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A few years ago I would have said no. Now, after finding this sub 4+ years ago, I will say yes. I'm doing it right and it is all good.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:17 PM
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A little bit more colorful than necessary but... nonetheless correct! He is not going to have a correct response to his wife for being denied anal. The response should be directed internally.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 06:17 PM
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Gotcha. Wasn't sure what angle you were coming from. Yes, cable is trash! I think most people just get it because after you account for Internet costs it isn't much more for cable added on. So, they pay another $20 for ESPN, Fox News and the Disney Channel
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 03:45 PM
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Paying for cable is retarded for instance. Can you explain this please?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 03:21 PM
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The short answer is ... usually it is faster to regain lost strength than it was the get there in the first place. Things like sleep, nutrition etc. will affect those results.
/r/askMRP22/04/19 05:37 PM
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agree. plenty of volume.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 06:15 PM
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They are perfectly capable of doing it but they don't like doing it TRUE TRUE TRUE!!!!
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:12 PM
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Right. I read it after year one. After I had turned my shit around. It helps then. When you're a freaking wreck it's hard to put it into perspective none the less action.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 07:39 PM
1

Thanks, man. I wish I would have learned about all this stuff in my 20's. Join the club!
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:30 PM
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I've been shaving for several years. The first time I just told the barber to shave it for me with the clipper at lowest level. Eventually I started doing it myself and eventually went to a razor for a clean look.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 05:25 PM
1

It takes me less than 10 minutes to shave my head with normal razor I get from Harry's.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 05:23 PM
2

The Art of Manliness is a very good podcast.
/r/askMRP29/05/18 09:16 PM
2

I think you would be much better off getting as much as you can out of your experience at MIT than getting some spending cash. Take that time to invest in some extra projects, get to know some of your professors more. Get involved in clubs etc. You will never have another opportunity to spend 4 years as a full time under grad student. I suggest you read the book "Where you go is not who you are." You're a lucky SOB who no doubt has worked his ass off to get into MIT. BUT your journey is just beg…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:03 PM
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100% agree!
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:01 PM
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I interrupted her yelled and called her a bitch. You did what? Holy shit. I don't say this very often but you probably need to apologize for this.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 01:57 PM
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You're such a nice guy.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:26 PM
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Realistically, losing 6 pounds in 3 weeks is about all you can do in a safe manageable way. And that's about a 1000 calorie deficit per day. So, eat very little calories over the next 3 weeks. Don't over do any days. Make sure you are getting your target calories. You aren't going to be able to gain much strength while you do this but continue to lift through it.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:10 PM
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You're trying to solve this problem with logic. You can't. Getting a woman initially and for the first few dates/sexual encounters may be an SMV intensive equation. However, keeping them around is NOT. It will depend MUCH more on your game. Can you keep them interested? Are they afraid you are going to move on. Do they believe you're a catch? Are you worth holding onto? Not, do you have nice abs. Although, nice abs stays a strong part of the equation, the other items become more important.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:26 PM
1

Hit the nail on the head.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/18 06:44 PM
1

Welcome to the wonderful world of not being able to buy pants off the rack anymore. Find a tailor. Honestly, you can try and maybe find a brand that works for you but it may be tough.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 06:33 PM
1

Excellent fucking post man. Thanks!!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/18 03:37 PM
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I think this is pretty answerable without even looking into RP. She is acting like a harpy telling you to do something that you don't want to do. If you are already at a stage with an LTR where that shit is happening, you are headed to a place where that shit is a daily occurrence. You are under no "obligation" to do what she wants or to explain to her why you don't want to pimp people out. Think long and hard where this "relationship" is going and whether it's run its course.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:48 PM
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Regarding answers in this post as well as BlackDragon's post, there is one more obvious answer. She's not into you but you're attractive enough for her to fuck you. You came off as a toolbag tryhard but have nice abs. So, she'll give you a toss. There are so many other men out there that there is no need to go back to you!! She'll continue trying to find "the one" and humping bros that don't reach the ever lowering bar.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:26 PM
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This is true for BP men. It should not be true for anyone here who is changing.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:51 PM
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"You don’t need that darling!" is really the only reply any decent woman would say.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:49 PM
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With me? Yes. With you? Apparently not.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:24 PM
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You showed "keeper" qualities. I'm almost 50 and I've talked to many woman candidly about this. If on a date, sexually attracted to a guy but they realize for whatever reason, he isn't "the one".... they'll fuck him that night and move on. If they think there is something special, they'll wait and show him that she is a prize that he should work for?
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:14 PM
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You are going to try to rationalize your way into a girl's pants?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:36 PM
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This is actually an easy one. If a girl thinks you are worth keeping. She will delay sex in order to appear like she is less sexually active than she is. This is to make herself more appealing to you. If she were dtf and didn't care about the relationship she'd have already banged you. You have to understand the female mind here. This makes absolutely perfect sense.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:35 PM
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Enough people do not wear their wedding ring at the gym to make it acceptable to not do it , if that is what you choose.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 06:06 PM
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Old BP Admission time. I read the fucking book!!! :(
/r/askMRP23/04/18 07:23 PM
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I've been married for almost 20 years and I haven't put this much energy into figuring out my wife's n-count. good grief, all you need to know was this. "gives great head" there. done.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:02 PM
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I would say not 100% corroborated. We lived together. Everyone had a roommate. Room mates would tell, you'd see people disappear into a room together. People admitted it. Mainly all we got pretty close that summer - partied together a worked closely. Became good friends with a bunch of the people.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:05 PM
1

I had a very interesting experience in my early twenties where 60 of us were segregated off for 3 months to work on a project. I won't get into any details of the project. There were 30 men and 30 women all about age 22 to 24. All recent college graduates. The sexual activity of that time period boggled my mind at the time but after discovering RP it makes total sense. Basically, it came down to most guys didn't get laid. a couple of the regulars (non chad types) had sex once with one of the gir…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:29 PM
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Your response should communicate, in as little words as possible. Acknosledgement and a feeling that you were about to break up with her and are relieved that she did it first. "K. take care." "Ok. All the best." There is nothing to gain from ghosting. Just comes off as butt hurt.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:22 PM
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Within days of starting to read that book, I was using the techniques in real life successfully and startling myself at the positive impacts it was having on my life. Maybe you didn't need it. I did and I am very thankful to have found it on the sidebar. After MMSLP, I found it to be the biggest help in the sidebar.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 06:16 PM
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Justin Theroux is an actor who is 5'9" and 159 lbs. and used to be married to Jennifer Aniston. He has what women consider a very good body. Check out pictures of him shirtless. He is not huge but has a lot of muscles and a pretty low body weight.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:24 PM
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I think your parents knew that because the trust age is uncommonly high. Not from my experience. 30 is a common age as well.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:13 PM
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If looking for marriage yes. If Married and looking to get lucky on the side, then this is exactly the guy.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:35 PM
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It's like a direct line into his flight mechanism. This is totally correct and I never thought of it like that before.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 03:30 PM
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Before RP, I would ski often but be huffing and puffing all across the mountain.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 03:55 PM
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you'll be carrying all the kid equipment as well as your own between the car (or the lodge) and the slopes. Too true.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/18 08:00 PM
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Great post. Skiing is a great way to get yourself and your family outdoors in the winter and beat those winter blues. Plus, some one on one alone time on the chair lift with your teenager is priceless. The earlier you can start your kids skiing the easier it is. Mine started at age 2. Ski for an hour. get some hot cocoa. Get back out there for a run or two, then pack it in. Just as OP stated, the point isn't to go balls to the wall. Many people hear that I take my kids skiing several times a yea…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/18 06:06 PM
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From experience, it is not a problem for her. It is only a problem for you. You are worrying about a non issue and creating one where there isn't one.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 04:47 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking.
/r/askMRP12/02/18 04:42 PM
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humans are a giant ball of need. That's a good one.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/18 06:53 PM
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Right. so, those children are probably from and will continue to be the wealthier and higher status families. Where I live there is a strong majority of parents still together. In the rare case of divorce, very few are one parent or absent father. I live in a "well educated and higher status" area. So, this is why I say anecdotally, divorce rates may be increasing faster in the less educated and lesser status families.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 05:05 PM
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Perhaps it's my bias, but isn't this already the case?
/r/askMRP29/01/18 02:59 PM
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It's hard to incorporate much fruit on a serious cut. The difference between my cuts and my maintenance is primarily fruit.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 03:07 PM
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PS: women do not care about veins. Only you and other bros do. TRUTH
/r/askMRP25/01/18 03:05 PM
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Discipline Equals Freedom: Field Manual by Jocko Willink
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:34 PM
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it eats logic and shits more hamsters. Classic
/r/askMRP23/01/18 01:58 PM
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I find that classical music helps but anything with words in it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 09:37 PM
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Can you explain to me how you used effect incorrectly in the title and affect correctly in the first sentence in you post?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 09:34 PM
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Is it weird that I couldn't possibly see my wife taking enough interest in anything I do that she would bother snooping through my phone? Nor would I care in the least if she did.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 08:05 PM
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4 kids here. :)
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:30 PM
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Easiest way to financial independence is to not have children.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 04:15 PM
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Ignoring the having another baby isse, don't battle it. Go with it. Giving her really great sex is important and easiest on ovulation day. Give it to her. Enjoy it.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 04:13 PM
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I wanted her to connect that behavior to my lack of presence you see. COVERT CONTRACT So.... have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy? Your behavior is what nice guys do when their covert contract isn't being met. It's very unattractive.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 03:17 PM
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Good luck with the coaching. Would love to hear back how it went. How are you vetting these people?
/r/askMRP19/01/18 03:10 PM
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but is very horny and initiates during ovulation. while logically this seems like an attempt to get pregnant it's just her biology. She is going to be horniest then. So, she jumps your bones.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 03:08 PM
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Answers 5 sets of 5 reps on 5x5. If you feel this is too much volume Starting Strength is another good and similar program where you do 3 sets of 5. Deadlift should be more than Squat for people. I would not rotate on a monthly basis. If you want to substitute front squats once a week or something, that may be a good thing to help improve quad size but going a whole month on one and then skipping it for a month is a bad idea. I think you can get some solid advice posting form checks to various o…
/r/askMRP19/01/18 03:03 PM
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Also use a power rack and no spotter. I have failed squatting in a rack only once and agree, kind of a weird feeling. Luckily, I was pretty deep in the hole and had set up the pins at the right height and only dropped maybe a foot ( I'm guessing).
/r/askMRP19/01/18 02:56 PM
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I either lift of do cardio on a given day. I don't do both on the same day. And I lift for 60 to 75 minutes.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:38 PM
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The short answer is be more attractive. It isn't that there isn't enough comfort it's that there isn't enough attraction.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 07:06 PM
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I'm going to be rational in my expectations here and give you some advice I think you might actually listen to and might actually help you based on what I think you are going to do anyway. Do not say I love you first. Hopefully that piece of advice sticks and will help you when the time comes.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:54 PM
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I do remember how confusing this all is at the beginning. Every few months the conflict about NMMNG saying read this with your wife vs. don't reveal/RP to your wife comes up. It is generally considered not a good idea to read NMMNG with the wife. The major point of this is you are getting yourself to a point where you don't need your wife anymore to be a complete person(man). It seems counterintuitive but the best way to keep your wife happy is to evolve to a point where you don't need her anymo…
/r/askMRP29/12/17 06:49 PM
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You sound like a very rational kid with a good head on his shoulders. If I had to talk to myself at that age, I'd probably tell me to take my time and explore like and the world and come up with something that makes me happy. Not knowing what to do with your life is 10x better than rushing into something you're not sure about.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 03:14 PM
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I would say no. Read it privately. Although, my wife did find all my reading material on it and confronted me in a very nice way. I really can't remember at this point, how I handled it but it wasn't a big deal. But in the first few weeks, I would say read it by yourself.
/r/askMRP28/12/17 03:12 PM
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It definitely is what you are looking for. It will explain that you do not have to answer questions that you do not want to or feel are just shit tests. And how you do that. In the beginning, as you know, you stfu. Then you deal with the question in a manner that is not "ANSWERING IT". Simplest example is, "Why did you leave the milk on the second shelf in the fridge and not the first shelf like I want?" You don't have to answer this question. At first, you just ignore it. STFU. Then you learn h…
/r/askMRP28/12/17 02:16 PM
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so maybe it comes off too jokey. I don't see this as a problem and finish WISNIFG like immediately. the prereqs should be knocked out in a few weeks.
/r/askMRP27/12/17 03:49 PM
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You are not going to stunt your growth. 16 is perfectly fine for lifting. Many Many high school football players are on pretty aggressive lifting programs at your age.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 06:57 PM
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That's a lot of volume. I do like the basic concept of it though. I'm surprised it does not incorporate chinups or pullups though. I'm wondering why not substitute chins for the Rows on the B workout.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 06:55 PM
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The current Maxim Magazine December 2017 cover girl, a Victoria Secrets Angel, Martha Hunt is 5'10" 55kg. Dude, this is REALLY skinny for a man.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 07:02 PM
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I lost my virginity to a hooker and i am ashamed. Don't be. Should I tell girls that I'm still a virgin? It's none of their god damn business. I still haven't kissed a girl and telling someone that I had sex before kissing for the first time is a bit suspicious. You're not the only person in the world whose best laid plans went astray. Again, this is your personal business and in no way reflects who you are or what you'll become.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 02:29 PM
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Wow. A lot to unpack here. I can't recommend enough the book, The Charisma Myth. It shows you the value and how to become someone that draws people to them. But for starters, if you are at a party it is easier than the approaching total strangers. "Hi, I'm freetolayd." is a great way to start. There is no situation at a party where this would be wrong. Talk to each person for a bit and find a connection. There is also nothing wrong with "oh, you like bowling too? I was going bowling next friday.…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 02:27 PM
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It's worth mentioning that these recent girls broke up with their boyfriends a week ago. I feel like I'm going crazy. OK. So, they just broke up with boyfriend because they are sick of boyfriend shit. They fucked you because they wanted to get railed and treated like that NOT like a girlfriend. And then you go and invite them christmas shopping like a beta chump. See what's going on here. They are in a position to want to get what they lacked in a beta boyfriend relationship NOT more of that. In…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 01:57 PM
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Poorly.
/r/askMRP14/12/17 01:50 PM
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You have a masterbatorium too? I thought I was the only one.
/r/askMRP14/12/17 01:50 PM
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"Holy Shit. Who brought their little sister into work?" Then ignore her and look back at the original girl and say, "So.....?"
/r/askTRP11/12/17 03:11 PM
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So, when she is horny, she is into sex. Her hormones can get her into the mood but you can't. So, what do you do. Be more desireable.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 03:08 PM
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Is there anyone here who's wife kept a diary before she met you, and have you had a chance to read it? Yes and yes. Before discovering RP. I would never go back and reread it now.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 03:00 PM
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She still hates me when she writes about me. One of those entries, she initiated the next day, so who knows. Sounds pretty classic RP to me.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 02:53 PM
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Have you talked to your parents about a gap year? To me, it makes s sense. Take some time off and think about what the hell you want to do with your life. Work some, travel some. The best thing to do is to volunteer abroad. There are many programs for this and the concept is gaining a lot of momentum from what I am seeing.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 03:47 PM
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No problem bro. I was joking.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:06 PM
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Is awkward kino a turn off? It's sexual harassment.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 02:14 PM
1

America is a big place. What part of the country are you in? Mid West or South? I wonder if you were East coast or west coast would the percentage be different.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 02:13 PM
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Has anyone been in this situation and can you help? Do you mean was I a pussy when I first posted here too? Yes.
/r/askMRP05/12/17 02:05 PM
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Yahtzee, Jenga or hide the pickle. I'll let you choose this time.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 07:06 PM
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fair enough. I guess we all have our personal likes and dislikes. Thanks for taking the time to answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 01:52 PM
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+2 SMV boost This is my point. It's 2 points not 1. Big difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 07:17 PM
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Probably off topic but 135x5 on OHP seems low compared to your other numbers. Did you have a shoulder injury?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 06:45 PM
1

I think this is correct. A very small under $5 gift. One of those 4 piece box of nice chocolates you can get at a CVS.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:34 PM
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I'd probably try to flip it onto her with comments getting to the point... "Wow that is a lot of pressure on YOU to be able to keep ME that happy. I'm interested to see what you have planned for that." That should spice things up a bit. At least for a little while.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:31 PM
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agree
/r/askMRP20/11/17 08:15 PM
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why should I STFU when someone is simply wrong Who let the woman in here?
/r/askMRP13/11/17 03:26 PM
2

There was this really ugly chick I was friends with in college. She was nice and funny but in no way did I want to fuck her. point of the story... She did my laundry for me every week. I never touched her.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 02:43 PM
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dude, you haven't lived until you've snuggled up with your wife, maybe a nice fire going and a glass of red wine and binged watched the Gilmore Girls.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 02:21 PM
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Why do your wife and kids come ahead of your own health and well being? Ding ding ding!!!!!!
/r/askMRP06/11/17 02:20 PM
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Up at 5:15.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 02:17 PM
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because I just straight up don't fucking want to deal with it. Too fucking bad. Deal with it. I don't want to deal with this shit either. But it is your responsibility to know the calendar well enough to a) not fuck anything up. b) know if there is ample time to schedule something. You do not have to be the scheduler. But, you have to know the schedule. My wife tracks everything on a calendar in the kitchen. I copy down what I need to on my calendar. If I put something on my calendar, I write it…
/r/askMRP30/10/17 02:00 PM
1

This is pretty much it. "My friend bus is full" can be a slightly funnier way to put it.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:56 PM
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A blue pill man would still be pissed off but wouldn't know that he shouldn't have to put up with it and that other better men, that get better pussy wouldn't put up with that. He'd be happy to get what he is getting. Because he is a pleaser. "If you're happy, I'm happy honey."
/r/askTRP24/10/17 02:54 PM
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Nope. No way. This is BS. Now, there is no way you are going to be able to make a chick that lives next to a club whose friends go there for free stop going. She is putting you in a difficult situation. I feel for you. this sucks. But know that you are never going to be ok with this. Nor should you be. You need to tell her in a way that says, without saying it, I am a high worth male and treating me like this is not how a girl treats a high worth male. I will not commit to you if you are not ful…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 02:16 PM
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Yes, this is excellent advice. If you follow it, I give it less than 1% you will, it will be the best thing you've ever done. The only way to get better at anything is to do it over and over again. Doesn't matter whether it is interviewing for a job, dribbling a soccer ball, bench pressing or picking up women. Do and do again. Don't worry about coming off as a creep. Come off as a creep a few times and you'll learn how to not come off as a creep. Worry about coming off as a creep and you'll neve…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:39 PM
2

You lost me at the Notebook.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:37 PM
2

The Charisma Myth is a must read.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:34 PM
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What the fuck are you doing hanging around your apartment all the time? Get out and do something fun and stop worrying about the troll that shares an apartment with you. Zero fucks should be given about her or her behavior. As people have mentioned. KEep the common area spick and span and this will get back to her friends. They will read, high value male who has his shit together, is out having fun and isn't pathetic enough to hit on the dog living with him.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:32 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:18 PM
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Jesus fucking christ. Is this what you want? If it isn't what YOU want, end it. Get what you want from life. This chick isn't it. If you want my opinion, it does not matter that she is not doing anything beyond dancing with strange men several times a week. That alone, in my opinion, is more than I would put up with in an LTR. And my standards are not all that high. Yours must suck.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:16 PM
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I know right? My excuse is that I was married for 15 years before I discovered any of it. To have this knowledge beforehand AND a fiance with this behavior and still question going forward with it? tisk tisk.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:12 PM
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I wouldn't say beg but this attitude goes a long way in life. Not just in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 01:02 PM
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It's pretty easy to believe it if he is just unplugging.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 05:50 PM
2

Correct. That isn't mate guarding.
/r/askMRP20/09/17 02:09 PM
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There are probably more of that guy than not.
/r/askMRP20/09/17 02:08 PM
1

Fucking problem solved right there. Bingo!
/r/askMRP20/09/17 02:07 PM
1

Wife also did the take my name and move her maiden name to middle name thing. Although, she had a good middle name that she lost. Seemed a good compromise at the time. I was way too blue pill to fight with her on it.
/r/askMRP20/09/17 02:06 PM
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Looking forward to your next review on Days of our Lives.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 07:22 PM
1

After lifting for 2.5 years, to get to where I am now, this would have been a much more efficient path for me. A lot of learning and trial and error to get to it but this is a very good path.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 07:18 PM
1

Tennis. We both play tennis so we play together a few times a month.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 06:13 PM
1

yup. Me too.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:36 PM
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Am I a winner? I think so. My girlfriend thinks so. My employer things so. What else matters? fixed that for you.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:02 PM
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Who knows. If I lived in another country I'm sure much would be different. But living in the US, I'm giving it one shot.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:19 PM
3

Also married. I can't understand the concept of the term 2nd wife.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:37 PM
1

Interesting. Yes, lies are lies and you shouldn't tolerate them. The anger phase may cloud a lot and it may be worth a re-read when you've settled into your new reality a bit. I think the most important messages are how to deal with her shit and emotions on a more daily basis. How to counter femininity with masculinity. That's the takeaway for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 05:38 PM
1

size queens LOL!
/r/askTRP08/09/17 03:15 PM
1

Sounds like som solid work so far. The Way of the Superior Man What did you think of this book? What did you learn? How has it helped you understand things? Have you changed any behaviors after reading it?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 05:49 PM
3

Your senior year of high school? Fuck everything that moves and wear a condom. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:17 PM
1

I'm glad I'm not the only one to see this on GoT.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:19 PM
1

When I say no I feel guilty is the premier book on assertiveness. It was written many years ago but is still the gold standard. if you haven't read that, it is the obvious first step.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:35 PM
2

The Art of Manliness
/r/askMRP23/08/17 02:36 PM
1

Thanks for this. It was what I needed to read this morning. I think I need to go back and reread this.
/r/askMRP23/08/17 02:34 PM
6

If the TWO genders are equal, girls aren't entitled to anything. It's amazing how, as a kid, I battled with this. I remember thinking, why am I supposed to hold the door open for a girl if they are my equal? Doesn't that make me less than her? And I am 45. So, this latest round of shit has been going on for over 30 years at least.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:12 PM
1

You never regret the chances you took but lost. You only regret the chances you never took.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 05:50 PM
5

“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.” -Tony Montana in Scarface 1983. link to video clip of the secene
/r/askTRP02/08/17 05:46 PM
3

This has to be the Nicest Guy to ever be in here.
/r/askMRP01/08/17 09:19 PM
1

As my father would say.... You are going to have to put up with assholes every day of your life. Learn to deal with it and stop bitching about it to me. best advice anyone ever gave me. Now, if you can line up a better apprenticeship and have it all set up, then it might be worth doing. But leaving and not having anything and having to look and find something might run into troubles.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 03:26 PM
3

Her because she fooled a sucker. She is not trying to fool anyone. In her mind... she is right and everyone else has preconceived ideas about her. She needs to move to escape the injustice of it. She's "outgrown" that behaviour and deserves a fresh start. So, she doesn't feel she is fooling anyone. she's genuinely happy for herself.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 04:01 PM
1

Ok. But there certainly are some important lessons one can take away, and apply to his own life, from the side bar in the main sub if nothing else.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:52 PM
1

Nah this is the last time I'm posting in this sub. Dude, you can't expect to agree with 100% of the shit around here. There is good and there is bad. You're life experience is going to tell you something different than someone else's life experience. Sometimes you have to apply critical thinking and determine what's what. Turning the sub off isn't that.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 05:56 PM
2

It's stupid to think that any other girl is any different. I would assume that between the few girls that haven't done this and the ones that could/would lie about it, it's not an actual issue you can look for in a woman with any degree of accuracy. just assume they've all done it and apply your attitude to women under this assumption.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 05:09 PM
11

marriage used to be a contract between two people families.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 03:42 PM
1

30+ usually have a little lower sex drive I'm not sure this part is correct. I believe that the sex drive is still increasing and maxes at around 40.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:45 PM
3

quietly change your operating system
/r/askMRP21/07/17 08:45 PM
1

Totally agree with you. Short guys often get the advice to go for short girls and while this seems logical is actually terrible advice.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 01:12 PM
1

Not old enough yet but soon. http://www.outwardbound.org
/r/askMRP10/07/17 05:42 PM
3

First of all i would say a 30 year old with an n-count of 7 is an anomaly. Since most girls are sexually active starting around 15. This implies she has had one sexual partner every 2 years. Seems pretty low to me. Now to answer your question. To me, it is something I do not ask. I don't even know my wife's n-count. Never wanted to know. Never asked.
/r/askMRP09/07/17 06:09 PM
5

Archwinger nailed it!
/r/askMRP29/06/17 02:16 PM
1

or "w" for womyn/wommon if we wanted to be politically correct. HAH!
/r/askTRP20/06/17 12:51 PM
1

I wouldn't us the term bitch. I mean, an HB4 who does your laundry and brings you cookies isn't a bitch right?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 01:41 PM
1

she's not gonna fuck a taller guy just because he's tall lol. Yes. I will clarify. There is a big difference between Jeff Goldblum and Joe Manganiello. Both are 6'4" but we are talking two different animals.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 01:19 PM
2

And I constantly get bashed on here because I agree with you but still don't know my wife's n-count. Will never know. Never want to know. Never wanted to know. All that matters is how she behaves while I am married to her and how much longer I would like to stay with her. But believe me. Before I was red pill aware. I'm talking decades now, this was a god awful truth that burned me over and over again. Why didn't I see the truth?
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:17 PM
3

It's a fundamental truth to the red pill. And why it's hard to swallow the pill.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:21 PM
14

5'10" here. Chicks want tall guys. But I want a chick with big tits a tight ass and a twat that tastes like french vanilla ice cream. you know what? Sometimes I settle for less. So, they do want the tall guy and hope they'll get one by posting that but they aren't going to turn down a hot well dressed jacked dude who is 5'10". But they'll fuck the 6'4" in the bathroom while on a date with you if you aren't gaming her well enough.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:22 PM
1

Most human traits you can measure follow a normal curve or bell curve. Normal is the name because it is generally the normal distribution. Height, IQ,athletic skill etc. mostly folllow a normal curve. This means the closer you get to the average and the mean the more you are in common with the folks around you. btw, penis size does too but with a very large tail at the large side and a very small tail at the small side.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:21 PM
1

To be completely honest, she'll bend down to hug you and you'll feel a tinge of discomfort but don't let it bother you. It's uncomfortable for her too and she will blame herself. Be confident.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:14 PM
3

Holy shit. similar story. I'm 5'10" and was friends with a bunch of girls on volleyball team in college that were giants. I would agree with what you said. They aren't approached very often.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:07 PM
1

Right. So, increase your odds of landing one of those chicks by being buff.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:57 PM
2

overweight is still very bad. Women love a nice body. Looks your short. you can't control that. But you can control your weight and how much muscle mass you have. So,...... do something about it.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:21 PM
2

My Dad gave me great advice. It has helped and guided me all my life. Sometimes painfully. Here is one of his golden nuggets of advice. "You're going to meet another asshole every day. Don't bitch to me about them. Learn how to deal with them." Edit. One more item. "You are responsible for 50% of every interaction you have with someone." Corelating to this one.. "If they didn't do what you asked, you didn't make yourself clear enough. It's partly your fault." Some very similar notions to Extreme…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:18 PM
2

Oh Christ. You're a fucking idiot. Well weighing in your grades and hot chicks. Vanderbilt comes to mind. But just go to Harvard, Yale or Princeton.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:22 PM
1

It's not easy to stomach but the Fat part is the #1 thing killing you right now. You can control that easily. Marine General Victor Krulak who was notorious for staying in fighting shape late into his career was once quoted as saying. "I'm short and bald. I don't have to be fat." You aren't even short. You're taller than average. You don't have to get tattoos to look better but getting into shape is healthy for you and will get you women. So, why the fuck not do it?
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:18 PM
2

That's funny. Seems in my old blue pill days this happened to me all the time while I orbited hot chicks. I'm pretty sure all those guys didn't give a fuck! hope that helps.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 05:34 PM
2

Wife: Don't you dare eat any more, its for tomorrow's dinner! Me: (I laugh) Oh yes mother, I'll be sure not to touch it. (As I see how much there actually is before I cook some eggs.) Wife: (She storms into the kitchen.) Your just like my dad and you always do this. You eat too much then I have to eat less the next day. A better response would have been. Well, I was going to make a cake but with that attitude you can't have any. Then stick your tongue out at her. See, as long as you are perturbe…
/r/askMRP06/06/17 01:48 PM
2

correct!!! Creepy means "below my standards".
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:15 PM
2

