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| 2 | Learn to walkNah, I just thought that in 45 minutes I'd be passed by 2 or 3 buses going in the same direction. But I get the idea, I just prefer riding bikes from walking. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Learn to walkand even with my face in my phone I still covered ground faster than the bus. So step 1 is to live in a place with shitty public transport. Got it. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Tinder in Asian countries VS europeAttractiveness is a "social construct" as much as it is biological. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Are thank you posts allowed?Didn't work for me after 2 years though. I guess I'm my worst enemy and sabotage every legit attempt.I can't say I have gained nothing at all, but apparently not everyone will be successful. | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Got slapped in clubWell yeah, but whaddaya gunna do? Woman slaps man - some men bitch about it on the internet. Man slaps woman - you really risk getting beat up, arrested and convicted. My wording might be offensive but otherwise that's the reality of how society sees it, especially in clubs where it's women who bring profit. Maybe you can press charges and it might vary from country to country, but in the end I bet man can't count on backup, while women will get protected and witnesses will come swarming. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 07:06 AM |
| 5 | The fastest eye contact to makeout I have ever done [FR], and not a single word was saidFor me this is just a shitty thing to do. I wouldn't like to be cheated on so why do it to someone else? I'm all against that shitty game of cheating. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 03:45 PM |
| 19 | The fastest eye contact to makeout I have ever done [FR], and not a single word was saidLoled at moral police. If all you care about is fucking a girl then do it. If someone doesn't feel and think the same way (like OP) or thinks you're a dickhead with no empathy (I do) then that's our right to do so. Nobody's forbidding anything. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 03:42 PM |
| 62 | Next time she flakes, be like this dude."Crying like a bitch" about stuff that really hurts is actually a very healthy thing to do. No really, there's a reason manly men dealing with their emotions alone actually commit more suicides than "emotionally unstable" women. | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 09:53 PM |
| 2 | What happened to Mystery and Style?So he made lots of money by popularising it and then condemned it after it got much better? I have a grudge against PUA community and there definitely are some legit problems with it but Style/Strauss was such a big influence, that many of them might even be considered his fault. Isn't he just a hypocrite? | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 10:36 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who are afraid to approach a super pretty girl.Step one: don't be ugly. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 09:05 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who are afraid to approach a super pretty girl.I've noticed both statements are true to an extent. There was a large number of more or less average girls in my hs and I think it's still true for most average schools. In unis there are many more hot girls though. They're mostly hotter because they took care of themselves and they tend to be surprised at the attention of men. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Why Most of Psychology and Pickup Artistry is BullshitDamn, I can't believe that chocolate thing was even published with such small group of people being tested. Where the fuck are our scientific standards? I can understand some woo-woo PUA or self-develpoment guy preaching something like this, I can't even fathom how scientific world let shit like that even float to the public. | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Models Mark Manson (My Notes)Not everybody was normal. I mean I was normal but definitely awkward and I absolutely no idea how flirting, being cool or attraction works. I don't think it should be a seducer's holy book or something but I'd definitely recommend it to people who "don't get it" too. It's 1 of my 2 favourite seduction books for this reason. | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Models Mark Manson (My Notes)Well there are many schools of seduction, even if they're very similar. Some say to never compliment girl in early stages of meeting her, others say it doesn't matter since she knows it already. I agree with this approach because it seems effortless in it's honesty. | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 02:04 PM |
| 4 | NEVER give a girl an easy outI think there are different levels to seduction in terms of being deceitful. Persuading people is playing on their emotions, selling stuff is playing on emotions, having a good date is playing on emotions, everything is because we are emotional. For me deceit and manipulation starts when it's based on lies and hidden goals instead of honestly giving people good time and drawing them to yourself. Unfortunately it's a thin and subnective line in many situations. | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 10:20 AM |
| 1 | NEVER give a girl an easy outIts not about tricks like Mystery and Style, it's about behaviour if your looks don't meet her expectations. How can she know she likes you though? There are millions of reasons why she might be unreceptive, some are legit and some are not e.g. If she's angry because she met an idiot 5 minutes ago. Its about making her interested by being attractive, normal and not needy, but to show her that, you do need a bit more than just few seconds. If she thinks youre a jerk after that... Nothing to do th… | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 10:15 AM |
| 2 | NEVER give a girl an easy outWhy? For me it makes perfect sense, especially for guys that don't have "good genes" and need to show how attractive they are despite their physical flaws. According to their approach, there's no need for game if girl likes you already, your job is to just not fuck it up, not to seduce. If she's not interested right off the bat, then you have to seduce. The word itself implies making other people want (to have sex with) you. Remember we're talking cold approach here, girls know nothing about a m… | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 10:01 PM |
| 2 | NEVER give a girl an easy outI know people who have different philosophy which goes something like this: "It's not seducing/ game if she's down. Seducing begins when you change her mind with your actions". It's not about mind tricks though, it's about being attractive (so mostly confident) and going for it despite initial unresponsiveness. There's a certain guy I have i mind who follows this philosophy and I'm pretty sure he would never be as successful with girls "out of his league" if he didn't just push through it. This … | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Don't laugh... but I need help getting over my fear of women.It's not about PUA dogma, it's against everything I have personally experienced and learnt. Romantic relationships are not even close to bussiness relationships in Western culture and they actually involve emotions. | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Don't laugh... but I need help getting over my fear of women.What the fuck is this bullshit | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 12:49 PM |
| 2 | is this a seduction subreddit or an infomercial for false promises?Any PUA worth the tiniest bit of salt will tell you this straight up. It's a numbers game. One of my favourite PUAs I respect compares it to poker - you need both luck and skill. | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 04:07 PM |
| 7 | I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skillsDifferent coaches, different ideas, different approaches. Basic principles are the most important. One of the best seducers I know personally who's got his life together (what Manson preaches about too) is all for approaching "medium" girls. He will approach less attractive girls (for him these are 5-6) if there aren't attractive enough around him or he's just not getting anywhere because he'd rather lower his standards a bit, than just loose time when he goes out to talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | If you approach and make even the most basic small talk with 1k girls over one year, a few are bound to say yes. There you go, PUA solved.Poker is too but good skill can change everything. | /r/seduction | 30/04/16 10:38 AM |
| 7 | Girls hit meSo... should he turn the other chick or spare them the effort and just headbutt the nearest wall? How the fuck do you even amplify something unacceptable like that? | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Girls reject meLet me make a few points I'm nice to everyone This can go both ways, either cool or a "beta" doormat and pleaser. if girl reject me, it really hurts You care about outcome too much as I don't know what I'm doing bad You're overanalysing I guess it's my lack of confidence and shyness Yup, probably most of the time then I think about rejection over and over? Once again, you care about outcome too much Don;t base your value on results. Look, you're barely able to approach a girl and you're here cry… | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 01:24 AM |
| 1 | My AA is too high to approach alone.I mean what kind of meet up. Organised by community or by RSD like freetour? In my area we organise independent meet ups in RSD community. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 03:05 PM |
| 1 | My AA is too high to approach alone.IMO rejections might still bother you because it's not an easy thing to unlearn if you don't have the right mindset. I think you should try approaching alone but doing something easier if possible. Does making a compliment scare you? Maybe an indirect approach? Maybe something really fucking easy, approaching whomever to warm up? I know how it feels when your legs just don't move or even go the other way. If you already can approach with people then going out with them more might not really help… | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Approached a girl while she was with friends during the day. What's your excuse?I'm more afraid of groups than mothers to be honest but some mothers do unexpected shit. Once as a 20 or 21 years old guy I stopped a woman who was probably in her late twenties but looked feminine and classy. She was with her grey haired and fat mother. I barely said I'd just like to meet her lovely daughter and is it ok before she started kinda yelling at me and stormed of grabbing her daughter while she was looking pretty shy or embarrassed like a highschool girl. Most mothers are nice and co… | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 03:31 PM |
| 19 | My go-to pickup lineDaygame offers just as much if not more. Where are you? What is she doing? Was she walking quickly or slowly? Why is she so peaceful? Why is she in such a haste? What's so unique about her that you noticed her, what's your type? What are you doing? What was on your mind when you approached? Unless you're an advanced meditator or a deadman, you probably have a stream of thoughts in your mind, you just don't articulate them. You probably won't be smooth but you will have something to say. Watch so… | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 01:05 AM |
| 2 | My go-to pickup lineI hate "lines" and "tactics" but "structural" stuff that Mystery created really works, it should evolve like it did but we should not cut it off as wrong because there was a reason to not compliment a girl in the very begining. A hot girl won't stop for a guy who tells her she's beautiful and if there are players every day in the small area then even an averagely-cute girl will act like a very desirable model. I'm making a generalisation of course but it really isn't as simple as saying your "li… | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 12:42 AM |
| 28 | "Approach random girl, don't give a fuck" works, guys!! It fucking does!!I facepalmed a little at "There is no game, no skills". Dude, it's cool you approached but that statement is a fucking bullshit. | /r/seduction | 07/11/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with deeply rooted fear of guys?Exercises are fine but lifting means "static" exercises. I dont kniw if its the right name . Anything dynamic is fine to some extent. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 07:03 PM |
