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| 5 | Click my clickbait to find out how you can drastically improve your learning and growth experience at MRP!It's only gay if you get fucked by a guy, not if you fuck a guy, right? Isn't that how it works? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/16 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Click my clickbait to find out how you can drastically improve your learning and growth experience at MRP!Good Good let the hate flow through you. I would add the inage of the emperor from star warsbut my phone is being wicked fucking gay so you take the text without the image and you like it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/16 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Click my clickbait to find out how you can drastically improve your learning and growth experience at MRP!Don't be gay | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/16 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Click my clickbait to find out how you can drastically improve your learning and growth experience at MRP!I just saw your flair let out a real lol | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/16 01:58 PM |
| 9 | Click my clickbait to find out how you can drastically improve your learning and growth experience at MRP!Down for a spitroast? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/16 01:42 PM |
| 11 | Click my clickbait to find out how you can drastically improve your learning and growth experience at MRP!Where is /u/stonepimpletilists favorite hangout? I'm asking...for a friend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/16 12:59 PM |
| 8 | Was Referred Here - Sidebar Read And Wanted Some RecommendationYou didnt lose frame, she just pulled you into hers and you accepted it. Essentially her frame is your frame because you decided to let her dictate your world. Maybe you should have drawn some boundaries and enforced them. What to do now - find out what you want and be worthy of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/01/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)My first response was without insult. I have nothing else for you, whinemore covered what needed to be said. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/01/16 01:35 PM |
| 2 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)Exactly | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/01/16 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Assumptions, and mental models. What do you really want?Similar to this and what the other guys have said, whenever I reach a point where I'm stuck or have completed a goal, I ask myself, "What is the next step" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 10:41 PM |
| 6 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)Yeah, I've maxed out my internet banter for the day. If a guy won't help himself there is nothing anyone else can do. Step one, swallow the pride and assume responsibility for all failures up to this point. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 10:25 PM |
| 9 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)Something tells me you find yourself above any advice that suggests you are the problem and you need to improve in order for your woman to fill the role you expect from her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 10:18 PM |
| 6 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)I think it's a byproduct of dealing with manchildren like yourself. You basically came here, gave little information, were called out on it, and instead of saying, yeah, maybe this piece of information would provide a better picture you get offended and deflect attention to me an the # of subscribers of the subreddit. Again, nowhere in your post do you ever state what it is you want from us. Nor do you give any mention of what it is you are doing specifically to show your wife you are a dominant… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 09:44 PM |
| 7 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)Solid job accepting your failure as a man, good luck with your girlfriend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 09:28 PM |
| 6 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)Are you fucking serious? It isn't about my millions of words, it's about using this subreddit as a tool instead of your own personal fucking bitch board. You could use the search function if you wanted to get some insight as to what you should do, instead you fucking ask two retarded questions. Also, I asked you several questions that you couldn't even answer in your response. I don't give a fuck if you're new, you are a man and I should be able to talk to you like a man instead of a child who n… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Gut instinct tells me cheating may explain everythingHis speech reminds me too much of what a sad father would say to whoopie on the view. Gets a lot of applause and head nods, and the cynic in me isn't going to just digest it wholesale. How the fuck did you come up with this? I think you won MRP for the day, nothing will top that comment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Gut instinct tells me cheating may explain everythingSuch a brave man for raising someone elses kid and forgiving her for being so brave on his dick. It takes a real man to light himself on fire to keep her warm like that I agree with you on destroying the cheating wife. I was more so helping you see OP's fear of 'losing his daughter' as his motive for not testing. It isn't fear of confirming or not whether his wife is a hoe, it is (if I'm reading this correctly) his fear of he little girl he brought up not being his little girl. My opinion is to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 08:26 PM |
| 19 | Gut instinct tells me cheating may explain everythingDon't transfer his feelings for his daughter to his feelings for his wife. Fuck the wife if she cheated and had another man's kid, but his daughter is innocent and he has cared for her since she could sit in the palm of his hand. I am biased as I have a daughter, but I feel as though you are transferring your rage at the mom to the daughter. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 08:06 PM |
| 30 | Gut instinct tells me cheating may explain everythingPaternity test, confirm your suspicion, then re-evaluate the situation. You're probably all knotted up inside, so I highly recommend you remove any uncertainty and know for sure. Then if she is yours, you approach the cheating tactfully. If she is not, go somewhere alone and sort out the issues, scream into a pillow, lift weights, whatever...then dial yourself in and make a nonemotional decision. Talk to a lawyer if divorce is on your mind, talk to your wife if marriage is still the path you wan… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 08:03 PM |
| 4 | A 2nd Round of AngerThe time will pass either way, you might as well enjoy the ride vice burning yourself up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Unemployed? Ever hear this? Here's a retort that works.Solid point and I should have gone a little more in depth on what I meant. I don't get to the details as much as I provide an overview. My most recent example is telling my wife we didn't need a new stove. I didn't get into how our's worked fine and that she simply wanted it because we got a new dishwasher and now it doesn't 'match' (one is stainless the other is black) all I said was, "Look, we're going to be debt free by November if we stick to our budget and don't incur any additional expense… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Unemployed? Ever hear this? Here's a retort that works.The semantics make no difference. It is a disagreement, whether you debate or argue, it makes no difference. Hold a discussion, that would make a difference. Explain why things are a certain way or you're taking a certain path, that would help. But telling her why she is wrong - it's not the same as discussing why you're right. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 07:07 PM |
| 9 | Unemployed? Ever hear this? Here's a retort that works.Why argue with your wife, seems pointless. Much in the same manner that 'using logic' against your wife is pointless. Even if you are the 'smarter' of the two in the argument, you're still in the argument. Next time tell her you're waiting for the Mime academy to accept your application or that you have an interview for an amnesia counselor position but you forgot where it was supposed to be held. Fuck arguing, drop jokes in the middle of them and walk away, nobody loses, everyone wins. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 07:02 PM |
| 6 | A 2nd Round of AngerYou need to be an interesting man, not just an interesting man with an interesting hobby*. She seems to be turned on by who you become when you're out and about. How are you at home? Are you making your normal everyday life as interesting as when you are on stage? Also, is she always drinking when you guys are fucking? Watching the band (drinking?) NYE party (Drinking?) it may not be the places as much as the alcohol that causes her to loosen up. Maybe she fears judgement at home and needs that … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 06:58 PM |
| 2 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)Kill your ego. ymmv I see what you did there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 05:56 PM |
| 3 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)I was trying to bring attention to him just asking for answers without searching for himself. These posts, theories, and reports didn't just magically appear. It's important for newer guys to remember that. My ego is involved to a degree as I write because I am passionate about the topic. I'm also competitive, so I try to write The Piece whenever I write. If you don't try to be the best at your craft, why try? To find enjoyment? I find enjoyment in trying to be the best. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 05:10 PM |
| 10 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)Or, he can check himself and get to reading and recognize the lack of effort, information, and work he put into solving his own problem. Deflecting to AskMRP cannot always be the answer. He chose to post here so I left it. I want him and all the guys here (who may not go over to AskMRP) to see the type of posts that are being made in order to not only provide their insight, but to remember everyone started somewhere and to remain grounded. This guy made a shit post, yes. But it serves as a remin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 04:50 PM |
| 5 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)I think your recent post combined with my YMMV pretty much covers this type of post exactly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 04:29 PM |
| 14 | How Can I Make Her a Good First Mate? (xpost from r/redpillwomen)Originally I had removed your post, but I decide to let it stay because I want others to read this and I want those guys to make their own opinions and see what the glaring issue is here. What specifically is she not doing? Why do you want to be a Captain and not a Masculine Man? You were married, why haven't you, through some introspection, discovered what caused the collapse of that marriage in order to prevent it from happening with your next relationship? What in the actual fuck are you aski… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/16 03:51 PM |
| 2 | How To Tell If She's Ovulating [with Science and Body Language]There is no debate between MRP & TRP. I did all that and it has had zero effect on frequency or quality. My behaviour (frame of ref) didn't change because I'd never come across anything to suggest that that might help. These are completely contradictory, isn't the lack of improvement a solid suggestion that you should change your attitude, behavior, or improve your game? Sex didn’t improve yet you refused to change your behavior as a man. Did it occur to you that the lack of sex is due to you no… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 11:06 PM |
| 2 | How To Tell If She's Ovulating [with Science and Body Language]Knowledge is power, the more you know and understand women, the better prepared you are for dealing with them. I know more of my wife than she does. How & why she acts the way she does, she has no clue and I just smile and enjoy the ride. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How To Tell If She's Ovulating [with Science and Body Language]I'm happy to learn that from others. Read up on TRP & MRP and you'll find the answer to how. How good can sex really get in a LTR Really fucking good. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 05:17 PM |
| 3 | How To Tell If She's Ovulating [with Science and Body Language]don't think it's possible for every woman. I'll agree with that. Some people are wired differently - but again, I think they are the exception. I'm also biased through my personal experiences as well as those I've offered guidance to and their results confirmed my assumption that a solid man will get solid sex and a healthy relationship if he puts in the work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How To Tell If She's Ovulating [with Science and Body Language]What I learned from this post is what we already knew I agree, I was onboard with OP but he still seems to be caught up in the narrative of the female imperative. Understanding the body language is a solid skill, but refusing to understand that we aren't playing by women's rules is going to lead to missed potential & opportunity. A better 'skill' is the understanding of woman's psyche (hamster) which enables you to break out of the I get wild sex a few days a month to I can get the sex I want an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How To Tell If She's Ovulating [with Science and Body Language]I've been working on a post that delves into Whose reality are you living in which poses the question that you brought up. I think sex every day, or damn near every day is acceptable. My wife does as well, why is this? Because she is in my frame. She is living in my reality where sex on the daily is just how it is and anything other than that is just 'weird'. Shark week, not shark week it makes no difference, we fuck like pornstars regardless. There are times where it is caveman and times where … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 04:48 PM |
| 6 | How To Tell If She's Ovulating [with Science and Body Language]it's a male fantasy to expect crazy sex from a LTR I disagree entirely with this. When I look at relationships I try to see who is living in whose reality(or frame). I have been with my wife since we were 16, there has never been a deadbedroom. To this day we are fucking on the daily, sometimes multiple times a day. This is largely due to the other point you brought up. Like what else do you offer to her life? If she's not sperm hungry, then are you a good man overall? The reason this level of s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 04:45 PM |
| 4 | How To Tell If She's Ovulating [with Science and Body Language]I write quite a bit about the sexual aspect of marriage. One of the things I've been focusing on is helping married dudes get the best sex from their wife. Do you think these guys should be implementing their 'new moves' (dominant, outside the bedroom, exciting moves) during peak ovulation? It would make sense and reduce the % of getting rejected as she is in 'high gear' sexually. Follow on to that, do you think these chicks will carry over their desire for their 'dominant' man into the non peak… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Pretty new and had a quick questionWhen the kids go to bed and I don't feel like writing and she doesn't feel like painting we will play Co-Op Spyro and get shitfaced, sex always follows. My answer, depends on how you use it. | /r/askMRP | 28/01/16 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Smart, or just a cop out?Right now I'm just thinking I should stick with the lifting and other small steps for another three months or so before pushing things farther. Pushing what things? Leading, finances, sex, making decisions, changing your attire, dread, AA, AM, setting a vision, drawing boundaries... What specifically are you choosing not to do? | /r/askMRP | 28/01/16 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Separated, With Children... do I save my marriage?This is a solid response that I don't think got the proper attention in this post. Well done. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 12:25 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone else lost interest in sex with there wife?Scour my post history, I've written a lot on this aspect of marriage. I'm on mobile so this will be a little short: Break the routine, stop viewing sex as the thing you do before bed, in the bedroom, with the lights off. Remove the taboo of sex, talk openly about it with her. Get her excited and confident about sex. Make it fun and not a thing. Again, read my post history. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Zen and the Art of Internal Maintenance.Posts that present information along with the means of application are the most useful, excellent write up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/16 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Separated, With Children... do I save my marriage?That edit certainly makes a difference. The biggest problem with an online forum is we have maybe 5 pieces to a 100 piece puzzle and you're trying to figure out what the picture is. EDIT YMMV, do you mind if I write a blog post on the point you brought up? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/01/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | I don't care about dressing up (but I guess I should). Opinions?You know, it really is as easy as that. Too many guys suffer from analysis paralysis over everything. Just pull the fucking trigger, jump without knowing where you'll land and make it up as you go. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/16 03:55 PM |
| 7 | Separated, With Children... do I save my marriage?MRP, I'm not asking what I should do. I'm considering my options carefully and, in the end, I'm the only one who can make the decision. Good on you dude, these types of quality posts are too far in between. As for my advice, it breaks my fucking heart to think of your son like that, I put myself in your shoes and I can see how much it would fucking suck. All I suggest you do is basically what /u/abdada suggested. Be involved, talk to them about their schooling, maybe explain to them that they ma… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/01/16 02:49 PM |
| 1 | I don't care about dressing up (but I guess I should). Opinions?Graphic T shirts and dad jeans aren't signalling anything It is a part of the complacency & 'giving up' aspect of marriage/dad/weaksauce dudes out there. My T's are only for lifting. I wear a lot of thermals, sweaters, polos, button downs, etc. I have a few Navy Moto shirts, but again, they fit the situation if worn out of the house. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/16 12:14 PM |
| 3 | I don't care about dressing up (but I guess I should). Opinions?These men look like grown-up teens. Often focus only on what the wife will like Solid points dude, I think your point on each item having a purpose is the biggest takeaway for any man. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/16 12:12 PM |
| 2 | I don't care about dressing up (but I guess I should). Opinions?This is where I am conflicted with MRP. My advice to your masculine nature is that You do you, as long as you own the I don't care about fashion identity. As for your marriage, depends on the wife, but my advice for your marriage is to care about fashion. edit I care about looking good, but not designers or labels. I wore a plaid shirt, my american flag hat, and jeans today with a winter jacket. I have a few suits and button ups. I feel that I need a good pair of shoes (60 DoD goal). So I cant r… | /r/askMRP | 25/01/16 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Wife went through my phone, confessed, apologized profuselyDude, I tried going coffee free during deployment, I was ready to rip heads off by day 2. Good luck to you, get some White Pomegranate Tea. Has some caffeine, gives the placebo of coffee (hot drink in the am) and it is better for you. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/16 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Wife went through my phone, confessed, apologized profuselyIt is entirely possible, it's why I added the 'she could be talking shit'. I figured OP would make his own assessment on what she meant and which side of the fence that comment fell on. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Wife went through my phone, confessed, apologized profuselypossible, which is why I added the 'she could be talking shit'. I figured OP would make his own assessment on what she meant. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Were my actions unwarranted?and the pill continues to dissolve... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Wife went through my phone, confessed, apologized profuselyThere are two things I'd like to point out. 1) Your wife went through your phone and you turn to MRP to tell you how to handle it? Why not just take an action and see how it plays out, adjusting according to her response. I would laugh at my wife and say next time she should click on my file labeled School Stuff because that's where she'll find the contact info of my hookers, drug dealer, and all the nudes she sent me. She feels bad, let her beat herself up and 'make it up to you' while you sit … | /r/askMRP | 25/01/16 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Were my actions unwarranted?We are not the type to take out more. Apparently you need to remind her of that. There's no point in being pissed, just explain what the issue is and why you don't want to fall victim to overspending. This is exactly why relationships can't be 'equal'. Someone has to lead, the other must follow. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 03:38 PM |
| 15 | Were my actions unwarranted?Opportunity to lead. No point in getting angry, just mention you saw the withdrawal and that if she keeps it up she'll have to work the corner to make up for it. Make light of it, but more importantly ensure she understands your financial vision. Did you ever establish the boundary where she must inform you of her withdrawals? If it is her account, does she 'need' to? That's for you and her to figure out. Were your actions unwarranted? That's up to you, I don't know what ground rules your relati… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 02:54 PM |
| 1 | 60 Days of Dread Week 1: Lifting for LifeWhatever you want to call it, I lift a little less on days where I feel like smashed shit. That way I get the reps in, focus on perfecting my form, and then slaughter it the next day back to max capacity | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 02:47 PM |
| 1 | 60 Days of Dread Week 1: Lifting for LifeThere are no safe spaces | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 01:13 PM |
| 1 | 60 Days of Dread Week 1: Lifting for LifeI had a talk with cougar actually, she came in with a veggie platter today - Win. Some days if I feel I don't have my 'stuff' I will de-load and maybe do some foam rolling, lifts at 50%, or some circuits of body-weight that aren't too intense. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | 60 Days of Dread Week 1: Lifting for LifeI bet I look like a fucking idiot laughing like a retard at my computer in the office this morning. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 12:46 PM |
| 2 | 60 Days of Dread Week 1: Lifting for LifeSo it's Jan 25 which means we are kicking 60 DoD into motion. For fitness I have been implementing a modified Starting Strength routine mixed with bodyweight, kettlebell, and running. I've slipped recently on the nutritional side of the house which I've recognized and have been implementing controls to correct. A few rules I've given myself in regards to this 60 DoD is to increase my lifting days to 7. For the next 60 days I will work out every day. If nothing else it will be two months of balls… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 12:10 PM |
| 0 | 60 Days of Dread Week 1: Lifting for LifeIf you're not training for the Olympics that shouldn't be a problem. You're missing the point. There is no Universally Correct Answer, he was answering the question as to why HE believes what he believes thus writing was he wrote regarding the power clean. I'm not /u/bogeyd6 's whiteknight, but to see the time & effort he put into this post, for this community and to see a stupid fucking comment is annoying. If you disagree and think it shouldn't be a problem, then just do you don't worry about … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/16 12:00 PM |
| 4 | Ready to cheat nowI disagree, I have found a way to enjoy the shit. You seem to be playing the woe is me card. I wouldn't advise anyone to act like you - It's weaksauce. You could own your shit and accept reality, instead you feel like you just realized what kind of world youre living in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Ready to cheat nowThe reason you should (not now, but in the beginning) of spent brain matter on her kinks and thrills is because that is what she needs. Those feels are critical. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Ready to cheat nowThis is why my Wife rode my dick this morning and your's blew the guy from geek squad. I accept the work I have to do to keep my marriage straight, you think it's not your job. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Advice on a SituationDude, why are you mad and what exactly is the issue? You know what I would do? I would fucking do whatever the fuck I had to do or wanted to do and not have any fucking issue at all. I wouldn't act fine, I would be fine. This is a non issue and it shows that you are absolutely oblivious to how far you have to go in your journey to reclaiming your masculinity. | /r/askMRP | 24/01/16 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Ready to cheat nowI was on this line of thought as well. OP fucked up by not becoming the thrill she needed. I dont remember what his backstory is but the year to heal is fucking weaksauce bullshit. He could have gotten the 'freak' out of his wife and writtin an FR that confirmed my theory on how you can get the slut out of your wife. Instead he moped for a year and his window of opportunity closed. If he failed to capitilize on that, there's no fucking way he'll be able to spin this to his favor. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 11:42 AM |
| -3 | [FR] ongoing: hydrostatic testing just created a huge dread fitThis is what MRP provides, insight to the female mind. You know what is coming and why. Now be the rock and lead her to reducing that % because 20%+ is not average. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 01:01 AM |
| 0 | [FR] ongoing: hydrostatic testing just created a huge dread fitAt the same time, you have an opportunity to lead her to 14%. whatever % you/her want. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 12:52 AM |
| 4 | What's expected of the Masculine Male?I try to break that trend and bring it to light whenever I can. Hopefully some insight is gained, if not - at least I tried. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 02:50 PM |
| 0 | Use less words.I use words like currency. Spend only so much a day and only on shit I really want/need to say. Quantity vs Quality | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 12:15 PM |
| 6 | What's expected of the Masculine Male?Shitty men get shitty results. If you set the bar high and refuse to reward failure you'd be surprised how much better the standard of your relationship would be. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 12:14 PM |
| 2 | What's expected of the Masculine Male?What does profession have to do with it? A man who is worth a damn will have his woman on point whether he is military, construction, or CEO. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 12:12 PM |
| 2 | What's expected of the Masculine Male?I wanted to be a father and husband, jt was my goal to have this lifestyle. There is a degree of self sacrifice, but that is not what masculinity is about. Being a man means being an island of limitless resources. If I were to get divorced today, I'd be fine and continue to chase my mission. My wife and kids aren't my life, they are a part of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 12:11 PM |
| 8 | What's expected of the Masculine Male?It blows my mind that some men are incapable of comprehending the fact that other men don't have the same life goals they do. Instead of reading on you put your blinders up because 'marriage'. That seems so stupid. Your goal and mine arent the same. You arent walking my path. Instead of saying, good on you for maintaining a healthy sex filled, happy marriage you fall victim to the circle jerk of fuck marriage at the expense of your own growth. We arent all the same, you would do well to accept t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I need to tell you who I am and why I am here - post happy hour anyway, no doubt I will cringe tomorrow and most likely delete thisIf this is the place thats helps you reorganize the brain housing group, then so be it. Like whinemore said, this did happen to you, she did die, now you need to own that fact. It sucks, but until you let it settle in and truly accept it, you'll never heal. Grieve, cry, yell, fight - but then move forward. She is dead, your daughter is not, now what are you going to do with your life? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/01/16 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Group MRP Challenge: 60 Days of DreadMe too brother, me fucking too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/01/16 12:50 AM |
| 3 | The anger phase.She's all about snugglz Why are you giving 'snugglz' for free? when she has been dead weight for so long? You've been dead weight too. How do you get past it? You accept reality for what it is and not what you want it to be. You need to find comfort in the discomfort. | /r/askMRP | 22/01/16 06:15 PM |
| 2 | [Theory] Shooting the messenger and your 30 day chip.“What I can’t hear you?” “Shhhh, you’re gonna wake the baby” “I know right?” “It will keep the baby from hearing us fuck!” I think the point is missed if you're being a smart-ass at this point. Communication with women isn't so cut and dry. You need to read her tone, inflection, force, rate of speech, and on top of that her body language. all of that combined will tell you how to respond. When I read the post I pictured a wife, fed up with OP's inability to just fix things and think of others in… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/16 05:42 PM |
| 4 | HobbiesI'll stick to my painter wife | /r/askMRP | 22/01/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | HobbiesRoger, Ever think of getting her an easel and pallet? Letting her have a hobby that is hers and it doesn't put her into larger crowds? Pull up some Bob Ross on youtube and let her go to town. | /r/askMRP | 22/01/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | HobbiesDo you man, it's not your job to get her to do something. Sure, you can guide her to being an interesting person, but you can't make her find something to do with her time. Do you want advice on how to get out or do you want advice on how to get your wife a life and hobby? | /r/askMRP | 22/01/16 02:55 PM |
| 2 | On Hypergamy: Your 'value' is generally proportional to the strength of her love.of course your net worth. I like your post. I disagree on this (quoted) specific aspect of it, but agree with the rest. The pill is a bitter one to swallow, but it's the truth regardless and the sooner guys are able to find comfort in the discomfort of living life as a masculine male in a weaksauce society, the better. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 01:37 PM |
| 3 | AlphaThe examples are everywhere. If any man here disagrees with me, I'd ask them to go out and actually do something they want to do without regard to how the people around them will judge, then watch as they are approached, judged, shunned, etc. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/16 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Thought only my wife could break my heart.That's a complex web you've got to navigate. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/16 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Fucked up, unsure how to resolveAWALT I always refer back to this image when I think of it. You know how your woman is going to react, she is a woman and that shouldn't bother you. It arms you with ways to counter the reactions you know are coming. You know (or should) how your woman's hamster works. So when she does or says something retarded, you can just say of course because you already knew she would respond that way because AWALT. | /r/askMRP | 22/01/16 01:25 PM |
| 3 | LTR Found out I reopened my old facebook account.You know what works here, owning your fucking shit as a man. Why in the fucking fuck could you not just face your woman and say, "Hey woman, I want to have Facebook to keep in touch with people so I'm opening it back up" You need more help than this specific scenario, you're afraid to be honest with your woman so you lurk in the shadows. Sack up and be honest, you want Facebook for whatthefuckeverreason tell her that. | /r/askMRP | 22/01/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Thought only my wife could break my heart.I was a devout Roman Catholic until 21. I am talking read the bible cover to cover, read other scripture, read pope's books, tried to live 'Christ like' etc. Not the I go to church on sunday and do what I please the other 6.5 days catholic. I am now an atheist (more so humanist, but whatever) and I have two children. I have decided that I am going to educate them on the world. I am going to teach them about all religions and and what each believes and why. If my son or daughter come up to me whe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/16 01:01 PM |
| 6 | AlphaWhen your behavior is outside the 'cookie cut mold' friends, family, and society has made for you, it's like a cause for panic. What The Red Pill gives us is the tools for waking the fuck up and realizing we are living within other people's comfort zone and we are only going to achieve a level that is acceptable to those around us. The pill dissolves and you have the opportunity to break the confines and take what you will from this life. You make your own rules and this acts as a mirror to men … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/16 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Lessons I learnt from my dog about being "unplugged".Actually, your original post is the exact opposite: Typo I'm done trying to understand the female and want to embrace the male The female is easy, expect women to act as women and don't get caught up in the Why don't they think like I do as that doesn't help you at all. In regards to embracing the male, own your masculinity and express it vice repressing it. Be a man by acting in accordance with your nature and not tryng to fit into the cookie cut mold that was created for you by friends, family… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 12:23 PM |
| 2 | How can I work to accept that I am, as a man, disposable?even better | /r/askMRP | 22/01/16 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Libido = testosteroneWho gives a fuck what you support? Me. Saying things like they are "hiding" from women because they are "weak" is straight up shaming tactics. If I call a fat person fat and say they are going to die earlier, live less of a life, and suffer entirely preventable health complications am I using shaming tactics? No, I'm calling it how it is. Same for MGTOWs who refuse to interact with women. You can walk your path and chase your dream without pursuing women, I get that. But to actively avoid them, … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Lessons I learnt from my dog about being "unplugged".There is a huge difference between what I said and what women do. I specifically said DON'T Regret the past and not worry about the future. What women do is act as if neither exist. Chicks will say they were 'lost in the moment' meaning they gave no thought to the future and they completely forgot the past. As a man, you are aware of the past, you utilize trend analysis when making decisions, but there is no need to regret it. The past is gone, learn from it and understand it did happen, but do … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 12:03 PM |
| 2 | The wife and I are both DT and have come clean to each other about it.Well gloves are off, at least the facade has faded and now you both can see who each other truly are after so long together. Maybe it's your thing and now the two of you will bond as you have this 'inside joke' when dealing with others. Or it can fail, at which point at least there won't be any 'what ifs'. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/16 11:09 PM |
| 11 | How can I work to accept that I am, as a man, disposable?Find purpose | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Female Sexuality & Marriage (Newly Sharpened Post)I'd think if you wanted people to go to your blog you would provide us with some quality writing to 'hook' us in. You put in shit effort, so I'm going to assume you're running a shit blog. That's how this works, you cater to your readers. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Libido = testosteroneMen want to fuck, all men. Not some, all men desire sexual release, so no I wouldn't support them repressing their nature, that's supporting the female imperative. I'm not worried about the competition, it's good for the soul. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Seduction Strategy in the Context of Married with Two or More KidsAs a father of two (6boy & 3girl), I am always looking for the posts that align with my specific situation. Solid work on providing info for a group in the MRP community that may need their own attention. Glad you stepped up and took on the burden of tackling the issue of multiple kids and keeping the relationship fresh. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Random thoughts on shit-testing and female leadershipAssholes always sneaking and drinking your protein powder. That's fucked up, stuff isn't cheap. If nothing else, at least ask. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What is the Redpill take on this?What do you mean what is 'RedPills' take? The Red Pill is over 100,000 unique individual dudes from which you'll get different opinions. If you men what is the masculine response to this, the guy is right. He feels he can't trust her so he says it. Much better than saying Yeah babe, go for it when in all actuality he doesn't want her to. The guy is owning his shit and telling her the truth and not what she wants to hear. If she can't handle it, then the relationship is a bust. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:22 PM |
| 79 | Lessons I learnt from my dog about being "unplugged".I save my emotions and word vomit for my dog, never my woman. He is the only thing in this world that loves me more than himself and he has taught me the skill of total immersion IN the moment. Owning the now; not regretting the past or worrying about the future, totally owning the now. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Random thoughts on shit-testing and female leadershipYou do you man. I lived with a few of my Navy buddies for a few months before one deployment and we operated as a well oiled machine. The best parties, best drunk Halo tournaments, best deep conversations, solid wing men and we all maintained the highest level of cleanliness, hygiene, etc. I guess the largest difference is these are strangers to you and I knew the guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Can we get less "AWALT" threads?Why don't you post more non-AWALT posts. Boom, you provide a solution to your problem instead of asking others to do it for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Can you raise your son to be a alpha male?He didn't raise you right. To answer your question, yes a father can raise his son to be a Masculine male. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Just remember how shallow and vapid women are these days.To be clear, you're angry that women are acting like women, yes? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Just remember how shallow and vapid women are these days.Men have always been disposable, women, by being the 'givers of life' have immediate value to society. Women are acting like women, why does that bother you so much? Instead of being angry, just do you. find your joy, find your girl, and most importantly, find comfort in the discomfort of living life as a masculine male in a weaksauce society | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Libido = testosteroneAgreed and solid point on avoiding rejection. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 02:12 PM |
| 35 | Libido = testosteroneThis is where there is a divide. I support dudes chasing their mission, fucking chicks when it 'falls in their lap', not actively pursuing or spinning, and riding to the sunset on their own. I do not support dudes hiding from women out of fear. It is weaksauce as fuck and unmasculine. Saying they are avoiding 'false rape' is actually an excuse to avoid facing their mediocre performance and life. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Random thoughts on shit-testing and female leadershipBeing an Alpha dude I find it impossible to live with other dudes in my space. That doesn't make sense, how do you find it impossible to live with another dude? Her shit testing you is her being a woman, it should be expected and embraced. The reason women make poor leaders is because they focus on 'feels' over logic. Thus hiring someone who makes them feel good over the person who is the better worker. Also, they are immersed in the now whereas most guys focus on the past and plan for the futur… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 01:21 PM |
| 15 | Libido = testosteroneWhy not just find a normal chick who is DTF no strings attached. get your rocks off, then go about your business until you feel you need to 'DeLoad' (just made that up) again? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 01:17 PM |
| 9 | Fucked up, unsure how to resolveDude, what in the actual fuck is the disconnect? You decided to pick the last day of her period to jump on her and start acting like this what you guys normally do? Here is the new me babe, love me, accept me, hold me, be horny when I want it, be attracted to me, please, just make me feel like a man, please... This is basically what you're doing and it is pathetic. Stand up straight, put your fucking shoulders back and walk to a mirror. Take a hard look at yourself. Look at your physique, look a… | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Gaming the wifewe commute together to and from work, have a sub 1 year old child, and a completely dead bedroom since a month before the baby was due. None of this matters. There will always be shit in the way. As a Masculine man, you just need to work through them, or spin them to your advantage. Sex & Marriage Creating Your Slut Getting Over your Relationship PTSD 10 ways to Keep Your Wife on Her Toes All of these will help you understand a few key points. You need to stop looking at how things were and make… | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR]Seduction Strategy in the Context of Married with Two or More KidsSolid link, kids are not that difficult and they don't have to become what 90% of kids out there are becoming (instant gratification, weaksauce, little bitches). It's similar to how Masculine guys aren't like 90% of the guys out there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/16 12:06 PM |
| 3 | [FR]Seduction Strategy in the Context of Married with Two or More KidsThis was a good read. I don't feel it is MRP on Insane mode, it's just life with kids. But your post touched on the overview of what it takes to be the Family Alpha. I look forward to your future posts, I'd love to see you get into the details of specifically how you make it work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/16 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Group MRP Challenge: 60 Days of DreadI have | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/16 12:08 AM |
