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I disagree with The fact that this had to be spelled out is somewhat sad. It's not sad. For me, it's expected because men are raised to be pussies. I'd argue that "shit tests" are a subset of congruence tests and that most newbies do themselves a disservice trying to identify "shit tests" as it simply serves to increase paranoia, often wrongly. A "shit test" is a trivial minutia to the man who has any type of congruence. That is, if you have your vision and your values (i.e congruence), a shit t…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 09:33 PM
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what do I get from the relationship that make my life better? This is a question to be answered honestly from your own value stream. Society has injected a whole bunch of baggage - if you assess it with society's priorities, a man will never arrive at a conclusion that makes him happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 09:11 PM
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I disagree. Modern men are raised to be pussies - which in reality and pragmatic terms means not giving a fuck about yourself. When I call a guy a pussy faggot, it's not a value judgment on him as an individual. It's a judgment on the fact that he's bought into so much deluded bullshit that he can't even assess himself honestly. He's never spent the time to build his personal set of values and therefore has never spent any effort developing his own vision. One of these days, I'll make a suppleme…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 09:10 PM
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The fakeness is too obvious.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 02:56 PM
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i like the bold. i'm going to steal it if i ever deconstruct again.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 06:12 AM
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you've already failed, fyi. this has nothing to do with your wife. she's just a really convenient scapegoat you've built up over the years to make up for your own weakness and inadequacies. sidebar, use it, internalize, reflect, and take some ownership pussy.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 06:01 AM
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what do you want to do? make a decision. own it. accept the possible outcomes. be a man. buy the purse. more tangibly - you have so much foundation work to do. for example, your mindset when arguing is wrong. you're arguing to trade barbs. if i ever had to get into an argument, i would be in it to win. you're not. your argument there was to not lose. I don't think I can be happy married to my current wife. You are also completely wrong about this. Your wife may be the shittiest fucking person in…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:55 AM
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To be honest, I don't even know how OP fucked up. It's not really that hard. OP is egomaniacal, judgmental, and probably not that fun to be around. Take a woman in that situation, give her the opportunity to let her hair loose a bit, and is it really surprising that she'd take it? Lets put it this way, if someone offered me an around-the-world trip on a high end yacht, I wouldn't take it because my life with my wife and daughter satisfy my needs more than I can imagine (I went skiing in VT with …
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:47 AM
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jesus. own your shit. your wife doesn't have anything to do with your bullshit. stop lying to yourself. for example Mentioning that she went to grad school where I was a professor wasn't intended to indicate she couldn't do it otherwise or that she owed me anything. It was intended to convey a sense of her striving to improve herself after having kids in an arena she saw as mine. Her parents, my father, and myself have doctorates and that always meant to her that she was less than. It was real a…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:40 AM
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Good post. I don't think phase 3 is ideal at all. You described phase 4 (imo), which is "My life will be awesome because I am the creator of my reality." All the meta-questioning, nagging, and manifestations of an individuals insecurities disappears into the realization and freedom of knowing that every step in your journey through life is a decision you alone control and you alone make. We alone are at the center of our own universes and at the center of our own stories. Everyone else is a play…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:34 AM
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you are such a fucking cuntbag pussy mc-getfuckedintheass-ersen. the only reason your wife is a cunt is because you fail at being a man. that's the end of the entire story. your quibbles, trivialities, whining, victim complex, blah blah blah all boils down to the fact that you are one gigantic undouched pussy. you are literally less valuable than the sharts that your wife makes on her granny panties. she puts in the effort to wash and cleans them because at least she has a use for them. you? who…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:25 AM
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This post bugs the hell out of me and I've only read the title. Had a fight last night. Help me parse it. Why should I? Why do I give a fuck about you? I don't. What value you are you offering in return for the time and effort I'd put in? What's your value add? There is none offered from what I can tell. So, why should I go out of my way to spend time and energy I can't get back on your bullshit? For the record, and this may come as a surprise to many of you, I hate entitled attitudes (you don't…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:06 AM
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shit. i'm supposed to shit in the toilet and not my pants? fuck. why did no one ever tell me.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:02 AM
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You are a faggot. Instead of making this about you, you just make it about someone outside of the conversation. You expect me to take your second-hand bullshit as fact. For example, Her response, though, was to hook up with someone who was extremely beneath her. This is bullshit. Her response might be He was so awesome. He was dangerous and exciting and fun. My husband's this overbearing, egomaniacal, judgemental prick all the time. My cop lover, he fucked me so good and I just felt free. It was…
/r/askMRP30/03/16 06:16 PM
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inner game is more of a pua term. use your googlefu - start with a website called girlschase.com repeated exposure to positive stimuli makes it feel more familiar - i.e. get the positive references experiences with men and women who respond positively to you.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 04:22 PM
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I'll tell my wife I want more emotional investment from her. Whether she does it or not is her choice, but I know I'm more invested when she's invested too. Note that this doesn't solve your issue. Your issue is inner game and requires repeated exposure to stimuli. You can't lie your way into believing something. You have to get that exposure and those reference experiences.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 08:22 AM
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/r/askMRP30/03/16 07:23 AM
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notice how op absolves himself of responsibility in his original post. notice how you accept his absolution implicitly in your response? your focus has nothing to do with op, it's entirely aimed at op's wife because that how he framed it. his entire post is a gigantic "playing the victim" post... and you didn't even hesitated to question the validity of that foundation. too much time at ppd man. It only took me a few weeks of seeing how that place affected her to say fuck no and drag her out. Sh…
/r/askMRP30/03/16 07:13 AM
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fuck op. i don't believe him at all. he seems like an overbearing chump. cop was probably legit and down to earth. my guess is op was salty he got cucked. let me ask you this. does op seem like the type of guy who builds people up? the right answer is no. he spends the entire post and comments tearing everyone else down while absolving himself of any responsibility. op isn't even capable of handling the very baseline shit any competent adult male leading a family ought to be able to handle. ther…
/r/askMRP30/03/16 07:09 AM
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i disagree with you so much most of the time, but on this one i'm completely on board. you forgot one thing though lol at your believing the shit that comes out of your mouth
/r/askMRP30/03/16 07:08 AM
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yup. you're the type of faggot that deserves to get cheated on.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 07:07 AM
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i've just got one thing. LOOOOOOL. go team blue.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 10:08 PM
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yup. i don't use alpha/beta dichotomy because it's a false equivalence and leads to a detrimental mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 03:08 PM
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yay. i've been preaching this for the past year. it's a lot easier to pass congruence test when you're not bullshitting yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 02:59 PM
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the deadbedroom failure has nothing to do with alpha/beta. it's happens because the "high value" male gives his wife absolutely no reason to fuck him. the expectation of a high value individual is that his value is recognized, appreciated, and reciprocated.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/16 02:59 PM
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jesus. what a bunch of drivel. "other men are mean" boo hoo hoo. watch me not care. you want a whole subreddit to cater to your whims? is your solipsism worse than a woman's? take what's useful and ditch the rest. and when the rest becomes useless, find a better source.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 08:35 PM
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linen clothing is the shit.
/r/askMRP25/03/16 05:20 AM
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overall thoughts on Aliexpress for clothing? what's the return policy like? i ordered a couple things. they were inconsistent and small on the size side and i said fuck it. the idea of it is very cool. aliexpress has unique stuff - just haven't bought into the customer service/delivery aspects of it.
/r/askMRP25/03/16 05:19 AM
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hahahaha. "Man Cave? The house is my man cave."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 10:55 AM
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wait... so you decide to write them off, tell your wife, then grovel back and somehow your wife is the asshole and you're not the spineless cuntbag? not really adding up for me. from this post - i see nothing of value that you add so why should anyone give a fuck?
/r/askMRP22/03/16 01:00 AM
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jesus. the lack of self respect should disgust yourself. kick the unappreciative bitch out already.
/r/askMRP22/03/16 12:45 AM
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yeah, i've been noticing him picking things up pretty quick. his failure is execution also - thanks for getting me to add Jake McDorman to my google search history dick
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 07:29 AM
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i'll add this - does your wife have a reason to fuck you? if you're not giving her a reason to fuck you, why would she? it's a waste of energy and the laws of physics would dictate that she take the path that uses the least energy.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 07:28 AM
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I'm stealing your jokes btw fyi.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 07:23 AM
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GLO ftw.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 07:21 AM
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yeah.. i wouldn't know. i spend almost no time at TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 07:19 AM
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Seriously? Instead of trying to mount a whale, I'd probably go mount a college sloot. What's she going to do? Divorce you and do better? loooooooool also, your fat wife is going to give you some fat kids. way to go dad. way to set your kids up for a life of shit.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 07:16 AM
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if she said she liked the taste of shit, would you believe that too? also, boo fucking hoo, you poor baby.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 07:14 AM
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seriously? own your shit.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 07:13 AM
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the prenup doesn't matter. the quality of the wife and the quality of the husband do.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 07:11 AM
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oh yeah. i'm totally sure your mother is the cause of all the bullshit that comes out of your mouth. get fucked.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 07:10 AM
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if she said she liked the taste of shit, would you believe her too? 5'10" 130 is a stick. from - https://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/comments/33yspf/1_year_progress_130lb_to_155lb_at_510/ http://imgur.com/a/uk5A5
/r/askMRP20/03/16 07:05 AM
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subtle difference between being butthurt passive aggressive and not tolerating bullshit. your body language will accent the difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 01:58 AM
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relevant youtube
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 03:15 AM
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you two are the funniest old fuckers ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 11:41 PM
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you're so fucking blue and stupid that you don't even know what a constructive criticism is. like, when your wife's taken a load from chad2, do you like to get your dick in there right after to feel the sloppy seconds? and how are you going to feel when you find out you've been raising some other dude's kids?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:27 PM
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roflmao. q: how many psychiatrists does it take to change a lightbulb? a: 1, but the lightbulb has to want to change.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:24 PM
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i'd want to read the shittalking in modqueeu
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:24 PM
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I'd still sidebar. People need to put in individual effort first imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:59 PM
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You want to shit on that? Nope. I want to build realistic expectations and a mindset for success. To focus on the process and not the result. Build outcome independence from the start - to take pride in taking the actions instead of the reaction of an outside actor subject to various moods. What would you tell the guy if he'd ended the FR by having his wife completely ignore the fact he was sitting on his own? What if she decided not to be affectionate? OP did the right thing by establishing a s…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 08:54 PM
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Yeah... I call troll. I'd delete and point to sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 07:58 PM
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The problem is I don't need to. I fix my shit pretty much immediately and don't worry about it. When I was fencing, I talked to someone who was competing on the world championship level. When I asked him how he fenced, he didn't talk about form or technique or anything like that. When he fenced, he was looking for whether the opponent he was fencing was in more of an attacking or defending mood. The basics (form, technique, openings) was secondary and he was assessing flow. The types of things I…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 04:08 PM
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looking for "wins" is a form of validation seeking behavior and is often accompanied by covert contracts. the aim is to become better, not to keep score in some bullshit game that you're playing with yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 08:13 AM
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i don't post here because i'm my own judge. i don't need this board to be accountable. if i ever wanted to, i'm sure i could find things to post about.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 07:18 AM
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i learned that the "YES, THAT is what I want to do with my life." is a choice we make. it's not some inspiration bullshit. you spin it into inspiration because it's a good story, but the truth is that people decide one day to do it, and step and step and step and step.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 07:17 AM
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jesus fucking christ. you're not playing games with your life. you're playing games with your kid's. see a judge/lawyer/law enforcement official, etc. i would not hold back if my wife decided to jeopardize our daughter's well being for no good reason other than some trendy bullshit. full nuclear assault time. in boston, kids who aren't vaccinated can't go to public schools. not trusting modern medicine is flat out retarded. are there issues? yes. would you rather go back to the 40 year life expe…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 07:11 AM
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MRP is all for not getting married. The reason for this is because most guys can't handle marriage and most women aren't worth marrying. It's much more pragmatic to spin plates and harem
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 07:04 AM
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yikes. OP is a mess.
/r/askMRP18/03/16 07:01 AM
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you focus on this interaction like a win. know that it isn't. some guys will pat you on the back for this - they'll be doing you a disservice, imo. discipline over motivation. your excitement isn't a bad thing. just know that in the long term view, interactions don't matter. insurmountable mountains looks flat from space. focus on getting your mindset right. focus on the cause, not the end result. do you even lift? edit: this reminds me of posts from seddit where guys would make a FR about final…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 04:58 AM
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It's difficult, but I also find it to be a worthwhile investment of time and energy. I don't. :) Hence why you're a mod and I said "fuck it. let these guys flounder." But if my bullshit helps someone every once in a while, well, why not do it then right?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 09:08 PM
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are Redpill moderators. hahahahahahhaha. wew lad. thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 08:43 PM
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more than half the chumps coming through here are so pathetic that they wouldn't have the mindset needed to take control of their own lives. you know what happens when you give the average user a process? they half ass an attempt and then complain that it doesn't work. the truth of the matter is that for the past few decades, we have been raising a generation of weak, cowardly, effeminate men. Telling someone how to create/find happiness on the other hand is very useful. the only thing that real…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 08:27 PM
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Telling someone you're happy is kinda boring.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 08:10 PM
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maybe according to you. this is pretty funny stuff. and if you step back, there's a lot to be learned here.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 04:00 PM
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man. you must have a gigantic stick up your ass if you can't appreciate a bit of internet drama. relax that sphincter and have a bit of fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 06:59 AM
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no one would care though. no matter how well done it was, the majority of people wouldn't care. frame control 101. he'd say "i treat women just like i treat men." and he could point to all the female executives he's had and the one's he wrote about in 1987 as proof. i mean, some people might be offended, but his actions are louder than his words (for most people. probably.).
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 02:42 AM
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They have no business pretending to be Red Pill and no useful purpose except as a cute adornment. i'll stand up for RPW. their goals are different than ours. their methods to achieve their girls are different than ours. they'd be terrible at trying to do what we do. we'd be terrible at trying to do what they do. an individual would have to be completely obtuse to expect otherwise. that's it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:23 PM
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Welcome to CURRENT YEAR.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:17 PM
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eh... you're looking at it as if your options are set in stone and you only have 2. what you're looking at is a matter of importance. is it more important for you to express your views on facebook or for her to not have to deal with fallout. priorities change over time. then it's a matter of re-evaluating which was more important in lieu of new information. i'd have the discussion first, letting her know i was planning on breaking a promise, identifying the possible fallout, and then proceeding …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:15 PM
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http://www.nytimes.com/2016/03/15/us/politics/donald-trumps-misogyny-out-of-the-mouths-of-ordinary-women.html it might make some impact on white knights.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:00 PM
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don't be a liar. don't make promises you can't keep. own your shit. if you can't be trusted, then you can't be respected. you might be able to have a conversation and lead her to a different viewpoint where she'll respect why you want to post your decision. but that's for you to decide whether you want to do it or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 09:58 PM
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YEAHHHH MISOGYNY BITCHES! Speaking of which, did you see the ad of women reading Trump quotes?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 09:40 PM
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They love the end product but they find the process disgusting. I make no apologies on how I learned to love women. If a woman doesn't like it, fuck her. Not my fucking problemtm How many of you guys are still trying to rationalize this process? Edit: i also absolutely love this drama.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 08:56 PM
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It's been a continuing evolution. Mostly a jerk of people continuing to take what works. From The Game by Neil Strauss, earliest groups were usenet based forums, so late 90s to early 2000s. This splintered off into many different types of forums. Key players were guys like Mystery who developed the M3 model. Lots of canned openers - very structured game. Some pretty interesting stuff in here which still works - questions game, cube, etc. When I first got involved in this stuff, it was 2008 or so…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 08:45 PM
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BS wouldn't exist if the approach taken was "you do you." Yeah baby! I win! Suck it everyone! Start with the left one and move to the right one.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 08:09 PM
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it's a total mistake to compare yourself to other people. compare yourself to where you were and where you're going.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 07:24 AM
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would you want to fuck yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 06:30 AM
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scalpals are way too dangerous. i'd never trust a scrub to not do damage to himself. xacto knife for life.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 06:23 AM
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the answer to your question 'what about love?" love is what happens when two people share the same purpose in life and are willing to put in the time and effort to make it happen. if it's only one person - it's not love, it's burden.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 03:58 AM
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very right. the flip side of your nuance is this - if the value you're attempting to provide is not perceived in the way you want it to be, you can easily stop and make a change.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 05:05 PM
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what boundaries and expectations have you set? from your rambling, it sounds like none.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 11:09 AM
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Oh. Well. Guess he's fucked then. gg no re. next.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 10:02 AM
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What the fuck happened to I have a vision of what I'm going to look like, and I'm dead certain I'm going to get there. This one piece, at least, I know I've got. Why aren't you applying this mentality to your life more broadly? Is it laziness? Fear? Uncertainty? Insecurity? Possibility of failure? Being a gigantic pussy? Ineptitude? Seriously think about this and assess yourself as honestly as you can because from where I am, all you've been doing is fluffing yourself with bullshit for the past …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:39 AM
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mentality is key! get a positive mindset. we can choose how we view the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:30 AM
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The nuance between guys like J10 of hearts and IrateMD versus guys like myself and Stone is that J10 and IrateMD approach each post as a unique, individualized case whereas stone and I see the situation as more generalized. For me, the individual manifestations of someone's ego/insecurities don't override the root cause - therefore the root cause diagnosis is effectively the same and addressing the individual symptoms is a poor use of time. When j10 posts, he starts at the symptoms to distill it…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:25 AM
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the guys who post here are remarkably simple. but everyone who posts here thinks they're special. it just isn't practical to spend the time and effort detailing in explicit detail why they aren't special, why they aren't unique, and why their bullshit is the same color as everyone else's bullshit even though they ate pasta instead of steak. the situation here is op's wife is looking for a reason to let him go and op's fighting so desperately to cling on. i can guarantee you this ends poorly.
/r/askMRP15/03/16 06:30 AM
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So she told you suck in bed. Your ego took a blow. And then you spend 500 words looking (see: hamster) for a reason she might say that. What exactly do you want your next step to be? Because all I see is a lot of focus on a re-defined past.
/r/askMRP15/03/16 06:27 AM
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I would never in my life encourage anyone to fill their world with toxic, negative people. If OP wants to do that, he is free to, but I personally would never encourage it. I would also not encourage him to ignore. I would tell him to expect better and to find better. At the end of the day, he is not responsible for her actions and her choices. It is irresponsible to insinuate otherwise.
/r/askMRP15/03/16 06:23 AM
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listen, stop for a moment. does BPP seem unhappy? i think his dynamic is weird too. then again, i watched the Attorney General from Billions get dominated by his wife and thought that was weird too. but from everything I can tell, he seems like he's doing alright. so the question is - why do you care so much? there's at least a group of significantly difference people with varying perspectives offering different assessments on MRP. you say you don't pay attention to MRP, no worries, but i'll tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 06:03 AM
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you divorced or cucking yet?? if not, what timescale are you looking at? i'm guessing 3-9 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 05:57 AM
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I disavow this statement. I got married after knowing about and being involved in the manosphere. But I did it for different reasons - it made dealing with the government much easier. Moving a wife/fiance to the US or myself to Europe is simply easier when officially married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 05:42 AM
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The thread was an overreaction your mod had to a conversation on a different sub. No disagreement from me there.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 01:49 AM
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I've never met a socially competent self described MGTOW.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 01:37 AM
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it's not recognized or respected. I think RP does need a sub like this that helps married and LTR men - but this community has thus far failed to be the answer to that need. You'd find people who'd disagree with both of these statements. RPW would be a laughing stock RPW Stepford wives central is a laughing stock depending on which reddit clique you ask. (Sidenote: I like RPW and don't think it's stepford wives central.) And none of what I wrote about matters at all to the individual unless they…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 01:29 AM
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TIL. But the lemmings video game =.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 07:48 PM
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Solipsism and white knighting. Nothing to see here. You do you. See also - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4a1px1/one_year_in_how_i_managed_to_tailor_mrp/ If a man is a lemming, he will walk off the cliff.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 05:13 PM
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look at this white knight! what an hero
/r/askMRP12/03/16 09:07 PM
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no one gives a fuck. the only person who should is you. put in some personal effort.
/r/askMRP11/03/16 07:49 PM
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if you can't spend the 5 minutes googling "how to fix low credit score", why do you think you'll be able to put in the work to fix anything else?
/r/askMRP11/03/16 07:48 PM
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much of this provided direct rewards to me and my own emotional state. In your post, this is the only line that matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 07:41 PM
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Gotcha. Yeah, I wouldn't have thought twice about this situation. If it's a legitimately bad time to try to have sex, there's no reason to punish her for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 02:28 PM
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wtf is this shit she thinks you're not a negative person. okay. cool. so? oh yeah, she's probably ready to ditch you.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 05:58 AM
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Here is the issue. This was two months ago...now every time I leave when I return she goes on a fucking rant about how im cheating and ruining our relationship. I guess all my improvements have her nervous as fuck. Hamster cant run any faster or that exercise wheel will fly off the hinges. "I'm not cheating yet, but your constant nagging and negativity sure is giving me a reason to. I'll tell ya what. I promise to tell you before I have sex with another woman. Deal?" alternatively. "If you keep …
/r/askMRP09/03/16 05:51 AM
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how about............ you only compliment her when you actually mean it? your body language most likely betrays your b.s. anyway
/r/askMRP09/03/16 05:45 AM
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disingenuous free compliments aren't worth shit. i'd rather have no compliments than to have someone lie to my face.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 05:45 AM
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Dialing back comfort as a result of an event is classic lack of outcome independence, i.e. butthurt. Window dress it however you want, just realize you're bullshitting yourself. The goal is to not care (which means getting your sex life to a point where you actually don't care about a missed morning). The goal isn't to perfect pretending to not care.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 05:09 AM
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I'll take the counter point. Maybe she felt rushed in the morning and was worried about the time. When sex isn't a problem, you don't worry about an individual occurrence. Hey /u/spexer, you guys fucking regularly? If so, why are you being such a little bitch about this? What is the insecurity that this post is uncovering? Lets put it this way, I wouldn't change my behavior or attitude based off 1 reasonable and plausible reason occurrence. It just screams pettiness to me to do so. If she's too …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 05:06 AM
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Brutal. Men, if you learn anything from your time here, learn to have some self respect for god's sake. As much as I say you lot of pussies deserve to be cheated on, I don't imply that you should wait around for it to happen. Put in the time and effort to be better so you can actually respect yourself enough not to put up with my or anyone else's bullshit. Even better, get to a point where you just stop giving a fuck about your wife's bullshit and be the judge of your own world - wherein if she …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 04:42 AM
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start making choices pussy. start embracing the failure and the suck. also, boo fucking hoo you whiny bitch
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 04:36 AM
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i'm banned from r/politics for calling bernie's campaign a cult of personality. apparently people throwing money at a failing, decrepit senator isn't a cultish behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 04:35 AM
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I didn't even realize this source of entertainment. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 09:50 PM
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This stuff is great. This is the stuff that early career guys like me benefit the most from.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 09:15 PM
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If you pull a /u/whinemoreplease move on a wife that has been bossing you for the last decade, she will bitchslap you so fast your head will spin. I was at Walgreen's yesterday. I ended up buying two packets of peeps and 1 emoji kiss pillow for my wife as a random present. I wonder how many of your wives would ask themselves "Shit. I wonder what he's wants this time." if you did the same thing I did.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 08:39 PM
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RealAlphaTM's use needles because they have RealPotency.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 02:59 AM
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yeah, scurvemuch's has been getting the mentality down recently.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 02:56 AM
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Own your shit pussy. You obviously can ditch your wife. Your job is to remind her to give you a reason not to. I know that if I ever stop putting the effort in, thats ample reason for my wife to leave. Same goes for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 05:00 AM
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the way to do an ultimatum is this know what the possible outcomes are and have actions that your'e ready to take in the case of either outcome.
/r/askMRP05/03/16 03:19 AM
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sometimes you gotta smack a bitch to make a point. q: what do you say to the woman with two black eyes? a: nothing. you already told her twice. Doctor: "What happened?" Woman: "Doctor, I don't know what to do. Every time my husband comes home drunk on Bud Light he beats me to a pulp." Doctor: "I have a remedy for that. When your husband comes home drunk on Bud Light, just take a glass of sweet tea and start swishing it in your mouth but don't swallow. Just keep swishing and swishing until he goe…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 05:35 PM
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You asked a great question. You deserved an effective answer. Again, you give a good response that points to something I might be able to provide you insight with. Here's the question for you - are you content and satisfied with your own existence? I'd wager the answer is no. I bet that you are not fully in control of your own life and your own existence and most importantly your own happiness. See, it's about coming to terms with the fact that we can only control so little of our existence, but…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 10:14 PM
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sure why not
/r/askMRP02/03/16 04:45 AM
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Hey guys, I am reaching out after trying a few times. This is my first reddit/RP post. Please advise if I missed or messed something up, and yes I know I don't have the best writing. Also, I know things will be a bit weird, but I trust you guys. I've been lurking for awhile and even though I just finally swallowed, I want the truth. I have no idea why you start the post selling yourself short. From - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKOQdcVoRys First of all, never think yourself as average. I don…
/r/askMRP01/03/16 02:27 AM
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I was really impressed with your answer to the question I posted there.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 01:15 AM
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awwwww. poor little fuccboi can't grasp the fact that he's a fucc boi and wants to hamster? saaaaaaaaaaad daaaaaaaaaay. circlejerks of acting alpha -- salty fucc boi tfw don't forget to coddle your fee fees and speak super softly to them. pussy
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 10:49 PM
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Actually offered me a mulligan on her birthday, doesn't want me to do anything... Was cute, but why wouldn't I treat her? She deserves it, sex on the regular, my kinks on the table, financial security, very supportive.... Why wouldn't I show some appreciation for that? Fantastic mindset. She's being a great wife, why not give her as much value back as she adds to your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 10:02 PM
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yeah, the money spending would be a bigger issue than the going off and having fun for me as well. seems like you've got a good head on you and settled the situation to your satisfaction.
/r/askMRP29/02/16 09:56 PM
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post a link. i remember the situation. i just want to see the text. i foudn it too -- https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/39im44/own_your_shit_ama_and_a_followup_to_my_last/cs3nyxn hahaha /u/[deleted] the good ol' days.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 09:50 PM
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Oh, did you dismiss me? Then how am I still magically here calling you a fucc boi? Piss off dude. ...take the criticism or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 07:14 PM
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This may be the best askMRP question I've seen yet. Very well thought out and very well presented. Why do you initiate sex? Sex feels good. In which case, why are you limiting your ability to get pleasure to 1 cum dumpster? You want your wife and you want to show her. Case 1 is easy. Go fuck other women. If it's only about sex, go get the sex. Case 2 is more challenging. Most of the new guys here talk about how they want to have sex with their wives. What they don't mention is the covert contrac…
/r/askMRP29/02/16 07:04 PM
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Who made you king of the internet? You just seem like a 19 year old fucc boi stuck in 2003.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:43 PM
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Maybe I'll do it someday. The condensed version is that marriage, like everything else, has it's own challenges and hurdles. Marriage doesn't make those challenges significantly more difficult than anything else, say finding a job or planning for retirement. It's about understanding the processes, pitfalls, and possible issues and then nimbly navigating a best course of action and course correcting along the way. If you view marriage as some unsurmountable obstacle, what is your default response…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:39 PM
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Did you post from you alt account and get salty because people called you a faggot?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 04:26 PM
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You ever stop and consider that guys like you deserve it? Let's look a look at your positive contributions. They don't exist.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 04:14 PM
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looks like you get really easily offended by everything from a quick look at your post history. maybe you should stick to your purple pill safe space. pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 03:43 PM
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so is this all stream of consciousness or is this planned out? because you made OP look like a social autist on so many levels.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 03:39 PM
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if you don't see how the comment is helpful, you're hopeless.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 02:27 PM
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No, I don't. The question I doubt you'll ask yourself is "why doesn't /u/whinemoreplease think it's more difficult?" The answer I'd give you is "because /u/whinemoreplease isn't a pussy." The real answer is just a more complex and nuanced version of "because /u/whinemoreplease isn't a pussy."
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 07:11 AM
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yup. this post reads like it was written by a paranoid pussy. "omg guys. neighbor is being friendly and neighborly. wat do? is he trying to fuck me?"
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:44 AM
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$4 potted plant from Walmart this year. Maybe seeds next year.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:40 AM
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this is Red Pill on Hard Mode. For the record, I completely disagree. I cringe every time some tries to claim that, even /u/bluepillprofessor.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:39 AM
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See, you're a beta faggot. Needless to say my girlfriend of 6 months suddenly texts me saying she wants to stop seeing each other. The fact "Okay. Bye." was not your immediate answer says all that needs to be said. You should be charming and charismatic enough to land a newer, better bitch within a week or two. Obviously, you're not.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:04 AM
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I went out purely for my own fun, instead of doing it to dread her. Dread was simply a byproduct. Wow. Love your life. Do shit that you enjoy and you have a whole 'nother level of congruence that cannot be questioned. Want to know why a man is attractive? Because when a man knows exactly what he wants, there's not bullshit fluff surrounding it. This includes the women he wants. You do shit because it's what you want to do. If you do it because you think your wife will react some certain way, you…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 04:08 AM
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i don't. it was just an event we both were at. still, always cool to meet a famous shitposter.
/r/askMRP29/02/16 03:45 AM
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seriously. i'm going on a ski trip with my friend in two weekends. a couple of days ago I was in NYC - met GLO as a happenstance (buy his shirts - they're good stuff) end of march, we're going to be driving up north to do a family trip. what a buzz kill it'd be if my wife had to tag along everywhere.
/r/askMRP29/02/16 12:42 AM
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just win baby.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 10:36 PM
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dude. i just lost a ton of respect for the canadian. bernie was unemployed until 40 at which point he became a politician. dude failed as a carpenter. dude got punked by a couple of black women. dude got punked by a middle aged white woman at his town hall. wake up canada!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 09:54 PM
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jesus fucking christ. it's like every single red piller is a trump guy. even the canadian ones. doesn't matter if it's TRP or MRP or probably even RPW. i haven't seen you at r/the_donald, but if you want a RP/open discourse politics subreddit, that's about as close as it gets.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 09:06 PM
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science has proven the refractory period shortens when presented with a new female.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 09:01 PM
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first. your code is naive. you sound like the type of guy to stay in a shitty marriage getting more and more miserable because that's the honorable thing to do. (i had a buddy do this. he says it's one of the worst decision he ever made. he still got divorced. he's now banging sloots.) second. remember, the wife decided she could do better as a post wall 36 year old after watching sisterhood of the travelling pants for the 10th time. third. red pill is about recognizing reality as it is instead …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 08:59 PM
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anyone ever tell you you're underappreciated?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 06:00 AM
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Value is subjective and she clearly didn't see any or enough of it So the short answer is that you admit you didn't add any value? Cool story.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 11:32 PM
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let's play a game where you and i bet money on whether the guys coming here posting about how they're getting divorced are worth a damn. those guys are usually one-off posts looking for a pat on the back. i have yet to see a guy who's been owning his shit (and posting in own your shit) come in with a divorce post. and here's why - the guy who owns his shit, lives in his reality, has a clear vision of what he wants, he doesn't need to come here and post about divorce because when it gets to that …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 07:46 AM
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You're not wrong. But you are retarded and pathetic, so I can see why you'd want to get tested. Me? I just point out every once in a while that we have zero certainty my daughter is mine. One of these days, the wife is gonna buy a kit from amazon and prove it just to shut me up. So how do I know my daughter is mine? Simple - I've been an advocate for paternity testing before I even met my wife. It turned out the hospital didn't offer it and then I got lazy about and figured the uncertainty is fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 05:26 AM
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I have a vision of what I'm going to look like, and I'm dead certain I'm going to get there. This one piece, at least, I know I've got. Fuck it. You win. The rest of this is just fluff. That one statement right there means you get it and you'll achieve it. Apply that mindset to everything else and you'll wonder why people in this very forum think being married this is hard. But it only happens maybe once a month (which is actually a slight improvement from before). She's pretty blunt turning me …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 08:43 PM
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First off, I don't buy into the alpha/beta dichotomy. It's practical but lacks precision and accuracy. That said, I'd argue your good beta is still alpha in mentality falling under the "own your shit" branch. The one constant failure I see is failure to "own your shit" and blame a boogeyperson.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 08:39 PM
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A woman you've never met, never even read a single word from has crushed your pathetic frame, think about that for a minute while your ex is fucking an uber driver that she considered a better catch than you were. hahaha. it amazes me that there are so many men who post here about mean nasty women but can't take the 5 seconds to introspect on the fact that they suck. cause-consequence.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 08:35 PM
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i'll still argue that squidna was the case of a weak beta male husband (as seen from him punking out)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 06:33 PM
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mint.com works great for me
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 02:53 PM
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absolutely. fake it till you make it is different than deluding yourself before you're there in my book. fake it till you make it is a mindset of recognizing you're not there yet and striving for it. deluding yourself is thinking you're there when you haven't done anything. i've seen fake it till you make it - e.g. still a fat fuck - it's an awesome attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 12:54 PM
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Nice post. Good to see you still grinding.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 12:53 PM
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i lik dis
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 12:39 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/nFIQKdC.jpg
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 12:33 PM
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800/month budgeted towards Whole Foods (for two adults), jesus. that's garbage.
/r/askMRP23/02/16 12:29 PM
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would have a hard time finding a guy as good as you to replace you Most of you guys are not awesome. Most of you guys are not the prize. Don't just delude yourself into buying into this bullshit. Deluding yourself gets you negotiating attracting and getting divorced. Most of you guys whine and complain and lie to yourselves. You're not the prize. Don't try to bullshit yourself into thinking you are the prize without putting in the work to become the prize. Most of you don't have any idea of what…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 12:23 PM
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Prove it. Your post contained nothing about how you add value.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 12:00 PM
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Could I have avoided this? Sure. But something tells me that deep inside even if I transformed the heck out of myself, turned into James Bond, a marriage entered into under a very weak frame may just not be worth saving. I would bet money OP is still a fat fuck with no hobbies, no charm, and no charisma. I'd be willing to further bet that OP deluded himself into thinking he was awesome when he wasn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 11:56 AM
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sure. why wouldn't it be?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 11:38 PM
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don't worry. i got you. https://media.giphy.com/media/gXhBZfzijya76/giphy.gif
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 11:33 PM
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I don't really give a fuck what strangers on the internets think about me. I can't believe this is getting downvoted. Fucking brigades. Go fuck off and argue in PPD or something. I have to make bank or my kids starve. Or we go on welfare. You'd all probably like that but then who'd pay for your whiny ass? hahahaha. you pathetic boy. why don't you whine some more about imaginary internet points.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 11:31 PM
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Me calling you a retard is patting myself on my back? What's next? Are you gonna call yourself rubber and me glue?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 11:27 PM
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It does surprise me, because many women (especially post-wall, security-phase women) are exactly that stupid. Good. Now don't be a fucking retard and get involved with one of those many women.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 11:25 PM
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You seem sensible. I look forward to your contributions.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 11:24 PM
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Is it any harder than other role in the family? Is being a mother hard? Is being a teenager hard? Is being a baby hard? I mean, to me, this is the type of attitude you'd want to take if you want to hamster up reasons to pat yourself on the back or stew in heapings of self pity and loathing. Being a father and husband is. It's something you are. No good, no bad. It just is. And you handle it. If you can't handle it, no one in the world gives a shit. Pissing and moaning about how HAAARDDD it is is…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 11:18 PM
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you're overcomplicating it. instead of your wife and BP society be the default judgment, you've now used RP/Alpha as your default judgment. what you haven't done is taken any ownership so that YOU are the judge of your own efforts. Own your shit. If it fails, change it. If it works, great. But Own Your Shit. Lie yourself into happiness if that's what it takes for you to be happy. I hear someone say "waah it's hard" and all i think is "lazy pussy who hasn't put in any work". This shit is easy, bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 08:06 PM
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arborable behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 06:54 PM
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I'm gonna point out the obvious. If you want your wife, you should own that and communicate that by making her feel wanted. Early on, I needed to remind myself that I like my wife and that I want my wife instead of taking her for granted. Now if she doesn't respond positively, obviously don't continue. If you don't want your wife, that's another issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 05:21 PM
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Embarrassment is a feeling you let others push onto you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 05:14 PM
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not just post there,,,
/r/askMRP22/02/16 02:25 PM
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OYS
/r/askMRP22/02/16 06:27 AM
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hahahaha. THIS TRAIN HAS NO BREAKS. i get a kick out of the canadian stumping for trump.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 06:21 AM
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because I keep everyone at a distance. get comfortable with letting people in, and filtering them out if they're not up to snuff. it makes you a more attractive person. don't rationalize your inability to interact with people and the consequences thereof.
/r/askMRP22/02/16 12:15 AM
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be judgmental. in fact, be fastidiously judgmental. the more judgmental you are, the better quality of people you'll surround yourself with.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 12:09 AM
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hahaha. i love you. and i agree. trees belong outside.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 12:08 AM
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do you want me to go through and point out how you're trying and failing to weaponize sex or are you going to beat up your hamster on your own?
/r/askMRP21/02/16 05:28 AM
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i suspect that's what you are trying to do. you say as much FUCKING NUKE. the mentality is very different than - I'm going to fuck. it's your choice whether i'm fucking you or i'm fucking someone else. this would be a statement of fact and should be treated as such. if that's your default mindset, your body language will communicate this too. you will get congruency tested to hell for it though.
/r/askMRP21/02/16 05:17 AM
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Fucking women should be the default. You wife gets first shot. She gets to weaponize because you give her the ability to weaponize. You're trying to weaponize it too. You're just no good at it.
/r/askMRP21/02/16 04:49 AM
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the more you respect women, the easier it gets to not give a fuck about solving their problems. because you know that 1) they can handle things on their own, 2) they know they can come ask for your help if they need it, and 3) you value your own time and won't waste it on trivialities.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/16 04:38 PM
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I love the way military guys take ownership. I like the talking. If something's obviously wrong, come out and own it. You did that. You talked a lot, but the elephant in the room was addressed. now it's time to get to work. Edit: and here's where a lot of new guys fail. they think by not talking about anything they're being sneaky and clever and doing a good job of hiding it. they're also lying to themselves. you retards think that if your stupid bullshit doesn't come out of your mouth, your wif…
/r/askMRP20/02/16 09:01 AM
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What shit test? All I saw was that she had a different opinion than you. You disagreed and continued on your way.
/r/askMRP18/02/16 10:54 PM
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I was overweight, but not tremendously so. I am was overweight. Hedging is an ego defense mechanism. This is honestly going to be the hardest part, because she is now 7+ years into running all of my money, and she has done a PHENOMENAL job of it. We have paid down 95% of our debt, including all of my medical bills. We have ZERO credit card debt now. We are within 6 months of being completely 100% debt free. It's hard to argue with that success, but I'm framing it as me taking a load off her shou…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 10:28 PM
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bullshit. this is the same type of hamster logic that says you can't go out for a guys night because <common sense>.
/r/askMRP16/02/16 07:58 PM
1

