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Chasing women and buses only makes you tired and you will always be left behind. Yup. But no regrets.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 03:14 AM
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What's important? Easy side pussy? The thrill of the chase? Maybe for now, but it's empty calories. Well said. You will make your own choices as I did. I wish you better outcomes....
/r/askMRP01/10/17 02:56 PM
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Don't be a dumbasss: Read this and [this]
/r/askMRP30/09/17 08:54 PM
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she literally likes 60 yo penis more than yours Of course.....
/r/askMRP07/08/17 08:46 PM
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Your nest is emptying out, and you are looking for life after nest. Been there and right now this could go a lot of ways for you. I'll give you might take from your short post...... Empty nest. This is real man. You saw it coming 4 years ago and said, what's left after the kids? Long term beta, because you could. You and wife were busy raising those kids and you tolerated each others laziness toward your marriage. She rejects and you do the butt-hurt and sulk. Kind of like a truce. Your instinct…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 07:51 PM
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Counterpoint: Every one of his "solutions" are about staying with her. He isn't even thinking about killing the puppy, he wants to spank the puppy with a newspaper..... All the advice to NEXT ain't happening for this guy. I'm with u/anythinginc he needs to keep working on him, he may never have what it takes to kill the puppy, but he might have what it takes to survive, or someday move on.
/r/askMRP12/07/17 12:10 AM
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You can not control him, neither can she. Get your thinking straight. Your only option, and you know this, is to continure to be more attractive than "other guy"
/r/askMRP11/07/17 02:36 PM
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Option 1 still works for YOU. Option 2 is arguing. Until you get to the point of authority on this STFU. Option 3 is a waste of time. He may not even care. Option 4 is just another waste of time. She (his wife) may take his side... Your problem is between you and your wife. Keep it there. You aren't even ready to own that you have been monitoring her stuff. Until you can own it, hold it. You obviously want your marriage IMO you would have exited already. Yes Oneitis for sure, it is what it is ma…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 02:22 PM
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My ego just could not pass it up. Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 02:52 AM
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We have met. I'm floating around regular.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 02:50 AM
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tow rope was my original posts here
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 01:08 AM
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TRP fixes the man and everyone that man leads can thrive Yes, I'm still a work in progress....
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 10:11 PM
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The best I have on this one is: K ;)
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 09:42 PM
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Would I do it again, the same way? No. I explained it in this post. Happy with how the kids turned out? Without a doubt. But there was a big difference between my younger self and CAD. I was treading water and CAD was swimming. In fact, there was just no comparison. I was an plugged-in alpha guy with a BluePill mindset. Make no mistake it worked for me at the time, but it was not optimal. In spite of that, the kids thrived.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:36 PM
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Yes, solemn, so solemn. Oath-keepers... Yep, one troll to another. ;o)
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:11 PM
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She will do things for you she hasn't let her husband do in decades Yes, no doubt. They will even recruit for you. Man you remind me of a guy that used to post a while back. His specialty was keeping the panties wet with the soccer moms and PTA.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 04:30 AM
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Back a few months ago, the following was part of a comment to u/TheFamilyAlpha. It seems appropriate here...... Just an add….Back in the dark ages, I also coached kid soccer teams. One team I coached was 6 yr. olds. At the parents meeting we made a rule. You should yell for the kids, BUT, tell them what they did right. Anything they do wrong is my job. If they run at the ball and get knocked down like a bowling pin, yell great run! I will teach, you encourage. Then we set up a rotation of parent…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 04:02 AM
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The sooner you take charge of this, the better chance you and your children have of repairing the damage.
/r/askMRP11/03/17 02:30 PM
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There is a big, big difference between me and this OP. I actually did something. For better or worse, I did shit. I did not crawl in hole and cry that I missed my little playmate, that isn't even fucking me. OP, you are pitiful. You are living in a fantasy world. Keep this up and I am coming to fuck your wife right in front of you. Like this..
/r/askMRP11/03/17 04:45 AM
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Tears for ya too. Bro love lasts forever.
/r/askMRP10/03/17 11:56 PM
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Wife of many years makes a hell of a lot more than I do in a human services field. I'm home most of the day trying to keep bills paid and deal with things. I struggle to make money off the company I've owned for the past ten years. All but one kid out of the house. Human services is not highly paid. You are home most of the day and not making much money. Maybe that's part of the problem. You are a low paid, house husband. Running a business effectively, seldom involves clutsing around the house …
/r/askMRP10/03/17 11:08 PM
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I cannot endorse this message enough. I was married to this same crazy bitch in another time and place far far away. Your story nails a spike through my heart. This pulls back another curtain to reveal what a sorry bitch I was. The sooner you take charge of this, the better chance you and your children have of repairing the damage. THAT IS ALL THERE IS TO IT. THAT IS ALL YOU NEED. THAT IS ALL YOU GET
/r/askMRP10/03/17 06:41 PM
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Some dudes I respect seem to respect you though, so cheers I guess. He helped some old guy out, back in the day. Verbally kicked him in the nuts at the right time. But yeah, I think selfies are crap, unless there are boobs. Extra points for cleavage and puffy nips. I could go on....
/r/askMRP28/01/17 12:22 AM
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Yes, just went through most of it. The theory gives some ideas to explain the Boomers and their kids etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/17 02:38 AM
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You've been at this about a year. You are happier. You are thinking of staying, but IMO it's not all about the kids. Or is it really? You're not out there slaying the soccer moms either. You are making choices that suit you. You're learning to allow her to do, whatever. You're still working on you and you have time. Full speed ahead, you will know when you are ready, and no one can tell you , but you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/17 12:01 AM
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I'ma still looking for an extended warranty. Then there is the downside of living too long and not living well. Living well is better.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 04:37 PM
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can't wait to be 60, but I want to enjoy the trip before I do Yes absolutely this. There are no guarantees of getting there. All of the guys I ran with as an under 30, are dead. Seriously dead. Never wait, never, never, never. My Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 04:15 PM
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It was that Beaver that Eddie Haskel was after.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 04:08 PM
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by giving them anything more than minimal hope of saving their marriages. This should be edited to also say: "and encourage them to say in their marriages for the sake of the children." To your well made point, it is not to save the relationship it is to save the man, no one can disagree. However, much is said here about "saving marriages" and often it si "for the sake of the children". This is where I take increasing issue, as presented in a prior post: Having two parents and lots of stuff is g…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 03:56 PM
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Here's my fancy shaving gear. http://target.scene7.com/is/image/Target/16601355?wid=450&hei=450&fmt=pjpeg
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 02:26 AM
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I grew up watching Ozzie and Harriet and Leave it To Beaver. Thinking back, it is hard to imagine that Mrs. June Cleaver ever took that dress off, even for bed, or that he ever took of that suit. The abject lack of sexuality in those shows was, amazing. Yes, Rollo, there was never any doubt about who was in charge, regardless of how he qualified himself for it. Your points made about the versions of the Red Pill transformation process, has certainly been the source of many recent discussions. So…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 02:07 AM
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Good point. You're always on step ahead....... :)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 06:03 PM
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I'll call my attorney, get that added to my estate instructions.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 05:21 PM
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Pussy is not worth dying for. Really.. It's not?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 03:16 PM
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You should play when the playground is open. Don't go play big boy sports if you can't handle getting hurt. Based on your post. IMO no way you are ready. When you get your shit on lock, go play if you want to. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 03:14 PM
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Yes. Ditto.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 03:02 AM
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old man? pussy
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 02:58 AM
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You've been at this over a year and don't have a MAP? YES OP. If you don't put a foundation under your wall, it will fall.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 03:09 PM
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A shout out to u/[deleted] Would you give OP your ideas to start on this?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 03:34 AM
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If you blow out the door now, you set yourself loose on the world, and you are not ready. You can get ready after you leave. Wouldn't it be helpful to have someone to practice on, that you know will fuck you sometimes?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 03:31 AM
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HB8/ does yoga/ works out/ opinionated/ stubborn/ can follow/ submissive/ smart/ can make money/ focusing on negativity and problems She really sounds like she is a little above average here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 02:47 AM
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My thoughts... The fact that I got so much backlash tells me I hit a nerve in the formula-driven men. Too many guys that just don't know how much blue is still hiding in their blood. Some issues will always hit to the core and get the visceral reactions, even in a relatively "safe space" as we have here. Everything as some version of recoil.... physics. part of me that's still blue is this fear that I won't successfully accomplish my plan and will fold when the time comes to make the hard decisi…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 09:40 PM
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I am probably the only one here that went through both the 70's and 80's as an adult family man. I lived through the social changes of budding feminism and what Rollo calls, Relational Equity. There is no doubt that employing Relational Equity was/is a death blow to masculinity. Everything he describes I was exposed to in spades back then. His history lesson is very accurate, in spite of his youth :). I will add one more item for discussion. The older you are, and, the longer term the relationsh…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 07:48 PM
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though at 30 if I take the term literally...that means I'll never get to be an over60_stupid_loner. In other news, never thought I would live this long anyway. Life's surprises never end.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 04:19 PM
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confusing Christmas for Easter. Always liked that phrase.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 03:02 PM
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Yeah, everybody's having fun, and next thing, sure as heck, somebody gets their eye put out. :o)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 02:51 PM
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I am lucky, even without the wife goggles, she is a damn fine looking woman. She takes care of herself and her appearance, and, other than the desire issues, takes good care of me. You're right though, it is up to me to seduce her all over again. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 03:22 AM
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Yes, you are a giver my friend. A true philanderer philanthropist
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 01:10 AM
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We should go zombie hunting sometime.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 10:42 PM
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Scientific Fact: Anything observed is changed. Having a thought, seldom changes anything. Expressing a thought, changes the speaker and the receiver, although that change may be imperceptible. The gift of writing a thought down, for all to view, changes the writer and anyone that ever reads it. Yes, we deliver gifts here.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 10:41 PM
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Did he make any effort to find out what her problem is? If he did I missed it. Then be careful not to get run over by a bus. Don't get stomped on by that elephant in the room. Fuck off, you are stupid or you can't read, or both.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 09:49 PM
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The turning points are very well known to me. A move and a near death health issue. My reaction was to go uncharacteristically full beta. I dried her up, and just kept doing more, and more. The problem is not the reason why, it is I.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 09:37 PM
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Yes, agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 04:45 PM
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And the first?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 03:08 PM
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PS. Always liked it. I wear it with pride. Says a lot about my inner asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 02:58 PM
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assess risks, assess values Since I know what I value, and I can assess the relative risks of losing the things I value, my matrix of probabilities is not that difficult to create. Thank you for removing so much brain fog.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 03:08 AM
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this does not have to mean that you no longer want your life or your wife, but it does mean that there is a value there you have internalized that your wife can't (or at least isn't) providing for you. Yes but.... Yes but..... Now.... What do? :) So I understand it better, and that keeps me sane. But I am faced with how to navigate it here forward, and that makes me a little crazy. Sometimes it just sucks to be me. lol Seriously now. The words that come to mind are, Frame, and, Dominate. I am re…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 11:21 PM
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Starting your MLO earlier than most. Didn't you know you're supposed to wait until you hit 40+?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 11:11 PM
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This is what it is all about....... I am still attracted to her. I never stopped. My desire for her has faded some in the last year, as she has been so long not attracted to me. She is sexually dutiful mostly, and, even submissive to me sometimes. But the genuine desire that she had, that once burned so bright, and for so long (20 years), for her it is gone. Might be partly menopause, might be all my fault. Regardless, it now is what it is. Yes, I agree with you... ...this one time incident is j…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 05:49 PM
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Maybe TRP has not fully dissolved yet; but I find value in this history WHEN it is accompanied with on-going value. Yes, me also. If it is BluePill I'm going to really have trouble wanting to overcome this.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 05:44 PM
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let me know if you need a hug. I'm feeling less pain already.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 05:35 PM
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I think you are right. The last few years of not getting the desire I once got from her, has taken it's toll on me. She is definitely more submissive. or I'm more dominant.... Regardless, same result.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 03:31 PM
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what if that was the cure for the Dead Bedroom all along? Then I would have to go up two more dread levels and go with changing the rules rather than cheating. As long as she doesn't know it's cheating, right? If I make new rules, even if they are unilateral, it is not cheating.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 03:02 PM
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she is never going to be 36 again. So she can't ever again provide the validation of being desired by a young(er) hot woman. Is this important? Make no mistake I find young women attractive. BUT If my wife desired me again, does her age matter? Hell no, it does not matter. When she smiles I see the woman I cut-in on the dance floor years ago. She is my age, and it matters not one bit. IF I COULD SEDUCE HER AGAIN, she is the beautiful woman that just gets better every year. We had the best 20 yea…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 04:48 AM
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That attraction is still there and you just need to use your seduction powers on your woman. I am attracted to her, very much, still. Yet, she resists my seduction so hard, so completely. She keeps proving to me that she does not desire me. With the 20 years where she did, I KNOW the difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 04:36 AM
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no conscious decisions involved at all There was that point, when my coffee cup was empty at her house, and, as things escalated, I could have used the gimmick I had used before for the "release". I could have said I had ED and it would have ended it right there. It is my preferred method of ending a catch and release that gets hot. That was the point of no return, and that was the point that I chose it. Nope I didn't get seduced, I need to own it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 04:32 AM
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"desire and attraction" that made the fling worth it I assumed that was missing at home. I am still attracted to her. I never stopped. My desire for her has faded some in the last year, as she has been so long not attracted to me. She is sexually dutiful mostly, and, even submissive to me sometimes. But the genuine desire that she had, that once burned so bright, and for so long (20 years), for her it is gone. Might be partly menopause, might be all my fault. Regardless, it now is what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 04:26 AM
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The last year, has been increasingly active bedroom. This was not caused by a lack.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 12:24 AM
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going to be a polarizing post That's why it sat on the tablet for a month. Thank you my friend. Your wisdom, humor and compassion are still the sheath of your sharp sword.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 12:00 AM
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first time on this thread that you've went on the defensive I need to look at that. You are seeing what I am not. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 10:46 PM
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Yes. Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 10:42 PM
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Did I mention you're an asshole? I am terrible. Your comments are of little help.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 10:41 PM
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OK Tony.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 10:38 PM
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(menopause?). If it is the latter; you have two choices: settle for hamburger or move on. I think we once again are seeing it the very much the same. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 10:28 PM
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My doctors and priests have been notified of my impending doom.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 04:30 PM
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Good question. Working on a spreadsheet here. lol She has many great things about her. OK back to the spreadsheet. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 04:00 PM
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seduction sounds like a lot of fun You have a point here. I enjoy sex, but I cannot have sex all day every day. I can enjoy seduction, all day every day.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 03:58 PM
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sticking to the best, simplest answer Yes. Enjoyed myself. The best part was the attraction and desire. The sex was not the real goal; it was optional. I could have stopped it at any point during the seduction phase. I could have, but I didn't. Maybe I'm just bragging. In the great scheme of things, it is but another fart in the wind. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 03:55 PM
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Yesterday is gone and you can't get it Always admire your ability to pack away old shit, I absolutely need to continue working on this. There is no need to feel guilty. ...My only issue with people cheating are those who do it from a weak frame Agree Take it from me, hit and quit it Agree
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 03:25 PM
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Yup, took my viagra with me and left the old women to suffer without me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 03:20 PM
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marriage kills desire.... Yes, but for 20 years, we had real desire, fucking real attraction. It was hot and ongoing. If that desire is dead, to never return.... Maybe you hit a nerve here.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 03:18 PM
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I agree that in my first marriage, things bordered on addiction. I think I am just not comfortable with the same act, since in the first marriage it was pure Blue Pill butt-hurt frame. Now that same sexual act is in my frame. I could take it or leave it. I decided to do the coke, enjoyed it and went home.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 03:09 PM
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you have to stop asking and just keep moving. I was almost expert at that for many years. Did not work well over time, due a lack of insight. Answers may emerge in time or they may never. Think you're right here. Now may be the time to stop cleaning the lens on my navel, STFU and move forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 03:05 PM
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60-somethings there are old wrecks who can barely get out of their wheelchairs That's why they are in assisted living! I broke out..... ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 05:25 AM
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Yes you missed it. Then you had it briefly, Absolutely correct it was not that fulfilling so you are not planning on seeing her again. Nope. It was really good. ONS is pretty much my norm in the past. The plate method gets complicated. You do regret your actions, that is why you are posting Maybe, but I'm not feeling it yet. I do not know the answer to what ails you, and neither do you I think you hit that nail square on. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 05:14 AM
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Don't look to a community that wants to work towards fixing their situation and grow into men that women want to be in a relationship with as opposed to you having your cake and eating it too! Why not look to this community? Why not post to the men here for their input? Why can't I have my cake and eat it too. Why can't I play both sides? As I read your post saying.. "nobody will judge you, no second guessing.." then you end with all that. Puzzling.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 05:01 AM
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I think I miss mutual desire and attraction. Even though it was a ONS it was OK.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 04:44 AM
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a man may just decide to move to a warmer climate.....what do you want.... I love my wife. She adds a lot of value. But..... I miss desire.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 04:38 AM
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You covered a lot of ground in your post. I don't really have anything to add, or critique. I just enjoyed the read. Best +1
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 03:00 AM
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And it's not her fault that it is there.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 11:56 PM
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five shots and seven beers I sleep for hours.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 10:02 PM
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By the way, five shots, or seven beers I get..... Laid.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 09:59 PM
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You are a lucky guy. She's flirting with you every time on the shit tests. You did fine identifying the comfort test. A hug, A kiss, a pat on the ass and some (optional) sweet, non-needy words, will do fine. You just need to keep paying attention until it comes more natural for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 09:52 PM
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Funny. Yeah, look at that face. Later she can say she didn't know what was happening, and she didn't enjoy it anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 09:44 PM
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In another context, had this dialogue end with her saying. "OK, I dare you!" followed my me taking off my shirt, then "only you get to see the rest...." By the way, five shots, or seven beers I get.....
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 09:34 PM
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Speak Russian fluently, and become invisible. The fun thing about invisibility, I can take off my clothes and play tricks on everyone.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 09:22 PM
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So, they are cheap little secrets.. What did you expect for just 4 beers?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 09:15 PM
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You won't know till you buy me four beers.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 09:12 PM
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At four beers, I reveal state secrets. At five beers, I become indestructible. At six beers, I become invisible.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 08:50 PM
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"it's a slippery slope from catch and release to full fledged cheating/new source of oneitus." Yes, it is a slippery slope. The last time I climbed a slippery slope, it took a lot of effort. Women accidentally fall on a dick, but we men, we can't accidentally fall in a pussy. No we have to be sure we know what we are doing, lest we destroy the world. :). Seriously, we do need to be mindful of what we do, lest we act like women. I don't believe in any hardline advice (yeah go and do it / no it'll…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 08:45 PM
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Old stuff. When women make sarcastic remarks to each other, the remarks are called cat food. Explaining it and it loses all impact...... :(
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 08:06 PM
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Hey guys, cat food is expensive, quit throwing it around! /s
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 07:38 PM
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simply put, if you're improving yourself, you'll be better for it, no matter the outcome. Gospel
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 07:33 PM
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That is a great question to ask someone who has the qualifications to answer it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 06:37 PM
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Agree, but in either context of man-change, the wife can chose to play nice or not. Making those changes, we take on the possibility, the risk, of unforeseen outcomes, unforeseen changes to any of our relationships with anyone, not just our spouse. Back to the oversimplification that we cannot control what others will do.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 06:33 PM
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Wife could be a flight risk in divorce. This and a number of other situations could impact a man's decision to cheat. What if wife was no longer physically capable of sex? What if she gained 300 lb (I think that's a zillion kilos in Canadian)? What if, what if, the list could go on forever. As I said, you are your own judge. I do agree 100 percent that affairs for anything other than sex and abundance is out of neediness. Its a man looking for a bandaid for a gaping wound and it won't work I tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 04:33 PM
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I read Rollo's entire post. The excerpt above is only part of his story, mostly for the single guy. Digging deeper, I agree with his post concerning married men, and, I'm looking forward to his promised next installment. Near the end of Rollo's post, peruse the following: There is a set of Red Pill men (usually married) who also attempt to do everything right – according to Red Pill awareness and applied Game – and, as per this man’s story, the situation is such that it is still ‘not enough’. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 04:15 PM
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Obviously true.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 12:24 AM
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I have a hard time telling you not to experiment and experience what you need to be happy. We are our own judge and we decide what we want and need. That being said, why would you NOT pursue your own happiness? I wish you the Best in your (internal) struggle.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 11:17 PM
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K
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 11:08 PM
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would do several things, one of those was probably "forsaking all others". You basically promised not to cheat. Yes, and so did the wives. Within the context of those vows, where does refusing to have sex with your husband fall? Basically, if you're cheating, you're not a man of your word, and not worthy of respect If everything was only that simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 09:54 PM
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I would like to think that I'm not playing the cheating game for validation, but I can't honestly believe it 100%. There's absolutely something in me that is a little kid wanting mommy to accept me. Banging sluts isn't going to fix that, therapy might, and red pill started the process, thank god. I have to admit, I find this series of comments a little confusing. Anytime you have attraction and desire in play with a woman, there is some validation. The difference is if that is the ONLY reason (v…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 09:09 PM
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she childishly refuses to accept any responsibility for her bad behavior. This was from the composite of the PM's I often get. However, many women that do not have any mental illness will not accept responsibility for their mistakes. In fact, the desire to get a woman to admit her mistakes and make it up to you is very Blue Pill. Once you give up on that Disney dream, it gets better.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 08:43 PM
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Enjoy your lunch man!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 08:36 PM
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Problem was not that she refused sex, right? Just that you weren't interested? So you never had to give her the "FMoFY" ultimatum? Yes, she did not refuse. Yes, I was not interested. No ultimatum. Were you sexing her at all, and if not, did she notice and say anything about it? Not very often. She was not very perceptive. I seldom was sexual with her except when I was drinking. Now think about this, you have a woman that will not refuse you, but you say no - does that say Butthurt man-bitch to y…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 08:36 PM
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just someone who is able to give you the things you need in a relationship Yes. There is no "one and only".
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 04:42 PM
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I sprinkled Dumped alpha on everything my whole life. Even a bulldozer will finally run out of gas. Like Rollo says, Alpha with a Blue pill mindset. Children with dynamite....... ha ha ha ha ha
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 04:36 PM
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Poor Alan. I am sure I will be stupid till the day I die. But if I try real hard, I'll get what I need. Maybe Alan will also.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 04:32 PM
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Lack of actual improvement in yourself will be the continued problems..........You make the relationship you want. Yes. Realize that twenty years after that first marriage, the unresolved problems did show back up, and, even though I had the happiest years of my life during those first twenty years with current wife, I ended up here trying to fix me, finally. Fixing problems that are that long in the tooth, just makes the journey longer, and a little steeper grade up hill, but not impossible lik…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 04:28 PM
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You may find yourself dealing with a double case of Oneists Yes, true for some. Lucky for me I never had this problem back in the day. But I kept a high turn over rate.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 04:12 PM
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all black and white but as you age all you see is shades of gray Yes, but the edges of contrast get sharper with age.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 02:37 PM
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purges whatever self-doubt you may have been harboring (if any) about your past choices. Twenty years of my life that are gone like a fart in the wind. The need for reflection goes with the territory.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 02:33 PM
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making the grass in my own yard greener than than the soccer moms down the street. Nice phrase. Putting time and effort into gaming other women isn't worth the loss of focus on yourself For me this is only half true. I think that improving your game is good for you and your marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 02:29 PM
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men overestimate the value they provide to their families under the guise of "stay for the kids." The time and energy are finite, and spinning plates will take from both. Yes. The core of it, well said.. Edit: One of the core issues, well said
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 02:05 PM
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Thanks u/Spexer …… Yeah, this old fart is still around…… and I do keep in touch, anonymously.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 02:11 PM
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77', back when pussy seemed to just fall in my lap. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 03:02 PM
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That's way above any space I occupy…...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 02:30 PM
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I've been around…..
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 02:02 PM
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You got cheated on and that sucks. A lot of people cheat on their spouses, doesn't make it right, it just happens. But the "why" is important to your future actions. Men and women cheat for similar reasons, but not the same since men and women are different. I want to tell you my experience when I cheated for years on my ex-wife. I fucking hated her. I resented her in my core for being such a low value person. I did not want to have sex with her, at all. If she had actually had the energy to "ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 04:21 AM
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I just need to know that I really have the full story so I can stop thinking about what happened, and start thinking about how to fix it This is not about the past. This is about her present behavior that you are choosing to ignore. This about a wife that is on best behavior, and, that is throwing you off the present track with hard fucking, marriage counseling, and trickle truth from a past that is not relevant to the present. This is all a ploy to cover up the present. If you will stop talking…
/r/askMRP16/08/16 04:03 AM
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I was going crazy but tried to get a few hours of sleep Yes, what did you say before? You would have sensed it if she was fucking around? Really?
/r/askMRP16/08/16 03:59 AM
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I would do anything, face torture, to keep that from happening You cannot keep it from happening if she decides it. You cannot keep it from happening by being a complete, give in on everything, fawning weak man. She is, women are, attracted to men that don't give in like a pussy.
/r/askMRP16/08/16 03:58 AM
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she asked me not to tell anyone Yes this works for her. You are on your own, of course. She's meeting guys at the gym on Sunday, and you stand alone. Makes sense…..to her.
/r/askMRP16/08/16 03:54 AM
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I would have sensed it Really? OP, you are wrong.
/r/askMRP16/08/16 03:52 AM
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OK Greg (nice name) I have read everything YOU posted. I ignored the other fine posters because you are a complete story all by yourself. You have provided the beginning, middle and end to your tale and even alluded to the conclusion. I will be surprised if you are not a troll. But if you aren't, you need to hear what I have to say to you. So grab a hanky, shut up your ego and listen careful boy. First, you seem like a "nice guy" (you might want to read up on that) and you seem to really care ab…
/r/askMRP16/08/16 03:27 AM
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When she calls you by phone, you hang up. When she texts, you delete it. Any other response and you are asking to be manipulated by her or you are just numb from the neck up. Questions?
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:05 AM
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Read over all the great posts here to you: You have been married only 3 months and the sex is dropped to nothing. You never did get the best she had to offer. Now you are married and she wants a kid. You know she sees you as her provider not her lover. What the fuck else do you need to know? You can stay and your life will get worse. Or you can do something about it. Believe me I don't take this lightly, as you are one of the few men that I would say run away from this woman. AND Work on yoursel…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 03:58 AM
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Your question gave me pause because I certainly don't want my current Zen state to be ethereal and fleeting. Yes…… This was the best part of your answer. I hear the word congruent. Congruent with your past experiences and with what are doing now. Continue taking control captain.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 03:39 PM
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Just looked back over your old posts, and, some of our exchanges of comments in the past months. You seem happy, calm and confident. Are you the same guy? ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/16 07:58 PM
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Seconded.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 12:47 PM
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Stoney…. I'll call you out as a fucktard anytime. Bro hug, huckleberry. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 02:32 AM
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OK I see the ref to lobotomy. It's too late for me. Read OP's posts - mostly. The problem is him. He needs to own it. Hard to believe he is flaired. The fact that he deleted this post, his ego is running the show. Amazed he got so much attention for being stupid. Belieeeve me, I KNOW stupid. :) That's my short answer, his ego can't handle the rest. That's all he gets.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 01:17 PM
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See, even a Texas boy can learn sumpin……eventually. Seriously, this is a good contrast post. Yep, you sucked back then. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 12:44 PM
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Wass Sup?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 12:40 PM
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Bro….this is not one of your incrementally improving posts, in my humble opinion. Know you have a lot of shit rolling around up there. Maybe some of it doesn't need to get posted. Regardless, Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/16 02:07 PM
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Here's the link to Jack10s post: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/374wln/what_we_talk_about_when_we_talk_about_dread_13/
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 04:15 AM
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Forget business side. Make it all about TRP issues. Do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 01:49 PM
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Hell Yes, makes sense now…… You know it reminds me of a comment of u/Jacktenofhearts on luxury branding. You just said it in a lot fewer words. Been hangin' out with Stoney, eh?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 12:58 PM
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He was the good humor guy, with balls…...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 12:25 AM
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You are stream of consciousness on this. Kinda like Stoney - I do not have a clue what you said. 'splainin please?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 11:38 PM
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almost like we are programmed for that response. Sick as fuck. if you advertise new cars, you will sell new cars. If you advertise the benefits of beta, you will get beta. I think we are the product of successful, yet misguided fem-centric marketing.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 10:49 PM
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Mine was an event……... I buckled to my knees, I beta-ed to my soul. I set a covert contract that traded total beta for an end to the (mine and hers) pain. It was a deal with the devil, and, it does not, cannot, ever work. Stupid stupid stupid…...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 06:42 PM
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why some of us get a lot less traction applying dread She knew when she moved in, before we got married, that she would have her hands full keeping me. So in a way, she is a tough cookie and rightly so in order to deal with me. Therefore, dread is s.l.o.w.e.r. but still effective, slowly. I think I am somewhere between 6 and 8 dread. Looks like I can never let up. She said to me one day when I lost it and said I didn't understand why she fought me so hard on everything, she said, exact quote "wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 06:25 PM
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Here's an idea. What if you had very normal testosterone. Then you started injecting 3 times your current level. Do you think you might be hard to satisfy sexually? Say some weird shit to your wife (and everyone else too!). The hormones make her super horny, right. With that goes some other exaggerated behavior and feelings. Here's a plan: Enjoy the ride. Be a rock for all these shitty comfort tests. Have fun with it. Think of it as playful. Stop being so sensitive to her hyped up hormonal bulls…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 02:29 PM
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Me too…..
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 02:20 PM
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I am INTJ. Years ago, had a psycho-type tell me how it sucks for others around me. Fortunately for me, mostly I don't notice.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 01:47 PM
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I have seen more than a few women that take over as the new mom to a man's kids from another LTR. Some do a great job. BUT, there are a lot more men that take on a woman's children from prior LTR's that I have seen. Just my small corner of the world observations.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/16 11:39 PM
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Yep. Then you never really know you you are talking to. That's how we "take charge of it".
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/16 10:12 PM
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One of tobacco's really shitty long term side effects, limp dick. Almost as bad as not being able to breathe,
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 06:24 PM
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Wasn't scurvemuch , it was mine, and that's all you get.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/16 02:18 AM
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So many things here that don't work. She needs mental , you don't get it. You flirt openly, so does she. The kids are making comments about your fighting and you are too stupid to see you are asking for seeking their validation. She/you leave for THREE FUCKING DAYS. Then you proceed to tell us how hawt you are and you can pull hot girls. You are a giant pussy faggot. You are about as half-assed as it gets. No more from me until you actually do something.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 01:54 AM
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that happiness that is like a puff smoke in the air. Amen!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 01:13 PM
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Completely agree in that context. From OP's POV she is lost to him. His turn is over.
/r/askMRP30/06/16 12:07 PM
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He can fix himself. She's lost.
/r/askMRP30/06/16 03:36 AM
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That post is…..unforgettable.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 12:16 AM
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She fit the container he gave her….
/r/askMRP30/06/16 12:00 AM
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OP this is gospel from someone that works in the field. u/alphabeta49 thanks for your response.
/r/askMRP29/06/16 11:52 PM
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Could not believe he said it, SHE SHE SHE.
/r/askMRP29/06/16 11:48 PM
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It has been therapeutic in itself to write this down Now you need to read what you wrote very slowly, very carefully. Yes, you are invisible in this post. I guess I see 3 options now; You need to start seeing more options than these. She IS A LYING CHEATING WHORE. Where is your rage? Have you guys seen anything similar? Personally, yes. On the sub, all the fucking time. You are lucky, a lot of guys get here and haven't figured out yet they are being cheated on. Do nothing today. If you do you wi…
/r/askMRP29/06/16 11:46 PM
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You are an alcoholic. You are an alcoholic that is still drinking. Quit wasting everyone's time here. Next. Edit: Maybe u/alphabeta49 has a word for you.
/r/askMRP29/06/16 10:08 PM
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Always take a zucchini to a knife fight?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 09:56 PM
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wife goggles Yes. Think I have an old pair of those around here somewhere. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 09:08 PM
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You got it. Move forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 08:42 PM
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Let CAD do it. It was a long time ago now. Would be just the dark memories of an old man remembering his stupid loner youth. But the point is short. Calling hubby shows her power over men. Shows she can be smarter than the smart, hard working man that makes her, and her children's lives comfortable. Looking back, knowing what I know now, I was black knighting as I very much enjoyed sharing her cucking her man, and my wife as well. It was a dark place to be mentally, for a man, but no sweat for a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 05:29 PM
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I gotta hear more……..
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:55 PM
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The ONE thing that everyone seems to agree on for OP, this marriage will not last. The rest is method, timing, and execution…. If OP is still married a year from now, I'm buying everyone a round of internet validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:49 PM
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By definition it is a FALSE belief Then thinking that women can behave badly is NOT paranoid. just informed....
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:31 PM
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Paranoid is wrong?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:26 PM
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Calling hubby right after sex with a guy, not uncommon. If you like I will give you the outline of the conversation. I do not think it is usually guilt. It was sometimes a way of bragging without bragging.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:24 PM
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you'll never know This is the uncomfortable truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:19 PM
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I think you had a better idea of what you were doing. I think he's lost.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:16 PM
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Great description. Some of them might even be the soccer moms that screwed the pooch and got caught by dad-bod. And the guys chasing are the old dad-bods. Ironic. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:12 PM
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My gut tells me its just time to go and maybe he doesnt get an STD that ajax wont scrub off. Hard to disagree when you put it that way....lol. But his STD exposure in the single world would be greater and I don't think this guy can get laid, by anything clean, yet. So we agree, but we don't. Hmmm Are we married?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:08 PM
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I don't think he knows...
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:03 PM
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And yet you take such notice of them. Yep, you're a perv......
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 02:59 PM
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Another view: My take is that he might be safer where he is, for now, until he can get control of himself. He could end up with a worse bitch that really hurts him.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 02:58 PM
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:)**:)**:)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 02:43 PM
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Then let. it. go. Continuously being emotional about it is only going to hurt your cause. Pretend the hard boundary wasn't in place, save face, and move on with your MAP Yes, Great way to move past this.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 12:34 PM
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The Benevolent, Sarcastic, Mind Fucking Devil...that sits whispering into your ear while sitting on your shoulder I already have one of those. But mine uses a little wet tongue action with it to get my attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 12:29 PM
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If it is to happen, you should be 99% sure. I have been through this. When the time comes, if it does for you, you will move like a "man on fire" aka Denzel Washington.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 12:20 PM
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The entire outcome of scenarios 1 & 2, are based on HER responses and HER behavior in that brief moment in time. She has been less than perfect so far, why take her word for anything. YOUR decision about a divorce should be YOURS and yours alone, not a joint committee action. Many here have commented that you do not seem to be ready to make that decision. In fact, you are forcing (part of) the decision on her, not good. When you are ready, make the fucking decision on your own and just do it. Si…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 03:33 AM
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Try Hydraulic Fluid.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 01:20 AM
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Lately I have been using simple requests to slow her hamster down. She starts with ____complaint. I say. "Hon, get me a coffee." She has to leave room. When she comes back, I start a new thread about something I am going to fix or buy. Would you get me a little water….. ( and repeat) That shade is letting in too much sun, please adjust it. Have you seen my keys (which I have not put in the usual place on purpose.) Do you hear something? Where is the dog? Did you see where I left my__. You don't …
/r/askMRP29/06/16 12:11 AM
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Maybe it's a 70's thing Yes. As you said, the availability of the pill, before aids, and before living with fear of damn near everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 11:58 PM
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I am a born sybarite Had to look that up. Just say you are a hedonist and a libertine. More good reasons to like you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 11:02 PM
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Thats all you get Spiffy comment. I like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 10:06 PM
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75% liquid sarcasm... 25% neurotic? 25% Brain Fuck
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 09:50 PM
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Women have a certain level of bitchiness that you will never eradicate. Anything beyond that baseline, you have to deal with it directly and decisively. You are too eloquent to be a lawyer. Gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 09:49 PM
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immune to outcome independence Do you mean one-itis?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/16 11:27 PM
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big helping of humiliation Men have destroyed nations over this.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/16 11:22 PM
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For me…. Protecting my children, first. Ego close Second. Doxxing third. I cannot speak for CAD, but I do not believe the priorities of his reasons could possibly be identical to mine
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/16 03:52 PM
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I had One-itis for my children. It was necessary in my mind at the time. Doesn't mean I picked the best path. Maybe my children would have been better served if I made different choices. Until the day I die, I will never know for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/16 03:48 PM
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Agree. There are some things a man just can't say. I "just know" CAD could not say them and neither could I.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/16 03:44 PM
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Now I am nostalgic for a life I haven't lived. ditto
/r/askMRP26/06/16 12:51 AM
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Just being myself, dude Your "self" has changed a lot, dude.
/r/askMRP26/06/16 12:48 AM
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I had typed a long comment for you. I immediately deleted it when I realized that it was more about my old family issues than yours, and was not very helpful to you. But I will say that it is important to realize that you are only one player in a four way game. Sis and Mom and Dad are all in there with you on this match. Someone is ALWAYS crying foul, on you. The only way that you will ever take charge of this, is to take away their power over you. Part of their power is that you are easily pull…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 03:45 AM
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Yes this. I have been through a divorce and this is how it is done. For me, once I connected that your ex can't use/abuse you unless you allow it, it got better. So when you are on the phone listening to her bullshit, it really is your own fault, or, even worse, it is what you really want to do, inspite of what you say.
/r/askMRP25/06/16 03:25 AM
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Although I understand your desire to defend TRP some, what got lost was left out in my comment, was that I do like your post
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 01:29 AM
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No, MRP Cowboy, I just learned that they are not sensitive and easily slighted. They just….. act of(with) justified self-interest
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 01:21 AM
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irritated with is how older 'conservative' guys shame the way parents do Yes, Blue Pill Shaming is not generally advocated on either sub. No, I find your comment including "older conservative" to be not so subtle straw man, considering my username. Hummmmm sign of immaturity as opposed to an act of justified self-interest and just not agreeing with it. It just could, possibly , maybe, might be that someone with multi decades of adult life would find some acts of self interest to actually be the …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 01:18 AM
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view TRP as an annoying reminder Yes and no. Yes, a reminder of the single life of easily nexting your partner, no mortgage, no kids. No, what is often annoying about TRP is the lack of maturity and life experience of many(some) of the posters. We say MRP is TRP on hard mode, it might be more accurate to call it TRP the hard way. Thus the need for down to earth actionable ideas.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 10:25 PM
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if I can't identify what I did wrong after a few days of passive thought or a bit of concentrated thought to let it go. Maybe you can reduce the time spent doing this even more. One way to think of it, you would be more in YOUR frame that way, yet still doing the necessary introspection.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 10:15 PM
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suspect she maneuvered me with such finesse Yes, and this requires caring and respect. I am sure you miss her.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 01:36 PM
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Go be single. You don't have to let her know, she wants to be friends anyways, so be friends. Be a great dad, always available for the family logistics. Beyond that, she's a ghost. This thing is dead. No idea if she has a side piece, that's for you to put together, but I'd suggest not even caring if she does. If you still have any of your balls left, this is the only way.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 01:12 PM
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I really like this post. Ties together some unclear thinking I had. Clear and concise.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 01:07 PM
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get back at their man they have at home Yup, their feelz gets you laid, sometimes only once...
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 12:44 PM
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The girls that ask for water, at least they aren't overpricing themselves...
/r/askMRP24/06/16 03:56 AM
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You made my brain hurt. Bad bad bad…….
/r/askMRP24/06/16 02:11 AM
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she does say she likes it
/r/askMRP24/06/16 01:05 AM
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I don't negotiate with terrorists Once again proving your wisdom beyond your years.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 11:19 PM
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When you get ice cream, she must always reciprocate with a BJ, PIV, anal, then another BJ. Then if you are still horny, a repeat. It's just the rules man. Read the side bar and you will understand how to get this done./s
/r/askMRP23/06/16 08:55 PM
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Why not just go twice on her…..dah
/r/askMRP23/06/16 08:41 PM
1