| 8 | Need advice. 7y LTR with shy high-quality girl. Break up or keep going?OP, read this a few times, there is no other answer. My advice, don't be a Reddit puppet, make a masculine decision and own it. | /r/askMRP | 20/01/16 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Group MRP Challenge: 60 Days of DreadHow? I don't get numbers, but I can get girls to sit with me and my buddies, shoot the shit, and if I chose to I know I could pursue it further. I don't because my needs are met and my wife is on point, giving me no reason to look elsewhere. But I still do it because I believe it is something every guy should just 'do' without thinking of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Group MRP Challenge: 60 Days of Dreadnot only doesn't need it, it is likely to be counterproductive. This is wrong. Nobody is saying to lay game on a random woman in front of your wife. But, to say that you shouldn't do it at all is absurd. Why wouldn't you keep your skills sharp? Why wouldn't you aim to remain a man who displays limitless confidence around his woman because he knows he could 'get the girl'.. Your wife doesn't need to know, it's for you and your improvement as a masculine man. Men who are in charge of their shit ca… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Advice on weathering the perfect (emotional) storm?But the first step was for me to make sure I was pulling my own weight. Agreed, lead by example. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Advice on weathering the perfect (emotional) storm?Excellent. Many men say they are the leader and 'man of the house'. Very few actually are. It's about your deeds, not your words. Acta, Non Verba Keep pushing forward and remember that you have to generate your own happiness and joy. You need to be the ever giving reserve of strength and power to your family. If that means helping the kids, helping the wife, and helping yourself so be it, that's your job. Do not reward failure, if your wife isn't pulling her weight then fix it, but that doesn't … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Group MRP Challenge: 60 Days of DreadFitness I will combine my fitness with my goal to getting up earlier. With my schedule, early morning PT (which I fucking hate) is the best time to ensure I never miss a day. I will lift 7 days a week for the next 60 days. Deloading instead of taking days off. My main lifts will be Deadlift, Squat, Bench, and OHP. I will include running and Kettlebell as supplementary lifts. Diet I set the goal to eat Paleo for the year; I fucked that goal up January 10th. It is time to dial in the discipline an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 01:26 PM |
| 3 | I hate to answer my wife with a yes when she 'advices' things I know. What's the right way to respond to such things?Why not show whoever you want and when she says Don't show pictures you just reaffirm your masculine position and say, Babe, I would never do anything to harm our baby, including bringing on the Polaroid curse Have fun, make light of it, fucking ENJOY your wife and child. She is paranoid about losing her kid, that is a terrifying reality in this day and age. Just keep her calm and prevent her from becoming a helicopter parent. Over protective as a baby, sure I get it. Over protective 3 years and… | /r/askMRP | 20/01/16 12:29 PM |
| 2 | [FR] [Advice?]I was going to copy & paste my previous response to you, but then I read "The simple act of writing this post was cathartic. I'm the prize. I want her, but I cannot control her. I can only control myself. Lead, and fuck her brains out when you get home." That's your answer OP, let it go. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Why did/do you want to have kids?Motivating | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Why did/do you want to have kids?Got it swoosh EDIT I'm hope you forgot to add the /s | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Why did/do you want to have kids?I don't get it | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 01:55 AM |
| 7 | Advice on weathering the perfect (emotional) storm?Remember that you need to be the limitless source of light and strength. You give your all to them so they can shine and you do it with a smile on your face because it is in these moments of desparation that you find out what you're made of. You think you're the Family Alpha?? Prove it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Greetings & Salutations - Introduction PostFucking funny Read More and APPLY what you've learned. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 11:14 PM |
| 28 | Why did/do you want to have kids?I have a boy (6) and girl (3). I have 3 siblings and grew up with them and cousins. I enjoyed 'family' and viewed being a father as the epitome of masculinity. You no shit have to raise another human, their life is in your hands and to me, that's fucking amazing. I knew I wanted that from a young age and the deepest emotions I have ever felt have come from my kids. Whether it is seeing my daughter come out and grab her 15 lb kettlebell to workout like Daddy or having my son run into the room bor… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Predictors of Success with Red Pill?I feel like I am reaching new levels every week. I am more about maintaining progress at this point. I fucked every day last week, to include an unsolicited blowjob in the shower. I made time to write the book and a few articles for the blog. I hit the gym daily and while I snacked a little, it wasn't too bad. Both kids are doing well with their reading, writing, and overall awesomenes with limited melt downs. My goal is to keep leading the clan and enjoying the ride. Complacency kills, I never … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Predictors of Success with Red Pill?I've thought of this but never posted as I didn't really care and it didn't really matter. but since you brought it up, I came to the conclusion that guys either need to have been masculine before marriage, or they had better of had/have a masculine mentor from whom they could base their manhood from. /u/Archwinger brings the point up a lot. The marriage was established under a certain set of rules and changing those rules, even though they may benefit the man, can dissolve the marriage. Some me… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 07:19 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Tile floors and accomplishmentFive years ago, I would have been pissed. Now, I thought it was funny. Enjoy the ride | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Can dread game work on somebody with extreme body image issues?I will say that this solution works for SOME people with body issues, however, you can not fix crazy. You can make it less evident, more functional but you can not fix it. Agreed and I should have made some distinction that what I was referring to was more insecurity vice deep body dysmorphia, solid point. Also, at what point does steady dread become background noise? I've faced exactly this. My wife knows, and has bluntly said she sees girls checking me out or lingering a little too long after … | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Wife complains about lack of attentionYou decide how much attention she gets. I enjoy my wife, she is a solid woman, and therefore she gets plenty of attention. I still have hobbies, do my own thing, and we are married yet still individuals. It comes down to moderation and getting your woman to understand that you don't freely give people your time and attention, it must be earned through being an interesting person to be around and interact with. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Can dread game work on somebody with extreme body image issues?I've found that proper leading, steady dread, and creating an open environment that supports 'free uninhibited speech' can reduce/eliminate body issues. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 03:33 PM |
| 11 | Thought only my wife could break my heart.venting her anger to friends by texting them about how I've been threatening physical violence on her. This behavior has to of been learned somewhere. I have a 3 year old girl, so I'm not in the same phase as you are. But, it seems to me that girls who say this have seen it work with some sort of success somewhere. It's the reason you need to play a prominant role in her life. to the point where she wouldn't think of saying you would use 'physical violence' on her. If you had the level of respec… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Quite possibly the nadir of Beta moldingDude, I was joking with FearDear about this place being a 'safe space', then I realized I am never more unsafe than when I'm surrounded by my Navy & Marine buddies. Emotional, physical, and mental destruction occurs every minute. Even the most simple of discussions are difficult. Sailor #1: I have a gym at my new shop Marine#1: Really? I have a Bill Me: Yeah, I have a Mike Sailor #2: Yeah, we all work with dudes, why are you being a faggot and telling us about your fucking work Crush Jim? Sailor… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Quite possibly the nadir of Beta moldingI'm not positive on exactly when the decline of being a man's man began, but I do know after WWII shit shifted to support and progress the female imperative. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Quite possibly the nadir of Beta moldingI'd like to see where this all came from. I think your original thought was probably much better than the example you provided. Are you looking for the Point of Origin in regards to the decline in masculinity? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Quite possibly the nadir of Beta moldingThere have been many times where I've read a post and my only fucking thought is, Oh? I don't write it because it does absolutely nothing for the poster. Sometimes I think, "Neat, what am I supposed to do with this information." You Sir shall receive one Orange Upvote for your wit on this Fine Tuesday morning. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 12:18 PM |
| 2 | I want to swallow the pill, but...I haven't found MRP to be hostile. If you mean people will disagree with you, then yes. Most contributors write with the expectation that their idea or belief will be challenged, yet with that knowledge they still submit their article/blog post/theory without apprehension as they believe in the message (they should). Everyone thinks they have the world's greatest 'idea'. But you actually have nothing until you take the steps to creating that idea. If you can envision a place that is 'better for … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 12:11 PM |
| 9 | [FR/Testimonial] Got anal for the first time in 4 years. MRP is the real deal (long)She fills the vessel. It's the masculine power that shapes the vessel. By improving yourself, you improved your woman, ultimately raising the standard of your marriage. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/16 02:05 PM |
| 1 | The Rules of Fight ClubI have and it is hilarious | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/16 01:41 PM |
| 2 | FR, progress from noob and a beard shit test.Told you. I only recommend tried and tested methods. My lady loves the smell and softness and I am keeping the beard no matter what, now we both win. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/16 01:33 AM |
| 11 | Five year LTR looks like it may be coming to and end...We talked off line about this. I really think it is for the best. She was giving you red flag after red flag and now you see the reality of the situation. Stay focused on your mission and don't use this as a reason to hate all women. They are just women and that is ok. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/16 12:54 PM |
| 3 | FR, progress from noob and a beard shit test.TeamBeard | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 09:31 PM |
| 4 | NATURAL LAWS : "Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates"This is a solid repsonse and I want to mentally chew on it before I answer. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 08:51 PM |
| 4 | The Rules of Fight ClubYou cant say that in my safe space....awe shit | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The Rules of Fight Clubsafe space sounds gay | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 07:20 PM |
| 2 | NATURAL LAWS : "Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates"You know when you're talking to someone, and everything gets quiet. You notice every attribute of that person, every pore, every blemish, the complexity and depth of their eyes? Have you read a book and as you're looking over the squiggly black lines you're thinking on a parallel level how amazing it is that you are inside the head of a person who may have been dead for hundreds of years. When you're cold outside, uncomfortable, and have 100 other things that you probably should be taking care o… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 07:16 PM |
| 2 | How to get a blowjob from my wife?I can't tell if you're trolling or dense. you've received advice, think it over and implement what you believe will work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | NATURAL LAWS : "Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates"The growth of others is simply a side effect of fully embracing myself. I do what I do for me (to a degree for my family as well) but I don't do anything because it is expected. If I want to do it, I do it and if I don't I don't. The reasoning is sound, I'm not sure you're able to remove any preconceived notion as to what you expected my comment to mean. What I mean is that by removing the chains of the female imperative, or on a grander scale, the expectation of any and all society, I have been… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | NATURAL LAWS : "Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates"If a woman looks at, learns from, and follows a person who shines a light in her eyes, it will only make her blind. I disagree with this aspect as I feel that by owning your shit and walking your own path you enable others to do the same. I do what I want regardless of whether it hip or popular. If I want to do it, I do. this in turn has allowed my wife to do the same, she also gives less thought to fitting into the cookie cut mold that was created for her. So to refer back to my example, by shi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How to get a blowjob from my wife?Create the environment that fosters your wife wanting to blow you. Also, change birth control if this one is fucking her up. Understand, her failures are actually your failures. She won't suck your dick because you're not a dude whose dick she wants to suck. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | PE and fucked up my responseSo maybe another lesson learned is start earlier to build in some fuckup time? Possible, another option is that you stop being so comfortable and stay up past your bedtime to have a fun night with the wife. Break the routine, Be UNPredictable it will also give you an inside joke with your wife the next day when you ask her if she's 'tired' from being a sex vixen all night. Keep it young and fresh | /r/askMRP | 15/01/16 06:13 PM |
| 0 | PE and fucked up my responseI think you're a pussy for using a throwaway. fucking own it dude, this place is for you to own your shit. It's womanly to say, That wasn't me or I'm not like that. You were a one pump chump last night, fuck it. There are several reasons for PE, look them up. My question, is why not build up to fucking her again that night. If that happened to me I would have laughed, rubbed my cum all over her telling me not to wait for so long as the build up made me explode at just feeling the heat from her u… | /r/askMRP | 15/01/16 06:05 PM |
| 5 | The Rules of Fight ClubFunny part is that on my ipod I'm listening to your grunts, they motivate me | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 05:59 PM |
| 7 | The Rules of Fight ClubI also enjoyed the movie and have heard equal praise in regards to the book. In relation to MRP, I certainly see how the two connect. One of the most glaring aspects of reality in the movie is that Men are desperate for a Male Only Space. We have so much rage built up through the repression of our masculinity that we all just want to, destroy something beautiful. The key is to find an outlet for that rage and then to embrace it and have it dissolve into your identity as a man that embraces his m… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 05:05 PM |
| 3 | NATURAL LAWS : "Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates"I came to the same conclusion but my metaphor was a little different. I view people to either generate light or absorb it. Masculine men are self generating and shining bright, a beacon that attracts those who want to be associated with the brightest 'star'. Weak men absorb or generate weak light. Women, if in an LTR/Marriage reflect their man's light. They will shine bright if their man does and they will dim if their man is a weakling. Don't try to reflect another man's light, generate your ow… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Seeing "The Oldest Teenager in the house" in the fleshbut I can tell we are heading the the right direction because she responds to my leadership/vision in these exercises. That's certainly one way to track progress. You can get data points from various means, this is another good one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Maintain MRP's StandardWhether I agree or not has very little to do with it. Solid point, being able to respectfully disagree is often lost on the internet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 03:22 PM |
| 3 | This week in Social JusticeNo problem dude. Just take advice and improve. Men don't get mad at mistakes, they get mad at repeated mistakes. Did you read the posting guidelines on the sidebar? That would be the best area to start as it is clearly laid out what is expected. Iron sharpens Iron, when you get better at posting it forces others to step their game up as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 01:43 PM |
| 2 | This week in Social JusticeDon't break frame OP. You know he was addressing the fact that you talk about someone's blog but the top two links are your blog. Just take the advice and apply it to your next post. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 01:40 PM |
| 5 | This week in Social JusticeYou should have laid it out in a manner which explained why you're posting at all. you could have broken down the social justice subjects, what they meant, and why they are applicable to our lives and why we should care. Then provide your sources. What would TRP look like if everyone with a blog on Masculininity just dropped links and asked for view/likes? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 01:37 PM |
| 9 | This week in Social JusticeDude, I (along with 10 other dudes here) have a blog as well. Do you see the difference between our posts and your's? What message did these articles deliver that made you feel the need to share? If you're just trying to drive traffic to somebody's site or your own, why not make it worth our while by telling us, the reader, what is so important. You have to cater to your audience, by link dumping you are giving yourself a reputation of being a bean counter looking to increase your view count. It… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 01:17 PM |
| 3 | LMR (well, just R) to kinopush through and not let her go even is she's trying to? Your wife isn't attracted to you, pulling her close and forcing it on her is the opposite of what you should be doing. You know what drives prices demand up? Low supply. Make yourself a commodity. Instead of always giving giving giving, take your time and attention away until she wants the kiss, affection, etc. Even then, you only give it when deserved. | /r/askMRP | 15/01/16 12:02 PM |
| 1 | What to do when wife declines sex?In the moment, say fine, and grab your book and read or go to the computer and research whatever. She'll ask if you're mad and at this point you must genuinely be fine and let her know you're busy (NOT butthurt). The bigger question is, what are you doing to build up to sex? You can't just roll over and say, Hey, want to fuck? eventually you can, but you can't. So what is your day like that makes you believe you're worthy of fucking your wife | /r/askMRP | 15/01/16 12:00 PM |
| 1 | My context, and what is the interpretation of some important tests from my wife?Residual BP ideology I disagree with this. I believe the romantic aspect of masculinity needs the equal attention that is given to the sexual and 'powerful' aspects. The signals were indirect but were nonetheless very clear You saw what too many men miss. I think even most MRP guys would feel bad about themselves if they got their wives to drop their job and then ended up divorcing them a few months or years later because she is still being shitty. I was just asking the question dude, like I sai… | /r/askMRP | 15/01/16 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Masculine Men Walk Their Path AloneHeavy is the head that wears the Crown. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Maintain MRP's StandardIt's currently being researched | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Vent/ VomitDude, I straight up gave you my email. You can make up a random gmail and shoot the shit, vomit, whatever it takes to get your mind right. I'll listen and give you whatever advice I can | /r/askMRP | 15/01/16 12:07 AM |
| 1 | met up with separated wife last night.The reactions just flow from you. They flow because the masculine energy and that manly 'wit' is who you are and not something you 'do'. Solid point Enfier, /u/sunfistkid would do well to reread /u/archwinger 's post again as well as your short yet important point. | /r/askMRP | 15/01/16 12:02 AM |
| 3 | My context, and what is the interpretation of some important tests from my wife?You're walking your path brother. Focus on your mission and give it your all. The side effects you're feeling about not being a good 'provider' stems from the BP ideology that's been shoved down our throats. This was a really good post and now that it is out there, look it over again and realize that you are able to pursue your mission with or without her, so as long as you keep your eyes on what it is you want from this life, you'll be fine. If you quit your dream because she wants this or that… | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 11:58 PM |
| 1 | MRP is Real-unpluggingIt's disgraceful edit was it CVN 75? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Respect, Introduction, First thoughtsHe edited | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.My wife paints so she had acrylics though BR used oil based | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 08:23 PM |
| 1 | MRP is Real-unpluggingJust bought a tailored made suit last week and I love it. A staple in every Man's wardrobe. Also, not to doxx you but if you're in Bahrain those suits are legit. When you say applying game at work, you mean with fellow sailors (I'm assuming you're Navy). If that's the case, be weary - navy bitches be crazy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Respect, Introduction, First thoughtsHigh standards produce high results. The issue you're finding here is that these guys had no concept of 'standards' prior to marriage and just did the college, job, marriage, kids path because it was expected and just accepted sub par performance in their lives. You properly Vet your women so if they aren't your 'type' you disregard them. Married/committed 3yrs So I'm clear, you're not married but you are in an LTR of 3 years? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Maintain MRP's StandardGAYY EDIT Down-voted for improper spacing "me ." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Maintain MRP's StandardI like this and I will do it from now on | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Maintain MRP's StandardNo, but bringing attention to those who are active here will at least ensure some of the actual MRP readers are in the equation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Maintain MRP's StandardI figured it was either that or you mushroom stamp the mouse to give the upvote | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 05:15 PM |
| 7 | FR, progress from noob and a beard shit test.Keep reading and improving, all that you're going through is a part of the process and my only advice is that you don't view her as an enemy but rather someone who doesn't know what is expected of her. Keep working towards sharing the load, get on the same page with raising the kids, and delegate certain tasks. Fuck social media and The Scroll. I was active duty Navy for 8 years so I am in the PRO BEARD crew. I shaved in the beginning of November to WIN(which I did) with my glorious mustache, th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.Use away brother, hers came out awesome, mine looks like I was on PCP. Needless to say, I'm a better writer than painter. Still, fun was had by all. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 04:56 PM |
| 8 | Maintain MRP's StandardIs that when you click real hard on the mouse? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Maintain MRP's StandardDon't judge me... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Maintain MRP's StandardCurious people, not.outraged. Curious could lead to more men fixing their marriages and becoming 'Men' again. Which is a good thing, from there direct responses and quality control will be key to prevent dilution. Quality vs Quantity | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Maintain MRP's StandardI just lost my shit. I pictured your lady going into the head after you and screaming, "WHAT THE FUCK IS ALL OVER THE PLACE, IT'S ON THE CEILING?!?!?!" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Maintain MRP's StandardThis subreddit is an incredible tool & like any tool it needs periodic preventative maintenance. This is just the reminder to play your part in getting the good to the top and letting the shit sink. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 03:58 PM |
| 11 | Maintain MRP's StandardNah, I don't want you getting your keyboard sticky. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 03:57 PM |
| 9 | [FR] She is ALWAYS watching don't slouch.There are no breaks & there is no 'end game' Masculinity is a part of who you are it's not something you do. You can never take your foot off the gas. She sees some fat, take a mental note and continue to do you. Then improve. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.Hopefully the only change will be improvement in every facet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.Extreme Ownership A book on leadership written by two Navy SEALs. The reason it's gotten such attention in the RP community is because it places all ownership of failure on the leader, something that we discuss often in this community. In your marriage you are the leader and all failure is on you and all success you deflect to your family. It's an easy read with little fluff and solid takeaways. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 03:04 PM |
| 12 | Seeing "The Oldest Teenager in the house" in the fleshbeware Befriend the hamster... FTFY Also, fuck you and your $4 - I didn't get a single digit. As for your post, you're right it is sub-par as you basically shared a conversation between you and your wife. Though, it did highlight that she is walking her own path and does not view you to be a leader. Granted, this is 'make believe money' but when I had this conversation with my wife, she was onboard and we discussed together what we would do. It is millions on millions of dollars, how could you p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.It is sweet. I only keep books that impact me or that I want my kids to read, the rest I will donate for store credit for more books. This book is staying on the bookshelf. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.Kill Have you finished the book? I'll be finishing it tonight. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts On Bring Your Own LunchI think you misunderstood me, you know what the answer is so why ask the question? | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Vent/ Vomit | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts On Bring Your Own LunchI make my own lunches or I don't eat. I'm also spoiled in the sense that I work with a woman who wants my nuts so she is always cooking for me. My advice to you, make your own lunches. I understand this is ASKMRP but why wouldn't you just make the lunches without bringing it up? You know the answer and a quick google will not only tell you how much money could be saved but it also provides meals upon meals that you can prep for the week. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.Are you making the post on leadership from the book or am I? Because it's fucking awesome so one of us should. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 01:46 PM |
| 17 | Finally talked to my wife about our finances. It went a lot better than expected.that shit is on me for falling asleep at the wheel. I hope you and every man who reads this fucking post GET IT. It is on YOU. It's the reason I call it the Family Alpha. If we were single you'd just split finances, they wouldn't touch. We are married, all of our success and failure is on OUR shoulders. It's why BPP calls MRP 'TRP on HARD Mode. Because it is hard. It's why Whinemore and Stone tell everyone to OWN THEIR SHIT and not deflect responsibility like a weaksauce fuck. OP, I remember us … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 12:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Unexpected benefit from liftingI drink water or chew gum. Tea is also my friend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Growing up Red Pill: Feeding our sons the red pill from infancyMy son is 2.5 years old He's a very good looking child, very tall (95th percentile) with wild blond hair and built solid like an adult man He's got a strong positive energy about him and everywhere he goes he's the centre of attention, especially for females of all ages. What in the actual fuck? He's 2, he's 'built' like a tiny human who shits himself and he is the center of attention because ALL kids are the center of attention, they are kids. Stop using the Term 'RP' for what you're doing as '… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/16 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Advice for getting a blowjob from wife?You're wrong. There's nothing wrong with her, he's the problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Advice for getting a blowjob from wife?Read through my post history. Ultimately you need to foster an environment that promotes her blowing you. Also, you being a man who makes women want to suck his cock. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 06:59 PM |
| 4 | 7 Thoughts for Getting Started LifitingIt doesn't have to be far left or far right. You shouldn't eat an entire pizza and you shouldn't obsess over each calorie (Depending on your goals). Just do it right and make permanent positive changes. Masculinity is not temporary, it's permanent change to embracing and expressing your masculine self and no longer repressing it. The same goes for your lifting and nutrition, at no point do you take your foot off the gas. Continuous improvement for life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Unexpected benefit from liftingThat's exactly what I'll do along with a few others. Sleeping on the floor, limited sleep, limited food, exposure to the weather | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/16 06:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Unexpected benefit from liftingThere's a refusal to think things holistically, and in qualitative terms. Excellent point | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/16 04:57 PM |
| 4 | "I'll just jerk off in the bathroom" [Help]You're seeking attraction, love, and respect from your woman but there seems to be an air of 'disgust, resentment, and pity'. You didn't answer my other questions which would help me respond more effectively. So without the answers I will shoot from the hip. You're not in shape, probably rocking the dad bod, you haven't read much if anything on TRP & MRP or the recommended books. You do know something is wrong but you don't know exactly what. You feel entitled to respect, sex, and a 'submissive'… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/16 04:46 PM |
| 8 | "I'll just jerk off in the bathroom" [Help]honey, I'd like you to give me a blowjob now. .... should I have jerked off in the bathroom like that? Should I have just waited until tomorrow? Let me ask you this. Would a woman attracted to her husband turn down the opportunity to suck his dick? Would a man who has any sense of self respect foster an environment like the one you've portrayed here? Are you in shape? Have you read up on posts here and on TRP? Do you see any value in yourself as a man? Seriously, do you find yourself worthy of g… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/16 04:34 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Unexpected benefit from liftingEating to live vice living to eat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/16 03:45 PM |
| 19 | [FR] Unexpected benefit from liftingYou are now earning your sleep. Apply the same to your nutrition, earning the meals. Do you know how many people have not felt real hunger in years? This is due to the slightest desire to eat and fucking POOF a meal is ready, or snack. In the military, when hiking the AT, and purposefully throughout my days I have been forced (or forced myself) to operate without much food and I will tell you now, when you are truly hungry, you can feel the difference the foods makes. You actually feel the energ… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/16 02:28 PM |
| 25 | Fun mischief to do with the wifeDude I could do this for days, though you seem to of already of read my better actions. Pick her up all the fucking time. Sometimes around the ribs, sometimes under the butt, and sometimes just throw her over your shoulder and carry her somewhere or if you're in a public setting, position her in the fireman's carry and start doing squats. Waiting outside the restaurant, at the beach, or in the kitchen cooking dinner? Knockout some squats. Refuse to respond to anything she says unless addressed a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/16 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Wife told me to shut up todayIt's fucking fun dude, we'll be at Target or wherever and she'll grab a piece of clothing and say, "Don't you think this will look good under a black light?*" She gets me all revved up to where I'm like we need to get out of this store NOW | /r/askMRP | 12/01/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Wife told me to shut up todayDude, have you cracked the glow sticks in the shower yet? | /r/askMRP | 12/01/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Sex & MarriageIn other words are all women like that where if the husband has improved enough all will be climbing down his pants? Or is it the case that all women will certainly turn into a sex goddess but only AFTER you initiate. The former. My wife and I took a shower yesterday and she ran her fingers down my abs, along 'The V' and then got on her knees, looked at me and said I already showered then sucked me off and asked (then begged) for me to blow my load on her tits. Once you're on point and your woma… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | So long, MRPToilet paper doesn't make you stick your finger in your asshole. I've heard the Don't blame the Gun & Fork points, but never the toilet paper to asshole point. You're right, I wouldn't blame the hammer if a psycho used it to kill 30 people - I'd blame the psycho. It isn't the Red Pill that fucked this situation up, it was the weaksauce dude. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/16 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Wife told me to shut up todayYeah dude, I actually rewrote my response a few times because if my wife said that to me, holy fucking shit. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/16 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Wife told me to shut up todaythis sort of disrespect from her happens a fair amount. What have you done up to this point? A. Respond in kind ("No, you shut up."). This feels womanly and weak. Yes, weaksauce. Ignore it completely. Negative, could be construed as you 'tolerating this behavior which is unacceptable. Calmly tell her that she's crossed a line that isn't acceptable. If you are afraid to enforce the boundary, then don't lay it down. If my wife said that to me, on the inside I'd catch fire. But I wouldn't show that… | /r/askMRP | 12/01/16 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Read though NMMNG and decided to take 3 months off sex. Advise?If you are a man then Marriage = sex. Do you not want to be married? OP, read this a few times as it is exactly what I was going to say. Don't make this a 'thing', just embrace your masculinity and improve. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/16 05:33 PM |
| 4 | The alpha chihuahua, a retrospective.Solid breakdown dude | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/16 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Help me be nice...I'm not advising the 'just be yourself' advice chicks give weaksauce dudes. I'm saying, Do You regardless of the impact you think it has on other preconceived notions as to what is 'right'. You can be the dude who walks into a party with a six pack of Smirnoff. If you own that shit, nobody will fuck with you. If a weaker dude tries the same, he'll be mocked all night for drinking a fruity faggot drink. The same applies to acts of kindness. If you do something nice and do it from a position of ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Masculine Men Walk Their Path AloneI've found more joy in being exactly who and what I want to be than anything else in my life. By completely embracing my masculinity and truly doing whatever the fuck I want, I've created an empire of 'self' and a limitless reserve of self confidence. If you listen to others, you'll only be as good as they allow you to be (Crab bucket Mentality). | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Nympho Born Again Virgin GirlfriendUnicorns do exist. AWALT isn't literal. Have you told anyone else about the Unicorns you've seen? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I just don't care about my wifeas are most women Just chicks or kids, men, & animals as well? | /r/askMRP | 11/01/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Nympho Born Again Virgin Girlfriend2 years you've been reading TRP? Fyi m38/f32. I would have put you at 18-20 as this reads like something out of a teen story. Dude, just own your shit. What exactly do you want? Note: I'm not asking what you want the situation to be I'm asking what do you want from this relationship/chick? When you recognize what it is you want from life you'll better be able to make your decision as it will either be in line with that goal or not. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Help me be nice...Be whoever and whatever you want to be. Want to hold a door for a chick, do it. Don't base your life on the perception others have of you. Just embrace the 'true' you and get what you want from people. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Nympho Born Again Virgin GirlfriendMet a unicorn No you didn't, they don't exist. That was true though it seems it escalated past a comfort zone and this was a sign of how into me she is that she let it go this far. What? You don't seem to understand that a woman will do anything to fuck a guy she wants to fuck. Everything else is 'noise' for men who aren't masculine enough to get her to want to give it up. How is se compromising her values if she is sexually intimate with a man she cares for? cause I had her going quite wild. Ha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 03:55 PM |
| 3 | I Turned Down Sex Last night...what to do today?act like it wasn't a deal. Don't 'act'. It wasn't a big deal. Do what you would normally do. There is no 'make up' or anything like that, it's over - push forward. Also, there is a lot of talking in your post. Talk less, let your body send the message your mouth is fucking up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 03:52 PM |
| 3 | The Masculine Man Walks His Path AloneEven in the brotherhood of men, you are expected to maintain your own 'shit'. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Is the ultimate goal to secure a life partner?The answer will be unique to each man as we are all walking our own paths here. Also, how do you know you wouldn't want to live with her in 5 years? Don't lay down boundaries unless you're truly ready to enforce them. Going back on your own word is weaksauce, son't set yourself up for failure. Tell her now and in the foreseeable future you'll be living solo, but you never know what could happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 02:36 PM |
| 3 | The Masculine Man Walks His Path AloneIt's interesting that she (your mom) talks about her 'gaming' you dad. Woman always can tell what other women are up to, rarely do they admit the same behavior in themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 01:57 PM |
| 4 | So long, MRPHopefully he finds joy in his life and marriage. I truly want every married man to embrace their masculinity and lead their family to a healthy 'place' where the masculine and feminine roles are embraced. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 01:38 PM |
| 9 | The Masculine Man Walks His Path Alonekidnap my time. Time Vampires are real, they want what is most precious to a Masculine Man - his time and attention. Give it to those who deserve it, for the rest - kill those leeches from your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Your top 5 books for men - in reading order?Gates of Fire DayBang Extreme Ownership The Art of War The Enchiridion | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 12:55 PM |
| 18 | So long, MRPToo much has MRP turned me into an total asswhole. The Red Pill provides you with tools to owning your masculinity. Your inability to use those tools properly is what turned you into an asshole. A lot of guys just fix their situation and rarely post about it as they only post when needing specific advice on a specific area they keep failing at. You on the other hand wrote a 'Farewell Letter' like you're George Washington. It's another sign of unmanliness. I would expect the masculine man to just… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 12:54 PM |
| 9 | The Masculine Man Walks His Path AloneI keep stressing the point to guys that we all need to remember to enjoy the ride. It's when you find comfort in the discomfort of living life as a masculine male that even the shittiest aspects of life are enjoyable. Broke my leg? Fuck it I'm a pirate for a few months... Lost my leg? Fuck it, time to train for the paralympics. I've gained the ability to turn every 'negative' into an enjoyable positive or an indifferent from reading up on the Stoic Philosophers. I recommend them to you /u/Andorl… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 12:12 PM |
| 2 | The Masculine Man Walks His Path AloneForgive me if I misinterpreted your article but I can see many readers seeing this as a reason to shut off from the world. This shouldn't be the case as I'm hoping it leads to guys immersing themselves more into their environment and the individuals they come into contact with. I have found that guys find more joy when they stop projecting their personal standard and moral code on others. When you expect others to serve their own interests you are no longer disappointed when they do. Specificall… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Masculine Men Walk Their Path AloneI was thinking ringbearer 'alone' ala lord of the rings As a Tolkien fan, I think this comment is fucking incredible and accurate. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I unplugged. I'm 34 years old and feel reborn. My observations...My blog, yes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/16 09:30 PM |
| 36 | My wife turned me down for sex, then got angry when I didn't care...Watch actions, not words. Shit test passed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/16 08:38 PM |
| 2 | She doesn’t love you like that.I'm enjoying my life & I know my lady and kids are good, so don't you spend any more time worrying of feeling bad, we're good. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/16 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Fiancé found out about reddit subs I was in and wants to cancel the weddingJust saw our 'vote count' lol Good to see someone else doesn't give a fuck about internet points and is willing to 'go down with the ship' for the sake of keeping the message out there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/16 01:37 PM |
| 2 | She doesn’t love you like that.To each their own. I'm not here to convince you otherwise. Read and form your opinion, that's all you can do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/16 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Sex & MarriageI thought I was going to catch hell when I wrote She doesn't love you like that | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Sex & MarriageYou bring up some solid points and to address /u/IASGame I have seen women, who were in a deadbedroom and claiming 'low libido' due to whatthefuckever go absolutely ape shit over 50 Shades, start leaking while watching a Magic Mike, and there have been hundreds of examples of women who were prudes withtheir husbands become sex vixens with 'Chad'. Embracing your masculinity largely improves your marriage because it directly attacks the issue of sex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Sex & MarriageSolid response, I like the triangle concept. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 09:19 PM |
