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I'd like a relationship but I'm traveling most of the summer so I'll just spin it in my own way of "I'm traveling too much this summer for anything serious." and test it vs "I'm not emotionally available" to see what works best. Traveling could make me interesting, but if it comes off as a brag, it will obviously fall flat.
/r/seduction04/05/23 04:04 PM
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😂 yeah I can see how that would backfire. I’ve asked friends gf’s what energy I give off because I thought it was BF energy and she told me I give off, “big dick to ride for a night energy.” I don’t fully believe her, but I think I can set my frame for a night as BDE. I’m going to try this over the weekend as I’ll be with a few girls in a group as well as out and about at bars. I can definitely see how this could work really well for me, so we’ll see!
/r/seduction04/05/23 03:09 PM
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Love that! Are you just using that at bars when you're newly talking to someone or is it ever off of an online date?
/r/seduction04/05/23 01:56 PM
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One thing I've been doing lately is I'll find something that I want to do or spontaneously feel like doing and invite a girl to come join me. If she can't, I'll invite another. If no one can, I do it anyway and post it to my story so that they can see clearly that I'm not inviting them because I need them, I'm inviting them because I want them to join me. Then in the future, they know that I'm not waiting on them and that their saying no has no hold over how I live my own life. I should be clear…
/r/seduction03/05/23 07:58 PM
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Sounds like you didn't set and communicate expectations clearly at the start. IF you want to see other women, you need to do this. Don't bring it up unless you're going to be going on other dates. The ones who aren't ok with the expectations will leave, but that's fine, especially if it's not someone you see yourself dating long-term. I personally try to set expectations by around the 2nd or 3rd time we have sex unless it's unspoken that you're on the same page, which is usually easy to tell. A …
/r/seduction03/05/23 07:50 PM
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Austin downtown is great. That’s where I’m at and it’s easy to walk or bird just about anywhere. I’ve been dating a girl who just scooters to my place. Tbh, dating in Austin is insanely easy if you’re just a genuine person who respects women, their boundaries, and you’re normal enough. I struggled HARD in LA, but austin has been a breeze.
/r/seduction15/10/22 11:38 PM
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It’s called emotional transformative therapy. Not a ton of people do it, but the guy who created it lives nearby and it’s definitely changed my own life. Sorry for the delay btw.
/r/seduction15/10/22 11:33 PM
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Perfect, thanks!
/r/seduction20/01/20 06:54 PM
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Agreed. Plus as you said, you’re running out of chances. Plus, that also means if she shuts you down hard you won’t ever see her again after 2 months.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:14 AM
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As I said, it was more just winging for my friend. He fucked up and won’t be hanging with her later. I just meant this post to say what helped me personally in an interaction and made me feel like I had the most charisma in hopes it could help others. I like to look at my interactions and see what I can do to improve and what has worked. Not caring at all worked wonders for me. I had been down on myself because a few weeks before I was at a house party and remet a girl and after saying something…
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:04 AM
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I’d say well off but rich is a stretch. I still feel tight on money but I do well for myself. But I’m not super attractive at all.
/r/seduction30/12/18 06:09 AM
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I’m not rich, I am tall, and I always end up in the friendzone or they like my friends more than me.
/r/seduction30/12/18 05:39 AM
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I won a lottery for Tesla owners in LA lol.
/r/seduction30/12/18 12:46 AM
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It’s a game changer. I feel like if you can take that mindset into any interaction then you’ll have a huge jump in success.
/r/seduction29/12/18 11:38 PM
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Well he’s not into pickup but just help your friend talk to girls and hopefully help them get whatever they want like a number, a date, etc. In this case I ended up holding the conversation up and keeping them entertained and interested in talking to us.
/r/seduction29/12/18 09:54 PM
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Neither am I, she’s just one of his ex’s. When I found her Instagram I googled her to see who she was since I’d never heard of her or seen her anywhere and she had a ton of followers.
/r/seduction29/12/18 09:45 PM
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Lol noooo, I’d be nervous as shit to talk to her. I didn’t even know who this girl was while I was talking to her.
