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| 2 | Is cold approach a scam in 2017problem is, it's hard as hell to start a new social cirlce. There's basically no girls in my current social circle, lol. Need to start a new one, but not sure how. | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 11:17 AM |
| 0 | Is cold approach a scam in 2017lol, I done my first evr tinder morph today! Gonna see it I get any more matches, as I never get any | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Couple of direct approaches [FR]Basically all 'no girls' in everyone of yuor interactions in all of your FR's Just gotta keep going until yuo get a 'yes girl' | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 11:38 AM |
| 1 | How many approaches you do in a week?i'll keep plugging away! cheers | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How many approaches you do in a week?girls aren't into me, lol - Haven't given up! | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 06:25 PM |
| 2 | How many approaches you do in a week?Yes, yuo're right in that i've certainly been exposed to the community. I've read maybe 6 books and have watched most RSD products for example. I know about peoples opinions on looks, and they certainly vary a little bit, but from what i've seen with my own eyes, looks are very important, i'm sad to say. I guess i'm more from the mark manson school of thought in regards to looks - Like, you don't need to be a male model, but if a girl looks at you and thinks you're ugly, she becomes a 'no girl' … | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 06:20 PM |
| 3 | How many approaches you do in a week?Othere than DHV sotires, what sort of things are you referring too? (i'm gussing thing like sense of humour, being non-needy, teasing etc?) I'm not even overly depressed about my lack of success anymore. I used to be after teh first 9 months or so. I was like ''I'm appraoching, and trying to implement everything i've learnt, but ut's juts rejction after rejection!'' and i'd be very annoyed. I'm so used too it now that it doesn't hurt as much. I'm a little numb to rejection now. I just go up to t… | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches you do in a week?DHV as is tell stories about like, my ex model girlfriend and that sort of stuff? It always feels a bit unnnatrual, but I did run with that sort of routine for a while. I mean, I know you say the looks thing is a non-issue, but I promise i'm not lying when I say my good looking friends literally just turn up and girls either approach them or make it BLATANTLY obvious that they want ot be approached (IOI's that Stvie Wonder couldn't miss!) Plus i'm in the UK where girls aren't as receptive to col… | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 02:43 PM |
| 4 | How many approaches you do in a week?I think it's just that i'm not good looking, and I tend to go for the super hot, young girls, so blowouts are basically guaranteed, lol. (I refuse to 'settle' and start going for older, fatter girls or whatever who I possibly could get in bed. I'd rather go without) My game is OK I think. If there is a 'leak' I have no idea what it is, as I try all sorts of experiments in terms of my approach and vibe and stuff (direct/indirect/funny/serious etc etc) | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 01:59 PM |
| 7 | How many approaches you do in a week?I tend to do about 40 per week (over 2 nights) Done that for about 2 years. Not getting anywhere yet thugh, lol | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 01:43 PM |
| 5 | How would you get your friend to be okay with you sleeping with his daughter?Not the same, but yuor post made me want to share a quick story of a friend of mine who is a NOTORIOUS womanizer. He's never read about 'game' in his life. In fact, im' pretty sure he's never read a book full stop, and I doubt he owns a computer! He's a natural 'bad boy'- Been to prison a few times. Very outgoing and loud. Boystrous. When I first met him, he was nearly 40, but he looked a lot younger (would tell girls he was 24), and he was having sex with various girls aged 16 -19. Then he had … | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Any tips to slow down speech?thanks. I've actually been doing the reading alowed thing for a while now. Just doesn't seem to 'transfer' in real life, or it does for a split second, but the second I get excited, or I actually have something important to say it goes out of the window. I'll keep practicing. cheers | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 09:48 PM |
| 7 | What are ways for a guy to know how attractive he is?Unfortunately, I think the best way is tinder. I say unfortunately, because I use all of my swipes everyday, and I get about 2 matches per month!! | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How To Approach A Girl & Go IndirectThe direct/indirect debate goes on! lol. Super confusing at to what one should do. Just yesterday I read so many upvoted posts here about how it's all about going direct, stating your intentions, putting your cards on the line etc. Read a similar article on girlschase last night, too. Then you read mystery who says you must go indirect and act aloof. Then watch this vid that says NOT to go direct. | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 08:03 AM |
| 1 | An Interesting Analysis Of Women Being Attracted To Men With BeardsI've never been able to grow a beard :( Yes, I've tried minoxodil. Didn't do shit. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | The Screening Mindset: How To Have Sex With Women Consistently.But then what really is 'game'? You often hear people say ''In this situation, you need to open in X way due to the environment, AND THEN JUST RUN YOUR NORMAL GAME''. What is 'game' in that context? I assumed it was knowing how to handle shit tests, DHV'ing, remembering to tease etc etc Are you saying that one should just put their cards on the line, be direct and tell the girl that you think they're hot, and hope that she likes you back? I just don't see how that will work for most guys. I mean… | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 03:33 PM |