| 2 | A year and a half dry spell. HELP ME!There might be a MILLION things that cause this. I'm 21 and I have even longer dry-spell but I learned a shit ton and (until recently) it was just enough for me, to see how I change and how people react to me. Do you do cold approach? If yes (or even if no) do you actually lead interactions? are you happy with waht you do in and with your life? Do you try new things and experiment? Do you challenge your comfort zone? Maybe you focus too much on just sex and girlfriend therefore being very outcom… | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 11:19 AM |
| 3 | HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN TO TOUCH A GIRL?I don't. I just touch and if she's uncomfortable I might just take a step back or empathize with her verbally. Just recenlty there was a girl I saw passing by. I approached (walk-by), told her she looks eamazing and just told her to stop. I ddin;t know what to say, I jus looked her in the eye and felt my heart pounding. I told her "Give me your hand, could you?" I saw she was hesitating. "Don;t worry, I'm not going to do anything, just a second," I took her hand, placed it on my chest (I knew sh… | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Practicing social dominance - Game which can improve confidenceJust watch out who you look in the eye actually. I've read one tip some time ago to acknowledge the person with "hi", "What's up?", smile or something like that. In UK I've heard that "what's up" is thrown left and right so that's probably it, in other countries something other must work. Almost a year back I remember this one situation. A guy typical white gangsta/ kid of the street wanna-be looked at me and I looked at him as I was standing in the empty corridor of subway entrance in the dayti… | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 11:18 PM |
| 1 | mini [FR] - daygame - 12th of May 2014 - mondayThank you. Understood. I'll experiment with approaches (Especially smiling and building my own positive state) | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 01:16 AM |
| 1 | mini [FR] - daygame - 12th of May 2014 - mondayThanks for your insight. I don't think I'm going to always learn something of value but I write FRs (even short ones) as a journal to look back in future and to get insights like yours. I know people are busy but for some reason guys like Sasha daygame have success with it. I don't expect warm reactions from everyone but I've seen my friends having success in the same places at the same time. I'm in a place where I feel like I'm banging my head on the wall for months so I don't even know what to… | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Seriously guys I'm daygaming for almost a year (with breaks and many blockades in my mind though) and I did not get any date yet despite getting some #. What the fuck's wrong with what I'm doing? It's not even about sex.No problem, I fully understand. | /r/seduction | 12/05/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Seriously guys I'm daygaming for almost a year (with breaks and many blockades in my mind though) and I did not get any date yet despite getting some #. What the fuck's wrong with what I'm doing? It's not even about sex.I was a bit emotional. I just hit an emotional low and something inside me just shattered into pieces. It's kinda hard to be a hardcase and learning this stuff. I think I understand your point. Thank you for reply compañero. | /r/seduction | 12/05/14 07:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - long fucking diary-post - beginner nightgame, nothing spectacular but a HUGE step for me - 9th and 10th of MayI knew it wouldn't stay secret for long... | /r/seduction | 12/05/14 12:22 PM |
| 1 | There are No Levels in the GameAs I said it's just my point of view. I've seen people I know change, a lot or I've seen them already changed from margin type of people raised in huge pathology. Some PUA coaches were losers without mych social value beforehand, Tyler was a hardcase and he's my idol. Gambler was a loser too. | /r/seduction | 12/05/14 05:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - long fucking diary-post - beginner nightgame, nothing spectacular but a HUGE step for me - 9th and 10th of MayI decided to add one last note. I had fun, amused myself etc and that's why... For the first time I'm not emotionally exhausted and burnt out after nightgaming. :) | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 07:29 PM |
| 2 | There are No Levels in the GameI disagree. You can be superior in some or all areas but not as a person. We are not our belongings, we are not even our emotions or thoughts. When it comes to seduction it's true not every girl will like you and you won't like every girl but it doesn't imply which one is better, it only implies which one is better looking or more interesting at the moment. Everyone can be awesome, some are born with it, some become it, most suck and do nothing but again, they are not worse just less interesting… | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 07:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - long fucking diary-post - beginner nightgame, nothing spectacular but a HUGE step for me - 9th and 10th of MayThank you fellow seeker, the truth is: I am enough! I just had to refer to your username. Really, thanks for reply. I'll do my best to put it in my head. | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | There are No Levels in the GameI love this post, it's exactly what I struggle with at the moment - the mindset you wrote about. I noticed myself judging people like that. I mean... are you reading my mind or some shit? | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 06:57 PM |
| 1 | There are No Levels in the GameI'd say PEOPLE are equal, their choices, behaviours, looks etc and luckily behaviour is the most important one - even more luckily we can shape it as we wish - and these are not equal and it's others choice if that's ok or not. I have problems with believing it and forget this when anxiety hits me but just logicaly I can't find answer to this question: what makes one human being superior to another? I just thought of this all actually. | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Daygame (and nightgame) - being ignored by girls and interactions without tension. - beginner issue. What can I do? Am I going in too "softly"?God, I was just reading through my FRs and I just think that's crazy someone suggests waiting for an invitation. I might shit my pants before some approaches but the last thing I expect is invitation from hot hot girl going back from work or in the shop. I don't have looks of a model. I AM HARDCASE. I had to rant ;) I really dont know what's up with downvoting what you just wrote . | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 02:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] daygame - 8th May 2014Oh yeah, love you too <3 | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 01:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] daygame - 8th May 2014My friend (not in game) told ne he might talk to some girl on subway station but he wad somewhat bragging all the time, I guess he's used to being cool kid. Accidentally there was a cute girl next to us. I was somewhat motivated by his bragging to show him some confidence and see if he's so cool like he says. I was just in the now, out of the head when I walked towards her and sat down next to her since she has just got on train. Friend disappeared though. 2nd I was scared of hottie and that it … | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 04:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] daygame - 8th May 2014Thanks! I'm doing my best and leaving FRs for myself and future generations ;) I should try being more nonchalant and teasing (sets 4 and 5) but I have to admit I had fun making stuff up on the run about how age is irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 02:29 PM |
| 1 | mini [FR]. Owning the pussy inside me that came back after a week long brake from approaching - daytime - 7th May 2014Thanks for constructive feedback | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 11:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] daygame - 8th May 2014Thanks! My opens are out of the blue, not prepared. Last time I had a situation where I just said "hey" and looked at her without saying anything because I just had blank mind... It was weitd but funny. 1st one knew what's up but it was so unexpected forv me to hug her, even I didn't know I'll do that until it was after. 2nd - until its pretty obvious she is not interested or REALLY angry, I'm going to try. I learnt that mostly they walk away because afcs are annoying her with their lame pick up… | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Why are girls mean? What is that about?Being non-reactive. Example of ny sister: if she would tease you in a NOT playful way you could do it back ub a way that shows her you're not too concerned or pissed at her behavior. If you would start trying to make up and make her "happy" she would release the storm. If you treat a girl different than others eg youre too fucking nice and caring It's needy and you put her on pedestal. If you always try making up afters argues she starts its probably pedestal. If a girl would outright insult me … | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Why are girls mean? What is that about?My sister is such a bitch ... To guys who hit on her or she's with . She's a nice person otherwise, oh well mostly at least. She feels sick when guys put her on pedestal. She wants a man who can be mean or punish her when she's mean to him, opposite of guys always trying to make her happy and be her servants. She's testy and not necessarily angry when mean but argues she has when she's sick of pussy behavior are much much worse and there's real anger and frustration She might be too testy though… | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 02:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - beginner daygame - 30th April 2014I try "suppressing" logic Eckhart Tolle/ mindfulness style by withdrawing attention elsewhere and I manage more and more often. You're right though, when I think about it my mind actually goes panic and shuts me down. Good guy brain wants to keep me alive but he forgets It's not caveman era. I think I'll write down that second paragraph and keep it next to my desk or write on my hand next time I go out. Actually why nit both... | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 10:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - beginner daygame - 30th April 2014I think I called it being drunk with air, pretty similiar ;) | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 10:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - beginner daygame - 30th April 2014Thanks man, I appreciate it! As a non-native speaker I'll ask to make sure: by write up you mean summary with positives, things to improve and what I should do, right? | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Daygame (and nightgame) - being ignored by girls and interactions without tension. - beginner issue. What can I do? Am I going in too "softly"?Working on my inner voice. When fear arises I listen to uncle Tolle and keep it away from thoughts. I just thought I should try thinking positively, affirmations or remember last success. I definitely dont approach as if I knew them . Will try tomorrow ;) I cut out sorry and simikiar but you made me realise stronger that I supplicate verbally. I might try being not so nice and playful like with friends Thank you good sir | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Daygame (and nightgame) - being ignored by girls and interactions without tension. - beginner issue. What can I do? Am I going in too "softly"?I'm clearly not there yet. Girls don't really give me opportunities or I dont notice them. This approach is Not going to give me much success nor opportunities right now | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Daygame (and nightgame) - being ignored by girls and interactions without tension. - beginner issue. What can I do? Am I going in too "softly"?Yeah I know. I'm a bit embarrassed with this, it just happened. At least I know not to do such things. | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 01:28 AM |
| 1 | What percent of confidence do you think is innate?Read the six pillars of self-esteem by Nathaniel branden. He's a psychotherapist and the book gave me an idea how to improve confidence and self-esteem since they are intertwined. At the same time I believe confidence is natural, lack of it is shaped by the environment. Have a look into Eckhart Tolle book or for a quicker read article on alexattitude.com titled "who are you" or similiar. I love this guys approach to the subject. Just google it because I'm not sure about website adress. I also st… | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 08:35 AM |