| 11 | Sex & MarriageYou can 'thank' me by owning your shit and becoming a masculine male who becomes another drop in the flood that will drown the fucking Dadbods and weaksauce dudes out there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 07:52 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] Social proof gives the best tinglesAbsolutely, you don't have to be the top dude in the world (it's a solid goal), you just need to be better than everyone else around you. As you increase your standard you should increase the standard f those around you, with the goal of always being #1. It's the whole Iron sharpens Iron concept. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 07:16 PM |
| 10 | Fiancé found out about reddit subs I was in and wants to cancel the weddingmarriage like Again, you're not married. You break up, you don't get divorced if things go south. fuck it Ill drink some more. Still being a pathetic waste huh? How about you do this: Be a Man. Stop numbing and running from the truth. You're weak and all of the failures you've experienced are because you were a weak and unmasculine man. Put down the bottle, it's nothing more than a temporary bandaid which will likely give you an infection of the wound instead of healing it. Meaning, it will make… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Fiancé found out about reddit subs I was in and wants to cancel the weddingTRP members are obviously shitty husbands You don't know any of these people. How can you make such a generalized claim? TRP is as unique in application as each man's fingerprint. You have no idea how it can be used in different ways, nor do you read the messages shared between those who implement it properly. Do you think all of those who belong to the muslim faith are evil? I'm not waiting for your answer as it will probably be some bullshit about how 'no, because blah blah blah' yet you haven… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 06:21 PM |
| -4 | Fiancé found out about reddit subs I was in and wants to cancel the weddingDude... have you read the guy's posts? If that's your role model then it's no wonder you're like this... What guy?! I read this post and your retarded comment. I have no role models, I do what works for me. You'd be well off to do what works for you and not pigeonhole your view to that which is most comfortable. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Help needed, get wife under controlWhat the fuck is going on in this sub, I've now read two back to back drunk BS posts. Everybody 'Alpha Up' on Fridays? Dude, you need to approach this with a solid gameplan, with strategic implementation. You don't just take the wheel of the ship you don't know how to drive, you fucking apply, observe, take notes then keep or discard. What the fuck should she apologize for?! You should tell her that you're working on getting your life dialed in and have been struggling with some inner turmoil. T… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 05:48 PM |
| -13 | Fiancé found out about reddit subs I was in and wants to cancel the weddingYou are a fucking idiot if you believe what you just wrote. We push for men to be their true selves without the hidden desires and passions. To embrace their role and not shirk responsibility to their wives, yet that's somehow bad? I could go on but you're fucking pathetic and are so cemented in your narrowed view that you'll never be able to take the blinders off an consider, for just a fucking microcosm of a second, that maybe there is something more to this that you haven't grasped yet. /u/Bl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Fiancé found out about reddit subs I was in and wants to cancel the weddingI know I'm not exactly married You aren't, there is no gray area to this. I was depressed for some time last year before finding out about TRP and MRP. I'm assuming you mean in your relationship. but in my defense she made it easy, she is devoted, loyal, loving - sex has always been mind blowing with her. She's interesting, smart, beautiful and is actually really easy to talk to. This should be fuel to remain on top, not get complacent. t's about your failure, not her's, don't shirk any responsi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW Doesn't Get The Respect It DeservesNo I haven't hence my question. But never did I say or imply it was about having your dick endlessly wet. It doesnt have to be far left or right, why bring it to the extremes and not to a degree of moderation where you do fuck, it just is not an active pursuit but rather happens if it falls (possibly literally) into your lap. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 01:17 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW Doesn't Get The Respect It DeservesEndlessly, don't make unsubstantiated claims to support an argument you want to have. Reread what I wrote, you'd do well to get the message instead of filling in your own agenda to what others say. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 02:43 AM |
| 105 | [Field Report] Social proof gives the best tinglesAlways be the husband other wives want to fuck. Or other women want to fuck in general. It's always a nice feeling when we go to the beach with other couples as I look like a god among dadbods. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | On CheatingCheating is messed up. Period. You're screwing over a fellow male. Your morals are not anyone else's, don't project. You do you and let other men do them. We all walk our own paths. EDIT becomes badly injured in a hard military school, gets the boot and hits rock bottom, discovers red pill and becomes enlightened. What was the purpose of this information? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Need Help Immediately- Read in commentsThis isn't a legal or tech forum, so you'd be better off not coming here as if you did some fucked up shit, then they may end up coming to this sub too through your search history. I used to have sex with about a year ago Stupidly I deleted her number and the texts that we exchanged. This doesn't add up as I delete my texts daily, why do you think it was stupid to delete from a year ago?? Don't say anything without a lawyer and talk with your phone company to get records to support anything you … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 06:14 PM |
| 8 | MGTOW Doesn't Get The Respect It DeservesI've resolved not to invest in women, so that I can devote myself entirely to my goals without distraction. Solid, and this is what I was hoping as I'm all for dudes getting on this style of living. I never could decipher what was meant, hopefully more MGTOWs are following this example and not saying Fuck woman, I don't even want to fuck because that's gay and a lie. At least for 99% of the guys saying it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 05:58 PM |
| 9 | MGTOW Doesn't Get The Respect It DeservesI need a clarification. For those who promote MGTOW are you saying you do your own thing with zero interest in relationships or even spinning plates but you still are fucking chicks OR Do you follow your mission and completely remove pussy from your life? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 05:18 PM |
| 2 | She doesn’t love you like that.You are right, this should be fun Fuck yeah dude. That's what I mean when I say we need to find comfort in the discomfort of masculine living. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/01/16 01:17 PM |
| 0 | The Red Pill and interacting with other subredditsanything from reddit can't be filtered based on sub I didn't know that and if it's the case, roger. If not, then it's just gay. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 01:12 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill and interacting with other subredditsRelated question: Why is MRP on the 'no link & no sidebar' list? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I unplugged. I'm 34 years old and feel reborn. My observations...Np dude | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/01/16 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Pitfalls of Marriage are ObviousHow so? I'd argue that marriage isn't worth it because of '2.0/divorce rape' but I wouldn't say that's why it doesn't work in the first place. Edit N/m you were referencing the 'You Go Girl!' aspect to Marriage 2.0 where the female imperative 'encourages' women to bailing when times get rough or just doing their thing with another man and still reaping the benefits of cash & prizes unearned. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I unplugged. I'm 34 years old and feel reborn. My observations...Welcome to The Family Alpha | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 08:06 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Leading a Relationship with Love and LogicSolid thought out response, thanks for providing insight into something I had never considered or faced myself. I have a 3 year old daughter and this is another tool that I'll be adding to my 'parenting toolbox'. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I unplugged. I'm 34 years old and feel reborn. My observations...As you go through posts, look at the flair near the user, then click to get to their profile, then click on their 'post/submitted' tab, then sort by 'Top/All' then start reading. EDIT I clicked your username, submitted, top and found your epiphany post. It let me into your mind and situation in seconds. Do that to people whose posts you find valuable. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 06:25 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Leading a Relationship with Love and LogicI'm going against the current here and want you to know that this is EXACTLY what you need to be doing. Do not compromise your position in order to meet the status quo on MRP. If this is working for you, and somehow you found a way to make this work then I say good on you. I understand the points the other dudes made as my wife is like their's. When you said, If you want your wife to do something, like lose weight, some mix of covert or overt communication will get her there. A little bit of dre… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 01:01 PM |
| 2 | She doesn’t love you like that.You could read my entire post history for verbiage that would help understand, but I don't think it will help with what you feel. The best advice I can give is that you find joy in each moment. When you look back, do so and laugh thinking,The bitch got me, I acted like a weaksauce dude and she got me, clever girl - but it's not going to happen again. Then look at where you currently are, and enjoy it. It wasn't her fault, find joy in the game, find peace through reading and doing masculine shit … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 12:50 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill BalanceAs married men or men in LTRs we have to be all things, we have to be the entire boy band. Blending Alpha, beta, teacher, student, stoic, & vulnerable. It comes down to knowing how to be comfortable and more importantly when to push and pull across the entire spectrum of 'self'. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 08:19 PM |
| 4 | What women really want - An old post from craiglistJust remember to enjoy the ride. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 03:39 PM |
| 12 | Yesterday I unplugged. I'm 34 years old and feel reborn. My observations...We all hate our previous faggot selves. Read through all the 'Approved & Mods' post history. I think they should be absorbed prior to (or coinciding with) your book readings, they are no shit 'real life' stories. You can turn this shit around, just do it gradually and permanently, never go back or look back to the past as it's gone. Your wife doesn't owe you those lost years, as you lost them. It seems you're owning that and moving forward with the masculine mindset of taking charge of your 'sel… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 03:05 PM |
| 2 | What women really want - An old post from craiglistWhere are you at in your journey towards reclamation of your masculinity? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Women and the absentia of truthIf she circumvents the truth, without knowing she is doing it, then is her lie now the truth, in her mind? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 02:28 PM |
| 11 | Jennifer Lawrence explains her fee-feesI understand the importance of hearing what is said then interpreting what is meant. By no means do I feel that there is nothing to be gained from understanding the message. But, what I don't understand is what was the point of this post? Did you show us that Jennifer Lawrence is a woman and speaks like a woman? When you wrote this up, what were you looking to get across besides the most basic understanding of AWALT? EDIT In response to your edit, it's ALL Women are like that, why do we keep get… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Nice guy husband frustrates wife in bed.I'm a mod, can confirm. I've got the power | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Creating Your SlutI had someone else ask that exact question so I'll just quote my replies to him. “It's hard to comprehend, but you need to make yourself the other guy as well. I have never and will never share my wife. But I've seen many MFM pornos and because of that I tackled the issue. She never brought it up, but because I saw it in a porno I figured it had crossed her mind. So, I took the route of being proactive vice reactive and I bought her a dildo/vibrator and had her use it in her pussy (all the way i… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 02:16 PM |
| 118 | Jennifer Lawrence explains her fee-feesI don't see why we even care what it is she is saying as you can probably find her fucking some random unknown dude when she gets lost in the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 02:09 PM |
| 6 | What if TRP is wrong?TRP Masculinity IS the difficult path. It isn't easy. If you look at your post and replace TRP with Masculinity, everything will click. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 02:06 PM |
| 7 | What if TRP is wrong?I like this forum and like most of the 'frequent contributors' I write because I care about the subject. I've dedicated millions and millions of words and created a blog on the subject. But if MRP & TRP were to disappear tomorrow, I'd still be walking tall with a smile on my face, as should every man. We need to find joy in the application of the Red Pill and not just immerse ourselves in the discussion on the Red Pill. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 02:04 PM |
| 3 | A nice guy who wants to be in charge...will my wife fall in line?will she submit ling term? If you can make it happen. then demanded change and got it about 6 years ago. I wanted to increase frequency and quality early last year. How does a weaksauce fuck demand anything? You think you just deserve shit because you're the 'man' of the relationship? And why wait 5 years to improve sex? Better, more frequent sex and we were on our way to exploring swinging. Fucking idiot Earlier this year she seemed to be responding, but after a few months it just got exhaustin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 02:01 PM |
| 18 | What if TRP is wrong?Solid message. It supports the idea that every action being taken needs to be owned by the man taking the action. There is no 'establishment' of TRP or any person taking responsibility for you if/when you fail, it's yours to own. Reddit Puppets is the term I coined for the guys who did shit, just to run to MRP to see if they did it right. It doesn't matter if TRP & MRP give you internet points or digital high fives, this is your fucking life you need to be living it and looking to improve your l… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Nice guy husband frustrates wife in bed.they resent her as a woman while loving her as their wife I think your response it solid, except for the aspect of resenting her as a woman. Have you ever viewed it not so much as resenting women for being women, but rather repressing their desire to treat their wife like a whore? I guarantee there are guys here who beat off to some hardcore porn, yet only fuck their wife missionary. It isn't that they resent their wife so much as a combination of a lifetime of repressing that desire for hardcor… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 12:20 PM |
| 8 | Nice guy husband frustrates wife in bed.Before you guys suggest we communicate, I will tell you that I have. I've asked him to more rough, that he really can pinch those nipples harder. The problem is he's SO AGAINST anything that feels like it would degrade me. Your husband is afraid to express his masculinity because his entire life he's been forced to repress it. Dominance is bad, competetiveness is bad, fighting/wrestling is bad, being a man is evil... That's the story line of a man in our society (America at least). What I recomm… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Nice guy husband frustrates wife in bed.Some want that. Daddy issues. There's nothing wrong with daddy issues, you can use that to your advantage with amazing results. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Ending the line of ChadsWhat you can change is how she experiences HER TURN with you, and make her desire to be on the cock carousel of one to be as permanent as possible. Solid | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 06:57 PM |
| 10 | Mass Shootings and MasculinityThese types of men will lash out at others or destroy themselves. Edit: I want it to be known that I view both of these options to be completely weaksauce. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Ending the line of Chadsthings will run smooth. As with all things in life, there are no guarantees. But if you're going to make the effort to go exclusive with a girl you might as well do it right and be the best you can. It may work out it may not, either way what other option is there? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Ending the line of Chadswho refer to their wives as the boss. Pathetic & so disappointing. I 'get' that masculinity is rare, but I still feel that the standard should be maintained and I have yet to become desensitized to the plights many men are facing. When I hear shit like, 'Sleeping on the couch, my wife is the boss, happy wife happy life, etc. I feel a pang in my chest. These dudes, if they don't 'Unplug' will never experience the true joy of living life as a masculine man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 05:07 PM |
| 24 | Perspective with the feminist cinemaThis is about you. This is the biggest takeaway from all of TRP. Movies, most music, TV, etc they are marketing towards the consumers and women are the majority of consumers. What do you care if these movies and shows are catering to the female imperative. Bitching on TRP and telling your friends and family how obvious it is does nothing. You know what does work? Living life as a masculine man. Expressing your manly dominant self instead of repressing it. Saying Fuck the Status Quo and breaking … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Ending the line of ChadsSolid response and it brings up the point that there may not be a single dude you're against. You have to replace her father, you have to replace Chad A, B, & C You have to be the overall best man. It's my opinion that you should strive to be the very best in every facet of living. Chad A may have had a rocking body but been insecure as fuck, chad B the opposite. You, as the Masculine husband who now owns the territory of your wife need to be better than both in both area, a better body while be… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Ending the line of Chads"Chad" possess all the qualities that you don't have. For some guys, this is definitely true. For others, he just holds parts of your woman's mind & past that you haven't even tried to claim for yourself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Ending the line of ChadsYou're right, a lot of change will come from moving in the right direction; But if the name of the game is improvement to the grave, then why not go for total domination? The time will pass either way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Ending the line of ChadsI'd rather be hard charging top dog than comfortable pussy in the back. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Ending the line of ChadsI agree with you on the point of showing her that she must submit and also as a masculine man you're worthy of her submission, but if you want to get all of her, it requires you to be the overall top dog. (in the back of her mind she knows few can achieve this... she dreads looking for your replacement) agreed | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Ending the line of ChadsThis is why I put the perspective as it being someone you're looking to go exclusive with. If you want all of your girl, you'll have to work for it, the shit doesn't occur. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Ending the line of ChadsSounds like something from Highlander. There can be only one! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Ending the line of ChadsOnce you raise it you've got a target on your back and everyone is gunning to outdo you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Ending the line of ChadsWhile improving yourself for your own sake, are you not ultimately striving to be the best in any category anyway? Precisely, /u/bmunny1963 why not strive for both? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Ending the line of ChadsNo problem dude, I enjoy writing and feel passionately about this topic. /u/stonepimpletilists is correct though, we're all peers reclaiming our masculinity together, I look forward to your posts and insights as you progress through your own journey. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Ending the line of Chadsbeing a west coast canadian who wasn't a pothead and had a pair was really an easy hurdle to overcome. It's easy when the bar is low | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Ending the line of ChadsI disagree. Like I presented, I think if you can get her to feel deeper in a certain area (sex, fun, whatever) or at least better than the other guys you'll get into the category of when you leave, she'll forever be searching for someone like you. You will essentially become the benchmark from which she measures her happiness and all other men that enter her life. EDIT I'd agree with the example you presented but I know of several girls who lost their virginity to fat slobs who they look back on… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 11:31 PM |
| 1 | [Reading] Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and WinThe one I listened to was with Rogan. I heard a few sound bites(bytes?) from other places as well. The guy is a straight shooter, I like people who don't add 'fluff'. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | [Reading] Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and WinI saw a post on TRP that talked about this guy, I fell down the rabbit hole and listened to the podcasts and looked over his twitter. My book came in the other day, should be a good read. Maybe in a week or so a few of us can break the book down. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/16 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Motivation is over-ratedMotivation is the match, self discipline is the log. They both burn hot, one burns longer. EDIT: I wrote this post on the subject of turning motivation into discipline | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The Role Women PlayIt is difficult for most to grasp, but we aren't special and there will come a point where our name is spoken for the last time. Look over the entirety of human history, we are but a speck on that timeline. Some view it to be depressing, I feel it is empowering. You have a limited amount of time to do everything. So get the fuck on your horse and do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 12:47 PM |
| 1 | The Role Women PlayMost of the discussion here is about women. I understand you were looking for the 'catchy slogan' and it is what it is, you probably will get more attention from using specifically 'women play no role' but in reality, and you seem to understand this - we are all manipulating everyone for our own growth and enjoyment in this life. If you aren't manipulating the men and women around you, they're manipulating you. It's how it is, we all need to find comfort in the discomfort of living life as a mas… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 12:37 PM |
| 9 | The Role Women PlayWomen are simply a tool for you to use and manipulate. Why not say everyone is simply a tool for you to use in your life? No procrastinating, no junk food, no parties Who are you to tell anyone what 'success' is. Maybe some MGTOW is totally fucking content playing video games and eating junk food. His success does not need to be what you're viewing as 'conventional success' as all that matters is what he takes from life. I may think he's a pathetically weaksauce fuck, but that doesn't matter as … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Creating Your SlutI'm not sure what you meant by this? What I meant was if a man has been able to get his wife to share that she wanted an MFM, then he seems to have gotten to the point where she will share whatever it is she is into. After shutting the MFM down it is key to keep the dialogue open. If a wife is up to get spit roasted then she is probably up for other 'kinkier' shit as well. This is where, without telling her, the husband just 'becomes' (he's always had it in him) more dominant and instead of maki… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/16 12:00 PM |
| 11 | Everything is brokenOf Course Replace the 'glass' with anything. Your wife cheated, of course she did you weren't good enough. You male friend did something bluepill(weak) of course he did, that's expected from a majority of 'men'. Your wife shit tested you immediately after you found out you were selected as cool guy of the month at your work? Of course she did. That's all ok. This is our world and the sooner you find joy in living in it, the sooner you'll understand what the ancient stoics meant when they discuss… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/16 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Creating Your Slutthe problem isn't that the wife is manipulative, but that she puts forward an impossible desire (by our volition, not her own initially), which strikes right at the core of a stable redpill marriage. This is a solid breakdown. To answer your question, if my wife said she wanted to have a threesome with another dude, I would clearly draw the boundary that it would never happen. If she wanted another dick then she was more than welcome to find one and I would introduce her to a few of my friends, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/16 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Creating Your SlutIm not ignoring you dude, this was a great question and I'm still pondering... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/01/16 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Wife "loves" another man?Solid fucking response. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/01/16 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Wife "loves" another man?Either don't care or psychological manipulation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/01/16 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Creating Your SlutThere are exceptions for certain rates (such as nuclear engineer) not sure if you're military but there is a waiver for anything. If they need black female engineers they'll make it happen. To your point, there are dip spitting, beard growing, manly talking females in the military and it is gross. when you have 1,000 males and 20 females the ratio makes for some weird anomalies when it comes to judging the women. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Wife "loves" another man?It's not impressive, it actually makes me sick. AWALT is true, yet I still wish it wasn't. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/01/16 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Creating Your SlutIt's hard to comprehend, but you need to make yourself the other guy as well. I have never and will never share my wife. But I've seen many MFM pornos and because of that I tackled the issue. She never brought it up, but because I saw it in a porno I figured it had crossed her mind. So, I took the route of being proactive vice reactive and I bought her a dildo/vibrator and had her use it in her pussy (all the way in with it on full 'vibrate') while I fucked her in the ass. It gave the sensation … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/01/16 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Wife "loves" another man?Initially I was going to say that you're being a pussy. Yet, as I thought it over and considered my own situation I better understood your plight. Have you ever read Gates of Fire by Steven Pressfield? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/01/16 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Wife "loves" another man?It's all gravy, I was really confused at first | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Wife "loves" another man?I think you meant that for OP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Wife "loves" another man?I thought the same but due to his inability to maintain boundaries, it would just be another verbal law passed that isn't enforced. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Creating Your SlutThere's no shortcut to any place worth going. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Wife "loves" another man?Your 'wife' is a lesbian right? His wife spoke to a guy (as far as we know, probably more but that's TBD) so where is the similarity? You need to figure yourself out dude, there is this underlying passive-aggressive tone that is probably the result of you hating yourself for not being able to make the hard decisions in life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 09:35 PM |
| 8 | Wife "loves" another man?This guy did not fuck my wife...as far as I know. Look dude, I know it probably made you queasy just to write that out, but understand that it is a possibility. I think you should start playing scenarios in your head now, so that if/when truths come out you are mentally prepared and have a game plan to implement. Though she may be hurting you to your very core as a man, you must not let her see this. Arguing, fighting, yelling, etc all of that puts you in her frame and you are coming across as w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Wife "loves" another man?I didn't but see it now, thanks for the heads up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Wife "loves" another man?Let's cover some basics, are you an attractive man? Meaning do you have muscles, confidence, charm, and a idgaf my vision will work view on life? Did your wife fuck this guy? Did he widow her and she's looking for that sense of 'feeling'. If everything is on point except this dude, then move on and leave him in the dust. Start picking your wife up, read through my posts on keeping shit interesting or scour my blog www.thefamilyalpha.com to get some ideas on how exactly you can get the sex you wa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 09:00 PM |
| 4 | TRP flashback...Women have rape fantasies and want rough sex.I fully endorse this message and I know my wife does too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.Read OP"s title. It's just as likely that we could find just as many stories where the genders are swapped. That was my point. Their reasoning for regret will be different but both sexes would regret it. This isn't female specific. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Creating Your Slutthen her desire to fuck ANYTHING is simply non-existent. That's what I used to think, but now I think it does exist, but she won't (can't?) show it because unlike men, she'd rather go abstinent then fuck an 'unworthy' male. I understand the BTDB concept as during a 9 month deployment, HB3s become solid fucking 7s | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.You do know that this a discussion forum where we discuss The Red Pill, right? I thought it was, then you replied and I swore I must have posted in fucking PPD or something because of how rediculous your responses were. I figured logic and reason could be used with a man, but you keep shifting topics. First it was interest vs attraction, then beauty vs value then you tried saying I was talking about the cause of regret (I wasn't) You get the picture, I'd recommend you let the pill dissolve a lit… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.obtuse little whiny bitch My title grows, nice maybe I'll work my way up to two lines. Until then you should consider a few things. My point and HsP point is that attraction works VERY different for men and women, men want "beauty" women want "value" as simple as that. I never mentioned attraction so I don't know why you and HsP brought it up. I said people feel regret and I don't give a fuck what their reasoning for regret is as that wasn't my interest in the discussion, which is why, in my pos… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.You are stating that the cause of regret is the same when a man it a woman miss out on that famous crush. I never said why they felt regret, you made that assumption on your own. I just said they would regret it. I don't understand what you're caught up on. Who gives a fuck what the difference between male and female regret is, it's still regret. You've now called me a bitch and obtuse, how you doing today dude? Rough day dealing with your fellow high school buddies? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.PS: don't act like a little bitch when you are corrected. Was I corrected? I didn't notice because your response still didn't touch on the point I made which is the person would feel regret. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Creating Your SlutYou do you man, you've got more info than I and these other dudes had. Make an informed decision and own your choice. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.Who was talking about attraction? Or interest for that matter? I was making the point that anyone who was fucking someone that became famous (usually coincides with rich) and decided to break it off for someone else would regret not sticking around. It doesn't have to be some deep fucking regret, just a regret. If I was fucking Jessica Biel and broke it off for whomever because whomever had huge tits at the time, I'd now regret not sticking with JB. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Creating Your SlutIt is. I've recently gotten into photography so beginning with the next post all of the photos will be OC. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Creating Your SlutI didn't have to try so hard. They just did it. Exactly my point, it is more Difficult, MRP = TRP On Hard Mode It's why I wrote, "The amount of effort required to achieve this standard in your marriage varies on the type of relationship you currently have. This is The Family Alpha, so I’m going to cater my message to the married man. Keeping that in mind, there are some aspects of this post that can be used on LTRs and girlfriends. It’s actually much easier to do this with LTRs(0-2 years) and Gi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.I was thinking money & access to wherever in the world. EDIT - Since /u/RojoEscarlata got a fat chub about my point, I wasn't saying their reasoning was the same. I was stating that regret would be felt by both sexes. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 04:25 PM |
| 2 | She doesn’t love you like that.This is some solid fucking insight | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Creating Your SlutA woman is always a reflection of her man You're correct and your choice of verbiage is funny because I wrote a post titled Your Woman is the Mirror of You which I can't link because TRP is fucking gay when it comes to linking to MRP, but the post lays out exactly what you stated. The issue is ego prevents many a man from accepting the fact that his shitty woman is a result of his shitty leadership. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Creating Your Slutwhat are you doing to facilitate that? Precisely, women talk, men do. Don't complain about shit, just fix it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 03:38 PM |
| 10 | Creating Your SlutTell her where to go and she will enthusiasticly go of you are strong and sincere. She fills the vessel, in order to get her to improve you need to become a better vessel. When you do, she'll fill it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Creating Your SlutYou may be correct, it's been my experience that when I say it is the dude's fault, I'll receive several comments countering that point saying that the wife needed to improve. You're right though, it's on the man and that is something that really needs to be understood. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Creating Your SlutBecause it's much easier to rationalize "my wife just isn't into that" instead of internalizing the truth which is "my wife isn't into ME." Solid points, especially the part I quoted which is the perfect example of exactly why we all need to kill the ego. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 03:16 PM |
| 1 | She doesn’t love you like that.It takes time to reverse a 'truth' that has been pounded into your head from birth. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 03:04 PM |
| 6 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.Eh, the guy who did that, Gyllenhaal, is an alpha, he really could care less. I meant the guy from high school, not her peer 'celebrities'. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.This could be said about any 'ex' of someone who became famous. Guy or girl it makes no difference; I bet the dude who broke up Taylor Swift regrets it too. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Creating Your SlutThanks, hopefully it helps to improve the vanilla sex that has become the norm in many marriages. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 11:58 AM |
| 5 | Creating Your SlutToo many dudes are sitting on a sexual goddess letting her talents waste away. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Every morning you have a choiceAgreed, I've actually raised my kids to believe that can't is the equivalant of a curse word. We simply don't use it in my house. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Every morning you have a choiceBUD/s = SEAL school | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 01:06 AM |
| 9 | Black Knighting as being Deliberately Selfish and Thoroughly Unfair in PublicAll of it is a result of a weak masculine presence | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Every morning you have a choiceThat's fucking funny | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Every morning you have a choiceI used to get overwhelmed at the amount of shit I had on my plate until I read the quote: How do you eat a dinosaur? One bite at a time. I then broke down all of my goals into smaller chunks and it's made a world of difference in regards to my time management. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 06:41 PM |
| 5 | I'm low SMV, with a high SMV girl. Open to feedbackWhat you need to do is make this about you and not about her. Criminals can pull megan fox hot girls, it isn't just $ that gets the girls. What you are lacking is that irrational reserve of self-confidence. You're also lacking any sense of self-efficacy in how you're going about living this life. Believe and invest in you. Keep lifting, lift better as a year is a long time to not see solid results unless you were really fucked up physically beforehand. Do you and own your shit. If you're a high … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Every morning you have a choiceMy schedule is one of those busy schedules. I specifically chose sleep because everyone gets twisted up when I say that is what needs to be adjusted. You do you, if you can get everything you need done by 2100 and sleep tight until 0600 good on you. I don't and I bet a lot other guys don't as well. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Black Knighting as being Deliberately Selfish and Thoroughly Unfair in PublicI haven't quit, but sometimes you just wonder, What in the actual fuck is wrong with people. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 05:57 PM |
| 19 | Black Knighting as being Deliberately Selfish and Thoroughly Unfair in PublicDude, I've done this. He told my parents I was calling him fat. He is the embodiment of all things wrong with society. My father's failure as a man has resulted in this weaksauce fuck having no understanding of what masculinity is/should be. It's not that he is repressing his masculinity, it's that he has never developed it. I lift, read, blah blah do all things a Man should do and I tried taking him under my wing. He quit and refused to accept that he was fat and weak. Edit The cognitive disson… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 05:36 PM |
| 20 | Black Knighting as being Deliberately Selfish and Thoroughly Unfair in PublicVery true and a point I factored in when pondering the issue. But holy fucking shit. I wish FPH was still around, it reminded me (much like TRP) that there was still hope. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 04:25 PM |
| 40 | She doesn’t love you like that.ADALT | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 03:23 PM |
| 61 | Black Knighting as being Deliberately Selfish and Thoroughly Unfair in Publicwomen don't care about actually being fair in situations that have to do with men, they only want to carry the appearance of being fair. This relates somewhat to an issue that has been driving me fucking insane. I have a 13 year old brother who is obese. Both of my parents are overweight and this is a topic that bothers me more than it should, but that's for me to sort out. The issue I'm having is that I have offered personal training services, bought them exercise equipment, given them my tread… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Fitness inspiration for old guysThis is why we keep repeating Improvement to the grave. There is no end to TRP. You improve every facet of your life the entire time. More sex, more joy in the moment, better physique, etc. Just keep pushing and refuse to accept a mediocre existence. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She got me good"You've made your decision on the relationship; bye." Easy day. It will be brutal, but you don't show her that. You walk away with your head high and let her realize in that instant that she just lost the highest value male she'll ever have. You then grab your dog or a beer and release your emotions to them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 02:08 PM |
| 3 | [FR] She got me goodDon't use this example as your model. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 12:09 PM |
| 3 | [FR] She got me goodbecause if my wife is being shady and blatantly ditching me to go out drinking with someone she won't name than I do give a fuck because it's a fucked up thing to do to someone and it makes me angry enough to act on it. Exactly why I am asking you why you thought going IDGAF was the call to make. You do give a fuck and should act on that. Too many men are repressing their passionate feelings about shit that does matter. You are missing my point that if your lady doesn't care if you stay or go, t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 12:09 PM |
| 4 | [FR] She got me goodMy point was some things are important enough to be said vice being typed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/15 12:06 PM |
| 1 | The greater your success the more jealousy you will faceLetters from a Stoic is also a solid read. Seneca was a beast. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 11:51 PM |
| 4 | The greater your success the more jealousy you will faceMeditations by Aurelius The Enchiridion is a wicked close second though. I used to think Philosophy was for weaksauce men who wanted to talk instead of fight, I was so very wrong and it was TRP that shifted my perspective. If/when you read it, remember the roles this man had through his life and the conditions under which the book (his meditations) was written. It adds to the depth and masculine message presented. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 11:08 PM |
| 6 | [FR] She got me goodThis is has been simmering inside of me for the past 2 days. Acted normal IDGAF self until today. Why are you acting instead of truly not giving a fuck. Also, why wait two days, I would have squared that shit away the moment she walked in the door. To be honest, it seems a little fucked up before she left while playing on her phone and giggling.. I stupidly broke frame and told her that if she thinks acting shady and getting picked up to go do whatever with whoever is how a married woman should … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/15 07:41 PM |
| 14 | Asian girls are great for LTRNo ethnicity is 'great' for an LTR. The vetting process must be done on an individual basis. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 07:22 PM |
