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Nut up or shut up
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/16 10:07 PM
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What is this, some sort of low effort stream-of-consciousness shit post? In before bloopers call me a neckbeard It's cute when people still care about what internet randos think about them.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/16 03:01 PM
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Theory is one thing and, while not the most upvoted, it can be refreshing to read. Antagonizing comments from TRP members on the other hand are immature and usually reek of "butthurt". It's like it's a cool thing to go over to MRP and screw with the older married guys. "You say this about TRP members waahhhh" tends to get old after a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/16 02:19 AM
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By improving myself my goal is to get my wife's panties wet. That's your goal? That focus isn't going to help you succeed much. Sex is nice, but it shouldn't be your goal. Being a stronger, masculine man should be a goal. Improving your life should be a goal. Improving yourself should be a goal. Sex is a side effect of achieving that. Of course you should work toward sex, but having it as your goal? Your driving force? You may be setting yourself up for failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 07:16 PM
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Good, I'm not alone!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 08:40 PM
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The most concentrated I saw it was while I was in the Army. I've missed it since then. I've heard people talk about how they missed the camaraderie, but never really explained what that was. We made sure everyone had their shit squared away. We watched each other's backs. We pushed each other and encouraged one another, but also called people out on their bullshit. A rock in your shoe was no excuse not to make it over the last hill. Doing a shitty job shining your boots happened once- you would …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 08:21 PM
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So basically, a post explaining the locker room / campfire metaphor we throw around from time to time, and the "relationships" that tend to form because of that. The terminology we use, what we say to who, all of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 08:10 PM
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Mess culture? A culture of a mess hall?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 07:49 PM
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I know, I'm fucking around. You can safely see half of everything I say written by someone with a smirk or, sometimes, a shit eating grin. That's good, that's what I took from your post. The environment is just as important as the content.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 07:45 PM
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I don't think anything can really be added to this. This has everything you need to know- you just have to do the work. Figure out the numbers, use a notebook to log the calories you eat and burn every day, etc. One word of advice: don't eat at work. When you're sitting at your desk it's very tempting to snack. Employees bring me freshly baked cookies, cupcakes, all sorts of shit. If I ate it all, I'd be a fatass. Drink water at your desk to keep something in your stomach and to stay hydrated. G…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 07:42 PM
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What pussy assed faggotry is this Bernie nonsense? Calling people out is extremely useful here. I don't have a "WMP said ____" story, but it was that attitude and environment that made me think about what I was doing and really examine myself. It weeds out those that are willing to work to change themselves and those that aren't able to. If you can't handle being called a whiny faggot then you won't be able to identify your covert contracts, see that begging your mommy wife for sex is pathetic a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 07:31 PM
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Lose weight asap. It's important. Your husband will be less and less attracted to you. You'll become the "fat friend" and your social status will continue to slip. You'll feel worse about yourself. You'll feel worse in general because you're fat. I'm not a doctor, but you should listen to me anyway. Eat a 1500 calorie max diet (I assume you're not doing strenuous exercise). Go for 1200 if you have any measure of self control. Lose those pounds and your life will get better. Or be a lazy fatty an…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 04:24 PM
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Why is this whole post about your wife? In fact the last time I did she gave me a huge shit test the next day. You know that shit tests are foreplay, right? You fucked her so well that she came, and she shit tested you. Foreplay for more good sex. It sounds like you're not obsessed with her getting off as you are with yourself though, so nice work there. shit tests should be fun I no longer tried to 'please' her with foreplay and other beta crap. To each their own, but this would be boring for m…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 02:33 PM
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That sounds like my situation. My wife and I have our desks sharing a wall in our "office area". I could build a bed, work on a car, rummage through all the junkyards in the area for no-longer built parts, paint a room, and still catch flack for my idle time. It's all about how things look in the moment, isn't it? It can help sate the anger knowing that she's a creature of the moment and doesn't naturally look at the context of time the way we do.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:13 PM
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One of his more spirited submissions. He has other kinds?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:51 PM
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When she started getting into Reddit, she jumped on my computer and looked through my account. I asked her why, and she said she wanted to get to know me more, and wanted to see who I am online. Most of my post/comment history has been here, so I got to field the usual questions- AWALT, most responsible teenager, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:45 PM
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Good advice, though I'm a glutton for punishment. I post here on this account and gasp my wife periodically looks at my post history! hihoneyputonthatninjacatshirtbeforeigethometoday
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 05:47 PM
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Yeah, it's nice to move forward. I have to stop wasting so much time and start spending it more wisely to keep it up though.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 05:42 PM
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Owning After healing up from an injury, I started right back up with lifting. Show, don't tell. I hit the next round of testing next week for the job I'm gunning for. I've been researching and studying, so I'm sure I'll do well. More at home leadership with the wife and the kids. I'm making some efforts to be more involved and ensure things are being done correctly. I had my sleep schedule down pretty well, but then insomnia started taking hold again. I took some suggestions here and went for th…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 02:26 PM
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I tend to apply "no quick fixes" to most things in my life, and I consider steroid use as one of those "quick fixes". To each their own, I just don't see as much merit in it (considering the potential risks as well).
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 07:43 PM
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There's no more accessible, real, or measurable example of this than lifting. When I'm under that bar and I'm pushing more weight than before, controlling my muscles and feeling the strain in my chest. When I wake up the next day feeling sore, knowing what I accomplished. When I look in a mirror every week and notice the changes- a bulge here or added line there, I know. I know that I've pushed myself further than before, that I've created something, and have proof. That's why step one is to lif…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 04:59 PM
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Obviously the kind gestures and compliments were supposed to make him feel like he didn't have to be an asshole. They totally weren't attracted to or impressed by him or anything like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 04:50 PM
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Ha! Sounds like your father was a better asshole than mine was.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 04:03 PM
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After eating a freakin' feast- Dad, I'm still hungry! "Hi, Still Hungry, I'm dad!" Or from the recent "goddammit Elizabeth" videos I'm seeing everywhere, when a wife wants to cheat on her diet, "Do you want to wear a two piece or a snow suit?!" Amused mastery can take a few different forms, but it's enjoying the entertainment value in what others say. Whether you make a cheesy joke, respond with something absurd, or whatever else it's all about getting amusement and entertainment out of it. If y…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 03:24 PM
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Depending on the church, you're looking at a battle against money and power. If a message of men serving women brings in money and followers, why would they want to change?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 03:03 PM
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"Make another one that looks just like you"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 02:59 PM
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Even when he doesn't fit! Oh, that Clifford
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 06:34 PM
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You could propose a "pics or gtfo" mandate in the OYS section as dudes claim to improve That's not a bad idea. Just do some face / tattoo / marking blurring to keep identifying marks away. And being careful about meta-data. I like YMMV as it pertains to the use of a tool or tactic. It's an accurate description that it's effectiveness may work differently for different people in different situations. You do you? What if I'm a fat brony who worships pussy? Point taken Remember, this place is a too…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:56 PM
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Fine, here are some government and pro-steroid sources that substantiate my claims. To deny these well known side effects is pretty stupid or just ignorant. Whether it's worth it for someone or not is up to them. Just don't expect to be a mentally and emotionally stable man with a predictable libido ready to hold frame and pass shit tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:43 PM
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Tiny balls, emotional instability, hair loss, poor impulse control, etc really sound super duper manly. There's a looooong list of negative side effects that go along with steroid use that make it not worth it. Being an angry, crying, unstable mental and emotional case doesn't sound like a man that can hold frame to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:26 PM
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Steroids? Hookers? Quick and easy band-aids that don't lead to being a better man. Losers. Better time management so there are times for real gains to be made, for real work to happen, and character to develop? Finding a woman and gaming her, putting your social skills to the test, and dominating that submissive woman? Winners. You can get to the ends any way you want, but one path hardens and refines a man while the other makes it okay for him to be soft, easy, and entitled.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:09 PM
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It's bound to happen when the users and leadership are only pretending to play alpha on the internet. Wasn't there a TRP mod that had never kissed a girl before? That sub isn't worth the time or effort anymore, just move on and forget about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:01 PM
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Cutting their food at 4 and 6? How old are yours?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 08:11 PM
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I think they need another level of stimulation, something new to learn. They're probably acting out because of boredom. They're 4 1/2, and 3.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 02:07 PM
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Great advice to have something planned and set up beforehand. Have your gym gear in a bag and ready, running shoes, Starbucks gift card, whatever. It beats driving around trying to figure out what to do like I used to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 08:20 PM
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Second comment adding a shit to own Today I realized I haven't been providing the necessary leadership to my wife for raising our children. I haven't given her the proper tools to do so without burning out and getting frazzled every day. I'm working on lesson plans to help them learn, and prep them for school, but it seems the children also lack the proper respect for her when I'm away from home. I'll have to examine this and figure out how to fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 07:57 PM
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If that is where TRP is now then it sounds like they are abandoning the idea that men should focus on bettering themselves for the idea that women are the source of their problems...'well, if they weren't such children, I'd have a great life." This is a big reason I frequent this sub, and not TRP. I'm here to sharpen myself on stronger iron and, when I can, hopefully sharpen someone that's weaker iron. Bettering ourselves is our number one goal and what leads people here to success. I also love …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 07:49 PM
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Women are the most responsible teenager in the house. Women are adults. Women have child-like spirits by nature. Women aren't equal, but they're equitable. I enjoy women for this. I embrace their nature and love them. From what I've seen of your post history, you tend to belittle women as a whole which I suspect is a defensive response for your fear of them. I could be wrong, 100%. I could be right too. I just know what I've seen from internet posts. If it's true, then whatever. If it's not, the…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 07:45 PM
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Emotional control is lacking in a TRP users and leadership- it's disappointing.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 07:38 PM
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You literally made the "not all women are like that" argument, TFA said: "Women are hypergamous and solipsistic" That doesn't sound like a refutation of AWALT to me. It sounded like he was trying to make an argument, was engaged, and responded to those engagements. Nothing in there read as "trolly" to me. By your definition of a "troll", I've seen you do the same thing. If you don't want TFA's opinions in your sub, just say that. I'm not trying to white knight TFA or anything like that, it just …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 07:33 PM
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Owning This career change may very well happen. I've done some testing for it and scored exceptionally high. There's a physical portion that I'm sure I'll ace. It will be nice to have a job where I'm not on my ass all day. Exercise is back on track after a bad two weeks. The wife and I are back on our opposite diets. My ego is better controlled now. I'm sure there's still work to do on it, but the progress here has gone faster than I could have hoped. Proper perspective was a big key in dwindlin…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 02:46 PM
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Mind your own business, live peaceably with others.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 07:22 PM
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I don't expect you to understand. Why not? You can't understand anything else unless you understand how it all began You can start laying the foundation, but can't expect people to see the building you're planning to erect from that. In John 15, Jesus doesn't say he's the vine and leave it at that. He set the foundation, then built on it and explained what he was talking about. If you want to make a solid, well built point then you'll need to build on top of what you've started. The entire book …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 07:19 PM