| 1 | What are general and specific things I can do to self-amuse and/or make conversation NOT typical boring one during both day and night?Thanks for reply but what about during the day? Just approaching girls (on my campus for example) and talking about something out of the blue? It's pretty beginner but I can't imagine "old-school transition" | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Should I pay to lose my virginity and gain confidence?I'm struggling but pushing forward. Yes I waste my energy and that's the reason I want to fix it. It might be hard and take long time but I know it's either this or unhappiness. Thank you for your replies on this matter. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Should I pay to lose my virginity and gain confidence?yeah way, Too much like every single day once or twice. I actually start admitting I'm addicted to it. I was out of town for 2 days, no fap and no porn for 2 days and I want it badly already. Good thing is that I am horny and actually think about kissing, girls, sex. I'm on a long one year or more dry spell and it made me not want to fuck. If I get a girl I know it might be short kind of fun :P | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I pay to lose my virginity and gain confidence?Hasn't it make you cum too quickly? When I'm so horny it made me cum very fucking easily so sex was a fight not to cum. Afterwards I was out of action for a long time, second rounds were very hard. Strangely I could easily fap with porn 3 tines a day, sometimes 2 in a row but I never lasted that long. Oh and vagina was not very pleasurable like you wrote but I came quickly anyway. So I'm just curious about your performance afterwards | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 08:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] beginner - 17th April 2013 Thursday - mall afternoon daygameoh shiiiiit... I guess should sleep more instead of writing posts at 3-4 am | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 10:19 AM |
| 3 | [FR] beginner - 17th April 2013 Thursday - mall afternoon daygameyou're welcome! Guys who are not total newbies will not learn from it (probably) but if there's any hardcase/ total newbie I just want to say - read my earlier posts and see I was a huuuuge pussy and I had some inner problems (I still do have some btw). My progess is slow but it is. I want my account to be my journal and motivation for others when I reach some certain skill. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 03:16 AM |
| 2 | [FR] beginner - 17th April 2013 Thursday - mall afternoon daygameoh no no no never from behind if only I can avoid it! I recently changed from stopping them (frontal approach) to just walking with them (sideway approach). To be honest - I'd rather be creepy and freak her out BUT approach. I sometimes act like this when I'm fighting with myself whether to approach or not and then when I catch this 'moment of strenght' when I can do it I just do it quickly. If girl passes me and walks a few meters there's a HUGE chance I'll just have some excuse not to run afte… | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 03:12 AM |
| 2 | The Greatest Realization Of My Life.Sure you are, man. It's a great opportunity to grow and learn about fear and your emotions, thought patterns, beliefs etc. if you deal with it. Just don't forget to deal with them via therapy or in any other way. | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 10:18 PM |
| 4 | The Greatest Realization Of My Life.Firstly - thanks for the post, it resonates with me really well! Secondly - fuck panic attacks, I have the same and they "activated" after marihuana too... I don't know how about you but it occured that I have issues to deal with and panic attacks were just a symptom of a problem. | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Should be FR but it's just a hardcase (?) rant. Advice appreciated.Thanks for this long and good response. I see a lot of value in it, I probably will read it again in future when similiar or same "problem" arises. I've decided to go clubbing solo tonight anyway... and made an improvement! | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Should be FR but it's just a hardcase (?) rant. Advice appreciated.Thanks for the reply, after I thought about it and what my friend said I have to admit it 's fucking true. I bring good news tonight: I went solo to the same club and danced for an hour non-stop. I even complimented some guy on his dancing and high-fived him. I guess that's an improvement :) | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 03:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Daygame , 1st and 2nd April - practicing hand of god, being playful, kinoing and #closing small cutie.Point taken - if I hope for any feedback it should be shorter. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 08:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Daygame , 1st and 2nd April - practicing hand of god, being playful, kinoing and #closing small cutie.No problem. FRs are mostly for me so I can read them in a week or two and see that I improve... so I don't really care that much if people read it all. I definitely should shorten them to make them readable if I want to get feedback though. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 08:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Sure thing, I'll be careful and open bored peolpe ;) | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 09:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Plot twist - panic attacks (due to emotional problems), taking SSRI and doing therapy. I'm just not sure how to talk about being destroyed by approaching girls and etc. ;) | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 09:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)While reading replies I realised how fucking negative I am while I have so much positive references from this... I feel like burning out, that's true. I'm going to make this goal #1 to be as positive as possible and see what I did right AND sustain this state for longer periods of time. There's a place for anger and sadness but I think I push myself into these emotions instead of doing the opposite. BTW: readjusting expectations is a pain in the ass, I miss cudling, kissing, sex etc. So I want t… | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 02:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Thanks for remembering me this. Yeah I might expect too much. Meeting people also seems to be hard, I mean I don't know how to just make friends with a group in a club while solo (or even with friend) but it won't stop me from making research and then trying to push myself to to this | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 02:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Thanks for actually making me notice that these situations were at least good opportunities. Base girls and I friendzoned each other (I did not do any move so it might have gone differently though) so that's why I did not try anything (also they were quickly occupied by some guys). On the bus stop there were people around so my "omg what will they think of me, they'll surely laugh at me!" beliefs kicked in. btw. I've just realised I could open girls in line because they were stiff as fuck waitin… | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 02:13 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Thanks, It's one of things that mess with my life overally. I think my opinion is tied to the people's opinion in the existing moment. It's hard for me to believe they won't remember but I'll try to get my mind around this. If I forget this shit, they will either because It's much more emotional to me. | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 02:03 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Oh shit man, thank you! You just made me smile. I didn't even think of that, I guess I think to lowly of myself. This literaly feels like somebody opened the door I haven't even seen. It also made me think how I compare myself to everyone in a negative way. | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 01:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Thanks for telling me this feels like this from my FR, I wonder how much people around me felt it then. I know I need to relax, I was anxious a few hours before going out... yeah I really should chill. .I wrote this while being torn apart by emotions, just after getting back home. | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 01:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Thank you, thank you very much. So much value in your reply. I want to make it clear - I haven't given up yet, so I probably won't. I try fixing my life altough (as you said) it's very hard. I want to be fucking titan and while I might not be one of the pack yet, I'm sure that just still going out means I'm not like the other sheep considering my emotional problems. It's just that my emotions (and negative state of mind) get out of hand and can't control them sometimes. The best metaphor I can c… | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 01:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)At least it was as it should be - emotionally traumatising. Thanks for this quote, it's so fucking relevant right now. Just a question though: how do I get positive ref. exp. and get more comfortable if? I am so uncomfortable right now that it helps only with getting negative ref. exp., Will I get comfortable enough just by surviving this to do a successful approach? | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 01:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Please help me with my beliefs and attitude (or tell me it's as it should be and I'm on a good track)Thanks for encouragement. I was pretty depressed while writing this, almost completely overwhelmed by emotions and loss of hope. I'll do my best to not write so negatively in future. | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Going out in 1 hour. Any last minute tips? Will do FR afterwardshuh, it's almost like reading about myself. I have to say that someone with that amount of AA it's not possible to approach confidently and (at least in my case tonight) it ends only in being ignored which hurts like a bitch for someone who has problems with being rejected and demotivates as fuck. Just saying but you probably know this already. | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 04:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Beginner - 14.03.2014 FridayThank you. I'm studying computer science so that goes well with being analytical, I guess I'm a nerd but I consider this my advantage. I know that I write a lot (I had to shorten it) so it's cool for me if you just skimmed. I'll think of highlighting the most important part in my future FRs so there won't be any need to read the whole wall of text. Just having someone say I'm doing a good job is very important to me right now. Thanks again. | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 10:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Beginner - 14.03.2014 FridayDude this answer is awesome! It gives feedback on everything I thought of and a bit more :) I'm not yet sure what's my major sticking point but I'm planning on staying in set for eg. 1-2 minutes ALWAYS to make them show up (except if girl gives me very negative response to during the day) I do have some experience with chatting up but it's just some since I've had many many blockades and limiting beliefs (I still have some) and this #close set was possibly the best ever I've had! I usually don't… | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 07:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Beginner - 14.03.2014 Fridaysame as here :) dysrhythmic I know there isn't any conspiracy against me but for some reason I don't get feedback. :) | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 05:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Beginner - 14.03.2014 FridayI post my FRs on RSDNation but people don;t reply there (except one reply) and feedback is fucking improtant so I decided to post the same shit here. That's what I wrote in the begining of my FR thread on January 28th I'm 20 yo polish chode studying computer science. I'm going to post my FRs here. just a little bit of background. I'm trying to take action since may (wow, it's about 8 months) and I've known about this for even longer time. I started out as real hardcase in social terms, I'm still… | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 02:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Newbie friday night out - 24/01/2014Thanks for comment! I don't really agree on these 90% (maybe on my stage it is but people who are good have it different) and I don't agree on approaching hot girls in hot clubs and here's why: From time to time I go to