Death grip? No way. Just creating another problem.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 08:39 PM
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may be a good idea This has been field tested. It is gospel.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 08:33 PM
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Yes, for your own use only.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 08:00 PM
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Upvote this.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 07:59 PM
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I really think you are making a problem out of an asset. Tell her that she needs to (pre) blow you so you can go longer the first time. Pop your load PIV. She probably likes it anyway - she should. During your recovery, play with her and get her off. By the time you are getting a rise. Have her blow you again if you want. Then go in for a hard pounding finale with both cum. Repeat as necessary. You could have been having twice, or more, the fun if you didn't worry so much.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 07:52 PM
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Only partly true: Example: Prom Queen marries Quarterback. He provides well and they have some great looking kids. That is all she wanted and she is not willing to go but so far for thrills. So, I was gaming her and she has some weak points; bored, he got fat, he works a lot, etc. She will flirt up to most anything short of PIV. But no more, she likes her husband and her life and will not cheat (according to her definition). Some wrestling and a BJ or hand-job is as good as it is going to get fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 03:45 AM
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If you could do it all over again, what is the one thing you would do to build a RP marriage from the outset? There is not one thing that will work. Your question cannot be answered as asked. Since the real essence of TRP is self improvement, you will need more than a few months to get substantial self-improvement accomplished. You are 26, and thinking of marriage. Put it off at least a year, or maybe never. Get your game in order first. Do what your married friend said: he would internalize the…
/r/askMRP23/06/16 03:31 AM
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OP, you have everything you need to have made a great wife for me, back when I was constantly cheating. I know your wife appreciates you too.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 03:21 AM
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Yes, Mind Fucking, makes you sound cooler.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 11:14 PM
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I do not have a clue what you just said….. is this your 25% part again?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 10:45 PM
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OK, maybe there is such a thing as complementary dents. Seriously, we are all flawed at least a little. Some, myself included, have more than their share of flaws. Suppose 2 people with high N-counts become a couple. They both share some characteristics that others would find repelling, yet they make it work. Two butt-ugly people, or criminally minded people. So the badly dented might flock together on Disney cruises. Have ugly little children……...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 10:30 PM
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Some women just don't cheat. Period. The statement that all women will under the right……….blah blah blah….is bullshit to me. My experience is that while many women do, most of the many women don't.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 10:20 PM
1

OK 75% Liquid sarcasm, 25% mind fuck.. :) ouch
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 11:56 AM
1

I really tried to visualize this. Too much. Hurts.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 04:05 AM
1

Do not confront. Monitor this being very careful to not be noticed watching her. Very few men, that get a gut feel that something is off, are wrong. Most of them are just too egotistical and lack the energy to do anything about it. You did DO something when you checked up on her Facebook activity. Now you had a gut feel, then you have actual confirmation of "not good" activity on her part. Second, your thinking of talking to her about this, you know is wrong. If she is looking around, you just h…
/r/askMRP22/06/16 03:59 AM
1

very active in her kids sports. I love kids sports. It's so stimulating!
/r/askMRP22/06/16 03:35 AM
3

u/fuckmrp you are truly a person of great generosity. You wrote more words then OP did.
/r/askMRP22/06/16 03:30 AM
2

