Shit Texts: some notes for newbs

Archwinger · 2015-09-17T14:59:24+00:00

You can get miles of traction just by never responding to negative texts.

So many loser men rush to defend themselves, getting into arguments with women via text messages. What the fuck...

Not responding to a text message will pay you back, with interest. She will spend the next few hours wondering whether you just didn't get her message or whether you're ignoring it. That means she spends the next few hours thinking about and fixated on you.

Then, when you get home, she'll immediately confront you, "Did you get my text?"

So many options there. "Hello to you, too!" kiss/ass-smack.

Or if she's been doing this often and needs a little verbal smack: "Which one?" "Ohhhh, that one from six hours ago that you sent me while I was at work in the middle of a fucking meeting with a big client? I've been a little busy to fiddle with my cell phone."

alorian · 2015-09-17T14:54:26+00:00

I've generally stopped texting my wife altogether. I try to limit communication when either of us is at work. Constant access to each other is a bit boring, and leaves little to the imagination.

Good advice for a bit of practice though. If you can pass a shit test from a phone, you might be able to handle one from your wife.

Rasalom72 · 2015-09-17T14:58:02+00:00

Texting is no way to handle anything other then when/ where type logistics. You are not handling shit via text.. you are avoiding having to deal with other people and their emotions... this is not very direct.

As a man, you should be able to deal with someone being emotional and holding frame in person... if you have to resort to texting to hold frame, then you need to work on that more.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-09-17T14:58:37+00:00

Texting should be for logistics only. Advanced students can slip in a double entendre and some seduction but that is it.

whinemoreplease · 2015-09-18T04:17:54+00:00

silence is the pretty often the best response to bullshit.

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bogeyd6 · 2015-09-17T15:29:11+00:00

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This gave me a sensible chuckle. Every single time we go through louisville we eat the bbq there, whether its meal time or not. Same with Sonny's bbq in corbin.

Thank you very much for this informative article. Everyone needs to be reminded that texting is for logistics only, and the occasional sexting. Careful reminder to the gentlemen who have wives (like mine) that are sexual camels.

If you have to pretend like you're talking to someone else fine, but you're eventually going to have to realize that your happiness does not depend on her reaction to you. But on your lack of reaction to her.

Could not have said it better.

Anon-Dutch · 2015-09-17T15:26:53+00:00

Nice post. The last sentence cannot be repeated often enough "your happiness does not depend on her reaction to you. But on your lack of reaction to her."

Redneck001 · 2015-09-17T15:45:31+00:00

Testing via text? Just ignore it. Like in your first example.

The second example isn't a test, it's a logistics notification. Maybe YMMV, but I don't see that as a panty wetter.

I'd encourage newbies to tighten up their texting.

I'd encourage them to avoid texting.

You can pull off flirting with text, but your overall game had better be solid. And if you're Ramboed up on "smashing" shit tests, your game still needs significant work.

stonepimpletilists · 2015-09-17T22:05:59+00:00

I figure if it's important, it's face to face important.

Title	Shit Texts: some notes for newbs
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Date	September 17, 2015 2:39 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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