/r/seduction29/12/18 09:44 PM
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I always just ask girls. It’s your body and your health that’s at risk when you have sex with someone else. The same goes for her. It’s healthy and intelligent to ask if someone has been tested and if they’re clean or not. If they haven’t been tested recently but have only had sex with a few people it’s not as big of a risk. If they’ve had sex with a dozen people without being tested, I’d say the risk decent. It’s just up to you how much risk you’re comfortable with.
/r/seduction29/12/18 07:42 PM
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I wouldn’t feel comfortable having sex with someone who didn’t feel comfortable answering a question like that, but that’s just me. Why risk it when there are plenty of clean girls out there? If you have an STD, I do believe you legally have to disclose it when asked or you’d be liable for any results of the person contracting it from you after you lied. By not answering, she’s make it so she’s not liable to you but still gets sex. Seems like a super shitty thing to do if she isn’t clean and if …
/r/seduction29/12/18 07:13 PM
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Any suggestions for Shinjuku? And what time is usually best to go out? I know some cities are earlier and some are later.
/r/seduction29/10/18 08:26 AM
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Thanks so much! I’ll check that out tonight.
/r/seduction29/10/18 06:44 AM
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Anyone have suggestions on night game venues? Just got out here and looking to meet some girls. Tried talking to a few on the street but not many seem to speak English, is it more of just a numbers game of talk to every attractive girl you can find or what?
/r/seduction28/10/18 11:04 PM
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I’ll buy that and read it next then. I’m still new and Models seemed to be highly recommended to I bought the ebook before a flight. I’m just down for more knowledge and ideas. Thanks again for all the advice.
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:21 PM
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Thank you, and thanks for all the feedback and tips. I want to lay it out so I can find my improvements and also hopefully to find some weaknesses to improve on. I need to work on that. My main focus was on getting comfortable with casual touching, so I’ll have to get more into working on my AMOG skills. I know, as I walked up I realized I needed to introduce myself to ugly friend first, so I did, then tried to keep them both involved but ugly friend wasn’t interested or saw through my attempt s…
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:47 PM
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Just ask questions. Ask what their passions are. Answer questions they ask you with passion. Don’t talk about things you’re not in love with.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:13 PM
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Definitely makes sense. Thanks for going into detail. I wasn’t sure if you just meant like commenting on their outfit or hair, etc.
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:36 PM
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Just bring your expectations down a bit. That should take some pressure off yourself.
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:42 AM
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Get a joby and a Bluetooth remote for your phone if really needed. Otherwise asking others will help.
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:29 PM
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When you hug him goodbye, just give him a tighter than normal squeeze or hold on a little longer than usual. Girls have done that with me and it sends a clear sign. I will note I didn’t escalate cause she had been pulling all nighters and looked and acted physically drained, so it wasn’t the right time. Any other time it would have been game on for me haha.
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:28 PM
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Looking forward to reading about your progress!
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:24 PM
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That’s me most of the day unless I’m out for fun or with friends. I feel the same way a lot when out for daily tasks and try to make a conscious effort to smile and I think that helps. Charisma Myth talks about how Marylin Monroe use to ride the subway and the entire thing was just an act. No one would know who she was until she flipped her internal switch. I think that has helped a bit where I feel like if I really want to shine, I know it’s there, it just takes me flipping a mental switch to l…
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:30 PM
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Car sex is overrated unless you have solid room. Did it once and it was more the thrill than the pleasure that got me off haha.
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:23 PM
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You don’t. But you could just stop talking, look her in the eyes, look at her lips, and then go for it. I’m new to the dating game after a relationship but I think one thing I’ve learned is you just need to sack up, take the risk, and go for it. Girls want it to, so by not doing it, you’re letting them down. I’d say try and change your mindset from fear of rejection to fear of letting her down. That could help, but I can’t say for sure.
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:18 PM
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Don’t sweat it. You deserve it. We all deserve it when the times comes. I lost my v card later by choice as I was going to try and wait, but when I did it wasn’t a big deal at all. Nothing about you changes, you just bust a really nice nut. I enjoyed my first time but most people don’t, so I’d say just know you probably won’t even enjoy it and hopefully that helps take the pressure off.
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:16 PM
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Does anyone have solid links to situational openers for someone who’s new? I get the idea of it but just wonder what some examples are so I can be more aware.
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:11 PM
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I feel like sometimes you just need to kiss her. If it’s what she wants, I don’t think you need to do anything else except grab her somewhere to pull her in a bit, but not in a forceful way.
