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| 2 | Secret PhoneDont confront. Get proof of affair- File. This should get you out of alimony, which is a big deal if you are making 100k a year. Or see attorney, draft divorce docs, and confront. Demand total compliance and access to unlocked burner phone. Id bet she will gaslight/ lie/ deny, and not give you the phone, which confirms the affair. File first, kick her ass out of the house, and live an epic life. Kill the puppy. | /r/askMRP | 07/02/18 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Secret PhoneNot enough background. how long you been married? kids? Does your wife work? All these things will impact alimony. I would not confront and hire a PI. a VAR in the car is a good idea as well. All of this is important from an alimony standpoint. Once you collect evidence of affair, see attorney and draw up paperwork for divorce. Confront with divorce papers and ask to see the phone. If she balks or denies, file for D. Cliffs: kill the puppy. | /r/askMRP | 07/02/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with put downs"why did you put that there I didn't want it there!" Are we talking about butt play? | /r/askMRP | 13/12/17 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Have you killed your ego?these fact have helped me. 1- You are not special. You are not different. 2- Your wife is not special. They are all the same. AWALT. 3- Life is short. Live an amazing life, while you still can. 4- The world owes you nothing. Take ownership of all outcomes in work and marriage. Being a victim is BS. If your wife won't fuck you, its your fault. If your bank roll is shitty its your fault. If your kids are awful, its your fault. In other words, you are entitled to nothing. Ego= entitlement. | /r/askMRP | 06/12/17 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Seven weeks after SO drops the "I don't love you anymore" getting mixed messages... magical thinking has me wanting to see a glimmer of hopeyou are working the sidebar and seeing gains in your life, health, and marriage. My advice: STFU and see where you are in 6 months. If she wants to follow, then great... If not, find younger and hotter. | /r/askMRP | 06/12/17 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Tired of Stone-face and StarfishLook, I love a good redemption story, and I think people can change. However, its hard to feel bad for a guy that isn't fucking his wife when he has a rap sheet for physical abuse against said wife. I dont think you can salvage the dumpster fire that is your marriage. Move on. | /r/askMRP | 04/12/17 09:48 PM |
| 13 | Tired of Stone-face and StarfishShe wants you to kill the puppy. She regrets taking back an abusive piece of shit like you. She is seriously questioning her life decisions. You should probably go monk mode for 2 years and figure out why beating a woman is "wrong." Seriously, you spit in a womans face and then wonder why she won't fuck you... | /r/askMRP | 04/12/17 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Need Actionable Advice on Reducing Oneitishave shit to do. Go climb a mountain. shoot guns. Go fishing. Go surfing. Party with your boys. "Nah babe, can't talk now, I have shit to do." Live your life like this. Maybe she will want to come along. Maybe not. doesn't matter... | /r/askMRP | 01/12/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | A "Don't Eat Paint" postyou gave her a foot massage after she fucked another man? You're doing it wrong. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/11/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | FR / Small Victim Pukeare you a fun, happy, attractive guy? not to get too far in the weeds, but you are butt hurt over your wife being butt hurt about aircon. this is some first world shit right there... | /r/askMRP | 17/11/17 03:39 AM |
| 1 | FR / Small Victim Pukeall this self hate, and you wonder why she does not like you? She doesn't like you because YOU don't like you. Go out and be awesome. Be happy. All this shit is no big deal. To me RP isn't some checklist... If I do X, then Y will happen. Fuck that. Cliff notes- If you are a happy, fun, attractive guy, then life is your oyster. You are the prize. OP isn't a prize... He is a man that gets butt hurt over Air Con. | /r/askMRP | 16/11/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Need help with confronting my father.counterpoint. A man with abundance won't risk physical confrontation. Too risky. Instead, handle you father like you would your wife. Withhold attention, time, and treasure. Reward good behavior. Hold frame, and try to not "exchange words." Remove yourself and live your life. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/17 05:25 PM |
| 3 | How to implement RP while deployed? Any tips and clues? I would say Level 2 Marriage - Long..A 6 week vacation from your wife? Glorious. My advice? Pursue your healthy hobbies and develop new ones. - lift -play sports -shoot guns -scuba dive -travel -work on game with strange. I would limit contact with SO and enjoy the fuck out of your life. Stop worrying about what your wife is doing... you can't control it. Focus on yourself. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 14, 2017how are you going to retire at the age of 37 with a net worth of 400K? Cliff notes- kids are expensive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/11/17 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 14, 2017I spent about $7k on MC. Nothing to show for it but CC debt... So my question is, why go? Just curious. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/11/17 04:09 PM |