Like driving a big ass truck. On the left side is, a big ditch called she is a bitch; and, on the right you cross the white line called, end it all and fuck it all I'm out of here. Just keep steering that wobbly truck down the middle best you can. Constantly correcting course is the norm. What is a "golf clap"?looked it up
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 12:51 AM
5

Well, aren't you special.
/r/askMRP21/06/16 11:46 PM
1

She will enjoy the handy man and the pool boy much more…..
/r/askMRP21/06/16 10:33 PM
1

Old English was good stuff and only pennies more than Colt. Man, I think I'll plan a 2 day bender soon….it's been a while….. No, never mind, don't think I can afford any more big losses on brain cells.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 10:19 PM
2

Classy stuff. I can remember that a Colt 45 quart and a pint of Mad Dog 20/20 was a good start on the evening. I had friends in low places.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 10:11 PM
2

The house should be large enough to require the services of a couple of gardeners, a handy man, and, of course, a pool boy. Also, train her in the art of point and buy.
/r/askMRP21/06/16 09:18 PM
1

she is supposed to make sense. You are supposed to get beat up by her bullshit. NO. FIRST: She is not required to make sense. Womyn tend to put feelz above reelz. I know you have heard this before. She often will not make sense. Second: You are trying to work to become a man that is not affected by her feelz. Developing your frame. A frame that is strong, calm and an Oak for your family and not get beat up by her bullshit. like solving the situation with a solid plan No NO NO NO NO. Solid plans …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 08:57 PM
2

Focus on what you are doing. Build yourself up physically and mentally. Your focus on your wife will not work. Nope, nada, never gonna work. I don't care if she the the bitch that ate New York in one bite. She is not the problem, you are. Focus on you. Save yourself and you might save the marriage. Never gonna work the other way around.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 07:03 PM
1

expecting my wife to deal with open wounds or acute strokes Then you just aren't leading properly……..:-)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 06:48 PM
1

Key words. Planning. Bullheaded. Take an ass whipping. This guy was part of extraction teams in the military. All of the key words would be an asset in a military context. Doing your job is key in that context. Yes he deals with blue pill thinking, but maybe he is dealing with some military training that is keeping him off-center. I think u/stonepimpletilists and u/TheFamilyAlpha might have some insight into the military mindset traps here.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 06:44 PM
1

Thing is I take an ass whipping from her over our debt. Almost every day. She paralyzes herself over it to where she's afraid to make a $45 purchase. Yeah, understand. Of course, she is supposed to make sense. You are supposed to get beat up by her bullshit. There must be a better way…..
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 06:06 PM
1

MRP has a tool to get you there. OK Imma tool….
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 06:03 PM
2

Great response.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 03:02 PM
2

Link to book (https://www.amazon.com/First-Kill-All-Marriage-Counselors/dp/1940363861)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:59 PM
2

arguing is a state of mind Yes. Getting mine unscrambled
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:52 PM
1

Oh boy, Got to get my eyes checked and my glasses changed…..
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:50 PM
1

So what if the debt was down by 50% instead of 60% at the end of the year? and….you both went on a great trip together and actually enjoyed yourselves. even tho you said earlier you think travel is a waste of time? I love to travel, so you would get no pussy from me with that attitude. I hate debt, but I love to have a good time too. Try to take something away from me that I enjoy in order to pay debt off a few months sooner and I will piss on your parade. Maybe you are dictating instead of lead…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:48 PM
1

Mother fucker. How did you know? What did yo mama say?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:40 PM
1

Guess it is a matter of their method, but the results are what counts.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:38 PM
2

Yes, and I love getting dragged into arguing with a woman. So fucking productive. If anyone can find an ego titty to twist, she can.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:37 PM
5

ReddJive, I know you can do this. But man, I still think you are stuck somehow. Here's my broken record for you: you didn't lead here, what did you really do here? I think you are still seeking validation from her and she knows it. The failed leadership you mention is way too PRESENT. Many of these things happened in the past. Trust is a problem here. Do you know what unilateral means? It means the someone (maybe you) takes actions without regard to the agreement or validation of others. You are…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:31 PM
2

Overt Always works for me. I can always count on getting sent back to GO and, of course, less pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:19 PM
1

looney tunes. That is a great visual. Wabbit!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 02:14 PM
1

no man should turn this chore over to a woman (anyone!) and assume financial well being. That's it in a nutshell. Men that complain about their finances, are guilty of giving it away, whether they know it or not. This whole thread has that basic tenet that the long range planning and execution of what can only be accurately called a lifetime financial plan, REQUIRES a man's involvement and direction, even if the bookkeeping chores are not done by him. No man can ever assume full leadership of hi…
/r/askMRP21/06/16 12:49 PM
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Congratulations of the birth of your child! Her frame is stronger than yours, understatement. But don't take all the blame here, her biology is a very strong motivator. Remember, a new mother is on some very powerful hormone "drugs" in her system. Women with new babes are like Joan of Arc on a mission from God. This situation forces you to become the Oak, and even stronger. You want the best for you, your wife, and your child. The problem is , she thinks that the babe is going to be above all ot…
/r/askMRP20/06/16 10:57 PM
1

What do gays guys, call a gay guy that is not worth their time. Also, Here's some ideas: pleb 1)one who's inferior intelligence results in them making a complete titface out of themselves in public 2)one who has had their brain replaced with a mall cucumber whilst visiting the doctor fora routine check up Miss Congeniality (n.) – extremely negative term referring to an unlikable or “bitchy” homosexual male.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 06:50 PM
1

marries you and then two years later poisons you with anti-freeze to collect the insurance money It is much more humane to give a man a heart attack from several days of sex and coke and 3 (or more) ways. Only a heartless bitch would use anti-freeze.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 12:11 AM
1

mentioned my matured confidence. She was being gamed. Now she believes the guys lines. lol
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 11:39 PM
3

dick pumped up with 100mg of Viagra I'm nearly 70 and Viagra is still an occasional recreational drug for me. The only way to go is rock hard and dripping wet.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 10:19 PM
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nobody loves their life in their 40s if they don't have love Nope nada, not true. they're going to get bald and fat Nope nada…. social skills and level of confidence doesnt increase without limit Nada…… I only answer from personal experience. If you are lucky enough to live as long, the results ARE up to you.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 09:23 PM
2

Your points are well made. I decided to edit my post. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:51 PM
1

a covert female way of egging on bad behavior Assuming you mean egging on male offspring. You think it is that common for mothers to screw up Never mind, I agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/16 08:42 PM
1

"Don't worry son. You know we will love you no matter what you decide to be when you grow up. Even if you are gay or transgender." The real bullshit of a statement like this is that it is a leading statement. Introducing the gay or transgender ideas into the statement was fucking unnecessary and enlarged boundaries when there was no need. It's like saying I will love you even if you are a serial killer. Just another example of a stupid PC statement.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/16 03:07 AM
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This woman craves alpha cock. Craves it so much, she just can't imagine even living part time with a beta-bux. Her big disappointments were not finding an alpha that would commit to her in her 20-30's. But that didn't bother her. as much as what happened next,(edit) Finding no Chads wanted in her in her 30's. Now that really bothered her. How dare her not be able to get all the alpha cock she wants. This is what really pissed her off.most to this point (edit) Now she is 40-ish and suddenly the a…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 02:55 AM
2

Whether or not I have made choices that cause or may cause him to be unfaithful, my response would be to end it. I understand and respect your choices. So it is a good thing that he didn't decide that your weight gain was a reason for him to end the marriage, as that could have been one of his choices. But if he chose to stay and cheat, then it would end the marriage anyway, by you. Makes your choices have a lot of downsides and offer him limited options. Are you setting him up to fail you? Wher…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 08:58 PM
1

Edit - but I think I am nit picking one part of the larger story. Like picking lint off someones jacket.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 05:16 PM
1

You know how I handled my options. and……drumroll……..that's all you get! lol
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 05:12 PM
2

There is no ideal scenario that involves telling your daughter that her mother is a lying, cheating whore Agree completely
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 05:08 PM
2

Children have the right to love BOTH of their imperfect parents.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 05:04 PM
2

letting her find out the truth is vengeance Absolutely, see above…. I hope I wouldn't need to hide them from the reality of the world when they are teens I agree to disagree…. I have no common ground with you here. When you have teenagers, you will chart your own path. Mine was just very different.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 04:58 PM
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I think we (me & il) come from a time that children were not entitled to any information unless the adults decided to reveal it. He was dark triad to me. Using children for adult games is just not ever going to be OK with me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 04:55 PM
1

Funny, but not much content…...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:10 PM
3

thats the bare minimum Absolutely, yes. My point was just that. BUT without these bare minimums, the other value adds usually mean very little. I was thinking kind of a "put wheels on car" minimum.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:08 PM
2

I like this post. I do think there is even a simpler set of issues that might be the rule: HIM , Not approval seeking, AND(not OR) has other sexual options Equals HER, Provided (unneeded) approval, AND(not OR) Sexually available HIM, approval seeking OR(not AND) no other sexual options equals HER, Little or no approval, AND(not OR) little or no sex Think about it, seems to make sense…..
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 12:40 AM
2

Another well written, concise post from u/Pembayliss, like so many of your posts that I have enjoyed reading. Would like to up-vote it more than once.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 12:53 PM
1

Reading your post there are some things that I will comment on for you. Others have given you some great advise. Rather than duplicate, I will just give a little assist here: First, you spent a lot of words telling us about your job. The first thing you need to realize, is that your success, trials, tribulations, or even making huge money is mostly irrelevant to your marital success. Put that away, women don't really care that much about that, really. been a drinker my whole life also did a lot …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 04:59 AM
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Everytime, that you say, out loud or internally, the word SHE……then you need to STOP and figure out what YOU need to do for YOU and NO ONE ELSE. You are so deep in her frame and into your self denial that this will take awhile, maybe years, but that is OK too. IF YOU succeed your life will change and you will be forever different. Notice that SHE is not any part of these statements. There is no silver bullet, the best we get is iron.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 02:39 AM
2

Absolutely agree!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 02:01 AM
1

SHE is not the problem. Not at all the problem. SHE is just trying to hang on. THE PROBLEM IS YOU. ALWAYS WAS YOU. Quit writing about her unless you want me to fuck her. Because you are such a weak pussy, I, or any flared guy on MRP, could fuck her anytime I(we) wanted to, and, if I was into it, I would make you watch.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 01:53 AM
3

Pussy Bot Thoroughly tested, pure food-grade silicone with a rugged assembly. The ultimate replacement for the MGTOW's fleshlight. Comes in Small, Regular, and Giant Sizes.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 01:45 AM
3

A Giant Pussy Bot. Yes.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 01:35 AM
1

Yes, is a common problem, I hear. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 10:39 PM
1

George Thorogood Oh Yeah!……"BaBaBaBaBaBad to the Bone…"
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 06:50 PM
1

So why do so many really nasty expletives include the word "mother"? Why is the father just ignored? hmmmm
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 06:07 PM
1

Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker made millions. Yes, people just mailed it in.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 06:03 PM
2

Hearts, stars, and horseshoes. Clovers and blue moons Yep, I saw all that once. Turned out she squirted a…..squishy-fart. Phew!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 05:56 PM
2

I am glad to see that you are making progress. But I can guarantee you, that, from my humble opinion, you are going to need to start working to get your ego in check. This will HELP you. Enjoy your successes, but keep working.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 03:56 PM
2

marathon main event" that "over60-" got me to come to my senses Amazing, you were helped by a well-known rageaholic.. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 02:36 PM
2

my breakfast failed to materialize on the table as it had done every morning of my married life. Funny! Seriously, your comment gave me an epiphany from my past, and spoke to me on several levels. You are truly a man with insight and experience to match. Thanks...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 01:01 PM
1

So it would be called parental chore play? Yep, I did it too….
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 12:45 PM
2

and is a karma whore Oh Well! I've been called a whore before too. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 12:43 PM
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huge wad of bullshit I go in with you on that…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 04:00 AM
2

her need for drama/bringing misery to his life Two points for you: First, Stoneys advice to you is spot on. With just a statement of what YOU will do, you can have great effect on the situation. Just controlling you, not her. Second: It is very rare a woman would risk her relationship with her child. RP truth, women love children first (even adult children) and the LTR second. Unless, of course, you are on the verge of getting disowned for your shitty behavior.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:53 AM
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Just curious, why is your post/comment history blank? I read your post, and I just see a lot of humble-brag. This ALWAYS leads me to the question, what isn't perfect about you now, OR, are you so self-enamored and egotistical, that you can't see that you might have some issues to fix still? Glad you could make the trip from fat insecure beta bitch to a dominator in only 7 months. Probably a record. Certainly glad that you saw the light. Maybe as the light grows brighter, you will be able to make…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 03:45 AM
1

added a ton of protein to feel good Yes. Mental and physical feel good. Even tho "health" is my number one motivation, man I just love the feeling of getting stronger and stronger. Closest thing to a high I get from my workouts. I am amazed how many weak-skinny and weak-fat dudes I see sitting around sucking down tub loads of sodas and brews. I know something has fundamentally changed. Twenty years and more ago, just never saw so many weak guys (and losing their hair too)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 03:32 AM
3

Your ability to live your own life, save yourself, attain the goals you want in life is solely in yourself Take charge of it!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 02:09 AM
3

I can relate to this post. There are some medicinal items I have purchased (as a younger man) on a corner near downtown, that provided very similar, and amazing results. I just could not afford the price of continuous ephemeral (un)consciousness. But if I had Spotify and texting back then, I would now own the world. :o(
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 12:15 AM
1

1.Motivation. In order of importance: 1-Health, 1and2-Strenght, 3-appearance in clothes, 4-flat stomach, 6-abs showing. 2.Didn't Work Can't outrun a donut. Not enough protein, I think I just need more than most. Ignoring my age and prior injuries and not doing incremental increases in exercise (weights) and having to deal with unnecessary joint injuries. Tried to eat extra to gain muscle faster. It really worked at the cost of about 5 lbs of fat I didn't want. Tried 5 day gym, went back to 3. Wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 03:40 PM
1

Yes!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 12:51 AM
1

Two fags (sorry I know ones Dad) two dogs, a woman, and an infant all in one house Could be a new reality TV show.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 10:19 PM
1

Busted.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 10:12 PM
1

Yup. Called him One-Eyed-Jack. Then he got muscles.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 10:05 PM
1

Rambo, right with you…...
/r/askMRP10/06/16 10:02 PM
2

Even logging off won't clean it out for you. You have been Rambo-ed!
/r/askMRP10/06/16 09:55 PM
1

Yes and veins popping out on Zee muscles.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 09:50 PM
1

Nope, call it Rambo. :)
/r/askMRP10/06/16 09:42 PM
2

tourist or troll? Is that a new game from Parker Brothers? Give the wrong answer and you little game piece gets exposed and you lose your job?
/r/askMRP10/06/16 08:49 PM
1

This sub is a joke sometimes. Without the humor, this sub is a wasteland of men that fucked up. Some can't even admit how bad they fucked up for fear of killing what little is left of their self-respect. Some will never regain their self-respect and some don't deserve to. Find the funny, have some fun before we die. Right?
/r/askMRP10/06/16 07:49 PM
1

Pink flying pigs Was it a sign of things to come?
/r/askMRP10/06/16 07:10 PM
1

So it would be "that 70's rageaholic", not to be underestimated, of course. ….
/r/askMRP10/06/16 07:08 PM
2

over_60_with_boner OR, shorten it to "OldLonerBoner", crap I like it!
/r/askMRP10/06/16 07:07 PM
1

Ah, the problems of being a young man in an world of feminist pigs. But it could be worse, you could be as old and stupid as me. Never mind…...no……no…...no you can't….….not gonna happen….read my lips…..when pigs fly……nope. ;)
/r/askMRP10/06/16 05:09 PM
1

never occurred to her to make me a sandwhich after Yup, she only it got it half right. No wonder you next'ed her.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 04:20 PM
1

But she can cook and has some kink. What do?
/r/askMRP10/06/16 04:17 PM
1

might even face problems at work if anyone found out I can think of three stories of guys that lost their jobs over being doxxed. You really can't be too safe. Always watch that you aren't giving out any accurate personal info. Read this
/r/askMRP10/06/16 04:10 PM
1

her way around a fetish or two AND the kitchen Sex and food, what's not to like?
/r/askMRP10/06/16 02:50 PM
1

He (OP) is an excellent drama queen. His story would make exciting soap opera script.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 01:48 PM
4

I like reading about the chick. I want to do her….
/r/askMRP10/06/16 01:45 PM
2

Before the time of Briffault's Law…...
/r/askMRP10/06/16 01:44 PM
1

tease him for the next month They (his friends) never forget or let it die. And (he) will never give them anything but a knowing smile……..
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 01:41 PM
2

If all men lived without fear and Disney tales were true….Then the princess would always……Hahahahahahaha
/r/askMRP10/06/16 01:36 PM
1

There your are…..
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 01:27 PM
1

TFA's blog is a pretty good fit for you guys, from what I know of your posts so far. If hubby starts to post on any of the "pill sites", suggest that he start with a brand new user ID, and, keep it forever separate. As you said, never mention you Miss Sunshine, it could not go well for either of you. Just be careful. We all work to keep our identities safe from doxxing.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 04:41 AM
2

The best part is they are so damn….hungry…horny and happy to please a guy that's so hawt to them. Some high SMV guys can fly really low sometimes, hoping to stay under the radar, of course. They are just more to love. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:52 AM
1

Lucky you il, Gene Hackman, righteous looking dude, and not lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:47 AM
1

tiny bit your doing lol. Throw a stone, splash, ripple, something changes. You throw a few stones yourself. OK, is hubby posting here, or just lurking? He has a story, too….Throws a stone....
/r/askMRP10/06/16 03:41 AM
1

there's nothing new under the sun lol Don't tell em. They don't know yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 01:28 AM
1

Vewey Warm
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 01:21 AM
2

Glee Club with Batons. Yes!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 12:49 AM
1

Then there's the hot chicks that circled the math club…..
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 12:27 AM
1

look good at all times, even if it's shorts and tshirt, And these are the cheap stuff - gorida ahead - invest in..that..ah…ah….ah….YOU!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 10:45 PM
1

feel like they aren't living if they aren't dying Succinct.
/r/askMRP09/06/16 10:35 PM
1

Hi Miss Sunshine. It's been a while. Thought you had left the country. Nice to see you still enjoy playing with the boys. :o)
/r/askMRP09/06/16 10:20 PM
1

Have you seen my car keys?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 02:47 PM
2

Pity is the equivalent of oil-dri. Poetic truth. Awesome!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 02:08 PM
1

Was a comment not a post. I remember it well….but can't find it either.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 01:48 PM
5

This all sounds like I'm in her frame, but I don't believe I am.. You said this for a reason. Think about it. I'm still learning her mindset as it's completely different from mine. Nice FR. Yes, absolutely agree with you on this, women ARE different from men. You are making good progress. Next work on validation seeking and it will get even better.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 01:27 PM
1

Hey, I generously offered this for f fabulous
/r/askMRP09/06/16 04:04 AM
10

Lesbians beat the shit out of each other Amen, I have seen that more than once.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:08 PM
1

Both.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 10:03 PM
1

Stan and I go camping. Two pup tents, plus two girls, and swaps (edit: swap the girls).
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 09:53 PM
1

I OK with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 09:40 PM
2

My memory is long about your posts. Wow. Just Wow!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 09:21 PM
1

The following words come to mind on OP's post: clusterfuck, clueless, wuss, neck beard, man-child, idiot, lights are on but nobody is home, the elevator never got to the top, Pussy McFaggot. getting tired of this. All.Done
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 09:18 PM
1

I'll just tag onto this post to keep this simple. OP everything you are being told here is right. If you were treated this disrespectfully by a man, you would have done or said something serious by now. Yes, the side bar is all you get. There is no silver bullet here, we all just start with iron.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 09:03 PM
2

Cheaters assume everyone's cheating I am only certain that cheating WOMEN assume everyone is cheating.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 08:51 PM
1

Yes, You know you can lead a horse to water, and if it doesn't go right, drown it. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 01:13 PM
3

She has started reading books I have talked about AND…comes to me to talk about them. I am married she is too. I have been here….. I am not making another emotional decision like I did the last time. Yet it is hard to explain. When someone sees value in you it’s unlike anything else. I've been there too…… when someone comes to you and says “You said this would work….I did it and it does! What else should I do?” Or they say they saw something you did and it pushed them to achieve more? That is…we…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 03:35 AM
1

;o)
/r/askMRP08/06/16 12:57 AM
1

You get a gold star. and a cookie?
/r/askMRP08/06/16 12:42 AM
1

"donut in hand" is NSFW
/r/askMRP08/06/16 12:20 AM
1

Shit tests are an opportunity. Dah! I gave you opportunity!
/r/askMRP07/06/16 10:35 PM
1

Thanks for the link. Re-reading it, it was better than I remembered.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 10:04 PM
1

Sir PM, Now..that…is….a……Flair!
/r/askMRP07/06/16 08:59 PM
1

Edited: OK, your little cupcake is tricky and you caught it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:13 PM
1

Much better. I feelz so much better after you just passed your MY shit-comfort-complance test. :o)
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:07 PM
1

Spouses' mother will die Well, anyway sorry for your family's troubles. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:03 PM
1

calm down cupcake Scurve, you never call ME cupcake anymore….boo hoo
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:01 PM
1

more spirited submissions When you find it, you will see…..right Jack10?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:00 PM
2

The difference is subtle, but "I got this" implies I am taking ownership of a problem Yes, this is the same for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:56 PM
4

