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I don't know how you make this come across not "butt hurt". Advice?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:23 PM
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You have no obligation to this guy, and he has no obligation towards you. They decided to enter into their own "social contract" by dating, and it isnt one that you're a part of. If she decides to break their "social contract", thats her decision. You should sleep with her.
/r/seduction19/01/15 06:46 PM
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Example?
/r/seduction22/06/14 07:27 AM
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Source? The limbic system (controls emotions) is bilateral.
/r/seduction22/05/14 07:53 AM
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great, i look forward to seeing you soon!
/r/seduction22/05/14 03:13 AM
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Raidcall does not work on macs/linux, so we decided to move to a program that could be all-inclusive.
/r/seduction22/05/14 03:13 AM
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Hey! We've moved over to a web based application. Check out today's posting!
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:39 PM
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Hey buddy! This week's Weekly Wednesday Workshop has been posted!
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:39 PM
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Sounds good, see you at 830 pm pst!
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:38 PM
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Emotions cause attraction. Bad boys cause negative emotions. You can strive to cause positive emotions.
/r/seduction20/05/14 10:01 PM
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You want to chose the girl, you dont want to wind up with whatever girl chooses you
/r/seduction15/05/14 09:08 PM
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Hey! Great job man! Its fantastic to hear about you hitting your PUA stride. I think you did great. As far as the other poster goes, just ignore it. Have sex with whoever you want, married, engaged, or single. The only people responsible for maintaining the integrity of a relationship are the people in the relationship. If that isn't you (which is true of your FR), then you have absolutely no obligation to them. I think you're a good guy.
/r/seduction15/05/14 04:37 PM
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Yep! We will be doing this next week! Watch for the thread!
/r/seduction15/05/14 05:29 AM
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Hey! It's like ventrilo. Free to download. 5 of us right now. google it and join!
/r/seduction15/05/14 04:57 AM
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Hey everyone! The session has started and we currently have three people. Feel free to join!
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:32 AM
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Hey everyone. I'll be hosting the event, and i'm looking for this to become a weekly thing. There isn't often a lot of gaming going on Wednesday nights, so I believe this is a good opportunity to develop stronger social skills. Since we can't see your body language or anything else, we will be able to give you very honed advise on your tonality.
/r/seduction14/05/14 08:54 PM
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That's fair, but how can someone be openly sexual and not explicitly say they're looking for casual sex?
/r/seduction04/05/14 05:40 AM
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That's fair, but how can someone be openly sexual and not explicitly say they're looking for casual sex?
/r/seduction03/05/14 10:49 PM
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Could you be a little more specific on your about me section?
/r/seduction03/05/14 03:22 PM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction30/04/14 11:23 PM
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Yep! Look at a few of my field reports. I recap on what I could have done better, and what I want to work on.
/r/seduction30/04/14 11:23 PM
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Fantastic write up. Keep doing field reports and you WILL improve
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:24 PM
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I will be holding a live chat event on raidcall tomorrow evening to practice conversational threading and question statements. It'll start at 7:00 pm pst, so keep an eye out for that post!
/r/seduction29/04/14 02:55 PM
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Dont listen to this other guy. I currently have 3 active girls in my 'harem', and 2 girls who come and go (one is a flight attendant). The key is to never lie to them, ever. Don't bring up relationships, but if they bring it up, say you want something casual. You arnt looking fir the commitment of a full on relationship, but you enjoy the friendship you two have. When one girl brought it up, I mentioned that I had been in the club the night before, and after dancing with some girl, she tried to …
/r/seduction25/04/14 04:22 AM
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simple pickup has put out tons of full length in field videos. They've definitely gained my trust, until I see evidence of the contrary. Proof?
/r/seduction22/04/14 04:40 PM
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Looks dont matter: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7PAYhmoKkA
/r/seduction22/04/14 04:11 PM
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This subreddit is about seducing women, not the ethical and moral implications of doing so.
