So I went out with a girl last weekend while I was visiting my old hometown. We went out and grabbed beers then hit a club with some of her friends.

Things had gone well, but I noticed I was doing most of the talking at dinner, to the point where she finished her pizza before I had finished more than half of mine. Mostly this was because she had a million questions for me. Even when I’d try to ask her something she’d go back to me. Could someone give any advice or feedback on this? I felt like everything I saying was building up my value success wise but not really sexually.

Later, at the club, we danced a ton but she gave me a shit test and said to me and a friend that was a guy to find a hot girl to dance with. My issue is that I found out most girls back home aren’t hot. There were maybe 8 hot girls there and all had guys with them and one was her sister lol. I feel like this was probably shortcoming since I feel like I was setup to fail or just dance with someone less hot than her. Honestly, she was one of the most attractive girls there so I felt like it was a lose/lose. Does anyone have any advice for this?

I messed up somewhere along the way but I left the night with nothing at all. I feel like I can get girls to go out but I’m missing something. I’ll need to reflect on that more myself, but those are the two things that stick out to me as a possible area where things could have gone south.