HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN TO TOUCH A GIRL?

Close · 2014-12-10T18:51:16+00:00

This advice is nonsense. You shouldn't "touch a girl whenever you want to, until she says no".

You should have the emotional intelligence and social nouse to know when it's appropriate and do it if the other person would be comfortable with it.

This advice is just encourages creepy behaviour.

voxpupil · 2014-12-10T17:17:00+00:00

A MILF touched me yesterday telling me 'good work', does that count? I thought I found that hot

dysrhythmic · 2014-12-11T01:19:12+00:00

I don't. I just touch and if she's uncomfortable I might just take a step back or empathize with her verbally.

Just recenlty there was a girl I saw passing by. I approached (walk-by), told her she looks eamazing and just told her to stop. I ddin;t know what to say, I jus looked her in the eye and felt my heart pounding. I told her "Give me your hand, could you?" I saw she was hesitating. "Don;t worry, I'm not going to do anything, just a second," I took her hand, placed it on my chest (I knew she could feel my heartbeat throught my jacket) and I say "See how nervous I am because of you?". She was surprised, all was good.

2014-12-11T02:29:31+00:00

"I’ve taken a girl straight home after talking to her only an hour with no touching."

sounds like complete bullshit to me

"If she has neutral feelings about you touch can make her time shared with you a much stronger memory."

touch doesn't make anything a "stronger memory" it just makes the experience better because ((this is actually an article i used to use when i first started doing (edit: actually it wasn't when i first started now that i look at the date it was published, thinking back i realize i actually ended up using it as a vehicle for a language pattern to link her touching me BACK and feeling my touch to the positive feelings of comfort and connection) more cold approaches for when girls asked me why i was "so touchy" - which only happened a couple times honestly until i got the hang of it) of psychological reasons that are a little too, like, hard to explain for me to explain.

(hence why i linked you to this article i found accidentally while google searching for a movie i saw a while back)

EDIT: A playful line I got from someone on seddit a couple years ago that I'd use when I ran into this is "my hands are like antennas, I use them to seek out prey... and food, or mates... and they also detect PREADTORS..." and this normally works well.

edit: holy annotation batman. OP i'm really sorry this is hard to read but i promise i'm offering valuable information. or to anyone else reading this. lol maybe it's not valuable to everyone but theres at least one one-liner nugget in here. <3

freeboot · 2014-12-10T18:41:10+00:00

In my experience, just a moment or two before she says "eeeeew." Timing is key.

midnightyeti · 2014-12-10T19:29:08+00:00

Don't be shy, just touch her.

gexxx007 · 2014-12-10T19:36:49+00:00

If you don't look like a chud, go ahead and touch her, chicks love it when a good looking guy casually touches her. Don't go for sexual touches immediately, talk to her a little first.

Title	HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN TO TOUCH A GIRL?
Author	tarantula3
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	December 10, 2014 4:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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