Summary

I went to an event recently and got some very clear indicators of progress. Beautiful women were all over me, and high-level businessmen and lawyers took me seriously and want to stay in touch. Looks, presentation, body language, and social skills all matter tremendously.

Body

My wife's job holds an annual charity fundraiser. It's a black tie affair attended by some of the wealthiest and most powerful expats and locals where I live, real apex men. Insane sums of money get thrown around like it's nothing. People don't blink an eye as they donate more than my wife's annual salary.

My experience this year was very different from last year. Last year I was still a bit chubby. I bought a tuxedo (eBay is amazing for this sort of thing—I got an almost-new $3000 Zegna tuxedo for about $250) but it was a bit too small in the waist, even after letting it out. This year it fits perfectly. I'm a pretty good looking guy anyway, but this year I'm in much better shape, my hair is on point, I had a bit of stubble (along these lines, different tuxedo), my posture and body language is better, I'm more confident, etc.

From the moment we walked in, other women were eye-fucking me. I went in and was social with the men and women, talking to anyone regardless of who they were. One thing I've learned about myself over the past several months is that I can talk to anybody, regardless of how famous or powerful they are, without any nervousness. This is a skill you must develop—it's tremendously useful in both social life and business. Nobody thought I was there as the spouse of an employee, they all assumed I was "one of them," and as such I made a lot of great connections.

Anyway, the women were all over me. One woman was flirting with me hard until my wife said "Oh hey, this is my husband, handfulofnuts." The woman yelled "Oh my god, really!?" and turned bright red and got really giggly while her friends pulled her away. Gorgeous women, the wives of the aforementioned apex men, were putting their hands on me while talking to me. One of my friends who knows most of the people there told me "A lot of these women have told me they think you're really hot and asked who you are."

My former affair partner was there. She broke things off about this time last year because she felt guilty. We've had a few dates since then, nothing more than friendly catching up, but she's started texting me a lot more recently. Anyway, we passed each other in the hall on the way to the restroom, chatted for 20 seconds or so and then she got serious fuck me eyes. We started making out and then nearly got caught. The rest of the evening she kept saying things like "You're so fucking hot" and "I need to fuck you." Made out again at the end of the night, told her I'll see her on Tuesday evening at our old spot. She said ok, but I'm expecting her to flake. We'll see.

Of course, my wife noticed all the attention I was getting, and she was really turned on. She was all over me all night, rubbing her body up on me, really sexual. That's almost unheard of when she's in public, not to mention in "polite society." Of course, it was a party and there was free-flowing wine and champagne, but still.

All this because I'm learning to be more attractive, and less unattractive. In the past I haven't gotten anything more than an "oh, he's handsome" to my wife. This event was a very different experience.

Lessons learned

  • Present yourself well, learn how to be social with anyone, and important people will take you seriously.
  • Be attractive and sociable—panties will moisten.
  • Don't make out with someone else's wife where other people will walk past.