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:08 PM
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You can always have them help you meet hot friends. Just told my friend to have a model she’s shooting with DM half joking but still serious and she said she’d put in a good word. Highly unlikely it works in this kind of situation, but I know she’ll help me pull down the line if a situation presents itself.
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:47 PM
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Really interesting. I’ll have to keep that in mind.
/r/seduction27/08/18 11:17 AM
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I need to start writing instead of just mentally digesting my mistakes and successes.
/r/seduction27/08/18 11:10 AM
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I like food > drive to a view or maybe a hike > get dessert > back to my place to swim > inside to clean up and then go from there. If you’ve been flirty and physical, it’s pretty easy to escalate when you’re both half naked from swimming.
/r/seduction27/08/18 11:07 AM
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I’m tall, I was a bit taller than you in high school. I knew all the girls, but never actually pulled. Just show interest, flirt, and have some balls. I never went to parties, but I’m certain that would have helped me. If you like a girl, let her know after you’ve talked to her a bit and are comfortable, but make sure you show clear signs of interest the entire time.
/r/seduction27/08/18 11:01 AM
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Solid. My biggest weakness is setting up a frame of sexuality with girls.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:38 PM
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Everyone’s hating on the drink tip. I have larger hands so it’s easy for me to do. I can see how it would work as a benefit as well in terms of appearing confident and at ease. Everyone here is worried about spilling their drink, so wouldn’t holding it more relaxed show confidence?
/r/seduction17/08/18 05:29 PM
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Always wondered why everyone says to not jack off. Makes sense when you put it like that.
/r/seduction17/08/18 05:17 PM
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What’s evergreen?
/r/seduction17/08/18 05:07 PM
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I need to read these as well, so thanks!
/r/seduction07/08/18 04:14 PM
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Just read the charisma myth. If you want people to like you, and listen to you, charisma is a solid start.
/r/seduction07/08/18 04:12 PM
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Yeah, I feel like I need to be open to being more direct. Thanks for the advice, I think you’re right. Would have worked much better than nothing.
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:06 AM
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I was told that’s not always the case by multiple girls. My ex being one of them. Saw her at the gym for weeks and we’d always smile but she’d always have headphones in so I never said anything. I’d say if she smiles and makes eye contact then go for it, but if she gives a brief look then don’t bother.
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:41 AM
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Ok, idea that makes me sound like an ass but hear me out. Was it because I’m too interesting? I’ve basically done everything on her bucket list and live a life she’s super jealous of. In the Charisma Myth they talk about two politicians going out to lunch with a writer and one made themselves seem like the most interesting person in the world and the other made the writer feel like they were the most interesting person and that was much more powerful from that type of interaction. On the other h…
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:06 AM
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Am I wrong in thinking that if someone agrees to go out with me that she at least finds me attractive? Lol
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:00 AM
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Lol well, you know, you could be right. I just figured if she likes all my stuff on IG for years and agrees to go out with me that she at least finds me attractive enough to potentially hook up with.
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:57 AM
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Well I’m on my flight back home now so I’m moving on lol. I only asked her out cause she’s hot and I figured it was good practice and I’d either hook up with her or learn from some mistakes, but I’m not really sure if I made obvious mistakes or just a ton of little ones.
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:56 AM
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Any chance you can post the next part in the next two hours? Heading to a date soon so I’m itching for the rest. This is good stuff imo, even if others don’t appreciate it enough.
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:01 PM
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I’d say don’t bother until he apologizes to you, especially if you already talked with him about it once. Maybe it will be a wake up call to him about his attitude and lifestyle.
/r/seduction28/07/18 01:33 PM
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My longboard was an Inboard so it’s $1000 to replace it, I got a concussion, racked up some medical bills, and might do more trauma therapy but his insurance will cover it once he’s arrested since he ran after the fireman got pictures of his car and plates and saw him walk over before he drove off.
/r/seduction28/07/18 03:19 AM
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This is true, but I’m gonna look at it the other way haha. Better motivation to step out since if you walk away, you could die and miss your chance.
/r/seduction28/07/18 12:15 AM
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A fire truck saw and they called me an ambulance and had me go, which was good since there was a good chance my bone was broken and I was just in shock.