better clubs and even just chill to get comfortable becuse it's hard for me but I always want to do everything now, I always want to have EVERYTHING right NOW... and after 7 months of taking action I did very little progress. I want to make baby steps because slow progress is bet… | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 10:05 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Newbie friday night out - 24/01/2014I'm going out in a few moments, I'll post second FR of this night. I hope I'll get some advice. Just one wish, could you please not downvote it, or if you do leave a note that it's eg. unreadable? I don't want it to get lost and not be seen at all. Thanks in advance for everyone :) | /r/seduction | 25/01/14 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Quick Guide on How to Get More Women by Being Direct.Could you elaborate about the event and presentation/talk ? | /r/seduction | 25/01/14 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Just a few newbie chodey/ hardcase questions concerning my looks and being intimidated in clubs. Is there any way over this? Desription inside.By threshold you mean something like: "if 10 minutes pass I OPEN ANY GIRL in arms reach", right? What do you mean by three girl continuation? One of my goals for 2014 is meditating everyday at least a little bit starting from minimum 10 minutes a day. I noticed I've had a better night when doing it right before and my anxiety was not so strong... or maybe just my willpower was stronger and negative-self talk was much quieter. Thanks for your replies, btw have a happy new year! | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Just a few newbie chodey/ hardcase questions concerning my looks and being intimidated in clubs. Is there any way over this? Desription inside.Gotcha, thanks dude. I guess that just reading this is 90% of what I need to get over it. | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Just a few newbie chodey/ hardcase questions concerning my looks and being intimidated in clubs. Is there any way over this? Desription inside.No money for bootcamp but it's in my plans. Yeah I easily go into happy state so the approach rammpage might work (and deplete all possibilities to approach in club :) ), I quickly learned to get more happy by being rejected and laugh at it like Tyler does. I also get sad very easily so if I get shot down or ignored and I'm not in the right state of mind then my emotions run over me like a truck or something. I don't know how many approaches I've done but... certainly too fucking low amount of t… | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Just a few newbie chodey/ hardcase questions concerning my looks and being intimidated in clubs. Is there any way over this? Desription inside.Got it. Your post just made me realise I kinda get busy dyin' and not living by "carpe diem" | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Just a few newbie chodey/ hardcase questions concerning my looks and being intimidated in clubs. Is there any way over this? Desription inside.I forgot to add... my facial hair is almost non-existent (fuck...) and I can't really work out too hard becasue of heart issue. I should keep heart rate under 130 bpm (fuck again...) But still, point taken, some beginner routine will definitely do for now. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 11:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Kind of hardcase newbie, month ago I had no friends and giving a girl compliment was terrifying. Friday 18th of October 2013Thanks man! I don't think I'll get the drink off the girl but I guess it's worth trying. Not all our women are bautiful - believe me that we have some trolls too, I love Ukrainians :). I'm trying to analyze my approaches quickly the day after to create my own kind of "routine", to see what works for me, what actually feels the most natural for me etc. | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 12:23 AM |
| 3 | 10 pieces of pickup advice for shorter menThat would leave me with like... 0 girls a night! | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 10:42 PM |
| 2 | 10 pieces of pickup advice for shorter menHow do you open in clubs? I have problem with opening in clubs (actually I can't open them at all or they try to run away as they see I'm trying to be more than friendly) and I guess my (not very good) looks are an obstacle in opening girls and at least making conversation with them. I might be 5'6''-7'' which is not that big deal but still in superficial environments it is an obstacle. Being hardcase newbie sucks. | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Mastering The Art Of Cocky Funny HumorWhat do you mean? Why can't it be learned? Is there no way to implement cockiness in your persona instead of trying-hard? | /r/seduction | 31/08/13 11:49 AM |
| 1 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.Oh man, ahave you read my mini FR? I think I should learn to talk properly before I attempt such things | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.This is just sad. I'm starting to believe it won't go anywhere without bootcamp or something edit: funny thing I noticed - In social environments like college or when I went for therapy with a group I was easy THE MOST outgoing person there. I met a lot of people in my faculty (95% are men since it's IT), but when it comes to daygame approaching it's nearly impossible for me. | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 12:22 PM |
| 2 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.Ok now I get it. To be honest I'm frustrated and unhappy with my state of things when it comes to sex and women so I got a bit angry at you for pointing out that I should focus on something else... but now I think understand what you mean. | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.Are you telling me to master skills for the next years to get laid and not approach? I know guys who are more sporty than me and have some passions but still don't have girls. I might practice skill or learn something but it isn't going to help me much with girls, I study electronics and see a lot of IT guys strong with virginity and awkwardness... I say fuck this, I want something else. What I always wanted to pick-up is... pick-up. Really that's what I always wanted to learn and understand, ev… | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.I'm trying to get in touch with some other guys who know about the game and won't be like "omg dat is for loosers" or "this is weird, you'll just meet that someone someday" I'm going to nightgame with friend from my college and one guy who I contacted through RSDNation so I should get some practice... but now I'm alone with my daygame since they both prefer nightgame Maybe that's not very good but I'm going out shortly and searching for some openers that will let me play with them, maybe even so… | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.Thank you for support man! I'll do my best and keep going, I'll "Get laid or die trying!" | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 12:48 PM |
| 1 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.So simple... I guess it should be simple. Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 10:56 AM |
| 0 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.If you're so eager then I will definitely find something :) , if not now, then tomorrow since I want to go out every fucking day. I won't let you down fellow sedditor | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 12:24 AM |
| 3 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.Thank you. | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How to daygame approach sets of 2+ girls? Guys please give me some helping hand, I want to give up just after I've started acting instead of reading. Mini FR of my one and only approach yesterday, at least I was out.Thanks man! That sex transformation made me laugh, I'll write it down and look at it tomorrow when AA hits me again and then approach lady-dudes... I mean girls, with a smile :) | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 12:11 AM |
| 5 | Mark Manson's "Models" most important points condensed into an 11 page PDF.I love "cheatsheets", thanks! | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 09:17 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/1/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Serious question: how can I let loose in a club if my muscles are so stiff that I just can't move smoothly? I know it's a problem with letting off but I don't think I'll get comfortable with dancing without dancing - and now I cannot do this, I hate clubs because of that. I'm pretty sure my "dancing" is more like embarassing but let's say it doesn't matter, I can't even be embarassing when I can't move my body as I want! Any of you guys learned dancing in clubs from absolute 0 of being "unable t… | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop worrying about others being too good and focus on myself instead? I'm a little jealous creepy motherfucker who doesn't want others to be good. I'm literaly unhappy that so much people have access to PUA knowledge like seddit because I feel insecure about others getting better.Yeah it is! Here we have to wait in a long queues for anything that is from our healthcare and there are literaly 2 such fundations who offer free group therapy with good therapist in capital city that I heard of... so I consider myself veeeery lucky in that area of life because most therapist aren't very good or experienced. It's always better to have problems and a good therapist than just problems. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop worrying about others being too good and focus on myself instead? I'm a little jealous creepy motherfucker who doesn't want others to be good. I'm literaly unhappy that so much people have access to PUA knowledge like seddit because I feel insecure about others getting better.I'll do my best. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop worrying about others being too good and focus on myself instead? I'm a little jealous creepy motherfucker who doesn't want others to be good. I'm literaly unhappy that so much people have access to PUA knowledge like seddit because I feel insecure about others getting better.Oh no it's not school, it's just during school year :). It's free because my therapist founded fundation for youngsters and parents to help them with their lives. They "take care" of anyone from few yo even to post college. Of course we have to pay for "tour" but therapy is free. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 03:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop worrying about others being too good and focus on myself instead? I'm a little jealous creepy motherfucker who doesn't want others to be good. I'm literaly unhappy that so much people have access to PUA knowledge like seddit because I feel insecure about others getting better.I know they want to be happy, I just see them as a threat to my happines. I think I got the mindset of "old-style" PUAs and AMOG douchebags who would rather put other down to feel better, except I don't put others down because I don't feel in a position to do so. I can go positive for a few days, maybe few weeks as a smiling more social guy but then my negative habits and unhappiness brings me back to my shithole and I get more antisocial. Maybe that's because I lowered the dose of my medicine (… | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop worrying about others being too good and focus on myself instead? I'm a little jealous creepy motherfucker who doesn't want others to be good. I'm literaly unhappy that so much people have access to PUA knowledge like seddit because I feel insecure about others getting better.You are definitely right in the first sentence - I don't feel important, I don't feel "worthy" of hot/ cute and social girls. I don't want PU to fill hole in my life (ok I want, I just know it doesn't work that way) but me, fun girls, fun friends, fun sex, cool stories and all stuff that PU offers is something I see as important. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop worrying about others being too good and focus on myself instead? I'm a little jealous creepy motherfucker who doesn't want others to be good. I'm literaly unhappy that so much people have access to PUA knowledge like seddit because I feel insecure about others getting better.Group therapy, during school/ college year there are 2 hrs per week and during winter/ summer vacations there are organised "tours" where you can have 5 hrs a day in almost usual environment. It's basically talking about emotions, limiting beliefs you imagined and learning how to deal with them. The point of this is to have as usual environment with as much feedback as possible so when you piss others by being to submissive they sure as hell will tell you and there are plenty of situations from … | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 02:48 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop worrying about others being too good and focus on myself instead? I'm a little jealous creepy motherfucker who doesn't want others to be good. I'm literaly unhappy that so much people have access to PUA knowledge like seddit because I feel insecure about others getting better.I wouldn't need therapy if I was fine, would I? | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, it's Sunday. What have you done this week?I have just realised I wasted precious time of my life. Didn't learn to exams and chickened out. Shiiiiit | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Watch these three videos before you go out tonight, straight up game changers for approach anxiety.Not only Belgrade, slavic and balcan girls are probably the cutest out there, or so I've heard (and seen in Poland for last 19 years) | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Tips for picking up girls in a loud club/venue?Check out Gambler's "Stealth Attraction". It's for free on youtube. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where to post this question so here it goes: are here any Polish or living in Poland sedditors?Poland, Warsaw. btw: Are you polish? | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 06:17 PM |