I'm certain you are correct.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 05:45 PM
5

agree. We'll never know the real number. but it could certainly be that high. Nor is this a new thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:00 PM
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The funny thing is that women are the ones who talk about how guys will pump and dump, yet women do it a lot. Welcome to TRP. This is the real truth my friend. Oh and one thing you got wrong. "Yet women do it a lot" should be "Yet women do it more."
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:20 PM
2

Strictly defined, whore is a prostitute. You can use it for anyone using sex (or other things if you take it further) as for personal gain. For example, you can whore yourself out to a big company by taking on work you would not otherwise do (because of morale beliefs) because of a large contract.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 01:19 PM
1

Still, some women love to be called one or both of these terms in bed, even if the terms don't apply to them in reality. Correct.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:11 PM
2

That's wrong. Subjectively, she's a slut. The whore is a term used for women using sex for personal gain not because they enjoy it. Stemming from specific use or trade of sex for money. Slut is you sleep around.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:08 PM
4

I once had a friend who looked like Stone Phillips. Chicks threw themselves at him. He had absolutely no game at all and was actually a total nerd. Great guy to have as a buddy but not a guy that hooked up with more chicks than your average guy. Even though he would get them coming up to talk to him all night long!!!
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 05:27 PM
1

I can call my wife a slut but I can not call her a whore. Slut is playful. whore is mean. At least that has been the feedback I get. harlot is more of a comical term this day in age..
/r/askTRP01/06/17 01:41 PM
1

Yes, totally. It's like a little pantomime dance I have to do. Big smile and a wave as I move my head into their view. "Hi I'm a giant fucking dildo".
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 01:35 PM
1

LOL. You made my morning! Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 02:15 PM
3

It's not about the counters. It's about you. I know. It used to be about me. :)
/r/askMRP26/05/17 03:52 PM
2

all other things aside. Having a close relationship to the DBA is paramount. If she thinks you walk on water, it will help you in your career there.
/r/askMRP26/05/17 03:50 PM
1

It's been over a year since I read them and I often confuse the two. However, isn't some of that more from WISNIFG? Especially fogging.
/r/askMRP26/05/17 03:11 PM
1

Yes, if you have not, make sure to read WISNIFG.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 07:59 PM
1

Was totally thinking the same thing combined with my management and team lead experience goals. Extreme Ownership is a great book for those looking to develop strong elite leadership.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 06:59 PM
1

I also don't listen to music in the gym. I honestly the only guy in there without headphones.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 03:58 PM
1

+1 because broccoli does rule!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 03:57 PM
1

"low-load index funds from either fidelity or vanguard." This is the short answer. Go to the web site and invest in a mutual fund. The most convervative answer I can give you on what to do with your money right now, if you have over $3,000 and no clue what to do with it but don't expect to need it for a bit of time is to buy this Do it by going here and follow the steps. Is this perfect advice? No. Is it generally ok advice to someone who has no idea what to do with their money from someone who …
/r/askTRP19/05/17 01:45 PM
3

I know a lot of lawyers. None of them like their job. And only a few of them make a ton of cash.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:19 PM
1

Amen.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 02:27 PM
5

People are mostly social ladder climbers. I'm assuming you are talking about meeting strangers that aren't in your social circle. If they are far removed from it, there is no perceived value to put in the effort to talk to you. Escpecially if there is someone else at the party who is in their social circle, maybe high up. So, they'll suck up to them in order to achieve higher status. What can you offer them? Until you can offer them something even more tangible you'll be fighting that. That is w…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:28 PM
3

I have greeted people many times. I always make eye contact but after a few days people just pretend that i dont exist. In that case, it sounds like you don't fit into their previously held agendas. I know a lot of times people get wrapped up into their social hierarchy and outsiders can become invisible unless there is a point of interest for them to gain. People are people.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:08 PM
7

Don't give people the chance to not greet you. You should be greeting them first. Be that fucking guy!!! Handshake, remember their names and big smile. Every fucking book on charisma will tell you this.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 12:54 PM
2

I agree that WISNIFG was a better more helpful and more powerful book for me. Realizing I don't have to answer questions that I don't want to was liberating.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 02:45 PM
3

"I really like him, so I'm not going to have sex with him yet." This is WAY WAY more common than you realize. I would venture to say, it's the way modern girls think. Say, you're a girl and you're on a date and you realize the guy is kind of a douche but he's hot. Well you'll go ahead and sleep with him and then drop him. But if he's a real catch and there is a possibility of a future. Do you want him to think you're a slut? No man, make him think you're the bomb and he has broken through the sh…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 01:29 PM
2

I think that an Gattaca are possibly the two most underrated movies in hollywood.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 05:12 PM
1

It's not clinical depression. It's a form of mild situational depression. If one lacks coping mechanisms, one can feel overwhelmed by pressure situations or mild traumas. There's obviously more to it than this but it's pretty much what we are seeing. Clinical depression is much different and is a real illness. Situational is not an illness.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:05 PM
1

What a gift that would be to give to my children. Bullshit. Give the gift to yourself.
/r/askMRP02/05/17 12:41 PM
3

She'll also use the work as an excuse to not do things for you that she used to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 05:43 PM
2

I agree to an extent. I went as far as to say I don't owe you an answer to why I am busy... she was not happy. I got hung up on... This sounds like a victory to me.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 05:32 PM
3

This poem embodies a lot of what I want to see inculcated in my life (and the lives of my sons). A few weeks after I started College. I was a freshman on the football team. Starting new, facing new challenges, getting my ass kicked and getting back up etc. It was tough. One day I received a typed copy of this poem in the mail. On the bottom, in pen, it simply read. "Love Dad" I still have the copy almost 30 years later.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 03:22 PM
3

Just poked my head in to make sure someone posted this. thanks.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 02:03 PM
1

Back in the day, my girlfriend at the time (eventually the woman I'm married to now) asked me how many people I had slept with. I told her I am never going to tell you and you and I don't want you to tell me. I don't want to have this conversation. Awkward 5 seconds before we moved on to the next thing. For almost 20 years now, it has never come back up.
/r/askMRP21/03/17 01:35 PM
1

I have been married for over 15 years. Practicing RP in my marriage for almost 2 years. Things are going very well. To my knowledge no infidelity and I'd say my marriage is better than the vast majority of people I know. I have no idea what my wife's n count is and I never want to know. There is no need in my opinion.
/r/askMRP21/03/17 01:28 PM
1

I have four daughters and zero sons. :(
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 03:09 PM
3

IF she texts you that she wants you to come over and fuck her then you go over there and fuck her. If she texts you "hi". you reply back "hi". But don't turn her "Hi" into "please come over and fuck me." make sense?
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:02 PM
7

From experience... at this point, she is losing interest. Any attempt to rationally garner her interest back such as the discussions you mentioned will permit her to tell you she is no longer interested and it will end. Girl friends of yours will probably tell you to talk to her about this. Those replies are wrong!!! Your best move is to pretend that you don't have time for this shit. There are many other fish in the sea and it seems like it will be easier to bang another fish than to keep playi…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 05:53 PM
10

She's 22 and you're 23. Most likely this will not be the girl you spend the rest of your life with. So, as long as she is meeting your current demands for a relationship, you're good. Just don't invest that much into it because you know it's not the mother of your children, wife etc. I am very happy I am not married to the girl I was dating when I was 23. Although, she did give great head. Now, if she was a prude chick that had only slept with me, you think she'd have given such good head? 20 ye…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:37 PM
1

if you didn't make a move and show interest within minutes she'll never look twice. So true! Unless your blue pill provider aspects grow on her and she settles.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:25 PM
11

Is she 18 or 35? Big difference here and not enough info to tell. If she is 18 and is already at 20, even I would say that's a probable issue. If she's 35 and and at 20 well, what the hell would you expect?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:41 PM
3

Yes, somewhere in there is the fact that grinding away at a career is not attractive behavior at some point. Taking your wife across the globe is attractive behavior. You have to be able to work these things in.
/r/askMRP23/02/17 01:39 PM
1

I love my job too.
/r/askMRP23/02/17 01:28 PM
2

You would know better but from my experience with women... She may not have changed her mind as it wasn't set. It was in a wishy washy state. A really good book to explain this is The Way of the Superior Man. It really gets into how a man converses with a woman and how women live in the moment and on their feelings. This was probably just a feeling she got after the conversation with her friend. She would get a different feeling after talking about it with you and her dad. imo.
/r/askMRP23/02/17 01:25 PM
1

Wife said, "You were a jerk tonight." 10 minutes later she initiated sex.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:09 PM
5

For example. Wife asks "Why did you leave your keys on the kitchen table again?" Do you really need to explain why? Fuck no. This is not a question you even need to answer. Just laugh and continue with what you are doing. This is obviously a Shut the fuck answer response to a shit test but is one of the most obvious answers to clarify your question.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:08 PM
2

My wife wanted to keep her last name originally. She was in a career where the argument was strong. She kept it for less than a year before deciding it was stupid. she changed her last name to her middle name, dropping her original middle name and took my last name. It bothered me at first but I didn't say anything. I just said I didn't care. Obviously I was blue pill back then. Point is, right now your wife is toying with the idea. I believe if you said it was important to you that she take you…
/r/askMRP22/02/17 06:04 PM
2

OK. A Lot of good advice has already been given specific to Disney Cruises. So, I am going to add more about your attitude and how it will help you win this vacation. Whatever the fuck happens stay cool. You are cool and the gang. You're going to see fathers exploding over stupid shit and wives berating their husbands. But you are the guy that always keeps cool and his wife never has to engage. It's the kids vacation not yours. You are not there to hold shit for anybody or be anyone's servant. Y…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 03:55 PM
2

I would take the time to post my opinion and helpful hints but you haven't responded back to anyone else's. So, if you are not going to put the time into replying, I am not going to put the time into my reply. Good luck.
/r/askMRP20/02/17 04:44 PM
2

Great analysis. There is a snippet in the chart you referenced that is worth calling out. "...translate this plot to I.Q., and you have a world where the women think 58 percent of the men are brain damaged." Brilliant!
/r/askMRP10/02/17 09:33 PM
1

This. Smile back and maintain eye contact for a second or two.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:17 PM
1

<but I think a lot (most?) girls do notice and also do care about something like this. Because you're worried about it.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:15 PM
1

Yes, height can be a handicap. But it certainly can be overcome. No chick is going to look at a 5'7" guy and instantly swoon over him the way she would if he were 6'4" and ripped. But if he is funny, has a good looking face and dresses nice she can be snagged. It's just a matter of having to work harder for it. And if we should learn one thin in TRP it is that we must work hard for what we want.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:03 PM
1

When, while wearing clothes, people you haven't seen for a while are like "holy shit!" When while not wearing a shirt you look like that guy in your pic. But while wearing clothes that guy isn't going to stand out that much.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:00 PM
2

OK. So, I used to teach a class on sexuality and got a lot of questions on this issue. I did a lot of research and came to discover that penis size is a bell curve with a long tail going towards big/huge. Most of them being less than an inch difference. Very small ones are extremely rare but there is the tail towards large so that there are a meaningful amount of very large ones out there. Meaning that some girls, if they got lucky or saw a lot of cocks have seen very big ones. But the vast majo…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:54 PM
1

It's not a lot but cheese sticks are great for this. They don't need to be refrigerated in short time period and pack a bit of protein. Also sandwiches are good too.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:44 PM
3

Stronglifts 5x5 This is a great program for beginners to both learn and develop basic strength while spending minimal time.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 02:00 PM
1

There were thousands of other women out there having sex with men the week before you met this one. There are thousands, if not millions of women having sex every day. Women have lots of sex with men. Just not with you. Now, one of them is having sex with you. And you're pissed and confused. Go back to where they are all having sex and you're not. Would that be better?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:44 PM
2

I've finally seen the perfect answer to this question. Good job!
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:20 PM
7

why? Because Bill Clinton was attractive. Morale of the story is "Be attractive."
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 05:08 PM
1

Not a plate. but I used to have ugly girls as friends and they'd do my laundry or clean up my apartment. These girls were not for sex, although sometimes you get drunk and well you know. And that would pretty much end the relationship. Sometimes your more challenged friends would hook up with one of them. But basically, they'd just love the attention and be super helpful with shit. I don't know. it worked for me. I barely did laundry.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:43 PM
1

But it worked so well for Dawson and Joey!!!
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:32 PM
2

being showered with attention and validation from the women Excellent point!!! hey it's better than sex for some of those losers I think it's probably their best alternative to constantly trying and failing since they don't know how to get it. At some point, you can continue to get shot down and get looked at like a perv or be their friend and get some attention.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:31 PM
1

Engineering. Good Electrical Engineers are in very high demand. Accountants are a dime a dozen and in danger of being made obsolete by artificial intelligence (Automation) in the not so distant future. Think about what Turbo Tax etc. have done to the tax planning market. There is a real danger of that happening more corporately to some extent.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 03:27 PM
2

The only man you should compare yourself to is yourself yesterday. Are you better than that man? If the answer is yes, you're doing well.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:16 AM
1

you want statistics? Abortion rates skyrocketed in America when? During WWII when husbands were overseas in large numbers.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:41 PM
0

"Thanks but I have plenty of friends. Good luck and take care!"
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:39 PM
1

Have you read Androphilia by Jack Donovan?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 02:05 PM
1

No. You should approach people even though you are scared. Moving to a new school is a tremendous growth opportunity for you. Only total asssholes would be a jerk to the new kid. Get used to approaching people you don't know when you feel uncomfortable. It is a valuable life skill. Don't give a fuck. Just meet all these new people. You never know who you'l meet and what you'll learn.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:58 PM
1

I don't know what the exact message is but there has to be something we can learn from that situation. I don't think it is to move to Pakistan and get an arranged marriage, though either.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 04:07 PM
1

Just gonna throw this out there. There is a Pakistani couple on my street. By far, he is the ugliest man on the street and the fattest. His wife is a knockout. By far the hottest mom on the street. Sure, it was an arranged marriage but there has to be something in there we can learn from.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 04:00 PM
3

I am by no stretch good looking. Above average probably. So, let's call it a 6 maybe a 7 but probably not. This dude was more than a step or two below me. (talking face only). And certainly below average. So, I'd say at max a 4 before getting huge. Just a really ugly face.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:57 PM
1

I had an acquaintance in college who was a really ugly dude. He was tall though. Like 6'3". He got massively ripped. Like holy fuck ripped and started slaying pussy like you wouldn't believe. At any rate, he was terribly ugly, bad skin etc. but had a body like a greek god and it worked for him very very well.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 02:26 PM
1

You should look at Fasted Cardio and intermittent fasting Check out VitruvianPhysique on youtube. He has a lot of interesting videos on this subject - and other related ones. The short answer is hard work and discipline. 6% is really tough to get to and even harder to keep. I've never been below 9%. Even getting from 12 (where i am now) back to 9 (Where I'll be at the start of summer) is a lot of work for me.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 02:05 PM
2

“Hey. Don’t ever let somebody tell you… You can’t do something. Not even me. Alright? You got a dream… You gotta protect it. People can’t do something’ themselves, they wanna tell you you can’t do it. If you want something’, go get it. Period.”
/r/askMRP13/01/17 01:56 PM
1

Now that I am in my forties and look back at the dating advice my sister gave me I realize it was all bad advice. Don't make the same mistake I did.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:26 PM
1

I make her pay all of her student loans. I paid hers off for her in my BP days.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 10:23 PM
2

Agree. I have found that the vast majority of my fuck ups seem to be erased with time if I forge on and continue to hold frame afterwards.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 03:51 AM
1

If you look online, you will find tons of recipes for homemade protein bars. Usually using peanut butter, protein powder, almond milk, oats, greek yogurt etc. Whip up a batch or two of these on the weekend and they'll last all week. Great way to snack your way to more protein. Sometimes I may have a treat which is usually a can of diet coke and some popcorn. So with you on this one bro!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/17 02:56 PM
1

I never realized that I was fortunate to love hard boiled eggs.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/17 11:13 PM
2

Agree.
/r/askMRP08/01/17 11:10 PM
1

I didn't read the whole thing but I'll just say that I've hard nexted girls in my youth in the middle of dates and it always turned out to be just fine. I've carried my clothes out of a girl's apartment and dressed in the elevator on the way down before. It doesn't matter the reason. You wanted out. You left. It's her responsibility to keep you interested, isn't it?
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:48 PM
1

Glad you enjoyed it.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 09:08 PM
0

How can I not brace myself for a night of awkwardness? You brace yourself FOR that awkwardness and know that afterwards you will have learned. The first time I used a condom was a nightmare but that only happened once a long time ago. I learned. I moved on a bigger and more knowledgeable person. The only way to get experience is to fuck up a few times and learn. So, go fuck up and learn.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:51 PM
1

There are two ways to do something. The RIGHT way and again This is a great one!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 04:23 PM
2

If a man has a face like a 9 or a 10 it is magic. Below that it helps but is not as important as a woman. Below that, body tends to be more important. I've seen some grizzly looking mother fuckers who were jacked fuck 9s. We are talking faces of 4s. But they were 6'3", 6% body fat and built. But if you have a stellar face, you're a winner without the body as long as you aren't short. Look at actors like Jon Hamm and Kyle Chandler. Neither have good bodies but both have extremely good looking fac…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:59 PM
2

Never ever make any kind of comment that reeks of needing validation. Chances are good you nexted yourself. Bingo!
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:46 PM
3

I've known a lot of Indian men that come to America and the biggest thing I always notice is their nails are not groomed the same way American men groom their nails. This detracts SMV greatly. Trim your nails down to American standards. Slightly less important, jewelry, especially rings, are not as popular (masculine) on 18 year old men in America as they are in India. So, think about not wearing any. This next one is not as common as the nails and jewelry but make sure to shower and use deodora…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:33 PM
5

You are going to increase your SMV much faster by losing the fat over the next few months. Then build the muscle once you are no longer a fatty.
/r/askMRP21/12/16 06:29 PM
26

This happens to most people at least once. Yeah, join the fucking club. May even happen again. Can't control it.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 06:43 PM
2

Yes, if you are sick your wife will look at you as worthless. But you need to realize this is not her fault or your fault. Expect no sympathy and do what you have to do no matter how bad you feel. If you have to take 5 minutes and puke and shit, you do it. But you move on knowing that no one gives a fuck about you.
/r/askMRP19/12/16 06:36 PM
1

The Art of Manliness Dan Carlin's Hard Core History and Common Sense Planet Money
/r/askTRP16/12/16 06:09 PM
1

If you have a lot of experience with girls and 20 years of dating experience dealing with women, then this shit will hit home with answers to questions you've had for decades. In my case, it was quite quick.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 03:41 PM
15

As an executive with subordinates I like to see my people doing extra things to help people out. Taking 2 minutes out of your day to do whatever needs to be done will make you look like a team player and not lazy. The small investment of your time is highly rewarded with stronger feelings about you as a worker from the higher ups. I wouldn't give a fuck what the other ladies think of you too much. It's far more important what the higher ups think of you.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 03:37 PM
1

In the most recent Jurassic Park movie, Jurassic World. When the girl goes to meet up with the main character the wild dinasour tamer, played by Chris Pratt, she stops by his house. What is he doing? Is he fixing a computer? No he's tinkering on his motorcycle. 10,000 years ago he would have been sharpening his spear. One could argue he should be cleaning his gun but chicks aren't necessary looking for violent men to protect them from savages, they are looking for the modern equivalent. the bad …
/r/askMRP14/12/16 10:00 PM
1

So, these are good questions. We can probably agree that these are skills that construct or make something instead of passively watching something and consuming content. So, all items that build things, including content, are on a constructive spectrum. Low on the spectrum might be repairing something small and large would be building your own house. Although I am imprssed with your being able to use bitcoin miners to heat a home, it's probably lower on the spectrum. Now, something like awesome …
/r/askMRP14/12/16 06:35 PM
1

Yes, but you need to figure out what it is that you like to do that also contributes to your life. Whether that is working on motorcycles, building furniture, repairing electronics or growing vegetables in a garden. There are plenty of options. The point is that man should have hobbies that build him up and don't waste his time. It just so happens that doing things a man should do is sexy.
/r/askMRP14/12/16 02:42 PM
3

I'm really trying to figure out how I would react if my wife told me to brush my teeth. I'm at a loss here.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 07:07 PM
3

Well, we've found an issue you need to work on. A rock or an oak doesn't get knocked off kilter by something like this. I realize the first fre seconds are like a whirl wind but you have to teach yourself to remain calm. look overall, I think you did a great job. A little less butt hurt after you told her seh isn't allowed to throw shit at you. Other than that you're good. But develop that frame to the point where shit can get thrown at you and you remain calm.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 07:04 PM
1

That doesn't even make sense ! Oh so women make sense now? I didn't get that memo.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 02:54 PM
2

This is actually not going to work. I know it seems logical but in actuality super short girls tend to try to make up for their lack of height by dating taller guys. He'll have more success going for slightly below average girls (5'2" to 5'4")
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 04:56 AM
1

slightly above average isn't going to cut it. Luckily, you can increase your looks by becoming a jacked low body fat god. So, go do that.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 04:43 AM
1

If you have a boss, start with trying to do everything you can to make his job easier. Then read the stuff mentioned by others.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 04:41 AM
10

I found TRP when my fiancé was cheating and it really helped. I rebuilt my life and moved in with a new lady What in the actual fuck?
/r/askTRP10/12/16 04:39 AM
1

Change your post title to ex-girlfriend and post back regarding the awesome sex you just had with your new 1st plate.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 04:38 AM
1

I'm like 90% sure that if I tried to have a conversation like this over text my wife would either A) ignore the entire fucking thing B) Tell me to shove my phone up my ass or c) give me a list of chores to take care of since I obviously have a shit ton of free time I don't know what to do with.
/r/askMRP10/12/16 04:37 AM
1

I don't know. Good question. Are you referring to the adage that tall kids get given basketballs at early ages so they are more apt to be better basketball players? I do think that we learn from our experiences. So, succeeding when behind once can make you push harder 100s of times in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 07:36 PM
1

...watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 06:51 PM
1

As usual, I put this immediately into perspective of my football career. Simply being white I was often underestimated. Being smaller than everyone else on the team was often a cause of me being underestimated. I'm not sure this made me more gritty as I was already 18 when I got to college but having grit helped.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 06:50 PM
1

I was the one joking.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 06:38 PM
1

Yeah, I'm downvoting.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 06:29 PM
1

Being underestimated and triumphing is a chance to showcase your grit. If you are proving something to yourself, all the better. Not rolling over or letting whatever it was that caused the underestimation to be the excuse is the grit. Grit is overcoming external challenges as well as internal ones.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 06:28 PM
2

I have to say that although my old man did do a good job of instilling grit into me, it was innate. He helped me understand when I was being gritty and why that was important and helped cultivate it. But I believe it was a never say die attitude I just had. So, he helped cultivate it by making me aware of it and throwing challenges at me. For example, he never let me win at anything. I lost so many games of chess and backgammon to that man but he was always willing to play me again and again. He…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 06:25 PM
3

I'd throw Trading Places in there somewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 10:15 PM
1

If it's something you feel you have to do every day, it's probably a problem. By problem I mean it is distracting you from other things that would benefit you. Too much fapping will lower your sex drive and you'll be less inclined to try to meet women. Too much video gaming and you'll miss out on opportunities to go out, meet people, read, work on other hobbies etc.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 02:47 PM
1

Last night I just patted her on the butt and said "we'll try another time then" and got up and took a shower. I see this alot. Is it not a generally bad idea to try to have sex when you are dirty? Shouldn't we be initiating when we are clean?
/r/askMRP07/12/16 02:42 PM
3

You do get it. You're examples are areas where you are having difficulty holding frame. So, this tells me you get it. It sounds like your issue is how to hold frame in a difficult situation. The answer is have some canned responses and practice them. For example. someone says: "you're short." You say: "And you're observant." Situation is diffused and you've held frame. btw, I grew like 4 inches between 16 and 18.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 03:51 PM
1

Ugh. Yes. I cringe during the commercials knowing some crazy BP ad is coming.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 12:33 AM
1

Should you avoid mentioning that you care about the environment, or workers rights, or animal welfare or whatever? Yes. However, tell her you just got back from 2 years in the Peace Corps and watch her panties drop! Acta non verba. "I believe in peace and world peace" translates to I'm a beta fuck. I just got back from the middle of fucking no place where I was building schools for starving children while eating bugs for the past two years sound alpha.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:33 PM
1

The Oikos triple zero that you are eating is one of the best as it's super low in sugar and high in protein at about a dollar a serving. It was recommended to me by my nutritionist as a good source of protein in the mornings. It's what I eat for breakfast most days, with half a banana and a tablespoon of that high protein granola. On days when I don't eat it for breakfast, I have it as a snack in the afternoon. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:25 PM
2

In my forties I can look back and say that I have regrets regarding things I didn't do and no regrets about the things I did do. So, simplest answer is to "Just do it." Hmm.. I think I heard that somewhere before......
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:11 PM
1

I agree with you and upvvoted. But there is one interesting point to this that I still can't come to full grips with. Arguing back is more beta - as can be seen in Law 9. Just letting her think whatever is a step in the right direction. You've recognized the insanity but have no way to fix it (if you've not discovered TRP) Granted, one step up a flight of stairs doesn't get you very far. So, is it a recognition that somethings wrong. Seeing that all is not right in the BP world but not knowing a…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:06 PM
1

When I met my wife I told her straight-up that I don't ever want to hear any details about her prior sex life. I'm never going to ask because I don't want to know. All I care about is our sex life. Same. Seems to have worked fine.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 06:51 PM
1

I would agree that it takes time and some money to look put together - Hair etc. But it takes effort not money to put on a nice pair of jeans and a turtle neck sweater instead of yoga pants and a sweatshirt. The Kim Kardashian look isn't it either because it is too flashy/costly for anyone with good economic sense. No man of worth should want to support that habit. Men can't tell the difference between a $200 purse and a $1,000 purse. But if they know you buy $1,000 purses they view that as a wa…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 02:22 PM
1

I don't know if you can really find this exact person with all these requirements. This describes my wife and most of the mothers that live in my town. I do live in a wealthy suburb. It's actually amazing how few 40 and 50 something overweight woman live in my town/area. If you drive 15 minutes away, it's quite a contrast.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 03:15 PM
1

It's amazing how fast you lose exact syntax. But after coding for 10+ years and staying technical afterwards, I can figure out any problem in any language. I may have to google the syntax of a function I want but I can piece it together. I usually try to code something every year - whether it's for work or at home.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 03:14 PM
6

Uhm. In case you didn't' realize it. this girls sounds like complete trash and you can do better very easily.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 07:14 PM
1

I knew I was ready for management after 10 years when my focus was less on coding and more on ensuring the projects went well and pitfalls were avoided. I was steering things and kind of managing the projects. Upper management realized this and tapped me for my first manager gig. hope that helps.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 07:10 PM
1

First post in RPW. I'm someone that fits the bill described... roughly $200K/yr salary male. Most importantly, a woman should convey a certain amount of class equal to or above my status. She should be able to throw a dinner party, be outgoing at a social event. Know how to wear a dress and when not to wear one. Be able to hide her tattoos when decorum deems it inappropriate. Dress well but not spend a ton of money to do so. Her elegance should enable her to wear nice clothes and not need fancy …
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 06:52 PM
0

"So you're off your diet now?" I got the same shit this week being Thanksgiving. I also hurt my shoulder so took the week off of lifting upper body. Got a few words about it. I wouldn't take it to heart. I also have lost a crap ton of weight since starting TRP almost 2 years ago and am just in maintenance mode now. As for adding protein, I had to do this. Greek yogurt and cheese sticks are a great way to just get a few extra grams in. GL and keep it up buddy!
/r/askMRP30/11/16 05:43 PM
1

They vary. I'm usually in the office by 8:30 and leave anywhere between 6 and 6:30. I work out during lunch 3 or 4 times a week. So, my lunch break is pretty long. I can sometimes be on the phone after hours or on weekends but it is rare. When I was a coder, I worked more, sometimes one day over a weekend and sometimes late at night during the week. But not often.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:10 PM
5

Absolutely happy, because software development is my passion. X2 Spent a few years doing that before moving into management. Now, I supervise software development teams.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 02:44 PM
18

Mid forties. I lift regularly and stay lean. At my pool in the summer I have the best body there hands down. Even the teenage life guards. Sure, there are some things I can no longer do but it is minimal. The wife definitely appreciates that her husband is a built, lean successful dude.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:40 AM
1

