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"If you don't enjoy it then don't do it."
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:48 PM
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Check the book "The True Story of the Bilderberg Group"
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 08:38 AM
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Somehow you feel the need to apologize for not committing. Should a girl have to apologize for not putting out? Unless you lied about stuff then this doesn't compute.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 08:19 PM
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Disgust is a strong feeling, and I sometimes have the same feeling when I see unhealthy people. So, I try to remember everything is as the universe arranged it to be. That is, gluttony is built into us for survival reasons, just as "AWALT" for evolutionary reasons. In a way we are all just victims of our evolution and of reality, and by thinking this, my disgust slowly turns into sympathy and empathy. I mean, I also struggle to not eat that cookie or that donut and I don't always win. As for wom…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:44 PM
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There was a post here about some athlete who broke up with Miss USA because he wanted to wait for marriage. 2 years or 6 years sounds awful, but that's someone else's perspective. All that matters is your own perspective and what you want. If you're achieving your goals, if you have inner peace, that's more than most people in the world. It's easy to get caught up in a cycle of envy and craving. Over money, over things, and over girls, it's never enough. Or, it's always enough. Make sense? That'…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:58 PM
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So those guys on the pheromone forums with the large collection of products are actually onto something?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 04:43 AM
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I fail to get the bang You're alone in a room and both of you are thinking the same thing. You're trying to get a bang, and she's wondering if she should give it up. Avoid this frame from the get go. You're the catch, not her. Enjoy yourself, don't rush, and be willing to walk. Also don't talk when you escalate imo. At most, just say "come here".
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:24 PM
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I want someone I can... Your aversion to loneliness, and your longing for companionship, are the source of your suffering and unhappiness. In Buddhism this is the first noble truth. Isn't that what we all want deep down? The way you ask hints that you want others to agree with you for your validation. It really doesn't matter what others want. Do you really want these things, or are these just fantasies of happiness sold by the media, society, and your upbringing? Whatever you decide, just know …
/r/askTRP23/11/15 09:58 PM
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I've screened candidates coming out of a 3-month bootcamp and was generally not impressed. As they presented their projects I just felt there was so much hand-holding. As if they just followed the tutorial guide on whatever XYZ framework and boom they call themselves a "full-stack" developer. That's just my perspective as an employer and maybe they all went on to find great jobs anyway, I don't know. A solid CS degree, good understanding of data structures and algorithms, is much better both to …
/r/askTRP20/11/15 09:02 PM
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If this is real, your problem is you depend so much on others (particularly, random sluts from raves) for happiness. Over-analyzing and dependent. Did I overreact and end something with potential or was this the right move? It's the right move. There's (more) potential in meeting new people. Professional help? Sounds expensive. Give mindfulness meditation a go.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 09:04 PM
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What I want to know is how to develop a deeper connection apart from superficial Hi's and Hello's I'll share some strategies for this, and you can write about them if you like them. Create Mutual Agreement: Find commonalities and talk about things that make you go "yeah, I know right?" The nice thing is you can do this even with very mundane topics. Reaffirm connections: "I'm glad we see it the same way." "It's really cool that we agree on this/have this in common" Foreshadowing: This is more fo…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 07:29 AM
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I personally like Mindfulness or insight meditation. It's not about clearing your mind or only concentrating on one thing, but about becoming aware of all the things your mind does. The effects of this awareness are real: increased discipline, reduced anxiety, more peace etc. You realize most of your thoughts are just temporary noise-like fluctuations and treat them as such. pdf: Mindfulness in Plain English Metta meditation is also great for cultivating a great vibe. Also the book "Wherever You…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 05:45 PM
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Buddhism pretty much tackles this head on. Meditate, you might find ample happiness and joy in the present moment. After all your very existence is a miracle.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 07:51 PM
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The basics of sitting in one place and focusing on your breath are enough to get started. For me, I've found that two books really helped make it more effective. Wherever You Go, There You Are Mindfulness in Plain English
/r/askTRP26/10/15 09:35 PM
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Truth is, the scarcity mindset never goes away. In fact, it is part of the human condition. We are always wanting more than what we have, rich or poor. Happiness and satisfaction are always fleeting. The thing about abundance is that is is just a mental state. All you really need to attain it is your mind.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 07:11 PM
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I'm so stoic and emotionally detached that women think I'm some kind of psycho robot. Find your passion, mission, or purpose, and express yourself around that.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:07 PM
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Stop watching porn
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:02 PM
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You're seeing his choices through the lens of your own thirst and envy. Not everyone looks for easy lays, perhaps he is looking for something else. Or maybe he is and just doesn't know how to go about it. If you want to help him you should first understand his perspective and what he wants.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:33 PM
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Lots of questions. Relax, you actually have very little control over anything. That said, if you want her to reply faster you'll have to lead by replying faster yourself. It is more natural to set up future plans during high points, like the end of a positive first date.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:59 PM
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Ever notice how children are naturally outgoing and charismatic? That's because they don't have a care in the world, and aren't thinking about what others think of them. Start by opening up your senses: eyes, ears, and just express your feelings and thoughts as they come up.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:45 PM
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Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. She just admires you
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:40 PM
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There is a good passage titled "Parents" on Page 89 of this book, Peace is Every Step The entire book is worthwhile. But bottom line is, He saw that his father may have been a victim just like him. The seeds of his father’s anger might have been transmitted by his grandparents Next time you look at yourself in the mirror, take a few deep breaths and look deeply. You may get to see your parents in your own reflection. Not just their genetic material, but their hopes and dreams, their struggles, s…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:38 PM
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Is there any indication that we aren't getting enough already if we're eating a high protein diet? Knowing me I'll probably buy some anyway
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:27 PM
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Will life be more enjoyable once i graduate and get a job? Yes. If you have a high-paying stable job you are well ahead of the vast majority of the world. I havent talked to another person in 2 days. Surely there are people all around you. Just ask them for 10 minutes of time, and speak your mind. Most people are genuinely friendly and compassionate.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:06 PM
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Healthcare obviously should be socialized I'm not into reddit debates but here's some material with the opposing viewpoint, in case you are bored. http://jamescarlin.wikidot.com/healthcare-links Why Socialism Must Always Fail
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:59 PM
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Socialism always sounds good because it's a "good things for all!" surface-level pronouncement. I mean who can disagree with that? However it is not economic reality. Take away competition from an industry and standards fall, innovation stagnates, prices become arbitrary. In other words, since you do not believe in socialism for other industries, realize the same economic realities affect healthcare and education, and no amount "this should be a universal right" will change that. What Soviet Med…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:55 PM
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Natural selection.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 07:36 PM
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"so how do you want to do this, Lead lead lead. Don't force her to make decision. If it really bothers you you can tell her to get it next time. Or make jokes. "You got this, right? <smirk>". "You owe me a backrub." Whatever, have fun.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 07:17 PM
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TBH there is a lot of misleading and conflicting information on the internet. If you read enough conventional wisdom you might end up believing that saturated fats are bad, and that a low-fat diet along with low intensity cardio is good for losing weight.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 06:57 PM
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Yes Also, longevity.
/r/becomeaman09/09/15 03:54 PM
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My gf loved that article. After reading it she felt proud and happy of herself, having met none of its criteria.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:37 PM
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Yup. Remember when you were a kid, and everything was fascinating, including meeting people? That's part of why kids are naturally charismatic.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 10:10 PM
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That's what their generation knew, and it was true back then. Now, there's a student loan bubble and tons of worthless degrees. That said, if you can tough it out in STEM or enjoy it, it's still good. Maybe even worth the debt. There is still a shortage of good programmers and engineers. Keyword is good. It has to come relatively easy to you. Tons of mediocre or bad ones, and they all think they're good. That said, knowledge is more available than ever. The degree is just a piece of paper. Figur…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 10:05 PM
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Only take solid #s. Get solid #s by foreshadowing or agreeing to a date idea during the convo. First text same night. After that there are no real rules like "3 days".
/r/askTRP05/09/15 06:28 PM
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Get school out of the way as fast and cheaply as possible. Don't be the typical person loaded up with student debt. just work until the day I die Enjoy your work and it won't be work. Whatever you could "learn" in a 4-year is nothing compared to the knowledge available on the internet or business opportunities from 2 years of extra time.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 06:25 PM
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Escalate on the high points. If you're hitting lots laughter you're already there. But remember you're not their entertainer. A strong connection requires that she opens up, talks about herself, and contribute. Kino is best as a reward, too much too early can seem needy. So escalation can be anything like: Ask a personal question Ask a logistical question Foreshadow (describe) a date: "Imagine, if we.... it'd be so much fun" Reaffirm agreement: "I'm glad we're both...." Lead her somewhere else C…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 06:10 PM
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I have the same perspective as you but I address it differently. I meditate on my life and consider it already complete as it is. I need nothing, and I carry an abundance of fun and value ready to share. You need to bring the fun to the venue. This is natural when you're high status, good looking, or charismatic because you add value just by being there. This works great when I travel. Everything is new and I'm genuinely interested in everything. Sometimes though I'm not. You still have to genui…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 05:54 PM
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I lift 3x a week and box for an hour 2x a week. I tried that with Krav Maga and was getting destroyed. Lifts suffered, body frequently in pain. Although it is fun getting punched. Grats on the job btw
/r/becomeaman01/09/15 10:54 PM
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Nutrition on point? Sleep 8 hours? What is your workout like? Make sure it's strength training. 5x a week is probably too much. See stronglifts. What is your "love" with videogames like? Do they control you, or you control them? Every little bit counts. Every time you fight that feeling of lethargy, you build yourself.
/r/becomeaman01/09/15 08:39 PM
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Just curious which country are you in?
/r/askTRP13/08/15 06:41 PM
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Shortest way to put it: your frame is your version of reality in your mind. Probably the best post about it: /TheRedPill/comments/34bynz/the_trp_field_toolkit_part_2_frame_posture_and/
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:13 PM
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it turns out that i've hurt a lot of girls feelings because i didn't pursue or flirt with them. i've learned after the fact that lots of girls have tried to place themselves close to me with the hope that i would hit on them So good to keep this in mind when going out. If you don't approach you are taking value away and disappointing everybody. Moreover you're more likely to seem a fool when you don't approach than when you do.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 11:24 PM
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You're seeing it wrong. It‘s not a game of reactions, you'll never win if you are reacting. It's about leading and holding frame. You must be the prize, she must be following (reacting to) your lead and your frame.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 10:02 PM
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One nice time to meditate is while driving. Just turn off the radio and enjoy the silence.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 11:16 PM
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Just wait til you dance bachata or kizomba.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 08:42 PM
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Fuddruckers Dude I love Fuddruckers you can get 1lb patties there, satisfies protein needs unlike most restaurants. It ain't about money or fancy restaurants, that's for suckers.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:18 PM
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Thing is if she actually won, she would greatly damage the employability of women across the board as the risk of being sued is a huge dis-incentive for companies. Same goes for anti-discrimination cases across race, disability, etc. Basic unintended consequences of using force & violence.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:32 PM
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"No good reasons, just bad ones."
/r/askTRP28/05/15 07:57 PM
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Thank you for this, I have been gravitating towards Buddhism and reaching the same perspectives in my life. I'm going to add that book to my reading list.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:23 AM
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Public school math curriculum is broken and serves to damage the enjoyment of math in the minds of most kids. If you're interested in why you should read A Mathematician's Lament
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:06 AM
