Second field Report here:
We hadn't ever met in person, (met on match before my LTR), but it was clear enough that she interested. I texted her after my most recent LTR ended. We flirted a bit through texts, me calling her cute, and me asking to call her when i had stories directly related to what we had been talking about.
We met up at a tea cafe, and after getting our drinks I suggested we walk around a little bit. I'm not going to go into detail on what happened, because that's less important than what I did:
Changed locations 4-5 times. Tea Shop. Walking around. Found a yard sale. Found a Bubble Tea shop. Went to a park and swung on swings.
Emotional Spiking Methods used: I focused a LOT on giving her emotional spikes. I did this through:
Tonality changes (neutral rapport, disciplined with breaking rapport, and rewarded with seeking rapport).
Body Language changes. I would lean in and act very interested, and lean back as if not interested.
Energy level changes. I was loud at times, and then other times nearly whispering. It drew her close.
Push pull and Teasing.
Kino Escalation Methods used:
She was wearing rings, so during one of our soft-spoken moments, i grabbed her hands and asked her about them.
She had tattoos, so i asked her about them. As she showed me them I touched them.
Pushing (teasing her, I pushed her away a couple of times. This made her come closer.)
I forget how, but at one point I put my arm over her shoulder, she put hers around my waist.
How I Kiss Closed:
There was a recent /r/seduction post about the "wait" kiss closer. You simply tell her "wait" in a rapport breaking tone, and then going for it. We were talking about going back to her mom's place to see their family dog. I said "But first... " put my hand over her shoulder, and BOOM. Kiss Closed. Thoughts, Comments?
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