I know many people who did 6 years of military service then went to college. They are doing fine and in their 40s there is no discernible difference between them and others who went straight to college. The factory experience is experience and will give you a small leg up upon graduation. Especially should help with getting internships which are the key to catapulting your success upon graduation.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:34 AM
1

Thanks for taking the time to answer. Mostly just trying to add some specific perspective to the overall conversation of this thread.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:23 PM
1

ok. So, lets say again, you break up with her for whatever reason or she dumps you. You meet a next girl and she is just as awesome as this one. Are you going to ask the next girl about her past?
/r/askTRP29/11/16 08:17 PM
0

I am not in the majority on this but I am a fan of the don't ask don't tell rule.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 07:31 PM
1

Ok. Here is my honest question about this. If you break up with her, for whatever reason. Is she no longer a quality woman to the next guy because of all the things she did with you?
/r/askTRP29/11/16 07:28 PM
2

So, I'm going to recommend a book ... again. The Charisma Myth. It will help you understand how you can act in a way that will be more charismatic and help you understand what parts of your personality detract from your relationships. It gives anecdotes and exercises to work through.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:15 PM
2

The Charisma Myth is an excellent book. It explains what true charisma is and gives specific exercises to help build it.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:12 PM
1

This whole TRP thing... it's kind of based on your experience and puts an explanation out there for you. You must read the sidebar and understand that you didn't do everything right. You did everything wrong.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:09 PM
3

I'm not going to pretend to know anything about being black. Hopefully others can help you with that. My guess is that being a freshman doesn't help. At least it didn't when I was in school. Depends on where you go to school. Smaller liberal arts colleges are going to have a larger social stigma against underclassmen. 5'11" 150 is pretty skinny though. I get that if you run long distance you aren't going to help it but you certainly should be lifting now to get some muscle and some sense of a mo…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:05 PM
2

Most people won't judge you. Some will. Not a coincidence that the ones that judge are the assholes. There are assholes everywhere. You can't get around it. So, there will be assholes at the gym who will judge. But, you can't go around living your life based on what assholes will say or do. There will be nice and helpful people there too. Probably significantly more of them than of the assholes.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:10 PM
11

"I have to go find my friends" = I'm not into you. Really nothing you can do. Do you lift? Are you thin (low body fat)? Are you attractive compared to the other guys at the party? Have you built up your reputation as a leader, jock, someone to be in awe of? Do you come off as a thirsty beta who will sleep with any girl at the party that is willing?
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:01 PM
1

Bent over rows, Overhead dumbbell press, and bench should be switched to barbell instead of dumbbell. You can add dead lifts to Tuesday if you have a barbell. Let me know if you have any questions.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 02:56 PM
1

You should really join a gym or at least get a barbell and a few hundred pounds of weights. Moving on This is about the best I can come up with using only a bench and dumbbells and assumes you have some heavy dumbbells. Do 3 sets of 8 to 12 reps. Monday. Start with Dumbbell bench Squats while holding dumbells Flys Incline bench press if your bench inclines. Skull crushers. Tuesday Overhead dumbbell press Lateral Raises Bent over rows Curls Pullups. Google a few core exercises for your abs. Wedne…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 06:46 PM
1

but you have to text something back. No. No you don't!! That's the most liberating point of WISNIFG. My grandfather was a master at this. I went 40 plus years not knowing why he ignored my grandmother sometimes. It wasn't until I read that book last year I understood.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 06:34 PM
1

Bears repeating. TEXT IS FOR LOGISTICS.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 06:32 PM
1

Nothing that bad but oh brother. I'll let you wet your beak though with one small sample. I did put together and present a lecture to a group of women about Feminism and Eugenics because the person who suggested it had big boobs. Didn't get any action but boy did all those women think I was sharp.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 02:04 PM
3

So, I may have found the perfect gift for my wife for Christmas this year. She is a very good cook and a big Ina Garter fan (The Barefoot Contessa). Anywho, her newest book is titled Cooking for Jeffrey. Jeffrey is her husband. So, I just think buying my wife a cook book by one of her favorite chefs in which that book is about her cooking meals her husband enjoys is classic. It's a win win for both of us. Some great new ideas of things I'll probably love. What could possibly go wrong?
/r/askMRP23/11/16 08:54 PM
1

This was the best reply in the thread. hah!!
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:41 PM
1

Wait what? This sounds interesting. You've peaked my interest and will pursue reading up on this.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:37 PM
1

I took the time to find someone who agrees with me on this. Although I don't entirely agree that it's entirely just religious. I took the time to read the entire article and it's mostly not about transgender. I've met very impressive female to male transgender people that are accomplishing more than I had at their age. I believe them that there is something different in their wiring and that is how they perceive themselves, gender and their sexuality. Maybe it's a flaw, an abnormality or whateve…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:36 PM
3

After swallowing the red pill, it is amazing how badly I fell for this trap back in my adult blue pill mode. If I told you the things I did you wouldn't fucking believe me.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:19 PM
2

Theater does not have to be blue pill. Slight variant from Theater to Orchestra here... The Amazon original show Mozart's Jungle has a very Alpha character as the maestro. You can see Positive Masculinity oozing from this character and the women gobble it up.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 01:53 PM
1

but I really need to work on the social aspect of my life and I have to start asap. Agree. And that was where I was going with some easy wins like joining a meetup group and just doing something with people that you don't know. It's a good easy start. Good luck!
/r/askTRP22/11/16 01:43 PM
1

I totally get where you are coming from and agree on most points. But I do think that eventually marrying and having your fun now are both totally possible and not mutually exclusive. Secondly, marrying and being the beta bux guy is what definitely would have happened to you IF you hadn't discovered the red pill. You can certainly find a 23-25 year old snowflake then. However, that will take some work from you to become something she would deem of high enough value. And the key to getting there …
/r/askTRP21/11/16 05:15 PM
1

Checking back in on this thread. Well, I didn't meet my wife until she was 30. That gave her a lot of time to tramp around but also time to mellow out. Which in the end is probably good for me. Unless I'm married to an alpha widow which is entirely possible. But as a 40 something executive with a good body that puts me ahead of over 90% of my competition. So, that is where you should aim for on your journey. Look, if you want to eventually get married and have kids (Not saying I recommend this b…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 04:22 PM
2

Truth be told, I was out of shape until I discovered TRP. :)
/r/askTRP20/11/16 07:33 PM
-1

I'm wealthy and built like an underwear model in my mid forties. Fuck off!
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:23 PM
1

It's like putting a bow on it. It can definitely enhance things. Especially a nice push up bra etc. Golden rule: If it's what you like and it's consensual, it's fine.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:22 PM
9

She was making a joke but at the heart of it is the truth. Which is exactly what you said and the main idea of this thread. If I was taller I would have more value and I could have landed a higher value woman. In turn, yes, she obviously values height and would value me more if I was taller. Or all other things being equal would value another man, who was taller, higher than me.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:44 PM
20

This reminds me of a conversation I had with my wife a few weeks ago. For background. i am 5'10" (very average height) and I played division 1-AA football. Almost made it to Div 1. Constantly heard too small.... etc. I don't remember what brought it up but the quip went like this... Me: Oh man if I were over 6 feet tall... Her: You would have married better? That's it boys. Straight from the horse's mouth.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 08:27 PM
1

there is a lightness in my house. I get this. It's hard to describe but without you reacting poorly to her shit tests, they mellow out a bit or something. She becomes less bitchy in general. good job.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 06:22 PM
1

this may sound preachy but I teach a class to kids on sex education and we cover this. Basically, I teach both the girls and the boys that carrying a condom is responsible. It's the same reason I have a fire extinguisher in my house. For protection. Carrying it in your wallet is not considered a good way to ensure the integrity of the device. Always check the expiration date of a condom before using it and open it carefully when you are using it so as to not tear it open. If you've never used on…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 12:55 AM
1

I loved it when a 20 something at work asked me to put together a program for her boyfriend. Bwahah!!!
/r/askMRP18/11/16 12:48 AM
1

I rotate 3 or 4 eggs and one piece of toast or on a low carb wrap one day and greek yogurt with half a banana the next. It works for me and it worked when I was cutting.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:17 PM
4

STFU goes along with the teachings from When I say no I feel guilty. Key point is you do not need to answer a question you do not want to. Example.... Her: Why is the milk still out? You don't have to rationalize why the milk is still out. You don't' have to answer that shit. If you are strong enough to make a joke about licking milk off of the next door neighbor's tits, then go for it. But in the beginning when shit tests like this are just flying. You STFU and build frame.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 07:53 PM
1

awesome. The book, The Godfather is incredible. My father told me that when it came out, everyone read it. If you were on the subway in NYC in 1969, you would see 10 people reading it at the same time.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 03:38 AM
1

The Alienist by Caleb Carr Old Man's War by John Scalzi Matterhorn by Karl Marlantes Fight Club by Chuck Palahniuk The Martian by Andy Weir The Godfather by Mario Puzo The Last Kingdom by Bernard Cornwell Although non fiction With the Old Breed by Eugene Sledge is what the HBO miniseries The Pacific was mostly based on.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 12:49 AM
1

Have been to restaurants with a guy friend, but usually don't socialize with anyone else besides him to be honest. That's fine. Keep doing it and expand to larger numbers of people. Be the guy that coordinates monthly nights out with a group of people. Start including more people. This is just practice being social and developing some social cred. After a while you can flip this into how to meet women. It will happens sooner than you think but it's a necessary first step. Really this is mostly a…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 10:57 PM
1

I'm a software dev too. Somehow, I knew. It seems most people start with the stoics begins with Seneca's Letters from a Stoic. I believe I started with Meditations, by the Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius Something written in this millennium that may be easier to grasp is The Obstacle Is The Way. I have been eyeing The Subtle Art Of Not Giving a Fuck. Don't start with Bars alone. Yuck. Although I would recommend going to a bar or restaurant with one or two guy friends if you don't do that often. Bu…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 09:31 PM
3

Wow. This is exactly what I was going to say. Well put man!
/r/askTRP14/11/16 08:34 PM
1

Tough since I don't know you or what you are into. Name a few books/movies you've liked and I'll see if I can come up with anything based on that.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 08:32 PM
1

So much advice to give here. I'll try to take it bite by bite. For reference I'm a 40 something married man with 4 kids. I've straddled the jock and nerd world my whole life. Think software developer/gamer/football player. I was also once a 27 year old single man spending too much time playing video games. So, here goes... At 27, you still have LOTS of time to make up for what you've missed out on up to now. I have a career that I enjoy and make good money. Congrats. You are probably better off …
/r/askTRP14/11/16 08:30 PM
1

I often see people stating they read one fiction book then one non fiction book. Then back to fictin then non fiction. repeat.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 08:02 PM
1

The best reply I saw to this was "Don't move to Canada. Move to a swing state." Clever.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 02:43 PM
1

He is also referenced constantly in books regarding charisma and how he makes you feel like the most important person in the room.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 02:42 PM
2

I saw one great reply from a woman when asked "How can you, as a woman, vote for Trump after the things he has said about women." Her response was... "Women say worse things about men."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/16 01:45 PM
1

The Art of Manliness
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 09:12 PM
1

Practice. You can start with jokes. Just read jokes, try to memorize them and tell them to your friends. You'll get better at improvising and acting.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 06:28 PM
4

If he is trying to see how long they can go without sex, I think it will work.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 09:00 PM
5

What is your opinion on this? Her friends that perceive her as higher SMV than them will want to fuck you. Her friends that perceive her as lower SMV than them will not want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:51 PM
1

You don't answer these questions. No one needs to know your personal business and if they are asking, they are over stepping some bounds. Now, if they are your sexual partner, one could argue they have a right to know. But otherwise, they don't. Make a joke about it and move on. And as we all know, dick jokes are the easiest to make.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:05 PM
1

Yes, yes and yes. This is what they are looking for.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:02 PM
1

I get what you are saying and when you are down in the slump sometimes a little bit of anything can help you get back out there. Just know that next time there is no excuse.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:48 PM
2

I heard it in high school back in the mid 80s.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:46 PM
2

You do not owe them an explanation. If you have not read "When I say no, I feel guilty", go read it. It explains that you do not have to answer questions you don't want to answer and shows you how. It's basically a great book on how to be assertive.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:44 PM
9

2 besties sharing an alpha ..... So when you approach a woman, online, out in the street, at a coffee shop and she's giving you a hard time giving you her number, or is playing games and messing with you, or she demands a dinner before anything can "develop", think really hard about that. Think about it. Because if you were alpha she'd share you with a friend. But since your not, she wants a dinner to consider you as a possible servant. Nice reality when you stop and think about it. Isn't it. AW…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 05:40 PM
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I think the cheerfulness is probably an asset and there is something else holding you back from achieving the level of success you desire. If you can come off as a happy awesome dude and anyone who comes along for the ride will be awesomely happy BUT that not just anyone can join you because you're not willing to be pulled down, then you're onto something.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:20 PM
2

Hmmm... I once had an interesting conversation with a girl who was a film major. The only person I've ever talked to about movies who knew more than me and I learned something from. Now, almost 20 years later.... yeah, that was the one time.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:14 PM
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If shes like my HS sweetheart she will friend request you on social media when you around 30ish and you can laugh at how time has crushed her into looking like a saggy leathered faced skank lol I actually get more joy at seeing what bloated fucks they ended up marrying. But you've got a point too!
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:12 PM
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First of all, the human male hits his physical peak, on average, at age 27. You're not there yet. Make that peak HIGH when you get there. Mentally, it's early 50s. So, you're still growing and maturing and becoming a better version of you. Secondly, high school girlfriend who wants to move on is an old old story. Sorry, but many of us older chaps have seen this story a hundred times. It hurts. It sucks. It's inevitable. This is your chance to break away and indulge yourself in embracing the red …
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:08 PM
2

I could start learning to play guitar, my dad is a passionate guitarist so he's probably go out of his way to help me out. Start here and now. It will increase your SMV and make your dad happy. Next is to start doing 100 pushups a day. 20 at a time 5 times a day. You'll eventually need to start lifting but this is a good start. Look into body weight exercises. Do you have a school gym? After you've been learning guitar with your dad and have some success, ask him to help with a gym membership an…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:54 PM
1

The first choreplay for blow job offer after being unplugged is a difficult thing to handle. I remember. I did go the other route. I am not sure if it helped. If it had hindered, I'd know. I remember this circumstance as quite a conundrum.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 07:05 PM
1

It's only after they get cheated on, the shit tests pile up, or some other reality shaking event makes them aware they might be living a lie do they start to get unhappy and seek the truth. It can be more subtle but yes, there were many years of "bliss" other than me not getting laid as much as I wanted to. Then, I started to notice things. A shakier ground. There was nothing earth shattering but I could tell things were not as I suspected. I believe now, I noticed her wandering eye. Not sure if…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 05:46 PM
2

All true. But I have to give my sister props for saying I looked really good this summer instead of puking her shit stream on me. Other than that, it's been similar to what you describe. My mom thought I was sick. Like why are you losing so much weight are you sick? Have you seen a doctor?
/r/askTRP24/10/16 12:35 AM
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OK. Ready for this. I discovered this shit almost two years ago at age 42, married with 4 kids. It hurt a fuck ton. Total reality check. BUT, I was able to reprogram myself. Dropped 40 pounds of fat and have been lifting ever since. I'm ripped, doing awesome shit and having a ball. The wife is happier too because I'm not a blue pill loser anymore. I'm not the only married 40 something in here. If we can do it at 42, you can totally change your entire life if you're only 22. You've probably been …
/r/askTRP24/10/16 12:33 AM
1

First, don't call it a date night. You'll make her feel old. I like places with live music and some dancing. Women like to dance and like men who aren't afraid to dance. You don't have to go salsa dancing, you can dance to some 80's cover band and be fine. Comedy clubs are, as stated below, gold. I recently went out with my wife and another couple to dinner and after dinner, around 10:00 went to a bar to see a live band and dance. Great evening, filled with dinner and laughing with friends and t…
/r/askMRP24/10/16 12:20 AM
2

Hmm... If my wife was that wasted at a fundraiser I probably would have banged her in a coat closet.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 12:15 AM
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For what it is worth, I wouldn't put up with this and if my wife was doing this and especially if I didn't have kids, I'd be working on an exit strategy. Raising your SMV, Getting the finances in order, get more social, more outgoing, more awesome. Buy a motorcycle. Once your SMV is better, your attorney has your ducks in a row and you're ready to be on your own, leave.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 12:12 AM
2

Have you read Married Mans sex life primer?
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:07 PM
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"The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary." v. Lombardi
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:11 PM
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I agree. At this point, he is probably in too far to worm his way out. His best course of action is to see what sh does. Use it as a test of of both the her and him. Will she and if she does will he?
/r/askMRP19/10/16 08:01 PM
3

I hate to say it but this is what I was thinking too.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 07:51 PM
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yup. Isn't it amazing. Ugh. To think that we were simply brought up to believe we were equal. Share the responsibility. That will maker her and you happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 05:35 PM
1

20 minutes is a long time to meditate at the beginning. Break it down to smaller chunks. You listen to music too much and should slowly work in some other, more beneficial types, of recreational activity that will improve you as a man. Like books on tape etc.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:22 PM
1

Shouldn't there be an 'if' at the beginning of each of those maxims?
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:19 PM
1

Like a man You can act like a man!
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:17 PM
1

My wife was doing a very good job with the faniances and I was happy to let her do it. But until I swallowed the red pill, I didn't realize that it was my job, she didn't want to do it and was only picking up the slack where I left off. So, I took it back over and have been taking care of it. She didn't want to at first but eventually was very happy that I did it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 05:13 PM
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He did it this way because of the situation. Do you have the same situation he was in? Wife controls the accounts but does it well and doesn't spend too much money. Then the issue is just getting back so you can be in control and not her. You don't have to be draconian if she isn't abusing the privilege. but you need to get control.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 01:46 PM
1

Thanks. You have to tread lightly at first and gradually sprinkle alpha while taking away beta. Gradually, you'll be the prize. I think it wasn't until I read and embraced when I say no I feel guilty that shit started to turn around.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:35 PM
1

Four daughters aged 8 to 14. It's not that black and white. It's some where in the middle as is all polarizing questions. I want them to live a rich and rewarding life. If they choose to have a male partner, they should have the skills they need to attract a strong man that will provide for them and keep them happy in all matters. Part of that is the confidence that they can achieve that. Their entire life shouldn't be centered on this and they have to know how to live life for themselves on the…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:52 PM
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I've always been the type of person who could fix things in my life. Change things for the better. Do some research, apply changes and see results. At some point in time, 13 or 14 years into a marriage with 4 kids in my early 40s, I felt something wasn't right with my marriage. It wasn't what I expected, deserved, thought I would be getting out of it. I tried to fix it. I was more attentive, did more house work, tried to help out around the house and listen to my wife and do what she asked. This…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 01:32 PM
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looking to find something I enjoy and gives me free time to pursue my intrests. Then do that. Doing something you love is the best way to enjoy your life. Do it and do it well and not half assed!
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:20 PM
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You are a very busy awesome alpha male who doesn't have time for this chick who treated you below your standards. Embrace that. move on. If she is willing to make it completely convenient for you, then you might have time. But going out of your way to show her what she's lost isn't going to do much for you.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:18 PM
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This is really the the crux of the matter. If it's your only supply of pussy then you can't develop an abundance mentality. You need to get more pussy to develop it. It's that simple. Even if you're not fucking multiple chicks, have multiple chicks you're talking to on a daily basis. I'll talk to old ladies in the super market if I feel I'm running low on female interaction that day. I'll drive my kids to play dates so I can lightly flirt with the other mom. Not trying to do anything but interac…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:16 PM
1

Nothing wrong with this.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 05:59 PM
1

brilliant.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 05:59 PM
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As a person who has worked hard to have visible abs it's almost entirely diet. You must exercise to have muscle tone in your body. There is no exercise way to remove fat from a specific part of your body. You have to work at not eating and lose weight (fat).
/r/askTRP14/10/16 05:58 PM
1

Actually there is an actual answer to your question and it is simple. Smile more. A few times during an interview just pause and smile and you'll change the perception people have of you. You'll very quickly realize when a good time to smile is. It's an uncommon interview trick that many people know but isn't widespread.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 05:56 PM
1

Totally agree. I believed OP was hinting that he wanted to settle down etc. as you were stating.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 01:27 PM
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yup. And they think the average man is over 6' tall and has a 7 inch cock.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 06:07 PM
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Yes, yes and yes. This is exactly the issue. Except here it's probably 90/10 split. So go fucking lift!
/r/askTRP13/10/16 06:06 PM
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I don't want to lonely and/or cruising for chicks in my 50s+, it would be easier just to have someone at home. I know many men who married in late 20s/ early 30s and are now doing this because their someone at home left them and took all the money and kids.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 06:03 PM
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It's around 5.5" and it's a bell curve meaning most are very close to the average. Something like 80% of all dicks are within an inch of each other.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:27 PM
1

I agree!
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:08 PM
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If a chick says this shit in front of other people, the go to reply is. "Who brought their little sister here?" A&A is agree and amplify. You agree with the statement and throw a joke back at her. Example... "Are you even old enough to be in here? Lol" Response: "No, but I just needed a place to change my diaper." Or "Shut up and help me find my pacifier." or "Of course not, but I'm hungry and heard this was a good place to find a women to breast feed me."
/r/askTRP07/10/16 02:03 PM
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You should not have any problems with girls within an inch or two of your height unless you are out of your league in other ways. I'd aim for girls just slightly under your height. They aren't "short girls" so they shouldn't have any issues with height. My wife is tall and I'm average height. Even then, I do get some shit from her now and again. She is about 2 or 3 inches shorter than I am give or take. If she has on high heels, which is often, we are the same height when my shoes are off. You h…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 01:55 PM
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Girls shorter than that don't even think I exist for some reason. Short girls try to make up for their height by only dating very tall guys. I'm average height and have noticed this across my dating life. You'd think short girls would be a good target area for you but somehow it just isn't. Wierd right? not weird totally explainable by AWALT.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:19 PM
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Fixed and thanks.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 08:41 PM
1

This was a great reply. Good work!
/r/askMRP28/09/16 05:08 PM
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You, by your own self admission, got married so you could be boring and laid simultaneously. This is the Disney fantasy. This is what you OP need to fully embrace. Same reason I am here. You have an icky feeling. You are sensing something isn't as it is supposed to be. Everything you are feeling is something we have felt. We've been there. You on the other hand have been getting less and less attractive to her every day for a while now. You need to turn it around. Many of us have successfully do…
/r/askMRP28/09/16 05:06 PM
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Any one else's wife had a similar complaint when they were cutting? Yes. I'm still at the same bf%. 9% She got used to it or decided it wasn't worth complaining about it anymore. It wasn't when she was on top though. It was regular missionary when she said something.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 04:58 PM
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I plan to revamp the wardrobe following my cutting phase at the gym this winter Good plan. I made the mistake of buying new clothes when I went down a size then I went down again and all those clothes are now too big. That's what happens when you go from size 36 to 31 pants.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 04:51 PM
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You need to get yourself in the position where it is obvious that the 5% is your target range. The wife needs to think that you are capable of landing one of the 5% women that you would fuck.
/r/askMRP07/09/16 01:18 PM
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Good example. Entertaining and educational. Me like that. Thanks for contributing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 05:55 PM
1

I'm 5'10" 167 as of this morning. I look good damn good.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 01:16 PM
2

"If you're a high enough value man, there is nothing a woman won't do for you" ..... On the other hand, getting a woman to this state in the relationship is an incredible boost to you as a man. This is the meaning of the post. I think the first part hits the nail on the head but the second part wasn't delivered to full effect. The point to be made is that when you are owning your shit and RP your wife will take up a feminine complementary role. This will make the family unit stronger. I don't th…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 01:10 PM
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I'll give you my personal thoughts on a count of 23 for a 32 year old woman. That's low! figure she's been sexually active since 15. That's 17 years. That is less than 2 per year. The issue is now it isn't as abstract anymore. The names are real and in your head. Will you ever be able to truely get over this? probably not. Should it ruin your relationship if nothing else is the matter? No! I think the fact that she has kept that is a little troubling. All of the other items you've mentioned are …
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:49 PM
2

Have you thought about completing 2 years in the CC and transferring to a 4 year school? You will get the "college experience" then. It will be a little different and shorter but after two years of CC you'll probably be able to get into a much better school and with only 2 years of tuition to pay, you'll be in less debt.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:13 PM
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The type of person who participates well in this sub is the type of person who will do well in the work world. So, it's no surprise to me, that we tend to make more than average. Advice is not to look for the short term high dollars but to look for the max in any field. Start at the bottom, or where ever you can get a foot hold, and climb towards that goal. I make $180K before bonuses. Other than nicer vacations and a bigger house, I live like I did when I made $48K right out of college. Save fi…
/r/askMRP25/08/16 05:15 PM
2

She hasn't cheated on you... yet.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:31 PM
2

I can't attest to the gay but that is also all I use + one spritz of cologne and shave soap in a bowl.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:29 PM
1

I gave her a wheat ale with a slice of lemon but left a seed in it unintentionally. She picked it out and put it into my glass. I laughed and said oops. When I drank the seed I turned to her and spit it out at her. She laughed instead of getting pissed like she would have 2 years ago.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:22 PM
1

Zardoz I just googled it and I am baffled that I had never heard of that movie.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 11:07 PM
1

That and going back to the gym and leaning out helps. Agree, When I am constantly the best built man in the room, gym, store, on the beach or wherever, there is an undeniable advantage. OK. Not always the best built guy in the gym.... yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 06:41 PM
1

Did I just witness a War Games Quote? Wow!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 06:16 PM
2

It's amazing how much respect I get grocery shopping or anything else now that I am fit again. Perhaps it's just my confidence or their perceptions. But 40-50 year old women regularly engage with me rather than ignore me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 06:12 PM
1

My wife found my stuff on kindle after a few months of unplugging. Found NMMNG and WISNIFG and MMSLP on there. Read through a few pages of one of them at least to see what the fuck it was. I was confronted in a very easy going manner. My reply is documented on here in a post somewhere. For websites, I have been using incognito mode etc.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 04:18 PM
1

Yup. My initial thought was to go read The Way of teh Superior Man. I think you are searching for answers that this book and only this book directly answers.
/r/askMRP03/08/16 05:28 PM
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yup. And unless we want to build a time machine and get there first, there isn't anything I could/should do other than enjoy it to the best of my ability. AND increase my ability to enjoy it. Additionally, if I had a time machine, this would probably not be anywhere near the top of the list of things to do with it. HAH!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/16 05:40 PM
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I agree. I have no idea what my wife's n count is but I assume it's higher than mine. Why? Because she's hot and I met her when she was 30 and never married. She married a beta buck (me) but I'm doing something about it. Owning the situation and improving myself. I'm not settling, I'm improving. So, I agree with you and am one of the folks working it instead of complaining.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 05:40 PM
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I'm in the minority here thinking that n-count is private and knowing it will only put doubts and fears into your head that won't help you in any way. Does it help determine if a girl's a slut hoebag that will fuck you over in the end? No! You run a high chance of this happening anyway if you're a beta chode. If you're alpha as fuck, you have a better chance of keeping any girl. Also, I have to believe that 100+ is a very high number for a girl that has been sexually active for 5 to 10 years. So…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 01:20 PM
3

I had a post on here a while back about a real life experience I had where 50 22ish year olds were put together for 3 months. Half were male and the other half female. The hottest 3 guys banged most of the chicks while the next 4 or 5 had a fling with one or two girls and the other 15 to 20 guys or so got nothing. The decent looking 5 or 6 girls banged all of the 3 hot guys. Seriously they all banged all of the hot guys. This was a sad eye opener and it was 20 years ago. Pareto for the win.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 10:10 PM
2

I was 230 in January with 16% BF, but now I am 270 and 11% BF. Is this humanly possible? You put on 40 pounds of muscle and lost fat in 6 months? That's more than a pound of muscle a week. And was that brown rice or white?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 09:48 PM
1

My neighbor uses fuck tard a lot. I can't help but laugh every time he uses it. I know it's wrong but I can't stop... I'm smirking a little just thinking about it. Maybe it's like why I like dead baby jokes so much. es ist verboten
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 05:45 PM
1

the entire time I'm just thinking "holy fuck, this all makes so much sense, how the hell have I been so blind!?" Yup. Been exactly there. Throw in a mother fucker and you have my exact reaction while reading it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 05:35 PM
1

I can clearly remember the first offer for a BJ in return for a favor I got from my wife after unplugging. It was a very confusing "opportunity". You recognized it, acted in a new manner and are sharing it and looking at ways to improve your actions for next time. Strong work for now. for now.....
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 05:32 PM
1