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They know it's improper behavior, because deep down they know that if their man went travelling solo or "with bros" (especially to Vegas) they would feel dread. But there are so many spineless guys and cuckolds nowadays it's worth the risk to see what they can get away with. Sounds like she already made up her mind; without asking your permission or if you wanted to come. A sign of poor submission and relationship strength. I recommend downgrading to plate.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 07:53 PM
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When I traveled I found that I had less control over my sleep, yet I was getting much more of it. The main thing was being away from light sources at night, and not having blackout curtains in the morning. Try waking up to the sunlight. I found it was nearly impossible to fall back asleep with the sun in my face.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 06:01 PM
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"k" Then go find more plates.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 05:57 PM
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Sure thing man. Truth is, we're all always inadequate in some way, in the sense that worldly existence is fundamentally unsatisfactory.. There will always be something to yearn for, something to grasp at, but it is our choice whether to suffer from it. Though we can't always avoid feeling our hurtful emotions like inadequacy, by being mindful we can use them to gain clarity and motivation towards our true goals and purpose. Don't fixate on the actions of others, especially the fickle attention o…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 10:35 PM
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You've got a great start that I wish I had 14 years ago. I can say 100% that if you continue what you do you'll do great. Once you get into college everything will change, go to a big campus with a diverse crowd and the racism should not be an issue at all. I'm still looking for confidence and social skills. Since you are becoming mindful, ask yourself why you feel this way. Do you feel inadequate in this moment? Why should you? Next time you meditate, ponder what a gift it is to even exist, con…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:15 PM
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It honestly doesn't matter while you're a beginner. You'll get both size and strength no matter what. I like SL5x5 because the increased volume gives you more reps to nail that form.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:54 PM
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But I usually had to work harder to get there, and it made the overall experience less enjoyable. I think it's because you put it as you're "working" for it, sounding needy.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:46 PM
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A large portion of our modern luxuries is thanks to exploitation of those "backward" places overseas.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:31 PM
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I have three indian co-workers who all had arranged marriages. One of them is my age. They all seem pretty happy.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 03:42 PM
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What else? Money and power. After the South seceded the federal government was short on both, facing financial calamity without the import tariffs that were paid mostly by the southern states. https://www.lewrockwell.com/2006/01/john-v-denson/why-did-lincoln-invade-the-south/ The original Constitution, still in effect before the war, prohibited all "direct" taxes on the people, i.e. income, estate, gift, etc., so almost all the revenue to operate the Federal government in Washington was derived …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 10:49 PM
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Everything is temporary and fleeting, especially the attention of women. So, tying your self worth to anything external will cause it to be shaky and weak, especially if tied to women. Your self worth should come from yourself, through cultivation of self-knowledge, self-acceptance, and mindfulness.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 07:29 PM
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You're coming from a desperate, needy place. I can tell you that extra "cold approaches" won't work, that more "game advice" will not help you. No amount of great "effort" to get women will help you reach what is ultimately a very low effort thing. Exactly as u/dr_dreadlifts says, you need to find strength, worth, and love in yourself. Meditate. Learn to observe, and find peace and enjoyment in the present moment, everything exactly as it is. (The best conversational openers are often just stati…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 07:01 PM
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The only wrong answer is to fall into a frame of neediness, "omg what do I need to say or do to break past this?" She can smell this neediness, as she can tell you're just trying to say whatever will please her, and that reduces her attraction to you. The reality is that you're just two kids fooling around and trying new things. You both know that you'll go your own separate ways after HS. She is testing to see if you know this and if you can play it off tactfully. You could tease her for thinki…
/r/askTRP28/04/15 09:19 PM
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So one just came out this last weekend, Ex Machina. Has some themes that you'll be able to spot right away. Maybe this is spoiler but my takeaway is that desperate boys will backstab and give everything up for a chance at "love". There's more but it'd spoil the movie
/r/askTRP28/04/15 06:46 PM
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Focus on what you can do with your wealth to make the world a better place.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 06:43 PM
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I think a lot of people encounter this when they overcome their initial brainwashing from family (live to serve the family) or public school (live to serve society/government), and have to find their own purpose in life. It's difficult but like all struggles it will make you stronger. This particular struggle is a lifelong one and will never end. The least we can do is be mindful of it. Meditation will help, Buddhism too. There isn't a right or wrong answer.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 06:13 PM
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If you intentionally apply dread you're doing it wrong. It's just a natural consequence of you living a busy life and chasing what fulfills you.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 06:01 PM
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How do you guys deal with plates falling for you, and what could be done so that in the future, they don't catch the feels? It's inevitable. That's how people work. Only way to postpone it is to downplay your own ltr qualities and only see them once a week. In the end, nothing is permanent. Just gotta let go. IMO, don't string the 31yo along, it's bad karma. You know she's in a hurry to lock someone down, let her do it to someone else. Always more out there
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:58 PM
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She went to a doc and the doc says she has some small level of depression The other posters are treating this as a mind game which it could be, I guess. But if it's serious enough to go to a doc it could be more than that, as stress is a huge destroyer of libido. Dread game will probably work but for the long run you gotta maintain the girlfriend same as you would a nice car, lest she gets prescribed anti-depressants at which point it's game over for her libido. Keep her diet as good as yours, g…
/r/askTRP27/04/15 09:00 PM
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She got annoyed I wouldn’t agree with her While she offered to help with dinner I said no One tip for charisma is to always err on the side of saying "yes" - it creates agreement which is essential for rapport / connection / escalation. Basically, agree and amplify and stay playful. If you have to disagree or even neg, push-pull. It's fun if you respond yes to everything, then follow up with your real response. Even if it's like "yes!... wait no that's ridiculous."
/r/askTRP23/04/15 05:11 PM
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tldr: Meditation Hey I know where you're coming I tend to feel like interactions should go "perfect" or as "planned" and if it doesn't or if I'm rejected, I'll feel inadequate. Consciously I know it's untrue but nevertheless the feelings arise. Everyone's got ideas and perspectives on how to deal with this but I'm going to propose that you don't need any new ideas in your head, as if you could study it away. What you need is to clear certain thoughts and feelings from your mind. I have to say mi…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 08:02 AM
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HER: What if I come now? ME: Why? Just assume she wants to fuck. So my question is: Am I in the deepest level of a friendzone, or is she actually interested? Dude to me it seems she is giving you all the green lights. She's making all the effort initiating text, traveling, and complimenting you. She really just needs you to stop giving a fuck and escalate. Should I ask her to leave her skinny ass of a boyfriend Behave exactly as she is doing, as if he doesn't exist. Unless it's against your mora…
/r/askTRP17/04/15 11:32 PM
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For me what I'm doing which is working: Leangains cut EC stack wipes out my hunger during the day 95% Paleo, No liquid calories except whey protein, potatoes only after training and tons of meat & vegetables Walk a lot and go out dancing
/r/askTRP17/04/15 11:06 PM
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Dude the number thing is highly subjective and is not actually a real thing. Act and treat yourself like a 10 and so will she. Treat every girl as a 6 or so because really chances are she'll just bring trouble into your life and distract you from your mission.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 10:52 PM
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Wow holy shit she has photos of her boyfriend (the mom's bf) having sex with the 16 year old daughter "and other pornographic material"
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:52 PM
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Tons of resources out there - I'd start here: http://rippedbody.jp/training-the-guide/ The whole site is good and is based on leangains (/r/leangains)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 02:01 AM
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second part is focused on the causes of the decline, citing mostly... Those reasons all may be a part of it, but there are other elephants in the room. Main one is the debt-based monetary system. Declining population wouldn't be nearly as much of an economic catastrophe if not for the need to service ever increasing debt. And supporting more retirees with a smaller workforce would not nearly be as difficult if not for the rampant capital consumption brought about by currency debasement. Inflatio…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:36 PM
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Yes and it's been quite powerful. Set aside some time and just sit. Observe what happens around and inside you. For more read Mindfulness in Plain English or for even more check out the book "Wherever You Go There You Are".
/r/askTRP08/04/15 06:08 PM
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Channel every emotion you have, good and bad, into discipline for lifting, eating clean, and working hard. How do I do that faster Meditate. Master your mind and your inner game will follow quickly, your discipline and focus amplified. where is a good place to start meeting women Wherever you enjoy being. how do I get good at it? You already are. You have to believe this and believe it strongly. Peel away the layers of limiting beliefs, doubt, and anxiety. Don't spend too much time on "pick up" …
/r/askTRP08/04/15 05:04 PM
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I barely use them because I hate the whole idea of sharing what I'm thinking and doing 24/7. Don't use it to share your thoughts, use it to display social proof and preselection. Build up whatever image you want. Share only your high points or accomplishments, pictures with attractive people, or parties/events you're promoting. Yes, it's fake and superficial, but get good at it and you can put your game on autopilot. Girls do it, companies do it, it's insanely effective.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 10:42 PM
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You can do anything you want with me. I wouldnt overthink it. Just another window to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 05:44 AM
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I agree with not getting in that situation in the first place, but another thing to think about is that you can always make the most of the present moment. Let go of outcome, enjoy things as they are. The grocery store is one of my favorite date spots. Great for screening for girlfriend qualities. If you had her isolated, pushing her in a cart, having fun, I'd consider that a good a date as any. Especially compared to a movie with a third wheel. Any alone time can become quality time for convers…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 02:02 AM
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"all women only follow emotions..." Learn to appreciate it. It is the nature of feminine energy to flow freely in search of the best vessel it can find. Like water, if her femininity is great and your cup is small, you will not be able to contain her. Meaning if you become a weak little bitch she will want to leave you. Knowing that will keep you driven to be strong. Every time I speak with my current girlfriend the idea of "she's probably cheating on me" is coming up You see yourself as a weak …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:17 PM
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Great way to test your standing, if she's done certain kinky things with others but won't with you, you're the beta/comfort guy/second choice/etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:55 AM
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Pretty sure these shows are fake. Either way, lol
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 05:13 PM
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Even if you bag a girl using routines or a false persona, it‘s not fulfilling because it‘s not genuinely you. And if you become dependent on it, it works against you in the long run. I've seen puas no longer be able to enjoy themselves in clubs, gatherings, etc because of all the stuff running through their heads. It is a high effort, toxic lifestyle. First thing to realize is that you already got it in you. Its not about adding enough knowledge through books, its about stripping away the layers…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 02:56 AM
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Dude is paying for it though. 500 per fuck
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:07 AM
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That book is pretty old and that PUA-style game is heavily flawed. You want to get off canned lines and routines ASAP, forget about "building attraction" or moving through silly phases. You'll feel connection with people when you're being genuine and enjoying the moment.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 11:15 PM
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If she suggested this weekend why wait 4 months? Maybe you could've closed that weekend? Also idk if its just me but 3.5 hours seems like a really long first date for one venue
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:06 AM
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Any chance you have a copy of his ebook, The Black Flag?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:18 PM
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Page is full of adware and i cant dl it on mobile
/r/RedPillBooks06/03/15 04:07 AM
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Male, female, white, black, peace prize or not whoever is president really does not matter. The banks will keep fucking everyone in the ass, the Fed will print as much money as they need to keep it going, wars will be waged against any threats to the petrodollar. The government parasite will keep growing in lock step with its debt until it all collapses. If TRP is truth seeking we should see through the political theater.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:17 PM
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damn that was kinda sweet, the feelz too bad pouring your heart out never works and we have to play games n shit
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:02 AM
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Same here. It's kind of profound to think that a father would impart no knowledge whatsoever to their son on a topic as important as women. But anyway back in his day and country his strategy worked. Mom is pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 10:41 PM
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The anger really helps when you deadlift.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:12 PM
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When I asked for specific examples, he could only reply with generalities. If he can't give specifics then he's just being a bitch. If you're successful you'll naturally get people who project their inadequacies onto you, and you won't be able to hang with the same loser crowd. That said if you have charisma you won't come off as condescending at all. Give genuine appreciation, uplift and give value to people and nobody will think you're an asshole.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 06:24 PM
5