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Your problem isn't the religious stuff, it's the low effort that went into this. If you want to relate verses with TRP, or vice versa, what are you leaving out things like Ephesians 5? 1/2 Kings? Ecclesiastes? Song of Solomon? Whichever book of Timothy? There are plenty of verses that share a message with Red Pill, but you decided to jam a few verses from the beginning of the first book to fit your theory instead of going deeper.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 03:56 PM
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/u/RedPillSchool and /u/Adderallabuse (not sure if same guy from what I've seen) I thought the same, and have him tagged accordingly. I'm glad you'll continue your writing. Your posts and blogs have offered me some good perspectives and have helped me stay grounded from time to time. You're a valuable asset to this sub, and I'd like to say thanks for your work. I recognized that my mission and my vision are separate from that of the 'Red Pill' brand. We're not exactly "Red Pill", we're masculine…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 03:35 PM
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It's fun foreplay too. Practice your A&A until it's second nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 07:26 PM
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Succinctly said. One is an opportunity for some verbal foreplay, and the other is a beta bitch mentality you should get rid of.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 05:42 PM
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Muh misogyny takes many forms!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 08:16 PM
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Sounds like ego stroking to me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 05:37 PM
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This concept finally clicked, about love and the way women do it. I did a lot of thinking and meditating about it, and came to a harmonious conclusion. I have a better understanding of the dynamic now and I feel at peace about it. It's a really simple concept, but I have a thick skull sometimes. I'm advancing in this possible career change. I'm taking computer literacy and physical tests. All of it has been, and will be, a cake walk. 1.5 miles in 16 minutes is easy, even for a non cardio guy. I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 03:30 PM
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Dude. Bro. Man. Your post reeks of clueless pussy. Read the books again. Read some of the top posts. You haven't internalized shit. You haven't shown "IDGAF" You haven't shown the confidence of a leader You put that pussy on a pedestal. You continually fall into her frame You talk too much You're not lost yet. You can pull the commitment card off the table. You won't do that though, because you idolize this woman even though she gets an "attitude" bad and often enough for you to complain about i…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 08:46 PM
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I guess I just forgot that there are a lot of people here that are scaredy-cat alt users ;)
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 08:28 PM
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They're like the two different tubes on a thing of epoxy.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 06:06 PM
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Do you pronounce the "gh"? Acta non verba, though what's wrong with the occasional staff meeting?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 05:23 PM
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Are you an alt, by the way? Just asking because you were endorsed at 10 days (when I noticed, anyway). I'm just wondering who I might be talking to.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:17 PM
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There's no paradox. The most confident man in the world, if his ego is in check, can criticize himself and find his faults so he can improve. The biggest pussy in the world, if his ego is huge, could never recognize a fault within himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 02:54 PM
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It took me a while to find that balance between a controlled ego (killed) and maintaining confidence in most things. It really came down to accepting things for how they were, and not lamenting them (Your point one). I coupled that with working on outcome independence, which also helps frame. Whether dealing with friends, family, or my wife- I have a plan to reach my goals, which includes a certain type of attitude (tying into your point two). With this, ego was killed (or controlled) and confid…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 10:27 PM
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Pre-screening is YUGE. I knew what I wanted. A younger, religious, conservative leaning, low partner count, submissive, fun, similar (in ways), different (in ways), etc. I had a hefty list that may or may not be valuable here. The takeaway is that it works if you stay on top of your shit. If you don't know what you want then why would you make a choice? Plates are like jobs, LTRs are like careers. You can pick up or drop a plate, no problem. If you're going for a career, it's something you have …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 09:20 PM
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I did make an effort at actual discussion I have to disagree. You can find women that are like unicorns, that are easier to "make". Conservative, religious women tend to make great, submissive wives. They tend to look for strong leaders. They've been taught more virtuous values than your average bar floozy. If you want a wife/ltr, look for these kinds of women. You don't want to have an uphill battle. So there's that If you came for drama, wrong place. This is TRP. k. So far the conversation qua…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 09:05 PM
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Every great woman you ever met was made. I never said unicorns exists. I was saying you could get someone like a unicorn. As you said, great women are made. I was building on that. Try reading what I wrote.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:47 PM
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We've already established that a marriage contract is a bad idea. Broken records tend to be useless. LTR, marriage-in-name-only, religious-ceremony-marriage only, blahblahblah. It's a waste of time to go down this road again. No woman is ever 100% on point. You bet on a horse with a better coat and stronger legs because, shit, it's healthier, and has a smaller chance of screwing you.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:06 PM
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There are no unicorns. Do not even look for one. I have to disagree. You can find women that are like unicorns, that are easier to "make". Conservative, religious women tend to make great, submissive wives. They tend to look for strong leaders. They've been taught more virtuous values than your average bar floozy. If you want a wife/ltr, look for these kinds of women. You don't want to have an uphill battle.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 07:48 PM
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Be completely explicit that you don't want a dog. You don't want her to get a dog because you might want one and she definitely wants one. State your decision and stick to that for now. Don't DEER.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 07:21 PM
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Thanks, this all looks great. I'm working through the book, and that calculator looks pretty useful.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 02:39 PM
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There are good arguments for it, but those arguments require special circumstances that hardly apply to most people. Or the whole devout religious thing, though that can be worked around. Generally, in the west, signing a marriage contract is a bad idea. I don't think any unplugged person would say otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 02:11 PM
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Do you have a link for jackten's comment or post?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 02:40 AM
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In this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 11:37 PM
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A couple of people who own their shit say that they would do it again. I don't think I ever saw an endorsement for marriage here. I'm fine with my marriage, but would never tell a friend they should get married. I think most of us are like that. I thought it was funny when RPS came through here to say marriage was always bad, riding his ego the whole time. We know marriage is a bad deal. We're anti-divorce rape here, not pro marriage. I pointed this out on that thread, and apparently that's ban …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 10:04 PM
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I'm looking at a few programs, but I haven't decided on one yet. I was looking at modifying the 5x5 I was doing, but I see there are some better plans out there. Any suggestions?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 08:36 PM
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My exercise is coming along. I have strength, but now I'm looking to gain size. I look hulky post workout, but that size diminishes quite a bit when my muscles aren't pumping with blood. I'm changing my routine to focus more on size over strength. According to what I've read, this means shorter, more intense workouts (generally). I'm looking forward more mass to go along with this strength.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 07:27 PM
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I keep myself looking like a hot stud and she keeps herself looking soft and bendy. The rest just happens by itself. I want to fuck her, she wants to fuck me.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 05:41 PM
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I'll just leave this here for you to read. It's good advice. She will treat you EXACTLY as BAD as you let her treat you. Stop tolerating bad behavior from your little snowflake. She knows she has you by the balls.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 09:21 PM
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What do you need to prepare for? Honestly, it's not like women are wereharpies that start screeching at the first hint of bleeding. A little resilience to your frame, maybe a night or two away with the guys, can definitely help. But using an app to track her cycle? That's just weird and reeks of fear. I'm really trying to understand here. Is it that you allow shitty behavior when your wife is on shark week? I don't get the point. They are more prone to their emotional waves, not all-out-attack m…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 09:12 PM
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My sleep is on a better track. I'm on 6-7 hours a night right now, which is double what I was getting some nights. I'm comfortable with this amount and it feels great. I have my mojo back with confidence, with my ego in check. It feels right. I've fallen out of working out regularly for the last two weeks or so. I let myself make excuses (wife surgery for example) when they really shouldn't have stood in my way. I'll rectify that tonight before my kid's birthday party. No word on the career chan…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 08:24 PM
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Your hamster is really quite powerful, I'm impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 08:05 PM
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Or you can be a steady captain for both clear skies and stormy seas. I'm not afraid of a little rain from my FO. It doesn't change my approach, response, etc. It shouldn't. It can amplify shitty behavior if you don't have shit locked down, but a masculine man shouldn't have trouble with anything like that. Are you scared of your wife when she bleeds or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 07:38 PM
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Not it's not. Depends on the person and their biology. Lots of people do nothing and are rail thin. Muh ginetiks. Those people probably don't eat a whole ton. Are you tracking her cycle with the Clue App? Why is this brought up so often? "Is she acting like a bitch just because, or is she starting her period?" Does it fucking matter? No, my response would be the same no matter where she is in her cycle. I'm not going to be a weird ass and pay that much attention to when she bleeds. She will trea…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 04:10 PM
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I haven't read half of what you wrote That's cool, hopefully nobody else is reading the drivel you're writing all over this post either.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 05:15 PM
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This is a low effort, poor quality, troll post. I think I want kids. You think? Maybe? Possibly? Conceivably? Why? "I think I want a puppy" is different than "I think I want kids". If you weren't obviously trolling here, I would talk about how you seem insecure, wishy-washy, and generally pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 04:15 PM
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Dude, you are not in your frame. You're too invested in what goes on in a sub for women. Try pouring your time into something more productive.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/16 06:48 PM
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You gave me a fun idea for tonight. I like to go extra dumb sometimes, it's fun. I'll ask her for some water when she's busy, so she'll say "no" or "in a minute". But I turned into a fish and gasp I'm dying gasp I need.... I neeeed -start kissing her neck like it's keeping me alive- acting winded that's so much better, thanks. -Gets up to get own water- Just to get her in the mood and make her laugh at the same time. I'm a retard though, and I do retarded things well, so this probably isn't for …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 07:56 PM
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A similar type of book for women, from a religious perspective, is "Created to be his Help Meet". My wife has read it a few times, and asked me to read it through once. If you're religious, or don't mind the religious references, it's a great read for women with, or wanting, an "alpha" husband.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 04:48 PM
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There's probably a t-shirt for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 08:12 PM
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It is. I've had a lot of carrots dangled in front of my, but they keep getting yanked away. I can only starve so long before I'm forced to move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 09:59 PM
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I read that confidence one earlier today which is what helped me realize what I was doing. Thanks for that. I've read that shit test page before as well, but the reminders help. My wife claims to hate the jokes and the laughing, but she gets nice and hot for me later on, and I can see her struggle not to laugh along with me sometimes. That fake ire is hilarious and gets me laughing even more. Thanks, I hope it goes well. It's a leap of faith, but I know I'll just stagnate where I am now. I'll ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 09:08 PM
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Well, fuck Letting my self-analyzing to lead to too much self doubt. In an effort to shrink my ego and control it better, I'm losing a degree of confidence. It's time to stop using weighted scales and look at things more honestly instead of swinging back and forth on this pendulum. It's inconsistent and upsetting to me. Explaining too much, especially at home. Instead of stating something and leaving it at that, I've been failing shit tests by trying to explain it all logically. Because we all k…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 07:40 PM
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I'm doing a no caffeine thing right now and it's been killer. I might reintroduce morning coffee.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/16 12:36 AM
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Totally, I'm just too used to it at this point. I'm taking a break from it right now to lose this tolerance.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 02:28 PM
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I've checked it out a bit a couple of years ago and stumbled on modafinil. Instead of revving you up like ritalin might it takes away sleepiness and that fog. It works pretty well and I was using it to make up for lost sleep, but my tolerance is getting pretty high.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 08:37 PM
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Okay, great. I'll start with the melatonin and go from there. I like the idea of no fog or tolerance buildup. That sounds great.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 08:22 PM
2