OK, u/fuzzyface1980 , I have read your comment twice now. Are you high on little Red Pills? Would you care to decode this rant? Are you in such a rage that you are incomprehensible, inconsolable? WTF man.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:35 PM
4

Good analogy. Amazing that I never would take a on business partner in many years of business ownership. YET, I took on marriages on much worse terms than I would have ever accepted in a RATIONAL business decision. Side note: I remember u/Jacktenofhearts had a post/comment about the difficulty that he had dissolving a business partnership. One of his more spirited submissions.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:27 PM
2

I think two of the most important things you said were: (being unattractive because of my actions, a validation whore) (being the wife the last to jump on this train, still not completely). You are gaining the understanding of what YOU need to do. And, the fact that HER reaction to it is not as important as yours. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 02:19 PM
1

don't think anyone here can judge you for wanting to feel that way Completely agree. Remember your hamster has claws and teeth, and will not give up easily. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 02:16 PM
2

Men just want sex and have no problems aiming low. Spot on. And amazing how low even a hawt dude can fly sometimes.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:10 PM
15

Basically, they want their dad, but with sex As I get older, this has become less of a joke(to me) and more of a reality I did not see before.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 02:09 PM
1

Many a scout master is no longer in the camping plan over that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 02:06 PM
5

all this time I thought it was "you are right." Me too! lol
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 01:14 PM
4

Yes, I remember it took many years for my fathers intelligence to catch up to mine.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 12:31 PM
3

You are truly amazing. You forgot that you need to have your majestic image mounted in a Golden Frame, placed above all others.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 04:01 AM
2

Since you are an avowed 17 year old skeptic, I can see where you are coming from. However, I am very simply skeptical of your view and completely disagree.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:35 AM
2

try an easier, softer way. Its only when that doesn't work Such as we have seen so many times: "I sat her down and told her that we need to have more sex." fgt
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 03:26 AM
4

Because TRP isn't a thing, it's just a word we use as shorthand, describing 30 some years of guys swapping notes. When you boil it all down, this is what is left. And because of the evolution of sharing behavior and information, it will change over time. Well said Stoney.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:07 AM
1

not taken down because it's promoting violence. But taken down because it's 'violence against women'. This is very similar, to me, to BPP's post about the skewed presentation of feminist issues in religion. Yet another example of what I only can think of as the SJW's network in constant operation. Same issues just a different institutional source.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 12:14 AM
1

Wow! This is great post comment. Could you expand on it and submit it? Looking forward to it, if you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 11:14 PM
2

Mr fabulous refuses to put in the effort yet wants to have the cheat codes. Sadly, he is one of so many that think they only need the right words to "just tell her" and then "that'll show her". There is no silver bullet, we must all start with iron.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 11:06 PM
1

No, not that I can remember. I do find that visual disturbing male behavior…….
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 10:22 PM
2

if it was easy everyone would do it As you come bloody out of the trenches, some guy says, "that looks interesting, tell me how you do it…" and I say ..faggot
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 06:36 PM
3

Yes, I can skip step 3. I did that once before. Step 5 is stupid, skip that. This is hard, let's go get a drink…..
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 04:45 PM
1

Or the other concept of foot full bore on the gas. Since she is always 1000' behind, the farther you get, the farther she gets, just on a continuos delay. Of course, easier said than done.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 04:08 PM
2

No….. "I'll have fun making one that's stronger and works harder than you…" true.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 03:48 PM
5

I am looking forward to organizing thousands of hours of information for you. Obviously, just a list of what to read is not easy enough. Why read the whole book when they sell the Cliff Notes. Better yet, get some chump to give it to you for free. I agree. Yes, executive types just need the top and bottom line, all that in between is messy and time consuming. Someone with the talents you have for organizing the high points is a rare commodity. Thanks for your offer. Fgt
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 12:20 PM
6

My father would say, "son I brought you into this world and I can take you out".
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 10:05 PM
2

I can't hear you. I logged off.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 10:03 PM
1

That is my solemn vow I don't know. This was all a lot of fun. But you know, somebody could get their eye put out, or something. I just can't do a solemn vow right now. Just too busy, you know?. We could talk about it later. I was thinking about going to the gym in a week or two, maybe we could talk after that.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 09:59 PM
2

Crap, I understood what you said! logging off now…..
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 09:53 PM
2

The messages from culture is Hell bent on weakening men …..we don't even notice it most of the time I continue to be amazed at this. It seems that hoards of little White Knights come out of everywhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 09:51 PM
1

let me get a spreadsheet going Yes, but carefully format it. We don't want this Holy War getting messy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 09:43 PM
1

I pity those who are against that which we do not believe! You have a way with words. Confusion, mis-direction and ambiguousness will lead the losers indirectly to victory!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 09:38 PM
1

launch right into an MRP Holy War Brilliant. Bloody. Get those gamers out of the house doing something productive. Pillage and plunder. I am getting excited.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 09:25 PM
5

They are hard-wired to test. No thinking required on her part. If they get bored they test. If you look too happy, too sad, they test. If they feel a little "off" they test. You are still accepting the reality. It gets better. It is an opportunity. Always was, just didn't realize it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 02:08 PM
1

I need to take ur advice and move on Make your own decision…...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 01:52 PM
1

What can I say, I'm old, and too stupid to live, BUT, there are a lot of smart guys here. Maybe someone else here has a clue. Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 11:57 PM
3

owning a failed decision and failure to own, is worse than the actual problem. It is like the "cover-up" is worse than the actual issue that was wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 11:43 PM
4

It is not about you, it is about HER……. on another, social isolation and ostracism, which is worse than death for the female.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 11:38 PM
1

I will also cure droughts by proclaiming they are not there…. Are any fucktards bowing yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 10:51 PM
2

you.. fucking, faggot So I gain stature from your negative comment. I AM ANTI FRAGILE NOW. All the fucktards must now bow down to meeeeeee!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 10:46 PM
1

K ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 10:40 PM
1

Yes agree up vote.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 10:40 PM
1

Look man, when I was growing up, the church was a center point of life for the family. ANYONE in the family that said they no longer believed would have been ostracized. It's not just the afterlife, it's also the the now-life of all the social and extended family connections of the church group and community. You've heard the words "my church family". For the deeply religious, which I left long ago, it is a difficult problem to overcome your "outsider" status. I just don't see a good MRP idea fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 10:20 PM
1

Some high profile people in the news are masters of inflating themselves with negative news. Who could they be…….
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 10:04 PM
1

So pretty much what one would expect to happen…happened. YES this….OP, don't see that this really is an issue that you can control, unless you decided to keep it to yourself and that could create other issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 10:00 PM
1

They would say they already knew. The lead dog always gives the same view to those who follow…the asshole. On the other hand, if one of my colleagues was bold enough to call me to try to say they heard I was an asshole, I would say, so what. Therefore I am not Anti-fragile, I might be "non-fragile" = neutral effect
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 09:41 PM
1

Would you describe me as "anti fragile"?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 09:05 PM
3

is "thirsty fat fuck" the long version of "faggot"?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 08:58 PM
2

This is scary! Amazing, anytime I click a link in a post, I could be doxxed. In over a year of my posts, I'm sure some personal stuff can get through. Thanks for scaring the crap out of me. I will be more careful.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 08:48 PM
1

I want her to change her attitude. How are you gonna "make her do that"? and by the way, I want YOU to change your attitude. I am getting better, She is getting fatter, more arrogant, refuses to talk to me like a gf should OK, what would YOU tell someone else to do? and by the way, I thing you should dump her, yesterday.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 08:42 PM
2

Remember that new car smell as you drove it off the lot. It responded to your every move and hummed like a thousand horses. Makes me want to go buy a new car :)
/r/askMRP04/06/16 08:25 PM
0

turning into a pussy and wifing up a post wall banger you hardly even know YES. The professor makes a strong set of points here. Better to heed them now, rather than coming back in a year or two and whining that , "if only",
/r/askMRP04/06/16 03:53 PM
3

You are having separation anxiety from the Disney dream. Like the anger, it comes and goes. Unplugging is a long and painful process. As you gain more power over yourself, you will gain from the pain. Once you gain recognition of this, then you can deconstruct, analyze and change your own inner drama. Enjoy. ;)
/r/askMRP04/06/16 03:46 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 01:34 AM
2

Yes I remember when you called from the airport. See my last post on this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 01:18 AM
4

Turns out she decided more than a year ago that she was going to leave me, but the return of the cancer and impending death changed her mind and she figured she'd ride it out. Now that she's going to live longer, she's concluded we're finished She decided some time ago to go outside the relationship to have her emotional needs met, rather than giving me the opportunity to be there for her. In doing so, she set me up to fail and left me stranded as I dealt with the likelihood of her impending dea…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 01:16 AM
1

something in between that serves him Instead of walking away. Included, lift, self improvement, reading, hospice and caregivers for wife, special time and attention to children's needs, arranging for some short "relief" time for himself to recharge and take charge. You know, something in between (that I didn't explain before).
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 12:53 AM
3

Based on what OP wrote, and what I think he left out, I don't think it will end well for him either…….
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 10:29 PM
2

Yes. This.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 10:03 PM
4

Much later he unplugged with TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 09:55 PM
1

He could leave….. or stay……. or something in between that serves him too. This comes back to all the prostitution examples, or cheating ideas lately. I don't thing she is the only one dying here.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 09:54 PM
3

First you have my respect for your efforts, and my sympathy for your situation. Told me she had decided to end the relationship but balked when she thought she was going to die soon, but extended lifespan made her want out again. So here is my question for you to consider, as an answer may be elusive: If a miracle occurred and your wife was cured of her cancer, or, could see that she would have some substantial increase in her longevity, would her first order of business be to divorce you? Assum…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 09:40 PM
1

Yes, GFE where great actresses give better illusions, for a fee.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 04:27 PM
1

Sounds like the intro verse to a song… maybe Percy Sledge, the MGTOW version
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 04:13 PM
1

Why not just keep it up until it's not fine? Yes. It's not like you have to marry her. This simple approach is the best.
/r/askMRP03/06/16 03:57 AM
5

Being RedPill does not immunize you to the ramifications of getting caught banging a hooker or snorting some coke. Unfortunate. Pass the paint.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 03:49 AM
1

Comparatively, water boarding is much more humane. But as they say, build on your strengths.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 03:42 AM
1

Stoney said the same thing in 9 words. Yeah, he's turning into a wind-bag even as I write this….
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 03:37 AM
2

My brain is feeling…. soft……melting…..make it stop!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 03:34 AM
1

Tell her if she wants to rub up against me, she better buy me a drink. And thanks for your service officer! ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 03:22 AM
2

Just didn't want to offer any more detail about any of my personal experiences that confirmed your hypothesis above, other than to confirm it. We're good.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 03:21 AM
2

First, this girl ambushed you. You would have to be VERY quick on your feet to have had time for any comeback. Bet she has done this to others before. It is like a smash and grab robbery. If you get the chance, next time; tell her the drink will cost her more than a kiss and take it away from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 11:15 PM
2

"To hunt successfully, you must know your ground, your pack, and your quarry." K.J.Parker
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 11:00 PM
1

That's all…..you…… Edit: :o}
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 09:37 PM
1

I am just saying you sometimes get what you pay for with a pro... sometimes you pay for the show and actually get it Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 09:16 PM
3

Now you're gonna need and engineer and spreadsheet.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 09:14 PM
4

Prostitution on the down-low is Ego junk food KILL YOUR EGO are you damaging your perception of yourself for the sake of ego gratification? Prostitution and affairs = full on binge eating and drinking. These statements are gospel. Well written post. Edit: it took me a long time to come to accept these points…..
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 09:12 PM
1

why are there so many of them Dunno. Probably a blue, red and purple version.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 08:58 PM
2

It's the hunt, not the meal. Put on the camo and let's go hunting at the soccer fields.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 08:56 PM
6

Prostitutes have sex with you because of a financial contract. Not because of attraction and not because of desire. Not because you are alpha - hell they will sleep with a fat beta-bitch for the same price. Yet so many men here complain that they want to "be desired". Not possible when you play with a pro.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 08:54 PM
1

No one will tell me how….
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 08:49 PM
1

taking out the trash Good job too. You are worth every penny you are paid. :o}
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 08:48 PM
1

I remove about 90% of the posts on this subreddit! Don't like how I do my job? Go fuck yourself. Been working on a way to fuck myself. Have any good ideas? Seriously now. We don't really have an option to "mod deleted" but i always post a clear and concise reason in that thread for why it was deleted. Didn't know you didn't have the "mod deleted" option. Thanks for explaining yours. There have been so many things deleted lately I'm just trying to understand what's going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 08:35 PM
2

Just my view on this: Stone was asked to come aboard and apply them(the rules) with a little more zeal. This is your only warning- No moralizing, no concern trolling, no stupid sniping at one another. Don't test him! This can only be an improvement. The only thing I would like to see is some explanation for mod deleted posts. The term "mod deleted" is better then nothing at all. Sends a clear, positive message. Now when a post is deleted, we don't know if we ran the OP off and they self-deleted …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 08:15 PM
1

Suggest you read the adultery reddit. Men and women there talk about their AP (adultery partner). The women are generally better at the cover-up strategies than the men. These people have AP relationships for weeks, months, even years. I will never forget what one of my soccer moms said to me when I was first cheating. I asked her if she was looking to cheat because she was having trouble with her marriage. She said, no things are never better. She said it is really risky to cheat when you aren'…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 04:50 AM
4

His standard is different (lower per our standards) but different than ours Yes. If the standard is happy wife happy life, he was successful, by that standard. What I call "dancing the full beta" is doing everything a man can to make her happy, based on the (crazy) egalitarian idea that "if I make the effort, she will respond". I can speak from personal experience, when my wife almost died, that the decision to play super beta to the max, is a fools errand. So this whole article is really about …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 04:31 AM
1

Put away the knives and fling turds.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 12:32 AM
2

Funny how formulaic it is, always the same ending. Yes … and the nailing up part is so, so…. well, not necessarily final. Just wait 3 days.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 12:31 AM
1

Yes. Never a dull moment. But glad you are back.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:59 PM
2

Somehow I think you have inside information here…….il
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:58 PM
1

This shit is like a playbook of everything you should NEVER do, right? Absolutely agree with this. The only part of the linked story I don't believe is that the marriage is really better. He just likes dancing "the full Beta".
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:56 PM
1

It is interesting to me that this linked post hits all the verses of each refrain of TheBluePill's complaints with anything that has to do with Red Pill ideas. While it would be fun to deconstruct all of the errors that BOTH parties in this relationship are making; I will just say my overall view, and take the down votes as they fall: 1 - He is an entitled faggot that wants what he has not earned, and is willing to make stupid demands and cheat rather than work on himself. 2 - She is an entitled…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:47 PM
2

YES -- drumroll ---The G O L D E N A G E… not of reason. Call it, the golden age, of sexual freedom. Got to go get another shot. Cheers il !
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 06:28 PM
3

she always talked about these women and this one is so, and that one is so. Highlighting all the bad she could find in them in those brief moments. She's defending her territory - you. Just tell her some little nice things about them. Nothing big, nothing the least bit defensive, but make it a clear context that you think they are OK, or nice. just-a-little easy dread. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 06:24 PM
1

Our children will never know a world, that we knew, that was so free of fear.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 06:18 PM
1

Those were the days. Never used condoms...until now Yes. Sigh.. I'm going to get a whiskey shot and toast that one. (giving up raw-dog is a real downside to thinking about cheating….)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 06:15 PM
2

..having my own hobbies that don't require my wife to be around, and indeed I do lots of stuff just on my own. I don't lose my shit…. I am not needy. I can quickly discern motivations behind things, and I am more or less immune to shit tests. I don't constantly seek her approval for things I want to do (being married I obviously seek her input on many things that affect the both of us)….Things have mostly been great between us, but sex was always a point of contention. I could blame various thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 06:08 PM
1

Just to clarify, still getting mine at home where raw dog is the only way. If I ever go back to my old ways in the future, will have to save up for the wet suit, and, baby powder.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:58 PM
2

Age advances, focus ebbs….
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:56 PM
1

Yeah, bad news. You get old and now you have wear a wet-suit to keep your weenie from falling off.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:53 PM
1

Remember my greatest activity was during the 70's and 80's. It wasn't until the late 80's that condoms were more for safe sex than birth control. AIDS and STD's just weren't part of the scene. I fucking hate condoms. Never used them. Never caught but one minor infection. "used-to-be-cheerleader-Jane" called the she had caught something from "used-to-be-a-football-star-dad-bod-Chump". I took a trip to the clinic and 10 days later, all is forgotten. Funny, dad-bod-Chump paid penance for years over…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:51 PM
2

Thanks. Stupid me, I always have hope that anyone that takes the time to post, has the time to realize he is a fucktard faggot. As il says, I am too stupid to live.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:37 PM
1

Happy Birthday to you, Stoney! What kind of cake?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 03:30 PM
4

Update: I just read some of your post history. Man, we have 1/2 of something in common. Serial cheater. The other 1/2 we don't have in common, you don't seem to understand. I OWN that I was a Fucktard. At some point you might quit with the mental frame of "she, she, she; look what little wifey did to me." Then start with the frame of "me, me, me; look what an angry, overblown ego, validation seeking guy I am, and, look what I did to myself." After lurking here so long, I have little hope for you…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 03:20 PM
2

That is no way to fucking live. At this point, the true alpha has two options : A) Either suck it up and go be a full time beta, grateful for his yearly blowjob or B) Start fucking on the side because this is what is in your DNA to do OP the first problem with your post is that your premise is incomplete. There are OTHER options than the ones you posted. If these were the only 2 options, then this sub would split, the A options to BluePill and the B options to the adultery sub. The idea that a h…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 02:35 PM
1

quick-fix junkie Yes, We see a lot of them come and go here…..
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 01:45 PM
1

I have read this too. Good book. There is also a Ted Talk about "taking up space" has shown to improve outcomes for people.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 03:21 AM
2

without the spreadsheet tracked coconut oil massages No you must continue the spreadsheets. They are very important to being able to sit down with your wife and have a very open, honest and logical discussion in order to prove to her that you should have mo blo jo.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 03:18 AM
2

Yet no one that's PC ever says anything about a woman taking up extra space with her big ass, and, her suitcase purse, and, often other bags of shit they carry.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 03:15 AM
2

Still she doesn't submit to me, but she has started deferring a bit, she shows respect almost always and I think I even see a tiny bit admiration sometimes. Another step in the right direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 10:44 PM
1

Nice progress, on so many fronts.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 10:43 PM
1

so much chill that I won't mind waiting for others to be served before I dig in. No, No...I am working on using bad manners, as going to the gym is really hard, and, being hawt by being shitty is much easier. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 10:31 PM
2

your dog will stop peeing on the rug. I like it!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 09:55 PM
1

More people lost more money in real estate than the stock market.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 08:10 PM
1

You know it is hard for me, being old and all. Sometimes I just don't get it until someone hits me in the head, real hard. lol
/r/askMRP31/05/16 08:07 PM
3

Everybody knows that bigfoot is Canadian and he is big happy and harmless. Just follow my keen logic here….
/r/askMRP31/05/16 07:54 PM
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Stoney don't your panties in a wad. If I was going to insult you, you know I would be much more direct, not some passive-aggressive whine and snipe. See edits on orig comment. Best :o}
/r/askMRP31/05/16 07:48 PM
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Just less divorce rape That was my point.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 07:41 PM
1

never mind - found it.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:40 AM
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cat memes to make What is it? Seriously.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:34 AM
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That silence was an opportunity. …to jump up and show off his "Mango rage" dance moves….?
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:31 AM
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Yes I am a terrible man.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:30 AM
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OK here's your help As has been told you many times over the last few months: it is a very bad stupid idea to get back together with this pain in the ass low value woman.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:23 AM
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so yeah. You are well read and…… for me you missed the point. K
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:20 AM
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Read your post history. You are a fucking drama queen. That's all you get.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:14 AM
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Mango rage Thought it was a dance move. See….
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:03 AM
1

...you are his wife, aren't you? :)
/r/askMRP31/05/16 12:56 AM
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she's. Miserable whether she gets what she wants or not may as well do it your way, your going to be responsible either way. It is hard raising that hamster. lol
/r/askMRP31/05/16 12:55 AM
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I don't think I would have during the middle of her irrational shit storm. After she calmed down, OK. But I think this was more about power, not juice.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 12:42 AM
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Excellent post! I am beginning to not like the word frame because everyone misuses it. BUT YOU HELD FRAME. Very respectably for a newbie. You have come a long way from your, sad to say, pathetic starting point. Once you get control over ourself everything changes, because you can't control others.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 12:35 AM
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Marvel221 isn't gonna get in his way Like taking candy from a bulimic
/r/askMRP30/05/16 06:59 PM
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Defense counsel : Plead sanity.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 06:55 PM
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like, playing with people who do not know they are missing game pieces This has been said to me before. I didn't know it was funny at the time. OK delayed laugh.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 06:54 PM
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just do it Yes!
/r/askMRP30/05/16 05:56 PM
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OK, that was a little harsh. Just promise to stop feeding the trolls.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 05:29 PM
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Signs everywhere il, don't feed the trolls! If you feed them, they will come back to haunt us. Now you've done it. We are sending you back to PPD to get your head straight.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 05:19 PM
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Be like Stoney Let's see…. (Stoney is ) half as old (as me), (He is)twice as strong (as me), single Common Law LTR (as opposed to my marriage 2.0), and best of all Canadian (yes I was thinking of the medical and retirement system). Not likely (that I could be like Stoney). Edited for clarity.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 05:15 PM
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Yes, be friends with her and don't tell your wife. That'll show her.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 02:11 PM
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Let's be honest, I think I want to bang her.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 02:07 PM
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actively rejecting Dread Yes. Better analysis.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 01:50 PM
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I don't want my wife thinking there could be anything going on with us When you work out around guys, do you worry your wife will think you are gay? Do you spend a lot of time worrying about what your wife thinks? Does she spend a lot of time worrying about what you think? Can you control what your wife thinks? Can your wife control what you think? You are spending too much time in your wife's head, which means you have no frame of your own.
/r/askMRP30/05/16 04:18 AM
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Would make a good Sinatra jingle. A good hummer is good. Say it again now. A good hummer is good……..
/r/askMRP30/05/16 03:45 AM
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OK I'm back in touch.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/16 01:58 AM
1

did I miss something?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/16 07:19 PM
1