See /u/angels_fan's comment below.
/r/askMRP16/02/16 07:52 PM
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Yes. Boundaries get set beforehand, not retroactively. Punishing someone for a boundary that you haven't communicated and they don't know about is absurd.
/r/askMRP16/02/16 07:51 PM
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She texted when she said she would. Sounds like she was forthright too. If you want to give peiple reasons to lie to you, the easiest way to do that is to punish people when they're honest. Rp can turn people into gigantic paranoid pussies.
/r/askMRP16/02/16 06:38 PM
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CHS is the bomb! Good on ya. The thing is, you can't help men change, who themselves don't want to change. Many man are content being browbeaten because they've accepted it as part of their life.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 07:46 PM
2

I feel like those two things are the exact same. And you would be wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 07:06 PM
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You think the victim is the guy getting cheated on. I think the victim is the woman having to deal with Joe Pansy. Nothing disgusts me more than a person who views themselves as helpless, without choice, and as a perpetual victim. In every situation, we have choice. It may just be that the result of the choices are all bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 06:36 PM
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This is true. Whether or not she cheats is irrelevant. It's very possible she won't cheat. It speaks to the quality of the woman. Ideally you're with a high quality woman. The point is, if you're a loser don't get butthurt if the woman decides to fuck someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 02:34 PM
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i actually love having you here. i like having more people who've been/are in happy marriages.
/r/askMRP14/02/16 08:08 PM
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Nah mate. It's not too late. Your story is pretty much a cliche. Go back to being the person with passion who gives a shit about things and your wife will be more interested in you again. I'm more than willing to bet money that your wife didn't fall in love with the shell of a person you are today. "Happy wife happy life" is bullshit. Flip it and you have it right. "Happy life, happy wife." Be happy in your life and your wife will be happy to join you. Remember, this isn't about keeping your wif…
/r/askMRP14/02/16 08:02 PM
1

I still think you're one of the most interesting cases to come through.
/r/askMRP14/02/16 06:52 PM
3

Seriously. NIMBLENAVIGATOR /u/jacktenofhearts is a REPUBLICAN ESTABLISHMENT SHILL!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 06:11 PM
2

I love that you're still around.
/r/askMRP14/02/16 08:13 AM
3

You're sure doing a great job of not looking like a beta faggot. I'd suggest you take a couple of minutes to read what you're posting because your insecurity and weakness is screaming loud and clear.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 10:51 PM
11

you do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 10:46 PM
1

Whoever down voted you is retarded
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 09:14 PM
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"you do you" is how i say "you're a hopeless retard. get fucked."
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 03:18 PM
3

Oh, so with everything you could be doing - the way you chose to spend your time is lying to strangers on the internet about your shitty sex life? Oh, okay. Way to go guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:56 PM
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I wanted to see if you actually had your shit together or were a poser. This took literally no time to figure out. For everyone else, the guy who supports being an insecure beta. My dead bedroom started when me and my partner living together after about 3 months. Remember folks, low value men are unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:41 PM
1

you're mistaking AWALT for AWATS. insecurity and control issues is the trait of a low value person. paranoid schizophrenia is a symptom of psychological issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:32 PM
1

re: doing stuff - learn to be passionate. http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-habits-passionate-people-that-you-can-easily-take.html once you learn to be passionate, look for things to do. i have two links on my bookmark bar that lists all the events taking place in our local area.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 07:42 AM
1

my advice - assess yourself honestly and kick your own ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 07:40 AM
1

re: anger - i wonder if applying more positive reinforcement will be beneficial.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 07:34 AM
1

regarding vision - it sounds like you have a vision. you want to get a better career and more money to be able to do more from the family front. vision doesn't need to be big - it really just needs to be a preference of A over B and evaluating different alternatives occasionally. i think you're underselling yourself. try to evaluate your position more honestly and individually - i.e., not in the context of MRP posters but in the context of yourself. measure your successes and failures against yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 07:30 AM
1

I need to book a flight to Florida so that I can put my wife's ashes in the Gulf Of Mexico. She specifically asked me to do this, and to do it alone as she did not want our children to have what she called "that image in their heads." She did apologize but said that she really felt it had to be me. I do not want to do this. Think about it this way - your wife asked you to do this for her. At this point, it's closure for your wife as much as it is for you. I am still an angry piece of shit that e…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 07:03 AM
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what's $100 to a millionaire? sure, if you're the equivalent of a homeless bum, i can see why your wife would want the $100. what's a stack of bills to a money printing machine? see, i would bet money that if my wife found $100 on the street, she'd try to find the person to give it back to. just regular old decency. your mentality is insecure and shitty. also, the way you talk about your wife makes me wonder why she's still your wife. if she's such an easy lay, she's already fucking someone else…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 06:54 AM
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You're kidding right? Your post screams beta beta beta beta beta bitch. Hypergamy - there are going to be guys half his age and much higher SMV out and willing to bang a cougar if his wife is even decently attractive. So you wife'd up a woman who would fuck anything that moved? Well gee, how can you even leave the house with such a frivolous woman. God forbid you go to work 8 hours a day. She'll fuck the mailman and the milkman and the neighbor's high school kid in your world. The attitude of a …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 06:43 AM
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and if she insists on being negative, an explicit "your mentality is annoying/obnoxious/etc, i'm not going to hang around while you sulk." is pretty effective. if that's followed up with "you don't care about me at all!". that's easy to follow up with a "are you willing to try to be in more positive spirits?" it's a matter of boundaries and leadership, imo. sidenote: i read an article that found positive encouragement works really well with kids too. by telling them and affirming their positive …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 05:29 AM
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bingo. and if she did give a shit, your boundaries would already be respected.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 05:23 AM
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short answer is that type of insecurity is beta as fuck. when guys try to mate guard and prohibit a grown ass woman from doing something, i cringe. nothing is more indicative of a low value male than someone who is distrusting when given no reason to be distrusting. if you think that your wife is going to fuck around with you because she's going away, you should've already left her. period. the reason she'll fuck chad on vacation is because the consequence of losing you doesn't match the exhilar…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 05:19 AM
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I'll say it. OP you're a whiny fucking faggot.
/r/askMRP12/02/16 01:57 AM
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So good and so spot on. It's easy to spot a poser with a fragile ego. If I can do it just through the text that a person writes, imagine how much easier it is to spot when the body language communication doesn't match up with the exterior that's being presented.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 05:32 PM
2

great stuff. lots of ownership. steps of progress. i'm glad you're able to be happy at least for bursts of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 02:45 PM
1

strong frame usually is much higher value.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 07:34 AM
1

that hat doesn't say "Make America Great Again".
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 07:32 AM
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yup. pity stories is a meh in my book. not my fucking problem and i won't waste time pretending to give a shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 05:38 AM
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A woman needs to be in a constant state of dread that if she misbehaves you will leave her. In other words -- you want to be high value enough so that leaving you or giving you a reason to leave is a poor choice.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:01 AM
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truth.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 04:11 PM
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or you can blow my nuts and suck my dick and stop posting shitty advice. you want your garbage to be validate via refutation? dream on. just because you can't see how terrible it is, doesn't mean it's painfully obvious for everyone else.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 01:38 PM
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which works when you're roleplaying a fantasy. not when it's not a fantasy and the "our world" shtick is so far failed that any attempt at is just a demonstration of your social ineptitude.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 01:33 PM
0

you're a passive beta male.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 01:32 PM
1

and you did jack diddly fucking squat besides sit on your ass and wait like a passive bystander while time passed? you should stick to posting asktrp because you obviously don't have a clue.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 09:34 AM
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So I say sure, thinking that sounds good and hopefully we'll have a good time and then come home and fuck. Covert contract. Rest is irrelevant because it's a lot of yap yap yap. No idea why you can't keep her as a wife and fuck other women. Limited mindsets lead to ineffective behavior. The thing is, I think she does want to please me. It's just that she has these hangups about sex, and I have no idea how to help her get past them. I think I've said before I think she's clueless about sex. Cluel…
/r/askMRP10/02/16 06:27 AM
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congruence test failed. what would james bond/don draper have done in your situation? how would he respond to the challenges? see also - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-1BD8dOz30 http://www.hulu.com/watch/40972 - pay particular attention to the body language. Season 1 is excellent. Seriously - watch his body language. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBYM4V3trhc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQWNUz0_pZo - look at how well he holds. homebody knows what he wants. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
/r/askMRP10/02/16 06:07 AM
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but part of me is telling myself it is not worth the effort yet. this is your problem. it's TOOOOOOOOOOO HARD WAAAAAAAAAAH. Anyway, it sounds like you've already made your decision. Why are you hesitating? Alternatively, what can you do to make getting a job more worthwhile?
/r/askMRP10/02/16 06:04 AM
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something something something pussy
/r/askMRP10/02/16 06:02 AM
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long and short of it is OP sucks. so why is it surprising at all that op's wife is looking for something better?
/r/askMRP10/02/16 06:01 AM
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note the complete lack of introspection and ownership. your problem is your jealousy and your beta behaviors when trying to deflect jealousy. look, you suck as a man and at this point, you frankly deserve to be cheated on. let's assume your woman is a halfway decent woman - she deserves better than the bullshit you're spewing. i would never hold it against a woman if she fucked a better man. instead of bitching about the better man who's fucking your wife, maybe you should be putting that effort…
/r/askMRP10/02/16 05:58 AM
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Woooooooooooooo. Let's embrace the beta mentality! Yeah! Lets completely not give a shit about being a high value individual. You're assuming his wife doesn't know. Let's assume his wife does know and everything is on the up and up. Now what? Now you look like a needy fucking baby who tattles like a bitch. Way to go man. Way to fucking go.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 05:55 AM
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Jesus. Stop giving advice. Your advice is terrible.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 05:54 AM
1

gay not to mention useless.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 05:52 AM
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go fuck 10 other women.
/r/askMRP10/02/16 05:51 AM
2

Wish I could've seen that post.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 05:48 AM
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If new guys can't tell my post is sarcasm, fuck 'em. It takes some iota of intelligent thought to apply MRP in a productive manner.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 04:21 AM
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No. Obviously not. Obviously the only thing that drives being a captain is your monetary revenue. It's not like you could make more, because I guess that would be hard work. The defeatist attitude is much more attractive, not to mention easier. And obviously the local moderator whose wife makes more money than him is full of shit too when he talks about how he captains his home. Money is obviously the end all be all dictator of everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 09:58 PM
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I think I can always do more to put people in a position to succeed/react with a positive emotion. For example, yesterday I was talking to my wife, and she was describing the fact that she cried. First she described herself as "weak". I'm like "Try describing it differently." She said "Oversensitive". I'm like "Try something more positive." She said "I care." and the moment she thought of it and reframed the thought process, she was more upbeat and positive in her view of herself. And I pointed …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 08:42 PM
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Yeah. Got car. Got insurance for car. There's a minimum time requirement before she can takes a test. When she gets her license, she's good to roam. The issue for me is I've been slack in taking ownership of putting her in a position where she can thrive.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 07:50 PM
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I need to focus on being an effective leader in making sure my wife is happy as well. I've been stagnating and more complacent than I'd like. The consequence of this is that while I'm getting out of the house, going to work, etc. - the wife has spent a majority of her time at home because 1) frozen tundra and 2) no drivers license. I haven't paying as much attention to this as I should and I know it's getting to a point where the mundane existence might be leading to a less than optimal situatio…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 07:02 PM
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well tbp is gonna have a field day with this one. hope you've got a good divorce lawyer lined up.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 06:41 AM
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your daughter was absolutely cheering for the right team. CAM! peyton "dad bod" manning. i had a point to this comment, not sure what it is anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 08:46 PM
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I don't see any leadership here.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 08:40 PM
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whistler is still somehow sold out for all of feb.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 06:37 AM
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katy perry elmo is the best.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 06:06 AM
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obviously. any more than 1 and your wife/gf/plate is a used slut who you should get rid of. shit, you faggots need to have some standards. have you not read the "how to be a MRP man handbook?" it gives you a step by step playbook on how you should be making every single decision in your life. for example, if you wake up and she doesn't have breakfast ready, time to get rid of her. if you have an erection and she's not around, time to get rid of her. if your socks aren't folded properly, time to …
/r/askMRP07/02/16 05:55 AM
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Seriously? You think he listens? He's repeating the same democratic talking points as Obama - pushing the victim narrative among gender and racial lines. (Although he is much better about how "rape" should be handled.) Don't be delusional - the oft repeated talking points aren't coincidence. He's either willfully ignorant or willfully deceitful. Not sure which one is better.
/r/MensRights06/02/16 06:15 PM
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yeah, i seriously gotta make it to canadia this winter for some skiing.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/16 09:17 AM
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This would have saved me 4 months of fucking around thinking I am the hottest shit because I swallowed the pill. no you wouldn't have. the hamster of a weak male is somehow strong as shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/16 09:16 AM
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"Can you blame me, you worthless piece of shit!" hahaha. that's awesome. i love people who call out other people for being worthless pieces of shit. Just a quick side question - what are your thoughts on brevity?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/16 09:10 AM
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billions
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/16 09:00 AM
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op has good bait
/r/askMRP06/02/16 06:13 AM
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How does this When I started MRP I was already in decent shape, dressing well, making money. have anything to do with this I wasn't a drunk captain. ?? I'm pretty sure you're delusional and full of shit at this point. The insecurity and bitterness oozes from every single comment you make.
/r/askMRP06/02/16 06:11 AM
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I just don't want a turn with a untrustworthy woman. is incompatible with I fully understand she is not mine and it's just my turn. It's really easy to bullshit yourself.
/r/askMRP06/02/16 06:10 AM
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If this post is as much as you can care, I don't give a shit about your question either.
/r/askMRP05/02/16 03:44 AM
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not my fucking problem and i don't really care.
/r/askMRP05/02/16 03:37 AM
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at this point, i'd suggest posting less and reading more. stick to OYS or something. don't be a validation seeking attention whore. there's a ton of material on the sidebar and you've been given a lot to work with. time to put your own effort in.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 03:36 AM
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lol. you're starting to sound like me.
/r/askMRP05/02/16 03:35 AM
1

this
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 03:32 AM
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no worries. in your posts i see honest effort, albeit confused. big fan of people who post with very little ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 05:06 PM
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On a side note, since you're hardcore red, do you take "advice" from the wife? Absolutely. My wife is 100% free to give me any thoughts she has. I am 100% free to ignore them. She's 100% free to convince me to think again. Her advice might influence my vision, but my vision is ultimately my decision and responsibility. The way things get decided boils down to who cares more about this decision. There are very few things that I really care all that much about - same for her. The majority of life …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 04:58 PM
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You are responsible for your boundaries. Boundaries are the manifestation of acceptable behavior from yourself and the people you interact with. Shifting/weak boundaries is how people bullshit themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 04:57 PM
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You accept the loop as an inevitability. You're wrong. Re-read your comment and look for why I would say you're deflecting responsibility and see if you can see it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 04:23 PM
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Her - apologize for ______________ Me: no Her: APOLOGIZE NOW!!! Me: no Her: WHY WON'T YOU JUST APOLOGIZE?!?! Me: I don't feel it's warranted in this instance. DEER. That's all your last sentence is. You're implicitly tolerating absolutely shitty behavior. Doesn't matter whether or not you're apologizing, you're letting yourself be browbeaten and you're not enforcing any type of boundaries or standards. These guys are missing the point. What you're pointing to is a symptom, not a problem. This wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 08:59 AM
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This post is shitty. The two examples are both examples of terrible frame. It tolerates completely shitty behavior for no reason. When she screams "You got the Whole milk you homo!" "Fuck off." When she screams " you impregnated my sister!". "Yup. Is that a problem?"
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 08:54 AM
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it's always interesting reading posts like this. we have men going out of their way to make their wives gatekeepers of pussy and then get frustrated when their wives won't fuck them. i mean, helllloooooooooooo, you alone made the decision the decision she was the only pussy you have. you alone gave her all the power. you alone could take it all away, but nooooooo, you're a helpless fucking faggot assed victim. the ironic failure of all of this is that the more power you give her pussy, the less …
/r/askMRP03/02/16 08:33 AM
1