I also lost my cool, almost a week ago. I was sick and my wife accidentally woke me up in the middle of the night to throw my heating pack in the microwave and bring it back to me. I acted like a child and chewed her out for waking me up. I mean, how dare she trip over my pants in the dark and fall into the bed? The next morning I owned up to being an asshole, and thanked her for being considerate and thoughtful. It's a nonissue now, but reminded me to be more diligent about maintaining composur…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 07:21 PM
1

Is Zopiclone OTC? It sounds like melatonin is the way to go. Does it take a while to build up a tolerance?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 07:12 PM
1

The 10 count relax method helped before I started working out. Now if I do it I focus too much on which muscles are sore, or feeling cramped, reviewing that day's exercise, planning out the following day, calculating macros, shit I was on shoulders okay relax the shoulders... I added 10 pounds today so...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 05:38 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. Sleep has always been a bitch of a problem for me and I'd really like to tackle it. I'll start with 15 minutes of meditation and go from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 05:32 PM
1

I'll have to try it then. Between that and meditation, I should be better set for a long term solution.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 05:30 PM
1

Did it ever prevent you from waking up on time, or waking up to an alarm?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 05:13 PM
1

I'll have to try that. I haven't practiced meditation since I was in the army. 30-40 minutes a night sounds like a while, but when I'm wasting a couple of hours trying to get to sleep every night it sounds pretty nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 04:58 PM
1

A bit of both. It's hard to get tired enough after 6pm to fall asleep. I can easily lose track of time, or just lay in bed for a couple of hours before I sleep. Sleeping aides are almost a necessity because of this. I'm working on forming a habit of going to bed at a certain time every night so my body gets used to it and, hopefully, starts falling asleep on its own.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 04:42 PM
1

I haven't yet, no. I hear the dosing on that can be a little tricky, but if you get it right then you don't have the same groggy feeling when you wake up that Zzzquil gives you. I like the zzzquil because it's fast. Do you have experience with melatonin?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 04:33 PM
1

I was sick for about a week, pretty sure I lost a little bit of fat. And a little muscle. I starting eating again yesterday though, so I started working out again. There's never a good enough excuse not to. I let myself get too lax with sleep. I'm going to bed later again and not getting the rest I need. Time to correct course again and buy some more knock out drugs. I'm investing more into my hobbies, finally. I'm also gearing up (literally) for the upcoming camping season (another hobby and so…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 03:14 PM
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You've got me cracking up, this is a great way to handle it. Me: "No, but I can force you to WANT to have sex with me like that." I'm in stitches, this is gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 04:52 PM
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My wife found MRP and had pulled up some of my posts and comments to "talk about". I gave her one shot to make her case, just sitting there and listening. It was hilarious to listen to her struggle over the terms and ask what they mean. What is... A-W-A-L-T? "That just says all women have the same tendencies to do things like cook well and go through your man's internet history." Most Responsible Teenager in the House? "That's saying that you're like the teenager that's responsible enough to get…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 02:48 PM
3

The funniest arguments are those that see no merit in those of others. I wouldn't endorse marriage for men in general, but I'm not blind to the upsides.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 02:13 PM
1

So data isn't useful when it's used to explore something you don't agree with, got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 12:50 AM
2

What studies? The one I saw mentioned brought up the men in successful marriages live longer and are generally happier than unmarried or divorced guys. A statistic like that is worth looking at, not blowing off.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 10:05 PM
1

Reading this thread has led me to believe that you think studies and research are somehow bad? Buying a car must be a nightmare for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 09:52 PM
1

I'm not comfortable with simply giving women a free pass on that. If a woman wants to trash marriage vows, that's on her too. Why would you? Who implied anyone should? I was saying men should take responsibility for their actions, and you jumped straight to the fault of someone else, a person's actions you can't control. Focus more on what you can do or you'll probably be angry for a long time. I see no reason you can't get listed as the father and wear a ring without a marriage contract. I admi…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 08:20 PM
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It's not like everybody had a father to pass down red pill knowledge. So? That sucks, but the knowledge is out there. The signs are obvious. There are failing marriages everywhere you look. If a man is going to get married, and doesn't take the time to look at these marriages and see what's wrong, that's his fault. There's a clear pattern even if someone doesn't want to see it. Any man that gets married is no victim. He made a choice, whether informed or not. That's on him. He has nobody to blam…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 08:03 PM
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You're the victim. I doubt that many that have been here for a while would consider themselves victims. Masculine men don't tend to blame others for choices they've made or even the circumstances they're in. Relationships can be beneficial. Marriage gives me full access to my children with any sort of fight. Without that, getting any sort of access to a child of yours would be mountainous legal battle. Most of us won't endorse marriage 2.0, but marriage isn't without its uses. You can get marrie…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 07:46 PM
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Fun....No You don't find challenges and rewards fun? Or ways to make them fun? That sounds boring. Then again I'm just another 28 year old.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 07:32 PM
1

It doesn't have to be either/or though. I can be cynical, but never bitter. I look deeper into motives and don't tend to take them at face value, but I'm more focused and honest- with myself especially. I lied to myself on different parts of the spectrum. It was before I came across PUA type stuff but, like you, I would shoot myself down before others had a chance to. I swung to another side where I wouldn't acknowledge any faults coming from anywhere but myself. I was a special snowflake, and t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 07:31 PM
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It comes down to responsibility. Who's responsible, when, and why. My parents (father especially) are responsible for not equipping me as they should have. Society is responsible for the messages it spits out in rapid fire. Being dealt a shitty hand sucks, and it's fine to be angry about that. Especially when you find out the shit you've been playing with all these years. But after the blinders have come off and the initial anger settles, who's responsible now? Nobody but you. I could complain a…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 09:09 PM
1

Sucks to be clueless, but I do take lots of pride in knowing that I'm figuring this shit out from scratch. I had no father to show me, so whatever I learn and own is 100% me. I take pride in this as well. My father goes to work early, goes home to play video games for a few hours, sleeps, and repeats. It's pathetic. He isn't even "allowed" (by his wife) to come talk to me because we might talk shit about her. It's ridiculous. I'm glad to know that while I'm still young (28) I'm much better equip…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 08:58 PM
1

I spent a long time trying to figure that out, then ignoring it. I settled on the idea that it might be a sign of masculine maturity, or something like that. I don't get the happy, almost giddy "spark" that would excite me anymore, and I wish I would. Instead- I feel happier when I work on my yard I get a happier feeling when I mow, or clean up fallen branches, than watching a show. Or playing a game. Or doing something else that isn't quite so productive. Maybe it's just trading a spark for a s…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 08:43 PM
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aware, jaded, and cerebral I definitely prefer these. I have fewer happy feelings, less of a spark of passion, but I'm getting more shit done. My life is better, my mood is consistently better, and my future is brighter. I'd rather be a cynical ass that's going somewhere than an ignorant fool beating my head against a wall without direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:55 PM
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I'm not angry at women, society, or whatever else would be easy to blame. I don't know if I'm even angry at all. I believed so many lies for such a long time. I believed I could be loved the same way I love. While I always stood on a tradition belief of families and households, I believed a partner dynamic was possible. It was foolish, but I kept buying into the lies. Without an actual masculine father or other such influence, I was playing it as I went until I found the stuff here. I suppose a …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:51 PM
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They exist to remind us what will happen if we get too lazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 07:54 PM
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These feelz are realz. For me, my female co-workers' femininity or attractiveness has absolutely no bearing in how much I value them as co-workers. The only woman whose femininity and attractiveness I care about is my wife. I'm sure that, given the same level of service, you would tip an hb10 the same as you would an hb4. I'm sure you're not more likely to team up with attractive coworkers for a project over unattractive ones. You're a unique and special snowflake, after all.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 07:14 PM
1

I usually worked so hard in the army that my body protested staying up any later than I had to. Unless I had to pull fire guard or a late training exercise, then I was up for the rest of the night.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 07:30 PM
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I don't think I've slept that early consistently since I was in the Army. I'll be happy with 11, then I can judge whether or not to make it earlier. My son has been a shithead at night ever since he finished overnight potty training, using bathroom breaks as an excuse to get out of bed. It's getting better, but I don't want to discourage him from going if he has to. Once that's over, I should be able to go to bed before 11 without worrying about it too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 07:18 PM
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Owning: I'm improving my sleep schedule. I've been dialing back the time I go to bed. I've always had a hard time falling asleep but, with so many OTC sleep aides out there, that's not a good excuse. I have to say, it's nice to get more than 5 hours of sleep a night. Soon I'll be asleep consistently around 11pm, and then I can start working harder on waking up earlier.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 04:18 PM
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This is much like pouring gas on a lit flame. Isn't that one of the best parts about owning a charcoal grill? A little fuel on the fire never hurt anyone.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 04:10 PM
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Is this your first time here? You sound like a concern troll, or the tone police.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 04:06 PM
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You mean when I had an ego to rival an NBA all-star's?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 07:28 PM
2

It can't be said any better than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 07:19 PM
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I'm beginning to tire the idea of identifying shit tests on a fundamental level. From your shit test program. I was way too focused on finding the right formula a year ago. I could have used someone telling me to just chill out and to start having fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 04:57 PM
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I think that timidity is adorable. Avoid the typical teenage "It's not a phase, mom!" response and own/have fun with it. I'm phasing into a sexier state of matter
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/16 04:40 PM
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Exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 08:04 PM
1

I'm sure you mean fish for gainz and olive oil to highlight the contours of your muscles. Don't tell me you've never done an oil rubdown in a restaurant before.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:59 PM
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You mean your wife isn't making you a roast to show off every Sunday? What a waste! As long as you aren't eating Applebees....
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:36 PM
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I'll bet you're one of those guys that hugs other guys, and goes around after church service asking other members if their kids are feeling better, or if they got their furnaces fixed. So gay. (In case you can't tell, I just have fun screwing with you. )
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:24 PM
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Yeah, gotta be.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:54 PM
1

