day-to-day talk. There's an obvious counterpoint and white-knight knee-jerk resistance to the language... "So, now you're saying all women are nothing more than dogs?" I always prefer to use the "Would you get mad at the wind for blowing? Would you get mad at the sun for shining? Do you get angry at a cloud for blocking the stars?" There's no resistance to such language anywhere across the board. Makes TRP look much more legit f…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/15 05:50 PM
3

You haven't internalized this shit yet. You KNOW it, bur you haven't accepted it as the universal truth. You wouldn't get mad at gravity for reacting in a predictable way, because you've internalized gravity as a truth and nobody lied to you about how gravity is supposed to operate. Only cure is time, and to continue to grow and learn. Reread your material, internalize that shit until it's second nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/15 03:54 PM
2

Turns out, they're all in the middle-east
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:45 PM
2

You can make anything sound logical with the right words. Even the most sexual women dont masturbate as much as deathgrip men. Women using vibes train them to get off... and to fuck FOR THE ORGASM which translates to them needing less stimulation in sex to get off. Might be wrong, but fuck, it's logical.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:42 PM
4

Alpha = defining a vision and leading towards it. Beta = working towards somebody else's vision. Alpha and beta levels will adjust depending on group. There are people, who even when alone, will seek an outside dependency because they will not even follow themselves... Likewise there are people who, even within the presence of a supervisor or leader, will go their own way. Good examples in fiction are House and Wilson from House MD.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/15 12:11 PM
1

This isn't a movie.... but a damn fine book is Mistborn 2. It depicts a chump of a kid who overthinks things and neglects his body.... who falls into the place of king.. and has to transform himself into a symbol that people will respect. A few REALLY good lessons, and googling the advice given is HOW I FOUND MGTOW AND TRP. Yes, you have to get through 100k word book 1, but totally worth it. Lifechanging, for me.
/r/becomeaman06/04/15 11:58 AM
0

Yesyesyes, this is completely true. Mind = blown. Great find
/r/becomeaman06/04/15 11:51 AM
1

I started saying "naw" because it puts my head in a different mindset. "No" sounds stubborn and childish to me. But "naw" sounds like "that really doesn't work for me, you'll have to figure something else out". For me, it's all mental. My demeanour, body language, and reaction to their reaction changes. If I DO say "no".. in my head, I think "naw" and it usually comes off as pretty chill.
/r/becomeaman06/04/15 11:47 AM
1

I told a friend about trp. But I knew him well enough to know that deep down here already agreed with the philosophy. He's also quite into evolutionary biology and psychology... so it was a good fit. You'll learn over time the best way to introduce key people at key times.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/15 09:03 PM
1

True. Different strokes. For me it's a no-brainer. I just hate biases on this subject. Makes me rage
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 08:06 PM
10

There's almost no difference between TRP and running a biz. They're both about self-actualizing yourself as a leader, and communicating your vision to your followers (in TRP your followers are fuckable women, in Biz they're customers/employees/investors) Read "The $100 Startup". It's a lightweight, quick-and-easy book filled with success stories of people who took unlikely ideas and succeeded with almost no capital. It will open you up to the possibilities. Read The Millionaire Fastlane. It soun…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 06:29 PM
6

This is exactly what I'm talking about. Your assumptions are based on inaccurate data. Please, look up the real numbers. More than half of new businesses are still operating after 3 years. And of the ones that stopped operating, what constitutes a business "failure"? I closed my first business because I spotted a new opportunity. I stopped my existing business, and pursued the new thing which had a better business model. I undoubtedly got reported as a "failed" business even though I was profita…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 05:53 PM
5

Exactly! Once you get out of your own way, getting an investment is a phone call away. Investors are surprisingly easy to get once you refine your image (TRP helps) Financial partners Presell on spec "Crowdfund" Develop digital goods or software. Negotiate deferred payment with manufacturers Info-tainment digital media business There's absolutely no reason that anybody couldn't find something that makes money and within 3 months replace their income. I've done it and all my clients have done it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 04:39 PM
-3