Good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 08:23 AM
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A big part, I'd say the biggest, of frame is recognizing that you are your own judge. When you feel dissonance, it's important to think whether that dissonance is because of your expectations or because of some other person's/society's/etc. Once you resolve that, the question becomes what do you want to do about it. It is also completely absurd to expect other people to understand what your expectations are if you fail to communicate them. However, don't make the mistake of thinking communicatio…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 08:19 AM
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Formatting looks awesome. Hobbies. It's hard to be DGAF and OI and walk away with nothing clearly productive and fun, to walk away to. You don't necessarily need something fun or productive to do, but something you'd prefer doing over "X". I used to turn down going out because I was happier sleeping - those were some boring people, but I digress. The fact is that I had a preference of something I preferred doing over another thing. Do not use the above sentence to justify your own bullshit lazin…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 07:10 AM
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your shitty and needy mentality is shitty and needy. completely unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 05:58 AM
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We're a little stuck in the "don't tell me what to do" loop that a lot of couples get into, where you can't take advice from your spouse. Way to completely deflect personal responsibility. You go guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 05:19 AM
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unrelated - i'm completely surprised by how poorly received you are at r/thebluepill. it's not that they disagree with what you say ... it's just that you write too much for them to be bothered reading. mindboggling stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 04:45 AM
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http://attractioninstitute.com/advanced-frame-control-101/ http://www.girlschase.com/content/get-rock-solid-frame-control-women-you-guaranteed let's start there. i'm looking for a TRP post as well, but I can't find it right now. i've tried to find a couple of examples that simplifies it to the core. let me know if these articles help and what kind of feedback you have to the links.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 07:56 PM
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Dread Progress: Currently on Stage 4 dread. Starting to establish the pattern that if she refuses sex, I get busy and scale back emotional availability for a bit. But I'm going super slow on this as she's pregnant. My solution to this - "listen, if you're not putting in effort to make me happy, i have to put in the effort to make me happy, which means i'm going to put less effort into making you happy." this didn't apply explicitly to sex, but might be useful for you none the less.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 07:41 PM
1

2 enters for a line break. let's make it easier for us to read and process.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 07:37 PM
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why do all of you retards keep trying to change someone who you don't control? the whole point is to have your own boundaries and enforce them. she doesn't meet standards. get 'em the hell out.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 07:16 PM
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I let her decide for me that I was taking the daughter to daycare because she didn't have her makeup on. This is really easy. "Try again." Obviously you're going to do it - I mean, it'd be poor leadership not too. But you can expect her not to volunteer your time, so she can phrase it as a request instead of a demand. Also, I'm still waiting on your follow up comments to my links on frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 07:10 PM
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0. From what I hear is that you're equation delegating with deferring responsibility.
/r/askMRP02/02/16 04:55 PM
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I sent you a comment with 2 links yesterday. In terms of frame, you need to understand what it is and the mentality behind it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 06:23 PM
2

if it's about managing anger, why is it framed from the value of women?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 04:27 PM
1

this is a very good point. being a parrot doesn't lead to congruent behavior. the majority of tests women can throw can be classified under congruency testing - are you actually what you say/act like you are?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 04:26 PM
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who cares if women have value or not. women are not the point of this subreddit. if you're focusing on women, you're doing this wrong. this post shows a poor level of understanding on the part of the OP
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 02:40 PM
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You have a misunderstanding of dread and have turned it into a covert contract. Dread, at its simplest, is about recognizing that you have options outside of your wife and getting the reference experiences that validate that you are an attractive individual that women like. The consequence of this is that if your wife is not meeting standards, you'll have no problem replacing her.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 02:37 PM
2

i was jerking it all night to intellectual political discourse. this was the brainchild of my refractory period.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 03:35 PM
2

would you agree about your shitty attitude or do you want to bullshit yourself as if that were semantics?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 10:07 AM
1

You've got great success. I don't think you even need any of the positive feedback usually associated with these. You'll figure it out. That said, this was glaring for me. The issue I’m having right now, especially in the bedroom, is that I still don’t feel like having animalistic caveman sex. I'm reading through your post and this one seems like a giant insecurity. You talk about owning all the other aspects of your life, and this one you just don't. If you don't feel like having caveman sex, w…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 10:05 AM
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Disclaimer: this reply is going to feature a lot “I want…” which may seem egotistical, but the reply is to answer the question of ‘what I want’ so there is no avoiding that. Don't apologize for shit you're going to do anyway. Jesus. It's so hollow. If I think you're a selfish prick, why do you give a shit? Wanting is the easiest thing in the world. The question is what efforts are you going to go through to make what you want happen. And stop talking about your girlfriend - she doesn't matter. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 09:49 AM
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Note that I'm reading your paragraphs and responding at the same time. As I look at her more realistically (or so I think) I enjoy the sight of her body less simply because I’ve stopped believing that I should think she is the most beautiful woman in the world. In a way that decreased enjoyment sucks. Don’t get me wrong I still like the sight of her, but just less. It may also not help that she has been letting go a little. Listen, the positive side of this is you can appreciate her as the real …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 09:27 AM
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don't do things b/c everyone else does. find the resources that apply best to your own situation. if everyone is hanging a picture and you're trying to drive a stake, you wouldn't want their little hammer would you?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 09:21 AM
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What does how you lift have to do with dread? Serious question I'd like you to think about and answer. So, not owning it because I still don't have the balls. I know what I want, I'm not going to make excuses or give reasons why, I want out, and I accept the consequences. But I am scared to act, at least for now. Yeah, you're taking the easy road here. Nothing to fault you on. Easy road is easy. But what I'm seeing here is a man to scared to take ownership or rectifying a shitty situation he got…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 09:16 AM
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What reading have you done about frame and frame control? What is your philosophical understanding of frame? Do you have a game plan on how to improve this aspect? You answer these questions for me and I'll give you resources I've come across that I think will be beneficial. Sidenote, a big part of these OYS threads is about laying the groundwork for frame. Everything else is secondary to frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 09:12 AM
1

Again, I'm looking to see what insights you guys have that could be contributing to this, and I appreciate your responses. It's better to talk through specifics than listen to these armchair pseudopsychodouchebags bloviate off of a single line in a post. The ego protection and butthurt is incredibly strong in this line. The difference between security and insecurity is that the secure person would discard bullshit as 'does not apply'. You, and many other posters who read my bullshit, respond wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 06:18 AM
1

hey hey. you're back. i was wondering what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 06:16 AM
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"I don't know, what do you want to do?" Or "What do you feel like having to eat?" If she wants to join me, great. If she had another suggestion, I'm all ears. Another way of leading without leading - have her give you suggestion and you'll pick. When I had dinner with my wife and I couldn't decide, I'd have her throw out different types of food and I'd pick one that sounded good. That makes it a cooperative decision as well - if that's important to you or her. You've been doing some great work. …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 05:14 AM
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reading your more detailed post - i'd say that the reason it annoys you is because you've forgotten and she's forgotten that you choose to let her be in your life. she thinks she has de facto status and as a consequence can be a negative asset. I don't know about you, but anything that I perceive as negative either gets fixed or gets tossed. If you can get into that mentality, without a sunken cost fallacy, you might be able to make good progress. Mentally, you need to get the experience which a…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 05:11 AM
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Something will set me off and I'll explode. I get pissed off sometimes too. I just try to be justified in being extremely pissed off - that's there's an underlying rationale I can explain. Controlled Anger is not a weak emotion - it may be the strongest. Emotional anger, like a tantrum, is childish. The challenge to this is you need to be a point where you can be completely honest with yourself and your emotional responses. If you aren't, you'll just end up bullshitting and rationalizing.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 05:05 AM
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gotta echo this sentiment. his ego didn't try to bullshit him much at all. he came for advice, got the advice, and took the advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 04:58 AM
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you have a golden portrait?! and your wife lets you put at it at the top?? wow. trop de alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 04:36 AM
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hahahah.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 04:29 AM
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what you want and what you're willing to tolerate are completely different. you're going to get what you tolerate, not what you want. right now, it sounds like you're the type of guy who will tolerate anything. i don't fault you, most guys fit into this camp. the fact that you're effectively trying to throw money (grammy tickets) at a woman as a covert contract for sex is effectively treating her like a prostitute.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 07:34 PM
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Then find a higher quality person who adds value to your life. You're thinking about it as if you're stuck with her. You have a choice. You're choosing to be someone who takes a dump on your interests. Why? Own that you have a choice and live with the consequences of making that choice. Edit: Or take time to put in the effort to encourage a better attitude. <- this is the harder road and requires more understanding, vision, and leadership which you may or may not be capable of at this time. Rega…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 05:40 PM
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listen, you're just coming to realize how pathetic you are. i get it. you didn't realize you were such shitty low value person before. it's not surprising that you're always getting fired. have you told your wife that you're a huge pussy you are yet or that you've gotten fired again?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 05:04 PM
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Pretty decent response. Somewhat humbling. Somewhat fighting. I can work with this. Is it really so black and white? It's better to think in black and white so you have are harsher in your judgment of yourself. Progress and lack thereof are clearly defined. Each failure is going to be a blow to your ego. Each success will be a 100% success, no halfway bullshitting your type of success. Just because you're thinking about things in black and white, it doesn't mean that world isn't filled with colo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 04:59 PM
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I've said this before. Act like a bitch, get treated like a bitch. Also, frame isn't just something you lose. It's your reality. You define your reality or you don't.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 08:54 AM
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jesus. stop typing/talking. read the sidebar. do the work. if i were still a moderator - i would've banned you the moment you hinted that you weren't interested in putting personal effort. when you talk about welcoming, MRP is way more tolerant of bullshit and people wasting community than I would be. You want answers to your question? Read the sidebar first and talk intelligently after you've digest and process core concepts. If you we can't agree with a foundation, then we're not making progre…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 08:52 AM
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to all the guys who bitch about their wives not fucking them - why are you limiting your options and voluntarily chaining yourself to her pussy? if you act like a man without options, you're gonna get treated like a man without options.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 12:58 AM
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if you can't figure out fact from feelings, that's on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 12:56 AM
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i just told you. "agreed. op is a jobless faggot." you want me to fuck your wife for you too while I'm at it?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 12:02 AM
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Fine, I'll go through your bullshit and reiterate why I'm fucking good at this. Two years since swallowing the pill. Sexless marriage (1-2 max per month), fat, working at a job that wasn't paying the bills, classic overweight, drunk, anxious, beta baby. In two years I've dropped 57 lbs, exercising, joined a band, tripled my income. Read the sidebar materials, followed the plan... and it worked. Translation: I made superficial changes, felt good about myself, and got the validation I wanted, but …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 12:01 AM
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Well no shit; I'm new here, lol. LOOK EVERYBODY. WE'VE GOT A HUGE FAGGOT OVER HERE. See that? No one gives a shit about you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 11:39 PM
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agreed. op is a jobless faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 11:22 PM
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sounds like the hamsters got it totally figured out.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 11:18 PM
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awww. beta baby is butthurt because he's not getting the ego validation he wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 09:46 PM
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so the reason that he got hired faster wasn't that he was more valuable, it was that it was easier. the fact that he was fired twice without a contingency speaks to his failures. the reason that i won't get shit for being unemployed and why /u/stonepimpletilists doesn't get shit for being unemployed (i'm guessing), is because if it ever came to being unemployed, there's already a well communicated plan in place along with timelines and expectations. the leadership in terms of a regular life situ…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 09:41 PM
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Tyler Durden was fucking Marla. The narrator was just watching. Just saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 07:32 PM
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Guys, I deeply love my wife and do not want anything but an awesome marriage. Really? Because it sounds like you're not willing to put in the work necessary to reap the rewards. This is a fine choice, but own the choices you make. Superficial vs. personality level changes. I mean, from this post, it's very obvious your mentality isn't anywhere close to being there. Just look at how much of this post isn't about you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 07:24 PM
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Her: "You need to get a job" "You need to cut the bullshit." Losing your average unemployed man is exactly 0 consequence. So think about that next time before you get butthurt about the fact that you aren't contributing jack to your family environment while your wife is rightly calling out your bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 07:22 PM
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I disagree. If you're writing, you're just another bullshit salesman like every other person who does the same thing. Putting bullshit thoughts to ink in no way implies responsibility or ownership. It's up to the user to decipher the applicability and value of the words on the paper. One of the most common things new guys do is deflect blame and responsibility from themselves. They're already really good at it - there's no reason you need to help them rationalize their deflection of ownership as…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 07:20 PM
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First - as a teacher, you actually have a responsibility to your students which you've taken on. You're also getting compensated for your time and responsibility. MRP is completely different. If anyone wants a time commitment and a sense of ownership of their problem from me can pay me. Until that happens, I don't give a shit about the failures of new guys and you shouldn't either. Giving a man a fish is the worst way to approach any situation because it teaches the wrong mentality. The common t…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 07:06 PM
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I mean, there's consequences to being a stereotype. Do whatever the fuck you want. bad advice simply because it fails to account for the fact that most of these guys are serious losers who will hamster the shit out of that line.
/r/askMRP28/01/16 07:10 AM
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GAMERGROUPIES
/r/askMRP28/01/16 07:08 AM
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Good, bad? Critique? You tell me first.
/r/askMRP28/01/16 02:40 AM
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you're a pussy. you might not see it, but everyone else does. stop posting. you don't care, remember?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 03:10 PM
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k
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 01:36 PM
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being a 20 year old french male in during WW1 sucked. same goes for russian during WW2. brutal. and then we get all the pussies we get here at MRP and all I think is what a joke.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 06:22 AM
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you should stick to posting in askTRP and jerking off to the indian porn you post. you're hopeless and useless.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 05:54 AM
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Whatever you want to bs you want to believe. I've met a lot of pussy assed indians who believe themselves to be the victim or circumstances. It doesn't bother me at all if you want to classify yourself as one of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 04:01 AM
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I don't respect anyone on askTRP. The place is worse than r/seduction.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 09:30 PM
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I'll tell you why you're completely wrong about this. And I'm speaking from personal experience. The more you buy into how race affects you negatively, the more you act accordingly, the more you're going around shooting yourself in the foot trying to justify your own bullshit about how the reason it's not working (or the reason you suck with women, as was my case), the less you take ownership. Most of these observations I'm basing on conversations with another one of my friends who had Indian im…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 03:20 PM
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bullshitting yourself with a "fake it first" mentality isn't good enough imo expect better from yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 01:04 AM
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yeah, sometimes. if i agree, i turn it up. if i don't agree, i say "it's not that cold."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 05:00 PM
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On our way into work the next day she was more silent than usual, and I figured now was better than any time to own my shit. I apologized, but not the way beta me used to but in a more understanding, constructive, and non judgemental way. I simply said, " I just want to apologize for last night, I shouldn't have spoken to you like that when you seemed legitimately concerned. I'll keep it down next time" She thanked me (which rarelyhappened before). I left it at this but strangely enough the tone…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 04:59 PM
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have you been fucking other women? because it sounds like you've pretty much relegated yourself to one option, and that option's not panning out. now you could just bitch about it, or you could do something about it.
/r/askMRP24/01/16 10:05 AM
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good thing this community isn't for you or the whole community then isn't it? maybe you can get the whole community to pat you on the back and wipe away your angst. ya know, start at /r/4chan and jerk your way up to r/asiansgonewild and finish up with a nice rub and tug from your /r/sandersforpresident homies
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 09:41 AM
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you havne't internalized anything.
/r/askMRP24/01/16 09:28 AM
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the difference between charming and seductive is stronger eye contact and more sexual intend. if you're socially calibrated, when you're talking to women, imagine them naked and orgasming. it'll change your entire body language. seduction is body language/non-verbal communications. words just fill the empty space. the most important part of flirting/seduction is to have intent. know why you are talking to that woman and what you want out of that interaction - and then own it while expecting it t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 08:39 AM
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If you live your life by letting others dictate what's possible or not, you're never going to get anywhere that you want. and to answer your question, of course it's possible. it's ridiculous to think that there's no one in the world that could achieve it. the question you're asking is - "can i do it?" and from the way you've framed the post, i'd put my money on no. you're the type of guy who wasn't fun, never learned to be fun, and can't understand how other people can be so irresponsible as to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 08:27 AM
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I'd always advocate for getting the external validation that reinforces your mentality of being a high value male. At the end of the day, the thing to realize is that if you decide to fuck another woman, that's your choice. If you can own it and live the with the consequences, that's how it goes. What it sounds like is that your wife isn't hitting some of your requirements. Well, I tend to say Expect Better. And if expecting better isn't working, then communicate your expectations better. And so…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 08:14 AM
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stop wasting people's time by posting. for everyone else, this is /u/bgp609. i wouldn't waste my time on this guy if i were you. he can't even put in the effort to google. this guy's first reaction when i called him out on his bullshit was to get defense, act like i'm a troll (read as: fragile ego protection), and reported to the mods! (act like a gigantic pussy instead of taking actions on his own). his question - from https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:spH7f01EMLUJ:https://w…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 07:52 AM
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i edited to add more context. he deleted his post again.
/r/askMRP24/01/16 07:50 AM
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yup. this guy's first reaction when i called him out on his bullshit was to get defense, act like i'm a troll (read as: fragile ego protection), and reported to the mods! (act like a gigantic pussy instead of taking actions on his own). his question - from https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:spH7f01EMLUJ:https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/41jyuk/wife_complains_about_lack_of_attention/%3Fref%3Dreadnext+&cd=2&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us I've been trying to following TRP advice and …
/r/askMRP24/01/16 07:46 AM
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maybe you should stop being a beta pussy, jerking off to assassin's creed, pseudointellectual bullshit, rage quitting, and deleting your posts and comments. stop wasting people's time with your bullshit posts when you're not going to apply none of it you fat fuck.
/r/askMRP24/01/16 07:27 AM
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any closer to not posting about inane trivialities yet? https://www.reddit.com/r/ChimeClicker/comments/41uatn/1_teemo_per_second_on_impossible/cz9mrbb guess not.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 07:27 AM
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why do i care again? that said - what do you want out of your post? at mrp, some guys fuck women on the side, some people don't, and some people do it together with their wives.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 06:33 AM
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kinda validation seeking. why do you give a shit if we think you're a retarded loser? the aim is that you progress and measure your own progress. that said, the FR hits on interesting points.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 06:29 AM
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you spend a ton of time jerking off on various subreddits. that's the truth. your post history gives this post much more context. i'd categorize you as a askTRP frequenter. and i don't have any respect for askTRP posters, especially askTRP "advice" givers. it's the blind leading the deaf blind and dumb.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 06:27 AM
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it doesn't. don't be a fucking pussy and try to justify your insecurities with bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 06:21 AM
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because you're a pussy faggot and a fat fuck who jerks it to video game characters. just look at your pathetic post history.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 06:20 AM
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i don't think this is victim puke. i think this is real suffering. i don't think real suffering is something most people experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 07:39 PM
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I'd say that OP's mindset is in order and it sounds like he's on the right path. I'd disagree. He's just replaced the nice guy b.s. with some other b.s and made it so that he's now living by some invented MRP standard instead of working to define his own standards and metrics. /u/druganswer but I'll be damned if most first posts aren't a whole lot shittier than this. This is self fellating with a false sense of superiority, which I think is worse. Expect Better.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 07:23 PM
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it matters because it highlights how full of shit and pathetic you are. your judgments are flawed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 08:58 AM
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oney is gay
/r/askMRP23/01/16 08:42 AM
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not seeing what this undeserved and irrelevant congratulatory pat on the back is supposed to achieve.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 08:41 AM
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no doubt I will cringe tomorrow and most likely delete this fuck you. own your shit. you posted this for a reason, own that reason. that said, i went back and read your post. jesus. your wife died. grieve how you need to and want to for however long you feel it is appropriate. it could be your entire life. the ultimate aim of RP, imo, is to be happy. if what you're doing right now isn't working, make the changes you need, don't wallow. it might be useful just to get it out. i'd highly recommend …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 06:47 AM
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I'm so beta I want to sit around writing this girl poetry and muse about how she might be "the one" but I know better. i totally get this. i was once a 14 year old writing emo poetry too. It's really fucking hard for me to contain my frustration and annoyance when my son screams in my ear. i remember this. every guy remembers this. women get hormones to help with this. we don't. the thing that's frustrating you is that you're trying to control another person. you're trying to control the kid's s…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 04:49 AM
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which is an individual value judgment and addressed There’s a tendency to approach every “Alpha” argument from what a guy thinks is righteousness; ergo, his personal definition of Alpha is what appeals best to his sense of virtue. He earned his Alpha cred, played by the rules, and by God people (women) should respect that. However, the sad truth is that prisons are full of Alpha males who simply channeled their drive toward destructive and anti-social endeavors.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 04:22 PM
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i love that post.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 05:49 AM
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We can't help with the emotional because the thing an individual is best at is bullshitting himself. If they aren't interested in helping themselves, they'll come up with any number of reasons why they won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 05:32 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/41x0jo/fucked_up_unsure_how_to_resolve/cz7fuvu I made a post that's relevant to this post. Nice post.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 05:25 AM
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just actually read this comment. every man should have the ability to execute all 12 levels of dread. if you don't have the skills to get to dread level 8, you should definitely get them. don't do this in front of your wife if you're happy, obviously.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 05:23 AM
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hey - i posted a few links about flirting and non-verbal communication in a recent comment. you should check those out. facebook, like everything else, is a tool. use it properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 05:18 AM
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we've had guys recently who were too retarded to understand that you shouldn't practice this when you're right in front of your wife or people of consequence.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 05:11 AM
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You're putting up with a lot of shitty behavior. That doesn't change simply because you're getting your shit together. That changes when you put in the effort to address it properly.
/r/askMRP22/01/16 05:06 AM
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On the first point, there is nothing missing in my fitness level, income or looks. I've got all that down, trust me. I don't believe you. I also know from this one sentence that you don't really understand how attraction works. It has nothing to do with the things you've listed. Which also means that the fact I don't believe you doesn't really matter. Personality is still half beta, and half angry, resentful asshole as I work to move away from beta. I'm aware of that and trying to reign it in. B…
/r/askMRP22/01/16 04:48 AM
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from - https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/420w7x/ltr_rp_men_gaming_other_women_what_is_the_rpw/cz6unqx The fact that the man has to use "going up to other women/day game" immediately tells me that he isn't a natural - or he hasn't gotten to a point where he is treated as a natural by other women. RPW users aren't chasing guys that 'have something to prove' - they're pursuing men that can create attraction naturally and display solid leadership skills. You want to learn the skills so …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 03:38 AM
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i loathe lazy people who look for handouts.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 10:07 PM
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A happy confident, content single father is infinitely better than a beaten down pussified man settling with a harpy wife. It sets terrible precedents for children of any gender.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 03:04 PM
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you're a very low value person
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 02:22 PM
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re-read your post and see if you see your own bullshit. let me know what your assessment is and then i'll follow up with mine.
/r/askMRP21/01/16 07:40 AM
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let me tell you about this cool little website called google. http://lmgtfy.com/?q=smv serious question after you ragequit yesterday - do you actually respect yourself? i sure hope not.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 07:04 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pshc7ohTMEk
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 07:01 AM
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i'd say personality is 95% of attraction but can be compensated for by looks. looks give you more opportunities to fuck up. if i'm completely honest, i find myself attracted to (i.e. willing to invest time and energy into) people with strong personalities. basic M3 model Attract. Comfort. Seduction.
/r/askMRP21/01/16 06:54 AM
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sigh stop bullshitting yourself to protect your ego. stop trying to bullshit your wife too while you're at it.
/r/askMRP21/01/16 06:51 AM
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sure. i'll answer your question. you failed.
/r/askMRP21/01/16 06:50 AM
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you're hamstering harder than a woman. you post this garbage looking for validation. is her complaint valid? if yes, own your shit. if no, own your shit.
/r/askMRP21/01/16 06:48 AM
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time is money. people pay all sorts of premiums for various preferences.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 06:42 AM
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and a meh MRP outcome. this is bullshit. complete fucking bullshit. mrp is about men taking responsibility for their own happiness, which really is just an extension of rule 0. op seems pretty content. good on op. lets put it this way, if you think mrp is about saving one specific marriage, you've already confused and on your path to failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 06:41 AM
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that's why a man's gotta respect himself first. if you don't respect yourself, no one else will give a shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 06:40 AM
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which in turns solidifies the underlying foundation of being an attractive man versus simply bullshitting yourself. the guys who've done it and can do it will ignore. the guys who own their shit and know they're lacking in this area will use this as motivation. they guys who hamsters will find reasons to pursue inaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 02:44 AM
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Game - do the newbie challenge. Go a mall and approach 10 random women and engage them in conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 04:11 PM
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Context matters much less for new posters because their situations aren't nuanced nor special. I'd bet 99% of new posters fall into the category of "I haven't taken responsibility for my own happiness." "STFU, lift, read the sidebar, individualize the contents to your own situation, stop playing the victim. Come back when you've internalized these concepts for 1 month" would be more than enough to get started.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 02:10 PM
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the only reason i haven't taken a paternity test is because it lets me make fun of the wife. at this point, she's more inclined for me to get a paternity test than i am just so i can't say "well, we don't really know if she's mine." anymore. i don't get a paternity because i don't want a paternity test, and because i was pretty adamant about paternity before my wife ever got pregnant, i don't feel the need for one. if i wanted one, i'd get one done. your mentality is still that of a slave. now i…
/r/askMRP20/01/16 05:08 AM
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that fat wapo fuck and two old guys with delicate sensibilities.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 04:38 AM
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she still thinks of herself as your mother. at some point you're going to have to rock the boat and assert yourself as a teenager. "I'M NOT A CHILD MOM! I'M A TEENAGER NOW! I CAN EVEN DRIVE!" again, paternity test. honestly though, for your own sake, it might be better just to forget red pill and be a good indian boy. you've been caught in this half-in half-out limbo and really not doing yourself favors. you might be better off if you convince yourself just to do everything as your wife wants be…
/r/askMRP20/01/16 04:30 AM
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my advice - make sure you get a paternity test. anyway, you know where to start so get started.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 04:03 AM
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today I saw my kid's heartbeat on an ultrasound. the 5 week heartbeat was a game changer for me. watching the little sucker fly made me go "wow".
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 04:01 AM
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What is your vision for your family and how do you intend on implementing it?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 10:56 PM
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My daughter kicks ass. She's 5 months old and poops herself. It's been a pleasure to watch her grow and learn about the world and change. When my wife gave birth, the strongest emotion I felt was "purpose". As an individual, I could live for myself and be content with it. With this helpless useless little baby, I couldn't do that anymore and it was my duty to make sure she gets a chance in life. like marriage, kids can be the greatest thing in the world, it's just that not everyone is suited for…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 10:48 PM
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for the record, i noticed she posted about some self described relationship and discarded it. it didn't register to me. "she has a boyfriend. how nice. i have a car." - which means I agree with /u/stonepimpletilists
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 10:36 PM
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hahahaha. shit that actually made me laugh. i went back and read through your post. it's a good intro post. Why I am here today: since immersing myself in this subreddit and the sidebar my life has vastly improved. I am my old self again in so many ways, and I have learned to love who I am as a man. I believe that this is the true foundation of self-improvement. Can you look at yourself in the mirror and like who you see? I wish that I had documented my journey to this point, because there are m…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 10:34 PM
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Own your shit. It's the sticked thread at the top of the subreddit. - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/41no4p/own_your_shit_weekly_january_19_2016/ I'm glad you're here and happy to see that you didn't react to the caustic response.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 10:29 PM
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Lets flip it a bit more - if the woman is already adding a bunch of value to your life, not wanting to have sex while she has a flu isn't a big deal. If she isn't adding value, then using a flu as an excuse to not have sex becomes obnoxious.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 10:08 PM
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Why do I give a shit about your entire background? Do you give a shit about mine? Like you said, Acta non Verba. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lTJj4wbmAhk#t=20s also, this would probably be perfectly fine in OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 10:03 PM
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Predictors of success. Sure, I'll list them. Accepting that you're not a special bumblebee. Any time you see a guy making introduction posts or acting if somehow their situation is unique, those guys are most likely going to fail. They're going out of their way to single themselves out and be special snowflakes - basic validation seeking behavior. If you can't accept that you're not special and no one gives a shit about your success or failure, then you're going to look for the mommy treatment e…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 09:57 PM
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complete clusterfuck right there. too bad the guy backed down and punked out.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 09:06 PM
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in this particular sub I feel it would be disingenuous or disrespectful? Meh. Not your fucking problemtm. People who can't see to the message from the messenger are going to find reasons to discard you anyway. Happens to me all the time. According to my ppd flair, I'm really a blue woman and just tired of the conglomeration of pathetic men.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 09:00 PM
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I won't comment again you're playing the victim. if you didn't go out of your way to mention you're a woman, no one would've known or cared, which means this entire thread about whether women were welcome wouldn't have happened because no one would've cared. like i said above, if you make valuable contributions, no one would give a shit if you have a vagina or two.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 08:44 PM
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No issues with you being a woman or your post. Bring good content. Add value and it doesn't matter who you are or what you do. Going out of your way to give people a reason to doubt or question your is mitigating your ego from sharp criticism. You post "I'm a woman" gives you a hook of - "Oh, well those guys were assholes to me because I'm a woman." Get rid of that and the only conclusion you could draw would be the response based on the merit of your contribution. Personally, I try to be as rac…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 08:40 PM
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they typically don't have much content beyond saying "you are weak" (implicitly "I am stronger"). if you can't separate your assessment of self from the assessment of others, you've inherently tied your self worth to failures of others. in other words, for me, "you are weak" means "you are weak". it says absolutely nothing about me. the egotistical man will take that sentence and make it a comparative value judgment instead of a standalone individual assessment. mrp talks a lot about the fact th…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 08:28 PM
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you are a set of characters on a computer screen.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 07:09 PM
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just don't get oneitis for your delusions - i.e. the imaginary woman you create in your head instead of the flawed person you chose to invest in.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 06:58 PM
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If you didn't point out you were a woman, I wouldn't have known. The fact that you're a woman made no difference to your comment. your comment could've stood on its own merit, instead you devalued it by adding a contingency. the way I'd handle it is say hi to my wife, give her a kiss, and go back to fucking around with friends. there's absolutely no need to sit together if we weren't going there together in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 06:55 PM
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Edit: one more, I should learn to keep the posts more compact. your posts in this thread should be for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 06:54 PM
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She knows it's your work and accomplishment but views you guys as a collective. That's a good thing if you also view you guys as a collective.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 06:50 PM
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I also tried to initiate sex which was met with a rage filled rejection with her yelling "What the fuck have I done to indicate I wanted to have sex tonight!" at me agree with scurvemuch. why did you tolerate such a bullshit value leeching attitude? a mantra i repeat over and over again is that women will act as shitty as men will let them. also, your wife isn't the only woman who can fuck you. get that mentality in your head. she just gets first dibs. and if your wife is the only woman who will…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 06:34 PM
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you're trying to force yourself to trust a woman you don't trust. you have good reasons to not trust her. once you understand that that's the situation, you can leverage it to your own benefit.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 06:29 PM
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shit tests are about congruency. are you as grounded in reality as you portray. if you are, her bullshit won't bother you. if you're just pretending, her bullshit will.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 06:27 PM
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mate. you're probably so fat that you'd have difficulties lifting your arm to punch anything. go back to jerking it to your assassin's creed characters. just because you're a gigantic pussy, doesn't mean that the world is filled with guys like you. there are guys like me, who guys like you are afraid of talking back to because you are cowards. you wouldn't have the balls to hit anyone even if your pride and worth as a man were on the line. and that's because you have no pride nor worth as a man.…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 05:17 PM
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interesting post history. your issue is inexperience with women. oh. and to give you useful advice - her issue are not your fucking problemtm. don't make them your problems. also, she's peddling bullshit - hence inexperience with women comment. you're being played for a sucker.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 05:16 PM
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after seeing some of the bombs that have taken place over the past couple of months, MRP and RP in general are incredibly detrimental for men who fail to introspect and apply their own critical thoughts to the process. i made the mistake of assuming that most men take responsibility for themselves and assess independently, but it turns out there's a significant chunk of them who are just socially autistic sheep who blindly follow a script. this stuff will fuck up their lives and marriage if ther…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 05:03 PM
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It comes down to guys who are insistent on failure are going to fail. These guy don't know that they're insisting on failure. for example, alpha_as_wolf was bound to fail. stonepimpletilist was going to succeed. thatonemarriedguy is on the way of succeeding. Society has bred a sea of bp males. It'd be a shame to let them drown because they don't know any better A blue pill chump, as in this thread, is not going to have the fortitude to make the changes necessary to succeed. It's not that he does…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 04:52 PM
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i'm contributing less and less because of the coddling of the indignant beta male. this guy already has the mentality of a person who's going to fail to implement this properly and then blame RP instead of doing any type of introspection.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 03:30 PM
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Autistic spergs who are going to fuck up their marriage should not participate in red pill. You are an oversensitive, pussified autistic sperg who should not participate. cry more pussy.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 03:25 PM
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you're really an effeminate pussy aren't ya. are your delicate sensibilities hurt and insulted by someone being mean to you? do you have a gigantic douche to go with your gigantic pussy?
/r/askMRP19/01/16 03:23 PM
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i'll be perfectly honest, if askMRP mods bans me, I'd send you $50. i sent the mods a request for you to be banned too, because you've already failed. doesn't seem to pacify her like TRP says it ought to. you're such a weak, intellectual lazy man. you should fuck off from the RP sites and stop wasting people's time. this social interaction stuff is not for spergs and you'll ruin your marriage in the process.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 01:54 PM
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oooh. beta male uses 'defensive curl'. it's super effective!
/r/askMRP19/01/16 01:53 PM
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doesn't seem to pacify her like TRP says it ought to. what kind of stupid lazy bullshit is this. are you fucking stupid? you ever consider the reason your line doesn't work is because you're full of shit and she knows that you aren't a man nor are you busy with man activities? shit, look at your post history for fucks sake. the amount of pseudo-intellectual self-fellating bullshit you participate in disgusts me and i do the same shit. you could call me a hypocrite and i'd simply respond with the…
/r/askMRP19/01/16 06:14 AM
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pussy
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 04:44 AM
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yeah. i saw that and thought lol. joke post is joke. the only woman close to hb9 is Sofia Vergara and that's only because she's rich, famous, and charismatic.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 06:50 PM
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sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 10:12 PM
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ok
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 07:54 PM
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if you can't learn anything from a movie/book/fable/story/epic/poem/television/anecdote/thought experiment, that's on your pathetic nature, your laziness and ineptitude, and you as a low value person. go ahead and chuck out Descartes, Homer, Camus, Locke, Aesop, and a whole other slew of people who've put the time and effort to understand the human condition to your own detriment. feel free to stay inside the cave. maybe you should just stick to to being one of the many lazy inconsequential angr…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 07:00 PM
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you're the personification of the fucking problem. instead of taking what you can out of the movie you decide to chime in with some stupid bullshit with some "but...", as in but don't do anything because of <xyz> bullshit rationalization. you could <x>, but it might <y>, therefore you shouldn't <z>. this is what your comment exemplifies. and your line of bullshit is the fucking problem. and the worst part? lazy, stupid, cowardly men will read your comment and use it as justification for their in…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 05:51 PM
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I don't disagree with laying out coherent reasoning for your thought processes. I do it all the time. Most guys take feelz to mean anything that comes out of your mouth. This is wrong - it actually only applies to the victim puke beta shit that's incredibly prevalent in new guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 09:18 PM
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be a man worthy of respect and then expect it. conceptually simple. challenge is implementation.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 08:10 PM
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I don't NEED my wife. I WANT my wife. The faster guys realize this, the better off they'll be. And the sooner they'll realize that if the wife is actually a totally cuntbag, they won't want her either.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 07:37 PM
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Simplify. As in simplify the problems so what you're trying to solve is focused.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:57 PM
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Nice response. OP got butthurt. You laughed off the ridiculous fantasy with an equally ridiculous fantasy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:53 PM
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I just showed up since it was advertised online too.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 08:13 PM
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Your inability to use those tools properly is what turned you into an asshole. The line of inspiration.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 07:35 PM
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I would have been hired, but department is small, and they want someone to hit the ground running. Clearly not selling as well as I could. Had examples, told the story, lots of excitement, negatives spun as positives... I've only had 4 interviews in the last 16 years (college/military) so I assume practice will sort this out. I found the career fair at a local community college useful for this type of stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 07:28 PM
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AWALT concisely means that the notion of a fairly tale romance with a happily ever after without necessary effort does not exist. The notion that your woman is special and eternally dedicated is bull and the sooner you realize this as a man, the sooner you can start putting in the effort to become a high quality individual women (not your woman) and people respect, value, and cherish. The extent and quickness that a woman is willing to leave you and stop putting up with your low quality behavior…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 07:12 PM
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Toilet paper doesn't make you stick your finger in your asshole. OP shouldn't blame the tool for his misapplication.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 07:01 PM
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Get the divorce papers. Why are you going out of your way to show that you have no follow through? Why are you giving her reasons to think you can't handle your shit? Whether you go through with it or not is different, but right now, she absolutely thinks that you're too much of a bitch to actually leave her - hence why she can get away with being a cunt. /u/stonepimpletilist is right. somehow you think that checking out hot women is wrong and somehow your wife can browbeat you into agreeing. ht…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 06:52 PM
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it's really simple. expect better. get over the sunken cost fallacy. you made a shitty choice for 10 years. making a shitty choice for 11 years isn't going to undo the first 10 years. my wife knows all about MRP. i tell her things that are interesting to me. i expect her to react appropriate and add value to my life. it's pretty simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 01:22 AM
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There are lots of guys that come in here who can't handle the fact that they're a shitty husband/leader/father/etc. Their egos reflect the insecurity and weakness that's core to their being. Those guys are going to fail.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 10:40 PM
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This guy never had a shot. Take a look at his first post - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3oz7tw/acta_week_1/cw1qdlj?context=5 and just for shits and giggles, take a look at his last post -https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/3zmu5h/whats_gotten_in_you_youve_changed/cyntutz?context=5
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:46 PM
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yup. but sex is easy. really easy. divorce isn't a prerequisite to fuck other women as you already know. there's a reason you got married isn't there? if it was out of blue pill obligation, then fuck the marriage. figure out how to get out with minimal loses.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 01:41 AM
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There's a handful of vocal mrp posters that post purple tinted stuff. It's not tbp. I read their posts. They're pretty funny. But honestly, I've mostly made it not my fucking problem at this point. I have no problems letting purple flounder. Still, I'd say the time to get ban happy is long past.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 09:25 PM
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I really liked your post, so that's why I'm commenting. I've got to work on gaming her more. I'm pretty natural at it with other women, but I'm having a difficult time breaking out of the rut with her. This is the wrong thought process. What's happening is familiarity and complacency results in naturally taking things for granted. The reason it's different with other women is because they're new, so you have to impress them - that's the default mindset of a high value male. With your wife, becau…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 07:15 PM
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Get better with linux. No idea how to approach this one now, unless i have a server, is hard to think of what I need more than Ubuntu for. Have to look at what kind of short term project I can use to increase linux bash scripting knowledge. LAMP administration etc. get an aws account on the free tier. incredibly trendy currently. cloud computing/ IoT type things. raspberry pi is hobbiest stuff - might be cute, but won't mean jack on a resume.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 06:57 PM
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if useless drivel were equal to achievement, i'd just go to ppd. my suggestion, start getting ban happy and kill the purple tint. almost all of the comments in this thread as concern trolling/emotionally based disdain, i.e. useless, inactionable b.s.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 06:52 PM
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It's not worthwhile to fill your time with bullshit that you're half-hearted about. Don't waste your time with fluff. Spend the time and energy to learn about being passionate and having contentment.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 09:36 AM
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of course this sub sucks now. it's an increasing echo chamber of blue pill thought. live and let die. where die = apply a combination of random bullshit to ruin marriages, to r/tbp's schadenfreude. you don't have anyone who understands the application of core concepts... and those who do are drowned out to the blue pill echo chamber (see: thread, this). no point teaching people who don't want to be taught.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 02:23 AM
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people want the intellectual wank and mental gymnastics. you don't see many guys focusing on getting the results they want. they wax philosophical before accomplishing the goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 09:42 PM
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I'm in the minority who doesn't think your wife is a cunt. I agreed with you on this, until she started trying to fight the internet and prove how right she was for the better part of the last month. It's completely destructive behavior. High quality people add value - being right is usually just a byproduct and RPW is really good at identifying crappy behavior and attitudes in women.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 02:06 PM
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Cool. Now go be happy.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 09:36 AM
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I have noticed this a lot lately on this sub. Guys are torturing their wives' words or behavior into shit tests that don't exist. Manifestation of guys and their insecurity w.r.t. relationships. Instead of pedastaling wife, they've now pedastaled an imaginary Chad. So they try to replicate this imagined behavior except for one problem - they're not fucking chad, and they don't have the tact, social awareness, and/or confidence that chad has and instead end up like socially autistic retards. "Sto…
/r/askMRP06/01/16 08:36 AM
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tl;dr - op is a fucking moron. "Your hands are cold" leading to physical discomfort is somehow a sign to ignore and continue. It sounds like OP got four opportunities and somehow managed to continually be a retarded fuck. It also sounds like OP may very well be a wife beater. OP, you really should just go back to being beta nice guy, because it doesn't sound like you're smart enough to understand the nuances required to not completely fuck up.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 12:44 AM
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meh.
/r/askMRP04/01/16 06:54 AM
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Casual mention of lying makes it pretty obvious why you're not getting it.
/r/askMRP25/12/15 06:49 AM
1