Thanks, I just realized it. I have to be gay to watch the two of you slobber all over each other.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:54 PM
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Gay
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:42 PM
1

Good reminder, thanks. We're guys, sometimes it helps to bitch to each other. When it goes on longer than it should it's always nice to be told you're acting like a pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 05:32 PM
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People here can go full retard when they hear the buzz word "man cave". It doesn't automatically mean that one's wife is going to take full control of the house except that one room that belongs to you. In this post it sounds like OP's wife is trying to do some good shit for him, not confine him to one tiny space.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 07:52 PM
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I wish... my wife refuses to do the "Snow White" + "wear her skin" roleplay in the bedroom. Oh well, it works better with "Little Red Riding Hood" anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:24 PM
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So there's a happy ending with one story line, and then the guy with no self awareness goes back to a shitty life. Perfect!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:19 PM
1

So we have a politician that's telling total truth about something (Rosie O’Donnell for example) and they're complaining about that?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:14 PM
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Man, this is packed with more drama than one of my wife's weird Korean soaps. Multiple identities, stupid assumptions, petty attacks... I just can't keep up!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:00 PM
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I would love to, have a link?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 09:57 PM
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Are you still working out regularly? It helps stave off some of that depression. I'm also stuck with no real options without taking more classes for a different degree. I've been trying to think of anything else, but there's no way around it unless I want to change fields completely, and even that would take additional education. If it's for forward progress and a better future, it might be worth the extra debt you would take on. I wish you luck. Shit sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:47 PM
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He told you how you looked from reading your post. If you're here looking for advice then that's probably something you should reflect on. Instead, you've been complaining about it over and over even after I pointed out how you could take some value from it. It makes you look like a whiny asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:05 PM
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Why would he need to? The problem is apparently what he's doing, not who he is.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:45 PM
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Are you serious? I just laid out how an "insult" like that is valuable. What a waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:42 PM
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Your frame is weak if a question like that rattles you so much. I only included it and crossed it out because there's a point to be made with what he said. Why does the "insult" bother you? Does it strike close to home? Or is it just the antithesis to the validation you seek? Reading the books is one thing, one important thing. Did you do the exercises? Are you applying what they say? Take some serious time to go through again and compare your life closely to the stories and lessons laid out for…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:33 PM
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YOU CANNOT RELY ON A WOMAN FOR EMOTIONAL SUPPORT OR VALIDATION. This is incredibly important and fundamental. Without this piece, starting out will be hell. You're not "partners" or "equals" and don't have a "mutual respect" the way you were trained to understand it. Even the rainbowiest unicorn doesn't want to see a man cry out to her when he gets hit with an emotional hammer. A woman's perception of you is based on your current situation. If you look weak or pathetic because of your shown weak…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:28 PM
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You didn't even answer his questions. Do you always alternate between placating codependent pussy and whiny asshole? Have you read NMMNG or WISNIFG?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:17 PM
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I comes down to how the fat shaming is used, or taken. If I rib my buddies about having love handles spilling out of their shorts, it usually pushes them to work harder at fixing that. It helps that these guys aren't total pussies though.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 09:38 PM
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This sub tends to get more in depth about most topics, and leaves the shallow / basic stuff for askMRP. Everyone knows to be more attractive. Everyone knows to be a better Oak. Everyone knows to have fun swatting shit tests around. It's easy to say "be MRP", but how? You could have easily gone into more depth, even referencing an earlier post of yours about the importance of protein. Here's one for you: Be productive Don't be lazy
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 07:56 PM
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I find it hilarious that you signed your post ;) Your post has a couple of good points, but you should go deeper. What do you do to be attractive? Lift heavy weights. There are a variety of programs out there, but the best ones say the same thing- lift heavy, lift often, and progress your weight. Lifting heavy does you no good unless you're eating right. Are you trying to gain weight? Do you need to lose weight? There are thin and skinny fat guys that try to lift heavy, but eat like birds. You c…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 07:35 PM
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Nonsense. I'm better looking than someone twice my weight, but not as good looking as someone with twice the muscle I have. The perspective goes both ways. If I got back into woodworking, someone further along that path would be much better than me. On the other hand, I'm better than somebody with no experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 07:20 PM
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This is the right answer, OP. Listen to this guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 06:11 PM
2

An anterior pelvic tilt. Thanks for that video. "Why do I look like a fucking retard?" Now I know!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 05:29 PM
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CICO
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 05:27 PM
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My wife does love me Not how you think. What kinds of things can I do everyday to make her a better wife? What are you, a dumbass? You think you can just change another person because you want to? Change yourself. Read the sidebar. Read the books in the sidebar. It's "Course Prerequisites" not "course suggestions". Or did you not read the sidebar? Get to work already. I've read the rational male blog and other sites, and I understand the principles, but how can I incorporate those into everyday …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 04:04 PM
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That RBN sub has some good info and content on it, but there's a "poor me" mentality that one would be wise to avoid.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 09:36 PM
1

See, I knew MRP was abusive with their "turn down starfish sex" policies!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 04:22 PM
2

So far, I've noticed that men won't take much of a shine to MRP unless they're looking for something. If they're complacent in their unhappiness, they're not worth the effort of guiding yet. Thanks for sharing a success story about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 06:32 PM
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How was your turnaround on that? I was thinking back on my "full on whiny bitch" phase the other day and the process from that to where I am now. My wife was a total harpy bitch at the time, but I was a no-responsibility-crybaby.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 06:23 PM
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I work for a college in a pretty liberal-minded town, so "victim" usually means just the one thing for me. I like terms like "owning your shit" and "taking responsibility", or even "dealing with the mess you created". It steers the conversation toward what a man can do about something (productivity), instead of focusing on how he was potentially wronged by someone or by circumstance (whining).
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 05:59 PM
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I passed up that phase too. I have a theory that TRP hits anger phase more than MRP, but it's a pretty loose theory. The complaining feels like whining after a while. "Disney lied! My mom lied! My sisters, friends, and girlfriends lied!" Whatever. Most women don't even know any other reality because they were brought up the same way. It makes it sound like women are all-powerful and all-knowing oppressors. It's hilarious.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 05:39 PM
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It's easy for someone to fall into either extreme here. I just don't see the point in blaming women, our upbringings, lack of masculinity, etc. It's a waste of time. Whether or not it's true, why sit around and complain about it over and over again? Time is too valuable to waste like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 05:21 PM
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I suppose "victim" is more succinct than "guy who realizes he's fucking up and dealing with the consequences of that".
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 05:18 PM
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A WIFE WHO IS ITCHY AND BITCHY AND REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH HER HUSBAND ON THE REGULAR IS ABUSIVE. Oh shit, men are such victims, our feelz! Whatever. Most men that go through this only did it to themselves. Whether they made themselves undesirable through their bodies, attitudes, or laziness, or made a bad decision as to who to marry, the man is usually a dumbass (or a total bitch).
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 04:59 PM
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FR My wife asked, "Are you okay, babe?" I told her my shoulder was acting up (old injury) but otherwise was fine. Later that night she gave me a really nice massage (focused on the shoulder), followed by a REALLY nice massage (focused on my dick). It sounds like you're afraid of your wife. Does she have long, sharp teeth?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 03:40 PM
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Don't be lazy, read the actual articles. OP is using a lot of hyperbole here, and even making some of this shit up.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 03:14 PM
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Yeah, if you get complacent as a man and stop being desirable. The reason this happens is laziness, having a "I won it I don't have to keep working at it" mentality, and getting fat. I'm not endorsing marriage, it's harder. If you're less respected and desired by your wife / LTR then that's on you.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 11:33 PM
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Nudge nudge
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 06:07 PM
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Same. A few workouts have ended early because of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 05:24 PM
2

You don't look like that without lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 05:16 PM
2

I find that one of the biggest difference makers is how well the clothes fit. Let's take a man wearing business casual. Slacks too loose? People will assume you're relaxed and lazy. Too tight? Possibly gay? Either way, wearing clothes that don't fit well looks like you can't afford clothes that do, so your social status dips. What about that shirt? If that's too loose then you look fatter than you are, and "disappear". If you're shirt's too tight, and you don't have pecs like mine, you'll wind u…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 10:51 PM
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Are you ready to divorce her if she crosses that boundary? She may "call your bluff", or just cross that boundary. If you don't have any sort of follow through, then- well just read Archwinger's comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 08:53 PM
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This is one of the funniest things, in my opinion. It really helps me take my A&A game to new heights. Who were you talking to, another woman? "Yeah... what time is it- SHIT! I'm late to meet her. See ya!"
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 08:45 PM
3

It almost worked, too. One of these days, Champ.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 03:59 PM
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It's site, as in location on the web, is it not?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 03:57 PM
1

It depends on where it comes from. Coming from this sub (and like minded individuals) it can usually be assumed that it means "be the most attractive you". You don't have to cook your steak exactly the same as mine, as long as they're both juicy and make you question why you're even using a fork and knife. Edit: Cad is right, I was being a retard. It's feel good bullshit and, used around here, probably means "fuck you, you're lost".
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 03:48 PM
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You care enough to retain that and actually bring it up? Validation points are cool and all, but still ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 03:43 PM
1

We're not doctors and, even if we were, would you trust us when it comes to medical advice? Shit, I hope not. She's on SSRIs- is she getting therapy or counseling or working through the reason she's on them? If not, make that happen. Would other women be attracted to you? Do you lift almost every day? Are you interesting? Do you own your actions and decisions? is being pissy about it alone ok? Why are you pissy about it? You already told us her excuse for not finding you attractive- the drugs. P…
/r/askMRP11/02/16 10:05 PM
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For the guys who have nothing to say but smart-ass remarks: dedicate your time in a more productive manner. Spending 30 seconds amusing myself is a pretty good use of time if you ask me! Don't take yourself so seriously, you'll die early. As far as hair goes, my head has about 3523 cowlicks, so keeping it short and neat is the best option for me. For the guys who have nothing to say but endless tutorials on getting your hair perfect: stop being so ghey. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 10:30 PM
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The amount of thought you put into this is pretty ghey bruh. You've gotta have more self care products than your wife does at this point. I moved from an 0-3 to something about 1/4 inch longer. It looks good, professional, and it's easy enough to maintain. Hair isn't rocket science. Keep it clean and looking good, like you should with your car.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 09:10 PM
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AWALT Men and women think differently. Women think more about the present situation. They live in the moment, like you! Then men, we tend to plan things out and think outside the moment. There's pros and cons to both. I'm also thinking about how good you look in those jeans right now. oldest teenager in the house This just talks about hierarchy, babe. You're the oldest and most responsible teenager in the house. You're like the teen that gets their schoolwork done, cleans around the house, actua…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/16 08:36 PM
1

