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Keep her as a friend and make her help you get other girls. Open other girls while you hang out with her. Ask her opinion about other girls "I got a number of gorgeous girl I met at the library the other day. Should I ask her out now or later?" Then ask her opinion about another girl and ask her which one you should go out with. Jealousy will work wonders. They are not made of stone. Or even better - ask her if she has any single friends, sisters or cousins and ask her to set you up with them. I…
/r/seduction27/12/12 01:09 AM
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Very easy! Here's the scenario: I'm talking to a girl, one on one, she and I pay full attention to each other. Some dude walks in, I'm still full attention to the girl and still talking to her, switching threads if necessary like I'm not even noticing him. Then what likely will happen, the girl will acknowledge him and look at him. If she is distracted and now is paying attention to the guy, I have to do something quick. So I turn to the guy, with high energy and smiling widely "hey, dude, what'…
/r/seduction02/10/12 01:28 AM
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You're a typical beta. You don't have options, you don't flirt or project confidence, so you think if only that girl had no boyfriend... There are no shortcuts to this. Do things that scare you. I do, all the best ones in this field do. Go to a club by yourself. Be bold. Meet girl(s). Take girl(s) home. Repeat. After a while you will have options, the girls will sense that (or you just tell them you're unavailable). They will be into you and they will ask you how many numbers you get and how man…
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:48 PM
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I've had success with going for another kiss and another kiss later. Look her in the eyes, take her head gently and plant one. They just need a bit more aggressiveness. Don't wait for the end of date to try for it so you'll have time for more tries. If nothing happens, take her for a third date, try try again, if not going the way you want, give her a speech "I like you a lot but you don't seem to be ready for me, I don't think we are right for each other" and see how she responds. If she fights…
/r/seduction15/09/12 07:00 AM
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I know. She said long story. I think it's what happens when they cock block themselves out by making guy wait insanely long until asshole like me comes along and puts her through emotional rollercoaster. Not my fault female mind works in such a way.
/r/seduction15/09/12 12:35 AM
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Push her away when she least expects it. Dump her ass. I had a girl giving me a lot of resistance, three dates and we only kissed. So next time as soon as she'd give me resistance I walked her out the door and wished her good night. She got upset. I was gonna next her, but then waited a few days, started chatting on the phone heavily for a couple of days, then I tried to sexualize it, she said I'm pissing her off so I told her to go find other friend. She asked what's wrong, I said we are too di…
/r/seduction14/09/12 01:57 AM
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Humor is a rubber sword - it allows you to make a point without drawing blood. Try to turn every bit of unhealthy dominance into humour. Agree and exaggerate. Agree and adopt a story and continue on it to show how ridiculous it is. Have fun with it. Tease them about being experts about everything. Ask them to remind you to treat them the same way when they come visit you. Do a role play. Just don't take them too seriously and take it as a challenge for yourself to find humour in the situation or…
/r/seduction08/09/12 01:43 AM
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Be bold. Throw a statement her way and walk away. Come back later, throw another statement. Third time walk by and pretend to not even notice her. Believe me she will. She'll be sitting there thinking who is this guy. No need to rush. She'll come to you. Give her something to occupy her mind while you're not there.
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:16 AM
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Agreed 100%. Black chicks seem very exotic, can be muscular, can take compliments, won't be bitchy and won't make you wait for sex forever.
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:11 AM
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My dad was somewhat similar and I was dependent on him, living in his house blah blah blah. But hey, they're people, make mistakes, deal with their own anxieties. You can't blame your father for everything. Victim mentality won't do you any good. I started rebuilding myself after I hit 20. I got married and became my own man. Read tons of stuff. Read the game when I was 40, got divorced and now starting a business, having success with women and living the dream. You can make yourself anybody you…
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:07 AM
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Very interesting technique. I guess the confidence and energy should be enough to make you likeable by the group. I can see how this would work. But what if it doesn't? A lot of times girls just seem too cold o accept your invitation to dance and lift their arms defensively as if saying "don't touch me". Others would see it too and then all of a sudden I'm the creepy guy. What do you do now? I don't want to be too negative but just looking for some tips. I'll definitely try this technique just b…
/r/seduction05/09/12 04:05 PM
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Take a ballroom dance class. They will teach you about the rhythm, how to lead, how to move your body etc. Once you learn how to swing it on the dance floor, other girls will notice and even grab your ass while you're dancing with them :)
/r/seduction01/09/12 07:33 PM
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It seems to me that you were into her more than she was into you. She was judging you the whole time in her head and probably thinking to herself I'm so cool, travelled, intelligent and this guy ... he's just into me. You need to suppress your feelings for her and seem like you're not into her. Game her. Tell her she seems so intelligent and smart. Tease her that she is like a gypsy, can't stay in one spot, so It's not gonna work out between you and her. Ask her something she's not good at. Can …
/r/seduction31/08/12 03:40 PM
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It's easy. Get dressed, go to an upscale bar and sit by yourself. Make eye contact, smile. Talk to whoever approaches.