| 8 | 6 Things You Can Do Right Now to Get More ChicksNot if you miss the first swing and she pulls pepper spray on you :) | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 05:25 PM |
| 3 | You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them?No not that far :D. I mean that In Poland it is quite strange to just approach someone you don't know unless it's some kind of social circle like college, course or anything similiar. You want to ask for directions? Sure, ok but paying a girl compliment ends up with her saying "thanks", turning her head, breaking eye contact and just kind of storming off. Even when I said: "I just wanted to say I love your look". IT might be just me because I'm not the most confident nor handsome type of guy (ye… | /r/seduction | 25/05/13 07:15 PM |
| 1 | You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them?Not where I live | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 11:22 PM |
| 1 | You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them?I click and nothing happens... Another fake (sigh) | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys who do PU in not very open societies where people do not really talk with each other - like Poland. Is this true what this guy says? Do you have any tips for beginner and daygame? (Disclaimer: annoying translating guy is only for a while in the begining)I'm not sure if Poland is that similiar but I'll definitely give it a try. Poland is a bit fucked up, our catholicism is strange, nobody really is hard believer but sex is still bad for a girl. And we are somewhere in between our Central/Eastern European and Western culture. Foreigners say that people are pretty friendly but I have never ever seen anybody doing daygame or just approaching except drunk AFCs trying to dance with girls in clubs. Just tell me, do Russians talk with unnknow people in… | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Guys who do PU in not very open societies where people do not really talk with each other - like Poland. Is this true what this guy says? Do you have any tips for beginner and daygame? (Disclaimer: annoying translating guy is only for a while in the begining)How do you daygame in your countries? Could you share some ideas? As a beginner when I build up my courage then I usually get "politely ignored", girls make bitch-face, say thanks and leave without looking at you, they merely reply "thanks" when I give them compliment or say "have a nice day". This applies especially with cute girls (as usual) and attractive but not beautiful act similiar. I'm not sure if the problem is really in calibrating with cultural differences or is it just and only me. C… | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal emotionally with the fact that some people don't like me? I understand it's impossible to make everyone like me but it doesn't stop bothering me anyway. Or maybe I do have some issue with my personality or behaviour?Thanks for your time put in that reply. Yeah I think I act differently around girls since I never tried choking a guy playfully. Do you act around girls exactly like you act around guys? I tried imagining myself how does my acting look and why do I do this and I came to a conclusion that it's a very dumb behaviour. I don't have a conscious plan to impress girls by this act so I'm not sure if I'm actually trying to qualify myself unconsciously or just act like an idiot because I don't feel comfor… | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 07:35 PM |
| 1 | One Simple Rule to overcome AAI just read a few pages from Mark Manson's "Models" part on anxiety... and shit, it really let me understand that anxiety in PU is a GREAT evolutionary stuff (like any other emotion) to make you do your best. The thing is, it's so hard in the begining... It's strange because as a guy who is fighting hard with health anxiety and panic attacks, I should be able to deal with AA too. I understand fear as an emotion, it's purpose and sense. I really could fight with fears stopping me from being happy… | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 10:19 PM |
| 1 | LPT: Breath smells bad at the bar? about to k-close? Buy a rumple-mints shot!Yup, flossing is much much more important than most people think. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 12:01 PM |
| 2 | One Simple Rule to overcome AAI'm not sure I agree as a beginner who almost has heart attacks on mere chance of approaching and nobody to help. Easy to say after having experiences like yours. I mean you're definitely long way after dealing with first approaches and have some other POV on that. When it comes to guys like me, maybe a little awkward, not very socially skilled, with raging anxiety and nobody to punch you in the face for being a pussy and not approaching... things like taking action are hard. I'm on my 100sets a… | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 11:25 AM |
| 1 | I'm concentrating on improving social skills, ability to have fun and let off and just being a cool guy. Did I do a good job? I'll be happy to accept some advice on outer game.Oh, so it DID appear but nobody upvoted, downvoted nor commented it... seems like I don't need cocaine but seddit crowd could use some to write more :) | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 07:32 PM |
| 3 | This is one of my favorite pickups I've ever seen. I'm no expert in PUA, so what did he do right? wrong?Because you're one of the guys I trust the most on seddit I'm going to ask: what could he do better to make some more chemistry except entertainment? What would you do if you were in this video instead of Paul? Of course anybody else is welcome with answer. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 07:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I probably shouldn't call it FR since no seduction happened but it was my first night out with at least trying to implement some seddit knowledge.I'm happy too when I go socialise. I just don't do this often because it's pretty hard for me. Thanks for help dude! I'm a beginner so I don't have all this stuff internalised too well. By the way, who are you? :) JK. | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 10:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I probably shouldn't call it FR since no seduction happened but it was my first night out with at least trying to implement some seddit knowledge.Thanks! I watched this and now I know... I definitely need to learn how to let off in clubs and get this energy out of socialising, dancing and music. It's not an excuse but I just feel so fucking stiff and awkward when I go on dancefloor... especially without girl friends. Seems like learning clubbing is another challenge for me. I'm definitely going to take Julien's words out of this video, I mean who wouldn't like to be alpha ninja water? I've got one question on 100 set challenge - do I talk… | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Hey seddit! Can you share some basic tactics advice for newbie and his first time ever nightgame? (probably first time ever proper game)Thanks for your post. I see a lot of wisdom in your post but I'm sure as hell I'll start freezing up or chickening out at thoughts of approaching. Well whatever, I guess I'll just go have fun and socialise, then go back home and only then start analysing while writing FR. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Hey seddit! Can you share some basic tactics advice for newbie and his first time ever nightgame? (probably first time ever proper game)Thanks that shit is really solid (IMO). | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Above The Game Part 3: Body Language & How to ApproachOh man I've been waiting for this shit! Kudos to you for getting and now sharing knowledge with us! | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 08:54 PM |
| 0 | [FR] F-Closed 2 set (cold approach)Theres a lot of hating on indirect game here. Why Did you used indirect instead of direct? Was this actually better? Im just asking cause im inexperienced | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm a beginner, changing unpoular guy. Today I was on "picnic" on my campus and thanks to it I realised that I'm not as outgoing as I thought and I'd like to fix that. I'll be glad for any SOCIAL advice. "Report" inside.I'd be thankful if you just elaborate a bit about ego, I guess it's about who I want to become but I don;t get what's wrong with it. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 09:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm a beginner, changing unpoular guy. Today I was on "picnic" on my campus and thanks to it I realised that I'm not as outgoing as I thought and I'd like to fix that. I'll be glad for any SOCIAL advice. "Report" inside.I used them when I felt really bad and just read them. It was one post from seddit's all time tops so it wasn't a cheatsheet with script. Your idea sound a bit funny but what can I say... I'm terrified of becoming known for such things and not liked. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 09:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm a beginner, changing unpoular guy. Today I was on "picnic" on my campus and thanks to it I realised that I'm not as outgoing as I thought and I'd like to fix that. I'll be glad for any SOCIAL advice. "Report" inside.TLDR included. I hesitate a lot when it comes to groups of people. I feel okay with not so cool guys but when I meet cool guys having fun I freeze and my mind goes blank. I don't think I use much of "uhhh's". I'd rather speak quickly and incomprehensibly when nervous but pausing will probably work with this too. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 09:40 AM |