a lot of red pill theory is absolute shit when you try to apply it to specific situations the difference between my wife and OPs? my wife knows it's important to make me happy as well so that I can focus on making her happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 09:15 AM
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Building this will take time, but I'm willing to commit to the effort although at times I sincerely wonder if it's worth it. It's easier to make a new impression on a blank slate than a painted canvas.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 11:34 PM
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You're wrong. Any of you who read this guy's post and find yourselves agreeing with it should recognize that your blue pill sensibilities are going to fuck up any personal progress. But if you're happy with that, good on you. I'll tell you why too. The poster above me focuses on all sorts of nuances and special case type thinking. This is pretty much your rationalization hamster. He's the type of person who thinks that everything is a nuance. Well, when everything is a nuance and special case, t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 10:07 PM
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overt contract. If she cheats, the marriage is over. If she becomes addicted to something: gambling, alcohol, meth, whatever, same deal, marriage is over. If she slaps my face, marriage is over. I have never said these things to my wife. what part of this is overt then? would I be right in getting pissed about it? what purpose does getting pissed serve? does your fragile emotional state help you progress? it seems pretty "overt" to me that spouses ought to treat one another respectfully. And if …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 10:03 PM
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Act like a bitch, get treated like a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 08:44 PM
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The goal isn't to try to bullshit your wife. The goal is to get to a mental state where you really aren't mad.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 02:56 AM
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She just doesn't care enough to actually fuck him. Feel good, self-centered style of caring, like liking facebook causes.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 12:42 AM
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It's pretty fucking simple. How important is it that she fucks you? If she's not fucking you, are you willing to go elsewhere? If not, then shut the fuck up and stop whining because you're not pursuing a solution. I calmly replied, "no really, it's fine. I'm not mad," I bet you were mad though you lying sack of shit. Otherwise, why would you be here.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 12:37 AM
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south park had it right. what I would give for a real life version of Super School News.
/r/MensRights17/12/15 09:27 PM
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Yup. I've noticed this. Mostly it boils down to "Vagina double plus good." NPR also panders to victimhood, which is why I've stopped listening. There's a segment on oppression/being offended in almost every show.
/r/MensRights17/12/15 09:23 PM
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TL;DR: My wife has too much clutter and it leads to fights. I take responsibility for failing to lead her on this point, but I don't know where/how I failed or how to proceed. I'm looking for help, not to blame her. how can you say you're taking responsibility when you haven't put in any real work of trying to figure shit out. http://lmgtfy.com/?q=how+to+be+an+effective+leader
/r/askMRP17/12/15 09:13 PM
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jfc. "wah wah wah. how do i impress her? wah wah wah". this is you. and you wonder why you aren't attractive. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3wwzfb/own_your_shit_weekly_december_15_2015/cxzw5h0
/r/askMRP17/12/15 09:10 PM
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what the fuck is wrong with you. owning my shit. sure you are. which is why your post is about you and not her. try "how to win friends and influence people"
/r/askMRP17/12/15 09:08 PM
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"Fuck off." - because you have to assert your masculinity and dominance and show that you don't give a shit about her petty whining. This is sarcasm. Partly.
/r/askMRP17/12/15 09:06 PM
2

Your post is rambling. Your thoughts are poorly organized. Why so much focus on weight? Read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP17/12/15 03:47 PM
2

Yeah. I definitely do my thinking in binary, but my execution is absolutely not binary. It's very nuanced. Simplifying a system is good for understanding it in principle, but each and every system is nuanced and complex. This is something that newbies and parrots don't seem to grasp.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:46 PM
1

https://www.mint.com/canada It does that type of budgeting pretty automatically.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:44 PM
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Dump her. Obviously. But here's the issue - you spent the entire post whining about the actions of some bitch and some guy trying to bone said bitch. What? Do you need MRP's collective approval for actions you want to take anyway? If MRP said, "holy shit. what the fuck are you doing?" would you change your mindset and crawl back to her? It's a joke. She's your "LTR" - which doesn't mean diddly fucking shit as you've just demonstrated. It's completely banal. You learned that woman are nice warm f…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:29 PM
1

side note, one name was turkish, one was indian, very glad I put them into google translate to hear pronunciation. Keep this in mind for next time. Is very nice to hear 'yup, exactly like that' when introducing to someone who most likely says 'close enough.' Any chance to signal I do my homework is a good thing this is a cool idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 08:02 PM
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oh man. i just misread it. those are texts from another guy. they're still fucking gay and OP overreacted because of his beta ineptitude. if http://oi68.tinypic.com/2zolvro.jpg is the line, lololol. you know what the situation is right? hot girl with a beta orbiter who's giving her validation through text. it actually means diddly. - see also http://thoughtcatalog.com/phoenix-askani/2014/02/heres-what-texting-with-a-creepy-guy-looks-like/ http://imgur.com/a/F15Hn - not mine. friend of mine. vari…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 07:14 PM
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Hahahaha. That's funny as hell. And actually totally awesome. If that was some passive aggressive act, that is 100% on point passive aggressiveness. If it was just a defacto, I have $100 so I should spend $100 (I can absolutely understand this line of thinking as well), then the message of saving money was lost somewhere or she might be a retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 02:38 PM
2

The amount of text and useless bullshit coming from those comments is so fucking gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 02:27 PM
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You made a promise and failed to keep it. Stop fucking whining. Your father in law had to step in because you managed to suck. Your wife had to step in because you managed to suck. If you don't want other people picking up your slack, don't slack. End of story. I just told my wife your story and she flat out said "own your own shit."
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 07:09 PM
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Point is - In order to get the sex I want, I still have work to do in order to increase my SMV. WRONG. This is absolutely wrong because you're bullshitting yourself. You're not looking to get the sex you want. You're looking to get the sex you want FROM YOUR WIFE - which means that you've deferred all control of your sex situation and it literally does not fucking matter how much you raise your SMV by because at the end of the day, you don't have any power. You've deferred it all. You're treatin…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:55 PM
1

Same reason Donald Trump doesn't say I'm sorry. Appeasement for other people's grievances/emotions is weak shit.
/r/askMRP15/12/15 07:30 AM
2

Whatever bullshit you gotta tell yourself.
/r/askMRP14/12/15 08:06 PM
2

Some bitch says "she loves you" and you're quivering in insecurity and self doubt about your boundaries like a little bitch? C'mon man
/r/askMRP14/12/15 08:03 PM
1

This holiday season, as an experiment, see how disproportionate your gift to your LTR, GF, or SO is compared to what you get back. You'll be so pissed off that you'll laugh at how meager, thoughtless, and unimaginative her gift is compared to yours. What gift?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 07:58 PM
2

I actually hate the notion of "you have to reach <x> before you should think about making a change". Imagine if you told someone to take that attitude to a job, yikes. As you're starting to make progress, you should be starting to implement better standards - just like as you're starting to get the new skills necessary to improve your professional career, you should be looking for opportunities to put those skills in action, even if they aren't 100%. Aim higher, not lower. The notion of "you hav…
/r/askMRP14/12/15 04:53 AM
1

Wtf is IA?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 04:35 AM
1

It's always easier to make a first impression than it is to change an existing opinion. If someone's actively sabotaging your growth and not adding any value, I'm always for getting rid of them. Most of the time, the wife is simply responding to an extended time of shitty captaining, so there's a certain level of resistance that's expected - but this lady is actively looking to sabotage any type of efforts as she's demonstrated in the thread chain. So - this goes back to another core belief of m…
/r/askMRP13/12/15 05:59 PM
4

She's not trying to understand. She's putting the onus of being convinced on everyone else. She also demands that to be convinced first before trying anything. And she's being unnecessarily combative on top of it. If this is her idea of understanding and compromise, then she sucks. The thing about beliefs is that the only person who can change your beliefs is you.
/r/askMRP12/12/15 08:07 PM
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At this point, having read this, you should just dump her. I'd bet money you could do better. sidenote: that thread was more entertaining than a lot of tv shows. /u/Vampiresquidina's sole redeeming trait, from what I've gathered, is that she's hot - and that's probably going to go away soon. she's shamelessly described herself as a harpy and has demonstrated that she's an unpleasant person. expect better. edit: Oh. I forgot to mention the main reason you should be ditching her. She is so complet…
/r/askMRP12/12/15 08:09 AM
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I agree with you. "You know, crying is really unattractive on you." poof Expecting women to act like adults is not the worst thing in the world.
/r/askMRP12/12/15 07:16 AM
2

She says your only lovey to me [the way I want] when you want to do stuff together. [which also happens to be the only time I'm making up right now]
/r/askMRP12/12/15 07:14 AM
1

If she continues, put some physical separation in between you and her. Shut the door, put on your headphones, head out to the bar. I'd do something more active - "Hey. You're being annoying and unlikeable." Although to be fair, I've never had to deal with this. My conversation is usually more of "Hey. Would you get me something to drink?" followed by "okay." sometimes followed by "oops. i forgot. i'll get it now." if I'm ever busy work/play/otherwise.
/r/askMRP12/12/15 07:05 AM
1

the hardest part is internalize a productive mindset. it looks like you're doing your best to get there.
/r/askMRP12/12/15 07:03 AM
1

I don't buy it. It's only my "fault" when I KNOW the rules and still lose the game. If this happened to me again, absolutely all my fault. But not this, and I be willing to bet not you. Anyway, now you know the rules and here's to you winning the game. Bullshit. You're rationalizing your way out of personal responsibilities for your failures. You want a pity party because it's unfair that you bought into everyone else's bullshit? Jesus fucking christ. You're a successful businessman. Imagine if …
/r/askMRP12/12/15 06:55 AM
1