| 1 | The Screening Mindset: How To Have Sex With Women Consistently.But wouldn't going so direct force her to decide 'yes or no' about you very quickly, and at that point she only really has you looks to go by, and so this would only work for handsome guys? I mean, telling a girl she's hot and then grabbing her and stuff isn't really 'game', is it? By that, I mean, it wouldn't work for an ugly guy, but surely the idea is that 'game' works for all guys? But that would include things like DHV'ing and social proof and stuff, no? So you can go direct if you are good… | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Are your nightgame openers + conversation starters canned or improvised?once you get opening down Do you mean once I've found a certain opener that 'works', then I just use that all of the time? (i'd need different ones for different circumstances, though?) you have a night to focus on learning to hook using a particular technique What sort of techniques are best for hooking? After I open, I don't really know what to say to 'hook' the girl. I've tried just asking her questions and making assumptions about her, but that doesn't seem to work. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | FIELD REPORT: Hottie From Tinderthe rooshv forums ..... | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 07:53 PM |
| 16 | FIELD REPORT: Hottie From TinderNot gonna lie - Pretty much every successful FR I read on here has the caveat, along the line of: ''I am handsome though. Girls tell me i'm hot'' Then there was a thread here recently where a guy claimed to bang lots of girls and said he wasn't good looking. People asked him to post his photo. He actually did, and surprise surprise, he WAS good looking! And the most annoying one is on the rooshv forums in the 'I just got laid' thread. The guys who get laid every night (vincentchse and kaotic) bo… | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 09:44 AM |
| 11 | I would like to write my thanks to Mark Manson.I might get downvoted too, but I think it's terribly overrated in terms of helping someone get women. There's very little in terms of practical advice for when you're 'in the field' as it were. It's a good self-help book, but having a good life and being a happy person in general doesn't guarantee you'll get women...like, at all. | /r/seduction | 25/02/17 06:48 PM |
| 7 | Gaming UK girls VS US girlsand if you are analyzing how to act around different nationalities, etc..., you are overthinking and shooting yourself in the foot lol. Nope. One can't ignore cultural differences. Fact is, UK girls are much less approachable and friendly to strangers compared to US girls. I've lived in both Countries. It's hard to ignore | /r/seduction | 25/02/17 01:54 AM |
| 1 | What are your best sex tips?There's a boy!! Elaborate for me, then! You'd be about the first! As I say, from what girls tell me, it's more emotional than physical! Put some meat on the bone for us! (excuse the pun...) | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 11:24 PM |
| 2 | What are your best sex tips?Are there really such things as 'sex tips' in terms of the physical act? When I was younger, I always assumed that guys who claimed to be amazing in bed knew some secret technique in terms of moving their hips or something! Something that actually made them better than other men in terms of actual PENETRATION/sex But When you go to the sex sub on reddit, the answer from girls about what makes a guy good in bed are ALWAYS to do with either oral, or just being 'passionate' during sex. Things like … | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you define 'inner game'?OK, we're kind of in agreement, then. I guess it's about the sort of girls we are talking about and exactly what we want out of her! | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you define 'inner game'?how on earth do they do that? I mean, really 'game' IS confidence. That's kind of what this is all about. People learn all kind of 'outer game' things in order to mimic the behaviour of a confident man. And if someone has not confidence, surely they could be accused of having 'inner game' issues!? I don't see how a guy with no confidence could get laid unless he was legit male model material. Explain how they do it / how you think they do it / Your reasoning for their success, since your post th… | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you define 'inner game'?I don't think career or hobbies have anything to do with inner game at all, but I do agree they help a ton, just like looks But if career and hobbies matter so much, how are some guys who have neither able to do so well? And if they DID matter that much, we can just lie about them, can't we?! (assuming we only want a one-night-stand) We can't lie about out looks, though! :) | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 04:07 PM |
| 9 | Free Pua Novel For Seddit. Ten Years in The GameThe looks debate has been done to death, but anyone whose ever left their bedrooms know that looks DO matter! I'm not a game denier, and i'm not saying that only male models get laid, but looks DO matter. If you are below a certain threshold, certain girls won't give you the time of day in terms of sex, and all of the 'game' in the world (teasing, negging, kino etc) won't change that | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 09:29 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?If they left swipe you on tinder without a second thought, and you superlike her, she's out of your 'league', I guess... | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 05:52 PM |
| 8 | What's it like hitting on women as a man?If it's this : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip7kP_dd6LU Then we're probably talking about the same video | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 01:28 PM |
| 10 | What's it like hitting on women as a man?There was a video I saw the other day where some woman dresses like a man (fake stubble etc) and tries to pickup girls. Was quite funny. She seemed to gain a certain amount of respect and empathy and was shocked at how rude/dismissive lots of girls were | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 11:15 AM |
| 1 | How to get 'no' girls?I'm already very fit and have good style, but that hasn't gotten me results, hence I've being trying to learn 'game' for a long time. 'learn game' is a weird concept. If you break down pretty much every pickup book out there (and take away the fluff explaining WHY certain things are supposed to build attraction) then you are left with a couple of pages of very simple things that, theoretically, a 5 year old could learn in an afternoon (use touch/kino, self amuse, tease girls, physically escalate… | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Do you ever feel weird with banging 18 and 19-year Olds?In this day and age, most of them have probably been banged by loads of guys since they were much younger! No big deal. What's to feel weird about? Age of consent is 16 here. Some of my friends are in their 30's and sleep with them, lol | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Help with a successful friendWell, if I was a millionnaire, i'd fly you over to the UK, pay for a completely realistic hollywood 'ugly mask' for you to wear, and take you out at night and watch you work your magic on the hot girls in the bars. Would be the most interesting experiment ever! (I know where i'd put my money, but i'd LOVE to eb proven wrong! :)) PS - Do you also think that 'game' can mean that a very old man (say a 70 year old who has 'game') can seduce say very hot 18 year old girls whenever he feels like it ou… | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 10:59 AM |