This will happen all the time just take it as a compliment.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 06:17 PM
1

I think "day game" is overrated, nobody spends hours in the streets trying to pick up women except for pick up artists. Think about it, what high value man, with a lot going on in his life, would walk around doing that? I think if you pick up some hobbies or make some friends with the same interests then conversations happen naturally. Start out at a bar or house party where approaching is socially expected. Once you have a fun lifestyle, and high value, you'll feel like you have a lot to offer …
/r/askTRP18/02/15 01:49 AM
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She explains that it was just a test to see how I would react, and that I failed. Actually that means you passed. Wouldn't take her words seriously here. But I really am hungry "Here I got your favorite sausage"
/r/askTRP13/02/15 06:33 PM
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You ask the wrong questions. Does Superman flinch when bullets are shot his way? Does he take time and mind to prepare for them? There was a good post on "blunt force game" in the main sub. Don't be reactionary. Don't live life by your ability to craft a calculated response to every contingency, you will only stress yourself out. A shit test can be as simple as a change in conversation topic, or as little as a turning away of attention. Be strong in your intention, purpose, and leadership, and y…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:45 PM
2

Charisma Social proof Outcome independence
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:56 PM
1

Big muscles And don't flaunt your wealth
/r/askTRP06/02/15 07:18 PM
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Reach your genetic limit in lifting. Get interesting hobbies and lifestyle. Approach anxiety will be what girls feel around you.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 07:38 PM
1

"Only if she's hot"
/r/askTRP24/01/15 08:27 AM
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Couple of ideas: cut out junk and processed foods sleep enough to avoid stress no antidepressents or drugs all else fails see a doctor
/r/askTRP17/01/15 10:10 AM
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30 a night? You need to ditch the whole pick up artist mindset. It's high effort because it comes from low value.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 02:01 AM
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Wow damn good post. I was thinking "this is kind of fucked up" and you summed it up perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:42 PM
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Asked what she wanted to eat like 4 times Mistake, nagging her to make a decision about breakfast. Believe it or not decisions are kind of like burdens. As a man you need to always be ready to be decisive. Then begging her ("please, tell me") shows extreme weakness, especially over something trivial like breakfast. If you cannot handle small decisions how can she trust you with big ones? I would just make whatever I normally make and offer her some. I asked for her keys I assume this was a defen…
/r/askTRP13/01/15 10:50 PM
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Set yourself up for success by lifting, eating well, working hard and cultivating your skills and talents. What should I do in a school/party/team environment to interact with random girls( not women ) and expect results? Wrong mindset. You don't "do" something and "expect" an outcome. Good shit just happens if you make yourself naturally attractive. Assume all the girls want to jump your bones. But there are little tweaks that can up your game. Mostly: lead, lead, lead. Hard part will be logist…
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:13 PM
4

Algebra is important but the school system still messes that up by teaching rote usage of formulas. A good essay on the shortcomings of education in mathematics is A Mathematician's Lament
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:25 PM
1

Just how it is. Men lead, women follow.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 08:25 PM
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I don't understand why you're constantly applying dread, that's usually for guys who aren't getting something they want out of a relationship. If she's good to you just be good to her. Look if you don't want to commit to her just dump her.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 08:23 PM
3

I don't like most pickup related stuff but RooshV's Bang was pretty good actually.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:51 PM
2

Eh if she says something you don't want to deal with just ignore it or brush it off. Just continue on as if you didn't hear it.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 09:51 PM
1

Is it normal to help her be more open sexually? Yes Is her telling me that she is my slut a good sign? Yes Is still alpha to care about what she needs to get done? If you have to ask, then any action you take is not alpha. You decide dude. Is how I'm leading her to wanting to give me blowjobs the correct course of action? Yeah this is a common thing, just google search. The way to do it is lots of positive feedback. "I want you to..." "It means a lot when you..." Almost sounds like you're negoti…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 05:52 PM
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If you're making out already, a boner is a good thing. Put her hand on it.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 05:30 PM
6

Damn they let 16 year olds on tinder?
/r/askTRP01/12/14 03:54 AM
1

Wtf is there even a question? Just move on, so many girls out there.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 02:14 AM
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ABC Always be closing. Not sure what to do? Fuck it, just close. Ask her out/over. Worried about building attraction? Stop. There's no such thing. If you have to build it, you're not. Assume attraction, close. You should have an interesting lifestyle that's natural to talk about and involve others. So put down those video games for a while.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:47 PM
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In a group class, it's all about the turn pattern, and very little individual attention is given. It's like learning a choreography where the girl knows what's coming and backleads. Then, the next group lesson, it starts all over with a new crowd. The first few classes are fine, everything is new and novel. But eventually the lack of individual attention catches up. You'll know a lot of patterns but you're missing something. Something is slightly robotic about you. A good way to tell is just fil…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:59 PM
2

Hah I wish I had your problem when I was younger.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 04:49 PM
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I think she's just playing her girl game. She knows, better than her female peers, that she wants commitment, and she's trying hard to fight her nature (and attraction to you) and plan long term. Her "heart" is actually her "brain" saying AFC would offer more commitment and would be better for her. Kudos to her, honestly. I would hope my daughter is similarly able to reserve herself and game high value men. If you ever decide to offer her commitment I think she would certainly come around. Hope …
/r/askTRP27/10/14 04:40 PM
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Pretty spot on man. I also see so many guys stuck in "beginner hell" either because they're too old to learn new skills, or they don't invest in private lessons, or they don't take enough risks on the social floor actually make mistakes to learn from. For anyone interested in learning, the group lessons suck, they are good at bringing money to the studio but that's it. Go for private lessons or "bootcamps", don't be afraid to mess up as long as you're improving and getting feedback. Another funn…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 07:43 AM
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I don't doubt that cardio works, many people train for races and marathons with it. But it has costs like risk of injury, muscle loss, and heart damage. For you, quitting smoking probably helped you the most. Heavy bag is more like HIIT depending on anger level. It's fun and I do it sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:59 PM
1