Well, you put in a proper effort to post this and no one's given you a good answer so far. The short answer is: you're giving this girl the power to judge you. The long answer is: you're thinking about this all the wrong way. Should I internalize wanting the same high standards that she’s professing, own it, and turn it around on her? I can see that as owning the frame, but at the end of day she’d be technically winning, right? Doesn't fucking matter. The goal at the end of the day is to be comf…
/r/askMRP12/12/15 06:48 AM
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My cliches - Women (People) act shitty because men (you) allow women (people) to act shitty. Not your fucking problem. Expect better. which all goes towards the idea of being a man who adds value in all aspects of your life - i.e. a high value man. The key point for me is to focus exclusively on the things you can control -- and not worry about things that you cannot, including problems which exist outside of yourself. So it always strikes me as odd when anything that can be frame as "make sure …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 03:34 AM
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I could easily just say that you're wrong and leave it at that. Imaging your one-to-one interperonsal relationships are some great class struggle is pure delusions of grandeur.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 03:23 AM
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which leads to the next question -- why is this a good mindset for someone starting out and trying to improve their marriage?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 03:22 AM
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This is how the hamster wheel starts.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 10:15 PM
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If she perceives you as not being committed, then more sex doesn't mean she's more satisfied in the relationship. Why is this your fucking problem? Why are you, the OP, suggesting that people make it their fucking problem?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 09:10 PM
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Then I broke frame a few days later. Her best friend suggests she joins her in greece in april with the fiance. texts that she'll probably leave me at home, and head up there. (BP days, one leaves, one watches dogs) Had a moment, ask why she never invited me. After the "didn't think you wanted to go" told her that I was coming, and that I didn't trust her 'friend' (backstory, was the one who told her to delete all her messages and keep her mouth shut before her confession my first post here). Ga…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 10:06 PM
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i wonder how many people use this thread as a "i accomplished something by talking" deal and then proceed to do jack diddly shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 09:45 PM
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her desire for them to see her grandmother together. over Christmas. Lets put it this way, if I wanted to see someone over the weekend, and they say "Okay. I'll see you next Thursday." my response would be "Uhh.. no." If you can't see the issue with dictating someone else's schedule, that's your issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 06:45 PM
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"I have put together the holiday plans. Together we are going to my grandmothers, but then we will travel to your grandmothers for New years" This is shit advice and here's why. She's already said she wants him to go for X-mas. You've basically completely disregarded this and effectively said "what you want doesn't matter". I can't believe you honestly think leadership is 100% disregarding what someone else wants to do and then dictating their behavior as a follow up. It's not like she said "I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 05:29 PM
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that you're a faggot and it sounds like you're raising a faggot too.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 10:45 AM
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start with the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 09:41 AM
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realistically there isn't a quick fix because you somehow are fixated on this single idea. ideally, you'd be a person with a spine, vision, and self assurance -- but that doesn't happen overnight, and I doubt you're there yet. I think that its only fair that you go with me and see my grandmother since I did that for you last year and I didn't see my grandmother last year . for me, my answer would be "too bad?" and if I wanted to be a conniving, i'd probably say something like "listen. i want to …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 09:08 AM
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now you have 2 wants. figure out which one is more important and make it happen. the "she did it for you" last year thing is a covert contract. it's manipulative and very low quality. avoid them. worst case - you guys figure out how you want to prioritize your christmas plans and end up seeing each other later. if you want to extrapolate this behavior - your prioritize her over yourself - where do you see this type of behavior leading you in the future? you're already asking questions about comp…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 08:58 AM
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you're probably going to come back with some bullshit like "well it's christmas and i want to spend time with her." it's just another day. if it somehow gains more value than every other day of the year where she's already not seeing you and already fucking chad, that's on you. i guarantee you that if you buy into this line of thinking, she will as well, and then she'll have even more reason to be pissed off because you didn't make it special for her. now you have 2 wants. figure out which one i…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 08:34 AM
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you are so gay. seriously. so fucking gay. my wife is going to see her parents. i'm going off to SE asia for a x-mas/NYE vacation. you know how we decided that? we decided what we wanted as individuals and figured out if that could work. seriously. you're so fucking gay. -"she wants me to go to her grandmothers". there's what she wants. -"I want to go to my grandmothers." jesus. it's like you fuckers want to go out of your way to make this shit incredibly hard by coming up with all sorts of bull…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 08:31 AM
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Go fuck other women.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 08:27 AM
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I'll reiterate my stance on threatening divorce. If my wife wants to threaten it or use it as leverage - okay, boom, done. I don't give a shit whether she means it or not or whatever other b.s. she comes up with. I expect better and value myself enough to get it. Just because a bunch of pathetic fucks put up with it doesn't mean that I need to be a pathetic fuck and put up with it too. If I followed how the majority of MRP does shit, my life would be absolute shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 08:44 AM
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fyi. you're already going to fail because your mentality sucks.
/r/askMRP03/12/15 06:05 AM
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you know who qualifies their failures in order to mitigate their shortcomings? cowardly pathetic failures.
/r/askMRP03/12/15 06:00 AM
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She = 28 times. I = 16 times and more than few of those are to do with "her" anyway. Also, so fucking what? You think strangers on the internet really give a shit about your pathetic life? Throwaway account with no post history and no indication of any personal effort. Too many of guys are wasting too much time responding to what may as well be a troll account.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 05:45 AM
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I'm wondering what my move should be here. Oh cool. Since you're asking me what to do instead of taking personal responsibility, I'll tell you. You should bake a nice apple pie and let it cool down to a moderate temperature. Then you should fuck the apple pie, make a movie out it, and make billions.
/r/askMRP02/12/15 01:26 PM
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You're fucking retarded. You know how statistics work right? Applying generalizations to specific cases makes you look like an idiot. It's like you're so dogmatic that the notion of nuance is lost - or you're just too lazy to think through the topic for yourself to it's logical conclusion. If 80% of neckbeards are pedophiles, that still doesn't mean that you can just point to any given neckbeard and say "he's a pedophile." Statistics over a population yields a percentage. Statistics over an indi…
/r/askMRP30/11/15 06:23 PM
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someone's off to ride the COCK CAROUSEL. I am not interested having plates, I just feel wired to have and maintain an LTR. you're a lying faggot, but at least it's obvious why she doesn't want to stick around with you.
/r/askMRP30/11/15 02:32 PM
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Hahaha. You got downvoted for this. Ridiculous.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 06:52 PM
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Watch more 90s rom-coms.
/r/askMRP24/11/15 06:36 AM
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Yeah, great except for the being treated like a child and not making decisions part. I guess I'll learn to love that, eventually. I don't treat my wife like a child. In fact, I expect her to behave like an adult with adult decision making capabilities. At the end of the day though, I follow my vision and hope she has enough faith in me to follow my vision too. She is always free to make the choice to leave and be on her own if she's not happy with me and pursue her own goals/vision if she's not …
/r/askMRP23/11/15 09:18 PM
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sounds like you were expecting her to not be detrimental and she failed to not be detrimental. , but I was still steaming when I got home, and wife could tell. She asked me what was wrong, I said I didn't want to talk about it embrace your annoyance when you are annoyed - i.e. own your shit. pretending like you aren't affect when you really doesn't work. by sharing, this may actually give you the added benefit of being open and trusting of her (counterintuitive as it sounds). however, if she ask…
/r/askMRP23/11/15 08:44 PM
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The healing process is about 6 weeks after vaginal birth.
/r/askMRP22/11/15 06:46 PM
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I'd be hesitant taking shitty advice.
/r/askMRP22/11/15 06:33 PM
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the only part you fucked up was backing down. i doubt you said what you said to be intentionally hurtful. i'd bet it came out of your mouth because you believed it, but then you didn't own your shit. too bad. instead of being hard core red, you recoiled to being blue. you had an opportunity to remind your wife that treating you poorly is a poor choice, but you pussed out, so now treating you badly only results in an annoying temper tantrum instead of a situation where she might lose you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 05:37 AM
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Expecting better feminism The fuck does this even mean? Anyway, apparently some posters in MRP are now for "yay western third wave feminism" type stuff which means so long for me. Apparently a self proclaimed blue piller, but only licking the pill gets to give lip service advice. I hope they ban for both of you because you guys are doing a disservice to guys who want to solve actual problems with this ideological junk but this is not my fucking problem, so I'm not going to make it my fucking pro…
/r/askMRP29/10/15 05:57 PM
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Did you read through any of those articles to educate yourself before you started opening your yap again? Because you just saying the same thing over and over again doesn't make it true.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 05:34 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=feminism+destroying+families and a specific TRP source https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1yb7jw/the_decline_of_the_modern_women_feminism_has/ so your unsubstantiated crap is just that, crap. feel free to take a look at any number of those articles for a detailed breakdown.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 05:16 PM
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Your frame is strongly feminist You realize that feminism has effectively been fighting for the erosion of the nuclear family for the past 30 years right? Go ahead and google male feminist if you want to see the type of self hating men you're encouraging these guys to be. http://bbsimg.ngfiles.com/1/23899000/ngbbs4f8a519390a8f.jpg
/r/askMRP29/10/15 04:55 PM
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ROFL. What in the fuck is this shit. Hahahhahaa Your frame is strongly feminist and critical of the insurgent radicals Thinking feminists are not anti-male. Hahahhahahhaahha. This is so full of shit I'm betting you live in a pigsty.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 04:22 PM
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You communicated honestly and openly. Yeah, she'll be pissed and it'll take time to process, but she'll either reflect on what you said after she calms down or she won't. The question you threw her is - do you want to put in an effort to make our marriage work better or not? In this case, I think you have your answer. The problem with most newbies is that they are not in a position to communicate honestly. Their definition of honest communication is a huge covert contract. Yours isn't. Mine isn'…
/r/askMRP29/10/15 01:34 PM
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I’ve been into MRP for only a few months. I’m a guy who’s naturally good with women and life in general. If you're good with women naturally, why are you asking how you did? I mean, there's no reason for me to fuck up someone who's just good right?
/r/askMRP29/10/15 12:24 AM
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No vision on how you expect your life to go. Everything else contributes to your inability to make your own vision happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 08:48 PM
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It's just so much more personal with empty eyes.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 05:08 PM
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good luck going through life as a retard
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 02:50 PM
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by not making shit posts wallowing in self pity.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 08:22 AM
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Look into getting treated for mild depression.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 09:37 PM
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Yup. Indifference I think is the worst thing that you could have in any relationship -- the person you interact with just fades into the background. Once you figure out if you actually want your wife or not, take action to make that happen. Floating around idly is bad. If you figure out that you do want your wife, own it and take the steps necessary that ensure you're happy with your own effort in the relationship. If it's not being reciprocated or met, move on. Shutting down, walling off, and d…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 09:33 PM
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I asked for help because I'm not good at this Then maybe you should start adopting the mentality of people who are instead of being this negative nancy fuck. But you poor baby - you suck at life and being a husband, and you think somehow everyone else's gives a shit about the fucking failure of a life you've created for yourself. Maybe I need to fuck your wife for you too. Are you seriously too fucking stupid to be able to enforce meaningful consequences on your own? I mean, you're either incred…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 09:20 PM
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You're not wrong. For this specific case, my thought is that there's so much indifference and apathy. Apathy is not conducive to making friends and influencing people -- which is what the ultimate goal is isn't it? When one person tries to engage and kill some of that indifference, I think the right response is to match the effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 06:50 PM
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Your marriage is going to continue to suck because you're too fucking retarded to get the point. Stop posting your frivolous, useless, and time wasting bullshit. You talk about this spectrum and yet you haven't done jack fucking shit on the spectrum to implement any meaningful consequences - because no one respects you, not even yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 06:44 PM
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because it's your own fucking fault for being a gigantic whining pussy who isn't worth respect or adoration. continuously trying to hamster this as your wife's fault, which you've been doing for the past two weeks at least, is weak as hell.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 06:37 PM
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shit post. you guys who are answering this low quality shit aren't doing anyone a favor imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 06:33 PM
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you're not really giving her a reason to give a fuck about not saying no are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 04:22 PM
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that conversation is pretty lulzy.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 04:01 PM
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horse water
/r/askMRP27/10/15 03:56 PM
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What kind of consequences do you have in place? Divorcing my wife is always an option that's on the table - not the first option, and probably not even an early one, but it's an option.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 03:43 PM
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Should I go meet with wife's parents and respectfully ask them to stop giving their daughter money? I'd set the expectation with my wife with the consequence being that if she asks for money for her parents, you'd go talk to the parents and then simply be disappointed with her. When my wife accuses me of not caring about her and only caring about our boys, should I agree with her? Shut down bullshit. Controlled anger is very useful. Now, if you don't think you can stay on point, focus on the mes…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 03:41 PM
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She sent me a list of things we "need" to buy Amused mastery and fogging works better here. Focus on the need vs. want distinction. Pretty much nothing is "need". She obviously doesn't respect me, thinks I'm completely selfish and don't care about her at all, and it hurts. I find myself thinking about what she thinks of me far too often. You can only control and take care of you. You recognize your long standing fuck up. It will take about as long to get that confidence back. Are you able to sho…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 03:18 PM
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don't be an autistic sperg
/r/askMRP27/10/15 08:08 AM
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STFU is great if you fuck up every time you talk. If you can talk without being a complete fuck up, STFU is pretty meh.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 07:45 PM
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ya sure
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 06:36 AM
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Good troll attempt. 5/10.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 05:25 AM
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ugly fucking teeth
/r/askMRP26/10/15 01:28 AM
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It's very effective communication. Yeah, it'll hurt some feelings, but that's the point isn't it? To effect change in those who are willing to make those changes. I want people improving or fucking off, not stagnating in the middle wasting people's time with their fru fru bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 03:11 PM
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I love using name calling and insults in my posts. It's so jarring to emotionally sensitive weak guys. They get so caught up in the insults that they don't even recognize their inability to separate the message from the delivery. It's such a learn "but that's mean!!" response and distracts from being able to get value out of the post. It's an individual's own weakness that stops them from being able to separate out content (and then figure out how to apply that content to their own lives - which…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 02:59 PM
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The marriage is over because the woman (obviously) didn't respect the man enough to seriously recognize that the man had options and she has competition in the examples given above. In both of those examples listed, the marriage is obviously proceeding and obviously going well - with the husband actually getting the respect due to him. Instead of talking, he acted to demonstrate a fact of knowledge he already had that the wife did not - i.e. he was attractive and she had a lot to lose out on.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 02:34 PM
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you are one emotionally abusive cunt going around talking to pretty women like that. /s
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 01:29 PM
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Stfu. Read the sidebar. Asktrp is worse than garbage
/r/askMRP25/10/15 12:31 AM
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during 8+ months (a long time) can beta up even the most alpha of men. Bullshit.
/r/askMRP25/10/15 12:30 AM
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How Is it your father's fault that you failed? Completely ridiculous notion. Look, there are lots of weak men out there. You're just one of the pathetic mares l masses.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 11:14 PM
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But being proud(?) about how cheating on your wife makes her more sexual with you (in your case) is abhorrent. ... Sorry if I come off a bit preachy but someone needs to call out cheating as unacceptable. You throw out an opinion as if it were fact. This you forcing your moral prerogative onto others - making you a judgmental faggot since TRP is amoral and pragmatic. Attractive high value men are more desired. But let me rephrase your phrase for you But being proud about posting on the internet …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:06 PM
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hahahahaahah. yeah, that's the funniest shit. she could jump to half the posters in here and she'd be doing better. on a related note, found out yesterday that paul revere had two wives.
/r/askMRP24/10/15 02:25 PM
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Justify your alternate position then. The burden of proof is on he who makes the accusation.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 02:23 PM
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10paragraphs of deflection and drivel. what a nerd
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 01:59 PM
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yeah... i deleted that. i just.. really fuck people like this op touting this holier than thou shit - this chick is a unicorn (except for the fact that i'm just a gigantic pussy) mentality. the whole "equivalence of marriage" garbage is actually cringeworthy. the quip about fencing being a manly sport. man, the girls i've met in fencing were gorgeous and feminine. i've visited clubs in europe, australia, and north america - not that i'm any good, it's just that fencing is a welcoming community. …
/r/askMRP24/10/15 10:05 AM
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holy shit. if the community told you that the best way to get your wife to initiate sex is to jump off a bridge would you do that? are you too much of a fucking pussy to dictate your course of action or are you defaulting to "the community" because you want to abdicate personal responsibility for the choices you make due to your own cowardice?
/r/askMRP24/10/15 09:40 AM
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this is a recovering beta male trying to clumsily negotiate desire through pseudo overt means. the flaw here is that he's thinking she might actually miss having obligation sex. the primary aim of a woman fucking a man she values is satisfying his needs so he remains happy - everything else is secondary. what if she doesnt value him much?
/r/askMRP24/10/15 09:36 AM
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youre failing bc you wont stfu dont fit a square peg into around hole are you a man she wants to please? are you a man free of judgement?
/r/askMRP24/10/15 08:56 AM
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Thing to remember is that the real challenge is how to make this work for you and your own circumstances towards your own goals and your own vision.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 05:20 AM
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Resolve testing. You know who has fucking resolve? Babies. My 2 month old daughter - when she's unhappy, she simply does not give a fuck and cannot be negotiated with. She will bawl. Until she can understand consequences better, she will win. It doesn't help that 99% of the time she is cute as a button and calm as hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 05:15 AM
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Just a reminder, though I doubt you need it, you control you. That's it. You know how this works in theory - time to learn through practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 05:12 AM
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some guys just want to be virtually patted on the back by strangers they don't know from the internet and feel good about themselves because they're such needy pathetic fucks. my favorite is when internet people tell me about my own personality and how angry i am.
/r/askMRP24/10/15 05:06 AM
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google the pdf. use the torrent sites.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 04:59 AM
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To her? What do you mean? My wife knows about MRP and my PUA days because change doesn't happen spontaneously. One of the things I had to unlearn was my blue pill programming - 2008/9 PUA was my catalyst. I was proud of the changes I made and where it took me. So I just figured as you're going about implementing this stuff, you would've offered a bit more of concrete of a reason about why you're making changes. One of the first things I learned in pickup is that if you're talking to a woman, and…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 04:32 AM
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oh yeah. i dig his posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 04:28 AM
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Thanks for posting this. I'm have a couple of comments, but don't think it's worth bothering since OP can't even be fucked to make his story legible. If he doesn't think our time is valuable enough to make it a slight bit easier to follow his story, well, fuck him. Especially considering you actually already went ahead and did the hard work for him - he just needs to copy paste. I really don't give a fuck about OP and we as a collective don't owe anyone shit. If a poster wants solid advice, I ex…
/r/askMRP24/10/15 04:19 AM
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"wait. is that a problem?" (not just a response, but also a default mindset fellas)
/r/askMRP24/10/15 03:55 AM
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I agree. I try to assess going forwards and backwards. I don't try to dwell or wallow. If your enemy is yourself (which it always is - since those are the tendencies you are overcoming), then the best way to defeat him is to know him better than he knows himself. If you know your enemies and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles... if you do not know your enemies nor yourself, you will be imperiled in every single battle. ^ this quote perfectly captures why your ego is su…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:45 AM
1

Who's the third again?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:45 AM
2

link please. i want to see this guy and how it's going. you didn't make an alt where you post to incest did you? because that'd be funny as hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:44 AM
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we can invest a bit of time to make people in our live's better. it's not a cliff.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:42 AM
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Straight cash homie
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:20 PM
2

I completely missed this point. This is a good point.
/r/askMRP23/10/15 03:34 AM
1

truth of the matter is that you cheated because you were weak and cowardly and didn't have the strength of courage to see your own vision through. you're obviously actively trying to change that. from the work you've done and the readings you've done (you must've mentioned MRP by now), you understand the flaws in your mentality and you're trying to change that. now, if you are going to cheat fuck other attractive women, you will do the courtesy of letting her know before hand - you will be forth…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 03:24 AM
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Doing less work is very different than putting in less effort though. I don't disagreeing for being paid more to do less work, but the effort I put in is high and take great pride in what I do - otherwise I'd make a change. The mentality of a dude thinking they're smart for being able to slack is simply too common. It's laziness being paraded as smarts. You see it in the guys who think "my boss doesn't realize how little I do tee hee."
/r/askMRP23/10/15 03:18 AM
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Oh fuck, reddit doesn't give me an option to ignore you. Still getting butthurt over people on the internet huh? Way to be a high quality fucktard. Do you ever just look in the mirror and say "Man. I'm a giant fucking whiny loser." Because I would. If I were you. Every single day.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 08:51 PM
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I'm not against marriage. I'm for incredibly thorough vetting. There are great women out there who can be made even better by a proper leader. Spend more time on RPW and less time on TRP - shit is inspirational because they highlight what women can be. For example - https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/3pidoh/fr_my_very_1st_rpw_field_report_and_some/ For the record, I am against most men and most women getting married. Most men can't lead a marriage and most women aren't worth marrying…
/r/askMRP22/10/15 08:31 PM
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Why are you proud of putting in less effort? Beta as fuck if you ask me. Oh, you're this guy - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3p7uo3/what_was_that_wife_fucks_me_without_wanting/cw5k6jq?context=3 Yeah, you're most likely a loser projecting. I bet your boss is a fine person, but you're a little victim bitch.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 08:28 PM
2

Either choice is fine. But you'll need to weigh the pros and cons for yourself and by yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 08:07 PM
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suggestion -- if people are too lazy to put the proper emphasis into things that you've put effort into, fuck 'em. i read through the whole post because it was succinct and nuanced. by distilling it (read as: dumbing down), you've done the person reading the tidbit a great disserve -- plus fuck lazy cunts.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 08:06 PM
5

yeah, i hate when guys devalue their awesome posts too.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 07:52 PM
1

do you use bittorrent? it's available there too.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 06:37 PM
2

Seriously my desire to lift, and wake up in the morning seems waining. I'm battling it well so far, but it seems to be getting worse. Will that return, and/or is that normal? Has anyone experienced something similar? For Clarity, my sex drive is good, I just find myself less motivated to go lift, and be aloof, and other daily things. You're getting comfortable with your current state of mind. This is not necessarily a bad thing as you continue to own your shit. You've made so much progress that …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 06:22 PM
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the man who is unafraid of women is the man a woman can trust be unphased by her womany bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:42 PM
1

Most likely. "Oops. Retarded cunt. But ultimately not your fucking problem."
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 04:54 PM
1

mrpCamper's statement is a great example of amused mastery.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 04:03 PM
1

Your mindset is very solid. You just have to pay the price for your blue pill beta fuckups. You know better now, time to just own it and let your wife get acclimated. I told my wife that in my teens and early 20s I was insecure and lacked confidence. She met me when I was 25 and said "I can't imagine you that way". Your challenge is to get to the point where your wife can no longer imagine you reverting back to the way you were. Taking charge of your personal responsibility goes a long way towar…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 03:56 PM
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You really get off on stalking people's comments? Of course. When I'm dealing with a total retard, I'm curious about what type of retard I'm dealing with. With regard to pulling tail, it could be because I'm tall, handsome, and well-to-do. I own a house in the country and a downtown loft, drive a brand new muscle car, fly around on an expense account, and basically can do whatever I want whenever I want. Hahahaha. Holy shit. This sounds like the concocted fantasy of an RPG nerd who imagines what…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 02:57 PM
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Once I just left the house once and she went nuclear, like she has extreem abandonment issues. I gave her a warning to stop talking about something and then I calmly went out the door in mid sentence. I do not have anywhere near enough context to walk through your life. "Hamsters eat logic and shit more hamsters" https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2zbqng/dad_tells_me_that_concern_about_being_right_can/cphhgk8
/r/askMRP22/10/15 01:47 PM
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So you fight like a woman mirroring your wife's actions? Fair enough. I don't know your situation, but she's your wife. You should know what her insecurities are.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 01:37 PM
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What strategos said. The way to move forward it to focus exclusively on what is in the realm of your control. Your own thoughts and feelings and behaviors.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 01:27 PM
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Really? The warhammer incest guy pulls tons of tail? Are you sure you don't look like comic book guy? It's a good thing people never lie on the internet. Learn to look at the world from a different perspective -- you know, think about things from the average guy's point of view. And your suggestion is for guys to be into incest and RPG?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 01:23 PM
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Yet. I tell her I am worried about her long term health and enjoyment of life and think that this is the same thing as the accountability she offers me in certain areas of life. She is pissed Of course she is. You're bullshitting her. You think she's fat. Period. QED. End of fucking story. That's all folks. The fuck do you think you gain by lying to your wife? Do you think she's too fucking retarded to not see through your bullshit? I mean, we know that's why you're here right? My wife is 34 yo,…
/r/askMRP22/10/15 05:44 AM
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Stop making excuses and start figuring out how you can make it actually happen. There's a ton of strategies you can try and they're well documented on the side bar so this notion of "I can't" is utter bullshit. It'd be more accurate to say "I haven't"
/r/askMRP22/10/15 05:39 AM
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Social interaction is a learned behavior. (I'd argue that everything is learned behavior.) The consequence is you can become better at stuff - but it also implies effort trying to do so. My impression of most people in TBP/TRP/PPD is that they're lazy as fuck and don't actually want to do the hard work of making a change. I get the impression from a lot of new people who post in MRP as well. They might think they do, but should push come to shove, their hamster will have an excuse.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:36 AM
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so I resemble that insult. I'm guessing you meant resent? In which case, read the following please. I actually meant you literally wrote like a retard since the op who wrote "gender dimorphism" is autistic. Statement of fact with no intent to be insulting. I just thought it was funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:00 AM
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Controlled vulnerability is a good skill to have. Everything in my post is already solved, but it highlights the emotional struggle I went through to get there. This means that 1) it shows I'm a real person with real issues but 2) I've still managed to get my shit sorted so there's no extra burden on the person listening. When a woman says a man is cold or aloof or she feels disconnected, it means that she does not see the emotional process - not that she wants the extra burden of the emotional …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 04:22 AM
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Except you actually post to r/incest. I mean, you do you and all..., but it's no real surprise why you don't get lifting is it?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 11:36 PM
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i think this is new.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 10:35 PM
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lol
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 10:35 PM
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hahaha. you wrote like a retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 10:32 PM
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Maybe you should go back to posting in /r/incest then.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 10:30 PM
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The one thing I notice in the post, which is different than most posts like this, is that you're making a ton of "I" statements. Your wife's mother is an interfering cunt. But, and I'm going to be very fucking blunt with you, the problem here isn't your wife. The reason you are failing is because of you. I will also tell you why you are failing. It is because you are playing not to lose, instead of playing to win. Your mindset is all fucked up and you are absolutely nowhere near vicious enough f…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 09:35 PM
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love it. i also love the edit from the person above yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 09:26 PM
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I brought a couple paint-balling with my wife and I and he initially told me she would hate it. this chick was putty in my hands, she fucking loved every second of it and talked about how she hadn't felt that alive in forever. If I wanted her, she was mine because I gave her something her husband couldn't, something different. You need to know your wife and be the ever evolving Man who doesn't get complacent. Always improving and always keeping your wife on her toes. Challenge your woman! If she…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 07:45 PM
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So what you're saying is that my first world blue pill problems make me relatable?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 07:13 PM
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why respond verbally at all? just look at her like the retard she is. "You really believe that huh? interesting...."
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 07:02 PM
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"I didn't say that. I'm not going anywhere. If you want a divorce, that's fine. You're free to leave. These are my kids and this is my home. I'm here and not planning on leaving" Own your shit. Exactly. No bullshit. Simple, straightforward, and honest. Most people, their ego prevents them from being simple, straightforward, and honest even with themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 07:01 PM
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LOL. the post you linked. the guy there. he's the literal autistic guy I felt bad about trolling. he absolutely refuses to take personal responsibility which i'm guessing is a side effect of his autism.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 06:15 PM
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fair enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 05:01 PM
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Clothes, hair, and accessories in particular. I like it when she looks nice and I want to encourage her to look better than "frumpy". She's not a HB in her 20s-30s anymore. Absolutely. Me too. I just expect her to be smart about how she gets there - not $130 haircut every 2 months for a style that I don't even notice. My wife is European though, so she's already a bit snooby about how the average american woman dresses - her looking nice was never an issue I had to contend with. Need - I always …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 04:43 PM
1

