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who cares about punctuation and capitaliZation in comments. aint nobody got time for that. spelling words right is enough.
/r/seduction05/02/15 04:11 AM
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so improve your english
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:30 AM
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but in most cultures a man doesn't take care of a child if he doesn't know he is the father
/r/seduction17/01/15 06:32 PM
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Mainstream dating advice doesn’t even consider that women enjoy casual sex. The traditional view is to teach men how to respect a woman’s desire to procure a man’s commitment and resources. Everyone is used to this and society brainwashes us to accept it. It makes men mistakenly believe that the only way to make love with a woman is to commit to an exclusive relationship with her. Society brainwashes men into believing that sex comes after a verbal contract has agreed you are in a relationship. …
/r/seduction17/01/15 05:28 PM
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stop caring about making a good impression and enjoy your student life
/r/seduction12/01/15 06:59 PM
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.....I don't think "TRP" red pilll guys reject it. If anything they embrace it a lot. maybe you mistyped what you wanted to say?
/r/seduction04/01/15 07:42 PM
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looking forward to the jacket! good job! hope you sell a lot of these!
/r/seduction03/01/15 03:01 PM
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your going to have a lot of people saying that shirt is ugly. Don't worrry, there's just lots of haters here. The truth is though it isn't a cool shirt. Though more importantly I think it doesn't actually make the shoulders appear broader as your goal seems to be. If anything I think it makes the shoulders look a little smaller as the shoulder hits the seam of the sleeve and changes color. THere are other shirts much better at emphasizing the shape of the shoulders.
/r/seduction02/01/15 09:57 PM
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that's true. and actually manson's book is the resource that obviously sprung to my mind too. the basic point is those archaic pickup philosophies came of out a needy desire to pick up women and get validation from it.
/r/seduction01/01/15 03:29 PM
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what I really agree with in that article is that asian men shame asian women giving attention to non-asians all the time. Asian guys are so intimidated my men of other races because they are insecure about their own masculinity, confidence and social skills.
/r/seduction01/01/15 01:51 PM
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hahahah aaahahhhhaaaaahhaaahahaaa sorry, but your whole comment just sounds hilarious. How about instead of just relying on "techniques" and routines made by the dinosaurs of the pick up community you actually open up, be vulnerable and have real conversations with women.
/r/seduction01/01/15 01:43 PM
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straw man
/r/seduction30/12/14 07:01 AM
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i'm sure some nice guys do actually hate women. just because some people's experiences and opinions differ from yours does not mean their perspective "sucks" or that you can't learn something from them. r/seduction seems to be full of "nice guys"
/r/seduction30/12/14 07:00 AM
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waiting until the third date? you are nuts man. let me guess you won't kiss a girl until you marry her? yes it's a first date so let her know you are interested in her or she will think you just want to be friends or her boyfriend. you also don't sleep with a girl just because you said one suggestive line! you really have a warped sense of how dating works and I wish you luck.
/r/seduction30/12/14 06:57 AM
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why do you say that? is that what happened to you when you read it? Most people seem to have the opposite reaction though.
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:11 PM
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depends on the person saying it and their intent.
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:10 PM
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well it's only a mouthful in English. Not the original language. It would only get YOU slapped because YOU don't know how to ask a question like that with proper social intelligence.
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:09 PM
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there's lots of truth in that book. Where are you getting your information from that it's full of lies? i've even met several men who have been to Dr. Glover's nice guy discussion groups and have completely changed their lives by being more honest about their wants and needs from others. For you to say those men didn't actually have those life changing epiphanies displays a disgusting ignorance of reality. Also you change the line from the article, which is actually, " Nice guys are SOME of the …
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:06 PM
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let us know how it goes! :)
/r/seduction29/12/14 10:39 AM
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you obviously didn't read that book. you are also making a straw man argument as no one is saying all guys who display "nice" behavior are "always" dishonest. what you said doesn't even make any sense.
/r/seduction29/12/14 07:22 AM
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just as i suspected by the question you ask, your biggest obstacle here is neediness, which i confirmed with this detail, "Are there specific signs a girl sends when she wants to dance with you?" why are you so concerned about the "signs" a girl might give you? is it because you are afraid of the dissapointment you will feel if you give some signs you want to dance with a girl but she doesn't want to dance with you? How about you stop caring about what some girl on a dance floor might think. Gir…
/r/seduction23/12/14 06:54 PM
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i don't get it. you have been dating her 4 months but you haven't had sex with her yet? sounds impossible. Also you are exactly right about how chodey you sounded. And you have to give her credit for telling you exactly how you should let you know you want to have sex with her~! let her know your strong sexual desire for her by commanding her, not by politely asking for a blowjob. you were too permission seeking. it sounds like your behavior didn't put her in the mood, maybe you were also just t…
/r/seduction23/12/14 02:23 PM
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so write something better.
/r/seduction16/12/14 04:16 AM
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It would be weird not to.
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:54 AM
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that's actually exactly what that article says. stop making strawman arguments. also, you are probably just aware that if you personally touched a girl she would see it as creepy. It's just you. It doesn't mean girls don't like to be touched by other men.
/r/seduction11/12/14 05:43 AM
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So try to have sex with every girl even girls you aren't attracted to? When a guy is first starting out talking to girls in the daytime, yeah he should never walk away because of fear, just like this article says. But trying to have sex with every girl just because it's some sort of "No. 1 rule" is just a crazy ego gratification mechanism. Men don't need to be that needy. If you realize you aren't interested in a girl it is a legitimate reason to end the conversation and a find a girl you would …
/r/seduction21/11/14 02:58 PM
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no. no it doesn't. So 60% of your hand is also 100% of your hand? how does that work? I'm just saying it's an illogical statement. No Dis obviously just meant to say it works about 60% of the time. It is a good line though. I would use it if I used english to pick up girls.