| 1 | How to get 'no' girls?even I feel uncomfortable when somebody approach me like ''Hi'' and smile It's interesting that to this day, one of the most frequent pieces of advice that you'll read about approaching girls is ''Just smile and say 'hi'!!'. But I think it's actually awful advice. like you say, even I feel a little awkward when someone does that to me. HOWEVER, as I say, even with indirect openers, you truly can still get the 'no' girls who aren't into you and will just ignore you, and just be rude. I've had it … | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Help with a successful friendI've seen a number of your posts and i kind of like you, so I don't want to get into a drawn-out argument, especially since it's likely that neither of us will change our minds. I'll give you a quick overview of my thoughts, though, so you know where I stand I think Game DOES exist. It is real. I'm not some sort of game denier like you implied. If someone is good looking and has woeful social skills, he'll struggle to get laid. In that respect, game is real. I think 'game' is what people need in… | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Help with a successful friendPretty much every pickup coach and writer have conceded that looks do indeed matter. Even the RSD guys! Not to mention that in my life, i've witness certain evidence with my own eyes. I'm NOT saying that you need to look like a male model to get laid, but if you really think that a physically unattractive guy can rely on his 'game' (which is really just confidence/charisma etc) in order to score gorgeous young girls whenever he wants then I just don't know what to tell you. It implies that 'game… | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Help with a successful friendOnce you get to the level where you can get a new beautiful woman anytime you want That 'level' doesn't actually exist to be fair, and if someone was at that 'level', there'd be a hell of a lot more than 'game' at play! (extreme good looks, fame etc). Always good to keep things realistic | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Should we really not kiss the girl we want to take home?It's another one of those things that you hear very mixed views on, even among the 'top coaches'/pickup guys. I'd imagine that is' not something to worry about too much and is unlikely to be a deal breaker. I imagine that most of the time, a girl who won't go home with you after you kissed her in the club would probably not go home with you if you had have NOT kissed her, either. I think it's a fairly minor detail. I like kissing hot girls, so personally, if I get the chance, I go for it! | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 09:36 AM |
| 0 | Sunday approaches [FR]Nah, the approaches were fine. (Can't comment on things like body language since you weren't there) You can't make a girl attracted to you if you are not her type (physically) It's a 'numbers game' | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 09:07 AM |
| 1 | I hooked up with a girl through Tinder, now we have met several times and I am falling in love with her. How do I keep the flame alive?Careful of falling for tinder girls! If she let you bang her from an app, there's a good chance she's letting a fair few other guys who message her bang her, too. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 12:40 PM |
| 1 | How to get 'no' girls?probably. That sort of reaction only really happens with the hot, stuck-up girls in night clubs, mainly. Nobody really notices, especially in a big, busy club! | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How to get 'no' girls?Sorry. I thought you were saying that it's possible to change her mind by somehow manipulating her. Yeah, that's what I do anyway. I walk away now whenever that happens (after failing a number of times to 'change her mind with game') | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 09:47 PM |
| 2 | How to get 'no' girls?how to 'be fake and manipulate her'? What would one say after the rejection? | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 09:15 PM |
| 0 | How to get 'no' girls?My game is good with girls that are into me. I am good at opening but some girls are very superficial so there is nothing to 'get better at' in that regards, if you see what I mean. (The 'sticking point' with these girls is not being their type 'lookswise'). I've experimented with all kind of opening, but if a girl is someone who only wants handsome, tall guys, it's basically impossible to 'turn her' (as pretty much every poster has agreed) This is about how to make a no girl a yes girl (and peo… | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 08:37 PM |
| 0 | How to get 'no' girls?I 100% agree with this. In fact, more or less everyone seems to agree, but I was just curious if anyone could add any weight to the counter argument. Maybe with some examples of how to follow up after a harsh, instant rejection. Nothing though, which kind of confirms my thoughts. But it does seem that most of seddit have their heads screwed on. I guess it's mainly forums like rooshV where the posters seem to delude themselves into thinking that game really is some sort of magic where you can use… | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 07:11 PM |
| 3 | How to get 'no' girls?real talk! | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How to get 'no' girls?it's true that your chances of being instantly shot down are higher if you open direct and she thinks you are not her type physically, but even with funny/interesting openers you can get an instant rejection. But I just want to see if any of the 'game is about getting girls who aren't remotely attracted to yuo initially' crowd can put any meat on the bone. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 05:35 PM |
| 0 | How to get 'no' girls?no, this can happen with indirect as well. It's just how some girls are in night game. For the sake of the discussion, the 'open/approach' is perfect, but she is just not interested because she thinks you are ugly. But if you believe 'game' can turn this around...how? How do you follow up after she ignores you or whatever? | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 05:03 PM |