I remember being on a low dose of Wellbutrin XL and was amazed at how it affected my energy. Brain chemistry is a really cool thing. It did give me a kick to see the world a bit differently.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 04:40 PM
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So why not try their recommended methods and see where you are in a bit before rejecting it outright? It seems to me like you think you want to help yourself, but you don't actually want to take the step.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 04:31 PM
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I was prescribed bupropion (Wellbutrin) by my GP when I came in with this complaint but never tried it. A psych recommended something similar to Effexor but I shot that down immediately due to sexual sides. So you have two good suggestions from professionals and you decided your best course of act is to do exactly what you've been doing? Are you literally retarded?
/r/askMRP21/10/15 03:50 PM
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But I don't want to seem butt-hurt. But you are, aren't you? The isn't to not seem butt-hurt, the idea is to get to the point that you aren't butt-hurt by random bullshit. This is the root cause, you're trying to address a symptom. Root cause takes work.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 03:49 PM
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How do YOU want to act? Not, how would /u/whinemoreplease act? Most important thing about frame is congruence.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 03:47 PM
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Why wouldn't you want to be home when you have a new born? Surely a new born child takes priority over hobbies and travelling for a while Very blue pill viewpoint. This notion points to sacrificing individual happy and pursuits for the sake of family/baby/etc. Trust me, I thought about that too... about whether I even should take off on this trip with college friends or whether my obligation is to stay with my family. To give a bit more detail, one of my hobbies is the actual act of flying - bei…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:44 PM
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knowing it's satire, this thing is funny as hell.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 05:59 AM
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I would in general say that your biggest challenge is going to be interpersonal interaction. Person to person interaction is filled with so much implicit communication. 70% of communication is with intonation and body language. Realistically, I don't think you're in any type of position where women or sex should be a focus or priority. You've bought into the red pill notion that the modern woman sucks, which is great as a guideline, but absolutely shit as a governing rule. The potential for high…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:52 AM
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uh.. no game here. just an unconfident, insecure individual afraid of being forthright with wanting to spend time with women on a sexual instead of platonic level. so instead, pretend to be nice and feign interest (not genuine interest) just to spend time, hoping that more time = more attraction. in my opinion, i don't think that any of the red pill or blue pill or purple pill subreddits are going to be good for you. just from this brief interaction, I would bet money that you take a lot of thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:36 AM
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well.. I know that now......... at first I thought you were just a stereotypical 22 year old male beta nice guy using deceptive tactics to get close to women because he knows no other way (lots of them, trust me. i was one. it was pretty pathetic - feigning interest to get a girl to spend time with me (sentence structure is on purpose)).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:28 AM
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I'm curious which rebuttals you think are inappropriate? My view is that with a SAHM, finances are even more my discretion since I'm the only one who's cash flow positive, which means I get more influence in dictating priority. I think the mindset for me is basically, $50 here and $50 there add up quickly - so the notion of "it's just a few bucks" should never take root in my relationship, even if she's making her own money. I don't like frivolous spending. I think it's irresponsible and indicat…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 05:27 AM
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Okay. I didn't realize you were literally retarded. So I'm just going to back off and let you be.... you're not able to function and interact as a normal person, so my interaction won't even be helpful for you because I have no idea what issues you are facing in life. For the average person, sure I can imagine because they've been socialized properly. For you, I have absolutely nothing. Trained medical health professionals who understand and can help folks in your situation are important resourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:21 AM
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Good looking people work really hard to look good. Definitely not gonna hate on them. The first step is to get men to a place where they no longer hate themselves and stop buying into other people's reality. An outlet. RP, TRP, MRP and the manosphere in general is simply a tool to help people copy in the ways they're comfortable with. Also, shitposting in PPD is apparently really, really easy. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:41 AM
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I just don't feel like I can pull it off anymore (not true, probably, but I just feel so self-conscious now that I self-sabotage all the time). And that's just it. If you rely on your physique to form the foundation of your swagger - if you falter or flail in your physique, your swagger is going to suffer as well because you've now linked your source of confidence with something that's temporary -- you're going to get old and ugly (see also: post-wall cc riders). I want to use Peter Dinklage as …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:16 AM
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I actually think you already know the answer but are afraid of fucking up at the implementation. I will give you a hint though - she is your wife, she'll give you a few chances to fuck up before she's going to divorce you. I doubt she'll divorce you for trying to have sex at odd intervals. From the OYS thread - I finally told her something romantic like, “I am horny as fuck and I’m not going to be interested in doing anything else until I cum.” She said, “Well all right then,” sent the kids outs…
/r/askMRP21/10/15 04:02 AM
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I've learned that my interests are MY interests. The girls just want to see me happy. And that's such a hard concept to grasp that I struggle with it sometimes too. It took me a couple of days to get it in my head that leaving my wife to take care of our newborn infant daughter in Europe while I tripped around Asia was okay.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 04:00 AM
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Yeah, mostly because of the heavy emphasis on lifting. Don't get me wrong, lifting is key - but the idea is that lifting gives you the swagger vs. having the swagger intrinsically. It's sort of what the original poster was talking about - how guys are poor at understanding what makes men attractive. If I had to choose between high physique and mediocre swagger vs. high swagger and mediocre physique, I know which one I'd choose. Along with swagger goes charisma, charm, personality, and boundaries…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 03:30 AM
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A theme for us (late 40s, married 22 years) is my wife feeling like I'm not "defending her" if I don't jump down the throat of somebody who she feels is saying something offensive to her. Do you agree with her? If so, defend her. If not, laugh at her ridiculousness. If she can't act like an adult, treat her accordingly - no picking and choosing. Expect better.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:25 AM
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She told me this week that she doesnt like it when I slap her ass or pulled her hair. She's been a bit contrary to MMSLP. What do you like? If you have no vision, of course her's is going to dominate.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:23 AM
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You'd think that if she were a high quality woman, she'd be able to take care of herself with no man. I don't even just think that, I expect that. You can draw your own conclusions from here.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:16 AM
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so again, who the fuck are you? what do you bring to the table that your opinion should matter? i don't even disagree with your opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:06 AM
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Clothes. Limited budget or her own money - and even then scrutinized by me. If she's wasteful, she can contribute to bills and rent first. Food. Doubles my cost but that's okay. ~500/month (not living frugally). Accessories. Depends, but most likely nope. Hair salons. Nope. Nails. Not a chance in hell. $50 for superficial stuff? lol. Dates. Okay, but I like going out anyway. doesn't even count the wedding itself and a ring $340 at the court house + 800 cafe with hors d'ouvres catered for 40 peop…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:04 AM
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My wife laughed. Softly, but still a laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 02:58 AM
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The times of day when it's an option (toddler naps/sleeps or is occupied) are fairly obvious doesn't seem like initiating from an alpha frame. seems like initiating from a toddler's frame.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 09:46 PM
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I like your post because you point out that it's a human thing instead of a woman thing. YOu're dead on.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 09:24 PM
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even TRP really underestimates the power of swagger (aka frame).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:52 PM
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and how are you doing compared with how you want to be doing?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 05:27 PM
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he absolutely sucked
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 05:25 PM
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so pretty much the very baseline of what's expected of an adult?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 05:18 PM
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Lets put it this way - I'm motivate to make life work the way I want on a daily basis. A lot of that work is figuring out how to make it happen. The rest of the work is executing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 04:00 PM
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so my suggestion is to stop talking about what you're planning to do, and focus on what you have done instead. what can you really take credit for achieving?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 03:50 PM
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What concrete steps have you taken in figuring your out your problem? Humans have this psychological thing where planning to do something feels releases the same brain chemicals as doing something. So when people just "plan" to do something, they're rewarded for it even if they fail. Recognize how bullshit planning is and make sure you're taking active, actionable steps, and realize that you're a fucking failure until you start walking those steps. i berated the hell out of some guy for this exa…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 02:57 PM
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i'm against people asking for help and talking about this sub too. i expect people to be taking actions and making steps forward - goal orientated help seeking vs. generic help seeking.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 02:46 PM
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Suggestion for clothing is this - find the stores you like and sign up for their newsletter for clearance events. You should be able to get good clothes from their website for pretty cheap. I can get 3 pairs of jeans and a couple of shirts from express for about $100. I finally told her something romantic like, “I am horny as fuck and I’m not going to be interested in doing anything else until I cum.” She said, “Well all right then,” sent the kids outside, and sucked me off. It was great. But th…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 02:38 PM
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yes, many things. you should be embarrassed by your shitty vague questions and complete inability to understand different contexts. but........ you probably won't be because.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:51 AM
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Depends on whether you think game is a learnable skill or not. If it's a learned skill, then it can be taught. If it's innate, then obviously all gurus are scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:46 AM
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OP was a gigantic faggot. Woman was cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 07:06 AM
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edit: poster was /u/Moogle_Knight2 - definitely check out his profile to see his pity party. wish someone had the archive. can't believe you guys all validated him. i have no idea what the point of this post is. She didn't love me anymore, I wasn't attractive to her, it didn't matter what I did, it would never undo how she saw me. holy shit. this part is absolutely right. if a person's judgment of you is already set, it is hard fucking work to change it - so to all the two week hero/unplugging g…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 06:32 AM
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Great first post. I enjoyed reading it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 06:23 AM
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I would say because it weakens your frame. My reality says I know I care about my wife. If she questioned me on it, it would cause me to question her faith in me, which would lower my perception of her. Give me a legitimate grievance she has, not some bullshit she may as well have read in cosmo. I expect her to be smarter than that tripe, especially considering how blunt I am about my thoughts on modern day romance guidance by a female dominated society.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 06:17 AM
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hahahaha. fantastic. that's exactly how to handle random affirmation/validation seeking insecurity bullshit. laugh in their face (which you didn't do, but could have because of how ridiculous it was and how little gravitas you gave it). great example of frame 101
/r/askMRP20/10/15 06:14 AM
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and....... a therapist is going to help you how? by listening to you talk and charging you $150/hr? i mean, if that's what you want, you can send me $100/hr, and i'll give you a number to call - can't guarantee i'll listen because I have better things to do, but i'll guarantee i'll give you just as much useful advice, which is exactly 0. in response to your edit - i know my work offers confidential mental health services. i'd probably start there or google and definitely not a bunch of retards o…
/r/askMRP20/10/15 06:09 AM
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so, my brash opinion is that "I wish I knew then what I know now" is often used as an excuse for bullshit whining. i love bitching myself - i do it pretty often, but i never bitch in lieu of making progress. my wife will never see me complaining for the sake of complaining. if i'm complaining about something, it means i'm doing something to get it taken care of. so, i've heard you complain about the hindsight thing more than few times, what steps are you taking to move forward and solve your pro…
/r/askMRP20/10/15 06:04 AM
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hahaha. i think this is pretty funny because we have separate bank accounts and i always make fun of my wife when she uses the word "need".
/r/askMRP20/10/15 06:00 AM
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You keep trying to pin responsibility on the woman, which is all well and good in principle, but a completely shit strategy in practice. Deflecting blame is a cowards approach (and mostly useless whinging) which is why you see it so discouraged. Trying to pin blame on another person is usually just an excuse to whine.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 05:54 AM
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Yeah, your 18 year old completely dominated your reality, which begs the question - what are the serious consequences that's he's facing? Because not being able to drive your car doesn't match the level of disrespect to me. Not a big deal really - "dad is being a cunt so can you pick me up?". He dictated your entire sequence of emotions. Your neighbor is a cunt too, although a well intentioned one
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 05:47 AM
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She's overweight and unattractive. Crab bucket mentality. Stop putting up with shitty people. Expect better.
/r/askMRP19/10/15 09:33 PM
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Well, not sure why you're making her problems your problems. In my mind this is a case of "not your fucking problem". Unless you can change or control her mind, all you're pandering is to her whimsical emotions - i.e. she can bullshit and hamster all she wants irrespective of what you do. Your mistake is listening to what she says. Standard recommendations: shut the fuck up, lurk more, lift more, read the sidebar. Change doesn't happen without turmoil - it goes against inertia.
/r/askMRP19/10/15 09:13 PM
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why the downvotes? random feminists and betas doing that or what? looks like you were worried about downvotes. and that still doesn't stop your post from sucking. completely value leeching.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 08:58 PM
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I was genuinely surprised and worried. about downvotes? kinda pathetic don't you think?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 08:49 PM
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I would've taken away all choices at that point. "Can't act like an adult. Don't get a new car." Expect better.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:07 PM
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Pretty sure any person x-posting from AskTRP should just be told to STFU and read the sidebar. Pretty sure that same advice would be just as useful for throwawys.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:00 PM
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This belongs in PPD, imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 06:59 PM
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Alternatively, she appreciates that you're a man who takes cares of stuff and just gets things done.
/r/askMRP19/10/15 02:54 PM
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your post sucks and has 0 focus on adding value. pure validation seeking. i went through and downvoted all of your posts because apparently they matter and it upsets you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 07:17 PM
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so? that's no reason she needs to be your wife and no reason for you to provide for her. take action or stop bitching.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 06:56 PM
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I spent most of my time at home naked. It's just me, my wife, and a 2month old baby for the moment though. Not sure how much is going to change. Maybe I'll get a robe or smoking jacket and pajama pants.
/r/askMRP18/10/15 04:25 PM
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you just validated yourself to a random dude on the internet. you took some (possibly bullshit and random) concern and gave it weigh by accepting it as a real issue and tried to address it head on. getting a person to qualifying onself is part of how SMV is established. -- see http://www.lovesystems.com/dating-advice/attraction/setting-goals-qualification if you are in this frame of mind where you are inherently judging the person, then you immediately assume higher value.
/r/askMRP18/10/15 02:59 PM
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I wonder where this notion that women need an orgasm every time to enjoy sex comes from.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 02:58 PM
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This guy's pretty close, but he's only 44.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 08:29 AM
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just not comply with what I tell her, so you can't control her. why is this surprising? she has free will after all. obviously not listening to you doesn't matter. demand that I do shit without really asking. and your response is? because i can easily imagine you getting butthurt but doing it anyway. I responded to her letting her know my needs in front of her sister. Then her sister chimed in. Finally, I let them know that if I needed their opinion on how to act I'd let them know. Until then, l…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 08:12 AM
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Unconditional my ass. The day my wife thinks I'm unconditional is the day she stops fucking trying.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 06:08 AM
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any more fake than the guy who's posting about how he cheated on his wife?
/r/askMRP18/10/15 04:51 AM
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Being in charge of your reality is a mindset (frame is a mindset). It's only effort for you right now because you've been so busy jumping through everyone else's hoops that this is the first time you're exercising on your own. Agree with marxistbacon - get a well tailored sports jacket and wear it with your jeans. Easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 04:18 AM
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the first couple times you'll probably catch hell, but establishing boundaries is hard work, especially if you have to stop old habits. know what YOU want from life and make it so.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 04:14 AM
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I don't think you mean circumcision.. perhaps vasectomy?
/r/askMRP18/10/15 04:00 AM
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Pretty sure this is the first post I'd consider quality of yours. It's a nice FR. Abundance mentality is incredibly power, because it means you aren't stuck in a marriage, you choose to be in a marriage. You internalize this, your wife recognizes this, guess what that means? The wife has to actually work to keep you around because you are a wanted man. This is when "expect better" will start making sense. Also, this is what your friends wife is scared about. You think that if your buddy gets abu…
/r/askMRP18/10/15 03:15 AM
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If things go belly up, I have enough Faith in myself to deal with it instead of moping which is what it seems like your average new poster wants to do. That alone means that I'm able to treat the marriage for what it is, a temporary arrangement that lasts so long as both parties are satisfied.
/r/askMRP18/10/15 12:12 AM
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Which one of those words do you not understand? Let me know and I'll google it for you. But seriously. It's the difference between generalisation and nuance. Apparently the modern man is too retarded to understand the difference.
/r/askMRP18/10/15 12:08 AM
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Pretty much this. Time to shit or get off the pot for OP. If you can't trust her to take care of her part of why you keep her in your life, then the actionable item is pretty simple. It's not really a matter of her being overweight -- the more important issue is that you can't trust her to take care of her shit (and you expect better than that) That's what it would be for me anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 09:10 PM
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Nope. I know why I'm married - I knew about red pill culture before getting married. The long and short that TRP won't tell you is that women aren't caricatures. If I weren't happy, I'd get divorce and own my shit instead of being a whiny, pansy bitch about it. I'd figure out how to make things happen. The issue is that most men aren't capable of leading a marriage - the modern man is too spineless and lacks the clarity of vision, which is why I wouldn't recommend marriage for the average man.
/r/askMRP17/10/15 08:09 PM
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If you don't value your own effort enough to expect people to read it, I sure as shit won't give a fuck either. You can look through my post history to see how I feel about offering tl;dr's for lazy fucks. What exactly do you think a tl;dr encourages people to do?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 07:06 PM
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if you're getting shot down by your wife how awesome do you think you are in your wife's eyes?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 06:10 PM
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I have broken free of the beta as best I can; I have not missed a workout in 3 months straight, and am facing up to owning my shit. I have a really good job in Tech over $100k and an outgoing personality, took up my golf hobby again, reading again for fun, and learning, and getting with friends. I am outgoing, friendly and fun. People like me and I like to talk to people. Confidence is high. This shit. Tell me again why any of this shit would be attractive to women?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 04:31 PM
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get the proof you need to confirm or deny
/r/askMRP17/10/15 04:30 PM
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if you don't value your own effort by adding a lazy tldr to it, i don't value your time to read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 04:28 PM
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no one fucking cares
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 04:23 PM
1

I don't stew. I just jump to being mean.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 04:22 PM
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I always love when people talk about themselves as if they were awesome and their shit don't stink. Does these guys really believe this shit when they find their marriages going to hell?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 04:22 PM
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I interpret that as he'll be peaking for 10+ years.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 09:37 PM
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seriously? you're gonna let some drunk cunt affect your frame? is your ego that fragile? because nothing says high value male like getting into bar fights. have a solution in place. get conceal and carry. some drunk guy wants to fight you, you'll know exactly why you're walking away.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 03:05 PM
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I feel like it's a shit or get off the pot thing. Take ownership for what you want. I personally hold no opinion on guys who want to fuck other women. Concubine culture is widely accepted in parts of the world. High value men fuck many women. Thing about the poster in the link is that he's 25 - he's just about to hit peak SMV for guys. His male hamster is going wild instead of owning his shit (which includes figuring out an arrangement to fuck other women).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 02:12 PM
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Man, if his wife is/was a 10 and still stays loyal to OP, that's a high quality 10 with a ton more loyalty than OP deserves considering how much full of shit he is.. 10s can do way better, and even then, a 10 will work hard to please the right man - we all work hard to please the right people, that's how social creatures work.
/r/askMRP16/10/15 02:43 AM
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Read the sidebar and put in more personal effort. You're bullshitting yourself pretty hard.
/r/askMRP15/10/15 10:20 PM
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Long and short is that you look at things as if you're doing it for her. Obviously you're going to be resentful. You should start doing things for you simply because you want to do it - e.g. there's a bobby pin pissing you off, so you deal with it because it pisses YOU off. You're post was in no way helpful at first glace The first time you read something you most likely thought "fuck this guy being an asshole to me on the internet" (with the implication that you're only looking for things that …
/r/askMRP15/10/15 07:53 PM
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It's time for a new vehicle for my wife. To "make her happy", I suggested we look at luxury brands to make her feel special even though it's not really in the budget. AKA "Here have this shiny thing because you're so special and then you will be happy and good to me, right?". So I spend two full weekends of my time helping her test drive and evaluate options and make real sacrifices to fit this into the budget. Instead of a 'thank you', I get yelled at in front of a salesman because she's sudden…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 06:26 PM
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I apparently said a bunch of stuff to my wife like "you're a good mother but you're a poor wife." I don't remember, because I blacked out. Not a bad thing if you own it. If that's what you think, you're giving her a reason to work harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 06:14 PM
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Most likely she lacks emotions because OP's a whiny cunt for so much of the time. Someone's gotta be the emotionally strong one and that sure as shit isn't OP.
/r/askMRP15/10/15 05:59 PM
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Edit: it boggles my mind that all my fellow MRP posters immediately buy into his bullshit that there's something wrong with his wife because of how he phrased this post. the fact that he spends his entire time bitching about his wife's behavior should raise more red flags about than OP's wife. It's pretty obvious that OP has significant ego issues which automatically makes me doubt his wife is any different than your regular AWALT (i.e. women take the shape of the container). How OP's wife does …
/r/askMRP15/10/15 05:48 PM
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way to make excuses to be a victim you fucking faggot. oh. you're a deadbedrooms poster. that explains things. i guess you keep on being whiny.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 03:12 PM
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have to agree. i remember the_litz did not take the pill well.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 01:44 AM
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Not a christian myself, but I agree with you wholeheartedly still.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 08:57 PM
1