| 28 | The greater your success the more jealousy you will faceYour success is like a mirror that forces others to look at their mediocre performance/existence. I've found the men who supported my success were the same guys who were successful themselves. Iron sharpens iron, ditch the losers, look for the lions and run with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Ladders & Snakesbut a man should want more for himself as a man, as a father, as leader, as a creator, even as a cad. Find comfort in the discomfort of masculine living in a feminized society and improving one's self to the grave. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/15 01:37 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.I have never and will never endorse swinging/sharing. It works for some, not me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/15 12:38 PM |
| 10 | [LTR] How do I get her to be more sexually aggressive outside the bedroom? (We already have a good relationship, want to make it better)how do I lead her (without talking to her directly because that's pussy shit) You are too caught up in not being a pussy that you're skipping your solution. Do you want to know how I got my wife to send me pics of her throughout the day, almost every fucking day? I told her it was what I wanted. I had our blacklight on, was drawing on her body with a highlighter, then I stepped back, grabbed my phone and took a picture. She asked what I was doing and I said something along the lines of capturing… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/15 12:29 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.I've written 90% of the article, it is by far my longest piece yet. I'm hesitant to release it for the exact reason you mentioned. Once you create the slut, you can never go back to the life of comfort. Granted, Masculine living is comfortable for those who have allowed the pill to fully dissolve, but the guys on the fence, if they create this sexual monster, the choice is taken from them. Either they will satisfy the craving they created or someone else will. I can see this blowing up in a lot … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/12/15 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Question: How to instil red pill mindset into your woman.It is ridiculous and your job as the father is to keep your kids from ever becoming 'gender neutral' as that is the beginning of the end. Embrace your identity as a male/female - fucking own that shit | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Question: How to instil red pill mindset into your woman.She was my girl when I left and my girl when I got back, I was just me. She shit tested me a few times but there was no budge as I wasn't acting like anything I had just become a different man. Several times I told her she could leave or stay and it made no difference as I had a mission, she stayed and now has an awesome husband, awesome kids, and an awesome life. Just remove the idea that you have to act a certain way and simply be a certain way. You do life your way and refuse to conform to an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Question: How to instil red pill mindset into your woman.There was no real 'transition'. I decided that I was going to unapologetically live my life as a masculine male and I did from that moment on. Ask any question you want, it's why I'm on this forum. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Question: How to instil red pill mindset into your woman.Through high school I was a hard worker, yet did not give a fuck about pretty much anything. Skipped class, didn't turn in homework I did complete, just a fucking loser with no direction. Joined the Navy and for some fucking reason my brain just clicked and it was off to the races. I dominated my entire career and left to be around for my kids. What made me go Red instead of blue, I'm not positive either but it was definitely my Rite of Passage into Masculine living. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Question: How to instil red pill mindset into your woman.I started out as a blue pill BF, came back from bootcamp an RP cock diesel masculine dude, got engaged/married and have been running the show ever since. My wife was never a feminist and was always submissive & feminine but would never actually say it. Now she will literally choose those words to describe herself and she embraces it and raises our daughter in the same manner. It's OK to be a girl and it is A fucking OK to enjoy dance and ballet over playing football with the boys. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 05:44 PM |
| 16 | Question: How to instil red pill mindset into your woman.Is it simply a result of your RP mindset, frame and behavior? Yes, along with some 'guidance/facilitating' along the way. My wife is DTF whenever & wherever & however, she hates feminism, loves being a submissive/feminine woman who can do girly shit and not feel as though it is somehow betraying her sex, and while she doesn't go on my blog or reddit, she understands the plight against masculinity and supports my direction of rearing the kids. I got this point by being on fucking point day in and… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/12/15 05:11 PM |
| 16 | Forcing your wife to provide sex on demand: An Example of Godly submission.....Your last few posts have me worrying about where you're at dude. I keep thinking you're going to clue us in on your social experiment, but each new post has me feeling as though you've lost the red beacon and are sailing aimlessly at sea. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/15 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Holding Frame During Life's Great ChallengesYeah dude, your post shows you actually are looking to improve. For guys like that I'd write a novel(and I am), too many men suffer in our weaksauce society. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/12/15 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Holding Frame During Life's Great ChallengesInteresting | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"Not entirely true. There are several instances where I've said exactly how I felt even though it went against the grain and it benefitted me immensely. But when it becomes a personal issue you have with a person, the honesty is rarely appreciated and by forcing them to look in the mirror and see their mediocre performance they further despise you. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 11:49 PM |
| -2 | Holding Frame During Life's Great ChallengesThen why are you saying MRP needs to adjust and not OP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Holding Frame During Life's Great ChallengesI think MRP needs more solid ideas than borrowing most of the stuff from TRP. Have you been reading posts from flaired individuals? edit the posts from bpp, uc, rn, sk, spt all promote a very unique (married/ltr) aspect to the pill. New guys post weird shit, flaired guys, not so much. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Affection, Commitment and AttentionOPS/SUPPLY/ORDNANCE - Always Edit those departments were also that guy when it came to fucking up our DUI streak and ruining the day off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 10:16 PM |
| 7 | Holding Frame During Life's Great ChallengesAnswer #1: Your frame should include comfort from the beginning, your frame is your perception from which she should be seeing the world already. So no, you don't do 'more' you just don't do less and you always look to adapt to the situation. Maybe she needs some wine and a fire instead of a fucking and a shower together. Know what I mean? Answer #2: No, carry on as usual. Be the rock when her waves of emotion come and go with the tide. Answer #3: Keep her focused and try to get her to be as sto… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 10:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Affection, Commitment and AttentionI bet you were the guy who volunteered for observer duty during urinalysis on deployments. That list would come out and you'd be happier than a fag with a bag full of dicks while guys like me had to drop coveralls so you could be absulutely sure the urine was leaving my body. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Be unpredictableSome guys can make it work, others can't. I don't promote getting married, nor do I shun it. I just do me and recommend you do you through life.. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Passing this shit test: The "I've never enjoyed sex ..."It's all gravy dude, I try to assume little and stick to the facts OP provides and from there read between the lines. From time to time I'll go through the posters history, but only if I care and it seems like the guy actually wants to change. This dude put in very little effort and hasn't responded to shit, so fuck him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Pregnant wife (8-9 months) - I let a comfort test pass without actionI'll update when I think it's ran it's course and I can contribute a conclusion and analysis. That would be best and would provide us all some insight as to how certain women deal. It is definitely an interesting question, When is the most optimal time to turn the 'love' back on? Obviously it is unique to the woman & situation, but more posts like this provide us with at least a sample population to 'guesstimate' from. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Passing this shit test: The "I've never enjoyed sex ..."I like to make informed decisions. Do you know the frequency of sex OP has? Do you know if he prematurely cums every time they have sex? Did you notice that he said, "She knows how to cum" which is very different from "I make her cum". Do you know if OP is an overweight fucking slob? So many facts are missing yet here you come with a perfect solution to a problem you haven't really even seen. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Pregnant wife (8-9 months) - I let a comfort test pass without actionbut wasn't sure if I'd be undoing any progress that had been made over the last day. That's for you to decide. This forum gives us a snapshot of a much bigger picture. Maybe it helped, maybe it hurt, that's for you to decide by looking at the trend analysis of how she was and how she is and how she will be. I don't know you nor do I know your wife. She could be losing her fucking mind over this business and a kid and I would never know as the only thing any of us see are your impressions and wha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Pregnant wife (8-9 months) - I let a comfort test pass without actionThat's twice you've used that at the perfect time. It's now the SPT slogan in my mind | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 03:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Affection, Commitment and AttentionHa! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 03:25 PM |
| 18 | Pregnant wife (8-9 months) - I let a comfort test pass without actionThree things. 1) Are you lifting/in shape? 2) Your wife is about to pop and can't/won't have 'better' sex, you fixed that by withdrawing attention? 3) You see your wife is in over her head, she then comes to you for comfort after the fact, not berating you for not helping, just coming to you for help and you dismissed her. How is that being an oak? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 03:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Affection, Commitment and Attentionshe does have the ability to hold me to task, gotta give her credit there. That's a good thing, it's when she stops that you need to worry. It's why I get pissed when guys ask When do the shit tests stop because they fucking don't and they shouldn't. She wants to know she being pumped with primo Alpha DNA, the only way to find that out is to have Mr. Masculinity pass her bullshit tests. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 03:20 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - Affection, Commitment and AttentionI wouldn't blame her. What girl would put up with a man who can't handle his/her shit? I know she isn't, at least not from this interaction. I was just plugging in the mandatory statement of with or without her, you're still moving forward with a smile on your face and an apology ready to be given to someone, because you're Canadian. Side Note: The fact that you wouldn't blame her shows the difference between the guys who 'get it' and those who still have some ego to kill. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 02:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - Affection, Commitment and AttentionHa! I've found the best cure for swollen ovaries is Deadlifts. Oh, and taking notes from this guy as he is pretty much the world renowned subject matter expert on all things Bro. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 02:45 PM |
| 6 | [FR] - Affection, Commitment and AttentionYou do you, so long as if/when she leaves, you're still smiling looking at that skyline; and stop babying that ankle, it's been a month - pussy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 02:29 PM |
| 2 | We outgrow our mothers, but not our fathers.28, life goals grow as I do. My dad knows home ownership and random auto care better than I do, but strictly masculine living - he stopped being my 'idol' the day I joined the Navy at 19. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"Why do you think there is only one 'singularity'? My single point of masculinity may not be the same as yours. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Passing this shit test: The "I've never enjoyed sex ..."You based your response with zero context from OP. IF she is discussing an issue with sex then yes, now is prime time to remove all constraints and tablo from the subject. Marching free of past shackles | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"This is how I feel about most interactions as well. I'm not religious and when I discuss this with people most agree, even those wearing the cross and going to church. Total fence pole sitters who make me sick. The people who argue and believe in their faith have much more of my respect because at least they are willing to fight for something and not just avoid conflict at the cost of 'self' identity. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"Solid response. I've offered the information and personal training services to no avail. I've just taken the approach of total apathy. But, they'll be getting a heavy bag and boxing gloves this X-Mas. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How to prepare for a talk about financesYeah dude, you're the king and you have to run your domain. The queen may not understand the why but as long as she gets how you will be fine. *I just realized I favor the King/Queen roles over Capt\FO model | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Passing this shit test: The "I've never enjoyed sex ..."Jesus dude, jump to hookers with your 3 month old at home and a wife who is at the prime stage of having a discussion on creating a more free and fun sex life? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"Finding masculine dudes is rare nowadays | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"I consider it my job to pick up and carry the torch a bit farther than he could have. Similar to how you have to supplant your woman's father, you must also supplant your own. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 10:33 PM |
| 3 | How to prepare for a talk about financesStay in control and be 110% confident in your plan. I did this with my wife and made her a part of the process. I set us a budget and showed her the timeline to being debt free. I got it to the point where my budget became 'her' budget and she was the one telling me updates of how well 'her' plan was working. My wife has always been in charge of bills and we've always been on point. I just wanted to get rid of excess cards that have received minimum payments for too long. She felt a part of the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Passing this shit test: The "I've never enjoyed sex ..."She knows how to cum - often comes more often than I. Are you the one who is making that happen for her. Nowhere does this post say if you have good or bad sex life | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently.Oh. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 09:43 PM |
| 11 | Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently.Dude, I kept reading, thinking something was going to bring it together. Then I got to the end and put my phone down, wondering what in the actual fuck would possess someone to waste their time and energy typing this up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 09:43 PM |
| 11 | We outgrow our mothers, but not our fathers.I would disagree as I have outgrown everyone I looked up to. I view my father and FiL as peers. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 09:26 PM |
| 47 | Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently.Am I high, what the fuck is this? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"There's the issue, I am making my own rules. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"My father is also a 'bluepill' dude. The way I combat this is through breaking the constraints he places on people. He has told me obstacle course races are dangerous, writing a book is pointless, and men & women are equals. I disagree on each and my actions reflect. He says you can't do something so I correct him and say I'm already doing it and enjoying it. It is sad to see how much more he could get from life if he just took a step out of the cookie cut mold our feminized society put him in. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Get Over Your Relationship PTSDGlad you think so | /r/askMRP | 22/12/15 09:07 PM |
| 11 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"Reminds me of the first few weeks when returning from deployment. The only people you can really speak to are those that were with you. Everyone else, even family are just weird. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 07:37 PM |
| 11 | Best Red Pill Commercial ever - USA Swimming "The Walk"It's pathetic that this is viewed as a 'win'. The bar is so so pitifully low right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"But with your wife ? I'm not following, my wife is onboard my motivation & discipline train as are the kids. It's people outside my sphere of direct influence that are fucked up and I censor myself to. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 06:36 PM |
| 5 | TRP flashbackFor real dude, I view roadhead to be one of the greatest fucking things in the world, close to whiskey on the Shit I Love list. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 06:34 PM |
| 1 | TRP flashbacksolid point, we'll go with ego protection mode. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 06:31 PM |
| 4 | TRP flashbackIs it a bit exaggerated? Maybe, but the shit works and princess worship doesnt. As married men we need to realize that in order to get the girl you want, you have to treat her the way a guy who gets what he wants treats a girl. Your wife is not your's, it's just your turn. If you want her slobbing your cock on the way to parent teacher conferences, then you need to act like a man that gets that kind of action. If anyone tells me their wife "isnt like this" The guys who say this are the guys who … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/15 06:15 PM |
| 14 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"You know when you bite your tongue when some chick is harping on some feminists bs. Or when your mother (female family member) is being a hypocritical bitch regarding the treatment of women & men. Or when you buy your son a bb gun and someone says you're teaching him the wrong values in life (personal example). I am finding it harder and harder to hold back the words. Don't mistake this for anger, I'm not angry, this is the wrld and this is our society. But I am just tired of feeling a certain w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Wife cheats on husband due to lack of sex. Husband blames himself.It is on the man to mentally and physically fuck his wife. If you aren't giving her that dose of high emotion & high physical satisfaction she will find someone who else that will do the job. You have to do both. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 04:44 PM |
| 28 | Reaching your masculine "Singularity"The issue with this is one that I have faced several times. It's when your actions as a masculine man are in direct conflict (defiance) of the social norms around you. I've faced this with my own actions as well as my style of leadership for my clan (wife, two kids). If someone brings up a subject at a party and directly questions me I have been forced to choose to either show my true colors (red) or try to fit in and not make waves. The more you embrace your masculinity and walk your own path, … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Get Over Your Relationship PTSDI fear them because they can ruin my life if they wanted to. The entire universe is trying to kill you, these bitches can only hit you if you let them. Never trust a woman, never let her on the inside (your feelings are for your bros & your beer), and always vet the girl properly. This crazy chick is someone you let your guard down around. You should have recognized her crazy from the beginning. She taught you a valuable lesson, drop the match before it burns your fingers. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Overtime is overrated.OP: It wasn't the overtime that got this guy fucked, it was him. Absolutely | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/12/15 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Self destructTake action, file the papers, find something that you enjoy and invest in that. What do you want an internet forum to do for you? It's your life, you make the call of where you want it to go. | /r/askMRP | 21/12/15 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Overtime is overrated.It comes down to the guy. If you're the fucking man and are rocking your shit at work and it takes 60 hours a week away from home, you can still maintain a healthy marriage so long as you're a valuable enough male. He's older and fat He's different, if the dude who is working OT isn't making his wife feel then it doesn't take much, the bar is pitifully low. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/12/15 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Get Over Your Relationship PTSDmuch like the feminists, which will only reinforce that he does not feel the need to better himself or change. Your improvement is like a mirror that forces them to look at their mediocre existence/performance. I have no problem rocking my six pack and talking fitness in front of my fat friends and family (just one example). Men have repressed themselves for too long, it's time to end that. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Get Over Your Relationship PTSDI had written about this a while back and wanted to touch on it again. One of the classes I'm taking brought the subject back up and I found myself reading on PTSD again which led me down the RP path to rehashing the post with a larger audience who I believe needs to recognize what they are doing by constantly 'flashing back' to their blue pill selves. | /r/askMRP | 21/12/15 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill Truth from Leo Tolstoy (prominent Russian novelist of 19th century)This book is one of my all time favorites, it took me a while to read(a month) but it was worth it. The quote you provided is but one where I actually put the book down and let it really sink in. I go back and forth on whether I would take the same path if I knew then what I know now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/12/15 12:31 PM |
| 1 | The Christmas Season & The Family AlphaIt's up to you, some people will say you're a scrooge, but fuck them you walk your path alone. As for me, like I wrote, I follow the I give what I want to give, not what people want from me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/12/15 01:42 AM |
| 4 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?Expecting decent treatment? You will be treated according to the standard you accept. Fuck your birthday, it means nothing. You should command respect and 'decent treatment' at all times, regardless of what fucking day it is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Who do you think you are talking with?You seem to have missed the context and just wanted to say something about the photo. OP must show through action not words what he wants done. Or in your case write a lot of words about how you personally took the photo, that's cool too I guess. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 03:28 PM |
| 7 | An ultimate form of disrespect?Again, what do you care? Vet your girl before you marry her | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 04:09 AM |
| 14 | An ultimate form of disrespect?Better question, who cares? Each situation and heritage is unique | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Be unpredictableI'll look into it, thanks for the recommendation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Lessons in Frame ControlWomen will be women = AWALT rules the day That was the connection I was missing. Edit I'm also 'oldschool cool' with most things, but this year I found what I wanted on amazon, had them wrap it, and had my card personalized with my message. FYI - They won't write Fuck on a card so I had to one line their shit and rewrite FUCK to accurately get my point across when my wife opens the gift. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/15 07:06 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Lessons in Frame ControlNo matter how "alpha" you are, AWALT rules the day. What do you mean by this? Put my coat on the rack, glanced over at the packages on the table. I admit I shouldnt have looked at the package, but I am owning it and moving on Why again are you saying you shouldn't look at something left out? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/15 06:05 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Who do you think you are talking with?I call it 'Deck Plate' leadership (Navy term). You (the leader) have to put yourself in the hardest of situations so that when the men you lead (or family) look to you they know they cannot complain because you always have it worse. You work harder, later, and take responsibility for failure yet deflect praise to the worker. I may touch on the subject as Leadership is something I feel strongly about and failed/poor leadership is something that really gets to me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/15 03:30 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Her response to OI after Hard "No"You're a provider, not a tingle generator. I'm not going to break down your post as it's up to you to put in the work. that it may be my fault not hers It May be your fault? Keep letting that pill dissove | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/15 03:27 PM |
| 2 | TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the samebut if guys start posting videos in here for form checks then we've gone too far. agreed | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 04:58 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Who do you think you are talking with?were you a BOSS or a Leader For those who don't understand | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 04:56 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Who do you think you are talking with?I agree, but that doesn't matter what matters is that you show through action that you're a man with a plan. You can say you love your son all day and that you'll lead your family to the promised land, but until you show that, it's just words. Women talk, men do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 04:46 PM |
| 3 | TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the sameYour comment is spot on (except for the recommendation to put this type of post on the fitness subs.) especially concerning the water weight aspect to carbohydrates. The fact that the body retains more water in response to the increase of glycogen is one of the main reasons I tell people to not solely focus on the scale but rather the level of fitness. I don't get people 'skinny' nor do I promote the idea that skinny = healthy. I promote people getting 'fit'. Obviously the scale plays a role whe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 04:41 PM |
| 33 | [FR] Who do you think you are talking with?I was going to respond to your comment on my site but I'll just do it here. It's December 17th, why haven't you checked out used bikes on Craigslist/ebay/wherever? Your wife is stepping up to the plate because you're too busy sitting in the batter's box warming up. It's time to hit and if you aren't going to she will. You're getting mad at her for challenging you when it is clear that someone needs to get your ass in gear or else Christmas will arrive and there won't be any bike for little Don_P… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 04:04 PM |
| 7 | TRP flashbackShe doesn't love you the way you love her & the fact that most men haven't gotten their wife's 'best' are probably the most bitter aspects of the Pill. To have the fantasy of 'true love' destroyed sucks fucking balls. To realize your wife won't give you anal even though she loved it with Chad because you aren't masculine enough causes deep resentment. Guys need to use this rage as both fuel as well as the equalizer. Let the hate drive you to the truth and then from there let the hate bring you t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Why Open Relationships aren't "Relationships"Let me go further as there is no anger, fear, or anxiety left. Thats all gone. Absolutely, it just is. Life is happening, just take from it what you will and if someone else makes a shitty decision, that's not on you and it is not your responsibility to fix it. She cheats in any way, I leave. No rage, no arguing, it just happens. I had this discussion with my buddy who I learned was plugged the fuck in and a white knight with freshly polished armor. We somehow got on the topic of our wives findi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | The Christmas Season & The Family Alphathere's room to step up and take control. To a degree you have control over your wife's emotions as she is filling your 'vessel'. She is water and you are the container (think Bruce Lee) if you've got your shit on point, in turn she will also be good to go. The degree to which you are slipping in your role as the masculine leader equates to the degree of stress/bitch she displays. You fix you, it also fixes her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Why Open Relationships aren't "Relationships"It would be the match that blows the whole thing to bits This is where I am as well and this analagy (metaphor?) is perfect and one I will be using. The gasoline has been poured, the fuel is there, all that is needed is the ignition. My wife also knows that even the slightest of hints I see/discover/feel and this mother fucker is burning to the ground. Emotional, physical, I don't give a fuck if it is classified as spiritual. She invests in another man and that is fine by me, I'm already set to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 12:11 PM |
| 1 | The Christmas Season & The Family AlphaSome dude could buy a 500$ bracelet and still get the cold shoulder from his wife while another guy buys a 7$ board game and it blows his ladies mind and they have a great experiencd toghether. It comes down to the man and his relationship with his family. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | The Christmas Season & The Family AlphaI'm glad it helped. Remember that motivation is just a feeling. What is needed for true growth is improved self-discipline | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | The Christmas Season & The Family AlphaThat's the reason I started the blog. I wanted to present my message under my own format, I want a place to launch my book from, and sometimes I want to discuss 'NonMRP' related topics. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 02:52 PM |
| 1 | The Christmas Season & The Family AlphaI think it's a great blog, though I may be slightly biased. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 02:50 PM |
| 3 | The Christmas Season & The Family AlphaI'll be watching it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 02:49 PM |
| 5 | The Christmas Season & The Family Alphamine is just another day, and I'm only posting to show that you don't have to do the standard christmas rush either. I'm glad you posted this. People need to do their thing. Not mine, not yours, and not what the internet tells them. Like the guy who posted last week saying he liked to cook but was afraid it was 'beta'. Who the fuck cares?!?! If you find joy in that act, do it. Just do not display 'beta' behaviors as they can make anything appear weak. It all comes down to the approach taken by t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 01:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm thinking about swallowing the Red PillRead and internalize some shit before taking any action, especially after writing "I a not stand beig a beta to anyone, I want to go alpha and take the red pill. I know what you meant, but the effort here is minimal so don't start taking action will minimal knowledge and no game plan. Read more of the books, then more of the posts, then go to TRP and don't think of yourself as some special dude. Many guys have been where you are. The ones who find success are the ones who put in the work and onl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Be unpredictableThe deeper you go down the rabbit hole the more it just makes sense. Nobody has to learn ASL or anything about the deaf community, yet they live their entire lives in within the hearing community. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 08:12 PM |
| 3 | F$&@ing Santa's ReindeerDude, you just tell the kids that the elves were still building the reindeer and that you all could go together the next day. You failed by allowing her to lead, she took charge and apparently still views 'Daddy' as the man she turns to when shit is fucked up. You need to supplant Daddy. this battle is over, let it go and then improve. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Be unpredictableI did the deep breathe | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Be unpredictableIt's kinda like... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Be unpredictableDude... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Be unpredictableit gets her excited and frustrated... It gets her to feel. Too many wives are just numb to their existence because their husbands are complacent and still plugged the fuck in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 04:46 PM |
| 12 | Be unpredictableYou're a fucking asshole | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 04:41 PM |
| 7 | Be unpredictableYou do you, I knew she'd be interested so I let her know. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Need Xmas Gift Ideas for WifeI responded to his request. The story isn't that unique, it's just being able to connect a few dots. There were a few weeks between me telling her that I'd give her one and then actually giving it to her. It comes down to our ability as men to be both masculine and romantic. I was so happy to see her open it and then look to me with excitement and her big beautiful smile knowing exactly why I gave it to her. This doesn't follow the 'skittles' concept of her being happy at receiving anything. It … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Need Xmas Gift Ideas for WifeI had fucked her completely senseless one night. It was fucking amazing with multiple orgasms on both parts, pornstar performance, this shit was wild and definitely the longest most intense sex we’d ever had. It was because I had taken a BCAA shake before putting the kids to bed and then lifting. Well, I take Xtend Scivation BCAAs and it had me all sorts of jacked up which led to the fuck fest. After hours of pure physical bliss she was physically and mentally at peace while I was still ready to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 03:01 PM |
| 2 | X-Post r/RedPillFatherhood - The five C's Of FatherhoodI've witnessed exactly this and it is quite frustrating. I feel the same frustration when I see fat fuck beef-goblin parents feeding their kids processed bullshit and giving them sodas. I took a class that covered the 'cycle of poverty' and I fully believe there is also the 'cycle of hamplanets'. I try to take the stoic view of it being out of my control and therefore not something that should impact me, but it does. This shows that I still have a way to go in regards to my mental fitness. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/15 01:04 PM |
| 6 | Need Xmas Gift Ideas for WifeDude, you literally gave no information about your wife. How can anyone suggest anything that may work for you? I could literally tell you about a sweet ballet gift or how I once gave my wife a wrapped RedBull and it made her get the tingles. But how would that benefit you? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 03:31 PM |
| 14 | How to write a redpill Christmas card to your wifeI take every opportunity to fuck with my wife. I bought her running headphones, the card says Can you hear me now A hand mixer Let's mix it up Some purse thing that switches to some other purse thing It's a transformer A perfume I like that is expensive so she never buys for herself Fix your fucking musk New running shoes Not a transformer Treat your wife like the girl on the playground that you used to tease because you wanted her before you knew you even wanted girls. Don't treat her like she'… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 12:06 PM |
| 1 | FR - How I blew up my life and came out the other end happy.There are a million other ways to nuke a marriage, people don't exactly need help figuring out how to do that I think you missed my point. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/15 04:10 AM |
| 1 | FR - How I blew up my life and came out the other end happy.Do you mean in general or on MRP? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/15 03:58 AM |
| 8 | Dealing with shame/guilt about masculinity/assertiveness/successThe "little boy" inside of me I think is saddened by seeing me become what I always repressed Remind yourself that the 'little boy' should never have existed. Either embrace your masculinity or go back to being what you think the world wants you to be. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/15 01:02 AM |
| 2 | FR - How I blew up my life and came out the other end happy.Actually that is a solid point I hadn't considered. I would have to say that it is my dominant presence that still makes her turn to me for financial questions. Sort of the 'ask dad' mentality she has with me. She doesn't buy shit because she know we have a budget, but when she wants to get an extra expense or whatever she always comes to me letting me know and asking if I agree/give her permission. Sometimes yes and sometimes no, never a cruel no, always a no followed by why. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 10:31 PM |
| 5 | FR - How I blew up my life and came out the other end happy.It wasn't this particular post but one from a while back where a dude just used the 12 steps to become a fucking asshole and nuke his marriage, I had a What the fuck?! moment. Then there were a few recently that made me think of your creation of the 12 steps and Oppenheimer's quote I am become death, the destroyer of worlds. except people are using your creation to nuke marriages instead of using it to save them and reclaim a sense of 'self' in the process. The book certainly will help you feel … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageWell, is the contrapositive true though? Yes. Do you think that showing less commitment to his disgusted mom/wife is going to solve the dead bedroom? I view it as he just goes AMOG MGTOW (fucking Acronyms, this place is worse than the Navy) and then he doesn't lose anything as he doesn't really have anything at this point. On top of that the time spent on self reflection will result in improved attraction. Depends on the guy and whether he chooses the strong or weak path when he decides to stop … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageYes, it's fine to devalue sexuality in your relationship. I wasn't devaluing it for my marriage, I was devaluing it for all marriages. If you are only fucking your wife yet are fucking up in every other aspect, your marriage is fucked. Except for maybe that couple who represents the .00001% | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageI agree with your post now my comment was on the original where you clearly stated, that women tend to fuck their husbands more if they perceive him as be committed to the marriage. This is what I disagree with the most, yet for some marriages it is accurate, as a whole not so much. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageYou make your own list, this one is mine. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageSex is not the end all be all of a healthy marriage. Women can lay there getting fucked every day for months and be looking for an outlet, someone to sweep them off their feet. Sure, they fuck their husband - but they are checked the fuck out. The dynamics between a husband and wife must go beyond the intimacy of sex. A healthy marriages, in my eyes has the following: You genuinely laugh together and enjoy one another's company. You push each other to improve. She shit tests to keep you on point… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageThat's part of the reason I edited the original post. You basically rewrote your entire OP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageI'm not saying the study is perfect/imperfect, I'm saying some weaksauce betafuck isn't going to get more sex by showing he's more 'committed'. He will get more sex by being a dude who makes women want to fuck him. edit If you haven't read the study, then you have very little to contribute. So I'm assuming you're directing this to me because I said I only read the abstract. Go with what works, not what this study says. If some guy reads your post and says, hmm I'm in a dead bedroom, maybe I need… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageDude, I'm 2 classes into my MS and you and /u/viciousfrilledlizard hooked me up big time with these resources. Much appreciated to the two of you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Male commitment and sexual frequency in marriageI will go ahead and disagree, I couldn't get to the full study without paying, so just going off the abstract I think it's BS. Two studies of newly married couples I wouldn't put my faith in these two new studies. I will let you know what leads to increased sexual frequency. Optimal levels of dread, Alpha, Beta, and looking good naked. Add to that appropriate kino and game and your wife will be a leaking faucet every day of the month. The Red Pill gives you the tools. It's your responsibility as… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 06:23 PM |
| 6 | Why does it seem like all women are blamed for the actions of a few?I figured as much, but every now and again I'll engage someone just to see if even for a moment they will take an objective look at reality and if only for a second, unplug from the machine that's feeding them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 05:53 PM |
| 7 | Why does it seem like all women are blamed for the actions of a few?I don't see that to be the case in a majority of TRP posts. I think you found one or maybe two posts like that and are forming your opinion on the very very small minority vice the majority. I assume you did this to make your post a little 'flashier', yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Why does it seem like all women are blamed for the actions of a few?People don't just blame women, they also blame the white knights (men). People don't say all women divorce rape their husbands, they say the laws make that a likely outcome in the event of divorce. Why do you bring the example of one story with the woman killing her husband and then say that 'TRPillers' and I'm assuming you mean all of those subscribed to TRP actually think all women are out to kill their husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Shit test help neededFor what it's worth, I believe you can save your marriage if you want to. Just stop being a fuck. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 04:40 PM |
| 3 | FR - How I blew up my life and came out the other end happy.If you're not keeping your woman on some kind of financial leash that she willingly adheres to, she's going to fuck up your financial life. I created a budget and implemented it in a manner that made my wife think she came up with the idea. I just smiled and kissed her and told her good job. What led to this was the exact point you raised. I was watching my single brother who makes less $ rack up savings and buying what he wanted when he wanted. I didn't envy this aspect of his life, but I did r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 04:39 PM |
| 9 | FR - How I blew up my life and came out the other end happy.Somewhat personal question, do you feel anything when people misuse the steps? Or are you indifferent as each male is to do their own thing? I feel like the 12 steps have recently become something they were never intended to be, a justification to go fucking crazy instead of a strategic implementation of a steady increased pressure on the wife and personal growth as 'rediscovery' of masculinity by the husband. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 04:34 PM |