If you watch Game of Thrones, you get used to people calling each other cunts every other sentence. It's as common as "uhm".
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 05:27 PM
2

Yup, it's such a great word until your niece rides a short bus to school. Then the word evaporates from your vernacular.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 05:26 PM
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Also, some of the really good literature we pass around here are written by homosexual men. So, it makes little sense to me. Edit - Why we use the F word derogatorily past middle school.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 05:23 PM
0

You really can't do anything except know that the list of awesome people that have gone through what you are going to go through is very long and distinguished. This goes back in time for quite a while and most of us didn't have reddit to let us know this. You're an over anxious teenager trying to lose his virginity and has anxiety about it. See any one of hundreds of movies made about this issue. If I had to give you an answer that may eventually help I'd say relax and enjoy whatever happens. T…
/r/askTRP20/06/16 02:54 PM
1

Why may advice may help you I'm 45 years old and have lost 40 pounds and put on significant muscle since unplugging a year ago. Most of the weight loss came in the first few months. I work at a desk too. I now weigh 169 pounds and am 5'10" tall. I worked with a nutritionist (Who lifts heavy herself and was a former personal trainer). I told her my goal was to lose fat and gain muscle. What I did/ still do Fasted Cardio 4x a week. This means first thing I do when I wake up is go for a walk. 2 mil…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 02:34 PM
1

I've cut contact with other girls simply because she seems LTR-worthy and I'm willing to give it a try. Unfortunately, this is what we believe we as good guys should do being brought up all nice and fair and shit. Unfortunately, this is not a very good strategy for you. The intrigue is gone. you are a thirsty beta looking for a drink from the only well in town. You made it the only well in town and now you're fighting to get a drink from it. That, to her, is not sexy. Your best bet is to open yo…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 09:04 PM
2

it's just difficult arguing with her cause she's as stubborn as I am. There is much you can learn from the sidebar material. From this excerpt, I see you need to learn this point. You don't argue with women.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 08:54 PM
1

Good advice from /u/RedditAdminsSuck_88 . You could also complement something about her that isn't what she was expecting. nice eyeliner, nice tan, what color is that nail polish?
/r/askTRP13/06/16 08:35 PM
1

In theory, you are flipping this "sex on her terms to sex on your terms". This will be more exciting for her and get her in the mood easier and faster. When a woman wants it, she needs less foreplay than you do. When she is doing duty sex, she needs more foreplay. So, when you are successful at pushing through the boundaries and sex is now coming to you when you want it and she is a willing partner in your dominant male behavior, she is wet, excited and into it. Sex quality goes upward. If only …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 07:00 PM
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love to hear how you changed your paradigm. Initiate sex when you want without fear of rejection. Push through the initial round of denial and wait for hard no. Then act like it's ok and do something else. Now, be prepared that the first few times what will happen is you will get a soft no and you'll proceed. Then you'll get a hard no. At this point, you can say something witty or just say ok, no problem and go do something else. Have that item prepared. So, you are saying to yourself, I am goin…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 06:26 PM
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Hmmm... I'm ok at social events. I can usually find some protein (Shrimp, chili burgers etc.) and a large vegetable tray to assault. But, I've become reliant on greek yogurt as a non meat/egg protein source. I am currently working with a nutritionist to get myself from very good shape to underwear model shape. I'll see what she has to say. Also, my wife is vegan, so cheese sticks and greek yogurt are literally the only dairy in my house.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 05:53 PM
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No carbs, also no dairy, only almond milk. No greek yogurt, or cottage cheese?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 03:35 PM
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Me- I am already short, short and chubby is just a bad idea Victor Krulak - Lt. General USMC who saw action in World War II, Korea and Vietnam when asked why he spent so much effort keeping in shape was quoted as saying, "I am short and bald but I don't have to be fat."
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 03:20 PM
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Yoplait Greek 100 is what I buy. It has 7g sugar and 13g of protein and one container costs about $1.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:34 PM
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First ofall, either (A) she is your plate and you shouldn't give a shit about who she is going with or (B) she is your girlfriend and she shouldn't go with her ex-boyfriend. This is your frame, not hers. Which one do you want her to be? Now, you've chosen. React accordingly. (A) /u/MattyAnon advice is right on. She is a plate do what he suggested (B) confront her. follow the advice from /u/redpillnobody
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:32 PM
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I feel like I just keep digging myself further into a hole of emasculation. The first thing to do when stuck in a hole is stop digging! You need to smile and not talk for the next week. While doing this, read the sidebar. Hopefully, you will be in a better place to start making some honest accurate assessments of yourself. If I had to give you one piece of advice for you to hear it would be to look at your situation but in a way where you were not the victim.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 08:14 PM
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I eat a fuck ton of broccoli(C,E and protein) and spinach(high in A and K and protein). Broccoli is like the healthiest food ever!! And it's not expensive at all. I feed broccoli to my family every day. I'd be willing to bet (no scientific research though) that one serving of fruit is more than enough to the pancreas benefits you speak of. But I eat very little actual sugar so, it would probably be tough. Thanks for bringing it up. I will be researching and asking my nutritionist about this.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:17 PM
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She flushed your sons. LOL. Nice 1!
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:41 PM
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Dudes. You are all so jaded. It's obvious that this one IS "the one"!
/r/askMRP10/06/16 05:40 PM
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The one interesting thing I learned working in bars and restaurants in my youth is that consistently, the women's rooms were grosser than the men's rooms.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 05:37 PM
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I see what you are saying. It's a blend probably. I've seen what you are describing as social conditioning. All the hot guys on tv are majority white. Some african american but very few asians.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:07 PM
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Oh, let's not forget about the importance of lime. Either in a gin and tonic or a corona.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:03 PM
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Fruits are minimal in my diet. Let's see a couple of apples a week. Bananas with the greek yogurt for breakfast. Lots of blueberries and strawberries though as they are both pretty low in sugar. Kiwi about once a week. Usually a pineapple or melon on the weekend is about it. In my research I don't see much emphasis on the importance of fruits but I could certainly be missing something. I Would love to hear recommendations or links to articles claiming they help in weight loss or weight retention…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:02 PM
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And as for timing, make sure to eat some protein for breakfast and even more protein 30 to 60 minutes after you work out. For example, I rotate, eggs, avocado, spinach and mozzarella in a whole weat wrap one day for breakfast and then greek yogurt the next day. For lunch I might do, tuna fish, turkey, egg salad, some yogurt or cottage cheese. Then for dinner, I run through the entire meat section listed above, with a small amount of carbs and a massive amount of green veggies.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:55 PM
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Eggs, greek yogurt, cheese - mostly mozzarella, cottage cheese, lots of green vegetables, tuna fish, salmon, avacado, whole grain tortilla, peanut butter, nuts (cashews, almonds and peanuts) oh yeah, and chicken but looks like you knew that already.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:51 PM
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There was a Seinfeld episode back in the day where they talked about Shiksappeal. Maybe it's the same thing really. from urban dictionary... The desire and intrigue non-Jewish girls (Shiksas) present to Jewish males, who are taught from birth that non-Jewish girls are forbidden.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:47 PM
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yeah, tell me about it. I have 4 daughters and no sons. wtf!
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:37 PM
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My pleasure. Always willing to help my young brothers get swole!
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:35 PM
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Please send me a link. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:57 PM
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I had to pull the "Tell your wife when things are calm that you heard about this way to improve your marriage and all it takes is 10 seconds a day." thing in order to get her to do it too. She was not into it at all at first until I told her this.
/r/askMRP09/06/16 01:57 PM
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No problem. Took me a minute to remember what this was about. Some thoughts.... That's a lot of calve work. I think you can eliminate some there. Abs every other day is fine. Plus some ab exercises put strain on your back so I would back off of that as well. I do abs 2 or 3 times a week. Almost every exercise you do while standing works your core anyhow. I have found specific exercises for forearms a waste of time. you will use forearms in almost every workout especially shrugs and curls. Believ…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 01:36 PM
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Ah crap. You're right. And I was so pleased with my self.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 02:55 PM
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Or "Yes Dear."
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 01:26 PM
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Did anyone else learn this as a child and young adult on the football field? Sixteen years, across three decades, of bashing my body into others, mostly larger people than myself - pushing my body to its limits, sometimes to its breaking point, and then, still pushing. "Suck it up!" , "Dig Deep!", "Hold that line!", "Are you hurt or injured?" I can still hear my coaches screaming at me. Concussions, broken bones, other pains and aches that I still feel or are visible now twenty years later. What…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 05:15 PM
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It seems like getting approval from women is my main goal in life Please realize, for yourself, that this is a problem. Seeking validation is not healthy. No more mr. nice guy is a book I would recommend.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:59 PM
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This doesn't seem to be a match made in heaven and she is making you work pretty hard. So, what did you learn?
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:55 PM
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This is queued up for my Monday morning drive to work. I have listened to other interviews with Jocko. A few things he does daily I've been able to successfully put into my routine.
/r/askMRP04/06/16 09:31 PM
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Something like bowling, or movies?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 09:28 PM
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OK. Then to answer your specific questions, I'd pull back a little. Don't disappear but don't appear all that interested. Don't appear interested in a friendship either though. That'll kill it. Try to pull something like you owe me a date then. And see if she chases back after you. Let her know that you're available but not going to sit around and wait forever for you. Just not with words but with action.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 07:22 PM
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But in the end whose fault will it be? Wow! You do realize that if you get caught cheating and she wants divorce, you're fucked in many states, right? You'd be much better off, financially and with child visitations, leaving her before she finds that out and divorces you.
/r/askMRP03/06/16 06:51 PM
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after she slightly rejected a weekend club hangout by saying she had plans and it was short notice If she was really into you, she'd change her plans. she said she wasn't feeling well that day but that she'd get back to me about the date. Sounds like an excuse to me. Something better came up. Look, you know your situation better than me but this is what I see from an outside perspective.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 06:47 PM
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And probably men at or below her SMV, but they'll show up and make offers. And these are low value men that they DON'T WANT. Maybe their experience is that since they are not high enough SMV to attract high value men, all they ever get are low value men. So, they are repulsed by men.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:35 PM
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I think she isn't into you and is going on dates to keep herself busy when she has no other plans. Next....
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:21 PM
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I was friends with lots of ugly girls in college. You know what? They did my laundry for me.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:18 PM
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Yes but they will be sucky ass dates.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:17 PM
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This is actually a great response. Or wink and smile, hold eye contact for another few seconds then relinquish it and go about your day.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:16 PM
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have a woman to be with and fuck that they don't need to game every time, etc. Happily married to a woman I have to game all the time. It works but you have to work at it. Married Red Pill is RP on hard mode. If you are beast enough you can do it.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:14 PM
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short women detest short men. Short women tend to date the largest men they can find. I'm sure it has something to do with their own insecurities. This is very true. I'm exactly average in height (5'10"). When I was dating, short girls didn't find me tall enough. My wife is only about 3 inches shorter than me which is tall for a woman. Most of the girls I dated were above average height and I used to target shorter girls thinking it would be easier.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 09:08 PM
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Don't worry about it. I think it was probably a reaction to her telling you what to do kind of caused you to get into your own head and not enjoy the moment. It may only take a few seconds of this for the blood vessel constriction to kick in and deflate gate ensues.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 01:00 PM
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So, does she do your laundry yet?
/r/askTRP26/05/16 06:40 PM
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Negotiate it.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 06:39 PM
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this is golden advice. I'm at 9% body fat at 165ish lbs. Originally lost 40 lbs. I was eating at about 1500 calories a day for a while to cut. This is very difficult to jump right into. It took a few weeks of changing habits for this to be possible. I will add some good steps for building habits. One thing I did was get out and walk every morning. This starts the mind set for the day. Protein is your friend. Think cheese sticks, greek yogurt. No more potatoes, rice, cereal, or bread except for s…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 01:59 PM
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Feel free to run by a proposed workout by me or anyone else with experience for critique. good luck.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 01:50 PM
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I'll agree with this. The most important thing is how much you put into it. Plans are secondary. If you are looking for muscle growth primarily it is called hypertrophy. You can look at plans made exclusively for that. What you will find is you need to hit the major muscle groups 2x a week. So, basically a minumum of 4 days in the gym a week. Strong lifts will have you at 3 times a week but the main goal for that is strength. Strength training actually takes longer rest periods than truer hypert…
/r/askTRP26/05/16 01:49 PM
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He looks good for 60. But I'll look better!
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 08:20 PM
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I always end up obsessing over a girl that shows slight interest Because in your mind it's easier. You are seeking what you envision is the easiest path to getting what you want. Like going after the bird with the wounded wing. What you need to do is recognize this and change it. How do you change it? It's a self esteem issue. If you were in college I'd suggest an outward bound class or something to just get your confidence up to begin with. You need to set tough goals for yourself and strive to…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 07:51 PM
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24 is a tough age for a man. Agreed. I can't pinpoint a reason but it was very difficult for me as well. By 27 my life had become much easier.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 06:41 PM
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Go get shot down. I believe in you. This is it isn't it. If you can learn to fail without giving a fuck, you're good to go. Rudyard Kipling knew it in "if" "If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same;"
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 03:44 PM
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You linked to one of my favorite movies: Gattaca. One of the most underrated (as far as box office results) movies of all time. Actually was very highly reviewed but came out at a terrible time (I know what you did last summer and Seven years in Tibet)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 03:32 PM
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chest/triceps or back/biceps This seems correct to me. For example, bench will work both tricep and chest. I bench and do skull crushers on the same day. I also do bicep curls on back days. It's a generally accepted concept of push on one day pull on a different day.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 01:29 PM
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This is unacceptable behavior in my opinion. So, she engages in unacceptable behavior and is married to her "best friend". She may be happy now but that could be her deluding herself and is probably a temporary state.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:12 PM
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My quads are decent but not swole. From the waist down I look like a comic book super hero.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 12:08 AM
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Well one of the things in my MAP is improving my golf game and taking the time for me to do that. So, my golf game has improved as it is something I've been working on consistently with a pro. Most of my pants are tight in the thigh and loose in the waste. I had to stop the growth.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 08:08 PM
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I'm just past the one year mark on getting back to the gym and into shape. This occurred within hours of reading MMSLP and before finding Red Pill reddit subs. No matter what ups and downs I have encountered on my Red Pill journey there was always the constant work and feedback of lifting to keep me honest and progressing. It is the bedrock of this journey and my metaphor for my progress at becoming better at being a man. Age: Mid forties. Started at.. 5'10" 198 lbs. Now at 168 lbs. Waist from 3…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 02:57 PM
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Interesting question but I think either way there is still regret at missed opportunity. That is just human nature. In this respect, I think it relates to OP's struggles. 20+ years later, I can't tell you how those relationships made me feel. But I can still remember how the break ups crushed me and my weak sauce beta frame.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:03 PM
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It has to do with the fact that I'm in my mid twenty's and only recently lost my virginity. I know it's wrong to dwell on the past but sweet lord.. I missed out on so many sluts. Can't change that. Gotta look ahead. Dude, I spent my HS years with one hot good girl who was a virgin. I was devoted to her. I was a big shot Football stud and wasted all those opportunities to be with my one true love. She fucked me over. Football scholarship led to the same story in college although I'm sure that one…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 01:09 PM
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Too many guys just wait for their turn to talk or implement 'Amused Mastery' and belittle every conversation their wife has with them as if they were a child. Agree that we are seeing a lot of "I AM her question of how much cream in my coffee and she called me an asshole. What did I do wrong?"
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 07:14 PM
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I take a page from Dieda and play the oak in the storm. I’ve learned to bring emotion when she needs it, and deflect it when it’s focused on me (or celebrate it when it's good emotion). The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida This is where I am now. At least finding mixed success as I find my groove. I am amazed at how much truth is in this book even though at its surface it seems like new age bull shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 07:13 PM
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Holy fuck this was well said. Good job mate.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:57 PM
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And the advice I got during this time was just wait until you're 30 then girls start putting out. Thing is, when I was 27 I met a 30 year old who was pretty good looking. She was ready to settle down.... I'm here 15 years later looking to help me understand wtf happened to me. I'm sure my story is very common.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 01:39 PM
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This was true when I was in my twenties (15 years ago). Many attractive girls seemed to have boyfriends or if they had just come out of a relationship they had a target boyfriend (guy they liked - aka Chad). In a few short weeks he would be their next boyfriend. They would swing from Chad to Chad and call me when oh lets say, their toilet broke.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 01:33 PM
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I read the first paragraph and have no clue what this post is going to be about. You need a stronger introductory paragraph in order for me to understand what value I am going to get for the investment of my time.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/16 06:40 PM
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I think what you really need to understand and internalize is whether you stay or go your path to success is the same. What you need to do is become a better man. Whether it is with her or without, your success and happiness depends on that. Luckily, the sidebar and the lovely gentleman here are all tools at your disposal to learn and grow. So, get started.
/r/askMRP16/05/16 01:10 PM
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I've been with inexperienced women before, and it's kind of a turn off. I don't want to be your teacher. Let Captain Kirk go where no man has gone before.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:18 PM
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I lost my virginity to a 15 year old virgin. The next 10 chicks I banged were not virgins. Were they all sluts by default? Maybe. Maybe not. But what was my alternative?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:13 PM
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Your career is a small piece of the puzzle. You could really fall down that hill into Beta bux land or stand proudly on top of it as the alpha kiing. Keep reading the sidebar material and it will make more sense. Side note, it sounds like your career goals and suffering are starting to pay off, that is a very alpha sign of putting in the hard work necessary to achieve a goal.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:36 PM
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I recommend the book the Charisma Myth to you since you seem intrigued as to how to develop it and you could probably really benefit by it. But to answer this question as simply as possible, Charisma is being someone people want to be around because they are viewed as high value and think the person views them as high value. It's about Presence which is tied in to being present in the moment. If you are talking with someone who is Charismatic they aren't just telling you a good joke, they are pr…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:32 PM
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I guess it is better for dread/being mysterious, which gets the tingles going. Yes, yes and oh yeah. Yes.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:28 PM
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Jesus christ, you're 18. dump her move on. Life is short my friend. You are too much of a prize to worry about this shit. What do you want a 16 year old to fawn over you and take on dates and worry if she wuvs you??? OR lots of variety of pussy while you're still young? The choice is obvious. You're a man with all this RP knowledge before you. Go out and conquer!!!!
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:26 PM
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I really agree with this strongly. That is inappropriate behavior from someone in a relationship. Agree that it doesn't matter if she hooked up she crossed a line either way.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:23 PM
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This is typical BP orbiter stuff. So, to answer your question, yes it's pathetic. Does it mean you are pathetic and beyond help? No, you are the perfect guy to start learning RP and applying it. This will be the measuring stick of your future success. OR you can give up and continue with this type of behavior. Look, the older guys here can remember the old them who used to fit into your shoes and how different they are now. Be happy that you have the tool set here to change this and make it happ…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 12:46 PM
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Setting boundaries. She hasn't done anything wrong yet. You must set the boundary. If you do not want her to go, you say so. Something like "That is for single women, if you want to be single go ahead. I do not think it is acceptable for a girlfriend. A girl friend of mine wouldn't do something like that." You are setting your boundaries. If she goes outside of that boundary demote her to plate or break up with her.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 12:25 AM
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Strong lifts is good for increasing strength, especially for a beginner. It is also great to learn or relearn correct form.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:49 PM
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Won't my legs be fucked for when i deadlift the following day? Certainly for the first week but push through it. After that no. You're using mostly different leg muscles for the main muscle. Squats Glute and thigh and deadlift is mainly hammies on your legs. At least this is what I've found. Find it strange that I have squats the same day as OHP and bench though. It works for me and you'll see very similar stuff in GreySkull etc. GreySkull will have squats and OHP on one day and Squats and Bench…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:47 PM
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First off, I thought 10-12 reps was bad for size? that just builds endurance right? It also has some rowing in there, and i'm not sure that would help at all. 10-12 is a little much for size but not out of ball park. I prefer 8-10. For example, I will use Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday as the four days. Do a standard push/pull split. I think the order here is important as well. Monday (Push) Bench, Squat, Overhead press, Skull Crushers, Flys, Lateral raises Tuesday (Pull) Pullups, Barbell Row…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 05:14 PM
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I've often wondered about this and if there is something written about it worth reading.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:04 AM
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There are a lot of posts about this. It is not uncommon especially when you don't have much experience. I did have some performance anxiety issues as a later teen and did get over it. It has crept up and reared its ugly head a few times in my years and may last a bout or two but usually clears up and is't a thing. It's mental. I'm not a doctor but from my understanding... In order to achieve and maintain an erection two things have to happen, your body needs to pump blood and nitric oxide into t…
/r/askTRP10/05/16 01:31 PM
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for a girl that would do that. But they all would so where does that leave you?
/r/askTRP09/05/16 05:30 PM
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They love opportunistically and will leave you at the worst possible time in your life. Hell she will fiercely and unpleasantly oppose you and make your life a living Hell emotionally and psychologically at the very time you need her most. "You picked a fine time to leave me Lucille...."
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 01:22 PM
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Holy Shit. what could I do differently to make a girl not say some ignorant shit like this to me? You set your expectations for girls you are going to be around to be high enough that they wouldn't use terms like this EVER! It's pretty inexcusable. Set your expectations high and those that are worth it will rise up to meet them. Those that don't aren't worth your time. Sorry this happened to you bro. Pretty shitty thing.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:14 PM
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Course Prerequisites..... No More Mr Nice Guy, Robert Glover Married Man Sex Life Primer, Althol Kay When I Say No, I Feel Guilty, M. Smith Read these and let us know what you think about your situation?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 02:38 PM
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Yes. If you had said boxer briefs, I would have know what you meant. and it is the underwear I wear.... now.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 06:22 PM
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Ah, you actually were talking about jockey underwear. Sorry, I was thinking this was a style of shorts or something. I do own quite a few pairs of those. I also swear by their slim fit stretch crew neck
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 03:36 PM
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Jockey Shorts? What are these? I googled it and only see Jockey brand underwear. thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 01:29 PM
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Part of me is ready to just move out and move on. But, another part of me feels like 2.5 years invested is a lot to give up on. What? No. 2.5 years is nothing. I have 2 relationships that lasted longer - neither one is my wife. Do not look back. If you are not swooning after 2.5 years, you're gonna be a miserable fuck in another 2.5. You need to invest in yourself. read all the material and everything available to you and start the fuck over.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 02:33 PM
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No problem. I could tell you knew this but weren't sure. I waited tables, worked construction and was a bar back in college, bussed tables in High School. Now, I am a corporate executive with two Master's degrees in my mid forties. ...If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch...
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 12:53 PM
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I think the part you are subtly realizing and not appreciating is the fact that you are learning how to be socially dominant in a servant role. This is an invaluable skill for later in life. imagine a few years from now when you are the junior member in a meeting and you are taking control. This is similar to how you get folks back to focusing on their menu and making a decision because you've got tons of other shit going on. But you make it look like you are giving all your attention to them. I…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 09:18 PM
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There are statistics that show that during the war years (WWII), the abortion rate in the US was way up. Don't have time to look them up for you right now but I think it was also referenced in trp somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 05:15 PM
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this is the perfect answer to your question.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 06:12 PM
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Do I want them to ride the CC? No, of course not. Do I want them in LTRs with true RP'ers? Yes - in my opinion, that's the only solution to a long term relationship in which they can raise their children without it all exploding 15-20 years later. Agree.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:31 PM
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I have 4 daughters. I try to lead and be the example they will choose for their mate. A rock solid man who provides for his family. What do I provide? A torrent of positive masculinity. I provide a foundation for living a productive life. I try to teach them to take responsibility for their actions and not to accept less than they deserve from themselves and others. There is much much more. As a married RP guy, it is not about plates but being the best man I can be, being happy with that and pro…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:29 PM
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Another great example of the law of being attractive. My favorite is the answer to "How do you not get in trouble for sexual harassment?" the answer is to be attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 01:24 PM
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When confronted, I had to claim I was making a change in my life. She found my kindle library list. What I eventually went with is that I was not the same person that she met. Met in my twenties and I am now in my forties. I have changed but I am still stuck in the rut that was created for me, by me, as a 20 something teenager. As I've grown so should my attitude and responsibility towards life, love, family and career. No need to mention a bunch of anonymous strangers on the internet unless you…
/r/askMRP15/04/16 06:15 PM
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not enough since he got herpes on his ballsack from a woman. I did not even know what herpes was at the Health and safety is great. I agree that it would be great to set yourself up for life with a low n-count mate. Personally, I would just not consider it an overriding factor. Although, there are certainly limits. You don't want to be on vacation with your wife and have some guy say he remembers her from a gang bang in high school. On the other side, if you meet your future wife at age 28 and s…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 06:11 PM
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Yes, you can do better and you will!! If you haven't lifted before, you would greatly benefit from a trainer. It will cost a bit but you don't need to retain him for too long. If not, really concentrate on form. Stronglifts 5x5 is a good program for initially concentrating on form and beginning strength. Make sure you are at least researching proper form before attempting any new lifts. You're going to have to diet too. So, figure that out for yourself. No more shit snacks. Your body is a temple…
/r/askMRP14/04/16 05:49 PM
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Later part of the conclusion.... They need to read Freud, who wrote that every man wants to murder his father and sleep with his mother and that the only way to be civilized is to recognize that everyone is barbaric way down deep inside. They need to know that desire is a mess, and that everyone suffers from its mess. Instead of culture, the world offers the boys of The Red Pill contempt. Instead of education, outrage. But it’s not just the boys of The Red Pill who need to begin again to learn f…
/r/askMRP14/04/16 05:20 PM
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How did you just stumble upon NMMNG?
/r/askMRP14/04/16 02:42 PM
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I just got to the point of being glad if a woman has less than 10 partners by the time I bugger her, Why are you beating yourself up over this? You have no idea which ones are lying by how much. It's like asking what their fifth favorite color is. "Umh, orange?"
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:41 PM
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women mentioned above are fairly easy to spot What? Yes, they have boobs and a vagina.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:38 PM
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but 1% said Said. Emphasize the word said!!! And my bet is that 1% is full of the nastiest bitches you'd never want to fuck in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:36 PM
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I agree that MMSLP is extremely important. I actually read that before finding this place. It basically, led me here for more info.
/r/askMRP14/04/16 02:07 PM
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I'm hoping those books will go more in depth with how to frame and handle interactions with my wife. They will. And you are in a bit of danger of not going about things correctly until you read and understand them. WISNIFG, is a GREAT book on assertiveness training. How to change what you say to be more assertive and get what you want out of a conversation. For now lift. 5x5 is a great way to start. Do you need to drop weight too? I came from a very similar boat as you. Wife was hotter than me. …
/r/askMRP14/04/16 01:39 PM
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I was talking to a 26 year old single girl the other night at happy hour and she definitely sounded like she was hitting the wall.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 02:05 PM
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Maybe you’ll be too drunk to remember you’re on your period and wake up the next day in what looks like Dexter’s kill room. In the 1990's, in the on campus clinic at my state university, you could choose from a list of items to have looked at. One of them was not worded like this but it was "Tampon rammed too far in by Chad last night." Shits been true for decades.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:56 PM
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Amen!
/r/askTRP13/04/16 01:11 PM
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Your expectations are unrealistic. This girl seems fine from a realistic expectation. I never asked my wife what her n count for this exact reason. For all I know she could have been in a gang bang the night before I met her. If you read through her old shit, you are going to find shit that wrenches your stomach. That's reality. And you will feel sick thinking about it. She had a life before she met you. Other than who she enjoyed fucking before she met you she sounds like a nice girl.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 09:47 PM
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Good post. I sometimes listen to the classical music station while driving. Very relaxing and doesn't distract. Not the same as going complete radio silent which I do about once or twice a month. I normally do books on tape or Art of Manliness podcast while driving. Also, planned out a few road trips this summer and will try out the radio silence with the family on that. Stay tuned... Additionally, all 6 of us singing to the radio is a common occurrence.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 09:29 PM
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When my wife said I was acting like a jerk tonight then 15 minutes later initiated sex.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 07:20 PM
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You would grow immensely even from a humanitarian effort like rebuilding villages in Haiti. My church does this for high school and college aged kids and it's a great program. If you decide not to take time to travel, at least do this.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:01 PM
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Becks Light has 65 calories.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 09:09 PM
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Asparagus is in season right now, so eat that shit up!!!
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 01:30 PM
1