Meh. Anybody can build/sell companies using no capital, no debt, and no risk if you take the time to build the correct skillsets. Source: Personal experience. Meanwhile, It's MORE risky to have a job: You can't directly influence the positioning of the company, which means you can't directly influence the survival of the company or your role within it. Entrepreneurship isn't everybody's cup of tea, I understand. But the commonly believed limitations on what makes it "risky" are entirely fabricat…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 04:32 PM
17

It's not just RP, either. Attempts to 'unplug' others from traditional jobs (and into entrepreneurship) are met with similar opposition. Any message that says "Work hard, take responsibility, and carve your own path" are met with extreme resistance. People just don't want to believe that their shitty lives are their own fault... it's easier for them to believe they don't have a choice in the matter.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 03:31 PM
1

Wow. The complaining is my main problem right now, I hate the negativity... ill slowly try to get this system set up. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 03:12 PM
1

Yes, this was never a shit test... Your inaction was forcing her to lead (accept responsibility) and she didn't want to. By YOU leading (and thus taking responsibility) she could finally relinquish the responsibility which she never wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 02:47 PM
2

Is there a way to reinforce that the value she brings to the team is actually valuable? Her SMV is equal or lower, but she brings something to the table (cleaning, cooking kids, whatever) and affirmation of such value could be a good move?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 02:30 PM
1

Ah, yes. Live and learn I guess. I'll keep my eyes open.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 07:38 PM
1

A shit test would be something like her asking you to do simple and mundane things that she is perfectly capable of doing. Thanks. This sort of shit happens all the time. I'll keep an eye out to recognize it as it happens (rather than in-retrospect). Your input is appreciated.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 06:39 PM
1

Newlywed? Year 4... but some stuff I see posted seems unimaginable. "You're such a fucking pussy" etc. I just couldn't imagine tolerating such disrespect. I'm (probably) not RP yet, but I certainly don't let enemies talk to me like that, let alone my loved ones. Compliance Shit test: Go get me X (even though it is as easy or easier for her to do it). Attitude Shit Test: (snarky, rude, condescending, biting whatever- "You never do this; you always do that." Perseverating screechtard shit test: "Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 06:38 PM
3

I did. Cases are scattered and disjointed, contextual and buried within success stories. A friend at the gym asked for an example, and I couldn't immediately think of one. Then I looked here on my phone, and still couldn't find anything relevant besides "withholding sex".
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 04:03 PM
1

THANK YOU!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 12:16 AM
2

Depending on context. This is a learning environment where labels are conductive to learning/teaching. Outside of here.... someone calling themselves alpha means that they're insecure about their alphaness. You only declare what you are because you want other people to see you as that. Real alphas dont care.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:02 AM
1

1-12 im good with. #13s the killer for me.
/r/seduction24/02/15 09:43 PM
1

To me, the point is to live intentionally. Only play the game if you want to play it. Idk if that's what OP was going for, but that's what I decided to walk away with.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:30 PM
2

When giving general advice, you don't ever include the >1% in your generalizations.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:02 PM
3

It's hard not to get caught up in the shitstorm. You think "I KNOW I can't get emotional" but everything in you is screaming at you to engage. She just keeps poking until you're FORCED to retaliate. Saying to yourself "I'm not supposed to react" doesn't work. That logic just doesn't carry enough weight to change your actions. Instead, you have to see the situation differently. The way Patrice said it made the most sense to me: Women FEED on emotion. They feed on you getting bitter or angry or up…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:52 PM
2

I have not, thanks for the heads up!
/r/askTRP29/09/14 11:13 PM
-2

What I would do in your shoes and what you SHOULD do might be two different things. I'd ask to meet him, and the moment I'm certain nobody's going to call the cops, just flat out kick his ass. Punch to the face strartles him, Knee to the gut bends him over, kick to the face and you're done. I wouldn't say anything, wouldn't warn him after, I wouldn't be possessive or jealous or nervous. I'd just kick his ass, and that's it. Never explain myself to the girl or the guy. If you can't do that physic…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 10:54 PM
1

"Depends on how good your blowjobs got ;)"
/r/askTRP29/09/14 10:21 PM
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