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Ikea has some fantastic ones
/r/seduction15/11/18 07:24 AM
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Possibly playing hard to get, possibly is just flipping through stories so fast/ sees yours/ honestly doesn't give a shit and you're overthinking her apathy toward you on social media.
/r/seduction15/11/18 07:24 AM
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I totally get that/ there's no way to phrase it better- I don't think about this as a good thing at all, whatsoever. I'm not trying to brag about swiping left on everyone, I'm not trying to brag about the people I've been with- fuck, I have friends my age who have amazing wives, girlfriends and otherwise with awesome jobs and are totally content with less exciting lifestyles and the more conventional. I don't want to feel the way I'm feeling, which is why I created this post. I genuinely wish I …
/r/seduction15/11/18 06:44 AM
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You're right for sure, but I do have to say through years of experience, more often than not, people tend to show you who they are on the outside- it's hard to find the wolf in sheep's clothing. But I'm sure they do exist, and more than I think. I guess I just like girls that don't give a fuck about conventional girly stuff, which is often conveyed in how women present themselves. That being said, I'm a bit of a dirtbag myself and there were several years where I'd get much more dressed up than …
/r/seduction15/11/18 06:39 AM
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I feel conflicted- I guess I just want to be desired by women that I'm super attracted to, that hasn't happened that much quite yet, it's flighting, and due to being bummed about the breakup I feel like it fucks me up when I get ghosted by hot chicks I thought I had a connection with Last four weeks or so went out with six different women, had second dates with three and had at least one or two additional girls ghost me after making solid plans but didnt hold my interest enough for me to activel…
/r/seduction15/11/18 06:03 AM
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Thank you for this
/r/seduction14/11/18 05:12 PM
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• You're looking for a certain type of woman because their wild lives give you a certain type of experience. Have you tried finding those experiences without the women attached? Perhaps you're living vicariously through them, and will chase that high until you find it for yourself. I think this one might be truer than I give it credit for, and the last point as well. I think I have been living vicariously through my partners while not giving myself enough credit for who I am/ the cool shit I do …
/r/seduction14/11/18 05:09 PM
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It was kinda the most intense relationship of my life, even though it was only 6.5 months. I loved this chick to death/ it sucks understanding I'm almost completely the reason this relationship failed/ I do really feel like shit about the whole thing
/r/seduction14/11/18 09:46 AM
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How old are you if you don't mind my asking?
/r/seduction14/11/18 08:03 AM
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Personally, I'm into weird ass women- super unconventional badass chicks. My last was a drug trafficker who toured through Central America by bike for years and was a fine oil painter, the ex after that was a climber who's trekked through Nepal and SE Asia and lived in Yosemite national park for three years. They never wore makeup, could nearly outdrink me, would pee in the woods at the drop of a hat and typically forgot when they showered last- and they were hot AF. I'm not saying that those ty…
/r/seduction14/11/18 07:39 AM
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I started psychotherapy a week before I got dumped and two before my uncle died, so it was pretty good but unintentional timing. I take zero offense to that whatsoever- my biggest deal with my past two relationships was that I was exclusively using one woman's love and affection to validate my existence/ let it be the only thing that kept me going. I didn't give up hobbies or cut people out of my life, but my relationships seemed to be the only things that were truly bringing me happiness. So in…
/r/seduction14/11/18 06:00 AM
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I left her alone since our last correspondence. No preemptive mention of plans, no acknowledgement of any plans or apology or attempt to reschedule whatsoever... Time to just let it go? Hit her back up in a week?
/r/seduction08/11/18 05:58 AM
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True that on the missed opportunity.. Still kicking myself. What do you think about her flakiness/ lack of response? It's too late for the Monday thing now, I already mentioned another idea for Wednesday which included no group. Most of the women I've been with are excellent at communicating, no bullshit, no games, and actively want to pursue me/ stay in touch. I know what it's like to chase too much/ I think I haven't crossed the line just yet, but I don't really understand what I can do to mak…
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:57 PM
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You knocked this response out of the park. I did just treat these experiences as if I was on a date with my ex/ just hanging with friends. Not anywhere enough escalation/ teasing/ anything of the sort, and I just laid everything out on the table at once- there was absolutely nothing mysterious about me whatsoever, I just vomited everything about myself that I could over the course of an hour- neither of the girls seemed blown away by anything I told them, probably because it all came out so fast…
/r/seduction13/09/16 08:06 PM
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true. there's just so few bars I like in the shitty little town I'm at- I hate to leave one that I actually like, especially if I've got friends there/ music is good, just in the hopes of meeting new people at the point in time when everyone's about to head home for the night.
/r/seduction09/12/13 05:44 PM
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Hey, I go out alone often. It feels pretty strange at first, but if you're in a similar situation to me- co-workers are all married or in very serious relationships/ hate going out, new in town/ seriously don't know but a handful of people- it's often the option of sit at home in your pit of despair and loneliness, or go out and have a great time. If you run into anyone you know when you're out, just tell them the truth- going out by yourself is way better than sitting at home, so you went out. …
/r/seduction06/12/13 11:39 PM
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fucking spot on, man. thanks a lot for this- I think you really hit the nail on the head here. I'm right out of a serious, 4yr relationship- I know there's better girls out there than my ex, for sure, but damn- talking to as many people as I have recently, it's really opened my eyes up to how much I don't have in common with, I'd say, a solid 75% of the people out at the bars in my city. At any rate, these are really good rules of thumb to abide by. probably will test 'em out later tonight, than…
/r/seduction06/12/13 08:54 PM
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I understand where you're coming from, but let's say you open a set, situationally. how are you meant to switch from talking about what someone's wearing/ how crowded a place is/ what they're drinking, to a conversation about sex? I've just started going out recently, mainly alone, and the concept of starting a conversation with someone exclusively based on your physical attraction to them blows my mind, in good and bad ways. I don't know anything about said person, other than that I like the wa…
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:13 PM
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