1. Girl from my uni. She hasa boyfriend. Chill interaction with some fun conversation. In the end I just hugged her and said "I love you" just like that. She giggled and it was all positive.
2. 2-set - cute blonde in short skirt - just my type - with average asian girl. They were foreginers so we spoke in english. conversation was like this
Me: "Hi I saw you from afar and found you cute so I decided to check it from uh... close?" - I forgot how to english
Her : "Did you check already?" - kind but either test or small step to rejection (judgind by how she said that)
Me: "yeah, I want to meet you, what's your name?" - kind of ignoring her question
Her: shakes hands and I can't remember if she introduced herself and a we exchange a sentence or so then we start walking but I don't give up - "I don't talk to strangers"
ME: "So you're a good girl who listens to mom"
her: "What?" - not looking my way but i think she smiled though
Me: "Moms always tell kids not to talk to strangers"
her: "It's my own rules"
me: "Oh well, moms also say not to take candies from strangers, I've got some, you want some?" - ignoring her stupid statement
Then I tried introducing to the friend but we couldn't shake hands since blonde was in the way. I stood in front of them and shook hands with her friend and her name was... Mint huh, I joled positively about it because I juist talked about candies. Blonde then told me they havent met for a long time etc etc. so after not giving up and asking if it's more than one day or week ("because one week doesn't count, was it over a month?") and after that I just left them
3. It was actually before blonde - some highschool girl, she was chill with me approaching for someone so young, or maybe she didnt know what to do. She had a boyfriend. I joked about her being 17 taht it complicates things. "Why?" to which i replied "You can't drink, how do you imagine a date without a wine?" and it made her smile.
4. Some 25 yo woman, not the hottest but I found her cute :).
Me: tap tap and walking beside her - "I wanted to meet you"
her: "That's weird" - I have to admit, it was a weird thing to say just like that. She turns and walks away from me to get to her bus or tram.
Me: "Oh no, don't do this to me, don't run away!" - playfuly, catching up to her - "I find you cute, that's why I want to meet you. Hi I'm..."
Her: "I'm much older than you, don't you think?" - with a smile though
Me: "How do you think, how much older than me you are?"
Her: "ummmm 5 years?" -it was true as she said her age just after
Me: "Do you really think age matters?It's all about what you have inside" - pointing at my heart - "It's the base of good relationship and peace in the world" - she smiles pretty much now - "Don't you want a younger guy?" - playfully... she didn't but she left with a huge smile and better mood for sure.
5. #closed half-asian. Approached frontally on impulse with "Hey! 2 Seconds, 2 Seconds" and stopped her this way :). Half of conversation was english and guessing where shes from with some other irrelevant talking. Then she just told me shes from my city in my language hahah. She started walking just after that and I just tapped her on shoulder with playful "I hate you" She lives in Switzerland though. We talked some more, joked a bit probably. I asked her a few typical questions because I was curious where she's from etc. She did not tell me her age but said "Does age matter?" So I went with it. I guess it was a test but I was just really ok with her not telling me so I just agreed without emotional reaction, maybe I was a little surprised. Actually this might be before 4th approah I wrote because I used her line about age. Anyway I stopped her before she got on subway with "2 seconds" again. I took her number, and told her I'll save her as "name half Asia" and she kind of told me I put labels on people. I told her I don't and it's just to remember something charachteristic. She still stated the same thing. I just saved her as I wanted anyway. I hugged her and we parted.
6. I passed some cute girl waiting for someone (ok just cute ass and hair and body and at least ok face but I didnt see clearly). I pushed myself to do it and approached her. I opened with:
"Hi, I passed you seconds before, then I just decided I have to talk to you and here I am" - she was friendly and thanked me and all but she had a boyfriend. We talked some, I got her age etc. At some point I said
"Are you confident enough to take a genuine compliment and not be offended?" - of course she agreed. "I did not see your face clearly but I saw you have a nice ass... you're ass is just..." - at this point I made silent "wow" with my face and made her giggle. Then I joked about her ass that I'm jelous and that she's doing a tatoo of a bow like on a gift. I joked about it being christmas gift for her bf.
Summary I started uding negative and positive statements to bring some emotions and now i stick to love/ hate byt i want to develop it and will work on more subtle ones also.
Overally my interactions were all positive, girls smiled and giggled. I bet I could push it further with 1st and 5th girls if not their bfs, especially 1st. I break eye contact, it just wanders off when I speak, it's ok to look away when I produce a sentence but it's really too often. MY voice still sometimes "broke" and I spoke a bit too fast or even slightly mumbled and had to correct myself, sometimes too quiet but I think I improved volume of my voice. I didn;t go too high pitched in tonality so it's great. I think I might have a boring/ monotone way of speaking but I did not record myself (and I wanted, I just forgot).
I passed a few 2-sets of hot girls with sexy asses, bitchy faced ones because I was scared. I also let go some alone hot girls. I definitely improved but I wanted to note I still have this kind of shit to work on.
EDIT:
I just realised I do not qualify. I'll work on it since It's fucking important. I also tend to get serious in my answers to questions. I mean too serious and go on too long with them which destroys fun. I should be more aware of that but i think it's fine, I just can't overuse seriousness
SECOND EDIT DAY AFTER Number seems to be unresponsive. My dreams and onky chance for love are shattered... ;)
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