I have a long-distance girl that lives in my hometown. I make time to see her maybe one night a month.

  • We communicate mainly via messenger for written, and snapchat for pics. I'm not big on audio/video as my roommates inevitably become an issue.
  • She knows that we're not exclusive, though I've never talked about other girls to her.
  • Since this started she's probably made out with a few guys but not had sex, although I'm only 80% sure. I'm cool if she does, though I'd prefer not to lose our arrangement.

Our nights together are great, but I want to keep her hooked and sexualized towards me in-between visits.

I need material on long-distance game. Any ideas?