| 10 | Shit test help neededI enjoy cooking and am a better cook than she and thus do most of the cooking - not sure if this is beta shit to get rid of or not If you enjoy it then how is it 'beta shit'? You still don't grasp the concept that you have to do what you want and take from life what you will. fucking cook if you want to or don't, but don't ask if it's weak to do something you enjoy as that is fucking gay and unmanly. Our relationship has a different element than a lot of others, as we own two businesses together… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Short FR on Wife watching me Calm her Friend downGood to go; I'm glad that's the answer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Women communicate with DishonestyThat's the second time you've told me of your 'success in the field'. Now I guess my 'limited capacity' keeps my mental foresight from going beyond what I had for breakfast (only coffee, I was going to make eggs but we only had 2 in the fridge and my kids were up because my wife had to open today, so I decided to cook the eggs for them, but I digress) it has always seemed odd to me that guys harp their success without being asked or even slightly challenged on their achievements. You voluntarily… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Women communicate with DishonestyGo back to your ugly girls. I will and I'll love them for their feminine ugly selves. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Women communicate with DishonestyI'm not sure English is your primary language, but you seem to be a little fucked up. Many women are probably better than men, but I would say, at the very least, conceptually men and women would have to be more or less equal. Game aside. What in the actual fuck are you talking about here. The 'community' has grown soft? What fucking community, this internet forum? How about you take a moment to reflect on the fact that you seem upset that women are women and that they think like women. Instead … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 01:01 PM |
| 0 | Women communicate with DishonestyOK, so what? The cognitive dissonance of women has been discussed quite in depth, what specifically is the point of this post? Women are women, love them for their hypergamous & solipsitic nature; don't expect them to think and act like men. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Short FR on Wife watching me Calm her Friend downWe had to go home at that point but my wife had her hand down my pants on the way home and was talking about how intense the interaction was. She asked me if I wished she was more of a drama queen so we would have really intense confrontations like that. Do you get her to experience high/intense emotions? This is unrelated to your FR and more focused on the fact that the worst thing you can do to a woman is bore her. You may have your marriage dialed in, I'm just asking the question: Do you make… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill life making faithfulness a challengesolid point | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Wife Found Me on TinderTo me apology means 'I'm sorry' and I am saying to not say that, to her because you aren't sorry for doing it, you're sorry for getting caught. You did it for a reason, own that reason and move forward. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill life making faithfulness a challengeI view every aspect of life through the 'Red Lens' and this subject is going to get all the shades of blue, red, purple, and pink. You get one life, if you want to divert energy towards maintaining a chick on the side, then be discreet and understand the high risk (getting caught) and high reward (the feeling of conquest only another pussy can provide). You won't get that high from your wife, but you also have a sure thing with her. If you want to do it, none of us are here to judge, you are you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Wife Found Me on TinderWhy would she be angry if you told her that you did it because you were seeking attention and that no, you didn't hook up with anyone and that you're glad you were both able to reach a healthy marriage before things crumbled? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 08:08 PM |
| 3 | /u/Archwinger. Women are as shitty as you let them beThe answer to that question will always be that she gives what her husband deserves. She'd clean more if that was his standard, she'd fuck more if she was afraid he'd find someone better, if he improved, she would. If she improves, he will probably remain the same. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Swing into the New Yearthis is awesome and I watched it for a minute straight | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 06:48 PM |
| 12 | /u/Archwinger. Women are as shitty as you let them beRemember, she's not a bitch, you're just a shitty container This is where I (and apparently you) rub a lot of guys the wrong way. We place almost 100% of the blame on the man. This post and that quote capture why we do this. You the man in the deadbedroom allowed it, you allowed her to not work, cook, clean, etc. It all went to shit because you as the man, did not do your job because if you had, she would have been a less shitty woman. This isn't directed at you OP, but rather the hundreds of du… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] MRP "Deload"Being a Man with a Plan is essential to being The Family's Alpha. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 06:36 PM |
| 3 | [FR] MRP "Deload"Fuck MRP's opinion on whether you should apologize. You make that call and You know if it's the right one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 06:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] MRP "Deload"Not even that, you decided to just stop working on improving yourself. Postpartum, I stopped the gym and backslid into some more Beta behavior and attitudes. Remember, you're not doing any of this for your wife or kid. You have to make this an internal growth of 'self'. You've repressed your masculinity for so long that you're now viewing it as 'skill level'. There is no 'timeout' or 'taking a break' from being a man. You lead your household in a manner that promotes healthy relationships and th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Wife Found Me on TinderWhy an apology? This woman had him in a dead bedroom so he sought attention elsewhere. Apologizing seems like a very feminine thing to do. Maybe you're taking the approach that you need to only live in the moment like a woman, making her feel good now, but this shit is due to his inability to generate tingles and her shrewdness. No apologies needed, I say move on and don't make it a thing. OP I suggest BPP's option #1 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 06:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] MRP "Deload"I think this entire idea is garbage. Reflecting on progress and assessing situations to see what your current status is, is not deloading, it's called living. You should be looking over everything all the time, it's part of being a man. Your inability to maintain your fitness and mental progression means you were too weak, not that you needed to take your foot off the gas and do less. Your apology was a mistake, you should have just 'adjusted the sails' without saying anything to her. Just fix t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 06:09 PM |
| 9 | [FR] MRP "Deload"Live life as a masculine man and not someone implementing 'MRP'. You don't deload from being a man, you just keep being a man and doing what a man should do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 06:02 PM |
| 1 | X-Post r/RedPillFatherhood - The five C's Of FatherhoodIt's not dread and maybe that was poor wording on my part. What I meant was the way we refer to the 12 levels when it comes to laying dread in a relationship, I view this to be the guideline we will refer people to when raising kids. Are they the Cop when they should be the coach? Etc. I meant we should refer to it as a sort of tool to recalibrate the mind. Sometimes we think we should always be coaching when there comes a time to counsel. Does that make sense? Edit: I edited my OP as I can see … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/15 11:24 PM |
| 2 | What makes women have tinglesI see what you're saying and think there is some validity to it, but I can't get past how the female social matrix works. These chicks, even when they are among an all female group, will cater their message so as to fill their role and not make waves. What woman is going to talk about how she turns into a leaking faucet when her man tells her what to do, makes a firm decision, gets hit on by other women, or when he laughs in her face about the stupid shit she is worried about? I feel like stuff … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/15 03:37 PM |
| 4 | What makes women have tinglesWhy are we listening to what women say they want? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/15 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Swing into the New YearDude, I'd much rather see the gym packed with motivated guys than Dadbods galore. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Swing into the New YearHey man, I pushed the kettlebell challenge, the guys in the squat rack aren't on me | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Swing into the New YearI was dead serious. I don't use gloves and have chalk (bars/sticks?) but I've thought of getting a bowl for legit lifting chalk, someday. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Swing into the New YearI'm all about Pavel, dude is my comrade. I like your workout, I may use that this weekend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 03:52 PM |
| 15 | Your wife doesn't need to see you flirting or approaching other women for it to workWhen she sees other women ogling her high value man it reaffirms the notion that she has a 'good' catch. This reaffirmation leads to her wanting to keep that high value man, hence the no holds bar sex that usually follows. I no longer use active dread all that much. My presence and natural personality keep the consistent passive dread running through my wife's mind. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Swing into the New YearI use my daughter's chalk. My barbell and kettlebells are covered in green, blue, pink, and yellow - it's like a rainbow of chalk on my equipment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Swing into the New YearI try to keep the impression that willpower (discipline) is a muscle that you can work like any other. Absolutely, those guys who are looking to make 2016 The year, will be much better if they go into it with this type of accomplishment (or something like it) under their belt. The snowball effect of lifting is incredible. You lift, then question if what you're eating is beneficial to your lifting so you eat better, then you dial in your form and start putting up more weights, it's addictive - I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Swing into the New YearTraining vs Exercise Training: You have a goal and milestones in place to keep you progressing towards that goal. Exercise: Moving to move | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Swing into the New YearAgreed, the beauty the kettlebell provides is it's portability. Maybe there is an obese fatass lurking this sub, way too insecure and embarrassed to go the gym. Well, kettlebell in the basement, at the park, in your bedroom or backyard, etc. A shitty workout is better than no workout. So you're right, just getting there does something for you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 02:32 PM |
| 1 | [X Post] RP Fatherhood: Fathering Girls/u/RPcoyote and I posted on the same subject 8 minutes apart, it was pretty cool(and weird). /r/RedPillFatherhood is still looking to get content and RP Dads to the sub as posts such as RPC's are vital to any Dads out there raising ladies. Here is my Version of the Same Subject: Dads & Daughters | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 01:28 PM |
| 3 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.by them sensing our strength, they just feel permission to release their sexuality to an alpha. This is the basis form which I'm building my post. It's going to be a longer one, but I hope it's worth it. Women can become whatever it is they need to be to get what they want. It takes a very confident and a very masculine (a True Red Pill Man) to allow a woman to remove the mask of 'becoming what she needs to be' and actually being what who she's meant to be. the difference is subtle, but the conc… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 12:27 PM |
| 11 | Dominance Moves that get her wet- from the worlds most popular male porn star: Yareally shows us what to do (yes it works, I tried some of them already)....Dominant Porn Star - Chicks Love him 'BDSM' Book '50 shades' - Chicks love it Ask a chick if they want a dominant man - crickets. Follow their actions, not their words. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 12:08 PM |
| 6 | Dominance Moves that get her wet- from the worlds most popular male porn star: Yareally shows us what to do (yes it works, I tried some of them already)....I endorse this message. I can get my wife to let out this giggle/moan any time I place my palm against the back of her neck and use my thumb and fingers to deeply massage (arouse) my wife. I'll do it when we're out, at dinner, wherever and she just can't help herself. The difference between successfully pulling this off and creating an awkward scenario is the man's level of confidence. You can't stutter or tremble. Just let those rough, firm, and steady hands have their way with your wife's neck… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 12:06 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.Making a slut out of a virgin is a very dangerous game. If she's your wife I doubt she's a virgin. If you mean metaphorically as in a virgin to crazy sex, then understand your point a little better. If a man is willing to unleash the beast, he better be ready to tame it and dominate it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/15 01:29 AM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.I like the picture you painted for me | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.As long as you have it figures out it's all gravy. I was initially looking at it in the same manner people talk about Rob Gronkowski. Dude is a stud, star NFL football player, acts like a goofball, and bangs hot women. People were getting on him saying he needed to 'grow up & mature'. Fuck That He is young and living his life. The difference I missed was that while Rob Gronkowski parties he is also intensely focused on his craft. Nutrition is dialed in, workouts dialed in, time for film is allot… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 09:43 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.I think this is where you and I would have to disagree. I truly believe that each dude is going to do his own thing. If I think it's fucked up and retarded but he thinks it's legit, so be it. I cannot pass judgement as I'm not walking in those shoes. Who are you guys to tell him to give up his dreams? That's the message that's been pushed for far too long. Let men dream, let them walk to the beat of their own drum. Just don't let it affect you. As for his lady, if she's such a catch he's been do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.We'd do well, my humor is to play off my surroundings and what people give me to work with. As far as other people who have healthy marriages, I don't know of any. I plant seeds, but the dudes never follow through. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.Then we probably went to Walmart Target Welcome to my life | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 07:20 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.That's an excellent tactic to employ. Again, all of this depends on the woman. What works for you won't work for me and vice versa, but the overall application is universal. The way I game and you game may be entirely different, but using game is necessary for all. My lady is the boss at her work, but my submissive wife at home. She loves the transition and tells me how sometimes after she has to be very direct or 'mean' at work, she thinks of me bending her over a table. She associates me with … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 07:12 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.The guys who get IV drip-feed sex, just enough to keep them from complaining are not the men who are owning their shit. Just Enough is much higher for the dude who is shredded and owning his red pill masculine life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 06:57 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.I've never read the Surrendered Wife but I've seen BPP mention it a few times around here. What I view to be more important is that you and your wife are doing this together, I think that is a great investment of your time and energy. I went through the Stoic Readings (The Meditations, the Enchiridion, and Letters from a Stoic) with my wife and it was really beneficial for us. It helped her understand my view on a lot of things and it helped her learn how to process the stress in her life from f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 06:49 PM |
| 3 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.Your wife jumps on you and says Fuck me in the ass daddy I've been a bad girl would you call that convenience or desire? I don't see the point you're making. Maybe I'm retarded, idk. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 06:40 PM |
| 2 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.We're men, so I think it's best to communicate in a way we were designed to communicate, overtly. My wife initiates from time to time, but it was only after I sat her down and very directly told her that I am always ready for sex. I have completely removed the 'taboo' associated with sex and let her know that if she is thinking of my cock, to let me know. She straight up, during a movie yesterday said, "TrainingTheBrain, I want your cock in my mouth. I love how hard it gets" YMMV but making her … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 06:24 PM |
| 2 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.I don't buy it that women need it rough all the time. Not to mention we have sex nearly every day, and again, not starfish. I agree 100% with this. I cannot tell you the last time I went a day without blowing my beauty fluid all over or in her. Every single day we do something. But, not every day is it hardcore balls to the wall. There have been times where I just grabbed her, carried her to the room, and took my sweet time before 'penetration' then it was just close, slow, deep eye contact 'lov… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 06:08 PM |
| 3 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.I believe the pinnacle of a woman's life is a well run family, with heavy emphasis on quality family time and relationship. That is her anal to put it concisely. I'd add to this that she craves a man who allows her to just cruise through life basking in her feminine energy. If you're a man who she can show off and get that external validation everywhere she goes and you fuck her like a caveman, pushing her to improve and pulling her back in when the world gets too tough. She'll want that rough a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 05:53 PM |
| 6 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.This is why I felt the post needed a follow up of 'creating the slut' because there are guys who are sitting on a sex vixen who just needs to have that door unlocked for her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 05:19 PM |
| 1 | On Absence in the relationshipThat door is for Dogs, Beer, and Bros only. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | On Absence in the relationshipA man's mission should never be his wife. She's welcome to join the journey, but she is not the journey. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 04:26 PM |
| 3 | On Absence in the relationshipQuality > Quantity I like the point /u/IanIronwood brings up in one of his posts where he discusses that people don't 'miss' each other enough. Make your wife value your time and attention by showing her that you are in control of it and that your commitment, like your attention, is not a guaranteed thing but must be earned. You'll eventually get to the point where you laugh in your wife's face, make fun of her, and she comes running to you like a leaky faucet. Tease her like boys do at the play… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | If you want a slut, find one or create one.My next post on the subject is rather lengthy and gets to the specifics, but this list is something that's helped a few guys. I only advise on tried and tested methods. These things worked for me YMMV. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/12/15 02:42 PM |
| 1 | X-Post - r/RedPillFatherhood: Fathers and SonsAbsolutely. Some guys let themselves get twisted up over things that are completely out of their control. We should instead channel our energies towards what we can control. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/15 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersThose are the guys I hope the ripple effect of TRP reach. Repression of masculinity has gone on long enough. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/15 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and CustodyAre you asking how to properly vet a woman? If so TheRedPillRoom already has several pieces on exactly this subject and they are well worth the time needed to read them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/15 01:23 PM |
| 3 | X-Post - r/RedPillFatherhood: Fathers and SonsTake what benefits you and disregard the rest. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | X-Post - r/RedPillFatherhood: Fathers and SonsI agree with incorporating MRP into the TRP sub, but that is for the Mods to push forward. As for it becoming a cesspool, you're just in a different phase of the game of life. If I was a single 20 year old I wouldn't be on MRP. I'd be at TRP learning how I could be a masculine male getting the most from life (too include pussy) to the grave. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/12/15 09:31 PM |
| 20 | I passed this hilarious of all shit tests last night, god bless TRP (FR)Solid fucking response. Immersion in the moment is what matters. Enjoy every fucking second and don't give the past or future any of your energy (except for setting goals to keep progression) as the one has passed and the other isn't guaranteed to arrive. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Ny puts a cap on divorce rapeIchose to gladly support her for a time while she got on her feet and adjusted to this new life. This is the path my wife and I also almost took. I straight up told her she couldn't survive on her own so I'd pay for her car and bills for the year or she got a higher paying full time job. We agreed on a mutual arrangement of funds that would streamline the process and have the least impact on the kids. We didn't get divorced but had we, it would have been civil. That is a rarity and my point was … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Ny puts a cap on divorce rapeSame here, what ended up working out for us was that she got a job as a daycare assistant director so the kids get 1/2 off tuition (it's still a shit ton of money) and her check counts for more than just filling the cars with gas. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 04:38 PM |
| 19 | Ny puts a cap on divorce rape“I’d have my trial right now, if I were them,” Mayerson said. “Otherwise they could have real problems getting a fair maintenance.” Fair 'maintenance', these wives who haven't worked for the past x amount of years have enjoyed their status of living due to the work of their husband. If they choose to leave this man, why in the actual fuck do they get to keep that standard of living? I understand, it's Marriage 2.0 but where the fuck is the logic? Oh, that's right, it doesn't apply because our fe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?Too often people are caught in the 'hype' of keeping up. There is something to be said for simplicity. It carries a negative bias but simple is efficient, any excess is merely cause for stress. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?In turn I gave her commitment. Reward good behavior | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 11:55 AM |
| 8 | Flashback TRP....what if she cheated?The less you show you love them, the more they love you... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?What have you done to correct this behavior? Ever talk to her about it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?I learned early on that it's what I did when noone was watching that defined who I was as a man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersI intentionally pick fights sometimes, just so I can lay down some witty remark and take her to pound town. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?about not living your life because you are on Facebook. about not living your life because you are on Facebook. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?There's no nerve to be hit, it's reddit. What I despise is redundancy without progress, you're still honed in to not labeling social media as 'bad'. Which is exactly what I didn't do, but alas, it makes no difference. You do you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?now preaching from the high ground that social media is bad and you aren't living you a quality/fulfilling life if you care about how many likes you get, post selfies, etc. She isn't preaching shit, she doesn't like to talk about it. I asked her because guys here asked me. Who said social media was bad? Again, you are too fucking dense to comprehend that this is directed to those who are allowing this vice to be detrimental to their mental health. A growing problem in society. If it doesn't appl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?By definition, most people are addicted to the "scroll". You're on some next level shit. Whose definition? I made 'The Scroll' up, it's my word for that behavior. Following your logic then being addicted to the 'scroll' means that they are not 'merely passive'. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?was his use of logic Very true, an issue I face from time to time is that I think my wife thinks the way I do. She doesn't, none do. MRP is my reminder of that | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | The Tyranny of BiomechanicsDude... fucking gross beef goblins. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 06:15 PM |
| 1 | The Tyranny of BiomechanicsDude, I just finished my finals for a class that had me write a 20 page paper on a topic of my choice. Naturally I chose my disdain for childhood obesity. Do you know it is costing billions to deal with these fat fucking fucks? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?This post isn't for the 'passive wives', it's for those in the same situation of social media overdrive EDIT The title of this post is Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'? Do you see anything that indicates I'm referencing those who don't have an issue? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?Absolutely, she noticed and decided my attention was worth more than anything else. It's satisfying to see my wife (all of our wives) improve because of the raised standard. A good masculine captain gets his crew to do something he wants done because they want to do it | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?Your case is different than most No, it isn't. My wife wasn't losing her mind and yelling. I just recognized she paid too much attention to pointless shit. I hold everyone to a standard, to include my wife, kids, and basically anyone in my life. You miss the standard, you are warned, consistently sub par, you are out. I don't need time vampires in my life, bring value or GTFO. In regard to my wife, she brings value, but I knew she could do better and would do better without this distraction. The… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 05:55 PM |
| 8 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?We have different views on our job. I knew my wife would do better with less social media, so I invested time in energy to getting her to a place where she felt and performed better. I don't ignore sub-par performance, I correct it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?You are using your jealous, self-absorbed wife as an example of what most women are like? Negative, I'm using her as an example for the other jealous(?) self-absorbed women. EDIT The people posting selfies are not self-absorbed. Are you representing 'The People'? and did you miss this point I clearly made to differentiate between those who use it to log there life online for others to see and those who think a little too much about how they're doing online? "If you can use it without abusing it,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?The Scroll doesn't bring people together - it keeps them apart. Should have been my slogan | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?I think the real question you need to ask is why is there such a hole in your wife's life that needs filling by this social media addiction? I get women love instant validation and all, but just as we would tell a guy: she should have things that take up her life where she doesn't have to try to stay off social media. You hit the nail on the head. When I noticed myself getting frustrated with her incessant need to 'keep up' with everyone, I realized it was a failure on my part. I was failing to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Facing Despair - Memoirs of a "natural alpha"I took the approach of remaining a masculine man in marriage. Granted I knew nothing of Marriage 2.0 or I wouldn't have done it, but I did and have never been a beta fuck through any of it. I got married as a Masculine male and have remained so through it all. You have to find comfort in the discomfort. Embrace the rage you feel, use it as fuel. Being depressed does nothing, this is how the world works, why should it be different? Because you want it another way? I understand that as men we are … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 04:26 PM |
| 5 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?I've seen it in the comments of several posts. It is a problem, yet one everyone is fine with, similar to repressed masculinity. The validation women receive on Facebook is ridiculous and it sets this unreal expectation that they are 'succeeding' at life. Yet they aren't, and when Facebook doesn't carry over to the 'real world' depression and anxiety kick in. Not to mention the white knights who are just waiting for their chance to show that they are a 'Nice Guy' and support whatever bs message … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersWhat's best is she'll give me a playful slap on the the arm or leg, then ask me if I'm hungry and what she can get me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersToo bad, he had potential to break away from his social conditioning to actually learn something here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersLooks like we still haven't reached the bottom of this rabbit hole. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersI'm honest to her I think this is often a lost point in MRP. To be honest, until you just said it I don't think I've chosen this word and any of my posts. But it's the exact word that is needed. As we all reclaim our masculine nature and no longer try to fit into the feminized 'cookie cut' mold that we've been shoved into, we become more honest with who we are as men. We then share this honesty with those around us. Our wives, waitresses, boss, whomever we deal with, we are honest. The most impo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersWe're talking about fucking wives and whether she views you as someone she wants to fuck. Are you saying that there is nothing a man can do to get out of his dead bedroom? If you say that there are steps he can take, would you then say that he became a man who deserved sex? What would you say VFL? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersThat's a solid point and a topic worth delving deeper into. Removing the filters that have been in place for so long, created by the female imperative and installed into guys mind from day 1. As guys develop their sense of 'self' and reclaimed masculinity, they'll notice that they no longer give a shit whether people see them for their true colors (Primarily Red) and therefore they stop catering their message to 'fit in'. One of the 48 laws of power touches on this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersYou either are or you are not a man whose wife wants to fuck you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersSex should be openly discussed, it shouldn't be cause for shame. Just as repressing masculinity leads to suicide, mass shooting, a generation of 'men' who don't know who or what to be - repressed sexuality leads to these same detrimental results. All you want is sex - False, I also like food. We should own it, make it just as large a part of who we are as lifting, being competitive, and having dominant personalities. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersDude, every day. I like to grab my wife, pull her in, spin her out, then pick her up on the counter. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Some husbands deserve sex more than others/r/redpillfatherhood I will be posting more on my blog www.thefamilyalpha.com More than any of these, be the example for them to follow. You set the standard, they act as you teach them to. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersBut deserves is a loaded word that will mean something else to some people I see your point, but would counter it with being ripped is only one aspect to this game. It's the reason we tell guys No shit your wife won't fuck you, you don't deserve to be fucked by her. When your wife has to wear the captain hat and captain pants and play the role of masculine leader, she'll resent the shit out of you. You don't deserve her pussy because you've become a sniveling man child who cannot find his own ma… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersOthers had it given to them I know of so few guys who were given that 'easy life' that I would not even factor them into the #'s. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersI had to google 'Tautology', solid choice of word. I guess my point was you can become a man who gets the attraction from your wife that you desire, by working for it. I regret the choice of word 'deserve', in my mind you get what you give. Therefore you get what you feel you 'deserve' when you're at the level of a man who gets that goal(sex, attention, whatever). I understand the confusion but won't be editing, deserve stands. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersMost guys have no idea how to touch their own wife in a way to generate sexual tension. This is one of the best pieces of advice MRP is putting out there. As men we're prone to overt communication, but when you master covert kino, she'll be dripping and not know why. Also, there is always the pick her ass up which produces flood like results. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersher thumb did a little, almost imperceptible brushing of the skin on my chest. Listening to her body | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Some husbands deserve sex more than othersLook at it from the angle of seeing two dudes. One is a fat slug and the other is shredded and well put together. I would argue one deserves more than the other because he worked harder. Obese people deserve discomfort Some husbands deserve their solid marriage, they worked for it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Flashback TRP postHow often do we see guys get out of deadbedrooms only to take their foot off the gas and end up worse than when they started. Improve,then keep improving. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Divorce and CustodyNah, dudes are hairy and smell like shit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 05:03 AM |
| 6 | Flashback TRP postIf I can just never flinch and walk tall with my head up and go to the gym 6 days a week and force myself to pretend I’m an alpha for long enough, then my disney princess will love me for me and I’ll finally stop having to try. I’ll finally get to be the lazy piece of shit I always wanted to be. Spot the fuck on. There is no end to this, manly living is who we are and what we do. Complacency is for the fucking fucks who can't grasp the concept that you don't act RedPill, you are RedPill(Masculin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Flashback TRP postRegular removal of physical touching and mental attention is key | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 02:44 AM |
| 1 | The Tyranny of BiomechanicsDude, MRP turned me on to FPH and I had the same experience there as I did here. That overwhelming joy that only comes when you realize you are not alone. Just like there are other masculine husbands, there are also hundreds of people who hate fat people as much as I do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Divorce and CustodyYou will get your feminine woman provided you are a through and through masculine man. AWALT is real brother, there are no women who will love you the way you want them to. There are no women who will love you the way you love them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 10:04 PM |
| 3 | "Don't Hate Women For Being Women"I've written a few posts on the topic as well and it comes down to the same thing. Women are women, stop expecting them to think and act like men. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 08:52 PM |
| 10 | "Don't Hate Women For Being Women"We all deserve the truth. What truth? The message of TRP is waking guys up, opening their eyes if you will. But women didn't create the mess we're in, whiteknight weaksauce men did. These men live this way because they're too weak to face the harsh reality, so they live in the weaksauce society we have. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 08:49 PM |
| 6 | "Don't Hate Women For Being Women"This comes up quite a bit at MRP as well. Guys are mad at their wives for shit testing and do womanly things. They are the yin to our yang. Feminine women are fucking beautiful. Even with their solipsitic hypergamous nature they are fucking beautiful. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 08:41 PM |
| 11 | "Don't Hate Women For Being Women"Don't you ever feel resentment towards them? Why would you? Do you feel resentment to men for being men? Easy women are just so fucking boring. and water is wet, why does that bother you? You should just do you and not worry about shit that doesn't bring value to your life. If a whore is a whore, ok be the next dude to fuck her or ignore her entirely. The only people in your life are the ones you allow in. Friends, family, FWB you are the gatekeeper to all of these people when it comes to your t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and CustodyEvery man who is unplugging/unplugged you must constantly be evaluating the state of the relationship and the health of the marriage. Some women aren't worth staying married to, absolutely correct. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and CustodyPretty bad when your child says they wish they never had to go back to their mother's house again. That's brutally heartbreaking. but once that ring was on... Well you know the story. I think had you found MRP/TRP early you'd have a different tone in this regard. She wouldn't have gone off the rails because you'd have owned your shit and been a man that kept her hamster in check, live and learn - her loss. I hope everything goes smooth for you dude. Remember that your contentment is in no way li… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Divorce and Custodywell that was implied, but yes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Divorce and CustodyI followed the same line of thought but decided that there are situations here on MRP where the 'Pill' is found and swallowed too late in the path of destruction. This post is for those who are past the point of return. With that said, I agree that there is always a chance for the marriage to be salvaged if the Man is willing to put in the work and is doing it for himself | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The complexity is simple.I'm glad you brought this up because it is a distinction I think I need to more clearly relay through my writing. By making fun of my wife more, I'm working on my marriage. By lifting and skipping snacks, I'm working on my marriage. By generating my own happiness and making it clear that I will be happy and moving forward with or without her, I am working on my marriage. I see your point and agree that if I were to push this message, a majority of guys would think I was saying, Talk to your wife… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 12:42 PM |
| 3 | The Timing and Buildup of Initiating Sexual ActivitySolid points dude. I've brought it up time and again on here: enjoy sex, have fun with it, do whatever you want except plan it and make it a thing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/11/15 11:56 PM |
| 4 | The Timing and Buildup of Initiating Sexual ActivityShe wants to submit to a strong leader of the family, but she won't until she sees you as one. Read it all, apply it all, and keep what works. There have been many times where my only response to guys asking why they got shut down is with BECAUSE YOU'RE A FUCKING FUCK WHO IS FUCKING UP IN ALL ASPECTS OF FUCKING AND THE PREPARATION OF FUCKING. But there is still some 'nice guy' in me and I explain away the reasons for failure and ways to improve...fucking pussy self. These are some solid foundati… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/11/15 11:51 PM |
| 2 | The complexity is simple.The Yin-Yang is spot on when you view it as masculine and feminine. They compliment one another, they are the sums that create the whole. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/11/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | The complexity is simple.I like your perspective, I'll be mentally chewing on that for a bit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/11/15 10:02 PM |
| 1 | The complexity is simple.MRP really is that simple. In regards to that post, Im glad you like it when I read the message I laughed and said fuck that let's get this out of the way while the blog is just starting up | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/11/15 08:41 PM |
| 2 | The complexity is simple.All are yin-yang and all of these are necessary to achieve advancement and avoid stagnation. I actually have a portion of the book covering exactly this. It's the same reason I get on guys here who get mad when their wife is being...dare I say it...a WOMAN. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/11/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What is the Family Alpha?Glad to hear it, I'm hoping to improve with every new piece. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/11/15 11:22 PM |
| 24 | With Friends Like These....It's truly incredible, the assumption that if you're single you must be desperate for a relationship, but just can't find one. I agree and see the same thing in the married world. There is this aburd assumption that because some dude is in a sexless marriage that all dudes are in a sexless marriage. I was at a Hallowen party for my son's flag football team and my wife was shitfaced with some other moms out on the dance floor. One of the other coaches says to me, Hey TrainingTheBrain, looks like … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 07:26 PM |
| 3 | The real MRP and youI recently wrote a post on exactly this (Is it starting to make sense yet?) Men are not born, they're made. We were all born with the potential and expectation (from nature) to become Men. Unfortunately society got in the way. That makes no difference, if you're reading MRP then you are able to become the man you were intended to be. It takes work, it takes choosing the hard path over the easy one, and it takes strategic implementation of the praxeology known as The Red Pill. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/15 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Any books on how to maintain an awesome long term relationship? Or any tips in general?Sort MRP by TOP-ALL then begin reading every post and the discussions they generated. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/15 12:26 PM |
| 1 | What is the Family Alpha?I agree and that is much appreciated | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/15 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What is the Family Alpha?What else is on your blog list? I am looking to eventually create a resources page. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 09:01 PM |
| 3 | What is the Family Alpha?Like you said, it's day by day. We always have a choice, weak or strong. We just have to continuously take the strong path. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 09:00 PM |