That is a very nice beach!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/16 07:12 PM
2

Knew a girl named TWILA, she could hum any tune.
/r/askMRP29/05/16 07:02 PM
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nothing new under the sun Agree. Old familiars.
/r/askMRP29/05/16 06:47 PM
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Vampiresquidina She was kinda fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/16 02:18 AM
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Yes. Maybe a bacon lovers reunion…...
/r/askMRP29/05/16 02:17 AM
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You seem to be having fun. That's my game.
/r/askMRP29/05/16 01:58 AM
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this sounds very familiar……….
/r/askMRP29/05/16 01:30 AM
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I got it. A dangerous troll. Now back to Engrish.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 11:44 PM
1

A golden frame, above all others.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 11:40 PM
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Up Vote this. Still working on Engrish.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 11:38 PM
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do something else that benefits me. Like gym/ walk etc...so I stop putting her pussy on a pedestal If you do this, it gets better.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 10:30 PM
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not sarcastic, I don't do it very well anyway. Just mean do things that make you better rather than do things that don't do anything for you. Maybe I misunderstood your post?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 09:55 PM
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Put mine in a jar along with the teeth.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 09:52 PM
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she knows it's serious of I don't make her a cuppa Why waste your time on passive aggressive displays in her frame, when going to the gym is good for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 09:31 PM
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Get your gym gear before you initiate Should be moved near the top of the side bar. Does a nice guy good.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 09:29 PM
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Low quality Wow! I am amazed how many people remember what I wouldn't say. No one would ever forget it, or believe it, if I had spilled the whole beans on the woman And that is a good thing, for my kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 08:59 PM
1

You have an amazing memory.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 03:28 PM
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older you get, the more you forget Not really, for me. The kids are always in the mix.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 03:27 PM
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Does it ever become a natural response to be like this If you see it as a self control issue, it gets better as you get control of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 02:11 PM
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hat was my final words about her and as I wrote, there won't be any more discussion about this person This sounds familiar. Similar to my position on my ex. It works for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 02:08 PM
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She would fight dirty. Absolutely! Stay away from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 02:06 PM
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thats the subtle context. The full out verbalization should not have to happen Do this. Then your life will get much smoother. But, for me, was easier said than done.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 01:54 PM
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YES! Seeing things as they are, changes everything, and, with work, changes you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 01:47 PM
1

I shouldn't have..
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 01:46 PM
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Pussy, I pull myself along, rolling my oxygen tank in front and dragging my dead legs behind me.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 01:04 AM
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Amazing story. You are such a manly guy, somehow I fail to see why you have a problem. Her problem is not your problem unless you are looking to become her BB and raise someone else's child. But alphas don't do that, or do they? My eyes are tearing, something smells funny in here. Got to go now. Maybe Stoney can help you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 12:55 AM
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Add: Sometimes I take off the ring just to irritate her. Childish, yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 11:04 PM
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That's all you get!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 11:00 PM
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Think about this: the anger is often an expression of your ego. Our ego feels entitled to better than we are getting. Our ego is wrong and can hold us back. Kill the ego, kill the Beta, anger reduces. Just think about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 09:52 PM
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This post is a little confusing to me. But I noticed some things that might help you. First, there is no doubt you are in the anger stage, maybe the rage stage. You are spending a lot of energy on it. This has it's merits to get you going early on, but, as you insinuated, it is time for you to start understanding your triggers, and finding ways to put them away. You might try some mediation, just to empty your mind a little. Journaling your triggers an examining your own emotions helps a lot of …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 06:21 PM
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OP said: I guess my point is, do I still need to change? What part of that is not weak and validation seeking? When did posters on this sub start making basic decisions for others? Do you not think OP's overblown ego is fucking him up? The only shitty "advice" I gave was to read the sidebar. I terrible, yes.
/r/askMRP27/05/16 05:52 PM
1

Yes. Nothing is as it seems in the Matrix. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:42 PM
2

I think women have some really good parking spaces. Fortunately, so many are available.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:40 PM
2

All the good one's are taken It's about your personal game choices. The idea for a married man, is to game women that have as much to lose if caught as you, and as much to gain. Weather you are just flirting or cheating, you game a group that has similar issues. You get IOI she gets tingles, etc. in the open. Single women need to be in a LTR, or they are just too risky, even for flirting. Wear the ring unless you are looking for a new LTR. That's my take on it. Edit: women looking for tingles kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:33 PM
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I get Ass before my coffee. There, corrected. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:25 PM
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One of the times having wife with was a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 03:33 PM
1

fate of many savants S Hawking? You might be next.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 03:30 PM
1

All the good one's are taken, confirmation.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 03:21 PM
1

Do you know how many milfs out there No, I don't know, but I bet Bogey is still trying to get a head count.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:27 PM
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yet you berate someone else's application of MRP to their own. I don't understand? Just saying your story is like mine and so many others here, Berate?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:24 PM
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cute 50 year young nurse type it for him Yes, but much younger….
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:03 PM
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The yelling teams tend to have a few good ball hogs and the rest of the team is scared to make a mistake. Thus I felt the need for parent monitors. They were also in charge of bringing refreshments for the team.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:01 PM
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I guess my point is, do I still need to change? Women seem to like me just fine, find me attractive/funnny/etc. want to fuck me/date me/marry me. Just not my wife. Only you know if you need to change. The fact that you would ask strangers on the internet would indicate that you are a weak, validation seeking beta male. If I get divorced, yeah my relationship problems go away. But my personal problems will likely start. You answered your own question here, just remove the word "likely". what else…
/r/askMRP27/05/16 05:02 AM
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The longer I'm here the more times I've heard your story.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:49 AM
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He's really an 80 year old man, sitting in his wheelchair in the basement of a creepy old institution with his computer. Every time he finally manages to get his old computer connected to a weak wifi signal, he starts unloading his pent up thoughts on the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:43 AM
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I don't think I know enough about TRP and MRP theory differences to compare that particular nuance. This is more about the idea that most many men, particularly very young men, over estimate their SMV and "starve" holding out for "not likely to happen". Since TRP is a younger group, OK it is about them. I will say that I enjoy enthusiasm over looks. The mid range HB girls could ring my bells long and hard, and, can literally be your pimp. But that was a long time ago…..
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:28 AM
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Yeah, I'm not just posting about these concepts, I'm applying them first. Like jack said (though he was mocking me) trying being me, it worked for me! Your writing has changed dramatically since u/jacktenofhearts comments to you. I see a definite and increasing improvement in depth and breadth of your writing. Stoney, you can mock this old man, but if it's helps me, I will get over the heartburn eventually.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:13 AM
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:)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:17 AM
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have had, uh, inquiries. You should find a way for your wife to find out about your "inquiries"
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:16 AM
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the demand for social equality in romantic relationships is a trick and lie, Everyone loses.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:13 AM
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Remember, she isn't yours, it's just your turn. Anything more than that is a bonus. The Bottom Line
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:09 AM
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Are you fixing more than the appliances? Seriously, nice FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 10:03 PM
2

Let her set the price. Don't forget to tip generously
/r/askMRP26/05/16 09:06 PM
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Don't forget to do the dishes, do all the laundry, and, offer to babysit the kids while she has a GNO in the local bar. Makes her wet and hot to blow you.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 08:49 PM
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alternate between hot and cold as it is one if the only things that will help migraines I have dealt with migraines for 40 years, successfully, I might add. I use sinus meds that have the "D" in them, like Claritin D. It must be taken at the beginning stages of the migraine onset. My migraines can take 1-3 days before hitting full strength and causing visual "stars" and another 1-2 days before I am immobilized. If I can take the sinus-D meds in the first 3 days, I am golden within 12 hours or le…
/r/askMRP26/05/16 08:34 PM
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Legally, of course.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 07:54 PM
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Award this post a dammit doll!
/r/askMRP26/05/16 06:02 PM
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Like it.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 06:01 PM
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I can count on you to quickly dispose of a matter. Edit: My ego is having difficulty handling your long answer.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 05:32 PM
1

Take your time. Try not to nuke your marriage. STFU is key now. Everything you learn is for you. Good Luck
/r/askMRP26/05/16 05:30 PM
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LOVE THE DAMMIT DOLL ON THE HEADER OF THE POST!
/r/askMRP26/05/16 01:32 PM
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Makes it sound a lot sexier than I get out of the shower :)
/r/askMRP26/05/16 01:30 PM
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You can throw him a rope, but he has to grab onto it, and pull hard. Sorry man, it's hard watching a slow motion train wreck. Been there.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 01:26 PM
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After I work out and take a warm shower, I turn it to cold at the end. I think it reduces my muscle and joint soreness. Nothing more.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 03:56 AM
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Wife is giving me sex if I want Really? You have a post you deleted that says she is pregnant and you are getting no sex. You've been on Reddit for 5 days. So, tell me, why are you telling lies? Troll?
/r/askMRP26/05/16 03:52 AM
1

Regardless of your goal, strive for excellence!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 03:44 AM
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a few seasons in the bush leagues, and you can go pro. Poetic. Why would a starving man pass up a jelly sandwich and wait for a steak? Besides, u/ReddJive just wants to get unsolicited IOI's in front of his wife. Since the women are always comparing, he needs to put himself out there. It is like the referral system I have mentioned before. Now they call it networking. Same bullshit different name.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 03:40 AM
2

That thread is everything that is wrong about TRP. Which thread?
/r/askMRP26/05/16 03:27 AM
1

Kind of like "winning" the attendance record. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 03:15 AM
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All the kids fist pump him, high five him, call him an animal and the kid is super fucking proud. The rest of practice he keeps telling me, "Coach, I'm a beast" Great story! Just an add….Back in the dark ages, I also coached kid soccer teams. One team I coached was 6 yr. olds. At the parents meeting we made a rule. You should yell for the kids, BUT, tell them what they did right. Anything they do wrong is my job. If they run at the ball and get knocked down like a bowling pin, yell great run! I …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 11:32 PM
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I had a lot of trouble with adopting this concept at first. But my take is this. My wife is a great person, BUT, she, like most women operates from an emotional frame as opposed to my more logical frame. As I deconstruct my interchanges with her, such as shit tests, I have come to see her actions as more along the lines of a 12 year old many times. This 12 yr. old will take you lunch money and piss in your Wheaties if you let her. She will cry about, anything and nothing. Her emotions are much n…
/r/askMRP25/05/16 10:28 PM
1

I hate it but I see NO other way to fix this without submitting to her. Sad. You are being a pussy and she has lost respect for you. Attraction from her at this point, is pointless until you start working on you.
/r/askMRP25/05/16 10:12 PM
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It's just bullshit. :o}
/r/askMRP25/05/16 09:48 PM
2

Everyone knows that the standard divisor is 2.14. Divide all bullshit by 2.14, then you have an accurate number that can be trusted. I guarantee it. Edit: lol
/r/askMRP25/05/16 03:01 PM
2

How do you make a woman feel desired without seeming whiney? You just do the following: Say nothing. Throw her on bed. Rip off her clothes. Be forceful as you enter. Pound hard until you are exhausted. Leave quickly to go to gym. Keep it simple and it Works every time.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 02:35 PM
2

Thanks for letting us know. Good luck with your new projects and I hope to hear from you again when you can. Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 02:28 PM
1

Yes this. Anytime you feel defensive, such as you just described in your post, you are in her frame, trying to defend yourself. First, do as u/FearDearg2105 said, or something similar. Second, try to understand your emotions that are causing this. Then you can change your need "to dodge bullets" over time.
/r/askMRP25/05/16 02:20 PM
1

Actually was I trying to increase calories and see if I would gain more muscle. I did gain some new muscle, faster than usual. But about half of the gain was fat and after losing so much over the last 2 years, it kind of pissed me off. Secondly, her reaction was negative to me being "puffier". I don't think I will try "bulking" again.
/r/askMRP25/05/16 02:04 PM
2

Stoney, I like this. My inner psychopath has been fed for the day.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 03:49 AM
2

aren't nearly as good looking (HB4-5) but they are SAHMs and starving for attention Perfect!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 12:15 AM
2

Made my day too
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 12:14 AM
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Sadly, it's true. But I still know how to make lemonade out of anything wet. Edit: you recently said you would fuck your way around the world if you could. You are a shameful, yet kindred spirit.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 12:10 AM
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I love angry lesbians. See I am laughing too, but not there.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 12:08 AM
1

Broke into jail, partied hard for 20 years, then put myself in solitary. Of course then I came here. Yes, I am too stupid to live.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 10:32 PM
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This works only if you swallow Edit: we call it the cure.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 10:27 PM
2

Man you know what happened. You don't need help understanding that. You don't to see how pathetic you are acting. Your behavior is childish and sad. You have been told and trained to act this way. OK get over it and start acting like man, and with work, you can become one. Good Luck
/r/askMRP24/05/16 10:24 PM
2

Yes, still have her over 25 years now. Thus the user name, over 60_stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 10:17 PM
1

I have done this too. Gain back eight hard fought pounds, and the lizard knows. Yes, No end to the journey.
/r/askMRP24/05/16 10:14 PM
1

Who used to say, it is not a design flaw, it is a feature?
/r/askMRP24/05/16 10:12 PM
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Agree with everything here, except the last line about "leave addicts". There are other options. GET SOME A LOT OF HELP. Yes, my first wife was an addict. Edited: as per u/alphabeta49 comments
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 10:07 PM
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Women are allowed to post here.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 10:04 PM
2

First my anger phase would be called a rage phase. Jan 2015 till now. I can say I left the rage phase and entered the anger phase about 4 months ago. Examining the triggers and rooting out the causes has helped me a lot. Again, the greatest power you have is control over yourself. It gets better.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 09:42 PM
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I think I’m setting the world record for Longest Anger Phase. No, not really. I thought I held the record, but it turned out I was wrong. Seriously, it can go on for a very long time. It is good that you recognize it as caused by your insecurity and making progress with your emotions.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 09:34 PM
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Getting back to being happy. Initiated with the wife 7 time turned down 7 times. No biggie, These two statements seem to go together. You are making changes that make you "happy" regardless of "her" actions. My wife must feel pretty secure that I won't/can't leave her. You might explore this situation. Is there something you can do to lessen her comfort? How about taking her to the gym and just incidentally, introducing her to your new girl friends? But you would know better than I what might re…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 09:31 PM
2

Scary grey haired guys. Saying weird stuff like, "man-up, victim puke, blue pill bastard". Sounds like it could be fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 09:20 PM
2

100,000 words is not "epic" for Jack10. It is called a good start setting the groundwork. OK, and well worth reading, too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:47 PM
1

lost souls that wander in here… You make us sound like the downtown rescue mission for the homeless. On the other hand, we really aren't to far removed from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:36 PM
1

Not to my knowledge, but I have been camping and unplugged a lot for the last month. I could have missed it. I see his last post was only 16 days ago. Anyone else know about u/jacktenofhearts status? Jack10, you could answer anytime…...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:32 PM
1

It was the speed in which I go to 0 - it's impressive It is impressive. No, it is amazing that someone could possibly down vote anything that fast!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:27 PM
2

I'm just trying to sound as smart as everyone else. It's ha-a-a-a-r-d you know
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:21 PM
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Your thanks is unnecessary to this sub. But your participation is necessary for all of us to grow..……. Please tell us what you are thanking us for. I really don't want to read your DB history in order to get a clue about you, and your RP insights. Add some background and detail to your post, please.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:18 PM
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Cheerleaders for me. You remember "I used to be a cheerleader Jane"…….
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 02:02 PM
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I like your story…..You're the man.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 01:43 PM
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But I can also see the underlying MAN looking for answers. Struggling to make sense of a fucked up world. It was nice to read back through my naive comments on DB You're not the only one that started in DB. Reading your first post is a bitter-sweet reminder of where many of us started. man up and start living your life on terms that you decide. The RP truth that grows from the mustard seed.
/r/askMRP24/05/16 02:35 AM
3

Yes, I've seen that part of you keenly displayed!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 11:14 PM
4

I am a cynical asshole Gee, I had not noticed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 08:38 PM
1

Yes. Validation seeking behavior is a bitch to identify the cause, and, hard to cure. Edit: Makes it sound like a cancer. I think it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 04:11 PM
1