Even if you have poor endurance, strength training will produce all the endurance adaptations you need.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:24 PM
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Cardio is unnecessary and does compromise strength adaptations. http://rippedbody.jp/2014/07/29/everything-cardio/
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:54 PM
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http://www.t-nation.com/training/4-most-damaging-types-of-training Running is the most popular and most debilitating form of exercise. Up to 80% of runners are in pain on any given run, no matter the distance, intensity, or course.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:48 PM
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Being healthy is one of my core values so I would just take a moment to express that. "I know what you mean, same shit happens at my job! ..." "Yeah I get that too, so I pack all my lunches. Saves money too." (Escalating) "Come over and I'll show you my easy recipe." If you don't want to relate you can always A&A. "Damn girl next thing you know you'll have your very own scooter!"
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:47 PM
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As men we are defined by our struggles and how we overcome them. Just know that in the end you will be stronger for all the shit you deal with now. Frats are overrated IMO. There are so many other groups on campus that are based around real interests. If you are high value you can easily carve out your own social circle.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:29 PM
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For the most part women should train the same as men but there are differences based on aesthetic preferences. This article does a really good job of explaining how women should train differently: http://www.romanfitnesssystems.com/blog/should-women-train-differently-than-men/
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:58 PM
1

You can't. Relationships either have direction or die. If you want to keep it casual, see them less. Of course, she will eventually go elsewhere to get what she wants. I would say about 3 months is a very long time for a casual relationship.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 04:35 PM
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LOL as if she's really going to drop you for a beta orbiter. She is only trying to game you so take it as a compliment. My gut instinct wants me to just tell her off. Insecurity. Your should be like "lol she wants the D". best course of action here? Just carry on as if you never saw it. It would be funny if you 'liked' her post.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 07:48 PM
1

I used to. Just go have fun. Get out of the pick-up mindset where you are "cold approaching". Meet people, make friends. Everyone is there for the same reason (to have fun, meet others). Seriously, just have fun. Think of it this way, in any social circle there are "insiders" and "outsiders". You think of it as "cold approaching" because you feel and behave like an outsider. Act like it's your party. I mean, it'd be a faux pas if you didn't meet your guests. Indicators and opportunities to escal…
/r/askTRP10/10/14 07:39 PM
2

it hit her as if we broke up yep
/r/askTRP10/10/14 05:17 PM
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"hey you did the same to me a few days back so I'm only doing the same, if you are allowed why can't I?" This sounds like a whiny child. Correct thing to do was bring around another, preferably hotter, girl while still being friendly with her.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 10:12 PM
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so how did you learn to recognise those tests when they appear? Sometimes you'll get an obvious feeling that she's baiting for a response. Other times it is more subtle and involves a frame switch. For example, she asks you a personal question that puts you in a position of qualifying to her. You feel that she will judge you based on your answer, no matter what it is. being asked what i do for a living If you have a poor job, she might judge you negatively. If you have a great job, you could be …
/r/askTRP08/10/14 09:59 PM
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A "shit test" can be abstracted beyond a simple spoken question or statement. Like how we say "feminism is a shit test", it can apply to entire movements or philosophies. It's similar to rhetorical questions, which are questions not meant to be answered. A "shit test" is anything that is not meant to be taken seriously, but presented as such, that will reveal the relative strength or position of the party being tested. Sometimes it is unconscious, where the shit tester will be genuine and sincer…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 06:54 PM
2

"Fuck it, Right there you had a moment of clarity. A good chunk of your anxiety stems from just giving too many fucks. Stop giving a fuck, do it for your own amusement. Try getting into a combat sport or accomplish something excruciatingly difficult. When you're accomplished and have faced adversity, being afraid to talk to a young girl is utterly ridiculous. Also, lift.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 05:36 PM
2

"You don't know? That's a relief!"
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 04:45 PM
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You can't control others, so don't bother getting upset over them. But to get more respect, it helps to be at a higher social standing than them. More status, looks, money, positive attitude, lifestyle. Give value to people and they will treat you as valuable. Appreciate them, introduce them to new ideas, things, people, experiences. And give people the benefit of the doubt when you meet them. If you can't do that then you're spending too much time on the internet.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:17 PM
5

Side note, if you are really using margarine you should stop. Butter is the healthy choice, ideally from grass fed cows. Fruit is good but be aware of its high sugar content. If you really want to optimize your diet you should jump down the paleo rabbit hole.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:52 AM
0

Wow I can't believe female MMA fighting is even a thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:24 PM
1

You can't build comfort over text. Comfort is not really about what is said but about body language.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 03:43 PM
2

Sometimes a girl just wants to hook up and gives you all the signs, you just need to open the door and lead her through. Instead of believing this, you backtrack and try to "build comfort" with her and sneak your way into her apartment under an excuse. Did you learn that from some PUA book? It's all bullshit coming from a high-effort, beta standpoint, and she sniffed it out.
/r/trpGAME24/09/14 10:10 PM
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WTF does winning even mean? You had her for 7 of her best years. If you never planned to marry her you should have made that intention clear. You broke up for months and expected her to remain celibate? Just move the fuck on you selfish prick.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 04:21 PM
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4 year relationship is pretty long, perfectly normal for her to be emotionally tangled up for a while. As long as you don't lose your cool she should come around. You could also go slower sexually, maybe finger or oral her to orgasm first, instead of rushing to PIV.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:13 PM
2

It‘s like the less you think about it, the more genuine and better your opener.
/r/trpGAME20/09/14 04:13 AM
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You could add a fun activity to add plausible deniability to the "come over" part. Preferably tied to a hobby of yours. "Practing guitar", "Mixing up some music", "Shooting some funny vids", "Experimenting with drink mixes". "Seeing how many pushups I can do, come stand on me". Anything really, doesn't matter what.
/r/trpGAME19/09/14 05:37 PM
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Difficult. But your best tool will be a balance of soft dread and proxy relationship. Talk to her often, skype video regularly. When you talk, talk about the future. Foreshadow the times when you will be together, be very descriptive and happy. Create those same happiness & laughter emotions in her as if you were in person. Get dirty/sexual over webcam. You want her chemically addicted to skyping you and feeling like yeah 100% it's worth waiting for. Keep up the internet relationship over social…
/r/trpGAME19/09/14 05:29 PM
2

It's easier than you think to make new friends in college. Everyone is in a new place and looking for friends, they are just a little shy. Even by pretending to be sociable you'll make a solid first impression. Act like everybody is your friend and soon they will be. Try new stuff. Be open minded, appreciate this bubble of reality while it lasts. Not drinking is fine. You're health conscious, that's a value you can connect on. Invite her over for protein smoothies.
/r/trpGAME18/09/14 09:05 PM
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You're overthinking everything. You banter and don't make a connection on anything substantial. Think common interests, hobbies, goals, motivations, etc. In college, there's no point to getting the number. Normally, the text game is to set up meets. That's already taken care of. Facebook would be better assuming you have social proof. Have a lifestyle / game plan (activities, dates, events. parties) and just invite her along. Be direct, don't pretend to want to compare notes or w/e. She says no,…
/r/trpGAME18/09/14 08:34 PM
2

what do you talk to women about Couple protips I can give you, as briefly as possible: Live in the moment. Observe and feel your present surroundings. Avoid the faraway future, or the past, or the theoretical/nerdy stuff. Appreciate the moment, be in a good mood. Know yourself very well. Your opinions and core values. Start your statements with "I" and make it personal. Get to know her. Think about what her emotions, motivations, values, and character traits are. Find commonalities and you'll ge…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:11 AM
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I was thinking this too. As a general rule, you want to swat down stupid questions anyway, or anything that can derail the topic of conversation. But I think some guys will take this to mean never reveal anything about yourself to stay mysterious, which is juvenile and counterproductive. You should appreciate sincere questions because that means she's interested in you.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 02:13 PM
3

Let's get sushi.
/r/trpGAME11/09/14 03:44 PM
8

It's bewildering how much people hate corporations when the government takes 40% of our productivity using force, instead of offering you iPhones and shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:37 PM
2

You "lose frame" as you say, meaning you lost control of the purpose of conversation. Focus. The purpose of such a text convo is to establish a connection and set up a meet. Any time off is a good time So much you could do here. Option 1. Reaffirm the agreement as a core value. This works better in person than over text. "I know right, free time is rare and precious nowadays. We shouldn't waste it. You know what I mean?" Then proceed to Option 2. Option 2. Good segway to discussing free time & a…
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 10:46 PM
5

"lol good luck" "lol gl" "lol"
/r/askTRP08/09/14 09:50 PM
1

Awesome man, if everything is cool for you then don't take anything I say as addressed to you. I'm just throwing ideas out there for myself or anyone that passes by, hoping they find a bit of value in them. What I meant by "being remembered" is really more like having control over your first impression. It's an advanced aspect of game, described here as "archetype". Basically, how do you want to be perceived, or remembered the next day, over and above just "some attractive alpha guy"? It can rea…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 04:59 AM
1

How could I be miscalibrated per say I'm just speculating since you said your close friends couldn't describe or "catch your essence". As an exercise, stop and think hard about how you want to be remembered by these people. How would you like them to describe you to their friends? Whatever it is, try to be congruent with this identity. I usually never start the complex/escalated conversations. I don't know what your dating life is like but very generally, escalation is required to get the girl.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 10:04 PM
1

If you or your jokes are frequently "hard to understand", or you're unintentionally intimidating, you might be overthinking or miscalibrated. I like to use really mundane statements to get people to agree at first. That always sets a positive vibe up. Then, small agreements (It's a nice day!) lead to big agreements (We should go for a walk!). Ramp up from mundane/friendly conversation to complex/escalated. It's basically the "yes train" concept.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 09:10 PM
1

Yea I guess so, just be who you are. I mean if you walk around trying to be intimidating by looking angry and flexing it's just going to be silly.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 08:20 PM
1

It's not really. I just think if you got married a virgin, you'd always wonder what it felt like to be with other girls. It's sort of a growing experience you'd miss out on.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 06:36 PM
1

Well then I didnt know you were also a virgin. Yeah, dont look back, you have a lot of fun times ahead of you.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:29 PM
1