/r/seduction17/04/14 01:19 AM
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So swipe left and tell her her picture never showed up.....
/r/seduction17/04/14 12:02 AM
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LZ?
/r/seduction17/04/14 12:02 AM
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Pencil up your Urethra!
/r/seduction15/04/14 07:13 AM
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She likes talking to you when she's horny, but otherwise has a lot going on in her life... Also she knows you'll still be their, waiting for her
/r/seduction14/04/14 06:20 AM
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Me too man! I would literally sit playing league of legends with mg cape whip in my mouth, packing new bowls between games. Usually three bowls a night for weeks on end. It just built up and built up, I think. I had tried quitting step wise in the past, but I would always find reasons to smoke more, again. I knew I had to quit for myself, and I just went 100% cold turkey. I told myself that when I hadnt had a panic attack in a month, I could again. By that time the habit and urge to smoke had pa…
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:56 AM
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Thank you. :)
/r/seduction13/04/14 11:39 PM
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It's all about mindset. Getting in the right frame of mind. Switching from "Im too nervous to talk to that girl" to "Fuck yeah talking to this girl is gonna be awesome".
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:44 PM
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Thank you Orionbeltwhipping. I'm going to watch that video every time before i go out.
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:43 PM
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Well put.
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:43 PM
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I agree. I think i had underlying issues (like i was not coping with stress appropriately) that got brought to the surface by my panic attacks. While I agree, fuck panic attacks, I think i'm growing from this.
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:42 PM
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Absolutely. I'm so glad that i can help out the community. Please re-check my post for a video by IronBeltWhipping which helps to encapsulate what im talking about here. Also, mikestuffff talked about the two-factor theory, its a useful read. :)
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:41 PM
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Two things: A) I can't count.
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:46 PM
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Look up my post thats in the top 1-2 spots on this sub-reddit.
/r/seduction13/04/14 07:15 AM
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Two things. 1) Every guy knows you lose them the way they come. Thats why you don't date a girl who cheats on a guy. You fuck em. 2) Bros before hoes pertains to friends, not every guy on the planet. Lol. 3) The only people responsible for the well being of a relationship is (drum roll please)... the people in the relationship. Not your best friend, not your parents, and certaintly not some random guy talking to your girlfriend on the street. But i guess i'm agreeing with you, you're saying to d…
/r/seduction13/04/14 05:35 AM
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Honestly, i was just super high on weed. I was driving and suddenly my mouth went dry, my hands got sweaty, it hurt to breath because my throat and mouth were so dry, my vision got so blurry that i couldn't read a sign 10 feet in frotn of me, ect. They put me on zoloft, and after a month i got better and im slowly reducing my dose.
/r/seduction12/04/14 10:56 PM
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I'm actually not sure why people are down voting you. We are all here to learn how to optimize social situations.
/r/seduction10/04/14 07:26 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean?
/r/seduction07/04/14 07:39 AM
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I am also interested in this.
/r/seduction07/04/14 04:10 AM
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So you just go up to a random girl and ask these questions and then V-A-K them?!
/r/seduction05/04/14 11:56 PM
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If you want a girl to be into you, you fuck her as fast as possible.
/r/seduction05/04/14 02:03 AM
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Thank you very much. I'm watching it now.