| 1 | The Freeze-Up: "It's the little things that matter."What If simone doesnt like His smile? I dont to the extent that i have a habit of hiding it. I cant fix my teeth, not in a fear future. Im getting more and more comfortable but What If my smile really is unattractive? Im not able to smile with full teeth directly at someone. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Openers that immediately skip small talkIdeas and metaphors are actually cool :) Thanks for the effort man... I think that I care too much about routines and other material because I can't believe that hot girl can be attracted to me (I'm not tall and not good looking). You already helped me very much but I want to ask one more thing, on seddit there are FRs and posts about shit-tests, bitch-shields, AMOGs and suggestions how to deal with all kind of situations. There aren't pick-up lines but methods are still a bit algorithmic. Is it… | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Openers that immediately skip small talkBut what's wrong with being indirect? If a hot girl is hit on very often then when she has a clear sign that someone is hitting on her again she might just go into "oh my god not again" mode and just go away. Isn't it better to be make her wonder "is he hitting or me or just being friendly?" so it's not the bitch inside her you meet? Of course I know that opinion routines are outdated but I can't see anything wrong if it's just a tool to bypass bitch-shield or any other thing in the way. I'm ver… | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 10:23 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Yes that's exactly the way I think of. Or like that one day when I had balls and wanted to meet (not game) someone I just approached chinese girl with a line "Hi! You look sad." and then convo just went on it's way. In a nightgame it probably would be something like pre-opener and then leaving quickly to make sure the next time you'll approach bitch-shield will be at least lower. Or just messing with girl and saying you're a serial killer or other shit that "guys who hit on her" won't say. OR li… | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 09:09 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I read it before but some things didn't make sense to me like two FRs in the begining so I read it, made a little cheat sheet on things I understood and then I focused on seddit and other books on game and body language. I know that author wrote to reread it but some parts just didn't make much sense to me and I wasn't even in college so I couldn't try it (I'm studying since february). Since you made me remember about it I think I'll reread it, could you give me any advice on what I should take … | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How to Turn Shame Into ConfidenceI didn't even hear of Tom Torero before but he seems much less energetic and it makes me... well I have this calm feeling like before I go to sleep but I think I'll feel better with more energetic Sasha-like style. I'll try both styles of course! | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How to Turn Shame Into ConfidenceSome of these were pretty awkward and he still had fun... I love it! Thanks for this dude! | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 11:02 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Thanks man, I think that especially first senctence is kind of a slap I needed... I've just realised that while I love meeting new people I'm afraid that I'll make an idiot of myself or make them not like me... and it's not only about hot girls... I give too much fucks about people liking me. About my question number 1. I read that in indirect game you firstly disqualify yourself so you're not perceived as "hitting on her" and bypass bitch-shield and other defense mechanisms, then try to attract… | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 08:18 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Ok, firstly I'd like to thank you much and now I'll clarify. So first goes situation I'm in. I'm in IT/engineering faculty in tech university and there aren't a lot of girls especially in IT. Most faculties have their own buldings (except few which are in one main bulding) so this way I don't see much nice girls between classes. And if I do then they're probably much older. My system of education chose classes for me and there's no chance of meeting girls in other classes. In order to meet some … | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 10:40 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)About gaming in college: Should it be indirect like in any other place with disqualyfing and qualifying? IF yes, how to disqualify yourself? I know it's mostly long-term game and playing with social circles but are qualifying techniques recommended? I'm thinking especially when meeting new girls who I might see again but because I'm in engineering I don't know many girsl there since most of girls in uni is on other buildings of campus. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Stop reading theory and go out NOWI have even more of a scumbag brain... it convinces me that there aren't ANY cute sexy girls during rush hours in the city centre and I live in Warsaw which has about 2 million people... If i were to only watch them I'd probably stare at all these girls and made love to them in my head but when I want to approach then I instantly find all the girls to be... not that sexy and I actually lose any kind of physical attraction. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Stop reading theory and go out NOWI agree... I know a shit ton of theory but the more I read the more I am confused... Unfortunately I can't approach and I my ratio is like 1 approach/hour or even less but at least I fight with all kind of anxiety I might have. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 09:23 PM |
| 5 | How to Turn Shame Into ConfidenceI'll be honest... I almost cried while Reading this because I felt sooo shitty for not approaching... I spent about dozen hours in field during daytime and i think i approached less than ten times. All I wanted to do was to approach and Maybe banter shortly but i usually couldnt so i felt shitty everytime after. Now i know What i should meditate on and deal with. Thank you very very fucking much. You probably made my day . .. Ok just evening but still it's cool :-) | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you maintain confidence without letting it become arrogance?So was OP arrogant when he said "dont I always look suave? " or was it just her reaction to the change? He didnt push anyone down but Still got this response. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Indicator of positive and negative emotions.But my left/right or hers? Just to be certain :) | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 07:01 PM |
| 2 | I can lead, get physical and make women laugh. My interactions are generally pretty solid. However, the moment my attention wavers, and I focus on my friends or another group, the girl wanders off. Am I doing something wrong, or is this just typical of night game?Could you share a link or just elaborate a bit about stages of attraction and other If there are ? I Did not read Mystery Method so i Dont know anything about stages. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 07:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 'Friend' cockblocks me, I take home a different girl in front of the original girlGood for you. It's better to act a lot than to read... I trapped myself in mentalności masturbation of Reading a shit ton of material but not acting. I know and understand a lot about body language how to kino and some other stuff but im practicing very little. But Sure you should read something because some stuff blows mind and makes certain situations clear Or at least makes you understand things you have problems with. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 06:57 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 'Friend' cockblocks me, I take home a different girl in front of the original girlGambler is a guy and good PUA ;-) he was mentioned in The Game a few times. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 04:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 'Friend' cockblocks me, I take home a different girl in front of the original girlGambler Also said it's the situation where you might need to entertain and lead both of them. But maybe a wingman can help? | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 10:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] 'Friend' cockblocks me, I take home a different girl in front of the original girlGambler suggests to do something like waving or pointing her when She notices you doping something like siły dance or just with other girls. If She likes this obvious gesture from you then you will easily see the reaction of smiling, waving back or very obvious wtf IOD. Locking eyes might not telling you her feelings this clear. Im only spitting theory Because i've just watched his conference video | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)Probably a huge grin with confident and open body language. At least thats how i imagine it. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 09:47 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I've made a lot of progress and yet, none at all.Oh I believe that but it Would be Nice to practice and Maybe get laid a bit in the present ;-) | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I've made a lot of progress and yet, none at all.Ok then, Ill try to at least visit bar\ pub every weekend in the evening(s). | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 09:50 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I've made a lot of progress and yet, none at all.Macro-momentum is hard to maintain. I'm studying engineering in college and I can go out ONLY on weekends if i don't have any exams but if I have then even weekends are not free for that. How can I get this momentum if there is usually no time? Sure I can go for a beer but it's pretty far from hitting the club(s) all night. How do you take care of these "laws of interaction" you wrote about? I am especially interested in macro-momentum and sub-optimal social circle since the latter is still an i… | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat?Or because She feels good with man who gets What he wants and works for it until he has success. Or maybe Im wrong. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you find a good wife?Search and date until you find your perfect match. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Seddit: If I just walked up to a shitload of girls and simply say "Hey, let's have sex" What are the probability of me getting laid?The more attractive you are, the bigger the chance but I'd say it's pretty low anyway. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 08:16 PM |
| 1 | There's this girl in my class. I don't know whether or not to ask her out.Fuck this thought of being "awkward". If you want to ask her out, then ask her out but you're probably friendzoned so you know... it actually can be awkward in your relations. I think you should meet other girls if you don't care about her and just want to meet some girls but if you want her then what's there to loose (if there's one way frienship)? | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat?I consider this kind of "attraction" as not being attracted to owner of money but kind of having sex for financial proftis. If the guy with lots of money is ambitious, successful and hardrworking it's his personality, isn't it? I know it's not that important in this thread and taht's just my opinion. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 07:18 PM |
| 7 | Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat?I personally believe that money is AFTER personality as long as we're concidering cool and classy girls and not just hot stupid bitches. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat?Have you ever heard of Sean Stephenson? If not then check him out on youtube and you'll know why I suggest you his videos. There is always possibility, I don't like the word hope since I have a connection of hope= doing nothing | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 05:11 PM |
| 33 | [FR] Semi-Apocalypse opener. Elapsed time to F-close: 20 minutes.I have to ask: are you handsome, tall or in Any other way especially attractive or does confidence alone really moist girls' pants? I cant imagine this EVER working for me. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 11:01 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Semi-Apocalypse opener. Elapsed time to F-close: 20 minutes.Women want sex and sometimes even much more than guys. I think She was shy because of social norms but since They meet again She must have enjoyed it. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 10:55 AM |
