I game a girl, meet her for a first date and she asks questions such as when did you come here, did you come here alone, were you married (yes), how long ago was that (2 years ago separated, divorce still going on), do you have any kids (1). If I'm honest, she usually stops responding after first date. If I don't tell her, she thinks I'm hiding something plus I sort of feel like shit. A couple of times I just smiled and said nothing but said these are all very good questions and you'll find out answers eventually. That worked so well I got no virtually no resistance in the end. How do you handle the difficult questions when you'll basically hang yourself if you answer honestly? Girls are so judgemental - a girl can be 32 years old, never married, had multiple relationships in the past but the minute she finds out about your past, it's game over. I've sort of settled on delaying answering for as long as I can having convinced myself that my past it's not their business. I just tell them yes I have been married, and lets just leave it at that. I'm looking at the future, not the past. How do you handle these issues?