I almost feel sorry for them. ;)
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 02:59 PM
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What the fuck is bottle service? It sounds irrational. Something a drunk captain would be coaxed into providing for his wife. No, you don't have to do it. Don't feel guilty when you say no. Isn't there a book with a similar title you should have absorbed when you read? There is a big gap between whatever the fuck bottle service is and Skittles.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 01:03 AM
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stop asking for sex. (have sex if you want, but do NOT ask for it or what to do once you have it) So, after running my MAP for about 6 months, I decided to simply ask my wife if she wanted sex. Just for the fun of it and see what happens. Her response was priceless. "Would it matter?"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 05:14 PM
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Was reading through DB posts and found someone with a similar situation. A comment said to read MMSLP. I did. I was blown away. In the book, the author makes reference to "The Red Pill". I googled that and ended up here. Much happier here. Been here for almost a year. I've read the entire sidebar, lost 40 pounds. Down to under 10% bf from over 20%. Have been lifting heavy for the entire time. Basically owning more of my shit and getting out of marriage most of what I want. There is still work to…
/r/askMRP06/04/16 05:06 PM
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Plus I feel like I belong with all those bankers and financiers when I meet with them. I know exactly what you mean. I also follow the old adage. Don't dress for your job. Dress for the job you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 05:18 PM
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I used to get out of my work clothes as soon as I got home. Now, I wait until after dinner. I maintain a well dressed, confident leader aura through dinner and into early evening simply by keeping my clothes on for an extra few hours. As you are experiencing, It's noticeable.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:42 PM
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but my lack of discipline in lifting and getting back to shape disgusts me. Interestingly, this is the area you have the MOST control over.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:36 PM
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Just curious--your wife has no independent hobbies from you and just reflects your actions only? Isn't that extremely boring? Basically, women want to follow an adventurer. That is exciting. This is a generalization but women usually sit in their hen house and cluck with each other. A man who sits with them and clucks, no matter how well, will not seem sexy. A man who is off doing adventurous things and is willing to take one of them with them on the adventure is exciting and sexy. When there is…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:31 PM
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reminds me of my tour of the planned parenthood in my area. I asked what they see the most of, the nurse told me treating STDs from the local Catholic University students.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 02:54 AM
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All women are bitches and all women are generally awesome. It just depends on the man they're dealing with this minute. Amen brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 08:37 PM
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I'll recommend the "Creepover" series for young girls. "You can't come in here" is a good one to start with.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 02:34 PM
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Wasn't Ready Player One a fun book? I've never talked to anyone else who read Matterhorn. I really liked it. I just started The Last Kingdom by Bernard Cornwell and am enjoying it a lot. Great view into masculinity. I would recommend Joker One by Donovan Campbell. I totally whole heartedly agree that reading to your kids should be paramount. My wife and I read every night to our younger ones. Or have them read to us. They decide. Sometimes we switch back and forth, page for page. I have done thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 02:23 PM
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The Way of the Superior Man has some good content on this. Yes, this seemed very much a quick explanation of that book written from a woman's perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 05:43 PM
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but the collection of thousand cock stares and harmless beta faces in that list of authors in the sidebar to that piece is staggering. Also notived this.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 05:40 PM
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I've lived a sheltered life I guess, but everything about this sounds horrifying and bizarre to me. I'll agree with this.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 04:59 PM
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It's worth paying for it. I paid for it and read it and it was extremely useful.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 04:51 PM
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If I am reading that correctly, it states that obesity is more of an indicator or unattractiveness based on immunity.
/r/askMRP28/03/16 04:43 PM
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(10-12% better.) I just recently read that this women desiring the 10-12% body weight is believed to be related to health. Men are healthiest at this bf range. This ties into the idea that we try to find a mate with best potential to raise strong healthy kids and that this trait is innate.
/r/askMRP27/03/16 06:15 PM
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YMMV but I found that compound lifts engaging the elbow did not bother me anywhere near as much as isolation lifts that put strain there. For example, curls hurt like hell but I could bench and overhead press without problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 06:09 PM
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tan cargo shorts I'm going to implore you to ditch the cargo shorts as well. Those are great when camping but are really unflattering otherwise.
/r/askMRP23/03/16 06:32 PM
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You can help Tennis Elbow with lifting. Strengthen up your forearms. Basically, any forearm isolation exercise will help.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 06:28 PM
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I'm going to answer this with an example of a shit test I received via text yesterday morning while at the office. her: Why did I just have to scrape two contact lenses off the bar? me: Long story involving two strippers and a goat. I didn't hear anything else about the contacts again. Di I answer wrong? Who knows? Who cares?
/r/askMRP22/03/16 06:01 PM
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Feminist, Susan B Anthony predicted this 150 years ago.... "In woman’s transition from the position of subject to sovereign, there must needs be an era of self-sustained self-supported homes, where her freedom and equality shall be unquestioned. As young women become educated in the industries of the world, thereby learning the sweetness of independent bread, it will be more and more impossible for them to accept the Blackstone marriage limitation that “husband and wife are one, and that one the…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 08:09 PM
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I agree with what you said and I will add that I see myself in this post when I think about how I was feeling 11 months ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 05:43 PM
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rise above, rise above. This just gave me chills. I haven't listened to, or even thought about, that song in over 30 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 02:30 PM
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Here is a good primer on nutrition for MRP folks trying to lose, bulk, cut or whatever. Basically, increasing your protein intake while cutting back on sugar, will be beneficial to gaining strength and size while limiting putting on extra fat. This is provided you aren't increasing too much and that you have sugar in your diet to spare. I basically spent the entire winter doing a clean bulk. Trying to gain muscle without too much fat. I'm now starting to cut back to a nice beach body look. But i…
/r/askMRP21/03/16 01:40 AM
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The very first piece of mail I received in college was a copy of this poem typed up on my father's letter head. the only other word on the entire page was at the bottom and read "Dad".
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 05:50 PM
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horrible typos but I agree with you.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 02:48 PM
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I haven't scheduled sex but this is exactly what I would predict would happen if I tried.
/r/askMRP16/03/16 09:44 PM
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sweet. pm me the link when ready.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 07:45 PM
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Will they be slim fit?
/r/askTRP16/03/16 07:27 PM
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two hours a day, six days a week. That's a lot of gym time bro! After almost five months, wife has still not said a single positive thing about this change (and probably never will - more fuel for my fire), but I can tell that she's noticing. It was a really long time before my wife acknowledged any progress. I went from roughly 26% bf to 9%. Nothing mentioned until I was around 12%. NOTHING! She didn't care about the progress she cared about the results. 18% bf. fuck you. pay me! 15% bf? fuck y…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 02:45 PM
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Don't quit 5x5 on a note of failure. If you legit want to move off of it then do but set some goals for you to achieve before you do. Something like move up 5 pounds on every lift you are currently on first. Get to bench 190, ohp 115 etc. Then move off of it at a state of achievement.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 02:41 PM
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I have no idea what my wife of 15 years number is. It is what she provides me now that I am concerned with not her history. Hope that helps and I'm a happy camper.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:04 PM
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Looking back, some of the most confusing messages about women came from my sister and her friends.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 01:58 PM
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I think you're right and the point of the lesson is that, sure, get them a 7+ and they're like wow, this is awesome. But the chances are that most women with somewhat respectable n counts have been in the 5.25 to 6.25 range for their say 10 partners. Now get 5 of them together at a happy hour and we'll say one of them has also banged a guy at 7.25 and she was all like "IT WAS HUGE!!" Now surely, we can pretend that 7.25 gets laid significantly more than the 5.4 guy but mostly because of confiden…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 09:43 PM
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From my understanding the amount of units able to reach this spot coupled with the amount of women able to take pleasure from it makes it very uncommon that any given woman has experienced it. Women do get excited by large members - seeing it and playing with it etc. But as far as vaginal penetration it isn't as important.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 09:22 PM
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I've presented it to people before with slides and shit so I hope it was right.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 07:51 PM
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Human size actually varies rather little. It's a bell curve with a long right side. About 80% of men being within 1.5 inches of each other (If I remember correctly about 5 to 6.5 inches. Something like 5% below that with very few approaching 4. And then you get 15% above that and the size gets pretty large but that's like 2 or 3 in 100 over 7 ro 7.5. This is for white people. Asian is smaller and black larger. Black has a longer right side tail with a higher percentage in it. Vaginas are made so…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 07:32 PM
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Great examples. I love lessons with examples I can implement. Great stuff. I do this sometimes and it's great to get more examples. The one thing I have done is while driving just pick a different route than the one you know she would have taken. "Why didn't you take a left on Sycamore?" or better yet. "You missed the turn!" You can answer anything. "I like the curves on this woman.. er I mean road that lives up here...."
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 02:17 PM
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you only compliment her when you actually mean it? Good point. My guess is that this is probably difficult when first unplugging as you're still too eager to please. The best solution is to disengage your mind from her reactions to you first and foremost. So, the times when you actually mean it will diminish.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 01:55 PM
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Unfortunately, no it's not your cock. Seriously though, you are on a somewhat spiritual journey here. You are becoming a better man. An awesome dude. Not afraid to discover and try new things and explore your talents. As you develop these and expand your comfort zone and confidence you will discover what about you is somewhat exceptional, unusual, above average, extraordinary, lacking in other people yet, you enjoy doing or being. It might be something new, something you used to be or do but you…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 09:20 PM
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The way of the superior man is definitely a "next level" read. The greatest gift part takes a bit to figure out and if you don't know what it is yet, that's not a problem. Eventually you must figure it out but you don't need to know it when you read it. Drinking: That's not too bad. But let's do the math. Let's say you're drinking 2 drinks 3 times a week and 5 once a week. That's 11 drinks and about 2,000 to 2,200 calories a week at say 180 to 200 calories a beer. If you drink something like sco…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 06:12 PM
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My wife reads a ton (40 to 50 books a year) and most of her friends read a lot too. these are late 40s to early 50s women.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 04:16 PM
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I came from the same boat here. Always complimenting my wife on how nice she looks etc. Turn it down a notch or two. You are moving from a place where she looks at you as hers. Where you orbit and worship her. So, now you have to move to a place where you are the prize. So, start with less compliments. Look to compliment her on her choice of outfits or how she did her hair instead of on how nice her ass looks. But in general do it less. Catch yourself and count each time you would have but didn'…
/r/askMRP08/03/16 03:15 PM
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The next day she's talking cheerfully about closets in the new house we are looking at and about trying for another kid. WTF. AWALT. They all do this. Second time in as many days I'll recommend The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida to help understand why women are this way and how a superior man channels this energy into actions that make him a better man. As for 5x5 Strong Lifts, if you are still making gainz,I would hold off on changing it yet. Yes, the weights get pretty heavy and the ti…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 02:38 PM
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I'll agree 100% that your first job out of college should be the one which allows you to learn the most. You could even do consulting right out of college, which is what I did. I learned a ton as every 6 months to a year I was on a different project with a different client learning something very new. 5 years of that I was ready to catapult up the food chain.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:47 PM
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r/redpillfatherhood
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:38 PM
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I second everything said here. GUI guys make less and are less respected and easier to replace. source: I'm an IT manager.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:37 PM
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I have been married for 15 years and early in our relationship she asked me how many people I slept with while we were out at a bar. I instantly said I didn't want to tell her and I definitely didn't want to know her number and the conversation was over. 17 years later, it has never come back up and I don't want to know. Ask yourself what you will do if she says 1. What will you do if she says 10, what will you do if she says 20 what will you do if she says 100? if she says 50, will you break up…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:19 PM
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the day before I found the red pill my wife was at the weight I married her. I had put on 40 pounds, lost my hair, didn't exercise and stopped wearing contacts. I did continue to shower daily and floss though. So, not seeing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 12:12 AM
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Oh man, I can see this picture so vividly. So, close to my own experience. AWALT perhaps? I hear what you are saying and I can only say that it makes more sense as you improve in all the necessary areas (Lifting, dieting, OI, keeping frame, establishing your own social life and learn to talk to everyone, not wasting your time on crap, developing interesting hobbies etc.). It's a marathon and you have to keep it up but you'll get there if you keep improving and don't nuke anything before hand. Wh…
/r/askMRP06/03/16 05:56 PM
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You know how I lost my fat? I ate 1400 calories a day for a few months. Sure, I had a day here and there where I had a couple of beers and threw it off. But 4 days out of 5 I hit my macros and ALWAYS stayed under 2000 calories in a day. As expected this worked for me. I get some cardio in. Tennis, hiking. But I don't exercise cardio. not because I think it's evil. It's just for me that not eating 300 calories is easier than running for 30 minutes. I spend enough time in the gym doing compound li…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/16 05:24 AM
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Yeah, I'm hoping that I still get that initial easy loss in the beginning. Realistically planning for about between 3/4 to 1 pound a week. Hoping to attain 6% bf. But I only weigh 166 lbs now at 5'10". Bigger concern is not losing muscle.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 05:16 AM
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I'm just about at the end of my winter bulk and preparing mentally for the spring cut. This was good to read to get me there. I'm about 10% bf so it shouldn't be that bad.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 03:12 AM
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It's all in her head, and the last thing anyone needs is to make it a reality. Boom! It's all right there now isn't it? I didn't fully understand and appreciate this until after I read "The Way of the Superior Man"
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 03:41 PM
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No. But you can take too long and appear weak.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 04:40 PM
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Fuck self improvement, dance is where it's at!". But isn't dance self improvement? If her wer 180, swole and pulling these moves off the looks would have been even stronger!
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 02:51 PM
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However, I haven't had a sexual partner since my fiancee cheated on me nearly 7 years ago. There's a girl my age (27) Red Pill hit right in the gut. Obviously, you were too young to have a fiancee. You should be embracing what you are learning here. Should I just try it, or should I wait until I start having success with younger randoms instead? You need a fucking win right fucking now. If this is even remotely on the table, take it. Go for it, no questions asked! No fucks given! You are here to…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 02:34 PM
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I cry watching sports movies ( Rudy, Hoosiers etc.). That's it. Also, the scene in Band of Brothers where the kid has chocolate for the first time. That fucking gets me. Other than that, I don't cry.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 02:29 PM
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I worked as a bar back in college. It is a great way to meet people (bar tenders, cocktail waitresses, patrons etc.) , as you know. As far as being prepared. There is really no necessary skills to being a barback - it's entry level. You have to have common sense and know how to clean shit. Clean the bar, clean glasses, scoop up left over glasses and put them in the dishwasher or manually clean them if it's running. Empty the dishwasher. go to the back and get another case of Heineken, bottle of …
/r/askTRP03/03/16 02:26 PM
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Now, try cold-complimenting the next 5 women with something that has to do with their taste, something they chose for their appearance. "I really like your [outfit/jewelry/eyelashes]." I was once told by a hottie many years ago something similar. Her example was complement her on her tan. Much more receptive.
/r/askMRP03/03/16 02:16 PM
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I had a similar situation happen to me a few years back (Pre-RP). My wife and her friend were ogling over a 17 year old boy at church. I kid you not, I couldn't make this shit up. I asked her afterwards, what she would have thought if it were a 17 year old girl and she over heard two dads saying the same thing. She said, it would have creeped her out. I just said "yup" and left it at that. But on the other hand, it does prove that she is capable of being turned on by hot masculine male bodies. T…
/r/askMRP03/03/16 02:14 PM
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I highly recommend The Charisma Myth) Ordered. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 02:03 PM
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Not yet, just moved house and need to set up the Gym in the garage. It's on my list for this weekend. Ok. But do 20 push ups tonight and 25 on Friday. My situation is not nearly as dire as yours but I do also have "bad mornings" with her. I ALWAYS come home fresh in the best mood ever. ALWAYS. I walk in that door after work and I'm the happiest mother fucker on the planet. If given a reason to act otherwise, sure I may change. But I start at 100% purre fucking joy. Sure sometimes its an act but …
/r/askMRP02/03/16 02:48 PM
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A lot of good advice here so I'll just add that I definitely work this crowd. I coach for my girls and it's a great way to meet people and just practice talking to women. Can you think of a better way to parade around in front of women, have constant material to talk to them about and build confidence? It's great!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 04:08 AM
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Totally agree. I was just saying "in our pre RP world."
/r/askTRP01/03/16 07:55 PM
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Was looking for explanations to why my marriage of 15 years was the way it was. Felt wife was not following my lead and wasn't into me anymore. Found Athol Kay's book "Married mans sex life primer" in Dead Bedrooms which led me to explore more and I found this place and MarriedRedPill.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 07:25 PM
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Women will say: Well, just because guy #1 buys her food does not entitle him to sex. That part is true. Yes, but having sex with guy#2 should disentitle you from food from guy #1. amIright?
/r/askTRP01/03/16 07:21 PM
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King at work , jester at home.... high level I.T. manager OK. So you nailed my pre RP scenario with this one. Well, the first step in taking back the reins was to improve myself. Started lifting, dieting, identifying shit tests and starting to STFU. Better clothes, going out and not sitting at home all the time... After I felt I had made some gains in this area, I made the first move. Taking control of paying the bills. Big fucking deal, right? High level IT exec making the big move at home by h…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 02:44 AM
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I went with Twizzlers. Seemed more erotic.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 08:16 PM
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Some good advice here. I'll just add that there are quite a few outdoor activities you can do with a 3 year old. I have 4 girls and they've all enjoyed these at that age. skiing. You can start them at 2 and I have. You get those backpack leashes. Best time ever for her. Hiking. a 2 to 3 mile hike in any weather is good for that age. You may need to throw them on your back a few times during the hike to give them a rest but you'll have enough gas for it at that distance. Give them a map and ask t…
/r/askMRP29/02/16 02:15 PM
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Interesting. I do a few weekend trips with just the kids. Camping, visiting my parents, ski trips etc. I haven't done it since unplugging though. Thanks for the ideas.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 12:41 AM
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The first rule of talking to everyone is to not care what an ass you sound like. So, you just do it and figure "I'm going to sound like a total fool and probably have this person thing I'm mildly retarded". But you still do it. The next time, the person will think you are slightly less mildly retarded. Eventually, you'll get to slightly retarded. Then you're close to someday getting to this person thinks I'm normal. This happens because you get less nervous each time. The speed of progression is…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:21 PM
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My point is backup / redundancy. 2 is 1. 1 is none.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 03:47 PM
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This was a big switch for me as well. For instance, I planned the vacations this year. I took her input and just went and booked the flights. Showed her some hotels and got her input and then decided myself. So, she feels included but I did the work. Decided where to go for one of them and decided we could afford and it was time to go somewhere she had been talking about wanting to go with the kids for a few years. She was very appreciative of this effort. Before I thought I was being considerat…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 03:40 PM
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Good work so far. It sounds like a long hard road.... and it is but you're on your way. You are where you should be at 2 months in. You'll look back in another 6 months and be amazed at this post. Keep posting in OYS. Keep on keeping on.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 09:44 PM
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I make sure I have something else I can do before initiating. This is what I was going to suggest.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 09:31 PM
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I'm so close to being able to think this fast.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 06:46 PM
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Technically withholding sex is viewed as a form of sexual abuse among human sexuality educators.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 03:50 PM
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On Confidence: I had an unwitting Confidence win that I thought was worth sharing as an example. I was out at a bar with my wife and another couple. The table next to us was a group of youngish (21 or 22 maybe) girls. One of whom was cute and looked like a certain celebrity to an extent. Someone at our table mentioned it. When we were leaving I asked the girl if she had ever been told this before and had a 30 second conversation with her. I wasn't trying anything or thinking anything other than …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 06:30 PM
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My wife is Vegan. Danger would be her thinking you are rebelling against her not just doing something for you. Too early in your MAP, and you appear rebelling. It took a bit of time to build up enough of her seeing changes in me that she liked to understand that the change was for ME and what I was doing.
/r/askMRP22/02/16 06:19 PM
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I interview college kids a lot. First of all as for business degrees I'll give more credit to your degree if it's in Economics, Accounting or Finance as they are simply harder and I respect them more. I would advise against a business administration degree. You'll come out not knowing enough to qualify you for anything that is not pretty low income and fairly boring. All the decent paying jobs in a business field will go to the Accounting and Finance kids. Engineering is much more lucrative and …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 07:25 PM
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I interview college kids regularly and i will agree that I pay no attention to minors. Basically, they do not spend enough time doing anything to learn anything of value.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 07:21 PM
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My friend who is a personal trainer is about 6' 175 lb. and is a pretty lean ripped at 6% bf. I'm at about 9% and look close to but better than the 10-12% picture you have there. More muscle and more of it showing. But it's obvious now that our 15 lb discrepancy was in body fat. 7% off of 200 lbs is roughly the 185 number I had. So, it's a matter of opinion. Where you want to be and think looks good. And we've properly quantified that difference in our opinion.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 01:04 PM
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You need to understand what the whole point of what you are trying to do is. You are trying to become a better man. You are not trying to learn how to negotiate better with your wife. Many of the establishment folks here disagree with me but I think Married Man's sex life primer is where you need to go first. Read this when you complete NMMNG because winners finish shit before starting anything else. Then read When I say no I feel guilty and you're going to start to have the tools you need to ST…
/r/askMRP19/02/16 09:57 PM
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That's fine. I think we agree on our points. It's really about body fat. If you are 6'0" weigh 200 lbs and have 7% body fat that seems massive to me. But I could be wrong. I'm sure it would look great but seems very swole.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:19 PM
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Tall is the biggest advantage you can have and being short will be the biggest disadvantage you have. You can have many other advantages and disadvantages too that can counterbalance the height advantage. Source: Experience, sisters, wife I had a friend in my early twenties who was decent looking and about 6'5". He was constantly approached by women when we were out. He was smart but totally socially awkward and would always blow it once talking to them. But I could not deny how easy the first f…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:16 PM
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But yea, women respond to how they feel, not how they think. It is better to be 170 lbs lean and 5'8 than to be 130 lbs and 6'0 +. This is true but as you stated first it is much better to be 6'0" 185 than 5'8 170. Much better.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:09 PM
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It's utter bullshit as mentioned below many times. What I believe it is in relation to my experience, is as such. At 27 I met a girl got married and assumed a lifestyle and set of responsibilities. I got older, wiser, made more money and 20 years later realized that in many ways, i was still trapped in the roles set upon me as a 27 year old. I'm 45 and much more capable of shit. So, I made a conscious decision to start making those changes. Sure Red Pill was part of that. But it's so much more. …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:02 PM
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I agreed that doing homework and being polite etc. is necessary and they must do it. Must be forced if necessary but the question is with less important non mandatory items that are "enriching" and in some cases perhaps bucking gender norm situations. My example was with practicing an instrument. But the same can be with anything. The point is that some issues (Homework, being polite) are black and white while others are grey. The grey areas are where I see some issues between pushing and encour…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 12:38 PM
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My parenting goals are to encourage his interests, his academic, physical and social development. My vision for that is that he performs at or above average at school, is physically active, socially confident and has the tools in place to discover his interests. Sounds like a good goal. I think the key is to not turn activities into chores. Good point. I'll ruminate on this one a bit. thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 01:23 AM
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We have to strike a balance between developing the qualities we think are important for them, what their interests are, and what their strengths and weaknesses. I agree it's a balance but sometimes with some kids it's very hard to determine whether they don't like it or are being lazy and need to be pushed. Not all kids. I have four and they're all different. I'm not going to be bothered with trying to figure out where the line between encouraging and enforcing is. I force eating and sleeping ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 01:21 AM
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Impossible to know if it's an increase in actual number oF GBLT or just a greater number of GBLT willing to claim that identity. This seems to be the crux of the issue. I tend to believe a greater number are willing to come out. Makes sense to me that now that the world is more accepting, more people are willing to come out. For those that never came out and are older now, they may never come out because that is the environment they were raised in but kids growing up today are far more likely to…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 01:07 AM
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Sure. The hardest part at first was diet. I needed to figure out how much food I needed to eat and only eat that. Measure / guesstimate everything. If I don't know the nutrition content of an item, I won't eat it. I immediately cut down to a very small yet functional breakfast that would last me until a very small mid-morning snack. Breakfast was a bowl of oatmeal measured out at one serving (150 Calories). Snack was half of a balance bar (100 calories). This got me to lunch at 250 calories. For…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 08:45 PM
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As parents we fail if we don't help our children to understand where their talents are. Some take more fostering than others, but if they understand what they are good at and still choose other things, that is fine and wonderful. True!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 07:30 PM
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Don't just practice an hour a night, try to memorize and play a certain piece, or see if you can hold a certain note for x amount of time. I think this is good advice. I've tried to convey this poorly. I'll give some more concrete advice. become great at something comes from discipline and discipline comes from directed actions that go against the immediate desire. Great quote. i'll have to reword it a bit for the audience though. :) Oh and my youngest daughter helped me build my fire pit this s…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 07:28 PM
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OWN Lifting and diet. I can't believe the transformation. I'm fucking ripped in 10 months. 5'10" 164 lbs was over 200 with no exercise last April. Great for me. NOT OWNING I'm not keeping up with my new ways during shark week and PMS. My wife tends to withdraw during this time and I take advantage of it by not engaging her, reading, doing hobbies, meeting guys out for drinks. Mostly it's because I don't find her attitude attractive and am kind of repulsed by her negativity during this time. So, …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 07:09 PM
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A girl can like science at 5, art at 11, engineering at 15, and writing at 18 This is a great point in general. I HATE when people try to say that little Timmy is going to be a great engineer because he loves legos at age 4. This kid is going to love so many different things over the next 14 years. Let him explore and enjoy all of them without the pressure of thinking whatever he shows interest in is his calling.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 06:51 PM
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Nice write up Hunter. While I agree with you, there are some issues that creep up into the folds of this theory that I am struggling with when putting things into practice. Basically, I am asking myself this question all the time "Where is the line between encouraging and forcing?" First of all, I have 4 girls and no boys but I will start with questions about boys. I have nephews and close neighbor boys. When you let a boy be himself, you may have to deal with "what if he isn't a more masculine …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 06:47 PM
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I'm thinking form is the issue. lower back pain on a squat isn't something I get often. And I get lower back pain picking my nose.
/r/askMRP18/02/16 04:53 PM
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You CANNOT do both effectively at the same time (unless you are just starting out). Since you just bulked up, consider a cut and remember, the numbers on the bar MAY NOT GO UP. Exactly. And if you add another number (Your body fat percentage) and that is going down while the other numbers are staying the same, it's still a win!
/r/askMRP18/02/16 04:51 PM
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I had a very bad collarbone break many moons ago. I rebroke it twice before it healed properly by pushing it too early. I now have a "bad" shoulder because of it. Aches when I sleep on that side etc. Take care of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 02:13 PM
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Ha! I do also carry a pocket knife but not to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 02:04 PM
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My girls love to sew but I never thought of that. How great!!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 07:18 PM
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Great write up. Dressing tips I'll add. If you do not own a suit, get one. This one should be versatile enough to wear to a wedding, funeral or an interview. think Dark Blue or Charcoal. Also, at work dress for the position above you. You should appear ready for a promotion not just doing the work of it. Think quality and fit before fancy. That $200 pair of designer jeans won't look as good as a properly fitting pair of Levi's. The one other thing I do is carry a handkerchief. It comes in handy …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 03:25 PM
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Do you want a dog or is it only her?
/r/askMRP15/02/16 02:10 PM
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It was a NEGATIVE comment about TRP in deadbedrooms that got me here. And it was a very helpful comment on another person's post in DeadBedrooms that showed me MMSLP.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 11:10 PM
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I saw this but at that price was hesitant to pull the trigger.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 09:47 PM
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Slim cut Amamti shirts I'll give this a try. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 09:46 PM
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I'm currently having a difficult time finding dress shirts that do this. I feel like I have enough extra material, in my tailored fit dress shirts, around my waste to make a sail.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 06:02 PM
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Great write up. Thanks!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 03:14 PM
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I’m gonna have to replace a goodly section of my wardrobe in the near future. Go buy new pants immediately. You will feel like a million bucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 04:09 AM
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Clearly morality does nothing for your sex appeal if she'd rather date a 6' handsome guy who risks the lives of everyone on the road by driving drunk often enough to get caught than a 5'8" accountant happily adding his piece of value to society. Also, a guy who commits white collar crimes is worse than a guy who deals weapons. Why? That shit's not alpha. This is the basic tenant of red pill.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:35 PM
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Every day in all things you do, step just a bit out of your comfort zone. Never leap out of it but constantly be stepping out of it and stretching it.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 09:50 PM
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I wouldn't get into your situation. There is nothing to be gained by it. You do not owe a woman you are meeting for coffee this level of intimacy into your affairs. You are there to build abundance mentality and practice meeting women. Sell yourself and your awesomeness. NO WOMAN wants to hear a sob story. You are practicing meeting women and putting the experience into your tool belt as one notch against oneitis and increasing abundance mentality. This is at no cost to you and only improves you…
/r/askMRP09/02/16 06:55 PM
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Yup. ignore.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 06:38 PM
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For the sake of all that is holy go meet this girl on OKC.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 06:37 PM
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Interesting anecdote on ass slapping. Without getting into details on how, my wife has a lot of availability to candid conversations among youths aged 14 to early 20s. She was relating a story to me about a HS/College aged girl at a party and a bunch of guys were slapping her ass and she was giggling and having a good time. Then another non popular guy slapped her ass and she stops, turns around and says "That's sexual harassment!" The guys are stunned. My wife leads the conversation into who de…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 06:34 PM
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Agree. What about teaching yourself something like making furniture? You could be furnishing yourself and posting shelving units on Etsy. Keep your check. Learn something new and cool. possibly get extra money.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 12:29 PM
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I'll check that out. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 11:11 PM
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Great post Redneck. I just wanted to add how important hydration is to the skin. Face looks older, dryer and more wrinkled Colognes of choice for me. YMMV - Davidoff Cool Water, Armani Acqua Di Gio, Dior Sauvage
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 07:15 PM
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The halftime show is for the ladies. I mean, Coldplay? Ladies love the Coldplay. Sure I watch. But it's mostly in case another boob falls out. Around the water cooler this morning the men were all discussing how weak the halftime show was and how funny the super bowl kids commercials were. This seems well inline of American Red Pill standards. A good hard nosed defensive effort and pussy ass halftime show. 'Merica! Fuck yeah!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 02:29 PM
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Wasn't Madonna on there a few years ago and few more years past her prime. I think it's a pattern.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 02:26 PM
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I have no idea why anyone would ever ask this of anyone they were sexually interested in. I can remember when my wife and I were dating and she asked me how many people I slept with. I told her straight up. I am not telling you and you are never telling me. This is the end of this conversation. And it was.
/r/askMRP08/02/16 02:19 PM
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Yup. It's the same thing in my biz. Software development. Get that shit out the door and fix it later. Congrats man.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/16 04:17 AM
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How could no one have mentioned the Gilmore Girls?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 10:26 PM
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My age and specific experiences may play a factor in judgement but this is not uncommon of how gay men often acted in college the 90s. Probably before that too. Also from my experience... tread carefully when confronting him. Have you ever seen him "in love" or infatuated with a girl? Or are they all just play things. Is he a true ultra uber alpha male or closeted gay. Either way you would give no fucks about girls.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:54 PM
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did you ever think that the more obvious answer was that your friend might be gay?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:02 PM
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OK. gotcha. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 05:51 PM
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WEll, I'm still at 9% for now and have only been this buff this winter so I can't show it anywhere but at the gym. BUT, at the gym, I have had women come up and talk to me for a minute or two. Complement me on my form or style etc. I make a habit of coming to the gym in my work clothes, changing into well fitting and flattering gym clothes. I am looking forward to the pool and beach this summer and even just being in t-shirts. edit: My work clothes are nice clothes.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 03:44 PM
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I'm still slow bulking right now but will start a cut according to /u/redneck001 's advice of about 0.7 to 1.0 pounds a week starting in March. Currently 5'10 167 45 yo. calipers say 9% bf. This was from 200 lbs last April. Goal to get to 7% body fat and around 165. Assuming I've added 10 lbs. of muscle I was at about 29% body fat. I wouldn't have fucked me either. I was basically following a very similar plan to u/redneck001. Even down to the rolling 7 day average weight.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 03:16 PM
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CHO: 55g, PRO: 195g, FAT: 135g. This is 10% CHO, 25% PRO and 55% FAT This doesn't add up to me. What am I missing?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 02:56 PM
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I did 1400 calories this past summer to lose 40 lbs. I am going to go back on it in April to shred down about 8 pounds before Memorial day. I can send you the script. It's basically plain oatmeal in the morning. small sandwich at lunch, protein bar in the afternoon, protein shake after workout. Cheese stick in case of emergency and have your wife make an extra kid plate for you and a fuck ton of steamed vegetables for dinner instead of an adult male plate.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 10:22 PM
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Absolutely agree.
/r/askMRP01/02/16 09:56 PM
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As shit quality that this post is I am not sure why I feel compelled to reply but... I agree that this situation is complex to "navigate" in a Captain/FO scenario. Obviously we feel a man should drive. But you are right. Having the woman navigate, if she is like my wife and most others, is a setup for disaster. The mechanical aspect of driving a car is easy. With a competent person navigating, it's simplified even further. For some god forsaken reason, reading google maps and interpreting that i…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 09:19 PM
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That's good. Just note that 2 slices of whole wheat bread is MUCH better than a bagel or soft pretzel ( for instance).
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 06:14 PM
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I need to swap out the sandwiches for a chicken salad While this is the best bet. An intermittent step might be 100% whole wheat bread.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 02:25 PM
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Yes, good read. A very good friend of mine (early forties) had his wife leave him about 3 months ago. We chatted this week and he told me he was amazed how horny 40 year old women were. Especially the married ones.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 10:44 PM
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Don’t expect her to fuck you the way she fucked ‘them’. It doesn't matter is the point we have to get to. If my wife was a CC riding whore and yours wasn't, our prescription for success is still the same. Stoicism and many other things will tell you this. We do what must be done - CC past doesn't matter. We need to get over that and move on to the forward looking perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 03:25 PM
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If it is something that doesn't interest you but you feel it is important then make it important. Call it your weakness that you need to address. Own it. Get a subscription to GQ and subscribe to r/malefashionadvice for starters. Figure out why it is important. The superior man will be well dressed for the occasion. As stated clearly by others, this does not mean fancy name brands. It means dressed for the occasion. Typically, Americans are under dressed for any occasion. So, dressing for the oc…
/r/askMRP26/01/16 12:55 AM
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Yeah, pretty much this. Came here looking for more information after reading MMSLP. Found more than I bargained for so to speak. Ended up with a much deeper path to commit to as well as much more.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 06:15 PM
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The next thing she said? "Great, what's next?", but that's a different story. Sounds a lot like "Fuck you pay me.", doesn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 06:13 PM
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It's an interesting question and one, I have to imagine, the majority of men ask themselves when they start this journey. If I had to take a wild guess, I'd say it's probably akin to any other major life changing target. How many people try to lose weight but fail? Quit smoking but fail? If you have been fat from childhood and are mobidly obese and have no friends, you're chances of losing all the fat and becoming an underwear model are probably far smaller than an ex athlete who has let himself…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 08:05 PM
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It just seems to me that in a few short years, your kids are going to be teens and off to college and a stable family life won't be as important as it is now and was for their more formative years. You'll be late fifties with a woman you have already had bad experiences with thinking about the plates you could be spinning and the vacations you could be bacheloring it up on. If you're going to be alimony and child support free in less than a decade why put your self back into that position?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 10:20 PM
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Since you put out a joke, I have another one that fits the bill here. A groom waits at the altar with a huge smile on his face. His best man asks, "Why do you look so excited?" The groom replies, "I just had the best blow job I have ever had in my entire life, and I am marrying the wonderful woman who gave it to me." The bride waits at the other end of the aisle with a huge smile on her face. Her maid of honor asks, "Why do you look so excited?" The bride replies, "I just gave the last blow job …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 07:41 PM
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I'd think of this as success. You got the sex. Obviously, not what you were hoping for but better than nothing. So, now plan for next approach.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 06:16 PM
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I just want to make sure you are not "Asking for Sex". "Honey, do you want to have sex?" is not attractive. If you just start kissing her and escalate you've got a much better shot. You may get a bit of push back but keep going until you get a harder no. Then just a "your loss." is fine. Then as said go do something fun or if you can get out of the house. That's best. Go to wall mart and look at camping gear or something.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 02:23 PM
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Comfort is key. Relaxed and able to think and answer questions without rambling or getting off point is key. Goals goals goals. Sales goals should translate well from Operational goals. Selling products is similar to motivating people to do well on a project or task. Be sure to come up with a good question at the end when they ask if you have any questions. It's the last think they will process about you. Something business like. "With the recent down turn in the market in china, have you seen a…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 01:21 PM
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You sound like your good to go. Just shave the morning of your interview. Occasionally. I see loafers and some buckled shoes which, personally, I don't find attractive. Either way, I would abstain from wearing a pair to an interview regardless. Mostly people do dress appropriately. But not everyone... As you mentioned, plain Oxfords (closed lace by definition) are best.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 09:05 PM
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This may differ per region but from where I live.... If I interview you, you should be clean shaven wearing a dark conservative suit (Navy). White shirt. Red tie. Your shoes should have laces. Not buckles or slides.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 05:42 PM
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I bring my own lunch to work almost every day. I usually have two prep sessions a week where I boil half a dozen eggs for lunch and steam some vegetables. Either broccoli or brussel sprouts. I almost always have a sandwich for lunch with a lot of meat or an entire can of tuna. Two slices of 100% whole wheat bread. So, lunch is 2 hard boiled eggs. One man sandwich. 2 servings of steamed vegetables 1 cheese stick. (Sometimes I substitute with single serving of cottage cheese.) I have those frozen …
/r/askMRP14/01/16 03:29 PM
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Totally agree on the need to do some sort of overhead press. That was THE MOST glaring exception to your workout imho.
/r/askMRP13/01/16 06:00 PM
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Sorry, although I agree with everything you said, my number one benefit is that I went from looking like a dad bod shlump to an underwear model.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 05:54 PM
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I think this is pretty much what I was thinking as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 07:42 PM
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Dude. I'm not short but I fall just short of average. I thought the same thing. You know what? I have four daughters and no sons and am done having kids. So..... there you have it. This may never actually be a problem.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 02:37 PM
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3 times a week is a good goal when starting out coming from near dead bedroom. Personally, I find this to be about what I want/need. Roughly ever other night and both weekend nights get you there. Getting there was not as hard as I expected but certainly not instantaneous. Good Luck bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 03:23 AM
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Who wants to bet that Lucy is also dating some beta bux guy who wanted to become exclusive and this was her last ditch effort to get OmLaLa to commit before committing with the second place prize?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 10:20 PM
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Thanks for the feedback on your journey. My guess is the lesson here, if we choose to look, is to take a measured approach. I can't see how, on my path, these changes would be "tearing us apart". I only see improvement in my marriage. The only complaint I can come up with is not as much improvement as I would hope for. But step by step, I am improving myself and everything about me, including my marriage, is getting better.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 06:43 PM
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Short answer no. More useful information, depending on your state's divorce laws, if you forgive her, then you can not use her cheating as leverage in the divorce suit. For example, you will pay alimony if you forgive her and then decide later to divorce but may be able to get out of it if you divorce her based on a non forgiven affair. Proof can be just that something sketchy happened like a hotel receipt. The first time is a wash. it already happened. If the second time is more recent, you cou…
/r/askMRP11/01/16 06:01 PM
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Often you can take the test online. My state is a 6 hour course that you can take for free. Requires $20 once you pass the test to get the cert that you need for a license.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 09:19 PM
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I LOVE computers, it fuels me everyday to wake up and go learn something new about them, and programming in general. Programming is what I dream of doing for the rest of my life, and I take it VERY seriously, as anyone should their career choice. When I interview you, this will show and you'll be hired before anyone else. This is the #1 trait I look for.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:02 PM
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One step at a time. I instituted a tad bit of dread by taking an appointment after work and not telling her about it, resulting in being late an hour or so. Personally, 2 days in, even this might be a little hard. If you are coming from a place of never doing anything without her approval first, you can start with telling her that you are going to do something. Get her used to the idea that you are no longer only doing things that she tells you to do or approves. Then, you can move to this next …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 04:07 PM
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Have to look at what kind of short term project I can use to increase linux bash scripting knowledge. You could get a raspberry pi for linux.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 03:49 PM
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I've been doing yoga for a while now and it is great. I strongly recommend it. My wife does it as well and we sometimes go together. Mostly, it is a separate endeavor for us.
/r/askMRP07/01/16 03:22 PM
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Ok. Since I also have a Masters in Comp Sci, love video games and have found a balance in my life for these things, I'll chime in. If you love it and it makes you happy, you have to find time to include it into your life. But limit it. You'll probably find diminishing returns on the amount of time invested in anime, for instance. I'd say set some ground rules for yourself just to break habits and form new ones. Substitute for "cool" hobbies. Also, there are a lot of hobbies that translate well f…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:35 PM
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I too have lifted for many years and continue to play hockey sports yet until I began weekly workouts with a "pro" I never really hit my legs, core, and low back properly. Slightly edited version of this is true for me too.
/r/askMRP05/01/16 02:58 PM
1