She's trying to manipulate you into changing x characteristics. I don't know what those characteristics are but you should be yourself and be happy. If you compromise yourself you will be less attractive. If she adjusts and is happy doing so it is a good sign of loyalty. Honestly the distance might be wearing her down too, without physical contact a human relationship is very weird. She really could physiologically not be attracted to you. All of this could just be a manifestation of a lack of p…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:03 PM
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No I think women are not all that different in this respect. If they see a hot guy they still get nervous & coy & giggly. Perhaps even more so since they haven't trained themselves to deal with any sort of "approach anxiety" etc.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:30 PM
1

When I asked her what she liked about me They will almost always answer with beta qualities, because it's what they've been conditioned to say. They won't admit to liking alpha qualities either because they're unaware of it, or don't want to look like a "bad girl". I wouldn't put any weight to what she says, but how she acts. "Real Man" Honestly if she is testing you on this I think you're not doing too bad. Girls only test you if you're worthy of it. If you were actually a weak man they wouldn'…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:25 PM
1

It's like when you meet that high status supermodel dime, most guys would be intimidated.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:08 PM
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Actually you're lucky you're male because you can overcome physical appearance with other things. Just look at Peter Dinklage (dwarf celebrity, Game of Thrones, etc). Acquiring money and status is your best bet. Yeah some guys want to date a lot of girls but honestly that's overrated, and will distract you from acquiring money and status. A good woman & happy life is certainly not out of reach for you.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:00 PM
2

Damn that's amazing, have me wondering if he's natty. Hope he is so I can get there eventually.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:48 AM
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Lift and eat. Once you're in your 30s your ability to build muscle slows down. And muscle mass is the best biomarker for longevity. Want to live long and happy? Lift now. Seriously a lot of us would kill to be your age again. Don't just lift like a sissy on machines and curls. Train like a powerlifter and do the big movements. Starting Strength is the bomb. 2 months? It's about 12 months before you are no longer a beginner.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:42 AM
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You stupid faggot. What I was thinking. "Youth is wasted on the young."
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:38 AM
1

Funny thing is, the economy is always in a "bubble" as long as fractional reserve banking exists. So yeah knowing it doesn't help much by itself. I gotta admit they've done amazing things papering over 2008, printing trillions, and crashing gold all at the same time. Sometimes markets just defies all logic and we need a new framework of analysis.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:52 AM
2

Lift Eat healthy. Make sure you're succeeding academically, and (eventually) financially. Get hobbies that you really love to do. Don't make picking up chicks your only hobby. When you do meet that first chick, pretend like you've done it a million times before. Relax, have fun. If something goes wrong, like you cum too fast, you can always reframe it like she's just real hot that day. It's never a big deal you can always do it again. Lift some more. Don't lift sissy shit, get on a real program …
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:30 AM
1

I like Peter Schiff but I got tired of his videos and podcast. He called '08 but after that his investment advice hasn't performed so well. A lot of other goldbugs also got wiped out last year. In the same way I believe Marc Faber will eventually be right. But who knows when? Austrian economics doesn't help us too much in predicting markets. There are just far greater forces at work than simple market forces.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 04:35 PM
3

everything I've read Is misleading you. Austrian economics directly opposes big government and central banking, so it is actively discredited by the status quo. It's alive and well thanks to the folks at mises.org. It is indeed not a positivist science, so it doesn't rely on statistical models & experiments. It uses empiricism to verify but not to prove or generate its theories. The reasoning is that you can't apply strict scientific method to social sciences as you could natural science. Mainly…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 04:27 PM
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how this world is actually running When you get on THAT level, almost every bit of public information is misdirection or propaganda. Powertalk. Nearly everything you learned about US and world history or economics is to keep you patriotic and complacent. It's all about power and control. Where might one start, if interested in that red pill? Positivemoney is a start. Austrian economics is another. A couple of books are good. All Wars Are Bankers Wars is compelling. The list goes on and on, long …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 01:31 AM
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Actually you're describing MGTOW which is one of the options under RP. Good on ya for not letting women control or manipulate you. That's pretty RP.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 06:39 PM
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Here you've ruined the relationship because you've overdosed on TRP. You had something enjoyable in front of you and you let it go because of a bunch of stuff you read on the internet. The partner count thing, it's all in your head, it doesn't really matter. Just because some guys here are triple digits doesn't mean they are better, more successful, or happier. By revealing you care so much about it you've revealed vanity and insecurity. And it's pretty sleazy. That's why she's less interested n…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 03:15 AM
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At that age you and everyone are clueless. Don't listen to people saying don't spin plates to avoid drama. Follow your gut, do whatever you want, don't overthink things. Take risks, make mistakes (but NOT pregnancy or drugs, or getting arrested). Lift, stay healthy, work hard, pick a good major not some liberal arts crap. Have fun. Nobody will give a shit come college, it'll be a clean slate.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 02:51 AM
2

Just FYI it's "ruse" not "rouse".
/r/askTRP01/09/14 01:49 AM
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Part of confidently asking for that number is knowing that you have a strong follow up. Meaning, you have an interesting lifestyle with fun activities that anyone would like to be a part of. By asking that number you are offering value in the form of fun experiences and a chance to hang with you (or fuck you). Better yet, have a specific reason to take her number, where you would allow her to briefly hop on the exciting awesome train that is your life. Even if you don't have date ideas lined up,…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 10:55 PM
1

Even if it was a joke she is testing how far she can push your buttons. It may be a pretense to taking control of your finances in the future. But since you want to marry her, you're expecting that, in a legal sense. Just be sure she respects your financial decisions and boundaries before marrying her.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:05 AM
1

"You're the catch." Not for being a special snowflake, but for working hard to build & maintain yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:15 PM
3

Yeah I thought what the heck I'll hear them out. 3rd paragraph in I realized it's just rambling and left.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:01 AM
1

It is unappealing on its own. Risk of STDs, etc. However, because it takes relatively more effort for a man to get laid, the man develops other qualities such as charm, fitness, or wealth. This is less true for women and for guys who just have it easy based on genetics. I know a wife of a dating coach that hates his partner count, but that's not enough to discount his overall quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/14 06:29 PM
2

Hard to tell with so few details about your life, but do you have any hobbies? Real hobbies, that you're passionate about, that generate stories, that add fun and experiences to your life. That could be why you run dry in conversations. Before you embark on trying daygame or any PUA-related stuff, think about getting an actual life. In the end, being a PUA is not a lifestyle you want.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 07:23 PM
1

I'd like to hear more about these techniques of yours. Always good to learn tactful ways of demanding what I want.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:18 PM
6

Jay-Z has the alpha shit down pat Maybe, maybe not. He's in a bad spot (being married). http://www.eonline.com/news/567970/jay-z-pulling-out-all-the-stops-to-save-his-marriage-to-beyonce-but-is-it-too-little-too-late "Jay wants everything to work out and is trying to convince Beyoncé how much he does not want a divorce. It's flowers, constant texts and telling her he loves her. He is pulling out all the stops."
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:53 PM
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Next time remember to not waste too much time with bantering. The more you banter without escalating, the more you will "dilute" the attraction you built from the direct approach (you were bold and mysterious). Getting her laughing is good but you don't want to just be her entertainer. Moreover, it's better for her to entertain you or be relating to you. The real goal of the conversation is to 1) connect on something you have in common (gain agreement) 2) paint a verbal picture of you two doing …
/r/askTRP23/08/14 12:22 AM
1

Thanks for this. I will think about it tonight as I pull an extra rep.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:18 PM
5

A good practice is to default to "yes" in non-serious conversations. It maintains a vibe of agreement and you can make it fun by amplifying (basically agree & amplify). "Yeah! Except I'd add a sex swing to the room." "Yeah, if you were being good girl." Whatever you do don't get defensive like you did. Shit ain't serious.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 07:10 PM
8

Makes you wonder if this could have been avoided if she would just sleep with her damn husband.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 09:27 PM
26

When I heard of his death it just didn't seem right. A guy like that doesn't get depression out of the blue. I knew in the back of my mind it had to be related to women. Thanks for confirming. Something about the math joke that women are the root of all evil.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:53 PM
24

Even so, if a girl is pulling that kind of crap, there aren't many options other than leaving/nexting.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:44 AM
8

A lot of my co-workers are from India and several have arranged marriages. I gotta say, compared to the shitty marriages that's talked on this sub, arranged marriage works. Traditional women, very strong marriages, very low divorce rate. Simple family life, very loyal, very supportive. You do give up the excitement of chasing tail but honestly that does get old at some point. I would just treat it as normal dating - get to know the girls and choose one that makes you very happy. Make sure she ch…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:54 PM
2

My gf lives 30 minutes away and drives up once, twice a week to see me. I go to hers too it's not far at all. I'm in Texas and everything in my city is spread out and at least 20 minutes away.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 08:41 AM
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You can tease her for thinking a movie date could turn into sex. For having sex obviously on her mind. Then, if you want, flip the script and pretend to feel insulted and say you're not that kind of guy.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 09:32 PM
1

Personally I think you're thinking so much about text game that you're just bantering through text. Talk about things and activities you're interested in. Subtly show off your values and beliefs. But keep it short and redirect to the real topic (you and her meeting up). Over text the game is #1 to gain agreement, then #2 gain compliance, as efficiently as possible since you're busy. Once you've reached a high point of agreement, STOP and be blunt about meeting/escalating. Or else that high point…
/r/trpGAME12/06/14 05:13 PM
2

I get this from time to time and I never take it seriously. I always answer with the first thing on my mind or not at all, like I'll start singing "I like big butts and I cannot lie" or "because you enjoy the smell of my farts" (she hates them).
/r/askTRP28/05/14 07:10 PM
1

I am wondering how did you guys achieve this phase? Just by doing it. It took a while to unlearn a beta upbringing, but that's not a problem unique to Asians. The reality is, most limiting beliefs are just in your head. If you act like and believe that you are the coolest guy in the room, then you become him. I've seen it time and time again, especially by my old friend who was a dating coach and many of his Asian/white clients. It's unfortunate that guys run into PUA because much of that shit i…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 03:23 AM
2

