Partner Count: How many is too many?

Scurvemuch · 2016-02-07T06:02:04+00:00

F=1/ x³ * 45 - age

KEep in mind all values of X relate to your SMV as proportionate to your Max weight for a squat

mrpCamper · 2016-02-08T14:19:16+00:00

I have no idea why anyone would ever ask this of anyone they were sexually interested in. I can remember when my wife and I were dating and she asked me how many people I slept with. I told her straight up. I am not telling you and you are never telling me. This is the end of this conversation. And it was.

whinemoreplease · 2016-02-07T05:55:39+00:00

obviously.

any more than 1 and your wife/gf/plate is a used slut who you should get rid of. shit, you faggots need to have some standards. have you not read the "how to be a MRP man handbook?" it gives you a step by step playbook on how you should be making every single decision in your life. for example, if you wake up and she doesn't have breakfast ready, time to get rid of her. if you have an erection and she's not around, time to get rid of her. if your socks aren't folded properly, time to get rid of her. look for the play by play how to guide on the sidebar.

over60_stupid_loner · 2016-02-07T05:37:52+00:00

For you I have more questions for you to think about than specific answers. Too, at my age, I just find the partner count a non-issue.

If you want to deal with partner count for HER, you also have to deal with YOU.

And, yes, age matters. Age 18, 20's, 30's 40's……? How many marriages, and all kinds of other issues play out here.

Certainly partner count of 20 at age 40 is a whole different story than a count of 20 at age 18.

What if you had a partner count of way past 100, are you going to even ask her for a number?

If you are getting what you want from the relationship sexually, do you really need to know?

What about practice makes perfect?

If you haven't noticed I think partner count is ~~bullshit mental masterbation~~ hamstering .

irateMD · 2016-02-07T13:33:41+00:00

General Comment
What makes LTR healthier than a period of plate spinning, other than risk of STI? How do you plan to vet women without dating a few? The experience helps you to develop relationship skills and helps you to better understand what you really want in a woman.

The red pill is not a substitute for experience, but a set of tools that you can customize to your own personality and vision of the life that you want. Read the Book of Pook. It's free, and it's the best book in the sidebar to reconcile "be attractive" with "just be yourself."

high n-count anecdotes

women with higher libido and lower inhibitions tend to have more sex and have higher n-count (less likely to have dead bedroom later)
tend to have a better idea of what they like in bed
tend to be better in bed
less likely to be blind to your failings in the bedroom, so you may not be "the best she has ever had" (intolerable if you have a fragile ego, a fun challenge for others)
less desperate to stay with the next guy who comes along, which can be restated as more likely to branch swing if you are unattractive
may have poor impulse control (if high n-count, be on the lookout for other impulse control problems like gambling, lottery tickets, substance use and escapism)
as /u/IASGame said, an alpha widow with n-count=1 may behave similarly to a woman with a high n-count, without the advantages of more sexual experience

Bottom Line

Get some experience and don't obsess about how much experience she had. Insecurity is unattractive. Be attractive, don't get hung up on finding "the one", and you'll be fine.

Edit: added impulse control bullet point
Edit 2:
Context - I'm an alpha widower married to an alpha widow. I need to have better personality/game than the hotter guys she fucked, and she has to have better game than the hotter women I have fucked. It's really that simple.

triclops41 · 2016-02-07T05:14:58+00:00

With something so absolutely unverifiable, it seems silly to have strong preferences for a specific number.

SexistFlyingPig · 2016-02-07T07:10:52+00:00

For men or for women?

IASGame · 2016-02-07T11:50:10+00:00

I think Rollo's stance is that it is not necessarily the count but whether the woman is an "Alpha Widow" (and possibly whether you can out-alpha the previous men, including how she may be idealizing them rather than what was reality).

MRPguy · 2016-02-08T21:43:55+00:00

I ask MRP because my goal is healthy LTR(s),

The health will come from your reaction to whatever response is given. You can't control what she has already done, but you can control your reaction to the answer she gives.

And, if it isn't really important to you, then don't ask.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-02-07T12:59:21+00:00

After you Ltr her? 1

Title	Partner Count: How many is too many?
Author	Mile1high
Upvotes	4
Comments	25
Date	February 7, 2016 4:59 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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