/r/seduction21/11/14 11:14 AM
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hahahahahahaahha "60% of the time it works 100% of the time" are you sure that sentence makes sense?
/r/seduction21/11/14 07:56 AM
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Every girl is open to casual sex. With the right guy. stop worrying about it.
/r/seduction21/11/14 07:52 AM
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I don't understand either. You write like a woman.
/r/seduction21/11/14 07:51 AM
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the best response is to say, "Doesn't matter, I don't want to be your boyfriend."
/r/seduction21/11/14 07:49 AM
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no he doesn't "literally choke them." stop believing the bullshit of mainstream media.
/r/seduction19/11/14 03:11 PM
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well aren't you a happy person.
/r/seduction15/11/14 10:39 AM
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no to what exactly? the article specifically points out that women have their personal preferences. So obviously you didn't even read the article.
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:17 PM
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you are exactly right.
/r/seduction13/11/14 06:06 AM
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yes, but the truth can often be insulting when you can't handle it. But it's all in how you interpret it. Just like Mark Manson says in Models, "what if it was a gift?" meaning any situation can be interpreted in a positive way. When someone finally calls you out on your bullshit you have the option to consider if it's an opportunity to become a better person. Neediness is a serious issue and yes you are right they do need even more help to overcome it than the limited advice of this article.
/r/seduction12/11/14 05:45 AM
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So i figured it out. The people who are dismissing the tested and useful advice of this article just believe it wouldn't work for themselves personally. And maybe it wouldn't. But if so you need to ask yourself why it wouldn't work for you. It's probably because if you tried to talk about sex it would come accross as creepy because you have a needy attitude towards sex. Whereas a confident, socially intelligent man knows when it's appropriate to discuss sex with a woman he is interested in. And …
/r/seduction24/10/14 02:47 PM
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You are the only one assuming it has to be asked to a girl you don't know.
/r/seduction22/10/14 11:56 PM
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?...... it's like you just randomly skimmed that article for 2 sentences, found something you didn't like and just want to be like a rude little middle schooler about it. That article even points out that you obviously shouldn't start conversations with sexual statements. Besides that, it should be fucking obvious when it is appropriate to discuss sex with a woman and when it isn't. Just like Wolff pointed out, everyone should just stop being obnoxious little middle schoolers
/r/seduction22/10/14 01:23 PM
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please elaborate. I've asked this question to many women within an hour before sleeping with them. If you consider sleeping with attractive women to be a "disaster" then maybe you are in the wrong group.
/r/seduction22/10/14 12:50 PM
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...no they aren't.
/r/seduction22/10/14 12:44 PM
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You'll only know if you try it first. I've seen many girls have positive reactions to these exact questions
/r/seduction22/10/14 10:00 AM
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You could easily frame that as a positive. Just say you design security software that spies use or something like that. Have fun with it. Don't be too logical about giving the exact title of your profession. Another thing is you probably seem a little insecure when you answer the question about what you do. That obvious lack of confidence is the only thing that would make women find u unnattractive. You could have enthusiasm about any boring topic and people will be excited to listen to you beca…
/r/seduction22/10/14 07:39 AM
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?
/r/seduction22/10/14 07:15 AM
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vespian is right. But if at least you have ambitions then that is fucking attractive! If you have some goals, and you are actively working to improve your situation then women will see that. But more importantly it will give you more confidence to be working toward something you care about. So definitely work on getting your shit together while improving your social life by interacting with more women.
/r/seduction09/10/14 03:29 PM
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always shake hands. You can also keep your hand there and wait for her to pull away first. If she is interested she will often keep her hand in yours.
/r/seduction08/10/14 09:15 AM
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would love to read the germily style of sexual attraction
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:00 AM
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haha, that's so cool, I used to say my name was Tiger Spoon
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:07 AM
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mandarin
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:45 PM
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well besides building a habit of daygame, I would say daygaming by myself. I used to rely on the fun time i was having picking up with a wing. It was always fun, but I would only approach a few girls each day. Now that i can do it by myself, i approach maybe a dozen in day and am getting so many more dates!
/r/seduction06/10/14 09:57 PM
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You seem to know what your problem is: "but I cant seem to move towards intimacy stage, making my intentions known, light dirty jokes/sexual innuendos" and "I feel like I'm holding myself back from my full potential" yeah, you are holding yourself back. You are afraid to do and say what you really want to say. About a year ago I approached a girl and within 5 minutes i asked her, "what's the most exciting thing you have ever done?" She replied, "sky diving!" -my first thought was an interesting,…
/r/seduction06/10/14 09:54 PM
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the 'white guy' already new the girl from a previous night, the asian guy had only just met her, when the white guy took charge of the situation, the asian guy just stood there and didn't do anything. many asian men got angry about the video assuming the asian guy was her boyfriend and she was being "stolen"
/r/seduction30/09/14 03:30 PM
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yeah you are probably right, a normal person would just move on after destroying that asshole's insecure criticisms.
/r/seduction30/09/14 02:44 PM
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no one said he was being dominant with those girls
/r/seduction30/09/14 01:52 PM
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that is true, that's why part of the process is making her very relaxed. also it's more awkward to write, "how to make a woman decide consciously to have a squirting orgasm"
/r/seduction30/09/14 03:21 AM
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actually that article even says "obviosly the whole conversation shouldn't be about sex" There is a difference between being horny and being sexual. you seem too worried about being percieved as a perv.
/r/seduction25/09/14 02:12 PM
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This is good advice. I used to think girls didn't like sex. it kept me a virgin until i was 24, what a big mistake that was.
/r/seduction25/09/14 06:22 AM
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