Fuck yeah, I've got this shit down now. Tonight is a fried red chard with sliced radishes over brown rice and topped with grilled chicken. I don't follow any specific "ideology" of diet, I go with what my body needs. I'm trying to pack on more and more muscle mass, so lots of protein and big portions of everything I eat. Wife is losing weight, so I'm helping her keep her calories between 1200-1500. It's definitely a lot more work to keep track of calories, grams of protein, certain vitamins/mine…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 04:50 PM
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I get called a "dick" and an "asshole" all on my own merit. No sub is going to take credit for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 10:14 PM
1

Charts and pictures for reference.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 05:32 PM
2

It sounds to me like you, and probably your wife, are bored with life. Let me know how this whole Darkwing Duck experiment works out.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 04:38 PM
5

Oh please, that is sooooo last year.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:42 PM
1

You come home to your second job, where you're the boss. Teach her how to make the decisions on her own so she's not in your office every 10 minutes asking how to mop the floor. Teach her how to use patterns. Whether I'm changing a tire or putting together a bed frame I know how bolts work, and I use that "pattern" in both situations. It sounds like you do everything instead of teaching her how to do it herself. Learn to lead properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 08:42 PM
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Hey, you're a mod now, you make the rules.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 05:22 PM
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Not super hard, but definitely firmly. And holding the button for almost a full second.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 05:09 PM
1

I'm eating more and more, because I started "skinny weak" and I'm building more and more muscle. The wife came to me with a couple of hand-written pages on ways she wants to improve herself, particularly when it comes to her body. I sat down with her and talked about exercise, diet, nutrition, all of it. She wants to lose weight and get stronger. I wrote out a strict diet plan for her and bought exactly what was needed for the next week or two. I also gave her a preliminary exercise plan to star…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 08:30 PM
2

Damn, I'll get it next time ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 06:33 PM
2