I saw the stuff you wrote. Rage - yes, maybe even more, but much more understandable.
/r/askMRP23/05/16 04:08 PM
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Impressive FR. Your decision to improve yourself is paying you nice dividends already. Keep on this path and I'm sure you will have another FR to share in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 03:30 PM
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I . AM . SPEECHLESS. I have never seen a post with so much RP language and symbolism intertwined in so little content. Do Muslims believe in fairies and trolls, too? Try to calm down and read the comments given you here carefully. Edited
/r/askMRP23/05/16 03:22 PM
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Well. surprise! I just don't like it when someone comes at me thumping a Bible. OP assumes he has the answers to the questions that mankind has been wrestling with for thousands of years. Bullshit. I unplugged from having others tell me, incorrectly, how to deal with women. Even longer ago, I unplugged from having other people or institutions tell me what is right to believe or think.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 03:08 PM
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Let's keep this simple and to your point. "jackass", your word not mine. I would have called you a man-child jerk. Really?
/r/askMRP23/05/16 01:27 AM
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My non-scholarly thoughts on your excellent post: awakening to the true nature of women This part of TRP the most universal in my mind. The social and legal aspects can, and probably will change over time, maybe better, maybe worse. Each RP identifying group has a different reaction to this "awakening", and formulates a different prescription for success. With that comes differing "doctrines", much like religious groups. Nobody cared about MRP when there were only 1000 members. But now, the sub …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 01:13 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for your response. We'll be in touch.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 12:49 AM
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Yes, much better. BLUEHOLE for TBP BROWNHOLE for RPS thought trolling.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 03:30 PM
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they are a time sink. YES. OH..MY…YES…WASTED…..TIME……BLACKHOLE BLUEHOLE.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 03:23 PM
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The banter back and forth takes time and energy from posts being put out to guys who need that information and assistance to go from theory to application. You mean the exchanges with trolls?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 03:19 PM
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As always Stoney, you just lay it out for us. Direct and to the point. "Wise Old Men" you must be thinking of me…. lol kek Edit: and Frenchy
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 03:16 PM
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TFA, your explanation of recent events is very helpful to me. Thanks for providing this context. TRP is about what works for me. What others get will be different, and this is as it should be. We agree that the idea of a narrow "Red Pill party line" is ridiculous on it's face. We absolutely agree that men come here to be better men. That path will be a little different for each of us. The trolling (and brigading) of others is just background noise that can be easily ignored if it is identified. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 03:10 PM
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Add:man improves self, incidentally hamster is activated…..
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 02:29 PM
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When you talk anger, you talk pure wallpunching rage. Yes. You hit that one square. Not same as focused for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 02:19 PM
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Seeking validation is like drinking salt water. The more you drink, the more thirsty and sicker you become. Great line!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 11:31 PM
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Your ability to detect bullshit it legendary. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 11:26 PM
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seeing that look of pure need on your woman's face Sadly, some men never know this. Count yo blessings.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 11:14 PM
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Yes, I have been in the deep woods camping more than I have been at home lately, how did you know? But I said I am not wired for it, not that I am wiring it up….. Was Ted Kaczynski French?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 11:12 PM
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I think that I am just not wired right for MGTOW.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 10:01 PM
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cannot sustain anger and love for the same person simultaneously. I cannot expect to have love reflected back to me if I am holding anger I am dealing with these same issues. Ain't easy fixing shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 09:59 PM
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Yes. And I can think of more than a few posters on MRP that used anger to get "unstuck" from some serious depression or apathy as you said. Then many of them drop the overt anger later.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 09:56 PM
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A little story that kinda fits here: My wife said we need to go to marriage counseling during our most recent "event" (not big). I order the book "Kill all the Marriage Counselors" and gave it to her, since the counseling ain't gonna happen. She claims she hasn't read it. OK. But she has definitely changed her behavior to a little more submissive. Guess just owning the book makes a difference! :)
/r/askMRP21/05/16 08:59 PM
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Just one more thing…... maybe it is coincidence but my anger towards my wife over the affair has completely dissipated in the last month This follows my belief that until you are past your anger, it is hard to make great progress. I will probably get down voted here, since so many MRP'ers believe they can use their anger as growth fuel. For me, my anger is too hard to control, therefore, I am not in good control while angry. If I (or you) are not in control, someone else will usually fill the va…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 08:49 PM
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Dating sites, and Tinder in particular, are to a person with validation seeking problems like meth to crack addict.. a continued failure to really, and proactively, lead my wife Again, you we are learning the same basic truth: Real power is gaining control over yourself. Edit: Great FR!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 04:41 PM
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OK, see I don't know a lot of the back story here. I have seen this adderal-guys post "some". He just seems creepy to me. His ghosting message is for us to be "remorseful", about being married, is that right? As far as hijacking a sub, any asshole can lead the discussion all over the map. Sometimes not anything other than too stupid to keep up, like me. Honestly, I don't know what a ninja is; help? PM me if you want off the record.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 02:09 PM
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I hear your concerns, but I just don't agree. Now bear in mind that I have only been around here a little over a year, so there may be some nuance to the history of this sub that I do not know and would make my comments of no value. First, the loss of some EC's seems to just be part of the game of change. The sub gets bigger and the players change over time, kind of like American football, that I left behind years ago. You mention some EC's: Whinemoreplease lost interest in a bunch of whinny unh…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 04:36 AM
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I assumed it was more French…… And it does have a really nasty sound to it, too.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 11:27 PM
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You catch on quickly.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 11:23 PM
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I love (giving) skittles…...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 11:21 PM
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Thanks TFA, this describes, very accurately, what I was thinking as I read this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 04:22 PM
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K
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 01:32 PM
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Fuck this. Oh no! I promised to never say "fuck" again. Now I have broken my promise. What do now? Fuck it, I just start over.
/r/askMRP20/05/16 05:07 AM
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I'm 30 and I lived my whole life as beta. my ideal evening was to get stoned and play some video games. If this doesn't change, you will not be able to be a very good father or husband in the future, and, it is only logical that you have been a shitty husband and father so far. Of course, you NOW realize this leads to divorce and not a "complete family". You cannot control the complete family idea, because you cannot stop her from divorcing you if that is what she wants to do. Also, DO YOU BLAME…
/r/askMRP20/05/16 05:02 AM
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Yes, if you want the castle clean. But assuming this will get you laid is a covert contract and will never work. What makes you sexually attractive is a completely different set of skills to help create desire and attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 04:36 AM
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My quote for today: I have seen the enemy and the enemy is us...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 04:30 AM
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It only means You are winning. Just because you win, I do not lose. I never thought we were on opposite sides.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 04:27 AM
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You are still proving me wrong. That means you are winning a winner. What's not to like.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 01:51 AM
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The way I heard it: the only thing sicker than a guy in AA (12 step) is an Al-anon.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 01:48 AM
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I wasn't thinking of you….
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 10:47 PM
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I still struggle with how best to engage with her while maintaining my frame without being completely knocked off of center. You want to avoid engaging her in talk. It has not worked so far and I can guarantee that you will not solve anything "having a talk". Until you get farther along you need to STFU. This has caused her to be incredibly frustrated with me, and she has expressed more than once that she doesn't know what 'has gotten into you. This is actually a good sign. You are setting out t…
/r/askMRP16/05/16 03:44 AM
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DVMNEFU
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 11:40 PM
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DVMNEFU
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 11:39 PM
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DVMNEFU
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 11:39 PM
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DVMNEFU
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 11:38 PM
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When you downvote me have just enough courage to explain a little, otherwise go fuck yourself. Edit: DownVOte ME, No Explain, Fuck You. DVMNEFU
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 11:36 PM
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I'm not sure anymore about who is who……..
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 09:48 PM
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eventually be domestic violence for any man to object that his wife is fucking Chad on the side. If you get loud about it, it already is…..Sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 08:40 PM
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I think you missed the point K. Re-reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 04:28 PM
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incidents of racism to up at least 30%. Not likely…… I've seen your picture. I call your bullshit and raise.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 03:04 PM
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If we are talking about LTR's here, then logic and reason are just not really part of the equation in my mind. The less I use logic, the less I use reason in interacting with my wife, the better it gets. I am really not trying to piss on your parade here. I just fundamentally, from my experience, don't think that logic and reason get you anywhere with your LTR. In fact, nothing will dry her up faster. With other guys, great, but you aren't looking to have sex with them, I hope. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 02:49 PM
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You don't offer much back ground, but the simple, but hard and repetitive answer is: The ultimate power is gaining control over yourself.
/r/askMRP15/05/16 02:42 PM
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Tell your parents to take your computer away.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/16 03:57 AM
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Lots of good news. Enjoy!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 11:46 PM
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New job I hope. Part of the plan?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 11:39 PM
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I am amazed u/ultmatecad put so much effort into this. Kind of reminds me of one of those impersonators. Not the real thing, but entertaining in a raunchy kind of way.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 11:37 PM
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This is improving my communication skills! I feel so much closer to you now. kek.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 11:31 PM
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My condolences on the end of your marriage. If you search you will find some great advice from u/JacktenofHearts on getting your divorce done. Since you believe that your divorce was precipitated by your actions, you should have a plan of self improvement in place. You don't want of do this crappy routine all over again with another LTR. Best of Luck
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 11:22 PM
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So the bathroom is crazy?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 11:09 PM
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it'll take a few days before you realize he called you a dumb shit. And yet I feel better already…….
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 09:05 PM
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Call me old fashioned Yes, you are. So what?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 08:58 PM
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Where's the bathroom?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 08:55 PM
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would that turn me from alpha to beta? Yes most definitely. It will also shrink your gonads and increase the risk of having deformed children. Unless, of course, you are talking about putting her out and pimping her.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 08:54 PM
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Full speed ahead!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 08:47 PM
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For 5 years she has decided and dictated our basic physical touch to intimacy, three years, I thought Does it matter if it was 3, 4, 5 6 years? Past is past. Can't get it back. Think sunk cost fallacy. I believe, and I go against a lot of MRPERS here, that you cannot take charge until you get to killing your anger. Your anger is bad beta even if it feels alpha at the moment. You are throwing mental tantrums and drying her up.(for a long time) right around an accident that almost killed me. It wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 08:44 PM
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read this somewhere else It was my post.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 04:18 PM
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Turbo Diesel, super tuned, with 3:31 rear-end gears, tow-haul on the tranny, and an extra tank of fuel. Oh, and no fear.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 04:12 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 04:11 PM
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Please. Calm . The . Fuck . Down. You are one angry guy. It shows and it hurts. As along as you are angry you are not in control, she is. You must change FIRST. The Red Bitter Pill (TRBP), maybe not MRP, but definitely TRBP. Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 04:07 PM
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they do it by posing as women, poorly. Name that Knight Caitlin.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 03:57 PM
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The problem with this textbook case is that it hits too many RP ideas, squarely on the head, in a row. Kinds smells funny to me. From my experience it is textbook, just too perfectly illustrated to not be RP mental porn.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 01:29 PM
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is a red knight. What is it. I don't think what I googled about period sex, was it?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 01:24 PM
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I agree. This guy has "got it". Nothing we would ever be able to add to this. He should write a farewell post, as we will miss him. I am going to put this post in a Golden Frame.
/r/askMRP14/05/16 04:00 AM
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Telling others about MRP is like pushing a rope. About the time you think the discussion is helping them, you realize that all the jello that you just nailed to the tree did not stick. You can lead a friend to water, but there is always the chance he will drown. And the number one reason: this guy that hasn't had sex in months starts telling that he has done everything for her and she is the whole problem. He doesn't need to change a thing. And the grand topper, how can he make her read MRP sinc…
/r/askMRP14/05/16 03:55 AM
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OK so we are 2D friends. What will I need to get tested for.
/r/askMRP14/05/16 03:46 AM
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You are only too short if her titts poke your eyes out. If you have to stand on a chair to do her from behind. If she has to pick you up to kiss you. On the other hand, if you start focusing on being attractive instead of making weak mental excuses, women will buy you protective eyewear, go get you a chair, and strength train so she can pick you up. For me, at 5'9", never was a problem, since I obviously tower over you.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 03:28 AM
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Don't ask her, tell her. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 01:35 AM
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Nice start. Keep moving your focus to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 09:51 PM
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Men are action oriented. We think that actions lead to results, quickly. Might be true for us, but she is always FOLLOWING you. Think of her on a 1000 ft tow rope behind you while you pull her up hill. You get to the top of the mountain, but you are still pulling hard as you can to bring her along. Stay strong and keep your foot on the gas.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 09:48 PM
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only still hanging around because he thought Over60 was funny. No one is that easily entertained…...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 07:34 PM
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I truly understand when one of these guys moves on...it makes logical sense. If you get your shit together, and you avoid the unlucky and unhappy…you will eventually evaporate. The saddest thought is that one would NEED to come back here after evaporating.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 07:29 PM
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He gave me a lot, and got nothing in return. To me he is a pussy cat.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 05:22 PM
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You will be leading her to rewrite her reality, always. It can be re-written better or worse, but it will seldom stay the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 05:20 PM
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The Donald will have his lawyers sue you. Because he is Presidential and all.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 02:03 PM
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WMP made it plain that he was happy. Married to a woman that craves him. An 8 month old daughter is a dazzle that many men cannot avoid any more than than cleavage. He was no longer attracted to the angst and anger here. Who can blame him. Makes sense. If you read him, it was coming. Best.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 01:57 PM
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Fuck yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 01:54 PM
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Put it all in the cave. The guy that provides is OK, but she craves Grog that barely looks at her.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 01:53 PM
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It's insane. This is a woman who, when we first had anal, wanted it every night for 2 weeks straight, who jerked me off in the ocean on a florida vacation, in the middle of the day! sucked me off in our apartments public pool. who also denies any of this happened. They are ALWAYS rewriting history based on present FEELZ. It isn't a flaw, it is a feature. Use it to your advantage. Think about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 01:50 PM
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If having money and providing well for the family would get men laid, there would be a huge sucking sound as this sub-reddit evacuates.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 01:48 PM
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Get really, really good at cooking, training, and hunting -- or making money. If you do, women will be drawn to you. They won’t be able to help it. They want the same things, and you have them. They will fuck you. And as the sex gets better, so will the money, the fitness, the food, and the rest. This is the definition of BetaBux. You are taking some wrong turns with how attraction works. Being good at what you do, getting money, providing food clothing and shelter, gets you noticed, but does no…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 03:28 AM
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Nice story. Makes the point that is so hard for men to "swallow".
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 02:26 AM
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I think a mob of townspeople stormed the castle…..
/r/askMRP12/05/16 11:46 PM
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Format this and then I will try to read it. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 11:42 PM
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no longer added any value It is terrible, yes. Now I have take my bitch slap and lose the prize. Warning: For entertainment purposes only. This is not a toy.
/r/askMRP12/05/16 11:17 PM
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OK I need to back off here. Maybe even apologize. IDK My first wife had some serious "issues". Sorry man, I just can't go there for you, or anyone else. But I will tell you this, I sacrificed most of my youth for my kids, and, yet, I KNOW, I could have done it better. It's not all about you. Good Luck.
/r/askMRP12/05/16 09:06 PM
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She has been heartbroken over it, but I have been honest with her that I really don't want to leave her, I just don't see any other option, from a brain mechanics standpoint. Yes there are "treatments" that can make it "manageable." But really it comes down to attachment. From an engineering standpoint, the attachment has to be managed. The attachment with ANY woman has to be managed. I can only say one last thing, you are an ego-centric, high IQ with severe lack of empathy. THAT is my short ans…
/r/askMRP12/05/16 08:51 PM
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If this IS the girl you want to build such a life with, you are running out of time. If she is not the one, then you have all the time in the world Well done example!
/r/askTRP12/05/16 08:36 PM
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did he just up and vanish like a fart in the wind? That a yup and a coffee snorting laugh.
/r/askMRP12/05/16 08:28 PM
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Sounds like you have it all figured out. Fuck us all, do your own thing man. You are special and you don't have to put up with our shit.
/r/askMRP12/05/16 06:22 PM
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First, flirting is fun and harmless, but I don't think cheating is a good idea for most people. Second, if you are going to flirt, do it with the audience that you might actually cheat with as it is more fun and actually safer. Flirting with unattached single women can be very very dangerous. They have nothing to lose by outing you and everything to gain if they are dumb enough to think that they might make you available for them. Married, and singles, with committed relationships are looking fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 06:12 PM
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Single unattached women are dangerous. Married or single in a LTR only for me. They need to have something to lose that is valued by them.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 04:59 PM
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Nobody knows better than you. (not sarcastic.)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 02:11 PM
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OP u/FearDearg2015 deconstructed this for you. He gave you a detailed explanation of what I was trying to say, but unwilling to spend the time to explain completely. Listen up asshole, he's telling you straight.
/r/askMRP12/05/16 02:09 PM
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Which started first, her lack of desire to please you before herself, or your looking at strange?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 02:02 PM
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"Donde esta la toilette?" Thanks! I am assuming this means "where is the bathroom", not the technical engineering term, "Fuck it, close enough."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 04:09 AM
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OP here's my summary of what I see….... Your wife does "harmless flirting in front of you" and you "suck at game". You kind of resent that she can do that so easily. You draw IOI from others in front of her too, but somehow that doesn't get you the validation you want from your wife. After 1 month on MRP you are discouraged that she isn't responding to your changes and you are still spending (maybe wasting) time thinking about divorce. Suppose you had been playing hockey for 10 years and really …
/r/askMRP12/05/16 04:00 AM
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The ultimate power is gaining control over yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 03:38 AM
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This is golden gold. I shall frame this in a Golden Frame and place it about all the other frames in a place of high honor.
/r/askMRP11/05/16 09:10 PM
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Dennys and a BJ. Heaven on the cheap.
/r/askMRP11/05/16 09:03 PM
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good ole' anal loving Lolly Moon I think I know her…….
/r/askMRP11/05/16 09:01 PM
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Cuz this dick won't suck itself Thank you. A breakthrough for me. You may have saved my marriage. This is golden gold.
/r/askMRP11/05/16 04:50 PM
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But don't forget that poor folks get no BJ's.
/r/askMRP11/05/16 02:08 PM
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All sex is as good as you make it. Are you afraid to ask for fear he will tell you something you don't want to hear…...
/r/askMRP11/05/16 02:06 PM
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Look! I got down votes! Let's look at the magic looking glass. Yes, it is some of the sweet little retarded Brigading bitch pusses. But excuse me, I feel really bad, retarded in fact, where are my manners…… What I forgot to say, if you don't like what I have to say, fuck you in advance.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 12:18 AM
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I have a PHD in fuzzy math. I was born with it. The amazing part is I made so much fucking money using crap math to prove my bad logic. Not sure the world is a better place for my efforts.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 12:00 AM
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I was thinking Big Foot. Of course Canadians are harmless, everybody knows that. Big Foot is just a big happy Canadian. Does he speak French?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 11:34 PM
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He's Canadian you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 11:09 PM
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I always take the largest number (3.5 billion) and divide it by any number over_60, but of course under 100. Then I add my n-count. Then divide by 2.4, as this is a well known basic denominator used to parse out bullshit to a more realistic number. Of course then round to the next highest even integer. What were we talking about?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 11:08 PM
2

I must be in another manic phase. It will pass.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 07:03 PM
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I am talking way too much. You know, those of us that do this, just have to work harder than the other guys. Mine got a lot better as I carefully deconstructed the situations where it happened and turned shitty. OK, we already know the answer, the problem was me. I am thinking about this stuff way too much. My hamster is running a mile a minute I think for me, the hamster problem is closely related to the talking problem. Just can't let it go sometimes. Again, suggest you look for the underlying…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 06:58 PM
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This is a long term war and that's progress I read this through your whole post. You are making the changes and she is starting to respond. Slowly she's catching up, and a few months behind you. Textbook TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 06:55 PM
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I'm still pretty angry, still pretty morose from time to time. It has only been a year since your life changed. It was good life and you didn't want to end. You didn't choose it, it was done to you. You may have to deal with your grief for a little, or a lot longer. I think it is OK. slightly apprehensive about having even more free time but I've got to keep getting on with living and I don't feel like working anymore. I hope you see the contradiction here. This you are in control of. You have o…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 06:50 PM
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Well, she must have been hungry :o} She drove 40 minutes to do so....so....fuck me if i know. We ain't all writing all kinds of stupid shit on MRP because we know anything, are we?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 06:32 PM
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Yeah, I miss CAD. We share some truly despicable flaws. Ah, the good ole daze.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 06:05 PM
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My wife has no social life. I loved wives with no social life. They were so…… hungry.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 06:01 PM
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Thing is while they both are beautiful, though 40, they both are just as vapid as a 20 something. They have no depth other then expressing how impressive I am. …….. They are not interesting. I went out to have coffee with each of them this weekend (separately) and each were very enervating ……...They claimed to not want anything but they call and text all the time. One calls to say good morning the other texts me. OK, what can possibly go wrong here? Let's see, stupid, irritating, pushy, self ser…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 02:35 PM
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And no matter what my wife has said she is resistant to kino, kissing….so this has not changed. She claims a few weeks ago when I stopped cold that she did like what i was doing….she has even said I need to ignore her resistance… But when I started again the resistance increased. She says NO STOP DON"T NO NO DON"T STOP STOP NO DON"T STOP STOP NO DON'T STOP Then you stopped. Dumb-ass :) Then she gave you even more resistance to test you as you failed (in her mind) before. So, do you see that your…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 02:23 PM
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Yes the ladies compare notes. Edit: an give referrals.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 01:07 PM
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I try to keep frame but I'm exhausted and stretched thin. She knows how to push me over the edge. You are not passing shit tests. You have no frame, she is in charge now. You need to STFU. She doesn't want marriage counseling and has told me that now that she has my daughter that she has little left for me Why would you want marriage counseling? Here she told you to eat shit and die on your own. You have to take charge of yourself NOW. my wife has put her career on hold, and is now unable to sta…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 01:06 PM
1

Well CAD sometimes said….Fuck MRP. Maybe not the Candlestick, it was the Lead Pipe in the Study.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 04:39 AM
1