| 3 | How do you react to girls wanting to wear your jacket/hoodie?I cant imagine how Would that look | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel confident yet? Research tells us you will if you keep working at it.It might be strong but... If you work on confidence and are concerned about it then you put yourself down that you dont have it. Just focus on being good and successes. Treat failures like something EVERYBODY gets as a part of life. If you are concerned with not being confident... you wont be because you are already concerned with your flaw. I focus on approaching and appearing confident even if i can almost smell shit in my pants when seeing hottie or a big druk guy but then i see faking it wor… | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Don't feel confident yet? Research tells us you will if you keep working at it.It's kind of addiction to being in comfort zone even If it's he reason of unhappiness and when you stop being there in your safe little world then your mind screams that you should go back to comfort zone. Your body screams too, my heart even gets dysrhythmia when leaving safety zone to approach some people. Just like drugs. And just like drugs it's the hardest in the begining of recovery where you are not able to forget about them. Im saying it only out of my experience so others probably have … | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.Sounds good. Any particular guys or groups i should look for to watch? | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 03:40 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Importance of being Non-Reactive, Handling AMOGs, and #-Closing a Girl who is on a DateYou lucky bastard, you #closed TofuTofu :) | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.Hehe... no. Even if I believed it would work I'm still a broke student, anyway if someone's going to get a free drink then the only possibility is me getting it. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.Oh right... thanks! | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.Dĕkuji! | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.Excuse me? I don't really understand. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.Thanks very very much! I wish you were in Poland so we could have fun together :) because it seems like fun and outgoing people are rare to find especially in tech universities. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.A book that was written by a guy on how to be king of campus and get all the girls. It's basically how to make the most of college and how to be 20% man (he refers to this a lot) who gets 80% of women. It's fine because it's the only book of this kind I know that is specifically about college and as we know college is a bit different from work or highschool. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.Thanks, I didn't even know it exists | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice on gaming in college.I'm a bit afraid that Polish culture is a bit different than in USA and it might not work so well. It's like I heard about complimenting girls to win with AA but it ends with a smile in probably less than 50% of approaches and I don't know if it's me or is it just Polish society. Don't get me wrong, I REALLY appreciate your advice but I'd also like to know if culture plays a big role or not. We made Harlem Shake recently (I know, probably last one on the internet) and we had fun altough it was d… | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Part II: Interesting vs. Factual (a series on word pair problems)Same here. I have never ever told a Great story that made me enthusiastic audience but ive seen people tell shitty stories and engaging everyone really well. And im pretty Sure i usually had some more interesting ones If we focus on story itself. | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 09:57 AM |
| 1 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itI gave them compliments instead and i want to see girls smile at them again! Ill try to keep meeting slightly longer after i improve delivery. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 11:19 PM |
| 2 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itIt was... Especially after first response being face like this :-/ but after this a hottie rewarded me with a smile and smiled again when she saw me again :-) Ill deep it up and work on engagin more of a convo with both length and delivery | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 11:05 PM |
| 1 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itI dealt with this when i had panic attacks concerning my heart or overall health. Anxiety trigerred dysrhythmia which triggered anxiety and so on. Today i approached few hotties and almost got heart attack before first one but i told them They are beautiful and wished a Nice day. I had sweaty palms, just triggered arrhythmia that i felt Well and felt dizzy but this was my second trip to get myself to approach and i kind of gotowe used to these feelings every time i wanted to approach. But i Did … | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Do All Women Treat You the Same? It's Not THEM... it's YOUI know but it's better to not blame yourself too much If in poor emotional condition Because it easily turns into this worse sentence. If you're not fine then lack of successes that you believe are your fault May have very bad outcome. But i need therapy to start dealing with it so it might be true only for some. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Do All Women Treat You the Same? It's Not THEM... it's YOUWell now thats more clear but since i have communication problems too it might be partially my fault. Anyway i agree that inner Game is the main thing but ill say again i think that without outer game it lacks power. What use do i have of Well trained eager army If i lack skilled commander who know how to use it best? I will win some battles but lose some i could easily win too. I know it's unusual comparison ;-) | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 09:06 PM |
| 13 | Do All Women Treat You the Same? It's Not THEM... it's YOUThis type of thinking got me into emotional problems and blaming everything on me. Break up with girlfriend? I must have small dick, be śhitty in bed and not fun. It's a long term effect but it's something that ruined my life. I was so miserable that i almost Did not make Any effort to change and didnt even leave home for parties Because i lacked friends. Now i have problems with confidence and self esteem but it's slowly moving forward. Sure If all girls are dropping LMR Which you cant dealing … | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 10:00 AM |
| 2 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itI think I believe you as you say out it of experience. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 01:11 PM |
| 1 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itYou mean that I should just feel it a lot and get used to feeling it after some "exercising"? | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 01:09 PM |
| 1 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itThanks, you're cool for an asshole :) | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I do pickup for the sake of doing thingsQuantum physics serves society in even more ways I thought. Mind blown after this article. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Highlights from the AskReddit Thread about How Women Flirt/KinoI agree. My friend is very flirty and sexual to most friends but It's easy to misinterpret since for most of you her usual behavior Would come off as flirting If you didnt see her before. But I think it's easy to differentiate with some experience because her body language sends some subtle signs that She doesnt send to others like specific touching (eg. Being close and next to you for a long time while shes biting lip and making sexual joke to other guy or girl) and im pretty Sure that the most… | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Stop checking your phoneI'd be really happy if I could absolutely honestly say you're wrong.... | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Stop checking your phoneThats cool I guess ;-) | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Stop checking your phoneI feel bad without my phone due to anxiety (real one, not just AA or something) so I guess it would help me pretty much overall to leave it at home. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Stop checking your phoneI don't know if it's stupid or not but I just thought that it might be use to get a girl (or other girl watching) even more interested in you because it's something non-negatively different with you. Just like peacocking. Am I saying bullshit? I'm still an AFC so I'm just letting my spontaneous thoughts speak. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Don't let women control you.Say that to Sean Stephenson. But I get the point anyway | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 07:59 AM |
| 1 | A few things I've learned after being single for the first time in 20 years.I guess there are no 10s out there... everybody has some kind of flaws while 10 implies perfection. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the things you do or ways that you are improving yourself on a daily basis in order to become a more interesting and engaging person?I can't agree with logic of earning... but since I'm trying /r/NoFap I think it's about feeling sexual desires (and plenty of other things) instead of numbing yourself with fapping. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the things you do or ways that you are improving yourself on a daily basis in order to become a more interesting and engaging person?That is soooooo hard for me... I often catch my thoughts wandering what I want to say or what is on my mind instead of focusing on other person. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How getting laid gets you paid.I don't agree. It jus shows that focusing on getting good with women and therefore getting laid helps with overall life and work happines therefore giving us another excuse to practice seduction :) | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 04:24 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!As far as I'm concerned this means "Hot Babe" in seduction slang. I think it's in use since the Mystery's Method or maybe even earlier. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Thanks! That's great explanation! Now there's only one thing I still don't get... what is the difference between banter/ small talk and flirtation? Even my ex-gf (now my friend after we split up) admitted that I never flirted with her and that I can't do that. Edit: Of course I noticed the difference in kino and the goals of both things but I still can't differ conversation from flirting basing only on verbal language except shit testes (which I usually don't notice until it's too late) | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 07:07 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!I'm Polish so we have different ways of studying. We have our groups and majors in one place with the same people and college sports is not popular... luckily we have some girls on other majors on campus. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!10 is perfect goddes for me which I haven't actually ever seen. so the real scale is maybe to 9 for now. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Well... I ABSOLUTELY can't flirt and I don't understand it so maybe that's why I didn't get the difference but I'm trying hard to get it. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 06:11 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Well I talk to grils who are in my classes altough most of them is quite unfriendly and one even said to me that she won't give me a high five (I high five girls instead of shaking hands since I'm stuck with not receiving pecks on cheek). So I gave myself a highfive and spent an hour talking to some other girls that I opened few days ago and knew only their looks :) btw: Do you know how should I proceed if I don' get pecks? I have never received them because I was kind of "shy" guy and I'm actua… | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!My god... you really are a good one dude goodonedude! I think you just made me realise what is flirting! And I've been struggling with understanding of this for weeks... Yeah I'm shitty at game but I'll give bitches some pitches. Did you mean pitch as pitching a ball to fly curvy or just passing or what? (non-native speaker here) | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 06:03 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!I have problem with recignizing what is a shit test and what is not and I don't want to not give a fuck for all the time. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Well.... I got shit tested and failed a few times then. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 05:49 PM |
| 22 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Lucky guy! I'm 19 yo in electronics major and we lack girls, especially hot ones. I don't think I've seen more than one HB 9 and most of them is no more than 6.5. I'm studying on Electronics And Computer Sciences building of tech university so I think I'm going to meet some people in other parts of "campus". EDIT: I don't understand this The old-me "Hehhehe I just thought of that I dunno I .. ". The new me : "Woke up 5am to practice it in front of the mirror". Why is admitting to being clever an… | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 10:18 PM |
| 3 | A good exercise for those with AA: high-five a stranger! You'll learn that the energy you put out is the energy you get back!Right... I shouldn't worry but I'm very "shy" when it comes to acting outgoing out of my comfort zone like making high fives with strangers. I guess it's just a cowardly version of vanity (aka "what will people think about me!?" or "Will this be embarassing/ awkward?") but for me it's a big struggle to become more outgoing and open a set. TL;DR: I'm just afraid of being awkward and quite anxious of approaching sets. I was not popular (there was time when I was even unpopular) and I'm afraid of a… | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 07:33 PM |
| 1 | 19yo newbie student looking for wingmen/ someone learn from game. Are there any PUA's (experienced or newbies, Polish or not - whatever) out there in Warsaw or close by?W takim razie cześć bo ja też :) | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 07:18 PM |