Girls always want relationships. Even if they don't at first, eventually after enough sex they will develop those feelings. It's just the way humans work. Relationships either move forward or go stale. Casual relationships are always temporary, so enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 09:39 PM
1

Drop some weight and use more time under tension. Check out Ben Pakulski's videos he's really good. Workout to complete failure, drop some weight, dig up some anger, and do it again, and again. The harder I work out the more "fire" I have later on.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:14 AM
10

Squats and deadlifts.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 05:52 AM
3

You don't need anything clever or flashy. Just introduce yourself. Speak whatever comes to mind. Don't overthink it. "You know what, I think you're cute, let's get some protein after this". The words don't really matter, just clear intentions and outcome independence.
/r/trpGAME05/05/14 07:09 PM
2

Is this really that complicated? Just ask her to do something fun or check something out with you. She's also just starting college so she won't want a LTR anyway. In fact, even if she doesn't go all the way, just make friends with her. You should be making tons of friends and expanding your social circle early, it will pay off a lot in the future.
/r/askTRP03/05/14 07:14 PM
1

Being funny / bantering can be really good for carrying a fun vibe. However, do it too much and it is a distraction from the real purpose of the conversation. The real purpose is to answer these few questions: what are the common values (connections) between you two? where is this relationship going? If at the end of the day, all she knows is that you're a funny guy, but has no other reason to see you again, then you were too funny.
/r/trpGAME02/05/14 10:09 PM
1

Mandatory training for powerlifting.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 08:02 PM
3

+1 bulletproof exec. Up yo paleo game. Being able to talk about healthy eating is great. Transitions nicely to a cooking date.
/r/trpGAME30/04/14 06:39 AM
1

If you get a number with a weak connection, or for no reason, of course it will be a flake. Best thing to do when time is short is be very direct. "I have to run to class, but I find you very attractive, let's do XYZ sometime." Get her to agree to a foreshadowed date before even taking the number. That way at least she knows why you took the number. Good looks and a confident delivery will set you apart.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 06:34 PM
3

Could you elaborate what is "boyfriend destroyer"? I'm not too familiar.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 04:37 PM
14

Found it, PDF
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:20 PM
1

Very few guys will relate to this but a good kizomba or bachata can be better than sex. They are much more personal dances so you need to be both skilled and attractive.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:05 PM
1

Blue but smart and successful. But from a time and country where life was hard and so that's what women went for. I have a very good mom & family. It worked out for him, but the same template didn't work out well for me growing up.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:55 PM
2

Jesus fuck what a waste of your time.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 06:16 AM
4

Stop running and build muscle. Get a more stylish haircut. You look proud of yourself, which is awesome. As you can see from your nerdy friends it's really very easy to get girls. Just open your mouth, talk about yourself. Focus on making friends first, even if they are in relationships. Develop charisma, be the guy that always adds to the enjoyment level of the group. Hot girls always have hot friends. Don't worry about escalating and all that, you'll know when the time is right. When the time …
/r/askTRP23/04/14 10:55 PM
1

I don't think you're in the friend zone because she took your bikini comment pretty well. Besides, charismatic successful guys are really hard to come by. Also nursing school is genuinely ridiculously hard so keep that in mind. Maybe skip the bar and just do drinks or food at your place, since she's already been there.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 10:42 PM
3

If you really, really want the relationship you need to be foreshadowing and talking about the time when she can move to you and talk about the kind of life you two will live as a couple. You have to be very clear on where the relationship is going and when. It cannot stay as an LDR forever. So if you just want her around for easy comfort sex (which you might be if you consider meeting new chicks a "burden"), forget about it. As for the other guy, just ignore the fact that he exists. That said..…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 10:27 PM
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I don't think it's wrong that you left her your number. I think it shows true outcome independence and abundance, that you are fine even if she doesn't call. It also asks her to put effort into contacting you, which is important because she will eventually ask herself "do I like this guy enough to sex him?" and the amount of effort she's invested stacks it in your favor. But what's really important is that you were too busy enjoying life to think about the "correct" way to do things.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:46 PM
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It's very similar to the "yes train" but in a nonverbal, physical sense. If she's used to bouncing with you to different places, the hotel room is just the next spot. Just like how small, mundane agreements lead to bigger agreements over core values, small movements across the room lead to big ones back to your place. The more time & energy she's invested in you, the more obvious it is to her that she likes you, so her talking & moving is good. In a club setting it's also about isolating her so …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:48 PM
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Perfectly done. Exactly how my old mentor taught it. Just to highlight what you did, for others: Strong self knowledge Get mutual agreement (yes train) Leaving on high points Leading, changing venues Outcome independence Everything is genuine
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:01 PM
1

Could also be the new stress of the baby. Is she losing sleep? Is she still strength training? Diet still clean? Omega-3's, healthy saturated fats (coconut oil, animal fats), vitamin D, magnesium, are all important. The body is complex and our modern lifestyle and diet is deficient in many ways.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 04:48 PM
3

I have a feeling stress is huge here. With a newborn she's probably losing sleep. Get that stress and sleep straightened out. runs Stop running, running is nearly useless, even harmful. Sprinting is better. Strength training is the best. In fact, strength training is not optional! Having muscle will shred fat the fastest, and is the best marker for longevity. To shred, do leangains. Eat very low carb, but cycle carbs in on training days. Solve the sleep or stress first. Do not exercise if lackin…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:24 AM
1

You can tell from the amount of shit he sells, that his content isn't designed to make you better, but to make you a repeat customer. It's like plunging your mind into a black hole of PUA theory that you can never escape from and enjoy reality again.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 08:10 PM
1

Size really doesnt matter as much as behavior. I have a short friend who is always the life of the party. He just has a great vibe all the time and can outdance anyone. Try learning some dance moves
/r/askTRP22/04/14 07:06 AM
1

Anus‘ line is good. For any approach, get their attention first with something like "Hi". Another approach is to state the obvious, like whatever is on your mind that moment.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 07:01 AM
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Your mindset is entirely wrong. You should be out to have fun and enjoy yourself; not to collect numbers or perform "pick up".
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:12 PM
1

Good post. I'll say though that right around when QE4ever was announced, it seemed like the most obvious thing to just buy gold. Then gold crashed, hard. I've lost a lot of money listening to precious metals bulls over the last year. I've heard all the goldbug arguments and theories. It's good to see through all the mainstream bullshit about investing, economics, government, money supply and currency. But actually making money off of it is an entirely different matter.
/r/AlreadyRed21/04/14 07:46 PM
5

You should get a person's attention first before asking a question or saying something.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 06:48 PM
1

Context for those wondering.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:23 AM
1

Relax; enjoy life, it isn't as complicated as you think. Keep your career, fitness, and health goals as top priority. Have hobbies & such an enjoyable lifestyle that it's natural to draw other people into. Any girl would be lucky as fuck to date a guy like you.
/r/askTRP20/04/14 10:22 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/235rtg/ageinappropriate_relationships_dont_exist_outside/ You know the saying, millions of girls turn 18 every day.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 08:01 AM
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Throw away your PUA notes, routines, videos, sticky posts. So sorry you had to waste your time down that rabbit hole. Every minute you spend "sarging" you could be in the gym, cultivating a hobby, making money, learning something about yourself that you can use in a real (not scripted) conversation. You were scoping out "quiet areas" in the club and thinking of your PUA routines instead of, you know, actually enjoying the fucking music.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 07:43 AM
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Man, don't shit on yourself for being beta. Being genuinely kind and complimentary are very high value traits. You are probably great company to be around. The thing is, when courting women, you can't give that kind of value away freely. You have to establish the expectation of an equal exchange in value. Be kind only if she is kind to you. Give compliments only if she makes an effort that truly impresses you, not just for looking pretty. Not knowing anything about you, you could also be physica…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 07:33 AM
1

Next man. You don't need downers in your life as friends and especially not from a girlfriend. You could try fixing your own energy, straighten out your own diet, fitness, and lifestyle and expect her to follow suit. Get both of you to take vitamin D and maybe other stuff. Sometimes a girl just needs a guy to lead.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 07:21 AM
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If she tells you she broke up with her bf without you asking, she wants you to make a move. Stop having aimless text conversations. Get her in person, escalate with body language and eye contact. Lead, lead, lead. Stop overthinking things. Enjoy it and remember there are many more girls out there. There is no right or wrong way, the only way to "mess up" is to think that messing up is a possibility. PS I think when you made up the fact that you had a girlfriend, you passed that shit test well. N…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 07:09 AM
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"I feel really good about my number and I'm happy that I've had the experiences I've had. I learned a lot about myself through sleeping with a ton of people." So, this quote which is the thread title, is actually from a 24-year-old woman has slept with 30 women. For what it's worth. What's interesting is that whatever the number is, high or low, everyone has a hamster to justify their current situation in life.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 10:13 PM
15

"lol no see if you can get him to buy us free shit".
/r/askTRP14/04/14 10:05 PM
3

Blue Valentine I search this subreddit for movies and found this. Watched it. Great BP example.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 07:29 PM
1

I personally don't think anything is wrong. She wants to meet up with you. Just don't overthink it. Have some fun. I would try to be more specific about your activities, instead of "come out" or "get together", find a specific fun thing to do that could involve her. Then do it anyway if she doesn't come. If you want to avoid a relationship and stay casual, you need to be extra busy having fun/doing shit on your own, and make yourself even less available. That said, if you really like this girl, …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 07:22 PM
2

Check out the /r/bodyweightfitness to start out for now. Here's some exercises to use your dumbells. Stick to compound exercises and you'll be good. You want to get in a gym ASAP and train for powerlifting. That means increasing your squats, bench, and deadlift capacity as far as they will go.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 10:58 PM
2

Unless she's a total slut, I would assume all girls want exclusivity from a guy they've been fucking for three months. It's just how the game works.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 10:53 PM
2