| 4 | What is the Family Alpha?Every resource out there is another opportunity for guys to get out of the 'matrix' and actually enjoy being a masculine man in today's feminized society. This photo perfectly captures why I write on here, created a blog, and am writing the book. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What is the Family Alpha?It's the reason I shifted from TRP to more MRP focused posts. My niche is masculine married men. It's what I know and where I want to direct my attention. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 01:50 PM |
| 2 | What is the Family Alpha?Keep reading and applying, you'll get the results you want if you put in the work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressKeep looking forward. Looking back on how things could have been different is weaksauce. You have right now and the future, make the most of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 04:12 AM |
| 0 | I reject a lackluster BJ -ends in fightDriving long distances, working 50 + hr weeks. Needless to say sex, for both of us is not a high priority due to the exhaustion we both feel Failure of leadership man, you need to make time. As /u/[deleted] said, these are excuses WE ARE ALL BUSY AS FUCK She's very good at doing it - not always when I want but thats fine because Ive become outcome independent Outcome Independence does not mean you accept sub par performance. after two days of promises for a BJ You don't plan that type of shit, l… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I found a great and easy technique to handle even the toughest issues.Dominant > Domineering You want to command respect, not fear. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good Progress"Fail to prepare and you're preparing to fail" HYDRATE!! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 01:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Making Good ProgressDude, my wife made Buffalo Dip last night... I feel like a fat sack of shit right now. Certain foods give me the same feeling Oysters give you. I try to stay away, but sometimes they come out on top and I just roll away from the table - or explode | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 01:21 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Making Good ProgressEnjoy the ride man, don't get caught up in looking for her approval or her even recognizing how hard you bust your ass. All of that is for you. Sure, she'll reap the benefits but you need to shift your mindset to doing these things because they make you happy and a better person. Reading a good book, lifting some heavy weights, looking better naked and 'tighter' in your clothes. All of this builds self-confidence and as you begin to pass her shit tests you'll notice a rise in your sense of self-… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 12:55 PM |
| 1 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.Excellent points and most of which I agree with. But now that you do see reality for what it is you have a sort of 'advantage'. to enter a contract she can get out of at any time while the man is held responsible to it to the extreme There is a loophole to this. If you are the top dude, you can do whatever it is you want and she will stay. It's the adage of, Women would rather share an alpha than own a beta if you can get yourself to that top 1% of men physically AND mentally, then the ball is i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 12:09 PM |
| 0 | Is this as good as it gets?What IS in his control is how he handles his shit when that happens. Which is the point I'm making. You are bouncing around from vows, to losing a job, to being fat. What exactly are you getting at here? I pin all the blame on the man when it comes to the standard of relationship he has. Woman is shitty - he should of vetted better she is a bitch - he is weak she won't follow - he doesn't inspire her too she's fat - he probably is too and if he isn't then he isn't inspiring any dread I can do th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 12:03 PM |
| 1 | 3 Red Flags of the Damaged WomanWhere do you get the images for your site? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 02:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My wife said she missed me terribly after four days of being away. 45 minutes later she's shit testing me. It never ends boys. Get and stay on top of your shit.If you want to you will. The biggest step is no longer thinking of them as having the same mentality as men. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveReasonable solution | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 11:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My wife said she missed me terribly after four days of being away. 45 minutes later she's shit testing me. It never ends boys. Get and stay on top of your shit.Are you serious? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 10:44 PM |
| 1 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.Thanks | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveWriting styles are unique to each writer. But, there is a sort of universal consensus that if you're rushing the writing is going to suck. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 10:40 PM |
| -1 | I found a great and easy technique to handle even the toughest issues.That's a good one too, it's fucking insta-chub when my wife says it. ...Now that I think of it, my cock is conditioned to that word like Pavlov's dogs to the whistle. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveAll that can be done is continued criticism or ignoring completely. He'll improve or be isolated | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 10:23 PM |
| 5 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveAn MRP feud? Gay | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveWhatever works man | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 08:33 PM |
| 13 | How husbands and wives view sexNow that you got this victim puke out of your system, wipe the tears from your gentle face and go out and start lifting heavy shit and becomming a badass top tier man from 10000bc, but who can also use Microsoft office suite, because you know, you gotta work and shit too. OP, this guy gets it. Follow the advice | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveBrutal | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveDid RedDead kick your puppy? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 08:06 PM |
| 4 | I found a great and easy technique to handle even the toughest issues.Avoiding eye contact slouching looking to the ground not showing any form of passion in your voice or demeanor fidgeting beating around the direct message Review /u/redneck001 's post on body language | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 07:07 PM |
| 3 | I found a great and easy technique to handle even the toughest issues.This is a vague memory so it may not be entirely accurate, but look at the theme and set yourself up to approach the subject: We were discussing marriage dynamics. She was talking about how when she went up to get food and she grabbed me a plate and the wife she got up with had gotten herself a plate and then sat down and looked at the husband saying, What? You're not hungry?. It blew my wife's mind that this woman wasn't serving her man. Somehow this conversation led to my wife completely break… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveI'm all for men figuring themselves out. I just don't think every thought needs to be shared. I think a lot, most of it I keep to myself. It's for me to improve and grow, finding more joy in this life, not for MRP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveYou're off the mark a little. That sense of self realization was for you, not us. All you did here was tell a piece of your story, not provide any information that another married man could take away and apply. You could say well they could see that you can't blame your past and I agree, it's where you are now and what you're doing now. But that isn't the message of this post, this post is just you thinking on a keyboard, not strategically offering something of value. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveI don't think you're seeking validation, I honestly don't know what you're putting it on the sub for, this seems like solid introspection that should have just been felt and not shared. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 06:17 PM |
| 6 | Putting Childhood in PerspectiveWhat's the point of this post? You laid out your past, that reflects quite a few guys past here, do you think all of them should write it out too? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 06:09 PM |
| -4 | I found a great and easy technique to handle even the toughest issues.My wife calls me Daddy, sexy as fuck. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 06:07 PM |
| 5 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.That statement makes me do the laugh that's actually sadness, but still a laugh because humor is the only answer to how fucked up and accurate the quote is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How husbands and wives view sexOnce you're able to generate your own happiness, life is just better. Whether I'm running on 0 sleep or dealing with a wife who doesn't give a shit how hard I worked to reach a specific goal... I just smile to myself and enjoy it. Weak or strong, you have a decision to make each and every day. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 06:01 PM |
| 3 | 3 Red Flags of the Damaged WomanSolid fucking comments, OP would do well to heed your advice. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 05:32 PM |
| 7 | How husbands and wives view sexBut she’s not interested in sex unless it benefits her. This is true for low value men. because it would never occur to her to initiate True, because why would she fuck a dude who doesn't lead? It’s even more crushing to realize that I have to game my own god-dammed wife with dread just to have some kind of physical intimacy with her Stop being a romantic sap and just embrace reality and find comfort in the discomfort. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Is this as good as it gets?Teamwork makes the dream workTM | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 05:05 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My wife said she missed me terribly after four days of being away. 45 minutes later she's shit testing me. It never ends boys. Get and stay on top of your shit.My comment was based on the information provided. You'd of done well to provide the entire story. It's the problem with online chats, we only see a snapshot of an entire story. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 05:04 PM |
| 2 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.Can't trust the woman, but you can always trust the woman to be a woman. for better or worse Red Pill Poetry | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 04:35 PM |
| 2 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.Same here except I had insane puke and shit going on, it was rough. I was still the fucking man. Tending to her and the kids while I was pretty sure I would pass out. It was nice having her go out and buy me a heated blanket, it's like a human toaster, fucking amazing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 04:34 PM |
| 1 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.Dude, I can't even fathom that happening yet I'm fucking positive that some dude somewhere has brought it up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 04:19 PM |
| 3 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.I should clarify that point, when I said 'wife's attention' I meant keeping her eyes on you and not wandering to other men. She will measure them to the bar you set, so it's your job to set that bar fucking high. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.how many consistently honor their spouses in sickness or under times of stress? If you're a man who owns his shit, they will put up with weakness longer but never indefinitely. When I get sick, which is rare I get fucking sick. My wife will do everything in her power to take care of me so long as I treat her as my wife and not mother. I don't whimper or complain, she just knows I'm fucked up and will take the kids, grab me food and drink and do whatever is needed. This is a day or two, if I were… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 04:10 PM |
| 7 | It's action, NOT vows that keep a marriage together.They view submission and feminine traits as a loss of power. This is where Girl Power and modern day 'feminism' royally fucked up. In the same sense that men repress their masculinity and it leads to an explosion of rage or depression and self loathing, they made women feel as though submitting to their man is somehow 'bad'. My wife once said that she loves being a submissive woman and she cried when she said it. I was totally caught off guard as it was like a son coming out of the closet to his… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 04:03 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My wife said she missed me terribly after four days of being away. 45 minutes later she's shit testing me. It never ends boys. Get and stay on top of your shit.Shit, I'd use the fucking as my warm up set. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 01:37 PM |
| 13 | [FR] My wife said she missed me terribly after four days of being away. 45 minutes later she's shit testing me. It never ends boys. Get and stay on top of your shit.AWALT The minute I found out I was accepted into the Master's program I applied to my wife was asking me if I thought she was fat. I just laughed then said If it jiggles it's fat and picked her up and shook her. Edit Why didn't you fuck her before the gym and then again after? Also, she was right about the dog, you let a canine break your frame. I recommend you read How to Be Your Dog's Best Friend: The Classic Training Manual for Dog Owners (Revised & Updated Edition) my sister has trained with… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Is this as good as it gets?Not every guy who gets frivorced got fat and nasty. Correct, but they failed in some way. Women's hypergamy cannot be ignored. You are either a dude who owns his shit and leads his family or you are the dude whose wife is looking for chad. There is no middle. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Is this as good as it gets?Solid breakdown, I think TRP sees better result with masculine military dudes, simply because we follow directions and base decisions on results not praise. I am on MRP because I was disgusted at what I saw when I left the Navy. My bros were married and fathers and all of them were/are fucking animals. I get out and it's like what the fuck is this... If you're not striving to be the best you, why the fuck are you breathing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | No I don't want to have sex with your fat belly, your lack of enthusiasm and your stretched out pussy that I can barely feel.....I'm surprised you took my post simply at face value. I know you don't 'know' me but we've interacted enough that I'd expect you to see the point I was making. Everyone is allowed to make mistakes, I fuck up you fuck up, we all fuck up from time to time, it's life. But this isn't just A mistake, this is the result of many mistakes. If BPP has been implementing TRP properly then this shit shouldn't have happened. Did you read how his wife approached him? That behavior stems from failure of leaders… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/15 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Is this as good as it gets?but a reasonable expectation. It was also an expectation that the man would remain a Man, but most don't. They get fat and nasty, becoming disgusting human beings who don't deserve shit yet complain when they don't get what they deserve. Marriage 2.0 came around because of the weakness of men, not feminism. We weren't ambushed, we brought this shit upon ourselves. The white knights out there created this shit storm for masculine men. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/15 04:30 PM |
| 4 | [Question] - Reversible vasectomy for 36 married guy...Alpha or no way?Alpha would be you owning your decision without consulting other men. With that said, I'd never do it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/15 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Is this as good as it gets?Never choose the easy path and you'll be fine. Stay strong brother. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Is this as good as it gets?Don't fuck around so close to 'making it'. We had a lot of nuc waste (drop outs) in A-Gang. Also, the fleet is where you start making a name for yourself, your reputation goes a long way. When guys play xbox, grab a tech manual. They go to bed, you work on PQS signatures. Be the dude who has all his watch quals, collateral duties, and both warfare pins. Whether you do 6 or 20, you give it your all. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Is this as good as it gets?I was a conventional MM. Plan your exit strategy and you'll be fine. I used the free TA to get my BS before I got out and am using Post 9/11 now. Jobs are there if you put in the leg work. Also, attend TAPS boring as fuck but the 15 minutes of countless hours that actually mattered were a solid 15 minutes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Is this as good as it gets?How is what? Life? It's what you make it. Are you an MMN? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Is this as good as it gets?Blog post, but the blog isn't ready for traffic yet so it became an MRP post. Based off a chapter in the book, not quoted though, just similar theme. edit: Gentlemen Jack had my fingers 'type happy'. Yes this an excerpt modified for MRP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Is this as good as it gets?I recently had this discussion regarding how much sleep you need. I told them 3 hours was plenty. Then again I once passed out on a running centrifugal fire-pump after a 72+ hr fuckfest so we could get underway. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Is this as good as it gets?Solid point dude, one that needs to be expanded on. The Navy taught me to outwork everyone and that you're always able to give more. As you stated, I've applied that to every aspect of my life and it has, in turn, led to a very successful and meaningful existence. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Is this as good as it gets?I got out as an E6 but was around enough Chiefs with sea salt in their synapse to pick up a thing or two. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Is this as good as it gets?I've been this way since the Navy. I was fortunate to experience that 'Rite of Passage' to manhood that too many guys never experience. I went in as an unmotivated 19 year old betafuck who didn't give a shit. I came out a fucking man and decided that I would set the bar from which excellence would be measured. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 06:58 PM |
| 3 | She will never forgive you for leadership failureBPP set a new baseline from which to measure the relationship. Instead of looking back to whenever they will look back to this moment when the bar was raised. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 04:34 PM |
| 4 | No I don't want to have sex with your fat belly, your lack of enthusiasm and your stretched out pussy that I can barely feel.....You do what you need to do. This is recoverable, but also preventable. What surprises me is that at this point of being a Mod, writing the book, implementing TRP for a while now, etc. this action points to you not fully believing in the message you're putting out. This post glares of the addage, Do as I say, not as I do. If you weren't 'TBPP' I'd of laid into you, but your track record shows you do know what works, but you're just not following your own advice. Reevaluate the foundation you've b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/15 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Short FR: Red RadiationThe ripple effect brother, success breeds success. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/15 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Biblical Apologia: Divorce, Adultery and FornicationSolid response, I'm hoping OP delivers something. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Biblical Apologia: Divorce, Adultery and FornicationAWALT, ARALT This was excellent | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Locus of Control and Attribution Theory: the psychological bases behind Owning Your ShitI'm taking Sports Psychology now and the topic of the week has been intrinsic vs extrinsic motivation, in line with your post here. I suggest every man on this sub spend some time understanding the how and why people are the way they are. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Biblical Apologia: Divorce, Adultery and Fornicationshe might be getting it from St.Chad at the church bake sale You won MRP for the Day | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Biblical Apologia: Divorce, Adultery and FornicationI will agree to disagree on the 'use' of religion. As a side note, I went through a much more intense anger stage when I left religion. I was like, WHAT IN THE FUCKING FUCK?!?!?! Now it makes me laugh, but it also makes me a little sad as I see how blind people are. I've had so many discussions with 'religious' individuals who during the conversation tell me they have never read the bible cover to cover. What in the actual fuck?? EDIT I am having solid responses from you and /u/irateMD, but who … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Biblical Apologia: Divorce, Adultery and FornicationIf she's fucking you just because God said so, then you're not much better off than the guys in deadbedrooms. Excellent point and solid response dude. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Biblical Apologia: Divorce, Adultery and FornicationTRP/MRP is nothing more than a human-owned belief system and a set of tools to attain a better life, which is pretty much what a religion is How is religion a set of tools to living a better life? I hate having this discussion as nothing beneficial comes of it, but I will say this. I am not religious by any means and it was through the removal of religion that I truly felt that I owned my life and what became of it. I'm not trying to get into any sort of afterlife, I'm trying to get the most fro… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 02:07 PM |
| 5 | Biblical Apologia: Divorce, Adultery and FornicationMany guys here operate from a biblical frame. Could you explain what that means? To aid that requires proper biblical understanding How do you know your interpretation is 'proper'? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/15 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Long-term Relationship GameKeep on Keeping on | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Long-term Relationship GameDrinking some amazing coffee? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Long-term Relationship GameDid you read this poem from TRP, fits your theme in this response. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 04:05 PM |
| 19 | FR: counting the wins, with more work to do."So I bet you want a blowjob dont you?" you: Is that your way of telling me you want my cock in your mouth?? Say please and I'll think about it Her: You're a Jerk You: Say Please Her: Please You: Please What? Her: Please can I have your cock in my mouth? You: Since you've been a good girl, I'll allow it this time, now get over here. Now mind you, during this exchange you should be letting your hands wander and have your eyes locked onto hers, make her look you in the eye when she tells you she w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Long-term Relationship GameI find it somewhat difficult. What specifically are you finding difficult? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Long-term Relationship GameI need to own that better. The first step is accepting that fact. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Long-term Relationship Gamewhere TRP 1.0 hates us . But, who cares they are in the rear view mirror losing I never understand this sentiment. To each their own, let each man do his thing. I dont find this to be that hard. It truly isn't and I think there are more guys who agree with us on this point. The thing is, they get it so they don't post, they just read. I post because I've found a way to make my marriage work for me and I want that for other dudes, but I don't really have any posts with [FR] or questions as this s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Long-term Relationship GameLeadership, Game, being the Family Alpha all of these things are done in the moment. Each moment requires you to be on your game, women have little concept of trend analysis and that's fine, they're women. No man should feel resentment for having to be on his A game all the time. It comes with the territory of marriage. Single guys can be complete fucks and sit around for a few days without anyone noticing. That's why MRP is TRP ON HARD MODE. Just do your job as a man and do it well, choosing th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 03:20 PM |
| 4 | Elevated Level of Dread /Open Flirting Questionwife blurts out "are you trying to be charming?? Nope, this is how I act around women I find attractive. Depending on where you're at with your wife this could go one of two very different ways. If you have a healthy relationship, she'd go the ph really route where you could then spin it to, "You can find out if you slide that dress up/meet me near the bathroom/or put on that LBD when we get home" OR If you are already on the rocks and since you're raising your dread I'm assuming that's the case… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Good EnoughThe goal is not to project your standards onto them. They are women, they will never think and act like a man does. What you do want to do is have them realize internally, that you will leave if they do not perform at the desired level. It is a small difference but a difference none the less. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/15 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Good EnoughWhen I reach my genetic potential and simply cannot generate more work from my muscles, then I'll say that my deadlift is maxed out and now I need to move onto some other venture and come back to the deadlift later with hopefully a better capacity for lifting. In that sense then sure, but look at a drag car. These dudes are flying down the track always looking to win. Even if my deadlift isn't maxed out but I am sick and lift more than I thought I could then again, I'm impressed. It isn't some c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/11/15 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Good EnoughSolid point | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Past, present and futureIf you wear one around your neck, that fucker will end up in your mouth. truth | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Good EnoughThis is the exact reason I write. The ripple effect is about to happen. Some dudes dropped some knowledge on me, I shared it here, and you're going to take it and continue the ripple effect, in turn improving those around you. This is why TRP/MRP/The Manosphere in general are so important. Just ensure that you take this motivation and turn it to self discipline which will get you the results you're going after. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 05:49 PM |
| 7 | The stonepimpletilists unofficial, not authoritative, non-endorsed guide to knowing good advice when you see itYou don't know enough to even know what you don't know yet. Solid. What happened to WhineMore? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Good EnoughSo I had to look up both the actor and movie and I came across this video on youtube and it was fucking awesome. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 04:35 PM |
| 4 | Good EnoughAbsolutely, this is for your personal bar. You can measure others to your standard but you cannot project your standard to them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Good EnoughTime management and proper prioritization should be implemented daily with periodic reviews (weekly?) to track progress and see if there is an issue. As for your fitness you went too fast too soon. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Good EnoughThis clarified it a little more. I agree with you, I tried to address the in the moment concept in the OP. I am fully immersed in each moment as it occurs. I'm also ensuring that my moments are calculated to bring me towards my long term and short term goals. We're saying the same thing differently. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 03:31 PM |
| 7 | Good EnoughHow long is 'for now'? I understand your point but I've found that guys who 'make it' to whatever goal they've set ultimately lose ground as they take their foot off the gas. My goal a while back was to hit a 400lb deadlift. I hit it, then went to my white board, crossed out the 400 and wrote 425 next to it. I'm the guy who finishes a race, smiles while getting the medal and T Shirt, then begins to plan the next race while enjoying my food and drink at the after party. Gift? Curse? Not sure, but… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 03:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Past, present and futureThe ones I found to work best are the necklace/bracelet ones from the dollar store. You can wrap them around your wrists, her tits, the shower head, the shower curtain rod, your ankles, the fan, all sorts of shit lol. They are easy to pop off so one time I made them into 'handcuffs' and told her for every time they popped apart she'd be 'punished'. You know how hard it is for a woman to keep still when you are taking her like a caveman back from a month long hunt? Needless to say, fun was had by… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 02:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Past, present and futureDude, glow sticks are the shit. They make everything better and if you've got any visible muscles they accentuate them because of the shadow and lighting. I look good, but with the lights off and glow sticks on the ground and around random body parts I look fucking shredded. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Worthwhile MRP books on Audible?I don't have my phone on me, but if this works, you sir are the fucking Man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 12:31 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Past, present and futurefeels like he is trying to manhandle a cadaver onto a hospital trolley I've never laughed so hard at a post on MRP as I did here. So fucking glad I'd finished my sip of coffee before reading this line. As for your FR, I'm somewhat conflicted. Why are you guys waiting till the lights are off to fuck? Why not before bed or keep the lights on, or turn on the blacklight you've installed or crack all of the glow sticks you bought and throw them around the room? It seems like you've gotten complacent/… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 12:28 PM |
| 12 | Wife has begun apologizing. Give me some of your good responsesAgreed, she just wants Daddy to tell her that it's ok but not to do it again. OP she's recognizing you as the Family Alpha and is acting accordingly. She wants you to reward her recognition of failure and she also wants to show you that she is aware and (hopefully) working to fix the issue. Respond by telling her that "It's Ok, Daddy can handle his little girl" or something along those lines, whatever names you guys use. My wife likes to call me Daddy, I thought it was weird at first, but it's s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Withdrawing attention is covert and my wife called me out on itI think it's your perspective. There is nothing covert when you take a toy away from a child who is misbehaving, it's to correct the behavior. When you withdraw your attention (the toy) from the misbehaving child (your wife) it's to punish bad behavior and ultimately for the behavior to be corrected so the child (wife) can get the toy back (you). Nothing covert as you don't expect shit. She can or cannot fix her behavior, either way you are content with giving your attention to something that de… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Stepping up your Nutrition: Protein and The Protein ChefI almost commented on your Remembrance Day post, decided against it for that exact reason. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Stepping up your Nutrition: Protein and The Protein ChefI was addicted to espresso in both Greece and Italy but my best cup of coffee by far was from some guys from Turkey. It was hot water right on the grounds...fucking heavenly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageI see what you're saying, in my original post I wasn't speaking in absolutes, more of a general this is how it usually goes. Are women Macchiavellian or slave to emotion and instinct? This is something worthy of much more research and I planned to put in the leg work at some point. Whether women know what they are doing when the shit test, follow their hypergamic nature, or say one thing when they want another is still up for debate and a really interesting topic. When a wife tells her husband s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageI agree with you. Too often people make their issue (sickness) a part of who they are. In essence, OP's wife views being a molestation victim as a part of her identity as opposed to making it something that happened to her but is not who she is as a woman. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Book Review: "First Kill All the Marriage Counselors" by Laura Doyle (author of "The Surrendered Wife")'Break' the TV, read a book together, get her a hobby that leads to self-improvement. My wife used to 'Scroll'(flip her phone screen to check updates) now she doesn't have Facebook, Twitter, or anything (by her choice). You just have to get her to recognize that life is short and to maximize it you don't just 'go with the flow' and do what society tells you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageWomen think on emotion 90% of the time. How does this affect me right now seems to be the running consensus. When I say remove the feelings I mean remove them from your decision making. Don't let betrayal or joy lead you towards making decisions. Let them be a byproduct of a well thought out and well executed plan of action. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by Ragecomes out when I feel like I'm not getting what I want. Stop that, it's weak and needs to be removed. It isn't a tool that helps nor is it something that benefits you. If anything it serves as a reminder to generate a life and happiness for yourself, nothing else. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageI don't know if you saw my edit, but I'm curious as to where you're at mentally with her cheating. Also, if you believe she is worth the time and energy, then lead her towards that healing process. Only if you feel it's worth it because it will probably be a long and dark road before you see the benefits. you're her captain, if she is still in pain over this event it's because nobody has gotten her to A) Recognize that it's over and she can either move forward from the past or let it kill her sl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageNot to delve too deep into your life or you wife's past, but has she come to terms or found 'closure' with this or is it a dirty secret that nobody knows? I ask because I think the wound needs to be closed before it can heal and if she hasn't closed and healed the wound then it will forever be sitting there for her to pick at which is detrimental to any progress you're looking to make. Edit Your point on her cheating makes me think that it's still an issue. If you've come to terms with it then l… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageI have never had an issue with sex quality... in fact I have no idea what starfish feels like I'm in the same boat. My sex through marriage has always been on point, it's an area I can't really relate to guys on but one that I try to assist through being an example and providing what works. It isn't a means to brag but rather proof that it is possible, provided you press the right buttons. My wife has also brought up the 'Make Love' argument and it always ends the same, I'll fuck with her and pl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageDon't explicitly state that your needs will be met elsewhere, just drop the subtle message. Men aren't very good with when it comes to subtle communication, but we are capable. Maybe that means finding a freak on the side, maybe it means finding a new way to approach the subject, it all depends on your relationship. I would argue that her not meeting certain needs for you is neglect. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by RageHer past is a variable you must contend with. I would argue that if you were to ease into it light slapping, sex in the car/garage/somewhere besides the bedroom/etc it would help her along. You have to get her to the point where she is more in the moment. This will enable you to just enjoy her then and there without the flashback/memory of being betrayed. Remind her, ease into it, and lead the way for her to follow. Have her buy a costume and role play, or get a whip and play around with it befo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Ratione Non Ira - By Reason, Not by Ragewhat's the play here? I would suggest an outright explanation of expectations. Straight up tell her, without holding anything back that you need more from her. Tell her you want a completely sexually open relationship with her. That you want to know her darkest fantasies and for the 'taboo' of sex to be removed. There should be no sexual stigma between man and wife. She should be able to tell you how bad she wants your cock without blushing. You should be able to tell her to do whatever it is yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Stepping up your Nutrition: Protein and The Protein Chefmath Life before coffee doesn't work. FTFY | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Christmas Present BrainstormingAbsolutely, I call those 'functional gifts'. Like a mountain bike or drumset, gun, etc. Those are tools to experience, totally cool in my book. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Christmas Present Brainstormingmost importantly I am having funp Fucking awesome dude, the benefits go way beyond sex. Your family is getting the most from life because You are leading them. Nice work, now get off Reddit and enjoy the rest of your vacation haha | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/11/15 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Christmas Present BrainstormingAll your gifts to her should be ones that involve the two of you, and not just things for her alone. Experiences over 'things', I have no idea what I'll get my wife this year. She's into painting so something like a painting class at our local community college would be in line with my gift philosophy. A piece of advice for every husband and father. When your family looks back on their life they will remember the moments (a night out, mini vacation, board game nights) not the 'things' (ipod, nec… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/11/15 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Time for Divorce. Need Advice.Get the lawyer, ask all of these types of questions, remain unphased and do what you need to do to just be a Dad to your kid. No rage, no emotion, just exist and be a solid dad. Let the legalities play out and remain focused on your end goal, starting a life for you where you can generate your own happiness and remain a part of your kid's life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/15 03:22 PM |
| 2 | The better way to get the sex you wantImportant distinction for men who like throwing blanket statements around like they're laws of the universe. Solid point and articulated much better than I was able to. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/15 05:07 PM |
| 2 | The better way to get the sex you wantI understand your point and I was making the point that there really is no 'timeline' to recommend. Even the 1 month for each year is garbage in my eyes, if it helps then it helps but I think it is irrelevant. It is similar to the point of not focusing so much on the scale as you should on your body composition and physical abilities. If you only lost 10 lbs you may feel bad. But if you recognize that you've lost 5 inches off your waist, all of your lifts have doubled, and you've dropped your 3 … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/15 04:50 PM |
| 4 | The better way to get the sex you wantExactly dude, I just keep seeing the message of IT TAKES 1 MONTH FOR EVERY YEAR being thrown at people. Sure, it's a solid guideline to give yourself as a sort of 'roadmap', but after 3 weeks of owning your shit the wife may just fall in line. It's unique to the relationship. Focus less on time and more on improvement. If you're improving at the most effective and efficient rate, then having a timeline will only serve as a negative. You'll feel, well I should be getting blowjobs by now, it's bee… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/15 04:48 PM |
| 3 | A PSA on Languageroger, my lesson in confidence started from bootcamp where I was asked for General Order #9 during an inspection. I spouted out general order #7 but I did it confident as shit and the inspector just nodded, told me I was a disgusting fuck, but at least I had balls and moved along. That's where it all began, my rite of passage to living life as a Masculine Male. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/15 01:17 PM |
| 2 | A PSA on LanguagePLQ ??? All I could find on google was Quebec Liberal Party | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/15 12:41 PM |
| 1 | The better way to get the sex you wantWhile I understand what you're saying, it certainly can happen in a very brief amount of time. We're all playing the 'Improve to the Grave' game so it doesn't matter how fast you get there, all that really matters is that you accept you're never going to be 'there' as the finish line does not exist. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/15 12:31 PM |
| 3 | A PSA on LanguageThe same thing can be applied when giving an order/telling someone what to do. The boss told me to tell you to go take the trash out = Faggot You need to go and take the trash out = Masculine Own your shit and confidently relay that through your language, as OP stated every time you speak. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Women's pair bonding and men's oneitisIt depends on what you're into. Your hobby or a hobby you may want to take up should bring you to like minded individuals. MMA, Mountain Biking, car racing etc. Find the post on 'How to Hobby' for ideas. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Have you gotten too comfortable?Similar story, except my elixir was a granola bar during a portion of the Appalachian Trail. I was gassed and when I ate that bar I could feel the digestion giving me much needed energy. No food(fuel) and I couldnt have gone anywhere. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/15 10:45 PM |
| 2 | If you want sex, you need to be nice to me...Maybe you should fuck your husband because he's your husband? and this is why we have the fucked up Dadbods, deadbedrooms, and all the other bullshit associated with being married. Just because you're married doesn't mean you deserve a fucking thing. A woman will give a Man just a little more than he deserves. If you're a weak bitch, you get a shit wife giving you just enough to stay committed. If you're owning your shit and Masculine as fuck while leading your family she's going to give just en… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/15 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Women's pair bonding and men's oneitisThanks for the reach around. Iron Sharpens Iron, we all need to find the Lions and run with them. When I left the Navy I realized I left the 'Lions'. This worried me to the point where I found TRP. Then MRP was born and I moved over here to post more often as I've always been focused on Masculine married Men. If the few of us on here raise our standard I'm hoping the ripple effect will do the rest. As for the book, I'm hoping to have it out to publishers by Thanksgiving and we'll see from there … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/15 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Women's pair bonding and men's oneitisYou need to know the truth of the current state of affairs. This is why I post, am creating a blog, and writing a book. It is that important. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/15 04:41 PM |
