Feel like i'm having some sort of nervous breakdown about 'game' recently, lol.

After about a year of getting no results, I was advised to read the mystery method by someone online. (Basically the only 'pickup' book in the wold that I haven't read!)

But it's all about routines and DHV stories etc - Doesn't really seem normal. Especially the idea of going into some long ass story about how I saved a guys life or something within seconds of meeting a girl!

When you are approaching girls at night, do you use canned openers? Do you re-use the same 'follow up' conversation starters? If so, what are they?

I'm just more 'in my head than ever' recently. I guess partly from reading too many things, and also frustrating from non-stop rejections.

There was a point the other night where I literally 'froze' shortly after opening since my head was spinning with thoughts like ''This is NIGHT GAME. I need to be FUN. Shit. What can I say now that is fun!??'', ''What 'stage' of the interaction am I in? and based on that - What sort of things should I be talking about?'' etc etc, and I literally felt like I was having some sort of stroke, lol. Kind of mental paralysis!

I was out last night and made just 3 or 4 approaches, all with fairly cold reactions and I just really need help with what to say in the first few minutes since that is when 'attraction' is built, and I can't seem to do it - and typically, the rejections I get are very quick.

For those of you who get results, How do you guys open girls on nights out? And after you've opened and it's on you to start a conversation, what is you 'go too' question?

If it's more 'improvised' and you don't use 'routines', what sort of things factors determine what you talk about?

I feel as though i'm lacking the 'fun' element that seems to be important in night game.