If I had started lifting at your prime young age my gains would be ridiculously fast and my 20s would have been flooded with pussy. Go lift.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 10:46 PM
1

I only skimmed your wall of text. All I can say is stop being a little bitch. There are lots of women out there. You had a teenage romance, and luckily you didn't end up married out of high school. That's a good thing. You're too young for that shit. Lots of guys don't even get a single date in high school. Don't regret your past, reflect on your experiences and build up your core beliefs. And your instagram post "Reddit is my fucking life" is not a shout of strength but a pretty pathetic reacti…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 10:42 PM
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So what caused you to end the relationship? Just curious.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:27 PM
0

Gotta love those Asian girls man. Submissive, caring, sweet. My girl brings me food almost every time she sees me. Her mom likes me too so they both cook shit for me, it's great. I've wondered if there's a place to get fashion advice only for muscular bros. But then I think we don't need it at all.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 04:14 PM
3

HAHAHA he's never been arrested! What a catch! Oh man her standards are so high.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 09:46 PM
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She asked because she wanted to know if the relationship could go anywhere. Not really a fan of lying just to string her along and get pussy. Where's the abundance mentality in that?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:39 PM
15

Holy shit this guy. "I looked at the wedding vows that Sonia and I wrote so carefully, and there is no asterisk, no out clause releasing me in the event of extraterrestrial excursions. This is probably my fault." He reaffirms his commitment to their marriage vows even though she is the one planning to leave. Also finds a way to blame himself. "there will be some who view me as a cautionary male, cuckolded by an entire planet. And though remarrying isn’t an option, others might think me unfaithfu…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 07:05 PM
2

I've never been in that world. Funny thing about being rich is that you never feel like you have enough. Like Biggie said, mo money mo problems.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 05:58 PM
7

This is the same shit as "her ex had a bigger dick than me!". Who the fuck cares, she's with you now. There's always gonna be guys richer, hotter, more charismatic more swole and more hung than you. But there is nobody that makes her feel good like you do.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 05:09 PM
1

Generally, "trying" it means seeking outcomes, being outcome dependent or being needy. Like you're trying to get something you don't already have. "Don't try hard" should be obvious, but the thing is, real naturals aren't trying at all. In a conversation, it means you might be uncomfortable with the silence, vibe, or whatever, and you say something hastily just to seek a reaction or break the silence. If you care too much about the outcome, you're going to put too much effort into what you say, …
/r/askTRP31/03/14 11:24 PM
2

I guess that's true for some lucky models. But if lifting has taught me anything it‘s not easy. If I could ever do any kind of male modeling it would be a testament to my effort in the gym amd kitchen.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:27 AM
1

Sorry but high-intensity / strength training does the exact same thing but better than long, steady state exercise.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:43 PM
2

Wheymen brotha.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:34 PM
6

Brodin is displeased at this outburst of blasphemy. Allow this humble disciple to share some information, lest our brothers be led to commit the sin of cardio. Cardio does not exist Cardiovascular Damage From Extreme Endurance Exercise
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:34 PM
1

Honestly, before "pick up" or "cold approaching" was even a thing, most successful guys did exactly this. Having friends, having a social circle, having fun, enjoying life, you know being a normal fucking dude. Then the pick up artists came along, labelled these guys as "naturals", and told guys to focus on impersonal cold approaches because that's what they sold.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:36 PM
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Here's how to up your conversation game, without using PUA canned lines, etc. 1) Pay attention to your senses and feelings. Eyes, ears, etc. Forget the past and the future. Expand your awareness of the moment you're in, and of yourself. Going into this you will need strong self-knowledge and awareness. 2) State the obvious. When you are in the moment, just think out loud. You can do this anytime, especially as an opener. She'll probably agree, and go "Yeah!". 3) Once you've gotten agreement, go …
/r/askTRP26/03/14 06:56 PM
2

That response can work as long as you aren't actually expecting a serious answer. She's obviously just trying to fuck with you. It's important to not take her seriously. Don't let her fuck with your good mood or your enjoyment of the evening. After all, you just had a good fucking meal with dessert. "Too bad! You don't eat dessert, remember? Now you get to watch me eat mine. Slowly. Mmmmm."
/r/askTRP26/03/14 05:30 PM
4

She's not a plate, she's your wife. "Plate" is just a language trick to mentally reinforce the "casual" aspect of casual dating, for those guys who specifically want casual dating.
/r/askTRP26/03/14 04:36 PM
4

I think the #1 thing to avoid is neediness. Don't try. Don't chase. Part of this involves resetting your mindset. Give, don't take. You aren't "getting" her to go out with you. That's needy. You're offering her a slice of your precious time. You're giving her info on the most fun thing to do at that time (hang out with you). If she declines, she's missing out, not you. Also, I don't like vagueness. Wherever possible try to be specific. Why waste a message asking her to "hang out" when you can ju…
/r/askTRP24/03/14 04:51 AM
1

All I'm saying is that feelings exist and are worth consideration. They aren't something to be ignored or "defeated". Obviously, they are just one part of a well adjusted person.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 09:31 PM
2

Reality is, we're human. Feelings are part of us. Let's not pretend we're something else. Satisfaction and dissatisfaction are fundamental feelings that serve as our compass when making choices. Dissatisfaction brings about a proportional action and change. Long term, yes you should have a clear destination, but feelings & emotions are like the gas in the car that gets you there. Talk to any successful, ambitious man and I doubt he'll be without emotion or passion.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 08:18 PM
2

Eventually you'll realize that your past self is a part of how you got where you are now. A lot of guys who have it easy their whole life never develop the emotional drive to really push their limits. Sometimes just you have to stretch the rubber band far enough to get enough force to beat gravity. There will be some anger and some regrets but you'll realize those thoughts are just not productive. In time I think you'll look back and appreciate your past for what it was.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 07:06 PM
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Good stuff. When a man has feelings, they run up against his will, his frame, and like all things, they are defeated. This is a weird statement. You need feelings to drive your will, to get passionate about stuff. Feelings are a part of you. Just act on your feelings, don't complain about them like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 06:30 PM
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By setting a "massive goal", we know you really do give a fuck. You are caring too much. How to not give an actual fuck? Stop thinking about it and have fun. Call up one of your buddies and just shoot the shit. Life is good man.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 07:06 AM
1

Don't worry too much about flirting or bantering. It will come naturally and trying to force it is just lame. Just speak your mind. Make statements. About yourself, or about anything. Try to talk about things that interest you. If the conversation gets off track, reset or redirect it. It should be about you, her, and why you two would be awesome together. That's why flirting or bantering too much can be off-topic or counterproductive. Don't care about what her reaction will be when you talk. Thi…
/r/askTRP20/03/14 06:48 AM
1

If you're wondering, you should just ask them why they think it's scary. Then maybe give your perspective and why you enjoy it. Lead the conversation to talk about her passions or hobbies. Most hot girls are into fitness so chances are the two of you will relate easily. If she's nodding and agreeing to the conversation then foreshadow a date. "So I think we should do X sometime." Or "I think if you and I did X, then Y", where X is the date activity and Y is a fun or funny outcome.
/r/askTRP19/03/14 09:30 PM
1

A high status girl is asking you out and here you are worried about "increasing attraction" like a god damn PUA. All you can think about is what she can do for you. Whether you can pump and dump her and still use her for social proof. Men of abundance don't do this. They give value, not take. "Planning on kissing her" sets you up to be needy and creepy as hell the whole night. Just enjoy the fucking date.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 09:01 PM
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You really read too much into it and revealed your insecurities by being defensive. You were worried of being perceived as a "nice guy". Stop giving a shit entirely about what other people think of you. Better to just look her in the eye and say, "you're welcome." Because what she really meant was "thank you". This doesn't buy into her frame of qualifying or labeling you, and subtly teachers her the proper manners for the situation. Actually "I love keeping girls hydrated." from MightyCrotch is …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 07:22 PM
17

Personally couldn't get butter to dissolve well. So I use raw (grass-fed ofc) cream.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:18 PM
9

Nope. Next. She doesn't respect him.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 07:45 PM
4

Salsa can be bad like that because the fact that you will repeatedly see the same girls again and again enables orbiter behavior.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 05:55 PM
1

She's your lab partner? You can already make conversation with her, without needing a high pressure date. Just talk about life, stuff, fun, etc. Eventually a specific date idea will pop up. If she agrees to the idea, just suggest a time to go together. In college, there should be tons of fun shit happening. As a fun guy, you should be regularly doing fun things that you can involve girls in. And stay away from seduction or pick-up artist crap.
/r/askTRP07/03/14 09:02 PM
9

Great post! Has started to make me really think about the subtext in everyday speech. A thing I realized also is that all politicians are basically expert pathological Sociopaths. Virtually nothing they say can be taken at face value. There is always an ulterior motive, and the vast majority of Americans are basically Clueless. Even at the highest levels, consider Obama's recent selling of the "myRA investment" which can "never go down in value". It's hard to imagine anyone who doesn't see throu…
/r/AlreadyRed06/03/14 10:26 PM
1

It was a little crazy at first then I realized the site is "theproblemismen.com".
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:01 PM
12

Holy shit this is like the episode of Family Guy where Peter breastfed Stewie. Except real life. And not a joke.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 08:59 PM
6

What in the world are you doing or saying that people ridicule you for? Lifting weights? Dressing well? How can anyone possibly ridicule you over this? Ideally, if you RP, you should just seem like a normal, cool dude. There's no need to become some radical anti-feminist or outspoken misogynist.
/r/askTRP03/03/14 09:38 PM
8

This is interesting because I am a very good salsa dancer. So here's my perspective. Like any place in life, you get a mixed bag of every type of person. A lot of regulars in the salsa scene really do go out for only dancing and socializing. Men and women, myself included since I'm in an LTR. There is indeed an air of safety, especially at venues where the dancing is very advanced. You can be a 70 year old dude and still dance with the hottest chicks. This alone makes it a pretty fun hobby if yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 09:20 AM
1