Yep, more likely
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 11:47 PM
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Guess ya sniffed that one out!
/r/askMRP09/05/16 10:18 PM
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They get exactly what they pay for…...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 09:38 PM
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will all magically disappear after the vows. Right after the honeymoon in Disneyland he will be posting on r/deadbedrooms…….
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 09:36 PM
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Yes. It was CAD, with the candlestick, in the conservatory. I am certain. Game over.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 09:26 PM
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What I don't understand about redpill is that it seems to apply the principles that we used to design our relationship, without much active participation on the part of women. That is because the significant others in this sub are usually not participating in making and improving the relationship. The men on MRP are usually trying to improve their LTR's without help, at least initially, from their SO.
/r/askMRP09/05/16 09:14 PM
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Everything changes after you are married. This is the BEST she is going to be. Guaranteed. That is the reason for engagements. They are your last chance to make decisions about your life and your life together. Ignore it now and your get what you deserve. Be thoughtful now…..
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 08:43 PM
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There's a key theme in here that shouldn't be missed Yeah, do what you need to before you are dirt or drooling on your shirt….. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 08:03 PM
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You need to be less invested in your wife and less available to her. Double down on this, plus all of the rest above is gospel. My add to this: You are young and you just might be getting a gift here. You can reset YOUR life, and MAYBE this relationship, NOW. Time to take charge of YOUR life and let the chips fall for her.
/r/askMRP09/05/16 05:32 PM
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Just looked at his post history and past comments in MRP and MensRights. Something is amiss in OP's post……. Does telling 1/2 of the story, and a definite BluePill slant here in this post, but not elsewhere, spell troll?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 05:07 PM
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Now that is what OP needed, someone to tell him exactly what to do!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 03:09 PM
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You are truly resourceful.
/r/askMRP09/05/16 02:20 PM
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Waco is a great place for a secluded compound. Beautiful country and absolutely no problems with the local authorities.
/r/askMRP09/05/16 02:05 PM
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That's amazing! Lurking MRP to build a ho harem. You're a smat lil devel.
/r/askMRP09/05/16 04:40 AM
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Considering your situation, here is a link to a web site that helped me. It is called The Divorce 180. https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/ This will help you get started…..but is not a replacement for lifting and reading the side bar.
/r/askMRP09/05/16 04:32 AM
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You seem to be spending a lot of energy on making this lazy girl happy, and, at the expense of your happiness. Once you start operating in YOUR frame, you will start doing things that make you happy. In order to be happy, do you know what you will have to do? Then do what will make you happy (aka squeal like a little girl) even though you might decide to end your relationship in the process.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 04:26 AM
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Yes, we might be aged fucktards. We need to learn this.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 09:39 PM
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Must bow to the young man that swings it around like an air dancer at the mall.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 09:38 PM
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Invariably, no one comes to MRP unless they have hit the pit of despair. Without that level of motivation very few would enter here, and stay...
/r/askMRP08/05/16 06:56 PM
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Great job of describing all the soccer moms, PTA queens and church lady's I ever had the pleasure of having pleasure with. This is not new. I think it is just new to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 06:52 PM
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I just don't much care for this type of post. I have read all of this in one form or another before. It is just tedious and long to me. Guess it would be valuable to some as a long summary of more in depth thinking, just not for me.
/r/askMRP08/05/16 02:54 PM
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On this sub, this story, your story, has been heard thousands of times. The results are up to you, not us Once you take better charge of your life, you will re-title your post" Help With Me" Until then, you are lost and looking for answers outside yourself that can NEVER be the right answer. Good Luck.
/r/askMRP08/05/16 02:48 PM
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I live with a post menopausal woman. I will guarantee this article is what she says she wants, and, I will absolutely guarantee it all not make her haaaappy. Of course, not that it matters to the author of this retarded article, I could never be happy either following this fucked up advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 04:52 AM
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And business has been so good lately.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 02:04 AM
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It will get better when you kill your ego that keeps you (anyone) in a beta mindset. We have all been there, the next steps are yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 02:02 AM
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Yup
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 07:17 PM
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I was talking to my wife about how I felt that I didn't have anything for myself. Actions not words. This will never work for you, but will work great for her. Instead of encouragement I got shit It is not her job to encourage her little boy. Get rid of the your fantasies about "relationships" (puke). I never really did relationships that well, This appears to be an understatement. It was my independence that attracted her in the first place. Were you really that independent, or was she dependen…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 07:15 PM
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When you reach your late 60's, if you don't look at things a little differently, you are just plain stupid. You do not have any amount of time for certain anyway, but the odds are not improving as we age. I made a fucking huge pile. I worked hard and I was lucky as hell. If I had to split it, I go from Cadillac to Chevy lifestyle. Yes I can still live, but not in the style the I worked my ass of to get. The idea of going back to do it all over again is kinda fun, but not practical. I don't see t…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 02:45 PM
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That's all you get.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 01:11 AM
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you are awesome….
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 10:43 PM
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I like the conflicting views on marriage by the Mods and Flaired guys on MRP. If everyone completely agreed, MRP would lose all credibility. Anyone dealing seriously in the mental game of would, should, or could have, is just talking shit in my opinion. Some of the talk about "I would never marry again" is unknowable. "Never say never" has proven a truism to many times. What keeps me coming back here is this group of men, that work hard to deal with the reality of their current situation. I real…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 10:35 PM
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This is the first post I have read after going camping for 5 days. A good laugh and a good lesson. Great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 09:50 PM
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I approached the marriage with increasing beta behaviour for a long time, but things really took a turn when I lost my job a few years ago. Since then my wife has outearned me and think she harbours some resentment for that. She lost her betabux and I lack credibility in her eyes to step up as an attractive alpha. You answered your own question. The fact that you are asking this question says NO NO NO FUCK NO NOT YET…… unless you are in a nuking kind of mood.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 11:38 AM
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Hell yes, I agree. …….and corrected.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 04:50 AM
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Your question seems to dance outside the scope of MRP's wheelhouse. Absolutely. Bro we I don't just make this shit up for our my own entertainment. OP, as I have said to you before, get help.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 04:08 AM
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Any "general pointers in direction of your life mission"? Just read your question quoted above. Now read it again. I get that you feel more than a little lost now. But, seriously read your question again. What do now? Start doing ANYTHING that you have NOT been doing before and it is a better path. Now make some choices, or spin the wheel if you have to, but just get fucking busy now.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 04:06 AM
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Too nice.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 01:18 AM
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Nice realization. You are at the very beginning of a long path. You just got the tip wet. Your ego shows all of this piece. Get it under control and get busy lifting and with the side bar.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 01:07 AM
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She's actually given me her blessing to go sleep around, although thinking about it now she probably didn't mean higher SMV women than her. You can count on that. I've been thinking about how I'm going to set the frame on the possibility of me getting together with a high SMV woman a couple of dread stages from now. I game the other expat wives a bit but they're not that hot. There are a few HB9 backpackers around. Lots of fertile ground there for you to spin…. Remember, that I think a lot of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/16 07:33 PM
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You say all of this because you feel for the faggots. You are just trying to set your boundaries because you are such a sweet pussy cat. It is all you can do not to wipe their ass for them. You are such a nice guy. OK, just Whine More Please?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/16 01:54 PM
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Month ago you had a post about a rude ham beast. I wrote you the following: So she wants to take your relationship DOWN to the next level. I think she is attracted to the IDEA of you being her beta-bitch like Mr hambeast. Of course, then she will be less attracted to you. You then won't have to worry about seeing her arsehole so often. She's just doing what she was born to do. I think you have the same issue here, just reformatted.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 03:41 AM
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I look at this, my take is that Phase 3 CAN occur and any point from Dread Level 2 to 3 and up. If phase 3 is accomplished by Level 4 or 5, for instance, then a new approach of Phase 4 is more appropriate. Reviewing what I just wrote: Dread Levels have a mostly same order. Phases have a mostly same order. But the Levels and the Phases will not necessarily come at the same, or consistent, points in time for most. Action, then reaction. Some will do more or less action (dread), to get a phase chan…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/16 07:16 PM
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I have two more thoughts for you that you might find helpful: Your wife has set a FRAME that if you cheat it is with low value women. YOU would not have said this, she must have. So, you are doing dread in her frame. A frame that has set out parameters to devalue your efforts. Maybe you need to reframe this. Not sure how….. In my case, there are a lot of widowed and divorced women in this area. Wife has tried to make statements to the effect of how desperate and pathetic these women are. I AGREE…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/16 06:53 PM
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you dont have her admiration and respect so its evident she doesnt have the dread and she thinks she is in control. OR, she is feeling the dread and trying to regain control. That last ditch, near suicidal mission to reclaim old territory for the motherland.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/16 02:20 PM
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we seem to be at a fairly strong risk of divorce so I think that insecurity might have something to do with it That would be dread. Give it time. I can shut all that down as shit tests and maintain frame but it doesn't solve the underlying lack of trust and deference Over time his can solve that underlying...
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/16 02:12 PM
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However, now, for me being the captain of the family, it's important to me that I drive and my kids see that I drive. No…No….No. Find something else to get your panties in a wad about. (most) People with motion sickness do better if driving, or sitting in front seat. It is worst after a big meal, on rough winding road and after dark, when allergies are bad. Ignore her and you will end up with something warm and wet in your lap, not a BJ, barf. You are acting like a pussy.
/r/askMRP30/04/16 04:48 AM
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I like this post. So here's my somewhat redundant view of this. We have the stages of self-improvement, or (soft) dread. These actions are straightforward and offer benefits to any man, married or not. The focus is on self first. Then, we have the Phases of MRP. Since self improvement is not in a vacuum, these Phases look at Dread/self-improvement, in the CONTEXT of the relationship. Context really matters. Don't fart in public. OK to yell when cheering for your team. Be quiet in church. Etc…. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/16 04:06 AM
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This "phases" thread is very good. Definitely worth a separate post.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/16 12:31 AM
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Even my wife calls her , wussy puss.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 10:03 PM
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Squinting….
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 09:24 PM
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Thanks for the translate. Us Amirricuns don speak no parley vou.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 07:07 PM
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the sole purpose of which is to interfere with the inwardly focused efforts of others. Seems almost……. like…… religious …… persecution.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 07:05 PM
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your fucking generation screwed up the fucking genX, who fucked up their millenial kids. Thanks grandpa Well we had to be busy doing something other than nuke-ing the whole world. ….and your are welcome, for making your life interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 07:03 PM
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I just noticed your finely finessed fantastic froggy flair. Like it!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 06:10 PM
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I think there is more to it than just stupid men. The absolute disgust that some the the other color pillers show for TRP is amazing to me. Methinks trolls, brigading and doxing bloodsuckers are afoot aplenty.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 06:07 PM
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Yes I have seen what you are saying. …...and you, generally, were much nicer to them than WhineMorePlease or the late ephemeral CAD. In fact some of them put more work into NOT changing, then they put into their post.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 06:00 PM
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More Red Pill gold! …. and you gets the Golden Frame. Above all others.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 05:44 PM
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Yes, I remember your mentioning her, "she was thick as a plank and could suck a nail out of one……" Aren't cheerleaders great! Somehow it is hard to feel your pain. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 05:42 PM
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no matter how damaging, once you accept something as part of your identity, your ego becomes invested in it. That is gold!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 05:38 PM
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Great post. The meat of it for me…... Guys like me don’t have many chances he may not have been able to move to a 10 but surely a move from a 3 to a 5 would change the pool of girls available. …and change his sad life. But he based on the first quote, knows that.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 03:35 PM
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You are a truly brilliant man. Your analysis cuts to the core of the issue like a knife. Your work on penetration is legendary. ;)
/r/askMRP29/04/16 03:16 AM
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I know that taste.
/r/askMRP29/04/16 03:10 AM
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Yup. OP Not super. Must be super.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 02:14 PM
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I think there is a hangover that goes with this post. ;o}
/r/askMRP28/04/16 01:31 PM
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Man, just read the fucking sidebar! It is not magic. It is not a secret. It just works if you work it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 01:26 PM
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I'm not as much of a whiney needy beta bitch these days. The real problem though, wifey still runs the show, controls the sex and her frame beats mine to death more often than not. The secret you didn't pass: Frame. Frame. Validation-seeking. Frame. Validation-seeking. Frame. Everything else follows…. or not
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 01:20 PM
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He said he sees a lot of guys that got divorced, met a younger woman that wanted kids, The FIRST question is, DO..I…WANT…ANYMORE…..KIDS. If the decision is NO more kids, then get the snip. It will simplify your life. If decide you don't want any more kids and later you meet someone that does, then it should make no difference. Unless you are an indecisive, low value pussy.
/r/askMRP28/04/16 03:38 AM
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eating lead paint…..
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 08:26 PM
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:{ sad
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 04:03 PM
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:}
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 04:03 PM
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If you read ALL of CJ's post history, it can help you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 03:51 PM
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Seeking her approval. Re-read No More Mr Nice Guy. You are not in charge of you, she is. This can be fixed. Stop blaming her.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 03:49 PM
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The safest place is right in front of the danger Doing nothing IS a choice. What seems easiest is not optimal.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 03:46 PM
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You notice English first language. Still working on.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 01:55 PM
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OP, while reading your post, and then again while reading u/Jacktenofhearts reply to you…….. I was thinking of the post history of u/strategos_autokrator. You might take a look, it may have some similarities to you.
/r/askMRP27/04/16 04:41 AM
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When Christopher Columbus sailed with three ships, did he know if he was wasting his time? Sailing has it's hazards. Be certain, sitting in port is safer and will not accomplish anything. Sit or sail? I can guarantee you no success; only the opportunity.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 03:54 AM
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Nothing wettens the panties like a perfectly clean plate. Spin, not clean.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 03:47 AM
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Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 11:44 PM
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Jesus Zombie should start a Facebook page.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 07:12 PM
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No, the eternal torture is blessed and promoted by the church. So back to the first statement, "eternal marital damnation". One of those states of being, like purgatory, that is not heaven, earth or hell. ;) Edit: BUT, we are given free-will to avoid it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 07:11 PM
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Coming from you, not really believable - but - OK and a lol and kek
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 07:07 PM
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You religious guys are sooo into eternal marital damnation. Kinky bastard.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 03:14 PM
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Men will be made to pay, one way or another. I call that optimism.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 03:11 PM
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Cripples get handicap stickers. They get all the best parking spots!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 03:09 PM
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Based on your comments I hear you saying....... That at your core you believe:........ that she is capable of unconditional love. that if you do the right things, your life will be smooth that you don't understand why SHE is fucking this up. You be wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 03:05 PM
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What do now?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 03:00 PM
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If she's too successful and gets too sore she can run it by hand….
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/16 03:52 PM
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Anyone showing up with cookie cake will be shot repeatedly with the blue paint balls.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 09:06 PM
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Yes, BPP, this^ Just some add on thoughts: the two statements about suicide that have always stuck with me: "It is a permanent solution to a short term problem....." and "It is the ultimate act of selfishness......" All of that instead of "fix it".
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 08:51 PM
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You have got a lot of good advice here today. Allow me to say it another way……. Follow my thinking for just a bit….. You have been doing anything she wants, for a very long time. You thought you were doing what you needed to do, or you would not have done it. Now you realize that it made things worse instead of better…. With me so far? She is clueless to anything other than, YOU have changed. She didn't ask you to change, and, isn't sure if this is good for her. You have also learned that she do…
/r/askMRP22/04/16 08:59 PM
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I think your link will help OP better understand. Not only what he needs TO DO, but what he needs to let go.
/r/askMRP22/04/16 03:41 PM
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There is no spreadsheet salvation. Little Prince, you have a way with words…….. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 03:26 AM
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Is This?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 03:20 AM
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Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 03:19 AM
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I never thought of eating paint before. Why do?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 12:13 AM
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The?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 12:07 AM
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I know all the words, but the order of them is confusing to me It matters what order they are in?. Damn, one more thing I must improve.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 12:07 AM
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Just speak up and send him here. The rest is up to him. You go girl! :}
/r/askMRP21/04/16 09:46 PM
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The dissonance between success at home and everywhere else, is an amazingly consistent situation for men. I find the level of that dissonance in my life to provide me with ongoing shock, horror, and amusement. For me, your two best lines were: How could I possibly expect my marriage to be as successful as my career? I wasn’t doing any of the things required for success! and Undefined problems are the hardest to solve and the most defined are the easiest. Thanks for the thoughtful post.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 09:40 PM
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Yes I am internalizing now, and working on my lack of gratitude abundance.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 03:26 PM
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Let her do what she wants. But don't offer her approval. Then you decide what you want.
/r/askMRP21/04/16 02:24 PM
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OK message received. Now get to work, then post an FR in the future, not of what you "realized", but what you have DONE. If your journey is 6 inches long, you just got it a little wet.
/r/askMRP21/04/16 02:22 PM
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Thanks for this. Now I remember this guy. He is just letting us know he has it all figured out. He is mildly autistic, as he is telling us what he is thinking; not a request of review or expansion of his universe. His certainly is more than mildly annoying. Not a champ, just another chump to me. As u/Bogeyd6 said, thanks for your weird post.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 02:15 PM
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As you get older, you will come to see amazing expositions of blue pill behavior by men, that are otherwise pretty cool guys. Just yesterday, one of my neighbors, a retired military bad-ass guy, says to me "happy wife happy life". He was absolutely sweet faced and dead serious. So serious, I thought he was joking, and I said, "Surely you jest". He was completely confused, dumbfounded and at a loss for words. I was the only sarcasm in that conversation. Of course, I can now be pretty certain he i…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 04:10 PM
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Yup - it was a great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 04:03 PM
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Nasty bad re-post of a great post. Help me wash the spam off.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 03:55 PM
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OP here's the stuff that you need to know…….
/r/askMRP20/04/16 01:50 PM
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My goal is to let her know she has to earn my affection back, but I think I am going about it the wrong way. You had good instincts posting about this here. You already suspect that you are directing a train wreck. She will never respect you -ever ever ever ever…… If you get back together, she will quit fucking you ASAP. While you are at it, go back to work at the last job you had. Let me know how that works out for you. Move back in to your last living space too. Wonder why you ever moved, eh? …
/r/askMRP20/04/16 01:45 PM
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You have been reading a lot. Good, but keep in mind that it will take a while for some of the new ideas to become your own. Question 1: I don't see any problem if you are really dirty. Wouldn't want you on my furniture. u/Olderpiller had the good idea to invite her to the shower. Question 2: She thinks you are acting fake. That's good that she is noticing the changes. You have to decide if you are overdoing it,and, if so, how to be more gradual and natural. This requires you to be thoughtful and…
/r/askMRP20/04/16 04:27 AM
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OK then without sarcasm: OP you are proving yourself to be unworthy of the aging porn start that you have now. You are not special and no one here gives a shit about your feelings. You will need to work on yourself in order to keep your porn star. If you work hard, you might score something younger and hotter someday. But right now, you are a train wreck. I say all this fully expecting that you will do nothing to improve my opinion of you anytime soon…… Now that is my short answer, your ego coul…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 07:39 PM
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OP you married a porn star! You are one lucky guy. Everyone here can't wait to live your story. We know you are special, and your feels are ver-wy verw-wy important. Maybe you can get fixated on your own improvement first. Good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 01:36 PM
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withdrawing "Christian" wife because her Jesus BFF has His zombie fist on her husbands balls so she isn't worried about him leaving- being trapped by his religion and such. Her religious solopsism completely prevents her from even considering that this loser Beta could defy God (and her almighty magic hoo ho) and actually cheat on her. Well Professor, you hit another nail, square and hard!
/r/askMRP19/04/16 01:22 PM
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I was killing my MRP journey about a year ago and fell off a bit when things started going better...Then things immediately started falling apart again The good news is that you now have absolute proof that TRP works, and without it, your life doesn't. Most of the veteran posters (me too) here have been there too. Keep on towing…...
/r/askMRP19/04/16 12:07 AM
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As you reach a crest on your path, you must keep your foot on the gas, and, your mileage will be terrible. Avoid the setbacks of the past and give her time to follow you over the crest. Remember she is on a 1000 foot tow line behind you. She just needs time to follow, if she wants to. Over 95% of the time they do. If she doesn't, you just can't control that.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 11:12 PM
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Will move on soon, hopefully. Of course you will, there really isn't any other reasonable alternative.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 10:40 PM
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Well you have established that you are low priority for her. This gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself first. Obviously a great investment! In the mean time fog her all the time. Keep working your MAP and dread game. It is really all you can do for now. Don't forget you are at the beginning of a long process. Try to keep your motivation up and give yourself time to improve.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 10:37 PM
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she says she wishes I would cheat, so it would take the pressure off of her Answer: You are probably right. We should talk about that…. Says that while my body looks great, Answer: Thank you, I do look good, what change do you like the most? my personality sucks, Answer: You are probably right, I can be an asshole sometimes, can't I…. she wishes I would cheat to take the pressure off. Answer: Tell me more about how you would like me to cheat. Of course, it wouldn't be cheating if you know about …
/r/askMRP18/04/16 10:21 PM
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until I turn myself from skinny fat to okay at least, can I stop initiating sex Only if you want to, but I know some chunky guys that get all the pussy they want. Because you are skinny-fat is not a good reason. I dont feel confident Slaying some pussy can get you walking tall, Skippy… I am not as attracted to her as I thought I was. You've been in her frame so long, how would you know? This sounds like anger phase to me. Your recognition of the real world can cause a lot of anger. Try to avoid …
/r/askMRP18/04/16 10:04 PM
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Now, I remember telling myself last time we visited her parents that I can tolerate being with her family for ~3 days before I start to lose my fucking mind. We take these week long trips every 3-4 months or so, so it's not too frequent. These trips take a toll on my sanity that usually ends up in a fight and an awkward drive home. Man I can relate to this one from personal experience. Some things were different. We only came once a year, and, we had to fly. The short answer was I told my (curre…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 09:46 PM
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Finally read this whole thing. Great post……. Pilgrim, you have chosen wisely.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 09:35 PM
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OK, think with me here. You just broke up with a lying cheating whore. You got away without getting cursed at, scratched, slapped, punched, stabbed or shot at. Pretty good so far, eh? You won't be stuck marrying this girl, or having children with her. You have dodged the bullet, you have saved yourself from eternal marital damnation. Now quit acting like a sorority girl that just unfriended your BFF. Start getting your shit together before you land another loser like this last one.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 03:51 AM
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Yes, CAPE is a great tool. Instead of market timing, you might explore trend following - similar, but not same.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 03:36 AM
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If the wear and tear gets too bad, you can always run it by hand….. Truly a fool proof, idiot proof, and recession proof business.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 03:34 AM
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This is the BEST she will EVER be to you. Yup. This is gospel.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 02:15 AM
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Fuck yes! Have you ever tried to change the label on a bottle of pickles? It is so haaarrrrd! No womyn should ever have to put so. ... much... effort .... into your pickle.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 02:08 AM
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Yes and yes and yes.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 02:03 AM
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Me too. He holds all the cards. Needs to just play them.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 02:00 AM
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Up to 3 weeks ago, she had all the frame......
/r/askMRP17/04/16 09:17 PM