| 0 | How to get 'no' girls?that's certainly what I tend to do, but that would imply you think game is about getting girls who show some initial interest as opposed to using 'game' to somehow MAKE girl find you attractive and make her give you a shot somehow even after she says 'sorrry, not interested., go away.''? | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | This Girl Is Confusing Me A LOTwhat 'techniques and principles' helped the most out of interest in terms of 'outer game'? | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Game-Related Question: Is it possible to "fuck up" with a woman who is already attracted to you?I know that the whole point of having game is so you can seduce women who aren't initially attracted to you I don't think i've ever really seen that happen, even in infields. If a girl is dismissive and completely uninterested the second you approach her (most likely because she doesn't think you are hot enough for her) then the chances of you pulling her are close to zero that's why they say 'game is a numbers game - some girls just won't be into you based on your look'. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Advice for me (18F) Approaching a Guy that I Don't Know?You could maybe open him by asking about his injury since you say you wonder about it anyway, it'll come off as natural. Be like ''Hey! I gotta ask....how did you hurt your leg?'' Try to let that drift into a regular conversation. Maybe if it's going well and you're kind of vibing, 'hit him on a high' and be like ''we should hang out some time'' or whatever. Probably more chance of him wanting to hang out if he remembers you as the person he had fun with as opposed to if you tried to get his num… | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Advice for me (18F) Approaching a Guy that I Don't Know?Dammit! Who needs 'game' when you're handsome! lol. Lucky guy (what does he look like? tall, dark, strong jaw etc i'm guessing?) But yeah. Just be brave and say 'hi'. Maybe ask his opinion on something. Pretend you need a guys opinion on something. Then, if he's into you, he'll probably start talking a bit, then at some point you can be like, ''You're fun to talk too. Take my number'' | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Is this normal for me to think like this?I'm a hell of a lot older than you. I've never had a girlfriend, but to tell you the truth, i've never really wanted one either! I've always just wanted sex/one-night-stands. Unfortunately, that hasn't worked out too well! I think for one-night-stands, it's very important to be classically handsome. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 12:44 PM |
| -1 | I know that I shouldn't be worried about something as petty as this but graduating college a virgin is really starting to depress me the fuck outto be honest, you can still be ugly. I'm fairly ugly and I take care of my skin, dress nice, work out etc. I'm ugly due to having a very small chin (so face looks short and not masculine) as well as a rather big nose and a big forehead. I just look a little odd/on the ugly side. It's basically BONES (which you can't really change) which determine whether someone is handsome or not. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 10:17 AM |
| 1 | How a salesmen improved my night game!Jimmy's way is good if you are handsome as fuck, lol | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Saying: why haven't we had sex yet!!!???''It doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it'' | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Depressed because I feel like I'm missing out on fun with women at an early age.Are you actually being a interesting person and moving things forward with her? By 'moving things forward', do you mean isolating her and touching her/trying to kiss. Or maybe some sort of verbal escalation? Topic change? compliments? | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How to 'seduce' someone!!??I've been on dates with more than 100 guys, and if a guy wasn't physically attractive to me at the beginning, he also wasn't attractive to me at the end of the date. Nothing he said or do could change that. That is my view, too. I struggle to believe that these guys who do very well with women are doing so BECAUSE of their 'game' as opposed to IN SPITE of it! Every girl i've ever pulled has clearly been into me from the second I said 'hi'. I could just tell. But i've never pulled a girl who wasn… | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 10:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Thursdaybut seddit says that what you say doesn't matter, but it's how you say it? I'll check out that vid edit: I've seen that vid. She's hot as hell!! | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Thursdayyou just keep touching girls more and more even if they seem to not like you at all? Like touch her arm and ask her some questions and even if she answers with one-word or kind of keeps ignoring you completely, you just start touching her stomach and waste and stuff and hope to not get a 'freaked out' reaction? | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 03:24 PM |
| 2 | To all experienced PUAs: what are you realizations?how do you actually 'game' them, though? I used to meet lots of girls through friends of friends and stuff, but I could never make them 'like' me/seduce them. If they didn't think I was good looking, then nothing seemed to 'work'? Are we basically talking about just being funny, demonstrating higher value, good eye contact/body language, showing them that you like them, and then just hoping that they like you back in a #more than just friends' kind of way? | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Been a PUA for years. Done it all. Now I got jawline surgery and suddenly girls are much more receptive. I feel like my game has improved a lotI am in the UK. jaw surgery is crazy expensive. I want to either get a rhinoplasty along with maybe a sliding genioplasty which will give me a kind of 'camouflage' fix. I'll look a bit better, but it won't be ideal. OR (What I really need) double jaw surgery/bimax. This will actually also shrink my nose as a result of the maxilla being moved forward. But it's all about money. I am investigating surgery abroad in order to save money as I simply can't afford it in the UK. | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Been a PUA for years. Done it all. Now I got jawline surgery and suddenly girls are much more receptive. I feel like my game has improved a lotHow interesting, especially as I want jaw surgery! I think the reason I do so badly is because i'm not attractive due to a weak/recessed jaw. You had rhinoplasty, too?? The reason you do well now is because you look more handsome. Simple as that. Makes one question 'game' in a way. I mean, I think 'game' exists, but it's really just a way of bedding girls that are ALREADY somewhat into you based on looks. So if you are ugly, then it won't really work. | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 05:59 PM |