| 12 | A good exercise for those with AA: high-five a stranger! You'll learn that the energy you put out is the energy you get back!I love this post. I had an idea of high - fiving people on my campus but I might see them again and they might have connections to my future social circles (I'm a student for just 3 weeks). So I gues I'll try that outside for now. What would happen if I got 5 no high-fives in a row on campus? I actually meet this people in one not so huge building so I'm likely to see them from time to time. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 09:40 PM |
| 1 | 19yo newbie student looking for wingmen/ someone learn from game. Are there any PUA's (experienced or newbies, Polish or not - whatever) out there in Warsaw or close by?Well, it's kind of far but if you ever come to Warsaw for a night or a few then I'll be happy to hang out and be a wingman! I surely require some heavy training in terms of both seduction and being wingman (I have no idea how to be good wingman) but it won't stop me from trying :). Btw are you Polish? | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 09:26 PM |
| 2 | My Unofficial Seddit Achievements listI actually like the idea of gaming literally. It makes it more fun challenging and less stressful just to think this way :) | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 01:27 AM |
| 2 | How To Kino - Youtube PlaylistShit I just got to part 8 and I'm even making notes because this... it's like I'm out of matrix and see what it's all about. I've just realised what was lacking in my socialising with people and understood flirting thing on the subconcious level. I'm just amazed at this and his display of it, it's so well explained that I can't stop watching it! | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 10:06 PM |
| 11 | How To Kino - Youtube PlaylistI'm thankful for that. I'm trying to kino everybody but it's kind of hard to become touchy so I make small steps and learn from my mistakes and hope that I don't gross out anybody. Watching someone doing nice kino and is much better for me than just reading on it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 08:16 PM |
| 1 | You just have to try -- that's it.What if I have the same goals as someone ele? :) I guess it's all about getting what you want while not lying to yourself | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 09:51 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)He's not endearing to women, if they feel something then it's pity which is not the best thing. I don't know how bad you would have to look to really scare of girls. Do both girls you know and the ones you see for the first time act the same way? Maybe something's wrong with your facial gestures instead of just face? Or maybe something like really bad acne (improbable) or similiar things? If there's a photo of you then I'd be glad to see it and tell you if your face is fucked up or not. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 01:45 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I read all this thread and you're so attached to the idea of your face being ugly... Heres my advice: shut up and Check out Sean Stephenson on youtube. That guy is married with a girl who certainly could get a hot guy. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 12:09 PM |
| 3 | It's kind of my first [FR]Sidebar and books like; the Game, Magic Bullets, Conquer your campus. And a bit of work. Read FRs of guys like /u/TofuTofu . And practice along with getting better in theory. I started with learning how to make conversations and understanding and communicating emotions because i had problems with it and had anxiety | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Confrontational insecurities issue.Well... there weren't so much... and I weren't attracted to any of them... But i get the point :) | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Confrontational insecurities issue.Well I think I gotta believe you two :). But I felt bad anyway because it was like I'm weaker/ lower status etc. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Confrontational insecurities issue.Being wise is good but I stopped only because I got afraid. In my opinion being wise means that I consiously ignore "stare confronation" and not break eye contact becaue of instinct telling me to stay beta. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 02:10 PM |
| 4 | A list of fun, useful "social games"If I get killed you're going to pay for my funeral. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 10:02 AM |
| 8 | A list of fun, useful "social games"Should I maintain eye contact with a tall buffed hooligan looking for trobule? I just hope that guys are in the "lost" 10% :) | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Request - Energetic music playlistthanks :) | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I don't know where to post this question so here it goes: are here any Polish or living in Poland sedditors?You could say that I'm brand new to this thing so I'm probably a long way from creating lair and I'm now thinking of company (the more the merrier, eh?) but thanks for creating group and social circle advice. I might not have enogh time to go out all the time because I'm starting unievrsity (I took a bit hard major but I surely will do my best to do it as much as I can. If I ever go to California or any place in US I'll surely contact you guys. I understand that my group to go out (and play game… | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The Problem With Being "Too Nice"Seems that I understoong it wrongly. Thanks for claryfing. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 02:06 PM |
| 1 | The Problem With Being "Too Nice"No I wasn't doing it for sex or some favour. I'm only non-assertive but I wanted to "highlight" that being nice goes with risk of "forgetting" about your own needs and values as in my example - I sometimes let off because I have some bad mechanisms which get along really well with my nice soul. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 01:47 PM |
| 8 | The Problem With Being "Too Nice"It's easy to fall into this pattern. One can get this mechanism after being bullied in school and finding way to be accepted by being nice and non-assertive to avoid beating or something similiar. Personally I am nice because I like to be but I was bullied and now I have this kind of mechanism to be non-assertive and that the only way for me to be accepted is to be nice. Of course I understand this and I avoid such stupid mechanisms but still I have a hard time getting rid of them because after … | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 12:43 PM |
| 3 | The Problem With Being "Too Nice"You're not because I do this too. The problem is that I sometimes forget about my needs and have a hard time saying "no" because I got used to being "nice guy" and I am not used to conflicts and standing for myself. That doesn't mean I don't but for me it was easy to fall into trap. I once took care of a girl who got pretty wasted and almost "molested" because I really felt bad for her and I knew it was her first time like that. On the other hand, telling guys who wasted her to get the fuck off … | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 12:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...I dont want to be with her again... actually its her who cares more righ now cause I can deal with my emotions way better | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 11:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...She told me herself the day after because she felt bad with what shes done. She was really a great girlFRIEND and I am really confused.... I'd like us to be friends when emotions go away, really. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...After watching Sean Stevenson videos I am sure it pretty much is no less than 90% And I am surely taller than him :) (No offense towards Sean ofc) | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Favorited. Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Thanks altough I can't have beard right now (or maybe even never). Thanks for your post, I wrote only about beard but I assure you I read it whole :). I'll be going back to it (and this whole thread) for sure! | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...You're so fucking right about "selling" attitude. I would never be interested in girl with such description... and If she acted like she needed me help her believe that she's cute then I would probably get irritated instead of interested. I ain't gonna do excuses and I'll roll with this shit of self growth (and other stuff)! | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...I do not consider her subhuman. She was a great friend and she apologised me VERY emotionally but she fucked up as a girlfriend... I don't have to punish her and treat her badly if she already feels shitty. I'm beyond such things. But it doesn't mean she is in the same position for me :) | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...It's a bit late for new years resolution but since I don't have one... who said I can't make it now? :) Sean Stephenson pumped me up so much that I'm going to be unstopable after 2013 :) | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...The question is: how much is the rest? | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...That made me smile. Upvote for you :) | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Thanks, I think I'm an afc right now. I'll change this "loss" in a great victory over myself, then! | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...I almost forgot about power that anger can give. Thanks for great quote. By the way where is this quote from? | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:10 PM |
| 2 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...My god... this guy is.... I just have no words for his awesomness. And he's got a really cute wife! Oh man I can't be sad after watching his videos... I just want to go and change the world and my life for better and better right now :) | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...I'll do my best to keep my mind of her and see other nice fish in the sea :) but I think I'll hold on with seducing and concentrate on enjoyable things that will help my mind. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Got it: a few weeks of doing nice things to get back on feet and then back to the game! | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Thank you, that's the kind of story that makes me believe that I can acheieve anything just with mentality. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...I'll try my best to keep it out ! | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 11:12 PM |
| 2 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Confident mindset aknowledged. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 11:11 PM |
| 7 | I'm a few hours after break up and I really need some of your mindset...Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to develop sense of humour? How?Well hello there, we might get along :) | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to develop sense of humour? How?Well I kinda like masturbation :) OK really I just don't go out much so I'll do my best to practice. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How to become a 'go-to' guy?It might just be my English but could you explain this parable to me a bit? Or at least use some simpler words? | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 10:26 AM |
| 2 | No More Mr. Nice GuySo if I'm a guy who likes to see other people smile and being happy then making them smile and enjoy their time will be kind or nice? I don't want anything in return from anybody, well except having more acquaintances to have fun and people to ask about something sometimes. | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Is this possible to practice game while being in a relationship?That wasn't very helpful answer. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 01:44 PM |
| 1 | 20 Qualities of Men Who Are Great With WomenJust a little question... any advice for starters how to go out solo and socialise? Solo-ing is crucial for me right now. Thanks in advance! | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 08:52 PM |
| 1 | [AFC] How to become confident without looking like a duchebag?damn... i wanted to add this to r/askseddit... Well sorry guys if I did wrong. Your answers will be really appreciated because I have to wait a bit befora adding this to askseddit if i got caught in spam filter | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 03:09 PM |
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