| 15 | Women's pair bonding and men's oneitisOneitis isn't falling in Love, it's believing that there is no other Love and that she is the one and only. Men cannot avoid Love, it's just who we are. So go ahead and give Love to whomever completely deserves it. But never believe that only one person is worthy of it and that there will never be another her in your life. I Love my wife, but I know that if we were to divorce, I could find other women. Maybe I'd Love one or a few of them for a while too. Love isn't a use 1 time then it's done ty… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.The video wouldn't load, it just brought me to Youtube. Not sure if it's me or your link. I don't track calories but rather just removed the bullshit foods and liquids. Straight liquor it is and 'clean' foods is all that is needed for those who don't want to track caloric intake. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/11/15 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.What's awesome is when you recognize that getting your dick sucked twice a weak is mediocre and therefore YOU need to improve. To many guys deflect this failure to their woman not having a high libido or whatever. If the dick suckage lowers it means your standard has lowered. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/11/15 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.I have a love/hate with crossfit, though i have considered joining the box 10 minutes from my house. $$$ is why I've yet to pull the trigger. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.Understood, I've always used them as extra exercises, never as the focus. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.4g* solid resource dude, thanks. I'll be sharing this with the group of haters who call me the 'Food Nazi'. They're just mad because my family is fit and we don't have type II. The hamster in both women AND men trip me out sometimes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.Forcing someone to face their mediocre performance through your raised standards is a part of the process. Giving wives the tingles, a sign of progress. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.Just saw that, what the fuck. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.Solid breakdown and advice i probably should have given in my initial response. What really clicked for my wife was when i told her a sugar cube was 3g of sugar. Doing the math she realized some 'healthy' anacks had 20 cubes in it. That visualization brought her 100% onboard my program and she's lost weight because of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.I'll check out the videos, also I will be incorporating some of Pavel's regimen from his book The Naked Warrior. Why do you suggest avoiding pistols? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.I added the 'edit' because I felt bad. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 08:24 PM |
| 27 | On Female Consequences and Ditching Your Revenge Porn FantasiesSolid post, reminds me of this story about letting go Worry about you, be the best you that you can be and get everything from this life you possibly can. Who gives a fuck if government officials or sluts are getting away with everything; as long as you're good, life's good. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Make it easy, be good looking and fun.Eating less. I've found a modified version of LeanGains works best for me. EDIT To elaborate. I have reduced 95% of 'processed' foods. Breads, pastas, all candy/sugary shit, soda, etc. Also I've stopped drinking beer and mixed drinks and have switched to straight alcohol, a glass of bourbon, scotch, or Viking's Blod. I've continued to lift with heavy compound movements and am planning to transition to a more body-weight style program. Something like training for obstacle course races meets Bar B… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Theultimatecad Dispenses Hard Core Red Pills to the Massesconvince yourself that keeping her happy will keep her from straying /u/theultmatecad and I had this discussion. The less you Love them, the more they'll show they Love you. Keeping yourself happy is the best way to keeping her from straying. Mainly due to the fact that she views you as the 'prize' and your independent happiness means you're the one less invested, so she'll do what she must to keep you around. There are millions and millions of Women out there, there are very few 'self realized'… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/10/15 12:31 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women.Nothing on this planet is perfect and therefore can be 100% trusted Beer and my Dog can be 100% trusted as they've never given me a reason not to trust them. God has given me a reason not to trust him/her/whatever. Looking at the texts of the major religions and looking at the plights being faced by millions of innocent individuals, I have a reason to not trust the guy who designed it with this in mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 11:06 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women.Every damn morning I play this fun game of don't trip over the fucking black cat, the one that's in and out of my legs like it's a slolam event. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Head up. the 30 day workout thread is almost up. no nothing november starting soon.isn't this you from last year? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/15 11:10 PM |
| 17 | [FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women.Fuck Cats | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 11:07 PM |
| 18 | [FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women.Absolutely; I follow the 1 day rule set by the old Stoics. If you have to grieve, do so for no more than 1 day. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Let's Talk Body LanguageI've found that lifting helps guys trying to improve their unspoken presence. It not only builds that fire (confidence) in your chest but after deadlifts you physically can't slouch or you'll fall. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/15 04:36 PM |
| 280 | [FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women.Your feelings are for your bros, your beer, and your Dog. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Two steps forward, one step backHa! I had to slide it in somewhere (no homo) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Two steps forward, one step backKick them out, fuck quietly on the dryer, get it during the day when you can. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 10:39 PM |
| 8 | Two steps forward, one step backI wrote a post about how to keep your wife on her toes. It's the top post if you sort by 'Top - All'. I suggest you read it. The bed isnt for sex, the entire house, yard, car, changing rooms are for sex. She will get more adventurous when you lead her to that point. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureAny resources you recommend or should i hop on google? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Financial testHer response: "yeah let's talk that one through before we make that decision." And I responded, "no discussion needed." She says "we'll see." She wasn't very subtle was she? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureI'm unsure as to exactly what you're implying? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureI can see the angle your taking and have to get you to adjust the lens a little. A Woman sees herself as all there is in the world (solipsism) everything revolves around her. It's the reason a woman will tell you an anecdotal story and be pissed when you tell her that it's just her experience. She views her experience to be universal law. What I'm suggesting is that the world does not revolve around men and men should not think that it does. We are disposable and because of this position we hold… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureWhat exactly do you base the idea that women are less romantic on? I believe that a woman's solipsitic nature prevents her from being able to appreciate the finer (more romantic) aspects of life. Because in her mind it is how does this affect me whereas a Man will see the beauty of the thing for the sake of it's beauty. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureDude, I wrote some nasty shit on her and she fucking loved it, I also let her draw on me. Being in shape helped because she was drawing around the muscles and veins, fun was had by all. You've supplied my life with some AWESOME fucking moments, and it will continue with the sealed letters. If I ever hit the point where life slows down a little I'll shoot you a PM and send a letter your way, bring back the lost art | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureDUDE!! I was wondering who gave me the idea. I ended up using highlighters and it was fucking awesome. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 05:17 PM |
| 22 | Financial testYou're a tough guy via text? Real masculine dude. You told HER to figure the meal plan out and she did exactly as you said. Maybe you should have prepared better so your wife didn't have to text you in the first place. As soon as she said she was going to Whole Foods you should have just shut the fuck up and waited until you got home to explain to her that she could have gotten the same (or more) stuff for cheaper elsewhere. Text isn't the place for laying down the law, it's fucking gay to even … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 05:16 PM |
| 21 | My parents are planning to visit for christmas... awkward. xpost from r/parentingYou're a Man, not a fucking child. Draw the boundaries with your father and make it perfectly clear his bullshit won't be tolerated. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureThat's awesome, may steal the idea and use random coins | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureI think you're misunderstanding my angle on romantic actions. In my post I referenced cutting down trees. I also mentioned carving my initials with my wife's into a tree. Another 'romanticized action' is reading by the candle, these actions (I could list hundreds of others) have nothing to do with the pursuit of women. They are gestures taken that provide the same feeling as when you do something nice for someone else. Yes, you can use them in pursuit of females such as meals, flowers, dates, et… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureThis is along the lines of saying Men and Women are both strong. Yes, both can exhibit strength, but Men are physically stronger than women. Of course you can find examples where I'm wrong, but as a whole Men are stronger than women just as Men are more romantic than women. I didn't say women couldn't be romantic, they just aren't at that level as deeply or as frequently as men are. Also, why would you not elevate the intrinsic reward that is afforded to the 'self' through expressing romantic ge… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureWe all hate our faggot former selves. All you can do now is own your shit and be the badass drinking out of his crystal Goblet again. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 11:05 AM |
| 2 | How to Play the ChorePlay Game and WinHe still got her a fucking maid Instead of leading he rewarded her failure to perform. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureNot sure if trolling or serious...but to be honest I've also tried bringing back the art of letter writing and securing it with wax and my handheld seal. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureIt's an awesome feeling that can't really be described so much as just felt. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 11:01 AM |
| 2 | How to Play the ChorePlay Game and WinThe worst part is that after this 'renegotiation' if the Man takes all of the chores, it builds resentment for both parties. Nobody wins. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 09:06 PM |
| 3 | How to Play the ChorePlay Game and WinThe bar is so pitifully low | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 08:29 PM |
| 2 | How to Play the ChorePlay Game and WinThanks for the solid breakdown. My parents nor my relationship ever had an actual list, you tripped me out with that fact. It was always guys do masculine chores chicks do feminine. It's funny you should mention coking. My wife is a fucking amazing cook, her meals are on point. I've been working at my slow-cooker game and have had some solid results. We've been able to bond over this action as I've been focusing on meal prepping while she's explaining how certain foods work together and spices, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 07:01 PM |
| 3 | How to Play the ChorePlay Game and WinIt's going to happen in some form or the other. I've never had the 'Chore List' and don't really understand the concept. Are you saying the wife writes down what she wants you to do? Not trolling you dude, I just don't get it. Chores are divided by gender. Yesterday I mowed the lawn and changed out a faucet, I would never have asked her or expected her to do either. She did the dishes, laundry, and changed a few curtains, things she'd never ask me to do. Some nights she works later than I do so … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 06:18 PM |
| 4 | You don't get to judge another man.Each situation is unique to the individual, which means each approach will be unique. What works for me may or may not work for you or others. It's important for posters and those who comment to keep that in mind. Take and apply it all, then disregard the things that don't work for you. Cheating may save a marriage in one case and destroy it in another, we aren't the Men who make that call. Only the person in the arena (their marriage) knows how best to approach the battles. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Owning your Romantic NatureImpeccable military bearing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Owning your Romantic NatureOnly my dog Chomsky knows my dark secret As it should be; My Black Lab is also my confidant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Owning your Romantic NatureOnce you shift your perspective from doing it for her to doing it for you it just feels better. Then you are better able to be your true Masculine self in this weaksauce feminized society. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Owning your Romantic NatureGreat, now I have to re-watch the movie. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Owning your Romantic NatureAbsolutely, if my wife doesn't earn the time and attention she won't get it. Real Life Example I was at one of the Newport Mansions and my wife was being a bitch. I found some awesome yellow flowers that were wicked big and bright. I grabbed one, because you're not supposed to, and gave it to this smoking hot Latina chick. Wife obviously gave me shit and I completely ignored her telling her that only beautiful woman got beautiful flowers and that being a bitch made her ugly. She stopped, got roa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Owning your Romantic NatureIf I recall correctly, didn't the Dr. basically gave up his life/identity for the other dude. Talk about serving a purpose for the greater good. it's wasted effort on a girl To this I would have to say that the effort isn't wasted because it isn't for the girl but rather for the self. The date, flowers, action, whatever it is done because it makes your self feel good. The tingles generated or not is irrelevant and simply a by product of you working on and taking action for your self. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Owning your Romantic NatureBring them into the house and put them where you'll see them. If you have a desk, study, or chair put it there. If she asks, Why'd you bring me flowers let her know they aren't for her but for your home. I've never been a flowers guy. I feel as though I'm spending money on something that dies a few days later. But, I do understand where you're coming from and a lot of the message flowers send will come from your frame. If she sees you as a Man who is doing what he wants and following his mission… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureYour wife, my wife, any guys wife here is incapable of being romantic at the level a Man is. The important point is that A) You accept that she is never and will never be at the level a Man is romantically. B) You don't expect anything from her when you take Romantic actions. You do it for you and nobody else. Women do try to shame Men to hold the door, let them skip lines, give them special treatment, and allow them to get away with everything. I maintain my standard and am romantic when I choo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Owning your Romantic NatureIt's a topic that isn't covered as often as I think it should be. Often times Men who 'unplug' need to take back their physique, leadership, and perspective on women. Rarely do we discuss the things they had while plugged in such as romanticism and empathy. There isn't anything wrong with these attributes per say, except for the fact that both were used for their woman and not for themselves. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/15 12:46 PM |
| 7 | [Rant] It's all my dad's fault!Even though it's supposed to be some sort of testimonial to taking ownership, it still sounds like you're playing the victim. While I can say that some of my problems are due to a lack of preparation because I wasn't taught better Who cares? Everyone has something fucked up, who cares if you could have been better? Everyone wishes they had tried harder earlier, fuck it. Be your best today and moving forward. Fuck the reasons for previous sub-par performance. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Stop Looking the Other WayDude, you are not your own Man right now. I capitalize Man because I'm referring to the Masculine Male who Owns his shit and not the weaksauec dude who is still 'plugged in'. Unfortunately you are the latter. I'm going to say some things to you that may be painful to read and even worse when it sets in later tonight that I'm right, but you asked for help so I will try to provide it. It seems you were all each other could get, she never wanted the 'Alpha' guy because she knew she couldn't get him… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Stop Looking the Other WayI think I am doing a good job of modeling those things. I have had my shit together in most areas for a couple of years now. I would need to know more about your relationship t provide any advice that would help. Some things I'm seeing overall, it looks like you're afraid of confronting your wife and at the same time are feeling disappointment and need to confront it. The most direct and clear piece of advice I can provide you is that you control your life. Go out there and live it. This falls u… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Bluepiller with a question for BluePillProfessorGood on BPP, giving tingles over the web. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Bluepiller with a question for BluePillProfessorWhen I read he was 'concerned' I laughed out loud. Some of these guys (are they men?) get really worked up over TRP/MRP. I'm glad I've been able to dodge the hate mail thus far, hoping to keep that streak going. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Bluepiller with a question for BluePillProfessorRoger | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Bluepiller with a question for BluePillProfessorwhereas your men This is an internet forum, not the fucking military. There are 5,566 users here, do you think the mods write up orders that people carry out? The fact that you let fucking reddit concern you makes me pretty confident you aren't the type of dude that has anything of value going on in your life so why should is that why you feel the need to probe others? Work on you, get as much from life as you can. Don't let reddit 'worry' you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 11:25 AM |
| 3 | How To Be HappyYour post reminded me of this photo. I've had that image saved for a while now. Joining the Navy was my rite of passage. Up until then I had spent 19 years walking the line of absolute bare minimum. After I discovered what I was capable of and how to apply my motivation I had the incessant thought of how my life would have been, If I had only tried... I no longer look to the past but rather where it is I am going. To quote your post, "The fear that used to imprison me is now the same thing that … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 11:13 AM |
| 3 | FR Trying to get Comfortable with QuietQuality > Quantity I have an almost hour commute to work, that's almost 2 hours a day of sitting. If I'm pondering something for my book I will drive in silence, being left alone with my thoughts. If I don't have any mental puzzles I'm trying to solve I will listen to audiobooks (currently book 1 LOTR narrated by Rob Inglis). I'll mix fiction and non fiction along with the physical book I'll read at home (currently Day Bang by Roosh). I agree with you that being content with yourself is an impor… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 10:19 AM |
| 12 | Newbies: No, your wife doesn't "comfort test" you.You can't say it better than Rollo did: " Women’s shit testing is a psychologically evolved, hard-wired survival mechanism. Women will shit test men as autonomously and subconsciously as a men will stare at a woman’s big boobs. They cannot help it, and often enough, just like men staring at a nice rack or a great ass, even when they’re made aware of doing it they’ll still do it. Men want to verify sexual availability to the same degree women want to verify a masculine dominance / confidence. " I… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 12:27 AM |
| 2 | 2/3 chase Rule vs Covert ContractsThen view yourself as a Man who has a mission and his schedule does not allow himself to be on the phone, responding immediately to any form of attention from his girl. If you shift your mindset to the approach that you do not want to be perceived as the always ready yes man, then you've got to instill a sense of wonder in your lady. The delayed response or 2/3 rule does exactly that. It makes her work for your attention and know that you're not always available as you've got shit going on. Inst… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 05:49 PM |
| 1 | 2/3 chase Rule vs Covert ContractsMy point was who cares? How does either a yes or no impact the fact that A) It works B) It doesn't matter if it is or isn't. If it is then it's one that we give a pass to and if it isn't then again, it works so who cares. EDIT: This isn't a black and white Since it's a CC we can't use it type deal. Just do it because it works and don't be the fuck who says, "Well technically you say no CC's so now we aren't going to use this tactic which is proven to work" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 05:37 PM |
| 2 | 2/3 chase Rule vs Covert ContractsWhat's the point of this? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Time to Pay Up!Thanks dude, I don't have my phone now so I'll try it later. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Newbies: No, your wife doesn't "comfort test" you.It's a deep rabbit hole, where nothing is as simple as being 'black & white'. TRP living is like a Masculine Wonderland. I edited my original comment to clarify a little. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Newbies: No, your wife doesn't "comfort test" you.I agree with your point and think it's what I was trying to say. I think it's just the semantics of the sentence structure used. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 04:42 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Time to Pay Up!Your History: You can recognize your Dad set you up for failure, but do not blame him. You are your own Man and all the failures your marriage has gone through are your fault. Make sure you Own & Accept that. Also, how in the fuck do you go Monk mode in a marriage? Your FR: The ‘Main Event’ doesn’t have to be some cataclysmic event. Some guys fix themselves and their wives go through a brief adjustment period and then are onboard the ship and happy to fill their role. Sharing your vision is impo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 04:39 PM |
| 34 | Newbies: No, your wife doesn't "comfort test" you.When the shit tests stop, that's when you have a problem. I apply the whole You & your Actions = Shit For example: You didn't get the right ingredient / You Always Go to the Gym. I And My Feelings = Comfort For example: I don't know if you want me around anymore / I feel like I'm losing you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Stop Looking the Other WayEvery Mod on this sub is there because of the content they've provided MRP. They have seen what Marriage & Fathers/Husbands have become and they found it important enough to share their personal experiences and to try to assist others along their journey. Then you have users like myself who share advice as we've been fortunate enough to have a 'successful' marriage and want to help others where they can. Then you have those who are unplugging/just want to stir shit up. Pay attention to those who… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 03:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My Presence is ValuedDude, enjoy the fucking ride. It shouldn't be a struggle, it should just be. You've made some solid observations and the ability to really see what is going on during interactions is a skill that will aid you throughout all of this. You know how a woman's programming works and you can use that to reach your end goal. Have fun with it, find joy in the day to day grind. It sucks but the less you act like you're in Love (Masculine Love) the more she'll Love You. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Stop Looking the Other WayIt isn't about displaying 'Alpha' tendencies that make a person worth your time and attention. It is about the value they bring. Your DB BP friend may provide you with the best sense of security and is the most loyal dude you know. Sure, his relationship is fucked but that doesn't mean he is fucked, he's just plugged in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 11:28 AM |
| 0 | Stop Looking the Other WayApparently it's about alienating those who need help Where did you get this notion? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 11:26 AM |
| 0 | Stop Looking the Other WayGet her to try hard and fail as well. Absolutely, that is a point that drove me nuts about the post regarding health insurance. Why wasn't anyone asking why she accepted such a mediocre position. The bar for Men is so low that simply not being obese and having a job puts you at the 'average'. How in the actual fuck is that acceptable to any person I have no idea. The same goes for our women, the bar that's been set for their performance let's them get away with murder (sometimes literally). I re… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Stop Looking the Other WayI've removed several 'friends' as I realized they were completely weaksauce faggots that brought nothing to the table. I've done the same to a few family members. I get it, it's hard as they've been a staple to who you were. But who you were ended up needed TRP. When you look to who you want to be, are they the type of people that guy would hang out with? Start taking the necessary actions today to support that guy | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/15 07:14 PM |
| 7 | Hello Brothers / inspiration for other newbies [mini Progress Reports and things I've noticed]Again, sorry if it's too long As you said, Fuck it, as long as it's quality fuck the guys whose attention spans can't make it. It's easy to get complacent once you see results, avoid that. Motivation is like a match, it burns hot as fuck but only lasts a few seconds. You need to take that match and light a fucking fire of Self Discipline and then see how far you can take this thing. Own your shit and improve to the grave. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/15 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Stop Looking the Other Way"I make my luck, son." I like that. I felt a tinge of pain as he said it, because I knew his wife was also drunk and she still wasn't going to fuck him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/15 06:25 PM |
| 4 | (X-post) Relationships are restaurants, not banks.Is MRP becoming the TRP X-Post dumping site? /u/ArchWinger wrote a solid piece. You brought it here for those who don't go to the main sub? Why not provide your personal breakdown that may provide some insight Archwinger missed? Anything would be better than people just saying, "Hey, this was good and on TRP, for those who don't follow the advice of frequenting both subs, here's a handout" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/15 05:09 PM |
| 29 | Discovered an anti-Red Pill Sub and had to postOnce your eyes are opened, you can never truly go back to the comfort of the lie. You may get comfortable in the lie, but there will always be that voice, that little whisper saying "Hey, you're a weaksauce fuck and your woman is disgusted by you" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/15 04:47 PM |
| 11 | Motivation for lifeFind the Lions and Run with them / Iron sharpens Iron / This Poem / Etc. They are all delivering the same message, one that is often repeated here - Surround yourself with those who bring value and promote growth, disregard the rest. By allowing yourself to stop trying to fit into society's weaksauce 'cookie-cut' molds you free yourself to truly reach your genetic potential. Your goal is to be the best Man you can be and to find joy and tranquility in this life. Whatever the Fuck that means to Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Never Take a Woman FishingSolid points; this is why it is important to invest time in listening to and understanding your woman. You'll know if she will be worth a fishing trip or not. My wife, fuck no she'd hate it, along with all of my other Masculine activities. I'm OK with that, she's a woman and I expect her to be the feminine while I am the Masculine. It's like the ying yang, don't try to blur the balanced lines. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 11:15 PM |
| -1 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?There are men and there are Men, I try to differentiate between them | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 05:06 PM |
| 0 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?Everything is an option. At any point you could up and quit your job right? May not be a good idea, but it's an option. As a Man you should consider every angle before choosing any path. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 05:00 PM |
| 0 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?I agreed to help with her monthly payments. OP said this his reaction is devoid of caring or empathy. You said this. You are so stuck on this little sentence, "Should I tell her to take care of herself and totally give zero fucks?" that you missed the overall message that OP is looking at options, he hasn't made a choice yet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?I don't give a fuck what you think of me. If you read my other post I told him that he should give her a timeline in which she can find a position somewhere that will provide her better benefits. Fuck mediocrity, if OP's girl has a shit job she shouldn't just roll over and look for a Man to care for her or her parents, she should try harder. We all get what we work for. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 04:33 PM |
| 0 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?I don't see why he needs MRP to help him with this decision. I could say this for 80% of the questions asked, but it wouldn't help those asking. The guys who 'get it' aren't asking they are helping. Either help or ask but the pointless banter is retarded and a waste of your and their time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?when in this case it's pretty easy and not that expensive to provide them with health insurance? How is it easy? Seriously, I don't understand how it's easy for OP to pay for his own but not for his girl to do the same. I pay for my family's as my benefits were better and cheaper. I see the benefits as well as the ease of doing things through the Married 'lens'. So I provided a response with that in mind. How does your sarcastic remark, challenging his feelings for his girl through paying for in… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?Loving someone doesn't mean you owe them your money. I'm not OP's white knight but damn, your response brings nothing to the table, you literally didn't answer anything or provide a single piece of advice. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 04:11 PM |
| 6 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?He brings up a point that many Men are facing. Marriage provides some benefits, he's not asking why he shouldn't but rather what is the better bet, chancing it with marriage or losing the benefits while remaining 'free'. Edit Also, what have you submitted to this subreddit?? Not a damn thing from what I can see so I don't see your complaint bringing anything to the table. You don't provide content and your response didn't provide anything of value. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?Dude, I'm a Masculine Man and while I fucking hate Marriage 2.0, I've been able to get my marriage on a level that makes me happy. If I could translate that to you I would say go for it, but I can't and you're not me and your girl isn't my girl so with all of that said, I have no recommendation for you except that you need to make the call armed with all of the information you've absorbed on here and TRP. Marriage nowadays is a fucking joke, but so is the state of 'men'. Could marriage work for … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 04:05 PM |
| 0 | How much would you pay a month to not be married?Dude, she's a grown woman who either needs to accept you aren't her caregiver and therefore needs a better job or you guys need to split so she can find her sugar daddy. You are a Man and you don't owe anybody anything. Trust me, nobody gives a fuck about you so try to stop being the romantic Man you are and recognize that you don't have to 'save the damsel' from big bad insurance. My wife makes roughly 35k and I make roughly 47k, we split shit evenly. Not because she is my wife but because that… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 20, 2015I haven’t really noticed any improvement in my marriage. At what point should I have the “these are my expectations” talk with my wife? I will tell you what I did. I told my wife my goals and talked about my 'mission'. I explained how I was working on the book, my MS degree, certifications etc. and that I fully expected her to be working towards self improvement as well. I explained that even though she's been lifting, reading, and improving overall as a person, that she needed to have a specifi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/15 01:43 PM |
| 1 | (X-post asktrp) Love you! From BrianWhere one's social life involves 90% reddit. If this is where you talk to other people, you need to get out more. It's important to socialize, hopefully with other Masculine Men. Find the Lions and run with them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/15 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Video Talk on Infidelity (read: Tingles)Responsibility (cleaning house / minding kids / etc.) is a turn off. I would say they are an indifferent. The problem is many Men view household chores to be the necessary steps to sex. (See: Covert Contracts, Weaksauce Beta Fucks) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/15 06:54 PM |
| 3 | (X-post asktrp) Love you! From BrianYou know why, you're just disappointed that this type of behavior is still so frequent(common?). Sometimes we get caught up in this little internet bubble that we forget Masculine Men owning their shit is uncommon. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/15 06:47 PM |
| 7 | (X-post asktrp) Love you! From BrianSolid breakdown, I hope OP appreciates the time and effort in your response. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/15 06:15 PM |
| 18 | (X-post asktrp) Love you! From BrianAdvice? Stop being the romantic and stop being a fucking tool. Leave her, you aren't exclusive at least she isn't. EDIT I would have said let me see your phone. She hesitates for even a second, exclusivity is off the table. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/15 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop a partner from cheating?Solid comment & breakdown For the record I'm married 1st and only (this doesn't work I play the field to the grave.) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Guy who rescued a deadbedroom after stumbling onto RP tactics is now angry and getting propositioned by hot young womenSolid understanding. Her condition is that you remain the top dog and are the always improving Masculine Alpha | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Guy who rescued a deadbedroom after stumbling onto RP tactics is now angry and getting propositioned by hot young womenRight, in your head you build this dream of how everything is supposed to operate, so you got married. Most guys take their foot off the gas after the honeymoon and then complacency sets in and kills. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Best fighting training?relevant | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Guy who rescued a deadbedroom after stumbling onto RP tactics is now angry and getting propositioned by hot young womenI'd argue good PUA skills is almost free, exclusivity definitely a plus though. I was providing a quick point of the why so many Men get Married. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Guy who rescued a deadbedroom after stumbling onto RP tactics is now angry and getting propositioned by hot young womenMen get married because we are the more romantic of the sexes and our society has made Marriage something you're supposed to do. you get comfortable with a person and a few times in the relationship you look at her and think, I could do this for the rest of my life. As the romantic you picture how things should be and how it will end with a happy ending, because that's how it works right? That's why guys get married, we think women Love us the way we Love them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Acta - week 1This is a weird post. Why does your wife have a 'girlfriend's night', what does she do? Raw power to brush teeth, what does that even mean? I feel like you were drunk from 11-15 Also, on your question regarding fashion, if you gave up after a Google search you aren't trying hard enough. Find resources or a 'look' you want and search for it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 11:53 AM |
| 6 | AWALTYou were (are?) a weaksauce fuck and she sought out a real Man. Did she cheat on you? EDIT So I saw other responses and she didn't cheat but actually recognized what was going on. She saw that she was developing the feelz for a guy, who is probably a Man and looked at you and realized she could do better. She cared enough to let you know you disgusted her, reward that. Also, stop saying 'if', it's not "IF this is my fault". You need to say "This* IS my fault". Because it is. Accept that and acce… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Let myself go Beta after Grandfathers unexpected deathI can totally say that while AWALT, it depends on the woman. No woman wants to play Mommy, not one. OP lost his shit couldn't eat or drink, weaksauce as fuck. Any 'man' who does this will see a change in behavior from their wife. Again, if one of my Navy buddies died today, my wife would expect me to feel pain and I would tell her "It sucks". But not a tear would be shed in front of her. Maybe I'd get together with other Navy guys and we'd drink and cry into our glasses, but my wife would be spa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/15 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Let myself go Beta after Grandfathers unexpected deathIf you're lucky, you'll see lots of death. Deep Edit Reminds me of the quote, "Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/15 02:04 PM |
| 7 | Let myself go Beta after Grandfathers unexpected deathyou are allowed to fall the fuck apart. Not for days you aren't, I wouldn't even say for the day. If it is a shock and you really can't control yourself you lose composure for minutes and then pull your shit back together. Women don't give a fuck about your feelings and if you weep in front of them they'll view you as a weakling not a sensitive guy who is, "Letting them in". I don't think you truly understand how deep women's solipsism runs. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/15 01:35 PM |
| 7 | Let myself go Beta after Grandfathers unexpected deathDon't be a pussy about it. People die, what does your weaksauce behavior do for that person or yourself? You know what the old stoics mentioned, giving yourself 1 day, just 1. Then getting back to living your life as a Masculine Man. If my father or brother died today, Men whom I am close to I would honor their life by living mine to the fullest and not taking a moment for granted. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/15 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Apparently she doesn't need to come, maybe she does, maybe she doesn't.Negative, in the 'moment' you don't ask shit, you just do. You're the Dominant, she's the submissive. She doesn't know what she wants then, she just wants it. I'll ask at random times, when she's doing the dishes I'll slide up, grab her hips and force her ass to my pelvis and whisper something like, Tell Daddy what you've always wanted done to you that you've never done or straight up out of the blue when walking or lifting look her dead in the fucking eyes until she looks away, then grab her by… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableSolid response dude, I wish more guys would see these examples of wives being absolute whores for their Men. My wife is fucking insane in bed and I Love it. I don't think she'd be this way if I wasn't the fucking Man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on "How do I make you feel loved"THAT much beta Dude, you do what works for you. There is no universal formula. You think me pushing my kids on the swing is alpha? Nope, but I do it. You do you, your ratio will depend on kids and your woman. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Apparently she doesn't need to come, maybe she does, maybe she doesn't.Yes | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableGet back on the grind and find comfort in the discomfort of having to work for something instead of the easy quick fix. Long Term Gratification > Short Term Gratification | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Opinions on "How do I make you feel loved"I'm curious as to why you think you have to fit into someone else's cookie cut mold for what is right and wrong. For the sake of simplicity I implement a 70 30. It's rare that I just cuddle or do sweet things. But I do them from time to time and I do so because I want to, not because she expects me to. Every situation is unique, some guys have success at 90%A 10%B Just be a Masculine Man who runs his family. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableTime & Attention are your greatest assets. Make sure these chicks earn it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Absence makes the heart grow fonderSolid Post Dude, take that type of absence and apply it (to a smaller degree) weekly. Whether it's you away at the gym, building something somewhere, taking the teen out but not her, taking the dog running, etc. All of these things build up and they show that you have a life (and mission) outside of her. NO Woman wants to be a Man's mission, they don't want to be Mommy. They want a Man who is Owning his shit and is grabbing life by the balls. In charge of himself and where he is going. That's th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableGood, I've read about guys who need to keep going to the next level as they get bored and then nothing less than a Japanese chick stepping on puppies in heels is all they get hard to. Fuck that shit Heather Brooke in her bikini from the year 2000 whatever still does it for me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Apparently she doesn't need to come, maybe she does, maybe she doesn't."The lesson from the other night where you said you don't need to come every time; I hope you don't live to regret that teaching" What the fuck dude? When I go beast mode and just pound the shit out of her and leave after I fill her up I walk to the couch or get some water and lean on the sink until she comes to me and I never ask if she finished or if it was ok. I don't care, I'll just hold her. This is where the Family Alpha dictates how the family is operating. You had to deal with entirely p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableWhen you see that life doesn't owe you shit, the disappointments are less and less. We are Men and therefore we are disposable. Every Man here needs to let that truly sink in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableWhat's the problem with discussing fantasies? Sex shouldn't be taboo. I've straight up asked my wife what she fantasized and she told me that she's always wanted me to stand over her and jerk off then cover her in my seed. BAM knocked that shit out the next night and she fucking went crazy, she came without me touching her. Women are so fucking emotional that the physical sometimes isn't even necessary. Talk about your fantasy, but then make it a reality, don't pretend you tie her up and fuck he… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableI haven't given it up, more like once or twice a month. I never had the issue where it got out of hand but after discussing it with a few guys I realized that this was a real problem. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableExactly why this shit has got to go. It's a habit that brings such a brief underwhelming joy that's quickly placated by regret and weaksauce demotivation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableDaily porn viewing being so expected among Men is like nice guys being so common. Just because there's a lot doesn't mean it's right. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the table/u/itsgavinc better articulated the car issue guys have. As for the rest, own your shit take charge of your success as well as failures. When you're fucking your wife in the ass like a caveman you'll know it's because she wants you to. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableAccepting weakness exists allows you to isolate and destroy it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 12:17 AM |