| 1 | I have bad teeth and I'm fat. Should I approach women now or wait till I fix them ?Your story is not too dissimilar from my own! I'm not a virgin anymore, but I get absolutely zero attention from girls and I think it's because of my looks. I also done the thing where you avoid going to places you've been invited too as it's so embarrassing when everyone's either in couples or they are single guys who get laid on tinder every night, and everyone knows I get no pussy so I feel inferior and would rather just avoid the whole thing! I'm looking at getting a nose job in 2017, but I … | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 01:40 PM |
| 2 | I got laid for the first time AFTER graduating college, how do I get over this feeling that I missed out on something big in regards to social life and sex?I can relate to this, but in a slightly different way. Even though I am still crap with girls and don't really get any attention from girls, I was EVEN WORSE when I was younger, and so completely missed out on all the gorgeous teenage girls. Now i'm getting old, and even if I got downloaded with the collective 'game' of all of teh RSD guys combined, I don't think i'll ever be able to bang hot teenage girls now! I'm naturally very jealous of the memories that my friends all have of nailing hot 16… | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What is Mark Manson's approach to night game?has he ever done infields? I'd like to see how his conversations go. how he's transitions the various stages and what he says and stuff. | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Going out with natural friends. Any of you have friends who slay pussies on a weekly basic and struggle to learn from them?If girls give them lots of attention when they're just sitting there, they are probably much better looking than you think. I have a model friend who is boring as hell who slays non-stop, and I have lots of friends who absolutely kill it on tinder. I'm pretty much the only idiot who cold approaches girls!! (not that it gets me anywhere, lol) | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop yourself from overloading with information?how to learn from your 'mistakes' when you don't actually know what you did wrong, though? A certain vibe and open might get a harsh rejection from one girl, and another girl might really be into it/you. I think actually 'learning' from being infield is 100x harder than people imply, which maybe explains the slow learning curve? | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Showing IntentWell you're asking the wrong person! I hardly ever get laid! But with my only ever one-night-stand, I showed my intent verbally and hardly touched her. But from what I read, especially here, I think the idea is that you show intent with your touch as opposed to your words. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 10:15 AM |
| 5 | How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber PoolDepends on what part of the UK you go to. Go up North, and people tend to be much friendlier, although I imagine you wouldn't understand a single word they are saying with your American ears!! :) ''Hi, you're cute'' is actually kind of fine in the UK. Why? Because the girl at least knows why are you talking to her! You actually get a stranger response from just introducing yourself. That seems to be one of the big differences between the cultures. And It's not as though ALL UK girls are like thi… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 05:48 PM |
| 3 | How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber PoolAnd by 'pissed', he means drunk and not angry! :) Basically, cold approaching girls in the daytime (outside of London where all the tourists are) is seen as a bit odd. The girls are very guarded and startled. It's so out-of-the-ordinary. Even after letting them compose themselves and let them know you're not trying to rob them or something, they are still just dying to get away! When i watch the vids by that 'noobthoughts' guy who posts here, it blows my mind. Like, he'll walk up too a random gi… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 03:57 PM |
| 11 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.I bet the 'that's your fault' text felt like a kick from a mule! If there's one thing i'm looking to change going forward, it's increased escalation, even if it doesn't feel like i'm getting IOI's! I'm gonna risk a few embarrassing/harsh rejections going forward! If I wait for IOI's I never get them (or don't notice them) | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 01:47 PM |
| 29 | How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber PoolI sometimes think there needs to be 'UK SEDDIT' started by a Brit who bangs lots of UK girls, as I feel that lots of the stuff doesn't quite apply the same! Even little things like introducing yourself to a girl in a bar, shaking their hand and saying 'hi, i'm Mike''. That seems to be fine in the US. Do that in a bar in the South of England, and she'll wonder what the hell's going on!! haha | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 11:35 AM |
| 48 | How I kiss-closed a girl in an Uber PoolDo you think she was attracted to you straight away based on looks? Asking the girl what her best qualities are is something I read a lot about in pickup literature, but for me, I always think it sounds a bit like a job interview, and when i've asked it to girls before, they tend to say ''I don't know'' and make no effort to sell themselves to me, or they maybe imply that it's a strange question! Maybe it's a UK/US thing!? I'm guessing you're in the US. I'm jealous of how sociable/friendly with … | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Showing Intenttall, white, nice hair flow going on, fit - definitely show their intent How do they do it? Touch? Verbally? both? Someone told me you can be much more direct as a handsome guy, whereas going direct as someone who isn't good looking would get you an instant rejection. Don't really know how true it is as I tend to open in a more indirect way | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 10:42 AM |