Exactly. Start implementing and taking care of your own shit. Stop worrying about her. Do what needs to be done for your satisfaction and give her a time limit (to yourself in your head -- usually 1 month per year of marriage). But yeah, more dread. She eventually notices, reacts, or you kick her to the curb nbd.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 05:14 PM
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Owning your shit buddy! All parts of it. Even the positive parts that you like about your wife. Why is this so surprising? When you're not full of shit, people start actually believing the crap you spew. The distinction between shit and comfort tests is basically training wheels for autistic fucks. It literally does not matter when you have your path and vision set. I mean, maybe there's some fundamental difference, but really what the fuck do I care? If she's adding value, I add value. If she's…
/r/askMRP14/10/15 05:02 PM
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Your mindset is still blue as hell. Read sidebar, lurk more, lift more. From the comment it's also pretty obvious that you're a gigantic fucking pussy who also manages to be incredibly fucking lazy so it's no real surprise that you're in the situation you're in. You're the type of guy who wants another guy to hold his hand so that he can pretend to lead as if your woman is too fucking retarded to see through your bullshit. ------ i didn't realize how old this was
/r/askMRP14/10/15 04:59 PM
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You can move from explicit to implicit. Remember, the goal is to become a better man, a high value man. What do you think high value men do? Do you think they walk around like limp dicked cuckolded pussies? No. They add value to the people they interact with - man, woman, or child. Also....... Clearly I'll carry on learning RP but do I dial back the dread? so you implement a bunch of shit that works and your first thought is to get rid of it? okay. you're obviously not the sharpest tool in the s…
/r/askMRP14/10/15 04:37 PM
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She meets your standards or she doesn't. If she doesn't, you'll find someone who will. That should be your mindset. You should always be improving yourself and your surroundings. So basically, more dread. Pretty sure, she complains because she feels your complacency. Somehow she feels that not meeting your expectations should be acceptable behavior. Think about the implications of that for a second? It's not that she's trying to persuade you to consider her opinion, it's that your wants should b…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 04:32 PM
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I actually wouldn't cheat either. I'd be straightforward about my intention to go fuck other women if standards weren't being met. Cheating implies deception and cowardly acts -- fuck that.
/r/askMRP14/10/15 04:18 PM
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lol! this is funny as hell.
/r/askMRP14/10/15 08:10 AM
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Alternatively, she's hesitant to put effort into a man that's on the cusp of walking away (anti-slut behavior). This is something that RPW talks about a lot, where you don't have sex with people you're not committed to, which I personally view as a good thing. My suggestion here is that if you're willing to have her join you, to reassure her that if there's a reason you want to get rid of her, you'll let her know beforehand so she has a chance to meet your standards. My wife has the security of …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 07:48 AM
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Less than a week ago she didn't come during a session (which is pretty rare) and I recall her saying at the time it didn't matter, she didn't need to every time. More men should realize this. Women do take pleasure in being available for the man they care about. This also goes back to you not being responsible for her feelings -- if she really wants to come, have her let you know. Otherwise, what you're doing is pressuring her to achieve a goal. See the covert contract/validation seeking? Also, …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 07:42 AM
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Yup. I have no interest in challenging a random person on the internet's views. If a person's most valuable asset is time (which it is), the cost vs. benefit is nowhere near high enough to argue on the internet. Lots of interesting stuff has already been written and is out there. Anyone who needs a real life person to challenge their own worldview is simply lazy. I took a look at your post history. You're a 40 year old single woman who gets annoyed at people who like happy endings. That tells me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 07:36 AM
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"Are you trying to give me reasons to have an affair? Doesn't seem like a good idea does it?"
/r/askMRP14/10/15 04:42 AM
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most 20 year old girls need a good spanking and better male leadership. i also saw that thing about the jeb plant -- says more about the jeb campaign than a vapid follower (which is what I suspect being a campaign intern is)
/r/askMRP14/10/15 04:38 AM
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yeah.
/r/askMRP14/10/15 03:01 AM
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It's harder to make the argument that you're in Vegas to cheat if you're calling/texting semi-regularly. checking in with mommy is very important.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 10:25 PM
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Look everybody. It's the single redditor who circlejerks a ton. Everyone take advice from this guy because I'm sure he knows what's up. He's probably the best communicator in the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 10:24 PM
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Not a fat fuck any more, but still fat. hahaha. love it. the only thing i have to tell you is to remind you that YOU alone are responsible for your happiness, so make that happen! whatever it is, do it and make yourself happy. take responsibility for it ffs. she will occasionally mutter something about how little use I have for her or marriage in general. I don't disagree. Bingo! start calling that shit out. Start agreeing with her assessment! Give her a reason to try harder!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 05:35 PM
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seriously. guys need to take the time to do their own work first.
/r/askMRP13/10/15 05:20 PM
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The ego will often always sabotage you. Minor change. Good post. If you can't look at yourself as objectively as possible (both positive and negative) your progress is going to be based on false premises. The ego is also what drives the crab bucket mentality. If you find yourself shitting on other people's accomplishments, it means your own fragile ego/insecurity is shining through. Be value giving, not value leeching. Making those around you better -- this does not mean you have to radiate posi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 04:53 PM
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doesn't really matter imo. i don't want to encourage men to run away from little girls like little boys. own your shit. "no. my internet mommy says we can't be friends."
/r/askMRP13/10/15 03:15 PM
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Tell her you can't be friends. No more talking after that. I know EXACTLY what you are going through. Same remedy for me. It works. I lived it. Not exactly high value, attractive male behavior if he's just going to run from every female is it?
/r/askMRP13/10/15 10:59 AM
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and I know first mistake is don't be friends with a girl. Wrong. Whoever told you this is probably an uncharismatic sperg. Women are great. I really didn't care, cutting negativity out of my life became a priority. Good attitude. Candy started expressing attraction towards me bluntly, outright telling me I give her tingles and saying things to the effect of me causing a fire hydrant to explode in her underwear. The only reason that this is an issue for you is that you're so completely unaccustom…
/r/askMRP13/10/15 10:58 AM
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<-- only child.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 10:48 AM
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most likely you're just reverting your personality back to what it was when you guys were dating. pick up is about looking well, dressing well, eye contact and body language (i.e. exuding confidence), and being willing to get rejected often and frequently. that said, i have no idea what pickup books there are now. oh and blueprint decoded. which is probably the best of the best.
/r/askMRP13/10/15 10:47 AM
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whether it's cute or not has more to do with how a woman feels about you than your actual behavior. how she reacts to a situation is indicative or her feelings towards you, not your actions. the only reason she thought your jealousy was cute is because she liked you -- if she didn't like you, she'd hamster out a different response. welcome to the hamster.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 10:04 AM
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i talk to my mom pretty regularly. it's not scheduled, sometimes it's more than not, but if I haven't given her a call in two weeks or so, I'll take the time to do so. it comes down to the fact i like my mom.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 10:01 AM
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Long and short of it is that no one gives a fuck about your happiness except you. Figure out how you want to handle yourself short, medium, and long term, and start executing.
/r/askMRP13/10/15 09:45 AM
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Here's the long and short of it. No one gives a fuck about you except you. All the resources you need to succeed are here, including the individuals who post on the board, but no one here gives a shit if you succeed or not. We have no vested interest in your success. You alone are responsible for your well being and happiness so spend some time thinking about the consequences of what that means.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 09:42 AM
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watch out for the male hamster. read the sidebars.
/r/askMRP12/10/15 02:30 PM
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i sure hope not. if MRP becomes anything remotely like PPD, I'd be disappointed as hell. PPD apparently has a general mentality that most modern day men are quality men who are inherently worth loving. There is absolutely no way this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 02:23 PM
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so... what happened has nothing to do with the girls or dread or anything like that. what happened is that you talked with conviction and knew what your expectations were. no voodoo magic involved here.
/r/askMRP12/10/15 09:18 AM
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set your boundaries. what are they?
/r/askMRP12/10/15 09:07 AM
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you sound paranoid. also, not the way i'd handle this at all. if she wants to cheat, she's free to. the goal is that the cost or notion of it isn't anywhere near the positive benefits she'd reap. the position you're taking is that of a low value man desperately clutching on to his unwilling woman.
/r/askMRP12/10/15 09:06 AM
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where are my upvotes for participating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 08:52 AM
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most men aren't worth being liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 08:41 AM
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i'd be concerned that some blue pill post wall retard is patting you on the back if i were you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 08:40 AM
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deciding to get rid of toxic people and taking the steps to do so is something. i don't see that as a bad start - it's pretty much where i would advise any guy to start. very few guys would describe their wives as toxic, most would describe their wives as not in love with them.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 03:21 AM
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Lots of people look for lots of reasons to be lazy and useless. Fuck those guys. Reading hard texts is no different than doing anything else that's hard - its the mentality. I wouldn't indulge any cunt that wants me to do his hard work.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 10:21 PM
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Your male hamster is showing.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:01 AM
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I have my phone notifications on silence for a reason. That reason is so I get to it on my own time when I decide it's appropriate.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 11:35 PM
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That's probably a good altruistic reason. My reason is because they're weak sauce and it's easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 09:47 PM
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hey that's a good idea.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 02:08 PM
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jerkin off while sitting around and watching beach volleyball
/r/askMRP07/10/15 01:46 PM
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actually using logic and reason when talking with her. hahahahahahahah do you know what the hamster is?
/r/askMRP07/10/15 05:25 AM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=how+to+learn+electric+wiring
/r/askMRP07/10/15 01:59 AM
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I don't want to control her with money like in my good old beta days of "give me sex because I pay for stuff"; on the other hand it would be cool to leave some control in my hands, JUST IN CASE. What do you think? What would be your ideal way of dealing with this situation? What matters is, WHO WAS I by that time, HOW DID I behave by that time, WHAT I DID after I learned about this There you go. You only control yourself. Therefore you're only responsible for yourself. Red pill at its core is si…
/r/askMRP07/10/15 01:47 AM
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funny thing about insecure people, they're hard wired to respond because any judgment on them at least validates their existence. people who are internally validated only respond to things that adds to their existence and discard the other unnecessary bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 01:36 AM
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copy and pasted from somewhere else - It's because you're indulging her negative behavior and self pity. Serious question, why do you keep shitty people in your life? Don't have enough self respect to expect better yet? Personally, the moment I hear a negative statement without a way forward, I give my wife a look. It's just as easy to be negative as it is to be positive. Positivity usually means forward progress, negativity usually means wallowing.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 07:14 PM
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The deal is, AWALT, she may cheat, she may "let herself go" additional 50 pounds. holy shit man. you're hamstering all sorts of bullshit to explain your lack of standards for your woman. do you know how fast i'd get rid of her if she let her standards of herself drop? she gained 40 pounds when she was pregnant and i told her that her weight made sexually her unattractive to me, doctors told her the same thing, she was gaining weight too quickly. you know what she did? she took care of the issue.…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 07:10 PM
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my favorite thing is when i tell new guy's they're gigantic pussies and they try to flip it on me. it's like dealing with 3rd graders. the worst ones always come from askTRP -- there's always some hamstering of how they're alpha in some way or other.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 06:38 PM
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Some guys reading this might think, that being emotionally available means being like an open hose, openly expressing one's feelings and emotions. This is wrong. This would be the unrestrained behavior of a child. Emotional availability means not being afraid to hide your goals, fears, drives, ambitions, sources of happiness, etc., basically the things that make you human. She wants to know that she is important enough to evoke an emotionally from you and that you care enough to do so. How you d…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 06:34 PM
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my daughter's 2 month old. if it came down to being a defeated shell of a man who's married versus a thriving man who's divorced, I know my decision would be easy. But, if it came down to that, I'd fight to win and I'd fight dirty as hell. Again though, I expect better from my wife so I highly doubt it'd ever get there. I know exactly why I'm married and what I expect out of it and what value I add to her life and what value she adds to mine. lets put it this way, i trust my wife because i expec…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:14 PM
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I literally could not give less of a fuck about you. If you got hit by a car tomorrow, nothing in my world would change. You were raised by a single mom? That could explain a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 02:11 PM
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Still protecting that weak ego. Pussy. It's the reason why you deleted your thread when everyone called you out on your bullshit. You're too fucking cowardly to even handle the criticisms of online strangers.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 09:01 AM
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i love reading what guys like you post. it's so sad and pathetic. it's really funny how hard you work to protect your ego all the while trying to convince yourself that you're not. 3 minutes of cheap thrills for no cost. seriously, you're pretty much everything I figured you'd be. Insecure, cowardly, weak, and indecisive. What I want to know is how you wake up, look at yourself in the morning, and not feel a sense of total shame. Most people come and post here, get told they're whiny bitches, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 08:16 AM
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I like askMRP. It serves its purpose pretty well. The newbie questions over there are actually a lot higher in quality than some of the stuff that gets posted here - like the guy who thought it was shady to talk to women. And where else is "stop being a whiny cunt" an appropriate answer more than 90% of the time?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 08:02 AM
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sure thing mr. alpha retard introvert good job deleting your post. got too sad being called a weak ass bitch? :( seriously though, between this post, and your shit posts on askTRP, you must be one of the most retarded people on the planet.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 07:56 AM
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i think you do you. you're the only person who has to live with your life and your choices. personally, i think you're in a toxic and shitty situation and i wouldn't be in it. would i spy? i wouldn't because i wouldn't spend time with people i don't trust in the first place. if i had to spy on my wife, she's probably already failed my standards. i'd also figure out how to separate the kids from the woman because i think being a good father can happen even in the case of a divorce. but that's me.…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 06:12 AM
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Question for you, what if she fights to win in court? Starts bringing up your alcoholic past and your insecurities and abusive tendencies? Then what?
/r/askMRP06/10/15 05:24 AM
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no you won't. you'll find some reason to bitch out. i guarantee it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 05:21 AM
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because you're a gigantic bitch
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 05:20 AM
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hahahahahhaha. you are such a little bitch. fucking amazing. you probably don't even recognize how much of a bitch you are. also, learn to differentiate between a contraction and a possessive, you retarded fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 05:18 AM
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i gotta tell you, one of the things that i decided was that i wasn't going to let fear dictate my life. just because i didn't know how something would end doesn't mean that i shouldn't go and see anyway. it's really easy to stop moving because of fear, especially of the unknown, but at the end of the day it's a cost-benefit analysis. this includes fear of being cheated on, fear of divorce, etc. shit. doesn't matter. if it happens, then deal with it! but not before, and not this hypothetical b.s.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:27 AM
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Do whatever the fuck you want. That's really it. Don't overcomplicate it unnecessarily.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:24 AM
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Ha ha ha I laughed my ass off. Didn't help but I felt better. Anyways you see my issue. Love it. Right response. Be sure you follow it up with a "common. really?" like you know it's absolute bullshit and expect her to as well. that she may harm herself if I left(i did not leave, I believed Her). Bad response. She's an adult and you should expect her to act like it. Ask her if she wants to be dropped off at a psych ward before you go to the gym. If she's hinting at a problem, focus on the solutio…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:20 AM
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we have 3 kids, goddamnit. I don't believe another woman will be more faithful. check your kids. get them tested. Do you think my marriage is salvageable? Not your fucking problem right now. Your problem right now is you're a gigantic whiny spineless cunt. Any suggestions for me, except "stop being an insecure pussy beta bitch idiot faggot pussy"? Stop being an insecure pussy who tries to skirt the issue. I am afraid of changes. I am afraid that if I divorce, my kids are going to hate me. I am a…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:10 AM
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but the problem indeed is that it won't be easy to find anyone hotter than her. hahaha. okay. can't believe you believe this. patently ridiculous. take a trip to poland sometime or russia or australia or germany or ireland.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:06 AM
2

you're dead on about victim puke.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:05 AM
2

Why does how I do things matter? You're not me. You'll never be me. You'll never have my values, virtues, or otherwise. You'll never have my personality, characteristics, or worldview. What I find important may not matter to you. How I interact with my wife will have no bearing on your life, especially with such frivolous intellectual wankfest bullshit like this. Do I love my wife? It shouldn't fucking matter to you. I would've thought you'd have learned this by now -- you don't listen to people…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:56 AM
1

No reason to not expect better from both yourself and the people you CHOOSE to spend time with.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:47 AM
1

It also means your wife's gotta step up her game!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:08 AM
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so fucking what you weak pussy ass bitch?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 01:11 AM
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hahaha. love this post. i don't think your answer is wrong. i just don't think it'll be product for op, who is a bitch. so imo nexting or not nexting doesn't really matter. in his post, i only read a lot of hamster b.s. in the original post. didn't really pay attention to any of it since it's probably all crap.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 01:08 AM
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no we don't. fuck weak men. i do not give a fuck whether he succeeds or doesn't and sure as shit won't go out of my way to try to coddle the little weak ass baby.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 01:06 AM
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The last few paragraphs are pretty fucking emo. I am deeply disgusted by her, my self esteem crushed within a single day. After work I went to a bar on my own to get hammered (which I'm doing right now, I'm lucky enough that this shitty bar filled with loosers has w-lan.. So have mercy on my writing I'm drunk and I'm french so my English isn't the best. This weekend I have to attend a wedding with her, but I don't feel like I can continue this relationship after this. Although last week was the …
/r/askMRP05/10/15 11:10 PM
1

How is him loving his kids and grandkids different than him loving his wife? He invested time and effort into both. I really think what you think "love" is and what you're projecting onto your grandfather's "love" is messed up. I think your direction and understanding in both is flawed and limited. Furthermore, why does this even matter?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 10:34 PM
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He said he stopped loving her after he returned from Germany after WW2 Furthermore, I'd ask if he still believed in any type of love after WW2.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 10:14 PM
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I think the question you're looking for is "Do you hard core red pill guys believe in romantic love?"
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:39 PM
1

So you asked your grandfather if he loved his wife and he said no? My guess is that you're projecting your assumptions.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:19 PM
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Think about the type of weaksauce guy who would do this. Does he seem like a red pill guy?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 07:17 PM
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Didn't you post some other bullshit where you wanted everyone to help you understand RP the other day? Why yes, yes you did. So you're posting more useless bullshit for another intellectual wank?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 11:12 PM
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who said anything about disclosure? what you asked is pretty dumb.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 04:50 PM
1

woman would rather share a high value man than have sex with a low value man.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 08:02 AM
3

You're indian aren't you?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 07:39 AM
1

Could you please show me, where I take no responsibility for myself, my marriage and my situation? hahahhaha. holy shit the irony. I want to live. I want to enjoy life. Both those things are hardly possible with my wife. Been called a lot of shit, disrespected multiple times, somehow I knew, that I MUST stay for those years, found MAP & TRP, started doing shit, nothing helps, I'm posting here and get called "bitch" and GTFO. boooo hooo hooo hoo hoooo poor baby.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 07:36 AM
1

I would not call neither myself nor my past "whiny" and "pathetic". Of course you wouldn't. You're a lazy bitch. ... like? See above. And also, the entire thing. Let's discuss our hobbies over PM, not here. No thanks. Also, if I would not consider my advice solid, I would not give it. Obviously. Doesn't mean the advice sucks any less shit because the guy giving the advice is a gigantic retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 07:04 AM
1

How about taking ownership over the fact that you're a whiny pathetic loser who's responsible for your own whiny pathetic past? After that? Maybe try reading the sidebar and internalizing some stuff instead of this surface level bullshit. I looked through your posting history and it didn't surprise me for a single minute that you spend a lot of time giving "advice" on askTRP even though you don't know shit. I was (and probably still am) going to make a post about guys like you who just won't STF…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 06:30 AM
1

Good answer. Cockiness is a reflection of the ego seeking validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 01:29 AM
8

Gigantic bitch post. As in post by a bitch, not post bitching. The amount of passive aggressiveness coming through is astounding.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 01:20 AM
2

people say anger, i see nothing wrong with it. for the first time you're enforcing your boundaries and your expectations and she's not meeting them. i'm sure that if she met your standards, you'd act in a way that was more rewarding.
/r/askMRP03/10/15 10:04 PM
1

I disagree
/r/askMRP03/10/15 10:02 PM
1

i loved the line. op just needs to reinforce that boundary repeatedly for a bit for it to sink in. if he doesn't back down and isn't bullshitting, I'd be willing to bet money she'll suck his dick more.
/r/askMRP03/10/15 10:02 PM
2

LOL. From the upvotes/downvotes ratio, you upset the feelings of a lot of blue pill lurkers because this is a spectacular report. Basic conclusions - women work hard for high value men.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:50 PM
2

Having it happen multiple times is definitely an issue. I like the fact that she started paying back right away. Sounds like everyone's on the same page. I try not to project potential future behavior into the present - sure, she could go on massive shopping sprees under bullshit pretenses, just as easily as she could participate in a 30 man gangbang, but imo, worry about it when you get there. If there's no history of disrespectful behavior, there's no reason to assume it'll happen out of the b…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 11:22 PM
3

Special occasions are special occasions. The only concern would be when it's couple with disrespect. It doesn't seem like OP was met with disrespect, presumed to be naive, or taken for granted, so I would not be concerned. I mean, the place is closing down and the piece is cool. It sounds like they can afford it as well, so NBD.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 10:22 PM
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I'd print it for her. She's got doubts. Don't get her reasons to have doubts. I don't anyway. If she wants to see, so be it. Also what UeMCgill said - reiterate why you don't give her access to the accounts. Also, I think you can share prime without giving access to payment methods -- may be worth asking amazon customer support.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 02:09 PM
3

read lurk lift
/r/askMRP01/10/15 05:45 AM
1

nah i was brainstorming with alphabeta.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 04:19 PM
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how do you know he objectively failed?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 10:09 PM
1

Are you retarded?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 09:45 PM
1

Gee... if only there was a sidebar full of information that you could use to figure out things for yourself.... I wonder how that would work. Instead, you'd rather be lazy and waste other people's time. There is absolutely no reason why anyone should help you understand when you're too fucking lazy to put in any personal effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 09:14 PM
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who the fuck are you to tell OP he failed? since when do you get to impose your value judgments on a complete stranger? the fact that you presume that you're in a position to answer a question about a value judgment speaks volumes about you. That you'd encourage him to be a little bitch under a bullshit success/failure paradigm determined by a random fucktard is garbage.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 07:04 PM
1

Initiating Sex With Outcome Independence - I still get very angry when my wife is not sexually available to me, even when I'm not super-horny. It's an expectation I have and I still get butthurt when I get a hard no. I will still avoid initiating sex if I don't think I will get a yes, and I need to initiate whenever I want it and be cool whether I get it or not. I'm doing much better at acting cool about it -- the next step is being cool about it. This is a big deal to you. I'd say start thinkin…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:22 PM
1

I ask my wife, "do you think we should bring an extra blanket to save them as spot?" also a good way to test for the quality of your woman. ask a question you already sort of know. have some fun and fuck with her. "of course." "nahhhhhh, they're late so we'll just make them suffer. smirk" and go grab a blanket.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:21 PM
3

the thing that I found interesting was that WE was capitalized instead of NEED. The word NEED is almost always wrong.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 06:19 PM
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the difference is that i am not living your life so i don't know what is working or not. the only person who can judge is yourself. that's the point here. when you ask people about how you should feel, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 06:18 PM
2

start proving to yourself that you're an attractive man with options by flirting with other women.. if she's not meeting your standards and expectations, why are you keeping her around? this is the mindset you wnat to have. give generously to those who add value, and dont' for those who don't.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:14 PM
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if my wife paid me proper attention, I would not have been texting other women at all heh.. more like if i was a higher quality man instead of the sad sack of weak ass shit I am, my wife would've worked harder to make me happy.. and but if I had pushed it, it would have been easy to convert. lol. yeah fucking right. op is a beta orbiter because chad wouldn't have had the time to waste listening to some slut text her bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:09 PM
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beta as fuck
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:08 PM
2

then associates meeting my needs with being that high quality woman high quality women do that. finding a woman who wants to be better to make your life better is awesome. (they can also be guided by a high quality man with standards who's worth working for)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:06 PM
2

This of course is a delusion, because I know that it'll be the starfish waiting for me, see the problem here is that you still think your wife is the only person who you get to fuck. it's very self limiting and gives her no reason to try harder. the paradox is this, the more convinced that your wife is your only cum bucket, the less willing she is going to be to be your cum bucket.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 06:00 PM
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Jesus. Sack up and take ownership for your own shit. It's not her fault you're an emo, whiny bitch and an overall weak and cowardly man. In your post you take exactly zero responsibility for your current predicament.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 05:58 PM
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On dread, I started doing stuff like mentioning to my wife that one of our neighbors had had a big crush on me when we were in college - something I had never mentioned before - and my wife freaked out. too overt. too try hard. dread isn't about you going out of your way to make her insecure. that said, you should completely leverage the fact that you're getting yourself a girlfriend. She told me she liked me better chubby. She mocked me as I dropped weight. She told me she doesn't like the new …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 05:42 PM
3

Am I doing this right? Well, are you?
/r/askMRP29/09/15 05:18 PM
2

why do you care so fucking much about her reactions? why are you going out of your way to make things that aren't your fucking problem your fucking problem?
/r/askMRP29/09/15 05:16 PM
8

What would you do if you had self respect?
/r/askMRP29/09/15 05:16 PM
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How is it our job to help you understand? I actually couldn't give a shit whether you do or don't. This post is pure value leeching, no value add.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 05:12 PM
8

Man, OP just comes in and drops a steaming pile of shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 03:19 PM
3

Here's the thing they don't tell you about being selfish - when you're selfish in a marriage with a woman who works to make you happy, the things that will make you happy will often involve making her happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 04:39 AM
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i'd fucking laugh at her if you didn't do anything maliciously. she's a big girl. she can walk into a bar. key thing is don't apologize for things you didn't, but do take responsibility for areas YOU (not her) feel like you messed up if there are any.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 03:03 AM
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so much whining in this post about her. sack up cunt.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 03:01 AM
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hahahahah. you're a fucking pussy ass bitch. i can see why she won't fuck you..
/r/askMRP29/09/15 03:00 AM
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I agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 03:59 PM
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the number of women who want to be better is low.... don't mistake your special case for the stereotypical female behavior. most of the men posting here are incredibly spineless with piss poor boundaries. that's the shit they need to fix first. the women in their lives is a future problem. ideally the women would work harder, but who's going to work harder if they don't have to. most people won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 11:11 AM
1

It's because you're indulging her negative behavior and self pity. Serious question, why do you keep shitty people in your life? Don't have enough self respect to expect better yet? Personally, the moment I hear a negative statement without a way forward, I give my wife a look. It's just as easy to be negative as it is to be positive. Positivity usually means forward progress, negativity usually means wallowing.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 11:07 AM
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stop fucking talking and stfu
/r/askMRP28/09/15 10:36 AM
3

boo fucking hoo. sack up you fucking bitch and do something about it then.
/r/askMRP28/09/15 10:35 AM
3

doesn't work like that. you assume she's too retarded to see it affecting you. the PUA concept is called subcommunication / non-verbal communication, but it basically means that your body language is going to convey your response no matter how hard you try to hide it, considering that our communication is 93% non-verbal, and (as i've seen from my new baby) biologically wired. http://kingpinlifestyle.com/non-verbal-attraction/ this is also why owning your shit is so important. when you control wh…
/r/askMRP28/09/15 10:30 AM
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At no time did I act butthurt - I had a grin on the entire time you may not have acted butthurt, but don't lie to yourself about not being butthurt. you're new to this. you have all these expectations. they don't magically go away. the worst thing you can do right now is to bullshit yourself into trying to feel how you think a RP guy should feel. embrace the emotions that you have and try to use new found information to make the changes necessary so you can honestly adjust your emotional respons…
/r/askMRP28/09/15 07:05 AM
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Cancel. Jesus. You're going out of your way to do something that's already making you unhappy. Imagine how much worse it'll be when you actually get there.
/r/askMRP27/09/15 06:20 PM
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whew whew whew whew. you got some PC covert contracts brah. Guys. It's my anniversary. I want sex. so go get sex. jesus. go to craigslist, find a call girl, and give her a couple hundred. whiny motherfuckers. it's like some you fuckers are too lazy to actually solve your own problems.
/r/askMRP26/09/15 06:19 PM
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"if some other bitch wants you she can have you, I wont chase a man." how have you not kicked her out after this? "ok". what is self respect for 500 please.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 08:36 PM
2

l like a renter in my own home and I'll be honest, it fucking grates on me like a mother fucker. this is the shit you need to own. figure out what/how you can solve this problem. your house. your castle. all that. gym is a symptom, not a cause. feeling like you're someone else's bitch is a terrible feeling that builds resentment. figure out how to take care of it.
/r/askMRP24/09/15 10:17 PM
2

The obvious question is what have you tried so far?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 05:09 PM
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Another shitty needy post. Well, at least you're deleting your trail. You're addressing symptoms, not cause. You're not internalizing the concepts. You won't address it because you're not actually putting in any internal effort. Every single little fucking piece of shit useless thought that you have, you go and post here as if you need a fucking collective to have any type of opinion on your own. From yesterday's post look at how needy you are with your posts. it's like every day you have a new …
/r/askMRP24/09/15 04:51 PM
1

I agree with you. Telling an overseas military guy not to protect themselves is naive at best, malicious at worst.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 01:24 AM
5

look at how needy you are with your posts. it's like every day you have a new post seeking affirmation and validation.
/r/askMRP23/09/15 09:28 PM
4

shit post. shit poster.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 08:54 PM
1

well, since you obviously know what you want and you seem to have things well communicated - if you want to nip the jealousy thing in the butt, just be blunt, "when you have a reason to be jealous, i'll tell you. until then, cut that out."
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 08:32 PM
1

The notion that she has a good idea of what she wants is fucking wrong. You present her a simple choice: you or not you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 08:29 PM
2

This post is awful. OP should feel bad for wasting everyone's time posting this pile of drivel. OP should also stop posting until he knows what the fuck he's talking about. I suggest purplepilldebate.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 08:28 PM
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awww. your wife is super special and unique. how cute. i love posts about random wives.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 02:35 AM
3

women don't randomly go crazy. learn better leadership.
/r/askMRP23/09/15 02:18 AM
1

late left my phone at home. Your s testing me for 2 days afterwards and I just ignored her and f her still dealing with it but I just don't give a s***. man. i wonder how people used to interact without cell phones. jesus. if she wants to be a single mother, let her. show her exactly what it'd be like to be a single mother. i went to check out a local cocktail bar and invited 6-10 folks from my work group.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 12:26 AM
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i'd bet op doesn't get heat of the moment. he never said talk and he never said he expected her to fulfill them, simply that he had them, which i think is fine. can't expect a wife to suck your dick if she doesn't know you want her to. i.e. this is what i'm expect and what i'm going to do, take it or leave it. and you definitely can't be pissed off at a woman when you fail to tell her your expectations -- my buddy did that once. he laughed when i pointed out how blatantly obtuse being annoyed at…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 12:24 AM
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I will be living with a woman who works and adds value to my life and that woman may or may not be her. Just to emphasize.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 12:21 AM
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Yup. Nothing quite like guys coming in listing things off like it's a checkbox (good dad, steady job, decent salary) in an effort to delude themselves into thinking they should be attractive. It's like when a woman is asked what she wants in a man and they answer funny/smart/kind. Well, they want those things, but only after the first "ATTRACTIVE" checkbox is met. When they sleep with Chad, they don't give a fuck is Chad has a respectable job and a good salary, because they're not going to delud…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 12:19 AM
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Gotta start working your way to dread 7 or 8 to get rid of the hard nos. If she's not gonna fuck you, someone else will. Remember that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 09:40 PM
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Her sister is not way hotter than my wife, but has a completely different attitude about marriage and respecting the husband. Sometimes she even seems RP in her views. Feel free to bring this up. I mean, I figure at this point, if your wife wants a fight, give her a fight. Be a fucking Lion. Edit: the point isn't to start a fight, but if you're going to be dragged into a fight, make sure you're going to win.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 09:39 PM
3

This new company is actually really nice and are treating me with great respect and make me feel very valued and welcome. I'm planning on staying with my company for a while for this exact reason. Remember, most women don't understand honor or loyalty. My advice from a long time ago still stands, you need to divorce your crazy wife. You should also tell your wife to try to fuck the sister's husband then. Also, just by chance, is the sister way hotter?
/r/askMRP22/09/15 08:51 PM
2

feminism has taken root in india. so has the cock carousel. but you're thinking about so much ridiculous shit you can't control. waste of your time. edit, you know what, you're a 24 year old virgin. how many female friends do you have? i'd bet none. go fucking interact with the opposite sex before you think about bigger dumber shit.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 08:48 PM
2

change your mind of thinking. too much oneitis and pigeonholing yourself. "i'm going to get a blowjob every night. whether it's from my wife or another fine lady is up to her." you're trying to control stuff you have no control over, i.e. your wife's behavior. this is wrong, control what you do have control over, i.e. your own behavior. she's had time to shower and shave her legs, so go fuck someone else. now if you're not willing to make a change in a situation that you're not satisfied with, t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 08:44 PM
2