I'm actually afraid to read that book.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 01:53 PM
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Jocko is a beast. He just oozes how to be a man. The message of extreme ownership is awesome. At any point in anything, there is a chance for YOU to fix whatever it is that is about to go wrong. Only you are to blame. Never stop learning how to be that man and be able to affect change. What is really fucked up is now that I am in my forties I realize that my own father never stopped trying to teach me this as a kid. It is probably those lessons that enabled me to succeed so far on the gridiron a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 05:47 PM
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Getting drunk with your wife and having her drive you around is pretty blue pill beta. You are putting yourself in a child like position. You are the Master And Commander. Believe me, I know your pain though. It is tough around my wife's family since they all drink pretty heavily at times. So, I tell her to drink with them and I'll drive. It can get pretty boring/annoying being around a bunch of drunk in-laws but whatever. Too bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 03:58 PM
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My trainer suggested doing inverted pull ups when I feel like I need to get pull ups in but have done so much other lifting during the session that I wouldn't be able to do many.
/r/askMRP04/01/16 12:08 AM
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Bottom line is you're 24 and have learned a good solid lesson. You're on the right track, Red Pill aware and still young. The world is your fucking oyster. Stay manly and go enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 04:05 PM
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Hot chicks usually want fat chicks around to worship them.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:04 PM
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Yes, I do yoga as well and I agree with what you said. Except, there is nothing wrong with banging "SJW feminists, left wing activist types". I think what people miss in this is that you need to go to yoga because you want to. Men can get a ton out of yoga and once they start, get into it and go often, it is a great place to meet women. But showing up at a yoga class when you don't know what you are doing isn't going to attract chicks. Going, learning, practicing and improving will.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:03 PM
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You forgot stuntman and helicopter pilot. Women find the shit you mentioned attractive. Obviously you aren't going to meet women painting small warriors. And I know that when I fire up my PS4, I'm not meeting babes. But if I want to meet babes, I would have to leave my house as step 1.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:55 PM
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I was the "gentleman" and never got laid and contrasting with the times I was anything but and got laid on 2nd date every time. This! One interesting takeaway from swallowing the red pill is that when reflecting on my dating life, all the girls I thought probably thought I was a pig probably dug the shit I did. I Was amazed I got away with what I did and was always waiting for the hammer to drop. It almost never did but when it did it was weak. Dude, some of the shit I pulled....
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 03:07 PM
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If it is a non career type low end job, I would assume people aren't looking for passion. They are looking for hardworking and reliable. Depending on how hard it is to train someone, loyalty comes in. If it takes me 5 minutes to train you, loyalty isn't key. If I need to break you in over the course of a month and it's costing me hours a day, loyalty is important.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 09:30 PM
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I would say that you just detailed two good reasons to have a public facing social media presence that shows you as an upstanding member of society. Probably a good Red Pill tenant to do this anyhow.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:09 PM
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Everyone in here older than you who has existed as a blue pill adult before swallowing the pill has had this happen to him. Probably more than once. Listen to what we are telling you... It's over. move on. It hurts yes. In time, it will not hurt. As Pablo stated Another dude is giving her stronger tingles. that much is true.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:56 PM
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Great stuff. All very true. I also interview a lot. Including some college students. I'll add... Fucking smile! Smiling shows confidence. When shaking a hand, the grip should be like your holding something heavy like an axe or a hammer. Not tight but firm. If I ask you if you have any questions and you say no. You are not getting the job. period end of story. Also, I'm in the tech industry and hire programmers. You need to show me that you enjoy technology. You enjoy programming, problem solving…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 03:25 PM
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So close to my actual answer for this.... What is your greatest weakness? Well, if you had asked me that a few years ago I would have said Public Speaking. But it really bothered me that I wasn't good at it. So, I made a point to work on it. Now, if you ask me what my greatest strength is I'm not ready to say public speaking but someday.....
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 03:20 PM
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If after this you just need a nice quick masculine story to get your spirits back... Gunga Din
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 02:44 PM
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Originally, I read it in Married Man's sex life Primer but I do not believe he used that exact terminology. But really think of it this way. the next time you have sex, just do what you want to do and don't worry about her enjoyment at all. Fuck her hard. don't worry, her pussy can take your pounding. Just enjoy the sheer non stop deep thrusting you are giving. don't worry about how long you last or anything. Just fuck her hard. Now, what will happen is it will slightly change the sexual dynamic…
/r/askMRP19/12/15 04:50 AM
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Well, then yes. I can see how this would work.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 09:42 PM
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obviously I can't walk off because I'm driving, Yes, I have found that driving in the car is my weakest place. You can't hold yourself up to high standards. So forgive yourself if this is where you may have slipped. BUT, you know this now. This was probably a time to go for a "You're so cute." comment or some other tactic mentioned by others.
/r/askMRP18/12/15 07:00 PM
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Yes, I posted a link to his earlier work on this thread as well. The Complete Skinny on Obesity
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 05:49 PM
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This is a pretty good starter youtube video on a calorie is not a calorie Dr. Robert Lustig's YouTube videos on the role sugar plays in obesity. In this compilation of the popular YouTube series "The Skinny on Obesity," Dr. Lustig and his UCSF colleagues dig deeper into the root causes of the obesity epidemic. Discover why what we eat is as important as how much we eat.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 04:27 PM
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First off. Congrats on losing the weight. Keep it up. If you believe you overdosed on sugar or ate too much or drank too much the day before, try eating way less the next day. To comment on this. If someone has the willpower to do the second part, would they even have slipped in the first place and have done the first part?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 04:24 PM
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Subtly poke fun at his dad's work to undermine him? So fucking frustrating. Ok. So that is one lesson learned. Which if we learn and move on improved, we are good to go. Secondly, to answer this question. Subtly poke fun at his dad's work to undermine him? So fucking frustrating. I think this would be wrong. I would thank him for helping out. You were very busy with work. Thanks so much for helping make the Christmas wonderful for the kids. They're his grand kids too. You lost the first battle. …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 04:06 PM
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All you had to say was, that's right, we should come up with a long-term spending plan for 2016. We'll see when we have the time and money for some of these projects. Probably not too late for this and something I should beat her to the punch with. Thanks. You are correct that I used to be told how we spent our money and didn't spend it on myself because she was using it up. Not putting us in debt but not leaving me much. Now that I have taken back control (Finances, paying bills etc.) I have to…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 03:27 PM
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I had to work and do some shopping and turns out I ran out of time before Home Depot closed so I can go get reindeer and set them up Work is work. But the shopping? If you look back on it, could it be a case of priorities? Could you have bought the reindeer first, then done the shopping another time?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 07:33 PM
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Last night was blue pill flash back night. Yelled at the kids at one point to come down for dinner instead of calmly walking upstairs. When I heard "Let go of me." I lost it and shouted. Secondly, I told my wife I was going to take the two older kids on an adventure this weekend she said that we need to stop spending money this close to christmas. Lately I just spend money on me when I feel like it. We've spent a ton on presents as usual and planned our summer trip this week. <PAUSE> Now, this i…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 03:42 PM
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At first yes. But I'd say mad not sad. However, once you understand it, you embrace it. It's similar to when my wife says I'm acting like a jerk and then jumps my bones. It is the new reality.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 06:17 PM
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She wasn't going to fuck the guy- but she WOULD have fucked me as soon as I got her alone if I have played my cards right. It's like when I was at a show with my wife and she was digging the singer. She jumped my bones the second we were in the car.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 03:20 PM
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When I look back on it, my football coaches taught me how to be a man. I feel bad for all those boys playing soccer.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 02:57 PM
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I Read the whole thing. No problem bro. What I have to offer is this. I married my wife at your current age of 29. What you are describing is worse than what I was going through when I decided I had to come to MRP after 15 years of marriage. I have 4 kids now. As young as you are and with no kids, I would strongly suggest to you that this is NOT the woman you have to spend the rest of your life with. If you want to try to do that then you can turn it around. But there is still time in your life …
/r/askMRP04/12/15 09:53 PM
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ind the best way to not put up with it. Excellent.
/r/askMRP01/12/15 06:15 PM
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This is the crux of it. LTR! Not even a marriage? I wouldn't put up with this. You shouldn't. Start to think about how you are going to improve yourself and the new you is going to get some sweet - high quality pussy that isn't this broad.
/r/askMRP01/12/15 09:21 AM
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Yeah man, I certainly did. But then you realize you aren't getting what you want out of it. AND THEN, you get this BFF comment and if you question it enough, you end up here. You now know the answers. They aren't secrets or short cuts. But there is a way. And you are right. It's more man than boy. Playful like a boy but strong and leading like a man. The big change will be when you are no longer scared of her walking out. You may still think that will suck but you aren't frightened by it. The cl…
/r/askMRP28/11/15 02:31 PM
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Great job. Isn't it amazing? I used to treat girls like shit when I was younger and got what I needed. I felt bad but liked the results, NEVER realizing they probably liked that shit. After marriage I figured well this is my wife and I should cow tail to her wants. Now I know that was wrong. Can't dwell on the lost 15 years I guess. Plow forward.
/r/askMRP25/11/15 11:55 PM
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This was probably the best thing I've read in this sub. Great fucking job. You've honestly answered some questions I've had but haven't been able to put into words. thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 11:43 PM
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No shit. OK. I Lolled a little bit at this and a little at myself for wording it that way. having children are all incongruent with my personal happiness. I don't want any of these things and never will. Cool. And the incredibly lucky thing is that you don't have a biological clock ticking against you. If you change your mind in 10 years, that's cool. If not, that's cool too. I hope you realize how lucky you are to have discovered TRP at your age before ... well you obviously know.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 11:41 PM
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It's black and white. If you can handle a marriage because you can handle any woman's shit tests, keep frame, own your shit and NGAF you could probably be happy in marriage. But would you want to? Probably not. You're knee deep in pussy already. What have you to gain?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:18 PM
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Do you now understand that your mom was shit testing him and he was failing? Do you feel you would be able to handle the shit tests and comfort tests, maintain frame and run the family as an alpha? I'm not saying get married but if you feel you could do this, you could be happy. maybe.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:14 PM
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Yes, we do all want to believe this is what our special snowflake would say. But once you've fully understood and made the changes you realize this is not the case but you are alright with it. This is what a blue pill guy has been led to believe would be his wife's response. You are showing signs of swallowing the pill - the basic understanding that things aren't what they seem and that there is work to do to correct your path. You are going to be mad at first. Why wouldn't you be mad? Welcome t…
/r/askMRP25/11/15 03:45 PM
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I got something less obvious. "That was ... intense." - after the first caveman.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 02:34 PM
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Read WISNIFG. You don't have to answer to any questions she asks. In fact, you are in her frame when you assume that you have obligations to tell her. SO IMPORTANT!!!!!
/r/askMRP16/11/15 06:05 PM
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This is easy to understand if you put yourself in their shoes. they want to fuck assholes but they don't want to fuck you. If she doesn't want to fuck someone, their being an asshole is not helpful to her. It makes things harder for her. She has to put up with an asshole when she needs someone to fix her sink or get a mocha latte with her. So, they don't want you to be an asshole because they don't want to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 07:57 PM
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The standard you set is the one you'll reach. Raise your expectations/standards and watch everything else fall into place. Just felt this needed repeating.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/15 01:49 PM
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Play your nice card first and engage as if nothing happened. If she continues whining or being a bitch you ignore HER until the next day when you reengage again. Yes. Waking up in the morning, coming home from work etc. No matter what, I am THE HAPPIEST person on earth. Until I have a reason to not be. No reason will last beyond the next reset.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 07:05 PM
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I hate how logic doesn't work in relationships. I would embrace it instead of hate it. I think the bottom line is that if this girl is begging to get you back, you can do better. You know that. You're just not sure you can do better. I don't know you but feel you can.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:57 PM
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It seems to be true that betas do not get much sex after they are married. I ended up in a low sex marriage but learning and practicing RP has vastly increased the amount of sex between me and my wife. I'm fairly certain that most of the men you talk to are betas and are relating their true feelings about their experience with marriage. If you don't date a fair amount of women how would you know that you have a good one? I did date a lot of women. I was a High School and college athlete and gene…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:01 PM
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Agree. If you are like me, I can't look at something that needs to get done and not do it. So, If I notice the dishwasher needs to be emptied, I empty it. No covert contracts. No bull shit about who did it. I just do it. My wife is a neat freak so I just assume she's put in more than her fair share already. that said, I don't expect her to rake the leaves or help with that in any way. It's a man's job. I know I ain't gonna get any by doing it. But I need to do it because there are leaves all ove…
/r/askMRP09/11/15 03:46 PM
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Christmas shopping for the year almost finished. For wife, One board game One piece of lingerie One sundress thingy I thought would look hot on her and I can lift up and .... well you know. Also, she needs a new laptop so I'll get her that. And yes, I do plan on putting some skittles in her stocking as well. So, mostly shit I want for her and one item she just needs. No trip because I'm saving up (both financially and for coverage of watching my kids) for a very nice anniversary trip to somewher…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 02:29 PM
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From the CDC... Percent of adults age 20 years and over who are overweight, including obesity: 69.0% (2011-2012) You were close bro. But this data is 4 years old and I'm sure it's trending in your direction.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 06:55 PM
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Yup. The first time she told me i was being a jerk and then initiated sex 30 minutes later, I got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 06:13 PM
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This sounds very similar to where I was pre RedPill. Since I always wanted sex I'd be willing whenever she wanted it, which was about every 10 to 14 days. She would get in the mood after a few drinks or watching something sexy or who knows... talking to some Chad at a bar for all I knew. then I'd have my chance and go to town. So, I think I see what your saying. And yes, this will change once you understand the methods/reasons/mindset and put it all into practice. Not all at once but you'll be m…
/r/askMRP04/11/15 09:05 PM
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That you trust her and will forgive her. Will you? Who the fuck knows what is going to come out. Do you really want to hear about a threesome she had in college? Or the guy with such a big cock it hurt every time. btw, She is so glad yours isn't that big. What are you going to do if you hear about that?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 05:58 PM
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Have you read When I Say No I Feel Guilty? Important question.
/r/askMRP04/11/15 01:37 PM
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The difference between your average tip and a great/amazing tip is usually as little as $2-$3. This is so true. You can tip a regular tip or throw in another $2 and make an impression on the bar tender that could help you later on.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 06:02 PM
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Dude, The two biggest movies seen by women in America this summer. One was about male strippers and the other was about S&M.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 01:29 PM
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Golf. It is something I've always wanted to do. I took semi weekly lessons this entire summer. Hit golf balls at the range at least once a week mostly twice a week and played a few times a month. Kind of a large $$ hit and would only recommend it if you have the cash.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 06:20 PM
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I agree that you are pretty text book right now. Reacting to your wife's orders. You need to learn to do the leading. The good news is that this doesn't seem like a terrible incident. More of a matter of course. You are recognizing that this incident was not up to your standards. NOW, you will learn to take control and avoid these situations. Good luck. Keep reading, lifting and get manly.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 01:58 PM
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Got it. Thanks everyone for taking the time. I wanted answers to this question for helping me give advice in this sub.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 01:52 PM
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Find a good autobiography of someone you think doesn't put up with shits and does things well. Excellent advice.
/r/askMRP30/10/15 07:22 PM
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Man, that post could have come from me 6 months ago. Sounds frighteningly familiar. It's the mind set that has to change first. Married Mans' sex life primer will explain the WHY you are in this position and WHY it doesn't make sense and point you in the direction of how to change it.
/r/askMRP30/10/15 07:19 PM
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Me too. The only difference is that I discovered all of this 6 months ago and have been improving ever since. It looks a lot better on this side but you have to do the work to get here. Both physical and mental.
/r/askMRP30/10/15 07:15 PM
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So, shortly after reading the book, I was in a restaurant. My wife and one child ordered an entree to split. It was a pizza. the other 4 entrees come out and the waiter tells us the pizza will come out soon. I withhold eating while my kids start their meals. Oldest, myself and wife don't eat. The kids finish and the pizza never came out. I got up went over to the hostess and said something like this... "My wife and daughter split a pizza. It hasn't come out. The rest of the family has finished t…
/r/askMRP30/10/15 07:10 PM
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I think you should read (MMSLP) Married Mans Sex Life Primer and it will get you a good foundation. The way of men is a great book but is more of a second tier book that helps you put masculinity into perspective. NMNNG is also a great book on assertiveness but this is a whole lot deeper than that. NMMNG will help you implement what you learn you need to do in MMSLP. Frame can best be thought of as frame of mind. A totally non MRP related example. If you believe you can jump 100 feet across a ch…
/r/askMRP29/10/15 08:44 PM
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STFU is most valuable when you are asked why the milk carton was put in the fridge backwards and on the wrong shelf and what you want to say is "What's the fucking difference?". Of course you can say, "It must have been jostled around when I was fucking you against the fridge this morning. Oh wait that wasn't you. I don't know why."
/r/askMRP29/10/15 03:45 PM
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Good. WISNIFG will totally change the way you perceive questions like these, and will also give you some practical skills to deal with them from wherever they come. Truth. Very important book.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 01:00 PM
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I can't imagine any positives coming out of a woman admitting to a lover that she's had a MFM threesome unless she was trying to get some angry cave man sex out of the guy and didn't give a shit about him or their future. Or she is completely oblivious to how men feel about this shit.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:40 PM
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A woman really ha one card in the relationship: sex. All the other shot she does: house stuff, kid maintenance, etc., is all shit I could do without her. I can have conversations with anyone. Yup. When you are able to say "What the fuck do you do around here anyway?" - you will be where you need to be.
/r/askMRP24/10/15 09:13 PM
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I have two thoughts competing in my head. One. It depends on who her dad is. If it were my wife's dad, I'd say hell no. Two, You want to be the best version of yourself. Not her version of what you should be.
/r/askMRP23/10/15 05:49 PM
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My biggest problem with Powell's article isn't in his POV. The structure of the article is horrible. He offers no solution whatsoever to his proposed problem. His conclusion is "And when you say nothing at all, you become just as guilty." I don't know. Maybe we can we just throw in a chapter on Rachel Carson in 7th grade and be done with it?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 05:36 PM
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I've known quite a few females who were talented enough programmers. It was usually their inability to work in a team that made them sub par. But usually I am getting 10 apps for men for every 1 app for a woman. On paper, they usually come accross the same. Usually towards the top GPA wise. Usually, they crumble during the interview. Usually I hire the kid who is geeky about coding. Just loves this shit. Loves to learn about it and share what he learned. I have yet to interview a woman who has t…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:19 AM
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Fuck. I cried like a little girl at the end of Hoosiers. and that scene in Band of Brothers where the little kid was tasting chocolate for the first time. oh man. water works.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:10 PM
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I hire MIS degree students straight out of school and pay them about 50k as "IT Analysts".
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:01 PM
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Very well put. Important for new guys to understand that this line would not have worked for me on day 1.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:51 PM
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I went out on a limb the other night with this gem... Her: Why is this place such a mess? Me: I should pay more attention...(pause - turn and make eye contact)... to tracking your cycle. It worked.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:23 PM
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I've read the FAQ, and the stories from the past week already. Thanks in advance Yes, go read The Married Man's Sex Life Primer. You'll learn a lot in the day or 2 it takes to read it. You're not going to be able to put it down.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 03:20 PM
2