/r/seduction04/04/14 10:18 PM
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Oh man, some tips for calming the nerves then: First off all, central to "seduction" and "pick up" (you're in a forum for pick up artists) is the idea of the "abundance mentality". You're speaking from a "scarcity mentality" which means there is one woman for you and if you don't get her you fucked up and holy shit why is everything so terrible and why doesnt she like me and what does that other guy have that i dont and ... So, how do you get around this? Instead of making her goal "I want to ki…
/r/seduction04/04/14 10:17 PM
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I don't see any videos? http://imgur.com/PZ9HuSG
/r/seduction04/04/14 10:05 PM
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Good question. So, first get her oriented to you being the "constant". If you're at the quad move her around the quad, just say "come over here" and start walking. Once you've been to like 3 public locations, in her mind you are now the "constant". Everything else has changed, except you. So you tell her to follow you again, go some place quiet, and... yeah. If she's laughing and having a good time with you she's probably not going to ask why. :P
/r/seduction04/04/14 10:03 PM
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Hey man! First of all, let me say. Even if this DOESNT work out, its FINE. You're 14 you will have SO MUCH time to practice and get this right. But, here's what you need to do to move past everything tonight: Start talking to her. Start up a normal conversation. Then you want to tease her. This is what we call "emotional spiking" it'll make her smile, laugh, whatever. When she smiles and laughs, she will be more open to you "escalating" (which means moving the relationship forward). When she doe…
/r/seduction04/04/14 09:57 PM
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If you ever calibrate poorly and OVERSTEP your boundaries, follow these three steps: Take a step backward (give them physical room to breath) Make a statement of empathy (i'm sorry, im just kidding. Hahah, im just messing around, i wanted to see how you would react, ect.) Barrel Forward (change the fucking subject) Now, since you didnt do the above, and she is pissed at you, you have two options. Just don't bring it up again. If she brings it up tell her something like "that doesn't bother me (a…
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:27 PM
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I disagree a little bit with the other posted. I currently have 3 fwb and the method I've used is: Build attraction. Avoid talking about relationships until you fuck them. Fuck them. If they ask about relationships, tell them you are looking for something casual. You want someone you can have fun with, have amazing sex with, but I'm the end its a relationship you can feel comfortable in and not one where there are expectations of you. If they don't want that, tell them you understand and that yo…
/r/seduction03/04/14 06:16 AM
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I want to know everything. Tonality, Eye Gazing, Feet (pointed towards or away?), Hips, shoulders, leaning forward and back. EVERYTHING.
/r/seduction02/04/14 05:45 AM
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Hey man, I went through a very similar thing. i use to be amazing at holding conversations, but after smoking every day for months on end, found it much harder. I recently made a post detailing conversations, and practicing it (until it becomes second nature) may be helpful for you. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/21h3xj/concept_discussion_wednesday_verbal_communication/
/r/seduction02/04/14 12:26 AM
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Hey buddy. If you're ever in san Jose hit me up and we can game
/r/seduction28/03/14 05:53 AM
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I hate to ask but... do you have a source. Whenever i try to google it i just find some hippy website, and i'd really like a scholarly article on it or something.
/r/seduction27/03/14 09:16 PM
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Does visualization like this really work?
/r/seduction27/03/14 07:18 PM
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A huge part of pick up is to lead the interaction, and to not ask, but do. The reasoning behind this is that you are having you're fun, and they are joining you in your world. (This is called framing.) By asking permission your acting a lot more beta, and asking if you can join their frame. Some girls won't like it, but you just next em. Pick up isn't about having a laser pointer to pick up one specific girl, but about generating the skills to pick up 70% of girls
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:20 PM
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Im glad you agree! I want it to be a thing where newbies can ask questions, and pros can weigh in. I'm still brain storming for my next week. I'm thinking about venue changes, or congruence tests. Do you have a suggestion of a topic you would like to see?
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:14 PM
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"Yeah, heh. I dont even need to tell her what im thinking anymore. we just look at each other and know. hehehe" (quick note: i said since i was 5, not known for 5 years. But thats better!) (another quick note. you didnt give me a new thread to go off of, so that might be why the conversation is seeming a bit stale. You're doing better though. we can even switch roles if you like. I tried going off the "know everything" thread though.)
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:43 AM
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"Oh, just my best friend in the whole world. I've known her since i was 5." (hint: try telling a story/making a statement. it makes girls feel like you 'get them' and 'can relate'.)