/r/seduction28/07/18 12:14 AM
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It’s not, but take a chance cause life is short. Bad luck can end things much sooner than expected so shoot your shot while you can.
/r/seduction27/07/18 06:09 PM
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I believe it. I hope Part 2 is coming soon haha.
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:24 PM
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That’s kind of what I was thinking was key. I need to be the prize here. I’m the one who left to live in the most desirable/expensive area. I saw someone else say something about 70/30 her talking to me talking. I’m just wondering if there are any other good tips. I know I need to push pull and not tease too heavily. This is just always the stage I mess up on.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:57 PM
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I guess my issue is that I’ve been in a relationship for a few years and I haven’t had a successful date in years.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:13 PM
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Thanks for this. Will definitely look for this on my next date.
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:51 AM
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Id day don’t go out of your way or lie about being busy just to avoid her. If she’s the one making plans and pursuing you then I feel like that’s you pushing her in a way.
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:32 AM
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Quality. Recognized the name from Kiril’s podcast so I’m going to see what other gold I can find in your archives haha.
/r/seduction14/07/18 06:02 PM
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I had a great relationship after the girl made me wait a few weeks and we hung out non-stop. She said she would have preferred to wait longer but caved in for me. It wasn’t actual dates, just someone who lived nearby and could come over to hang out after work.
/r/seduction14/07/18 05:50 PM
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I'd consider myself the king of the friendzone, which is what led me here. From what I've learned so far, I just need to put myself out there more and actually show sexual interest. It's now my belief that if you don't show sexual interest soon enough and then often enough (not non-stop) after that, the girl will start to shift you into the friendzone mentally. For me, that means trying to force a bit more kino. Another issue I have is maintaining long eye contact. To me, something just feels we…
/r/seduction13/07/18 06:05 PM
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I did #3 on Sunday, hung out with the girl last night and made out for a bit. It was a later meeting and it’s a work-night for both of us so it will go further next time. I think it’s all situational but all options you listed seem like fair options to me.
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:35 PM
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From a video I watched yesterday: 1 - show playfulness 2 - earn trust 3 - earn respect 4 - show interest They said to do it in that order. If you’re talking to a hot girl, everyone jumps right to #4 and shows interest so you just seem like every other guy talking to them.
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:32 PM
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I’d say it’s a mindset. Get into the zone and focus on improving yourself. Crowding her is going to push her away but becoming the best version of yourself will pull her in.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:52 AM
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I’m still super new so I’m open to new ideas. I’m still just trying to soak up knowledge and find a way to implement it. How do you feel about being direct? I’m not sure what would change so much psychologically over a decade that would shift from one extreme to the other in terms of directness. Do you have any content you’d recommend on it?
/r/seduction10/07/18 06:01 PM
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I feel like in every set you opened that you ended up being direct in some way. I feel like that was the only consistent aspect of your sets so as someone who's new, it makes me think I should focus my game on being indirect for as long as possible without coming off as beta or uninterested.
/r/seduction09/07/18 08:36 PM
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Got sucked into this channel for the last hour lol.
/r/seduction09/07/18 07:56 PM
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Take the job. Don’t risk financial well-being for a girl who doesn’t respect you enough to take a call when you’re concerned.
/r/seduction08/07/18 07:02 PM
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I’m 25 and feel like I’m similar to you. I read The Game and most of Mystery Method 4 years ago and I’ve finished The Game and am almost done with MM now. I don’t know how out of date MM is, but I feel like it’s giving me a lot of knowledge on what I’ve been doing wrong my whole life with women. I’ve always been able to click with girls upfront but it never leads anywhere for me or I’ll say/do something that demonstrates lower value, and I then usually compound that with more lower value stuff u…
/r/seduction08/07/18 06:48 PM
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I used to get a lot of matches and had good luck on it 3 years ago but took time off while I was in a relationship. Now, I can’t get matches for shit using the same pictures I had in the past. Not sure if I’m missing something or what has changed, but I’ve had success at least attracting girls when going out without having any game aside from the few things I picked up years ago and hadn’t put into practice in years.
/r/seduction08/07/18 03:40 AM
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Trying this now. Hopefully it works on girls with a decent following since I know she’s already watched my story in the past.
/r/seduction08/07/18 01:41 AM
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