A question for Hardcore Married Reds

TrainingTheBrain · 2015-10-05T19:00:02+00:00

I do

No

I don't see it that way at all

Agreed

EDIT What are you trying to gain from this post?

Flathatter45 · 2015-10-05T19:45:27+00:00

To me, love is a choice you make every day. In my vows, I promised to stay with her 'till death do us part. Right now, and for the past couple of years, I don't have a whole lot of warm feelings towards her, and not a lot of sexual attraction. She decided to go do her own thing, within the marriage, and pretty much gave up on trying to attract me. After too many fruitless years of trying to coax, bribe, assuage, reason, and argue her back into the marriage, I came across MRP et al. I see where I went wrong, and my anger towards her is much diminished. Now, if she wants to be frumpy, dumpy and grumpy its on her, not me. I have a life to live, long term goals to achieve, and kids to raise. If she wants to be a part of all that, great. If not, things will go on the way they have for her..that is, badly. My enforcement of long neglected boundaries may result in her leaving me. If so, thats her choice. I and my kids will go on as best we can. So yes, my love is expressed in my not dumping her, keeping true to my vows, enforcing boundaries, and giving her the freedom to do what she would. Rather longer answer than you wanted, probably.

spexer · 2015-10-05T20:20:14+00:00

I love my wife. And I believe she loves me.

However MRP is not about love.

It is about becoming the best version of YOU- which happens to also be one that will attract your wife.

Love has nothing to do with it.

squirrelcuisine · 2015-10-05T20:58:25+00:00

yes deeply

I dont know what you mean? Means to an end.. of what?

There is NOTHING broken about my wifes blowjobs. Sunday night, she walked in. Threw the covers off and went at it. Unprompted. Afterwards, I blacked out afterwards for a second or two. She got up.. giggled.. and walked out of the bedroom. . Oh and her accounting is pretty good too. my credit score is an 810.

My wife gives me oral all the time to keep the peace. (Ive asked her and she said "because it makes you happy and I honestly like doing it") so I couldnt tell you if it is because I have my shit together or not.

Olderpiller · 2015-10-05T21:41:48+00:00

I do love my wife and even more so since i have started being a real man and following MRP. I love her more because she is a better and sexier partner for me.

I believe my relationship with her is better than ever and she is happier with the man I am becoming.

I think you are missing the point on the blowjobs. I got blowjobs before red pill, but after starting to lift, loosing weight and passing the shit tests they became something my wife wanted to do because it turned her on not just something to do to make me happy.

whinemoreplease · 2015-10-06T13:35:11+00:00

Why does how I do things matter?

You're not me. You'll never be me. You'll never have my values, virtues, or otherwise. You'll never have my personality, characteristics, or worldview.

What I find important may not matter to you. How I interact with my wife will have no bearing on your life, especially with such frivolous intellectual wankfest bullshit like this.

Do I love my wife? It shouldn't fucking matter to you. I would've thought you'd have learned this by now -- you don't listen to people's words. You listen to them based on their actions. Words are hollow as shit and don't convey diddly fucking squat. You somehow still have this retarded fucking idea that words matter.

So here are the actions, irrespective of what your grandpa has said, he has followed through on providing, caring, maintaining, and taking care of his wife. What exactly do you want to call that? You don't want to call it love because that's what your grandpa said -- well, let me tell you, you're a fucking retard for listening to a hardened man's words. Froo froo touchy feely pussy cunt like yourself probably gushes over blue pill romantic bullshit notions like a starstruck retard. You know how all of those romantic comedies end? Some couple taking care of each other for an entire lifetime.

This is life - don't belittle it with your bullshit platitudes. Harden up pussy.

If some pussy emo kid asked me if I loved my wife, I'd probably say "no" just because he's a gullible fucking retard.

I've told my wife that she's gonna be a single mother at least 50 times. You gonna believe that too?

Start using your brain. Make judgments from actions newbie. Stop listening to hollow empty words. Stop being an emo kid.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-10-05T23:07:48+00:00

Yes and I fight every day to avoid the trap of loving to much.

The rest is nonsensical. Is this a drunk Post?

RPAlternate42 · 2015-10-06T18:58:28+00:00

Am I at the tide pools?

Because I found a starfish.

bogeyd6 · 2015-10-07T21:22:32+00:00

Do you love your wife?

Yes.

Or do you see relationships as a means to an end?

No

I believe we fix ourselves as wives just reflect your character, attitude, and value back at you.

Yes

It just happens that being that makes my wife want my dick in her mouth.

When your SMV is higher and hypergamy is satisfied. There is nothing like a blowjob from a woman who is mate guarding to the extreme.

Title	A question for Hardcore Married Reds
Author	RedDeadWolverine
Upvotes	5
Comments	32
Date	October 5, 2015 6:58 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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