| 5 | Be careful when choosing a seduction mentor guys...I'll never forget a vid Kong made where he filmed himself unedited for like a whole hour of approaches at night. 100% harsh rejections! Was brave to show how things can really look, even if you apparently know what you're doing - unfortunately I think he deleted that vid a few months after uploading it | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 10:38 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to get the national average of sexual partners (6)If you believe a certain number of sexual partners will make you normal or validated, you're simply deluding yourself Even if I got like 100 bangs?! I'd feel like a stud!! :) | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 10:27 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to get the national average of sexual partners (6)I doubt it would change the average that much as Only the very handsome guys get all the girls on tinder | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Tonight fucking sucks, but pain = gain.but how does one 'seduce' a girl - lets imagine you can't look 'handsome' for whatever reason. Is it all BS, or do you think genuine 'seduction' exists? | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Best, smoothest and most realistic pickup I've seen from this channel. Enjoy my mothafuckas!Only just started watching it, but that 'tiger woods' girl is how EVERY day game interaction looks like with girls in the South of England (at least outside of London where the tourists are!) Completely startled by talking to s STRANGER!! lol | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Travel Game. How To Meet Girls In HostelsThat's a dumb reason not to go I know you're right man but it's just how I feel. I imagine just being very sexually frustrated, being surrounded by lots of gorgeous, apparently 'easy' girl, and not being able to get them interested in me. But if you have a good understanding of social dynamics and seduction and you actually apply it I've read so much and so I guess I SHOULD have a good understanding? But when I approach girls, I still struggle to see much in the way of difference between how int… | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Travel Game. How To Meet Girls In HostelsSounds great. I'd love to go to a hostel in like Poland or something for a month or so, but since everyone says it's so easy, I'm so scared of not getting laid which I think will be the final 'nail in the coffin' in terms of my confidence in my ability to ever get any semblance of success with girls! Would be like someone wanting to be a racecar driver but coming last against a bunch of kids at a children's party! He's then basically give up on the idea forever! There was actually a thread on ro… | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 11:47 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to get the national average of sexual partners (6)I don't know. I can't help it but every single girl that I look at and think ''Damn, she's hot!!'' is always like 16-20 (16 is legal here) But also, I just find younger girls much more fun to talk too. So much more playful and silly and full of life. That in itself is kind of a turn on. The girl from my last one-night-stand was only just 18 so I know it's possible, but it likely still means i'm making it hard for myself! | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Problem with rapportyou mean with like humour and DHV/story telling? | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else good looking but bad socially?You must be OK if you've already had 'lots of sex' and you're only 18. Don't worry about it! | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 10:10 AM |
| 5 | Got a job at my school and work with a bunch of hot girls, should I try to game them?how is he gonna get hot young girls to chase him unless he is some handsome stud, though? | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 06:17 PM |
| 2 | My goal is to get the national average of sexual partners (6)just make sure you figure out what you do wrong in ever interaction I do struggle to figure this out. I mean, theoretically, there are an unlimited number of variables. Lets say I open a girl, smile and say ''hi, how's your night going?''. She says, 'sorry, not interested'. Is that because she has a boyfriend? Is it because she thinks i'm ugly? Is she just not sociable? Is it because I smiled too much? Is it because the opening 'line' was bad etc etc. And that's just with one opener. Extrapolate… | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Best way to seduct a girl? (discussion)I guess it's what it all comes down too! If a girl looks at you and thinks you aren't 'goodlooking' how does one 'seduce' her! The idea is that attraction is different for girls than guys. (I think it's only partially true, personally. All my handsome friends get laid, and most of my ugly friends struggle big time) However, I'd say humour + being fun + showing confidence + being relaxed around her and making her feel relaxed + flirting + touch is how you seduce a girl. | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 12:58 PM |
| 2 | 29 y/o male struggling to get laidTry 5 years!! haha. But then i'm only like a 5/10 at best, so maybe to be expected! How much do you actually approach out of interest? As a 7/10 you should be doing OK | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Dating in your 30sIf you're handsome, it's OK. My goodlooking friend in his 30's fucked a GORGEOUS girl on her 16th birthday within about 30 minutes of meeting her (UK so perfectly legal) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 11:49 AM |
| 1 | I feel so shitty after every (failed) interactionasking her questions about herself, trying to be fun, making good eye contact, kino when possible etc. But I just didn't really feel as though I was 'getting anything' back from her. No IOI's. I think she just saw me as a friend. | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 05:32 PM |
| 3 | I feel so shitty after every (failed) interactionDude, I know how you feel. I could have basically written that post. I tried to pull this girl at a house party last night and failed as usual, and I feel like shit now. She even stripped in the kitchen. Drunk. hot. Crazy girl. But nothing seemed to work. I tried all of the stuff i've read about, but no luck | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 02:58 PM |