| 2 | FR future ex wife moving out"Took the advice of others from my last post and have worked towards not having my ex wife see me as an enemy. This has been a huge improvement. She's cordia,l borderline sweet towards me. Gives me some hope that we won't be exposing our son to our toxic bullshit drama anymore. Thank you to those who convinced me this was a good move." “Supreme excellence consists of breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting.” ― Sun Tzu, The Art of War | /r/askMRP | 13/11/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I hopelessely felt in love with a bipolar woman.she sounds BPD. Google that shit. If you knowingly enter into a marriage with a BPD, then there is no hope. None. I wouldn't even keep her as a plate. Kill the puppy before she kills you or gets the police involved. | /r/askMRP | 08/11/17 04:10 PM |
| 9 | Discovered cheating AFTER taking RPSee a lawyer. Ask about a post nupt agreement. If viable, draw it up. Present papers... something like "if it happens again, I get all assets, 50/50 custody. No alimony." also, if I find out after the fact about other relationships, the marriage ends. See how she reacts. If she says no, then kill the puppy. This plan of attack gives her actionable consequences to her future behavior, and gives you an exit if she fucks up again. | /r/askMRP | 08/11/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Can I fix my marriage or do I prepare for divorce?1- Sidebar 2- Seek legal counsel. -Your marriage confrontations are turning physical. Protect yourself. | /r/askMRP | 06/11/17 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Wife addicted to weaponized sex; impending divorce"Devote 100% of your energy to your children and your divorce." I would devote my time to work, friends, gym, kids and hobbies. For gods sake... be interesting. Have shit to do. OP- Sounds like your wife is hitting you with a comfort/ shit test. Kiss her on the forehead and roll on down the road with your plan. | /r/askMRP | 06/11/17 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Friend needs immediate helpYour friend should lawyer up, present papers, and pull the 180. Tell her how it is. Your friend won't lose everything... He will lose half. He is on the hook for child support and 5 years of alimony. If he is worried about alimony, hire a PI and catch her cheating. at the end of the day, your buddy is high value and will do just fine... He has nothing to lose, but some money and 50% of his kids time. If he has abundant mentality, he will be way ahead going forward without his idiot wife. | /r/askMRP | 06/11/17 05:42 PM |
| 10 | About to jump shipSTFU. see a lawyer. file. Present papers. Be nice. Focus on what's best for the kid. My guess- no fault divorce. Same income= no alimony. No chance for alimony= no need for a PI. OP- your wifes ship has sailed. GTFO. Kill the puppy and live an interesting life. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/17 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Let That Shit Go"He had failed to do the one thing that we know. He failed to be interesting, to develop a rich life. To speak with and be an authority on the things that make a man interesting." THIS. Be the prize. live a rich life. Everything else takes care of itself if you focus on that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/17 02:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR]autistic rambo. don't go nuclear over petty shit... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How to man up?she, she, she, she, she, she, she... Fuck. "I'd like her to have this control over her mind and emotions because I want presence in the relationship." stop thinking about her so much and do the sidebar... Maybe then you will see you are in a shitty relationship and don't have to put up w it. | /r/askMRP | 11/10/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Convince me not to get married.You are too young to get married. Whats the rush? If she gives an ultimatum, walk. If its meant to be, than she will still be there when you are ready. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 26, 2017I taught sailing for 15 years. I have no clue what the difference is between a ketch and a sloop. OP, good luck in learning to sail... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/09/17 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 26, 2017what kettlebell weight are you swinging? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/09/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 19, 2017holy fuck. where to begin. 1-you are way to EMO. Stop talking about your feelings... women hate that shit. 2-Do you have other options? NOPE. Your wife knows this. Try to close sex. she says she's not interested-> Leave. Go to a bar. go to the gym. GTFO. when you come back 2 hours later, and she asks where you went, be vague. 3-STFU. 4-Carry yourself like a high value man. Be the life of the party. flirt with other woman DGAF. 5-LIFT. do this for 2 weeks and see what happens. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/17 06:58 PM |
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