I know right? I remember saying to my wife once. "Do you think you are never wrong or do I just not harp on you for everything you do wrong?"
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 03:13 PM
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It's been almost 6 months and things are much improved. The two biggest takeaways are dealing with shit tests and initiating sex. I am acing shit tests. No more walking on egg shells around the house. Sex frequency is up quite a bit. I still think that MMSLP is the key book in all this. It opened my eyes. The rest help realize how and what to do but that book is the why. Also, the shit I've done in the past few months is incredible. Lost 40 pounds and am bench pressing 140% of my body weight. I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 12:59 PM
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They spoke of how men set the terms, host the parties, provide the alcohol, exert the influence. So... we have to do all the work to even get anything going and there is a power imbalance? She winds up feeling bad for not having done the work of telling her partners how to make her feel good. “What I want is not for me to have that burden. I want one of my male partners, who are wonderful men who care about me, to have just once been like, ‘No, this is unacceptable to me. I’m not going to contin…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:35 PM
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Yeah, that was where I was rescued.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 06:03 PM
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Ok. So, first of all initiating sex is what she wants. Now, the first time you do this, you may need to experiment. Here is something I did one of the first times. It's very blue pill to red pill like a turtle coming out of the shell but it works. I started with a snuggle so we were close and I just concentrated on what I wanted until it was go time. Then, I rolled us both over so I'm on top of her and pushed her legs apart with my legs. Both still in pjs or whatever. Then grind on her. She will…
/r/askMRP21/10/15 02:53 PM
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Whenever I feel like I am doing more than my share of the housework, I usually very loudly and joking ask her "What the hell do you do around here anyway?" She laughs but she gets it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 03:18 PM
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This is a great fucking question. I've often wondered about it. I have no idea if I'm way off target but here is what I've been doing to address this concern. What I do is keep my work stuff on until after dinner. I'll even go so far as to break out a fucking apron to protect my clothes if need be (I sometimes cook dinner if she is out with the kids and I'm home first). After dinner is finished and kitchen is clean and homework is finished, I put on a nicer t-shirt or long sleeve shirt and eithe…
/r/askMRP20/10/15 01:36 PM
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I think my life is richer with her in it. I would definitely do things differently though. Not combine bank account. Not have given so much of myself and my money to shit I knew "we" didn't need thinking it would make her happy and my life easier etc.
/r/askMRP18/10/15 11:31 PM
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I'm mid forties. A high school friend of mine is now a high school teacher. He was telling me this summer that the sex scene in HS is more promiscuous than when we were in school and that it's the girls that are taking charge and initiating.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 03:37 PM
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This seems correct.
/r/askMRP16/10/15 12:53 PM
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Better enjoy it while it lasts. Amen brother. My grandfathers lived in these times. Will your grandsons?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 12:52 PM
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Nice read. thanks. At this point, I still need to keep myself reminded of this. Particularly liked this reference to The Way of Men, "Bonobo circle-boink"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 12:51 PM
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Yes, it's just branch swinging. She no longer values your commitment and sees commitment from a better man as a better option. The SMV part comes into play and she believes she can get commitment from a better man.
/r/askMRP15/10/15 04:59 PM
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6'1, 190lb That's fairly ripped if it's lower than 10% bf. I was out with the guys last night and of course the conversation turned to the wives.. It was very tempting to spill the RP beans. I instead offered some examples on tactics I use without coming close to spilling about RP. Just one or two items that they could do to alleviate an issue or two. Helpful to their world without disturbing it. Man, it was tempting to just blurt out "The world's not what you think... blargh....."
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 12:51 PM
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so each time she would do it, I would get up and bring him back to his own room and settle him in there,no matter how long it took. This is generally the advice you will find in the books, and from my experience and that of others is what it takes sometimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:31 PM
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Hit that nail right on the head.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:27 PM
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Good start. Don't push it. Be playful like you are. As for the text. When you finish the readings, and you will soon, you will know that not all questions need answers. You will learn to STFU when the wife throws something at you. so, for now. be playful. don't respond to the text. Expect some fun at 9 pm tonight but that fun may not have sex in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:23 PM
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5'6 165 is not fat but it ain't in good shape unless you really are quite muscle bound. You're probably looking at 145 as a target.
/r/askMRP12/10/15 04:13 PM
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This year, my first anniversary since swallowing the red pill, I got my wife a card and a nice bar of chocolate for our anniversary. I picked this up from a cvs on my way home from work that day..... I ate most of the chocolate. We went out to dinner at a place of my choosing. She didn't know where it was until we walked into the front door. She loved it. Previously, I would have picked up flowers and spent at least $100 on something and worried about it for weeks. I feel this anniversary was on…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 04:40 AM
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k her head in the locker room anymore and seemed to understand while she might not like or be able to grok the jargon , that she appreciates where it got us. Many of them did, in fact, have cunnilingus performed on them as well. So, there's also that "contributing factor".
/r/askMRP10/10/15 05:47 PM
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LOL. I'll see if I can work that into my repertoire.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 01:27 AM
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I can't really remember the specifics but it was a general understanding/acceptance. I'm sure with hidden doubts. Acta non verba. So, the verba usually doesn't produce tingles in these situations. Just kind of sets boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 09:12 PM
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No. Actually I got the anal back in my blue pill days but didn't really like it. it was both of our first time. At least that is what she claimed.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 09:10 PM
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My wife's reaction to my swallowing the red pill... "You know you're going through a midlife crisis don't you?" My response was something like "I'm just realizing that the 40 something year old man I am now is a much more capable man than the 20 something year old boy you married. I'm just acting like that 40 something man instead of just performing the roles pressed upon me as a 20 something year old boy."
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:33 PM
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IMH RedPill opinion, if your somewhat already committed to someone, why on earth would you bring up asking their number unless you were 100% willing to act on the answer? You have to know there are outcomes. If she says 200, are you prepared for that answer? What will you do if you hear that? If you haven't already made up your mind on what you will do before you ask, DON'T ASK. Refuse to listen. Then ask yourself why you are afraid to hear it. Then get yourself to a place where you can. Then as…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:20 PM
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BF 13%, BMI 24 So, you're not "fat and out of shape". But... you are not ripped. My advice is to get under 10% bf and really hit the gym and your diet harder. Then Sorcerer king had it right with... Wardrobe upgrade, new haircut, new cologne, get a motorcycle. You won't hear that talk again anytime soon. And get your career stabilized. Perhaps a steady 9 to 5 at this point would be better for you. Get you out of the house and out of flexible beta provider mode.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 12:46 PM
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Yes, everyone's journey is different. I start with MMSLP which was suggested in DeadBedrooms to another person. I was just lurking there. That book opened my eyes and led me to here once I needed more.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 12:41 PM
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Great advice here FearDog.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 12:40 PM
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It's one of those things where it's not a problem until it is a problem. Most likely, if you're wondering if it's a problem you've crossed that threshold. For me, I don't really use porn and limit masturbation. I know that if I release myself I will have a prolonged time before I feel like initiating. And that is a problem for me. For everyone else that threshold is different.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 12:35 PM
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It's even easier when you're the coach.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 05:07 PM
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OK. Well now he's here so....... db_db_db would you like to ask some questions to people that have been in your situation and have, or are in the process of, turning it around?
/r/askMRP08/10/15 11:47 AM
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Your choices were to STFU or make an immediate AA or AM response. An example would be, "You're probably right, I do have a nice ass." Exactly. Your getting defensive about it later was a pretty big mistake.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 07:26 PM
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The art of man's list of 45 manly hobbies
/r/askMRP07/10/15 03:19 PM
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When your wife makes an accusation of your personality or calls into question your actions, she is attempting to pull you into her frame. If you STFU you refuse to enter her frame. If you AA or AM , you pull her out of her frame into yours. The Padawan learns the STFU and the master learns the AA and AM. And.... Texting is for logistics only. Texting is for logistics only. Texting is for logistics only. Texting is for logistics only. Texting is for logistics only. Got it?
/r/askMRP07/10/15 01:03 PM
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I was never handy until i just said fuck it, I'm going to figure this shit out myself. Often, I had to repair something twice because I fucked it up the first time. But I learned from that and fixed it right the second time. I have two rules. I don't get on ladders and I don't fuck around with the electrical box. Other than that, I try everything. Sometimes I fuck it up but mostly I fix it right the first time. When I know I've met my match, I call in a pro. A few months ago, after swallowing th…
/r/askMRP07/10/15 12:58 PM
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First part of answer. You guys agree? No. If this happened to me, I'd see it as a relief. Expectations are set low. I don't have to do anything for her birthday. Anything I do will be above expectations. Second part of answer. Your obviously early on in you unplugging. I'm only 5 months in and I can see the newb on you. Once you get a little further along you will see this for what it is. Me: if one us is going to be tired its you. You can sleepwalk through your job. I can't. If I do that we don…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:35 PM
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Grocery Store and buy a piece of fruit for tomorrow's lunch. Something nice like a mango. Grocery stores are open Soooo late. Thanks to RedNeck001, I found the closest wall mart to me. Man there's a lot of shit in there. And it's open 24 hours. Parking lot with my kindle and read.
/r/askMRP05/10/15 08:28 PM
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Now, her holding out sexually is a dealbreaker for more attractive men. Most attractive men will never, ever do that "dance" with her. And she's not willing to "dance" with less attractive men. So, I've definitely nexted women who held out the sex for too long for that reason alone. I have to believe that Most attractive men will never, ever do that "dance" with her. Is the reason why
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 05:34 PM
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You know. This is totally spot on. And the sooner I can fully 100% gauge myself around the fact that "It's not my problem." The better off I'l be. Amen sister!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 05:32 PM
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From The Paulo Coelho book Adultery "Today I am a woman torn between the terror that everything might change and the equal terror that everything might carry on exactly the same for the rest of my days."
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 05:26 PM
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Good job mate. As you stated, the longer you are working on this, trying and applying the more you get OI and oneitis weakens. Little by little step by step.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/15 12:55 PM
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Start. Luckily it's wrapping up for the weekend though. I just re-read what I wrote and realize what a pussy I must have sounded like. Ugh. The last time a GNO came up I read Rollo's article and acted on it. My problem seems to be a memory thing. I forgot about that advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/15 12:50 PM
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OK. It's pretty bad but not all garbage. This was funny... 4. The modern man doesn’t cut the fatty or charred bits off his fillet. Every bite of steak is a privilege, and it all goes down the hatch. I do this... 5. The modern man won’t blow 10 minutes of his life looking for the best parking spot. He finds a reasonable one and puts his car between the lines. I don't fuck around with tiny bits of soap either. 12. The modern man checks the status of his Irish Spring bar before jumping in for a was…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:33 PM
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Two things. I too came here from lurking Dead Bedrooms and r/relationships and that shit. But someone mentioned to an OP that he should read MMSLP. So, I did. That led me to here. I don't think I would have been as receptive to someone showing me this sub right away. IRL, I've dropped some RP knowledge but not mentioned any RP. But just in general telling men it's not worth it to try to rationalize with their wives about why they bought the wrong toilet paper. Trying to tell them to just STFU. M…
/r/askMRP01/10/15 01:11 PM
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Taught to me early in life by a friend's father. Things you can control Things you can't control Things you can influence. Obviously a bit of a grey area. As I'm not yet reading the stoics I'm interested to know how they would classify the 3rd case as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 01:54 PM
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I waited for a 3 month update to my progress before my first post. I like that idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 12:54 PM
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A woman's ability to cheat is so much greater than a man's, it's not even close This is one of the main points of ... well everything here. Thanks for the advise. She is currently on day 2 of her cycle so, I had to tread lightly but set the expectations last night. I didn't get an ok. But more of a "You know me well enough to know that isn't my idea of a good time anyway." I just said, yes but I think we both know that these things lead to inappropriate behavior and I'm not sure we want to be a …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 12:52 PM
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If your wife or gf is going out to get attention and validation about her body from other men, it means that she does not respect you and your validation means nothing. This is the issue at heart, I think. You have to wonder what the motivation is.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 09:13 PM
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all you can really do is increase your SMV, and enforce your boundries. You have to trust she will not fuck her life up if it's going well. Yup. Thanks for the input.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 09:11 PM
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Out of town GNOs, like trips to Vegas or NYC? Nope. Luckily this has never come up. Yuck! Also, you go to wedding receptions and high school reunions together, or you don't go. You both go, or no one goes. Totally agree on this one too.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 07:38 PM
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Found in my forties after 15 years of marriage. Been turning shit around for the past 5 months. Would have been awesome to have had this knowledge back in my 20s. Rock on young amigos!
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:19 AM
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A lot of good advice here. So, I'm just going to answer your question. What are your thoughts on the percentage of men who, in their mid to late twenties, consider sex once a month adequate? I'm not sure about the percentage but I would hazard to guess that guys with no game, fat out of shape , etc. would consider this an adequate amount of sex. If you were wondering through the sexual dessert and the oasis of once a month sex came around you would consider yourself saved. In my opinion, once a …
/r/askMRP29/09/15 02:04 AM
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Very good tip!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 04:33 PM
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get a little satisfaction by telling her just how fucked up she is and why I'm leaving. I don't think this is going to help you. This is old you seeking to feel better by hurting someone who hurt you. You need to move on. You are now a free independant Red Pill Man. I am not going to tell you not to fuck this chick. I am going to tell you to stop paying for anything for her. Paying for meals, paying her attention etc. Realize that this relationship is pretty much over. Relegate her to a plate? M…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 04:29 PM
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She called him six times after the reunion was over. There are red flags and there are deal breakers. IMO, this is a deal breaker. There is no reasonable explanation for this action. You obviously get this. You obviously know this in your core (heart of hearts etc). You are just too whipped (right now) to do what is right. You are in a forum of people who 6 months, one year, two years were as whipped as you but have turned themselves around or are in a similar process as you. Except most of them…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 02:22 PM
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On my dorm room wall in college was a poster of a super hot chick and the title said "Somewhere, some guy is sick and tired of putting up with her shit." Daily fucking reminder.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 03:23 PM
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Yeah, and once you go bald that list of what shit is yours plummets even more. Toothbrush, deodorant, razor, shaving cream. That's it. That's literally the only fucking thing in the bathroom that's solely mine.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 03:20 PM
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I am 5' 11'' You're taller than me.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 03:01 PM
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Exactly. Women don't argue with their mate in a rational fashion. she isn't going to let you win. She wants an alpha male who doesn't need to win an argument with her wife.
/r/askMRP24/09/15 02:10 PM
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I've worked with a ton of Indians over the years and it's been great to learn from them. Some Indian fellows come over here and blend in well and some don't. You'll have to realize that when you first step off the plan you'll look/act/feel and smell like a foreigner. But all of that can change and it will. If you want and get serious about it I can easily tell you what you can do to prepare before you come over to the US to make the transition much easier. A lot of general hygiene and dressing s…
/r/askMRP24/09/15 01:24 AM
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I look like comedian Aziz Ansari. I'm same ethinicity,skin colour and height as him. I don't know how desirable it is there. He is pretty short by American standards. Honestly, that isn't going to help you. But fuck it. An american stint will be an awesome experience and boost your confidence. I have to imagine that having spent a couple years in NYC or some shit will improve your SMV in India when you get back. Plus you can hit up the tittie bars and really enjoy yourself here for a bit. And ba…
/r/askMRP24/09/15 01:18 AM
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But when it comes to getting into a defense over an argument This is where I find the best use of STFU when beginning. Try to lure me into an argument and you get nothing. Absolutely nothing. no response and possibly use body language to signify no longer interested in you. My attention is moving away from you and your nonsense. Now, if I can think of a good AA or AM I use it.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 01:53 PM
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edit: Adding one more situation. Her: Hi hon. How was your day?" You: Answer her. :)
/r/askMRP22/09/15 01:48 PM
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Ok. I'll try with some examples. Her: "What is this crap all over the counter?" You: STFU (Keep doing whatever it was you were doing or turn away from her and open a book. check your cell phone.) Her: "You got 3 apples when you went shopping? We only needed 2." you:STFU (Keep doing whatever it was you were doing or turn away from her and open a book. check your cell phone.) Another situation. You are initiating sex. Her: I'm not in the mood. You: STFU Grab a tit, an ass cheek, kiss her neck. Obv…
/r/askMRP22/09/15 01:46 PM
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Beautiful. I have a reunion coming up in two months and am going to go with something like this. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 01:39 PM
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Exactly this. It may make sense in some cases but doesn't seem to in our cases. Most guys don't. Maybe some do after they are getting improvements.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 10:20 AM
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If you want to go, you go. Expect shit test from wife about you going and you go anyways. This sounds pretty straight forward and expected from my point of view. and that letting her go after all that she did today would simply be me saying it's cool for her to act that way. In this situation you are going because you want to go. The alpha just says he's going and doesn't give a fuck. Sounds like too much talking. edit: Is my sudden desire to prep for this meeting I've known about all weekend my…
/r/askMRP21/09/15 12:09 AM
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DO NOT PICK A FIGHT!!! Sounds like you are actually doing fine.
/r/askMRP21/09/15 12:03 AM
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Maybe they can. maybe they can't. But what's the fucking point? You should be friending men and fucking women when you're that age with no kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 12:01 AM
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I just graduated college, but my LTR is in her third year Once upon a time the old mrpcamper was in that exact same predicament. She cheated. I acted beta. We broke up. My life moved on. You are young. Go get yourself some more pussy immediately. You need to build up your abundance mentality for god's sake. If I knew what's on the side bar after graduating for college.... GOOD LORD!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 12:00 AM
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Good question. and the answer is no. I do not mean go radio silent. You can text with her but ignore that type of shit. It's like this.... pretend you did respond "thanks babe" but don't. What would your next text be? Send that one. In WISNIFG we learn that you don't need to respond to everything or answer every question. Just move the conversation on to the next part without acknowledging what she said. In summary, I'm not saying stop communicating after an incident like this but don't respond …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 06:31 PM
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Since you're a newbie here I would advise to STFU at first. Her first training lesson is that when she snaps at you or is a bitch, you will ignore and if possible leave and do something else. Your homework is over the next few weeks you are training yourself to be able to use comments and techniques suggested below such as amused mastery or a suggested comment such as "I don't know what you're problem is, but there's no need to be a bitch". Most likely if you come out with that one now, she is g…
/r/askMRP18/09/15 03:58 PM
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This isn't a problem. You are making it one. Get out of your head or you'll fuck yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:49 PM
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+1
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:39 PM
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You are thanking her for giving her your approval. Its hard but I'm trying. I've never realized how much I claw for her approval on EVERYTHING even when I'm not thinking about it. This will be the MOST difficult for me to handle. If you keep at this and gradually increase, learn, try, lift and read consistently this will come. First learn to STFU as much as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:02 PM
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Remember: "does this need a response?" Is the question to ask yourself. Very true. If it doesn't need a response, you are generally better off doing the old STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 01:58 PM
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I did respond with thanks babe. Just to keep you learning. That was still beta validation seeking.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 09:16 PM
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Her:You already are awesome. The only person you need to impress is me and you a perfect I'm not sure this is a shit test per se but rather just her mate guarding. Translation. "Your fat beta ass belongs to me and as long as you do what I say, you're going to be fine.... well for as long as I want you in the picture." During the first few week STFU is always, ALWAYS a perfectly valid response to anything. So, ignoring her comment is fine this week. You are going to get some other suggestions on …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 09:02 PM
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I have a cheap android phone and use Ting with data shut off. Costs me very little ($20 to $30 a month based on usage) and avoids distractions. Still gives me kindle app, podcasts texting, decent camera etc. without unnecessary distractions such as facebook updates email etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 05:05 PM
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Yeah, there is a bit of a fuzzy area when talking scholastically about bad behavior and withholding sex. I mean, if she is doing everything right , making you dinner, rubbing your feet but she leaves the toilet seat down so you refuse to bang her that night when she's all hot and bothered after checking out your amazing abs then it's a form of emotional or mental abuse. I'm not sure which one. But if she's acting like a total bitch she probably is either shit testing you which you need to addres…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 08:55 PM
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If you really don't want to then I would listen to your side OK, I'm listening.... No way I'm fucking a chick who has been rude or bad to me - I simply don't want to. She doesn't deserve it, she isn't good enough for me. Then why are you plating her? Don't just deny her sex; deny her access to you. You don't have time for that shit. I can see how a literal interpretation of what I said seems fucked up. But it's within a context of an LTR and one you are continuing. Make sense?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:01 PM
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Withholding sex is abuse. We claim so when they do it to us so why would it be ok to do it to them? If you really don't want to then I would listen to your side but all the literature says to never withhold sex. You mostly come off as a non performing man. Sure she is pissed but not the good kind of pissed. If you are withholding sex as punishment then that is quite simply a form of mental abuse whether you are a man or a woman. Yes, before RP I did withhold sex but I read, lift and learn.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 02:21 PM
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I used to play a lot of games. Now I've cut it down to when she is watching something on tv that I can't watch such as Downton Abbey or if she is out at a movie with her mom and the kids are asleep and shit. I also play with my kids sometimes. Call of Duty split screen can be really fun with the kids. Black ops 2 allows 4 player split screen and we all have a ton of fun. So, I probably play 1-2 hours a week. It's a waste of time but that is ok to do on a small scale imho.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:09 PM
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Well, there is quite a bunch of good advice here but mostly just remember this. The advice you are getting is from people that at one time not too long ago were right where you are now and decided to take action to correct it. Then, they found they were successful.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 07:24 PM
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Gotta do an ebook and read it on an account where only you have access. Read here about what happens when she discovers this if you aren't careful.. Very bad bullet to have to dodge early in unplugging. Have another book you are reading too to answer the question "What are you reading nowadays honey?" Or say you are rereading something. Also remember what we learn in WISNIFG You don't have to answer questions!!!
/r/askMRP15/09/15 06:45 PM
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I noticed she went from rubbing my back to casually tracing the muscles on my back. Had a similar event recently as well. My wife is always saying, "who are you trying to get big for?" "I don't like big guys" etc. The other night, she says, "I was turned on by that part of your shoulder that has a dimple at the end." She was talking about where the delt and trap meet.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 04:23 PM
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Do not bench and overhead press on the same day! Hmmm... I have been doing this. I was adhering to push on one day pull on the other and working the same muscle groups on the same day. I will have to do some more research on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 04:09 PM
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It is absolutely amazing to see that old beta ways she stays mad at things but new "Oak" ways her disagreements with you are very short lived. It takes a while, and I am not yet there, to no longer expect her to still be mad. Don't expect the watermelon bowl type remarks to disappear yet. That may take a while but they will decrease. Good FR. Keep it up. no slippage!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 12:54 PM
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I don't think it would work in this situation but I have gone with the following. "I'm disappointed with the way I handled X and will be more cognizant of how to handle the situation in the future." I felt like I was owning up to what I did and stated that she can expect better BECAUSE I expect better of myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 07:04 PM
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She said "well, what if you run into someone you know?" OK Fine. Add 45 seconds.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 06:39 PM
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If you really want vengance, become the alpha male you were born to be, be confident, sexy, and proud of being a man. Then find her best friend in the world, and make her yours. Once she is yours, you can let her know what a shitty friend she has, and what she did to you (in a non victim puke way.. just sort of mention it in passing). You want revenge on a woman, you destroy her social circle. you fuck the shit out of her best friend. Action not words. And get your victim puke shit the fuck off …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:47 PM
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You're really not describing any behavior or action that is out of the ordinary here. Like everyone is saying learn to relax and enjoy the time away from her and with your kids. Change your attitude as it's all you can change. Let her learn that her absence is not missed or noticed. I usually divide my time up when the wife is gone. Some dedicated time with the kids and then some dedicated time to myself with the kids occupied with whatever. say it's an hour then it's wrestlemania for 30 minutes…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 05:19 PM
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NO ONE (including your wife) gives two shits about your happiness. Amen brother
/r/askMRP09/09/15 05:14 PM
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/uCountpudyoola is right. I would only add that she is upset because you did not act in her best interest as her beta provider. When you break away from this role you are going to get shit. This is what she is used to. To her, this is your value. You're worth and merit is based on your ability to let her spend your money. So, now you are going to cut that off and leave her with less value unless you are countering it with alpha values.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 11:27 PM
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Vacations are always a little tougher on the "newly unplugging". They offer both the chance to gain ground and lose ground on your journey but always a chance to learn, reset and grow. Your actions seem to be right on par with what an RP Dad should do. No 2 year old boy will act great out to dinner and when he acts up proper discipline will be needed. It's clear that you have work to do on boundary setting with her that you need to work on now. In essence, this is no different from any other shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 05:19 PM
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You clearly need to go see an attorney at this point. Not saying that is where it is going but to be at this point to not talk to an attorney ( be prepared and guard yourself from valid threats) is irresponsible. You clearly owe yourself and your kids that. Most likely your wife is upset and sick and tired that she is doing the Captain role when dealing with your daughter and wants you to be the Captain. Probably in many other areas too. I feel pretty certain that the schedule is available onlin…
/r/askMRP04/09/15 05:38 PM
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Giving your wife the silent treatment isn't something I recommend. This was CLEARLY a failed a shit test imo. You need to bring the wife into your frame. The commonly accepted RP response to be called an asshole is "Thank you". You could have also said, "Thank you for the compliment but that's probably not appropriate language in front of the kid." "Thanks Slut." would have been good too. So, in essence, you could have played that completely differently if you wanted to.
/r/askMRP04/09/15 01:01 PM
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The trips are great bro. good work!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 01:54 AM
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My response is an annyoned "You're making way too much of it, just dry it off, it will take 3 seconds." Your even answering the question is putting yourself into her frame. It doesn't deserve an answer. In WISNIFG, we learn that you DO NOT have to answer questions. Just look at her. Make eye contact and then look away and continue with what you are doing. If she asks again, you walk away. not mad. Just not giving into it. Because really. it doesn't deserve an answer, right? Water on a brush. Ple…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 01:50 AM
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Yes, totally agree with this assessment. Most importantly is that the reactions you are getting are completely normal for the situation your marriage was in and is still in at this point. You're reactions to this, ignor, stfu, smile, smirk, eventually A&A will cause the shit tests to lesson. Basically, you will be passing them and her internal need to shit test you on them will decrease. I could see that exact same scenario playing out in my house 6 months ago. Now, it wouldn't happen that way. …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 12:54 PM
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"Never give up, never slow down, never grow old and never ever die young." - James Taylor. It pretty much says it all without saying too much.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:26 PM
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The extremes they go to here are outrageous. I do believe that enforcing ALL western gender stereotypes can pigeonhole children but this is a bit crazy. Additionally, I have neighbors who have a son who is clearly gay. He's 10. He was not allowed to wear dresses out in public when he was younger but in the home can act however he wants and has dolls etc. He has pretty much learned that there are ways to behave in public so that he doesn't draw attention to himself and it was a bit difficult for …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/15 01:22 PM
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There are a few things in NMMNG that I just didn't implement. This was certainly one of them. I definitely deferred to advise on MMSLP when talking about direct sexual interaction with the wife.
/r/askMRP01/09/15 03:49 PM
1