| 1 | non gamey pickupWould she? I think so. I get tend to get different reaction based on the environment when it comes to being kind of silly and flippant and cocky/fun etc. Girls in bars seem to like it in general. But in other environments, people don't often seem to know how to take it/react! And if she did, would you still want to date her? No, but i'd naturally still want to bang her if she was hot! However, I think I kind of have my answer to my question anyway, thanks to Kalolili. Tone back to silliness sinc… | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | non gamey pickupthanks. So less forward intitially and just being curious about her ideally with a few 'fun' lines thrown in. And then IF she gives me IOI's, I can increase the flirting? But would the intital stage be 'enough' to get her interested (give IOI's) if she didn't find my physically hot? | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 12:28 PM |
| 1 | non gamey pickupWhat books have you been reading? bang by roosh, flow by dan bacon, double your dating, models.. The first 3 in particular are very 'Pro' silly answers, being 'fun', cocky etc This is not always implied. People don't know why you approach them. They can only guess. With day game, I open 'direct', so they do know | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Picking up while working in a barbut that would only work if he was handsome. Where's the 'game'? | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Feels good man.x2 | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Audiobook recommendationssend me a link to download the blueprint audiobook, old timer! You know it makes sense :) | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | #closed went 4 K closeAt least you went for it! I need to just start 'going for it' more, I think! I saw a vid that slightly changed my mind about going for the kiss. I always want to be 100% certain that I won't get rejected, and so don't often tend to try because she might not seem that comfortable with my kino, or isn't touching me back etc, but in the vid I saw, the girl really didn't seem into him, she rejected his kiss attempts like 3 times in the space of like 40 seconds, but on his 4th attempt (like 20 second… | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on opening girls and being able to then take basic conversations to sexual and get them interested?thanks. I like your posts. | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on opening girls and being able to then take basic conversations to sexual and get them interested?Would that change in certain situations, though? Imagine you join a cookery class and on your first day, there is a stunning girl next to you. Do you instantly start being all flirty with her, using kino and trying to bring up sexual topics etc? Or in that situation, would it be better to just be friendly and cool, and then maybe suggest swapping numbers or something? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on opening girls and being able to then take basic conversations to sexual and get them interested?I struggle with this, too. How to go from small talk and being kind of 'fun' and stuff, too actually getting 'sexual'. (not necessarily 'sexual' but so that she knows i'm interested in her) If I try to 'fly under the radar' and rely on little kino touches and stuff, I often feel it doesn't land. She just sees me as a friend who happens to be a bit touchy by nature. Or even making sexual innuendo jokes etc - again, she just think I have a dirty mind, but still doesn't know that I desire her! The … | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What's on your checklist for reflecting on an approach to learn from it?Very good question. Part of the problem is, can we ever really know what we done well, or badly, if anything? There's just too many variables. I guess you could open in a way that would turn most girls off, but you might happen to approach a girl who thinks you are the best looking guy she's ever seen, and so she'll react positively IN SPITE of your open. Not because of it! You'll tell yourself it was a good open, and that the 'line' you opened with was a cracker! Then you'll open a different gi… | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 01:23 PM |
| 2 | No wonder most guys never do this shit...Sounds like you do the same as every other apparently successful PUA on youtube, so not sure what to suggest! People will tell you you have to ask more interesting questions etc, but it's natural to ask them sort of things when you first meet someone. It's normal. It's what you see in all of the infields. But when people post 'failures', people will tend to force 'reasons' for the failure | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 12:12 PM |
| 2 | what does your 'transition' look like?thanks. | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How to get past mental block to start approaching first time?I think it kind of depends on what you are actually scared of. I tihnk that there's more than one type of approach anxiety. The funny thing with me is that, despite having lived my whole life with some social anxiety, I am able too approach random girls and try to flirt with them (I always fail to pull, but that's another matter) But it's interesting that most of my 'normal' friends who don't have social anxiety and are more confident IN GENERAL are usually too scared too approach a pretty girl.… | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 11:23 AM |
| 3 | Is "The Game" a good pick up book?what changed so much? Can you describe what your process looks like on a night out? I've read models, but I've still failed 100% of the time to get laid! I only do night game - mainly on weekends | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Fear of interview mode messed me up?thanks. I'm glad you mentioned about how asking her about her childhood is something that would require a much longer interaction before asking about. It's a bit like how i've seen people reccommending to ask a girl about her hobbies after opening, but again, to me, that just seems a bit...odd. I dunno. I kind of feel that the 'boring/interview questions' are kind of essential and maybe avoiding them is actually a bit weird! And yes, this was one of the rare situations where not only was the gir… | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 12:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I matched with a chick from my university on Tinder. Got an instadate 20 minutes after.Tinder is life is you're young and handsome. Nice job | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | How do properly say thisI guess that qualifies as 'showing your intentions, and being honest and upfront' :) Let us know how it turns out! | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 02:30 PM |