I'd like to announce my retirement from the male modeling profession MRP. I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being good-looking my own man. And I plan on finding out what that is. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 06:24 PM
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Here in North America we're dealing with some avian flu. This has taken a good percentage of eggs off the market, driving cost up.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 09:19 PM
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Agreed, experience talks. That's why RP praxeology is so effective. It's a collection of guys that share their experience about what works and what doesn't. It isn't designed to help women, but on the MRP side of things it does. What woman is happy leading a household, or having a submissive husband?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 12:29 AM
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MRP - building a better man, one guy at a time. That's what it's all about. Improve yourself, become a better man. Create success, build a strong body, grow a strong character and home according to your vision. Men learn the systems in place here, they learn about Marriage 2.0, and then learn how to work the system in their favor as much as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 12:21 AM
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It takes time, just remember to focus on yourself. If she turns you down, no sweat. You're a man that has other, more productive things you can be doing. It helps to have a couple of tasks you can jump to right away, and to focus on that to take your focus off of the rejected sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 10:39 PM
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Abundance mentality is helpful, to be sure. This advice is mostly for beginners, but it worked for me. First, look at yourself in the mirror. Are you fat? Flabby? Do you have a belly and love handles? Are you on the other end of the spectrum, looking like skin was draped over your skeleton? Are you hygienic? Are you attractive? Do your cons outweigh your pros? If you aren't physically appealing, most valuable women won't want to have sex with you. Lift, lift, lift. Eat right. Clean yourself. Sha…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 10:36 PM
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Never said it was. The votes can be an indicator, but here I'm leaning on the comments (and who is commenting what) to draw my conclusion.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 10:12 PM
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Sometimes I'm wrong, sometimes you're wrong. Sometimes a FR has bad information in it. When flaired or valuable members of this sub point something like that out in a reasoned way, it's probably worth a second look. It's childish to lash out and attack people when receiving any sort of criticism.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 10:08 PM
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Thanks! I picked up on that from your post history. My theory is that there are some here that would have their ego popped if they admitted a woman had something worthwhile to contribute. I mean... oh no it's a woman in my safe space!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 07:10 PM
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I remember that "nutrition guide" from Cad recently. I thought it was terrible for the same reasons. A calorie isn't a calorie? Total bullshit. Sure, send me some links. I'm always trying to learn more about nutrition and the science behind it. My wife bought into the whole "carb calories" fad a few years ago. She counted carbs like crazy and lost the weight she wanted to. It was working! Because she was counting carbs and calories, and eating less of both. She added carbs back in and stayed on …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 06:59 PM
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It may be trolling, but going through your post history is entertaining. Seeing you call internet alphas out on their shit has me cracking up today. What do Aragon and McDonald say about nutrition that stands out from others? I looked up Aragon, but most of his stuff seems to be behind a paywall.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 06:41 PM
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There's what jack said about your post, that's what I'm talking about the sub agreeing with. You demonstrated that you're still controlled by your wife's denials of sex. Stop letting your ego get in your own way, at home or here with other guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 05:19 PM
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Turned down for sex: Wait, why isn't he getting upset? Am I not good enough for him? He used to get really mad, and mope around. Now he acts like he doesn't care! What is going on? This seems to be difficult for people, but it's such an important point to reach. This sort of "outcome independence" shows that a man is cool, confident, and collected. It shows that he has a firm command of himself and the situation he is in. An outcome-independence man is a firm oak grown from a solid rock that isn…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 05:14 PM
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You're quick to lash out at others, no matter the thread or topic. Most of the sub seems to agree with jacktenofhearts, so a second look at things might be warranted.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 05:05 PM
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Women ask for counseling not to save marriages but to cure their hamster of any guilt about dissolving a marriage. Exactly, or to prove they're right and send a few more waves to wear him down to her conditioning.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 08:50 PM
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There we go, much more direct and to the point. I'm not sitting here guessing at what you mean, trying to "read your mind". Keep it up!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 05:27 PM
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That whole "analysis paralysis" thing can be killer. Motivation is nice, but not required. Just... do it. Turn off the brain, stop thinking about what you're going to do, and do it. I used to think I needed the perfect formula of discipline, motivation, ability, planning, and whatever else my brain threw in there as an excuse. Just do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 04:35 PM
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Stop dancing and get to the point. You sound like my wife when she doesn't want tackle a particular issue head-on.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 03:14 PM
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I never said there was nothing of value here.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 03:12 PM
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You say that like skimming for quality posts every few days is a bad thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 12:47 AM
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There so much validation seeking / pat-on-the-back circle jerking lately around here and on TRP. There's been a waxing of this kind of thing and it's hilarious. What a waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/16 11:48 PM
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I find your stuff just as excellent as Rollo's. Agreed, I've enjoyed the "Family Alpha" blog so far. There's a lot of great (and frequent) content that's really on point.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/16 06:55 PM
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I already said on your post in /theredpill that this smelled like validation seeking, but I guess I'll say it again.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/16 06:48 PM
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So what , do you want a cookie or something? Before I sucked After I'm awesome Validation seeking smells worse than rotting fish.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 06:20 PM
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I vote the latter. I don't know whether I should keep laughing or close the brows-
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 10:31 PM
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I'll keep an eye out for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 08:02 AM
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Long story short, find a nutritionist or two and get their advice instead of taking your opinion from online strangers sharing contradictory studies.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 04:03 AM
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Not all calories are the same, but it's pretty close Study showing calories in, calories out. The "types" of calories made a small difference, but not much at all. A link to the study itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 08:45 PM
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Oops, I didn't pick that up. I've looked into it, but academic study on Crossfit is lacking. The studies out there show that it is intense enough that only healthy people should do it (heart rate gets too high on average for people with any cardiovascular issues for example), but when done properly it is effective. Looking at both sides of the issue, it seems like "YMMV" is a central point. While it doesn't take much to become a Crossfit coach, there are some good ones out there that emphasize f…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 08:28 PM
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Nah that's the mirror. My muscles are always too Damn small
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 07:24 PM
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Aww thanks! That's fine by me, the world needs more lesbians anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:54 PM
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You can disagree all you want. I don't plan to convince you, and doubt we could convince each other. I just don't think it's information that beginners should be seeing as it could act as more of a detriment than anything else. Also, as a former FPH subscriber, it's almost a calling to spread the word of "calories in, calories out". Like a mantra, or a prayer.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:41 PM
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And you're taking it and going home? I'm having fun, are you having fun?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:27 PM
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Men either consider said view, or ignore Ahh... so that's why you're still here, I never knew!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:18 PM
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Learn what ad hominem means. I'm saying you're retarded and wrong, not that you're wrong because you're retarded. So I should listen to holistic home journal or whatever instead of nutritionists who have studied this stuff and have the best information available about it? Yeah, that sounds about right. You're more plugged in than you realize Yeah, I know. I bought my wife some Christmas presents last night. Who else but BP WKs would do something like that?!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:17 PM
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Watch is shitlord, I'm a pansexual multigendered transkin that- oops wrong sub. I've seen you use that method twice today and it looks petty, like a child taking his ball and going home. Just figured I'd let you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:11 PM
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It's good to question things, even currently accepted science. Until there's evidence to the contrary though, you should keep vaccinated your kids and counting your calories. And then maybe stop using the "guys like you are ____" argument to shut people down. It looks very petty.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:07 PM
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Be a bluepiller and fight for your ego Reading through these again, this reads like dramatic irony. If you're going to try calling others out on "fighting for their ego" then you should probably check your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:03 PM
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Stop being retarded. If you need to know more about computers, see an IT guy. If you need to know more about nutrition, see a nutritionist. If you're being wise, and leading yourself, you'll recognize that you don't know everything, and that it's okay to take advice from someone that knows more than you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 05:38 PM
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I'm being snarky. People are giving shitty advice. Watch what you eat and eat clean. Count your calories. Use a calculator to see how many calories you should eat. Work out. Choose your goals, and select a workout program based on those goals. All this is important shit, but people are spouting off "X isn't that important". Retarded ass shit. For someone just starting out, are you going to say "x isn't important?" If you are, you suck. For a beginner, counting calories is one of the BEST ways to…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 05:31 PM
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So... Recommend a nutritionist if you don't know. My doctor has done that, a handful of my wife's doctors, and a nurse in my family as well. That's the great thing about the health network. Don't know? Send em to someone that does!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 05:26 PM
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/u/alorian Says that crossfit is too random, speed focused, prone to injury, promotes bad form, etc. /u/alorian is obviously the source of these opinions. There are plenty of athletes/bodybuilders/military/etc that would agree with me, just in case you wanted to read up on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 05:18 PM
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Just lifting without fixing your diet isn't going to help. Just counting calories while you're not working out or sleeping well isn't going to help. It all goes together. Counting calories is proven and effective, just ask any non-internet nutrition. Everything you do to improve (exercise/diet/sleep/whatever) is going to complement each other of course, but that doesn't mean to just disregard something. Everyone should have insurance now, shitty or not. Go talk to your damned doctor instead of l…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 04:56 PM
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Yeah yeah, keeping crowing. It's a total bummer when people disagree with you isn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 04:12 PM
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Ive cut sugar completely and do not eat at a deficit yet lose a half pound a week. Okay mister snowflake. For most of the rest of the human race, calories have a huge impact on whether we gain, lose, or maintain weight. Yeah, what those calories are in matters. 500 calories of my chili is going to be a lot more nutritious and filling than 500 calories of skittles. Choosing what to eat is very important, but so is that calorie count.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 03:48 PM
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a calorie is not a calorie A calorie is a calorie. The delivery system for a calorie is the important bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 07:23 AM
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The staples. Bench, overhead press, squats, dead lift, barbell rows, curls etc. Crossfit is too random, speed focused, prone too injury, promotes bad form, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 04:18 AM
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That's a great post too. Tracking everything you eat is easier than people think and it's the best way to lose that weight. What's the saying, "Abs are made in the gym but revealed in the kitchen".
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 11:22 PM
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I'm sure that, when done correctly, it's good enough for overall health and all that. I prefer targeted weight training exercises. I really liked this post. It shows the difference in bodies that work out the right and wrong ways. The comments discuss other things, like diet, that have an effect on how the body looks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:53 PM
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You probably don’t need more information, you just need to start. Decide what you want to look like. Select programs designed around that. Set goals. Start. If you want to lose weight, there are tons of programs out there. If you want to get stronger, look at Stronglifts or any other strength training program. Many of them are similar. I personally do Crossfit 4-5 times a week That part of your post stands out as a giant stain, but to each their own.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:23 PM
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I'm going to jump on the "fuck you" train as well, but I'm sure I can use this to my benefit somehow.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 06:50 PM
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You can't really outframe That's the part I fully disagree with. Otherwise you did fine and it looks like things worked out. Are things still going well with all of that?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 03:54 PM
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That example sounds like a setup for a comedy skit. Which character did you say was you? Mick Rowley And that character is? A child rapist So.. you're a child rapist then? NO! But you just said that the character in the book was you. I'm not a rapist Well make up your mind, sir. Are you the man in the book or not?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 10:40 PM
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Agree and Amplify, Disagree and Amplify, Fog, whatever. Have fun with this: you've earned it :) Yep, her knowing about it doesn't really change the game that much. My wife read a couple of my posts and comments (including my "She Will Snoop" post here). It lasted a few days before she apologized for invading my privacy and leaving me to it. Either way, keep having fun and messing with her. Get a hamster water bottle and attach it to her bedside or something. Use whatever she harps about, it's a …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 10:34 PM
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You lay out some tools- a screwdriver, a ratcheting screwdriver, and a drill. You explain that certain tools are for certain levels of jobs, that one should start small and move up only if necessary. They're good tools, it's a good system, and someone with common sense will use them wisely. Then you get the guy who uses an over-sized, powerful drill on the back of a delicate watch and destroys it. He had the instructions in front of him, he had the proper tools, he just misused them because he's…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 11:15 PM
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And we aren't victims. This is imperative for new people to realize. It's a big part that sets us apart from BP guys, MRA groups, etc. Putting a stop to one's mentality of thinking they're a victim is a huge step, and perhaps the first important one, in regaining masculinity or becoming masculine. A man that thinks he's a victim tends to make excuses, doesn't own his shit, and can't improve in a meaningful way. Using the container analogy, a 'victim' is a platter. His wife will fall all over him…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 12:36 AM
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Valuable men are the containers, while women are the liquid that fills the space they are given. Dead on. If you aren't a good container then she'll find the paths of least resistance and spill all over the place. How can she be expected to fit in this container when it's a piece of shit? If it's strong, of good quality, and not cracked then of course she'll conform to the shape of your container.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 08:41 PM
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If you deload like that, you'll wind up getting stuck in a circle of plateau and deload. I was told once to stick with my 5x5 weights until I could increase the sets and reps before bumping that weight up. I'm not sure how well this works, but I haven't been hitting any plateaus yet, and it seems to be the same general principle here. If you plateau, increase sets/reps to build up long term strength endurance. If you can't at that plateau, decrease the weight and increase the sets reps there.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 08:25 PM
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I don't really see the value either for any sort of progress. I like lifting more and more weight and getting closer and closer to my vision of myself. Why take steps back? Skipping ahead with dread levels is generally stupid and would require some course correction, but you don't move backwards with yourself. Don't let yourself slide back into old habits. That's even more stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 06:17 PM
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Did anyone read the same post as me? Glad I'm not the only one, I feel like I'm taking crazy pills.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:36 PM
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Am I right in assuming it's for a high number of fast reps for focusing on endurance and fat building?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 09:39 PM
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Totally right. A great workout for beginners is the Stronglifts 5x5. The website claims Stronglifts 5×5 is the simplest, most effective workout to get stronger, build muscle and burn fat. I'm not sure if it's THE most effective, but I can vouch for its effectiveness in building muscle that's both functional and attractive. The simplicity of it is perfect for beginners too.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 08:21 PM
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Is there some sort of advantage to kettle bells over dumbbells? I've seen a couple of workouts like a left-to-right swinging action mid body, but I'm not overly familiar with their use or if there's an advantage/disadvantage over dumbbells for certain muscle groups.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 08:14 PM
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I sometimes frame negative things in different lights to look better than I am. Take "Own Your Shit" for example, I don't usually post in them because it's too easy to brag under the guise of owning my shit. So in light of that, here a couple of things I'm starting to work on now- Keeping the tv off so I don't lose my entire Sunday to football every week. Stepping up my leadership and keeping my house clean. Learning when to be blunt and when to use finesse. I suck at this shit and need to get i…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 06:27 PM
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Are you upset? I am providing value. Pointing out that considering willpower as limitless rather than finite providing a boost in willpower? That's totally beneficial. Surely you can see that. In another comment here, I suggested having a gym schedule because, a lot of times, people will go into the gym and have no idea what to do every day. If you don't want to see value here, that's fine. I'm not shitting all over the place. I see a place where I can contribute something, so that's what I'm do…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 05:40 PM
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At my most beta, I could push myself to go one more set. It was that mentality, that ability, that really set me on a path to turn things around. If you can't have a "one more set" mentality to start with then you're going to fail. If you're doing nothing and can't do one more than that, for example, what are you even doing here? E: speaking theoretically, not to you specifically, when I say "you"
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 05:19 PM
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Every man knows how to push himself to some degree. The more you believe you're capable of, the more you'll actually be able to do. It's science. this post is designed for those who aren't at the 'one more set' stage The fuck is this bullshit? Every man here should always be at the "one more set" stage whether it's day one or year 30. You can always do one more set, push a little harder, go a little further. To say otherwise is pretty lackluster.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 05:14 PM
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Great point, it helps to have a weekly schedule. Which days are you going to do arms/chest, which day back/shoulders, core, which day(s?) are you going to do legs? If you prepare that beforehand, you can really maximize your gains instead of just wandering around.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 05:10 PM
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how it's a limited resource. That's only right if you believe it's right. That article said that people who believe willpower is limitless have more self control vs those that treat willpower as a limited resource, like a muscle. I come from the "limitless" camp. As long as I can push myself, I will. Whether the article is based on good research or not, it makes sense. A belief that you can pull willpower from deep within yourself when you need to can help you go a long way. My most recent perso…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 05:05 PM
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Radical
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 04:42 PM
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OP was dumb and knocked some random chick up. OP was dumb and did what random chick wanted at the beginning. OP was dumb and gave random chick the ammo she needed to hurt him. OP got smarter and lucked out. Let's be happy for OP. Let's avoid being like OP so we don't HAVE to dig ourselves out of an ever-deepening mess, like OP had to. TL;DR- OP is retard that got smarter and lucked out. Don't emulate OP's starting actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 04:20 PM
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It's solipsistic to suggest that because you or I wouldn't want a kid, that he shouldn't have either. I'm not saying that. I said it was a possibility he wanted a kid, but the going advice is to avoid impregnating random women you don't know because you're too drunk/horny/lazy/irresponsible/retarded to wear a condom. Because they you go through paternity tests, rape allegations, the court systems, GALs, cops, and whatever else. This guy could have easily found himself fucked, even with everythin…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 03:41 PM
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It seems like people are high on a success story that relied heavily on luck, by the OP's own admission. Am I missing something here? She asked me what she should do. Step one there right away, he has a few options, but makes a rash decision to for her to start taking prenatal vitamins. Why? It takes so many options off the table and makes him sound like he's on board with what she wants right away. In my case I could tell immediately that abortion was not a live option. He could tell? In what w…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 01:43 AM
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The part where he lets a total stranger hurt him more than he's ever been hurt before. The part where he says: She has so much power over you that you will break. You will not maintain frame. It's spelled out plainly. He lucked out with the system. He was smart with the cops. He crumbled to this woman that should have known nothing about his inner workings.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 12:58 AM
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You will never be hurt the way a pregnant woman can hurt you. She has so much power over you that you will break. You will not maintain frame. And when she has broken you she will hate you more for breaking. A year later she is still using what she knows hurts me to try to hurt me now. This guy has a weak frame. "You will not maintain frame" is a ridiculous statement. This is a total stranger to him. How much ammo did he give her? How long has he been applying TRP assuming he actually has? Pregn…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 12:45 AM
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Blames everything on her. Bends over the whole time. Didn't lead in a mutual problem. He's everything I've aspired to be.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 08:23 PM
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For clarity- I just think it's ridiculous that some people here think that a pregnant woman is some unstoppable monster. A pregnant woman is just a woman on an extra long shark week. If you can't handle a little PMS, extended or not, then you have a floppy frame.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:29 PM
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So many guys here shake in their boots when they have to deal with pregnant women. Their emotions are a little stronger and they're a little less rational than usual. It's not that bad, and those that think it is just need to man the fuck up. Pussies.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:34 PM
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This is all semantics. Some people see "deserve" as an entitlement word, while others see something deserved as something earned.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 04:45 PM
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I'm not sure, but I'll bet it appears on my coffee table as soon as I get a new copy.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 03:23 PM
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This post just helped me realize what was nagging at the back of my brain. It reveals a hole in my OI. This is the shit I'm owning and will be working on. Time to buy another copy of WISNIFG and give it a good read.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/15 10:26 PM
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Just keep the knife with your other shaving equipment, Mick Dundee style.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/15 09:28 PM
1