Ultimately it's up to you to perform introspection and decide what you want to do. Save yourself for your LTR? Risk the relationship by asking for an open relationship? Only you are capable of deciding which path leads to maximum happiness and satisfaction for you. You can go out and make friends and keep sex off limits. Actually that tension building will make you more attractive to some girls. That's always a good option, keeping your own options open, so you can maintain non-neediness or just…
/r/askTRP02/03/14 09:21 AM
1

Live life to the max. Send her snapshots of the best moments.
/r/askTRP02/03/14 09:15 AM
2

Outside of dating young broads, life isn't always a cakewalk. Enjoy having a sugar mama until something better comes along, but don't stop working to become successful / independent. However, is it an ideal situation for her? She's old enough to take care of herself.
/r/askTRP01/03/14 01:43 AM
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I would recommend taking a deep breath, and stop treating conversations as a power struggle. Chill out. Then you won't "freeze" so much. The weak struggle for control because they don't have it. The strong just stand their ground, unshakable. Just stand by your opinion. Was that a real opinion or were you just trying to say anything to make fun of her? Have real opinions, stand by them. If you snap back at her, get defensive or angry, or demand that she stop saying such remarks, that reveals you…
/r/askTRP01/03/14 01:27 AM
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Example tactful honest answers: If you are open to LTR eventually: "I don't know you that well yet." If not: "I'm not looking for that right now." Or if it feels like she's rushing you into a LTR: "Hey, let's not rush things. I'm still getting to know you." Don't ever feel guilty if you don't want exclusivity, keep the mindset: "As long as you and I are having the time of our life, then nothing is lost."
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 09:14 PM
2

"Be sociable" in non pua-speak.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 08:21 PM
2

I think it will be different for everyone. But I think having a strong & loving family and watching your grandchildren grow healthy is my ideal "endgame". Having sons and grandsons that are strong enough to carry your genes forward. Setting a reference point for my descendants in terms of values and character. Have them point to my picture The idea of spinning plates until my bones give out doesn't attract me. There's a time and place for it but it won't satisfy me my whole life. Others here hav…
/r/AlreadyRed27/02/14 09:27 PM
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There you are, in a club, holding hands with a hottie, and all that's running through your head is some mathematical calculation about which "game" will "build" the most "attraction". It's no wonder how PUAs turn into hollow shells of fake men. How about you just drop the act and just enjoy the damn moment? I froze, because I didn't know whether I should The question is not what you should do, but what you want to do. What would give you the most satisfaction in that moment? Is the music good? D…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 09:10 PM
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Maaan, same shit happened to me years ago. She was engaged but long distance, I was all high on morals or some shit. Looking back, I should have given zero fucks and went for it. At least see how far it would go. Why else would she dress so sexy and go drinking with me? Should have listened to her actions, not words, etc.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 08:33 PM
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Now I'm curious about your story. How bad was the marriage? What changed? Any advice for guys considering LTR/marriage? Up to you if you want to answer. Glad to hear that you are in a happy spot now.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:42 AM
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That reminds me I should get off reddit.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 06:23 PM
3

This is also significant on a micro-level as well, and doesn't have to involve money or gifts. If she talks about herself to you, that's an investment of time and energy. Doubly so if it's a personal topic. Same thing if she follows you from one side of the room to the other, or to another venue. Same thing if you set up a date that's a little out of the way for her. Build up on little investments/commitments and it makes the big commitment (spend the night, etc) easy down the line.
/r/AlreadyRed24/02/14 07:58 PM
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You should be the one putting girls in the "friend zone". They are actually quite nice to have around. Hot girls have hot friends, know where the good parties are, give you great social proof, and can be fun to hang out with. Expand your social circle instead of going out cold approaching like some guy who has no real friends or whose only fucking hobby is pick up.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:30 PM
1

Him simply dying he is doesn't really tick the trust box for me. Some shit has gone down in my past which makes trust harder You'll have to feel him out for integrity and congruence, by spending time with him and maybe the occasional shit test. Real men are more likely to mean what they say, and, well, act real. Fake men (betas, PUAs) tend to put up a front, or just say whatever they think the girls want to hear.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 08:25 PM
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This story is fucking bananas. He didn't fuck either one of them, and there is all this drama? Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 02:21 AM
1

I think it's almost masturbatory now, and once you get over the confidence boost that it gives you at first, you're left wishing there was a girl you could have sex with and actually feel good after. This is what drove me to seek out higher quality girls and, well, get a girlfriend.
/r/AlreadyRed17/02/14 06:33 PM
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"I don't let her wear pants."
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:25 AM
2

Wow it's amazing that she would consciously shit test you on your honeymoon, and then carry that frame for two decades. If it was indeed conscious on her part, that's so fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 11:07 PM
1

Speaking of sexual marketplaces, here's what it's like in Olympic Village http://espn.go.com/olympics/summer/2012/story/_/id/8133052/athletes-spill-details-dirty-secrets-olympic-village-espn-magazine
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 09:45 PM
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Later tonight
/r/AlreadyRed14/02/14 11:48 PM
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IMO craigslist is a cesspool of low-quality women (and men).
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:20 AM
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The way I roll with this, is I'm usually doing something fun on Saturday anyway. Whether it's a club, concert, road trip, or just generally "partying". That way it really doesn't matter if she can go or not, I'm living my life and I'm having fun. The gist of it should be "I'm doing X on Saturday, you should too!" Since I know what I'll be doing, I'm also able to foreshadow (paint a picture in her mind of us having fun) ahead of time. Putting that picture in her mind practically eliminates flakin…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:16 AM
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It's fucking sad to see the grocery stores nearby full of guys buying last minute flowers & chocolates and shit. I wonder if they look at each other and think - if everyone is doing the same thing, then none of what we're doing is special...? The worst feeling is hearing some guy say, while buying flowers, "I'm gonna get lucky tonight [with the wife]!"
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 09:46 AM
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I have to agree and disagree with some of this. It's true, women are often loose and fake with their words. However, lots of guys have low integrity as well. For both sexes, the level of integrity goes with the quality of the person. That said, flakiness is also a way of quickly dealing with that creepy guy whose vibe is off and is running PU lines on you. It's those guys who get rejected via flakiness that end up filling internet forums and start making generalizations. As I said previously; th…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 09:26 AM
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There is a significant probability that this new guy will dump her after he's done with her, and she might come running back to OP after realizing what a huge mistake she made.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 10:02 PM
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I would strongly prefer to do my own dishes, unless I can really trust someone else not to fuck it up. Even then I trust my own attention to detail the most. One of the things I like to do is cook, and so I have cookware to maintain. Cookware ain't cheap. Like, don't put the nonstick pans in the dishwasher, don't use steel wool on them, and for fuck's sake don't put the cast iron in there do you know what I went through to season it? Make sure to towel dry it. I like things cleaned immediately s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/14 08:09 PM
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Trait Score Percentile Narcissism 2.7 46 Machiavellianism 2.7 46 Psychopathy 1.7 14 Seems like I'm about average. Never really been a vengeful or manipulative person. Maybe my life hasn't been hard enough to where I need such things.
/r/AlreadyRed12/02/14 05:16 PM
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As far as I know, young Chinese women are no better than Kimchi bitches. They could be worse due to their social environment. I talked to my Chinese cousin this winter and can confirm this. He told me that men are expected to pay for everything when dealing with females, even if the females are just friends. I told him girls here try to pull their weight, pay for things, and generally believe in equality or fairness. At least my girlfriend does, even though she's a student and I make a lot of mo…
/r/AlreadyRed12/02/14 05:39 AM
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Women already want to fuck you, women want men. The wrong mindset to have is that you have to "get" them to. There is a natural magnetic energy that brings attractive people together, just go with the flow. Don't try to rush it (by being needy) or force it (by looking for reactions). I don't know what kind of pick up material you're reading but IMO you should probably stop. There is a lot of awful stuff out there, and most theories are counter productive for someone who just needs a little inner…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 10:22 PM
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Found this in the thread: It started out with me buying him toys and such so I could get into his mom's pants. Then suddenly I realized I cared about him and wanted to teach him all the dumb shit I know. So know I go all out... Doctor Appointments, potty training, cleaning milk out of the dryer etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 09:24 PM
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Having fun, enjoying yourself.
/r/seduction10/02/14 11:23 PM
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I wonder how creepshots would rank if it were still around.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 09:09 PM
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Nice job staying cool and confident man! You sound a little surprised at your results at some points. It really is easier than it seems :P keep at it and you'll get used to it.
/r/seduction25/02/11 01:06 AM
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Grats on your transformation. It's amazing how PUAs make being a "natural" sound difficult or even impossible. Truly, anyone can do it. Save yourself time and energy by not putting any PUA nonsense in your head in the first place, and get some quality, no-bullshit instruction.
/r/seduction29/01/11 08:23 AM
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Like marcovirtual said, that trainer is a natural because he doesn't think about PUA-related noise like approaches, blowouts, FRs, openers. He's not concerned about "closing" right away and is happy to let it play out naturally. You're better cutting that noise out. Live in the moment like any other "natural" and not in your head. Your main limiting belief is the fact that you think approaching even requires "balls of steel". Think about it, what tryitonce wrote. You and her are two people with …
/r/seduction29/01/11 12:07 AM
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"Shit tests" feel like "shit tests" when they expose someone full of shit. Something guys who read too much PUA have to worry about. This blog is pretty depressing to glance over. It's one guy chronicling his journey in to the PUA scene and how he slowly realized how full of shit it is. Imagine, he started in 2007 and in 2010 is still thinking about it, blogging about it, instead of enjoying life with real women. He has so much PUA "knowledge" built up it's taken years to unravel and recover fro…
/r/seduction24/01/11 11:19 PM
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Get better at sex, make sure she's enjoying it.
/r/seduction24/01/11 10:40 PM
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