/r/seduction30/08/12 09:14 PM
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I hear you, man. Had the same thing happening to me. Those are the girls who go by the list of "requirements". In my opinion you don't have to answer anything. They will be intrigued. I only open up once I see the girl is into me. You can: Tease them about interviewing you. Don't answer, look at them and smile. Exagerate and make jokes. Change the subject and make it about them. And one, perhaps the most important one! Don't be afraid to walk away from the date if it's not going the way you want…
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:05 PM
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Good question. First thing - drive there and actually get out of the damn car. I took me half hour to just get out and go in. Once inside, or even before you get to a club put yourself in a good mood by smiling and getting into positive mood and imagining that everything you see is awesome and cool (you can see something positive in everything). This way I'm in a fun and positive mood and can do my approaches. So once inside the club, talk to somebody right away. Guys are very friendly in the cl…
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:24 AM
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Upvote for ballroom dancing. Will make you a star on the dance floor. Will make you learn how to move your body, balance it, and add confidence. I love ballroom dancing. Right now learning some advanced Samba.
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:15 PM
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Dude, you are exactly me, 10 years ago. Also had anxiety talking to strangers, very nervous. If I saw a gorgeous girl, I'd be so nervous that I would turn beat red, couldn't say anything. Also an electrical engineer, also somewhat bipolar. So what changed it all for me? Toastmasters. After 4 years I could talk to anybody on any subject. Then I've discovered game, started going out all by myself (because I could talk to anybody about anything). Then met a wing. Went out even more, discovered good…
/r/seduction23/08/12 03:46 PM
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I'm curious to hear others' opinion on this situation, but I would've realized she gets lots of attention already so she needs a bit different approach - a neg. Perhaps "It's good thing you're working hard because [take a look at her ass] it looks like you really need it.". And then some bf destroyer. In any case you should congratulate yourself for not chickening out. Good job. Keep it up.
/r/seduction21/08/12 03:25 AM
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It's a common misconception that guys want to just have a one night stand and never call back. I only take a girl home if I'm interested in her and like her. There were many cases when I'd see a girl is interested and even follows me around a club after I've given her a compliment, but I don't pull the trigger. Why would I sleep with her if I don't find her hot. I am a PUA! I have a choice in women. I can find the one I like. It might take a bit of time, but I'm in no rush. The chase is just as …
/r/seduction18/08/12 01:46 AM
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Take her to do an activity. Bike ride, rock climb, miniature golf, or just , the weather is nice, let's go for a walk, sit on the waterfront and hang out. No need to spend money. Ask her to help you with something. Then tell her you need an expert at it. Tell her you'll be selecting from multiple candidates. You might make an exception if the candidate is blond, funny and brown eyes (three matching features and one mismatch). Make her sell herself to you. Invalidate her. "You're almost cool. I'l…
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:48 PM
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Just ask her what was the last time she got laid. Whatever the answer, say "well that's why. You need some hanky panky". Remember a commercial about grandmas when granddaughter asks "what's aggravating". So draw her closer, brush her hair to the side and kiss her neck. Or just turn convo sexual by asking her if she is an adventurous. The craziest place she's done it and so on. If you want to be a bit more aggressive, after she teases you about something, tell her "for that you deserve some good …
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:27 PM
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The one that if i tease her, she would get right back at me. The one that would admit she can't wait to see me. The one who will give me compliments on how incredibly confident I am. In short - the one that games me.