I always have Zicam or the store brand equivalent at home. I highly recommend it. Take it until the cold is completely gone.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/15 05:56 PM
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I just read it and it's quality material. I've been adding some more back lifts to my arsenal and saw one in that post I'd really like to try.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 03:35 AM
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Quality post. A suit is a universal tool to make one look better and more professional, but it requires tailoring to hang well. Lifting is universal but while one person may need to lose weight, others need to bulk up. One person can tell their wife they have a fat belly and loose vagina and not screw up their marriage. Someone else doing that could potentially nuke theirs. People are at different levels of improvement, AM, health levels of marriage and sex, body image, and everything else under…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 12:24 AM
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He humbled himself before the Father, and submitted to the Father. If I remember correctly, he prayed asking the Father to spare him, but submitted to the Father's will over his own.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 10:40 PM
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Yeah, I usually stay clear. I see too many people use parts of the bible to make themselves look justified, and feel better, in whatever it is they're doing. It's annoying.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 10:34 PM
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Sounds to me like he comes from a Conservative, largely literal interpretation of the bible frame of mind. My guess would be some sort of Baptist, or something similar. Every person's application of MRP is going to be tailored differently to suit them, and a man's interpretation of the bible is going to be part of his frame. The denomination doesn't change OP's points. There are different views on many things, not just religion, but MRP praxeology is still a "universal truth".
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 10:26 PM
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My opinion if you want to lead you're probably not the person for the job. I don't agree with this. I think the motivation behind wanting to lead, and the effectiveness of one's leadership, is more indicative of who is right for the job. I don't lead my family the right way because I was "thrust into it." I chose to get married, therefore I chose leadership. This doesn't keep me from being the right person for the job.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 09:21 PM
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Ephesians 5 speaks to this a lot. The first part is a command to wives, which is something we can't do anything about. The next part commands husbands to love their wives, and Christ loved the church. As you already pointed it, it's not the feel-good kind of love people think about. Christ led his church, issued commands, admonished them, gave them what they needed, taught them, and much more. That little part encompasses a lot of behaviors, none of which run contrary to MRP (save the divorce, p…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 08:45 PM
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In the MRP context, I see "alpha" as synonymous with leadership. We've all read the "Captain" analogy, and it fits really well. Alpha, leadership, is definitely a mindset. Do you lead your household? Do you make wise decisions for your family? Do you own your shit? Do you take care of problems like home repairs, emergency situations, and the like promptly and confidently? There is a lot to TRP/MRP, but it's all worthless if you can't internalize the mindset properly. I can game my wife all day l…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 07:03 AM
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Nah I don't really care about downvotes. Then why bring them up in multiple posts? It makes it sound like you're looking for validation, and getting butthurt when you're not getting it. I'll be interested in seeing that post, I'll keep an eye out for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:03 AM
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I didn't know you were omniscient! Do you really care about downvotes anyway? You post quality content. Like I said before- some things you post, like this, would fit better in a personal journal. This kind of post doesn't contribute much.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 02:55 AM
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Ooo another diary entry from /u/RedDeadWolverine
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 02:00 AM
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This is what initially attracted me to RP thinking. I had never been one to settle, pre or post military. You set a goal, work toward that goal, and either achieve or fail. Whatever the outcome, you set a new goal, and work toward that. There's always something better, there's always more fruit in the tree if you're willing to climb for it. As a man, can you ever be completely satisfied without forward progress? There's always another fence to put up, a pipe to fit, a concept to grasp, a mountai…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 05:21 PM
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I'm here to look for some validation/confirmation from other MRP men. You don't want to look for validation here. You won't get it. Questions can be good, but if you're just starting out then /r/askMRP might be better. Her last few IMs: "jebus my brother is embarrassing" "read this (with a url)" "aaaand im poor". Question 1: Does MRP agree that these are shit tests? I have been STFU. Like Redbruther said, she's looking for validation from you. She'll dangle a hook to see if she can get your inte…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 09:50 PM
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Thanks, I was just looking through my history to try to find that comment too.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 09:36 PM
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Why wade through a river when there's a bridge? I found this from /u/Countpudyoola where he talks about what happened to him when his wife stumbled upon his RP posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 09:06 PM
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That's the next step on the dread ladder for me to take. It's about a month per level, and I'm taking my time with this to do it right. So I suppose the answer you're looking for is "just starting".
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 06:47 PM
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Thanks. I'm working on it and getting closer every day. I haven't calculated it. If we were both single right now, I'd look past her. I'm fit and in shape with a low bf%, and she's 5'7" at 190. Trying to be objective, I'm fairly certain my SMV has surpassed hers. Let's say her 6, me 7.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 04:25 PM
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I'm not saying any wife would. I'm just imagining a wife's reaction if she sees, "Oldest teenager in the house" "Dread Game" "AWALT" "Shit Tests" "Agree and Amplify" etc. Why deal with that if you don't have to? I'm not going to poke the bear so I can "practice shit test handling" and, in the same vein, I'm not going to leave my front door open for it either.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 09:16 PM
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Credibility is you taking care of your shit, passing comfort and shit tests and providing for your family. The how you got to that point doesn't really matter. In the long term, I completely agree. You're not doing it for her benefit anyway, it's for you. I was speaking more in the short term. It's not a major, life changing event. I figured I would share this in case it helps someone else prevent short term problems, especially for newer guys. When someone's been on the beta slide for so many y…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:44 PM
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That's a good point. Discretion should be practiced, but not at the expense of your frame. You shouldn't change what you're doing just because she got a hold of "private information". It doesn't change anything. It just makes her less agreeable for a temporary amount of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:24 PM
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I thought about including a FR of this happening to me last night, and perhaps I should have to give a better perspective of what I'm driving at. If your wife snoops, as you mentioned, she's violated your trust. That trust will have to be earned back. As with any other conceivable scenario, it comes down to holding your frame. Don't buckle, and don't backpedal the words she found. With dread, a lot of ours should be passive. With what my wife saw yesterday, that's no longer the case. This won't …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:21 PM
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Shit I'm rocking- Diet, exercise, hobbies, being a man of action and few words, amused mastery, shit like that. Shit to own: I care too damned much about her feelz. It's too easy to let her emotions and lack of harmony slip in and rattle my own rhythm. I try not to show it too much, but it throws me for a loop internally. I'm not entirely sure where things are right now. For a while there we were having sex a lot more, but that dropped off suddenly. I turned up the dread, mostly passive and some…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 05:26 PM
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You can't be 100% all the time. Right now I'm post workout, eating and hydrating, just taking a breather.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 12:34 AM
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I'm done victim puking to my friends and relatives on how shitty my marriage is. I mean, yes I need it every once in a while but I find my self just hashing out the same whiny bullshit. It's solely on me to fix it. It can help to talk about things with close guy friends from time to time, but too much talk leads to not enough action. That's something I had to own and turn around myself. It's good you're recognizing it. Do you have a concrete plan?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/15 10:30 PM
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I'm not able to connect. blacklotus.ca.us.quakenet.org 6667 signed in and everything. Are these settings right?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/15 12:48 AM
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Imagine a drunk captain suddenly sobering up, realizing his ship is about to hit the rocks, then blindly demanding respect as the leader as he wrests the wheel from the first mate. I'm not sure where OP is when it comes to MRP, but done with a strong frame this is not the case. Imagine a captain steering through a storm, the first officer grabs the wheel and tries to jerk it in the direction she wants to go, but the captain hold the wheel firm, tells her he isn't going to let the ship sink, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/15 12:18 AM
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Self awareness is the most important. I wouldn't try anything like this without it. A stable and independent emotional state is necessary. If my emotions were swaying with her accusations and hamster, my frame would crumble and I would fall into hers.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 11:56 PM
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Instead of IDGAF and silence, call her on her bad attitude It works. Last night, my wife wound up throwing a big crying fit about whatever it was. It was ridiculous. She was following me around saying "If you _____ then you would ______" and making a bigger scene when I wouldn't reply to it. I called her out on blowing the issue out of proportion and using her tears to get what she wants, carried her to the couch, and finished what I was doing. She was calm by the time I came back to the room. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 11:28 PM
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1) I'm lifting more and more, and increasing weight. I'm now at least where I was when I was leaving the military a decade ago, maybe stronger, as long as we don't count cardio. I took a break a few weeks ago when I got sick, but jumped back to it pretty easily. I take this as a positive sign. 2) My wife keeps bringing up the possibility that I'm cheating on her. I don't, and don't plan to. It's not part of my personal values. I'm looking at this situation as passive dread starting to work. I've…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 06:45 PM
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After you get some, click on this link.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 06:12 PM
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What's wrong with your teenagers knowing you have sex? They exist, right? They look to you as an example for how to be as adults, right? They should know you fuck. Of course, they'll be grossed out by it, and they'll leave of their own accord (probably). When my wife would complain about being too loud, asking what if someone could hear us, I would take that and run with it and be as loud as I could be. Seriously, who cares if people know you two fuck? It's a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 04:55 PM
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Embrace her calling you an asshole. The more I used A&A when my wife would call me things like that, the more creative she got. The funniest was when she said I was acting like one of those "strong football player jocks", like that was a bad thing. "So you noticed I've been working out? Come feel it." They ended pretty soon after that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 03:30 PM
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I'm glad you posted this as I started coming to this realization last night. I've been sick for a few days and was trying to sleep, and she came into the bedroom a few times to "show me something" or ask something, or get a hug, whatever. "She's clingy and just needs a little comfort," I thought. The fifth time or so I realized she just wanted to see if I would drop what I was doing (getting much needed sleep) for her. I told her to take a shower and go sleep on the couch because I needed my res…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 07:41 PM
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If you like seeing a lot of hamster, it's a great sub to visit. I've noticed that the men that post there won't take personal responsibility for what they should, but take responsibility for things they shouldn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 05:51 PM
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Calm down there buddy. I enjoy a lot of your posts and comment contribution here, I just think you post a little too much with content that should be kept for personal reflection. I look forward to seeing more from you, too. Before claiming to not give a fuck you probably shouldn't tell me you went through my comment history and proceed to insult me a couple of times. It shows otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 10:02 PM
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It's a regurgitation of a basic MRP concept you can find in the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 09:28 PM
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So what? I don't care if my kids don't appreciate what I do for them. I don't do it for their validation, I do it because it's what needs to be done. My kids need food, a place to live, education, and everything else, and it's up to me to provide it. It's my fault they're here, they didn't choose life. They owe me nothing. Why should I look for their appreciation when I'm just doing my job? Appreciation and validation is always nice. "Thanks for the burgers, dad." "Thanks for fixing the car, hon…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 08:42 PM
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You talk. A lot. While I like to see content on this sub, a lot of your posts come across as something that you should be putting in a personal blog, or a journal. Pace yourself and determine whether something really needs to be said here or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 08:00 PM
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Yeah, the bible says to judge all the time too. Old and New testaments. All throughout the bible you see it saying to test this, judge that, make sure you know what's true, etc. "Don't judge others because it hurts their feefees and who are you anyway" is such a suppressing mentality.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 03:17 PM
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1) Stop whining. 2) Why do you care so much? Why should she do something for your birthday? What do you expect, and why do you expect it? Are you rare and special enough for people to give you a "special day" and a pat on your head for being alive? 3) What's you're SMV compared to hers? Are you lifting? Do you have hobbies? Are you a happy guy? Do people want to be around you? There's a reason she didn't do anything for your birthday, and it's likely that she doesn't value you. That wouldn't be …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:06 PM
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Literal patting on the head is a blast. It was surprising how many people just let it happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 04:59 PM
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Validation is addicting, I get it. It's something I have to consciously be aware of so I don't fall back into validation-seeking behavior. I think it's funny that he keeps coming here for it though.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 08:46 PM
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Yeah, lashing out over something that happened over a decade ago comes across as very thin skinned and incredibly weak. What the hell are you even doing?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 08:16 PM
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I'm surprised people are still wasting their time giving you advice. From your previous post: Your wife does not care if your SMV is a 6, 7 or 8, as long as it's above her minimum threshold (don't get fat and out of shape compared to when she met you). For most wives, this means slightly overweight is fine. Keep doing the bare minimum. Keep aiming to be "just good enough". Stay fat. Keep rejecting the advice that respected members of this sub tell you. Keep fighting against MRP principles. I'm s…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 08:05 PM
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Lift lift lift. My wife and I worked out together tonight. Hot hot hot. Watching her bosom heave as I spotted her on the bench- damn. I flexed for her mid workout when my muscles were swollen- hot for her. It was great. I work out for myself. It makes me feel good, stronger, more confident, my testosterone levels have gone way up, I have more energy, it's fantastic. Her falling more and more in love with my body is an added bonus, and has led to a lot more sex. I'm starting to get BJs again too.…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 01:52 AM
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It almost sounds like a woman is writing this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 08:58 PM
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wait at least 1 hour after waking for your spine to dehydrate This is something I wasn't aware of. Thanks for bringing it up! If that's the case, afternoon/evening workouts are probably going to remain my best option. Yes, it's mostly lifting with a little bit of cardio. I'm doing a modified 5x5 right now. Also, this is lack of ownership. Yep, 'nuff said. It's something I picked up at some point, and something to get rid of. Owning up, taking responsibility, making no excuses.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 05:42 PM
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A friend called me out this week on some insecure behavior. Sometimes I'll frame problems I'm having as recently solved, or not a big deal, not a current problem etc. Not only is this insecure, but it shows a lack of authenticity. I've bundled this into my STFU behavior and I'm watching it, making a point of being extra honest about my problems (to other guys, of course). I'm doing great with what I say/don't say to my wife. Not perfect, but a lot better. We've moved to sex monthly, maybe, to tw…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 03:58 PM
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1) bogeyd6 is right, you should talk to somebody. Find a counselor/therapist and talk about it. 2) He finds you repulsive. Why? Is it because you're pregnant? Are you fat? What is it? Figure that out and change it. 3) Get some help.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/15 09:07 PM
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It's a blast. PC?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/15 02:54 AM
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Thanks, I needed a laugh today! TRP HATES women. They say it in almost every link in the side bar. Wherever a man is suffering, it's a woman's fault. That's TRP gospel. That's their biggest problem, they refuse to take responsibility for themselves. It's pathetic, really. Do they hate women because women are just better than them and don't want them? Definitely. LTRs are WORSE than anything else in the whole TRP thing. That's long term abuse to women. The reading says to be a "rock" but rocks ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 08:20 PM
1