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:12 AM
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To answer your question, i'll need to use an analogy: When you first start learning to play a guitar, it's nearly impossible to change chords and strum at the same time. You're so completely absorbed with one that you can't focus on the other. But give it two months, and you can do it without a problem. Let's practice: I'll pretend that you are day-game approaching me, and asking me what i'm doing today: (Easy mode) "I'm just returning my brides maid dress."
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:20 AM
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As a side note (and to spur community participating) feel free to reply to this post with example conversation pieces. I'll reply by applying Conversational Threading.
/r/seduction27/03/14 02:58 AM
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nice man! Thats great to hear. I dont want to bog you down too much in pick-up theory, but there are MULTIPLE things i do that help me combat the exact thing you're feeling. Firstly, it's known as approach anxiety, but i'm assuming you already knew that. What I do is - every morning - write a list of affirmations. Chief among them is "I do not give a damn what anyone thinks of me." If you're ever in california, let me know, and maybe we can meet up. :)
/r/seduction25/03/14 01:16 AM
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So how are you going to do that?
/r/seduction24/03/14 11:41 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/seduction24/03/14 11:19 PM
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Do you meet up at an apartment, or at a nearby bar?
/r/seduction24/03/14 11:17 PM
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Awesome. Send me a link to the FR when you're done!
/r/seduction24/03/14 04:31 PM
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Who cares. :) some people will ignore it, it probably wont get upvoted very high, but you'll ALWAYS be able to look back and read through and look at your results. I find reading my FR's later helps me to see where i need to improve.
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:35 AM
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Me too. I think the subreddit lacks meaningful in-depth discussions, but i'm hoping to change that.
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:21 AM
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I'm glad to hear that. Let me know how those 5 approaches go! Also, feel free to join the seddit IRC (let me know if you need the info). I'm Ciao2, and since im a programmer i idle pretty much all day long. There are a few other mindsets for you to adopt, but it sounds like right now you're on a great track. :)
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:02 AM
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Im buying it now. Thank you. :)
/r/seduction24/03/14 01:34 AM
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Hey! I want to say that im really really proud of you for going out. thats not easy and most people cant even get that far. Secondly, while this isnt even a proper Field Report (Shame on you!) i've already got some great feedback for you!: it demoralized me then I sorta gave up The way i got around this was by changing my mindset. This was HUGE for me. Instead of saying I should approach XYZ girl, I say to myself: I want to approach XYZ girl. It's small, but you'll find yourself super motivated.…
/r/seduction24/03/14 01:30 AM
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Thank you, im reading it now and ill comment in that thread. Expect some questions from me soon!
/r/seduction24/03/14 01:24 AM
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Holy shit man. This is gold. Any idea where I can find more guidelines like this? Also, I havnt read models yet, is it really that amazing
/r/seduction23/03/14 08:24 AM
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I agree with pua baddie. Message me after you write your fr and I'll be happy to give you feedback
/r/seduction23/03/14 06:46 AM
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Hey there, i really appreciate the input and the fact that you took the time to read my field report. I want to say that first of all, i agree that it is VERY important to be in the moment, and very important to not be completely in your head. However, I feel an obligation to mention that when I look back on these interactions, I feel that organizing them and analyzing where I could improve is very useful. Congruence, qualifying, and buying temperature are (in my opinion) important concepts, alt…
/r/seduction23/03/14 06:40 AM
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I like this, i like this a lot. I'm thinking it can be pretty successful in other day-game scenarios, like malls and stuff, as well. You don't seem to focus on what you're saying, but i'm a very... story-telling oriented person. I make a lot of gestures with my hands. Do you think this would be a problem?
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:36 PM
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And thank you for your advice. To answer my own question from the other thread, I feel like it's important to use Thos technique pro actively. Again, thanks!
/r/seduction19/03/14 05:01 PM
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I completely agree. It was something I realized I really needed to work on, and I was happy that I did. There were one or two other things that I did, but essentially I would try to 'spike' her emotions after every 5 minutes of normal conversation. Push her away, tease her, disqualify myself, or make her qualify herself. Thanks for the feedback!