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Stumbled upon TRP/MRP 3 weeks back. She is very mad about this behavior of mine. Summary: You are new. Learning to past shit tests. She is reacting, as is expected. Since then she mentioned that I have started being rude to her, and that I am developing a male ego and that my behavior has changed. Post this I told her in an authoritative tone that I was rude when I said that and that I will not be rude to her for no reason, and got back to my own stuff: hobbies and work. Implicitly told her that…
/r/askMRP17/04/16 04:53 PM
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Has anyone noticed changed when first starting the MRP / RP journey? Yes, from my experience caution is advised. Remember this is about you, not her. Her reactions are nice but your gains are yours. Don't even think you are ready to marry - she has played this game (with you) before, and won.
/r/askMRP17/04/16 02:15 PM
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In another life and time I cancelled all the credit cards. Said nothing. Told her to stop spending. She called from Mall that her cards wouldn't work. I only said "you are correct". I enjoyed it. Fun is where you find it.
/r/askMRP17/04/16 02:09 PM
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Wasn't a grampy then….
/r/askMRP17/04/16 01:53 PM
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She thinks you shouldn't change a thing about yourself, because you are so lovable. She is hot and wet for you just the way you are. The moon is made of cheese.
/r/askMRP17/04/16 04:49 AM
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When you are starved, a crumb is a meal. Been there…. Keep on improving.
/r/askMRP14/04/16 03:10 PM
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So, you don't self improve because you get all the sex you want……. What could go wrong…...
/r/askMRP14/04/16 03:07 PM
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heard from 3 of my 4 today. And none were asking for money then what could they possibly want?
/r/askMRP14/04/16 04:48 AM
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I think this is the core of it. I'm much more alpha now and have a frame that she can't break. She is testing for weakness. She can kick off and come at me with everything she's got and I won't beta fold. We've established that a few times now. …and you are going to establish it many times more. How long would it take you to believe a sudden, positive or negative, change in someone who, "had always been like that" or "always done it that way". I think you are making progress. I hold frame, tell …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/16 03:46 AM
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OK, I throw in here. Spend your time doing things you are good at. Investing, doing your tax preparation, overhauling your car; these are things that you might pay others to do. Watch out for the cost of your investments. The financial services industry does not care if they impoverish you, as long as they make their numbers for the next quarter. They can chip away at your wealth with more expertise than the government has to tax you with. Investing is absolutely amoral. Period. Personally I am …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 02:24 AM
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Yes, absolutely!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 02:01 AM
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Never forget that when you rent property, you have an investment and a second job, all rolled into one. There is no free lunch for rental property ownership and property management.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 02:00 AM
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Good to know. Now, put your hamster to sleep...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 01:46 AM
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We had something like a second main event a little over a week ago. I held frame as is now my way. She spent a few days dealing with her anger and I think worked through some long term anger issues. Is there such thing as the female anger phase? In my experience, YES, there is a female anger stage. They just don't like that you are not caving in like you used to do. The pressure she applied in your EVENTS would have had you begging before. How could she not be angry, you are changing the game. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 05:52 PM
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Used melatonin and works OK most of the time. I used 10 MG of time release, as I tend to wake up all night. Also used the 10 count relax. Start at the top of your head (or the toes if you like that better) and tell your muscles to relax. One- my head is relaxed, Two- my neck and shoulders are feeling relaxed - all the way down to Ten. After I had done it a while, I never got to 10 before I was asleep.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 05:34 PM
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Wife I can say that I am no longer bothered by her bullshit. That is good progress. Just one more thing that I noticed………….. Thing is, he's not any more qualified than I am to hold the position. OK so far…. The only real difference between us is that he put in for the job, and I didn't. Why didn't you apply?…… I didn't because I didn't want to work nights and weekends: I wanted to spend more time with my family. This makes a lot of sense…… I didn't because I would feel strange supervising some o…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 05:22 PM
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I have to own that I lost my cool, screamed at everyone to chill the fuck out, and then gave my wife the silent treatment. And then you recovered……. Good recovery and control. Funny I had similar series of events, I just didn't get the recovery as quickly. Thus you had a good weekend and mine was shitty, by my own doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 03:06 PM
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I note one motherfucking huge covert contract with the world that if I just kind of did the right thing by it, then the world would more or less look after me. Funny thing - I've always known this is a fallacy. Yup. Self imposed, happy slave. Sadly, I can relate.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 03:01 PM
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Redpill just seemed like another movement with as much garbage as gold, and in the hands of stupid or angry people, possibly dangerous. The truths on this thread are self evident, as I have lived. My wife and I have an amazing relationship. I wish everybody could have what we have; it is rooted in my leadership and her support. You seem to have it all. This comes to you little effort or struggle, other than your problem with DEERing. What I don't understand from your FR, is how TRP helped you. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 03:32 AM
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I just love your storybook ending - "see you in bed Captain". You just made up your mind and you just told her. Good job buddy! Yeah, these nice civil talks with the wife will keep your willy wet, for sure. But, on the other hand, if in the future, maybe, just maybe, you have a little trouble hangin' onto your Captins Hat, come back to see us here at the MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 04:38 AM
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you knew that if you left you'd lose almost all contact with your tiny little son who you loved more than anything in this life. Once you go down that rabbit hole, you will graduate from temporary feeling the loss you feel now, to the 20 Years a Slave and Master of Desperation PHD.
/r/askMRP11/04/16 03:59 AM
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If it were YOU that did what she did……. And if SHE took YOU back…… Do you think it would mean that you could DO WHATEVER YOU WANTED and she would put up with it? Wife is smoking hot, a lot of fun to be around, and checks a lot of the boxes. She must be much better than what you have been dating lately, for you to even consider it…….. If SHE said, in the reversed situation above, that the reason she was taking you back was because,…... you were smoking hot and fun to be around; what would you thi…
/r/askMRP10/04/16 08:10 PM
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I'll be more than happy to see you change your mind in the upcoming months. Game on bro.
/r/askMRP09/04/16 07:49 PM
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Too much trouble fo' a' ho'
/r/askMRP09/04/16 02:42 PM
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I think you understand OP very well….
/r/askMRP09/04/16 02:41 PM
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Makes her cheaper than an escort. The loss of the cost of the ring is a great reminder of all the great times you had with her.
/r/askMRP09/04/16 02:37 PM
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You will have a wonderful happy life on your present course. Don't make any changes and report back here in a year to tell us how about your happy life.
/r/askMRP09/04/16 12:52 PM
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Yes, Agree and Just a little add... I post because I gain more from it than I give to an OP. I avoid getting OVER concerned about a poster, as it seems to diminish what I give AND gain. I also am on my guard to avoid approval seeking, as it is easy to do, and diminishes me and my postings. So, agree, I am not Altruistic.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 05:14 PM
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I learned much more by contributing. Good on you.
/r/askMRP08/04/16 02:09 AM
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I was reading reddit adultery first, that was kind of fun, but decided a no-go for me. Then found deadbedroms. Read it to see I wasn't alone. After reading it more, I almost puked on my keyboard. Sick, sad, pitiful, victims non-endimus. Some poster mentioned TRP. Then found MRP. It's been over a year now. I'm getting better.
/r/askMRP07/04/16 03:54 AM
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Your hobby seems to be, not self destructing. Congrats,….so far.
/r/askMRP07/04/16 03:45 AM
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For non-married and no kids, there's a whole lotta oneitis going on here. u/[deleted] said Plan B - Yup pretty sure. Once the key-logger started, borders obsessive.
/r/askMRP07/04/16 03:43 AM
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NEXT regroup and introspection. But it doesn't have to be in that order, OP just needs to make damn sure he does ALL of them
/r/askMRP07/04/16 03:37 AM
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Wife's birthday was last month. I got her a nice card, a box of Reeces Pieces (she really likes those) and Skittles (which she had never had before, but I got a chuckle). Thinking of B-days, I knew a guy that was aways excited about getting birthday sex. Sad. OP your wife is a princess. Dial it back.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 03:16 AM
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Agree. Some guys are so Blue Pill that would get in deep trouble immediately. It's hard to know....
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 12:11 AM
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I like this post. Often we encourage new guys to stay with a shitty LTR, probably because we don't know if he might be such a loser, that he should stay where he is, until he gets the oxygen mask on him. I think, your point is, if not married and no kids, move on while grabbing the mask. Fair enough, but tough to draw that line sometimes. One of your other points about the economics of unmarried women is worth noting. Mark this: A woman's HIGHEST ECONOMIC BENEFIT is ALWAYS from MARRIAGE. As a ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 08:54 PM
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I saw myself as skinny, sensitive, considerate and “different from all those meatheads”. Classic nice guy, except I thought that was a good thing. You have seen the enemy……. To be continued
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 04:14 AM
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My take, maybe presumptuous, you use anger to create real personal determination.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 10:23 PM
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Yup.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 10:21 PM
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I talk too much in certain situations. Idea you might use. If you don't talk, does she? If so you get to LEAD the conversation by letting her talk first, rather than FOLLOW it. Allows you to listen more and choose your responses.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 10:17 PM
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This week I realized that even though I am working on improving several things in my life(fitness, spiritual, career etc.) I have done nothing about my ego. I still think I am the shit. I wonder why my wife doesn't always fall in line, and I am slowly coming to the realization that I am not as great as my ego convinces me I am. Congratulations Spiderman, you just crossed the starting line. Get's better from here. Took me months to get my Hulk under control.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 10:12 PM
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I drive fast and hate prune juice, you young guys…hm
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 09:51 PM
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You don't know how far a little bit of empathy goes. Not sure what you mean….
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 08:41 PM
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I have actual resentment (vs. fear) towards myself and my parents for how I was raised. This, baseline anger, must be a heavy burden. The anger towards self, you own that. Towards parents, much tougher. My parents are gone now, but the past never goes away, never changes, and is never going to happen again, and now it just doesn't matter to me anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 08:36 PM
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I can't seem to turn off the constant flow of bitterness, so until I do, at the very least I can direct it towards some shit that needs doing (e.g., I have huge amounts of fear At least you are getting forward movement out of it. You have been around angry people getting things done, most of them are no fun the be around. Maybe your anger is hurting your ability to be attractive? Fear. I don't do fear well. I get instantly angry instead. Addressing my fears killed a lot of my anger, because it w…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 08:18 PM
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Would you rather be ignorant, bliss, and retarded or aware, jaded, and cerebral? Replace anger stage with happy stage. Hulk like.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:58 PM
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Miss Sunshine, you know I love you, but don't be giving advice here, OK.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 07:47 PM
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I named my anger The Hulk for reasons I will try to detail here. Disclaimer, I don't do detailing well. The whole idea represents to me a man that is weak, not in control of his emotions and letting his emotions control him. When emotions are allowed free run, there is very often collateral damage. No, not just the damage to others, but the damage to self. I bought into the idea that the anger stage was a normal, transitory side effect of gaining knowledge about the true nature of relationships …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:35 PM
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If he was at church, the shit test would have been about Jesus. How 'bout: Jesus loves you, but I think you are an asshole.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 06:07 PM
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But I can't get over her. I don't know what to do. You are choosing not to get over her. You have to make different choices. Since when are you not in charge of yourself? OK long time now. How do I make it work with my wife even if I don't know if I want to? (Kids are in the mix) First you have to decide what you want. Then you try to do it. Simple Yes? You sound like the guy that robbed the store, then said he was the victim of his circumstances. I was looking for validation from her because I …
/r/askMRP05/04/16 03:20 PM
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Bruce Banner was a milk-toast pussy. He lived in fear of his own repressed anger from the abuse he got as a child. Over the years he was in love with Betty Ross. At one point she married another guy. Maybe it was his famous line: "Don't make me angry. You wouldn't like me when I'm angry" Not exactly Actus non Verbalishious But was just a comic book character.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 03:02 PM
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Off subject…... A thing on canadian bases, where girls would leave detergent on the window sill, letting the men know 'hubby' was away that week. Reminds me, literally, of the teenage girl next door (I was 13). She would leave the top venetian blind slat turned when parents were gone and she wanted to "play". Tide box girls start young…….. Back to your points for OP; Yup, thar was cheatin' before this, so I'm still waiting for OP to recognize, then share the rest of the story that seems to have …
/r/askMRP05/04/16 02:46 PM
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free entertainment eh? Easily entertained? You're a cheap bastard.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 01:48 PM
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or your own personal Freddy Kruger….. :o}
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 01:45 PM
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Yup, but the my short version is the Hulk..
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 01:44 PM
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What do you think…... (she's) 28 years old, server in a neighborhood bar, what could go wrong?
/r/askMRP05/04/16 01:43 PM
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He has his good days as Bruce Banner. Then, just the right piss-off and, there that Green son of a bitch is back Again, fucking up everything in his path. It's very tiring you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 04:12 AM
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OP, I will probably one of many to say this: your friend is a stupid inconsiderate pussy. All of his muscles appear to be below the neck. Maybe there is more than ONE reason he dries her pussy up.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 04:07 AM
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Yup. And get the FR online.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 04:00 AM
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I don't think OP knows what important details he left out…..
/r/askMRP05/04/16 03:56 AM
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Always need to realize why we ended up here….. specifically - your ego. You have to kill that fucking thing and take a hard look at yourself objectively. I call him Hulk.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 03:49 AM
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a trained fucking monkey Don't have to train them to do that.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 03:39 AM
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yup - upvote
/r/askMRP05/04/16 01:14 AM
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people pleasing once you get this under control, you will change.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 01:13 AM
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All the old guys agree...
/r/askMRP05/04/16 01:10 AM
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She recently transferred to work as a server there, taking a pay cut in return for being closer to home and giving her the ability to start going to school since I recently finished. that's what you left out. 28 years old, server in a neighborhood bar, what could go wrong? Yet working in a bar she takes a shot at your drinking, tho unwarranted. Do you think she is enjoying a sudden increase in SMV, due the attention she is getting in her new job? Your increased money means nothing here. You have…
/r/askMRP05/04/16 12:11 AM
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Realtalk received….saved for next troll mission. over.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 11:58 PM
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Text messages, usually bad At a bar, tell us more Drinking problem, maybe, You have left something out…..
/r/askMRP04/04/16 09:09 PM
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Thanks for the updates. It helps explain the problem with trolls I hate those nasty little trolls. The BP PPD and RPW trolls need to learn how to spend more time doing anything else so... I will continue to NOT…. otherwise engage the manospheres dingleberries.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 09:03 PM
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Just from my limited experience, may not help you here. Years ago my oldest son and I took karate together. He was strong and good at it. He had a similar problem of a kid that would not leave him alone. I think he would have really hurt this stupid, yet aggressive and weird kid. I was at a loss. My experiences with fighting had gone very badly as I hurt people and you just can't undo that. You have to live with the consequences. So I took him to his karate instructor to talk. He explained how n…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 02:17 PM
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So it only took you 12 years to decide that you needed to improve yourself. Better than some, worse than others. Then you worked hard to improve SOME, but now you are hamstering how to manage your life without taking any big chances, or making any big changes to your world view. Get your ego out of your own way. Figure out what you really want. That's all I have to add.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 02:08 PM
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I am just too tired to respond....
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 11:26 PM
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Man, you just make me melt with envy, A fucking Spanish conquistador picture over your mantle. And best of all…. You learned to use Reddit formatting. Of course, all the rest is just everyday shits for us high value guys,
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 05:57 PM
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Yup, upvote
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 02:26 PM
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Then I realized, if she loved me, she would have acted this way before I started RP. Just Wrong. Good progress, enjoy the approval you need from this sub and everywhere else. Dread is self improvement, not something you do to her. She lives in fear of you. Get your anger under control.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:31 PM
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Removing the need for approval from others, changes everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 02:57 AM
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wondering if anyone has applied MRP(TRP) to a relationship that was already very good with a wife that is somewhat submissive and pleasing by default? I think this is your question. Good luck. Ok, maybe you aren't a troll……answer is Yes.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 08:19 PM
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I've seen too many FRs of guys who read RP like a car repair manual From my last post I submitted, I think I learned that you are right. Some of the questions were VERY limited in accessing the broader scope and my meaning. Yeah, fuck it, bad idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:57 PM
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Well, if it's a starfish, what does one do? Does one turn it over and drill it from behind, just for the fun of it?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:52 PM
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The circle is complete. Then we get t-shirts and….
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 07:48 PM
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I guess the masters of covert communication don't feel the need for who, when, where, and what the fuck. You should just, like, get it, sweetie. :o}
/r/askMRP02/04/16 07:44 PM
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Bottom line, almost every woman starts their conversation in the middle. If you act butt-hurt for asking what planet her question started from, she will take your lunch money and laugh at you.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 04:32 PM
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Makes me feel all warm inside when you notice. I just feelz tingly like Caitlan Jenner.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 04:29 PM
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I just like to throw in a lot of extra words. I try to fit in....
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 04:26 PM
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Great FR u/DanG3. Someday you might share more of your story.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 04:24 PM
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what do you do to stave off this complacency and contempt? Tie em up.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 04:21 PM
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Yeah, me quick and simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 04:17 PM
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Yup.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 04:16 PM
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You want I should scoop you up on my way? The teenager working there might be able to recommend something to help us with our arthritis. Stay away from the teenagers. Could make your arthritis much worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 04:10 PM
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Of course you wouldn't. As I write this with my bloody knuckles that drag the ground, I must realize how silly it is of me, or anyone else, male or female, to even consider that his SO is anything other than an absolutely honest, forthright, loving, caring, human being, THAT, in addition, ONLY has HIS best interests at heart. We men are just so.....
/r/askMRP02/04/16 04:07 PM
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Ferris Bueller (1986) Missed that before. Nothing sadder than a man that never knows the absolute fucking joy of having a woman crazy in love with him. Only time I was ever bulletproof without getting shit faced.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 03:48 PM
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my GFs SMV is much much higher than mine. Why do you think you attracted her? She is your first, but you are not her first. You know you have been Beta, and, you know that Beta does not attract. in the future I might feel she is way below my league. Without a concrete plan, this is going to be just wishful thinking. Do you think she is going to be happy with, or help you in any way to be less Beta? Do you think you are special, even though you sucked up to her? Based on her Actions, not her Word…
/r/askMRP02/04/16 03:45 PM
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know that I am very beta and I provide every little thing to her. She does not respect me much in front of these guys and usually makes fun of me in front of them(shit tests). NOTE: this is not a shit test - it is open disrespect the way I read it. LTR of 2 yrs, soon(within an year) to get married and have been a beta sucker all this while. She is my 1st and I am her 4th. This looks like she started the relationship wanting a Beta-Provider, not an Alpha. More to overcome. I read this as a lot to…
/r/askMRP02/04/16 01:57 PM
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True. Logistically, condoms are probably a better bet. My belief is that he is really dealing with baby-mania, not a birth control preference issue. She's running him all over about a non-issue, when she really wants the baby. His first question was about tracking cycle. It might serve him well to heed it, if he has no desire for children with her.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 04:14 AM
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so it's difficult to tell sometimes when my husband is doing what he wants vs. what he thinks will make me happy. You are searching for an answer. Your question has been hard fought by many women before you, and, is the root of many of the problems that this sub addresses for men.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 03:23 AM
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Damn OP, you sure showed me. I thank the gods that you are here to set us straight on the concept of true Alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 02:11 AM
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OP, do you think you might be so focused on solving her BC problem, that you have missed the real issue? Maybe she just hit her biologic baby wall. Whether she knows it or not, she's just got to have it. Read your post again. Think about it.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 01:39 AM
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The baby imperative. Yeah, then blame the condom. How could a pin hole get there?
/r/askMRP02/04/16 01:33 AM
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0 side effects. She has been on it for 10 years with no issues. It works great. worried it is messing with her body. She doesn't like the idea Then (maybe) she is whining to your Beta Guy side.
/r/askMRP01/04/16 11:41 PM
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Yup
/r/askMRP01/04/16 11:38 PM
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Why not just fix himself and start over with someone that might value the New Him. Hmmm.
/r/askMRP01/04/16 11:37 PM
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:o}
/r/askMRP01/04/16 11:30 PM
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If thoughts, beliefs, and actions are in alignment, then there is no test, only a process of confirmation. The critical difference can be the vision, but anytime that one's thoughts beliefs and actions are not lined up, there can be only chaos for the person. Simplified term for this: congruence. You forget what a minimalist I am at my core. I must be mildly autistic, as I assume that the whole idea is self evident. I thought that was the great write up! Edit: OK I have one more thing that I can…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 08:47 PM
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Best answer! WAIT! but that's not all…. For a limited time OP can continue to focus on the wrong problem. As an additional bonus, OP can focus on more than one wrong problem. Yes! That's right folks, two for the price of one.
/r/askMRP01/04/16 08:28 PM
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Maybe he get warning… like us boss...
/r/askMRP01/04/16 08:22 PM
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This is not a person poised to forsake all others. Damn it Frenchy! I almost dropped my laptop laughing..
/r/askMRP01/04/16 08:21 PM
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I have to admit that I really enjoy delivering "a cold slap to the face". :o)
/r/askMRP01/04/16 08:13 PM
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When you take the idea of shit tests to the next level; congruence test. I can relate to this. If thoughts, beliefs, and actions are in alignment, then there is no test, only a process of confirmation. The critical difference can be the vision, but anytime that one's thoughts beliefs and actions are not lined up, there can be only chaos for the person. Simplified term for this: congruence.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 08:01 PM
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Great post. Well defined and well said….. So to restate this in the words of a retarded old man: --I must be a lesbian, I really like women. --I took charge of it. --That's all you get. All these say the same thing to me in my own strange way. Just one more thing though, my ego is the Hulk.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 07:49 PM
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Hockey. You must have been a bad-ass. Of course it isn't co-ed here, but you seem to be willing to play by our rules when you visit.
/r/askMRP01/04/16 12:34 AM
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I'm a philanthropist philanderer at heart really There, fixed it.
/r/askMRP01/04/16 12:09 AM
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Yes! Skittles Man.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 09:42 PM
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I may be wrong, but I don't think so, because I have flair Dah. Me remind you again. It is warning label
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 07:53 PM
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I've just been through a normal life process as contrasted with their seemingly purposeful stupidity. You just keep on giving......
/r/askMRP31/03/16 07:25 PM
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I am always happy to provide you with a bullet to chamber for your "short" answers. So I accept that I became accessory after the fact, by providing that ammo. I don't think OP is going to have to worry about the rest of that post, like, "tickle your asshole", or "save a horse ride a cowboy" anytime soon.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 07:21 PM
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how to get the fuck out of your own way. You have become much more "prickly" in your comments. Spending time with these arseholes of the Red Pill has changed you. I think I like you better.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 03:54 AM
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We tend to buy used toys from charity shops, then donate them back when the kids tire of them. You seem to have her cooperation in some significant things now. Just build on it, like you have done in the past.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 03:14 AM
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Thinking this through, I've let it slide because she pegs her happiness on ensuring the kids "don't miss out" (in her view)......the "happy wife, happy life" mentality I held on to for so long. My first wife justified her spending using the kids. IT WAS BULLSHIT in my case. Kids CAN be happy playing with a cardboard box that the toys came in.. :} Until she started out-earning me, I held the family to a budget pretty rigidly, so there should be clear scope here for me to lay out a new one, so lon…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 01:23 AM
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And the WISNIFG I have read/studied more than once. Another step to reducing approval seeking/beta behavior.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 01:15 AM
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CJ, you pulled that shit test apart like new taffy. As I was reading, the whole time I was thinking, "I wonder if OP realizes how many men here have had the same test, in almost identical form, and, failed it as badly, only to do it again?
/r/askMRP30/03/16 07:23 PM
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At least we all agree that he deserves to get cheated on. Edit: OK, he is...
/r/askMRP30/03/16 06:51 PM
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No More Mr Nice Guy - is specifically written about approval seeking behavior. Based on what you just said, you will need to read and study it more than once. I know, I have/did/do….
/r/askMRP30/03/16 02:46 PM
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Now, now…. you can't be sure he is a faggot.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 02:14 PM
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Tim_rp you are making good progress. Noticed the following that might give you another view: …..I don't earn enough money,…...I was able to take my family on a fairly inexpensive holiday….. an impending pile of bills waiting These 3 items are all pointing in different directions. First, you make the money you make, AT THIS TIME, Your obligation to yourself and your family is to manage spending to live within your income. If you don't change your narrative here, you will earn more money, then spe…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 03:56 AM
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I bear it as best I can. You are truly a tortured soul.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 01:45 AM
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OP everyone is shooting straight with you here. Doesn't make it any less painful for you, and, it shouldn't. u/PemBayliss really made an over the top effort for you. HEED IT. So it's up to you to..... Save yourself.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 01:41 AM
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