| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | [FR] Seeking insight on date turned flake | takes_what_he_can | /r/askTRP | 30/05/15 07:18 AM | |
| 2 | Oneitis and beta backsliding | takes_what_he_can | /r/askTRP | 16/05/15 03:01 AM | |
| 2 | Looking for input on flake/radio silence | takes_what_he_can | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 12:52 AM | |
| 1 | Looking for strong words on oneitis | takes_what_he_can | /r/askTRP | 28/05/15 03:01 AM | |
| 1 | Killing Hope | takes_what_he_can | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 11:13 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [FR] Seeking insight on date turned flakeI have to admit, I've always felt like I could sense a whore, but you're probably right. Lemme ask you this though; is it as easy as seeing a girls personality and being able to tell she puts out, or is there more to it? The reason I was so blind to her wild side is that she lived in a small college town and was super nerdy. Hm, when I type that, you're probably right. She was probably getting around with everything she could. You seem pretty helpful so I'm going to dump a little more on you: Wh… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/15 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Killing HopeI'm listening to some of Patrice O'Neal's talks, and he mentions only being able to love anyone else 90%. Because that last 10% is for his survival. He has some great insight, and I'll have to remember in the future just how dangerous it is to go all in on anything. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Killing HopeCare to elaborate on intangibles? I feel like I have a good idea of what you mean, but I'd like concrete examples. You're right though; I've kind of figured this out on my own that I pretty much have an additional six weeks to get my shit together, but the issue I have now is just going to be killing those six weeks. I'm going to try to pick up some new hobbies, read more non-fiction, but even then I know I'm going to have thoughts of this damn girl. I guess I'm just going to have to play the wa… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/15 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Killing HopeI'd like to think I have a good grasp on abundance mentality, it's just that at this time, it's tough for me to meet new women. Not out of anxiety, but more out of logistics. That's kind of what I'd like to plan though; spend the next month and a half working on increasing SMV, but I'm still worried that for those six weeks that she's going to keep drifting into my thoughts. That's what I want to eliminate. Another thing, I wasn't into this girl just because she was cute, we had a decent amount … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Looking for strong words on oneitisWe never had sex but we made out once. I don't know if I'd call them legitimate dates; the first time we met we went to a B-Dubs and ate some food and talked and then went back to her place and watched TV. The second time we met, we went and got lunch at some restaurant, walked in the park, then went back to her place again and made out. I feel like I probably could have fucked her but I totally pussied out, another reason I feel so bad about the whole ordeal. You're right though, I didn't manag… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/15 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Looking for strong words on oneitisTruthfully, I think this is the next step for me. I can tell myself a thousand times that I've taken a step back and looked the situation from a fresh perspective, but it's tough to actually implement. At this point I'm going to start working on controlling my emotions, or at the least, not letting them influence my actions. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Looking for strong words on oneitisI'm a little disappointed in myself that I couldn't see how pathetic it was having her forgive me for my actions; I said it myself, I don't think it would've happened any other way, so why worry about her self righteous attitude. I think last night was the roughest it's been for me, but after time heals all wounds. Thanks again for the response. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Looking for strong words on oneitisUgh, this read too truly for me. This is what I needed though. Last night was kind of a storm of emotions but I woke up today feeling better and more clear sighted, and reading these posts helped me. Thanks again for you response. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Looking for strong words on oneitisThanks for the reply. I have to say though, I don't feel like I'm over analyzing the situation about what I could have done differently; to be completely honest I'm not sure it's possible for the situation to have turned out any other way. I'll be candid, I sent her a text after she told me what she did justifying myself; big mistake, I know. She told me she forgave me for the whole thing but that it was too late. I sent back "Maybe the timing will be right one day." I know I fucked it up pretty… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/15 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Looking for input on flake/radio silenceWould you care to elaborate on what you meant by not nexting? I think I understand it to be just drop her completely. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Looking for input on flake/radio silenceI didn't think I had enough time and I wasn't sure if she'd go for it. I could see in her eyes that she wanted me to though. Maybe I'm just beta back sliding too hard | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Looking for input on flake/radio silenceI actually had a chance to fuck but I backed down. I'm wondering if this has anything to do with it. She was kind of naive and I was into it. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Looking for input on flake/radio silenceI think that's what's got me so flustered over the whole situation. I usually do pretty well not catching feelings but maybe I'm just getting soft. Any advice on keeping myself sharp? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 01:47 AM |
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