I did a year with a $15 LG flip phone. I've been considering this. Not only would it be one less distraction, it would be a money saver. There's a monthly data charge, a smartphone insurance charge (if you buy into that), more money paid out for upgrades/replacements/insurance deductibles, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 03:28 PM
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I've generally stopped texting my wife altogether. I try to limit communication when either of us is at work. Constant access to each other is a bit boring, and leaves little to the imagination. Good advice for a bit of practice though. If you can pass a shit test from a phone, you might be able to handle one from your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 02:54 PM
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Most of the time I play these days, it's with the wife. We kicked some ass on Diablo last night after we kicked our own asses with some weights.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 04:00 PM
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(Is that a beta-bitch cop out?) Yes. As a man, you should be able to control your emotions. I work with a handful of attractive, college-aged women. Have they flirted with me? Yes. Do I flirt back? Fuck no. First, that's unprofessional. Second, I don't shit where I eat. Third, I don't need sex outside my marriage. My wife is hot and the sex is abundant. It sounds like you have a real problem controlling your emotions and your impulses. We're on a lifelong journey to keep making ourselves better,…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 02:24 AM
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Owning my shit, this was a roundabout way to whine that self improvement is so hard and it'll never end. I had a beer and got over it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 10:17 PM
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I have you tagged as "idiot". I'm going to keep that tag because, after your last post, you're still talking to this "hot coworker" who's texting your wife. This guy, shitting where he eats. So, idiot, it's time for you to figure out what you want. If you keep going after this "hot coworker" then you'll get in trouble at work (or get fired), you'll probably lose your wife, and you'll lose a precious few brain cells you have left when you get the book thrown at your head while you're being divorc…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 09:49 PM
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Shit I'm Owning Amused mastery, "holding" frame. My wife is more submissive, my kids are more obedient (to me), and the household is running as it should again. My career. I just got a raise, and I'm using work resources to better myself, learn more, and put myself in a better position to secure a higher paying career path. This will take time, but I'm working on it. Fitness. I'm working out with the resources I have. Some free weights, my own body, etc. I need more equipment, but I'm making due…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 05:01 PM
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"cuddles aren't free babe" Isn't this negotiating desire?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 02:30 PM
1

I've seen you talk about BJJ a couple of times, and each time I'm reminded of how I miss it. I have more to learn about BJJ than I do MRP, but there's an indescribable quality to it. Rolling, pushing your body to the limit while you race your mind to a path for the next position. The thing with that though, and MRP, and almost anything else worth doing in life, is that one will have a hard time progressing without admitting how much they don't know. I could talk about how on point I am with my g…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:44 PM
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This guy's a staunch BP troll. Ignore him.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 12:04 AM
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You can't control whether or not she wants kids, or when she'll "be ready". Whether she's ready or not is up for debate. Why would she want to have kids with you? You basically told her you couldn't handle the finances when you handed them over to her, and you've obviously been bowing down and acting like a slave. Is that attractive? Is that something that would make her want to give you children? Look at yourself, change yourself. Do you want to stay with her for whatever reason? Does she furth…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 09:47 PM
1

"The book of Five Rings" is a fantastic read. I'm going through it again. I'd suggest everyone pick up a copy. It's a short read, but one with a lot of good material.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 08:24 PM
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Past bullet point one I would have tuned out if not walked out. Yet you see how you even listened well enough to write it all down! More ear-stamina for this type of shit means you're still able to absorb like the emotional tampon she sees you as. "Hey wifey, let me know when you work this out. Until then I got shit ta do." My thoughts exactly. Impromptu talks on serious matters usually aren't a good idea, especially when it's a wife initiating them. The most validation I would have given her wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 09:28 PM
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So what you're saying is to think about posts and give specified advice, instead of giving generalized "Push through it" "go work out" and stuff like that? There's a much better way to say that than bitching about a caricature. The problem is, most advice specified to a situation/person is accommodating that hamster. AWALT is in our vernacular for a reason. No matter how unique a special snowflake unicorn woman might appear, AWALT. No matter how you feel, no matter how hard it is, working out is…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:18 PM
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I try to do that from time to time, thinking about life in my head (not meditation). It's a great way to take pieces of the map and flesh them out a bit, finding paths to get here and there. I'll probably combine that with a workout and go out for a hike this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 08:09 PM
1

Right. Who cares if I'm tired and want to relax? When I'm not working on improving myself or my life, I'm making my future worse. Time to stop yapping and keep getting on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:26 PM
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I'm tired. Holding frame at work, at home with the wife, at home with the kids, and never getting to relax, I'm tired. Waking up early to do my job, coming home to take care of the wife and kids, taking care of my body/hobbies/goals, there's no break. No time to relax. I found myself thinking about letting things slip just to make it easier. I can't let myself fall into that mindset. If I loosen up on working out, a lot of dominoes will fall. If I loosen my frame with my wife or kids a lot of do…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 07:47 PM
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This is the best advice I see here, though most of it is similar. If you fall off your game, your boundaries and rules start falling like dominoes. It's even worse during pregnancy. Shit tests are stronger and more erratic. Comfort tests become more important and much, much more frequent.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/15 07:17 PM
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The betas will assume he's lucky and that it's the girl, not the guy's leadership, that makes a difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/15 09:23 PM
2

If so, you've made a poor decision in a woman. The higher my value, the riskier it is to cheat on me. Why would a woman want to lose a high value man she's attracted to, or risk it? If you're a pudgy or scrawny loser with no drive or ambition, you're not valuable. If you don't captain your ship, you're not valuable. There's barely any risk when it comes to cheating on you. What does she lose? Nothing, really. A pathetic shell of what should be a man. My value could always be higher. I'm constant…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/15 11:39 PM
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I read through that iama on /theredpill and I agree with a lot of people over there- you're in the denial phase. Keep digging, keep reading. The pill is bitter and jagged going down but, once it's done its work (and you've done yours), you'll be free and a lot happier.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/15 10:38 PM
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I'm not a fat ass, so I'm focusing on what I need to eat to help build muscle more efficiently. More calories for bulking, more protein for building, some good, greasy carbs, and some vegetables mixed in here and there. It beats the pre-made crap I would eat before. It's not hard to take control of your diet. It just takes a little effort and, most importantly, planning.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/15 09:54 PM
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When a man gets angry, he does something about whatever makes him angry. You get things under control. The problem here is that you can't control what your wife says or does. You just can't. Since there's nothing you can do about how she's treating you right now there's no reason to feel anything over it. Compartmentalize it if you have to, but just focus on yourself. You can't work out? Do something else to improve yourself. Make yourself a healthy snack, learn about something, do your hobby, w…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 08:47 PM
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It's pretty hard to sneak/hide it if she's around you enough. I can tell if my wife's had a single shot from ten feet away. That alcohol breath stays with a person for a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 04:23 PM
1

So you know what the problem is, and you should know what to do now. Get on it!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 07:51 PM
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I grew up with alpha tendencies, but I'm still learning a lot on TRP theory and all that. Do you know the difference between a shit test and a comfort test? Do you know how to respond to both? Shit tests aim for your alpha traits, and comfort tests your beta traits (simplified version here). Holding frame for both is important. It sounds like she started with shit tests, and moved into a comfort test. Are you there for her? Do you care about her? It's easy for a new TRP initiate to go commando a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 06:09 PM
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