/r/seduction19/03/14 03:03 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/20t98j/fr_hb_65_flight_attendant_follow_up_f_close/ Thanks for the advice. :)
/r/seduction19/03/14 02:20 PM
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Btw, this is my second field report that you've commented on. I wanted to say that I really appreciate it. I checked out your website, and it looks very sharp. I wanted to give you a heads up that the "inquire" pages seem to not be working, though. (I was checking out how much a one-on-one might cost. :) )
/r/seduction18/03/14 07:55 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction18/03/14 07:49 PM
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Nah, he just seemed to thinking ignoring me was AMOGing me. I agree with you, focus on girl number 2.
/r/seduction18/03/14 05:56 PM
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I was trying to talk to the guy a bunch, but he just kept giving me wide smiles and nodding his head or shaking his head. I get what you're saying about isolating girl number two (who i had no rapport with) and why that was a bad idea.
/r/seduction18/03/14 05:16 PM
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Do you know of any other good buzz words? not even related to 'because', but in general?
/r/seduction17/03/14 11:12 PM
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Thanks! If you know of any books i should read, feel free to share :)
/r/seduction17/03/14 04:10 PM
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Read "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. I read it about every 3 months, and it is a fantastic starting point. Particularly important is that you'll make more friends in a week by being interested in THEM than in two years by only being interested in yourself.
/r/seduction17/03/14 03:38 PM
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Two things: In the kiss situation, you want to reassert your frame and dominance. She moves in to kiss you, great. but also grab her hips and pull her into you. Own the situation. for the house situation, you obviously cant take the same route as above. Accept, obviously, but do push pull. Test her even. "Uh... maybe. You're not one of those... " insert whatever. Show hesitation to give her an emotional spike and a push pull.
/r/seduction15/03/14 06:09 AM
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Hah, thanks. Every time I came back into the room just to 'check on her', and she ended up wanting me to snuggle every time. and then she started kissing my neck every time, but then shutting me down every time. Although thats what gaming teaches you. don't let anything phase you!
/r/seduction13/03/14 05:04 AM
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Happy cake day!
/r/seduction13/03/14 04:08 AM
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Thank you. :)
/r/seduction13/03/14 12:28 AM
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From IRC: <Boscop_> if you get LMR talk to her about what you would do, stimulate her imagination, it makes her wet and she can't stop you. but don't escalate while your doing it, wait for her to make a move, then escalate quickly [13:34] <Boscop_> also do this is a low hypnotic voice close to her ear, breathe on her neck etc [13:35] <Boscop_> or run some patterns from RJ that make her feel like she knows you [13:35] <Boscop_> read david shade's stuff, and hypnotica's stuff [13:36] <Boscop_> for…
/r/seduction12/03/14 11:02 PM
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solid advice. thank you. i think im going to use this. I initially replied with my porn account. :P For readers, the deleted comment read: "Doesnt that come off as... kinda pouty? I'm not doubting you, i could just see a women thinking "he's acting like a 5 year old because im not going to sleep with him. lol". Am i missing something?"
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:56 PM
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Yep! I read both of your responses. I think that re-framing my goal is a great idea. "I'm here to have a fantastic time and a really great time getting to know this girl." as opposed to "I'm here to bring other people into my reality/frame, have a good time, and fuck the shit out of her." I feel like the first one (yours) is healthier and would probably take away some of the subconscious cues that women can pick up on that might alienate a more flighty woman like this. You should really be on th…
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:51 PM
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Okay, i'm interested in trying this. Any suggestions on doing it in a way that doesnt seem ... awkward? What i'm saying is, if im kissing her and she's getting riled up, and suddenly i sit back and its completley quiet, is that weird? Should i start talking about something, or straight up sit back and see what happens?
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:49 PM
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Thank you. This is a great response.
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:13 PM
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