I don't seem to be making her crazed with lust just yet. This is most likely because you aren't actively flirting with her. You're not showing her that you're interested in her. Add in some time to appreciate the fact that she is your wife. she's not sucking my dick. At some point it's on you to communicate what you want. It doesn't sound like you're doing this. Communicate verbally or non-verbally in a way that communicates that you EXPECT her to suck your dick - no excuses. i.e. your frame is …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 06:16 PM
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Mate... you're asking a bunch of internet strangers how to live your life. Do you not see the blatantly obvious wrong in that? "No" is not a hard and fast rule, "no" is for when you're taken for granted. If you're being appreciated for what you do, why would you stop doing things for someone you care about that appreciates what you do? That approach is fucking retarded. Cutting the nose to spite the face. The long and short is, of course I want to do things for my wife that makes her life better…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 06:12 PM
2

are you implementing the 12 stages of dread?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 06:07 PM
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start putting in the energy to change your mentality. no one cares about your self pity, loathing, and whining. you keep that mentality and you've already failed. you want this and you want that and what you want doesn't fucking matter. put in the effort. read the sidebar. read the top post. start internalizing and digesting instead of spewing your garbage responses as if they matter or as if people care. the work you do, you're probably going to be the only one who appreciates it.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 05:32 PM
1

told her straight up that if she was gonna be a cold fish then I wasn't willing to do it. fucking look at how you phrase this shit. it's not about you at all. even the way you think about it is about her behavior. it's fucking pathetic. you don't even bother to frame it as if you have standards. no. you simply whine and pout as if she should give a fuck about you. it's not that your standards are met. it's that she isn't acting right.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 04:41 PM
1

if she's not fucking you the way you want, why do you keep going back to her? there's a lot of women out there.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 04:40 PM
2

oh yeah. i just clump cooking and cleaning under charm.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 04:38 PM
1

no. if you're asking for validation, the answer is obviously no. the mentality matters more than the words. and... "are you sure you're not just trying to have sex? The last 2 nights I've just wanted to snuggle and you ended up wanting sex both nights" .. seems pretty much like banter. what comes through loud and clear is your lack of vision in your own life. a simple, generic really low roadblock throws you for a giant loop.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 01:12 PM
1

Of course that translates into no hotel sex. Sounds like the failure has nothing to do with situations or logistics, but more to do with limiting beliefs.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 01:11 PM
2

SMV for men is mostly intrinsic (viewpoint, happiness, self-satisfaction, etc.) SMV for women is about looks, sexual appeal, and charm.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 01:10 PM
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this is an awesome post. no jargon, just actions. good stuff. for the new guys, OP made no effort to change his wife's behavior. he simply recognized that what she was doing was unacceptable to him and decided to make a change in his own life while giving her an invitation to come along. she made the necessary changes in her own life to join him.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 05:51 PM
3

Just as a point of information, I probably have less than a handful of comments in the negative on this sub, so most of what I post is pretty well received.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 05:06 PM
6

this post reeks of insecurity. and i guess i should say something positive, so, nice diary post. the answers to your questions are in the first line of this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 04:45 PM
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what the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 03:04 AM
3

i actually didn't.... i skimmed it looking for anything that op was doing on his own. found nothing. just a lot of she/her statements. very reactive. very bad. this is the type of "advice" crap you'd find in relationships, framed the same way. it was pretty obvious he hadn't done any leg work.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 02:57 AM
8

is this r/relationships? the fuck is going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 06:00 PM
13

read more. incredibly beta. you're trying to control her actions. that's wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 01:44 PM
5

i don't give a fuck about your pussy ass whiny bullshit and your delusions of grandeur and all this shit you PLAN on doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 03:23 AM
5

hahaha. wow. i deleted my post because yours is just so much more on point.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 03:22 AM
1

by the way I look good imho, I have been unknowingly following dread level 2 for years, training for marathon, 6 pack, strong arms from climbing and lifting so bottom line is I am fuckable how you look and how much you make doesn't fucking matter. it's the impact you have on her. remember, you have YEARS of being a beta bitch in her minds so that the image you generate. But I also come across many posts where TRP'ers are being assertive with their wives, TELLING them they are going to fuck, slap…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 02:39 AM
3

Really? If you're not a troll, go fix yourself. Christ. Call the suicide hotline. Then call a marriage helpline.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 02:34 AM
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why are you justifying yourself over shit you don't need to justify yourself over?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/15 04:45 PM
1

So I pathetically try to live both the free, single life and the married dad life simultaneously, and am therefore successful at neither. it sounds like you want to be the married dad because you care about your kid and no so much about your marriage. the californication series follows a dad who's basically single, but is very active in the life of the kid. i think it's entertaining, but there might be some gems you'll pick up.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:34 PM
3

i mean... if she's going to act like a bitch, treat her like one. read up a bit more on amused mastery. how would you react if she was a 4 year old child? would you indulge her bs
/r/askMRP18/09/15 02:42 PM
1

nah. the more time you spend, the more you can actually internalize - you can understand more in 3 months vs 1 day. i think you're posting a lot more about symptoms and thinking less about causes, if that makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:14 PM
1

whether this is true or not, the issue at play is op's lack of confidence in himself, and his automatic, robotic beta good by reflexes.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 01:38 PM
1

yeah, i get downvoted surprisingly often. most of the time i write things out with the harshest tone possible too. same message, different delivery.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 01:37 PM
1

what makes you think the mods know better? What personal actions have you taken in regards to owning your shit? this is actually a hard question because it's not about how you're checking off a list of things you're doing. it's about the mental processes you're undergoing to change the way you think about yourself in modern society. i.e. how am i applying the concept of a "red pill man" to my own personality. it's a hard question - try to revisit his in like 3 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 01:25 PM
1

yeah... i wouldn't say i love you either. but op's already throwing it out like candy so.. w/e.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 01:24 PM
1

see livelikealesbian's post.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 07:47 AM
2

I told my wife when she gained 30 pounds during the pregnancy that i wasn't attracted to her sexually. Her doctor commented she was gaining weight too quickly too. She saw a nutritionist, adjusted her diet, and took care of the situation. At the end of the day, our relationship is based on the fact that I respect her enough to be honest, and that I expected her to respect me enough to be honest too. IMO, lying is the ultimate betrayal. I can deal with hurt feelings, but I can't deal with not tru…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 07:44 AM
1

find a new family. a better one.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 06:02 AM
5

sounds like the failure was that your joke sucked. what was the joke and did it involve a judgment on her as a person? i'd be willing to bet money it did.
/r/askMRP18/09/15 05:57 AM
1

hey is fraccing/oil and gas exploration investment going up again? do you work with geophysics folk at all? every single regular bill i get is autopay. it's just easy and i dont' have to mess around with it. i check my mint regularly to make sure what's being charged is legit. I like what I do. VP is enough for me. RP theory would say live life the way you want to live it. Be comfortable in your own skin and evaluate where you are in life honestly.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:54 AM
1

I like the fact that your first post is in OYS. That's the way to do it. Some days I just drink water or tea. Frame and owning your shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:49 AM
1

this is a nice oys post.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:43 AM
2

But lately I’ve become increasingly annoyed by guys displaying stereotypical “alpha bad boy” behavior yup. guys that are OBVIOUSLY trying to make themselves appear to be men of value just seem so desperate for validation. yup also, failing is part of the process.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:41 AM
2

make sure you're sending the message that you expect her to continue to contribute to your happiness and well-being. western media tells women that they can stop giving a shit when they're pregnant, that they're the center of the universe. remind her that that type of thinking is bullshit and you'll only put up with it for so long.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:40 AM
1

I think is a social colloquium. Depending on how you follow up the phrase/sentence after I think, it can be either meek or dominating. It's in the tone and delivery, but until you've got that right, yeah, cut it out and cheat.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:38 AM
1

don't tolerate shitty behavior means seeing better behavior. good work.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:37 AM
1

look at you go. sounds like you're internalizing a lot of this and kicking ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:34 AM
1

criticism from males I respect read as: hamster/agree with my preconceived biases. all i got from your list is basically "i'm checking boxes off of someone else's" list. (this is not to say that list isn't good). what you're doing is a lot of shallow surface level stuff. lots of newbie crack. i don't even know why this needs to be a post since there's a massive "OWN YOUR SHIT" thread stickied regularly.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:28 AM
2

Answer. who fucking cares. i said it. i meant it. not my fucking problem who hears. if i didn't want to say it, i would've kept my mouth shut.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:23 AM
4

How about this? Only speak when you have something worth saying and then speak like you deserve to be heard.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:21 AM
2

the next car after the lease is up in 2 years is a convertible. the coupe just doesn't quite cut it in the summer.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:29 AM
5

kinda curious if you'll end up on TBP or SRS first.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:28 AM
2

mute notifications.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:27 AM
2

i was wondering what happened to you. glad you don't need MRP anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:26 AM
1

I figure if it's important, it's face to face important. Gee golly. How did beta cunts manage to survive all those years before cell phones?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:25 AM
2

let me ask you this. how are you gonna get anyone to sext you when they don't find you attractive?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:24 AM
2

training wheels for RP newbies. You can actually ask for advice on the midst of a text exchange. and then you send the text, but it completely bombs because the person asking is a little bitch and we're not. then the retarded motherfucker asking stupid newbie questions is like 'wat do?" your shit advice is shit. and look at all the retard newbies upvoting you. spouting this type of garbage advice when most of you guys aren't respected nor attractive is unhelpful. better to just stfu with text an…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:21 AM
4

"Did you get my text?" "Of course I did". "Why didn't you respond?" "To that b.s.? You kidding me?" <--- frame fucking dominance and reality destroyer. "<something other bs>". "hahahahahahaha."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:19 AM
3

silence is the pretty often the best response to bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:17 AM
2

I have always been sort of a loner and I want, I NEED to change that. You don't NEED to change that. What you NEED is to be comfortable in your own skin. If you're not comfortable with being a homebody, what you need to do is figure out how to make friends. Address causes, not symptoms.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:16 AM
1

So.... since you don't know anything about what's she's doing back home, would you still text her that if you knew she was getting nailed on the regular, both holes?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:08 AM
1

At this point everything inside me was telling me to tell her i was sorry and that i loved her and cared about her. I wanted to tell her everything i was doing at work who i talked to what i said. It was this sicking feeling in my stomach and the only way to get rid of it was to just spill my pathetic mangina and feelings to her....but i didnt. I'm not sure but i think it paid of because here is how i responded. Disgusting pussy. Me:I was making my workout schedule so I can be awesome. How is qu…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:07 AM
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A&A "Of course you do. I'm awesome." You know... another idea could be you sack the fuck up and own your thoughts, instead of dancing around her delicate feeewwings like a well trained bitch. "You're fat. You're not that attractive to me. I love you though." This is stupidly fucking simple. Try reading the sidebar and all the other things people put in effort to compile for you. You'd find the answer clearly in NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:04 AM
5

note that the poster above you verbalized his expectation. So I ended it, and told her she was now my only release, so she better be up to the task! She was happy to hear that and thankfully has stepped up to the plate. The choice is really her, or some other slut, and you basically give her the choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 04:49 PM
1

watch season 1 of californication.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 05:20 AM
3

high value man = inherent dread, you don't have to do shit. the number of self-confident, self-driven, self-assured men out there is so fucking slim.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 02:56 AM
1

tl;dr "I stopped being a weaksauce little beta beta and i'm surprised to find i'm more attractive. gee willikers. "
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 02:02 PM
3

I know that trying to separate finances would not work at this point I love how people KNOW things off pure feelings.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 02:00 PM
0

what a self fellating question. post at Purplepilldebate
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:59 PM
1

"man cave" what a beta concept. I work out. I'm buff, I have a great job, note that the thing you're not putting down is "i'm attractive to my wife" pretty sure that should be the metric on if a relationship is going well or not. any new guy who puts a bunch of shit is just hamstering his lack of attractiveness to his wife. is I feel that it's still looked upon as childish awww other people's feeeeeeeeeeeeeeling how cute.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:56 PM
1

i don't think you understand how it's supposed to work........ IDGAF mentality.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:56 PM
4

Backwards rationalization and the hamster come into play here, emotion before logic. The key point is "if you never would've made a move, I would've assumed you weren't interested" - my wife. What this means is that because women are more emotionally driven creatures (can we just accept this generalization?), they way they process a situation isn't as calculated or logical as when we view something. So take the case of an unknown girl that you're trying to pick up. If you make a move and she mak…
/r/askMRP16/09/15 01:47 PM
3

42 year old drug addict who babbles and is uninteresting and is a single parent. how the fuck did you not next her immediately?
/r/askMRP16/09/15 01:33 PM
1

My kid is almost a teenager now. It's freaking awesome too. I love having a kid, and I was probably more anti kid than you. I was so anti kid I didn't allow them at our wedding. anti-everyone else's kid* being in a father feels like being in some sort of secret club.
/r/askMRP16/09/15 01:29 PM
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if you don't want kids and she does, don't waste her time. don't be a dick. jesus.
/r/askMRP16/09/15 01:28 PM
1

potential to be useful is higher for sure but the notion of charity is not a main cause.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 03:30 AM
0

My wife knows my account too. She doesn't read my posts. I'm exactly the way here that I am in person. Very low tolerance for b.s. but I try to be patient for people who try. My general advice for those questions is to live your life so that you're satisfied with the way you live your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 09:20 PM
2

I tease you about deleting the threads, not writing them. :p They're good. You should keep them up imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:12 PM
1

Save the name just in case. /u/whinemoreplease had a great attitude on this, the better you are doing, the more you would want to help your fellow man. I don't agree with this. Don't waste your time and energy on other people. Do it for your own amusement.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 06:37 PM
0

Hahahhaha. Retard. COme on man.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 01:55 PM
1

i mostly respond to ego and male hamster. people who pity themselves i don't care about. no one cares about their woe is me bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 01:23 PM
2

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. Most men will have to hit rock bottom to get to the point where they are willing to get help. The important thing is that when his situation shits the bed, your friend knows that there's someone who gets it. I talk about this stuff to my close friends on the regular, and every once in a while, it goes belly up and they'll come and ask me something specific. Know the difference between jelly and jam? I can't jelly my dick down your thr…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/15 03:42 PM
2

same theory applies. why would you (in this case your wife) waste effort on people who don't add value to your life? why waste time thinking about people who've already decided to not think about you? this is a classic case of pedestaling. awalt, even/especially your wifes mom.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/15 04:40 AM
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Next. Take note how pretty much all the experienced guys are basically saying next. Not worth the cost.
/r/askMRP12/09/15 03:11 AM
1

But I snapped yesterday when she had an angry bitchy tone when I accidentally woke her up. I completely lost frame and said fuck this and got my pillow to sleep on the couch. I had been drinking and maybe was a bit easy to set off. Once down there I realized I failed MRP, and once again said fuck this, and went back upstairs, woke her up and told her that I put up with her princess attitude when she was pregnant and for a year or two while she was struggling being a new mom and in school but no …
/r/askMRP11/09/15 05:07 PM
3

i meant that mrp is charity for me and i feel sadness for a lot of these married guys coming in.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:43 PM
2

you ever just feel pity for people? or ever want to do anonymous charity? shit like that makes me think i'm not that bad of a guy, even though i probably am.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:19 PM
5

I knew a guy who dry humped pillows. But to the flair point, you know, before I got flair, I didn't know shit. It was only after I got flair that RED PILL made sense. So to all the new guys, don't forget to work super hard to get your flair, because if you don't have flair, none of this will make sense. That little red icon is a truth bomb. RED PILL is certainly nothing you can learn on your own, because that's too hard and there's too much information. You have to have it bestowed upon you and …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:15 PM
4

First, good work Water off my back Second, 99% of things can be treated like this. If you have certainty in yourself and your ability to make your own path, you'll realize nothing is that important. Just wait until your wife fully buys into your frame and buys into the "water off our back" mentality - I think you'll like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 01:54 PM
1

it's not complicated. it's about having self respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 02:18 AM
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I have showered her with gifts, I do half the house work, I have tried every which way to convince her I am going to be a good father and we should do this but she stays evasive. hahaahhahahha and Whenever I become insistent about trying for a baby, she offers a bj as a change of subject and I am ashamed to admit that it works. I get bjs so rarely from her that I always cave when she wants to give me one. The bjs are rather perfunctory where she puts the tip in her mouth and sucks on it while pu…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 09:20 PM
0

weak men let themselves get bashed and abused by women. it's not in our instinct to be little bitches, but somehow people have adopted this mindset. fuck 'em.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 08:43 PM
2

Big fan of the post, especially point 4. The reason implementing is so hard is because we're talking about personality level changes. We have to be on guard for our own slippages and our own relaxing of expectations. But if you're proactive about assessing your own growth, it'll happen because of habituation. I'm a big fan of hearing about work related stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 04:45 PM
4

I actually got annoyed at how hush hush miscarriage is because miscarriage apparently happens a lot. So the consequence of painting a picture of having a baby as being an easy process, is that everyone expects it to go perfectly. This, obviously, is ridiculous given the high rate of miscarriages. What ends up happening is that now women have this expectation that everything goes well, and when it goes wrong, they're made to feel like failures because no one ever talks about it. Then that gets co…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 04:17 PM
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hahahaha. too true. pretty sure you'll be fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 04:04 PM
1

The implication behind constantly apologizing is that you're subjugated to the whimsical judgments of others. The idea is to get out of the mindset that a majority of blue pill guys are in. 99% of the time, there's nothing to apologize for or the apology is hollow. Talk is incredibly cheap -- "i'm sorry" for the majority of the population is just talk.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:59 PM
2

yeah, that makes more sense than my b.s.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:10 PM
1

oh, miscarriage. yeah, miscarriages happen. part of life. part of the risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 02:58 PM
2

but I was because people said make her see you have your shit together, the thinking behind it is she comes over and sees that I'm not struggling as a man without her there, does that make sense or would you still say wrong? Why do you give a fuck what she thinks? Your whole entire existence is dominated by this woman who ditched you and is probably riding big black cock.
/r/askMRP10/09/15 02:57 PM
1

It's a good question. What do you think about this stuff and how it applies to YOUR marriage? It's never really about what you say, but the conviction with which you say things.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 02:37 PM
1

M word?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 02:31 PM
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This was an awesome read. FUCK. THIS IS A SHIT TEST AND I KNOW IT. FUCK. I scramble for a good answer but... dickbrain... best I come up with is "maybe?"... lol FAIL. She continues to tease. I cave. I say "sure babe." Please tell me men, what is the right play here? You're doing fine. Make the stuff read for your own life thing. You get this. Trust your judgment -- don't sell yourself short because from the post, you're recognizing how you've fucked up and are making the strides necessary to fix…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 07:05 AM
1

it's blue pill because now you're taking on the responsibility for other people's feeling unnecessarily. you're basically telling these guys to go through life being loners and to emphatically practice oneitis. "emotionally cheating" -- take a moment to think how stupid that entire concept is, especially for a guy. practicing on other women is a poor decision; you DONT know how they will react how is someone else's reaction op's problem? no, this isn't a good thing, your wife doesn't just think …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 06:55 AM
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the fuck is this shit? how is any of this your (and by extension our) problem? you don't even have a wife. my suggestion. she should drop the course and be a stripper. good money there.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 06:43 AM
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something's not adding up. I've told her outright that I'm learning to game her, yet the techniques still work like magic. and Should I have told my wife about The Red Pill, that I'm gaming her, and that I gamed my co-worker? Presumably she knows you're running game and practicing right? Anyway, I've explained to my wife that I didn't physically fuck her, I just mind fucked her - and I explained some of the routines I ran on her, etc. Don't DEER. Which is what you did. "I was being cute, handsom…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 06:41 AM
0

what a blue pill response. incredibly lame. This is why I think practicing on other women is a poor decision; you DONT know how they will react. "i guess this means i better be a loser fuck who stays a loser fuck." just no. this entire response is simply a surefire way to make sure you remain unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 06:34 AM
1

Okay. Suppose she does. So what?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 02:09 AM
1

Your thinking is fucking retarded and blue pill. Choreplay and negotiating desire is unattractive.
/r/askMRP10/09/15 01:56 AM
2

I'd say you're doing this part right. He's doing it wrong. There's a very simple reason he's doing it wrong. I'm keeping the house really nice for when she comes over so she knows what she's missing etc, taking care of the bits round the house. He's trying to use choreplay to get that pussy going. That's a complete and utter fail. It's like a virgin daydreaming about the cheerleader. Sure, daydreaming's all good and nice, but should push ever come to shove, he will take no action -- and a coward…
/r/askMRP10/09/15 01:48 AM
1

some people in this world are asshole. the world is mean. time to cry and hope someone cares.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:31 AM
2

"I'm not happy with how badly I fucked up." e: I want to point out the subtlety cad's response too. Ultimately, what's going on in that sentence is that the person doing the judging is yourself, not your wife, not some other person. You own up to your failures. The second part gives permission for her to react emotionally to you, but notice that if you're giving permission, you can also withdraw it. The sentence is based on a presumption that you know what you're doing, made a mistake, are ownin…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:20 AM
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If she chooses to leave, it will suck, but thats her choice; it will be her breaking her promise. Shift your mindset to "If she doesn't meet my standards when I'm meeting my standards, I'm kicking her out." If an ungrateful harpy bitch leaves you, how exactly does that make your life worse?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:17 AM
1

was the temp ban useful for you at all?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 08:50 PM
1

I think thats the most I have ever saw you type at one time. really? you haven't seen the paragraphs upon paragraphs that i write out in response to specific people? that's really too bad - i personally think i write some good stuff. Given that, My last line should have read "how do you evaluate an effort to appreciate" i don't. it's silly to try to evaluate whether someone's tried hard enough to show effort. it's a binary, personal, and emotional judgment for me. people try and fail all the tim…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 08:00 PM
2

some of the stoic folks like meditation. i don't do it explicitly, but i do spend a lot of time thinking about life in my head. might be useful for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:54 PM
3

that's real easy. "do i feel appreciated?" "yes/no". if the answer is no, that's when boundaries need to be reinforced. it can be as small as just saying "please?" or "thanks" to her smiling/being happier. the first year we were hanging out, i bought her some $5 flowers for valentines day. they were pretty shitty and not fancy at all (sidenote: i personally hate obligation gifts and she knew this), but i figured she'd be elated by the gesture and she was special enough that i was willing to go o…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:49 PM
1

you are correct. if she didn't appreciate things, i wouldn't do things for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:41 PM
4

yeah, i doubt it's lying. but other people have suggested that she keep you up to date if she's going to take a bit longer/detour/etc. that seems like a reasonable compromise -- unless you really want her to be better about managing her time, in which case you should reaffirm the boundary. i personally wouldn't because woman and browinsg... ya know? but i do want to be informed and kept up to date so i don't have to worry about her being dead. remember, watch her actions. if she consistenty says…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:36 PM
1

not sure what your decision is, but i do see you highlighting because. i don't want to jump to a conclusion so would you explain in a bit more detail?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:32 PM
2

think about the statement a little and decide for yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:21 PM
8

I have no problem doing things for my wife, because my wife makes an effort to appreciate what I do.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 06:36 PM
2

don't give in to shitty behavior. reward good behavior. i'd also say call out shitty behavior, but do it in a frank manner, not an emotional one. 12 levels of dread. gotta be ready to execute all 12 levels. google sex god method pdf What are some concrete things I can do to demonstrate that I’m an Oak/Leader and not a Rock/Dictator/Asshole -- without going back to being a beta bitch? (Yes, I’ve read the sidebar.) reward good behavior. punish shitty behavior. lead by action. if she's a total cunt…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 06:32 PM
1

Frame is something you are and not something you do. Focus more on it becoming a part of you and less something you have to put energy into.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 06:29 PM
3

You've been a retard. Continuing to wallow in that fact means you're going to continue being a retard. If you're looking backwards, you're not looking forwards. Get rid of toxic people.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 06:26 PM
3

TRP is an great example of crab bucket mentality. "I'm angry so you should be too!"
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:53 AM
3

Yeah. pretty much this. shit happens. grow from it. there's no underlying structural issue going on here except maybe OP focusing too much on the wife's emotions. OP fucked up and made a mistake, too bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:48 AM
2

This is really interesting. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 06:06 PM
2

I would say indulging and rewarding the kid when he's dictating dad's behavior (no daddy no) was a misstep
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 05:45 PM
4

This is you bullshitting yourself. Your boundaries should exist even if you're out of sight
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 05:42 PM
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Lol. I was actually talking about the wife. But it completely applied to the kid ad well.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 04:59 PM
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Your wife reacted the way she did because of years of shitty boundary enforcement on your part. You should have started enforcing years ago. Now is a good time too.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 04:25 PM
2

i find that most posters at TRP enjoy wallowing in objective reality. '70% of marriages end in divorce, QED Divorce Rape! Fuck women!' type of stuff. Or 'Single mothers are delinquent subhuman scum who you should avoid at all costs.' with the implication that YOU (reader) are better than them! Rah rah rah! And then you get a bunch of autistic fucks amplifying the echo chamber effect. Statistically you're not wrong. But so fucking what? Even if 90% of single mothers are completely shit people, no…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 03:54 PM
3

TRP is something I skim and not a place I'd ever comment. There's not enough focus on owning your own fuckups/shits and taking personal responsibility and it's reflect in the commenting style (see: 'all single mother's are whores' which naturally begs the question, so what? what are YOU going to do about that?). There is good quality content though when I'm skimming, archwinger's posts are usually golden. But for the most part I get nothing from there and I have nothing to contribute.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 03:42 PM
2

There is no truth in value judgments, but our ego reacts as if there are.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 03:36 PM
9

get rid of tldr imo. tldr's are for lazy fucks. i don't suggest you cater to their whims. it actually does irk me since i put the effort to communicate with you, and you put the effort to share your knowledge with other people and some cunt is too lazy to read a 3 minute post. this is a good post. fuck the people who are too lazy to put in 3 minutes of reading. choice is yours, obviously.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 08:22 AM
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stop being a lazy fuck and read. taking shortcuts means you miss out nuance. nuance is the heart and soul of personal growth. tldr - you're a whiny cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 08:22 AM
0

Spin hamster spin. either of us could afford solo. Maybe right now you pathetic fuck. the more TRP, not MRP, way of things what do you think the difference is?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 05:10 AM
2

At the end of the day, the alpha/beta spectrum does help a lot of guys - which is good for them. If it makes it easier for some guys to be happier in life, I'm not gonna take a massive dump on it. I, personally, don't endorse the alpha/beta system and if you look through my history, you won't see me diluting my thoughts into alpha/beta. I talk about concepts and how they apply differently to different personalities and different situations. Ideally everyone would be smart enough to understand ho…
/r/askMRP07/09/15 03:16 AM
2

In terms of relationship, women/people are shitty because others put up and accept their shitty behavior. If you don't put up with it, you'll either get rid of them or they'll have to change to fit your standards. In both cases, you no longer have a shitty person in your life. Some people are mean spirited and a lot of it comes from how they were raised and who they were raised by. Not everyone is just "fixable". You get rid of them and they're no longer your fucking problem. Problem fixed.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/15 08:39 PM
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