| 1 | how to train your mind to be 'gamey'Yeah, I mean I used to spend lot of time with women in one of my jobs so I already know how they think. I imagine we all do on seddit! There's enough written about it! But it didn't really help me if i'm honest. Was just frustrating being around hot unattainable girls if anything! But probably a good idea to make more friends in general so as to better ones chances as, to be honest, the only time i see guys 'punching above their weight' is with girls they already know (as opposed to cold approac… | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | how to train your mind to be 'gamey'you mean ask the girls for pickup advice? Besides, I already know what to do (from having read so much etc) but my mind isn't able to come up with the correct things to say | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Starting to feel this is an impossibility for me, so I'm hoping to get advice in regards to coaching.I know how you feel about the 'impossibility' aspect. Funnily enough, I am also on around 400 approaches. I feel very hopeless about it all recently. It's either instant rejections, or I won't get rejected instantly, but i'll be unable to keep her attention or something. After reading lots and making lots of approaches, my next 'thing' was invest some money on an RSD product. (the natural) I've watched it all now, but it hasn't really helped. Like you, all I can really think of now is some sort … | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Describe YOUR 'game'see, that's quite good. But I can't transplant your brain into my head! :) - My brain just wouldn't have come up with that. thanks, though. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Describe YOUR 'game'problem is, i've practiced so much!! I've made hundreds and hundreds of approaches, now, but 'practice' doesn't really seem to improve my interactions much. What would you have said to her cardigan comment? | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Describe YOUR 'game'Yeah, I think it's more my stupid brain is too kind of stifled. Like, I approached a girl at a bar recently, and she was instantly receptive and and told me that some guy had just given her the cardigan that she was wearing as a gift. There was probably opportunity there for some sort of teasing, or at least some sort of witty reply in order to get a conversation going, but my brain just couldn't function. I ended up just saying something boring like ''Oh cool. That was nice of him''. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Describe YOUR 'game'I struggle with teasing, I think. Especially with girls I've just met, say in a bar. I have no issue about doing it, but I often can't find anything to tease her about. Or maybe it's that my mind misses opportunities to tease. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 11:44 PM |
| 1 | is inner game a 'catch22'?I'm thinking looks are basically the problem and i'm looking to take some drastic measures too improve in that department next year. (plastic surgery) Desperate times call for desperate measures and all that! I'm not a mass approacher to be fair, though. I'm not scouting the bars and approaching non stop. But when I notice a pretty girl, and I feel like it's a ripe time too approach, I will try. I'd say most nights, I only make about 6 -10 approaches? I wouldn't say I usually bounce out of an in… | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 02:47 PM |
| 2 | is inner game a 'catch22'?thanks. I will buy that book. I recently spent a fair chunk of change on an RSD product, but the books will surely be cheap so no big deal. But I feel as though I surely must know most of what is required by now having read so much, but yet I don't know anyone else as unsuccessful as me with girls. The only times I've got laid before are when the girl basically 'made the move' and made it super obvious that she liked me. So, I can get girls who like me. But the problem is that I can't seem to ge… | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 12:52 PM |
| 10 | Make the move with zero IOI's?It's probably just a case of the OP's friend is very handsome, and so it's always 'on', the girl wants him to bang her straight away, and she probably also gives him lots of IOI's just to make sure, rather than using some magical sentences to seduce her | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | is inner game a 'catch22'?You cannot apply game across countries and cultures The RSD guys (amongst others) claim to have bedded girls in just about every country of all kinds of nationalities applying their 'standard game'. ('fun', touchy-feely, dealing with shit tests the same way, etc etc) You need to learn about the women in your area What am I supposed to learn about them in particular? (and since, as you say, they are all individual anyway) are you saying about the women in my area, 'In general'? | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | is inner game a 'catch22'?Of course each person is unique, but game principles supposedly capitalizes on the majority which is enough for most of us. You find out what their life is like by talking to them and asking questions. Same with their personality. At that point, I guess you could think things like ''this girl seems very introverted and quiet. I won't tease her quite so much'' etc etc | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | is inner game a 'catch22'?so my answer was wrong? | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 08:59 PM |
| 0 | is inner game a 'catch22'?So here's the catch... your bum ass friends who seem to have sex with a lot of girls.... do they just have one night stands, or do they have any girls that actually enjoy spending time with them? Both. Some just one night stands. Some have fuck buddies. If you go out one night and just walk up to every girl and asks if she wants to bang, the law of averages is ends with you banging a chick. I don't think so! Only if you looked like Brad Pitt!! Hell, even kong from simplepickup who is a teacher f… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 08:50 PM |
| 1 | is inner game a 'catch22'?Depends which pickup guru you listen too. I could give you my answer. You could say it's wrong, but I'd know that the RSD guys for example would say that i'm correct, so it probably wouldn't get us far. But to paraphrase RSDmax, women are on guard initially. They want to know why you are talking to them and want to know you're not a psycho. So you'd need a statement of empathy in the day time. Could Also use a time constraint in certain situations. You could go direct and tell them you think the… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 08:46 PM |
| 1 | is inner game a 'catch22'?I think I understand women as good as anybody else does. It's just that they're not physically attracted to me | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 08:34 PM |
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