The only information I know that is helpful here is that insurance companies may pay for some belly fat loose skin removal as it is a health issue. Other areas aren't a health concern so one would have to pay for them.
/r/askMRP01/09/15 03:47 PM
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Shortly after swallowing the red pill I analyzed all the info and advice I'd received about dating from women. It was all wrong or lies. I remember even asking one of my older sister's friends why women always seem to go after the jerks. She said, well they do sometimes. I can't explain it but it isn't a good strategy to be a jerk. You should just continue being you and not try to be a jerk. The right woman will come along..... fucking bitch.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 07:03 PM
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I see this as a big problem for this generation and something my generation just didn't have to worry about. For instance, I met my wife when I was in my late 20s. All pictures of me with my exes and her with hers were physical objects that could be thrown away. Nowadays it's different.... How can someone date a girl now knowing that her facebook and instagram are full of pics of her kissing some guy on the back of his Harley or in a dirty football uniform and he's a foot taller than her?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:56 PM
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A woman bragging about how much dick she can get is like a guy bragging about how much he masturbates. .. is like a guy bragging that he can tie his own shoes.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:38 PM
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Dread isn't necessarily going to make a shy woman initiate. However, it will make a shy woman more receptive to your advances. This is pretty much what's going on for me. Not necessarily shy but just in general. I can tell when I can go in for a lay. And it's working.
/r/askMRP31/08/15 05:20 PM
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Also go through this from time to time. I used to be in a constant state of wanting sex and validation from her. Now that I know sex is on my terms, there are times I don't want it. This may last a few days. Maybe I'm rubbing too many out on my own and am not building up my internal sexual desire but I doubt it. It's just that without pedestalizing her 24/7 and putting things into a normal perspective, and not having the sex drive of a 15 year old boy anymore, I lust after her less in general. S…
/r/askMRP31/08/15 05:09 PM
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This is the issue. right here. boys growing up being treated as broken girls.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:17 PM
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Interesting article from slate going over the definition of the term fuckboy http://www.slate.com/blogs/lexicon_valley/2015/08/18/what_does_fuckboy_mean.html If Sales and Massey agree on anything, it’s that a fuckboy is the worst kind of guy, or at least one who represents the worst trends of the present moment. In her response to Sales, Massey sets out to explain what’s wrong with modern men. Correcting Sales’ definition of fuckboy is simply an opportunity to frame her claims. Their disagreemen…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:09 PM
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From my own experience before RP a few years ago. When we were in between birth control options, my wife suggested using a condom. I said ok but she should put it on me with her mouth. She said yes. It was a fun little thing for a bit. Was probably very "alpha" of me and I didn't even know why it worked then.
/r/askMRP27/08/15 06:30 PM
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My wife does have a PhD, is a Prof of English and I'm still smarter than her; in fact, I often point out her grammar mistakes. I can sometimes wow her with the correct use of a semicolon.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 05:41 PM
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I've been married for 15 years and almost all of my friends have been married for as long too. So, I have a lot of information to process in this regard. I can confidently say that the ones that have kept their finances separate are much happier. For example, my best friend has his wife paypal him half of the mortgage bill each month from her checking account. He pays for shit like chopping down trees and she pays for shit like new curtains. Now certainly, it aint' 50/50 on everything but it mos…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 03:53 PM
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Yes, the basic Pauly "Fuck you pay me" routine from Goodfellas.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:17 PM
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Does anyone have a strategy for dealing with their true feelings of rage when they're being shit tested like this? Read the Stoic literature recommended in this sub. and then..... just STFU. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 10:13 PM
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When she realizes it doesn't affect you anymore, it'll stop. It's amazing how true this becomes.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 10:11 PM
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Holy shit yes. The only "distraction" app on your phone should be your kindle reader app so you can read more side bar material. Maybe spotify but that's it bro. Everything else is a tool on there, weather app, My fitness pal, her period tracker app. No facebook app. Never. Get that shit off of there.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 08:57 PM
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Notice all the "This was me" and "That's where I am now" responses? Yes,withdraw if that is what you feel like... temporarily. Keep faking it and improving yourself through this. DO NOT refuse her sexual escalations though.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 08:48 PM
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IMO, if she is willing and escalating to the point where she can get you hard, you really should stick it in her. If you're not getting hard, that's another issue but if you're wife is kissing you, kiss her back. Put your hand on her ass and well you know what else you need to do. But turning down sex is bad. MMSLP tells us that it can be damaging.
/r/askMRP26/08/15 08:11 PM
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I highly agree with BPP that your response should be "Great" and nothing more. Regardless of anything else I think we can agree that your current process isn't working and you need to improve. We can agree that you talked too much. Stop talking about anal. You tried and it isn't going to happen in the near future. We've all pushed something too far and have to back off of it temporarily until the timing has improved. Try again in a month or so once you've worked this out and are better at all th…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 05:54 PM
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They'll have a series of partners, if they're lucky. Most men will either have "get lucky" sex interspersed among exceedingly long dry spells. Some will resort to escorts. A significant number will give up and avoid women altogether. The top 10% to 15% will have virtually ALL the sex. This is different from now and the past 25 years how??
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 03:25 PM
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75K alone is better than 200k with wife.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 02:08 PM
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Live fast, die young and leave a beautiful corpse.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 02:04 PM
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Have fun. That sounds like a blast. It will not be too difficult to handle your own canoe. Once you spend like 10 minutes in it, you'll have the hang of it. What mostly goes wrong on overnight canoe trips is your shit getting wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 01:34 PM
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If I had to throw out a guess, gay men probably have a better ability to see masculine traits in men and know which traits of modern men are desirable and which are not desirable. It's like why was Michelangelo such a great sculptor of men's bodies? Because he paid more attention to parts of male bodies than I do. Just a guess.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:28 PM
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I must have done too much of the Beta provider back in my hay day. I had plenty of FWB back in the nineties and more than once someone came up to me and said, "I met your girlfriend the other day". Reply to that is usually. "Wait. What?"
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 08:50 PM
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Whenever my wife says something regarding she has to do a,b and c to be a good mom, I tell her they will be happier if we are happy. If Dad is getting regular sex and is generally more patient and happier, that will make them happier than 10 minutes of snuggle time. It's abstract yes. But it's true.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 08:02 PM
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Been married for 15 years to a pretty nice lady and like above, I'd never do it again. Ever. AWALT. Most relevant here is that all women are bitchy. And mostly all women are mostly bitchy mostly to their husbands. Their beta husbands. Unless you can change, her bitchiness will grow and you need to learn how to handle it. OR see if you can reapply what you know here to a better relationship. You'll see a lot of posts here regarding whether it is easier to change your relationship or whether it is…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 01:18 PM
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Interesting. So accordingly, this tells of the beginning of the decline of western civilization.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 05:52 PM
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This post made me think of all the beta bitch things I did in my twenties as a single man reaching out for a crumb of nooky. I can't think of one time where my willingness to perform like a trained monkey ended up in me getting even a taste. Driving across town to fix a toilet, buying underage girls beer, the list goes on but then I realize that the best head I ever got was from the chick that used to do my laundry for free. WTF!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 05:33 PM
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This is good shit.
/r/askMRP24/08/15 03:29 PM
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This is so fucking true. I'm RP and married 15 years and American. and before RP I was always touching the wife and she never reciprocated except for holding my hand. Now, that I'm acting more RP, it's different. Not a ton but there is actually some touching by h er. Lingering hand on shoulder etc. It's really painful to see your wife treating you better the more you act like a dick.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 02:44 PM
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Excellent post. This part is pretty good... Just like Pauli in Good Fellas, she was there again with her “Fuck you, pay me”. It's frighteningly similar.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 05:00 PM
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You don't even have to go too far down in the comments to find this gem... "According to women I've talked to, they want this of a husband also."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 04:52 PM
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we instantly stopped arguing and started having sex a couple times a week if I initiated when conditions were perfect. favorable. This is the point I'm at.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 01:34 PM
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Ex fucking Actly. the first time I experienced something like this, which was probably a month ago, I had the same reaction. "You're being a real jerk." was followed up by her initiating sex on a weeknight.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 04:39 PM
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This sounds like walking a tightrope between covert contracts and choreplay to me. What will get the blow job is the culmination of building a reputation, with your wife, of being an alpha male who she believes deserves BJs. then she'll give 'em old be told when to give 'em. In the end, how is what he did to bust his ass to get his home any different than what I do to bust my ass to give my family a home. If I go through that scenario, I live on a whole street of men who supposedly should be dri…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 04:30 PM
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I also feel like you have earned a blowjob (or whatever is your favorite sex thing) once a day for six months. Your wife doesn't seem to share that sentiment, at least not today. This is an obvious covert contract. I suggest if you don't understand why or how bad this is, you figure this out from reading other posts here or better yet NMMNG and other books in the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 01:14 PM
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she may think a "good husband" is someone that financially supports the family, and is responsible enough to nurture, educate, entertain, and discipline the kids. But how will she define a "good husband" in 10-15 years? What kind of man will she want to be married to, when she's in a situation where she doesn't have to be responsible for anyone else but herself? I think this is really the most relevant part for me. I do feel somewhat appreciated for my help bringing up the family. But what I did…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 01:07 PM
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That's really the key isn't' it. Although, I would like a Porsche. My wife did state exactly that when she accused me of having a mid life crisis though. She sad she's glad I did not buy a fancy sports car or have an affair.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 01:04 PM
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Thanks. I'll look into those as well. I'm very hesitant to clue her into the "Red Pill" anything right now. I feel I've made gains by doing this slowly and steadily. This was a bit of an acceleration and I have to keep the governor on so to speak. Maybe soon. But I'd also have to think about whether she would find MRP and possibly read through enough to find my entries. I'm not sure she'd be too happy about me posting details of her giving me head very cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 11:51 PM
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Thanks. I'll recommend it to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 09:17 PM
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I totally recognize the finally understanding what my Dad meant in all his how to be a man speeches to me as his only son. Although some of it dawned on me previously, a lot of it has been happening post unplugging.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 06:38 PM
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Thanks. I'll look over on r/RedPillWomen. I'm hesitant on her going there herself and ending up here.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 06:26 PM
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Mine recently, before her discovery, called it a mid life crisis too. Got a log of good advice from here on how to handle it in my head though.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 06:24 PM
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Sounds like you are doing well my friend. Keep it up. Sharpen the swords, so to speak, for when your game gets challenged.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 04:15 PM
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OK. So, you're 15 and going to start what will be a life long activity of picking up girls. Admit to yourself that whatever skills you go out with tomorrow will be 1/100th of the eventual game you will have by the time you are in your prime. But you have to start building and constructing your awesomeness somewhere sometime. That journey starts tomorrow. You may fail horribly at first. You may do alright. But it will be your first of many many times doing this. Keep that in mind and you'll do fi…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 09:28 PM
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Lawyer up. If she has committed adultery or does so soon, you may be able to save yourself alimony depending on what state you live in. Keep your evidence as you may need to prove it. It doesn't have to be anything totally concrete. I'm not sure of the exact nature but I know anything strongly suggesting she's been unfaithful can get you out of alimony. This will make your new path much easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 08:35 PM
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No, I was totally eavesdropping. It would have gone over like a lead balloon though.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:05 PM
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At this point in my head I want to bring up she goes to work out 2 evenings a week and has plenty of nights where I stay home with the kids while she goes out. We all do and we all have to fight that urge. You will not win the argument even when you are right. You win by not arguing. If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around to hear it, is the husband still wrong?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 03:24 PM
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I think you are correct here but I don't see how this correlates to your above post. I be missin' somethin'!! I think we both agree that once they net Billy Beta and spend 10-15 years making babies, fixing bathrooms up and being on the PTA they start to think about Chad again...
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 02:21 PM
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Women got everything they wanted. And they're STILL not happy..... The sooner you realize the absolute truth in this the happier YOU will be. go talk to any guy.. literally any guy who has been married for over 10 years.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:51 PM
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In their 20s they want the Chads. After 10+ years of CC, they realize they can't get commitment this way or from these guys so they start to look for Billy Beta.Thing ages 28-35. They can usually snag him. That works for another 10+ years but then they start remembering what they used to feel/get from the Chads that they aren't and haven't been getting from Billy.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:45 PM
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No problem. Keep at it and give what I said a try. I was amazed that it worked after the first couple of times. Try it without asking and for the first time, if she says no, stop. Then the next night, make her say no twice. the next time 3 times, see if that works. I asked my wife the other night if she wanted sex and she looked at me and said, "Does it matter?" She kind of knows that if I want it, I'm going to take it. She's kind of wondering what the fuck is going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 02:48 AM
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They wanna fuck but they want it in the guise of a commitment. Girls of the previous generation would go on a date. If they were attracted to the guy and horny but didn't want a relationship, they'd fuck him. If they were into him for a long term thing, they wouldn't sleep with him on the first date. This is a generalization but mostly true.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 02:45 AM
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Yes, you are not ready for the lines you mentioned. I am 3 months into this and what is working for me, IN THE INITIATE WITH YOUR WIFE department is that if I ask her, she will say no. If I just do it, and ignore the first couple of soft "Nos" she will let me and eventually get into it. the "Nos" may not be actually the word no. It may be a sigh, a stuttered "what are you doing?" Ignore it and pull her panties off. Assume she already said "yes." She may stop you eventually. So, you do what is al…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 02:22 AM
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Two things bro. One, Don't worry about reading her texts. You learned important lessons from them that will help you on this journey. So, it's a good thing. Two, I'm an IT Executive and I was always dealing with people not finishing projects. Finally, I said fuck that and created a culture of finishing projects. "What do we do? We finish projects." We don't do IT, we don't code, we finish projects? Amazing what that mindset will do. Don't start shit when something else if unfinished. You're a fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 01:02 PM
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Hey man. Glad you found this place. You've got a lot of work to do but as a family therapist yourself, you know the drill. One thing I'd like you to keep in mind is that you are pretty young still. At 26 I hadn't even met my wife yet and was still very much a kid looking back on it. These changes that you are seeing in front of you will become easier as you grow into them and grow up. Yes, you are a man but the journey from 26 to 40 is a big one of learning about yourself. You have the wisdom of…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 12:53 PM
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Agree. And the disclosure, for me, can be as simple as "we dated". Be stoic about the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 05:42 PM
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It is information for you to process and apply to reality when judging or making decisions about behavior etc. If you confront, you tip your cards to her that you are keeping this information readily accessible for processing. So, she will be more careful to hide behavior that can be associated with this information. By keeping it closer to the vest, she drops her guard and is less likely to conceal information. tldr: keep the information for you to use but don't let her know you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 01:47 PM
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Thanks for the information.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 11:59 PM
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My doctor said they tend to go for patches instead of injections and that it takes about a week to start noticing differences. I'd be interested to hear how the injections go.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 09:20 PM
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Thanks for the link. That sure hits the nail on the head now doesn't it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 09:19 PM
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I have to believe that the break between stage 1 and stage 2 are murkier than the division here. Repulsion from spouse and receiving tingles when interacting with another man could be part of stage 1 or advanced stage 1.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 07:20 PM
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She would be the hottest piece of ass I'd ever have had. And I've had ass from all over!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 06:26 PM
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"Are you strong enough to be my man" - Sheryl Crow.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:41 PM
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Yes, but we have to suppose this guy is blue pill. psst. he is.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:39 PM
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Just this week I heard a friend's wife say to another lady friend "<name of husband> just isn't turning out to be the man I thought he was." They've been married for 20 years. He's the man you've changed him into!!!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 02:43 PM
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I'm tempted to advise look for opportunities with high success rate probability. If you think you're at a disadvantage due to situation out of your control then don't initiate. This is short term advice. Example, if your parents are visiting and they are asleep in the next room, then you're at a disadvantage. She has the excuse, that you'll wake them up. Why press that so early in our recovery? Wait to hear from some more experienced folk as well though....
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 01:50 PM
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I had/have borderline ADD not ADHD. Parents decided not to medicate back in 70s. Made life/school very difficult but my parents always made sure to "allow" for my crazy and help me balance it. as for "the count", I'm not saying it didn't or never bothers me. I'm just a bit stoic about it, I guess. REalize I can't control it and it doesn't impact me so don't dwell. BUT, the initial knowledge will still disrupt. just move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 01:47 PM
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I had a realization that part of the problem with just initiating sex and man handling her was coming from a difficulty in getting an erection unless there was some foreplay before hand. Now, younger me got hard when the wind blew. So, I had a realization that I may be suffering from some kind of erectile dysfunction that I need to get cleared up. It's not that I can't do it but I have difficulty some times trying to do it spontaneously, when she isn't being a part of it. Maybe it is being irrat…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 01:33 PM
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Yes, I am constantly reminding myself to take it slower. One step at a time and not move ahead until I'm ready. Not try to jump to a step when I'm still working on a step but to try harder with the step I'm on.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 01:21 PM
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Oh no don't get me wrong. Not mad. Just had a vision that I was uncomfortable with. Think nausea not anger. I was pragmatic about it back then too. God I miss my 20 something natural alpha self. He is very glad to have been found, awakened and realizing he is needed again after all these years.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 01:20 PM
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I just figure double my numbers. Ugh. I'm going to fucking vomit now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 01:15 AM
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Yes, that would be easier. I agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 01:14 AM
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I had an LTR emasculate me about something once. I dropped her and moved on. There is a lot of good advice in this thread. However, I really believe that this behavior was kind of over the top and if you're not married and don't have kids, you need to re-evaluate your relationship here. How old are you guys? edit: saw you have a kid from former posts. get it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 03:33 PM
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Right. It's a totally different game when Mr. Former Beta buck is the only Dad at the pool over 40 with a 6 pack , under 10% body fat and has figured out OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 03:28 PM
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Yes, I was that asshole in college. My wife was one of three "plates" at one point in time. Although, we didn't call it that. Fast forward 15 years and I'm here. I remember when we were dating she asked how many people I had slept with and I told her my past is my past and hers is hers and I didn't want to tell her my number and I most certainly didn't want to hear hers. I was mostly afraid of hearing some wildly high number that in my mind would bug me even though I knew/thought, at the time, i…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 01:34 PM
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25 is too young to get married. But if you are going ahead, the best advise I can give is to keep your finances separated. You keep your paycheck going to your account and she hers. When she wants something she has to have the money for it. You are not her beta buck. Have her pay for 50% of the rent/mortgage. she can paypal you the money and you pay it. Start with the gift money from the marriage. you get the money from your friends/family and she hers. Stay manly. Don't lose touch with your mal…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 01:35 PM
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TLDR; Aussie chicks are mean and nasty.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 07:23 PM
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Nice video as usual. I had the opportunity to DHV by simply standing up to some wait staff at a restaurant last month and oh boy was it easy and powerful. The wife is still talking about it. did I say it was really easy. Basically just telling a bunch of 18 year old kids what they are going to do now that they've screwed up. One sentence summing up the problem and one sentence summing up the solution. Thank you and good day sir.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 06:39 PM
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"It can't be done." Ugh. I know. I don't know how many times I've told people to come to me with solutions not problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 02:15 PM
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Yeah. I agree this was probably a mistake from the get go. Realized that at hole #2. But I should have behaved better after committing. I expected myself to and didn't live up to my expectations.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 02:11 PM
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Thanks for the words. some examples. At one point, my 6 year old wandered off into the woods and we had to go look for her. Clubs were left on lying on the course. Try tracking where everyone hit their shots for them because they forget and can't find their balls. People hitting out of turn and putting into other girls on the green who were walking in front of pin. Yelling ensues. I don't have 6 sets of golf clubs. So, we had to share some. Always an issue. My wife was basically playing a round …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 02:01 PM
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Good post. I never really like those stupid sayings people post on social networks but I saw one yesterday that I particularly liked that bears repeating here. "Never apologize for having high standards. People who really want to be in your life will rise up to meet them."
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 01:46 PM
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IMO.. Regardless of anything else, you should extend your hand and introduce yourself to any man you need to be in contact with for whatever reason. You get the man's name and remember it. Your wife should almost not even have the opportunity to introduce you. As for the horse farm instance... Let the conversation run it's course. Maybe it's long, maybe not. When you ask for the key you turn to her and say "Honey, can I have the keys." Dismiss yourself, say that it was nice to meet the person us…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 01:27 PM
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Had a tough time keeping frame this weekend. Family outing to play golf with the entire family. Figured I'd introduce them to my new hobby. Now remind you I have 4 girls ages 6 to 13. Been taking them to the range etc and teaching them. Found an old beat up par 9 course where we could form two groups with the wife and not cause too much of a disturbance. What a cluster fuck having them all on the course with me. Nothing crazy but certainly less than I expected from myself. I disappointed myself …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 12:54 PM
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life is not fair One of the red pill truths my father taught me early on in my life that I am only now started to embrace.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 12:49 PM
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Nice addition. I'll look for it. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/15 01:38 PM
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You tell her you're busy. No explanations, no discussions. Yup. "No reason." is perfectly fine. In WISNIFG we have learned that not every question needs to be answered.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 09:17 PM
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I tend to agree with this. Although I am still very much unplugging, I have come to the conclusion that I am appreciated for my utility not my humanity. Right now I see the unplugging as disconnecting my habits, actions and thought processes from my old self and reconstructing them based on this new belief. Like anything it's a process. I've swallowed the red pill whole heartedly but am still unplugging my baser instincts from that which I've grown accustomed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 05:42 PM
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Tendonitis made worse from lifting could be that your forearms need to be stronger. Most tendonitis therapy is simply forearm work. Start working on that with low weights at first. just grab a 10 lb dumbbell, hold it palms up and curl your wrist. Work your way up to 20s. Do this 3 times a week or every other day for a bit. You can also get those gripper things. I've had Tendonitis most of my life. baseball and tennis and even the golf I recently started playing caused it to act up but I eliminat…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 01:51 PM
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You should really add cardio if you want to lose weight... Ugh right? I get the same type of thing. Thanks for the advice honey. But it sounds like it is working and you just need to keep at it. Good job.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 01:10 PM
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Taco Tuesday is a thing in our house too. LOL. Also declined the sour cream and cheese. One hard shell, one soft with small amounts of meat and I am done. Kept dinner at under 500 calories. My bet is that she sees what is going on and gets on board real soon. maybe some jealousy as she knows the drill and used to do it. but eventual conformity once the leader is consistently leading by example. right on man!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 05:18 PM
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Missed a day at the gym this week. first time on my RP journey. Basically lack of planning. Long and late meeting for work had me staying late and I had people over for a bbq directly after it. Couldn't get myself to go once we had cleaned up around 10:30 pm. Not even sure if it was still open. I Just went to bed instead of working out. I Got up early, ran and made it to the gym the next day. Today, normally a rest/cardio day, I will be making up missed Monday and still doing Cardio. Thursday ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 03:01 PM
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I'm a bit excited about it. Yeah, I'd be too. Not sure what the right move is here and a week by myself would be awfully tempting. Listen to some of the more sage advisors here on this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 02:04 PM
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Similar boat on the calorie counting. Answer is yes. I ask my wife what went into it. You just have to be sly and smooth. mmm this is good baby. is that olive oil? How much. Then divide that number by how much of the giant bowl of it she plopped down on the table. It's guestimating but it's the best option. 2 table spoons of olive oil and I ate about a quarter of the dish then I add 1/2 table spoon of olive oil.... plus other ingredients. Most likely she'll start to repeat her dishes or you'll s…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 01:58 PM
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Great post bro. All totally true. I've been dropping pounds like a fiend. I was using My fitness pal but switched to the fit bit app when I got one of those. I then put the daily weight into excel like you do and track a 7 day average like you do. Seems to be a good way to measure since the weight does fluctuate day to day so much. 5'10 165 right now. need to lose a few more pounds to get where I want and then may bulk. Get down to a Justin Theroux body then bulk it from there. http://dailym.ai/…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 09:31 PM
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You probably handled well given the situation and your newness. If you don't know what to say just shut the fuck up. This was all i did the first month until I was recognizing shit tests and could think clearly enough to answer them fast with answers that would be positive for me. Shutting the fuck up is good most of the time and is almost always better than not recognizing the test. For instance you didn't say "ok", "Thank you" or "I won't".
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 03:37 PM
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This could have been my post 3 months ago bro. but it's like she doesn't care at all. She doesn't. None of them do. AWALT. Women don't love men the way men love women. You're going to discover a lot about AWALT and what turns her on in the coming months. She wants to be ravaged by the more assertive, stronger, lighter version of you. Be that man. It's not going to be easy and it's not going to happen for some time but here is where to find the template on how to do it. good luck. This is your ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 02:47 PM
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Again, if you had read When I Say No I Feel Guilty you'd see what this is and how you are supposed to react to it. Stop. lift. Read. You aren't going to get this right until you understand it better.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 01:33 PM
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Good job man. As a new man unplugging this was a great step. Sure it could have been better as people have suggested. That's where you'll improve in time as you keep learning, applying and getting stronger physically and mentally. Also, no need to directly state the city you were talking about. Keep it more anonymous just in case.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 01:19 PM
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Yeah, that was a big shit test there at the end bro. Hope you handled that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 01:04 PM
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Well. First thing I'll say is that I agree with You'll never know what she's thinking and you shouldn't worry about it. We all have some degree of that baggage in here. Yes, yours is much larger than mine but I am sure that my wife has sexual fantasies about other men. Why wouldn't she? Only, her fantasies regarding actual Alpha stars are years/decades in the past.... I hope. :). Yours are more present. Every day, they fall further into the past while you become more of a prize. IF YOU IMPROVE b…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 01:00 PM
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Yes. A book on being assertive, if you understand it and apply it, will help you in many aspects of life. There is a female coworker that is a constant annoyance to me and I have been applying what I've learned there as well. Seems to be helping me. Dealing with my asshole siblings? It's helped. BIL, SIL, MIL? Yes, it's helped. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 12:30 PM
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Good information. thanks for the links.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 10:29 PM
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Thanks. Sometimes you just know you said the perfect thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 01:42 PM
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About to head to the gym now. Good points man. I probably need to increase my amused mastery as you said. Hopefully that comes with more confidence running the MAP and game. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 07:58 PM
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Hmmm... never worn a V-neck t-shirt before. I'll give it a shot. Worth trying. Thanks for the tip.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 05:15 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 05:15 PM
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I'm eating about 1500 to 1600 calories a day including protein shakes. roughly same height but I'm significantly lighter than you.... now. :) Only downside is it's tough to build muscle with so little calories. Oh and I'm always hungry.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 03:38 PM
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Thanks. Still have some work to do of course. I do need to step it up sexually and see what fun stuff I can get in there. Explore learn enjoy!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 03:02 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 03:01 PM
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I'm not a fitness professional but as for weight loss. I assume 3500 calories per pound. Six months is roughly 6 x 30 days. So, roughly you have 180 days to remove 122,500 calories from your diet. Or 680 calories a day. This is doable. Walking 6 miles burns about 400 calories depending on frame. Also, if you target a pound and a half a week you should hit your target. That is also doable.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 02:39 PM
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