| 6 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableShow your appreciation by helping raise the standard of Men in Modern Society. Iron Sharpens Iron | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 09:22 PM |
| 6 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableNot sure if you're referring to me, but if you are I'd present this. When you say 'try something different' do you mean watch a different video? Because again, you're not fucking those chicks and it's weird that you talk about it like you are. I don't give a fuck about your anecdotal story, this applies to most guys lurking/unplugging. Porn leads to lack of confidence, motivation, and sexual 'readiness' for beta men. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableAccurate & pitifully true | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 08:54 PM |
| 7 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableJerking off to porn is a symptom of weakness, its not weak in its own right. Agreed, I just didn't want to have the 'moderation' discussion. If you have ED, aren't ever in the mood when your wife is ready to go, lack motivation, or haven't worked out that day you should not be jerking off. If you're on point and need to rub one out, go for it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Porn, Fantasy, & Keeping the Gag on the tableA lot of our stories relate as most of us cross the same milestones that bring us to TRP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Male and Female roles on raising children/caregivers and providersYeah dude, I wasn't fucking with you, I thought my brain wasn't firing on all cylinders, but it's you haha Rollo made a post about some of this. My two cents are that as long as the Man fills the masculine roles, then it makes no difference (im referring to a woman making more money than a Man). In regards to a straight up SAHD, I think the balance may shift and it would be very important for the Man to fill his role and clearly define what it is he is bringing to the table. Men and Woman are di… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Male and Female roles on raising children/caregivers and providersMaybe I'm retarded but what specifically are you asking? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Somehow I found this subreddit, just as I was making these realizations myselfOn the surface I come from a standpoint of reduced masculinity (? stature? whatever your word for it is) in that as an immigrant to a country where I don't speak the native language fluently, I am dependent on my wife for navigating some cultural and legal areas, as well as her higher income. Negative. If I was to be transported to Singapore working there for whatever reason, I would still own my shit and ensure my lady knew I was still the top dog. Remove the ego brother. There is absolutely ze… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Male and Female roles on raising children/caregivers and providersThere is a Masculine and Feminine in every 'proper' Marriage. What do you mean in regards to 'well adjusted children'? If the Man is being a Man and the woman a woman, the kids will see how relationships should work and the roles they should fill. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Why being Humble is GoodHumility is watching a man do something you are not capable of and drawing inspiration from it. Ego is watching a man do something you are not capable of and downplaying their achievement. Solid dude, I always push the message of using that feeling(Admiration/jealousy) as fuel to push harder & further instead of letting it act as an anchor that pulls you down. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 04:48 PM |
| 1 | FR men's retreat and personal growth.Real work is hard, get used to it. Find comfort in the discomfort. While I don't agree with a few of your points I will say that overall it seems you have broken down some walls that were protecting your ego. Instead of breaking others down so your mediocre performance doesn't look so bad, flip the script and make your personal growth and success force others to face their mediocrity. Whether it's your lifting, sex life, or professional growth, the better you do the harder others have to look at… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 11:31 AM |
| 3 | [FR] We all have weaknessesI read it and I get it, my 'weakness' is obese children, I hate seeing it. I used to let it get my heart rate up and rage flowing. We all need to not only STFU, like you suggested but I propose we take it a step further and break the habit of allowing it to phase us at all. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 10:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] We all have weaknessesUnderstood, don't let this shit sway you or make you pissed. When you see shit like this and the support it generates, just say, "of course" because you know this is how it is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 10:45 PM |
| 6 | [FR] We all have weaknessesDude, if you are still surprised at shit like this you have a long way to go. This Dad may be RP as fuck and his boyo wanted to be a princess, fuck it. You worry about what's in your control, that's it. Worrying about what's out of your control leads to loss of frame, which you displayed here. My Son is all that is Man so I don't have this issue or ever faced it. Same with my daughter, kid is straight glitter. I don't know what I would do if they ever wanted to do something I'd expect from the o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Reading Levels and YouUlysses and As I Lay Dying were good reads. But I bounce from topic to topic as I want to know a lot about a lot. I don't know why he'd pick those 2 as there are fucking hundreds for a Man to choose, whatever. My advice, read whatever the fuck you want to read and don't get cliff notes of anything. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Reading Levels and YouThat thread is just full of idiot sadists and masochists who don't understand this. Because you know the dudes right? You're a fucking winner, able to accurately and articulately depict who these Men are from their 2-5 sentence post. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Reading Levels and You"When you have read a considerable quantity, pick out one thing to reflect upon for the day" - Seneca | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 04:46 PM |
| 6 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?I have a short attention span. So work on it, both my siblings have ADHD, I get it. Work on it. It's like the guy who says, I'm bad with names or I suck at public speaking. They are all copouts that are used instead of just admitting that you don't find those things to be worth your effort. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 03:27 PM |
| 2 | FR some notes on being a Christian MRPIf it's out of your control, fuck it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 12:37 PM |
| 11 | I used to hate PMSThis is how a Family operates when the Family Alpha is filling his role as the leader. Your wife and kids are better because you are acting like a Man. Too few people see the benefits that others receive when the pill is swallowed and applied. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 11:15 AM |
| 4 | FR some notes on being a Christian MRPBecause it just ceases to matter that much when someone does the thing I expected them to because I've already accounted for it in my mental budget. Reminds me of This Photo Just being disappointed in people instead of feeling attacked or wounded by their actions. This sounds border line like you're letting them effect you negatively. I may have read it wrong as later it seems that you're indifferent to them, but just to be clear let people be people and when they fuck up, oh well you keep smili… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 11:11 AM |
| 10 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?I don't give a fuck what he reads, but coming here for shortcuts? That shows a weak mind that's looking for an easy path. Something that spreads like a cancer: Magic Pill for Fitness. Shortcut to comprehending TRP. Tricks To become Masculine overnight. There's no shortcut to any place worth going. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/15 11:27 PM |
| 12 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?When you were writing that response out, did it at all occur to you that I may be right? Or did you completely disregard my viewpoint and keep your blinders up, pointing the finger at everyone else saying, "No, they're all wrong..." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/15 09:07 PM |
| 12 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?Thank you for the only helpful reply. A lot of these replies would be helpful if you were to actual digest the message instead of viewing them as pointless or 'unhelpful banter'. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/15 07:10 PM |
| 4 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?Discipline > Motivation | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/15 05:52 PM |
| 11 | Was thinking about a comment my wife made to me last night.....Your physique/strength is low as shit in her eyes. She talks over you because she views herself to be the Dominant in the relationship. Yes, women's solipsistic nature always puts their self at the center of the world, but in her case she's not only the center but the leader in your relationship. I think she is right. Your need to have her clarify her prison comment shows just how weak and invested in her you are. Fuck her opinion, unless she was right, which she probably was, which is the real … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/10/15 07:17 PM |
| 25 | Only one month in, holy fucking shit..Acta, Non Verba A lot of guys talk about becoming better Men, better Masculine Warriors but few take the necessary actions. Brother, you decided to act and Own your shit. That is what Masculine Men do, that is what the Family Alpha does. Congrats on your success, now keep your foot on the gas and fucking destroy any hint of complacency creeping in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoI recall somebody was making a serie of posts/topics with the last one dedicated about emotions. Was that you? No. I haven't read much in depth about primary emotions It's a deep rabbit hole that I think is worth falling down, if for nothing more than just gaining some insight as to what causes these 'feelings'. The Red Pill can be found in every facet of living in a modern society as a Masculine Man. With that said, there is quite a bit of information that is worthy of deeper looks & writings. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/15 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoAs long as you are moving forward, there is no issue. I wrote this post about the importance of working through your problems instead of just dwelling on them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | A question for Hardcore Married RedsEverything you do provides an opportunity to 'gain' something. Whether it is tangible or intangible it makes no difference, every action provides an opportunity for personal growth. As you look back on your life you'll realize it is nothing more than a shit ton of 'moments' strung together. So make each of them count, even posts to MRP. Stepping off the soap-box now | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/15 09:15 PM |
| 3 | A question for Hardcore Married RedsNot trying to gain anything. Followed by 6 sentences of what you want to gain. Own your shit OP If you want to know something then OWN it. Don't pussyfoot around your intentions, at least on here (MRP/TRP) be direct. As for a husband who stays just to stay, I'd guess either he does 'Love' her and is lying to put up a front as he doesn't want to discuss it or he stays for the kids/convenience/social status. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/15 07:17 PM |
| 5 | A question for Hardcore Married RedsI do No I don't see it that way at all Agreed EDIT What are you trying to gain from this post? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/15 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Give me cake.I coach flag football and that whistle at today's game went straight to my brain place, killer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/10/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Ex-addicts, how are your marriages?You're playing victim and deflecting responsibility, that combined with your post shows the shitty example that is being set for your family. The standard you're maintaining for yourself is quite low therefore the bar that's been set for them is equally low. They're seeing what you are and are going to imitate that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/10/15 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Give me cake.I'm 3 bottles of Pinot deep, you? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/10/15 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Give me cake.Commies edit not saying I'm sober as buying a 12 bottle pack of wine from trader joe's was today's awesome decision of the day lol | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Give me cake.Drunk redditing? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 11:23 PM |
| 7 | Ex-addicts, how are your marriages?Your situation is not different nor is it unique. All of the TRP praxeology applies. I know you want a special answer but there isn't one. I was a straight up alcoholic for a while. I had the little voice in my head that took over after that first sip. I fixed my shit by owning my shit and refusing to accept mediocrity. It was hard, I came out on top because I chose the Masculine path of pain and discomfort and I shot my ego in the face. That's your answer OP EDIT Also, stop being a weaksauce pu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoWe all used to be somebody all that matters is who you are, as a Man, right now. Solid recognition and appropriate edit | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Joy & EgoKill | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Joy & EgoThis community has helped me more than I could ever express so I hope I have been able to contribute something that has been able to benefit others | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/15 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoDude, spot the fuck on. Exactly the same course I'm on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoI touched on that yesterday when someone said not to expect their wife to wear a gag. The only limits are those you place on yourself. It's probably going to be my next post as these guys aren't realizing that as Men they are capable of achieving whatever they want in their Marriage. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoSpot on dude. It's why is rote it, I realized these guys were pointing the finger of blame at everything except their own chest. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoCompletely | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Joy & EgoThe problem is the preconditioned feeling of I'm special and MY voice needs to be heard Everyone thinks they're a fucking snowflake and that's simply gotta get out of every Man's head. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoThanks dude, glad it was worth your time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Period Post: The BossSolid work brother, now keep the foot on the gas and don't get complacent. Self improvement to the grave. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Joy & EgoBest complimentary response I've had, could be a solid post in and of itself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 06:40 PM |
| 7 | Joy & EgoIf you don't lift you don't lose ground, you just remain mediocre. Talk too much, you lose ground. I understand your reasoning. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Joy & Egomatter of perspective Absolutely, you're in it only you know if you did the right thing (through her response). Also, you're response was fucking incredible, it was like a journey through your mind. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Joy & EgoShare the rage, tears, and confusion with your bros or on this forum not with your woman, she'll view it as weakness. Solid realization and self understanding to be aware that you need to just STFU and ride it out with Masculine silence or via the Iron. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoI don't understand why you got the menu. you wanted a home cooked meal and had worked 48 hours, I think you deserve your damn meal. Plus, as the wife she would have gained some satisfaction knowing she can take care of her Man. I'd chock that one up as a loss. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoYou've been conditioned to react that way, it takes time but the more you recognize the ego coming into play, the better you can shut it down. To the point where it finally dies and you can then begin to rebuild upon the solid RP foundation you've developed through self discipline. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoAnd you just can't always resolve it right, and you make bad calls, and are overly reactive at times. Solid points and a topic of discussion that I see time and again. The answer is always the same, chill the fuck out and accept the failure, learn from it, accept responsibility for it, then just keep moving forward. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Joy & EgoI'm glad the message was received, I thought about straight up including your username. I didn't because I recognized it wasn't just you but a few other guys as well. We all are in this shit together, sharing the information and providing the reminders aid in the transition. I want nothing more than for every Married Man to be on top of his game. Iron Sharpens Iron, I want to run with the Lions, not be the king of sheep. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Joy & EgoAbsolutely, when she drops a shit test like this, I just smile and act like I didn't even hear her. Then I look inside and realize she's right, I didn't do my job as the Family Alpha I chose the weak path of failing to prioritize. every woman wants their Man to be king Dick, Family Alpha, Captain they absolutely resent having to play mommy to a grown ass man and wear the Captain's Hat. They're chicks, they just want to cruise along and enjoy the ride while you steer the ship. Pulling their work … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Joy & EgoSolid observation and an accurate point regarding balancing the Push vs Pull. While unplugging there is no reason you can't think like the Man you want to be even if you don't look like him. I wrote about that here a post that may be of use to you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Joy & Egothe kitchen counter needed some Glass Plus. Kill Your example touches on something I've promoted time and again. You want to prevent complacency and boredom from setting into your wife's mind, be fucking mysterious keep that hooker on her toes, never knowing what you're going to do or say. Solid mini FR dude, I wish every guy could see this in action as I believe it is that important, I think I even included it in my '10 ways to fuck with your wife' post | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Joy & EgoLack of patience is due to that 'foresight' that keeps looking down the road to where you want to be instead of where you are. Focus on the now, focus on each step to ensure it's properly placed. Before you know it you'll have covered the necessary miles and discovered new paths to new heights that you never thought were possible to reach. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Joy & EgoHopefully after reading you're able to apply it to a specific situation you're working on. I try to provide an immediately applicable post to this forum, where you can read and then bam put it into motion. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Joy & EgoI agree, which is why I decided to break it down a little and hope the guys this applies to take note. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Even if your wife knows deep down that you are the one for her, tingles are like heroin and eventually she will need her fix.When your woman cheats and you still stay with her, how do you sort out the conflicting feelings of "if I stay, am I being beta? You have to own it. How can you possibly look at yourself as some betafuck pushover if you're the one making the call. As long as you based the decision solely off your own desires and plan for the future, the only way it's beta is if you're still a pussy who is butthurt about it. "I was a loser and I need to better myself"? Ego brother, remove the ego. She wouldn't ha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Realizing you have nothing to loseI'm sending it to publishers the week before thanksgiving (that was my personal deadline) I won't be having any announcement other than introducing my blog from there I will announce the book. This place has helped me more than any other and I have no desire to fill it with advertisements. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/15 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Realizing you have nothing to loseI'm writing a book about remaining a Masculine Man in Marriage (and reclaiming it) and one of the points I discuss is that people are like generators. They generate their own happiness (light) and some people generate more than others. Some people absorb energy and others provide it. What you are realizing is that you generate your own happiness and you emit your own light. Up till then you were absorbing your wife's. You needed her to light you up and give you validation (happiness). You need t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/15 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Even if your wife knows deep down that you are the one for her, tingles are like heroin and eventually she will need her fix.You cannot domesticate hypergamy. You can decrease the odds not eliminate them. I would argue that your defense of the 'men' as not being losers is protecting your ego from the fact that you may have been a loser and that's why she cheated, I get it as I shared with you I went through something similar. The difference, I get she did it because I was a beta fuck, AWALT. Now, I understand I'm the prize and I am striving to excel in every facet of living. I operate as each Masculine Man should, wit… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/15 05:18 PM |
| 11 | Even if your wife knows deep down that you are the one for her, tingles are like heroin and eventually she will need her fix.Hypergamy is what it is, accept and move forward towards self improvement and self generated happiness. This is why I wrote this post keep yourself interesting and a mystery or you'll become boring, then apathy sets in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Cultivating Femininity?Solid reference, not sure if you meant to do it but you fucking nailed the Masculine and Feminine 'Yin Yang' I've been preaching for years. You are who you are, a Man. When that fully 'clicks' and the Red Pill fully 'dissolves' you will have come back to what you were meant to be the entire time. OP (and any guy here) if you're having issues with sex, submission, or 'adventurousness' from your wife it's because you haven't sculpted it yet. She is like that. If you become a Man who leads and gene… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Cultivating Femininity?Don't take the gag off the table. She may want it but is embarrassed to tell you. Lead by putting yourself out there. I have a gag, flog, rope, etc. These are accessories to our already solid sex life. Keep it interesting and lead her to the promised land. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Cultivating Femininity?Yeah dude, the guys who show all of their success and flaunt their gains but go radio silent when they fail are showing how 'fake' their alpha behavior is. As a Man you own your shit, the good and the bad. You accept you missed your mark and whether it was of your own doing (not preparing properly/trying hard enough) or out of your control (freak accident, someone else fucks up and it influences you) you still own it. This place is for personal growth, not circle jerking about how fucking awesom… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Cultivating Femininity?No problem dude, we all hate our previous faggot selves, it's a part of the growth. Once you recognize your poor performance, you have to change it. So you've identified the issue and are rectifying it. I'm sure when you start to enjoy this shit, show OI from whether she does what you want or not, and find Comfort in the Discomfort - everything will just seem easier. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Cultivating Femininity?Her: I don't want to wear a dress. You: Well, I don't want to wear pants. Take them off. Don't treat her like a Man. She isn't using logic but you're arguing with the logical response, play to her emotions. Make her laugh while you strut without pants, keep her smiling the dress will show up. She's filling your vessel, you need to build her up by building yourself up. My wife had 2 C Sections, so she has that lower belly fat that she fucking hates. But she still walks around topless and wears se… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Cultivating Femininity?First, you need to recognize that she is who she is. Yes, as the Man you can lead her towards different behaviors, but if jeans and tanks are her thing then you aren't going to get more than the occasional dress, etc. Now, by no means do I want you to just accept it and move on, because fuck that she's your woman and should make an attempt to give you what you want or else you'll start looking elsewhere. A few options are to get her into that dress and when she is in it, say something that will … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 06:00 PM |
| 20 | Did I do the right thing? Or fail the ultimate shit test?Dude, you're a grown ass man. Do whatever you want. Seriously, what do you want? Do that thing. If you want a better wife and family, be a better Man. Improve yourself and stop texting like some desperate orbiter who feels like the man because he has a side 'text' chick'. If you want to fuck your friend, stop texting her and fuck her. if my wife paid me proper attention You seem like a weaksauce dude, do you deserve her attention? If you did, you'd have it or take it. She fills your vessel, you … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Common sense or help me understanding RPI promised to read Read them, then bring your specific question to the table. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Common sense or help me understanding RPI only want to understand this philosophy(sic) Praxeology FTFY Also, you don't only want to understand* because if you didn't you wouldn't have made a special post for yourself. If you only want to learn, then invest the time and effort into reading the books and going through the top posts and conduct some introspection without uttering a word to anyone. You don't need attention to understand shit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What are you thinking about?A real well I let out a mighty bellow of a laugh at that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 03:20 PM |
| 12 | my wife told me to look into redpill handbook, my tactics backfired?I'm open to all your ideas, just please no personal attacks. Don't be a pussy, accept that you said this because you knew the problem was you. You're pathetic and your lady wants a real Man. What you should do is completely shut the fuck up for a few, remove your ego, then reassess your situation. Have you read any of the posts on this subreddit or the main one? The books? The Blogs? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What are you thinking about?Yeah dude, I've been educating myself on the topic as well. I'm in New England so I don't think I'll need to go as deep as most, we're barely above sea level. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 02:15 PM |
| 1 | What are you thinking about?stop being weird If I'm not weird then I'm like everyone else, and if I'm like everyone else I'm mediocre, and mediocrity to me is Death, so I'll stay weird. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 01:53 PM |
| 3 | What are you thinking about?The tag with the well information is illegible, so I'm guessing between 200-300 ft. Not sure, so I plan to get an actual 'well guy' to provide some assistance and then create a plan of action from there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 01:52 PM |
| 3 | What are you thinking about?Acceptance of this fact makes everything just that much fucking easier to come to terms with. You expect less from people (mainly women) and it gets to the point where when they say they fucked up, you just reply with Of course you did as you knew it would happen. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 11:47 AM |
| 9 | What are you thinking about?Dude no fucking shit last night she said "What are you thinking about?" and I said "Cumming all over your tits" BAM! it happened right after lol EDIT To show the newer guys the point of this story: I was thinking about whether I needed to keep adjusting the water pressure and set points for my water pump or if I'm going to have to clear out sediment, or dig my well deeper. She doesn't give the slightest of shits about that, nor does she need to as I'm the Man. So I fucked with her, telling her w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 11:23 AM |
| 22 | [FR] Wife's cousin notices changes (in me).Solid understanding, minimal fluff, your takeaway is on point, well done. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Stoics and Frame Control, OI, Manliness virtues (Courage, integrity, Wisdom and Self control)Solid reminder and a great intro to those who haven't looked into this often cited source of 'Life Philosophies'. I know myself and a few others on this sub also found our way to Stoicism through TRP and I'm forever indebted to it for that reason. I've done the readings and applied the practical applications to my life and it has enabled me to fully immerse myself IN the moment and to find joy and tranquility through it all. Stoicism is what helped me dissolve the last (and most difficult) part … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 03:18 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill ParentI think your best course of action would be the oft quoted, 'Acta, Non Verba' just be the example without ever having to say shit. An exchange of words could ruin a relationship, but their kids seeing your actions, well you're just being you and if that is the type of life those kids want then they will be the ones to approach you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill ParentThis is why I post on TRP/MRP I fully believe that this is where we can combat this conditioning. We improve ourselves, seeds are planted in others, and our children are brought up with a 'different' view on life. I was incredibly fortunate that the Navy was my Rite of Passage, I swallowed the Pill on day 1 of bootcamp. I was 19 and for the first time in my life I was acting like a Man and I never looked back. Then I found TRP/MRP and I've been able to understand Why these things worked and it h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 02:36 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill ParentDude, fuck. When I was reading through the post I was thinking, Does this shit actually happen?? I had seen it here and there in the military, but I chocked that up to it being the craziness of military families. But to read your comment, fuck that dude. It is crazy how deep the solipsism and support network for sabotaging Men runs. All the more reason for you to be a Man and be the vessel your wife fills. She knows you run the show and therefore will defer to you for guidance. You keep your uni… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 02:13 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill ParentThe Red Pill offers knowledge that Men didn't have (recently) and didn't need (not so recently). This knowledge better prepares us to deal with life and is definitely something I'll be teaching my Son. I don't want him to ever need TRP, but rather just have been brought up understanding that this is how things work. I know my kids will be influenced by society, but the larger role I play in their lives and upbringing the better I'll be able to manage that information from the onset. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 01:07 PM |
| 5 | OI Did it work ?I was being very obvious that I expected sex that night You're a Man, why wait until night? Unfortunately our 1 year old woke up , and that ended that That's when you flip her to your favorite position and you fucking pound her like a caveman until you blow that sweet beauty fluid all over her body. Then you get the kid while she recovers her composure. " poor baby , don't worry i'll make you feel better in bed tonight You seem to be pretty nagging about sex. It's like the seagulls from Nemo, Se… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 12:49 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill ParentIt's the order of success. The same as the phrase Happy Husband, Happy Wife she fills your vessel, if it's a solid one she'll reflect that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 12:37 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill ParentMost men buy into this prioritization as well. It seems deductively logical that a woman would necessarily need to put her child’s attention priorities well above her husband’s. What’s counterintuitive to both parents is that it’s the health of their relationship (or lack) that defines and exemplifies the complementary gender understanding of the child. Women default to using their children as cats paws to assume primary authority of the family, and men are already preconditioned to accept this … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 12:16 PM |
| 4 | [FR] WTF just happened?It seems that you're becoming aware of what's really going on around you. You're not reaching the point where you can manipulate those around you to get what you want because you're recognizing that The Red Pill applies to everything in your life. This is the point where things get fun and you should be enjoying the fuck out of it. The Red Pill is awesome, people put way too much emphasis on making each and every interaction some drawn out deep 'thing'. You recognized this dude trying to 'gain f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/15 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Demands are disrespectful of the marriageOn point dude | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/09/15 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Demands are disrespectful of the marriageRespect > Fear | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/09/15 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Held frame through the biggest test from my wifeIts not about forgiveness either. Biggest takeaway for OP. You aren't forgiving fucked up behavior you're basing your happiness on her being around or not. Fuck her, it's about the value(and happiness) you decide she brings to you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/09/15 12:36 AM |
| 6 | Held frame through the biggest test from my wifeIs this because of the lie you learned about, or are there other issues? This is what it comes down to. If she's been solid for 10 years, get over it. That was the path I took as looking at trend analysis I could see she may have fucked up as a girlfriend but she's been a solid wife and mother and I'm getting everything I want from her now. Remember AWALT, OP she acted that way because you weren't the stronger branch. Use that as fuel, not an anchor. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/09/15 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Demands are disrespectful of the marriageDominant > Domineering | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/09/15 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Held frame through the biggest test from my wifeI faced a very similar situation to yours (preengagement cheating with a dude, didn't find out till married 7 years, etc). We had this discussion once, while the wound was fresh. I told her our marriage was based on a lie as I'd never have married a whore and that it happened because I was a weaksauce fuck and she was doing what women do. She nor I have worn our rings since. The reason I provide that info is because since this all went down (3 months ago) she's been on point. I didn't punish her… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/09/15 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Meditation in MotionAgreed. The difference is you understand that this shared goal of living a Masculine Married life brings us together, but it doesn't mean we aren't alone when it comes down to our decisions and the life we're living. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/09/15 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Meditation in MotionOf course it's reliable and that was what I meant when I said that thinking on the problem has it's place, in the beginning. Your problem of stay or go doesn't need to be dragged out indefinitely. How many opinions before you decide, 1? 13? I say hear out a few Men who have earned your respect and then just decide for yourself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/09/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Meditation in MotionI've felt bonded with other groups online before. Maybe because you can be somebody else online than you are in reality. This place shouldn't give you the tingles or be considered anything more than a digital locker room. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Meditation in MotionAgreed | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Meditation in MotionIron sharpens Iron, absolutely. But never forget that even when you're together, the choices you make are yours alone. I was in the Navy and fully comprehend the camaraderie that comes from that. But, at the end of the day the only one who knows or truly gives a shit about the joy we find in our life is our self. We walk the path alone, maybe parallel to other Men, but alone. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Meditation in MotionI crave a lot of connection Connection or attention? What I've noticed is a lot of guys here don't want to reognize that they are walking this path alone. Sure, we all share the fact that we have dicks, and we also share the common bond of having the potential for living a Masculine life, but past that there is nothing linking me to you or anyone on this forum. It's that point which I think is the greatest of points. While I personally am happy to share my thoughts/words with you guys to hopeful… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 05:39 PM |
| 9 | Is it a shit test if she asks nicely?Not every single word you exchange with your wife has to be some big-ass Red Pill dispute Fucking A this has been repeated time and again and it seems to be a point new guys skip during 'Intro to TRP Day'. Get out of your head and just be. Observe things for what they are, don't make them a thing. If my wife asks me for a glass of water and I want to get her one, then I will. If she asks for one and I don't want to get her one because I'm busy I'll say, I'm busy and either she'll get it or wait.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Wife here: How can I encourage my man to take the red pill?/u/IanIronwood wrote a pretty solid post about exactly this over at The Red Pill Room I forgot the title of the post so you'll have to search. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 02:38 PM |
| 32 | Starfish? No thanks.We both work, so when we get home with the two small kids there is a lot to do. Cooking, cleaning, baths etc. We finally put the kids in their room and hang out before they go to sleep. This is you rationalizing and providing excuses for poor performance on your part. I also have 2 children and yet I'm getting the exact type of sex I want nightly. How? Because I make those everyday pieces of married life a part of my 'game'. Every 'normal' action in life is an opportunity for growth. You can gro… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Self Improvement w/o Self Ownership is FutileWhat personal actions have you taken in regards to owning your shit? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/15 05:11 PM |
| 34 | Simple lifetips aimed at young TRPers for killing your inner procrastinating asshole and prevent orbiting.I am by no means a red-pill expert (lurking for about 2 years), Why compromise your authority and expertise on the subject from the beginning? Why not just write and let your post tell us your worth? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Serious question : end game of a trperExperience life, improve your knowledge in an area that's lacking. Just do what makes you happy. For some that's playing with their grand-kids and helping their kids through life. For others, it's suicide as they feel they no longer serve a purpose and want to go out on their own terms. The answer is as unique as your fingerprints. My advice, keep doing whatever brings you joy and tranquility in a Masculine manner. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 01:03 PM |
| 2 | A Man in Demand Conference – The ReviewNow if you can get a medal out of it, then we are talking bling son! Nerd | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/15 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Lifting, it's not a choice you need to make.Professor Potatochip Stolen | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Comfort Test for Newly Pregnant WifeRemind her that's she's pregnant and billions of people before and after her have made it through this so freaking out only causes harm, no good for anyone. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I don't want kids; wife does. How do I prepare (or or preferably avoid) a possible Event about this? [x-posted to /r/asktrp]You're the Man - You're the Captain. I hope the conversation goes smoothly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Comfort Test for Newly Pregnant WifeDude, you need to chill the fuck out and just be a fucking rock. Anxiety, freaking out, being depressed, that shit causes miscarriages. How about you tell your wife that her job is to eat right, live a healthy lifestyle, and exercise in order for her child to be as healthy as possible. Fuck her friends, fuck her family, fuck the news, she needs to turn to you for guidance. YOU are her Man and therefore your word is Law when it comes to these types of matters. Stand Strong and remain confident, d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Did I do this right?Her: can you fill this cup up with water? You: You can fill it with how wet you're about to get. Then carry her ass to the kitchen table and fuck her or sit back in the kitchen (anywhere not the bedroom) and let her blow you there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 06:04 PM |
| 3 | I don't want kids; wife does. How do I prepare (or or preferably avoid) a possible Event about this? [x-posted to /r/asktrp]Take the Masculine Approach. Face it head on and Own Your Stance. Fuck what the majority does and fuck what anyone else does. This is your life. I would be clear, direct, and open about this with her. Tell her you have been thinking that at your age most people are considering kids. Don't tell her you heard her mention it, by not saying that she'll think you're on the same wave length and just get her. Then say exactly what you mean. If you truly want to be open to the possibility of adopting, t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Update: Wife WAS Scared of MeIt seems as though you are now. I'm saying that when you joined the church and began to exhibit the Beta behaviors, you were no longer living life as a Masculine Male, thus you developed an onset of several symptoms that I associate with repressed Masculinity (Or as you say you got soft and things sucked.) Now, you've just got to recognize that as a Man you can look like the big scary mother fucker and even play that role if you want, but not to your wife and kids. they need to know that even th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/15 04:40 PM |
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