/r/seduction17/08/12 03:00 AM
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There is a saying in eastern europe "If you take a sausage and and hang it on a dog's neck, how long you think it will be hanging there?". I would've smiled and bought her another drink. I never buy drinks for girls, but that reminds me - I've opened a girl, told her let's go dancing, she had a drink in her hand, told her to put in on the table, we danced she took her drink and said there's less of it in the glass. I said, all right I'll buy you another one and I did. Ended up pulling her to her…
/r/seduction16/08/12 05:09 AM
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2 things: First. Never be negative. The minute you're negative is when you decided not to have fun. Look at anything and say "this is awesome". Male pageant? You would have sat there and asked her opinion who she thinks is hot, who is not. What would make you hotter. Ask her about speedos or whatnot. Look a weirdest dude on stage and tell her it's her perfect boyfriend. There are tons of ways to have fun at any event. Second. First NO from a girl is never final. Wait a day or two and apologize f…
/r/seduction16/08/12 04:53 AM
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Daytime approach is a bit different. If I'm going to the mall for a daygame, I psych myself up that I'm ready to approach within seconds notice. Be ready to just pull the trigger. See her, stop her, talk to her. Otherwise it's a missed opportunity and you feel bad for not pulling the trigger. Nice thing to do is pace their reality with "I know you're shopping but I wanted to meet you". "I know you're on the phone but I wanted to meet you." "I know it's random but..." If there's a group, be super…
/r/seduction16/08/12 04:34 AM
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Next time she invites you somewhere mock her in a funny voice "I don't like driving too far", I don't like events, I don't like walking, I don't like sun, I don't like wearing pants... Then tell her "Tomorrow there's this event and guess what! you're going with me. I don't care.". "I expect you all dressed up and wearing a smile." Add a smiley at the end. Chicks from eastern europe like your confidence even more so than north american ones. Guys there are all macho. So give her a mix of confiden…
/r/seduction16/08/12 03:45 AM
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Cant' be that hard: Ask her help cooking something Invite her to check out cool video you just found Ask her to help you taste this new coctail you're trying to make Ask her opinion about the new suit/sweater/shoes/pants/tie Ask her to come move furniture Ask her to come help you hand a picture on your wall From there ask her if she would like some tea/coffee/soup you just made/exotic wine you bought. From there show her something cool on your laptop on youtube Now you're sitting closely, look a…
/r/seduction16/08/12 03:27 AM
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Bad teeth, loss of hair, being older. Nothing matters if you're dressed well. I put on a suit and I can see ladies melting... They're not made of stone. Look good, walk in a set, tell them you wanted to meet them, be confident. That's all you need as a guy. So easy, dude. Just look at Lebron, how he dresses. Would you really notice his teeth? http://fashionbombdaily.com/tag/lebron-james/
/r/seduction16/08/12 02:41 AM
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OK. So forget what you didn't do right. Now wait a week or more and see if she forgets your last text. When you resume texting her, act like nothing happened and just say something like "Awesome xxx event is on tomorrow. Wanna come?". If she turns you down, say "I'll be thinking of you while XXX have lost of fun.". Next time invite her some other event/place. Girls forget and forgive you. Just give it some time. Unless she's into Jeff now. In that case more on. Watch "simple pickup" on youtube.
/r/seduction12/08/12 12:26 AM
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That's why you invest in tinted windows (go a bit darker for back windows than legal). It also helps if you have a car with a comfy back seat Volvo S70 is great even though I'm 6'4" guy. This also works if you go down on her and a girl is a screamer. You park on the street, windows tinted. She can scream her lungs off. Nobody hears or sees anything. What else - if you go really hard banging the living shit of her, the car provides a bit of rocking motion, which helps. Just make sure you put hand…
/r/seduction11/08/12 11:46 PM
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If I asked her, she'd say "it's too fast". So I asked her differently - "do you think I'll leave you as soon as we have sex?". She said yes. So now I'm left with trying to prove her that I wouldn't. But now it seems like I'm trying too hard to convince her to give it to me. I don't want that. I don't want to rush it either. A make out would have been fine. In any case I think I'll freeze her for two weeks and then see what happens. My initial instinct is usually right. I should probably just mov…
/r/seduction11/08/12 04:59 AM
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Jeez dude. You think too much. Girl takes the lead so she get you inside of her. That sexy, man. Who cares about pizza, she wants your cock. Probably was thinking and fantasizing about it. So give it to her. That's alpha. You lie down and let her do the job for you. Like Tyler said, she has good taste in men, she chose you, she came over. I would reward her by giving her oral pleasure. Make it worth for her.
/r/seduction04/08/12 04:47 PM
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I'm 42 and still go to bars at least once a week. Great practice, tons of approaches. Always fun. The next day I can daygame and on top of my game. If the girl asks you how you are, tell them you're 65. If she says you're too old, ask her what else she likes about you (credit cajunspice). I know what you're saying. I was like you. Had a phobia approaching girls in their 20s, but then realized it's all in your head (limiting belief). Do what makes you uncomfortable. Go out alone, to the bars. It …
/r/seduction01/08/12 01:28 AM
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That's smart! Cowgirl definitely was intrigued how you came, chatted for 5 mins, took a hat and went to the other girl. She definitely felt jealousy too.
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:48 AM
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Seems to me like you've just used the poor cowgirl. She might have been much nicer and wouldn't have pulled bullshit games on you. You're not a clown and if someone insists on you having to dance around like a monkey, they have to be able to deal with consequences. I would've gamed the new girl and wouldn't have even looked at the other one. Like Jlaix said its when you don't give a shit is when you get laid the most. I remember the times I used to take shit from girls and it was never worth it.
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:49 AM
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Wow, great suggestions, guys! Sometimes I get too emotionally involved in conversations. I want the set to go well, so when it doesn't I fight to keep it going instead of cutting my losses and moving on. I've had a problem where I was leaving a set too early, so I wanted to work on it and stay in a set longer. I think the right course of action was to talk to engage the dude and chat with him up for a bit.
/r/seduction19/06/12 01:12 PM
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