I'm angry.

I was wandering aroun the city for 3-4 hours and I've done only 3 out of 5 approaches I commited to.

1. Cute 24 yo girl with nice ass which I told her during our interaction, I used "are you confident enough to take a completely sincere compliment?". She had a BF but we talked, joked and I went with her to the Old Town. In the end I hugged her in the middle of the street which made her laugh once more.

Then nothing for the loooong time, I was just wandering around. I started thinking that someone might notice me approaching and will surely laugh at me if I'll approach so "openly". After that I met a girl from my university handing out leaflets. I talked and joked with her and added some smile to her face. I even joked to the people that they're not taking leaflets from cute girl (positive reaction from girl and people).

2. During this conversations I ran after one foreign girl with mediocore face but great breasts. She had a bf so I just joked about that and left.

Girl from my uni was laughing and giggling in the meantime. That foreign girls passed us again so I threw - Hello again - and she smiled back at me which the first girl saw and smiled.

I left my new friend and two girls from other city asked me for directions. They seemed to enjoy conversation to which I transitioned because after a few minutes it was me who decided to leave. I talked and joked, they smiled etc.

Then I lost state and happy mood.

3. Fucking boring interaction. After a minute of thinking about it I got up and sat down next to the girl who just sat down to eat. She talked very little since she was eating. Our interaction was nice and boring. I was in a "boring" mood so without her help it was pretty hard to talk just on my own even though she actually answered despite eating. I'm thinking of remembering something easy for such situations when my mind is shut down to give me more time and warm up.

While walking back to the centre I passed a lot of really cute and hot girls but I had a shitload of excuses and my body, especially legs started working against me - "She's too hot, she'll be a mean bitch or just flat out ignoe me" or "Oh there are 2 of them, it has no chance of working" or "People are standing/ sitting around they will notice and hear". Additionaly i also had excuses about "Why not to run after a girl who is hot and just passed me". Of course again about peolpe noticing or girl being mean.

Sadly before last approach I was completely in my head not taking action.

I noticed I forget about focusing on body language, eye contact and tonality. I'm happy though because I forget less and less often about body language and eye contact.

I'm much less pissed after I noticed positives;)

positives:

  • Had a very good interaction (1st one) even though I was not warmed-up and actually chased her for a longer time since she walked very fast so I had time to get in my head and guess what... I didn't ;). I was very sincere that I saw her twice and just couldn't leave it like that and not meet her.

  • I actually am playful and can joke.

  • Made new friend from uni and I think I made a good impression JUST BY BEING MYSELF and PUSHING MY COMFORT ZONE (approaching and building confidence which was non-existent some time ago) I even got a compliment on my confidence to approach people from 1st girl.

Things to improve

  • I get into my head too much and get all logical and boring instead of taking action.

  • I am outcome dependent - Be it being afraid of woman being a bitch or peolpe judging me. There's only one way to destroy it and it might hurt...

For the next daygame cause nightgame will happen:

  • Approach girls "out of my league", do whatever even ask for itme and then try talking if I'll be able to. Or do the same with sets.

  • Write down eg. on my hand something to remind me of focusing on body language, eye contact and tonality and implementing this.

  • Don't forget warming-up or rather don't let myself to "cool-down" and get in my head. 1st point should help.